Hey Michelle, great insights! You mentioned @20:11 about people, namely thinking types, that can be "Highly Sensitive" and mistype. Can you share some thoughts on what a thinking type would like that is a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)? Thanks!
@@JoyceMeng22 and Michelle thank you, thank you and thank you 😊🙏! This was absolutely perfection. Especially the whole new mobile world and what ACTUALLY happens when we see and interact with people. I'm Fe dom but I'm totally immersed with the actual conversation and my surroundings and my color coded wardrobe 😉💝. Keep up the fantastic work and you are such gifts for all of us 😘😘.
Def the biggest mistyped letter is N/S. Which is huge letdown for intuitives searching for other intuitives, because you create an expectation that is unfulfilled, just be honest with yourself people! -ENFJ
tbh it depends. Just because you come to know that someone is intuitive does not mean that there is anything common between you people. In my opinion, if you find a sensor who shares same interests as you, you'll be satisfied enough.
re: 9:30 "How many people are actually going to say 'I have no imagination'?!" I am related to people who say this unironically. They consider it a point of pride, because to them, imagination is the gateway to heresy. *gasp*
I say this because I'm related to very artistic people and don't have an artistic bone in my body. However I did still think I was N because I wasn't street smart.
I'm an ISTJ who has been mistyped many times on online tests. Most tests score me in the INxx quadrant and INFJ is a type I frequently test as like so many people. After being confirmed as ISTJ from Objective Personality and again from Meghan LeVota, I've come to understand that type better and realized, that what I'm primarily doing and thinking most of the time is Si, supported with Te. According to your mistyping patterns, my common mistypes should be ESTJ, INTJ, ISFJ and ISTP. I have considered INTJ and sometimes test as one, but I've never seriously considered ESTJ or ISTP. Meghan LeVota said my second most likely type would be ESTJ and in Objective Personality, I was typed as MF SiTe BP/S(C). So this makes me rather ESTJ-like, since I have Te in my top two animals. So if you're going by cognitive functions, then yes, I do have quite a bit in common with ESTJs. What I don't relate to so much with ESTJ descriptions is the bad stereotypes of them being a super strict disciplinarian who lacks sensitivity and compassion. I suppose having feminine Te, would make me seem a bit softer in my approach with people while still focus on what logically and pragmatically works for people. ISFJ is a type I have considered for myself since it also has dominant Si, but probably not as likely because I don't think I have auxiliary Fe. I've had problems grasping Fe in my life, especially in my youth and early adulthood. I know that in Objective Personality, feminine Te can superficially seem like Fe. ISTP I've never considered. Even though you're just changing J vs. P, you end up changing all the cognitive functions. ISTJ uses the opposite cognitive functions of ISTP. If you follow Keirsey, the two types also have very different temperaments with ISTJ being SJ and ISTP being SP. So in that way, they are very different. Whereas with INFJ and INFP, at least they both share the NF temperament even though they have opposite cognitive functions. One other mistyping pattern that I think is relatively common in people is keeping the E/I the same but inverting the other three letters. So for example ISTJ --> INFP. This is because these types have the same 4 cognitive functions in their stack and are also both introverts. I know I relate quite a bit to INFPs and have had some other people suggest INFP as a possible type for me. Finally, I went through an INTP phase. I don't know if this is common for ISTJs or not. Blame it on the intellectual and independent thinking anecdotes associated with that type that made me want to identify with it.
I think it's sad ESTJs get that bad rep because I don't see them like that at all -- i've not met an ESTJ who was dictator-like. They are normally silly, fun and engaging. They just really like their systems lol
So I was typed by my university (at work) but what they did is give us things to do not just take a test. In such an environment you just react as you are, so to speak. It's funny looking back because imagine observing this happen: sensors reacting in one way and intuitives in another for example without them thinking to hard about 'being this way'.
This reminds me of one type of aptitude test I took while in training for a call center job. I don't know what the test they were using was called, but we were split into 4 groups and I ended up in the "Technical" group with 2 other people. We were then given paper and markers and told to "make a ship" to represent our company and the services they offered. The other groups jumped into action almost immediately, while my group stared at each other confusedly, and I couldn't help but ask for more details. "What do you mean?" "Make me a ship." "What kind of ship?" "Just a ship *shrug*" "But... what... *confused noises*" 😂 I then suggested folding the paper into an airplane (as an airplane can be a type of "ship"), and drawing logos on it, but my group mates didn't bite. My hesitation was with the fact that I wanted to be able to give the instructor exactly what she was asking for, but when it was clear that she wasn't going to provide any more guidelines or limitations, and she was leaving it to our imaginations, I wanted to be as creative with it as possible. Anyways, I brought it up as an example of how people react differently and instinctively when they are set to a task, especially one with a time limit.
@@Amanda_D that's funny in the same session I spoke about. We were asked to plan a trip and the group I was in was stuck making a list. Like step 1 step 2 vibes. While another groups were speaking about all the places they'd go to. We were on some what will be need? What is the time period? How much money is available? It's funny because we don't realise this things about ourselves until they are contrasted
Great conversation ❤️. You guys are so cute talking together... making me laugh and smile. Enjoyed seeing the one-on-one with an INFJ and ENFP. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wonderful conversation. I used to type as INFJ whenever I would casually take an MBTI test. The descriptions kinda related to me but it never felt correct. I couldn’t (and still can’t) relate to Fe. It’s just not who I am. After deep-diving into MBTI/OP, I realized I misunderstood the definition of Feeler and that misunderstanding affected my test results. Once there was clarification, I began to type as INTJ. I have always overidentified with my tertiary Fi, being a highly sensitive person. It’s important to know the definitions in MBTI/OP to accurately assess yourself.
I had a fairly similar experience. I never totally thought I was an INFJ, but I was tempted to as I've always strongly identified with my tertiary Fi while trying to deny it at the same time, and type descriptions of INTJs as cold, controlling schemers never suited me. Studying the functions helped me understand that I definitely don't use Fe, which puts INFJ well out of contention.
Wow - this is totally same with my case but I started with INFP when I first took the test - I was not satisfied with my type at all - then I took the test after a month , I got INFJ this time ... This was not what I was expecting then I took the test again and this time I made sure that I go through all the questions thoroughly - this time I felt that I am facing a new set of questions (although it were the exact same questions , it was just that I did not notice its details properly ) Finally I got INTJ , I was totally satisfied this time . I relate to everything a lot - specially the meme of INTJs unable to sleep till 6 am ...
