Ask An Incel Anything!
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- Опубліковано 28 сер 2024
- I can't tell you that, it's confidential. Anyways, how is your sex life?
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#incel #sexfree #foreveralone
The problems with (most of) the questions:
#1(5:20): How are you ok that a 'handful' of incels are bad people?
*[So a few tarnishing the whole. Would you be willing to apply that standard to a race? A gender? A sexuality? That's pretty bigoted.]*
#2 (6:02): Who hurt you enough to make you do this?
*[SFO answers this well: (Possible) feminist asks if ubiquitous feminist reasoning makes sense without realizing it]*
#3 (6:36): Do you hate women?
*[A legitimate question for individual incels - Also a long-avoided reciprocal to a question feminists are hesitant or afraid to answer ("Do you hate men?").]*
#4 (7:00): Any female rolemodels?
*[SFO answers this well]*
#5 (8:50): If a woman were elected President, how would you react?
*[Incel is a traditionalist - not a problem if we live in a world where we are free to believe what we want, but a problem if we don't.]*
#6 (9:41): SJW asks a loaded SJW question
*[SFO answers this well, but watch (**11:40**) when the SJW **_LITERALLY CLUTCHES HER 'PEARLS'_** when the incel's answer displeases her!]*
#7 (12:47): What is it about 'liberal' areas that lead to behavior problems?
*[She needs to answer this question: "Do you think promiscuity is better than faithfulness?" Ask her again in about 10-20 years]*
#8 (15:34): What do you think of the shooters who claim to be incels or motivated by incel culture?
*[Legitimate question and excellent answer.]*
#9 (16:41): What was the straw that broke the camel's back?
*[Legitimate question, answer, and exchange.]*
#10 (17:51): Do you feel entitled to sex and intimacy?
*[As SFO points out, both question and answer suffer from same problem of the word "entitled/deserve".]*
#11 (18:35): Tell me something about incels that the media hasn't covered.
*[She was really sweet, and I was just waiting for the incel to say, "...so you wanna help me out?" LOL]*
#12 (19:53): You don't want to be an incel? Why not?
*[SJW girl again. Seriously, just compare this girl to the one before her (#11). A WORLD of difference based on being an apparent entitled SJW]*
#13 (20:41): One thing you wish the world knew about you.
*[Solid question. Solid answer.]*
Intellectual King over here. Incels rise up.
The only thing I don't agree with is SFO's analysis of the dude's answer to female role models. I feel like he was projecting his friend's story onto this guy. Not having any significant females or female role models in your life doesn't mean that you have trouble talking to women. But that's just what I got from what SFO said.
15:34 this one is like the people that connect beastiality with furries, if one is into beastiality then likely being a furry is something they would connect themselves to, not the other way around
@@evenrik_2214 but again, this also rolls back to media portrayal. I learned of the furry community in 2003. Until 2018, I only knew of it as a sex kink, I hadn't seen nor heard anything about furries that didn't include people in animal costumes banging each other in drug-fueled orgies. Having no interest in such fetishes, I made no effort to seek out any other representation, nor to determine if that was the norm or an outlier.
Even now, knowing there's more to it than just wild anonymous sex parties, 15 years of programming still has that association ingrained in my mind. You say furry, I see a pile of raccoons yiffing on a couch.
@@giin97 yes i am in it for the yiff. Yiff is not beastiality at all
"Who hurt you?!"
Literally a meme...
Probably the most used dismissive ever. And yeah, a meme.
"who hurt you"
you did, for trying to gaslight me.
And the context doesn't really work. What do you mean "who hurt you?"
He WANTS to date women, he CAN'T. Not the other way around.
It's funny considering this is a shaming line used to mock the pain of people. They're not actually interested in finding out *who* hurt the person but the premise of the question is meant to communicate something like: "Haha you just have that opinion that I disagree with because you got hurt!"
It exposes the two-facedness of these supposed "open, understanding and tolerant" people. They will try to mock, bully, harass, marginalize, censor and intimidate unless you 100% agree with all their opinions.
"wHo HuRt YoU?"
I hate the smugness of these people asking the questions.
They're talking to someone they perceive to be in a lower class of society, they think they're better and act accordingly
The " I'm right and you're wrong" type of people. The ones you just want to slap.
@@Fuzzycat16 No need to resort to violence, just trick them into discussing a topic they know nothing about and then bury them under their own ignorance. Works wonders both in public and in their "safe spaces" too, because it diminishes their authority/status inside their own group.
If you think that's smug, you oughta see the comments of that vid. Christ, such tools.
@@Zeburaman2005 A slap isn't violent. It's to wakeup that thing they barely use .
Even before incel became a thing, men who were unsuccessful in finding relationships have been mostly pointed and laughed at, called losers, been told there is something inherently wrong with them.
I think thats a big part of why we have an incel movement in the first place. How difficult is it to acknowledge that going your whole life without any kind of physical or emotional intimacy, probably fucking sucks.
Especially considering I have known many people who get antsy when they haven't had sex for a few weeks, but present them with a man who has never experienced that, and they automatically say he not only isn't good enough but will also actively treat him like shit. What the fuck did they think was going to happen.
It's like society is a prick who's constantly kicking a dog and then acts all shocked when it snaps at them.
@Eustass D. CAPTAIN Kidd multiculturalism and it’s consequences has been a disaster for the ethnic races.
@The God Of Manga Indeed, ethnics have it the worst.
@The God Of Manga I feel so sorry for you. Seriously, it must suck
The existence of incels is similar to the existence of crime in relation to inequality and poverty.
have they tried having sex
Why is it nearly impossible for normies to show compassion for those people?
Those people? You say that as if you aren't one yourself lmao
@@rickyg.3111 Brainwashed normie spotted, thanks for proving my point
because normies are not especially intelligent or kind people.
@@rickyg.3111 Why would you rush to judgement of someone's comment on UA-cam you've never even met in life and have only read one sentence from? Says a lot more about your lack of critical thinking than anything else Ricky.
Because they're shooting themselves in the foot, refusing help, and every now and then they kill a bunch of people.
“You don’t want to be an incel?”
Ma’am I believe that’s just called regular celibacy
At least she reacts positively to his comment about brightening someone's day and then touches his hand through the curtain at the end.
I'm not gonna lie, I would probably be angry at that SJW question. If I was an incel, what the hell would other "marginalised" groups' problems have to do with me? Last time I checked, you don't oppress people with your presence.
Plus the weird faces she made were all extremely punchable.
"OMG is he saying what I think he's saying??? gawwwd so sexist! so backwards and stupid! I have to tell twitter how superior I am!"
So punchable.
I'm a woman and I was disgusted by her. Poor guy just needs a hug and a buddy to hang out with.
If she had a (feminist) Bible, she would be thumping that bitch
That "BUT" should be a meme
It probably already is.
@@woodwyrm In video form
It already is.
That was hilarious
Not only did they put an echo filter on it but they amplified it.. and then they never went on to actually let him finish his sentence in the rest of the video.
