I Made Red Pill Fans Angry...Oops

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  • @alessandrajackson3768
    @alessandrajackson3768 Рік тому +3432

    I love that people can’t have a healthy middle. Either extreme man hatred or extreme women hatred

    • @Beedo_Sookcool
      @Beedo_Sookcool Рік тому +284

      EVERYTHING seems to be like that, nowadays. sadly.

    • @Neroskully
      @Neroskully Рік тому +152

      It's because people are hurt/ dumb they don't have alot of experience.

    • @alisalman5917
      @alisalman5917 Рік тому +99

      It’s like they expect everyone to only follow one side blindly 😭😭

    • @justhearmeout3959
      @justhearmeout3959 Рік тому +61

      Oh no! Not a nuanced take! The shame! The HORROR!
      😂

    • @dances_with_incels
      @dances_with_incels Рік тому

      I don't understand how red pill ideas and feminists are the same when they are so far apart with what they want and advocate for.

  • @nacht9586
    @nacht9586 Рік тому +1626

    This is why we need to encourage critical thinking rather than pushing ideologies on to people who barely understand the difference between red and white. People these days are fine with ideology taking full control over themselves instead of thinking for themselves that they're gonna go full mental gymnastics in ways to justify to themselves that they're in the right headspace and anyone slightly tipping beyond that line is a heretic who needs to be deprogrammed.

    • @derusmares9508
      @derusmares9508 Рік тому +4

      ​​@@RR-et6zp the worst red pillers ever ofc 😂

    • @derusmares9508
      @derusmares9508 Рік тому

      @RR yes, let me go to people outside of the field who also use evo-bio to sell you on their ideology.
      Evo-bio is notorious for being one of
      the most misrepresented fields. Also, known for people misrepresenting studies to fit their narratives.
      I recommend listening to experts in that field instead of dudes who don't even follow what they preach.

    • @SunshineTheLover
      @SunshineTheLover Рік тому +4

      @@RR-et6zp not every rp creator uses genuine evolutionary biology. a lot of things said go directly against peer reviewed studies. in a group that large not all can be winners

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp Рік тому +1

      @@SunshineTheLover they do , thats why I recommend it

    • @_Fulgur_
      @_Fulgur_ Рік тому +13

      Absolutely true, we need more funding into schools to teach children critical thinking. The govt though will never do that as they want people to be ignorant enough to believe their shit

  • @froggielady3204
    @froggielady3204 Рік тому +2224

    You're doing something right if you can make both sides upset.

    • @zeehighness9310
      @zeehighness9310 Рік тому +29

      🙌

    • @ladyphoenixgrey3923
      @ladyphoenixgrey3923 Рік тому +87

      At this point this is basically science.

    • @wongwong1517
      @wongwong1517 Рік тому

      This is a dumber way of thinking than most 12 year olds think, no joke.

    • @aesthetix3398
      @aesthetix3398 Рік тому +14

      Yup

    • @Aetriex
      @Aetriex Рік тому +63

      Yep, this is my point of view as well. I know I'm on the right track when both sides of anything are mad at me lol

  • @cz1754
    @cz1754 Рік тому +97

    I wish more people understood that men and women don’t have to be the same to be equal in society

    • @Flamepwnz
      @Flamepwnz Рік тому +1

      What does equality mean to you? Yall love to throw out these terms like "equal" but dont define what you mean by it. If im to take what you said and interpret what you mean, i would ask how is "equality" working for ya? Doesn't seem to be all that great, relationships between men and women aren't exactly thriving. Blame it on the gender war, blame it on feminism, blame it on the "red pill". OK FINE, TELL US YOUR IDEAS. Dont give us word salad and general terms that could be interpreted any kind of way. Thats the problem i have with this purple pill bullshit.

    • @jonispringer
      @jonispringer Рік тому +18

      Calm down dude. You seem to have gotten very emotional in your reply. Using big letters and cursing. With equality, woman mean that they don’t want guys to act like they a better and superior. You are getting very emotional in your comment. @@Flamepwnz

    • @Flamepwnz
      @Flamepwnz Рік тому

      @@jonispringer the most you told me was i was emotional. Women talk/walk around like they are better than men, it's been 50 years of men are trash, aint no good men out here etc. You dont have to look very far to find women "acting" like they're "better". There are no rights today that men have that women dont have, in fact there are more protections for women today than men. This "red pill" or these spaces for men are relatively new as far as the mainstream within the last 5 years. Spare me your weak rebuttal's, where you use shame & insults as your first line of defense. FYI the results & data are in for the gynocracy and it doesn't look good. Lmaooo

  • @JayPatel-iu8yc
    @JayPatel-iu8yc Рік тому +803

    What's crazy about patience is that she's not saying anything revolutionary or radical. Men and women need each other. So sad how society has fallen to have large groups of men and women thinking they don't need each other. There's so much pain and isolation and I feel like people profit off of hatred more than love. So grateful to have reasonable middle of the road voices on UA-cam, it's absolutely refreshing and inspiring for the future.

    • @mackprime6975
      @mackprime6975 Рік тому +45

      "So sad how society has fallen to have large groups of men and women thinking they don't need each other. There's so much pain and isolation" THIS 100%. It's gut-wrenching when you think about it, truly. Unfortunately, they will continue to go down their roads until they reach their inevitable conclusions. The best thing we can do is to let our thoughts, words, and actions (especially our actions) lead us into creating fulfilling, happy lives with both men and women. Let our mere existence be a contradiction to their worldviews and a shining example of what a better tomorrow could be!

    • @MK_ULTRA420
      @MK_ULTRA420 Рік тому +1

      @@mackprime6975 Or just buy a gun.

    • @theredheadwiththread1275
      @theredheadwiththread1275 Рік тому +24

      "I feel like people profit off of hatred more than love." Bro have you ever watched the news? Your feeling is 100% correct.

    • @nenyeo6090
      @nenyeo6090 Рік тому +5

      Very wise sentiments, Jay. I hope we both (women and men) can come together and respect the differences that attract us to one another.

    • @darianstarfrog
      @darianstarfrog Рік тому +3

      It's all about the obvious push toward division by algorithm.. and it's worked well.. sad.. and so frustrating, it's so hard to have a level headed conversation nowadays..

  • @m0m0m0m0m0
    @m0m0m0m0m0 Рік тому +1655

    The far left and the far right are as ridiculous as each other. Most people have both liberal and conservative opinions, that's why we're so tired of politics.

    • @AndrewH1994
      @AndrewH1994 Рік тому

      @M both extremes are ridiculous, but the reasons behind both are different. one side wants to control people’s words, and the other wants to control people’s actions, and both sides want 0 consequences both in society and in law.
      but the biggest difference in North America, but especially the USA is that the far right has a boner for guns. so 1 side has a really tangible threat which makes them scarier in this region of the world.

    • @DevonIsMad
      @DevonIsMad Рік тому

      The far right is nazis not conservatives.

    • @andrewlenfest7548
      @andrewlenfest7548 Рік тому +40

      The gun debate is literally the only reason i care about politics at all. Literaly if i didnt have to worry about police kicking down my door over objects that arnt harming anyone whatsoever (no, MY guns havent harmed anyone and if its not my guns why are they at my door?) I wouldnt care about politics.

    • @vaultbunny7496
      @vaultbunny7496 Рік тому +42

      @@RR-et6zp genuine question as I’m not very familiar with all of this but why does it matter if men are superior or women are superior or if men can survive without women. The reality is we both exist so I don’t get why anyone tries to divide us instead of us working together with our strengths and weaknesses. Even if it’s proven men are superior the reality is still both sexes will exist together. I’m a noob though so my understanding of what this is about may be completely wrong.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp Рік тому +2

      @@vaultbunny7496 I never said that nor did I imply that. I'm just saying that it is in fact, a fact

  • @rummanrk
    @rummanrk Рік тому +427

    We live in a strange timeline where a balanced perspective seems to be rare.

    • @americancapitalist9094
      @americancapitalist9094 Рік тому +24

      Not that strange. We’ve been conditioned to operate in an “Us vs Them” dichotomy. If you don’t pick a side you’re an “Other” and draw the ire of both.

    • @xbabu142x
      @xbabu142x Рік тому +6

      The issue is only online for me thankfully, let's hope this continues to be the situation lol. Thankfully grade nine was almost two grades ago, so long gone are the days of not communicating with the significant other and thinking there are hard set rules that apply on gender lol.

    • @TryingtoTellYou
      @TryingtoTellYou Рік тому +2

      I live in an annoying world where people think not being able to make up their mind is somehow virtuous...

    • @thedraft115
      @thedraft115 Рік тому +4

      ​@@TryingtoTellYou Not everyone follows western political views so its not bad to pick neither. Some people just could care less when it comes to America's politics.

    • @TryingtoTellYou
      @TryingtoTellYou Рік тому +1

      @@thedraft115 I hate to break it to you but when you are given a question that has two answers, uh, you have to provide one of the two answers. The answer is men. Men would survive better without women because we are built to.

  • @JerseyJake98
    @JerseyJake98 Рік тому +166

    This is what happens when critical thinking gets tossed out the window and smooth brain tribalism is pushed instead

  • @ChaosKnuxxx
    @ChaosKnuxxx Рік тому +639

    Red pill needs people to criticize them. It's getting out of hand how the people touting "accountability" and "being logical, not emotional" and they're the ones acting insane. I don't wanna associate with em anymore

    • @MK_ULTRA420
      @MK_ULTRA420 Рік тому +106

      Red Pill: "Society lies to you, has lied to you, and will never stop lying to you."
      Redpillers: **Angry autistic screeching**

    • @MissCoffeeBean0
      @MissCoffeeBean0 Рік тому +146

      Being logical not emotional? 💀
      Yes bruh,most of them think "getting emotional" means crying,while they are always angry

    • @MK_ULTRA420
      @MK_ULTRA420 Рік тому +6

      @@MissCoffeeBean0 Just you lol

    • @blondie9422
      @blondie9422 Рік тому +43

      I think some red pill content is decent and logical but I also understand nuance. I don’t hate everything feminist either and think they are onto something in many cases.
      It’s never good to blindly follow one ideology and everything it preaches to the T. There will always be people that will come in and corrupt a once well meaning ideology. Just look at some extreme cases within certain religions.

    • @WGPhil-uw5cs
      @WGPhil-uw5cs Рік тому +4

      So you are a soyboy now? Lol.

