Abusers Pretending To Be Victims

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  • @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT
    @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT  2 роки тому +1275

    Ground News's Blindspotter has been a new guilty pleasure of mine. Since accepting the ad deal, I have been blindspotting literally everyone. Guess what? It's what you thought. All of the woke people that accuse everyone of living in an echochamber pretty much only interact with the left on Twitter. Whereas everyone who speaks out against wokeness is way closer to the center. Hell, I BARELY just started using twitter a few months ago so I mostly just talk to my friends and viewers instead of interacting with creators in general because I don't fully understand the platform yet. BUT EVEN I come out as more towards the center than every breadtuber who has called me a radical over the past month.
    Edits: People have pointed out that Amy did not actually make the cakes. As far as I have researched, people allege that some of the cakes were made by other people and some of the cakes were made by her. That kind of makes sense. It's strange to be good enough to impress Ramsay with food and then fuck up by under cooking pizza which uses the same cooking medium. Maybe she made the cakes, maybe she didn't. She probably didn't but I ask on that particular point that you take my argument in the spirit that it was intended. Katy said their kitchen was super clean in a Reddit AMA so they still did get something right.
    Other people were saying that Samy was a member of the mob and this restaurant was a money laundering scheme. I can't find any information to verify that but that is a much more believable story then him building custom houses. In all fairness, people in construction generally aren't the most polite people but there was no way Samy was able to organize a team of people to build enough houses to make him wealthy. Amy apparently has a criminal history though. That makes sense.

    • @7Z7A7C7K7
      @7Z7A7C7K7 2 роки тому +81

      Are you going to make a rebuttal to Ludwig's video on you? I usually like him but his points were pretty weak.

    • @dangbear5933
      @dangbear5933 2 роки тому +12

      Waddup TBYS, its been a minute! Thanks for the upload looking forward to the next one and more of your observations!

    • @chattle4639
      @chattle4639 2 роки тому +12

      Stay you bro. Stay you bro. I like you for you.

    • @gabrielalfaro6732
      @gabrielalfaro6732 2 роки тому +19

      I wouldn’t even bother with Twitter. Just hearing about and seeing videos on UA-cam what the people are like on there and the kind of environment it has is enough for me to never ever create an account.

    • @thedarkwolf2525
      @thedarkwolf2525 2 роки тому +8

      @Think Before You Sleep
      I tried watching this video with an IP address from the United Kingdom.
      It said "The uploader has not made this video available in your country"
      What's up?
      (Edit was to correctly copy over the exact wording of the message displayed)

  • @BFNLEO
    @BFNLEO 2 роки тому +6134

    This woman’s husband was afraid to tell her when people complained about the food but not afraid to blow up on customers. Mind blowing.

  • @groovyfish5600
    @groovyfish5600 2 роки тому +2663

    I personally hate parents that threaten their kids when they give an opinion. When the kid grows up they'll be unable to answer basic questions like "what do you want?"

    • @dubbula
      @dubbula 2 роки тому +69

      Ouch so true but

    • @samyheadshot
      @samyheadshot 2 роки тому +136

      I would say it depends. Of course Parents that always do that are shit at their Job, but sometimes you just have to give an Ultimatum. Or your kid will grow up spoiled. For example eat your healthy food first before you get dessert or, if you dont do your homework no computer time for you.

    • @groovyfish5600
      @groovyfish5600 2 роки тому +208

      @@samyheadshot I totally agree, I'm just think more on the scale of a parent that never let's there kid think critically to form their own opinion. Eventually they just lose the ability to go against people.

    • @wimsylogic65
      @wimsylogic65 2 роки тому +73

      @@groovyfish5600 Yes this is the fine line between getting your kids to think critically without crossing the line of respecting authority of your parents.

    • @Bufekana
      @Bufekana 2 роки тому +23

      @@groovyfish5600 yes THIS! Thank you! You described my parents!

  • @Mitzoplick
    @Mitzoplick Рік тому +148

    "Get out of here you are fired. Don't walk away from me!"
    That lady is totally insane.

    • @allahbole
      @allahbole Місяць тому

      Meow meow meow meow..... meow!

    • @Mr_edits47
      @Mr_edits47 5 днів тому

      @@allahbole💀

  • @calgy6144
    @calgy6144 2 роки тому +753

    This woman reminds me of my grandmother. She is Vicious behind peoples back, then when my mother and her siblings cut her out she whines about how cruel they are. An incredible toxic person who if things aren’t going their way plays a victim. Sick of people with NO accountability🤦

    • @savioblanc
      @savioblanc Рік тому +21

      You and I have the same grandmother, it seems. The woman has and is making my mother's life hell

    • @straawberryfieldsforever
      @straawberryfieldsforever Рік тому

      Omg soft bf profile pic!

    • @calgy6144
      @calgy6144 Рік тому

      @@straawberryfieldsforever lol

    • @clairemariecreations
      @clairemariecreations Рік тому +13

      Wow I have the same kind of grandmother. Unfortunately in my family everyone is afraid to stand up to her. So when I called her out I was promptly told I was a worthless disrespectful person and threatened with a restraining order. Lovely, ain’t it?

    • @jimcole6423
      @jimcole6423 Рік тому +1

      MAny women are.

  • @johnhayes333
    @johnhayes333 2 роки тому +1919

    What you don't know is, Amy was convicted for social security fraud and spent a year in prison according to news, and Sammy is apparently also a criminal in the sense that he got deported because of not disclosing his criminal past from Europe when moving, which doesn't surprise me for either of them.

    • @lainiwakura1776
      @lainiwakura1776 2 роки тому +228

      It was suspected that the restaurant was a front for money laundering.

    • @TSPH1992
      @TSPH1992 2 роки тому

      They are Israel's problem now. And I don't feel sorry for either of them

    • @bldontmatter5319
      @bldontmatter5319 2 роки тому +60

      You can almost see the good side in these lizards ... Don't let their good sides fool you, they're evil

    • @cole8834
      @cole8834 2 роки тому +49

      @@lainiwakura1776 Drawing attention to yourself like they did makes that seem unlikely to me. They could just have been shitty criminal people who made a shitty restaurant without criminality.

    • @rockoorbe2002
      @rockoorbe2002 2 роки тому +88

      @@cole8834 not really. Just ask Pablo Escobar. He had PLENTY of businesses that weren't making money like a bicycle repair shop or a taxi company but it was all for show just to try to mask the real source of his wealth. Same with these people. That, and they get an ego boost, especially her.

  • @Sevem7m
    @Sevem7m 2 роки тому +1684

    After that show aired, it was later revealed that Amy didn't make those desserts, cakes, and other baked goods. They were all made elsewhere and just repackaged for the restaurant. She didn't bake/cook them and just lied when Gordon liked it and asked her about making them.

    • @kly826
      @kly826 2 роки тому +146

      Really?? That's ridiculous!

    • @BlyGuy
      @BlyGuy 2 роки тому +95

      That's amazing.

    • @brittnyhawk8633
      @brittnyhawk8633 2 роки тому +316

      Don't know why anyone believe her on the bake goods. She can't make a simple pizza but yet we are to believe she make complex delicious desserts. Never trust a clean apron Baker.

    • @spencerstevens2175
      @spencerstevens2175 2 роки тому +37

      That's the case for most places. It's just easier to bring in desserts from outside made by people who specialize in them

    • @Sevem7m
      @Sevem7m 2 роки тому +134

      @@spencerstevens2175 Yea, that is fine except that Amy claimed that she made them and tried to pass them off as hers. It's fine if she does that, but when she tries to pass it off as not being made out of house and as her own baking then it is a problem. Especially when she makes it a point to talk about how Gordon liked *her* baking.