He seems like a nice dude
yeah
@Ameer I feel you on that
Honestly I thought that too until I found his channel
Incel are terrorists
@@rcingxperti5999 Fuck off with the hate, mate. You know that ain't true.
"You'd have to be completly heartless to not at least have some sympathy for them"
That is the modern left for you in a nutshell. Heartless and cruel when it does not help with gaining likes or retweets.
*Heartless and cruel towards anyone who disagrees with them
The only thing worse than pity is self-pity.
@Dylan Stewart By left wing do you mean left-leaning or do you mean *far* left? Because I'm talking more about far lefties. As in straight up just commies.
Yea, the right is filled with empathetic people, it was especially beautiful when they shoved immigrant children into cages, the only people I've seen attempt to reach out and genuinely help incels are left wing people(not just to use them for there political goals or money), it's not everyone, there are some assholes on the left, but when your alternative is sociopaths who wish to pull you further down into the incel rabbit hole so they can benefit either financially or politically off of your increasingly paranoid world view
Lord Blue Balls EX Ah yes, the children. First and foremost: they are illegal aliens that violated US Law and they knew so and still did it willingly. Second of: a lot of these kids are not crossing their border with their parents - strangers kidnap them and use them for sympathy points. I do not know about you, but as a parent I would not go on a dangerous journey and risk my daughter being raped by human traffickers unless I'd be running from genocide - which these people are not. Lastly the cage thing - just search for immigrant cage hoax on google. There is even a CNN article out there on it covering this bogus.
His face when the SJW bullshit is brought up is the way we all feel when it’s brought up to us 😂
He seemed like a normal dude. This guy was pretty wholesome.
I know it's a cliche among some internet communities, but the problem might be that we live in an overly gynocentric culture. There's all sorts of emphasis on the importance of women, but not enough on men. Every question they ask him is in reference to women and women's "progress". I think the problem is that he hasn't had enough good male role models. He hasn't had a place to belong where he's had some sort of purpose. The guy just needs a makeover and some people to encourage him.
It's only a matter of time for him. Based on what he says, it seems like he's come a long way. He seems socially well-adjusted, which is huge -- terminal incels, if they aren't the uber-political "Chads and Staceys" type, tend to be huge fucking weirdos.
He just needs to wash his hair and stand up straight!
@@theowlsarefun Yeah, washing his hair and standing up straight will get him laid.
@@toplad8113 it'll help. His personality and social skills seem to be fine. He just needs some polish.
@@TheGreenKnight500 We do live in a gynocentric society. Laws, social norms, media all pander to women by large. Most structures are made to accommodate women rather than men. Hell, even patriarchal family was structured to protect women and their children by ensuring a provider was around. Keep in mind all patriarchies held men and men first responsible for the household, they have most of the burden. Women were never subject to conscription and were never blamed for a failed household .More recently since the last school system reforms in the west, even schools accommodate girls at the expense of boys.
It's not cliche, it's true. I get it, you don't wanna associate with Red Pill or MGTOW because people hate them but most of what they say isn't wrong.
The story of Dev's roommate is crazy to me.
In Germany, most Dad's work full-time, all teachers are female and so on, so you don't talk to "real men" until you're one yourself and all your authority figures are female.
Combine that with the fact that girls go through puberty earlier and faster (plus Hypergamy if you like) so they tend to date older - sometimes significantly so - boys.
And you have a society where basically all women are hierarchically your betters. Ladies first for normal people, distant admiration for the girl thst is out of your league, respect for female bosses.
You have a completely different situation but the result is the same.
In other words: equality is supremacy. "Once made equal to the man the woman becomes his superior." Socrates
No wonder Germany is so soy
@@Sceptonic Same here in Sweden.
Oh wow, somebody actually had the balls to TALK to an incel and not just make a clickbait video? These guys are ahead of the curve. Thanks for finding this, Dev.
And they only put him behind a curtain, not in a concrete cell with a 2 way mirror.
They're not. They're trying to paint him in a bad light. Look at the MRA vs Feminist video of theirs, they're literally trying to make him look as bad as possible. I mean, read the comments in those videos, people are essentially mocking him and insulting him non-stop.
@@toplad8113 Still, it sure beats listening to Shapiro and Crowder prattle on about their own mommy issues.
Too bad everyone in the comments of the original video are bullying him and completely missed the point
@@fizzie6902 Yeah the comments on that original video are a total cacophony. So much ignorance and immediate judgement - stuff like "why would you even give him a platform".. did they even watch the video? SMH...
The comments on that video are really depressing.
Ikr they are so bitter and hateful
@@coucoman13 Why should "controlling" women ever be an option🤨? And do explain what you mean bc that just sounds egotistical and idiotic.
@@localloner2965 I never said that it should be an option, I'm saying some of the comments are bitter and very petty. I think controlling any individual is stupid
@@localloner2965 like I said i completely disagree with his ideas and I agree with you, I just think that the whole finding something to hate about him is very counter productive to getting him to change, his mind on the issue. in short I agree with people disagreeing with his ideas I just dont think that the method is effective in making change
@@localloner2965 I @'d the wrong person for this message, but here: like I disagree with his ideas, but I believe that a very petty dismissal with something as stupid as hairstyle rather than an addressing of the problems with his thoughts could lead to more incels. I don't like incels in general and I think they have a flawed world view, but these people can change given the right guidance, but very petty mockery of something that they might like about themselves like hairstyle definitely wont make them want to change their mind
if the average boy is not good enough for the average girl we have a problem.
Kids don't need to be dating.
@@KFrost-fx7dtDisagree better to educate them
@@KFrost-fx7dt
I also disagree. The best way to learn is to try
@@connormcgehee9349 learn as an older teen and young adult.
@@KFrost-fx7dtfound the kid who couldn’t get none 😂. Let me guess, you have a hard time with eye contact right?
involuntary celibacy is a misnomer. these people often lack friends in general and that's the real issue here. it often has to do with their upbringing, where they didn't manage or didn't get a chance to build a network of relationships in their 10's / early 20's, thus lack social skills.
not having sex is just the biggest and most common symptom of that, because there is also a natural urge behind getting laid.
Yeah in another video he stated that he is the child of a single mother, just to start, so lacked a male role model in the family.
But to the so called Left, sex seems to be the most important thing in the world.
The comments on the original video are horrifying. I expected maybe some opened eyes but they're just putitng words into his mouth and bully him even more. They didn't understad a sliver of his message nor of his actual convictions.
I didn't believe you at first... I've check the comments and...
Lets say that incels don't have any hope to be help...
I don't blame them, the guy said women are like children lmao he's old enough to know he should think before speaking and old enough to understand what's right and wrong
@@f1nncess671 make me a sandwich.
No kidding... yeesh.
Yeah it's a shitstorm echo chamber.
