What to do when a guy says he's busy

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  • Опубліковано 26 гру 2024

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  • @TheFactsofLife237
    @TheFactsofLife237 6 років тому +116

    You are never too busy for a priority!

  • @slemusrocks
    @slemusrocks 6 років тому +256

    Ambassador of the United Nations 😂😂😂😂😂😭😭

    • @mmrxca2842
      @mmrxca2842 6 років тому +1

      Stephanie Lemus 😂😂😂🤣🤣😂

    • @VeganGroceryLife
      @VeganGroceryLife 6 років тому +1

      Once I think he said Ambassador to North Korea 😂. I lost it😂.

    • @mmrxca2842
      @mmrxca2842 6 років тому

      lol!

    • @mmrxca2842
      @mmrxca2842 6 років тому

      lolololllloooo

    • @denig2000able
      @denig2000able 5 років тому

      I wish I had that line last night. But anyway the guy got the hint when I said I would go look for his twin that would turn up for date...he got tetchy and replied happy hunting. In short he blocked me today on what's app. Well despite the slight upset....at least he took himself out with the trash and I didn't have to do it for him. I wish though I knew the Ambassador of UN though. It turned my upset into a giggle....Next!!! If by chance this guy does come back I have a better line... I Will say....who's this...sorry I'm at a funeral...and if he replies I will say it's his as my interest in him has died!!!

  • @Jane_Toussaint23
    @Jane_Toussaint23 6 років тому +93

    Last time a guy was "too busy" for me, he was cheating on me.

  • @mhekaytv4851
    @mhekaytv4851 6 років тому +133

    His always busy ..but always online and not even send a fckng msg 😂😂😂.. im not fool so ... I run 😉

    • @Is.Freya.M
      @Is.Freya.M 6 років тому +10

      Mhe_Mie Sarino online "busy" chatting with other girls of course 😂😂 yeah, they deserve to be left in the cold

    • @mhekaytv4851
      @mhekaytv4851 6 років тому +4

      Thats really true.. thats the real player though hahhaha

    • @Is.Freya.M
      @Is.Freya.M 6 років тому +3

      Mhe_Mie Sarino indeed. so we gotta outsmart them and don.t accept such behavior

    • @mhekaytv4851
      @mhekaytv4851 6 років тому +6

      Oana Marria you right,, there's a lot of men so I believe that we can find someone who can give us value 😊 ...

    • @Is.Freya.M
      @Is.Freya.M 6 років тому +2

      Mhe_Mie Sarino true, there are good men also. At least we learned from the players how to watch for the red flags.

  • @fatimamathews
    @fatimamathews 6 років тому +43

    I used your tactic and sent the " we dont have to hang out" text. He responded by asking why I would say something like that lol!

    • @PinkLaptop
      @PinkLaptop 4 роки тому +9

      Fatima Shani ha lol. It crushed him.

    • @mariahconklin4150
      @mariahconklin4150 3 роки тому +2

      That’s funny! Lol! Unfortunately people have to play these games it’s sad.

  • @schnioula
    @schnioula 6 років тому +30

    Thank you for honesty! Nothing worse than love coaches who sell false hope!

  • @lisadeav73
    @lisadeav73 2 роки тому +10

    Notice how at the beginning of the relationship he's never busy. Mental notes

    • @thatmetalchiick
      @thatmetalchiick Рік тому

      RIGHT. he was texting me so fast the morning he wanted to f&ck me again!

  • @shaharazon2449
    @shaharazon2449 6 років тому +87

    If hes too busy. bye bye. even a workaholic can find time if they really want to

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 5 років тому +13

      True. I dated an attorney who worked over 8 hours a day and still replied to texts and called me. He lived in another state. Never made excuses.

  • @vennyblingas
    @vennyblingas 6 років тому +80

    😔👌 he is soo busy all the time .. Time for me to find someone who has time for me.. I worth that

    • @lduma5627
      @lduma5627 5 років тому +3

      Girl that someone who has time for you , is you!! 🥰

    • @redfather5342
      @redfather5342 2 роки тому

      No your not

    • @vennyblingas
      @vennyblingas 2 роки тому +2

      @@lduma5627 thank you hun!

  • @Soulwander818
    @Soulwander818 6 років тому +51

    He's online, sees my message and never replies. Then when I don't message him, he says I could have messaged.
    Yesterday he said I don't always look down on the screen. Lmfao.
    😂😂 Haha, some people can be hella funny.