  • @benjaminthibieroz4155
    @benjaminthibieroz4155 2 роки тому +565

    "no male chefs, their ego is too big and my kitchen is too little so they leave, i show them the door."
    Just whaou...imagine if a male manager shamelessly admit on a public show not hiring any women because he think they're retarded or something...his business would crumble into Oblivion and he would go straigth to court. But hey, abuse thrives when abusers are told they're in their right.

    • @deathstrike
      @deathstrike Рік тому

      I know this is an older thread, but when the playing field has goal posts that constantly shift whenever someone is outraged, what do you expect? No "male chefs" might as well be rephrased to "I don't want someone who might actually tell me in wrong and stand up to me. I want someone who will feel they are weaker then me, thus making me feel better about myself".
      The old saying "Rules for thee but not for me" are said for a reason. With all the feminist rhetoric and "stupid male" social conditioning, if a man did truly not want to hire women because he felt they didn't do the job right? He would be cancelled faster than Google to a hate speech segment. Double standard.

    • @thelemurofmadagascar9183
      @thelemurofmadagascar9183 Рік тому +8

      Amy's Baking Company also crumbled into oblivion. It doesn't exist anymore. So the double standard you're trying to point out doesn't really exist.
      And literally the entire internet was dunking on these two for years. Where did you get the impression that people were telling them they were right?

    • @thelemurofmadagascar9183
      @thelemurofmadagascar9183 11 місяців тому +1

      @@npc_758 That happens with all of the kitchens that go viral. People want to see for themselves if the restaurant really is that bad, or if it's improved at all. It has nothing to do with people condoning the owner's behaviour.

    • @jeice13
      @jeice13 11 місяців тому +24

      ​@@thelemurofmadagascar9183it collapsed because of the bad food and service though not the sexism. Unless theres some evidence of any major backlash to her deciding to only hire women you can point to

    • @williamlevy6964
      @williamlevy6964 11 місяців тому

      The worse part is not hiring women is genuinely acceptable. Women are bullies with no respect for anyone but themselves. They don't belong on teams with men.

  • @cookieman4578
    @cookieman4578 2 роки тому +122

    Amy is one of those people who looks super familiar even though you've never seen her before.

    • @CircumcisionIsChildAbuse
      @CircumcisionIsChildAbuse Рік тому

      a karen you mean. she has a resting bitch face which is common with people who hold higher than usual levels of general resentment and animosity towards others. it's a sort of "dont cross me" or "stay away" defense mechanism usually developed during childhood or adolescence.

    • @hmmidk6023
      @hmmidk6023 10 місяців тому +2

      My mother😢

    • @CircumcisionIsChildAbuse
      @CircumcisionIsChildAbuse 10 місяців тому

      @@hmmidk6023 if that's genuinely the personality of your mother it doesnt bode well. Look into "narcissistic abuse syndrome"

    • @nodsib
      @nodsib 5 місяців тому +4

      Probably because everyone has seen her in their nightmares at some point in their life 😂

  • @DanA-ld5sq
    @DanA-ld5sq 2 роки тому +1944

    You can tell from a distance how crazy she is by looking at her eyes. It's like she practice to have a constant evil eye.

    • @BmanTheChamp
      @BmanTheChamp 2 роки тому +53

      Somehow I'm not so sure it's practice.

    • @Grayald
      @Grayald 2 роки тому +2

      Right? I've seen mugshots of psychopaths, and pictures of mental patients that were genuinely batshit insane that don't look nearly as crazy as she does.

    • @billybussey
      @billybussey 2 роки тому +48

      It's inward looking eyes. You can tell her eyes are only for show.

    • @theflyingdutchguy9870
      @theflyingdutchguy9870 2 роки тому +33

      yeah she is pretty terrifying for sure. i woulnt want to be the one delivering bad news to her😅😂

    • @bldontmatter5319
      @bldontmatter5319 2 роки тому +13

      Go to 1:02... This woman is evil.

  • @mark_lgaming6565
    @mark_lgaming6565 2 роки тому +400

    “I don’t allow people who have an attitude in my restaurant” says the person with the worst attitude in the restaurant

    • @Ramsey276one
      @Ramsey276one 2 роки тому +15

      404 LOGIC NOT FOUND
      Self Denial 100

    • @associatealpha1166
      @associatealpha1166 2 роки тому +5

      He is an emotional beta.

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 2 роки тому +3

      Doesn’t want the competition. 😉

    • @fumothfan9
      @fumothfan9 11 місяців тому

      But of course
      They don't want competition

    • @Blablabla44475
      @Blablabla44475 2 місяці тому

      That’s how abusers work. They call you abusive for calling them out on their abusive behaviour. Gaslighting at its finest

  • @ChocolateAsian9000
    @ChocolateAsian9000 2 роки тому +66

    I’ve recently changed my life by leaving a narcissistic “woman” (girl). I’ve been eating up all media about it and got attached to the Heard trial and so glad it got resolved properly. Thanks for helping me, no anyone else who’s eyes used to be closed. I feel so much better prepared for covert and manipulative behavior

  • @the_weezman
    @the_weezman 2 роки тому +117

    I just wanted to say I love the understanding unbiased take you have on things. You explain tactics that manipulators, abusers, and unthinking use to make them seem like the good guys in any scenario. You're doing an amazing job here friend. Keep fighting for the truth!

    • @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT
      @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT  2 роки тому +47

      I definitely have a biased take. Everyone does.

    • @PHSYKEDSYPHER
      @PHSYKEDSYPHER 11 місяців тому +5

      ​@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT at least you are honest

    • @PHSYKEDSYPHER
      @PHSYKEDSYPHER 11 місяців тому +2

      Unlike most people who claim to be "unbaised"

  • @lifting_weab
    @lifting_weab 2 роки тому +2239

    Ever since my last abusive relationship, I've become super aware about people that claim victim for everything. Blaming the world for it not being the way they want is a common denominator for abusers.

    • @jeremysears4263
      @jeremysears4263 2 роки тому +50

      Most of them share the same mental wiring. Borderlines or "Paths" as l call them. As in socio, psycho, or Narcissistic

    • @TheDarkness1
      @TheDarkness1 2 роки тому +50

      Empath and the Narcissist
      An all so common relationship dynamic
      Starts as a whirlwind, ends up in panic
      The empath truly has love and compassion
      The narcissist requires constant validation
      The narcissist feels truly empty inside
      Afraid to be alone in their darkened mind
      Afraid of the voices in their head
      Believing they're worthless, better off dead
      The empath has nothing to gain
      They build you up to shut off your pain
      What the empath doesn't realize
      Is the narcissist's inability to empathize
      The narcissist thinks it's a power struggle
      The empath has all their feelings to juggle
      Pushing and pulling, a constant fight
      Waiting for the next rage to ignite
      Idealize, devalue, and discard
      The narcissistic calling card
      The empath is tired of insulting their soul
      They awaken and take back their control
      Narcissist moves on to another fixation
      Unable to live without validation
      Never to blame, ego increases
      While the empath is left to pick up the pieces

    • @lifting_weab
      @lifting_weab 2 роки тому +1

      @@jeremysears4263 fr smh

    • @lifting_weab
      @lifting_weab 2 роки тому +9

      @@TheDarkness1 heavy response

    • @TheDarkness1
      @TheDarkness1 2 роки тому +9

      @@lifting_weab Heavy but truth.

  • @LoreMaster007
    @LoreMaster007 2 роки тому +818

    The reason he doesn’t want anyone but him working the register is because he is afraid of theft. He is projecting his insecurities onto them. Same with her. She can’t have ego in the kitchen because of her own ego.

    • @gastongl404
      @gastongl404 2 роки тому +43

      that's why they see every 1 as an enemy whether it's a customer or a worker

    • @tubester4567
      @tubester4567 2 роки тому

      People who are hyper sensitive about that stuff, are that person. They know THEY would steal, so they expect everyone else will. Its the same with anti-racists, they have racist thoughts so they expect everyone else does too. Same with sexism, and all the other isms

    • @IK-wc4od
      @IK-wc4od 2 роки тому +33

      He's a mafiosi and he is using the restaurant to launder money

    • @sarahtran3747
      @sarahtran3747 2 роки тому +44

      I worked at a salon years ago where the manager micromanaged everything, we weren’t allowed in the register and all the records were locked up. We all just thought she was a psycho b but in the end it turned out she was skimming money and altering records. She always accused people of stealing but in the end it was only her.