  • @Luwho
    @Luwho Рік тому +288

    My husband approached a pregnant woman recently in the parking lot to offer to put her cart back for her. She thanked him and declined. That’s the normal response. 😂

    • @Kovitlac
      @Kovitlac Рік тому +25

      This. A dude approached me in a lot not long ago and said something. I didn't catch it initially, and while I did tense up for a second (being hit on when you're alone and not expecting it is very uncomfortable), it turned out he was an employee and was just asking to take my empty cart from me. He had been wearing a winter coat in the cold and I hadn't realized right away that he worked there. Imagine if I had acted like that blonde woman did and screamed at him. Poor guy would have been mortified. While women have every reason to be CAUTIOUS in public areas or by approaching strangers, I wouldn't say that a man saying something from 30+ feet away screams immediate threat.

    • @looit888
      @looit888 Рік тому +6

      @beer6976that’s your problem though

    • @briskettacos
      @briskettacos Рік тому +13

      ​@@looit888No, empty/dark parking lots are one of the most dangerous places for women. She's right to be concerned.

    • @hanludoyle
      @hanludoyle Рік тому +7

      Parking lots have extremely high abduction rates. I definitely don't recommend approaching women if you're a man. As a woman, I've helped other women in parking lots countless times.

    • @Luwho
      @Luwho Рік тому

      @@hanludoyle I was standing right there loading our groceries into the car but okay

  • @valiancy7966
    @valiancy7966 Рік тому +877

    I'm center-right but I guess most people would consider me to be more conservative just because I hold Christian values and I normally watch "red-pill" content, but I love your channel and your videos because you hold more of my opinions than any of the others do and I felt like your last video was great! I found myself agreeing with everything.

    • @FTChomp9980
      @FTChomp9980 Рік тому +35

      I'm in the same boat as u here.

    • @CPTZK11
      @CPTZK11 Рік тому +14

      I’m in that boat too but with Islam

    • @Emilaria
      @Emilaria Рік тому +9

      @@Jakkieeee This person is saying that on literally every single comment. I looked at 10-20 comments that had replies, and this person copy/pasted that exact reply on all of them.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp Рік тому

      @@Jakkieeee Im just showing you the evidence and data

    • @avi4875
      @avi4875 Рік тому +1

      Eyy, same

  • @thecreativemillenial
    @thecreativemillenial Рік тому +276

    i agree with you. the whole boys vs girls and cooties thing is just adorable when you're kids but the moment your past age 13, it's time to stop that silliness

    • @nate2759
      @nate2759 Рік тому +22

      Yeah, like the whole “girls germs”, thing was when I was 5 years old, not at 30 years old.

    • @BlooGremlin
      @BlooGremlin Рік тому +26

      Thats genuinely what this whole situation is, isnt it? Children saying boys rule girls drool and vice versa. Its really sad

    • @Al_K_Hall342
      @Al_K_Hall342 Рік тому

      Women couldn't survive on their own: ua-cam.com/video/NzCO0G8AGLU/v-deo.html

    • @Acvdsxbfz
      @Acvdsxbfz Рік тому

      @@BlooGremlin there’s a reason those tendencies are in us so early on… because they might be reasonable feelings.

    • @LifeisaBeautifulting
      @LifeisaBeautifulting Рік тому +10

      @@AcvdsxbfzThis is a very dumb comment

  • @ezekielcaselton5842
    @ezekielcaselton5842 Рік тому +456

    I love that we have level headed, young UA-camrs.
    This Feminism v. Red-pillers debate is going nowhere because it's only here to replace one another.

    • @yota8325
      @yota8325 Рік тому +1

      Unfortunately I think feminism created the redpill. But man vs woman is never gonna end well for society. So it's gonna take people like patience speaking up to restore peace.

    • @IkesPimpHand
      @IkesPimpHand Рік тому

      Feminism will destroy society. Redpill will keep society happy, believe it or not.

    • @cortneyeverett6927
      @cortneyeverett6927 Рік тому +3

      KJV Ecclesiastes 7:26 And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth Yahawah shall escape from her, but the sinner shall be taken by her.
      Ecclesiasticus 25:24 “Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:7 “An evil wife is a yoke shaken to and fro: he that hath hold of her is as though he held a scorpion.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:8 “A drunken woman and a gadder abroad causeth great anger, and she will not cover her own shame.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:9 “The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty looks and eyelids.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:10 “If thy daughter be shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuse herself through overmuch liberty.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:11 Watch over an impudent eye: and marvel not if she trespass against thee.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:12 “She will open her mouth, as a thirsty traveller when he hath found a fountain, and drink of every water near her: by every hedge will she sit down, and open her quiver against every arrow.”
      Ecclesiasticus 25:16 “I had rather dwell with a lion and a dragon, than to keep house with a wicked woman.
      Ecclesiasticus 25:19 “All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her.
      Proverbs 30:20 “Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.”
      1 Timothy 5:6 “But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth.”
      Lamentations 4:3 “Even the sea monsters draw out the breast, they give suck to their young ones: the daughter of my people is become cruel, like the ostriches in the wilderness.”
      Isaiah 3:24 “And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of we’ll set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty.”
      Micah 7:10 “Then she that is mine enemy shall see it, shame shall cover her which said unto me, Where is the LORD thy Yahawah? mine eyes shall behold her: now shall she be trodden down as the mire of the streets.”
      1 Corinthians 11:3 “But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Yahawashi; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Yahawashi is Yahawah.”
      1 Corinthians 11:8 “For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man.”
      1 Corinthians 11:9 “Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.”
      1 Timothy 2:13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.”
      Genesis 3:16 “Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.”
      Ecclesiasticus 36:24 “He that getteth a wife beginneth a possession, a help like unto himself, and a pillar of rest.”
      Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your husbands, as unto the Lord.
      Ephesians 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Yahawashi is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
      Ephesians 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Yahawashi, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
      1 Timothy 2:11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
      1 Timothy 2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
      Job 39:17 “Because Yahawah hath deprived her of wisdom, neither hath he imparted to her understanding.”
      Isaiah 3:12 “As for my people, children are there oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.”
      Proverbs 31:3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.”
      Isaiah 4:1 “And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name to take away our reproach.”
      Romans 15:4 For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope.
      Ecclesiastes 1:9 The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new thing under the sun.

    • @sbrooks904
      @sbrooks904 Рік тому

      @@cortneyeverett6927 shut that shit up.

    • @bryanmcclure2220
      @bryanmcclure2220 Рік тому +7

      @@cortneyeverett6927 what are you trying to say with these verses?

  • @nova.miller
    @nova.miller Рік тому +146

    I got out of that red pill/conservative ideology as soon as I realized they're basically the same as liberals/sjws they criticize

    • @melissam597
      @melissam597 Рік тому +14

      Exactly

    • @whatever1068
      @whatever1068 Рік тому +32

      It was refreshing in the beginning as they were calling people out on their bullshit. But then they became the same.

    • @TT-ee1vv
      @TT-ee1vv Рік тому +38

      Very true. Saw a bunch of red pill guys angry that a male friend acts like a friend to their female friend. Apparently women should let every man who's nice to them or takes them out on a date smash. But they also want chaste women.... Like how does that work.

    • @wewuzkangz2505
      @wewuzkangz2505 Рік тому +2

      @@TT-ee1vv Easy. If a schlore is a schlore she shouldn't have any problem with giving you a ride, she's used goods anyways. However, if you want a wife you want a virgin. Simple as.

    • @Badookum
      @Badookum Рік тому

      Red pill isn't even conservative, most conservative dislike Redpill for the very same reasons they dislike feminists, they go against tradition and family values.

  • @Skyyy-com
    @Skyyy-com Рік тому +56

    I'm convinced that a lot of these people just don't talk to women. I've been hurt by women many many times, so it's easy for me to hate women as a whole. But one of my best friends is a girl and idk what I would do without her. She always keeps me grounded and is super compassionate, which is something I don't usually get from my male friends. Men and women need each other.

    • @dahoetabby7811
      @dahoetabby7811 Рік тому +10

      I call it the "feminine-rip cord" need some positive female presence to get you outta that space

    • @thecoolannishatk.
      @thecoolannishatk. Рік тому +6

      Lots of my good teachers were women , my shrinks, 3 of my 4 cats are females.

    • @guimblon
      @guimblon Рік тому +1

      Yeah, but most women aren't very kin to talk to the average men. Even in a friendship setting most men get ignored and rejected by women.

    • @jonispringer
      @jonispringer Рік тому

      You are proven his point. Get off of social media and meet real people. Most woman are not like those bimbos that treat average men like trash. @@guimblon

    • @missamieholly2313
      @missamieholly2313 11 місяців тому +2

      @@guimblon Do you have a source for this? What do you mean "most"?

  • @AggieC819
    @AggieC819 Рік тому +898

    I'm a feminist and a stay at home mum. I value choice.
    I also think people, families and societies work best as a team, as a unit, as a family. Pool your talents and resources, have each others back and be each others cheerleaders, because the world works better. It's team work, everyone has strenghts and weaknesses.

    • @mr.stickguy6841
      @mr.stickguy6841 Рік тому +7

      Out of topic, and hope you don't get offended ma'am. I have a genuine question. Should all men simp to all women?

    • @bryanmcclure2220
      @bryanmcclure2220 Рік тому +39

      Yes, men women families, friends We work better together than we do against each other or on our own.
      When Winter comes the lone wolf dies but the pack survives.
      This constant amosity between the genders is just not conducive. I mean how does it solve anything? That's something I would like to ask both the red pill and feminists.
      Men and/or women are so terrible or unmarrieable, Then what is your solution. What are you doing to fix the situation?

    • @bryanmcclure2220
      @bryanmcclure2220 Рік тому +40

      ​@@mr.stickguy6841 All women probably not, But a certain amount of spiming On both sides of a relationshis probably a good thing. And makes working together easier.
      Of course everything can be taken too far.

    • @jordy_nn
      @jordy_nn Рік тому +64

      ​@@mr.stickguy6841 Though I'm not the oc, I think that all men should respect, love, and appreciate their partners. Most people don't use simp for it's original term, which is doing the most for someone who doesn't feel the same way. People think going above and beyond for someone you love, like getting flowers or skipping a hangout to be with them is being a simp, when that's just a healthy relationship (as long as they're doing the same).
      If you're talking about the accurate definition where you do the most for someone who does not love you in return, then no. That is not healthy and you shouldn't be the only one putting in work for your relationship.

    • @ianesgrecia8568
      @ianesgrecia8568 Рік тому +28

      ​@@mr.stickguy6841 I have an answer to complement the two above: if you are simping a person that does not simp you, you should not be doing the simping at all.

  • @djist4197
    @djist4197 Рік тому +358

    women also make up 89% of nurses in the nhs, which I think is important to bring up when people imply that women don't like difficult and messy jobs.

