Apparently Men Don't Want Western Women, And These Women Are Outraged About It!
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- Today we discuss passport bros and how women on TikTok are responding to them.
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I am a Thai woman and I just want to say thank you so much for speaking out for us.
I really hate how some people look down on SEA women and I believe that women around the world should be sisters, respect and help each other, instead of insulting one another like some western women do.😢
I don't think 'women' around the world should be sisters. We should only be sisters to women who love and respect us.
There's no women in Thailand
@@daytonna5015 sorry but I am not sure what is that supposed to mean?
@@leelawadeesrisamad9573 lots of lady bois 😆
@@JuicyMan-s2k thats such degenerate behaviour
I understand the sentiment of being tired of western women in modern times, nothing wrong with it. But the irony here is that the women screaming about passport bros only prove to everyone that they're leaving because of women who act like them.
Yeah the ladies in the video generally seem bitter they don’t seem like they would add to someone’s life
They're just mad because they are discovering that a lot of men don't have to settle and shut up. My husband knows his place in the household and I know mine; we both have our roles to play to make the marriage flourish.
It’s unfortunate because as a Argentinian who emigrated to the US 4 years ago to a lovely rural town, I’ve heard stories of some traditional modest American ladies who are struggling to find a man at their area. Mind you majority of the men here are eldery/married. I have recommended them they can always look overseas as well.
Amen to that!
@@Mr_megido they don’t want to add to someone’s life. They want a guy to give them the world, just because they’re so amazing apparently. That’s why nobody wants to date them. Narcissism and a “What can I get out of this?” attitude.
Think they're confusing human trafficking with dating someone from another culture
They are doing it on purpose.
True! This 'white men dating Asian woman is fetishisation' gets dragged out and ridden round for a while every so often until they (possibly) realise that opposing mixed-race relationships is racist.
@@houseofhas9355 Still not trafficking. Despite what movies show, people DO tend to date other people, regardless of where they're from, 'on purpose.' I think it's important to be honest about that. If you are looking for a life partner, why not say so? Better chance of someone responding if they know where you stand. Too often people who are attracted just tap dance around each other because they're afraid they'll be rejected or worse, accused of harassment if they speak out about their perfectly natural romantic interest in another human being! That's not objectification, which trafficking IS.
@@cmm5542 I think they meant those people are confusing 'dating overseas' with 'human trafficking' on purpose.
They’re just jealous lol I’ve seen it before. I’ve known American women who actually admitted to the fact that they are jealous that guys like women from other cultures
I married a non-western, non-white, moderately younger and educated girl. 15 years and 2 children later I bumped into an old friend (I'll call her Karen) she told me straight up "to watch out" because she is probably after my money .. Really?? Wow...
Anyway we are still going strong after more than 20 years. Thanks Patience Xina for your thoughtful content.
Pretty brave to get married at 15! Hope all is good man
Karen did not have a clue..
@@darkenergy. lol, funny, people have no shame!
@@CBman11037???
@@CBman11037you can’t read… he clearly said”15 years later “
I'm an American man that has been married to my wife of 9 years who was born in China. My wife is far from vulnerable and did not come from poverty. Her family's large apartment is much nicer than the house I grew up in as a kid. She is very independent and I married her because we love each other, that's it. These people don't even realize that they're the ones being racist by thinking they are all poor, uneducated, and can't speak English very well. Yes those cases do exist but it's much different from say 20 years ago.
But you're not a passport bro. The people referred to as passport bros are men who had a specific agenda in going over there
My cousin married a woman from Thailand, who is still currently married to that woman while he's living in America. They waited until she finished her college education in her home country, an English major, before they got married. She's absolutely stunning and they are both in love. My cousin always found himself attracted to women from that area. I guess that makes him a passport bro? I guess it really boils down to letting people make their own choices and not judging. Now if these women are forced into these relationships, that's a different story
most of the ones that these guys are going for are in fact poor and desperate.
