The 9 Iron Rules of Tomassi

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  • The legendary 9 iron rules of Rollo Tomassi
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #1 4:00
    Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 13:40
    NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 20:45
    Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 30:25
    NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 45:49
    NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 52:35
    Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.
    In its simplicity this speaks volumes about the condition of Men. It accurately expresses a pervasive nihilism that Men must either confront and accept, or be driven insane in denial for the rest of their lives when they fail to come to terms with the disillusionment.
    Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 1:03:47
    It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #8 1:12:07
    Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuck you, never do it for her.
    An integral part of maintaining the feminine imperative as the societal imperative involves keeping women as the primary sexual selectors. As I’ve detailed in many prior comments and posts, this means that a woman’s sexual strategy necessitates that she be in as optimized a condition as her capacity (attractiveness) allows for her to choose from the best males available to satisfy that strategy.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #9 1:16:34
    Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance. This is a Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you’ve accepted yourself and presented yourself as a “complete douche” there’s no going back to confidence with a woman. Never appeal to a woman’s sympathies. Her sympathies are given by her own volition, never when they are begged for - women despise the obligation of sympathy. Nothing kills arousal like pity. Even if you don’t seriously consider yourself pathetic, it never serves your best interest to paint yourself as pathetic. Self-Depreciation is a misguided tool for the AFC, and not something that would even occur to an Alpha.
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  • @EntrepreneursInCars
    @EntrepreneursInCars  6 років тому +228

    Shortcut links to each rule below, with full description of the rule.
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    Iron Rule of Tomassi #1 4:00
    Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 13:40
    NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 20:45
    Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 30:25
    NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 45:49
    NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 52:35
    Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.
    In its simplicity this speaks volumes about the condition of Men. It accurately expresses a pervasive nihilism that Men must either confront and accept, or be driven insane in denial for the rest of their lives when they fail to come to terms with the disillusionment.
    Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 1:03:47
    It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #8 1:12:07
    Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuck you, never do it for her.
    An integral part of maintaining the feminine imperative as the societal imperative involves keeping women as the primary sexual selectors. As I’ve detailed in many prior comments and posts, this means that a woman’s sexual strategy necessitates that she be in as optimized a condition as her capacity (attractiveness) allows for her to choose from the best males available to satisfy that strategy.
    Iron Rule of Tomassi #9 1:16:34
    Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance. This is a Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you’ve accepted yourself and presented yourself as a “complete douche” there’s no going back to confidence with a woman. Never appeal to a woman’s sympathies. Her sympathies are given by her own volition, never when they are begged for - women despise the obligation of sympathy. Nothing kills arousal like pity. Even if you don’t seriously consider yourself pathetic, it never serves your best interest to paint yourself as pathetic. Self-Depreciation is a misguided tool for the AFC, and not something that would even occur to an Alpha.

    •  6 років тому +10

      I added another one.
      #10: Never apologise to a woman. It's a sign of weakness and will result in disrespect and contempt as you. If you apologise to clear the air or as an olive branch, this won't work. An apology is no less than an admission of total guilt and is just blood in the water.
      [Edit] I have a feeling you've said this on a previous video anyway :)

    • @Kingiron88
      @Kingiron88 6 років тому +7

      Thanks Rich. Good to hear from the legend himself.

    •  6 років тому +4

      Daniel come to think of it, I think it's just another shit test. As you say fishing for an apology to get you to bend to her... or to see if you will do that. She wants to find out if you're a guy who sticks to his guns, if you are a guy who will back down just to keep the peace with her... Hence the loss of respect, when as men we would assume that apologising is a sign of maturity and humility and gain respect for each other from it.

    • @pensatorseven1898
      @pensatorseven1898 6 років тому +1

      Thanks.

    • @your.dark.lord.
      @your.dark.lord. 5 років тому +9

      Quite true, never self deprecate.
      I should add it also turns off men. A girl I was fucking self-deprecated, joking about her belly.
      That turned me off so badly that after that, I was unable to touch her again and I ghosted her.

  • @littlebuster07
    @littlebuster07 3 роки тому +370

    Men are the romantics masquerading as rationalists. Women are rationalists masquerading as romantics. My favorite quote in this interview

  • @TheDeathbyPurple
    @TheDeathbyPurple 6 років тому +2573

    "Women break rules for the alpha but make rules for the beta..." I couldn't put it any better.

    • @force9485
      @force9485 6 років тому +90

      Dishonest women who make the good guy wait so she can trick him into thinking she's a "nice girl", meanwhile does whatever with some loser on the 1st meeting..pathetic.

    • @appolo08
      @appolo08 6 років тому +73

      Polygamy is men's natural desire to mate with MORE women whereas hypergamy is women's natural desire to mate with QUALITY men. Polygamy demands quantity whereas hypergamy demands quality

    • @AnthonySforza
      @AnthonySforza 6 років тому +14

      (To the OP) Yea, this is basically why when asked for advice, I tell guys that anything a woman says she doesn't or won't do, carries the silent caveat at the end "...With you." Being that every woman does those things, it's just a question that if she says that she won't, it's obviously not happening with/to/for you. Kind of like "I'd never do anything on the first night... (Silently) with you." Being that if the star quarterback of whatever university is the main one in said city walked in, am I to believe she WOULDN'T be on her knees in the restroom with him if given the chance? Or the "I'm just not the settle down type" only to be married to some other guy within eighteen months of saying that to a guy she's dating.
      +Pa Go
      Been there. Much to the confusion of many friends. "Wait, you're still dating and going out and hooking up? But... you don't have a job, live in a small apartment and your power's been off for a month, how???" My simple answer to that was "Because I can." Not in some way where I tooted my own horn or anything, but I took the chance of still going out and meeting people. Whereas I'm going to go off on a limb and say that almost all guys in the aforementioned conditions would stay at home, confining themselves under the assumed perspective that they don't "Deserve" attention from women, due to them having so little to offer. No lie, even during those tiems, I was STILL bringing a lot more to the table than said women in question.

    • @norm1815
      @norm1815 5 років тому +24

      @@yourmainful TRUTH!!! Same situation for me. I am now 51 and I was a Sickening Beta til about 49 as that is how society teaches us we should be and I had not discovered the manosphere.

    • @norm1815
      @norm1815 5 років тому +3

      @@jamesp9226 Gospel Truth

  • @MrRam1993
    @MrRam1993 5 років тому +490

    Richard cooper never interrupts.

  • @dcrump
    @dcrump 5 років тому +1461

    Every dude should watch this at 20.... but unfortunately won’t understand till in their 30s.... big time!!!

    • @k3zani265
      @k3zani265 5 років тому +76

      Thank God I'm 20

    • @quinnlaya331
      @quinnlaya331 5 років тому +50

      Thank god I got screwed over by a woman earlier on at 16. Im 17 now and I hope I understand this by 20

    • @mattbabb.
      @mattbabb. 4 роки тому +46

      Checks out. Watching at 26. Mathematically, I understand about 60% of it

    • @deadringer-cultofdeathratt8813
      @deadringer-cultofdeathratt8813 4 роки тому +9

      Jut turned 21 on the 20th of this month, I’m just a bit late.
      (Don’t judge my profile I kept this one from high school, on this phone)

    • @UnknownRex
      @UnknownRex 4 роки тому +19

      Better late than never at least. Sometimes it can be hard to come into this environment if you grow up in the feminized wrold.

