What are the Most Introverted of the 16 Personalities? (and the Most Extroverted)
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- Which are the most introverted and extroverted of the 16 Myers Briggs Personalities?
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But which MBTI are the least and least likely to sign up for Grammerly?
@@sidehustletips BLAHAHAHAHA Probably The ESTJ’s Even Though They Are So Over Represented In The MBTI Spectrum. My Guess Anyway #ClubENTP ;)
INTJ: Leave funny comments on the internet and pretends it's social interaction.
INTP: Thumbs ups comment as social interaction.
🤭😂😂🤣
ENTP: Replies to those comments in an attempt to start an argument (which they are determined to win).
@@annoymous_ INTJ joins, calls the ENTP a dumbass, refuses to elaborate further.
@@end4567 ENFP: Joins in to turn the situation into a meme.
i am an intp, but this comment's so funny that it made me reply😳
INFP: I have won, but for what cost..
EXACTLY!!! LIKE "YAYYY IM FINALLY GOOD @ SOMETHING!!!" BUT ITS NTO THE BEST THING TO FLEX ABT AHHHH!!!!!
We won haha
Anime, Shakespeare and quiet weekends spent with wine and cats for company.
@@grin9ly it’s a good thing. Compared to other people you’re far less likely to pick fights at the pool-table, disturb people with your business or talk too much. I like the peace that comes with IxxPs (who choose not to readily communicate their stuff with other people or make noise just for the sake of making noise). ESTJs and ESFPs (etc.) on the other hand talk too, too, too much and when you’re around them they hold up your time just for the sake of it (just to talk).
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As an INFP, I agree with the ranking, however I feel like some INFPs can have a spectrum of being extremely sociable in certain situations, but also having moments of complete isolation.
In any way, it's one of the types I can see going trough a entire life isolating themselves without a problem.
Are infps obese
@@jim88 I’m an infp, I am not obese
@@jim88 I don't think your personality type can determine if you're obese or not. Can't generalize that.
I totally agree! I can be extremely sociable with my friends, or if a topic comes up that I’m super passionate about, sometimes I am quiet lol
@@ggloom3316 It can affect your habits which can increase or decrease chances of obesity. INFPs are extremely prone to obesity.
I like where you ranked INFJ. I’ve heard the “oh we’re the most extroverted introvert” and I get why people might think that because we fake it so well! But it isn’t our natural state, and we require LOTS of recharge time. My sister is an INTJ, and there have been multiple times where she recovers quicker than me and then finds it strange that I still seem so drained.
I'm an INFJ and this is so true.
True
I’m an INFP, but I so relate to the “faking it” thing. A lot of acquaintances probably think I’m an extrovert, especially if they’re introverts. (idk why I start acting like an ENFP around introverts, especially IxTx types, but it’s like I can’t help it or something. My secondary extroverted intuition starts commandeering my personality and idk how to turn it off. It might have something to do with my fear of awkward silences. Lol)
But then I need a bunch of time to recharge after acting like an extrovert, and I worry people get offended that I don’t reach out to them because it doesn’t even occur to them that I’m an introvert with impeccable acting skills (apparently) who can’t handle being social 24/7.
I don't even have time to recharge because Im exposed to social situations very frequently lol
This seems to be a common thing when switching between 1st 3rd function loop and 2nd 4th function loop and back. For introverts their 1st and 3rd function are actually the most comfortable to use and when used in an unhealthy way, avoiding the 2nd function can cause a loop that is extremely closed off and internal. When switching to the 2nd 4th extroverted function loop you can gain a burst of energy that can temporarily seem as if you are an extrovert. With Fe being 2nd, it allows an INFJ to be a social "chameleon", however after this state has worn off, the switch back to the 1st and 3rd function loop can cause a mental energy crash in which you are left to processing the gained information and experiences internally.
As a INFP its really true, at school i'm known by being smart and extremally quiet, and i just talk a little to like four people in my class. But when i am with my friends off school i turn out to be a totally different person, i make jokes, say non-sense stuff and talk a lot (i actually often afraid of get a way too comfortable with someone because a literaly starts to talk non-stop ), and sometimes act like i was a extrovert like person . If my classmates saw me they would be so shocked...
Edit: I was afraid of my English not being good since its the first time i don't use the google translator to reply, but WOW, i glad so many people relate.
@Luna Silverwings ikr? The kind of "am i being a right INFP?" thought even when you are sure you are a INFP lol
_Today is the 19th December 2021. I just found a bunch of clones of myself. A bizzare but fascinating sight._
I feel your fear. I sometimes worry I talk too much with those I am very comfortable with. But I have never doubted my INFPness, lol. Others may doubt the I in me when they see my "extravertedness" but I have worked very hard to overcome what the world views as being introverted and am getting better at being more socialable, but any chance I can get to be by myself, I will take it lol
As an ISTP I can confirm that at school I’m really quite and barely talk to people, but at home I act a lot more extroverted, saying nonsense being pretty talkative, and just generally comfortable.
Yeah, that’s like me with my siblings. We can talk for hours on end. I feel like my classmates would be surprised about how extroverted I seem at home.
My personal estimate:
ESFJ
ENFJ
ESFP
ESTP
ESTJ
ENTJ
ENFP
ENTP
ISFJ
INFJ
ISFP
ISTP
ISTJ
INFP
INTJ
INTP
Your order's good, though. I see the logic behind it
I see that yours is a more separately evaluated list. Frank's list had a system "etj, efj, etp, efp, itj, ifj, itp, ifp"
That's something I find interesting for some reason.
- ENTP 854
IMO
Most introverted I type: INTx
Most extroverted I type: ISFJ
Most introverted E type: ENxP
Most extroverted E type: ESFJ
I think INTPs are more sociable than ISTx though. We are called the 'friendly introvert' for a reason. We are more likely to try and least be friendly to save face rather than immediately retreating and blowing you off.
IMO
Most introverted: IXXX
Most extroverted: EXXX
Most introverted I type is INTJ
Most extroverted I type is ISFP
Most introverted E type is ENTP
Most extroverted E type is ESFP
@@justinwhite2725 “friendly introvert” is a term I’d apply to ISFJs and INFX types first any day of the week. Most INTPs don’t seem friendly at all.
@@Candi_Clown Cannot agree.
Can’t wait for the premiere, Frank! I’m an INFP that’s a smidge away from extrovert-land. I feel like I have an ENFP sense of humor, free-association, and I want to do all the things. I have a healthy-sized friend group (whatever that means), but I don’t really get FOMO when they’re doing stuff and I don’t feel up to hanging out. I’m wondering if there are spectrums of introversion/extroversion within each personality type. Excited to hear your take on it!
Samesies!
Infp too. Don't have friends. And i hate being introvert.
@@aviralsinghal1274 Hugs!
ENFP here! Married to an ENFP as well. And active in the ENFP community.
INFPs typically just "know" that they are an introvert and aren't very likely to question their introversion. On the other hand, ENFPs are fairly likely to question their extroversion. This is due to the fact that Extroverted Intuition can be utilized even without socialization.