  • @lovelychica111
    @lovelychica111 4 роки тому +11

    I dumped him yesterday.. he always says that he is always busy and he is only texting once a day.. so I told him yesterday that I'm not interested any more and good bye.

  • @marilynharper5854
    @marilynharper5854 4 роки тому +6

    This is one of your best videos
    If a person really want to spend time with you they will move heaven & earth to be with you

  • @Apricot90
    @Apricot90 4 роки тому +7

    My boyfriend is an INTJ... They usually hate texting or small talk (or people in general :))) and are often really busy either with work or with something scientific which occupies their mind.. But I can tell that he's a really caring and thoughtful person, honest and never mean or disgusting. He also never really had a relationship until his mid 30s.. No one is innocent of course, we all instinctivly do dirty things now and then

  • @harajukuloversbaby11
    @harajukuloversbaby11 6 років тому +28

    You put this video out at the right time... Thank you so much

  • @veronicaalmeda8014
    @veronicaalmeda8014 5 років тому +2

    Thank you for this. 4.30 minutes and on was an eye opener. Something that it may seem so obvious but can't be noticed when one is lost in infatuation and silly thoughts.

  • @user-oy2gr9ol5c
    @user-oy2gr9ol5c 6 років тому +46

    Alex, please, why why why does he keep making plans with me and then canceling at the last minute. He keeps pursuing me, but not following through. What does that mean???

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 6 років тому +50

      It means you need to not waste your time with him.

    • @Ramanhere468
      @Ramanhere468 6 років тому +35

      Ugh been there. He's a waste of time. Cut him off.

    • @Maria-rw7dd
      @Maria-rw7dd 6 років тому +22

      Some guy did that to me a total flake and looser!!! Forget him waste off time!

    • @gabrielladots5990
      @gabrielladots5990 6 років тому +30

      It means that he has no respect for you.

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 6 років тому +5

      Gabriella Dots Exactly

  • @HealthWithHilary
    @HealthWithHilary 6 років тому +17

    You expounded on this excellently. 👌

  • @shallshahi2652
    @shallshahi2652 6 років тому +8

    really needed this! thank you alex😩

  • @asalane20
    @asalane20 6 років тому +16

    Effin ambassador of the United Nation! lol

  • @StrawBerry-wj5xl
    @StrawBerry-wj5xl 3 роки тому +2

    God bless you Father Alex 🙏🏻💘

  • @lauramci22
    @lauramci22 6 років тому +5

    My EX is so mad at me and resents me. He wants me to move out of the state. But is trying to hurt me by rejecting me over and over again. Like punishing me.

  • @djwhisper3246
    @djwhisper3246 6 років тому +1

    I like how you use examples. I needed to understand this because for some reason I don't understand how to listen to my own reasoning.

  • @lilhope8292
    @lilhope8292 3 роки тому +2

    I like the intro sm "so he's busy huh? He's busy?" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @fizzo971
    @fizzo971 6 років тому +2

    hi I wanted to say thank you Alex because your tactics worked. When my sitation gets better Ill support you like you deserve ! I learned so much

  • @katbigos6451
    @katbigos6451 5 років тому +5

    There’s plenty of guys out there that will have time for me to hang out with me and I really want to see me I won’t be too busy

  • @mujathepaganprepper7610
    @mujathepaganprepper7610 3 роки тому +8

    NEVER ASK A GUY OUT!!! MAKE HIM ASK YOU OUT AND GIVE YOU A GOOD REASON WHY TO SAY YES!!

    • @redfather5342
      @redfather5342 2 роки тому +1

      What makes you so fucking important

  • @Bloomtobestself
    @Bloomtobestself 6 років тому +7

    lol love how the video ended

  • @victoryudo1
    @victoryudo1 6 років тому +15

    What if it's an online long distance relationship?

    • @MegaBlueEyezz
      @MegaBlueEyezz 4 роки тому +6

      An online long distance relationship is nothing.

    • @lillyours666
      @lillyours666 5 місяців тому

      ​@@MegaBlueEyezzthen you're nothing

  • @kristikg7431
    @kristikg7431 6 років тому +12

    love the camera falls.