I have an auntie from Thailand and an auntie from Columbia, that married into my white Australian family. They are probably the two loveliest and kindest women in our family. And my auntie from Columbia married a man who was almost 20 years older, bald, and she earned more than him. It’s so horrible how women are making these horrible stereotypes about people from other countries. ❤️
@R. Walker how do we know that most of these men are? I'd like to see some studies on that. Not to mention, I had a coworker who was considerd a "Brazilian bride" and she decided to stay married, she fell in love, she was happy she was given the opportunity to live in the states. She ultimately got her Masters degree. Do I agree with "buying" brides? Not really no, but im just saying it's hard to make judgements about these situations when we really don't know the whole story. I had some harsh judgements about my friend being "bought" but she assured me she was actually very grateful. She also told me she made the decision and no one forced her into it. My point is not that "buying brides" is good, because i already forsee the projection of some people painting me as saying so, all im trying to say is we really need to understand these stories and these situations. We can't make assumptions
as a woman from southeast asia... pretty insulting for *some people* to think that we're uneducated when the stuff i learn in middle school is being taught to much older kids in US high schools. Pure ignorance for them to think we're "poor" and "uneducated". Also, most of us are multilingual. You should see some of the fearsome women in my society - "happy wife, happy life" is a thing here too 😂
Patience said it so well - people move overseas for different reasons! Love is love, as long as they're compatible, why not?
I been living in Thailand from the US and gotta say woman out here are smarter on what is important in life and in academics since in America now its all about how smart you feel not how well you can perform.
Well put Alexandra. I live in the Philippines, people here are often better educated than the US, and everyone speaks 2 or 3 languages. Americans just can't keep up. And when I taught high school in California, Asian kids were clearly superior. Our school was 10% SE Asian refugee kids, but they were FIFTY% of the Honor Roll. And these kids lived in quite rough conditions, poor neighorhoods etc. All of us wanted to teach them instead of the lazy foul mouthed American kids.
@@bgyoung-rv6ioyou taught in California of course they dumb there
they couldnt even point out where SE Asia is on a map
honestly though teaching complicated stuff to younger kids often backfires here by creating a lower level of comprehension
AS a woman from Chile in South America, who just moved to USA and married a white man. I AM EXTREMELY OFFENDED by all these women you showed. Im billingual, an ESL teacher and a computer programmer. Im just a respectful person, something i guess these women lack.
Meanwhile a lot of these girls probably can't even name 5 countries on a map XD
Right, I am from a third world country and know many people who went to the states and became valedictorian students, especially women.
Go crazy but most western women don’t want the bare minimum but if that how you roll then you do you 🤷🏽♀️
@@bluemoon2258 I'm truly curious, what's the "bare minimum"?
@@catanawithc be 6ft, 6 figures, 6+ inches, etc.
I'm a 60 year old white male. My wife died last year. The only relatives who visited me in my home were my Ugandan cousins. The 4 of my Ugandan visitors included 1 PhD, 1 MD, and one future MD., who was the affianced of the other daughter of the PhD and sister of the MD. No other group of 4 of my American relatives could assemble such a high degree of education.
Ignorance is usually the loudest. When I see a story I like, I wish them good luck,great story,glad to hear it.because I truly am.we need of that.
As a Colombian woman living in the Netherlands, I have seen both cases; men with very vulnerable women that are not educated that get subjugated to a miserable life and I have seen women that are educated in equal partnerships, work, money, independent personalities.
Women also have the predatory behavior to go to other countries to find young men willing
You're right, the old old usually retired Caucasian women do go to other countries to buy men.
@@shannonacker5215that one white woman on 90 day fiancé pressuring her Latino husband for sex that was actually gay is a great example.
@@nodruj8681 for you to think that all white people/men have "money" is sad and a racial issue. Hoe expensive do you think it is to get a person from poverty stricken places. It costs as much as the plane ticket home. Maybe a few hundred for their families. One disability check can cover that. BUT.... I will say this, getting with certain men with certain benefits and homes is a good wealth building strategy for some foreign women. When he dies or when they divorce, her lifestyle that he provided has to be maintained, so she gets a house and a car, spousal support and part of his pension whole he's still alive. If he's a vet or in the military.... more benefits. Or, they marry one guy while waiting on the next person to come along with more money and assets. Some just want a better life period. Anything may be better than what they had. Im not saying they're ALL poor though.
But you have not seen women who are humble, respectful, traditional, and yet happily married? You have been brainwashed by feminist propaganda.