I think that you're likely an ENFP.
To answer your question however, introversion / extroversion does exist on a spectrum. And enneagrams are also rather impactful. My wife is an enneagram type 2 sx/so. More than anything, she wants other people to like her. And she's very high extroversion. So, she feels FOMO and wants to always be around other people - making them like her. I am an enneagram type 3w4 so/sp. So, I want to be seen as successful and to be unique. I also have low-ish extroversion. So, I am sort of like an introvert - and don't need very much company. But, my primary function is Extroverted Intuition - which I frequently use alone.
I’m INFP but most people will tell you I’m an extrovert. I’ve worked it out like this: I like people, I draw energy from them, then I have enough energy to live on my own without speaking to anyone for three weeks.
Same.
Yup! Lol
You say it backwards. You gain energy from three weeks and then discharge in social interaction.
With enough practice, we all can fake it !
@@reza9332 oh, I never thought of it that way.
As an INFP myself I completely agree about INFP being the most introverted
Totally agree.
I'm INFP and I have social anxiety, my father often mad at me because I'm not talkative and I'm too scared to socialize with people..
@@chibi_okami exactly my dad to 😭
@@chibi_okami same here
when we need time to ourselves, we NEED TIME FOR OURSELVES period.
My brother’s an ENFP and he thinks he’s an introvert; but compared to me [INFP] he’s definitely more extroverted. I think a lot of ENFPs get mistyped as introverts.
Eh he could just be more assertive infp.
If hes good at socializing that doesnt mean hes extroverted... he can probably get just as drained or more drained from small talk and large social groups or gatherings.
Unless you know he loves being around others and seems alive when in crowds and stuff
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Omg you and your brother have the same MBTI but there’s a difference is introversion and extroversion. It’s the same case with my brother and I. He’s an ENTJ and I’m an INTJ
@@jim88 SAME I had to regive the quiz because I’d given three and they all gave me different answers and I finally got two INTJ results after taking four quizzes
@@mistrae7 youre infp not intj
I'm an intp, and I can say with confidence, I'm the most introverted person I've ever met :')
This is also my 6th comment in the many years I've been on UA-cam
INTP's are definitely the most introverted type. INFP's are 2nd.
@@duckbacon3117 eehhh, I mean, it probably just depends on the person- I can absolutely see INFPs being the most introverted, but we just don't always _act_ like it- while INTPs on the other hand might act more like how you'd expect someone very introverted to act. but again it probably just depends on who it is, really
As an INTP-T, a ESFP literally said speak your mind and I was just like: “If I speak my mind, people would hate me.”
You haven’t seen me I have severe autism and I’m isfp the reason why you will never meet us is because we never leave the home I want to but i can’t
lol ok bud - intj
It's very true for me as an INFP. Although I'm not sooo introverted. When I talk about stuff I like I feel like I'd turn into an ENFP 😂
Also I always thought ESFP is the most extroverted type
Haha as an INFP I sometimes feel that way too, with feeling like an ENFP when I talk - when I talk about things I'm interested in, at least. ;))
So did I. I always would’ve considered ESFPs the most free-spirited and party-loving. I feel like Frank James should do a video explaining the confusion behind the way he ranks ESFPs and INFJs (which I’m not saying is wrong but might take people by surprise).
Also, (especially seeing as Frank James is a tax accountant by day) does anyone know how ENXPs and INFJs do in the accounting/finance world or is it seen as very much a stereotypical ISTX/J kind of job? I feel like a lot of INFJs might study Accounting because of the security/vaguely scientific aesthetics but find it not Fe-oriented enough and end up wishing they would’ve studied medicine or international economics or something instead. And really Accounting’s not the best loop to be stuck in indefinitely when you’re not yet a chartered accountant (assuming that’s what you even want to be) so I’m guessing that adds to the frustration. Again, it would be nice if Frank did a video on this. I imagine he’d be helping out a lot of people, especially seeing as that’s his own day trade.
IxxPs: You will NEVER know what we're thinking.
Not when we are thinking multiple thoughts simultaneously
As an INFP with 1% extroversion on the Big Five, I entirely agree with your rankings and the reasons for them.
I somehow managed to get 100% of intraversion. Can't deny.
94% introversion here
Also 94% here as ISFP
100%. Although there was that one time I scored 99. Alas, it soon went back to 100. I could spend nearly forever alone and be pretty happy with it.
I was a little thrown by the thinkers being above the feelers lol, but I liked what you said about how thinkers can be more assertive and less worried about the feeling state of others, I thought that was a really good point! I have been noticing how much I hesitate and sometimes go quiet in conversations lol so that made a lot of sense to me lol.
Btw love the beautiful red watch! Looked very dapper with the suit as well 😄 …you're right, I did feel slightly underdressed sat here in a top with the Lady and the Tramp spaghetti scene on it 🥴😆
It would make quite abit of sense for thinkers to be more introverted tho.
Yeah, as an ENTP, ExFPs tend to be a lot more extroverted than I am, but I get where he's coming from with "assertiveness"
Wow infps never had any vaccine
Yeah I don't think thinkers are more extraverted..I know ISFJs are more extraverted than me (INTJ)
The thing you’ve got to be mindful of is that extroversion here corresponds more with vis-à-vis social outgoingness than interest in people in a humanitarian interest per-se. The types most interested in people, sociology and humanitarianism tend to be the NF types and ISFJs are almost without peer in terms of overall agreeableness so don’t think Frank James’ description of ExxPs and IxxJs only having “some” interest in the people in their environment at the expense of experience-impressions and the deeper meaning of things implies that the more introverted someone is, the less caring they are. Vis-à-vis social assertiveness alone certainly doesn’t make someone an empath or natural shrink/psychologist. ESTJs, in all their external command, are psychologically-aloof whereas INFPs, for all their deep love and care for humanity, are situationally/contextually aloof. There’s a difference. Being loud and socially-assertive has virtually nothing to do with being interested in people on a deeper level, otherwise ESTJs and ESFPs would be the psychologists, psychiatrists, counsellors/psychotherapists, nurses, dutiful overall caretakers and social campaigners/advocates of this world and not INFJs, ISFJs, INFPs and ENFPs. ExFJs are balanced in that sense but certainly not the first two I mentioned. That’s not what Frank’s getting at.
I think it varies person to person even within specific Types. Speaking as a very introverted INTJ, I plan as far ahead as possible to avoid as many people as possible at social functions. I have multiple avenues of escape, both temporary and otherwise set in place so that I can get out if I need it… and I have made deliberate plans that I know will prevent me from accepting social invitations before. “Oh darn! I’m going to be out of town that day!” (Yes. Out of town. As in, I will be 1/2 hour away in the next town over, at the book store.)
I used to feel guilty about my introversion, and what I described above would have appalled a much younger me. But I have learned that I have limits, and if I plan carefully, I can still show up when it is important, and my escape strategies are specifically designed to keep from hurting the people I care about. It is not fair to me or them if I allow myself to get burned out.
