Modern Woman vs Traditional Housewife
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EDIT: People keep asking this in the comments because I forgot to put in in the video. Jason (Halani's Husband) manages a very successful gym. He does not sit at home all day. If that were the case, I would have been very adamant in saying that he should be doing all of the housework and traditional female jobs. Though I did say that both of them were working parents so I guess I didn't leave it out entirely.
This video is a commentary on Wife Swap Season 1 Episode 2 (2019)
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It was inevitable, right?
@@catendway4754 he gets demonetized every other video, he has to eat somehow
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@@mrmills1000 really? You have NEVER heard of demonetized before? ok well it means that UA-cam has put a special marker on his video that automatically takes all all the money he would get from it so he cannot make any monetization from it. Usually for reasons like if anyone has any conservative viewpoints or mentions anything relating to them In the video
A good wife supports her husband, and a good husband supports his wife. It's a balance
This. I think he needed to bash more on the traditional husband more, because that husband was an ass. Imagine how he treats his wife behind close doors.
Absolutely
@@briannaalejo9226
To be fair its a reality tv show.. meaning its probably 90% fake.
@@bobshanery5152 lol true
@@briannaalejo9226 well she was combative the time why would he want to support his fake wife that attacks him… shat.. did you watch how the other guy said you know how to cook… his mind was blown…
I never understood not learning to cook. Everyone learns to wipe their butt because they poop everyday. Why do some people choose to avoid learning to cook? It is basically an essential life skill.
Why do some people not own a hammer?
Is it too late to learn? I'm 20 y.o
@@fish1389 its never too late
@@TheCarpenterUnion In my experience, you can make it more than a day without needing a hammer.
@@fish1389 After you learn how to cut vegetables, practice cooking eggs. They are cheap, delicate, and can be cooked many ways. If you mess up, you can throw them out. Also, if you just mess up a little, you can tell the difference when you eat them. When you are ready for meat, practice sauté with chicken tenders. You will build touch and technique because the meat is sensitive to time and temperature and you will learn the limits of different quality ingredients. If you can cook 21 different meals, you can cook for a lifetime.
Finding a traditional woman is only half the battle. Becoming that man she wants to cater to is a whole other battle bro
Damn straight. Even myself I look at and find faults that are only my own from that perspective. Crazy to look at so many other men that are utterly worthless. These days they just give up and pretend that they're women lmao
@@thalanoth I hate that ur right (bassicaly i fully agree)
@@thalanothi've git to say as a woman that i ABSOLUTELY hate men who are weak/feminine/pretending to be women. This is just so fucked up!
Good men get raped in divorce court every single day. I wish it were as easy as you claim, but it's not.
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Honestly if you’re a stay at home wife than you should do all that traditional cook n clean stuff. the problem comes when women are expected to be be cook, clean and ALSO work a full time job while the husband only works. The balance is off and it’s no longer a 50/50
That’s what you call the ultimate finesse. Jokes aside, in those cases men should def put some effort in after work at home w the kids, in the kitchen, cleaning etc, if she’s gonna do the same thing
I never saw a men doing nothing in the house. They usually do mostly lawn, exterior job, manual jobs in the house, etc.
You must talk about the big cities where people live in apartments
@@JonathanVachon777 How often do manual things like that occur? They are not the same as everyday chores.
@@voidtempering8700 do it and let me talk about it after
Aren't both of them stay at home wives?
Man or woman if you can't cook and clean for yourself then that means your parents have failed you.
Amen! Even the most cooking challenged person can be taught 5-10 meals when they’re 17/18 and about to move out. I taught my sister probably about 10 meals before she went off to college and not only did that save her money but she was able to build on those meals and learn another 10.
@@hellford4187 yourtube can teach you how to cook now.
@@manda8512 OR they can learn AFTER they move out.
@@hellford4187 There's nothing to stop you teaching yourself, and cleaning isn't something you should need taught. I think you failed eachother.
@@hellford4187 the comment you responded too said if you can't cook or clean your parents failed you, you said yeah i'm pretty sure my parents failed me in response. If you can't learn those two skills on your own it's more on you at this point.
Home life is not a competition, it's co-operation.
That thing is dead a long time ago.
It’s nature’s design and under harsh conditions it will always reverse to that.
Yes
@Major Gear agreed. My wife is a hair stylist and definitely makes some money but I take the responsibility to go out and work the big hours. I don't want my wife needing to work more than 20 hours a week so she can focus on the homecare. Never realized how important that was til we bought a house. Of course I help with the home stuff and cook sometimes but we made sure we talked about this stuff before we married. We want a more traditional household but I don't judge people that want something more modern
This episode that is referenced in this video is very simple. The show's producers put the peacemakers in both families under the same roof. That just leaves negativity to feed on itself in the other one. This was probably like a week's vacation for the two peacemakers and a pure week of hell for their spouses.
Misty is the type of woman I want to have as a wife. Beautiful, smart, compassionate, loving, and nurturing.
A woman who takes that much shit is not worth respecting
Also deals with your crap
@emmacherry2093 boo hoo... no one picking you
@@emmacherry2093id rather have a wife that tells me that im wrong when im wrong. I had a girlfriend that did that and I changed a lot in a good way.
@@commanderhopefulI hope y'all are still together.
"Yes, they got me too." Then the painful script read is brilliant. You can tell TBYS was soooo excited to do this ad read 😂
The first family was like "PRAISE THE LAWD WE CAN FINALLY EAT REAL FOOD!"
it's a nightmare to the other fam! 😂😂 I died!
@@mayaj2354 I can't cook for sh*t but I'll eat anything as long as I'm not dying from vitamin deficiency.
@@Zarafin if you are eating only for the sole purpose of being able to survive then you live a very sad life
@@Saeedfr8416 You might want to check your eyesight, I said I'd eat anything as long as i dont die from it, as in, the food shouldn't give me food poisoning or it shouldn't lack essential vitamins, I never said I eat just so I can survive (I mean everybody eats just so they can survive so your statement is kinda dumb). Also I don't have 1st world country privileges, I can't eat out everyday or have enough money to eat pizzas and burgers every day, I live in a 3rd world country, I grew up in relative poverty, my family had barely anything to eat, I'm happy as long as i get to eat something, because I'm grateful for what I have today, I don't spend hundreds of dollars on just food everyday. I haven't eaten a single burger or pizza in my life but I don't really care.
@@Saeedfr8416 erm no not really, that's far better than being addicted to food leading to obesity, which can cause social anxiety and destroy your self esteem but you can't stop. That is really sad.
I'm a traditional housewife and I love serving my husband and children. My husband asked me to leave work and I happily said absolutely! Best choice I've ever made! ❤️
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The use of the word “serving” is making me absolutely sick…
@sydneynicole5240 and that's the problem with this world and especially women. They are all about themselves. Yes I love to SERVE my husband. He provides for me and I LOVE TO BE HIS HELP MATE in this life. Serving others is what this life is all about but you self absorbed people can't fathom doing such a thing. That makes me sick!