That genuine burst of laughter after saying “SOCIETY” for an answer. Dude in the video is an absolute MEME and I love him for it
18:20
How I would phrase a response to that question is: "It isn't that I am entitled to sex. It is more like, society expects everyone to be able to have sex. Everyone is entitled to it, yet not being able to achieve that goal is deemed weird and foreign. Virginity for a woman is a blessing but man a curse. This pressure collapses on most Incels because they feel like outcasts, with their reproductive ability -- which is the highest, most primitive achievement of life -- being squashed, mocked, and ridiculed."
Exactly. My POV is that sex is hailed as this super great awesome thing and that it can be had and enjoyed with no strings attached, and yet, incels cannot achieve it. This is what breeds the resentment and embitterment.
@Maui Caui ok, 1v1 me in overwatch, I'll do that
qbek#21277
This is a very good comment. It's not that people are entitled to sex, it's that everyone expects anyone to be able to have it at a somewhat consistent basis. Incels fail to do that and thus are shamed and ridiculed for it. Female virgins are _often_ girls with sufficient ability to keep their legs closed, which is why they're valued (not dissing Maui Caui), male virgins are guys who are deemed unworthy of intimacy by women surrounding them, which is why they're shamed.
Virgin shaming is predicated on the idea that a guy doesn't have enough redeeming qualities to deserve intimacy by women's standards. Slut shaming is predicated on the idea that a chick does not have sufficiently high standards. Both are based on a woman's level of control over the sex/relationship dynamic. It's based on women's judgement. God knows people love to make every issue gender-neutral, something that "goes both ways" but the truth is it doesn't really go both ways here.
Hmm
@@JoeyJ0J0 well, while I don't think a romantic partner is a human requirement, having friends goes a long way
Jubilee still is demonizing him.
jubilee is left af especially cuz they’re based in la
I just went to the comment section of that video and no one paid attention to a simple thing he said. It’s crazy. Man said one thing and everyone else just presumed his position as a typical internet incel.
Feminist: "why do you have this problem when you can hve the problem I have"
That's like saying that your depression is less relevant
The Incel is the most attractive person in that video.
And seemingly the most genuinely nice. Ironic right?
No seriously.... If I was his age I'd be effing attracted to him(but I'm 31) He seriously looks really nice.... :/ and he has a charm to him.... I don’t understand how he's an incel.
If he lost like 20 pounds he'd be set
That is what it seemed like to me aswell ... i mean the women in the video categorically have way higher sexual marked value simply cus they re women , BUT THE GUYS .. they have absolutely zero reason to be condescending cus the incel comes off as better looking 🤷♂️
Maybe I'm bias because I'm straight but I thought all the guys were pretty hot. 😝
When I got married I was 280 pounds, and now I'm 195. It took having kids to make me realise that my daughtera need a man, and daddy. Not a memory who died from a heart attack!
Good job
Some of the comments on the orginal video legitimately make me wanna give up trying on getting a relationship. This was a nice change of pace when it comes to the incel topic.
@Caleb C-W - Well put. Setting aside the ugly "incel" label, just consider good, well-adjusted , Godfearing , uncharismatic, heterosexual men who have just accepted that they will live long,happy lives, without women being involved.
Agreed, that comment section was cancerous. This one is a breath of fresh air and restores my faith in humanity. It also shows how some channels are echo chambers, and some have more open-minded thinking people.
I love how this guy's nickname is a sneaky JoJo reference and no one has noticed yet.
Also, when he talks about the circumstances of radicalisation and how to avoid it, he really makes it a kind of universal principle to apply for anyone.
KONO BRANDO-DIO-DA!!!!
Nvm, just heard him say it. Brandio. Hahahahaha
In all seriousness back in my day , god damn I feel old saying that and I’m a millennial, these type of guys were just nerds/geeks not some dangerous menace of lanky dudes with glasses as pocket protectors who unironically fedora tipped to m ladies
That was literally everything and my friends social group growing up
We had all the geeks
Comic
Games
Model sets
And all colors /creeds
Nerdiest dude I ever met was this 6ft1 black jock guy who would ALWAYS fanboy over comics with us , dudes room looked like a shrine to DC comics
SpartanTrigger in my day as a gen z kid its pretty much the same, except it was getting more accepted, I was more bullied because of my aspergers, but as my social skills got better I got better and became more respected
most of my friends as well as myself are aspies too , it’s definitely hard to fit in being young and having a hard time with some social cues
Roger Dodger ikr man , I didn’t get the shit kicked out of me and my stuff stolen as a kid for the SAME people 5-7 years later liking the shit they mocked me for since it’s a fad.
*tips fedora*
Most of my friends are geeks from every kind (from dc, to manga, to star wars, etc.), both men and women, it actually baffles me how people react so badly to it.
I mean shit I could have been considered an incel before I started dating my current gf,
Only thing is as a shorter guy I do know at least in the states it can and sometimes is a disadvantage,
But you gotta play to your strengths
Work on other aspects where you can better yourself
Generalizations really take the humanity out of a person
The thing I definitely see a lot of today especially is mocking of men if they are virgins /celebrate of their own choice
I definitely think women’s expectations of American men are waaaay to high atm in my opinion
Meanwhile, any expectations of women is “sexism.” Not all stereotypes are false though. Remember that. It’s probably better to listen to some of them.
I could relate bro. I packed on a tonne of wait in uni, played too much xbox. But hell once I got in decent shape, just wore alright clothes, and went out and talked to girls it was easy. Great thing about being short and at a disadvantage until that point I developed a decent sense of humor and am a good conversationalist, which put me ahead of most once I got in shape. I always thought as long as you make yourself presentable enough in most situations you will get a fare shake from girls. Enough of a window to get sometime in and develope relationships
congrats on the GF. Still trying here. I don't know what is considered "short" anymore honestly by a woman. I'm about 5'10" but it feels like I'm seen as short. Might have to do with my shoulders not being very broad. What do you think?
But I do think the vanity has really gotten to me and really made me feel ugly to the point of looking into some extreme measures like plastic surgery. I realized that doing so is acceptable for women so much, but never heard of men doing anything. Like the guy in the video I have been working out a lot. From the opposite end, very gangly, but put on muscle enough to actually be able to feel normal. Still working towards being truly strong. I try to be interesting, go on trips, grow my knowledge, pursue my hobbies and passions.
The problem is I don't really know how to get my foot in the door. People don't participate in their communities anymore. Clubs, groups and the like are all populated by a dying group of people in their 50s and older it seems. I love animals and helped my mom when I was younger with a community that helped feed pets of poor and homeless people. Everyone was around 60 years old and there was one guy in his 40s. So that is a noble cause, but not a way to meet people people. I don't go to bars because of alcoholism. I've managed to interact with some people here and there, but never gotten a reply. Online dating has yielded a response rate of maybe %10-20, and of that I only ever got one person to meet in person for low key coffee date, my first ever mind you. Sadly she never talked to me again. But you know I do think that the big issue in large part is just getting my foot in the door. Without being really really attractive, it is hard to get to that point where someone is willing to sit down and get to know you. And this is the thing, I KNOW women feel just as isolated in this culture as I do or anyone else. So I wonder why so often when people try to make real human connections, everyone just ignores it and then turns around and wishes they had a "real" relationship, and connection with the people around them. This is an everyone thing though.