  • @ryanngakuru8929
    @ryanngakuru8929 3 роки тому +356

    my partner caught me listening to this video and instantly got offended saying it's not true. That reaction just made me believe in it ten fold more than I already do. Thanks Rich for the clarity that I have needed for a long time.

    • @denny4941
      @denny4941 3 роки тому +111

      Wrong way to think. If she "caught" you, this means SHE is the boss. Change that dynamic!
      Eve dew

    • @EbuBax
      @EbuBax 2 роки тому +71

      Don’t call her your partner by the way, that’s a gay thing

    • @fitnesspoint2006
      @fitnesspoint2006 2 роки тому +17

      @@EbuBax he is likely gay, in the closet

    • @cweatherfella547
      @cweatherfella547 2 роки тому +18

      Caught me ?
      Seriously ?

    • @daviedood2503
      @daviedood2503 2 роки тому +2

      Bro she didn't CATCH anything. She got INFORMED that now YOU'RE informed and she better act right, or she can make like a banana and fn SPLIT BCH. 😂

  • @tomintardonato8331
    @tomintardonato8331 6 років тому +561

    My take on rule #6: A woman will never love or commit to you for "who" you are, she can only devote herself to "what" you are.

    • @FerrariKangaroo
      @FerrariKangaroo 6 років тому +47

      Nailed it. And this is why I'll never bother being in a relationship with a woman ever again (or interact with women for anything other than just sex). MGTOW all the way.

    • @gogyoo
      @gogyoo 4 роки тому +38

      Even more simply put: she wants a guy that will make her circle of friends jealous.

    • @ronrolph
      @ronrolph 3 роки тому +31

      @@gogyoo Well put. Women don't really care about you they care what her friends think about you.

    • @Jerry-fr4xo
      @Jerry-fr4xo 3 роки тому +1

      Love that, I just put it the other way around

    • @strategic1710
      @strategic1710 2 роки тому +7

      Honestly this is the most depressing one to accept. Things like sincerity, integrity, and honesty are secondary luxuries to status, popularity, and financial security. In other words, women stop maturing at 17.

  • @andreasgeissler
    @andreasgeissler 6 років тому +472

    "Women will break rules for the Alpha, and make rules for the Beta" ... this is top information

    • @macioluko9484
      @macioluko9484 5 років тому +14

      Absolutely top shelf. I've seen it happen to other men hundreds of times and I experienced it myself.

    • @karamlevi
      @karamlevi 5 років тому +9

      I’ve been the quick lay guy allot. Glad to see this chick logic.
      Don’t hate.
      When you get laid right away these chicks won’t respect any kind of connection with you.
      They do box you in as a fuck boy. They will cheat to do this with you.
      As a dude you don’t always want new women. Especially spiritual guys enjoy balance and steadiness.
      Lol, chicks can be profoundly superficial.
      It’s all about the fair fit-

    • @Atclav
      @Atclav 3 роки тому +1

      This Alpha Beta talk is never deep enough.

    • @metalmike570
      @metalmike570 2 роки тому +1

      And, you can want to be an Alpha all you want. It ain't goning to happen because Alphas are born, not made.

    • @4lugan
      @4lugan 2 роки тому

      He is speaking about sex, traveling, job, family reunions, friends, etc…

  • @AtheismF7W
    @AtheismF7W 6 років тому +685

    How many lives this will save.

    • @aloop3026
      @aloop3026 3 роки тому +14

      Saved mine.

    • @dasbo1992
      @dasbo1992 3 роки тому +2

      @@aloop3026 Do you wanna talk about it?

    • @aloop3026
      @aloop3026 3 роки тому +1

      @@dasbo1992 my story pretty crazy

    • @dasbo1992
      @dasbo1992 3 роки тому +2

      @@aloop3026 I'm interested

    • @dizzitoast
      @dizzitoast 3 роки тому +1

      @@aloop3026 me too brother. Let’s hear it.

  • @zabumt7380
    @zabumt7380 2 роки тому +122

    my dad always told me "your mom is lucky to have me" and when we have a meal together the atmosphere always feels like he is the boss around the house, its not like he was a tyrant or anything he is married with mom for 35 years and my mom when ever she tells me about their past she always talks with joy and enthusiasm

  • @spookyNorbert
    @spookyNorbert 6 років тому +513

    You crushed the system! Mind blowing. My jaw's dropped. Im 32. If only I could knew all this 10 years ago.....

    • @blurglide
      @blurglide 5 років тому +15

      Count your blessing; you still learned the lessons relatively early. Your prime is still ahead of you if you play your cards right.

    • @Re3iRtH
      @Re3iRtH 5 років тому +5

      I only learned this when I moved to Hawaii age 26. 2 years and many women later, this stuff gets internalized. It makes me smile to hear this because experience is the only way.

    • @Zelielz1
      @Zelielz1 5 років тому +9

      I have known this since my early 20s, believe me, only helps you to date more, but i had my heart broken like anyone else even tho i prevented all the beta behavours...

    • @RebelMindisPure
      @RebelMindisPure 5 років тому +11

      I’m learning this at 34 years old. Still young and looking forward to the results

    • @Smoove_J
      @Smoove_J 5 років тому +24

      I’m pretty pissed off. This info could’ve saved me from 6 miserable years of marriage. Men need to start teaching this to their sons IMMEDIATELY.

  • @dontaskmeimjustagirl...5798
    @dontaskmeimjustagirl...5798 6 років тому +1048

    There already is a birth-control pill for males. It's called The Red Pill. xD LMAO

    • @greenmanalishi7913
      @greenmanalishi7913 6 років тому +6

      Testosterone replacement therapy will kill your sperm level. Essentially birth control for men.

    • @dontaskmeimjustagirl...5798
      @dontaskmeimjustagirl...5798 6 років тому +5

      But then you get shriveled up balls like Jose Canseco.

    • @greenmanalishi7913
      @greenmanalishi7913 6 років тому +22

      True, but having low T feels like a death sentence for a man. If plump nads have to be sacrificed for getting your life back, so be it.

    • @valuetainer3437
      @valuetainer3437 6 років тому +1

      Green Manalishi more testosterone kills sperm level? What the fuck are you talking about dude!

    • @dontaskmeimjustagirl...5798
      @dontaskmeimjustagirl...5798 6 років тому +9

      Adding supplemental testosterone confuses your endocrine system so it stops making its own testosterone and the testes basically atrophy.

  • @jvolc
    @jvolc 3 роки тому +41

    04:00 - 1.
    13:40 - 2.
    20:45 - 3.
    30:25 - 4.
    45:49 - 5.
    52:35 - 6.
    1:03:47 - 7.
    1:12:07 - 8.
    1:16:34 - 9.

