BTT # 98 - Can a Woman Be Loyal To One Man?
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- Опубліковано 28 бер 2021
- In this cast we'll examine the concept of loyalty, monogamy, and if woman can be loyal to one man.
Many men seek 'loyalty' as a characteristic in a long term partner, but few understand what drives a woman to be loyal to a man.
To understand this, we'll first talk about the 3 main innate characteristics of women (hypergamy, Briffaults law & solipsism) that drive their choices.
Then we will talk about monogamy, as it relates to relationships.
We'll wrap on on signs she is straying, or about to stray in the relationship.
Bring questions to the show, we are taking call ins after the halfway mark, have a good internet connection, and headphones. - Розваги
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I just bought your book thank you I look up to people like you I been through a lot and I know your book will change my look on life 🙏🏾
My mother used to say, "there is no honour among women".
Really?
Smart woman
@@soundsonline796, I thought so.
Wise words
thieves?
Loyalty? 😂 tell that to my ex wife who cheated on me and blamed me for it, you ever notice it’s always the mans fault when they cheat & they have zero accountability
The same thing happened to me man. She moved him in two weeks after I moved out...blamed me for the whole thing.
@@greyhaizeradio3229 sorry man, she prob had him lined up & then monkey branched like mine did
Yep
Even years after the fact, they still won't. Even worse when you share a child.
@@retrogamer82 No doubt,...he was in the background for YEARS and I didn't even see it coming. NEVER AGAIN
To your point at 16:07, I was with a plate who was really pushing for commitment and I asked her why she broke up with her last boyfriend.
She looked me dead in the eyes and said: "I didn't need him anymore. I never really loved him."
I dropped her very soon after that. To this day that response puts ice in my veins.
That chilled me bro.
Stuff like that reminds me that women are far more heartless then men.
Fkin savage. Bro...
@@chanopokes4846 Yeah. I pity the sucker who's going to marry her...
Ice cold
Jesus, that's cold......
It’s a bitter pill to swallow to know that a woman’s loyalty is only as deep as your bank account. The 2 pills that kill you though are that loyalty also runs out if you get sick or injured, and she will never take responsibility or admit fault.
It was a pleasure being on Before The Trainwreck tonight! I appreciate the opportunity and the words said.
You were on?
I forgot already.
Must not have been really important anyway...
My lord, poor kids pretending they think they got the one
These episodes without guests are only as good as the questions posted by the participants in the chat room... As such, this episode has to be one of the best in the series. I applaud the young men who participated today. Very good questions, with educational benefits for all the "lookie loos".
Just be loyal to yourself, don’t waste your time worrying about other people, don’t expect anyone to be worrying about you, and tbh why would they, get your own house in order and everything will be fine
@Loko Strangula then like so many who don’t listen, they’ll have a great sob story to keep people like Rich making a lot of money through phone calls
Amen to this !👍
Boys, boys, boys do not get serious LTR until you are at least 37 years old, do not worry if you want kids etc that can still happen, focus on yourself and grow and build
About to be 31 couldn't agree more spent the last 7 years so most of my 20s in two monogamous relationships. Honestly if I could go back in time I'd stay single.
I could not agree more! I was 38 for my second marriage. Now, I always tell my 31-year-old son, you need your M&M's. MONEY AND MATURITY.
@@hoppy2515 Hell yeah brother.
@@hoppy2515 I do believe though that money although necessary is a cog in the machine. I understand that the world revolves around it but that is only because people allow it too. Either way when it comes to living in today's day in age you have to realize it is a factor.
@@billlindsay4010 Hellzzyea, Look at the dudes going to Alaska and the women going with them OR NOT !?!?!
The ONLY person you can trust in this life is yourself, no one else....not even family, friends, wives, children.
It's slightly sad at first, when you realize that. But ultimately empowering.
I trust my parents for 200% buddy
It's a shame to think of things that way but in a way it is true, I want to get a better car but my stepdad keeps recommending cars that are slower than his, in other words keeping me down below him. You gotta make decisions for yourself and not let people control your life.
So true ! I knew an old guy, years ago. He told me "trust no-one, not even the people you know well". He was so right !😊
A woman's loyalty has her own interest first....till last.