Yeah as an INTJ I totally agree
My principle is...
If you don't organize or put in place something, you don't have control over it.
Your room, desk and according to this context 'Time!'
If you don't have it structured, you don't have an argument.
Far from the point of this problem
There is the problem (let's call it problem first)
Of writing a lot
What do you see about it? It's common?
I write a lot, and structure well my point... and i think sometimes people find it useless
But i instead feel comfortable.
It only can take small minutes to read.
Fellow INTJ, I can type the large text you have just done or let you do it for me simply so to not waste time of which I don’t need to waste. I will do the second option and so I say; I am and feel exactly the same.
You attend social functions. You are far more extroverted than those of us who would rather die.
Interesting as an INTJ, I'm just completely honest when I've had enough. If you're honest all the time, I think your friends learn to understand and respect that, and their feelings aren't hurt, or at least they just get used to it haha. Most people couldn't give a fuck that you've left anyway. I would say I'm really not very introverted though, and I have very little social anxiety, so I imagine my limit is more socially acceptable than yours?
In spite of all this, it is curiously a very personal thing. The personality is also very affected by life experiences. Saying this as an INFJ that had become confident and social during my first job...and now grew completely exhausted, not being able to socialize even with my own few family members. I can only tolerate my dogs, not humans... :/
Everyone from 15 to 105 has had their world turned upside down the last couple years. It's much more exhausting now to navigate people in America and Europe. I'm old enough to remember when life was a lot more chill. Pick your people carefully. Close family can actually be most wearying of all.
Probably offensive but could be mental illness or a lot of stress
I can relate with your experience Debz. There has been situations (also with one of my recent jobs) where I had to be very social, resourceful, and outspoken to thrive in the work environment. It was interesting because I didn't feel like my usual self after awhile; I found maintaining that outspoken personality to be quite draining. I was very social during work but would become incredibly reserved afterwarss - I wouldn't socialize with family either despite having initiating social interactions at work. It was a weird feeling at the time and I didnt realize it was my way of recharging
As an INFJ T female, I totally understand how a work space can influence your confidence. I worked as an English teacher first and never had been more confident. When I entered working for Tv stations they ripped me to shreds. I was going through a difficult time and it shattered my self image on the long run now I'm a writer working from home away from people and female coworkers.
As an INFP I can be very extroverted with people I know well and trust. When I am around them and strangers are present they often get a surprise when they hear I am actually an introvert.
Thus said, I am also the type of person who would rather spend extra 30 minutes in the cold taking the long way home, just to avoid meeting any neighbours. Recently spent 2 weeks in a quarantine in a hotel, totally alone. I was scared before my arrival, because every single person I have talked to or seen on youtube was going crazy from loneliness. However, I ended up having some of the best time of my life, I felt like I could stay there for longer, learnt so much about myself too.
I'm an ISTP and I don't mind hanging out with peeps but I'm very independent and reserved which makes me come off as shy. I could spend all day talking and interacting with a few people that I'm close with but I only last like an hour or two at parties or larger get-togethers because I suck at small talk and large groups drain my energy.
same
although i appreciate solitude more than anything else in this world lol
I relate to ISTPs a lot, as an INFJ. Same functions but different order. Strong silent types that can come off as shy. My roommate is an ISTP and we both understand each other’s need to be alone. They will talk if it’s a topic that interests them.
same, as an istp too i agree
Sameee
That’s still quite outgoing compared to a typical INTP (who could happily go ten years without speaking to anyone other than their mum). INTPs really hate social interaction of just about any kind.
As an INTP who hasn’t left their house in months (barely lol) and spend majority of their time learning interesting things forgetting about other humans, most the time lol, I thought for sure even if I wasn’t an INTP whatever my type is there most likely isn’t anyone more introverted but then I got more into personality theory and typed as a 5w4 on the enneagram test and learned both those enneagram types are introverted so perhaps I’m just an INTP 5w4 the super introvert lol 😂 actually one of the only humans I talk with is an INFP and they recently asked me when was the last time I interacted with the public ( I assume they meant when was the last time I went out into any public space, which it’s been months now lol) but despite not interacting with humans for long periods of time (via in person or online) rarely does it become harder to communicate again after the period of time has passed, actually for me what actually is a month or two just feel like a few weeks to me. On top of that I don’t post on social media and I forget to message everyone back that messages me on social media, usually takes me a couple weeks to notice but by then every other personality assumes I ignored them and never messages me back 😅😭😭 I think the only few friends I have left are starting to get fed up with it too 😭 oh the life of the INTP.
im guessing u’ve talked more in this comment more than u did irl in the span of 5 months /j
I see your INTP 5w4 and raise you a Schizoid Personality Diagnosis👋🏽
This is me Intp 5w4
Hahaha INTP are great and so interesting ppl to me as a infj, I love what we bring to each other, they teach me to be more patient about details and explain things in such clear and organized way ( as teacher) ..and me making them feel comfortable enough to them to open up and act more" lose " maybe more outgoing too...
But not saying everything infj would make INTPs " outgoing" is just my experience as a infj type 7w6..( a more extroverted infj) 🤷🏻♀️😊
@@onecoolghoul 😂😂
As an INTP, I can confirm that I will never stop talking about something if somebody asks about it, or if I just wanna talk about it.
I’m also the quiet kid at school and a complete party animal. But only around my two friends.
I too am an INTP and if people talk about a topic's that in my area of interest, I can go on and on.
I love being ENFP, the least extroverted of the extroverts. It’s the best of both worlds. I’m fully capable of enjoying my alone time, work (engineering) provides me enough human interaction that I can go home and feel content without additional interaction. I can be bold and take the initiative when talking to new people, when I do it’s usually because I want to know what they know or who/how they are. I see it as gathering sample data. I need to talk to people to learn.
I'm an INTP and can confirm that I'm super introverted. But I don't have problem with talk to people, *just if I need to* , with my friends or family, in case I need to build relation, I can force myself to become extroverted sometimes
I’m an istp and I’m pretty much on par with my most extroverted friends when it comes to socializing. I just really like talking to people sometimes. And other times I’m the most quiet and non interesting person in the room lol.
The problem is that you get bursts of socialization energy, but it drains quickly doing the extrovert thing leaving you wanting to go into isolation for awhile. ISTP as well and i'm the same way. It kind of makes people think you're weird because here you were with all the spunky energy, and then you don't want anything to do with anyone the next day.
This makes being a stay at home mom very tough for me sometimes .
Same.
Dude this can’t be more accurate. I can be EXTREMELY extroverted at times around mainly anyone, but be isolated once again. It’s really weird
@@samiyousaf5362 the same with me. I can be very extroverted, but easily worn out and oversocialized. I can also spend weeks and months alone, no problem. We are just wired differently.
I am am INFP married to an ESTJ. What was I thinking? 😂 The only reason it works is that we got together when we were older and our cognitive functions are more developed. And because I am a Saint. Jk. We were friends first so that helped a lot too.