    • @gastongl404
      @gastongl404 2 роки тому +16

      @@IK-wc4od probably, it's hard to believe that someone was able to make tons of money but lacks the basic skills to run a restaurant, the basic recipe for a successful business is "good location"+"marketing"+"good customer service "+" good product"+"clean environment"+"reasonable prices" but their motto is "shut up and give me your money or get out"

  • @reidjordan4545
    @reidjordan4545 Рік тому +21

    18:12 I can't imagine blowing up at someone for asking "are you sure" literally a second after you just mixed up two things

  • @VeryHornyToad
    @VeryHornyToad Рік тому +81

    “Don’t question me, you can leave” *moments later* “don’t walk away, you don’t work here anymore”.. wuuuutt? You just told her to leave then she can’t walk away? And she can’t walk away cause she’s fired?? This lady is insane. Dope vid as always my friend!

    • @CorundumDevil
      @CorundumDevil 11 місяців тому +7

      It's just raw contrarianism. Amy was just telling that poor girl everything she didn't want to hear. She doesn't want to be in trouble? She's fired. She accepts that she's fired and is about to leave? She's not allowed to leave, she hasn't been yelled at enough. Amy is a legitimate psychopath.

  • @gabeo9474
    @gabeo9474 2 роки тому +810

    The defining characteristic of an abuser is that they process their emotions externally by taking them out on other people, making it someone else's burden.

    • @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT
      @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT  2 роки тому +184

      A good perception.

    • @reinhartgregory
      @reinhartgregory 2 роки тому +16

      I had teachers and family members do this, once you learn and spot it right away its becomes really clear. Gaslighting I think is the term

    • @Ash_Wen-li
      @Ash_Wen-li 2 роки тому +41

      @@reinhartgregory Gaslighting is when you make someone question their reality. Like forcing them to believe something didn't happen when it clearly did

    • @dycedargselderbrother5353
      @dycedargselderbrother5353 2 роки тому +9

      @@Ash_Wen-li I think the term qualifies, if perhaps weakly. For example, a common refrain in scenarios like this is something like "Why are you taking this personally? I thought you were my sounding board." A person feels abused but is being told that the abuser is just letting off steam, not targeted at the abused.

    • @transylvania2259
      @transylvania2259 2 роки тому +2

      Emotions are evil

  • @Middy666
    @Middy666 2 роки тому +738

    Oh God, this lady...I remember her being meme material when this episode came out

    • @Myday_145
      @Myday_145 2 роки тому +61

      Basically any feminist is meme potential, I mean you just can’t take them real lmfao

    • @TheWatchernator
      @TheWatchernator 2 роки тому +7

      wasn't that like 10 years ago though?

    • @A_YouTube_Commenter
      @A_YouTube_Commenter 2 роки тому +8

      @@TheWatchernator Yes. She's more famous than TBYS.

    • @Joel-gf4zl
      @Joel-gf4zl 2 роки тому +17

      Yeah, I remember getting her to accept a friend request on social media and all the craziness that she had on private was 10x worse. Oh and the cringe cat videos, it was very entertaining at the time.

    • @2okaycola
      @2okaycola 2 роки тому +2

      Riveting

  • @RJManette
    @RJManette Рік тому +25

    The part about efficiency in food service was so accurate. I worked in food for 7 years and managed a kitchen for about a year. Time is everything. I have since worked in meat and it's very much the same way. Efficiency is super key. Even just walking back and forth a second time to grab something is a waste of precious time. In kitchens especially it is too important because hungry people are waiting for their food

  • @a_hol
    @a_hol 2 роки тому +22

    I love you changed your picture I feel so included now. I love rainbows. Sure hope nothing gay ever happens to my rainbows.

  • @catendway4754
    @catendway4754 2 роки тому +303

    Everyone’s head went to the Depp-Heard trial as soon as they saw the title lol

    • @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT
      @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT  2 роки тому +208

      Why do you have to make me feel dumb for forgetting to reference the trial? I feel attacked by your hateful comment.

    • @deerick3109
      @deerick3109 2 роки тому +10

      When the alert came up and I saw the title I thought this was going to be about Amber Turd and JD.

    • @kylequalls38
      @kylequalls38 2 роки тому +3

      no no it didnt

    • @TheDarkness1
      @TheDarkness1 2 роки тому +14

      Amy is Amber's long lost sister.

    • @BFNLEO
      @BFNLEO 2 роки тому +5

      This is better. I’m over the mass distraction that is the Depp/Heard trial. 🥱

  • @dwightrenfield2241
    @dwightrenfield2241 2 роки тому +390

    Wasn’t it discovered that she didn’t make the desserts herself?
    I could have sworn I read an article a couple years after this episode aired that some of the desserts were ordered in.

    • @olgaperez2862
      @olgaperez2862 2 роки тому +86

      Yeah she bought those desserts but a wholesaler 😂

    • @olgaperez2862
      @olgaperez2862 2 роки тому +8

      From a***

    • @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT
      @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT  2 роки тому +218

      Wait what??? That explains her facebook comment about reselling.

    • @guardiantko3220
      @guardiantko3220 2 роки тому +15

      I'm pretty sure they actually discussed it in episode, or on another one to open the new season (this episode was a season ender)

    • @julescasey181
      @julescasey181 2 роки тому +28

      @@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT Yeah. I watched that particular episode a while ago, and did some googling around the people involved. Not sure if it was in the episode itself, some other specials (follow ups on one of Gordon's channels) or a news article, but I am positive that it said somewhere they admit those cakes are bought somewhere else.

  • @JohnnyTromboner
    @JohnnyTromboner 2 роки тому +14

    Isn't that the guy that got deported because he pulled a gun on a customer and the resulting investigation found he lied about his criminal record in the country he immigrated from?

  • @SiriusCygnus
    @SiriusCygnus Рік тому +19

    There are some people that can never admit they are wrong and will do everything they can to avoid it. Its even worse if the person has a narcissistic personality disorder.

  • @Maximustard
    @Maximustard 2 роки тому +627

    This episode was epic, I’ve known crazy people, this woman is a level above regular crazy

    • @malcolmapplet4313
      @malcolmapplet4313 2 роки тому +4

      I remember that episode. Unfortunately.

    • @jmal
      @jmal 2 роки тому +21

      This isn't your average, everyday crazy. This is... advanced crazy.

    • @jcrnda
      @jcrnda 2 роки тому +7

      The restaurant has been renamed to "Amy's Cluster B Oven"!

    • @Gice2787
      @Gice2787 2 роки тому +4

      Sadly shes not above regular crazy. She is avg women.

    • @justme8841
      @justme8841 Рік тому

      Narcissism

  • @satav5805
    @satav5805 2 роки тому +399

    what one of the store managers I've worked for said about "the customer is always right" is that it doesn't apply to individual customers but your entire customer base i.e. if you sell a kind of tool and people aren't buying stop selling it, same if people are trying to buy something you don't sell

    • @Torgo1969
      @Torgo1969 2 роки тому +27

      Very well stated. I will have to remember that.

    • @steveouk90126
      @steveouk90126 2 роки тому +40

      Had a situation eons ago when I worked at Sears and a Karen wanted to apply multiple coupons on the same purchase, even though they all stated "one per customer, per purchase." She whipped out the CIAR on me, demanded to speak to a supervisor, who then told her that the "one per" was on every coupon, and that corporate wouldn't allow mixing them. Karen chose the best one, paid and stormed out. The next time she came in, she had all the same coupons but had trimmed them so the small print wasn't there. The manager came down and asked her not to return. _That_ was a great place to work. Sadly they went under because corporate refused to listen to on-the-ground reports from individual stores.