@@sydneynicole5240word serve means a lot of things, it's just your damaged view of the world that makes it a scapegoat for you.
@@sydneynicole5240It's fine to serve multi billion dollar capitalist manipulative companies and your boss but it's not fine to serve your loving husband you love full-heartedly and your family? And do you get all pro-proletariat when someone *serves* you food, or when a worker or government official *serves* you? Honestly, why is there a need to get all upset and offended over a word, let alone the idea of CHOOSING to be supportive to your family and spouse?
It’s crazy how you can have both your kids rooms clean by telling them both “whoever has their room clean the fastest gets 10 bucks”
until they firgure out how to split it.
@@theyellowmeaning7507I hope by then I won’t have to tell them to clean their rooms and they’ve learned to do it themselves
That's kinda like what I said to my elementary school kids. I said whoever cleans up gets a piece of candy. There was way more kids than things to clean so all the kids rushed to clean something so they could get candy and everything was cleaned up in like a minute.
So bribe them? I just tell me kids to do something and they do it.......then i reward them.
I dont have to use bribes
@@christianbateman2 nobody cares about your kids
By the end of this...
One man. Can't wait to get his wife back
Man 2. Wants a new wife.
Lol its a win win
And than someone gets divorce flayed! Good job America!
@@BunnyCoffeeAddict Thanks!
And Man 2 cries to himself secretly at night after Man 1's wife leaves😅😅
@@votefraudjoe997 if he doesn't die of Envy first. My wives weren't that bad but they were pretty damn close. They just didn't have the job bringing in any income. My wives were like sprinters trying to run the 2-mile. They look good starting out but ran out of juice shortly after the race started. I was a born to my old man have the High School record to prove it.
Misty makes dinner for her new family, gets the whole family involved, and even involved the in-laws in the meal.
Absolute Chad move.
Female chad
Misty is a female giga chad
I thought Chad meant Fboy….I am lost
@@belafonte5519 stop listening to women
@@belafonte5519 What? A Chad is a model of masculity, bodyworking, discipline, behaviour and fowardness/progress in life.
Feminists: “Women can do anything they want to do!”
Woman: “I want to stay home and enjoy my children’s childhood, while taking care of my family!”
Feminist: “Not that!”
really because the only people that shame housewives and see them as less are men. my entire life I've heard men say that its not a real job.
@@jesslynnoelle3108 then stop listening to them because it is a real job with real pressure.
@@jesslynnoelle3108 you need to get out there more neckbeards on the internet don't count for a lot of dudes mist guys appreciate a good housewife
@@jesslynnoelle3108 I agree men are the reason why I would never be a housewife that dependency risk is to high
@@jesslynnoelle3108 Is not a job,husband do not decides your income:the housewife asks money,she decides the result of her efforts and how to do it,she did not have to compete with other people to be "hired",she can sleep and see memes everytime she wants:in a corporation you can be fired for seeing memes even if you already have your work done,corporations do not gives food for free:you cannot sleep in a corporation,she can be dressed like her likes even if she wants to be naked.She decides the cleaness of the home.
In a corporation you have to deal with people that you hate,the housewife is with her beloved one and the kids of both.
A job Is something that you have to do to obtain resources,no resources involved=you not doing the job.Keeing the house in good shape is a pleasure for herself and her family.
Kinda weird how Halani is a Jehovah’s Witness yet she finds the “traditional” role to be so crazy
These kinds of shows are ALWAYS scripted. Take it with a grain of salt.
How do you know that? Wouldn't be the first Jehovah's Witness with contradictory believes or behaviors. A friend of mine knows someone who studied biomedical science and was also a Jehovah's Witness. Imagine a creationist having to study evolution.
@Closerline I looked it up just to check and their website says they have the man in the marriage arrangement as the head of the household, so for her to react like she did tells me it's scripted. Or she's a hypocrite.
I thought that too but I've smoked weed with Jehovah's witnesses before
Tbh there's lot of religious people who turned their religion in a way that benefits or doesn't constrain them. Orthodox religious people are less.
Family: do you cook?
Girl: No
*Bad ending*
Cause that’s all we are good for, apparently
*Cue Resident Evil game over screen*
@@zd5873 are you good for anything if you do nothing?
Seems like somebody got a bit too affected by the video lmaoooo
@@TheCarpenterUnion I should be asking you 🙂
Jason, the firewoman’s husband, started realizing what he was missing out on
Really quick hopefully they work it out and he starts to become the mom role while she provides.
Yep,they need some chemistry between them ,they need fire 🔥
@@haidweng7948 too bad his wife puts it out everytime shes nagging
Yeah, a white woman 😂
@@David_Chime woah chill let's not bring race into it ffs
One of the men who goes to the church I used to attend said that when he first talked to his wife (before they married) about their roles in the house, she asked him "Why I gotta cook and clean? You can't do that yourself? Aren't you a grown man?" His response (which I will NEVER forget) was "If you wanna switch roles and do my part in this relationship, you can. Get up at 5am, put my work boots on, and go to the construction sites I work at to keep a roof over our heads. If you DON'T want to break your back for 9-10 hours a day lifting, moving, and working with heavy construction materials while I cook, clean, and maintain the house, then you and I can keep our respective roles for the good of this household."
Ladies, please hear what I'm about to say. It's something my old pastor once said. She said "Ladies, if he's out there working hard for a company that doesn't care about him or hates him, the least you can do is work hard for a man that cares about and loves you. You could easily swap roles and 9 times out of 10, only one of you won't like it. And that one will be you."
Amen to that.
Here's the thing, the makeup rule probably just started out in casual conversation, but then Misty did it so often that when they swapped wives, it was a large enough part of their relationship, that they just put it in as a rule so Halani would truly experience what Misty's life is like
Edit: I'm not saying I agree, I don't, I'm just trying to think why it was implemented
its still kinda weird. i like the housewife but cmon?💀 he can't just be content with his wife's natural face?
@@yasmina1994 it might not even be the makeup itself. Just seeing the effort to doll up for him might make him feel more appreciated saying it takes time and effort to do it.
@@markz5173 but for him and expect it and make it a rule she must follow is just controlling and fucking sad.
@@jesslynnoelle3108
Nah, what’s sad is not understanding what it’s like to care about someone enough to want to do things to make them happy.
Besides yourself that is.
@@yasmina1994 says a lot about you that you took that from "Oh I just do it because I know he likes it"
I'll never understand why the role of housewife has been denigrated. Yes let's belittle the single most nurturing role in a functioning society...