  • @mrblondeheart9562
    @mrblondeheart9562 4 роки тому +228

    I’m watching this at 20 and I can tell you that y’all have taught me so much. My father kicked me out at 16 and I’ve never have a good relationship with my parents who are both in miserable states in life. I can not thank you guys enough. Love watching these podcast

    • @savageinstitute9569
      @savageinstitute9569 4 роки тому +21

      You are loved brother. Live well!

    • @garyjames628
      @garyjames628 3 роки тому +5

      👊

    • @over-achiever
      @over-achiever 2 роки тому +5

      get financially literate bro. sending blessings

    • @daviedood2503
      @daviedood2503 2 роки тому +5

      I'm 38 and just learning it. I got taken off the market at 24 and at 38 I'm back on it as or 10 months ago. Did the family man thing / step dad role. Broke all my rules bc her and I got along really well. Don't do it man. They cleaned me out and took the family car. First time in 20 yrs I been car-less. Feels weird.
      Never attach never marry never have children with them. Glad I stuck to atleast TWO of those fn rules. I'd have been off even worse if I married and had children w her. Late lesson in life but hey at least I'm learning it.
      They all do the SAME THING they just go about it differently.
      If in run over your foot, it don't matter if I went forward or went backwards over it, at the end of the day, it was ran over. Don't make excuses for them bc ur scared to be alone and lose some p$$y. There's pleanty more out there

    • @yulia300
      @yulia300 2 роки тому +3

      @@daviedood2503 there is something very vicious about this world. Nice loyal people with good intentions are scammed, vicious ones exploiting good ones by manipulating their feelings....

  • @Worldtravelerr78
    @Worldtravelerr78 6 років тому +961

    I have never understood “oneitis”. Girls from Western Countries are nearly identical when it comes to personality, the next 10 girls will be similar to your ex.

    • @ElliotRose
      @ElliotRose 6 років тому +113

      Modern MGTOW Only took me 35 years to understand this. They LOOK different, they ACT the same.

    • @matthewbaumann630
      @matthewbaumann630 6 років тому +27

      Only date European or Asian women!

    • @ratesforless
      @ratesforless 6 років тому +50

      I can. it happens when a guy is taught from an early age that women are more valuable than he is and that his entire validation as a man rests with him being able to say that he has one. If he lacks the LMS (Looks/$$$/Social Status) or game to get one in his teenage years as most young boys (see 80/20 rule), an artificial scarcity effect can occur (see male thirst) which will have the guy 'lock in' on one particular female and throw all caution to the wind in hopes of one day getting her. I personally know guys well into their 30s and 40s who still pine after a chick from high school who have been bent over by numerous dudes (including myself) yet think life isn't complete without having that girl in their lives. And try as you might, they still will not be convinced that she's God's gift to him and that she can do no wrong...

    • @patrickviet6786
      @patrickviet6786 5 років тому +25

      WTF are you talking about, of course there are different women with different personalities. Yes some of biological behaviors are similar/identical, and sticking around is based on 'what' you are rather than 'who' you are is one of them, but beyond these base things, they are still people with various interests, personalities, and all that...
      I'm sorry you met women with such terrible and/or lack of personality... I've dated very different women. They have things in common, and very different others...

    • @your.dark.lord.
      @your.dark.lord. 5 років тому +57

      I had oneitis. It's called falling in love. I fell very badly for a woman, and I fell because she was one of the few that met all my ideal requirements in a woman: beautiful, as tall as me, intelligent, cultured but not prissy, with real sense of humor which means being able to entertain you and tell jokes, etc etc, so I fell very hard for her, which made me lose frame and attitude, unknowingly started to change my behaviour, she felt it and was turned off, and left to ride the carrousel. That led me to the worst depression of my life, which nearly destroyed me, it was very hard to recover from.
      When you are deeply in love, you can't stop thinking about that woman the whole time, you idealize her, and have strong feelings of attachment to her, and you actually feel the famous butterflies in your stomach, your pulse rate going faster when you are with her, and you feel she's the best woman in the whole world, everything from her becomes so important, and you feel ready to go to hell and back for her. You stop caring about any other woman because you only want her and no one else, you feel she's the one. The one to live a life with, to grow old with, raise a family, etc. So the day she left, I felt as if a giant axe had been plunged into my heart.
      I was much happier being alpha and spinning many plates and going on my purpose, so I strongly agree that love isn't a very good thing. It makes you lose focus. Love made me turn from being her master, which she loved, to become a weak beta.
      So there's your explanation.
      An addendum: a friend of mine suffered something similar. He dated a high school companion, and while he treated her as shit she loved him quite a lot and chased him relentlessly, so he could do with her as he pleased, she was his little bitch, so she was his side girl while he banged other girls.
      Until one day he started to have feelings for her, and began to treat her good and be nice to her, and dedicate more of his time to her. Then she left him.
      Another addendum: an acquaintance of mine, a girl, was dating this guy long ago. She felt bored so she left him. He reacted sending her an audio in which he told her what an asshole she was, how ugly and stupid.
      Her reaction? She chased him for months until she got him back, and married him.

  • @DimitrisMotovlogs
    @DimitrisMotovlogs 6 років тому +382

    This is pure gold, thank you gentlemen.

    • @macioluko9484
      @macioluko9484 5 років тому +4

      It really is. What I would give to hear this at 16!

  • @xavierhernandez7809
    @xavierhernandez7809 3 роки тому +61

    I’ve been a fan of the manosphere for about 3 months now I’m only 21 and I can’t even express the gratitude I have for men making content like this free! You guys are of great service to all men in this world

    • @Johnny-Cage
      @Johnny-Cage 2 роки тому

      What brought you to the manosphere at such a young age?

    • @xavierhernandez7809
      @xavierhernandez7809 2 роки тому +6

      @@Johnny-Cage From a young age I was always able to see the code in the matrix but that was thanks to my father he always taught me through demonstration not explanation I was fortunate enough to be raised by an alpha father & when I came across Rich and Rollo’s content I was instantly glued to it because they were so helpful in connecting all the dots I saw growing up & most importantly they made me feel sane because the way I was raised was certainly not common amongst the majority of the people I went to school with including the teachers & staff so I have massive respect for Rich and Rollo they speak the truth

    • @Johnny-Cage
      @Johnny-Cage 2 роки тому +5

      @@xavierhernandez7809 that's dope man. You definitely got lucky having an alpha dad. I struggle saying it but my dad wasn't an alpha. He never strived to be the best version of himself and allowed my mom to be the breadwinner while constantly being pissed off at her because of it (whether he'd admit it to himself or not) I'm happy to have found the manosphere now but wish I did 10 years ago when I was your age. And remember, don't get into a relationship in your 20s! Work on your purpose! Coming from a guy who didn't try hard enough in his, and is now having to play catch-up. Best wishes brother

    • @xavierhernandez7809
      @xavierhernandez7809 2 роки тому +1

      @@Johnny-Cage much appreciated John thanks for the kind words & it’s not your fault you understand more then ever the systems designed to oppress & I’m certain the new found knowledge will serve you well best of luck!

