The Reason Why Men Aren't Getting Married
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- Опубліковано 2 чер 2021
- This video is a commentary on the 2011 documentary Fast Food Baby.
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I know this might offend some people, but improperly feeding a child to this level is child abuse.
Agreed. But unfortunately there's not enough room in prisons for all of these neglectful parents
@@just_a_turtle_chad the fuck this has to do with socialism lmao
Absolutely correct
@@just_a_turtle_chad what in the actual fuck?
@@user-cg9kg2qp7y Because no one gets to eat under socialism XD
To be completely honest, cooking isn't that hard.
Especially with services nowadays like Hello Fresh and Blue Apron. Cooking is actually becoming more convenient.
Also pets are better company
I made Mac and cheese on Wednesday I made them to go with Porkchops
Facts.
@@anamericanwhosblack3797 it was pretty good actually
My mom passed away suddenly when I was 13. My dad decided to take care of us 4 kids 12,13,14 and 15. My dad became a Mr. Mom. He was on disability due to a job accident the year before. He was already a stay-at-home parent - so he learned how to cook at age 49. The 3 girls did the cleaning and my brother did the yard, translating and helped my dad with the groceries. It was not easy for him but he owned his new role as a single dad. He remarried when we moved out. I am eternally grateful for what he did for us. ❤ Thanks Dad! You are forever loved!
Sweet ❤
He could have let the grief crush him, but he put his children first. ❤
@@tell-me-a-story-Indeed, W dad.
Thats how parents SHOULD be, the human beings that YOU MADE are your RESPONSIBILITY. Take care of them...
W dad
The fact you all stepped up instead of leaving him to flounder is also a great thing. I'm sorry for your loss at such a young age, but I'm glad that your family was able to stand together and make it work.
That's great. It's sad that you and your brother and sister lose your mother so young, but I think you made the best of the situation. When I don't have faith in people, I should remember that stories like this happen too.
Love how she takes some soggy pasta, dumps a jar of premade sauce, then is flabbergasted that everyone hates it.
Lol
@Victor Ngo I thought I was the only one that could smell it based on how many people around me are ok with it. It’s bloody rank 🤢
It's the laziest crap one can cook. You can't even call it cooking. But to even fail on that is beyond pathetic. It's written on the damn box how long you have to boil the pasta! These people are insane.
Even most premade sauces are tolerable if you don't fuck up the pasta.
Uk women
Women like these need to hear - "Just because you can have a kid doesn't mean you should".
They were so preoccupied with wether they could or not that they didn't stop to think if they should
@@pandaman1331 "Now that's,..thaats chaos."
you ever seen the 2006 movie 'Idiocracy'? I think that movie showed us the future heaven help us :(
Would you tell a house plant not to grow?
Besides. No responsible adult is stupid enough to feed their own babies fast food
By the time that kid is 20 he won’t have a bloodstream anymore, it’ll be a cokestream.
A fucking greasestrem
In another universe the kid will be pepsiman when he grows up
Lmao
He's gonna turn into a Big Mac
Kid is lucky if he makes it to twenty. He's gonna have a coronary at 16 . 😀
Both of my parents always stressed was how disgusting and unhealthy fast food is. It was genuinely one of the single greatest parenting decisions they did, I've met full grown adults who say things like "EW water? It doesn't even have flavor. I only drink juice and soda" or are grossed out by things like quinoa, rice or seeds like pumpkin, chia or sesame because they "lack flavor". A lot of people I've known treat weight gain like some sort of inevitability and not an outcome of poor diet, habits, and impulse control.
Absolutely. Fast food plagues society, and since eating with others is a way of socializing it sucked for me not to be able to eat fast food with other kids. I may have hated my parents for that when I was little, but I'm eternally grateful to them now.
Is that statement about water uttered by an actual person that you know? It sounds so unbelievably stupid and wrong
@@varunsodhani6812 You would be surprised
The second I saw that soda in a sippie cup, my first thought was take their kids away. My neglectful mother did the same to me and I needed 7 root canals before I was 5. Most agonizing thing in my life. I have a lifelong phobia of dentists and really all medical professionals now because of it.
As a dentist I can clearly understand what you have been through. Whenever I have a child at my practice I hold their parents accountable with no filters even though I have no kids of my own. Some don't like it cause I openly call them bad parents but these so-called grown people should know it.
Also please do not fear us. But do everything you can so that you can avoid us in the future. We are there to help.
@@darshanashetty3467I've always taken good care of my teeth & I don't eat/drink much added sugar,I've only had 3 cavities so far & I'm in my early 30's...Lifestyle makes a big difference😁🪥.Also dentists are awesome,they help us when we need care & help us avoid serious problems too🌞👍👍.
@@darshanashetty3467 good for you. I only had one doctor in my life (now that I have had many) who used to tell the patients off. She was the only doctor worth the name imo.
Honestly, soda in a sippy-cup is probably one of the most disgusting images that isn't flat out nsfw.
Honestly, we should spare children this suffering by not having children at all with these modern women.
My sister in law did this but instead of soda it was juice. My nieces teeth were rotting by the time they were 3.
@@garbonratslayer1387 just looked into this. Never knew children that young couldn't have juice. It makes sense though.
@@Cherry_Zabix I gave my son limited, diluted amounts of juice. But he drank mostly milk or water at that stage.
@@Cherry_Zabix I never knew this either but god dam I remember my mom had old books about pregnancy and taking care of toddlers and these women got the internet but are doing terrible
1950: "Adding water to instant cake make me look lazy."
2221: "Adding water to instant cake is too much hassle."
Sadly yes
2221?
I know a guy who had to reread the 3 step instructions on how to prepare a powdered cup of soup 3 times out-loud after I'd already explained that "..You just add hot water." and also after reading it out to him already.
He also takes things like hot chocolate far too seriously when the box says "Just add milk!" and he talks about it like you *have* to add milk or it basically becomes poison if you used anything else. He was amazed by when I once said I sometimes put a bit of hot chocolate in my coffees, like I'd invented the wheel or something. Yeah it's called a mocha, you've ordered one at a coffee shop before, it's the same thing and I was there... How do these people stay alive?