    • @randomguitarguy5906
      @randomguitarguy5906 Рік тому +41

      As a greasy workshop working guy that's an amazing job tbh that I could never do

    • @kevinsamson1693
      @kevinsamson1693 Рік тому +12

      Most doctors are men which is higher level then nurses

    • @djist4197
      @djist4197 Рік тому +144

      @@kevinsamson1693 doctors and nurses are not on a hierarchy, they have completely different purposes on a ward and have to work together to help patients. you think a doctor is putting a patients catheter in? giving them a suppository? moving them around the hospital? these are some of the vital jobs that nurses do as day to day work.
      also in the nhs the percentage of doctors that are men and women is almost equal, according to the medical women's federation 47% of the doctors in the uk are female. so you're wrong on everything.

    • @melissam597
      @melissam597 Рік тому +70

      @@kevinsamson1693 there are more woman doctors than men now (and lawyers) and a nurse's job is every bit as important as a doctor's anyway.

    • @IkesPimpHand
      @IkesPimpHand Рік тому +5

      ​@@melissam597no there are not. Maybe in your country,but as a blanket statement you're wrong.

  • @puertoricanprince7690
    @puertoricanprince7690 Рік тому +965

    I like a lot of red pill content. But I can't stand behind this notion that men can be promiscuous. Neither gender should be

    • @Dollface98
      @Dollface98 Рік тому +126

      Completely agree

    • @ryanb01
      @ryanb01 Рік тому +38

      Well a lot of men are not getting sex anyway so don’t worry too much 😂

    • @puertoricanprince7690
      @puertoricanprince7690 Рік тому +145

      ​@ryanb01
      True. But that's still sad cuz now men just watch explicit videos instead which is even more damaging

    • @Gopher31
      @Gopher31 Рік тому +158

      Indeed, they seem to think women should be traditional but use Gengis Khan as an example of traditions for ‘high value’ men.

    • @RedRoseSeptember22
      @RedRoseSeptember22 Рік тому +1

      @@ryanb01 Yeah but too many of them are now addicted to p*rn and have flawed perceptions of what women should be and look like, very damaging and dangerous.

  • @Thatgirly777
    @Thatgirly777 Рік тому +128

    As a feminist, this is why i repect Xina for how shes not one-sided on things. She doesn't hate on feminism because it isn't inherently wrong but does highlight the negatives people have in it instead of just being anti.

    • @GplusGains
      @GplusGains Рік тому

      It's in the feminists' DNA to destroy manhood. Anything anti family is cancer to a civilized society.

    • @Yeetmaster3000-co4on
      @Yeetmaster3000-co4on Рік тому

      Feminism is inherently evil because it was designed to give women power without responsibility. It actively attacks traditional masculinity and femininity and traditional values in general. It turns women against men by painting all men as oppressors, and potential predators, teaches women to not respect their husbands. It teaches women to put career above family and everything else. It teaches women to dehumanize the unborn under the guise of personal choice. It teaches women to be irresponsible, arrogant, selfish, entitled, stupid, short-sighted, uncontrollably hypergamous, devoid of all common sense, and lacking all sense of reason and accountability of any kind. Is it any wonder that men don't want anything to do with western women? The Manosphere simply gives men a working knowledge and understanding of how modern women behave by showing them visual records of the feminist ideology in practice as well as firsthand secondhand and thirdhand accounts of of men who have suffered as a result of feminism. Whatever your views of the manosphere, understand this: Every man that you find in this community is someone who has lost something or someone or all that he loves and cares about either because of a woman or because of feminism, or both in that order. We don't tell men to hate women, simply hold them accountable since women have clearly proven incapable of holding themselves accountable. We use modern women to show young men how modern women act, and tell them to grab their passports and run. Feminism teaches women to hate men. The Manosphere tells men to go their separate way and avoid these serpents.

    • @yeyosilver7067
      @yeyosilver7067 Рік тому +9

      "as a feminist" lol

    • @Thatgirly777
      @Thatgirly777 Рік тому +35

      @@yeyosilver7067 bruh what abt it

    • @Thatgirly777
      @Thatgirly777 Рік тому +22

      @@yeyosilver7067 I was just saying how lots of feminists are against her even tho whats she's saying is right

  • @tidan-mc2uo
    @tidan-mc2uo Рік тому +374

    You know you’re correct when extremists are angry

    • @nate2759
      @nate2759 Рік тому +24

      Absolutely! It’s sad how emotionally unstable they are, when she read their comments it’s hard to believe people even think like that.

    • @cortneyeverett6927
      @cortneyeverett6927 Рік тому +1

      KJV Ecclesiastes 7:26 And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth Yahawah shall escape from her, but the sinner shall be taken by her.
      Ecclesiasticus 25:24 “Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:7 “An evil wife is a yoke shaken to and fro: he that hath hold of her is as though he held a scorpion.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:8 “A drunken woman and a gadder abroad causeth great anger, and she will not cover her own shame.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:9 “The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty looks and eyelids.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:10 “If thy daughter be shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuse herself through overmuch liberty.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:11 Watch over an impudent eye: and marvel not if she trespass against thee.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:12 “She will open her mouth, as a thirsty traveller when he hath found a fountain, and drink of every water near her: by every hedge will she sit down, and open her quiver against every arrow.”
      Ecclesiasticus 25:16 “I had rather dwell with a lion and a dragon, than to keep house with a wicked woman.
      Ecclesiasticus 25:19 “All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her.
      Proverbs 30:20 “Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.”
      1 Timothy 5:6 “But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth.”
      Lamentations 4:3 “Even the sea monsters draw out the breast, they give suck to their young ones: the daughter of my people is become cruel, like the ostriches in the wilderness.”
      Isaiah 3:24 “And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of we’ll set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty.”
      Micah 7:10 “Then she that is mine enemy shall see it, shame shall cover her which said unto me, Where is the LORD thy Yahawah? mine eyes shall behold her: now shall she be trodden down as the mire of the streets.”
      1 Corinthians 11:3 “But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Yahawashi; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Yahawashi is Yahawah.”
      1 Corinthians 11:8 “For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man.”
      1 Corinthians 11:9 “Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.”
      1 Timothy 2:13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.”
      Genesis 3:16 “Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.”
      Ecclesiasticus 36:24 “He that getteth a wife beginneth a possession, a help like unto himself, and a pillar of rest.”
      Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your husbands, as unto the Lord.
      Ephesians 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Yahawashi is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
      Ephesians 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Yahawashi, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
      1 Timothy 2:11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
      1 Timothy 2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
      Job 39:17 “Because Yahawah hath deprived her of wisdom, neither hath he imparted to her understanding.”
      Isaiah 3:12 “As for my people, children are there oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.”
      Proverbs 31:3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.”
      Isaiah 4:1 “And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name to take away our reproach.”
      Romans 15:4 For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope.
      Ecclesiastes 1:9 The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new thing under the sun.

    • @jimluebke3869
      @jimluebke3869 Рік тому +9

      But extremists are _always_ angry...

    • @hyperion3439
      @hyperion3439 Рік тому

      No the fact that half of her arguments are complete garbage and most of her arguments don't even have any basis in reality is not extremism. Asking for the laws to be changed is not extremism your ignorance is more extreme than anything

    • @GplusGains
      @GplusGains Рік тому +2

      And when they're not?

  • @justhearmeout3959
    @justhearmeout3959 Рік тому +97

    When you ask people to be reasonable, you're forgetting that most people are so attached to the idea of being right about their opinions, that they're not willing to be reasonable or rational when defending them

    • @nate2759
      @nate2759 Рік тому +9

      Yes, I don’t think there has ever been a time in history where people have been so irrational, even men.

  • @llKeey
    @llKeey Рік тому +563

    After watching the Red Pill through videos and reading their subreddit, you start to quickly realize that they have no experience with women whatsoever, and the little that do treat women like a different species not even exaggerating. As a male I can sympathize with them because it's sad that they feel this way about women.

    • @arnoldasbucys7786
      @arnoldasbucys7786 Рік тому +33

      Eye for eye and whole world will become blind

    • @alisalman5917
      @alisalman5917 Рік тому +52

      Right! I do feel bad that they think all women are like the weak-linked ones that they bring to their podcasts. Or even their past experiences in the dating game must’ve been bad.

    • @hellabella8295
      @hellabella8295 Рік тому +83

      To create a narrative that despises an entire gender is psychotic.. ON BOTH SIDES.. I agree, it’s people with low self esteem and people who have to BLAME someone for their own inadequacies..

    • @ianesgrecia8568
      @ianesgrecia8568 Рік тому

      I actually disagree. Many of the Red Pill have MANY experiences with women. BAD EXPERIENCES. And that is the problem that the extreme feminists also face. Where both sides equate bad experiences for the whole gender

    • @Society_is_braindead
      @Society_is_braindead Рік тому +50

      ​@@souventudubanned as a man who used to be red pulled manosphere bs etc etc... 😂 I can tell you they DO NOT have any experience and they do not know women's nature as good as they claim to

  • @ozmul5810
    @ozmul5810 Рік тому +201

    That womans story hurt because I have had something like that happen. I was a Cart guy at Walmart, and I saw this woman drop something. It was like a coin purse of something and I picked it up and went to give it to her. She starts screaming bloody murder at me, and I'm autistic. So This causes me to panic, and I just froze. Eventually she leaves and I was able to gather my senses.
    So I did the next best thing and turned the coin purse into customer service. This woman comes back and claims I assaulted her and stole her property, that I was intimidating and staring her down. Me a 5'5" 150 lb skinny person... Thing about Walmart is their cameras all over the place and my supervisor reviewed the footage. I got reprimanded, told I should have just turned the coin purse in. That hurt, because I was raised by my mother to be thoughtful, courteous, and kind. Especially to women. My mother tough me this.
    That kindness was slammed back in my face, because if not for those cameras. I could have been fired from one of the few jobs I can work.
    I have never thought to help a women sense, because I was tough another lesson that day.
    Women like that exist, they are heartless to guys like me.
    Then again, the whole world is heartless to guys like me, so what else is new.

    • @opticalraven1935
      @opticalraven1935 Рік тому

      You met an asshole. She was a bitch. I hate that she was mean to you. Mama taught me as woman that if someone wants to help you, let em and say thanks. I'd thank you if you did for me and give you a coffee if you liked coffee as a thanks.

    • @ozmul5810
      @ozmul5810 Рік тому

      @Allah Loves, Forgives and Saves I have.
      There is the catch. Thank you is nice, but it is harmless. Of all the times I got thank you working at Walmart, all it took was one person, just one time. To nearly destroy everything.
      Again, if not for cameras. I would have lost my job and had the accusation of theft and assault hovering over me.
      In today's age, better safe than becoming another statistic. Because there isn't always going to be a camera. In the court of public opinion. No one is going to side with the white, poor, mentally handy clapped, socially award, skinny Jewish guy. I am primed to be a scape goat. In a world full of people eager to blame somebody else for their ills. Looking at your name, you might know what that feels like.
      Kinds deeds are easily forgotten.
      One mistake, that is remembered forever.
      In some places, under curtain criteria. That mistake can cost you your life.
      Thats the sad part!