I guess in the end, it is that the stereotype is that people who want a relationship and can't find one, aren't trying, are just bitter and angry and this guy bucks that trend. I would HOPE people would say the same of me. But it gets exhausting and depressing. No one is an iron tower of will power, and when you don't have the self-confidence in the first place, putting on that attitude can wear you out pretty fast.
@@differentlyabledmuslimjewi4475 Enjoy your life. Get involved in hobbies, myself - hunting, fishing, weight lifting, hiking - having a good group of male friends will get you out the house more and a foundation for support. Accomplishing things and learning will give you confidence. People want a partner that will enrich their lives, enjoying yours will attract women. Be patient, speaking from personal experience only thing worse than no women are bad ones.
What's the matter? You don't like women's expectations of having a boyfriend that is more educated and makes more money despite the fact that young women out perform in both areas?
Why is the "incel" the only reasonable person in this vid...?
It really says alot about society, if you ask me...
The lad is being reasonable, and has thought way more about the world then the people asking the questions...
We really do live in the age of ignorance. XD
How the fuck is the incel that belives men should controle women reasonable? can you please explain.
He's a major traditionalist-coper. The dumbest cope of all.
@@MrCmon113 Traditions that have held aloft the entirety of the human species since before the carbon in your body even made it out of the ground isn't a form of "cope". And calling them as such is disrespecting your ancestors, whom you share DNA with, that lived, learned and suffered more than you will ever even know.
Social media has made us dumber.
There are some other reasonable people, like the girl who comes around and touches his hand through the curtain at the end. Show's that she is open minded and open to changing her beliefs. Don't paint people in black and white like the SWJs do, or you are just as bad as them.
9:45 LOL, you can visibly see it in his face. "Oh Jesus Christ, one of these people. I'm about to sit through the checklist." And honestly the question itself is kind of narcissistic. You movement/ideology doesn't fit with in our framework. Why are you doing this if it won't benefit "us"?
"You don't want to be an incel?"
"...uh, no!?!?!? I mean it's kind of in the name. I don't want to be this!?"
That was pretty funny.
After all that, he really isn't bad. What he needs is a bro. That one guy friend who has his back, who's almost like a brother to him to show him the way.
Hi
W-Wait... People can hold a civil discussion? In 2019?
THE END TIMES ARE UPON US! REPENT! REPENT!
I hear the angels sounding thier trumpets and the 4 horsemen riding through the night
*ASMODAI!*
As someone who could be called an incel, though not in the political sense, I really do relate with this guy a lot and I'm glad to see him actually inform people about how not all incels are mass murderers lying in wait with the hacker 4chan. Disagree with him on social stuff but otherwise, Derrick seems like a nice guy.
I T - This man speaks for A LOT of guys out there.No one notices them ( they do not socialize ), and in work environments, they probably just blend in. Keep in mind that the wonderful "non-celibates" (?) have a wonderful 50% divorce rate.
“What’s it like to be the cause, AND ROOT OF, all of society’s troubles?”
🤔
NO STEP ON SNEK!🐍
Sure, if you have the GPU good enough to use max settings then do it. If you don't it's not worth it for the shitty framerate by comparison to the minimal visual gain.
"did he get a date from this?"
well, little asian girl did seem pleasingly appreciative, he'd have a shot
I don't think she was as much appreciative as she was surprised that he said incels needed common sympathy.
Mate, that was clearly a fake sympathy, or more like, she pities him.
That is the worst possible start. You cannot show weakness to a women.
@@janchovanec8624 you cannot show weakness sure, but weakness is not always what you think. This kid is being strong as f*ck by sharing his personal weaknesses, and I'm not saying she's conscious of it, but there was definitely a part of her that liked it without understanding why. You see it in her laughter, which is not of pity, it rather seems she felt surprised at her own wrong assumptions. The reason she laughed when he said "i do love my mom" was not from pity.
Both women are uggos.
@@mapsofbeing5937 *but there was definitely a part of her that liked it without understanding why
You're reaching bad.
Also, for the chick who laughed at him saying he loves his mom: why would she LAUGH at a dude saying he loves his mom ? There is literally nothing funny about it. The implication is that it's funny that your female role model is the only female in your life, meaning you don't really have any female models. It is not a laughter from pity, she's still mocking him though.
Also, sharing personal weaknesses isn't akin to strength. It's a typical mating strategy taught to boys. A very inefficient one.
So it turns out, incels are just normal dudes who feel lost and unwanted. Shocker.
Yes, they ALL ARE.
normal is the new ugly
brendioEEE the incel in the video knew this and got fat bc why bother when u look like shit when ur skinny
I have better answers to some of these questions.
To the SJW woman- This is not about you.
To the question about "deserving" a relationship- I'd ask "Do you think I deserve to be never have a relationship?"
Another way to answer that would be to ask why abusive criminals to be in a relationship.
That SJW would probably ask cancer patients in what way their disease serves feminism.
I even got a refund on Steam once because I bought the item then it went on sale - it was actually even one of the reasons in the drop-down box for refunding! Steam are very reasonable with refunds. Some people claim it hurts indie devs with titles that can be finished in less than 2 hours though.
The comment section on that video os disgusting.
I mean... What do you expect from a mainstream normie channel... Those people are disgusting.
The worst comments even get thousands of likes.
@@toplad8113 bro, i hate all these low iq normies so much its unreal. i wish hell on earth for them. i would say covid is a good start lmao
"How do you help a incel?"
Me: Start by treating others the same way you wish that you were treated in return.
If a person makes nasty comments about my hobbies during a date, gives me the easy reason to say NO to a relationship with that person.
It pisses me off that they go into the interview in bad faith, already expecting him to be a piece of shit, and their questions and attitude reflect that. Him being super cool ended up making them look like the shitty ones which, while obvious and accurate, is the opposite of what they expected.
This is an old video, but it's interesting that the one lady said "oh some mass shooters identified as incels." I'm curious how they feel now about the multiple trans shooters.
I’d love to sit down with this dude and just chill ya know? He seems like a cool dude to share some beers with and watch the world go by. Mad respect, king!
Sitting on top of a hill Smoking something or not whatever u like and watch the world go by
I feel bad for this boy, he seemed pretty genuine and nice and he seemed to be used to be the butt of a cruel joke of a video.
Edit: With a good group of male friends and role models, he seems like he could really turn things around. He just needs to be built up and to learn his strengths.
3:40 "if you're an ugly guy you have to work to get ahead" or just to get head
bazinga
14:45 She basically asks if having standards will lead to happier relationships... ya, duh of course it will.
I don't think it's the same question. She's talking about reducing the promiscuity which isn't about standards. The guy probably thinks the standards are already high. Even if women were to become more monogamous, would they choose some incels?