    • @PeterShaw-ne1yq
      @PeterShaw-ne1yq Рік тому

      At 21 my heart felt advice to you - don't play Russian Roulette with Russians

  • @zsembik3
    @zsembik3 6 років тому +104

    27 years old and wow is all I can say this is a new injection of clarity and motivation thank you for this

    • @superchuck3259
      @superchuck3259 6 років тому +16

      Stay fit and keep on career track at 27 years old you are just hitting your prime.
      You are the prize. All those years of being passed over by attractive women is winding down.
      The 18-22 year olds are checking you out. If you are just screwing around, be very careful.
      If you are looking for wife material, well then better be choosy due to the huge risks.

    • @zsembik3
      @zsembik3 6 років тому +2

      Charles Granata roger that

  • @illenessOne
    @illenessOne 5 років тому +45

    What I appreciate the most in this video is you that never cut Rollo off when he talks .

  • @billmurray7721
    @billmurray7721 6 років тому +649

    Men need to understand the science behind women’s love for men. There is a saying that goes,
    “A woman loves her children, a man loves his wife and children”
    Women don’t love men the way men think they do. A woman admires a man, a man adores a woman, a woman adores her kids. I hope you can see what I’m getting at.
    It’s not in a woman’s nature to love a man the way she loves her kids but it’s in a mans nature to love and die for his wife and kids.
    Her love for you comes down to what you can do for her and her kids and once again it’s not the same type of love you would feel. Her love for her kids can be unwavering but not for you.
    Women are emotional creatures and they are also extremely fickle to the point of severe immaturity no matter how intelligent they may seem, they are, once again, emotional creatures.
    I’m not saying women are bad. I’m saying this is nature. When a woman is hung on a man you may think that she truly loves him, in her own way yes I suppose she does. However, that “love” is really just the adventure of being with that man and how he made her feel when they were together.
    Women will often say, “he made me feel safe” but let me tell you that if he were to get his ass kicked severely by a smaller dude than him in front of her.... that would all change. It’s not up to her, this is how she feels. Same way a man can get hung up on a woman without even knowing her but just because of her looks he’s willing to cross oceans and do god knows what for her and her attention.

    • @valuetainer3437
      @valuetainer3437 6 років тому +14

      Bill Murray wrong, both sexes dont love each other unconditionally, it's a myth, read what blackdragon talked about this, he nails it

    • @runedit9044
      @runedit9044 6 років тому +6

      Lol ! I totally agree never trust the biologically enslaved just fk em !

    • @dis4980
      @dis4980 6 років тому +4

      Nonsense lol

    • @darkvctry7482
      @darkvctry7482 6 років тому +66

      So basically dont have kids, don't get married, let the women suffer when they are in their 40s (their wall) while men still enjoy life and saved all that money from having kids, and divorce, now the 40 year old man with all that money can do whatever he wants to enjoy life. He can have his nice car, jet skis, hell i just bought a Terminator 2 pinball machine for my man-cave this week haha. Nobody can stop me ! My mother divorced my father and took him to the cleaners ! Yet in some sick twisted way she always said she loves her kids first, but she did that to us and wrecked our family.

    • @Jules_Black
      @Jules_Black 5 років тому +8

      You are spot on!

  • @brahmadasbyron180
    @brahmadasbyron180 3 роки тому +136

    Quote from Rollo Tomassi’s Rational Male: “I can remember becoming aware the first time I watched a popular sitcom on TV with a critical eye. There were simply no positive masculine actors or characters on any show, rather every male was ridiculed for his masculinity.” I observed that even before reading Rational Male but when I brought it up in public I was ridiculed and told it’s my closed-minded chauvinism. Unplugging from “the matrix” is NOT looked upon well by society 🥺

    • @StevenLeMieux
      @StevenLeMieux 3 роки тому +7

      And this is why I say fuck society welcome to the eye open club.

    • @brahmadasbyron180
      @brahmadasbyron180 3 роки тому +4

      @@StevenLeMieux In that case you’ll want to read Tomassi’s TRM. It goes against everything we’ve been trained to believe since childhood.

    • @StevenLeMieux
      @StevenLeMieux 3 роки тому +5

      @@brahmadasbyron180 literally listened to the entire audioable version took 2 days and was one of the best books ever.

    • @Stay_ClassyYT
      @Stay_ClassyYT 3 роки тому +2

      That quote is very true exactly I read it two days ago for the first time.

    • @voltazarus1065
      @voltazarus1065 3 роки тому +5

      interesting. i watched the famous talked about series Stranger Things, and one of the protagonists, Hopper, became my favorite character immediately. Looking back it’s because for the first time in forever, I had seen a character who embraced his masculinity and acted like an actual, real man, just an observation.

  • @dontaskmeimjustagirl...5798
    @dontaskmeimjustagirl...5798 6 років тому +247

    The 1st Rule of Tomassi is... you do not talk about Tomassi.

    • @LiftOffLife
      @LiftOffLife 6 років тому +8

      Don't ask me, I'm just a girl...
      ...and don't talk about swallowing the red pill to women.

    • @Whutup549
      @Whutup549 5 років тому +16

      The 2nd rule is. YOU DO NOT TALK ABOUT TOMASSI

    • @princeofpersiaxxi4604
      @princeofpersiaxxi4604 5 років тому +12

      I see more people joined the club... that means some of you shit heads talked about tomasi

    • @hoytmantexas
      @hoytmantexas 3 роки тому +2

      Love it lmao

    • @diegolisandror2
      @diegolisandror2 3 роки тому +1

      @@princeofpersiaxxi4604 Well i discovered Stephiscold who lead me to MJ, then Entrepreneurs IC and then the godfather Tomassi
      I strongly recommend Stephiscold he speaks with no filters at all he is great for motivation

  • @clcbookreviews7099
    @clcbookreviews7099 6 років тому +240

    Pure genius : "A woman will break rules for an Alpha and make more rules for a Beta". Literally so true. Rollo, you've done it again. Made me understand myself a little better...wow. Mind blown. :P

    • @Beleeuer
      @Beleeuer 2 роки тому +3

      Fake it till you make it

  • @Ohenry0828
    @Ohenry0828 6 років тому +149

    Everytime I think about my Ex. I always Read Iron Rule Tomassi #7. Thanks you Soo much Rollo and Richard for setting up this interview. Keep doing what your doing guys.

  • @morphling337
    @morphling337 5 років тому +65

    "Irrational self confidence is a virtue for a lot of guys". I loved that. It's so true. Women respond more to how you see yourself than they do how THEY see you because their hypergamous filters are based on context clues.

    • @PNdebt-hc2tg
      @PNdebt-hc2tg Рік тому +3

      I will never be afraid or timid to approach any beautiful lady if I am unattached. Never...

  • @Jeff-gt2xu
    @Jeff-gt2xu 4 роки тому +14

    Growing up, the way that love was explained to me was that a woman wants to be loved but a man wants to be respected.

  • @lorymiharu
    @lorymiharu 3 роки тому +20

    Hearing the actual man speak about the topic felt invigorating. He has everything controlled from head to toe, you can feel the roots of his knowledge and experience. This video is one of the best in your channel, Rich. Amazing work.