@@Vaguer_Weevil Are these the same kind of people who seem to think that meat in the deli just grow out of the cool box?
@@jamesanderson6373 Water is too much of a hazzle
I cooked my boyfriend a pot roast for dinner last night and it blew his mind. He told me that no woman had ever cooked like that for him before. It’s so pathetic and I’m embarrassed for other women.
@No No There are women out there that are traditional, you just have to find them in the right places (not in nightclubs). I'm thankful that i was raised by my grandmother who had traditional beliefs and taught me all of her skills growing up. I'm now 28 years old, i cook every meal homemade, i raise my own chickens and grow my own vegetables. I'm so proud that i built a homestead for our family and my husband is so grateful, as i am of him.
Where did you learn how to cook it from ? Or did you experiment
It’s pathetic you think your better than other woman cuz you cooked for a man who is only your bf 😂
It’s pathetic you think your better than other woman cuz you cooked for a man who is only your bf 😂
THIS is what men want!!
Actually as a 15 year old girl, I love the role of a housewife. In my view this role carries so much power. My mother, a housewife, is the most respectable person in my life. She taught me everything I need in life like cooking, housework, helped me with homework, formed my character and my interests. All these skills to make me independent. The one who is raising the kids has the power with no doubt, you teach them how to act and their values in life. They form the new generation, the most important and powerful role. Being a mother comes with great responsibility and respect. I truly believe that this role is the best you can have and I would never want to sacrifice this incredible power and status. Even in my friend group I am sort of their mother and I am the person who is most respected with no doubt. More than anyone even surprise surprise than men. I hate the things this feminist movement and the fat acceptance movement has done to our society. Of course, feminism isn't bad in itself, it's a great thing but in my oppinion it has turned way to extreme and just wrong. You can already see the damages it causes, especially with children.
Great head on ur shoulders girl, you’re gonna be a great wife/mother one day!!
Just because that’s what you want for your life doesn’t make feminism bad.. you’re very lost but hopefully you’ll grow up one day and see it’s ok for people not to want the same
@@Marz859I'm not really lost and if you could read that would make things much easier. Please don't just randomly interpret shit into my sentences. As I said "feminism isn't bad in itself, it's a great thing but in my opinion it has turned way to extreme", and that's literally quoted. In my comment I talked about how much I appreciate that role and how I can not understand why anybody (especially feminists) degrade that role into something for less capable and mabye even valuable people. I don't care if it's the man or the women that is taking care of the children but someone NEEDS to be there, please tell me where I said that this should be a women's job, I just said it needs to be done and in many cases it would be more logical to let the women do it. Sadly in today's society either both parents need to work or the women would want to choose to work even if it's a lower paying job and the partner is capable of working because of todays feminism, they would feel oppressed, which I don't f*ing understand. It's ok for people to not want the same, I truly understand, parenting is not for everyone and again tell me where I said something else but then don't get a child in the first place if you can't provide for it properly.
@@angi6363 Women nowadays have a lot placed on their shoulders and many of them simply don't know how to handle it or reason with it(to be fair I really do feel bad for Gen Z straight women), so many girls I've met are completely lost emotionally and spiritually as to what they want to do in life or what their place in the world is.
Good to see someone my age can see the writing on the wall and is appearing to tackle it in a healthy way.
God bless.
Good for you- you've managed to beat the overpowering weight of society and be yourself. I hate how activism has molded society into a limp spaghetti noodle that disrespects the traditional role some women choose to embrace. The fact that people can still recognize that gives me a lot of hope. The person I respect the most in the world is my own mother, who's a housewife herself. Respect, you're pulling W's
When pets tend to get a more balanced diet than human children.
When pets get better parenting than human children.
When pets get more protection from the state than boys and men.
They don’t
Ever heard of chonker memes
75% of pet food isn’t really healthy and can cause pets to get fat.
@@BuetifullPersun do you mean pet fastfood? For my dog I am cooking.
My dad was a single parent. I was 10 when the divorce happened.
I remember at first we only ate fast food because he didn't know how to cook. Years later he told me that he felt bad at the time that he couldn't do one of the core parents duties, cook for the family.
So he started cooking. I remember it vividly. The burnt rice, overcooked mushy veggies that tasted like mud, dry meats and hard pastas🤣🤣
But over the years he gradually gotten better.
I remember those nights in the summer of '13 when he tried to bake chicken in the oven with cast iron. Me and my sisters called it the "watery chicken special" I felt bad looking back when I said that to him. But he laughed and took it in stride and tried even harder.
Now he is one of the best cooks I know and I aspire to be even half as good as him one day.
Love you Dad!
My parents separated when I was 15, all we would eat was pasta and frozen pizza. I totally understand the struggle lol My dad did cook good breakfast lol
This is what I'm dealing with right now. Wifey hit me with the "I'm not happy", so now I have two toddlers I have to care for by myself. Trying to learn how to make things they'll actually eat.
@@WillThat you can do this ! Dads are awesome
@@sophiagil6009 lol not the frozen pizza 😂😂😂
Love….. I want to cook something for you! I’m in Little Rock lol 😂 man , heartfelt statement. Love…..
I’m astounded by the fact that her making box pasta and jarred sauce is hard, that’s her putting in a lot of effort. Times like these, and I’m glad that I was raised by my grandmother who was raised by her mother as a proper housewife even though I do work, I still know how to take care of a home.
She can't even use a tin of chopped tomatoes and some mixed herbs ??? Jar pasta sauce is peak laziness - my 2 ingredient tinned tomatoes and herbs is far cheaper and healthier.
@@jellybean4046 tinned tomatoes and herbs sounds better than jarred pasta sauce.
@@jellybean4046It might just be where I live. But our canned pasta Is acctualy reasonable ( well It Is not canned but comes pre-made ) like, you still need to temper It but I grew up with bolonhesa sauce made with pre-made pasta and It didnt taste bad.