    • @asarishepard8171
      @asarishepard8171 2 роки тому +17

      I had a pizza manager who wouldn't let a customer scream at the whole store, told them to leave and threatened to call the cops. That was a cool guy.

    • @steveouk90126
      @steveouk90126 2 роки тому +11

      @@HelghastStalker Additionally, when you get these Karens who want to be served _without_ paying, they cease to be customers by default.

    • @literallynothingatall8175
      @literallynothingatall8175 2 роки тому +1

      I always thought this is what it meant. But now Karen’s use it as a way to get what they want.

  • @nyawilson7393
    @nyawilson7393 Рік тому +15

    I worked for a resteraunt owner just like these owners, it was extremely emotionally draining and messed with my head in all sorts of ways. There needs to be more content about abusive work environments, people seem to think abuse only exists in romantic relationships.

  • @-haclong2366
    @-haclong2366 Рік тому +6

    These people are textbook abusers, imagine being one of their employees.

  • @EyePatchGuy88
    @EyePatchGuy88 2 роки тому +485

    It's one thing to see people who do not belong in the culinary field fail, or succeed, but it's something else to see someone with a clear talent in cooking fail due to their personality and lack of good business sense.

    • @citizenvulpes4562
      @citizenvulpes4562 2 роки тому +44

      She doesn't even have a talent. She didn't even cook "her" cakes, they were all store bought.
      She was literally living a life of delusions.

    • @jmal
      @jmal 2 роки тому +18

      @@citizenvulpes4562 She could run a soup kitchen for homeless people and still manage to mess that up.

    • @The_child-catcher
      @The_child-catcher 2 роки тому

      ​@@citizenvulpes4562 how do you know that?

    • @Floridamangaming729
      @Floridamangaming729 2 роки тому +7

      @@citizenvulpes4562 yea she was absurdly bad. Probably because she cant take any criticism so teaching her how to cook would be impossible.

    • @kuyagab4444
      @kuyagab4444 2 роки тому +11

      They even dismissed Gordon Ramsay's opinions on their cooking. Bruh, Chef Ramsay is a freaking expert in the culinary field. If anything as soon as he opens his mouth and starts giving pointers, they should grab a pen and paper and start taking notes.

  • @apollosgadfly
    @apollosgadfly 2 роки тому +491

    I’m happy this video was made. The Amy’s Baking Company episode was my favorite, it was the perfect train wreck. Plus, I still think Sammy’s part of the mob.

    • @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT
      @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT  2 роки тому +104

      That makes sense.

    • @franciscopereira5760
      @franciscopereira5760 2 роки тому

      here they come boys, luigi simps/incels that are here to harass the streamer because their favorite streamer told them too, after sayng that men and women are exactly the same with 0 diferences and ignoring that there are fields dominated by men and women because both are diferent and better at diferent stuff., must be sad having to simp soo hard because u never had female contact

    • @charlierobles316
      @charlierobles316 2 роки тому +16

      Her business went under too

    • @drugsarebad97
      @drugsarebad97 2 роки тому +14

      Mob ties aren’t that big of a deal. It’s just unregulated capitalism working at its finest .

    • @wanderingsurveyor6059
      @wanderingsurveyor6059 2 роки тому

      He was definitely part of some Israeli mob.

  • @chungawumba2637
    @chungawumba2637 2 роки тому +4

    I used to work at a fro yo place. Often times I was the only one there. I was the cashier, the cook, the bubble tea maker, the janitor, the server, everything. I deserved those god damn tips.

  • @andrewbrown3304
    @andrewbrown3304 2 роки тому +13

    As a business owner myself, when I started out if someone just gave me a million dollars I would have probably lost a lot of it.
    For me, learning the hard way was the best way. 👌

  • @butterballherselftoo2754
    @butterballherselftoo2754 2 роки тому +580

    As a person that’s going through crisis right now.This made me understand with the way I’m acting with my parents is incredibly incorrect. I’m going to apologize to them tomorrow morning after all they’re doing everything they can to help.

    • @SereneSimian
      @SereneSimian 2 роки тому +67

      Good on you, that takes guts

    • @luisalphahernandezomega1704
      @luisalphahernandezomega1704 2 роки тому +7

      *OLD WOMAN CRISES🤣*

    • @BonkVibin
      @BonkVibin 2 роки тому +57

      I feel this. So glad I found TBYS when I was in a rough place and was taking my pain out on everyone around me. My parents say I acted like a complete b!tch for a couple months. Which is fair because I was. I was unfair to them and my brother. I have apologized and done better by them since. TBYS helped me self improve and helped me get to a better place than where I was before. Which I am so grateful for.

    • @johniadipaolo5251
      @johniadipaolo5251 2 роки тому +7

      Awesome, excited for you

    • @Kongjie57
      @Kongjie57 2 роки тому +17

      Good stuff man, acceptance is a major step forwards

  • @lukewood2662
    @lukewood2662 2 роки тому +113

    She was so loud. Overtalked everybody, so agressive. I tend to stay away from people like that, I can only imagine what's behind a very loud and overtalking woman.

    • @jmal
      @jmal 2 роки тому +4

      I worked with one, and good grief she was a headache and a half. Everybody else hated her as well. It was only a matter of time before she got the boot... and she did.

    • @staticaleel5068
      @staticaleel5068 Рік тому +6

      Loud, overbearing, and rude are traits I don’t like to see in anyone. Man, women, child, adult, gay, trans, black white, really anyone of any type should have to at least be respectful to others to deserve a leadership role, let alone a basic job working with others.

  • @spear8403
    @spear8403 2 роки тому +12

    when amy started meowing it cemented in my mind she's insane

  • @someguynamedgod2342
    @someguynamedgod2342 2 роки тому +28

    Amy is a prime example of why you can’t only be a yes man to your children/spouse if they never experience failure you’ll never know where you need to improve

  • @Joel-gf4zl
    @Joel-gf4zl 2 роки тому +187

    I thought I remembered that the desserts she sold were actually frozen/brought in, not baked in house by Amy. Just checked, and yes, the desserts were brought in from elsewhere. The one complement was for something someone else made.
    Also, her last name used to be Bossingham and she was caught defrauding a bank for $15,000 using identity theft.

    • @Torgo1969
      @Torgo1969 2 роки тому +18

      So she was pretty much useless, am I right?

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 2 роки тому +4

      “Bossingham” 😏 Fitting last name for her.

    • @RTU130
      @RTU130 Рік тому +1

      Yep

    • @ismailal-khatib1922
      @ismailal-khatib1922 Рік тому

      @@jcrnda yeah obviously, zionists can only take from others and claim its their own

    • @Bulldog13368
      @Bulldog13368 9 місяців тому

      Thank you for bringing up the fact that the cakes were not made by Amy. They were ordered by outside vendors. Taking credit for someone else’s work is deplorable.

  • @cjthompson420
    @cjthompson420 2 роки тому +97

    She moved to California and Sammy got deported last I heard. She has a UA-cam channel baking but mostly uses it to comment on Gordon’s channel all angry lmfaoooo

    • @viruspter1dactl
      @viruspter1dactl 2 роки тому +3

      Sammy? Why did he get deported

    • @A_YouTube_Commenter
      @A_YouTube_Commenter 2 роки тому +27

      @@viruspter1dactl "Illicit business activities."

    • @mikewatkins3533
      @mikewatkins3533 2 роки тому

      Lol!!!!! Good!!! God don’t like ugly. Karma is a bitch🤣🤣🤣

    • @davidfletcher369
      @davidfletcher369 2 роки тому +12

      @@A_UA-cam_Commenter You mean like street corner pharmaceutical distribution, or involuntary third party organ donation?