    • @nate2759
      @nate2759 Рік тому +49

      I’m so sorry that you went through this, as a women I have never acted this way. You are a sweet person, don’t stop being a sweet person just because of one psycho bitch.

    • @Humanoidfrenzzy
      @Humanoidfrenzzy Рік тому +17

      I'm so sorry this happened to you. You did nothing wrong. You absolutely have to protect yourself as best as you can, but don't let anything such unkind monsters do or say to you, stay with you for long.
      She was horrible doing something like that, I hope she has a miserable and lonely life..

    • @tonyx2644
      @tonyx2644 Рік тому +14

      I feel it. This is why I don't think to help them anymore either. Not that you should start treating them like garbage or whatever. Just don't put them on a pedestal. Some may take offense to this and throw the M word at you, but that's just them being entitled.
      I am roughly the same size as yourself (just an inch taller) and understand that the disdain society in general tends to have for what they call "manlets": adult males who appear to be physically underdeveloped.
      It's totally fine to be guarded and to protect yourself. Just don't get too bitter, become an asshole and further contribute to the shittiness of an already kinda shitty world.

  • @LenaClaire91232
    @LenaClaire91232 Рік тому +223

    When they say “women don’t want to do hard work” they also aren’t taking into account emotionally challenging jobs. Think of nurses, social workers, therapists, elderly caretakers, and countless other jobs that force a person to see all kinds of horrible, tragic things. It takes a very strong stomach to be able to handle a lot of that, but women do it way more than men do.

    • @treacherousjslither6920
      @treacherousjslither6920 Рік тому +4

      Good point

    • @ianesgrecia8568
      @ianesgrecia8568 Рік тому +12

      It's a good point, but don't adress the actual argument of 'woman don't want to do the hard work' because in this case it is pointing to the actually HARD-LABOR.
      Just look at the percentage of soldier, garbage-men, factory workers, construction workers, farmers and all the more. You don't find woman fighting to be part of THAT percentage.
      And if we are going to be really 'equalitarian' here, should we also make a obrigatory percentage of men on jobs like nannies, care-takers, mid-wives, nurses, social workers and etc?

    • @plamondonworks6948
      @plamondonworks6948 Рік тому +42

      ​@@ianesgrecia8568 it's because men can physically handle them better, like women handle more emotionally demanding jobs that demand more multitasking. The whole point is we complement each other.

    • @ianesgrecia8568
      @ianesgrecia8568 Рік тому +7

      @@plamondonworks6948 Good point. So by saying exactly what you said, the phrase "“women don’t want to do hard work” " DO TAKE ACCOUNT OF THE DIFERENCE, It's just literally not the point. The point is about Hard-labor, not emotional related works. The second which is MUCH SAFER to do which 10x less risks and chances of death.

    • @plamondonworks6948
      @plamondonworks6948 Рік тому +24

      @Ianes Grécia hard labour is a very broad term. Nurses perform hard labour that can be equivalent to the force exerted to traditionally thought of hard labour jobs like construction. Comparing the two, nurses have to be "on" a lot more of their shift that construction, and their shifts tend to be much longer (in the developed west at least). So while physical exertion and bodily danger might be higher for the construction worker, longer hours of physical exertion go to the nurses. Idk why we need to Eben compare. They're both difficult jobs. Men and women both give exactly what society needs if we'd let them and stopped playing tit for tat.

  • @liannemarie2504
    @liannemarie2504 Рік тому +320

    Telling the manosphere guys they're no different than the angry feminists they hate is funny and true

    • @GplusGains
      @GplusGains Рік тому +3

      The angry feminists wants to destroy men and what's like to be men. "Manosphere guys" just wants to be left alone. BIG difference.

    • @liannemarie2504
      @liannemarie2504 Рік тому +94

      @@GplusGains no; they're both blaming the other for their problems

    • @maxkho00
      @maxkho00 Рік тому

      @@GplusGains Feminists also just want to be left alone lol, and manosphere guys also want to destroy what it's like to be a woman. I'm sorry, but other than the gender that you channel your hatred towards, there is literally no difference between you guys lol.

    • @BronzetheGolden
      @BronzetheGolden Рік тому

      ​@@GplusGainsManosphere guys want to destroy women and what it's like to be women. Cleanse yourself of the copium and repent to God/Allah

    • @88xxx
      @88xxx Рік тому +30

      They’re like “nooo it’s not true because we have a reason to behave this way bc we’re just biologically better!!” Like bro is just digging himself deeper into a hole

  • @eeveeman44
    @eeveeman44 Рік тому +179

    As a biologist, I appreciate you approaching things from that perspective

    • @marenkendall7413
      @marenkendall7413 Рік тому +6

      @@RR-et6zp Oh hey, you again

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp Рік тому

      @@marenkendall7413 you've never seen me before

    • @Eyeconic110
      @Eyeconic110 Рік тому +4

      @@RR-et6zp youre literally spamming everyone with this comment

    • @Gabry4777
      @Gabry4777 Рік тому

      ​@@RR-et6zp yours is just red-pilled whining sweetheart

    • @cortneyeverett6927
      @cortneyeverett6927 Рік тому +1

      KJV Ecclesiastes 7:26 And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth Yahawah shall escape from her, but the sinner shall be taken by her.
      Ecclesiasticus 25:24 “Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:7 “An evil wife is a yoke shaken to and fro: he that hath hold of her is as though he held a scorpion.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:8 “A drunken woman and a gadder abroad causeth great anger, and she will not cover her own shame.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:9 “The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty looks and eyelids.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:10 “If thy daughter be shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuse herself through overmuch liberty.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:11 Watch over an impudent eye: and marvel not if she trespass against thee.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:12 “She will open her mouth, as a thirsty traveller when he hath found a fountain, and drink of every water near her: by every hedge will she sit down, and open her quiver against every arrow.”
      Ecclesiasticus 25:16 “I had rather dwell with a lion and a dragon, than to keep house with a wicked woman.
      Ecclesiasticus 25:19 “All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her.
      Proverbs 30:20 “Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.”
      1 Timothy 5:6 “But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth.”
      Lamentations 4:3 “Even the sea monsters draw out the breast, they give suck to their young ones: the daughter of my people is become cruel, like the ostriches in the wilderness.”
      Isaiah 3:24 “And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of we’ll set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty.”
      Micah 7:10 “Then she that is mine enemy shall see it, shame shall cover her which said unto me, Where is the LORD thy Yahawah? mine eyes shall behold her: now shall she be trodden down as the mire of the streets.”
      1 Corinthians 11:3 “But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Yahawashi; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Yahawashi is Yahawah.”
      1 Corinthians 11:8 “For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man.”
      1 Corinthians 11:9 “Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.”
      1 Timothy 2:13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.”
      Genesis 3:16 “Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.”
      Ecclesiasticus 36:24 “He that getteth a wife beginneth a possession, a help like unto himself, and a pillar of rest.”
      Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your husbands, as unto the Lord.
      Ephesians 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Yahawashi is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
      Ephesians 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Yahawashi, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
      1 Timothy 2:11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
      1 Timothy 2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
      Job 39:17 “Because Yahawah hath deprived her of wisdom, neither hath he imparted to her understanding.”
      Isaiah 3:12 “As for my people, children are there oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.”
      Proverbs 31:3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.”
      Isaiah 4:1 “And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name to take away our reproach.”
      Romans 15:4 For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope.
      Ecclesiastes 1:9 The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new thing under the sun.

  • @quietkrys2705
    @quietkrys2705 Рік тому +150

    If you're making both sides REE, you either said something extremely dense or you offered a pill that was too hard for them to swallow. I think the second option is pretty fitting considering the fact that you try your best to be fair..

    • @srslee5966
      @srslee5966 Рік тому +5

      From what she said it wasn't even both sides. It was the RP community 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @srslee5966
      @srslee5966 Рік тому +9

      ​@@RR-et6zp considering rollo has been getting ratioed, even by people within his own community, I don't think so

    • @quietkrys2705
      @quietkrys2705 Рік тому +1

      @@srslee5966 Feminists were butt hurt by her other videos. That's why I said both.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp Рік тому +2

      @@srslee5966 haha that is not true

    • @kenos911
      @kenos911 Рік тому

      @@srslee5966 that's since she put "red pill" in the title BEFORE "feminist"
      subconsciously it's more of an attack on them just because of the title

  • @LizzyTwifehomemaker
    @LizzyTwifehomemaker Рік тому +188

    As encouragement I LOVED your last video and found it so refreshing to hear someone critic the red pill in a balanced manner. I am a Christian conservative and not a feminist in the slightest, nor am I part of the Red Pill so I fully agreed with your video and shared it with others. Please continue your good work!

  • @trudimclaren2609
    @trudimclaren2609 Рік тому +111

    No wonder the guy crossed away from that woman in the car - she was being crazy! I was on holiday and had some men running after on the beach me saying 'excuse me miss!' Turned out I'd dropped all my cash and they had gathered it all and were bringing it back. Pretty glad I didn't yell 'do NOT approach me!'. If he was intending to hurt you, he's unlikely to alert you 30ft away - it's most likely to try not to scare you!

    • @nate2759
      @nate2759 Рік тому +15

      Yes. She was nuts and if he were going to hurt you, yelling that will only anger him even more.

    • @CordeliaWagner
      @CordeliaWagner Рік тому +9

      Some men enjoy scaring women...

    • @trudimclaren2609
      @trudimclaren2609 Рік тому +12

      @No Name sure, but MOST don't. I've never distrusted men, and in 46 years on this earth, none of them have proved me wrong yet. I love men and have always had male friends - some of the most loyal friends I've had

    • @ladyofnoxus6733
      @ladyofnoxus6733 Рік тому

      And she has a son... like poor boy. Is going to be taught to hate himself just for being born a man.

    • @tomasrubioelia6912
      @tomasrubioelia6912 Рік тому

      'excuse me ma'am, i think your wallet full of money fell'

  • @volkova6209
    @volkova6209 Рік тому +27

    I'm shocked that the movement in iceland is so forgotten and not talked about.
    It's something people need to look into

  • @lefu7812
    @lefu7812 Рік тому +163

    Stay strong. I love how you aspire to stay in the middle of the ideological spectrum and strive for actual objectivity. I feel that there are absolutely not enough people like you.

    • @Umm_yeah
      @Umm_yeah Рік тому +14

      Yes! She has such a nuanced perspective and displays true critical thinking. Refreshing on this here UA-cam.