I've also noticed this, when I was young, most of the time me and my sister didn't like my mom's cooking, but when we went to my grandmother's, we were enjoying the meals even if there was vegatables which we didn't like. As we grew up my mom understood this and started putting alot more work into becoming a great cook and since then she had no problem.
One big reason in talking with young men, is Divorce. They are scared of losing their home, investments, garnished wages and loss of kids.
They've seen far too many men succumb to this, after spending years or even decades being treated horribly, and no young man wants to follow this path.
I don't even see a point in marriage anymore, it's not an unbreakable oath before God anymore, and you don't need a marriage to just be in a relationship with someone, a marriage is now nothing but a financial drain and a future Damocles sword over your head for the rest of your life.
@@dwight3555: I agree, however our society has certain legal benefits to marriage, such as home ownership, financial and having children. But the risk to men in a divorce is real and is a leading factor of family wealth distribution. Add to this the fact that family courts are biased toward women, any wonder that men have second thoughts. If you haven’t done so, take a few hours and watch some documentaries on the history of marriage, very eye opening.
@@budapestmole I haven't watched documentaries on the history of marriage, though I've seen a lot about current marriages.
If you have any good links to share, do not hesitate
@@budapestmole all that goes to women. Half of the man's hard work and the child goes to the woman
@@saileshnaidu8102: Yes it does and with the power and authority of the government behind it.
I don’t understand why more mother’s dont want to cook for their kids. I feel like cooking nutritious meals for your family is such an expression of love.
I'm a guy and even I would love to cook for family, cause both my dad and mom enjoy cooking (though they do argue about how to cook so never have them cook together you're asking for a fight)
God bless you
They think it’s oppression
@@islami658 A Father trying to raise his child to be a success in life is defined as "toxic masculinity" by the American Psychological Association.
Isaiah was right - Zion is gonna burn. 🔥 😥
That’s how I feel about it, and how my mother saw it too! I remember her making dinner just about every night and appreciated all of them, knowing that she loved us enough to create meals and keep us happy and fed. I also found out that she used to make our baby food from scratch by puréeing all of the vegetables and fruit and whatnot, that made me look at her like a superhero for a long time haha. I want to be that for my kids if I have any!
2:38 I love this, and this is why I watch your videos. You don’t refrain from generalizations because “not all” or “harmful stereotypes.” You refrain from certain generalizations because they are “statistically unlikely.” Your videos are unburdened by anything but verifiable truth, as all analyses should be. It’s rare but awesome.
This is child abuse....
I have to say that I was lucky. I had an incredible wife for 18 years. She was beautiful, kept the house, loving, supportive, and a great cook. I could go to the kitchen, look at everything, and think we needed to go to the store. She could walk in there right after me and 30 to 45 minutes later hand me a plate full of really good food. She died suddenly 3 1/2 years ago and I have been alone ever since. I really do miss her. I don't think I will ever be that lucky again.
Sorry for you're lost.
One in a million, stay strong man.
Women like you're wife are hard to find needle in haystack. God speed
Sorry to hear that David, my heart goes out to you x
Sorry for your loss
💔
So so sad 😔😔😔😔
This woman is disgusted with the idea of cooking 3 meals a day for her children.
Me too, but lazy creative people search for the fastest and easiest way to do it for once: pour all your flavor ingredients with egg and milk, stir, non-stick pan shove and flip, then salad. End.
No no no now way I would ever marry that lady
shows the state of modern fe-fails its all about making their lives easier even at the sacrifice of their own children
@@kaputasri of course is different when you are cooking for your adult family than children, you can cook easy, tasty and healthy without too much hassle. I prefer eating good even if the looks are bad, my dad cooks with a lot of ingredients and makes it look like Ramsey Gordon but don't taste so good most of the time
@@fatimazarza7365 you can feed kids healthy food without much hassle, buddy...
My mom always made mac and cheese or Pan-cooked salmon with boiled potatoes or beans. She also made smoothies or lemonade or orange juice . We loved it and it is super healthy , it literally takes just 15 minutes to have it done . People have just become lazy af
I grew up on a cattle ranch, everyone worked and helped. My mom was a teacher in a country school, also worked the cows + horses, and raised us kids all while preparing meals for hired hands and the family. I'll admit, she was a superwoman when I was young. All the women in the family (her, my three aunt's, and my grandmother) all pooled together to raise us kids, keep us fed and educated, and kept the ranch moving. It was an amazing day to grow up.
What I mean to say is, it's all possible.
Exactly the same for me. I was raised in the same environment and will be raising my own children this way too. Women like us do exist, just that men seem to be looking in the wrong places. You would never catch me in a nightclub or on instagram, as i don't use it.
My dad experienced poverty and scarcity in his youth. When as a kid I complained that I was hungry, he would jokingly say "It's okay, you can go a day without eating and be fine".
If giving your child heroin is child abuse, feeding your child this poison should also be considered child abuse
yeah lump it up there with vegan parents
This food is not even remotely as addictive as heroin. What a bunch of poppycock.
@@chrismoore1372 Vegan or vegetarian food can be very healthy and tasty if done properly. I was raised vegetarian and that aspect of diet was passed on culturally from my ancestors for millennia. Our cuisine is centred around it as well.
Hmmmm
just think if the state/government would take all the kids that are at risk, most single mothers will go childless, there will be more kids in government facilities than dogs in rescue shelters!
Not everyone is meant to be a parent. Lord help those kids
Some people can’t accept that fact. I am a teacher and I see it all the time, unfortunately.
I don't think the lord cares, he got better things to do than rescuing losers from their own stupidity.
@@roserevancroix2308 oh, yeah, except they are winners of our society. Our future, basically.
Either the will grow up fat which causes social and health issue or maybe not cause heart disease are deadly.
By god they’re gonna die at least 20 years young
After watching 2-3 videos, I recognize you have great insight and real wisdom on lots of topics I fucks with. That's dope. Subscribed.
@TBYS You do a good job of explaining the interpersonal psychological reasoning of a lot of issues. I appreciate that and look forward to watching more of your content.