    • @Ramsey276one
      @Ramsey276one 2 роки тому +2

      Oh WOW
      such character development
      XD

  • @BestTechnoMixes
    @BestTechnoMixes Рік тому +4

    You speak the truth, even if not everyone wants to hear it, doing nothing about your situation will always keep you in the same situation. Get a 14 hour day in!

  • @sophiapeters8206
    @sophiapeters8206 Рік тому +10

    "imagine being a kid having parents who retaliate against you or tries to hurt you if you give them any sort of bad news or assert your own opinion" wasn't expecting you to describe my whole childhood. My mom goes HARD, screaming, yelling, threatening herself or me, name-calling (like calling me a demon for asking her to stop oversharing everything with me/trying put up some healthy boundaries) , and it goes further, she does this too if I demonstrate any emotion that doesn't align with hers at any moment. To this day I still have frequent nightmares about her

  • @MrAdBounty
    @MrAdBounty 2 роки тому +302

    I recently went to a pizzeria and was served a margherita. She was so awful that I tasted 3 bites and asked for the bill. The waiter asked me if everything was fine and I just said that it didn't suit me (the objective was to spend a quiet evening so I wasn't going to start to quibble).
    The owner came over to ask why it was wrong, I kindly told him my first review, that there was too much mozzarella and it probably wasn't real mozzarella. I don't have time to finish my sentence when he said like "yeah ok" and left. He came back shortly after to tell me that the pizza is free, so I asked him if he wanted my criticism or not, he replied "because you think you can do better perhaps?" condescendingly and insultingly. My parents and I being big fans of cooking, and especially pizza for my father, we have a professional pizza oven and my father makes superb ones every week. So I answered him "Yes, yes I can do much better". He started to get angry and let out 2-3 insults, I just laughed a little and left without adding anything.
    I don't understand how one can't take criticism, improving should always be important.

    • @Torgo1969
      @Torgo1969 2 роки тому +24

      And the larger point is that there are other restaurants in the area that can do better, and that fool needs to remember that.
      Today I went to a restaurant for some mid-afternoon kielbasa and pierogies, sat down in the lobby on the bench under the "Please Wait to Be Seated" sign and for almost 10 minutes not a single staff member acknowledged my presence while other customers entered after me and were seated. Luckily there are other similar restaurants in other parts of town so I was able to go there, but not until after I informed the staff of my displeasure and that I was going to one of these other places. KURWA!

    • @associatealpha1166
      @associatealpha1166 2 роки тому +14

      Democrats don’t like to be told anything different than what they are emotionally invested in.

    • @Libtardo123
      @Libtardo123 2 роки тому +16

      A pizza is really hard to mess up if you’re using fresh ingredients. If you can’t even eat it then something is terribly wrong.

    • @jamieshank6736
      @jamieshank6736 2 роки тому +7

      Yes. It's like it's stated in the vid, when ya rise to a position w/out working to achieve that position it often results in entitled, selfish fools who don't appreciate nor can see a reason for improvement. People such as them already think they're better than everybody else so why should they need to improve.
      On the other hand, people who spend their lives working toward something are usually constantly seeking to improve and get better at their craft, trade, hobby, art, talent, skill, or whatever else, and maybe that somehow opens them up to and makes them less defensive about receiving criticisms or something like that. It's a personality trait, or a frame of mind, and it's a shame but not everyone's mentally healthy and morally responsive, not in these days.
      First thing I noticed in the vid, when TBYS mentioned a husband and wife, I wondered if I had missed something 'cause when I looked up at the screen it looked like a grandfather w/ his granddaughter. I knew it was gonna be another good ep. w/ some really wacky people once I realized that wasn't a misconception on my part. At least the corrupt and crazy ones make for some great comedy and entertainment, as corrupt as it may be of me to admit this, lol, but w/ the way the world is, what else can ya really do but laugh and enjoy the show?

    • @msmaria5039
      @msmaria5039 Рік тому +2

      Yeah, I was at a restaurant and I waited to be seated. It wasn't busy and I saw workers sitting around. I decided to quietly leave.

  • @Takingyoutojail
    @Takingyoutojail 2 роки тому +53

    I remember this episode, if Gordon Ramsey told me my food sucks, I'd probably listen, not yell and scream and tell him his wrong

    • @jmal
      @jmal 2 роки тому +1

      It's frustrating to think that so many struggling restaurant owners could benefit immensely from Chef Ramsey's guidance, the money the show will spend to renovate/improve their restaurant, and the exposure they will get from being featured on the show, and this crazy couple chose to waste airtime with their shenanigans.

    • @fumothfan9
      @fumothfan9 11 місяців тому

      ​@@jmalthey do it for the show
      But yeah same as bar rescue. If they don't learn DURING even if they're told to do it for the episode then they're doomed to fail.

  • @OGbornsinnerz
    @OGbornsinnerz 2 роки тому +5

    I been watching ur channel for 2 years now and I watch it for entertainment but also you give amazing advice. I luv how you give us what we need to hear vs what we want to hear. Always have my support.

  • @TheHispanicmaid
    @TheHispanicmaid 2 роки тому +5

    I visited my aunt back in 2012 in Arizona for a month and we visited Amy’s Baking Factory, while we ate our food we witnessed two employees get yelled at because I guess the owner wanted them to wash his car instead of going home after closing.

  • @ArcherR135
    @ArcherR135 2 роки тому +439

    “You can see that even the people recording the episode stepped in to stop him.”
    That alone all but proves that the Amy’s Baking Company episode was 99% real. The interviews with them individually are, as usual, after the fact, and that’s just a step away from scripted.

    • @Floridamangaming729
      @Floridamangaming729 2 роки тому +15

      Kinda nuts how there so crazy they dont even need to fake it. Honestly im not the biggest fan of gordan ramsay anymore. He cant even make a normal grilled cheese lmao. i think the guys lost it too.

    • @Seth-mu3wo
      @Seth-mu3wo 2 роки тому +21

      Also forcing someone to stay against their will, and using physical violence to prevent them from leaving is easily kidnapping. The owner is lucky he didn't catch a charge or a bullet.

    • @shotgunnedzahee4780
      @shotgunnedzahee4780 2 роки тому

      @@Floridamangaming729 must be the old age catching up to him. I respect him in the 2019. Not anymore

  • @DPF420
    @DPF420 2 роки тому +280

    Sammy and Amy are some of the most delusional people I've ever seen on TV them finding each other and "falling in love" was one hell of a slippery slope ......Sammy meeting Amy has to be one of the biggest mistakes of his life

    • @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT
      @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT  2 роки тому +197

      Honestly, I think they deserve each other.

    • @DPF420
      @DPF420 2 роки тому +26

      @@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT True💯

    • @steveouk90126
      @steveouk90126 2 роки тому +12

      The term is "enabling", and I've seen it in personal and professional relationships all my life.

    • @realcane9908
      @realcane9908 2 роки тому

      How do you think he’s still in this country? It’s a green card marriage

    • @osmanyousif7849
      @osmanyousif7849 2 роки тому +13

      @@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT , considering the fact that Sammy is no better, as he was involved in a bit of criminal activity (especially considering how he got that millions of dollars to invest in that restaurant). Yeah, they really do. The two are a couple of scam artists and hustlers.

  • @mastayoda337
    @mastayoda337 Рік тому +3

    I'm commenting for the fact that this channel had rainbow colors during June and now that it's July it's back to normal. I love it.

    • @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT
      @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT  Рік тому +7

      I tried to change it at 12:01am but I passed out.

    • @mrbawls8736
      @mrbawls8736 Рік тому +5

      @@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT hey man , you good? it's been a while since your last upload

  • @TheWarRoom
    @TheWarRoom 2 роки тому +5

    This is great! This woman is a perfect example of the "Amber Heard" type. If/when men learn how to figure out the lunacy a bit quicker, they'll be much better off. Excellent video, TBYS!
    *I've noticed that the most horrible women I've ever....studied have all used the term "I love...." with just about any and everything that makes them happy in a moment. Then, just as quickly and easily as they "love," they "hate" with even more passion and intensity.