I have gotten more extroverted, or better at masking maybe, as I have gotten older. Or maybe I have dropped any shyness. Sometimes people doubt that I am an introvert, because I lead Laughter Yoga, but not the people who really know me.
Wouldn‘t it be hard to tell? I’m no expert, but two of my daughters and I are INFP. However, our percentages greatly differ when it comes to introversion, etc. We are on opposite sides of the INFP spectrum, if you will. Of course, once I start watching, I usually realize that Frank uses an entirely different metric to what I had originally thought… Looking forward to this.
Yeah, he just takes the mean if you put all of the people with each type on a scale. He is merely giving educated guesses, however. (So it is likely that you should take this video with a grain of salt)
"two of my daughters and I are INFP"
My condolences.
@@dr.perruche1278 yeahh, it's like on an average scale. Frank said.
@@alexeysaranchev6118 lol💀
@UCFxjZpUGJziWvCm2IoCQhsQ fuvk you what? INFP HERE
Also, I'm an ENFP and I really need a lot of social interaction in a day to feel energized and productive and happy. I get drained not meeting up with people or sitting at home alone
Same
As an enfp - I need my alone time just as much as social interaction. And sometimes I'd prefer someone to be in the other room while I'm having my alone time 😄😅
I believe I’m an esfp and this pretty much sums up how I feel too 🤧
@@amanifestasticlife842 same
There's definitely a range within the types because I can sometimes be more extroverted as an INFJ, but then I can also be quite introverted. Mood and circumstances affect that. Nice video, Frank. Thank you. 😊
Yeah Stephanie, you're a normal human. I too am more extroverted in certain scenarios.
@@end4567 I agree with the "human" part. "Normal?" That's questionable!🙃😂
@@StephanieJeanne INFJs adapt to their environment so if you're socializing with extroverted people you're going to feel more like them, and the same with introverts. Mood and circumstances affect everyone, but the actual environment affecting our behavior is an INFJ thing.
@@joaostcgomes Yes, that is true.😊
@@StephanieJeanne I'm an INFJ-T and I'm 96% introverted, however I'll talk to someone for a good while once I get to know and trust them.
As an INFP, I totally agree. My best friend is an INFJ, although she's more extroverted than me; before knowing anything about MBTI I thought she was extroverted
I’m an ISTJ and people who don’t know me very well think I’m extroverted. I tell them they should be honored that I feel comfortable enough around them to be talkative and (relatively) open. When I’m in a place where I feel uncomfortable/don’t know anyone, I stand there nursing a drink, trying to figure out how soon I can leave without insulting anyone.
You can be an ISTJ and an extrovert. All the E/I at the beginning of whatever your type acronym means is that your first function is one or the other. ISTJs are often extroverts and ESTPs introverts.
INTJ here. I am by far the most introverted of my family (of introverts ISFJ INFJ INFP) but I’m sure some of that is situational based on my permanently being homebound due to physical disability. Though I am the most likely to staunchly express my opinion when something stupid is happening/being said. My educational advisor back in Middle School described it (in writing) as “Does not suffer fools.” Touché.
Man ! Doesn't that backfire sometimes !
Hi I'm also an intj. I feel as if I'm on the more extroverted types out of the introverted personalities. I like to join arguments and defend points more than its necessary, I also like to talk to different types of people but still get drained from it. I don't know whether I'm a "true" intj because ive also gotten infj a considerable amount of times. Do any other intjs kinda relate to this or am I the only one?
@@twelvoe4205 I can relate
I'm really confused, i'm INTP, but sometimes being with my friends i'm like a damn ENTP and i'm not kidding, all the introvert inside me goes away, and sometimes i feel like i'd rather have a truck run over me than be with a person.
If you can be an ESTP With your friends then you are very lucky
@@blackbat121 same finally someone who I can relate to
learn about cognitive functions
You mean that you aren´t a stereotype and behave depending on circumstance?
@@Tue_ Yes, I have heard and read a lot that INTP don’t like to be with other people, and they are always bitter, that is definitely not true, in my case, I like spending time with friends, and I have a lot of fun, always, what I don't like is being surrounded by them all the time, I need alone time. Idk if I am not INTP or only the INTPs are wrong typed
Haven't watched yet but here's my personal opinion:
1. ESFJ
2. ESFP
3. ENFP
4. ENFJ
5. ESTP
6. ENTJ
7. ENTP
8. ESTJ
9. INFP
10. ISFP
11. ISFJ
12. ISTP
13. ISTJ
14. INTP
15. INTJ
16. INFJ
Just based on my experience with people I know
Intps are more extrovert these days... cuz online world
As an ENFP, I see ENFPs as the most introverted extroverts
I believe the most extraverted is the most random person (aka ENFP). ESFJ is that kind who might wanna help even very bad people. The introverted I agree with Frank, either ISTP or ISFP, because Ne of INTP and INFP helps connect to average random type, Se is more into looks and details (which does not correlate with type, but the clothes are, so it's not absolutely random). Ni doms have to speak with people in order to get the ideas to materialize, it is their driving function, unlike Ti and Fi who don't need people that much (Ti-Fe afraid of judging people and hurting their feelings, Fi-Te afraid of being too much illogical in their feeling judging).
@@The_Rusalka I think that can just about apply to ENxPs in general. But this can also vary from person to person.
And then other things such as eneagram gets involved. Like an ISFJ 6w7 would be very different from an ISFJ 1w9.
I'm not sure what your full thoughts are on this, but I'd like to see.
I think 16 place is for ISTPs, INFJs are the extrovert of the introvert.
The most introverted extrovert and extroverted introvert too please - ENFP
Edit: I knew it we're the most introverted extrovert. Heheh
Edit 2: So you're saying as an ambivert of XNFP, I am the most introverted extrovert and introverted introvert? That means I am ✨the introvert✨fufu
Totally agree with IP types being most introverted but from my experience my INTP son is far more introverted than my INFP son and myself who is also an INFP. I think that we INFPs are much more passionate about what our IF values are and more vocal about them because of our extrovert thinking function. The introverted thinking dominate INTP just keeps his thoughts to himself!
I agree!
I'd also think so, that functions play a role and Te-Fi combination is more extrovert than Fe-Ti, so while I can agree that Te doms are more extrovert than Fe doms, Fi doms are more extrovert that Ti doms...
@@jimclayson Yes, I totally agree! Very well said!
INTP has an extravert part.
But, this man just wants to earn money with his commercials.
As INTP I enjoy company of my INFP friends and frankly they are more talkative than me. My observation is they do love to express what's going on their mind and I as INTP can offer them some insight or guidence which they do appreciate.
On the other hand, in our company I am more bold to interact with outern world and take leading initiative.
Most introverted would be INTP, and most extroverted would probably be the exact opposite, ESFJ
Adds up!