Some people get their kids a tablet, she's giving her kids obesity and diabetes.
What they are giving them is bad genes, bad habits, a bad future and their loser mentality.
My mom gave me anxiety and depression
@@competenceinmotion6426 Man
@@competenceinmotion6426 Sorry man that's rough 😞😞😞
Tablet of what? Vitamin tablets are best for health
Poor kid. Barely started out in life and he is already losing.
When they grow up, their generating will call it, non-dumbfuck parent privilege
The worst part is, it ain't his fault.
@@TheHighborn And unlike that white privilege I have but can't tell what it does, I'm making sure to raise my children with non-dumbfuck parent privilege.
Losers raise losers.
@@stevenharris2230 I've seen kids with crap parents grow up and make something of themselves. It's hard on them though, they're constantly one bad month away from becoming like their parents.
I’ll never forget when I was told to “aim higher with my goals” when I was asked by a male coworker what field I eventually wanted to go into a few years back and I told him I wanted to take care of my husband and future children as a housewife.
What a weirdo he is career is not what makes you happy it's family.
Completely out of place of him.
That loser literally told you that one of the most important jobs in human history is not good enough. It's wild how the modern world promotes such sexist values, and so many people are blind to it
I bet he has a "GREAT" relationship with a high quality 🚺 too...Not🙄🤣.
Love your channel, every single time you show a segment then immediately take the words out of my mouth. Keep it up friend!
Doctor : " Your basically killing your children "
Mom: " Okay"
Also she is basically paying extra money to damage her children. She would be cheaper off cooking the cheapest rice, potatos or beans and still have a lot of time for her social media addiction. I am a lazy mofo myself, but I cook ym own stuff, man. I love it. Wtf is she doing all the time? Holy mother Mchree....
“ they came outta my body , so I can do whatever I want “
Mom: that was my plan.
Sums up the attitude of modern women huh
She doesn't look like she wants her kids to live to 18 does she?
My mom works 6 days a week and still
tries her best to cook the healthiest food possible for us
I just feel proud
My mother raised 6 children and cooked in an exquisite way, making bread, soup, stews and in December towards the traditional Hallas, just making the stew takes one or two days and requires large amounts of meat, vegetables, eggs, potatoes, raisins, all cooked in a 4 or 5 gallon pot, on one occasion she made more than 180 Hallas with the help of the whole family, we ate them all the month of December, 3 years ago her health no longer allowed her to make the stew and sadly my sisters they did not inherit his talent.
Sounds like you have a mom that loves you alot. Good for both of you
Do you help her at all?
@@psychopompous3207 Yea in cleaning and other things like that
My mom and dad work most of the time so it’s just me and my younger siblings and I’m the one usually cooking the meals except on the weekends since my parents don’t work on those days, but let me tell you, it’s the most rewarding feeling being able to cook a decent meal for your siblings.
Brilliantly put together message. This covers just about everything and makes a lot of sense.
This channel NEEDS to blow up
As a father myself this boils my blood when people who shouldn't be allowed to have children do shit like this..
6 cans of coca cola cant imagine 😲😲😲😲😲😲😲
@@eliseenvisionz7588 Fastfood 5 days a week is brutal.
@@Walking-MY-Path I love ff and I could not do this. Ff is something special for me. *Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrutal*
@@nocturnaljoe9543 Okay
@@Walking-MY-Path Not sure if I made myself clear. What I ment is: Even through I like fast food, I would never eat it that often. I can enjoy it like 1-2 times a week.
This lady is cutting this child’s life in half only feeding him this shit.
Vader wearing sunglasses looks radiant 🙃👌
@@jgillan92 so he's technically wearing 2 types of sunglasses?
@@manuelavila5433 6 eyes
@@godlikemachine645 hes
almost a spider
6:15,the other lady telling her that the current food habit will probably lead to diseases in the future
our lady be like:don't worry, i left the current problems to my future self
edit : forgot to add "while laughing"
keep working hard because you have a great channel and i really thank you
Honestly one of the best UA-camrs on these types of topics ur not biased u give credit when it's due and u actually want them to be better instead of seeing them as a enemy. You want people to improve and be better and I respect that
That poor baby. His life is ruined because of his parents
Probably only cuz of the modernish mother
calm down,. his life not ruined yet. give it a 15 to 17 years, he will be ruining his own life. an his parent feeding him junk food is not one of the cause.
@@faznanbadri6854 What? At this pace the kid will become obese in no time and will also get diabetes, eating disorder or some other food related health issue.
@@CreamFreshCream there is no visible effect yet. actually the baby look skinny.
@@faznanbadri6854 It doesn't matter how the kid looks now. The kid gets more calories than an average adult man. His body is already full of visceral fat. It'll get out of control very soon. Besides you can look skinny and still have serious health problems like diabetes.
I like how the doctor has to explain to the mom that she’s essentially killing them with all the fast food. Was she... unaware that fast food was unhealthy..? That should be common sense like wtf am I watching
Blame for some woman don't want to learning basic of cooking they are whining because someone say woman belongs to kitchen its different perspective who belongs in the kitchen for me is man my mother told me to learn some basic cooking
I interesting about problem in american society
To much idealist people who don't think rationally
Or this is fail concept about freedom or equality?
Can you share your answer?
@@ridwan3533 Cooking is a completely necessary skill, if not required for survival.
@@jrt2792 absolutely can I discuss maybe first world or second world country fast food is cheap compared to buy ingredients for cooking or to busy from their own bussines when third world country fast food or junk food is quite expensive for food while I live in third world country spend 1 dollar you can find a lot of food have good nutrients except for hygiene lol
Especially when the kid is growing.
@@jrt2792 In WoW you don't need it to reach endgame content, so I don't need it IRL! checkmate, woman-hat0R!!!1111
You just blew my mind. Thank you.