@@3Demon100
"She's talking about reducing the promiscuity which isn't about standards."
Having sex at every opportunity definitely will warp your view on selecting a partner and your own image of yourself. In fact, the more women have sex with various partners, the less they bond with each consecutive man, even after the first.
That really depends. If you're thinking of the stereotypical ugly dude and all that comes with it, probably not. But there are plenty of decent guys (looks, career, etc) that are passed over because women are used to getting "better" from one-night stands. It inflates their ego, they complain about "where have the good men gone?", then get cats in their 40's. Or they partied for their entire youth and only *now* (30's+) want to settle down after they've rejected any decent guys looking for a relationship (and might be divorced and/or with kids).
@@3Demon100 a few reasons actually.
For one if it's monogamous as a normal standard (which is what the dude was pushing) you have both options and competitions leaving the market.
For another, virtues of an individual matter. If your only with one person then how they look is only one factor, you couldn't say, hedonistically have a person for their wealth, another for attraction, etc. In a more free and casual setting, being attractive doesn't even matter, as why limit your options? You can fuck 4 or 5 people for the same reason. Hell a person being perfect doesn't even matter, because you could have them and 12 others if this is nothing immoral.
And lastly to not be a scumbag. Having free and liberal sex has you view people more like a resource or service than an actual human being. I've done it, I used to buy into this garbage that it's ok to fuck a ton of people at once with zero commitment or interest in them if you made your intentions clear. Eventually I was looking at the chicks like toys in a toy box and thinking which I should throw out, dismissing them pretty much as soon as I was bored with them, and acted more like a selfish bastard. And I recognized that was the common behavior of the people I was around. Morally, you have no incentives to value people around you like this and because of that I just couldn't stomach my own distain for myself and those I was surrounded by. It's simply an exercise of greed and ego, and it makes you a shallow human being to place sex as this important over actually building a relationship with someone.
Hell that's why I prefer monogamy myself, and I find it funny that it's the same conclusion someone with no experience makes as well. It's just a super strong truth.
Men and women that sleep around but say that they're still capable of love and valuing their partners are like domestic partners that say they beat their spouse for their benefit. Kinda like how 1000 friends vs 10 will have weaker bonds and hold less value.
Shut this man down! He's making incels seem human!
@Maui Caui - MANY people feel that way . . . .
I used to be sad about not having a girlfriend. Then I got a girlfriend who made me sad in general (and kinda fearing for my life). Now, just like some weird hero's journey thing, I can appreciate that being alone doesn't mean you have to be lonely. I'm now very ambivalent toward sexual relationships (I may be biased here, but sex is waaaaay overhyped), on the other hand I consider close friendships to be something very much worth cultivating.
They didn't get to see each other, because when you actually realise the "incels" are human beings, it becomes a lot harder to shout feminist doctrine and marxist theory at them, asserting they don't matter, when you can see their lived pain etched on their faces. Had there not been a divider, at least half of that crowd of question askers would have either not appeared, or been a lot more charitable in their questioning.
Edit: To clarify, only one or two of the people were like that, and the other question askers seemed delightfully intrigued and genuine. I probably shouldn't post a comment half way through the video, oops
Good insight to make the edit and yeah, way too many people pre-emptively comment. Like that girl clearly changed her mind by the end as she touched his hand through the curtain when saying goodbye, literally displaying intimacy to him.
This was awesome. We need more humanizing moments like this.
Too bad the comments on the original video are full of people bullying him and rushing to judgement - it's a shitstorm. Reading this comments section is much more refreshing and has restored my faith in humanity.
Chads do get the girls. Change my mind.
Money gets the girls in the absence od Chad-dom.
Mind changed?
I think the reason many incels use the word “deserve” in regards to relationships is that throughout all of human history the vast majority of people in societies have had relationships and families. The incels then look around seeing this and wonder why they aren’t getting that as well.
Disney and basically every movie is about how everyone "deserves" love.
@@DoubleO88 That too.
Everybody thinks they "deserve" it but it only becomes a problem when you cannot get it (and think you deserve it just like everybody else). This never happens to women, so they don't understand it. All of us are as 'entitled' as these incels but we eventually 'get' it so it doesn't bother us.
He looks like NFKRZ lost brother.
I'm both an Incel and political Incel, I used to be 115 lb's and played four sports, never had a girlfriend. I don't think the solution is simply cutting his hair and losing a few pounds.
Well changing your mindset and accept that looks arent everything might help.
@@jikman681 What a load of nonsense. The main factor for mating opportunities is looks. Confident behavior is very often a byproduct to good looks. Yeah sure you can work on making yourself a jester and be her emotional tampon but it isn't attractive. Looks attract and arouse. Being funny and witty don't. We're animals, we're not hardwired to turn horny and sexual because the partner is funny. If there is no genuine desire, there is no potential love and thus no relationship.
Anyway, 115lbs essentially mean that the guy used to be a stick figure. Being slim doesn't mean looking good or being fit anyway.
@@toplad8113 At the same time, it doesn't mean that you have to be the most attractive person (perfect proportions, genetics, etc) in the world to get someone. Yes, looks are important, but if you give off a good presence with stuff, such as your personality and/or your social skills, that will definitely be a big benefit.
Basically, paying full attention to your looks will make you overlook positive qualities about yourself, and then you will lose those positive qualities as you become more self-deprecating and depressed. I used to be that way, but after changing my mindset, which is not easy and took me months to overcome, I choose to give people the benefit of the doubt, and just try to think positively and not beat myself down. And the thing is, I still struggle with self-deprecation. I have moments where I slip into that depression hole again, and that's okay, as long as you get back up. That's what matters the most. Life will constantly throw shit at you, and life is all about fighting through those struggles, and they will never stop. And frankly, I prefer the constant fight rather than giving up permanently.
Then again, I still pay attention to my looks, however primarily for health reasons, with the romance and presentation reasons being secondary. Acne is so bothersome for me and it feels disgusting, so I'm in the process of getting rid of that. My current diet is inconsistent, specifically I eat a massive meal and then fast for the rest of the day, so not only does that affect my weight negatively, but it also gives me gastrointestinal issues. Inconsistent sleep due to my off circadian rhythm not only give me eyebags, but also decrease my productivity, especially with my art. I am trying to change my lifestyle in order to better my health, and changing my appearance comes as a bonus.
Not everything in life is about getting laid with a dame, there are almost ten billion people on this tiny ass planet with a diversity of different and also intersecting beliefs, and patience is a damn good virtue. This stupid idea that you have to marry and copulate with someone and have kids as soon as possible and shit is such an outdated belief that the radicals push onto young and/or impressionable people. Marriage is expensive and kids are expensive, but that goes into a whole other can of worms about the government and economy and shit. Also some people are given out shitty hands and others were given better hands from the card deck. However, people can't be grouped into a tier-list from best qualities to worse qualities, because we all have intersecting qualities. Not only that, but qualities can change, and you can push through them. But some people are given some really bad hands, such as a psychological or mental illness like depression (myself), or life-threatening autoimmune diseases such as cancer. But even in that state, it's always better to put up a good fight rather than committing suicide, taking vengeance on others, or just letting the disease take over you with no effort. When I see someone is a worse disposition than me who never gives up and doesn't resort to being petty to others or not trying at all, I look up to them. I think, if they can be strong, I can, too. Rather than saying something like, "oh well I'm not them no I can never do that".