  • @FeelTheOrient1
    @FeelTheOrient1 6 років тому +14

    Can not tell you how many of your vids I have already watched it became a routine so that I need motivational words every single day!! Thank you for being so self-confident and helpful! I would love to watch a video about how to overcome an obsession with a guy who you are in a relationship with... I am excessively thinking and overthinking every single shit and scared of what will come next even though there is nothing to worry about, he texts me everything what he did and does, where he is and so on but the only thing is that he doesnt like to talk on the phone and never calls me, he would pick up or call me back if I called him and he has been single for 2 years and I am so confused like even though I got all those other signs that he likes me I am so insecure and this leads to obsession and wanting to control everythng and be assured all the fucking time, would love to hear something referring to that. Lots of greetings from Austria, you know the little country next to Germanym, where the Alps are =)

  • @vanessamorales1867
    @vanessamorales1867 6 років тому +7

    Lol you are so damn hilarious!!😂 thank you for the somewhat of the male insight to things.. And the whole smoking thing 😆cute microphone

  • @naturalcurlyhair8331
    @naturalcurlyhair8331 6 років тому +7

    Master of Selfmovement just be a gentleman and ask her to carry her books for her. Open doors be real and mannerable don't play games because you may meet the right young lady I don't care if you may be young.Just be respectful and earn respect.

  • @pennir8834
    @pennir8834 6 років тому +13

    Thanks Alex I was told this tonight 🤔🤔🤔. This video kept making me laugh think you need a new camera 😂😂😂

    • @mistybella8615
      @mistybella8615 6 років тому +1

      Penni Rowe back off and see what happends

    • @pennir8834
      @pennir8834 6 років тому +1

      Misty Bella thank you I'm trying that right now......head wrecking lol wish me luck 😉😉

  • @lalmuankimichhakchhuak5424
    @lalmuankimichhakchhuak5424 6 років тому +7

    What about bad girls? Why men are attracted to them? Their character traits

  • @gxniie1825
    @gxniie1825 5 років тому +3

    1st reason when i ask, he's been busy. I ignoring him cause i know what's that mean, i hate it. About two weeks no contact, he started posted sad or angry quote and weird videos on social media. I hit him up even tho i won't do that , just want to get the clarity wth is going on and once again same answer, he's been busy. I think it's enough. I leave his busy ass. 🙌

  • @mmrxca2842
    @mmrxca2842 6 років тому +1

    The camera!😂😂🤣

  • @milesaway794
    @milesaway794 6 років тому +1

    I went on a first date with this guy,as soon as we order something to drink,he told me,he will be busy for a month,it really hit me ugh..

  • @CatEyedGoddess
    @CatEyedGoddess 4 роки тому +2

    When he canceled a our date because he was busy. Moving a friend out a storage unit and going to a 3 year old birthday party and he doesn't even have kids. I said to him we planned this a week ago. He didn't have an answer, said he would call me, never heard back. Oh well. His loss, not mine.

  • @tristinajames9816
    @tristinajames9816 3 роки тому

    So what does it mean when he expressed that he wants to continue to see me and stop with the good morning texts etc. Now all of a sudden he is busy but is always on Instagram. I told him that someone is asking me out and he stated that he is at work and will contact me when he done and doesn’t want me too think I’m ignoring him. And nothing

  • @MindfulAttraction2.0
    @MindfulAttraction2.0  6 років тому +3

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  • @biancawijaya1772
    @biancawijaya1772 4 роки тому

    That intro tho.... 😂❤ Love you

  • @BlkKidWithTheGlasses
    @BlkKidWithTheGlasses 6 років тому +4

    What's with that window? :0

  • @ImCheesedOut
    @ImCheesedOut 6 років тому +12

    What if he says he has been studying hard and he will call you after his exams but you still see him in social media?

    • @gabrielladots5990
      @gabrielladots5990 6 років тому +3

      SM is a short distraction from the stress of study. Not an issue. Let them have space during exams. Watch him at any other time, however.

    • @candygirl9591
      @candygirl9591 6 років тому +12

      ImCheesedOut if he has time to be on social media then if he was "interested" he would also take that time to reach out to you. In fact, he would prefer reaching out to you than being on social media, if he was interested in you. Don't fall for the game and don't make excuses for his actions.

    • @gabrielladots5990
      @gabrielladots5990 6 років тому +3

      If the girl is sleeping with him, she is more worried. Don't do it girls!