In a number of animals previously thought to mate for life, when they DNA tested the offspring they found the offspring were fathered by someone other than the "mate for life" even when researchers where constantly monitoring a group of animals they were never able to determine when it happened.
People would need the link to something like that, and even being true, there is a lot of facts to discuss, like exactly what species, there are very very different traits in species, some do crazy things, so that trait would be probably "unique" in them. What i'm saying is that like a interest data to add to the video and the matter is very good. But not for comparing with the human nature. Even being true human species are a whole different matter, because humans are intelligent and have a whole list of complex social traits. For example we can fuck for pleasure, animals do to bred, even comparing to monkeys who to do it for pleasure, is different. Animals are one thing, humans other.
side note, to all the youngins like kyle all i can say is...dont change. dont get married or have kids. you matter, focus on you. enjoy and live ur life.
Thanks man!
@randy marsh I hear you .
Amen to that
Are you supporting leftist depopulation of whites?
SO true. Don't assume that every woman will appreciate what you do (or did). Sadly loyalty doesn't mean jack, if you don't give her something she truly values and can't find elsewhere, she'll bounce the second she get's a chance.
Wow; kudos to these kids learning the ammo now!
this is the most extraordinary lecture about women that I have ever heard I sent it to my son. first 30 minutes is the most powerful information any young man could ever hear about women.
"..does her ass look nice...yeah I'd wear that as a hat" 😂🤣😂.. loving your work Rich 👍🏾 I'm 52 and in an ltr ...wish I had the internet 35 years ago 😁
me too, i would of avoided a ton of the pitfalls of women. I was so stupid 35 yrs ago
Appreciate the advice and effort that goes into these shows.
Marriage is POINTLESS, you’re welcome
It really depends on how people are brought up, what experiences they make along the way and often times loyalty is not the only issue: it's honesty. If you are raised by parents who lead by example, are loyal to their family, reward honesty and embody the advantages of their moral standards - then yes, that has an impact on people. But I think especially in our modern world loyalty is a concept most of the industry only wants to make short term money of off and is actually working against. Kids are raised by bored teachers and video screens and as soon as ANY difficulties arise they switch the program. They restart. They ditch people. All they want is instant gratification - and they want it from outside sources. Loyalty is not about wanting what you want - it's about wanting what you have and pouring your time and effort into it.
No, sorry. Stop trying to make excuses for women's poor behavior.
@@clarkfluegel6875 damn mate, you drink to much kool aid
@@theemoboy8976 I'm curious, how successful are your beliefs working out for you?
@@clarkfluegel6875 beliefs on what mate? I haven’t told you any😅
@@theemoboy8976 well I have a feeling they're probably opposite as my cool aid fueled belief system😉
Great show Rich, this is the series of your I look forward to most of all, and get the most out of! It can't be overstated "Chase excellence not women!" Thanks for all you do for us!
I went out this evening to a bar, there were 2 good looking chicks barely over 21 from the looks of it. They were sitting down from me, I counted 8 different guys approach them, they were getting all sorts of attention and I’m sure they were loving it. This is what girls night out is, window shopping for the BBD. all older men in their 30s+ I saw it first hand, and was disgusted with myself thinking I used to be blue pilled thinking women are loyal.
Okay do you know that these women are taken? I'm asking because you bring up loyalty but if someone is single they don't owe anyone loyalty lol you do know tht right?
@@Alena-xoxo any woman that is at least a 5 has a man in her life
Thanks for everything you do, Rich 🤜🤛
Shoutout to the 15 year old who has $10,000 saved!!💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾. When I’m out working and I see young boys out working with their father, I congratulate the father and I let the boy know how far ahead he is in front of his classmates. You should think your father everyday
These kids are so lucky to be taking the red pill so young. If only I had the same information.
I can tell you really care about men. I respect that. I been watching you for a year or so.
Great video as always Rich
Amazing content as always bro 😎
Rich, you had few really good shows in the past. Not to say anyone them was below par because there is value in all of them , but this one takes place with one of the really good one.
Being alone, and being able to walk away when needed, is very, very powerful...