I've rambled on for too long, again. But the whole point of this was that always assume life will never be easy, but never give up.
I like the long hair.
I wouldnt doubt this guy being the main antagonist in Life is Strange 3
Wow, it's almost like they're not at all as bad as they're made out to be. Really makes you think, doesn't it?
T P F o C - Hey, that "incel" label is UGLY ! May not fit guys that just do not "fit in " as they may be expected to do.
Short Fat Otaku? More like Slowpoke Otaku :P
still great vid though
Marcos
I’ve been waiting for Dev to talk about this...
Been awhile coming.
I'm not going to lie. For a fat, Canadian, atheist, weeb, Dev has been making some amazingly insightful content lately.
I was talking to a kid at work. His buddy, we worked with liked this girl a lot. Within a few weeks, she was messing around with some other guy. He had been moving slowly with her, wanting a real relationship. Anyways, as we talked about it, I told him it killed me, in my day a girl that was looking for a special relationship that would last a life time had been the rule, now it seemed to be the exception. He agreed, its true. Said he wished it was not that way. I gave him a few tips, where he could find girls like that. He shrugged, nah... That doesn't work anymore, those times are gone, besides I get plenty of what I need. It is really sad... I seen someone point out, he could not relate to a person being passionately devoted to another person. We are robbing this generation of soo much.
Thanks for making this... The dude gets tons of crap in the comments by normie crowd...
But he is actually right and based.
Mental Health is an identity now? I can choose my mental health? Like I can choose away my gender dysphoria? Amazing!
It wasn't a civilised discussion, all of them were clearly hostile and possessed.
You see asking questions requires one to listen and attempt to understand the answer. Not a single one of them did so.
They clearly portrayed him as a some evil monster in their minds and refused to acknowledge issues he brought up.
The young guy is rather brave and clearly smart, however he would benefit from being more assertive / aggressive (not violent, or rude).
I disagree, I think he handled it in the best possible way. You can see that as he clearly changed at least two peoples' minds by the end, indicated by the girl touching his hand through the curtain and the alpha-aggressive guy saying that it went much better than he thought it would, he thought that they would be yelling. If he had acted as you suggested, they probably would have been yelling and he would have left a much more negative impression. There is nothing wrong with being laid back in your responses as long as you convey what you are trying to convey. No one spoke while he was spoking, that's the only instance in which one needs to be assertive and say "please let me respond" in a calm and controlled manner, not a loud and dismissive manner.
This dude seems really chill. I’d be friends with him
The incel they brought in for this video seems like a decent guy from what was shown.
I would give him a chance: even if it didn't work out. Ether way it would lead to rather interesting conversations that would allow for personal growth.
Hi im an incel, wanna date?
@Ramiz Ali shut up Abdul.
9:41 "I know you think you have it bad, but these people are having a worse time. What can you do to fix it? Help us! Even though we refuse to help or even sympathize with you to begin with."
13:00 In my country "Liberalism" basically means "far-right". Labels like "right-wing" and "left-wing" are useless.
yeah, right and left are used to discredit whoever is in front of you.
Most people are fairly selective regarding which form of liberalism or traditionalism they want to embrace. Nobody is liberal or tradcon in an absolute way.
@Midas Not only that, but the left/right-dichotomy of American politics gets exported everywhere along with Coca Cola and McDonald's; even though it rarely fits into the political system or historic evolution of political parties.
European right and left are completely different from their American counterparts.
That old fox news report of 4chan was hilarious, and so were the memes that came from it
the "Members of I.N.C.E.L. one" ?
@@hinether no the one where the internet hate machine does stuff for the "lulz" a nefarious version of "lol" they got a dog and some blinds, anons only weaknesses
I N T E R N E T
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@@ShortFatOtaku Exploding van, curtains and a dog, over 9000 passwords on blank pages. Yeah, good times.
>Gal in 'The Mountain Ghoats' shirt first words are 'Who hurt you?'
in a condescending tone
Me: "Why am I not surprised..."
"who hurt you?"
you did, by trying to gas light me for talking about something that i consider to be a serious problem.
@@mistahsusan2650 I'll even play devil's advocate here, and say she was 100% genuine and serious - It's an inappropriate question for someone you JUST met.
Those people are pretty funny, in a pathetic way, because they always seem to ask questions the answers to which they aren't remotely mentally ready for. The more far away from their expectations said answers are, the more confused they get.
This was surprisingly wholesome, I've got to say. Purely by accident, of course, but wholesome nonetheless. Especially where it ends-off.
How so?
Pretty impressed with how he answered their questions. Despite the loaded questions, he did a good job of defending his beliefs. The people who asked the questions seemed even more surprised than I was.
14:49
It might not fix society, but it would certainly help alleviate the incel problem.
Fewer partners, and top tier partners quickly being exhausted from the dating pool would encourage women (and men) to lower their standards and give an incel a chance to couple.
*(and men)*
I doubt men could lower their standards any further, they barely have any to begin with. Men who are selective are the "top tier", because they have sufficient mating opportunities from the get go. The vast majority of men have standards relative to their perceived worth, which is either not much (incels0, or just enough (average Joes).
Imo, if society and laws don't incentivize promiscuity, it would help a little without necessarily fixing the issue. After all, if women didn't benefit so much from divorce (alimony+child support), if they didn't have access to single mother welfare and if men had some reproductive rights, I fully believe there would be less single mothers and overall less divorces.
Companionship doesn't survive thanks to love (and love is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed), it survives thanks to compromises. Society and laws don't really encourage women to make compromises.
I don't think it would alleviate the incel problem though. Incels are young boys who were raised fearful of girls, bathed in "respect women" instead of respecting themselves. They lack self-esteem as a result. Their embitterment and resentment is due to a lack of empathy. The way society (so men and women alike) perceives men's issues needs to change. Also, in schools, boys are raised in a similar way to girls. It's a neutral schooling system that kinda benefits typically-female behavior. It doesn't really fit typical male behavior who tend to have an issue with attention, are more erratic and are less submissive than girls.
The introduction of girls to schools came with major reforms which changed the schooling system as a whole. Maybe boys need a "reintroduction" to schools with some reforms too.
@@A_Caat That attitude won't win any wars.
yup, its about the sexual revolution at the core. If there were still a culture of sex only in committed relationships, even with all the other stuff like women working etc. the bar would be so much lower, compassion would be higher and cynicism would be much lower. Well, that and if the communism aspect was rooted out.
@Differently Abled Muslim Jewish Lesbian of Colour
"Committed relationships"
I think you mean "marriage."