  • @ccclll987
    @ccclll987 Рік тому +298

    Feminism and Redpill, they're two sides of the same coin, both too extreme and both more focused on very abstract and generalized thinking instead of focusing on real people and real dynamics between people

    • @mr.stickguy6841
      @mr.stickguy6841 Рік тому +10

      Only to those extreme sides thinkers of both ideologies who does holds this hard truth. It's debatable to those who follows these respective ideologies, but are not extremists.

    • @IkesPimpHand
      @IkesPimpHand Рік тому +6

      No,redpill and misogyny are different. Don't attempt to conflate the two. Having said that, I'm both 😂

    • @Getout634
      @Getout634 Рік тому +33

      @@IkesPimpHandwow you’re so edgy and cool

    • @MK_ULTRA420
      @MK_ULTRA420 Рік тому

      Hell nah, no government is actively supporting Redpill. Meanwhile Feminism has direct UN support.

    • @nate2759
      @nate2759 Рік тому +14

      They are the same people just the opposite gender lol.

  • @scarlet12234
    @scarlet12234 Рік тому +614

    Anyone who believes one gender is superior over the other is just wrong. We are different, and each side has strengths and weaknesses which compliment the other.
    Also, "women don't do physically challenging jobs."
    Uhh...pregnancy? Childbirth? Which can literally kill us? We can die during recovery too.
    Edit: People, I'm not saying one is harder than the other. Just that women take on a physically challenging role as well, though it isn't one that pays money. Why do you take me saying we also do challenging things as me trying to negate what men do? We have different yet equally important roles, and we all make sacrifices. JFC not everything is a battle of the sexes 🙄
    Also, a job is a paid position, yes. The other definition is "work or a task, especially one that is paid." So, that means unpaid tasks can be jobs. Mothering fits the definition.
    You're also all getting hung up on the use of the word job which isn't even the point. The point I'm making is that yes, we DO choose to put ourselves in physically challenging and risky situations, just different ones.

    • @aesthetix3398
      @aesthetix3398 Рік тому +24

      Yes 🙌

    • @CarSVernon
      @CarSVernon Рік тому +26

      Sure but every so often women do something that makes me cringe into the ground as a feminist. there was a video recently of a woman yelling at some construction site leader for him having only male staff lol. in high likelihood, the women didn't apply for the job.

    • @cantsay2205
      @cantsay2205 Рік тому +58

      @@souventudubanned where would society be without women doing those things?

    • @mr.f716
      @mr.f716 Рік тому +34

      No it is true women dont do physically challanging jobs as often as men (I think pregnancy is not a job by the way) your argument shouldnt be no we actually do, because that is just false. It should be "yes women do less of those jobs but you are still equally as important for society. Or our current society is the problem but biologically we are both equally important." Just something along those lines

    • @cantsay2205
      @cantsay2205 Рік тому

      @@souventudubanned it is a job, it's perpetuating humanity, it's perpetuating our species. It's the most important job in humanity, because we wouldn't be here if it wasn't for women being pregnant and giving birth. Would you be here if your mama hadn't given birth to you? No.

  • @erinrhianne
    @erinrhianne Рік тому +13

    "Most of our societal problems stem from people being chronically online" so true

  • @draidiansfather3382
    @draidiansfather3382 Рік тому +39

    "You have ten babies, and a very happy man.."
    That was good humor.

    • @MegaMilenche
      @MegaMilenche Рік тому +15

      You have ten child supports to pay, and a very sad man xD

    • @margowakefield3295
      @margowakefield3295 Рік тому +1

      @@MegaMilenche 😃🤣👍👍

    • @margowakefield3295
      @margowakefield3295 Рік тому +5

      He's happy, yes, and then he turns around to find 20 people making demands.

    • @Mandy87Marie
      @Mandy87Marie Рік тому +6

      Also, all of the children would be half siblings to each other, so there hopefully at least, won’t be any reproduction among them

  • @sergiosarmiento4233
    @sergiosarmiento4233 Рік тому +254

    Your argument on the scales of what would be physically demanding for a male vs female was really good.
    “Dunking on a toddler”
    “You can’t push a baby out your pee-pee bro!?”
    Unforgettable quotes XD

    • @Bahle_Gaji
      @Bahle_Gaji Рік тому +16

      Shit got me 😂

    • @ianesgrecia8568
      @ianesgrecia8568 Рік тому +21

      I laugh at the baby out of peepee part

    • @nate2759
      @nate2759 Рік тому +8

      Me too, I’m a critical thinker but, still never even considered that.

    • @cortneyeverett6927
      @cortneyeverett6927 Рік тому

      KJV Ecclesiastes 7:26 And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth Yahawah shall escape from her, but the sinner shall be taken by her.
      Ecclesiasticus 25:24 “Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:7 “An evil wife is a yoke shaken to and fro: he that hath hold of her is as though he held a scorpion.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:8 “A drunken woman and a gadder abroad causeth great anger, and she will not cover her own shame.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:9 “The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty looks and eyelids.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:10 “If thy daughter be shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuse herself through overmuch liberty.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:11 Watch over an impudent eye: and marvel not if she trespass against thee.”
      Ecclesiasticus 26:12 “She will open her mouth, as a thirsty traveller when he hath found a fountain, and drink of every water near her: by every hedge will she sit down, and open her quiver against every arrow.”
      Ecclesiasticus 25:16 “I had rather dwell with a lion and a dragon, than to keep house with a wicked woman.
      Ecclesiasticus 25:19 “All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her.
      Proverbs 30:20 “Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.”
      1 Timothy 5:6 “But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth.”
      Lamentations 4:3 “Even the sea monsters draw out the breast, they give suck to their young ones: the daughter of my people is become cruel, like the ostriches in the wilderness.”
      Isaiah 3:24 “And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of we’ll set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty.”
      Micah 7:10 “Then she that is mine enemy shall see it, shame shall cover her which said unto me, Where is the LORD thy Yahawah? mine eyes shall behold her: now shall she be trodden down as the mire of the streets.”
      1 Corinthians 11:3 “But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Yahawashi; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Yahawashi is Yahawah.”
      1 Corinthians 11:8 “For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man.”
      1 Corinthians 11:9 “Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.”
      1 Timothy 2:13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.”
      Genesis 3:16 “Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.”
      Ecclesiasticus 36:24 “He that getteth a wife beginneth a possession, a help like unto himself, and a pillar of rest.”
      Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your husbands, as unto the Lord.
      Ephesians 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Yahawashi is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
      Ephesians 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Yahawashi, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
      1 Timothy 2:11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
      1 Timothy 2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
      Job 39:17 “Because Yahawah hath deprived her of wisdom, neither hath he imparted to her understanding.”
      Isaiah 3:12 “As for my people, children are there oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.”
      Proverbs 31:3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.”
      Isaiah 4:1 “And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name to take away our reproach.”
      Romans 15:4 For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope.
      Ecclesiastes 1:9 The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new thing under the sun.

    • @Al_K_Hall342
      @Al_K_Hall342 Рік тому

      Women couldn't survive on their own: ua-cam.com/video/NzCO0G8AGLU/v-deo.html

  • @davidogundipe808
    @davidogundipe808 Рік тому +162

    Hey Patience don't, let this get to you, and be yourself, don't walk on eggshells for people.

    • @Mole-Esther
      @Mole-Esther Рік тому +17

      She knows

    • @nate2759
      @nate2759 Рік тому +2

      She knows, she thought those triggered comments were hilarious because they are.

    • @blondie9422
      @blondie9422 Рік тому +7

      @@Mole-Esther Yeah, but sometimes it’s good to have extra encouragement

  • @ivano2863
    @ivano2863 Рік тому +149

    My theory is that we have a bunch of teenage boys who've been practically raised by the internet. They're spending most of their time staring at a screen instead of being outside and socialising (specially with women). All you have to do is read the comments on red pill content to realize this. I think it's the same reason pickup artist content has become so popular. Red pill, manosphere, incels, pickup artist etc. All these communities are symptoms of a bigger problem: lack of socialization.
    Just my 2 cents

    • @kathycoleman4648
      @kathycoleman4648 Рік тому +15

      Yes. Look up the character Tomura Shigaraki from My Hero Academia. We have a dialed back version of a young man who was raised by the supervillain All For One, who deliberately set him up for failure and to conclude that he hates people for All For One's benefit. The government and big corporations are getting off on all of this fighting between the sexes.

    • @ivano2863
      @ivano2863 Рік тому

      @@kathycoleman4648 sounds interesting, I'll have to look it up!

    • @juicyfruits8071
      @juicyfruits8071 Рік тому +1

      Yeah, they think there's some formula to stick to in order to get women. When in reality, women are people and have variety in what they like and don't like when it comes to men. They don't realize that being a good man that women like, simply starts with being a good, well rounded person. No formulas, no strategy. Just treat women like people, not some strange other worldly species that needs a new language to understand. And that starts with... Just talking to women in a general sense, not only doing it when you're trying to be with her.

    • @ameliag.9940
      @ameliag.9940 Рік тому +2

      you're 100% right, but there's another component to it: porn
      some boys are exposed to porn from an age as young as 9, which solidifies their view on women as an object to be first attained, and then degraded and humiliated. This erases the idea that women are people, and as such, that we possess the same human traits as craving for dignity, ambitions, empathy and inquisitiveness.
      As a result, they grow up to be men who don't see women - even their own mothers - as people. But because they only see us as objects, once they realize they aren't lawfully to just grab us and take us by force like cavemen, their first conclusion isn't "oh... maybe women are people", but "that makes sense - you don't just take stuff, you have to buy it". They seek other ways to 'attain' conventionally attractive women, fully convinced that they are ENTITLED to a sex doll that looks like the women they see in porn. This is where pick-up artists come in. They solidify the idea that women are objects to be bought instead by painting all women as mindless gold-diggers where a specific set of
      It's also why whenever people see a couple where the man is not conventially attractive, but the woman is pretty, every incel's first thought is that he must be rich, and not that he likely has a vibrant personality, a common interest with her, or an inherently good heart.
      Everyone says that they feel sympathy for the men who've fallen down this rabbit hole. Nobody ever extends their sympathy for the women who have been shot or beaten by violent men, neither for the women in the porn industry who were most likely trafficked into it (data shows that more than 80% of women in porn media are actually trafficked and coerced/ forcibly addicted to drugs and thus/ forced into sexual acts without their consent. Meaning that there's only 1 in 5 chance that the porn you're watching is consensually filmed. Men know this and still choose to watch it.)

    • @thecoolannishatk.
      @thecoolannishatk. Рік тому +5

      You hit the nail on the head.