I've seen the vise versa as well. Women from a third world country try to hook some older rich western men for money. I mean, I get what they're doing, its what people call here "work smarter than harder". But its still morally reprehensible. What's important at this point is that both sides knows what they are getting at. Ive seen couples like this live in harmony even if they started in a morally questionable way.
I moved to Japan, met my wife in a month, started a relationship with her within 3 months, and still happily together in Japan 14 years later. It was the best decision I ever made
Japan is a first world country. They are not talking about it.
@@Guremien either way it dosent matter. Do you find women from 3rd world countries are stupid and broke and don’t have opinions.
Marrying a foreign women because you moved to a foreign country is very different from deliberately targeting desperately poor, ignorant, and extremely vulnerable women in order to use and abuse and turn into your maid and punching bag who can’t ever escape because she has been shipped overseas. You must not know at all what the passport bro rhetoric and practice are.
@@winxclubstellamusa so if your from a different country from America that automatically make you dumb, naive and easy to gaslight and manipulate. That sounds a bit racist.
@@Lemmy.129 first of all, I am an immigrant. Second, have you listened to what they want from a woman and how they go about finding them??!! They literally just want maids, nannies, and punching bags to wait on them forever while they act like entitled children!! They are NOT real men, let alone traditional men, nor do they know how to or want to treat women well. These guys are users and abusers, not protectors and providers. They deliberately go to the poorest countries and target the poorest and most vulnerable women who will accept anything just to get out of the extreme poverty and starvation that she is in, and the real life stories of the survivors of the human trafficking phenomenon that is being called “passport bros” speak for themselves. They think that a traditional or feminine women is one who will accept to be a maid and a punching bag and will never demand to be loved and respected, and is not educated at all. They do NOT seek out there equals when they travel, they target the vulnerable to predate upon.
And YES, certain vulnerable women are 100% very easy to gaslight and manipulate. And you’d be a fool to not think that is true.
I suggest you actually look into the repercussions and details of this phenomenon before you defend it, unless if you are an enabler of abuse, in which case, shame on you.
I love that all these women are assuming these "non-western women" are poor and uneducated, while also claiming that men are the ones looking down on these women. It's UNREAL the lack of self-awareness.
My ex philipina gf used to buy me meals I helped her through college she used to work from Monday to Saturday every week -____- she is an architect now it was an online thing.
Exactly, I was going say these women lack self-awareness, but you said it first. This compilation is a good example of how American women claim and shame men base on perception and not reality. It's ironic they think they are smarter when in reality, women abroad are more intelligent emotionally and intellectually. Bottom line, men feel naturally attracted to women who are in touch with their femenine side, so there not much choice for American men other than moving abroad.
@@10.league That's 100% it.
@@10.league If they don't put down non-western women, they have to look at themselves. Which means they would have to work on themselves. By blaming those women they are victims.
Yeah it's pure ignorance.
I am a Western Woman and I agree with this 100%. Everyone is TOO into other people's business. If that's a man's choice, you can not do anything about it. You CAN NOT control who likes you and who doesn't. If you're jealous, then build yourself up and BE worth choosing. And start with your jealousy. It doesn't look good on anyone.
Men who leave are the leftovers though.
@@mortizmortiz You're proving her point.
@@mortizmortizsaid beanface
@@mortizmortiz Hope she see this, bro
@@yassinehannachi6871 did I lie though?
It's hilarious and disturbing, that these women don't see the correlation between them hating men and men not wanting them. They genuinely don't understand that men don't want to argue over every single issue, every single day. Nobody wants to live walking on eggshells
That is true however some men are deluded to think that women elsewhere are different. also its disgusting how some men would go to foreign countries and would target poor barely speaking young girls who do not have strong finances. It happens in my country and women are wary to watch out of predatory foreigners.
Yeah like, I only have an issue with bringing over someone who doesn’t speak the language and would feel isolated and would then be generally vulnerable. But of course, unless you are a bad person, you’d probably prefer someone you can have a conversation with and get along with, negating this possibility
@@teaja211 that can be true. I know it happens, but awful people are wont to do awful things... I do not condone them. But just as long as we treat everyone as it's own case, then we're gold.
Subbed today, cause this Xina is anti-woke, good woman, and don't hate men blindly, like feminists now do.