INTPs are very sociable when it benefits them though. They are the most introverted since they wanna be introverts lol, INTJ has the deepest spot for most introverted according to function, INTP is just a fake facade since they mimic personalities a lot.
ESTJ are the most extroverted rather than ESFJs because they would literally interact with everyone and everything politely or not, while ESFJs have inconsistencies since either they are too kind to interact with someone, or just a straight up ass to someone.
Edit: according to studies it seems that I am wrong. But base on my observations, this still seems likely to me.
Sincerely, an ENTP.
I agree with most introverted - INTP.
I had guessed it the same way before the video started
@@ziroh4122 as intp i can say we like to impersonate different personality traits
(atleast I do)
as a real ENTP would do, I'm gonna disagree on this one, I'd say Fe is the most extroverted function out there followed by Se, Te, Ne, Si, Ti, Ni, Fi
so naturally my list will be
ESFJ
ENFJ
ESTP
ESFP
ESTJ
ENTJ
ENTP
ENFP
ISFJ
ISTJ
ISTP
INFJ
ISFP
INTJ
INTP
INFP
Those last ones are more derived from personal experience, since it gets pretty illogical once INFJ comes along
As an ENFP I would agree with your list, I also think that Fe would be more extraverted out of the bunch, but I think ISFP should maybe be higher in that list (only from my personal experience).
good list
Yes, i was like what. why would he rank Te-doms as the most socially extroverted, that doesnt really make any sense. A Te-dom doesnt really feel responsible for the social atmosphere as much as a Fe-dom does. But then i realized, oh yeah he is following the OPT system.
I'd put the order as Fe, Se, Te, Ne, Si, Ni, Fi, Ti:
ESFJ
ENFJ
ESTP
ESFP
ESTJ
ENTJ
ENTP
ENFP
ISFJ
ISTJ
INFJ
INTJ
ISFP
INFP
ISTP
INTP
Some would argue that Fi is more introverted than Ti, but I think it depends on how mature and fully-developed their cognitive functions are. An IXTP's inferior Fe is like anti-extroversion; however, an IXTP who has developed their inferior Fe is going to be more extroverted than the average IXFP. I would also argue that IXTPs are some of the least-likely to develop their inferior functions.
I agree more with your list than with the Frank James list. But I'm my personal experience, I'm ENTP and have another friend ENTP and 4 friends ENFP, and ENFPs are more extrovert than ENTPs.. When my ENTP friend and I prefer to stay alone in home reading some interesting stuff, the ENFPs are traveling with friends, or with another people video calling or in person showing all the things they created with their Fi-Te. ENTPs just need to share some ideas in internet with Ti-Fe 🤣
I’m an ENFP and a lot of what I do is because I want to have new experiences but I love being around people and gain a lot more energy when I’m with other people than being alone
I'm an INTJ but I think I'm the most introverted...
I agree with you, I think INTJ's are the most introverted. Due to their cognitives functions. Se inferior and Fi tertiary.
And from my observation of INTJ's coworkers.
I am a intj and I am in sales so.......
@@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes - Agree. I've also never known an INTJ who gave a damn what anyone else thought of them.
As an INTJ myself, I was shocked to not be at the complete bottom of the list. It's not that it's necessarily a bad thing, it just came as a surprise to me.
@@Mitsuki12345 I am surprised as well
Actually to be really honest as an ISTP i can be extremely extroverted depending on the situation. But the part about not being talkative and just hear other people talk is accurate sometimes
“Now you look a little underdressed” sir I’m in my pajamas on my bed
How embarassing LOL
It was the vest that did it for me.
My INFJ boyfriend does seem more extroverted than me, an INFP. He seems to need people more than I do. However, I am way more talkative than he is and often feel like I'm hogging the conversation and making everything about me. But I also like to delve deep into what he is thinking and feeling and what makes him who he is. I will readily spew out this kind of information about myself to him, but I have to ask and even coax a little to get this information from him. It seems to come way too naturally for him to focus on my needs to the exclusion of his own. It seems that he is more quiet than I am but needs people more, I am more impulsive and excitable than he is, and we are probably both equally assertive.
As an infp I agree with being very quiet and introverted. My husband always tells me I need to be more talkative especially when we’re with others haha
Same
Your husband tells you to be something you're not? I bet he's an enfj
Me too. My husband is an estj lol
Infp always told to speak more , but we can't speak meaninglessly
ENFP the most introverted of the extroverts. That’s what I’ve always read, and (at least for me) is extremely true.
Agreed. - ENFP
Same
it is
I would’ve thought ENTPs were more introverted than ENFPs on the whole (that’s even taking into account the hidden ‘pensivity’ of the latter).
I am an INFP, I totally agree with this video, but one more thing about the IxxPs is that they can just desapear, Idk how people don't notice when we move, I think that is because we act like the background, even in front of people, and humans automaticly don't look what is more a background thing, like... Idk how to explain, tell me if you relate to that, it's like we just see how the things normally happen, how the world moves and moves with it, I dont know, this days I just realized how I move with the things, like the physical, a door closing and I moving in the exactly same velocity, I don't make any sound when I walk, but I like it :)
Frank is one of the finer UA-cam candles on my holiday cake this season. Bad analogy? Yes. Whiskey? Double yes.
Good, twice the questions, double the yeses.
I don’t know. I’m an INTJ and I think that we’re the most content being alone, and I’m highly skeptical and learned from being around people that you have to study people closely to figure out to what extent if any that you can open up to people, and I don’t go beyond that no matter what, even with close family and friends. As someone else pointed out, we do not suffer fools. The only time I’m really blunt and outspoken is when someone is being illogical or hypocritical.
Actually, my sister is more as an INTJ and I'm an INFP. but she do seems more introverted than me. I've also test on enneagram and even though INFP seems to be the most introverted, the result shows that I'm more extroverted than the usual INFPs. doesn't mean that I'm Outgoing, Like to talk much, not shy, or liking socializing or social environment. Im still the opposite of those. I've been on a survey about not getting bored by being alone for a week, and my answer is I'll get bored, which isn't the majority answer from INFPs. Although so, I know it's not the only sign that I'm a LITTLE more extroverted than more INFPs
I feel lonely sometimes, but I thrive in solitude. I like being around people sometimes, but having people around a lot makes me dysfunctional. -INFP
About where I'd thought I'd be as an INTJ. I find that so long as I can process the situation or topic at hand enough to satisfy my Ni, my Te will kick in and allow me to be much more engaging like an extrovert, even if it's for a limited time period. On the flip side, in a situation like a big party full of people I don't know, there's often too much to process and too little to interest me to get past the Ni gate.
As an ISFP you got me so accurate! Lol that description of the IP types was spot on, I was nodding and laughing the whole way through.
But strangely enough because according to your ranking I'm the second most introverted type on the scale, when you were describing traits of extroversion at the beginning, a lot of those seemed to apply to me- I'm often very enthusiastic, responsive to positive emotions, excitable, impulsive (well probably because my type is already generally very spontaneous) and expressive/animated (which I think was the word you were looking for at 3:18).