Started watching your channel more recently. I have been enjoying it as I find great knowledge here. you have a way of driving important message down to skull. everything you said about women so far has been true. they never see beyond their nose. And would rather play victim than gold themselves accountable.
I don't always agree with you, but always appreciate your point of view.
Great info! I live the psychology stuff. It helps up better understand what’s going on, although most people don’t want to be confused with facts and science.
Well done to that kid Kyle for having a whole $10K saved. Lucky Rich wasn't charging today or Kyle would be down to 9!
Very true and thanks man!
My grandfather who also taught psychology at a U in PA once told me, "Marry a homely gal, and she will be grateful to you for the rest of her life."
Those are some wise words my friend. I'll keep that in mind :)
@@shanepatrick641 that would have been good advice in the past. I don't know what an average man is supposed to do today. Even the five have 100 options. How are you going to trust any of them to be loyal and who the hell wants anything below a five?
My current LTR of 4-years told me she doesn’t like other women because she knows how they are.
and they say men don't want to commit. what hypocrites.
Just a modernist talking point. Promoted in rom/coms. Promoted in feminine clubs. If it places spotlight and agency on the man; then it will be promulgated.
Guys - definitely check out his book - excellent summary of all the info Rich puts out. I find it just as helpful as The Rational Male.
Kyle, the 15 yo alpha. Keep the frame, buddy!
Thanks man!
1:21:30
Spike and Chester from the old WB cartoon.
Great show!
So, BTC will be 100,000 by the end of the year? I think we need financial Red Pill too.
"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally", Chris Rock. Perfect example
ASK: need some advice friends.
I started dating exclusively last month with a girl (she asked me to, and I was interested to try it)
Anywho, her background: 21, very hot, SJW, goes to a top ten party school, 15-30 notch count, dated many chads before me
This week we went to a very nice restaurant for my birthday (Boa Steakhouse on Sunset Blvd).
She started the conversation with hey how are you ... And she also randomly mentioned she went to coffee with her ex to 'return his headband'.
I explained why that wasn't ok, then we continue to enjoy the night. I got up to go to the restroom.
When I come back , she says 'hey we need to talk/things are moving too fast/I don't think I can be exclusive)...
I told her that's totally fine let's just be FWB I want to see other girls anyway - then suddenly she's saying wait no no let me think about it (clearly threatened by other women )
So fellas, currently she's on a soft next and we haven't spoke in 4 days. I'm going to wait another 5 days to text her back.
How should I approach this situation? Stick to my guns and say FWB? Punish her with no dick until she proves her loyalty?
Thanks for the help!
Don't text her until she contacts you!
@@jamesl2531 yes good idea, I won't reach out
@@LA-wv7gfyeah that's exactly what I explained to her... this is good advice. Thank you
As a woman,
I would suggest you, to not text her back.
If she’s smart, that ex shouldn’t matter.
Drop her all together lol she's not over her ex clearly ...
Dropping of a headband ? Okayyyy
My next question is how do you know how many she's slept with? Secondly if you know that why pursue further even a date? Why not just tell her you find her hot and want to be fwb and that's it lol because it clearly seems you don't want anything further based on her "record" and I'm not just talking about body count. I don't see the need to take her out to a restaurant and romanticize something that won't lead anywhere anyhow LOL
And if she's vulnerable still depending on the breakup with ex which she seems like she is then she will settle anyhow. No girl in a healthy mindset retracts and wants to agree to a fwb unless she's in a vulnerable state. Can be she wants to use you to get back at her ex so she's retracting ...
Be careful lol
Great show
Life saving information
Great show buddy
Great content Rich. I think the 'Strong Successful Male' would be much better for a stream collaboration than the Joker.. Have taken loads of inspiration and laughed as I tick off the shit-test lists that woman have tried to put me through. All pointed out by you in your blogs. Also admire the way you can condense clearly what your friend Rollo has to teach us all. Thanks M.
Listen to you reminds me the time when I was listening to Lykis, good times
Kyle has it made.... To know this stuff at 15 years old..
Just another step!
Excellent video
Your the best uncle Rich
A comment to help with the youtube algorithm :)
We didn’t come from a history of commitments and loyalty, and in modern times, it’s take to an even more extreme. The “gender equality”, existence of the internet, larger populations, and many other smaller factors ensure Everyone is always replaceable, nothing is guaranteed, except....... hypergamy! And as time passes, more hypergamy! It’s even metahypergamy at this point!