Raising is the important part, just the means have to change, men should also raise and clean
I’m not marry but if I get married some day I want someone with my profession
It's about destroying the family unit. Feminists hate traditional customs, cultures, and traditions. They see everything in a relationship as a win/lose situation where they must *always* win, and think "traditional gender roles" can only be oppressive (as if men somehow only benefit, and are never disadvantaged, from their traditional roles). Feminism is a flawed ideology that completely misunderstands human nature, and refuses to accept that there's WISDOM in tradition, not just discrimination.
For the last 100 years the nuclear family has been dismantled by feminism, hedonism, abortions and divorce laws etc its all designed to destroy the family unit .
Capitalism.
@@nimblehuman ok Jameel… lol
The problem is the modern woman tries to dictate to men what they should value them for rather than them actually taking notice of what men are saying they value.
@Hunk-Chan 큰 덩어리 owe* if you say own the meaning changes completely😂😂
Bingo
@Box Hobo In simpler terms, a woman is encouraged to listen their partner's needs and values over their owns in order for a relationship to work. The same applies for the other party. Compromise is key; hope this helps.
You clean, you cook.
I would rather stay single single than marry someone just because they think I’m their new maid
@@zd5873, it's not about cooking or cleaning, it's about both people providing something of value to the other. It's about division of labour.
the real thing with stuff like this is that you never know how good a traditional house wife is until you have to spend a few days without them. A career woman is easily replaceable. a male roommate can give you 90% of what they offer. When a housewife is gone for 3 days the family misses them every second of everyday.
For sure. My mom went on a girl's trip so I took on some of her roles like waking the kids up and trying to clean some stuff up. My little brother cried because he didn't want her to leave and she herself almost cried while going. When she came back she brought sweets and rewarded me with a patch for my jacket. We all loved her and missed her so much.
True.
all the so called housewives I know spend their days running round coffee mornings and wasting time. Their houses are not clean and they eat instant meals. Their children are also grown up and gone. I have always worked full time and I manage to run a house and raise my family a lot better than they ever did. I also earn a lot more than my husband ever did so the choice was never there.
Best comment of this video.
😂
that clip of Misty helping the kids bake a cake was so wholesome! I can’t wait until I can do that with kids of my own. I’m very lucky that my boyfriend and I both believe in traditional roles.
Wish the two of yall well
Gods bless you and your bf.
@@LeafyPeach He’s now my fiancé! 🥰
update pls @@chloeleau
Late to the party, but congrats! @@chloeleau
“Yes they got me too.”
It’s okay buddy. We all are doing it for the money.
If you go WAY WAY back in my community posts (like 1 year) you'll see that technically I did to be a part of the meme. However, if end up doing another one, it's for the money.
After that sentence i laught so hard
@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT 20 dollars is 20 dollars, no judgment
@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT hey i mean if you got the green then you doing good🤑💵💵
This is going to be a LONG commentary.
Being in the military has taught me many things. One is that there is a big difference between being "in charge" and being a leader.
Facts
Absolutely ! the military DEFINITELY will show you the difference between the two. 💯
Correct sir
Us NCO'S know all too well unfortunately...
Straight fact there! Also, Thank you for your Service!
Cooking is something that first of all is not limited to just women, but to men as well, my mother though me how to cook when i was 12 because like she said "being able to provide for yourself in any situation is the best feature for a person". Second cooking is a skill that you can impress other people with. Third, if you are a married woman, you are expected to provide something into the house, just like your husband is supposed to earn money and provide for the entire family, a wife is supposed to provide for the man and kids.
Regarding your third point, I wouldn't say they're SUPPOSED to fill those roles based purely off gender. I'd say that SOMEONE is supposed to fill those roles, female or male. Also a bit heteronormative and making assumptions that they have or want children
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I’m a full-time stay-at-home wife/mom. My husband shouldn’t have to come home and cook, clean, do laundry, etc. after a full day of work. And it always kills me when a woman goes, “Why should I have to cook and clean for SOME MAN?!” He’s not “some man”, he’s your husband??? Taking care of my family IS my full-time job; my family always has clean clothes to wear, the house is always neat, there’s a hot meal waiting when my husband gets home, if our daughter is sick at 3:00 a.m., I get up and look after her. Some women choose to do this, even if it offends feminists’ sensibilities.
I absolutely agree. I haven't found anyone to marry yet but when I do, I would take pride in taking care of my husband and family. The problem I DO have, is when modern men expect their wives to cook, clean, look after the house and kids AND also work a 40 hour week because "we need more money" and "you need to contribute financially". I'm happy to be a housewife as a full time job, but f him if a man expects me to have a full time day job on top of that.
@@notmanymore1521 Of course, if both spouses are working outside the home, then they both should split the household chores. I always worked before our daughter was born and went back to work for a while shortly after she was born. We always split the housework at the time. My husband worked days and I worked nights, so one of us would always be home with her and we wouldn’t have to put her in daycare. We would take turns cooking or doing the laundry, etc. After a while, I switched to staying at home full-time and now, I do everything in the house because I feel that is my job. But of course it would be ridiculous for only one spouse to still be expected to come home and do everything around the house when both are working. That would be too much and unfair.
@@captainblood9616 Thank you; we feel very fortunate that we are able to have the situation we have. I know it isn’t an option for every family to have one parent stay home, so we are very grateful. I was raised by my aunt and uncle and they both had to work; we never had much growing up, but we got by. My husband and I just don’t want to leave our daughter with strangers to look after her if we can avoid it. Again, before anybody gets offended, I completely understand that’s not an option for every family, but we decided it was best for us. I can be there whenever my family needs me and I feel blessed to have that. Before I met my husband, I earned my college degree and started working for Bank of America - I worked 60 hours a week, had designer clothes, drove a nice car. I was absolutely miserable. My boss, a woman, once said at a staff meeting, “This bank is the most important thing in your life. It’s more important than your family, friends, school, second job, etc. You need to drop everything else when this job needs you.” This woman was 50 years-old and lived with a bunch of cats. She made six figures, but she had no life outside the office and I shuddered to think that was my future. After she said that, I turned in my resignation letter the next day. I moved to Switzerland for a while to take some time off and reflect. I came
back to the States flat broke and unsure what to do next, but I knew no more high-powered corporate jobs for me. I took a job waitressing at a restaurant where I made a lot less money but also had a lot less stress. I met my husband there and now we have a family 🥰 I think everyone should live however they are happy; if it’s working a high-powered job, good for them. If it’s being a wife/mom, also good for them. I feel very blessed to have a family and be able to devote my time to them 24/7
It's such an apples to oranges mess. There is rarely the combo of "stay at home mom" and "doesn't want to take care of the man/home"
A few comments above people argue that housewives are redundant and an unpleasant role....