At least I am when I'm by myself or interacting through the internet lol😂😅... does that explain it? Cuz I'm a whole different person by myself than I am when I'm around people, and in that case, I fit the description of the IPs pretty completely.
BESTIE WE'RE THE SAME OMG
I'm an INFP and I agree with what you said about IP types at the end. My sister is an INFJ and it's funny you made this video now because lately we've been trying to decide between the two of us who is more introverted, so thanks for helping me prove my point to her lol.
How did you know that your an infp? 16 pisiniliy?
@@jim88 16personalities is not very accurate and types by only using a extremely simplified version of the Myers-Briggs going off of letter-typing. I've personally gone from infp to isfp to entp over the course of a year and I'm pretty sure it's just a tool for determining what job suits you the best.
I recommend you look into the cognitive functions and see which stack applies to you the most. Alternatively, you could take the Mistype Investigator test which, unlike others, actually uses the cognitive functions and to my experience is wildly and consistently accurate.
A simpler but less effective method is to just read up on every personality type and to see which stands out to you.
Best of luck!
I'm INFP. I always felt more introverted than other introverts
FJ going all out for his sponsor Grammarly with the special effects! 😂 V. entertaining. watched the ad twice. 😛
Well, I'm suspicious to say because of all the topics on the channel Educational Sunday is definitely my favorite, but what a good video!
And I agree 100% with the rank, I think the logic attributed to the ranking makes a lot of sense.
I want to see the most incompatible combinations (not as a rule but as a probability), because in my head although many people suggest that ESTPs are the opposite of INFJs because they have an inverted stack (Se-Ti-Fe-Ni x Ni-Fe-Ti-Se), ISTJs should be our nightmare since our stacks don't match at all (Ni-Fe-Ti-Se x Si-Te-Fi-Ne), but it feels that, in general, ESTJs are the most difficult type to deal as an INFJ, but I don't know exactly how to explain that. All I know is that ESTJs make me feel tense and hyper-conscious all the time, so they are the type that drains me the most.
Flip the first three letters. Those most conflicting pairs not only have all different functions, but also two stacks away, e.g. ESTJ's Te is first and INFJ's Ti is third, etc.
They are different in functions types, different in either you are "self/tribe" or "control/chaos", and different in four temperaments "ST or NF", on top of introversion/extroversion difference.
Michael Pierce is awesome as well but I agree. Frank James is also very good.
@@Anonymous_Anon882 didn't know about him, but I will watch, thanks
Ugh! Got knocked off chat and couldn’t get back in! Excellent as always, Frank, and you’re definitely channeling my hero Conan with your hair!
I seem to have caught up with these so I would like to thank you for all your videos which are such a wonderful help and reassurance for this INFJ. I so appreciate your honesty. As for the fun videos, I love these and watch a few of these to end every day on a high. I do think you do a tremendous job, possibly something you may not be aware of. Keep up the great work and a huge thank you .............
I am an INFP AND I CAN STAY AT HOME FOR A WEEK WITHOUT SEEING A SINGLE PERSON IN REAL LIFE, WHILE I READ BOOKS ONLINE AND TALK TO PEOPLE ONLINE. That's my social life. I don't even have many real friends anymore. MOST OF THEM WERE VIRTUALS.
Even my BOYFRIEND IS A VIRTUAL LDR LOL
For me i think it's still accurate the :
ESFJ (most extroverted, the karen *not ESTJ*)
ENFJ
ESTJ
ENTJ (a lot more introverted than these three)
ESTP (the entrepreneur of course)
ENTP
ESFP
ENFP (the most introverted extrovert)
ISFJ (still the most extroverted introverted)
INFJ
ISTJ
INTJ (min yoongi, yes *he's not INTP*)
ISFP (the only introvert that is not boring, always seeking for action, Jungkook)
INFP
ISTP (this is obvious)
INTP (also this one)
I am INTP with 100% level of introversion (according to every test I've ever took). I'm a manager and I work with people (tech and IT people, but still...).
My teenager was dating an ESXP (my typing, so it's worth not much) and he was the most overwhelmingly extroverted person I've ever met. I took the two of them on an overnight trip to visit a college and he literally did not stop talking from the time we picked him up until we dropped him off, apart from sleeping He was also always chasing new experiences and everything he encountered was "awesome" and "epic". We went to an art museum on the campus and he saw people at a bubble tea place afterward that were also in the museum and he "had to" go up to them and ask them about their impressions of the exhibits.
He was fascinating to watch and an extremely nice guy, though extremely overwhelming and 20 minutes with him would leave me feeling like I needed to crawl into a hole for a week to recover.
So based on my limited experiences, I'd rank ESXP types really high, at least in terms of their effect on me. I think it's because I'm very quickly overwhelmed by Se.
Oh- then you might not wanna hang out with me I'm the same way but I'm even worse when I have caffeine XD
- a excitable esfp
kinda sounds like an estp to me
I like where you placed ENFPS. Even though they are a bag of rainbows, With Ne Fi as their dom Aux, that puts a lot of pressure on Te to interpret the Ne Fi loop. Because Feeling is introverted, and only has Te to fall back on, they tend to be very introverted once Ne loses steam. INFJ is ENFPS shadow type, so while INFJ is highly introverted, they can flip that coin when under different forms of stimuli.
After some thought, I think you ranked INFJ appropriately.
I think, from personal experience, we like to stay in our lanes (like you said) but we can be easily swayed by other peoples energies.
When I am at my most 'extroverted' it is when I am with friends who have that energy that I can 'borrow'.
I feel like a leech when I put it like that... :(
My point being, that we need 'enabling' (is that the word?) to set our extrovert flag flying and even then it is only temporary.
Just my thinking based on my own broken INFJ self
Take care xx
INFJs just have this tendency to care about people, due to their altruism and the drive to strive for harmony. Whenever they see troubled people, they step out. That drive makes them extrovertest (huh?) of introvert.
You have a great understanding of INFPs 👍
I am an INFP... And as always his descriptions are soooo true for me... 😁
Stay dapper from now on, Frank, for educational videos. Or whenever you could, (no pressure ) it suits you 👍😉
I get it. It SUITS him.
Agreed. His sauve teacher look is a lot more inviting than his goofy/mad professor look (not that it matters either way because his content is dope regardless).
ESFP is definetely the most extrovert
As an ESFP, that's incorrect.
@@savagexbabe4378 you are wrong
@@burhanerginn I think I know my type the best. ESFP has Se as it's dominant function which is all about exploring world around us and not people. Our secondary function is Fi and it's one of the most introverted functions. It's focused on our feelings and thoughts. What do you get when you combine Se and Fi? Seeing the beauty in external sensations and processing it through our deep internal world. My favourite activity is just sitting on a bench in a park, lighting up a cigarette, turning on some music and just observing the beauty in the world.
@@savagexbabe4378 ISFP is explorer not ESFP. ESFP loves people and drinking.
@@burhanerginn Do you even know anything about cognitive functions?