We had Home Ec and Shop classes in junior high. For one quarter, girls had to attend shop class (mandatory) to learn some basic repair techniques and boys had to attend Home Ec (mandatory) to learn basic cooking. It was a good system. The final Home Ec test was groups splitting off and each cooking a part of the meal from appetizer to dessert. The local precinct cops came in and ate the meal we cooked and graded us. It was a good class.
I’m 35 and have never dated a woman who knows how to cook. No use in bringing that up to any woman, because all they hear is “so you want a woman who cooks for you” like it’s a prison sentence.
I cook better than any women I dated. Actually I do enjoy cooking and I never think it makes me weak. Cooking is a healthier option and it saves money and you pick best ingredients. Modern women are so brain dead for thinking cooking makes them look submissive.
I’ve been trying to have my dad teach me how to cook. As the eldest sister I want to help my mom with chores and cooking. My dad and mom are divorced but are pretty chill with each other so I have my dad teach me how to cook and my mom with emotional growth. I hope I can cook with my partner when I’m older.
I have cooked for myself since I was 12 years old. I had to learn out of pure necessity. I had no one to cook for me most days so it was learn to cook or starve. Now I'm a decent cook and do a better job of it than any modern woman I've met.
look for a traditional woman ... join trad groups ... is not as complex as many men make it out to be.
@@AYKAY88 cool
My dad raised 3 little girls and learned to cook real fast after my mom dipped out on us. He's a great cook and he almost always cooked a hot meal after working all day. I love and my respect my dad SO much for all he went through.
My dad raised me by himself too and still cleaned and cooked, he did both and I was able to learn some good meals and I've learned even more since he showed me good ingredients
He's Earned that "World's #1 Dad" Mug
That is one thing I never understood. Why is having the ability to feed yourself a feminine trait? Most short order cooks and chefs are men too. You can add cleaning to that too, just because I'm a man doesn't mean I don't like cleaning my place. I feel accomplished after it.
My pops is a single dad and a chef works 2 jobs to live where he's at and he's had 4 boys. I'll tell u what we can cook and I love my dad so much cus no matter how busy he was he would always have time to teach us his 2nd love...and that was cooking.
W father
as a kid i was upset that i never got fast food like my friends did, now that im older i realize how smart my parents were for limiting that. to this day ive only eaten mcdonalds once and havent even been to most fast food restauraunts.
The more I watched this video the more grateful I became to have the parents that I have
They are kids.
"Don't want to eat this healthy food? Ok, stay hungry until you do."
I always think this when people complain about a meal. "You're clearly not hungry enough."
If my kids don't finish their meal because "they're full", I don't tell them to throw it out. I'll leave it on the kitchen counter. Without fail, in 15 minutes they are asking for something to eat. I'll point to their dinner and let them know they can still finish it.
100 % true a kid Will eat when its hungry and Will lern to like whatever you feed it.
@@robertluna5737 yup trust me i have been hungry for real no food for a week many times and everything you eat after that tastes like haven
This 💯 Everything tastes good when you are starving
I honestly couldn't imagine eating fast food everyday. It made me physically ill watching the first part of this video.
@@reidbishop7965 hows your diet affecting you physically, so far?
@@reidbishop7965 That's more understandable than this video though
@@reidbishop7965 yeah when its really just once person caring for a house of 2 or 3 coming home at 8pm fast food is really all you can do most of the time especially in you include all the tasks and responsibilitys outside of work
@Kommissar I like salads.
Cucumber, tomatoes, rice.
You sleep like a bay afterwards.
@@reidbishop7965 you would need to eat more healthy food or you are fucked but I can not blame you
That is so true, I became a stay at home dad when my son was born and let me tell you if my mother hadn't been teaching me how to cook since I was 8 years old it would have been an utter disaster. Cooking well is a very specialized skill, it can be extremely complicated and time sensitive. Thank you mom, for insisting I came in and helped with dinner.
The tidbits of knowledge on your channel is universal
When I was a kid, it was considered a treat to have McDonald's since we only had it like twice or 3 times a year.
That's what makes it valuable. If u eat it eveyday , u probably wont like to eat it. Same with me regarding kfc. Once i got job and i was able to eat and buy these whenever i can , i realized cooking myself was better and safer for health.
Exactly. I remember my siblings and I always being so happy/satisfied everytime we got fast food because it was so rare.
And we ordered pizza on someone's birthday only
It's the daily dinner for a lot of kids these days now... urgh.
Yeah it was kinda same for me now whenever I hear McDonald's I wanna vomit
Also: if you, as a woman, want to be be "independent", WHY would you not know how to cook? Who tf is gonna feed you again?? Both women AND men should know how to cook to feed themselves when single, if nothing else.
I completely agree
College/university 101 basic survival!!!
Being independent means spending -your- someone's money to solve your problems.
💯
Great video and insights ❤ still relevant now!
Note about the divorce rate and old relationships: I heard that the only reason divorce rates went up was because of the decline in Christian values or something similar to that.
I think you may be placing too much faith in the way old relationships used to be. People feel approach relationships differently nowadays because the stigmas surrounding relationships have changed both ways. Neither one was perfect to begin with
the divorce rate went up with the sexual revolution and this shit started in the 50s with the birth of the swingers if you look closely the two go hand in hand and this generation is SCARY girls talking about having fun with 50 guys in one night just like its another night and that aids was something in the medival times so you dont have to worry about it and the boys are just worse creating bastards by the thousands the traditional relationship is obsolete
There are many reasons why divorce rates have gone up. What you explained could be one. I say could because this is the first time I ever hear of this being a cause of the increase in divorce rates. However the biggest reason is modern feminism which is more about women wanting to be superior and men are shit than wanting to be treated as equals.
@@co7769 gotta disagree with you. I'd say the main reason divorce has gone up is because the stigma that comes from actually getting a divorced has gone down. So maybe OC was right in the christian values thing but is say more overall religious and culturally values kept people together even when they both wanted out.