I am nodding the whole time here, loved this! I'm an ISFP and the first four times I took an online test I got INFJ. Every time I thought I would get something else and every time it said "you're an INFJ" and I thought: NO! :D I just knew it wasn't right and I knew I had to have Fi. But then I got so confused because I recognised myself all the time in people who said they were INFJ and a lot of stereotypes of ISFP don't fit me. Also, a lot of people describe the cognitive functions completely differently, or prescribe certain behaviours to certain functions, which makes it all even more confusing. If you start with different interpretations of the functions and how they play out, you can interpret anything in a different way. Sometimes the types are also presented in extremes. "If you have this function first, then you're going to be terrible at this". Or the idea that "you can never type yourself correctly because you can't see what you're really like". I don't think that's necessarily true. Even though I still often start doubting my type because of something I hear someone saying about ISFPs or something about other types that I recognize in myself, I always come back to ISFP.
ooooh you are talking about a major frustration of mine -- the value system of functions, because you have x function in this position, you can't be good at it.... that is just so incorrect *cries
Yeah! There are a lot of traits/people associated with INFJs that are better attributed to ISFPs. I can see why you'd relate to INFJs. As they are often depicted as more Fi than they are, due to the sheer amount of mistype. You're incredibly self-aware to be able to know that you are ISFP!! =] so good job with that, Femke.
I have never once tested as INFJ on 16 Personalities or any other MBTI test. But i'm an ESTJ...so INFJ is about as far away as it gets haha. Edit: 20 mins in and you just mentioned that ESTJs are typically good at typing themselves correctly because they are assertive. Sounds about right. I used to test as ISTJ until I realized that I was just an extrovert who had social anxiety. Now that I know about the functions I realize that I am unmistakably a Te dom!
That's great, Emily!! It's nice to know that you were able to type yourself correctly. Nicely done! Also, I'm looking for ESTJs for the ESTJ panel. Message me at joycemeng22@gmail.com if you're interested in joining. =]
Very great video. A lot of people tend to forget that in the real world intuitives types can actually come off appearing more “dumb” then sensor types and sensor types more down to earth and smarter because a lot of sensors are book smart. a lot of people’s favorite celebrities are sensors and not intuitives. When trying to guess types I use to mistake sensors for intuitives until I started making them take the test and verifying then it started to make sense. ISTJs can be mistyped as INTJs and ISTJs can be mistyped as INFJs. It helps me figure out types easier if I don’t just look at their ego but the 4 sides of their mind.
(ENFP) I definitely need external stimuli to make a judgement. Otherwise, it's like spinning a bingo cage with no balls in it and expecting to get a number. For example, how am I supposed to decide what movie I want to watch if I don't know what's showing at the theater? That's kind of an obvious one, but that kind of process holds true for me for more abstract choices, too.
I've gotten typed as ENFP, ESFP, and INFP. There is the odd time I get types as ENFJ or ESFJ, but those seem to be on the days I'm very proactive. Most of the time though I'm very laid back and lack a severe amount of motivation to do anything productive. I've also wondered if I'm an ENTP or INTP because I seem to think more logically when I'm talking with certain people, especially when playing strategy games. I seem to be able to look 10 steps ahead and consider several outcomes, while others can rarely see one obvious move in front of them. Anyways, pretty sure I have Ne somewhere in my stacking because my mind and my conversations wandered constantly while I can see the connections. When someone wants to focus on one topic for too long, especially when it is an area of interest that I have little desire to delve deeper into, I can get restless. I struggle to shift the conversation though because I don't want them to feel like I don't value their thoughts, opinions, or interests. I'm pretty sure I'm a Enneagram 9, though, so that may influence that a bit. I'm thinking I'm an ENFP, but when I hear about how motivated they are when they tap into their Te it just sounds like so much work to me. I've often heard they will come up with a new idea, like moving across the world or starting up a new business, without thinking it through, because their Te took over before their Si told them to focus on the detail. I would never do that! I more so like to fantasize about possibilities than feel like I have to put them into action. The fantasy itself is satisfying enough. That makes me think I'm an INFP, where their stacking is Fi Ne Si Te. So I would think of the details of an idea before I move it into action, but once it moves past my Fi and Ne and reaches my Si, I get so caught up in the detail that I realize it would never work out, so my Te never gets a chance to work it's magic. It's weird though, most people that know me at surface level would view me as an extrovert because I can be warm, welcoming, loud and dramatic at times. My family would probably say I'm the most "extroverted" one in my family with the exception of my mom, an ESFP. Yet, I can just as easily shift into the background and observe or get lost in my own thoughts though and completely tune out reality and go days without seeing people and not miss anyone... Man, self-discovery really is a long journey. I never expect to write this much, but it always feels nice to get my thoughts out of my head. :)
I'm very related to the INFP or ENFP part, especially the Si comes up first so my Te would never have a chance to do its magic. This description is so me. And yeah my Te is really poor... I barely use them... but there's a time that I was in a graduate student association. In that period of time, I went full on my Te. So I guess my Te is still there inside me. I just developed too much Si…?(or Se cuz I scored more Se than Si) Well... i don't really know, I'm also figuring myself. Good luck to you !!!
I think another common mistype is mistyping as the type that has your tertiary function as their dominant function So for example ISFJ/INFJs mistyping as ISTP/INTP or ESTJs/ESFJs mistyping as ENFP/ENTP. Also about the types that have the same auxiliary and tertiary function is they share the same mental Blindspot/POLR (7th function) which is very draining to use and a function that is just heavily devalued in the psyche of the individual. For example, INTP/INFP both have Se in their 7th function.
This is interesting. I typed ENFP in a book quiz 20 years ago. I thought I was E because I'm definitely a social extrovert. I thought N because I didn't think I was smart and capable enough to be S. F because I wasn't smart or logical enough to be T. And P because I am a whirlwind, all over the place person. I'm actually ESFP, turns out I am capable enough to be a sensor. Very interesting to see how others mistype.
Before I knew about the cognitive functions and before I learned that “tests” like 16personalities aren’t a good way to type someone I (ISTP) consistently mistyped as INTP or INTJ. It was obvious from the beginning that I’m an introvert and a thinker - I wouldn’t have needed a test for that part, but 16personalities among others confirmed that very clearly anyway. The iNtuitive side probably came from my reasonably well developed Ni which works in conjunction with my Ti (and Se) when I’m analyzing and trying to understand systems - which I’m doing most of the time. And the Judging was probably a result of my tendency to plan certain things very thoroughly. I can spend weeks or months planing which parts to buy for building my next computer or years on how to equip and furnish my home cinema living room. And I tend to play out social interactions in my head beforehand. But I recognize now that that’s not stemming from a Judging predisposition but from my perfectionism and a slight social anxiety. Knowledge of the cognitive functions however made things pretty clear pretty quickly: I’m definitely a Ti dom, so no INTJ, and I’m an Ni/Se user instead of Ne/Si (regardless of priority), so no INTP. Still I would probably get INTP on most online tests even today were it not for the fact that I now recognize the questions that would lead towards a N result and can modify my answers accordingly.