  • @al-bsure4284
    @al-bsure4284 6 років тому +85

    Grateful for this knowledge! At 42 years old thought I had this shit figured out! Realized got lots of learning to do!

    • @TheBenjammin5150
      @TheBenjammin5150 5 років тому +2

      Im in the same boat, man.

    • @moisesbeyond
      @moisesbeyond 4 роки тому

      AT LEAST you were 42 , I did 3 years later and all the struggles with women and the lies by societies

  • @carsonbowles9302
    @carsonbowles9302 3 роки тому +25

    The more of these videos I watch, the angrier I get at myself...

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. 3 роки тому +12

      You are having red pill rage. It's part of detox. Understand that you have been sold a lie. Taking the red pill means unplugging from the matrix. Anger is a legitimate emotion. However, when you get through it, you will have a super power of understanding women's true motives. You cannot unsee it. To repeat, anger is part of detox. Don't get stuck there.

  • @FreddyFuFu
    @FreddyFuFu 6 років тому +569

    Its better to buy your milk by the gallon than to be stuck with a dry cow half your life.

    • @buddrinkerdrinks
      @buddrinkerdrinks 6 років тому +12

      every heard the juice isnt worth the squeeze? sometimes it better to rent than buy sir...

    • @wariswrong4920
      @wariswrong4920 6 років тому +1

      @EvilAlbear - Who's talking about hookers? The man who said 30 minutes was referring to sugar babies who can be virgins or low count.

    • @rekartrustee4811
      @rekartrustee4811 5 років тому

      Hahahaha

    • @tompatterson6626
      @tompatterson6626 4 роки тому +1

      Milk is bad mkay

    • @BalticLab
      @BalticLab 4 роки тому +15

      I cant afford you, he says. She angrily exclaims "I am not a hooker!" Then I definitely can not afford you, he responds.

  • @marcoramos9537
    @marcoramos9537 3 роки тому +8

    I turn 21 in two months, I am beyond grateful for getting this advice. Thank you

  • @rickster2929
    @rickster2929 6 років тому +56

    As always Rich you and Rollo are the one two punch my generation 50 + and the younger men in this world need to listen too. Read all 3 of Rollos books. Keep spreading the word/Red Pill. Peace brother's

  • @elmojtabaadam8990
    @elmojtabaadam8990 3 роки тому +30

    Very glad to be here at 20 years old. Thank you Rich & Rollo, this unequivocally altered my perspective on women, love and life. Up until two days ago I was a blue pill beta, doing everything my girlfriend asked of me. May the gods be with you both.

    • @manuelrocha9477
      @manuelrocha9477 Рік тому +3

      Yes, Adam, start to say "NO" to your woman, little bit at first and grow from there. Make her respect you.

  • @achille295
    @achille295 6 років тому +158

    Love these long vids. Amazing to see a video with the 2 legends. Keep up the great work!

    • @ABsirur
      @ABsirur 6 років тому

      +Suk Mike Hok it's not necessarily a hit, but moreso a tap or light smack to keep them in check.

    • @ABsirur
      @ABsirur 6 років тому +1

      Go do your research. There are stories of the Prophet also called Hadiths and Quranic verses and scholars who can speak on it. I'm not here to argue and debate over the internet with people who haven't done the proper research.

  • @jaiveerrsharrma8462
    @jaiveerrsharrma8462 4 роки тому +17

    Feel so blessed to get this information and pure wisdom...Iam 19 yrs old and Iam glad I found Rich and more great mentors like him 🙏🏻🔥

  • @aminebouaita9202
    @aminebouaita9202 2 роки тому +7

    I have immense respect for men who are paying the price in time and nerves to endure and experience all of this and then go let the younger men learn about it in the most detached and pragmatic way.
    Thank you both.

  • @eurosalamander
    @eurosalamander 3 роки тому +13

    For Rule #8, I have a slightly different phrasing.
    ”A woman does not go home with the best guy. She goes home with the one she picks, and she picks from among the guys she thinks are best.”

  • @maikollthompson
    @maikollthompson 3 роки тому +23

    The one that hit me the most was the last one. I've self deprecated myself for so long and I know pretty well some girls lost their interest in me because of that. It took me a while to realize that, but now I have changed it and I feel way better, not only when it comes to women, but also within myself.

    • @alanconley5005
      @alanconley5005 3 роки тому +2

      Same here, but that shit is funny, I am a big Rodney Dangerfield fan. But yes I don't do it anymore

  • @walkerdrae
    @walkerdrae 6 років тому +24

    I will definitely be listening to this several times and passing it on to my nephews.

  • @dream431ca
    @dream431ca 6 років тому +43

    I read the rational male about a year ago and I’m glad that Rollo explained the rules in much greater detail in this video. This is pure gold.

  • @Sharky-lq3iv
    @Sharky-lq3iv 5 років тому +11

    Two triple OG’s doing God’s work. Thank you gentlemen.

  • @jh5588
    @jh5588 4 роки тому +6

    Came here thinking I was getting short iron golf tips ... stayed and listened I gotta say these guys are talking truth

  • @bobinthewest8559
    @bobinthewest8559 3 роки тому +34

    Men:
    "I love you, and I would do anything for you."
    Women:
    I love what you do for me."

  • @jasonderousselle5570
    @jasonderousselle5570 5 років тому +31

    Gentleman... Hear this and hear it well, my own mother rest her loving soul I say again my own mother used to always say "remember Jason, the one in the relationship who needs the other the least and the one in the relationship who cares the least is always going to be the one who has the most control" This hits home, time for us to take our power back and not because we are bitter and spiteful but because we deserve to be as happy and healthy as we can be.

    • @1995yuda
      @1995yuda 4 роки тому +5

      Wise mother. It is what it is.

  • @onebridge7231
    @onebridge7231 3 роки тому +75

    When asked how many you slept with: Zero. When she states that can’t be true! Response: Zero that were worth keeping!

  • @camtheman3x6
    @camtheman3x6 5 років тому +16

    This conversation was great, and I'm hella glad I discovered both these men. That being said, now that the "game" has been spelled out to me, I have even less desire to go and play it. I really don't see how any women that throws shit tests at you, and will coldly abandon you when a higher status male comes along, and will never love you in the way you want to be loved, is worth it at all.

    • @supersonicknockout5143
      @supersonicknockout5143 5 років тому +1

      love is a scam

    • @Kinoti9
      @Kinoti9 2 роки тому

      But how do we deal with being horny though?

    • @neolink8197
      @neolink8197 Рік тому

      I wouldn't mind playing the game exceot where the hell do I even meet women these days

  • @deondretravell4524
    @deondretravell4524 4 роки тому +4

    “im not in the business of helping men. im in the business of giving men the tools to help themselves.” 🗣🗣🗣

  • @tizodd6
    @tizodd6 5 років тому +294

    Rule #6 (A woman can never love a man the way he loves her) is a lesson I've learned first-hand over the years, and is the primary reason I choose to be alone. While it's true that most relationships take work...a relationship shouldn't feel like a job. Women can take their hypergamy to the grave with them. At 40, I've lost interest in the games.