This is also what stops men from marrying now, I'm an atheist so I have no interest in getting married because to me its just a piece of paper. Now with a lot more non religious people, more men are not interested in getting married and when things don't work out then they just get divorced
@@CrispyWater4Sale The biggest thing is feminist theory is based on some seriously marxist principles. The concept that men are the eternal and yet somehow ephemeral rapists and oppressors of women, and that the only reason women assumed their role was because of this oppression. Therefore since the man is the oppressor in feminist dynamics learning the skills to attract them is worthless, and that subverting the system of marriage to benefit the women is the only way the subvert the "patriarchy" and achieve equity.
"accountability is kryptonite to a modern woman" - Kevin Samuels
Legend
marry used women - jevin samuels
Women have never been accountable, it was merely less obvious when they were content to sit in the passenger seat.
good quote but that guy is a fuckin corn ball
The fact you quoted Kevin samuels 😂
Two uploads in one week? I tip my hat to you my good sir.
Yo! Your last vid on Sam was EPIC!
Why aren’t you verified yet?
That's actually rare
Tip tipping tippiti tip
Love home improvement
Since the Past 2 months a was using my time on a really instructive way (watching ur video and learning) while working out and working ur content are good, keep the consistency
I swear this channel is great. All criticisms my man makes he usually applies them himself aswell which I love because he isn’t trying to be hypocritical.
Theory: she's purposely cooking badly so when nobody likes it, she can justify not cooking next time.
Bit like doing a bad job of cleaning so nobody asks you to do it again.
Sounds like my mom to the T.
Rip mom
yep spot on mate.
My sister does that alot , at least sometimes i Think that. Other times i remember how she asked about how to get icecubes out of the tray and i told her to run hot water other it. After one Minute she came and said it didnt work. Of course she was running the hot water from above like you would do when are filling the tray and didnt turn it over .
She was 28 btw and has Abitur and a Bachelors degree and also worked in Restaurant/Hotel Service for 3+ years
It's not very difficult to cook a tasty meal. This is possible
This is why Asian parents exist...
(I am South Asian myself and any lip would get ‘The Death Pinch’ or ‘The Sandal’)
It’s only when you grow up, you realize they did it because they loved you
why I'm grateful for my parents
It’s true,my parents were trained in the arts of failure teaching.Your people are the best
0:01 Grandparent cry
genetic lineage ended.
@Hyun Kim damn man
@Hyun Kim *Parenting* at its extreme’s,either way I hope you’re doing well after through that
Nailed it mate, as usual.
Bro these images of food you have on the portions where you speak are making me hungry 😭
Fr tho your content is amazing
"I shouldn't learn to cook, I'm strong and independent!" Modern women's logic.
They'd rather earn the big bucks and then exploit the immigrant labor or allow machines to raise their children. They don't really love their kids, because they assume someone else will just love them.
The Left is all over the fucking place.
Maybe people should start talking about the top chefs are mostly male and they'll change. Actively insult that, saying men can do better when they do it haha!
Thats not what modern women want i think they just want for men to be able to cook too lol everyone should know how to tend for themselves
Yeah,independently going to the store because you can’t cook basic food
@@cupcakecake7606 dude we don't live in the 90s anymore
All those traditional woman skills you talked about (sewing, cooking, cleaning, etc) are skills I learned as a child because they are useful skills to have. I have met ONE woman who also has all those skills that wasn't a grandmother.
Because they were raised to worship money (thanks to boomer Mcmansion lifestyle). Why learn to fix anything when you can just order a new one online and toss out the previous one? Why learn to cook if you demand your man make enough to eat out every day and order in when feeling lazy? The modern woman values Looks, Money, Status in that order and thats it. If you're not aces in all three she will do whatever she can to extract the one that you have before "leveling up".
Marriage rates are at an all time low in history because men have seen their fathers, friends, and peers get absolutely eviscerated in family court. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
truer words have not been spoken also the only places u can find women who know these skills now days are thrid and scond world countries
I've only met one too... and I'm dating her! :D
I'm a 33 woman and I can cook, sew, and even do car maintenance myself, I only met a few other women who can sew, I can take my sewing machine apart to clean it out and assemble it again and it works still lol
If I was a man I would be so put off from dating any single mothers as they are looking for a replacement dad
@@Lulu-ut9pv yes if I was a guy and single I don't want a single mom especially who doesn't know how to cook.
Im 37 and can do all that shit and my husband thanks me for keeping up traditional values. I enjoy doing them besides my art career.
High quality content as always...
I dont agree with everything you say but I do appreciate the well explained reasons for your thinking so I can challenge my viewpoints and those around me.
The reason's simple - The juice ain't worth the squeeze.
And to be honest, the older I get and the worse the culture gets as far as churning out marriageable women, even if the laws weren't crap, by the time I'm financially ready to be married, I'll be left with less than no good options...
There are no marriageable women left.
Just turned 21 and I'm glad I found content like this
A sad state of affairs
The words marriageable and women don't even belong in the same sentence anymore.
Aaron Clarey talks about this in great detail in his latest book "The Book of Numbers"
I taught myself to cook...
If I can do it, so can women.
They're just being lazy.
I even raised my son, as a single parent, to cook and clean for himself. His mother couldn't and never tried to learn.
go dude go
I'm a female in my 20's. I cook, clean, and sew while also holding a full time job as a mechanic. I also take on vehicle maintenance at home. It was a little comical for my neighbor when she came out one night and my husband was holding up a light for me to see while I replaced his alternator in the driveway. Husband works too and keeps up the lawn, I hate doing lawn work.
@@labratrocky You want a cookie?
@@torachan23 I doubt it, but she is a good example of a competent adult, so no need to harp on her.
The best chefs in the world all happen to be men too.
Both of my parents worked and I'm 2nd out of 4 girls. We lived with my grandparents and my grandma cooked until she passed when I was in first grade. With my mom having a more demanding job and only one arm my parents split roles a bit differently so my dad ended up learning how to cook when my grandma passed. I will always appreciate the effort he put in every day to make sure we had a balanced home cooked meal as a family everyday. By the time I was in high school my dad started teaching me how to cook and time meals. I'm an engineer, married, and we're trying for our first now. I've been working full time remotely (since before COVID) which helps but I have to admit I see examples of how much more I could do if I had more time. I know we'll make it work because we'll have to. I don't know how families can afford to live on one income these days.