My sister is ESTJ and I am ESFJ, and in fact, she is more extroverted than me and I always wondered about that. Thanks a lot for the input FJ, it really helped clear things out 😃
Husband and I and 3 of our kids are I-P types. Long car trips are amazingly quiet.
Your 3 kids are going to be brilliant tenants and neighbours when they move out.
I’m an INFP but I consider myself a pretty extroverted introvert! According to the 16 personalities website I’m close to 50/50 on the introvert/extrovert sliding scale
@🍕__Mulan__🍕 have you ever considered that not every single person in the entire world can fit perfectly into one of the 16 personalities invented by Myers and Briggs? I am telling of my own personal experience and you have no right to tell me that I’m wrong about myself. I have done many of these quizzes over the years and always get INFP, and I don’t identify with ENFP, even if I maybe would rather be one.
@이채연 well, you said "LIKELY". that mean it's just likely, there's just more chance, doesn't mean others didn't. Being more introverted doesn't mean that you have ZERO chance of being an ambivert OR being Extraverted even just a little bit
Okay, simple:
ESTJ, ENTJ, ESFJ, ENFJ
ESTP, ENTP, ESFP, ENFP
ISTJ, INTJ, ISFJ, INFJ
ISTP, INTP, ISFP, INFP
As an INFJ, I think that why people think that INFJs are the most extroverted introvert , because INFJs tend to give counseling session to people they feel closed to (maybe because of Fe aux). Although, they don’t know how long we have to recharge social battery and that session is made especially for a few of people😌
The only time I up vote a video before watching is when it's from Frank.
Each time I understand better why I love IxxP types. XD
I am INFP and i am very much introverted and I feel very uncomfortable around people who keep judging others.
I am INTP but the thing is I am very talktive where people would mistake me as an extroverted person while in reality I really don’t talk unless I am pushed to.
I would I be really quiet if I was in at my friend’s house but would be myself when I am at school or going out. I’m lazy barely leave almost emotionally drained so I kind of cope it by my happy energy but I am never active.
I have down the test multiple times it ended up as INTP, ISTJ, INFJ and INFP
Hi Frank! I know you're probably not gonna read this, but I just wanted to tell you, that I'm really enjoying your content here. I've been watching A LOT off your videos lately and I really love this one-way friendship I'd like to think we have. Your humour is amazing, you're amazing and I can't wait to see what you have planed next! 👏😍
Lots of hugs from this danish INFP 💖
Wow infps never had any vaccine
Regarding ESTJ's vs. ESFJ"s, from my observations, ESTJ's definitely are the most take-charge, but they also burn out faster on a daily basis when it comes to socializing . ESFJ's are mellower but have more social stamina. especially when it comes to "pointless" interactions that aren't in service of an obvious goal.
ESTJs are extroverted thinkers primarily in the external realm. In an actual social science (being concurrent introverted sensors and feelers) they may or may not want a more-than-necessary degree of social interaction.
Yet another INFP here, a lot of friction when actually engaging in stuff, but I wouldn't underestimate that "Once out, they'll never stop talking / showing excitement" part 🤔 Also dominant Fi means we have to rely on our genuine enthusiasm as a fuel in order to do things. Rare, but vital.
Yep, makes sense to me. Maybe that's why we INFPs have the natural invisibility haha. The Cloverleaf test said I'm 90% introverted. Theatre in high school helped me gain confidence and learn how to be social. And I do like people, but I still have to brace myself for any anticipated social interaction. I'm getting out of my comfort zone even when I just text someone I haven't seen in a while. My inner voice is just really really loud and I spend a lot of time thinking by myself.
INTP here and I was surprised to see it more introverted. I classify myself as an ambivert. So sometimes I can be more extraverted, but mainly in small groups. In a large group full of randoms, I’m quiet and observant. But with friends and family I’m pretty extraverted and very talkative, it’s a lot easier. I like hanging out and going out with friends. And I like going out a lot of the time. But it depends on how much energy I have. If I’m tired, I rather stay home and do nothing. I do need a lot of alone time to recover at the end of the day. I have even been described as bubbly. It just really depends on my social battery.
My sister is an ISFJ, and she’s waaaay more introverted than I am. She prefers to stay home all day and avoids people a lot of the time. Only recently this past year has she been trying to be more social with school clubs. But she even prefers online learning because she wants to avoid people. Whereas I like in class learning, for many reasons, but I like school for the social aspect of it. It just depends on my mood and if I’m tired or not to seek out social interaction.
This was way longer than I thought it would be 😂
Sounds more like you're selectively social.
@@conversationcorner1837 It depends! Like I mentioned, it depends on my social battery.
@@jenydennise intp here... I understand you 100%
I’m also an INTP and I’m actually more like your sister. I have started trying to have a bit more social life only this year but I think that’s mostly because it’s my last year in high school and I feel like I’ve already missed out on a lot of stuff for staying at home. But overall I’d also much rather stay at home because of how quickly I get drained from social interactions and I take ages to recover. I’m actually quite disappointed that I won’t be getting online classes for the next 2 weeks (my school had been thinking about it to ensure everyone can attend the exams). I was really looking forward to not having to actually meet people in person even though I just had Christmas holidays and barely left my house lmao
INTP-T here! I am also like an ambivert but it’s only for people I trust. When i’m with a random bozo I’ll just stay quiet and hope they don’t notice me. Mostly at home I’m talkative but even then my mom said I rarely come out of my room and it seems so sad. (I laughed literally.)
Thank you for making this! I like things of this sort, categorizing everything and such
I'm an ISFP and I agree: I'm very introverted. I had to explain this a long time ago to my extroverted best friend because I almost never call him. He calls me. It isn't because I don't care about him. I'm just not a very social person. I can go for long periods without talking to people. But I value his friendship and I enjoy the times when we talk.
me too
It seems like it varies from person to person of the same type. Because I'm ISFP too, but I'm not that much of an introvert, I'd say I'm close to being ambivert
I think in terms of introversion, it should be t>f and j>p. Feeling types are highly dependent on other people's emotions, even for Fi users. I have many infp friends ( and myself), they are way more talkative than intp. (It takes a few days for intp to reply to my message but only few seconds for infp......) Perceiving types are more extravert than judging types because they need more information from the outer world. Some people say that introverts must be left and think on their own, for them to work productively. However, that saying actually only fits for ixxj types not ixxp. Ixxp must react with the outer world in order to get information (and to survive), because their perceiving function is extravert.
I was surprised but I think I agree with my placement, sort of! Enfj, I am verryyyy social and talkative [read: I never shut up] and I really do struggle with assertiveness haha.
I'm a talkative infp married to a charismatic, popular estj. I'm talkative and don't come off as introverted. I'll talk to strangers in the store. I'm not hesitant about stepping up and speaking. I am though, uncomfortable at parties and making random small talk. I once had a near panic attack when invited to my chiropractor's wedding reception. I knew no one but my husband and dragged him out of there within the first thirty minutes. When there are work related gatherings, I stay only as long as I have to and am the first to leave. I make no apologise for it either. I'm out. Subsequently, my husband will attend certain events on his own and we are both happy with that. The thing is, if we were introduced, you would never know I'm introverted.