    • @justme8841
      @justme8841 Рік тому

      Amber is under monarch programming like most of the celebs. The handlers decide what they do, they dont decide that on their own. I recommend reading the book how to make an undectable mindcontrol slaves by fritz Springmeyer

  • @Artofwarthebookof5rings
    @Artofwarthebookof5rings 2 роки тому +188

    I love when ramsey roasts idiots.

    • @Ramsey276one
      @Ramsey276one 2 роки тому +4

      WELL DONE, never undercooked!
      XD

    • @brok56
      @brok56 Рік тому +3

      ITS FECKIN RAW!
      (dodging youtube banhammer)

    • @CorundumDevil
      @CorundumDevil Рік тому +1

      *d o n u t*

    • @Ramsey276one
      @Ramsey276one Рік тому +2

      @@CorundumDevil he’ll end up hiring HIT one of this days…
      XD

  • @shootingbricks8554
    @shootingbricks8554 2 роки тому +58

    I really hate it when people don't value my time when I value theirs.

  • @crypticjim
    @crypticjim Рік тому +2

    She was not pretending to be victim, she really believed she was, she wasn't but she believed she was. It's different than pretending.

  • @fionarofl
    @fionarofl 2 роки тому +5

    love this type of commentary and examination. hope it doesn't get demonetized.

  • @GINEP1G
    @GINEP1G 2 роки тому +256

    Tipping culture is disgusting BUT if you pay a server hourly and dont tell customers tips aren’t accepted and instead give those tips to the owner, that is disgusting.

    • @TheBestofJuan
      @TheBestofJuan Рік тому

      How come you think tipping culture is disgusting? Jus curious

    • @GINEP1G
      @GINEP1G Рік тому +66

      @@TheBestofJuan because the customer is guilt tripped into tipping to pay the employees wage. When literally every other type of business operates on providing a service or product and factors in payment for said service or product into the employee’s wage. Tipping is a gratuity and should not be forced.

    • @matthewlugo2417
      @matthewlugo2417 Рік тому +5

      @@GINEP1G i actually agree here

    • @the_last_ranger
      @the_last_ranger Рік тому +7

      @@GINEP1G 100% agreed

    • @msmaria5039
      @msmaria5039 Рік тому +12

      I don't agree with the tipping culture but I still give good tips, especially if the service is good. I won't hurt servers.

  • @TheDarkness1
    @TheDarkness1 2 роки тому +58

    If Amber Heard owned a restaurant.

    • @LittleBenadrylPrincess
      @LittleBenadrylPrincess 2 роки тому +6

      The horror

    • @TK-7193
      @TK-7193 2 роки тому +5

      bro this cake tastes like shit......
      *vineboom followed by realization*

    • @LittleBenadrylPrincess
      @LittleBenadrylPrincess 2 роки тому +3

      @@TK-7193 *violently puts fingers in throat to cause vomiting*

    • @TK-7193
      @TK-7193 2 роки тому

      @@LittleBenadrylPrincess 🤮

  • @carrielanden4391
    @carrielanden4391 2 роки тому +3

    This husband & wife are absolute nightmares. No way would I patronize anything they owned, not ever!!

  • @metalgrinch
    @metalgrinch 2 роки тому +5

    I once waited almost an hour for a pizzeria to make me a pizza that I paid for. After a while I asked for my money back because it was taking too damn long. The guy gave me a refund without even an apology or even bothered to look at me at all. I never went back because a MUCH better pizzeria opened down the street soon after. People's pride is sometimes far too powerful to get any sense in their thick skulls. That pizzeria deserves to be closed down!

  • @GianLombardo
    @GianLombardo 2 роки тому +520

    Man, I'm pretty sure it's not only me getting excited every time i see TBYS uploads a video... Mad respect for the psycological analysis you do on every video, and the ability to call out on what needs to be called out and give props on what needs to be given... One of the very very few UA-camrs i really enjoy on every video like it was another pokemon episode Back when i had 10.

    • @Gyrfalcon312
      @Gyrfalcon312 2 роки тому +18

      Damn right. I'm always learning something new, reinforcing an older lesson, and absorbing bits on how to communicate one's points.

    • @murkystrings
      @murkystrings 2 роки тому

      psychological*

    • @javierdavis696
      @javierdavis696 2 роки тому +6

      Straight bro I stop everything I'm doing to learn.

    • @GianLombardo
      @GianLombardo 2 роки тому

      @@murkystrings thank you gentlemen 👍 after 5 years in the states i still get some of them wrong 😅

    • @mciejgda88
      @mciejgda88 2 роки тому +1

      Man I literally went to check on channel yesterday if yt didn't made some trick on me (like unsub) because I haven't seen a notification from TBYS in a while

  • @1234Daan4321
    @1234Daan4321 2 роки тому +69

    There is a girl who lives in the apartment above me and she is exactly like this. I get a front row seat to at least the noise of how she handles all of her relationships. No wonder they end so quickly.

  • @fransengherre7098
    @fransengherre7098 2 роки тому +5

    What I find most surprising is that she was like that while being filmed. Usually these people are angels in front of the camera. It shows how right she thinks she is to abuse customers, insult them, threaten them and even want to hurt them by preparing food for them.

  • @Shootskas
    @Shootskas 2 роки тому +9

    I empathize with these two. Foodphobia is a major problem.

  • @joshuadubeau1132
    @joshuadubeau1132 2 роки тому +194

    I'm 19 and just getting over a relationship that ended with me getting dumped about a month ago. She hit me one time. Just a single isolated incident which should have warned me about her but she was my first real girlfriend and my first kiss so I was really attached to her. I believed desperately that she would grow and mature into the perfect partner if I just stuck around. Maybe I'd help her along. I had friends who even warned me about her, but they just didn't know her like I did. This is all coming from someone who thought he had learned from other people's mistakes. I thought for sure that if I was making a mistake or doing anything wrong, I would notice, and I would avoid making any terrible relationship decisions. I was wrong. In the end her breaking up with me as early as she did was the best possible outcome, but dang was I distressed about it for a while afterward.

    • @savannahm9943
      @savannahm9943 2 роки тому +29

      Any time someone hits you in a relationship they are “testing the waters” to see how you respond to violence. You passed her test by minimizing it so you were the perfect victim
      If she hadn’t dumped you she would have slowly escalated and unlike men who often escalate far too early and make the pattern very obvious, women tend to be far more patient and calculated, it probably would’ve been a year before she hit you again but those intervals of non-violence would continue to shrink over time

    • @scrbroadcast
      @scrbroadcast 2 роки тому +21

      Believe people when they SHOW you who they are, don't tolerate abuse in any way.

    • @Carpatouille
      @Carpatouille 2 роки тому +7

      Be grateful, it's much worst when you live with an abusive gf and she doesn't want you to leave to keep abusing you

    • @fellowasp6768
      @fellowasp6768 2 роки тому +5

      I know this is a few days old but I've been in your exact same position just for a bit longer. I really want to thank you for speaking up and telling us random strangers this :D it's always nice knowing I'm not alone in these struggles (as I also had a very bad upbringing) so I don't have too many friends or people I can really have these conversations with ppl or even just hear someone speak up abt it. You're not alone brother I hope you were able to take all that happened in stride it's not easy and it can be so sad and lonely and especially hard to maintain motivation and positivity towards anything else after such a thing. Once again thank you for the insight 🙏🏽 best of luck !