Loyalty does exist, the mistake is: People think you earn it once, and then you have it for ever. It doesn't work that way. Loyalty is something you have to keep earning every day. Everyday it either increases or decreases based on your actions. You control how loyal your woman is. You either earn it/(take it) or you don't. Woman can be fiercely loyal, if a man does what he is supposed to do.
dead on
what am I supposed to do?
Yeah what am I supposed to do??
Thanks for the vid
1:07:03 is the cornerstone statement that all men should abide by. Flip it, and the same applies to women.
Folks in relationships, those that are married...this should be common sense.
Aye, I was Kyle Crofoot's friend. He didn't give me a proper shout out. I'm gonna gift him your book. The only thing is I wish I could support your merch a little more it, but can we get more with like the logo and less with the slogans. I can't see me wearing "do work" in the streets. People might mistake me for selling red pills if you get what I mean.
Loyalty is mostly is dependent if certain conditions are met and maintained.
Yes, like being loyal yourself.
1:38:00 it might be worth doing a short clip for this. Lots of those 19 yr olds selling courses out there on how to get rich... it pulls a lot of young people like Gustavo in, they usually just lose time and $$. Just a thought, love the content either way!
That's how their getting rich
The Bezos situation is an odd one, along with Kayne.
Richest most powerful guys in the world and their women still leave them.
Perfect examples of no loyalty.
True but these individuals may have also lost frame. Example is when Kanye lost his cool with the paparazzi. Women seek men with strong frame.
@@0mgPullOut exactly. Confident in some areas Wich is what got him them where they are but when it comes to women specifically it’s a false confidence
Kanye left kim
@@0mgPullOut They could have neglect attention to their partner too. And yes, that is a possible reason. I feel some of the red pill community may corrupt too much with the information. Don't get me wrong, i think every man should know all about it and channels like this, but bewareee, because good woman exist, and for that we have to be good men. Thinking they are mindless creatures who only seeks money and a "alpha" mindset is very wrong, and it will some day make pay those who think like that. Thought i'm not denying some of them are very basic XD. BUT what i'm saying is truth, they are humans too, and need attention and love, not just status.
Another eye opening video Cooper! Thanks!
I’m not sure I can last until the end of this video. It has already taxed my patience to the max. I’m going to try and hold on to the end. Almost 40 more minutes. Pray for me!
Commenting for your algorithm. Keep rocking.
Luis needs to read "No more mr. Nice guy"
Watching this show and seeing a lot of young men enter into LTR with women at such an early age ( 18 - 25 ).. that just goes to show that many young men are buying into the Disney narrative where all is well and they live with a beautiful princess happily ever after. That's such a lie and nowhere close to reality. The thing I liked most about this show was the 15 year old.. kids are growing up at a faster rate, I remember when I was that age I was more interested in what the next Sega Genesis game I was going to get and playing ball hockey with my friends in the church's parking lot.
I bought into it at 23. Got out at 28. No marriage or kids, thank God.
@@TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels Me too bro. I swallowed in my own pity for numerous years, but I recently turned 26 and all I do right now is literally work 50 hour weeks and study in my spare time, hang with friends. I'm not entering a serious relationship again until I own my own house and my career is set. Everything on my own terms. Fuck yeah, man!
I was the 15 year old and I appreciate what you say. Self development is more important to me than others
They're only growing up faster today because of the amount of information and technology that is available to them that guys my age didn't have growing up.
@@joshspiker I'm 25 and even when I was younger the internet wasn't so widespread, when I was in high school I didn't know I could ask questions to a search engine.
If the cash keeps flowing and they think they have a few spares on deck they can make a decent run. But be clear the loyalty is never to you it's to what you provide... If I had a dime for every time I've heard "he's a good dad" as their little "reasoning" wheel spins
1:31:33 shout outs to the OG Dan Pena. We out here
36:00 This kid. Good on him. At 15 I was clueless.
the pill served here is so hard to swallow.. but I have to swallow it.