The other day I was trying to explain to a friend how an introverted mind works since she thought that I didn't trust her to talk freely, and wow, this video really comes in handy, I'll definitely send it to her
INFP here and I agree, I'm extremely introverted, often to the point of forgetting that I can TALK to people and not just assume that that they can read my mind and understand whatever is going on. 😂
But I guess I have a big ENFP side in that I'm extremely excitable, hyped by the tiniest thing, always wanting to see and try new things and I actually enjoy meeting new people... Until I remember what social anxiety and shyness are like and go back to my hiding spot in the corner to lurk and appreciate all of this happy stuff from afar afdasd-
Wow... 2nd most Introverted? I am an ISFP and this kinda surprised me, though I think everything you said about ISFPs seemed accurate at least in my case.
What’s so surprising about hearing that ISFPs are very individualistic, shy artists?
INFP here. FJ, I'm a huge fan! Would you do me a huge favor please? The background music is way too much sensory for me. 🤣 Love the content, the classy clothes you're wearing, the enjoyable fireplace... everything else is perfect.
to all y'all like "but i'm super introverted/extroverted" keep in mind he's dealing with the abstracts, not your concrete experience. mbti is a scalar system, so clearly all these should be seen as variable as well. that being said, given your stack and frank's listing, you are *more likely* to behave in the described way (introverted/extroverted). your subjective experiences and preferences can certainly shift this reality, but we're engaging with the concepts first, the people second here.
Not bad, not bad. I am liking the EJ/EP description so far. I am with you so far.
Well, the argument that the "thinking" types are more or less extroverted seems off for me, I also think that it even shouldn't be divided into ExxJ ExxP IxxJ and IxxP, I think that what determines if a type is higher in extroversion is the ability to use a certain function, and functions especially can be more or less extroverted, like Ne will be the least extroverted function and Se the most extroverted, while Fe and Te will stay in the middle. Also I think it can be a little complicated to rank the types because some introverted functions can also happen to be the deciding factor that may conclude that a one specific type is more introverted even though it can have high Se in function stack (and I talk about ISTPs in this situation), but because of Ti, which will be most introverted function and Si being the most extroverted introverted function, while Fi and Ni stay in the middle, but it isn't really a valid explanation either because sometimes Ti dominant makes a type doesn't really care about people and not really sensitive to what they might think of them, while Fi dominant can cause a type to be more sensitive and avoid conflict which makes them prone to social anxiety. Ni also can be very deep introverted hole that's hard to get out of. Only Si seems really only about getting things organised and structured in "concrete" world, while also being specific about past experiences and memories. Like I mean that Si dominant with Te or Fe aux can come off really extroverted, but when you have Si tertiary and Fi or Ti dominant function Si doesn't really seem so extroverted anymore and can make a type be "lost" in their head especially considering that Ne isn't really focused neither on people neither on experiences and only ideas which can anyway be still in their head but they're more broad in scale. Anyway, even though it's really hard to rank this reliably considering everything I summarised, in my opinion, the ranking should be something like that:
1. ESTP and ESFP (high Se and good Fe or Te)
2. this is complicated -> ENFJ and ENTJ (high Te or Fe and good Se, but high Ni) seems balanced, ESTJ and ESFJ, (high Te or Fe but also good Ne, but high Si) also balanced
3. ENTP and ENFP (most introverted extroverts because of high Ne, while the auxiliary function is introverted Fi or Ti and only the tertiary is really focused on other people Fe or Te)
4. ISFP (highest in extroversion because of Se)
5. ISTJ (auxiliary Te and dominant Si while having his own Fi straight makes quite high in extroversion)
6. ISFJ (Fe is very extroverted, Si is quite balanced and rarely appears introverted, as I said)
7. INFJ (Ni and Ti makes a big introverted hole even though we have auxiliary Fe, also inferior Se makes us low in extroversion)
8. ISTP and INTJ (hard to pick; on one hand ISTPs have Se aux but Ti dom and Ni which can be very introverted and Fe inferior makes low in extroversion, but on the other hand INTJs also have inferior Se and can have Ni-Fi introverted loop quite often despite the Te function)
9. INFP and INTP (lowest in extroversion because Ti and Fi are both quite introverted but also Ne makes a not so big step into extroversion and Si becomes more introverted than in other types example because INFPs and INTPs having Te or Fe inferior makes them more prone to social anxiety, I think)
@@doomer3549 Seeking experiences drive the Se and sometimes these experiences must include other people in it because they are outward focused especially if a type is extroverted, while seeking experiences on their own are inward focused which basically means Si, but I see a good point in that the ESFJs are very extroverted and that really makes me think that ESFJ and ESTJ > ENTJ and ENFJ. But being talkative with people isn't the only trait of extroversion, people can actually seek experiences with other people and that is also an extroversion
@@doomer3549 agree 100%,also secondary Fi is more introverted than second Si
INFP - I love the friends that I do have, and I can easily pull all nighters just talking to them about random crap. Also, I am fully confident in my willingness to run away to a shack in the woods and live out my days as a hermit.
as an INFJ i feel like i’m very introverted but once i get close to a person i can be VERY extroverted. but i do keep my problems and issues for my own always, so … maybe this is right?
It really depends because some people are ambiverts. The mbti missing the middle ground. Im INTJ but I'm really introvert. Some people I know are INFJ, ISFJ and INFP and I'm more introverted than them
Why do I keep learning things from you Frank (thank you!) - my perception of I/E has been shaken up by now, though the process had begun with your Cognitive Functions vid. Incidentally, it reminds of other misnomers like "annuity due" vs "annuity immediate" ie "a/due" is payable at the beginning of the year while "a/imm." is payable at the end of the year.
As an INFP, I have so much to talk about like music, books,, the arts, philosophy, I become giddy and excited, Although I must know a person first before disclosing my interests to them, if they will likely judge me or my choice of interest because I take personal hurt when someone judge my choices (i might cry and rethink my choices or never talk about it again)😅 Ps. I dislike conflict. It's best if I can avoid it.
Wow. Exactly me. I love to talk about Music, books, arts, psychology and future :)
And I'm so glad that I have an INFP friend who loves these conversations.
In ExxP list I think it should be more like
ESFP > ESTP > ENFP > ENTP
Donno if I'm just a more introverted ENTP, but I think that's what it should look like according to my observations
We can debate ESFP vs ESTP all day long, but I was thinking the same exact thing.
Nah, fellow ENTP here
I'm the same way, nobody would've guessed I was an extroverted type
@@KateKreeperKing Seems like when our Ne finally won the war with the other functions and became our top function it got so intrigued by the possibility of being the most introvertedly expressible extrovert function that it just rolled with it making us this controversial of a personality type 😂
Agreed.