23:30 This is what my mom did. Her cooking was so good when I was a child I didn't crave fast food.
Same thing :]
I'm not even three minutes into the video and I'm already mad at them. Who feeds their baby KFC?
BILLY agrees
Lizzo's mom
Single mother’s
People that don't know anything about nutrition and don't learn
my mother used to work as a kindergarten teacher. There were girls in her groups that were literally just three or four years old and already growing breasts because of all the hormones their parents fed them via the processed meat. They were basically going through puberty 10 years too early, I don´t even want to imagine what effect that must have on the body.
This is child abuse. She's killing that kid, and the rest as well.
Like "my body my choice". The difference is she kills her baby after birth.
Great stuff man
meanwhile, as a fulltime working mom, my kids would demand home cooked meals everyday and won't eat fast food nor premade, and consider the meal incomplete if it doesn't have a salad and a soup. sometimes i wish they would eat fast food at least twice a month so i could take a break from cooking, but thinking i only have to cook for them while they're young and i'll miss this exhausting days someday, it gives me motivation. i also require participation from my kids while cooking, like washing and cutting the vegetables, and they enjoy it a lot.
I’m a chef and I grew up with an Italian immigrant father who is an excellent cook and made food 6 nights a week for us. This is such a stark contrast to what I’ve known
Sounds good, I'm always up for some Italian food
My dad is an Argentinian immigrant with a lot of Italian heritage and my mom is Italian American, both great cooks, so I grew up eating good Italian food, but my parents shared the cooking somewhat equally and both had very flexible jobs, so I don’t think it always needs to follow the structure of one provider and one homemaker. However, I do think situations where both parents work 9-5s aren’t a result of empowerment but of a bad economic situation and a culture that values career over family.
Same man. I was a latchkey kid who lived with my mother and MY FATHER taught me how to cook. I guess my mother just expected me to know.
Username checks out
you are very lucky. its a rarity these days.
“My ex wife still misses me. But her aim is getting better! But her aim is getting better!”
I love that Gravity Falls reference
Lmao
"i--it's funny, because marriage is dumb..!"
You see it’s funny because marriage is terrible!
@@devonrichardson44 I was thinking Oversimplified but ok
This video just proves that men value something they have lost. When women had all the household skills developed to a high level, men took it for granted. Not many of them praised their wives for being able to take care of the house and the family. But now, since many modern women no longer put their husbands and houses as priority, men speak of the traditionalism more and more often in a good way. They realise what they are losing and want to get it back.
Definitely agree 💯 I hate it when men think keeping a house full of kids is easy
@@agnosticmanquestionsall2409
Did you even watch the video?
@@agnosticmanquestionsall2409
What I mean is in the video he says that cooking (which is the biggest job in being a housewife) is very difficult and requires years of training, TBYS clearly states this too.
@@agnosticmanquestionsall2409
The guy who made the OG comment clearly didn’t watch the video, sorry for the misunderstanding.
When I was a teenage boy I cooked dinner for my family every week night. Both my parents worked so my mom would leave out the ingredients and the recipe and I would come home from school, watch Gillians island and then cook dinner. I loved doing it and now as an adult I know how to cook delicious food for myself and save tons of money. Thanks Mom!
Wtf is so difficult to cook pasta?
1)Boil water
2)Add salt
3)throw pasta
4)Wait the time indicated in the packet of pasta
5)Drain water
6)Buon appetito!
Women
Easier to order takeaway, spend your time doing fucking whatever and destroy your children's health apparently 🤷♂️ fucking despicable
"you are what you east" just how hard is it to follow such an easy, yet true saying
Humans are too stupid to read, follow directions, or think.
@@CasualSpec 90% is, yes.
If you can, garlic salt in it while cooking makes the pasta extra delicious
Being a grown woman who cant cook is embarrassing. Im a dude and i started to learn how to cook when i was 12 by watching my mom and being obsessed with food related tv
Thats true and if you have internet theres no excuse if you can't even search up a damn recipe. God help us all
Being a grown person who cannot cook is embarrassing honestly, and it's not limited to only female. Because everyone has mouth, so better learn how to cook or have money to hire maid for it/buying foods.
So relatable such a damn shame 😂😂😂
I learnt to how to cook from 11 by just watching my parents and we had a rotation of house chores every year we change so in a few years you can do everything in the house. It's not hard
Have you found the lamb sauce?
I've never understood people who say I can't cook, it's like saying I can't follow simple instructions
Me and my girl have a rule when it comes to who is cooking the food, it basically goes like this: The one who gets home first cooks the food, the one who comes home last do the dishes. Both of us work pretty much full time every day except for the weekends and by the time the weekend comes along we help each other with stuff like cleaning, laundry, cooking again, grocery shopping along with plenty of other stuff and we're usually done with all of these things by the time we still have the rest of the Saturday and Sunday free to do whatever we want. We work as a team because that's the only way things would work out. Also, during the weekends we both cook together and we usually have a bunch of fun coming up with new ideas to try on, or we just do something easy and familiar, it doesn't matter really, as long as we do it together. I also live in Sweden, where most of the females are quite boring and similar to each other with what they want from a relationship which is mostly money, good looks, a big house and not having to work for a living. I was not surprised that my Canadian girlfriend agreed with my statement. So, if you're planning and looking for a decent girlfriend in Sweden, please look elsewhere, I say this for your own good because they're very rare in Sweden.