  • @albertsaffron7582
    @albertsaffron7582 Рік тому +29

    The argument that “men have germs” is made completely redundant the moment you consider the fact that women have cooties

    • @mackprime6975
      @mackprime6975 Рік тому

      A wise man once said, "Boys rule, girls drool"

    • @Debziiie
      @Debziiie Рік тому +4

      😂😂😂 both equally contaminated

  • @razorbackd1839
    @razorbackd1839 Рік тому +87

    As a manly man, I could never say I don't need a woman. I need love........ and romance..😎

    • @ryumensukuna9269
      @ryumensukuna9269 Рік тому

      Thats the only thing a women can provide other than giving birth..

    • @0MissPhoenix
      @0MissPhoenix Рік тому +16

      As a womanly woman (happily married to a great man) I can also agree, I need love and romance too 😁

    • @Penelope_777
      @Penelope_777 10 місяців тому +6

      Love is what this world needs especially in the time we're living in

  • @sarahcox1197
    @sarahcox1197 Рік тому +354

    My question to the manosphere is that if child care and house work are so menial and easy, why is it so difficult to get a man to do it? If they are truly better than us and don't need us, why don't they sign up for those jobs in droves? Wouldn't watching toddlers indoors be better than working construction in the elements?

    • @KatieLHall-fy1hw
      @KatieLHall-fy1hw Рік тому +85

      That IS a question! I would love to hear some answers!

    • @houseofhas9355
      @houseofhas9355 Рік тому

      Yes I would do it. But you have to realize men, doing that means risk. Him losing the respect of the woman in his life. Many women are not as progressive as they tell you they are. They withhold sex from men prevised as weak. Many stay home dads report among men that she loses attraction for them because he is no longer filling that masculine role for her. In case where she pays all the bills. Many wives have been interviewed and have said " they lost attraction to their husbands" followed by break up/divorce.
      Women are lying when they report they want a sensitive man or stay at home dad. Their words say one thing, but their heart and at home feelings say another.
      Throughout history men made sacrifices because they wanted their families to benefit. They were not running away from feminine jobs. Those jobs didn't pay a lot of money, Social norms ( also held up by women) marked those jobs as feminine, and ie the market didn't see it as rewarding with money.
      I would love to take care of kids and not have to worry about dying at work because of the risk involved. But with risk comes a lot of pay salary wise.
      But I'm a man, I would work in hell if it meant they didn't have to experience this or struggle in life.
      Where you take care of your family. Like for example deep sea divers make a lot of money.
      It's in our DNA to want to provide, and protect. If we are not doing that we feel, we have failed. It's part of our history and culture.

    • @mr.stickguy6841
      @mr.stickguy6841 Рік тому

      Do you think all men in the manosphere believe that? For all I know, the most genuine men in the manosphere believes in "Traditional Roles". Men and women are seperated biologically to what they are most best at. Should we question why most women are more nurturing to young'uns than men does? Or why men works in construction(or any manual labor jobs), not complaining of the overfatigue they have got from overworking? It's because we're born to piece each other's part to get things done more effectively. There's a reason why families is the important role to build a strong society, and why humanity keeps on thriving up until now.

    • @beemomma4641
      @beemomma4641 Рік тому +73

      Yep worked at a daycare, not a SINGLE man worked there

    • @ianesgrecia8568
      @ianesgrecia8568 Рік тому +19

      Probably the same dificulty for women to want to become garbagemen or actually earn money. This is what many women discovered in this new era: Being a salarywoman/men is NOT EASY and they now resent women that actually want to stay at home (see tradwives video)

  • @barbnery
    @barbnery Рік тому +142

    I watched that documentary "The Red Pill" back in 2018 and I sympathized a lot with the male struggles in today's society but now the whole movement looks a lot like feminism

    • @barbnery
      @barbnery Рік тому +12

      @ayse Before the red pill movement was Andrew Tate's alike, it was about men's right and injustices they suffered in the court system. The documentary talks mostly about parent alienation, men having basically no right in child custody disputes, etc

    • @ambertico
      @ambertico Рік тому +5

      @@pradacocaine You should look up Janice Fiamengo for a more accurate view of feminist history than what you're giving. You're spouting pure victimhood talking points.

    • @GplusGains
      @GplusGains Рік тому

      Ummm, men are still being destroyed in family court. Nothing has changed except more men are being educated to protect themselves from a warped, perverted system. There's nothing wrong with that.

    • @chimponkoman
      @chimponkoman Рік тому

      If woman are pushing female supremacy and oppressing men, then men should push male supremacy and oppress women. If they expect us to push back against male supremacists, then we expect the same from them.

    • @insideAdirtyMind
      @insideAdirtyMind 10 місяців тому

      feminism is about equality, at what point does these men ever wanted to have equality? These men want servants and hate feminism for giving basic human rights to women, that they think should serve them as slaves.

  • @noxiabathys
    @noxiabathys Рік тому +25

    Thanks for staying the middle Xina people like you and Short Fat Otaku really help keep me level headed and not try to lean to hard in any direction! Keep up the great work!

    • @Namsu-hyeon_xxx
      @Namsu-hyeon_xxx Рік тому

      Yeah following someone who’s in the middle keeps you kinda level headed. I don’t know Short Fat Otaku, but imma get it out.

    • @payt00n
      @payt00n Рік тому +2

      I personally don't enjoy shortfatotakus content for reasons i won't get into but patience is genuinely a breath of fresh air

  • @lizthedisjointedzebra692
    @lizthedisjointedzebra692 Рік тому +30

    People get pissed when someone is reasonable and moderate. Both sides are "my way or the highway", and really dislike reasonable discourse

  • @AdamBT18
    @AdamBT18 Рік тому +25

    As a man who was a little "red pilled" wouldnt say i was far into it but i defo agreed with alot of it, your vid defo opened my eyes and put me more in the middle ty

  • @Lance.Gardenhire
    @Lance.Gardenhire Рік тому +27

    You killed me with that Dora bit.

  • @angeliquedominique740
    @angeliquedominique740 Рік тому +55

    They are always mad just like the women they complain about 😂

    • @Kerastalise
      @Kerastalise Рік тому +7

      Women ☕️

    • @angeliquedominique740
      @angeliquedominique740 Рік тому +10

      @@Kerastalise yes! Women and men! This is why I like this UA-camr she calls out both of them

    • @Kerastalise
      @Kerastalise Рік тому +6

      @@angeliquedominique740 I just recently started watching her cuz I knew there shouldn’t be such polarizing opinions that hinders one or both of the sides. Gotta call out bs from both sides

    • @viceanterra3
      @viceanterra3 Рік тому

      This thread is wholesome 🤌

  • @luellen4645
    @luellen4645 Рік тому +26

    I think it is so sad that society can't accept the fact that men and women are not above each other.

  • @crowfoot8059
    @crowfoot8059 Рік тому +52

    2:13 THAT’S WHAT I’VE BEEN SAYING. this whole girls vs boys discourse is so incredibly childish and reminds me of elementary school.

    • @IkesPimpHand
      @IkesPimpHand Рік тому +3

      Thank feminism for starting it

    • @crowfoot8059
      @crowfoot8059 Рік тому +1

      @@IkesPimpHand red piller schmucks are equally to blame

    • @lin9139
      @lin9139 11 місяців тому +4

      ⁠@@IkesPimpHandblaming someone who started is just as childish, literally kindergarten

  • @marenkendall7413
    @marenkendall7413 Рік тому +34

    Even your reactions to criticism are done with incredible class, grace, and poise. You're my favorite UA-camr right now girl.

  • @payt00n
    @payt00n Рік тому +21

    I've always rolled my eyes at the playground level arguments these people tend to create. I swear red pillers and the side they always complain about battles are quite literally replicas of kindergarten disagreements

  • @mowtivatedmechanic1172
    @mowtivatedmechanic1172 Рік тому +123

    As a “red pilled” guy I love this channel. She’s so balanced and makes sense. Common sense is so common anymore.

    • @CarloisBuriedAlive
      @CarloisBuriedAlive Рік тому +10

      I think there is plenty of negativity on both sides, but I still think the red pilled side is still way more sensible. I believe there are a small amount of extremists in the red pill group, but the leftist/feminism group has adopted extremist views as a default.

    • @CarloisBuriedAlive
      @CarloisBuriedAlive Рік тому +10

      @@pradacocaine in western culture, things were the way they were. Women had less of a voice because they were not a major part of the work force. Their domain was the home, they ran their communities, they dominated the market place (still do), and they served their families more than they served employers or the state. As women developed into having multiple roles, they were granted more and more rights. Things haven’t been fair to everybody historically, but there’s this boogeyman whenever feminists talk about history like women were kept in cages up until recently and that’s just not true in western culture. And then it’s so trendy to have such disrespect for males and to complain about the patriarchy while never embracing the fact that physical society has been built by their grandfathers, men were aligned with women to make those rights happen in the first place, and men have their own unique burdens that have always existed and still exist and they largely go unnoticed because male babies, male children, and male young adults have to remain uncared for due to a perceived “privilege” that they have. So yes, modern feminism can get quite extreme, especially when they’ve yet to adopt a more egalitarian take as the world gets more and more complex in 2023.

    • @paavoilves5416
      @paavoilves5416 11 місяців тому

      @@CarloisBuriedAlive I don't think the reasonable people have been identifying as "red pill" anymore for a long time now. That scene has been ridiculous for years now, it was questionable already bout 5yrs ago when I was somewhat in.

    • @CarloisBuriedAlive
      @CarloisBuriedAlive 11 місяців тому

      @@paavoilves5416 I’m not referring to people who find themselves “joining” some kind of club - I simply mean people who change their thinking based on logic and reason.

    • @paavoilves5416
      @paavoilves5416 11 місяців тому

      @@CarloisBuriedAlive I know and the people who actually base their thinking on logic and reason often don't have much to do with any redpill stuff. The redpill community tends to refer to "logic and reason" yes, but often just nitpicks studies and examples to prove their point instead of being authentic and uses generalizations to prove point considering individuals etc. This is why conspiracy theories and all types of alternative science run rampant in the communities. Which is basically exactly the same as with radical feminists.

  • @onion256
    @onion256 Рік тому +49

    I love how a middle ground has been created, both sides have been rather pathetic and immature with their arguments + beliefs. They aren’t trying to fix a problem, they’re simply creating a new one. This is different and I’m glad you’ve made a video on it because more people need to adapt this way of thinking.

  • @malawisupasoldier7478
    @malawisupasoldier7478 Рік тому +21

    Men and women need each other for society to flourish 😎
    And neither is superior or inferior

  • @Daveyboy513
    @Daveyboy513 Рік тому +86

    I hate that red pill has gown down this dark path. What should have been teaching men to level up and get better has now turned into the He-Man woman haters club.

    • @melissam597
      @melissam597 Рік тому +15

      Wasn't it always like that?

    • @IkesPimpHand
      @IkesPimpHand Рік тому +2

      As is well deserved. Misogyny is based.

    • @opticalraven1935
      @opticalraven1935 Рік тому +12

      They've always been horrible to women.