    • @dg-qn5mi
      @dg-qn5mi 2 роки тому

      BULLSHIT

  • @Tatianarain
    @Tatianarain 3 роки тому +2

    I cannot believe this actually worked! Thank you Jesus for leading me here. The first time I listened to this,I was high but it made it click even much more

  • @budgetrebelgoals
    @budgetrebelgoals 6 років тому +1

    The man I want to date is a 3 year widow, used time to work,be in social club and keeps so busy to not think of wife or should I think he is blowing me off

  • @nourz2454
    @nourz2454 4 роки тому

    you are the best ..i don't ever get bored listening to you 😍

  • @duckypam
    @duckypam 6 років тому +2

    How do I attract a religious guy? I can get regular guys but guys in my religion don't react the same way.

  • @andrajulie
    @andrajulie 6 років тому +1

    Like the haircut Alex 😉

  • @cmh9932
    @cmh9932 6 років тому

    Your intro had me dying LOL Sooooooooo oo Busy! 😂

  • @charmainejoycemunar613
    @charmainejoycemunar613 6 років тому +7

    😂😂😂 Your cam is drunk.

  • @RichelleDunbar
    @RichelleDunbar 5 років тому +1

    What If he just ended a relationship because he was too busy?

  • @MindfulAttraction2.0
    @MindfulAttraction2.0  5 років тому +3

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  • @kitstanwood
    @kitstanwood 2 роки тому

    Thank you 🙏

  • @savicast19
    @savicast19 6 років тому +1

    Hahaha you we’re so high you were , smoking , smoking smoking elocuente and fun 😂😂😂

  • @crockyraby5932
    @crockyraby5932 6 років тому +2

    Hey ! What's your other chanel please? ❤

  • @mariahconklin4150
    @mariahconklin4150 3 роки тому

    In my case I’m really thinking he’s busy. Lol!

  • @tetehl4731
    @tetehl4731 6 років тому

    He has time to do something else but not with you..Ouchhh 😔😔😭

  • @novemberrain5442
    @novemberrain5442 6 років тому +2

    beautiful background

  • @naomisavv
    @naomisavv 5 років тому

    The beginning tho 😭😂😂😂

  • @gabrielladots5990
    @gabrielladots5990 6 років тому +52

    All of these relationship problems would be avoided if women stop sleeping with men prior to marriage. Men get "busy" after they get the cookie. Wake the F up!

  • @suziezelenka921
    @suziezelenka921 2 роки тому

    Thats the excuse i always use🤣🤣🤣

  • @rettarere7998
    @rettarere7998 4 роки тому +1

    I love you alex💜

  • @tiffanyskinner
    @tiffanyskinner 6 років тому

    1:23 wtf 😂😂😂

  • @aylaa4774
    @aylaa4774 6 років тому +12

    You need a new camera Alex lmao. For me Its the other way around, a guy I like keeps pursuing me. He makes plans but I say Im busy or working. I like him but dont wanna come across needy. I just want him to make more effort.

    • @ay-de6sq
      @ay-de6sq 6 років тому +2

      Nayla A u just playin then

    • @Is.Freya.M
      @Is.Freya.M 6 років тому +4

      ay better than to be played. way to go girl! make him work for it!

    • @ay-de6sq
      @ay-de6sq 6 років тому

      He's gonna take that as ur not interested and dip

    • @Is.Freya.M
      @Is.Freya.M 6 років тому +3

      ay my experience has been that the moment i let my guard down, they.ll take advantage & feel like the game is over and take me for granted.

    • @aylaa4774
      @aylaa4774 6 років тому +1

      ay not necessarily, we will go out eventually but he cant just expect me to be available right off the bat.

  • @gabikarvak
    @gabikarvak 3 роки тому

    Ambassador of the United Nations, okay you got me now 😀😀😀😀😀

  • @belvienna646
    @belvienna646 6 років тому

    Dalexis, could you do a video on how to deal with him dating another girl . She is also so beautiful and it’s driving me crazy and jealous . I don’t know how to not let this affect my behaviour when I am around him as he doesn’t know I know about the other girl . How do I come off attractive and also potentially how do I win him over ? - I would be so grateful if you could somewhat cover this topic .

  • @tha_plumma_gang2328
    @tha_plumma_gang2328 6 років тому +1

    Lmao I thought he said donate to my go fuck me account 😂

  • @brianabrixxx
    @brianabrixxx 6 років тому

    Lmao I liked this video in the first 10 seconds cuz u funny asl 😂😂 so sassy

  • @asalane20
    @asalane20 6 років тому +3

    That fluffy mike ???