"You can't have a phone in your hand and be baking at the same time, plus you get to eat cake" time to become a baker 😮
Every so often I return to this video. I watch the interaction between Misty and Jason. They have great chemistry which is sad because they are not married to each other. I look at how people responded to Helani compared to Misty. Misty got what she wanted generally but she made everyone happy at the same time. The kids did not like giving up their phones at first and neither did Jason, but she didn’t come at as confrontational like Helani did. She did not raise her voice or insult anyone. She brought the family close together, and brought Jason closer to his kids. I am a young unmarried woman, and I plan to marry as soon as I can. This video shows the different approach’s women take with their kids and husbands. And how they play out. If you come at things with love and care in mind and treat your spouse with respect you can get a lot more done than of you berate them. And try to find a spouse who will respond well to your submission. Kevin was kinda annoying sometimes but in the full show he actually apologizes to Helani and tries to work with her. Helani rejects this and continues to insult him. Its a reality tv show which is often fake but I have seen this exact scenario play out in real life many times. Gotta keep this in mind when I get married.
Well said.
Are you sure this case was fake? I don't know if I got the real Instagram account but I think I found Halani's where she got a butt job, new husband, and new kids.
I think someone got divorced. Also, it seems she still has her last name because his previous husband took HER last name when they married...
That fact that he said “yep they got me too” makes it even better
I'm surprised they let me say that.
@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT lol hahahaha
@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT they probably let you say it because the meme brings them attention
@@FishTacoXD probably true
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Yo, I had a female boss that acted like this woman. She treated grown men like children and constantly nitpicked and pushed people around. Everyone in our department hated her and put on fake smiles when she retired. We now have a very capable ex-paramedic as our manager and he's awesome!
I could not fucking do it.
@@keegansayshi2479 ??
@@dalokohs3901 I think He/She talking about the fake smile
@@lakshmivallabh6936 with her leadership, I doubt that
Bruh if she retire you shouldnt put a fake smile brah you need to be tge most happiest person cuz shes not gonna come back
I'm a trad wife I love my family live to care for them but at that I'm extremely sick on our pregnancy and my husband has been amazing so kind helpful and supportive I can't wait to feel better and get to spoiling him . Share and show the love 💞
Your name is Martin ???
@@itsbageltimeIt could be her husband's name? Did you even think about it lol
@@itsbageltime
Your name is bagel???
There shouldn't be so much emphasis on gender roles , sometimes you just work as a team/ unit to make things work . If the Wife is working longer hours and is hardly in the house it makes sense the father would have to step up and take on more responsibility in the house and of the kids .It doesnt mean one person is doing or less it just means they are helping and supporting eachother in different ways and alternating their roles. Its just about balance , communication and understanding and if it works for them and they're happy then that's what matters .
Yeah but then again Gender Roles naturally and automatically just apply for like 95% of people
The whole wife cooks and keeps the house from rotting away and takes care for kids while husband is the breadwinner and both teach kids stuff that they gonna pass on is just what works for like 95%
We shouldn’t force people to do so but just make it more clear to most people that if you truly want a happy relationship especially right now that dichotomy works most likely the best for you with a little abstinence till having kids is actually affordable
Especially modern women should be told that the whole career woman thing isn’t as "boss bitch💅" as it is for like just 1-3%
It’s just gonna be ending up with most of them being miserable and regretting they ain’t having spent time nurturing their kids and husband and just most men not wanting them.
They will just feel the same thing men feel for like the past thousands of years but instead of being built to handle that like most men for a long time it’s gonna become a problem for women in the short term.
And men i don’t think i have to explain that there is a serious need for self improvement for most men
Not the whole "you need to be more emotional or open" thing but just something far more realistic like going to the gym and learning discipline.
Generally woman work less hours that’s why there are gender roles. And yes it can be flipped but the “modern” woman out right refused to cook because the guys had two hands. Like clearly she isn’t going to work during this wife swap so she’s gonna sit on her ass and do nothing. How does it make sense?
Let me ask you a question, are men and women the same?
@@omega0195 it isn't about that, its about supporting each other
as someone who HATES weird leftist views: marriage is about love, not just being traditional.
i think we can all call out bs such as fat is unhealthy, you aren't a xi/xer/xem, etc while still admitting that love is the strongest factor in every relationship ❤️
P.S. men and women are not the same :^) and individual people are not either, they will work out things the way that makes them happy
@@juice3287 I agree with the wholeheartedly although we are not the same these traditional 'roles' in question may work for some but not for all 😊
"I call Jason my 'third child'" - what a horrible insult - he should have never married you
Friend zoning him even after marriage
@@aphroditeatley5476 fr
He must have married her by accidentally getting her pregnant and had no choice other wise they probably would have never been together
If he's a beta male, then she's perfect for him.
She's annoying and extremely toxic. Wouldn't marry her, even if she was the last woman on earth.
It’s always surprising when parents belittle their children for not knowing things, just teach them how to do it, that builds bonds and relationships
My father 😥
@Daniel R Goldman sorry to hear that, be the person you needed when you were younger
Yeah, like it's the children's fault. Children are just the product of parents. Bad parents make bad children.
@@danielrgoldman341 sorry to hear that. Try to stay strong, things can get better
@@danielrgoldman341 I feel you
I was at a family get together with coworkers at my boss's house when I heard the most amazing exchange between two wives who remind me of the women on this show. One was an entitled American woman and the other was a traditional Filipino woman. Both were stay at home wives. The American woman bragged about how whipped her husband and kids were("It's great. I don't have to lift a finger when he's back from deployment. It's like my little vacation."). Meanwhile, the Filipino woman listened to her with confusion and disapproval plainly evident on her face. At the end of the American woman's bragging, the Filipino woman asked, "Don't you love your husband?" This touched off a low key fight between the two and, as a result, that coworker and his wife were never invited again.
"If he can do it himself, what does he need you for?" Exactly. PERFECTLY sums up the problem with these "strong, independent women"...they forget that "independent" and "alone" are synonyms.
I think both people should always have the ability to be independent if they need to, but be together because they enjoy each other's company. They should both be there because they want to, not because they need to.
@@yumemitai612 You're missing the point. I'm not saying women (or men for that matter) should be helpless little things that can't do anything on their own.
Cooking should be a basic skill for every human being. It's survival. Also, it's a good skill to have if you're poor and can't afford constant trips to the restaurant.
Well if you can afford frequent trips to the restaurant or to order everyday, it's just as valid for survival as cooking yourself. That's what society is all about. It's about everyone highly specializing in a skill and offering to everyone who needs it in return for getting highly specialized people doing stuff that they can't do. Let's face it, we're all highly dependent on society. If you wanna talk about pure survival, none of us have the "essential skill". Going to the grocery store, buying ingredients and cooking them over your electric stove won't help you. You're not the one growing those vegetables, you're not the one hunting those animals, you're not the one making the fire, you're not one making the tools you use. Everything is offered to you by people who are better at it than you. So if I can perform my specialized skill for 1h every day instead of cooking and the payment for that 1h allows me to buy meals for the whole day, I don't see anything wrong with that.