People back then who had sex outside of marriage were ostracized, and rightly so.
That's basically JBP's "enforced monogamy".
Why should people lower their standards to make someone feel better
Your proposal sounds like communism pretty much.
Let's take away everyone's freedom and success, because some people lose.
@@keodiozubu8670 because 'standards' are volatile, they change according to the society you live in ...... not to mention they don't lead to happiness long term. If I somehow got supermodels throwing themselves at me, I'd have higher standards too and think girls who are as good as me are beneath me.... although I'm average looking.
Plus standards if unchecked make everyone unhappy (both men and women) in the end. In the above hypothetical example, if I later realize those supermodels were f*cking with just for fun (or somebody paid them to do so), I'll be heartbroken, the girls I rejected would be heartbroken and even if I got back with the girls I rejected that relationship will be full of resentment from both sides.
That lad is an absolute unit. Good shit.
+10 Charisma
yeah this dude seems pretty cool, like his fashion sense isn't that bad, and he seems pretty confident while talking, certainly more than me, honestly makes me wonder what the major issue is that is preventing him from finding someone. (maybe the hair?)
He fat, he no Chad.
his face and body
Dude was in a video titled Mens rights vs Feminism. you might wanna look that up.
Found it, watched it. Thanks for the tip! ua-cam.com/video/hOUGNGWmN0k/v-deo.html
I’m rooting for this kid. Get a haircut, hit the gym, read the Bible, throw away internet ideologies and learn to love yourself by working on yourself.
Boom! problem solved.
"He that is wounded in the stones, or hath his privy member cut off, shall not enter into the congregation of the Lord."(Deuteronomy 23:1)
@@nata5212 he's not trans bro what?
He was raised by single female. He can change for sure. Still alive she did good
As somebody who used to look like him depression has a lot to do with it, in fact since I have lost weight I'm yet to find somebody (last time I got laid I was rather drunk) but it does feel like more girls are looking and I'm sure the girl with dyed blonde hair was at least curious. A lot of it is due to awkwardness and that men are expected to approach women but in HS I was approached and just went with it so never got used to taking the lead. He can definitely get laid but the situation is intimidating in this current climate.
Angantyr
You're never going to have a fulfilling relationship if your only goal is sex.
@@combativeThinker who said it's his only goal? It may be one of his goals. How do you know?
Derrick is the type of guy I would hangout with. Hope things go his way someday
Its almost like a group that based on the opposition to something (or on lacking something) is not an actual group that can be generalised in things that they do have in common, because any commonalities are incidental.
Thing is, the guy (yellow Jacket) actually has some charisma and social intelligence. His problem is he's nervous and a little withdrawn, otherwise he'd be a hyper charismatic "chad".
Social anxiety is a bitch and three quarters. Trust me I know.
Brave dude. Brave that he labeled himself publicly like that.
Won't lie, he seems like the type of guy i'd like to sit down and have a beer with. He went there to clean up the name of incels and to some degree, he kinda did tbh. Good on him, hopefully he'll find his way in life too.
We all know the first guy's frown, tight lips and leading questions meant we was very open to seeing a new perspective.
Yeah, view distance and texture resolution are something that generally make a bigger difference.
Honestly the “incel” is the only normal person in this video.
Okay, sure. Just like you say “no one deserves to have a girlfriend,” I would even stretch that to include finance, “no one deserves to be paid well,” I think that is equally as audacious as the former. Both are ridiculous, both have a perspective that is clearly skewed on one sex or the other.
To persecute a man for being celibate is more about one’s own insecurities.
9:41 so she is asking what can the incel community do to help feminism or racial minorities right? I don't know man, what can feminism do to help incels? There is no political angle to this. Whether you're black or white, male or female you can be an incel, is not something that affects white men only and no I don't think becoming a feminist is the answer to incels problems because feminism doesn't care about their problems, just there she implied that his struggles have no validity just because he's a white dude.
Unironically seems like a good guy
Damn, now I feel like an incel myself. "Involuntary celibates" describes me perfectly well, but I hadn't heard of the term "incel" before today.
I am an autist in addition to having depression and social phobia (they often come along with autism). I have fear/problems to talk to strangers, especially females, to connect to people in general, to make smalltalk, to keep conversations going, to make friends, etc.
I was always the odd man out and the years-long mobbing victim. Luckily only the "cool" males bullied me, not everyone, especially not the females. (So no hate for females.)
At the moment I have 0 friends, never had a girlfriend and haven't lost my first kiss yet either. Time runs, I am nearly 30 now, and it doesn't seem like my social life is changing anytime soon... even though I search for a girlfriend for around 10 years now. Without any success.
The chance to get the first girlfriend as a teenager, to go to parties, collecting experience, is missed and won't come back. Females don't crave the losers with 0 experience. It's a vicious circle you can't escape from... you have 0 experience, so you don't find a girlfriend to gain experience, so you stay with 0 experience and forever alone...
I even have a psychologist, but only around 20 minute sessions every 2-3 weeks don't give me any chance to open up. And she doesn't really give me the feeling that she wants to help me either. She doesn't ask anything important, only smalltalk, and she doesn't try to analyse my psyche for that matter. She simply doesn't help me at all...
Prostitutes could theoretically solve to not be celibate, but that is a horrible idea. Getting that intimate with a stranger makes me uncomfortable, prostitutes often aren't doing it voluntary, there is no love, you have to always use a condom, just a short amount of time and it costs a lot of money.
I would love to have a girlfriend/wife that I know for a long amount of time, does it voluntary, loves me, is STD free so that a condom would be optional, has all the time in the world and costs no money.
I also love my mother... but she isn't exactly a role model, be it as a mother or as a wife.
As a wife: She cheating on my dad, she confessed to me that she isn't even sure if my dad is my real dad, then cheated on my dad again, even catched a STD, and then they divorced on very unfriendly terms and with hatred for each other (my father more hatred towards her, understandably).
As a mother: She never recognized or stopped the years-long bullying when I was a child... she had to raise us (me and my sister) alone, so we never had any money... she worked a lot, while raising us alone, so she was never really there for us, in addition to little money... she slept with a lot of different men and we had to hear it through the thin walls all the time when we were little... she only saw and recognized my depression and autism through coincidence when I was 22 years old, a bit too late... she hasn't really teached me anything to find a girlfriend. In her defense, I was her first kid and she was young when she had me, I guess she tried her best, even though it wasn't exactly a good job she did.
Some scientists say that sex is a basic human need and that prolonged times without it (or without any physical contact for that matter) could cause depression. Furthermore it shortens the lifespan / life expectation not to engage in it...
So yeah.... I feel to some extend that we all should be entitled to get sex. To some extend it seems vital to life itself. But that entitlement doesn't carry over to a specific person. I don't think woman A or woman B particularly own me any sex... I just think that of all the 3 billion women out there, there should be a woman, any woman, who should become my girlfriend/wife so that I don't have to die lonely :(
I would be there for her too, so it's not like I am particularly selfish. Depending on the woman I may worship her.