Common mistypes I've noticed: ESTJ's mistyping as ENTP's ESFJ's as ENFP's ESFP's as ENFJ's ESTP's as ENTJ's ISFP's as INFJ's ISFJ's as INFP's ISTP's as INTJ's ISTJ's as INTP's
I took a test online to find that I'm an ENFJ. While learning about this type I come across INFJ with the common slogan as the rarest type. I didn't think much, but the more I learn about it the more it explains things about myself that I haven't realized that I could relate to in a deep level. But with a lot of people saying they're INFJs, until know I have this worry that I mistyped myself especially since MBTI helped me a lot with self reflection and it would be sad if it was all incorrect.
I'm curious about how trauma can fully impact typing. I'm sure that it affected my adolescent development. What I'm really curious about is, can a person switch cognitive proclivities or is it like stone and I mean later in life after all the furiousness of adolescence? For instance, a person with "multiple personalities," a condition called these days as disassociation disorder: are they of a particular type or not? I suspect few will have a good answer for that as sorting such a mind out is difficult as they keep sidestepping any inquiry.
The way I larned how to read the jungian code when it comes to P and J is.. P means your first extroverted function is a percieving function and J means your first extroverted function is a judging function. I later learned to associate J with introverted perceiving functions because it made more sense to me.
Yes! During official MBTI training they teach you that. :) They define J as showing your judging function to the world, your decisive, orderly and structured side. Whereas perceivers show their perceiving function to the world, outwardly seeming more casual, fluid, and laidback.
What I find interesting is that as an NE user, I find that in practical matters, I really hate being pulled in different directions. So for example, as a parent or a teacher whereby multiple people are requiring me to be physically present is really difficult. I can deal with things one at a time, otherwise I am overwhelmed and exhausted at the end of the day. But I can jump erratically from topic to topic if I am left on my own in my head I love it! But if I have to be physically present listening to someone, taking in extra external information, and having to follow their train of thought and I can't just jump from one thing rapidly to another or on my own timeline I find it hard work.
I tested ENF/TP (equal 12/12 for T/F) on the official MBTI). On 16 personalities I get mainly ENFP (but also ENTP/INTP). Totally get what you mean about making space for Day to Day plans, and always making those connections in my head (so much Fun!). ... eating? unless I’m cooking for someone else, pretty boring and blah. I just now did human metrics I just got INFJ 😂. I would never have thought that possible! I know INFJ and I’m not one! I don’t have their wisdom or intelligence (I wish!). Went back and modified my original answers and I got INFP. Nope. My BFF is an INFP; I’m not nearly as sensitive or sad. Lol. She has said I’m Joy and she’s Sadness from that cartoon movie Inside Out; (totally creative movie, btw).
Michelle said what I used to think about real life connections being harder to back out of and more scary. A total thing. Irl now, I am very cautious of connecting.
this makes sense because I consistently always get in FJ on different personality tests and when I see interviews and videos of actual INFJs I don't feel like I really relate to them on some important areas, especially general things like a demeanor and how they respond or interact with people emotionally
Just got to the end of the video, and I have to agree with Michelle that I find behaviour and cognitive/mental functions does not necessarily equal one to the other. We don't always look at the cultural behaviour of people and so on when we try and figure people out (at least online where its difficult to gauge behaviours overall). Also I like to think that mental functions are hereditary, a bit like the ingredients for a cake that is passed down. And how that cake is created can vary, (Bit like the how you can vary the quanities for each ingredient and bake for different times- which can have a huge variety in how different cakes can turn out using the same ingredients). It was interesting listening to you both!
I tested as an intj for many years, was professionally typed as an enfp...and then professionally typed as an isfj. I wasn't surprised that online tests might not be accurate, but the difference of opinion by the pros was interesting. I've still tested as an intj on any online test I take. I'm also an enneagram 5w4. I'm over 50, so I always wonder if maturity makes it harder for others to type you.
Michelle: But I was immediately overwhelmed by the sheer quantity of information in MBTI (verbatim) Me: *when I first discovered MBTI* Challenge accepted 😂
I was very prejudiced against extroversion and sensing and also captivated by the INFJ mystique. But after listening to my very introverted roommates tell me I was extroverted, I finally looked outside of INFJ for other types that could fit and realized I do fit better with ENFJ. Learning more about the functions also taught me that S and T are still parts of NF personalities. Se makes more sense than Si. So that helped me decide.
24:09 OP would say we double down on our masculine functions during stress, which I also see as being the case. You for example will double down on NT, whereas I'll double down on ST, despite us having the same parts in a somewhat similar order. Are you taking any of their M vs F modality stuff seriously in your system, do you not believe in it, or will you introduce it later, etc? :)
I know I am kind of introvert , I can not get a `ex` looking into my life , I know I am not much of feelings, I have it but I can not express it well, and I can not make my mind on a decision , I admire people who just do it, that is what they want and there is no more, so I can not get much wrong about my traits . I am perceiving this MBTI journey as a INTP,
I’m so confused. I’ve always tested ENTJ however I feel more INTJ a close second. I’ve tested in high school, college and now 2 online ENTJ. I’m a retired Firefighter and paramedic, in the process of choosing a new career searching For a good fit. My strong academic abilities often lead me down the wrong path. I absolutely wish I excelled in one area to narrow my options. I would love to see a side by side comparison. My Ni and Ne apparently are almost equal. Se is definitely my week spot and it’s the only thing I’m certain about. Thank you love videos
If clarification is something you seek, I offer typing services! You can email me at joycemeng22@gmail.com if you'd like to know more. :) Thank you!! It's nice to know that you enjoyed the video :D
I am one of these self typed infj's. I am very aware of the fact that everybody types themselves as such. So I tried multiple tests and cross checked with human needs in the OP system ...etc. still I need an outside perspective. So if anyone wanna type me... hmu lol
For some reason I'm attracted to Se in demon position(8th) spot of the cognitive stack, for me personally it manifests itself as shyness in females and its also represents its self as a form of chaos, both are attractive to me since I think that the world needs unexpected chaos to shake some of society's wrong perception of whats ideal to function in the best possible way collectivity. From the heart to all ENTPs \ENFPs I really admire you and I feel your pain, don't give up on life because the wrold needs you to shake it up of stupidity and useless traditional values.