@@mrkiky Well your statement obviously doesn't understand the value of cooking on your own. If you knew how to cook, you'd realize that no restaurant in the world will ever cook the food exactly how you want it, exactly how nutrious how it should be. Ever realized that the woman leaving the home into workforce has also coincided with the obesity pandemic in most of the Western World as a result of poor food choices. Till now I have not found a single restaurant that was able to cook as delicious food as I could so with much positive energy. Why? Because the people at restaurants are just employees, and they don't give a fuck with whatever emotions they cook food. But when you cook for yourself (or in old times a woman would for the entire family), it would be out of love and care. Money can never equal that.
@@rishabdhar6900 No i get what you're saying. It's not as good. But what I'm saying is that it's not about survival. I never realized the obesity pandemic could be cause by this but I guess you're right.
@@mrkiky That sounds like a really long excuse for not learning how to cook. Every adult should have basic kitchen skills in case they ever need to cook. Some people who have very high paying jobs have to go on business trips where there is no food delivery, but your company rents you a giant couch with a huge kitchen. Just like how people who have amazing roadside service insurance could possibly end up with a flat in the middle of nowhere without phone service. There are a few skills every adult should have, even if you rarely if ever need to cook, why is it bad to have basic kitchen knowledge?
@@theelite3792 I mean, I don't think there is anyone on the planet with cooking skills so bad that they would die of hunger on a business trip...
"Baking is really bonding for a family I mean you can't be baking and have a phone in your hand at the same time. Plus you get cake." This is a women! My goodness I love watching and listening to her. That man has a great wife!
dang i always have my phone on me while baking, my recepies are saved on it!! hahahaha
Woman*
Jack is a lucky man. His wife is a good person. She is a good leader. A good wife. A wife who can cook. He’s a lucky man.
@@gajci8255 i have a pretty large hand so i can catch all medium to small sized ingredient containers in the kitchen (I'm a guy btw) while having my phone on the left hand
@@gajci8255 jason and misty seemed like an actual married couple to be honest....if i just tuned and saw them i would of thought "oh wow a married couple enjoying each other thats awesome"
Modern Women want the title of CEO and all of the benefits without doing the work
The cake baking scenes where really wholesome. We need more of such content to brighten up our days
There is nothing wrong with being a working woman like she is but if you’re going to have children you should make time for them.. there is also nothing degrading about cooking for your family
Feminism has sold the bill of goods that being a housewife is degrading to women. All of it.
It's obviously not degrading because service to your family and loved ones is never degrading. Just like any job a man does to support his family is never degrading.
But why would feminism want to destroy the family unit? Hmmmm...
@@drb4074 moden feminists do not like women! They want to be men they loathe femininity!
@I Dk A traditional woman is not synonymous with gold digger.
A traditional woman is looking for a marriage where she is filling the traditional role of housewife. She's bringing value to the table, in the manner of taking care of the house, children, and cooking, in exchange for the husband bringing value to the marriage by being the breadwinner and leader of the household.
A gold digger is looking for a free ride.
The men on these channels are not confusing the two as you seem to be.
@I Dk First, you are showing bias by name-calling them incels. Second, you are lying about them calling traditional housewives "gold diggers." If one idiot said that, then take it up with that one idiot. Don't paint all red pill, mgtow, or just plain men as saying that. They are not.
The men talking about traditional housewives see them as contributors to the marriage. They see the wife's role as being just as important as their own.
It is in no way, shape, or form gold digging.
@I Dk RP community is not calling traditional housewives "gold diggers."
You are operating on a fallacy, and it's causing the rest of your thinking to be wrong. Stop defending it and think.
Whoever stays home should do 90% of the cooking, cleaning and other chores, no matter the gender.
@Adolf Lansher Not if she works tho.
@Adolf Lansher Did you like your own comments?
@Adolf Lansher I find both spouses can be really significant regardless what responsibilities they take.
Plus some people do need their spouse to work as well to have enough for rent they live in while still have enough for food on the table. If both spouses can have skills that can be applied to the workfield if can give better security for their family. I knew some family friends after their military service would take care of their house and kids until he or she got a civilian jobs. In some places it can take a few months on average to find a new job. So if your job is preparing to lay you off, during the time you look for a new job you may really need emergency funds, reliance of your spouse or anyone who will help or else you can get pretty screwed. Having a spouse who does can also have emotional and financial.
Plus it may be frustrating but it is important to take care of you belongings. So if. You say have a house you would likely want the environment clean regardless whether or not you have a spouse. Keeping a place clean can involve more than one person if more than one person lives there. Let say of you don't like to pick up after others you should not expect them to pickup after you and be thankful if they help. My sister and her boyfriend basically clean immediately when they notice a mess so they basically never need to do deep clean for their house.
Though if you want a woman to who proficiently cleans the house, do the meals and rears the kids most of the time, go for it. Regardless I do believe people would prefer a skillful partner that they could be on the same page with.
@Adolf Lansher My mother and father raised me, they both had a job and wasn't home most of the time but that made my family more wealthy than the average family.
@Adolf Lansher Weak? served 39 years in the military, fought against the PLOTE from sri lanka in 1988 and helped civilians in the 2004 tsunami, he joined the military when he was 16 year old in the 1960's and he has been suffering from bipolar disorder since when he was a teenager, he's now 61 years old, My mother got a job in the early 2000's so she hired a maid to take care of me and my 3 brothers, i had a sister but she died at birth.
This lady focuses on trying to prove she’s “better than the average man” rather than take care of her family.
So sad...
If Your better then the average man then prove it cook better then me.
@Allan Mark that is simple logic no need to bring religion here but still a good point.
@Allan Mark well said, wisdom of proverbs.
Allan Mark Oh great. Another one using the Bible to fit his narrative. And tell me exactly what the Bible says about the way a man treats a woman?
“If you are stuck with bad options, you aren’t thinking hard enough.” Great quote & advice. There’s always a way to make things better.
1:54 this is the saddest Raid ad I've ever seen.
LMAO..😢
Typically, a man remains a child because his mother was overbearing.
Blacks are primarily raised by their mothers. The stereotype about black single mothers isn't even a stereotype anymore nor a meme, its actual fact. As one myself, I can attest to how this upbringing absolutely destroys many men's potential and infantilizes their mentality. When you see the news about how young black men are overly emotional, quick to take offense and expect results for little dedication or work, where do you think that comes from? They're essentially females in male bodies. Even years later, men who manage to escape struggle to deprogram themselves and learn skills men raised in healthy families take for granted.
Your PFP is from the best meme
@@Ergeniz Amen . I've seen it happening multiple times
@@Ergeniz blacks? But your definitely right about everything else
@@sbneo5605 There is no debate on this, statistics have single mother households for African Americans at over 70%. It doesn't matter what you think about it.
Jason is rethinking the last 16 years of his marriage
Big time
OMG 16 years! That's sad.