    • @RTU130
      @RTU130 Рік тому

      Ye

  • @baileybrian9560
    @baileybrian9560 2 роки тому +81

    True i used to work at a bakery that made sandwiches, and each sandwich/wrap had a ridiculous amount of options you could choose from. People would get so mad because you had to customize every single part of the sandwich from this entire list of options and it would take forever to get through the list of items. they went out of business

    • @markcoroneos7811
      @markcoroneos7811 2 роки тому +7

      Or subway got to them first 😵‍💫

    • @Ramsey276one
      @Ramsey276one 2 роки тому +1

      They needed a phone app
      XD

    • @baileybrian9560
      @baileybrian9560 2 роки тому +1

      @king fuqurmahmen it was a little place called Bon Bons Bakery, it wouldn't have been so bad if they got to choose from a screen or checklist, but since we had to read out every single option they would get pretty angry 😅

    • @Ramsey276one
      @Ramsey276one 2 роки тому

      @king fuqurmahmen great idea!

  • @EE-us9we
    @EE-us9we 2 роки тому +2

    With experince, let me tell you how bad it is having parents that punish you severaly for any bad news you bring.
    I ended up becoming a huge liar, that I am still trying to get rid of, but still struggle to stop lieing. I never told my parents anything bad when somthing bad did happen and always made lies, where practically 90% of my conversations with my parents is me lieing.
    I gotten so use to it that I now lie without even thinking about it, and I try to stop it, but I find it very hard to.

  • @Letsplay88495
    @Letsplay88495 Рік тому +3

    Brother I give you so much respect for watching these TV shows and dealing with these mindnumbing contents I couldn’t for the life of me watch the stuff you watch and make reviews about them so I want to thank you for breaking down and mentally going through all the stuff man

  • @chapo3992
    @chapo3992 2 роки тому +89

    You're giving me a reason to rewatch Kitchen Nightmares

    • @knox7945
      @knox7945 2 роки тому +2

      Oh man, that's going to take a while

  • @laurendearnley9595
    @laurendearnley9595 2 роки тому +127

    There was a rumour she ordered in the cakes. I said years ago if she was making them, she could have just sold the cakes, pies and pastries, as well as hot drinks, and maybe some sandwiches, soup of the day, or hot meat pies or something as a savoury option. Easy. Prep it all in the morning so it just needs to be dished up, and then two people could probably run it. One on til, one on coffee. Maybe one person to assist with clearing and plating during the busy periods.

    • @CoffinJoeSon
      @CoffinJoeSon 2 роки тому +19

      It's not a rumor it's revealed in the show.

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 2 роки тому

      Knew a local café owner who made that stuff for her business. She did gang busters profit, put her kids through college. Great food. She and her husband retired to Fiji.

    • @somewhereinspace2166
      @somewhereinspace2166 Рік тому

      It was pretty obvious that she didn't actually make those luxury cakes when her food bombed in every other area. It would be like someone passing a calculous class with flying colors, while not knowing addition. It's clear as day that you cheated. It's makes no sense you couldn't do the basics, and then excelled with the advanced, professional work.

  • @toobsteak
    @toobsteak 2 роки тому +3

    I have to say, when she was talking about making that food spicy, A LOT of chefs, cooks, and/or restaurant owners talk negatively about their customers. Years of doing it does that to you. They can be some of the worst people, whether they're paying your or not. The biggest thing is don't let them hear you.

  • @UltimaterializerX
    @UltimaterializerX 2 роки тому +10

    I’ve worked for people like this. They are borderline criminals.
    And I had parents like this, which caused me to be on the border of self deletion for years. People, PLEASE take TBYS’s advice and get away from abusers. They will kill you.

  • @azrialmarks8756
    @azrialmarks8756 2 роки тому +40

    He didnt say 4 hrs a week. He said 4 hrs last quarter, so 4 hrs in 3 months.

    • @Torgo1969
      @Torgo1969 2 роки тому +8

      11:15 He specifically says "4 hours a week last quarter". Which can possibly mean that one one week in the last quarter he worked 4 hours and that was the only work he did last quarter, or it can mean that he worked 4 hours "per" week in every week last quarter. I suspect he meant the latter, but in any case he is a sloppy speaker. In addition to being a shit lazy engineer.

  • @ttfresh
    @ttfresh 2 роки тому +16

    True, I went to a milkshake place and the cashier took the order and asked for a tip. He didn't even make the milkshake he took 5 seconds to type in a brownie milkshake into a computer.
    I agree that this is a recent trend.People want more for less.

    • @wolfetteplays8894
      @wolfetteplays8894 2 роки тому

      Yeah fuck that, I don’t give tips to lazy or rude fuckers

    • @Ben-zr4ho
      @Ben-zr4ho 3 місяці тому

      Those employeeless little convenience stores ask for a tip when you check yourself out... Who am I supposed to be tipping exactly? Theres no one here but me...

    • @Ben-zr4ho
      @Ben-zr4ho 3 місяці тому

      Also they save money by having no employees to serve you but they dont pass the savings onto the customer. The bottle of watet is still damn near 5$ and you have the nerve to ask for a "tip?" Thats just a voluntary surcharge. Certainly no one is dumb enough to actually pay extra money in such a situation right? But you know SOMEONE does...

  • @SEliteGuitarist
    @SEliteGuitarist 2 роки тому +2

    Saw the thumbnail and had to watch. This episode is infamous among Ramsey fans

  • @mirandaulrich5874
    @mirandaulrich5874 Рік тому +2

    I just love when some owners/managers tells Gordon Ramsay, AKA 5-Star chef and restaurant chain owner, that its their whole life. Like yeah no crap. It is Gordons life too. Difference being Gordon took criticism.

  • @Mich-jk2ze
    @Mich-jk2ze 2 роки тому +13

    Yeah her shit shop closed up. Only 21% of the restaurants on Gordon’s show survive. Although, good riddance, it’s always because people aren’t actually ready to change their businesses and so his advice falls on deaf ears.

  • @Gyrfalcon312
    @Gyrfalcon312 2 роки тому +98

    I'm flabbergasted by how those two acted - about the most unprofessional, anticonsumer tirades I've seen. The attempted gaslighting was something to behold, and the shuttering of the business was an inevitability.
    As you say, I hope they got their shit together, but the mind boggles at what could have been, had they humbled themselves to Mr. Ramsay's hard-won wisdom.
    As always, thanks for sharing with us.

    • @jcrnda
      @jcrnda 2 роки тому +1

      In the Middle East any similar critisism may leave you in a hospital if not in a cemetery!
      I guess they just wanted patrons to touch the exotic side without traveling far!

  • @alienpimp.
    @alienpimp. 2 роки тому +9

    Bro put happy pride month on his banner, i cant take him seriously anymore 💀💀💀

  • @WrestlingRanter
    @WrestlingRanter 2 роки тому +8

    Love the video. Dont know if you know this but it was later revealed that the cakes that gordon originally praised amy for were revealed to be bought in so they could then ship them to the few coustomers they had that would order the deserts. So the one thing she was shown to have talent in was in fact revealed to be also fake.

  • @CARPETMAN-zj9iv
    @CARPETMAN-zj9iv 2 роки тому +19

    When they started yelling at the man in the red and white checkered shirt... I had a flashback to the soup kitchen Nazi or whatever he was called. NO SOUP FOR YOU!

    • @jmal
      @jmal 2 роки тому +4

      At least that guy makes the best soups you'll ever taste to make up for his attitude towards customers and authoritarian ordering policies.

  • @hotbuzz5325
    @hotbuzz5325 2 роки тому +8

    Samy's lashing out at the customer makes one NOTICE how abusive women cuckold their husbands and get them to WILL SMITH others, use their husbands shoulders to fire bullets at others and escape accountability. .

    • @Ramsey276one
      @Ramsey276one 2 роки тому

      WOW
      My eyes are open now
      Better reconsider when I am asked to accompany certain people.
      I’m not a human shield

  • @kylemendoza8860
    @kylemendoza8860 2 роки тому +3

    I think the most crazy thing is. She told her to go home. Then she got mad for walking away. After being dismissed. She's just not an abuser. She can't keep her thoughts straight in her head.