@@JoyceMeng22 True. I think though that for INTJ's their ego isn't as invested as other types. So if strong evidence is presented that either disproves or strongly questions their current operating parameters they're generally more open to the idea. Since they'd rather be wrong once, admit it and change, than operate on a faulty preconception and live out that lie. Because at the end of the day the GOAT is right. "The facts don't care about your feelings."
I’m the opposite, I was always that introvert who always thought I was an extrovert. In part was because society tends to idealize extroverts over introverts. Also I never really like the 16 personalities online test as it isn’t very accurate
I typed myself as INTP for 8 years, because I thought I was introverted but actually my INTJ friend for 15 years said that I am no way an introvert because I get bored easily and my focus is outside (Ne). I thought I was an introvert because when I got excited, is not always socializing with people, but I like and got stimulated with something new. And I really hate to engage with a lot of people around me because they are so toxic and I prefer to just troll people online (but lately I going out more because online life is getting boriiingggg) 😂 Maybe my enneagram is 5w4 also why I mistyped
not to burst your bubble but, in the enneagram world, 5w4 and 4w5 is the equivalent of infj in mbti - ie, everyone thinks they are that and almost no one is (over 70% of people are 9s and 6s)
I honestly believe INFJ mistypings are a whole topic in and of itself because most every type can see themselves as INFJ and they have more common mistypes, such as ISTP or ISFP thinking they are INFJ.
Heheee when Michelle said she loves to ask the why questions, I thought hey that's me! Must be an enfp thing. Here's an idea for a future video. Why don't you make one covering which adverb each type is concerned with? Just a thought. :PP
Maybe people identify as intuitives because people with UA-cam channels constantly talk down to sensors. "If you were a Se Dom, I wouldn't have someone to have fun conversations with!" Please. You complain about people mistyping as INFJ and then make a wildly disproportionate amount of content about them. What do you expect to happen?
Please help I can’t decide whether if I’m an intj or an infj this so hard , I mean I’ve read about the both personality types and I can relate to both of them , can you please give me a trick or any tips for me to decide 🙄💜
I have an INTJ vs INFJ video on my channel so that might help! I also offer a typing service to help people figure out their type 😊 if you're interested in that you can email me at joycemeng22@gmail.com
I have a very hard time believing that only 3% of the population are INFJ, and would assume they're far more in line with other types. I'd actually argue that the MBTI putting out that statistic is probably why it's such a desirable mistype, the rarity and uniqueness is a drawing factor, despite it not actually being real. I'd speculate that the reason INFJ is such a rare type in the MBTI is that they measure social introversion vs extroversion as a means of determining ones lead function polarity, even if it's an observing function. If you ask someone with auxiliary Fe "Do you wish people would fuck off, or are they cool?" and they answer the latter, their whole type code now probably starts with an E. There's a million other problems with the testing, but there's also reasons which might feed into the results being valid, but misleading, such as Objective Personality's concept of the IxxJ Box. UA-cam is very saturated with people who I type as INFJ, whereas my life isn't, and I think it's probable that IxxJs are very common, but they're too obsessed with controling their environment and perceptions of those around them, that they never end up leaving the house, or their comfort zones. How are you gonna run into an official MBTI test if you never leave your damned house, INxJs?! :)
The truth was watered down at “trauma can change you from an ENFP to an INFP”. Now you’re going to have a slew of people talking about how their “trauma” changed their type. Be more accurate.
INFJ counts are distorted because people who spend more time on the Internet tend to be introverts. Second, INFJ females are actually not that rare. INFJ males are rare. I think there are fewer of every NT type for females compared to INFJ females
9:00 holy shit I was expecting her to delegate on behalf of others trying to keep the peace. NOPE straight roast! Pfff lost it hard there, made me laugh in public. Oof yikes! I'm just starting the video and this is getting gud. "No one wants to be a messy tornado that never gets things done...." (Awkward........)
Thanks for having me for this chat! I had a lot of fun talking with you!!
It was so fun chatting, Michelle!! Thank you for bringing all your awesome ideas to the table. You're great. 🙂
Hey Michelle, great insights! You mentioned @20:11 about people, namely thinking types, that can be "Highly Sensitive" and mistype. Can you share some thoughts on what a thinking type would like that is a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)? Thanks!
@@JoyceMeng22 and Michelle thank you, thank you and thank you 😊🙏! This was absolutely perfection. Especially the whole new mobile world and what ACTUALLY happens when we see and interact with people. I'm Fe dom but I'm totally immersed with the actual conversation and my surroundings and my color coded wardrobe 😉💝. Keep up the fantastic work and you are such gifts for all of us 😘😘.
I love you all.
Def the biggest mistyped letter is N/S. Which is huge letdown for intuitives searching for other intuitives, because you create an expectation that is unfulfilled, just be honest with yourself people! -ENFJ
tbh it depends. Just because you come to know that someone is intuitive does not mean that there is anything common between you people. In my opinion, if you find a sensor who shares same interests as you, you'll be satisfied enough.
Oh you mean ESFJ 😉 Don't be shy, admit it to your self!
re: 9:30 "How many people are actually going to say 'I have no imagination'?!"
I am related to people who say this unironically. They consider it a point of pride, because to them, imagination is the gateway to heresy. *gasp*
the ones with Aphantasia
I say this because I'm related to very artistic people and don't have an artistic bone in my body. However I did still think I was N because I wasn't street smart.
I'm an ISTJ who has been mistyped many times on online tests. Most tests score me in the INxx quadrant and INFJ is a type I frequently test as like so many people. After being confirmed as ISTJ from Objective Personality and again from Meghan LeVota, I've come to understand that type better and realized, that what I'm primarily doing and thinking most of the time is Si, supported with Te.
According to your mistyping patterns, my common mistypes should be ESTJ, INTJ, ISFJ and ISTP. I have considered INTJ and sometimes test as one, but I've never seriously considered ESTJ or ISTP. Meghan LeVota said my second most likely type would be ESTJ and in Objective Personality, I was typed as MF SiTe BP/S(C). So this makes me rather ESTJ-like, since I have Te in my top two animals. So if you're going by cognitive functions, then yes, I do have quite a bit in common with ESTJs. What I don't relate to so much with ESTJ descriptions is the bad stereotypes of them being a super strict disciplinarian who lacks sensitivity and compassion. I suppose having feminine Te, would make me seem a bit softer in my approach with people while still focus on what logically and pragmatically works for people.