"16 years"
Yup
@The Patriotic Greaser I think the main problem is that women have been told to compete with men instead of us all working together to complement of of each other. Like with everything women aare always trying to compete with men on, 😂😂. We r the same species, it doesnt help for us to be at turmoil all the time, we get no where. The reason I support gender roles is because they worked and it complimented both groups best qualities, now we have relationships like this
I love how he just started advertising Gordon Ramsay
12:30
To be honest if i were the traditional wife id be a bit upset my husband preferred me with makeup than without 😅😂
Men don't care if you were make up or not.
Cooking and cleaning should be a skill that everyone should learn not a gender role
if u don't know how to cook or clean that's actually sad
Yup!
I know how to clean but starting a thing and completing is something I can not do due to my neurodivergence lol
Eh I know this is kind of dumb , but I have the same problem what I try to do is make a habit out of doing it and once that gets going it seems to work for me.
that should apply to the white guy as well “cookin is for wimin” 🙄
halani stated she cooks a couple times a week and said she does most of the household chores actually, and misty actually said that she thinks the children should help halani more🤔
My mom is a traditional housemom. People love coming over. Never heard a negative thing about my mom.
FaX
i can provide a few neg things... but it will come by itself once she gets old :)
Same...in fact I hear too much of the opposite.....
if she was forced to give up her dreams for being a “housewife” to befit into the patriarchal House which labels women as good for nothing but home, then it would be too sad for your mom.
@@tasneem6427 This is the way women now degrading the housewives. I respect housewives. They the one build the future because children are the future. They have time to monitor their kids.
So many of my memories with my family were over family meals. As a woman I feel that it's important to learn how to cook and learn the spirit of serving your family. Just serving something, anything as long as some minimal effort went into it is enough
That's something I learned after going to ROTC and living with my mom and her bf who worked at hospitals. In the work place you can just expect cooperation on the bases of being more experienced, and that is (by their own admission) how things got done. But working with kids or having a partner involves having a relationship, so running a house cannot be like running a troop.
edit: 14:40 Holy shit. That is my mom
Soldiers are easy to lead. They're trained, disciplined, and motivated. That's how a lot of bad leaders squeak by in the military.
In all honesty, idk why traditional family decided to participate in this show.
money
i don't shame her for the money. for a stay at home wife making pretty much free money would be pretty damn sweet.
she most likely used some of it on herself and the rest on a vacation for the family
To learn how good they have it.
To flex on everybody else with their stupid ass modern families. And it worked.
I think they got paid
*The modern wife:* There's no way I should be cooking for 5 hours for a man who is capable of doing it himself.
*Me:* So why are you here and aren't capable of cooking, you have two hands and knowledge right?
*Edit:* Anyone that works can have the capability to cook, it's not impossible, billions of people have already done it before.
Yup. OK, then you can work too and we'll use your income for a maid.
she has never cooked
By her logic, yes
@@TheCarpenterUnion yeah for a maid,, dont forget the babysitter too, the tutor, and a driver.,
we will enjoy our own life and meet only for a 'business' thing called reproducing... :vvvv
Why the fuck would you cook for 5 hours? There plenty of meals that can be made in 30 minutes or less.
Thnx for the commentary. I'm learning a lot from youtubers like you man.
Me personally, I am a woman and I'm not planning on getting married. If it happens it happens, I'd prefer to focus on my life and my impact. Even if i get married i wouldn't be a stay at home mom. In this day and age it is hard to support a family on just 1 income alone. I would still cook sure. But the traditional stay-at-home wife life isn't for me.
You will make the biggest impact on the world by being a great mother and raising even better children, just sayin.
@@Boudicaisbackpeople forget that being a stay at home mom is one of the best jobs there is. You are responsible for the future and raising the men and women that will lead it. It's probably the most important job there is on this earth you have the whole world in your hands. I respect every single one of them and i really don't understand how people say it's a bad thing to do. These feminists see it as a man controlling the woman and making her stay home when that's not it at all. It's literally in our genes to be this way. We are hunter gatherers even back in prehistoric man the men would go out and get the stuff necessary abd the woman would stay back and take care of the kids. It's natural in most animals to be this way some it's the man that stays and protects the young while the female hunts and gathers food for them.
@@fordshojoe8080 yes you are 100% correct
“Chef Ramsay, please show us how you’re supposed to hold the food”
*shows video of Gordon Ramsay teaching us how to hold the food*
God I loves this man
Ramsay or Think Before you Sleep?
@@Nomozacc ?? Think before u sleep said and showed the video
@@Nomozacc didn't you watched the video
@@ProudOne Just finished it now
@@djdeto7382 yeah
Guaranteed the white guy was like “holy shit honey never leave me again”
The black guy would prlly say hey and think about what he missing out on
Not a race thing just cant remember the names
That's kinda how it is for us black men
@@malrofo really?
@@calebkent5858 unfortunately yes
@@malrofo how bad
@@calebkent5858 the majority of children are raised by single mothers, and a good portion of those women are single because they're insufferable. That gets passed on to the daughter.
I grew up with a mom like Hilani. All i desire now as a man is to not make the same mistake in choosing my wife.
Or you can learn how to cook ;)
@@user-bu7wg7bs5e That is far from the worst part about Halani.
I really like this UA-cam channel, I just started watching his videos today and I watched about already 10 of them, so many valid points especially in this episode...
It doesn't matter what one's gender or political views are, cooking cleaning and taking care of oneself is something everyone should be able to do.
Yeah but when someone works and the other stays at home, who should do the cooking? Without concern for gender
If you going to be a house spouse or stay at home parent houseWORK is your work
Frrr
Basic survival skills.
@@alexzander7386 the person who stays at home, they can start making the food and by the time the other person is at home, they can both eat right away. Doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman, it's damn nice to arrive home to a warm meal
I rather take a traditional women in a long term relationship then someone who wants the world and everything in it
@Doge Boi
What hysterical upside-down hellscape do you live in?
@Doge Boi you living in Memphis TN? cause that just sounds just like it
I think every man with a bit of brain would take/ prefer the traditional woman instead of the femin!st who doesn't want to be traditional and doesn't want to treat a man well. :/
I'll take the modern women and use the extra salary to hire maids and gourmet food
@@simplelifeinfo3913 As said by someone who doesn't understasnd the true value of a traditional woman, and why such a woman has been preferred for millennia. She provides a constant safe haven for both her husband and children. She shows love without constantly setting conditions. The man can trust her to do exactly what he needs from her, instead of making constant deals with her to do things necessary in the household. The man and children have almost no fear of her leaving them, and a traditional family ends in divorce only a fraction of the times a modern family does.
Whilst a traditional family is a true partnership, a modern family is more like a negotiated deal that expires every month and needs to be reworked to keep both parties happy. Sure, there are some downsides to traditional families too, but I'd rather work on those downsides than change into the shitshow that is modern relationships.