    • @Daveyboy513
      @Daveyboy513 Рік тому +15

      @opticalraven1935 there's has always been two sides to this "movment" but , the toxic guys are way louder than the guys who focus on self-improvement. Or at least people choose to focus on the negative since it gets more views.

    • @opticalraven1935
      @opticalraven1935 Рік тому

      @@Daveyboy513 Naw, bruh, I don't do the "No True Scotsman" bullshit. Feminists pull that shit and so do red piller men.

  • @H.P.93
    @H.P.93 Рік тому +38

    The woman's story of the parking lot reminds me of an episode of Golden Girls. The house gets robbed and all of them are pretty freaked out. One, Rose, gets a gun and is walking through a parking lot when she notices a man following her and calling out to her. She freaks out and runs and when he speeds up to, she pulls out the gun. You find out that she had dropped her keys and the guy just wanted to return them.

    • @nate2759
      @nate2759 Рік тому +8

      It’s a dangerous mentality when you think everyone is out to get you. Of course we should all use common sense, but behaving like that isn’t going to help.

  • @michaelmccoll3204
    @michaelmccoll3204 Рік тому +22

    The biggest problem with the any pill is that you can't take "half a dose" you are either the entirety of that pill or not the pill at all

  • @cantsay2205
    @cantsay2205 Рік тому +587

    Icelandic men: "heh, we don't need you! We'll be fine without you!"
    Icelandic women: "bet"
    Icelandic men: "NO NO NO NO NO WAIT WAIT WAIT"

    • @SirDankington
      @SirDankington Рік тому +27

      And yet the water kept flowing and the lights were still on.
      That's not to say that what she mentioned isn't important but it also shows why men would never be able to pull a stunt like that.

    • @cantsay2205
      @cantsay2205 Рік тому +184

      @@SirDankington do you think that those are the only important things? It's very easy to say "oh well the water and the lights were still on" because you weren't there to actually experience the chaos, you're looking at it from decades after the fact. Where were the nurses? The teachers? Mothers? How do you think life functioned without them that day? And oh yes I know you'll say "men are capable of those things" well yes, but those are very female-dominated things.

    • @yota8325
      @yota8325 Рік тому +13

      It's likely they would have figured it out with more time. But ofcourse they were ignorant to how hard life would be without women

    • @IkesPimpHand
      @IkesPimpHand Рік тому +12

      Literally the opposite.

    • @Getout634
      @Getout634 Рік тому +85

      @@IkesPimpHandwhy do you hate women so much lmao

  • @NWats-ik6ou
    @NWats-ik6ou Рік тому +69

    This whole men versus women thing is so tired, We need each other. Just a bunch of people looking to argue and be right to strengthen their ego. Only listening to respond and not have actual dialogue. Bitter folk hopping on podcasts.

    • @0fficialselena__90
      @0fficialselena__90 Рік тому +1

      I agree! Although for me, I understand at the same time since need and want are two completely different things. When people say they don't need men, there's a good chance they are saying " I don't need a man to be happy, healthy, fulfilled, strong, successful, to take care of me, nor to protect me since I can already provide these things for myself." Or the "I don't need a man, I want a man but I understand our differences appreciating what both do for this world. What a man can do, I can learn/ do for the world, I can teach myself and provide for me but even if men in this world were to do these things..I'd deeply thank and appreciate them." Like when I hear that quote, that's my meaning behind it and I actually agree with it too!

  • @ganter5447
    @ganter5447 Рік тому +13

    10:05 Patience trying to be gangsta and be like "What you can't push a baby outta your pp bro?" just made my day 🤣

  • @Sydneymikaela
    @Sydneymikaela Рік тому +46

    Viewing a full time mom as less than a CEO independent woman displays a materialistic mindset and a person who values money over humanity. View each equally for what they are. Both are sustainable acts of raising humans. In separate mediums. Raising humans by funding & nurturing what they grow to love. Fall into one extreme over the other, and the meaning of the position is left off balance.

    • @crestfire8008
      @crestfire8008 Рік тому

      Men view full time mom as less than a CEO.
      Men are the ones who claim that men run the society by being CEOs and other things while women's job being at home is "useless" for society.
      Men claim that society will continue to run if all women disappeared tomorrow because "men do the superior job of working in factories, being CEO"
      If anyone is materialistic, it's men

  • @ORMONDROPON
    @ORMONDROPON Рік тому +193

    I just helped a pregnant lady clean up stuff she dropped when loading groceries into her car at the Walmart parking lot; I was way closer than 30 feet away when I asked if she wanted help, and I honestly don't know what I would have done if, instead of saying "yes, thanks, I can't reach the ones that rolled under the car", she had screamed "DO NOT APPROACH ME"

    • @marenkendall7413
      @marenkendall7413 Рік тому +45

      I know, that video blew my mind 0.0 I am like... Am I missing context? Was it dark? Was there no one else around? Did the guy look like he was on drugs? I am trying to think of what the situation would have to be for me to react so intensely.

    • @DizzyDJW
      @DizzyDJW Рік тому +40

      @@marenkendall7413 Probably was conventionally unattractive, or like she said that lady had unresolved issues already. Conventionally unattractive people have MANY stereotypes placed then and are typically seen as unsettling or creepy, just by default. It's depressing to think about honestly.

    • @marenkendall7413
      @marenkendall7413 Рік тому +17

      @@DizzyDJW This is so true! I was just thinking about this earlier. I had a lot of friends growing up who were great guys that were being rejected and told they were creepy just because they didn't look like Channing Tatum or whatever. One of my friends asked, how do I be nice without being creepy? I just had to say... I'm sorry, you're doing everything right, it's the other person's decision now.

    • @Gabry4777
      @Gabry4777 Рік тому +32

      ​@@marenkendall7413 on one hand I agree, on the other hand if multiple people are telling you you are creepy, maybe you should really think about your behaviour...

    • @gengashaunt3322
      @gengashaunt3322 Рік тому +9

      When i see a woman get approached by someone, i will NOT approach and help her if theyre up to no good. She said never approach. Good luck. Not everyone is evil. What if she dropped something in the store. Money? ID? An item? But she said never. Your money is mine now. Cool.

  • @mittey5365
    @mittey5365 Рік тому +113

    If you are a guy that complains about how annoying feminists can be but consistently agree with everything fresh and fit and even Sneako says you are sensitive af and can’t take criticism at all.

    • @baab7025
      @baab7025 Рік тому +1

      Just out of curiosity, can you give me examples on patience's videos/post where she says she agrees with Sneako or Fresh and Fit?

    • @mittey5365
      @mittey5365 Рік тому +25

      @@baab7025 I’m not talking about patience I’m talking about the red pill guys that complain all the time

    • @baab7025
      @baab7025 Рік тому +1

      @@mittey5365 Got it👍

    • @IkesPimpHand
      @IkesPimpHand Рік тому +4

      ​@@mittey5365so it's only okay when females complain?

    • @mittey5365
      @mittey5365 Рік тому +16

      @@IkesPimpHand never said or implied that

  • @discofoot6443
    @discofoot6443 Рік тому +6

    I first came across the redpill concept when I was depressed, lonely, and just frustrated. I really got into it. It went to the point that it felt like everything I was taking in was the absolute truth.
    But then one thing shook it up for me...
    A lot of the manosphere influencers follow the same patterns. Tell you how horrible women are. How marriage is not worth it. Basically tell you that no one gives a shit about you because you're a man, only 20% of the men will have a chance at gaining a woman's affection.
    Then they tell you to quit playing video games and take their course so you can start meeting the same women they just told you were so horrible.
    Yup, when they started trying to say guy who play video games were weak, or pitiful simply by virtue of playing video games... that's where the line was crossed.
    I enjoy video games. I also train in MMA at a place that has UFC fighters training out of. I also enjoy running obstacle course races. I'm also working on building a business as a side hustle. Im also former military police.
    That also made me realize that the time i was dating a lot of women was when i was playing a lot more video games than i do now, back then I really didnt care about what anyone else thought and I wasn't as stressed.
    Im only stressed more now because Im making a lot of changes in my life. But what I'm trying to get at is this, they claim that women only marry men to divorce them and take half their shit. Yet, these guys tell you that, then tell you that you have no chance with women. Then they tell you to give up stuff you love, like video games, and pay money to buy the course they sell. I'm all for the business, but at the end of the day, we all need to look at how we're influencing others. It shouldnt be at the cost of breaking people down, making them bitter, and then promising they, and only they have the magic formula.

  • @theauthenticobserver
    @theauthenticobserver Рік тому +3

    bloody brilliant video. Also never heard of the Iceland experiment, that's useful to know

  • @cthulucalamari2448
    @cthulucalamari2448 Рік тому +68

    "But if you had ten women, and one man, you'd have ten babies, and one very very happy man." Lol

  • @Yagh10
    @Yagh10 Рік тому +24

    Yea this is because populism has gotten so bad, everyone is so polarised it's so sad to see, those in the middle have to deal with both sides attacking them and very rarely is it actually a constructive conversation

  • @michaelvanderlaan5629
    @michaelvanderlaan5629 Рік тому +161

    When you're talking about differences in physical strength between men and women, you're really highlighting just how immature some red pillers really are. They haven't progressed beyond primary school maturity, I can understand why a lot of women choose to be single rather than dealing with that kind of childishness, and I really hope I haven't contributed to that experience.

    • @poogissploogis
      @poogissploogis Рік тому +1

      Primary school maturity, well said! It really is like school children, the boys think they're better because they're stronger. That is exactly how a child thinks.

    • @yongkysiaw6597
      @yongkysiaw6597 Рік тому +1

      They're a bunch of losers.

    • @Doberman_6773
      @Doberman_6773 Рік тому +15

      "I can understand why a lot of women choose to be single" - a lot of men are also choosing to be single, are you ok with that as well?

    • @michaelvanderlaan5629
      @michaelvanderlaan5629 Рік тому +43

      @Doberman 6773 tbh i don't care if men want to be single, I'm not trying to date them, so it's not a concern for me

    • @payt00n
      @payt00n Рік тому +42

      ​@@Doberman_6773 does it matter? , the point is people who embarass themselves with playground level arguments of "men are stronger so we're better".

  • @mekareactsandreviews3026
    @mekareactsandreviews3026 Рік тому +3

    Girl u are such a breath of fresh air...We need more commentators like this ..That gives a well rounded argument..and not just the extreme of either side..Thank You

  • @megangrey-hj5km
    @megangrey-hj5km Рік тому +59

    PLEASE STAY PURPLE!!!! (A USA term for centered) I'm very red, but I'm sick of tribalism and dogmatism. I LOVE your content. I LOVED your video about feminism.