My 2 1/2 years younger sister had a bunch of boyfriends when she was a teenager and is married now.
Even ugly people, long-time unemployed alcoholics, criminals or physically disabled people are able to find a partner!
It feels like everyone can find a partner easily!
But I am unable to! It's really frustrating and excruciating :x
(But I don't feel like hurting strangers would change anything either. Ending my own suffering sounds sometimes like a good idea though... but the uncertainty of death stops me.)
Sometimes I wish the system of arranged marriages weren't demolished, that they still were a thing. At least then I wouldn't be lonely...
I feel ya on that, lad, but the best way to solve this is to leave behind marriage and dating for now. There's a lot of things ahead of you even at your age, go out and improve yourself, mate. But don't do it for women, do it for yourself.
You should check out bulldog mindset. He talks about dating, mental toughness, wealth building and a bunch of other stuff, catered specifically to men. He's pretty good to say the least.
And arranged marriages will not work in the modern era. Most women nowadays are independent and don't have to depend on men for survival, unlike when arranged marriages were common. This means they would rather be alone than be with some one they are not attracted to. How do I know this? Well, I live in India where arranged marriage is still kinda the norm. The women here will reject men without hesitation if they don't find them attractive which is completely different from what things used to be just 20 years ago.
@@omarabe26 Yeah, but easier said than done. I want to bring my body into shape, practice my keyboard/piano skills, properly learn programming and go outside. And theoretically I know that I can't force a relationship, that I should be happy to be Single and simply wait for it.
But in my free time I can't move my body out of my bed, the depression is all consuming. If it would be simply laziness, or a lack of willpower, then we could simply remove depression from the list of mental illnesses / disorders...
@@saisameer8771 I may look at it. But I don't plan to pay money for it if it is one of THOSE guys.
Yeah, arranged marriages would need to be arranged by either the parents of both parties, or the government. And then the man and the woman would have to agree to marry each other. As long as a single side is against it, it failed. Today isn't what it used to be. But to be fair, in the time past it may have been more often than not been forced marriage in comparison to arranged marriage...
But in my eyes marriage isn't about dependance, but about having a partner and family. I don't think every female would be against it. Especially if the parents try to find a good match for their child...
@@MasterJohnny007 You don't need to pay anything if you don't want to. You can just watch the videos.They are really good.
And marriage, atleast to some degree used to be about dependency. Nowadays things are much easier on average so people are less likely to marry and have higher standards, especially women. I don't think women in general are against marriage. It's just that they want to marry some one they like. Not someone their parents or the government decided for them.
As a former 'incel' (the term didn't exist in the 1990s), it's something most guys grow out of eventually.
My only advice to current male incels is to commit fully to your daily self-improvement: physical, intellectual.
Call it cope, but, at 45, I'm incredibly grateful for my life today.
Going to college doesn't work anymore. Apps ruined it. Host is maxbluepilled.
this is my first time watching this video cos its looks cringey af and its true. kid grew up in twitter and started to have an existential crisis. people shouldnt be taking this seriously than they have
Dev, are we the baddies?
What are you talking about. You seem to have this idea that the incels blame the world for their problems and that they won't/don't take accountability. In most of the incel forums/comments I've read, they fully understand that they're not the "good men." Whether it be they're ugly, out of shape, socially awkward, poor, etc., they acknowledge their flaws and bemoan them. You don't give them that credit.
The real issue is: should they improve themselves and rectify their situation in life? Yes, probably. Do they? Usually not. They'd often rather complain and just "accept" that Chad can get more girls than them.
To be fair, though, no matter what 99% of the incels do to improve their situation, they will still be worse off than Chad. That's where a lot of them get bogged down. They see the apparent futility in their efforts and get upset that they aren't at the top of the social/sexual ladder.
But the incels do acknowledge and recognize their own flaws.
Also, I went from being an incel to getting girls semi-regularly by learning how to be funny and developing charisma.
However, when I watch vids of jacked male models going on Tinder, for example, and doing the most outrageous, weird, sexist, etc. shit, and still getting tons of girls instantly wanting to bang them, it makes me upset.
That said, I do acknowledge that some guys are just at the top of the sexual/social ladder. People are at the top of the socioeconomic ladder, and that doesn't bother me. I know I'm not a billionaire--not even close--but that doesn't make me upset.
I think it's important to recognize extremely attractive guys in the same way. They're just at the top in terms of the dating world, and there's nothing inherently wrong with it.
I still improved my situation and can enjoy the company of girls I couldn't even dream of when I was an incel.
-edit: sorry this is a super exhausted me rant, please take it with a grain of salt.
That guy is a certified q.t. 3.14. Hope he finds happiness, genuinely.
Seriously, this guy has a lot of balls to go on air to a crowd of SJW and identify as incel, face uncovered, and just kite all their dumb questions calmly.
Definitely the chad of incels.
I was really thinking about this the other day. I think incels are stuck in a state of teen hood were they are struggling to make that transition to adulthood. maybe it’s through trauma. It’s so sad because there is so much potential in every young man out there. They get so fixated on the fact they don’t have a body like “chads” when most people who they consider “chads” had to work their ass off for a physique like that. They should see it as motivation to be greater. Not to put other men down because of their own insecurities.
I find it, incredible that this 'incel' is more outspoken and confident then the men who were there interviewing him.
He's not even an incel, he had a girlfriend before
@@father042 Having had a GF in the past doesn't mean you can't be an incel now. Incel literally means you want to get laid but can't.
He was not confident, his body language alone showed how uncomfortable he was the whole time uncertain of how to answer, watch it again and see how the guy reacts to the questions he is asked
I knew Dev was an incel!
Is that why he flexes on me?
when that incel dude was sweating in a convo.....i felt that
I seriously thought your recommended videos were mine. AVGN (YT loves to recommend the shit of his vids!), Linus, Akkad Daily, SPOONY. The only thing missing is It'sAGundam and Timcast, lol. SFO has good taste indeed.
This guy gives me the impression he has a mother that did not want her baby to grow up. She is the source of his mental outlook.
All the Incel’s I know have one thing in common; all these men were raised by single mothers.
Single mothers are bitter towards men and they dump anger they have towards men on their sons.
The subconscious is destroyed in these sons. Their subconscious feels hopelessness. When they try to meet women, before the conversation starts, they have already rejected themselves.
Some of these men have panic attacks every time they tried to talk to a female. Some men even turn gay because any companionship is better than no companionship.
These men are not weak, they are brainwashed. The worse thing to ever happen to a man is to be raised by a single mother.
Also, dominating mothers also push their sons towards becoming an incel or gay.
That being said, in my adult life I have met women who think they can do anything to their child and their child is required to love them. Beat, torture, maim, etc... the child is require by law to love the mother.
To fix this, woman need to think about whom they want to procreate with before crapping out babies.
If people cannot think like an adult, then they should not be having children.