Her: This house is so tiny
Me who lives in a small af flat: *Excuse me? one room is bigger than my whole home.*
Freaking fantastic analysis! I'm glad your videos are showing up on my feed now
some people in the comments are making this a race thing. let’s not do that 😁 there are traditional black women (my mother) and non traditional white women. no need to put a whole race in one category.
I’d say that most “modern” women are white.
I hate your pic.
Yea it's like they forgot about Karens
No in my experience most goal oriented feminists are white. The media loves to portray otherwise so I can see how people would fall for that trope. The media and my experiences lead me to believe that most white guys and men in general are assholes, but I am not going to assume EVERY white guy I meet is a joke. People are not some monolithic group who act according to race. The commenter was saying those personalities exist in both races. If you want a traditional woman it doesn't make sense to SOLELY date one race of women because you falsely think they're all the same
Right my grandmother was a housewife and acting exactly like misty, she's black
Any man or woman who does not cook has severely stunted their own personal development and needs to reflect upon their failure to take ownership of such a basic responsibility.
And I thought firefighters had to know how to cook since they take turns preparing meals for the house?
lmao at this point i've seen so many of these types of comments that i feel like it's a personal attack 😂😂
luckily i can cook tho. be safe ✌
I feel attacked. But I understand where you're comin from. The main reason people don't cook a lot now is because if they got the money they can just buy something frozen or eat out
Heck. Even Mafiosos knew how to cook for a group.
(If Godfather part 2 is to be believed anyway.)
He asked her “does she cook “ not if she knows how to cook....clearly she knows how to cook if she was supervising him do the meal prep. There is a big difference between knowing how to do something and wanting to do something!
Great video! Most I got out of this was your cooking technique rant. Definitely going to help me. I am one of those wives doing it wrong. Looking up videos now.
10:30 I was shocked how many people can't cook when COVID hit. It's such a basic skill. Both of my parents cooked, but it was usually my Dad on weekdays.
Most people live worthless lives
You could tell by his voice
He is being held hostage with the raid shadow legends sponsor
My dude, Raid Shadow Legends makes un-sponsored shows like this possible.
Let's all give a hand to Raid.
Plarium: Shadowy Evil Empire :)
@@kgpspyguy ok nice sarcastic joke there ( this itself is a joke nah why would it be)
@@ALJ9000
* Blinks
@@kgpspyguy Are you able to disclose your location?
I’m Dutch and hearing Halani complain about how small Misty’s house is blew my mind, because the houses in the Netherlands are wayyyyy smaller than that? I don’t know, I’m a pragmatic person, I don’t see the point in having more space than I need. Saves time on the cleaning too!!
She'll never understand what its like to be in cozy little home
I bought a large house as investment.
@Ashley’s Animation kingdom a spoilt tart
@@ember4303 I know, I really hate big houses, I just want a small house in the Midwest, with a really big barn for a garage and a huge field.
G E K O L O N I S E E R D
Who's the breadwinner in the family? If the firefighter woman's the breadwinner, the husband has to learn how to cook. If the breadwinner role is shared, it has to be shared. If it's switched, it has to be switched 100%.
Both of them work, that Is how they are rich.
When Think Before You Sleep said he was sponsored by Raid Shadow Legends then followed it up with “Yeah they got me too”. That’s some of the realist shit I have heard a UA-camr say
“If you’re only stuck with bad options, you aren’t thinking hard enough”
That was really powerful, I’ll remember that
It is a nice catch phrase. But like all of them they melt like snow in the desert if they are confronted with the complexity of life
As a gen Z ,yeah. Gotta think really hard lol
@@OlDirtySam Exactly! Almost all, if not 100% all, of these one liner modes of advice are fucking stupid when met with real life obstacles.
Whatever doesn't kill you, makes you stronger....or maybe cripples you for life, or maybe leaves you physically or emotionally comatose.
@@OlDirtySam i don’t know I feel like this applies to me very well though. Every time I’m in a bad situation in life or if I hit a wall, the solution always comes from looking at the problem from a different perspective I was not comfortable looking at before. For one example I was drawing figures in a sketchbook but they all looked really bad, but then I thought really hard and realized that the reason they looked bad was because I wasn’t “finishing” them. They were all just straight vague lines with no shading, line weight variation, or any fundamental detail. I was so used to drawing a certain boring way that all of my sketches ALWAYS looked bad, and that was because I wasn’t thinking outside of the box.
Hmmmm... I don't know ey. When I think "hard enough", I usually talk myself out of doing things that I probably should have done.
the "Yesss!" by both the children and the father was all it took.
And you can be sure that they all caught hell for it, when the wife saw the episode.
WHY MUST WE CLEAN AND COOK ALL THE TIME! You would be miserable if you knew that everyday you have to come home and fucking cook after a long day. No.
@@zd5873 misty doesnt have a long day she only spends a few hours cooking or cleaning but working a crummy job for 10 hours a day would be equally miserable, hopefully with her free time she can be relaxed or find her passion, idk about haima or whatever her name was
@@zd5873 you sound like someone that is very lazy, the man has to go to work every day to pay bills the least you could do is give him a fresh meal from time to time, I understand cooking takes a lot of energy but going to work every day having to deal with jerks at work is a lot harder
@@xkohai I’m dreading next month because I have to start school and work. I clean up after myself and I eat meals that will save me time. The modern women literally doesn’t need a man for anything (sex? Toys. Children? Adoption or IVF. Changing a tyre? Google). I’m more than just a cook or a cleaner, I’m me! And I’d be damned if a man tried to come into my life and tell me I’m not enough because I don’t cook😂
6:22 My husband likes when I wear red, so I bought some red dresses to wear at home 🥰
Another five star video from TBYS. Outstanding!
My wife cooks whenever it's possible and she cooks great meals and desserts
However, if I am working from home and she goes to the office, I will cook with no stress at all. It's actually quite easy with basic knowledge, some kitchen wear and decent ingredients.
Best approach would be a balanced one. Just my two cents.
I like this!!!
Division of labour - each partner should do whatever they are more skilled or efficient at. The wife cooks and does the household chores. I do the outside chores, and I work. We both work on raising the kids, though she does most of that currently since our daughter is still a newborn
@@sarahfishyfish1 division of labour exactly, the modern woman doesn't understand this concept.
I think with women working, each couple does need to find a balance of chores. My parents were traditional and that’s a good system, but hard to maintain if women are working. It’s not even so much women deciding to work today, most have to work because supporting a family on one income is very hard. I know men that prefer to cook, so the wife does the dishes. Or some husbands take on the laundry, or the food shopping. Hopefully each has different strengths or interests. One wife I know loves the lawn stuff, mowing, weed whacking, pulling the weeds, etc, and the husband likes to cook. Whatever works for you. Women will think Misty is a doormat, but she sees her job as cooking, cleaning, errands, organizing, etc. Jack seemed like maybe he could be more appreciative, but maybe this experience he will see he has it pretty good, lol.
@@anneb889 you just wrote a very balanced and valid answer. Thank you.