    • @IkesPimpHand
      @IkesPimpHand Рік тому

      I'm not. I'm sick of having hope and love and being hated by feminists and women in return. Can't wait for commercialisation of artificial births and artificial eggs.

  • @nickdoeslife9531
    @nickdoeslife9531 Рік тому +106

    If you’re pissing off everyone, that means you’re probably spitting truths. Pure, unbiased, unapologetic truth.

    • @payt00n
      @payt00n Рік тому +2

      Not exactly true but

    • @Sg6CrossOver
      @Sg6CrossOver Рік тому +1

      just because you trigger people doesn't mean you're right, that's first class in any basic logic

  • @alisalman5917
    @alisalman5917 Рік тому +20

    I love this channel so much because she’s healthily able to see the point of views of both sides and can think for her own while inviting us to do the same. I feel like a lot of us these days are so scared of disagreeing with either side but being far right or far left isn’t 100% beneficial. It’s best to see and hear different types of opinions to not grow some bias towards another group of people.

  • @MsNadz808
    @MsNadz808 Рік тому +18

    I love listening to you, you're a breath of fresh air sis
    That Dora the Explorer joke was HILARIOUS!!!

  • @excaliburv4332
    @excaliburv4332 Рік тому +18

    There are problem people on both sides of the fence. Honestly Patience, I've only recently found your channel and your balanced take on things has been a huge breath of fresh air. We're living in an age where moderation is vilified, so it's very encouraging to see people like you speaking out. All this to say, please keep doing what you're doing. There are plenty of rational people that will support you.

  • @jjhh320
    @jjhh320 Рік тому +8

    I lost all my friends being like you. But you're doing a good thing here. Honestly, it was pretty heartbreaking and gave me some awful depression so I just checked out of society. But thanks for doing what you do and thinking critically in such a public way.

  • @Emilaria
    @Emilaria Рік тому +31

    I'm in the middle politically. You could say I was red-pilled in the fact that I was finally able to find and listen to views that more aligned with mine as being more center, or leaning slightly toward either side dependent on subject. Doing that, I've found many channels I never would have before.

  • @Alexander-nc4vy
    @Alexander-nc4vy Рік тому +42

    A lot of the Red Piller’s arguments are definitely plagued with straw man fallacies.

  • @chefboiardeeznutz9881
    @chefboiardeeznutz9881 Рік тому +23

    I think what these guys also fail to remember is, the red pill isn't exclusive in regards to women. It's about being aware of your surroundings, of people and their actions, yourself and acting accordingly to all that. Basically not being an NPC. Thinking for yourself.

    • @kathycoleman4648
      @kathycoleman4648 Рік тому

      Red Pill, much like rape, sexism, racism, misogyny, etc. has two different meanings.
      One group uses it as something given to men to make them aware of 'female nature'.
      Another group use it as a counterance to wokeness to represent an awareness of government collusion, journalistic betrayal, and general societal decay.

    • @Aurilaqq
      @Aurilaqq Рік тому +4

      Well, you can be an NPC for following either ideology, feminism, or Redpill ideology. It doesn't just apply to feminism. Its good to stay in between.

    • @chefboiardeeznutz9881
      @chefboiardeeznutz9881 Рік тому

      @@Aurilaqq I agree. That's why I take what I can from them and make up my own mind up about what makes sense.

  • @stormixondra2563
    @stormixondra2563 Рік тому +15

    Why did this video made me laugh so much “if you had 10 women and 1 man you have10 babies....and a very happy man”😭😭😭😭😭

  • @gabrielle.j
    @gabrielle.j Рік тому +3

    “And one very happy man.”
    You made me giggle with that one! Great video as always ❤

  • @tessallations378
    @tessallations378 Рік тому +16

    This was really nuanced and brave. Sending you protection and love!

  • @tommyerickson1900
    @tommyerickson1900 Рік тому +4

    I really love your levelheaded comments, and, it's really refreshing to see something not reading a script, but talking from their heart. I love your work. Keep up your good work, love.

  • @OvalRock
    @OvalRock Рік тому +18

    Thank you, Patience, for being grounded yet again. Your vid has made me realise that ‘my-gender-is-better-than-yours’ is a topic not deserving of debate.

  • @theneverending9319
    @theneverending9319 Рік тому +6

    I've literally seen many feminist say they don't need men at all. That's why men mention all the jobs men do that women won't touch.

  • @meggo329
    @meggo329 Рік тому +18

    One nursing is hard and physically challenging I also can die from contracting diseases at work like oh say a pandemic happens. Nurses have been killed by patients before and side note my mom was also a nurse when she was pregnant with me a patient almost caused her to miscarry me I won't go into details of what happened but it's not an easy job. Everyone will need a nurse and doctor in their lives so stop degrading us please. The fact that people can't understand the medical field and how hard it is hurts my soul. Shout out to all the male nurses out there ❤

  • @connerezioaltier5479
    @connerezioaltier5479 Рік тому +209

    Just don't end up like pearl...the amount of grifting she did was crimge

    • @marlonmoncrieffe0728
      @marlonmoncrieffe0728 Рік тому +1

      HOW is Pearl a grifter????

    • @emanx222
      @emanx222 Рік тому

      ​@@marlonmoncrieffe0728 lol her history of videos is literal proof. She's also quite the hypocrite. She's literally everything she shames women for being and somehow people think she's God's gift to mankind

    • @Namsu-hyeon_xxx
      @Namsu-hyeon_xxx Рік тому +2

      What is a grifter?

    • @sarawinardi6745
      @sarawinardi6745 Рік тому +57

      No, I know she won’t because she challenges both sides whereas Pearl, just criticizes women like the rest of the Manosphere.

    • @sarawinardi6745
      @sarawinardi6745 Рік тому +44

      @@marlonmoncrieffe0728 Pearl is the very person that she criticizes about. She is a 27 year old career driven woman, who is single. I don’t know if she is promiscuous but she has definitely been cheated on, which is interesting because I remember watching one of her content thinking, does she hate herself? So, yeah

  • @rejavenated
    @rejavenated Рік тому +35

    Red Piller: “men can do women’s jobs, women can’t do mens jobs” * becomes a street walker *

    • @crestfire8008
      @crestfire8008 Рік тому

      It's the opposite. Women can replace men. No man can replace a woman. Biological truths are hard to swallow for red pill guys

  • @KatieLHall-fy1hw
    @KatieLHall-fy1hw Рік тому +53

    Oh my goodness! You DID IT! You gave the best argument for the discussion about men’s job’s and women’s jobs based on the general average person! It makes SENSE! Funnies thing is I don’t think people are able to step back and be this logical about it (myself included, being honest)
    This is just so great, hats off to you! 🎉👏👏👏👏

  • @michaelfreesoul5636
    @michaelfreesoul5636 Рік тому +13

    I honestly don't understand why anyone would think we can live without each other. Even if you removed ants from society, the entire ecosphere would be affected negatively. WE ARE ALL IMPORTANT!!!

  • @jorgeoviedo870
    @jorgeoviedo870 Рік тому +24

    If you’re not like by both extreme sides of the same coin, you’re definitely doing something right.
    Aba and Preach and yourself are a breath of fresh air in this whole blue, and red pill. Y’all don’t pick sides or back up biases. Y’all criticize everything equally and fairly.

    • @juicyfruits8071
      @juicyfruits8071 Рік тому +6

      Love Aba and Preach. They get a lot of unnecessary hate from feminists and red pill alike.

  • @princesjasmyn
    @princesjasmyn Рік тому +8

    The most basic example of why men and women are equal is that each are needed to create life. Can’t have a baby without the other.

  • @chidoman1595
    @chidoman1595 Рік тому +10

    The idea that women could dissappear and society would still function is idiotic. Men build up and invest in society for their families and legacy. If all that disappears and they'll never have the chance to even have a family, why on earth would they bother to continue working if they have nothing to work towards? If men are meant to protect and provide, what happens when there's nothing to protect or provide for?

  • @iceman5413
    @iceman5413 Рік тому +3

    I think I'm a closet troll, because I absolutely love seeing people getting triggered over nonsensical things. I don't usually feed the trolls... but I love your content because you take the nonsensically triggered head-on.
    Love it!

  • @JustCallMe.Josh...
    @JustCallMe.Josh... Рік тому +8

    For what it's worth, if you make both extremes mad, you're doing something right.

  • @davidstrom2357
    @davidstrom2357 Рік тому +10

    So nice to listen to a voice so full of common sense! :)

  • @MarlopolyGaming
    @MarlopolyGaming Рік тому +7

    19:21
    Honestly you're so right.
    As someone fortuantely not chronically online, my experience is that the vast majority of people irl are just... normal lol. Most men are just doing their own thing, most women are just doing their own thing. Everyone is just trying to pay rent and eat food they like.
    The only way to win this boys vs girls game is to not play.

  • @redbruhcolli
    @redbruhcolli 10 місяців тому +1

    As a man I will say, you are most reasonable and well articulated youtube content creator, easily one of my favorites.
    Keep up the good work...

  • @cerulee
    @cerulee 9 місяців тому +1

    Some people just don't want to admit they are making themselves unhappy

  • @WattoXtreme
    @WattoXtreme Рік тому +58

    You should do a collab with Cole Hastings. He’s the only “red pill” guy that isn’t toxic and speaks logic. He’s really chill!

    • @rife133
      @rife133 Рік тому +6

      kinda an overstatement, but id agree hes cool.

    • @SomeGuy-xf9bc
      @SomeGuy-xf9bc Рік тому +6

      Coach Greg Adams and Better Bachelor are also non-toxic.

    • @WattoXtreme
      @WattoXtreme Рік тому +2

      @@SomeGuy-xf9bc haven’t heard of them

    • @Whoisit91
      @Whoisit91 Рік тому +1

      MTR is also non toxic and doesn’t even consider himself redpill

    • @WattoXtreme
      @WattoXtreme Рік тому +9

      @Long John Thilver saying women are to be treated like property is toxic

  • @Thersyl
    @Thersyl Рік тому +3

    I'm a feminist from a smaller Balkan country, I encounter discrimination on occasion that usually includes dismissing my skills in anything that's more "masculine". I worked in an IT store and people often mistoom me for a secretary or an information counter because my desk was right in front of them, but it never happened to my male colleague who sat there in the opposite shift. People would tell me to get a guy on the phone and refuse to talk to me outright. Women are still asked in job interviews if they have and want kids here and often times get fired when they get pregnant (they do it in a way that's not exactly illegal, a lot of us get a yearly contract and then they just don't renew it). The country is at the same time condemning young people for not having children.
    However! I do not agree with many "western" aspects of feminism like women being better at everything and having preferential treatment in areas that require certain levels of skills. If you want to be a firefighter, you need to be able to carry equipment and/or an unconscious person, having any leeway there could mean death.