    • @mrfaith7467
      @mrfaith7467 4 роки тому +27

      We are both the same age and I feel the same.

    • @DustyRoadz
      @DustyRoadz 4 роки тому +26

      @@mrfaith7467 ...I'm 38 and feel exactly the same. I haven't risked my heart or my livelihood in a couple of years now and I'm glad I've dodged the bullets I have

    • @tizodd6
      @tizodd6 4 роки тому +7

      @H D Did you mean to leave this comment on another thread? Not sure what the gym has to do with anything I said. I've played sports all my life and am good shape to this day.

    • @Graggle_Gabagool
      @Graggle_Gabagool 4 роки тому +25

      At 27, I've lost interest as well. This information is gold.

    • @mrhernandez8256
      @mrhernandez8256 3 роки тому +9

      @@Graggle_Gabagool I'm 34 and same

  • @jondavis7122
    @jondavis7122 6 років тому +21

    Very informative. Whoever disliked this video or complained has no idea about human behavior or the human mind.these guys nailed it.

  • @rositafanning7140
    @rositafanning7140 3 роки тому +7

    As a woman, I must agree with everything that you say. Spot on.

  • @coiledsteel8344
    @coiledsteel8344 5 років тому +36

    He's right, "Familiarity breeds contempt!"

  • @joemamma6138
    @joemamma6138 4 роки тому +10

    Watching this at 20. Been redpilled for a couple of months now, it’s crazy how much these rules relate to shortcomings I’ve had in game and LTR’s in general

  • @Ponferrada22
    @Ponferrada22 5 років тому +19

    New to this, just mind blowing, picked up the rational male too. While reading it was like one of those films like Memento or something where all the pieces of your life flash before your eyes and it all makes sense. All those experiences with ex girlfriends or even your buddies troubles are finally seen with clarity. Thank you.

  • @corneliusedwards7107
    @corneliusedwards7107 6 років тому +65

    School was in session.Great video guys.

  • @WisdomQuest-v4h
    @WisdomQuest-v4h 4 роки тому +5

    I’m 23 and I’ve been watching and listening to Rollo Tomassi since I was 18 and every guy needs to hear this. Great content as always guys!

  •  6 років тому +99

    Am I the first guy to say "I wish I'd been told all this 20 years ago"?
    Just kidding.

    • @dorian1252
      @dorian1252 6 років тому +9

      Joe Gibbs I’m only 19 but i feel like i’ve been given access to secret information that i should not share with just anyone. The head start i’m getting with this knowledge feels good.

    • @mattzeravla3339
      @mattzeravla3339 6 років тому +3

      ah. good to see a fellow who is around the same age, i remembered i was 18 at the time when i was drinking while internalizing/swallowing the red pill in. i was getting drunk while 'waking up' and that feeling when you had no one to talk to.. yeah, good times mate.. im 21 now. im grateful for these guys' works. anyway, goodluck to you pal. i can relate to you

    • @richardgomesarruda5590
      @richardgomesarruda5590 4 роки тому

      I feel the same way, and a have 30 now. It like 15 years of my life doing a lot of effort for nothing. Thank you to Tomassi for doing this for us, at least for me.

  • @OnTheEDge2011
    @OnTheEDge2011 3 роки тому +8

    this vid is more has more value than a university diploma. Thank you so much, Gentlemen.

  • @helmutgottschalk7983
    @helmutgottschalk7983 6 років тому +28

    Thanks a ton. Never too old to learn about myself and relating.

  • @gastonsaintpaul5590
    @gastonsaintpaul5590 4 роки тому +10

    Should’ve known this much younger in my life.
    Vital info for the improvement of manhood

  • @mogatdula
    @mogatdula 4 роки тому +11

    This was without a doubt, the most educational video I've watched yet on UA-cam. Awesome, my new favorite channel

  • @kenneykatfishtenyardfight
    @kenneykatfishtenyardfight 6 років тому +20

    Just subscribed yesterday. This red pill logic has really clashed with my social programming.

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. 3 роки тому

      What a ..... surprise!

  • @ren1643
    @ren1643 6 років тому +13

    I’m nearly finished The Rational Male audio book and will definitely listen to it again to make sure I didn’t miss anything. I really like the book and the information it provided was very worthwhile to me. I have also started “A tactical guide to women” which I am liking so far from what I’m hearing. After that I will likely read another one of your recommended books for all men as from what you’ve recommended me I believe you have good taste.

  • @SupremeCannon1965
    @SupremeCannon1965 6 років тому +6

    To Rollo, first off Happy Fifty. Passed that milestone a couple years back and it's a real perspective shift. Devoured the blog starting about 2011 and bought the first book. This is the most important education a man can have; so many giants have been laid low without it!
    Great show guys!

    • @LiftOffLife
      @LiftOffLife 6 років тому

      SupremeCannon
      Yes Elon Musk is one of them.

  • @bovrar2nd861
    @bovrar2nd861 6 років тому +21

    Now I understand why all my relationships were crap! WOW! I can't even blame my father, he also was manipulated...thank you SO MUCH Mr. Tomasi and Cooper for the great quality and Must Needed Content.
    It's sad that I do not have friends who speaks English, they are loosing a great bunch.

  • @jukeboxhero1649
    @jukeboxhero1649 3 роки тому +3

    Man!!!! I needed this knowledge so long ago!!! I want my years back😖 !!!!!! I'm 50 and I never figured this out...thank you for your time and work.

  • @pratik6342
    @pratik6342 Рік тому +1

    Guys love in " IDEALISTIC" fashion, woman love in " OPPORTUNISTIC" fashion ....
    THIS IS SUCH AN EYE OPENER.

  • @kentbradshaw5545
    @kentbradshaw5545 6 років тому +11

    Sage advise and wisdom from 2 leaders in the manosphere. Thank you both for your continued efforts.

  • @naps3386
    @naps3386 6 років тому +8

    One of best videos for men I’ve ever watched.

  • @scottstewart8737
    @scottstewart8737 6 років тому +252

    I actually had a girl 6 months or so ago tell me she would have slept with me, at the end of our first dste, if I was a douchebag. I'm still trying to kill the beta.

    • @superchuck3259
      @superchuck3259 6 років тому +71

      You should have said, if you slept with me on the first date, I would not call you back for another date.

    • @thomaspostman9175
      @thomaspostman9175 6 років тому +14

      Peter DaSilva just be about you at all times. Do what's best for you with no apologies.

    • @simplehealthyliving4681
      @simplehealthyliving4681 6 років тому +13

      Charles,
      I disagree. The OP should have said, "If you had slept with me on the first date, I would actually have tried to start a relationship with you to explore what value you'd bring to the table. Too bad though, you exhibited a poor level of enthusiasm, so now you gotta leave. Bye"
      If the OP actually said, what you're saying, then the OP would be actually giving positive affirmation to the lack of enthusiasm she exhibited for the OP. You kill the beta by not giving a fuck and exhibiting solid frame in a manner that's as natural as breathing.