Im disappointed. I thought this would be a fight to the death between two women
BILLY is also disappointed
@@iambilly1134 *WHO ARE YOU*
@@crystallxix1493 BILLY says I’m BILLY
@@iambilly1134 why does Billy speak in the third person?
@@CheemsofRegret That’s how BILLY comments
The part where he goes off on cooking technique....i completely agree. You can cook a meal within half an hour if you know what you're doing. Also at my current job where i just switched from line cook to prep cook, im able to get prep done by myself within the time frame i need to leave by while other people tend to work over my time as well as dont even finish their job
I know it isnt exactly your thing to focus on something so small, but an entire series of you picking apart things like wife swap would be pretty cool to see.
I learnt things and it was entertaining. Unfortunately, that probably wouldnt be the case if there was a whole series in the way i would want. Im glad you do things the way you do.
Houlani doesn’t act like a leader, she acts like a boss. A leader leads by example.
Not even a boss. She's just a bully.
Exactly! She’s a “Domestic Dictator”.
more like a corporal. That is, someone who was GIVEN the status, for the purpose of status, and not by earning it.
@@princessmarlena1359 I hope you don't mind but, I'm stealing this!
@@theepilogue2190 oh, by all means go ahead! 💋
There's a parallel between modern feminism and increased divorce rates.
The word you are looking for is correlation. If you say that there is a parallel that just means it never intersects. Translation: never will there be a point where feminism meets increase divorce rates
@Ch Pe nice.
@@thanatosdriver1938 the word would be causation. Because not all times does correlation equals causation. Meaning even if thongs correlate they may not be the cause of the other. But here feminism is actually the cause of divorce rates going up
@@29-arnavsamant97 lol thongs defo correlates
@@29-arnavsamant97 no, the word is correlation. Because you don’t have cited sources that prove that feminism is the cause of increased divorce rates. As divorce rates have increased, so has the difference between the salaries of those on the lowest end of the income Cale and the highest, but you wouldn’t automatically assume it’s causation unless you had proof of it.
Thanks for the tips about cutting stuff lols, home cooking for years and didn’t think of learning better cutting techniques.
1:07
Just a giant ass jar of weed sitting there, nice
Sorry that’s mine
The bottom line: traditional housewives are wanted. It made me all fuzzy inside seeing Misty bake a cake with the kids.
@@djregina6897 Ive never heard of that... But I've heard about modern women who don't want to stick to their gender roles wanting traditional men who do.
@@djregina6897 Men aren’t calling en mass for women to go to work, it’s women themselves wanting that lol.
@@ywoisug8845 open your eyes, both are out there. I personally don't mind cooking and nurturing a man, as long as he is the provider.
@@djregina6897 your talking about the 1% house holds that make 700k or so typical yes both parents work while a nanny come over
@@ywoisug8845 I’ve never heard of that but I’ve heard of modern men who want to stay home and do the housework and modern women who want to work. I’ve also heard of modern relationships where both partners do housework and work. Personally, the latter sounds more appealing to me
"Do you cook?"
"No"
You can already tell he's thinking "fuck"
You don't use makup?
You don't wanna look sexy for me.
He said to this woman disrespectfuly.
Oh No?
Fuck.
I don’t u understand if that modern wife works and financially responsible for her family , shouldn’t her husband at least learns cooking???
He works too thi
This video was so well done!!!
Huge house.
Americans: It's small.
Me: living in 77m2 with 4 people...
hope things turn out better for you :)
And then they have houses that are overkill big.
@@saf7189 I don't mind it actually. Yes, it could be better, but much worse too. But thank you :) hope you have a good day.
I know what youre going through. I used to live like that too when i was younger but thanks to my mom and sisters, we finally made it out. Keep holding on
4?
She refuses to wear makeup yet has eyelash extensions.
Girl, come on. You're just being stubborn to be stubborn.
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The false eyelashes take about 2 seconds to put on. Makeup applied well takes about 30 mins to apply and it’s expensive. Why waste time and money if you’re not leaving the house.
@Eixid26
You are making excuses when it comes to money. The husband makes all the money. He obviously makes sure that he has the money to always have make up stocked up to be applied every day. You don't have to tell him it costs money, he already pays for it and is willing to pay for it. It is a moot point.
@@WPFreeinternet You know nothing about makeup. It’s very expensive not some passing expensive, the more you wear the more it costs. They’re on a single income, clearly they’re not wealthy. Also it’s important to give your skin a break from makeup, it’s common knowledge that excessive make up wearing can cause clogged pores, oily skin and acne. She needs to let her face breathe and apply moisturizer. The rule is dumb and unhealthy.
@@wtfsamusidk7574 come now let's not do that
This video had me agreeing with you so much I kept almost liking the video again good work keep it up
"My household"
"I tend to yell a lot and that gets the job done"
Everyting's about her... Ah yes. These will become beautifully damaged children
Poor kids D:
"We are living in AMEEEERICAA!
AMEEEERICAA!
It's WUNDERBAR!!!!!!11"
haha...
@Francisco Trujillo The part with the rules listed on the tablets. Somewhere at the start
my mum is like that. she shouts a lot and ill tell you as a kid it only creates more shouting. the thing is I can't do anything about it because my mum is so set on this idea and won't bother trying other ways to sort things out, she tells me to change and behave different but for some reason, she can take her own advice.
This woman sounds like a diversity hire...
"I can do better." Prove it then.
Miss Diversity. They will ruin your workplace man. Just remember NEVER to do their work for them at your expense.
Oh believe me.. the fire dept .which is a government type position.. is definitely a diversity hire.. they have way too many young white males trying to join... so a black women..especially young.. would get priority over anyone..especially guys!!.. she is a fire chief not bc of skill but bc of the government..the gov loves to "empower women".. meaning give them things they don't deserve
@@thethinkingmansgame5050 you are making claims without proof.
“...I will be HANDED* better.”
@@sefp proof is the affirmative action system.
honestly being it a tradition household doesnt sound bad shes very upbeat and is very put together, waking up, looking nice, COOKING god i love cooking. CLEANING i love cleaning, the only things is kids, im on the fence but im young, so ill probably become more fond of kids!
You love cleaning??
@@analuisaeleuterio3028 yes!!
Ayo you trying to come over soon? (Joke)
@@landland9056 I….
I don't understand why Misty thinks the other family's home is "tiny", it looks so nice and open.
Misty's the traditional wife. I think you meant Halani
Yeah i thought the house was nice and open, pretty big
Compared to the other house it was smaller and not so nicely decorated. Just facts. It wasn't ugly or tiny but in comparison the other house wins.
I’d rather live in the traditional wife’s house. It actually had a nice environment and looked like a HOME. The other girls was just a HOUSE. That’s just facts 🤷♂️
you confused the names, but i agree. both houses looked nice, and they're both pretty damn huge. calling any of them tiny is ridiculous