Awsome show
I know this is long but had to spill it out. I spend 1.5 years with a long-distance single mom who just got divorced and I gotta tell you that it was a hell ride. I apply embassy appointments TWICE to go to the USA, both declined. So I asked her to send me an invitation for me to get accepted and go to her to create a family with her 8 yo son. She did nothing. Last month, she wanted to ''stay as friends'' and told me that she didn't commit to me because theres a ''guy'' that does not communicate with her even if she tried and she can't forget about him. While claiming to have a relationship with me. Shes the one coming up to me and wanted to get serious by the way.
Along with that her kid saying ''you're not my dad, I don't need to listen to you'' when I told him to shut up about speaking rudely to his mom. She even backed her son about that. At that moment it fucking hurt a lot but I literally got red-pilled to my core.
Loyalty does not exist for women, only solipsism and being hypergamous. I gave more of my energy and focus than she deserves. The emotional and mental abuse, I have dozens of examples including hit below the belt kind of ugly accusations like me not really being a heterosexual man etc. The comforting sweet dream of the romantic life-long soulmate shit does not exist, only in me. I might as well love and act for my improvement rather than seeking it outside, getting fucked along the way. Hope my experience helps some men over here.
Thanks for the content. You're doing the ugly but necessary work Richard.
Thanks for sharing your story, so sorry to hear you had to go through that. Always, always! Avoid single mothers and divorced women like the plague!!
Props to Kyle 😀
Corn de-tasseling is a good job for a young dude. I did it for 3 years beginning at age 13
Pepper Potts guy- they all start out helpful and all in love, once they get you locked down boy that all changes. You're only a week into an LTR, things 2 yrs from now will be drastically different. She'll be trying to change him and unhappy about with all she once loved.
That damn Steve from accounting
Rich I love the way you shoot straight
this 15yr old is fantastic
Kyle you are a champion!
got the book TUA and am learning
Rich saving men's lives and cash
Krav maga is good for combat as well
if you've got 20k, you can be clearing 40k from the boarding house that you set up. Not as a kid, but age 18 or more. if you run the place yourself. If you have the vet , whose VA home loan set you up in the place) run it, you'l clear 20k per year from it. 100% clear, tax free return. and you have almost complete control over what happens with your money. The worst that can happen is you cant rent out the small rooms that you make out of the place. Convert ONE large room into 3 small rooms and rent them out at $150 per week each. If you can't do that, dont spent more money converting more rooms, adding batherooms, video security system, etc. worst case is you have to live in the place. But you have ZERO knowledge even, much less control, of what happens with shit coins, stocks, bonds, and very little over single family housing. commercial real estate, etc. If you have a dozen tenants, time to convert another house into a boarding-place., In 2 years, you can be retired if you're in the right area. a clear 60k per year of assured, passive income.
Good stuff
32:00 "Mommy's little secret" is an Amazon Prime movie?
So true it hurts. Just got dumped and all of this is textbook fact.
My favorite line when women cheats: “He made me feel alive!” 😂😂
"I had to find myself"
Behind every successful man is a woman who had nothing to do with it trying to take all the credit.
this is good ish
Rich thanks for the content, I was thinking on a hypothesis about cannabis consumption and how it effects red pilled men. Can it make you more blue pilled?
'what we care about is: are you beautifull, you are not overweight,....' for a part that's a though thing to hear but good to know, as soon as the woman will be older or idk something will happen to her the guy probably will go to another.
Great content Kevin 👍
Kevin?! Lol
So i just found this chanes and can someone explain what is the red pill that is often mentioned?
Not impossible but extremely difficult.
@38:00 The kid will be a star!
Gooood
Even if she stays she'll make you miserable ie if you choose to comply with her bs
So apparently I commented on imgur that whoever dates multiple people at the same time(I mean going on 3rd-4th date while going out with with others) is not really trustworthy and got downvoted to hell. Wonder am I wrong here? xD
No ur right
You might already know this prayer but if not I think you'll like it.
Gestalt Prayer
I do my thing and you do your thing.
I am not in this world to live up to your expectations,
And you are not in this world to live up to mine.
You are you, and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful.
If not, it can't be helped.
(Fritz Perls, 1969)