    • @TeunS133N
      @TeunS133N 6 років тому +12

      Scott Stewart haha, always watch a women, never listen to what they say. I had a women that would tell me the entire time on the first date it was not going to happen yet she was touching all the time. I ended up fucking on the first date.

    • @superchuck3259
      @superchuck3259 5 років тому +9

      @@simplehealthyliving4681 Too complex. Keep it simple. Men are the prize. Always tell the truth, it is totally their loss!

  • @chrisptessier
    @chrisptessier 4 роки тому +6

    The wisdom in this video hit me like a lightning rod! 25 years too late... but no worries. Also bought all 3 of Tomassi's books.

  • @PurpDaDon86
    @PurpDaDon86 6 років тому +34

    Nothin but Straight Facts here!

  • @meganadkins216
    @meganadkins216 6 років тому +75

    This channel is so eye opening, I believe in the greatest generation classic femininity... not that it matters but I feel terrible for the state of women in today's society... it makes having/starting relationships a dance of should I trust you?... There is so much merited mistrust and women have no idea about their natural tendencies... I'm honestly thankful for someone introducing me to MGTOW/RedPill (yes 😏 someone talked about fight club, but it was only because I encourage unfiltered attitudes and due to philosophies I had already shared about women and relationships) but truly : it's bad that men can teach women more about themselves than their own gender....this video... my eye opener #6 the romantics disguised as rational and vice versa ... makes so much sense. At first, I hoped the MGTOW movement wouldn't catch on ... now I kind of hope that it does at least the "awareness" aspect...at least maybe it will kill fake feminism and honesty will become the bigger narrative. That we all become our better selves in being aware of the nature of things.

    • @dallastaylor5479
      @dallastaylor5479 6 років тому +2

      Wow Megan, you want to go back to how it was, pre 1950? Is that correct?

    • @axegod8613
      @axegod8613 6 років тому +20

      No. Men have ALWAYS had the same problems with women. The proof is in the Bible. Even back then women were a mess. Half the Bible is about the the piss poor nature of females.

    • @therealliveguy
      @therealliveguy 6 років тому +6

      Sure you do. lol. She's here for info, fellas. She's on spy detail. Haha!

    • @dis4980
      @dis4980 6 років тому +2

      I wouldnt look here just a bunch of thirsty dudes who want to get laid at parties and project that mentality onto everyone else.

    • @karamlevi
      @karamlevi 5 років тому +2

      Megan Hively yes, women will be happier with skilled men. Agreed-

  • @K0ntakt5
    @K0ntakt5 6 років тому +76

    here is another iron rule i would add: even if you fully absorb all those other rules, the final rule is: "familiarity breeds contempt". so you could be the hottest richest guy in the world with unshakable frame control, but as rollo alludes to, even that gets comfortable, because it gets used to. that seems to be life itself, just like the most fun video games eventually get boring, our brains are wired to get adjusted to things and eventually seeks some new stimulus. sex, love, drugs, music, food, when you can have all of these things, the curse of life is a conundrum where those things eventually stop fulfilling you like they once did. this basically explains evolution as well- sometime in the past some organism adapted to the environment and tried to go above and beyond to attain more food or resources or living space or mates or whatever, so the goalposts keep moving, always

    •  6 років тому +1

      K0ntakt5 Very true. All LTRs have a shelf life of a handful of years. After that, the work becomes just too much to justify diminishing returns. Or the juice ain't worth the squeeze any more as our man up top likes to say.

    • @superchuck3259
      @superchuck3259 6 років тому +15

      In respect to Goal Posts keep moving. Keeping that in mind, you better be growing. She better be growing.
      When I see peoples relationships implode it is because one of the partners is stuck in life. Stuck on something.
      What I have seen in many of the married men stop influencing their wives. Men need to stand firm and change her mind or at least keep bringing her around to your direction. Eventually with enough intelligence and such either she will go nuts or come around. If she goes nuts because of the truth, well then she is nuts and there was nothing logical to do to stay together. Cause living in misery is not logical and it will not be tolerated by me!

    • @valuetainer3437
      @valuetainer3437 6 років тому

      K0ntakt5 law 16

    • @simplehealthyliving4681
      @simplehealthyliving4681 6 років тому +2

      Charles,
      Agreed.
      "Keeping that in mind, you better be growing."
      "at least keep bringing her around to your direction."
      Pretty much. And this is doable.

    • @blurglide
      @blurglide 5 років тому +4

      We simultaneously desire novelty and familiarity. The obvious solution: threesomes.

  • @annabellawr
    @annabellawr 2 роки тому +2

    As a woman, I’ve learned so much valuable information from your channel. Thank you!

  • @K0ntakt5
    @K0ntakt5 6 років тому +76

    the bit on frame, i was experimenting with the concept by taking psychadelics and going to bars or in public places and just trying to passively observe everything going on- my frame, everyone else's frame and so on. it's difficult to describe but you see deeply into people's programming, including your own, and you become so aware- too aware, sensory information overload and you see it's like something like hobbes would describe that life itself is a chess game or a war of everyone against everyone. it make you paranoid and wish you didn't see it. then at that point all you can do other than becoming a hermit is to turn everything off, literally not care- then that introduces more weirdness. you'll get people upset at you for minding your own business, people will think you are haughty and arrogant, they'll start to enter your frame, nudge you, elbow check you, threaten you, throw themselves at you, try and grab you, just about every possible thing that can happen. you see life itself as obviously like a cancer looking for something to tap as an energy or food source. it's like that eurythmics song sweet dreams- everyone is looking for something. some of them want to use you. some of them want to be used by you.

    • @AquanautSt1
      @AquanautSt1 6 років тому +3

      I rather to see, (TRP ) than to be blind, no matter the tax!

    • @dreamdiction
      @dreamdiction 6 років тому +2

      +K0ntakt5 Your comment makes me think you will like the one hour documentary below.
      Video Title: “The Trap 1 - Fuck you Buddy! - Adam Curtis (subtitulado español) | Documental”
      Uploader: "Concienciame²"
      /watch?v=y97Ywl7RtUw
      The whole documentary is worth your time, especially around 37 minutes where RD Laing talks about how human strategize against each other. Maybe Laing was taking the same psychedelics you were taking.

    • @antin8alist
      @antin8alist 6 років тому +1

      Dream Diction,
      Thanks a lot for the link! It's very interesting!

    • @johannsalzstreuer5006
      @johannsalzstreuer5006 6 років тому

      K0ntakt5 hahahaha, i do this my whole life, in clubs, partys, on the street. very interesting, without drugs, with it can be funny as fuck

    • @seetsamolapo5600
      @seetsamolapo5600 5 років тому +1

      This is so true. I had this experience with weed

  • @anuragroy82
    @anuragroy82 5 років тому +13

    The knowledge here is gold!

  • @GHIBaal
    @GHIBaal Рік тому +3

    Irrational selfconfidence is a virtue for most guys.
    Thats sums up the rule very good.