Yep :)
As an Eastern European woman myself, I can assure this tiktokers - I'm perfectly capable of defending myself and I'm not vulnerable, thank you very much
Western men, myself included love Eastern European women not because Eastern European women are gullible, morons who are mindless, helpless dames they love them so much because these European women are feminine, they are women, they are not offended by being a woman, they don't find it beneath them to be a woman, they are not trying to be a man, they are very happy being a woman.
We also love these women because they don't think it is below them to be respectful to a man, they don't find the job and role of being a wife as one that is below them, that needs a constant justification of, (oh but I also have my own job on the side, or Oh I'm also my own person), they find being a wife as a high honor.
The idea that these feminine women are walk overs shows that these modern Western women have no idea who these women are, they should visit Africa, Russia, Latvia, Estonia, e.t.c or places like Thailand and see what real strength looks like, but this strength is not mean spirited and disagreeable.
Even though wokeism has not reached Eastern Europe entirely and women there may not have the benefits, western women have, eastern european women mostly feel far more emancipated even though many there do not like the current form of feminism. Women there always feel like they are ready for combat.
Eastern european are tge same or worse tgen in us
Eastern European women are on average a lot tougher than American women. Where they have anxiety and tons of triggers and phobias, your average EU woman has been raised to take whatever life hits her with with a stiff upper lip and just push on because someone has to. Also, I wouldn't really say EU women are less demanding, they just are generally less full of themselves and egocentric in outlook (this goes for the men as well, generally).
@@DirkLoechel well women acroos the globe are similar, MONEY speaks best to them
I'm the daughter of a mixed-race couple that met overseas (during the nineties, they were originally penpals), my mother had a college education and a job before she married my dad and was very much fluent in English (as it's part of the primary education children receive in the Philippines). She knew exactly what she was getting into when she married my American father and even nursed him when he was injured (he was in the Navy at the time and they were dating at the time). Though my dad got flack for marrying outside of his race/nationality from some of his friends, he doesn't have any regrets. They've been happily married for over thirty years now.
Beautiful 😍
And Filipinas are amazing women full of qualities like caring, family oriented, nurturing, nursing, hard working, clean, conservative, religious. I am so happy for your parents! God bless!
Nice perspective!
My wife is Filipino, and we have been married for 21 years. I didn't catch flak for marrying outside my race, but I did get the "she is only here for a green card" speech from several people. We came to the US because of ME, not her. She was content with staying in Dubai. The funny thing is, all 3 of the guys who gave me that speech were married at the time, and all 3 are now divorced.
These dumb bitches in this video have NO IDEA what they are talking about. I speak Tagalog, but I haven't needed it any time that I have been to the Philippines because just about everyone speaks English. If Asian women are so submissive, then someone forgot to tell me wife because she is FAR from submissive. These women are just threatened, that's all. They treat men like shit and wonder why those men go somewhere else.
To them, I would say, "Maybe the problem isn't THEM. Maybe it's YOU"
That’s the cutest little story, Penpals! 🥰 They’re adorable. Please hug them for us 😊 so sweet 🥹
That's so sweet of a love story! 🥺💖💖God bless your parents
As a woman from the DR (Dominican Republic) born and raised, calling us uneducated is extremely ignorant. Although we're Spanish speakers most of us learn English, specially because many people work in the hospitality industry. Also I have many friends pursuing a master degree and some are even going for their phd. Personally, I speak 5 languages and going for my 6th. So yeah, just because we're a 3rd world country doesn't mean everyone is uneducated.
You don't have to prove yourself to these close minded ppl.all they know about foreign countries is 90day fiancee.
@@xLeo-ee4gc LMAO true!
As a woman living in Brasil, I can say most dont speak english here unfortunately.
@@brendielahooha But that doesn't mean Brasilieras are as dumb as dirt and naive, which is always on the lists of the racist, poorly-educated women making claims about women passport bros pursue overseas. There are many countries in Eastern Europe, for example, whose population speaks German much more fluently and frequently than English.
My dad did this about 20 years ago. He would go on and on about how "Asian women are more subservient and better wife material" and how women like my mother are too "difficult", so he married a woman with four kids, brought her overseas, and now he's working insane hours while she takes pictures of herself in front of expensive cars and spends money on handbags.