  • @tristanchopping7976
    @tristanchopping7976 2 роки тому

    You just answered a question that has been in my mind for a while and a few things I wasn't expecting. This is great.

  • @someguy8273
    @someguy8273 2 роки тому +19

    As my brother who used to work for a print a McMansion contractor business. I can 100% believe someone as egotistical, incompetent and insane as Sammy could run a very profitable business.

    • @xijinpingsfavoritehemorrho1328
      @xijinpingsfavoritehemorrho1328 9 місяців тому +1

      Yeah, for some reason large contracting deals are the best way to fail upwards. I worked for a truly insane egotist, the buildings were shit, turnover was crazy, somehow hes still afloat today. When i left he was 3 years behind on contracts, but the checks always cleared. His head carpenter didnt know how to set up a nailgun to actually drive nails all the way.

  • @lofttm969
    @lofttm969 2 роки тому +91

    This is like when Disney releases crappy Star Wars content and then says “the only people who don’t like it are bigots.”
    It’s a convenient explanation for narcissists who are unable to be honest with themselves.

    • @wyssmaster
      @wyssmaster 2 роки тому +16

      "I didn't make Charlie's Angels for white men"
      "Why aren't white men going to see my movie?! Must be sexism!"

    • @raizenr2387
      @raizenr2387 Рік тому

      Except nobody was saying every fan was racist. They were just calling the people who sent her awful shit racist. Nobody is gonna freak cause you didn't like Reva, though I personally enjoyed her more on a second watchthrough, people over dramatized the issue to keep people mad

    • @lofttm969
      @lofttm969 Рік тому +5

      @@raizenr2387 I guess you don’t follow the official Star Wars twitter. Not sure what to tell you but pretending you’ve struck a middle ground on an issue where there is none doesn’t make you seem wise.

    • @raizenr2387
      @raizenr2387 Рік тому

      @@lofttm969 i Do. The tweets they put out were:
      "We are proud to welcome Moses Ingram to the Star Wars family and excited for Reva's story to unfold. If anyone intends to make her feel in any way unwelcome, we have only one thing to say: we resist,"
      "There are more than 20 million sentient species in the Star Wars galaxy, don’t choose to be a racist."
      Where in either is "you're ALL racist" hm?

    • @lofttm969
      @lofttm969 Рік тому +2

      @@raizenr2387 read their tweets & replies section.

  • @bluecoin3771
    @bluecoin3771 Рік тому +1

    All we need is a Bar Rescue episode and the trifecta will be complete.

  • @aspiringprogrammer2820
    @aspiringprogrammer2820 2 роки тому +2

    My god,this channel teaches me so much,and I don't pay for it!
    Such a valuable knowledge for free.
    Long live to the internet!

  • @Stormbringer2012
    @Stormbringer2012 2 роки тому +29

    Just FYI, those cakes were factory made. Amy never cooked them.

  • @PhantomFilmAustralia
    @PhantomFilmAustralia 2 роки тому +20

    They take credit for the benefits, yet play victim when it comes to the consequences.

  • @osmanyousif7849
    @osmanyousif7849 2 роки тому +1

    I was expecting more on the Depp vs Heard case.
    But THIS puts a smile on my face.

  • @booneshow1863
    @booneshow1863 2 роки тому +1

    Always playing the victim is one sign of a narcissist.

  • @ColdEmperor
    @ColdEmperor 2 роки тому +64

    These videos cheer me up. It's nice to see some logic and reason being utilized constructively but critically. Keep up the good work bro.

  • @mysteryman8787
    @mysteryman8787 2 роки тому +62

    I noticed the way you started to develop your thumbnails in some of videos. Even some of the thumbnails for videos from a month ago changed to look very appealing. I really like how you really do stick to your own advice and regularly try to improve your videos!

  • @DopravniPoradce
    @DopravniPoradce 6 місяців тому +1

    Crazy. I've seen this episode on another YT channels but you describe it so precisely. Valuable lessons for your viewers too.

  • @dreaminginnoother
    @dreaminginnoother 7 місяців тому +3

    You make good videos man. I like how you take negative behaviors and use them as an opportunity to give constructive advice.

  • @paul_rymar
    @paul_rymar 2 роки тому +16

    "There is only one boss, the customer."
    -Sam Walton, creator of WalMart, the corporation with the largest Revenue on the planet, over $500 000 000 000 USD

    • @jmal
      @jmal 2 роки тому +3

      “We're not competitor obsessed, we're customer obsessed. We start with what the customer needs and we work backwards.” - Jeff Bezos, founder of Amazon, quoting the 1st of Amazon's Leadership Principles

    • @msk-qp6fn
      @msk-qp6fn Рік тому

      @@jmal and amazon lowered their price to the point of bankrupting their competition

  • @coleford6197
    @coleford6197 2 роки тому +28

    There were so many suspicious things going on with this business. There were far too many fresh pastries being sold every day, and everything seemed to be a front for something else. I don’t have any proof so I can’t accuse them, but they act like total gangsters. They wouldn’t let anyone else handle the cash register but themselves, and they had a very suspicious source of funding.

    • @volks86
      @volks86 2 роки тому

      rofl, a long time ago i did a little deep dive on this, sammy is linked to the isreali mafia... so nice observation.

    • @jmal
      @jmal 2 роки тому +5

      If it was indeed a money laundering front, then it was a catastrophic failure for the simple fact that they drew too much attention to themselves.

    • @coleford6197
      @coleford6197 2 роки тому +4

      @@jmal If I read correctly, they went to Israel for a while to lie low. But yeah, total wreck.

  • @MulToyVerse
    @MulToyVerse 2 роки тому +2

    By the way Sammy acts, he fits in with that angry Italian Mafia guy stereotype.

  • @grouchy88
    @grouchy88 Рік тому +1

    i live in a house with a roommate suffering from borderline syndrome, nearly everything i do puts him into crisis mode and yeah yeah, i'm the offender and hes the victim of my action.
    like having to smell food when i cook... the lengths he goes into to react to this can only be described as psychotic from my perspective
    i saw a lot of that in this woman. its a really heavy burden on ones mental state to live with someone like that, i withdrew mostly out of any social interaction to avoid having too much of an emotional/mental toll on me, what in itself is really weird considering we live under one roof

  • @Darkworldxl
    @Darkworldxl 2 роки тому +74

    For whatever reason there is some mentality that if you have suffered you can’t be the bad guy, frankly it is disgusting that because you suffered you can make others suffer to “balance it out”

    • @Torgo1969
      @Torgo1969 2 роки тому +4

      What's even worse is when one takes group membership into one's justification for making others suffer, and we see this all the time. It doesn't even involve individual suffering or even current conditions at that point, but everyone's individuality is dissolved into the group sharing certain characteristics.

    • @davidfletcher369
      @davidfletcher369 2 роки тому +2

      Yeah, like they have a perverted understanding of righteous anger, and assume that being mad justifies antisocial and or violent behavior.

    • @keonkla
      @keonkla 2 роки тому +4

      that goes for most woman who were abused by men lol. Thinking they can hate back because of one bad experience.
      Its absolute weakness.

    • @Ash_Wen-li
      @Ash_Wen-li 2 роки тому

      @@keonkla A majority abusive relationships are also abusive on both sides too

    • @marjorie4310
      @marjorie4310 2 роки тому

      That is a really good point that I kinda feel like I’ve never heard anyone under 65 articulate.

  • @palaceofwisdom9448
    @palaceofwisdom9448 2 роки тому +5

    I had a supervisor who would wear a fake smile and charm in between bouts of abusive behavior, particularly when he was reported for it. It's horrifying how many people are willing to play along and pretend there isn't a serious problem.

  • @ChrisMorganComedy
    @ChrisMorganComedy Рік тому +4

    I love Amy. She's the gift that keeps on giving

    • @SMCwasTaken
      @SMCwasTaken 11 місяців тому

      She deserves to suffer