  • @zzzzzzzzzzz6
    @zzzzzzzzzzz6 3 роки тому +2

    It's amazing how good this is just because Rich fucking let's Tomassi talk.. so many interviewers are constantly jutting in etc. which may make conversations feel more natural but is way worse for people watching it

  • @kevinism776
    @kevinism776 6 років тому +3

    I found myself listening to the audio books first then reading the books because it's so much valuable information to take in the audio book almost serves as a class with a professor speaking. You have to hear some of this first rather than read it and try to understand it but once you do, you can go back to the book and start taking notes and antidotes. The message from those books should be for you to have a better understanding on how women work, not to hate them. Great vid by the way!!

  • @beng9411
    @beng9411 3 роки тому +2

    I have enjoyed and benefited from Rollos advise for almost 20 years so its all love, but god bless Rich for keeping him on track. Rollo knows how to talk

  • @thoughtpolyglot960
    @thoughtpolyglot960 5 років тому +30

    Man, Tomassi takes his time making a 1 sentence statement. 98% Preamble 2% Pithy Truth.

    • @doncorleone3901
      @doncorleone3901 3 роки тому +9

      Thats because most men start out thinking "nah mine's an unicorn". You need the story to see the light

  • @MarkBreton
    @MarkBreton 5 років тому +3

    I am a theologian and a pastor who works with men and women in relationships. What you said about self-deprecation is very accurate in how it breaks the relationship right off the bat. If a guy surrenders his God given strengths before he actually engages his woman and his possible future wife, she will not let him off the hook and their relationship, in a Christian marriage, will suffer for it down the road, but not far down the road. She will always filter his input through his lack of confidence or his reverse game attempt. It will be his identity to her right away if she settles for him. He will have to fight back and then there will be resentment. Getting the right frame when you are already significantly behind is nigh impossible. It is doable however and men should rise to the occasion.

  • @Smith-Machiner
    @Smith-Machiner 3 роки тому +3

    The longest relationship I ever had 12 years was when I did not give a fuck and treated her like garbage.

  • @rickybobby9840
    @rickybobby9840 3 роки тому +3

    2 years later and this is still gold

  • @DD-mf7rv
    @DD-mf7rv 6 років тому +6

    Read the book, mind blown. I recommend The Rational Male to EVERY man to read. I even bought multiple copies for friends. Love Richard and Rollo. Keep it going men!

  • @yellowquantum4240
    @yellowquantum4240 9 місяців тому +1

    The new breed of wisdom by 2 giants ...Rolo and Rich. Thank you !!!

  • @tonyangelo9109
    @tonyangelo9109 3 роки тому +3

    Notice how two grown men talk with their knowledge not emotions!!

  • @thomasf.5768
    @thomasf.5768 6 років тому +6

    TRUTH BOMBS !!! 💣
    I shall have to listen 2 more times to let everything sink in. Great concepts & facts. Thank you very much.

  • @polycass
    @polycass 5 років тому +8

    Absolutely genius briefing of that book. Many thanks, it changed my life for sure.
    I have no words, it's so powerful and life-changing.

  • @zacheriahstone5537
    @zacheriahstone5537 3 роки тому +2

    So I’m a pretty good looking guy and getting attention from females has always been easy since 18+ (now 28).
    But I still find myself struggling with starting and maintaining any lasting relationships other than hook ups.
    Just started watching the entrepreneurs in cars channel yesterday and I’ve already gotten so much insight into my what the issues are..
    glad I found this I had no idea how much I needed it. Big wake up call, thank you!

    • @UnlimitedWomen2
      @UnlimitedWomen2 Рік тому

      Women are Biologically Programmed to Leave Men.
      Therefore HookUps are the only thing that make Sense….You are doing it Correctly.

  • @rideforever
    @rideforever 5 років тому +3

    The more you are yourself, the more you have made yourself, then you don't need this stuff, it happens automatically.
    Overthinking like this means that you haven't made yourself.

  • @toddyonder9011
    @toddyonder9011 6 років тому +4

    I embraced Rollo's paradigms about a year ago and it is most masculine I have ever felt in my life.

  • @vincewhite8016
    @vincewhite8016 5 років тому +22

    Never live together! Ever, unless married.

    • @MiaogisTeas
      @MiaogisTeas 3 роки тому

      Well, I can't agree with that. I've had some really good fun going flatting with girls. It's when you are in a relationship with the girl that you should beware. It's also different culturally and legally in different countries.

  • @jayuche3860
    @jayuche3860 6 років тому +2

    Great to see Richard and Rollo linking up to discuss valuable GEMS which all men need to know irrespective to their marital status.

  • @ernstrobertalmgren9057
    @ernstrobertalmgren9057 6 років тому +25

    Ouch i broke some of these rules. But better late than never. Thanks for all this great content!

  • @rg3412
    @rg3412 10 місяців тому

    This podcast should be mandatory watching for all men AND women

  • @kanyeeast1340
    @kanyeeast1340 6 років тому +3

    The self depreciation part at the end in so many Christian marriages is SPOT on! I see it SO much.

    • @bking1021
      @bking1021 2 роки тому +1

      So true..."my better half."

  • @zzzzzzzzzzz6
    @zzzzzzzzzzz6 3 роки тому +2

    Rule 9 is freaking amazing.. I've been looking for this for years.. literally the main reason my last date blew up

  • @austntexan
    @austntexan 5 років тому +7

    This episode has so much more gravity now that Im halfway through listening to The Rational Male. Every guy should have a copy of this book. Read it, and re-read it. This stuff needs to be internalized from early on. Know your worth guys.

  • @ajayshenoy1534
    @ajayshenoy1534 5 років тому +1

    I was gonna click off this video cuz it was 1.5 hours long, but read the comments that this video is absolute gold so I actually watched it. And I must say it is absolute gold.
    I'm 18 and virgin, and I already feel like I know women more than guys who are "experienced" with women. (Hopefully it's not me being delusional and cocky)
    Thanks for your content mate. As a adolescent who wants to have a good relationship, but still wants his professional career to be his main goal, your channel is gold.

    • @superchuck3259
      @superchuck3259 5 років тому +1

      I chat with my wife about women and sex. She says that women BRAG about how many men they have slept with. Today's general woman has no shame to excessive sex partners. Come on, a woman could go out each night and hookup, it is really not difficult or work, but it plays into her ego of doing something when she is really doing nothing! Anyways, about being a Virgin. If girls ask questions on the dorm floor about sex, or how many sex parties, do not straight answer them. Do not say, oh I am a Virgin. Just joke back, say, "Ahh, I am not going to participate in any dorm floor orgies". They will pry, tell them you don't kiss and tell. If they still pry, move in for contact hold their hand etc.
      As far as being 18 and having an official Girl Friend, really? Why? You gonna marry her at 19? Some on, just go out meet gals, have fun and hook up (using protection of course). BTW, as far as sex partners go, women can easily have way more sexual partners than the average guy because only the top 20% of guys get any sex at all and the top 5% get most of the sex partners. BTW, in my opinion, if a guy has a wet dream, he is no longer a Virgin! Really only women can be Virgins as no such thing as a male hymen!