ISFJ is a type I have considered for myself since it also has dominant Si, but probably not as likely because I don't think I have auxiliary Fe. I've had problems grasping Fe in my life, especially in my youth and early adulthood. I know that in Objective Personality, feminine Te can superficially seem like Fe. ISTP I've never considered. Even though you're just changing J vs. P, you end up changing all the cognitive functions. ISTJ uses the opposite cognitive functions of ISTP. If you follow Keirsey, the two types also have very different temperaments with ISTJ being SJ and ISTP being SP. So in that way, they are very different. Whereas with INFJ and INFP, at least they both share the NF temperament even though they have opposite cognitive functions.
One other mistyping pattern that I think is relatively common in people is keeping the E/I the same but inverting the other three letters. So for example ISTJ --> INFP. This is because these types have the same 4 cognitive functions in their stack and are also both introverts. I know I relate quite a bit to INFPs and have had some other people suggest INFP as a possible type for me.
Finally, I went through an INTP phase. I don't know if this is common for ISTJs or not. Blame it on the intellectual and independent thinking anecdotes associated with that type that made me want to identify with it.
I think it's sad ESTJs get that bad rep because I don't see them like that at all -- i've not met an ESTJ who was dictator-like. They are normally silly, fun and engaging. They just really like their systems lol
So I was typed by my university (at work) but what they did is give us things to do not just take a test. In such an environment you just react as you are, so to speak. It's funny looking back because imagine observing this happen: sensors reacting in one way and intuitives in another for example without them thinking to hard about 'being this way'.
This reminds me of one type of aptitude test I took while in training for a call center job. I don't know what the test they were using was called, but we were split into 4 groups and I ended up in the "Technical" group with 2 other people. We were then given paper and markers and told to "make a ship" to represent our company and the services they offered. The other groups jumped into action almost immediately, while my group stared at each other confusedly, and I couldn't help but ask for more details. "What do you mean?" "Make me a ship." "What kind of ship?" "Just a ship *shrug*" "But... what... *confused noises*" 😂 I then suggested folding the paper into an airplane (as an airplane can be a type of "ship"), and drawing logos on it, but my group mates didn't bite.
My hesitation was with the fact that I wanted to be able to give the instructor exactly what she was asking for, but when it was clear that she wasn't going to provide any more guidelines or limitations, and she was leaving it to our imaginations, I wanted to be as creative with it as possible.
Anyways, I brought it up as an example of how people react differently and instinctively when they are set to a task, especially one with a time limit.
@@Amanda_D that's funny in the same session I spoke about. We were asked to plan a trip and the group I was in was stuck making a list. Like step 1 step 2 vibes. While another groups were speaking about all the places they'd go to. We were on some what will be need? What is the time period? How much money is available? It's funny because we don't realise this things about ourselves until they are contrasted
I was really waiting for this crossover.
Your choice of crossover shows your good taste, Samuel. :P
Great conversation ❤️. You guys are so cute talking together... making me laugh and smile. Enjoyed seeing the one-on-one with an INFJ and ENFP. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wonderful conversation. I used to type as INFJ whenever I would casually take an MBTI test. The descriptions kinda related to me but it never felt correct. I couldn’t (and still can’t) relate to Fe. It’s just not who I am. After deep-diving into MBTI/OP, I realized I misunderstood the definition of Feeler and that misunderstanding affected my test results. Once there was clarification, I began to type as INTJ. I have always overidentified with my tertiary Fi, being a highly sensitive person. It’s important to know the definitions in MBTI/OP to accurately assess yourself.
I also mistyped my bf as INFJ for a long time because of the dichotomies, but he's absolutely an INTJ as wll
I had a fairly similar experience. I never totally thought I was an INFJ, but I was tempted to as I've always strongly identified with my tertiary Fi while trying to deny it at the same time, and type descriptions of INTJs as cold, controlling schemers never suited me. Studying the functions helped me understand that I definitely don't use Fe, which puts INFJ well out of contention.
Wow - this is totally same with my case but I started with INFP when I first took the test - I was not satisfied with my type at all - then I took the test after a month , I got INFJ this time ... This was not what I was expecting then I took the test again and this time I made sure that I go through all the questions thoroughly - this time I felt that I am facing a new set of questions (although it were the exact same questions , it was just that I did not notice its details properly ) Finally I got INTJ , I was totally satisfied this time . I relate to everything a lot - specially the meme of INTJs
unable to sleep till 6 am ...
Amazing! I could listen to the both of you for a day! Well, what's new 😁
Wow, thank you! What a compliment. 😊
I am nodding the whole time here, loved this!
I'm an ISFP and the first four times I took an online test I got INFJ. Every time I thought I would get something else and every time it said "you're an INFJ" and I thought: NO! :D I just knew it wasn't right and I knew I had to have Fi. But then I got so confused because I recognised myself all the time in people who said they were INFJ and a lot of stereotypes of ISFP don't fit me. Also, a lot of people describe the cognitive functions completely differently, or prescribe certain behaviours to certain functions, which makes it all even more confusing. If you start with different interpretations of the functions and how they play out, you can interpret anything in a different way. Sometimes the types are also presented in extremes. "If you have this function first, then you're going to be terrible at this". Or the idea that "you can never type yourself correctly because you can't see what you're really like". I don't think that's necessarily true. Even though I still often start doubting my type because of something I hear someone saying about ISFPs or something about other types that I recognize in myself, I always come back to ISFP.
ooooh you are talking about a major frustration of mine -- the value system of functions, because you have x function in this position, you can't be good at it.... that is just so incorrect *cries
Yeah! There are a lot of traits/people associated with INFJs that are better attributed to ISFPs. I can see why you'd relate to INFJs. As they are often depicted as more Fi than they are, due to the sheer amount of mistype. You're incredibly self-aware to be able to know that you are ISFP!! =] so good job with that, Femke.
I agree with the list of typical mistypes. They indeed seem the ones that most often happen!
INTJ here, actually I have never had an INFJ phase
Because I just know that I have zero Fe lmao
I have never once tested as INFJ on 16 Personalities or any other MBTI test. But i'm an ESTJ...so INFJ is about as far away as it gets haha. Edit: 20 mins in and you just mentioned that ESTJs are typically good at typing themselves correctly because they are assertive. Sounds about right. I used to test as ISTJ until I realized that I was just an extrovert who had social anxiety. Now that I know about the functions I realize that I am unmistakably a Te dom!