L father
That's usually what happens.
I mean…
Is she Asian?
LOL! That's unfortunate🤣
im a girl from a small slavic country and some of us want to marry a man who lives abroad bc we're attracted by a different way of thinking and u dont see anyone calling us predators so its a double standard as well
Wish you best of luck in finding the partner you deserve!
@@serenityssolace aww thank u, the same goes for u! ☺️
@@ilfioredeldeserto-gk3mg I'm czech, moved overseas for work experience, not dating haha, that came as a consequence of me staying here for a while
That's a personal attraction thing, and not a prospect of taking advantage of someone though. Two different things.
I wanna date a man who thinks like me and it's very hard to find a single man like that at home so off to the west I go! 🤣 (I'm from South East Asia and I'm dating an American)
I'm a Taiwanese woman who got married to an American white man. I'm appalled by those women's claims. As if non-western women can't make their own decision and SAVE themselves(if they even need to be saved)? I was not raised in poverty, I got a college degree and am self-employed. And I MADE MY OWN DECISION on marrying my husband because he's a DECENT HUMAN BEING. Which is what those women failed to be apparently.
That’s because you don’t understand American men’s expectations. They want a baby maker and maid servant. They don’t see you as an equal but as a trophy. A lot of these guys are going oversees to find VERY young, young enough to be their daughters, women who are often, otherwise, impoverished and disempowered. We aren’t jealous in general. We feel sorry for all the unsuspecting women who are being duped. A lot of these guys are nothing more than predators
Yeah usually happens in western societies they think they are the centre of the world lol 😂
What @Cash App said above me, a lot of the time in America people see other counties as usually inferior, or as pure hell hole. We take the worst about said country, and make it our entire perspective of that county, which we will then treat as if they need saving or are dumb. I think Africa is a good example, where people see Africa as only as a super poor hell-hole, I almost never hear about the normal cities there, that have nice buildings like in the US or anything good about Africa, just that Africa is only a awful poor place. Likely this extends to how people in America may see women in other counties, where again, they see all of the women of those countries as submissive, bowing down, naive, and non-the-wiser, and need saving.
Truly awesome! I am glad you two found each other!
Long live China 🇨🇳 and xi Jin ping
The classism, arrogance, and bitterness from these women is shocking yet not at all surprising at the same time. We've been heading towards this for a long time.
I dont understand. Why dont these women do the same thing and go abroad? Why would you make yourself miserable on purpose?
Because the qualities that are chasing the men away, aren't attractive to men abroad either. They would actually have to take personal accountability and work on themselves, in order to stop being miserable. But it's easier to blame everyone else. Sooooo . .
Men overseas are pretty traditional, the majority at least. So I don’t think they would want modern western women either
They do
Because these women would have no value abroad lol Western men go abroad and have much success because ultimately we are the highest status men in the world on average. If western men aren't good enough for western women then nobody is. They won't find taller men outside the west, they won't find wealthier men outside the west, they won't find less patriarchal controlling men outside the west and they certainly won't find men who put up with their shit outside of the west.
No one will want them.. they are hideous
funny how a lot of western women reduce women overseas to these vulnerable, uneducated people without opinions. My mom is from Indonesia and believe me she has her opinions ready for whenever, isn't vulnerable at all and has a master degree but she also knows how to be a wife that supports my dad and her family.
Xina, you are 100 percent correct. As a Filipino woman, the women in these tiktoks are so freaking offensive for assuming that we are stupid or weak just because of where we are from. I'm strong enough that I could kick my man's ass if I wanted to, but I don't do that because I'm not an asshole. You've just earned yourself a new subscriber. I'm looking forward to more videos!
Exactly
But you can’t deny the extreme amounts of abuse that these non-western women endure!!! We can’t say that most of these instances of targeting and trafficking are extremely dangerous situations where they are choosing the most desperately poor women in order to make his maid, they are NOT looking for their educated equals.
Xoxo
But if they are like that on social media imagine how they act behind closed doors or when the camera is not on could you live with that poison everyday?