I was raised by a super feminist single mom who used to tell me, “your first marriage should be for money, your second marriage can be for love.” That’s very damaging to a young girl. I totally bought into the “I don’t need no man” mindframe. Somehow, and I feel SO lucky, but I’m now married and a stay at home mother to 3 kids. But in the beginning of the marriage, I struggled with all the home maker things because I was NEVER taught how to take care of a family. I was taught that woman shouldn’t have to take care of their families any more. I struggled to learn to cook. I had a terrible time keeping the house really clean/tidy, especially with young kids around. But after some work and research and practice (and a lot of cooking UA-cam videos 😂) I’m much much better. But I WISH i has learned these things when I was younger. I feel cheated. Getting to stay home and raise kids is literally the best thing that could have and has happened to me (and I didn’t even want kids back then) But I feel so privileged to have that life now. My husband takes care of us financially and the only chore I ask him to do is take out the garbage on his way out the door. My youngest is a very picky eater but I’ve noticed that he really likes it when I let him help me cook. So I let him help when he wants eggs, or when he wants pizza, we make it homemade and he gets to help. He likes it more if he has a hand in cooking it.
Damn, the "your first marriage should be for money" advice is so immoral because it implies that you should start a marriage already with the intent of divorce. Good on you for realizing how destructive the feminist mindset is. Feminists will end up miserable and alone, pity them and keep honoring the great family life you've helped build. Cheers.
We need more ladies like you. Respectful and grateful. I want to be a father and I hope if I ever meet someone they are like you. Your kids will be grateful for a great mother they had.
@@AHess007 awww that’s so sweet. Thank you. If you do meet someone nice, remember they won’t be perfect right away. But if she’s willing to learn and grow with you, that’s the best companion.
@@StayAtHomeMeme Thanks for the advice and have a good day!
Thanks for breaking that ideology of being a feminist! 👏
Whenever I see a British woman cook, I am reminded why they started wars over spices
Lol
PMSL this woman lives down the road from me
@@The_O.G_Cyber_bully_24Hr_Ban please cook meals for her and deliver them to her, and make them healthy
Lmao
I really like the images you choose for the bg, I don't know if it was intentional, but those images combined with the audio made me want to cook better.
I like that PSA you did about her cutting technique
"see that is why a boy needs his father" Homelander
🤣🤣🤣🤣😮
Yeah "you guys are the real heroes"
"now he's just another useless fucking blind guy"
Homelander is a great dad. 👍
Tough love, right? lol
@@professionaltherakeplayer4042 "what's 17 more years? I can always start again , make another kid"
"Most new ideas suck and it takes years to vet the ones that don't" spot on 100%
8:16: Oh, that was a Hashtag-Nice-Guy-Moment!
I grew up with my mom and grandmother.my mom has been overweight my whole life and she wastes her life away and never cooked or cleaned or held a job longer than a few months.i was never taught budgeting or how to cook.my grandmother cleaned and took care of me even though she had a jacked hip and scoliosis and could barely walk.as a grown man now ive taught myself alot and i strive to do the opposite of what my mother did.god bless the others in similar situations
Love your videos
"There's rice at the house" every time we asked for Mcdonalds growing up
What wonderful parents you have.
Asian parent moment
That's actually very good.
Not only is rice very healthy, the *rice water* as well !
Chinese people use the water for skin and hair, as an example Yao women have the longest hair in the world because of rice water and their hair is grey-less till they are 70-80 years old.
African parents be like 😭i didn't eat fast food till like 10
Yep rice, potatoes and beans my Mother kept around
Imagine actually giving your toddler child soda pops, let alone doing it regularly.
The child will be on life support at 4yrs old
Ya, when I go to Sam's Club & see parents with 3 children 5 to 8+ range with 5 32oz sodas on the table from the cafe. 😬
Soda is such a waste of sugar and calories. If I'm going to consume 200 empty calories, I'd much rather enjoy a candy bar than a damb coke.
Hello fellow person who says soda pop instead of one of the two
It's bad for his teeth and his entire health in general
Her kids should get taken away cause she's unfit to be a parent
Thankfully my family taught me sewing gardening, cooking, and cleaning. Definitely valuable
It's important for women to be somewhat self dependent, like having a good job and being financially and mentally stable. Not every woman wants to get married, just like some men. But for the women who do want to get married, they need to realize it's not just about them anymore. Even without kids, it about your partner as well. Any relationship takes teamwork. Its not one calling all the shots. Plus, you need to be humble of you want a relationship. No woman is going to like a overly cocky, controlling man. No man wants a woman who thinks their "independence" is more important than the relationship.
Men who let women boss them around are cucks. Grow some balls and stick up for yourself. If your husband/boyfriend let's you treat them like crap, they have no self worth or confidence. So they don't make a good partner.
Cooking is LITERALLY one of my best pleasures on earth, like the possibilities are unlimited if you just have the ingredients .And the Praise!!
8:16: Ohhhh,
that was a Hashtag-Nice-Guy-Moment!
Anyone else spotted that?
That Statement there, i know it well: I know it from
Nice-Guy-Videos and Neckbeard-Videos.
@@slevinchannel7589 who cares dude
@@jangolub8240 obviously you do otherwise u wouldn't of replied to the comment SMH LOL
@@anonymous-qb8nd no, i dont care about the hashtag nice guy movement, i care about telling him that noone cares. Big difference, my condescending friend 😉
Spend hours of prep for a meal u consume in less than 30 min. Best pleasure my ass
She made pasta for heavens sake, that’s one of the easer meals to make, only thing easer is grilled cheese. It’s not like it’s even that hard to learn to cook, look it up on UA-cam. Jeez these people I swear
For real. It's such a necessary life skill to have.
Only boiling water is easier !
Lol even if this was in 2011, UA-cam was already a treasure trove of life hacks and Gordon Ramsay existed.
Probably spending all her time cheating
Anybody who says they can't cook in this day and age is lazy, plain and simple. If you can follow a tutorial or guide, you can cook.
Regarding cooking here in Canada they have these things called "side kicks". They are in pouches that are readmade pasta meals that are delicious and all you gotta do is put it in boiling water and a little bit of butter and milk and it's perfect. Now you could add ground beef or other ingredients to make an extra special.
i love u bro, ty so much for changing my life. jesus, i might just have to join your patreon, like at this point if i DONT ill feel guilty, you fucking deserve it. thank you.
i will start with 1, and go onto 5 when i am more stable as a student, financially, thank you again, i literally love your mind.