That's great, Emily!! It's nice to know that you were able to type yourself correctly. Nicely done! Also, I'm looking for ESTJs for the ESTJ panel. Message me at joycemeng22@gmail.com if you're interested in joining. =]
Very great video. A lot of people tend to forget that in the real world intuitives types can actually come off appearing more “dumb” then sensor types and sensor types more down to earth and smarter because a lot of sensors are book smart. a lot of people’s favorite celebrities are sensors and not intuitives. When trying to guess types I use to mistake sensors for intuitives until I started making them take the test and verifying then it started to make sense. ISTJs can be mistyped as INTJs and ISTJs can be mistyped as INFJs. It helps me figure out types easier if I don’t just look at their ego but the 4 sides of their mind.
(ENFP) I definitely need external stimuli to make a judgement. Otherwise, it's like spinning a bingo cage with no balls in it and expecting to get a number. For example, how am I supposed to decide what movie I want to watch if I don't know what's showing at the theater? That's kind of an obvious one, but that kind of process holds true for me for more abstract choices, too.
This is one of the best videos about mbti I have seen😍
Here again ……what a joy seeing you again.
I've gotten typed as ENFP, ESFP, and INFP. There is the odd time I get types as ENFJ or ESFJ, but those seem to be on the days I'm very proactive. Most of the time though I'm very laid back and lack a severe amount of motivation to do anything productive.
I've also wondered if I'm an ENTP or INTP because I seem to think more logically when I'm talking with certain people, especially when playing strategy games. I seem to be able to look 10 steps ahead and consider several outcomes, while others can rarely see one obvious move in front of them.
Anyways, pretty sure I have Ne somewhere in my stacking because my mind and my conversations wandered constantly while I can see the connections. When someone wants to focus on one topic for too long, especially when it is an area of interest that I have little desire to delve deeper into, I can get restless. I struggle to shift the conversation though because I don't want them to feel like I don't value their thoughts, opinions, or interests. I'm pretty sure I'm a Enneagram 9, though, so that may influence that a bit.
I'm thinking I'm an ENFP, but when I hear about how motivated they are when they tap into their Te it just sounds like so much work to me. I've often heard they will come up with a new idea, like moving across the world or starting up a new business, without thinking it through, because their Te took over before their Si told them to focus on the detail. I would never do that! I more so like to fantasize about possibilities than feel like I have to put them into action. The fantasy itself is satisfying enough. That makes me think I'm an INFP, where their stacking is Fi Ne Si Te. So I would think of the details of an idea before I move it into action, but once it moves past my Fi and Ne and reaches my Si, I get so caught up in the detail that I realize it would never work out, so my Te never gets a chance to work it's magic. It's weird though, most people that know me at surface level would view me as an extrovert because I can be warm, welcoming, loud and dramatic at times. My family would probably say I'm the most "extroverted" one in my family with the exception of my mom, an ESFP. Yet, I can just as easily shift into the background and observe or get lost in my own thoughts though and completely tune out reality and go days without seeing people and not miss anyone...
Man, self-discovery really is a long journey. I never expect to write this much, but it always feels nice to get my thoughts out of my head. :)
I'm very related to the INFP or ENFP part, especially the Si comes up first so my Te would never have a chance to do its magic. This description is so me. And yeah my Te is really poor... I barely use them... but there's a time that I was in a graduate student association. In that period of time, I went full on my Te. So I guess my Te is still there inside me. I just developed too much Si…?(or Se cuz I scored more Se than Si)
Well... i don't really know, I'm also figuring myself.
Good luck to you !!!
I think another common mistype is mistyping as the type that has your tertiary function as their dominant function So for example ISFJ/INFJs mistyping as ISTP/INTP or ESTJs/ESFJs mistyping as ENFP/ENTP. Also about the types that have the same auxiliary and tertiary function is they share the same mental Blindspot/POLR (7th function) which is very draining to use and a function that is just heavily devalued in the psyche of the individual. For example, INTP/INFP both have Se in their 7th function.
Agreed!
I can't decide if I'm ISFJ or INFP. I wonder if I'm overestimating my tert Si and think that it's dom. Also, I'm enneagram 9 which resembles Fe.
This is interesting. I typed ENFP in a book quiz 20 years ago. I thought I was E because I'm definitely a social extrovert. I thought N because I didn't think I was smart and capable enough to be S. F because I wasn't smart or logical enough to be T. And P because I am a whirlwind, all over the place person. I'm actually ESFP, turns out I am capable enough to be a sensor. Very interesting to see how others mistype.
Great video! May even be your best yet 💪🏼
Some very solid points by you and Michelle on common mistypings out there. Very common unfortunately
Dan =] !! Thank you!
Before I knew about the cognitive functions and before I learned that “tests” like 16personalities aren’t a good way to type someone I (ISTP) consistently mistyped as INTP or INTJ.
It was obvious from the beginning that I’m an introvert and a thinker - I wouldn’t have needed a test for that part, but 16personalities among others confirmed that very clearly anyway.
The iNtuitive side probably came from my reasonably well developed Ni which works in conjunction with my Ti (and Se) when I’m analyzing and trying to understand systems - which I’m doing most of the time.
And the Judging was probably a result of my tendency to plan certain things very thoroughly. I can spend weeks or months planing which parts to buy for building my next computer or years on how to equip and furnish my home cinema living room. And I tend to play out social interactions in my head beforehand. But I recognize now that that’s not stemming from a Judging predisposition but from my perfectionism and a slight social anxiety.
Knowledge of the cognitive functions however made things pretty clear pretty quickly: I’m definitely a Ti dom, so no INTJ, and I’m an Ni/Se user instead of Ne/Si (regardless of priority), so no INTP. Still I would probably get INTP on most online tests even today were it not for the fact that I now recognize the questions that would lead towards a N result and can modify my answers accordingly.
I’m an INTP, whom always gets mistyped as an INTJ. Lol
Common mistypes I've noticed:
ESTJ's mistyping as ENTP's
ESFJ's as ENFP's
ESFP's as ENFJ's
ESTP's as ENTJ's
ISFP's as INFJ's
ISFJ's as INFP's
ISTP's as INTJ's
ISTJ's as INTP's
I took a test online to find that I'm an ENFJ. While learning about this type I come across INFJ with the common slogan as the rarest type. I didn't think much, but the more I learn about it the more it explains things about myself that I haven't realized that I could relate to in a deep level. But with a lot of people saying they're INFJs, until know I have this worry that I mistyped myself especially since MBTI helped me a lot with self reflection and it would be sad if it was all incorrect.