  • @subliminaljunkie3748
    @subliminaljunkie3748 6 років тому

    Pls can you make a video about personality and charisma for women (nothing to do with dating)? A lot of the videos are just for men

  • @Kimtei-mom-of-2
    @Kimtei-mom-of-2 5 років тому +1

    yea he's busy

  • @chanellekeepsit1006
    @chanellekeepsit1006 6 років тому

    PREACH

  • @bonnieburton9985
    @bonnieburton9985 4 роки тому

    I would say just block his number get rid of him and delete his contacts found some of the better and be careful

  • @Amaze8268
    @Amaze8268 6 років тому

    What is that next to you?

  • @masterofselfmovement8811
    @masterofselfmovement8811 6 років тому +2

    Any advice for getting girls in high school?

  • @Imrd123
    @Imrd123 6 років тому

    1:27 😂

  • @Dragging_Knuckles
    @Dragging_Knuckles 6 років тому +2

    I feel that you have accents of French 😄👏

  • @sunshinexoxo4984
    @sunshinexoxo4984 6 років тому +1

    Man I love your videos, but theyre too long! Condense them to a shorter version. The info will stick better!

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  6 років тому

      Can't else you'll miss out on important info

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  6 років тому +1

      Wait this vid is 6 mins long, what u talking about long?

    • @sunshinexoxo4984
      @sunshinexoxo4984 6 років тому

      I was watching a lot of your old videos, and just wanted to tell you I like your message, but most of your videos are sooo long the message almost gets lost.., overall bang up job!!

  • @tiffanyskinner
    @tiffanyskinner 6 років тому

    3:08-3:16 😂😂

  • @ashleyriosrizo
    @ashleyriosrizo 4 роки тому

    Hes a fucking ambassador of the United Nations...lol

  • @nempalanggalan8763
    @nempalanggalan8763 5 років тому

    ouch!

  • @MysticalCheshireKat
    @MysticalCheshireKat 6 років тому

    You're sensational

  • @rafapimentel599
    @rafapimentel599 4 роки тому

    LIES HE TELL

  • @zipporahmeredith6791
    @zipporahmeredith6791 6 років тому

    I guy never said that to me unless he’s at work but you look just like my boyfriend I call him muscle man lol

  • @JMthdjhgbnjk
    @JMthdjhgbnjk 4 роки тому

    What's it with that microphone? Lol

  • @1Blkmadonna
    @1Blkmadonna 6 років тому +1

    Lmao u r hilarious

  • @beneze1374
    @beneze1374 6 років тому

    When you dropping a video on the guys channel

  • @sonias9722
    @sonias9722 6 років тому +1

    Yay I don't like him anymore!! Been busy :)

  • @EmilyHummingbird
    @EmilyHummingbird 6 років тому

    Wait... What are you holding? XD

  • @gamerpro6858
    @gamerpro6858 6 років тому +4

    Lol your funny.. but smart

  • @realtalktina
    @realtalktina 3 роки тому

    I just noticed Alexis has a mark on his forehead and it looks like a cross on his forehead he might be the chosen one!!!

  • @hafsahafsa6108
    @hafsahafsa6108 6 років тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kokoawan
    @kokoawan 6 років тому

    kinda sad but ..✔it. 👍

  • @angelblueeyes2339
    @angelblueeyes2339 2 роки тому

    😴😴😴

  • @tasafolan2691
    @tasafolan2691 5 років тому

    fuckin hate my life right now

  • @lamartelekung9769
    @lamartelekung9769 3 роки тому

    to busy

  • @katbigos6451
    @katbigos6451 5 років тому

    ☺️

  • @summat2286
    @summat2286 6 років тому

    What is going on behind you? The colors...

  • @lovesme24
    @lovesme24 2 роки тому

    Grow your hair back but lobe the video

  • @truthseeker1649
    @truthseeker1649 5 років тому +1

    I love your mind!! I would date you in a heartbeat!💞

    • @arabchic7855
      @arabchic7855 4 роки тому +1

      Nooo way he be playing minds games all the time
      And lose interest quickly ain’t gotta time for that 😂 still his biggest fan he advice is amazing 😉

    • @truthseeker1649
      @truthseeker1649 4 роки тому

      @@arabchic7855 lol, true that!☝️🤔😁💞

    • @truthseeker1649
      @truthseeker1649 4 роки тому

      You have a lovely profile pic. Very pretty💞 I ain't gay lol I just don't think us women compliment each other enough sometimes u know?💞