I'm curious about how trauma can fully impact typing. I'm sure that it affected my adolescent development. What I'm really curious about is, can a person switch cognitive proclivities or is it like stone and I mean later in life after all the furiousness of adolescence? For instance, a person with "multiple personalities," a condition called these days as disassociation disorder: are they of a particular type or not? I suspect few will have a good answer for that as sorting such a mind out is difficult as they keep sidestepping any inquiry.
The way I larned how to read the jungian code when it comes to P and J is.. P means your first extroverted function is a percieving function and J means your first extroverted function is a judging function. I later learned to associate J with introverted perceiving functions because it made more sense to me.
That's the correct way. You'll see socionics use the J for Ji leads. But in MBTI J just means "high Je" user.
that is also how i learned it too
Yes! During official MBTI training they teach you that. :) They define J as showing your judging function to the world, your decisive, orderly and structured side. Whereas perceivers show their perceiving function to the world, outwardly seeming more casual, fluid, and laidback.
What I find interesting is that as an NE user, I find that in practical matters, I really hate being pulled in different directions. So for example, as a parent or a teacher whereby multiple people are requiring me to be physically present is really difficult. I can deal with things one at a time, otherwise I am overwhelmed and exhausted at the end of the day. But I can jump erratically from topic to topic if I am left on my own in my head I love it!
But if I have to be physically present listening to someone, taking in extra external information, and having to follow their train of thought and I can't just jump from one thing rapidly to another or on my own timeline I find it hard work.
I tested ENF/TP (equal 12/12 for T/F) on the official MBTI). On 16 personalities I get mainly ENFP (but also ENTP/INTP). Totally get what you mean about making space for Day to Day plans, and always making those connections in my head (so much Fun!). ... eating? unless I’m cooking for someone else, pretty boring and blah.
I just now did human metrics I just got INFJ 😂. I would never have thought that possible! I know INFJ and I’m not one! I don’t have their wisdom or intelligence (I wish!).
Went back and modified my original answers and I got INFP. Nope. My BFF is an INFP; I’m not nearly as sensitive or sad. Lol. She has said I’m Joy and she’s Sadness from that cartoon movie Inside Out; (totally creative movie, btw).
Michelle said what I used to think about real life connections being harder to back out of and more scary. A total thing.
Irl now, I am very cautious of connecting.
I freaking needed this video!!
this makes sense because I consistently always get in FJ on different personality tests and when I see interviews and videos of actual INFJs I don't feel like I really relate to them on some important areas, especially general things like a demeanor and how they respond or interact with people emotionally
Just got to the end of the video, and I have to agree with Michelle that I find behaviour and cognitive/mental functions does not necessarily equal one to the other. We don't always look at the cultural behaviour of people and so on when we try and figure people out (at least online where its difficult to gauge behaviours overall).
Also I like to think that mental functions are hereditary, a bit like the ingredients for a cake that is passed down. And how that cake is created can vary, (Bit like the how you can vary the quanities for each ingredient and bake for different times- which can have a huge variety in how different cakes can turn out using the same ingredients).
It was interesting listening to you both!
I tested as an intj for many years, was professionally typed as an enfp...and then professionally typed as an isfj.
I wasn't surprised that online tests might not be accurate, but the difference of opinion by the pros was interesting.
I've still tested as an intj on any online test I take. I'm also an enneagram 5w4.
I'm over 50, so I always wonder if maturity makes it harder for others to type you.
Michelle: But I was immediately overwhelmed by the sheer quantity of information in MBTI (verbatim)
Me: *when I first discovered MBTI*
Challenge accepted 😂
I was very prejudiced against extroversion and sensing and also captivated by the INFJ mystique. But after listening to my very introverted roommates tell me I was extroverted, I finally looked outside of INFJ for other types that could fit and realized I do fit better with ENFJ. Learning more about the functions also taught me that S and T are still parts of NF personalities. Se makes more sense than Si. So that helped me decide.
@24:00 Super Interesting @Joyce Meng: Thanks for that little lesson.
24:09 OP would say we double down on our masculine functions during stress, which I also see as being the case. You for example will double down on NT, whereas I'll double down on ST, despite us having the same parts in a somewhat similar order.
Are you taking any of their M vs F modality stuff seriously in your system, do you not believe in it, or will you introduce it later, etc? :)
Introversion doesn't mean lack of social skills.
On line interactions turn people socially anxious and inept, not introverted.
I will never think I have any shred of Fe to be mistyped as an INFJ. I guess some have better self awareness than others.
I know I am kind of introvert , I can not get a `ex` looking into my life , I know I am not much of feelings, I have it but I can not express it well, and I can not make my mind on a decision , I admire people who just do it, that is what they want and there is no more, so I can not get much wrong about my traits . I am perceiving this MBTI journey as a INTP,
I just want to be my right type not whats kool..
I’m so confused. I’ve always tested ENTJ however I feel more INTJ a close second. I’ve tested in high school, college and now 2 online ENTJ. I’m a retired Firefighter and paramedic, in the process of choosing a new career searching For a good fit. My strong academic abilities often lead me down the wrong path. I absolutely wish I excelled in one area to narrow my options.
I would love to see a side by side comparison. My Ni and Ne apparently are almost equal. Se is definitely my week spot and it’s the only thing I’m certain about.
Thank you love videos
If clarification is something you seek, I offer typing services! You can email me at joycemeng22@gmail.com if you'd like to know more. :)
Thank you!! It's nice to know that you enjoyed the video :D
Michelle, you are beautiful. I like your look on these videos. I have a strong affinity for ENFP.
I am one of these self typed infj's. I am very aware of the fact that everybody types themselves as such. So I tried multiple tests and cross checked with human needs in the OP system ...etc. still I need an outside perspective. So if anyone wanna type me... hmu lol
I have a typing service too, so that's always an option :) you can email me at joycemeng22@gmail.com if you're interested!
For some reason I'm attracted to Se in demon position(8th) spot of the cognitive stack, for me personally it manifests itself as shyness in females and its also represents its self as a form of chaos, both are attractive to me since I think that the world needs unexpected chaos to shake some of society's wrong perception of whats ideal to function in the best possible way collectivity. From the heart to all ENTPs \ENFPs I really admire you and I feel your pain, don't give up on life because the wrold needs you to shake it up of stupidity and useless traditional values.
To think someone would like that which is most vulnerable for the inxj...much appreciated
The truth will set you free.. but first it might piss you off.
The truth is a hard pill to swallow. It's ultimately good for you, but difficult to accept if your ego doesn't like the answer.
@@JoyceMeng22 True. I think though that for INTJ's their ego isn't as invested as other types. So if strong evidence is presented that either disproves or strongly questions their current operating parameters they're generally more open to the idea. Since they'd rather be wrong once, admit it and change, than operate on a faulty preconception and live out that lie. Because at the end of the day the GOAT is right. "The facts don't care about your feelings."
Great discussion!
I’m the opposite, I was always that introvert who always thought I was an extrovert. In part was because society tends to idealize extroverts over introverts. Also I never really like the 16 personalities online test as it isn’t very accurate
I typed myself as INTP for 8 years, because I thought I was introverted but actually my INTJ friend for 15 years said that I am no way an introvert because I get bored easily and my focus is outside (Ne). I thought I was an introvert because when I got excited, is not always socializing with people, but I like and got stimulated with something new. And I really hate to engage with a lot of people around me because they are so toxic and I prefer to just troll people online (but lately I going out more because online life is getting boriiingggg) 😂
Maybe my enneagram is 5w4 also why I mistyped
not to burst your bubble but, in the enneagram world, 5w4 and 4w5 is the equivalent of infj in mbti - ie, everyone thinks they are that and almost no one is (over 70% of people are 9s and 6s)
@@fedorilitchev5092 5 itself is equivalent to Ti, INFJs are either 4 or 2
ISxP and INTJ mistype as each other more.
ISxP and INTJ is a common mistype, for sure. It is easy for people to mistake their third function with their first one. =]
What about people in the same quadra? Example, INFJ and ISTP.
Actually seems less common than you'd think, for whatever reason. :)
@@NicStride i think it's less common because very few tests use the cognitive functions as a basis for typing. Most type on the letters.
I honestly believe INFJ mistypings are a whole topic in and of itself because most every type can see themselves as INFJ and they have more common mistypes, such as ISTP or ISFP thinking they are INFJ.
Heheee when Michelle said she loves to ask the why questions, I thought hey that's me! Must be an enfp thing.
Here's an idea for a future video. Why don't you make one covering which adverb each type is concerned with? Just a thought. :PP
Asking why questions is definitely an ENFP thing. 🙂 Y'all have the best type of curiosity towards life. I'll consider the adverb video!
@@JoyceMeng22 What would you say an infjs adverb would be?
@@M.Moadeli123 This just applies for me, but an adverb I would describe myself with would be 'wearily' because I'm a jaded human being haha
If it was live... I can't believe I missed this 😭
It wasn't! I'll ask Michi if she wants the next video to be live haha :D
@@JoyceMeng22 phew, I thought I missed another premiere XD
I missed having you in the past few live streams, Hikaru! Your presence brings a certain lively energy. 😀
Maybe people identify as intuitives because people with UA-cam channels constantly talk down to sensors. "If you were a Se Dom, I wouldn't have someone to have fun conversations with!" Please.
You complain about people mistyping as INFJ and then make a wildly disproportionate amount of content about them. What do you expect to happen?
Was this live?
Hardest person to see is me .. and i am not asking others what they see i am too sensitive 😋😋😋😋😋😋😋😋
Please help I can’t decide whether if I’m an intj or an infj this so hard , I mean I’ve read about the both personality types and I can relate to both of them , can you please give me a trick or any tips for me to decide 🙄💜
Don’t get me wrong , I learned a lot from your video , but still can’t figure out my real type 😬💔
I have an INTJ vs INFJ video on my channel so that might help! I also offer a typing service to help people figure out their type 😊 if you're interested in that you can email me at joycemeng22@gmail.com
Joyce Meng oh I think that might help thank you so much💜😊
I can't decide if I'm ISFJ or INFP.
I have a very hard time believing that only 3% of the population are INFJ, and would assume they're far more in line with other types.
I'd actually argue that the MBTI putting out that statistic is probably why it's such a desirable mistype, the rarity and uniqueness is a drawing factor, despite it not actually being real.
I'd speculate that the reason INFJ is such a rare type in the MBTI is that they measure social introversion vs extroversion as a means of determining ones lead function polarity, even if it's an observing function. If you ask someone with auxiliary Fe "Do you wish people would fuck off, or are they cool?" and they answer the latter, their whole type code now probably starts with an E.
There's a million other problems with the testing, but there's also reasons which might feed into the results being valid, but misleading, such as Objective Personality's concept of the IxxJ Box. UA-cam is very saturated with people who I type as INFJ, whereas my life isn't, and I think it's probable that IxxJs are very common, but they're too obsessed with controling their environment and perceptions of those around them, that they never end up leaving the house, or their comfort zones.
How are you gonna run into an official MBTI test if you never leave your damned house, INxJs?! :)
On the internet duh lol
@@ladybluebell1598 I don't know of anyone whose taken an official MBTI outside of school/business settings. It's hella expensive I think. :D
@@NicStride oh my bad! I hear MBTI and immediately think of 16personalities.com
@@AnyaAnnika67 I see those mistypes to.
How would you clearly see "A lack of convergent Ni-Ti in comments" though? What do you mean by that?
Not to be a smart ass, but basically the common mistypes are a flip of every single MBTI letter
Ps r way cooler. Y would they wanna be a nerdy old J?
UA-camr Brooke Makenna. Is she an ISFP dya think? They're awesome!
The truth was watered down at “trauma can change you from an ENFP to an INFP”. Now you’re going to have a slew of people talking about how their “trauma” changed their type.
Be more accurate.
Both of you are having too much fun:?)
INFJ counts are distorted because people who spend more time on the Internet tend to be introverts. Second, INFJ females are actually not that rare. INFJ males are rare. I think there are fewer of every NT type for females compared to INFJ females
9:00 holy shit I was expecting her to delegate on behalf of others trying to keep the peace. NOPE straight roast! Pfff lost it hard there, made me laugh in public. Oof yikes! I'm just starting the video and this is getting gud.
"No one wants to be a messy tornado that never gets things done...." (Awkward........)
Haha, glad you are enjoying this video!! We were a bit unfiltered in this one, hope it was refreshing to watch :)
Same as an unfortunate idea that isfjs are "common" and it's isn't due to the facts of what differences are inside of isfj "common" functions. Lol.
OooOoh shit, it's Michelle
must be so close
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