I have just one question because im interested in your perspective...what do u think about very old western guys going to a county like the Philippines and getting with a very young girl (16 for example) dont u think there is a power imbalance, financial and age wise ,don't you think it may play a factor for the younger girl to be in many situations she cant say no to
I'm Russian, and I currently live in Germany with my German husband. We even have an age difference. However, I never planned it and neither did he - we just met at work and fell in love. I speak three languages (Russian, English and German), have Master’s degree, British certification in occupational health and safety, currently applying for another Master’s and have aspirations for PhD. I worked as a Nautical officer onboard of chemical tankers and now manage part of training department in a big international company. I also left my beautiful technologically advanced St. Petersburg (metropolis) to live in a tiny town in Germany because I love my husband.
So, all these assumptions about poverty, low education, submissiveness and others are ignorant and ridiculous. There are people like that, there are also gold diggers and people who just interested in a submissive partner, but it's definitely not okay to paint everyone like that.
I don't know why the word submission is considered profanity but my wife willingly submits herself to me. I met her in Columbia and her family's businesses are extremely successful. I married my wife because she is a wonderful human being, she treats me like a king, and yes she is also physically beautiful. She is an even better wife after 15 years of marriage than she was when I married her.
Good for you,much luck to you and your husband.
you listed all that Like anyone cares 💀
@ohlilu: that is very impressive but you will find that the people that cast insults are usually not very bright and most likely have not done very much traveling. I hope you and your husband have a very long and happy life together.
I dont understand your comment. Your relationship seems very normal.
Is your husband a “passport bro”? Did he explicitly leave his country to a eastern country for like a month whilst hunting for a more agreeable traditional wife?
Or was it a standard encounter and marriage? After all, you did say you met at work right? So you guys probably lived in the same country. He didnt go out of the borders of where he lived searching a wife.
The “passport bros” that people are speaking of also dont want a working woman. They prefer a stay at home woman, which are harder to find in the US and other western countries.
I am very happy for you and your husband and wish the best for your relationship, but I dont think it fits the category..
I'm Asian American women but was born and raised in Asia and you articulated everything I felt. These women can feel whatever they feel about passport bros but don't you find it ironic that these "empowered" women didn't bat an eye while demeaning and insulting foreign women who they never seen or talk to before? Where do they get these ignorant superiority from comparing themselves to foreign women? Is America the only place women get educated or can have an opinions? If I was a man and needed to deal with these kinds of bigoted closed minded women, I would be looking elsewhere too.
Preach!!
Yes 👍👍👍👍👍👍
Woke culture. Originated from black culture.
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Love your pragmatic, logical and common sense commentary on this topic. I'm a white English guy but I spent much of my childhood in Central Africa. I have nothing but respect and affection for the people of Africa. It really grates on me to see these videos of American women making ignorant presumptions about the economic, educational and social status of non American women. Well done with your channel. Keep up the great work!
In your experience, are African women living in Africa conservative and submissive? (in the good sense always)
@@serenityssolace hell to the nah lmao
@@serenityssolace Hi, It's hard to generalize. Africa is vast with so many cultures. (It is bigger than the USA, China, India, Japan and half of Europe combined). Where I lived I'd say the women in general worked harder than the men and the culture was more male dominated. However the women were pretty forthright and not at all timid. It's complex because there are christian and Muslim cultures living side by side and each one is different.
@@serenityssolace Africa is not one country. In Nigeria alone there are over 400 tribes. It’s extremely vast
@@joshmiller9783 I'm not so sure about that. The USA is 13th in GDP per Capita, so not even in the top ten. Besides the obvious oil rich gulf states, the average wage in the USA is below Norway, Switzerland, Ireland, Hong Kong, Singapore. USA is only a hair above the rest of Scandinavia and not much above Germany, The Netherlands and a bunch of others. So 'USA are the 1% globally?' Hardly.
My thoughts on this passport bros thing.
I’m a mixed Asian and to be honest, I was quite surprised seeing these females berating and belittling women from third world country like Thailand, Philippines (my country), Indonesia, Dominican Republic, etc… saying we can’t speak/communicate in English and barely have education!? I’m trilingual (International languages, not dialect), can evidently communicate in English eloquently, educated and lastly, have a great career.
Screaming “empowerment” and taking “feminism” equivalent to ‘entitlement’ is just another level. Most of these girls I’ve seen in these videos who claimed to be feminists (girl power just because they have vagg which they consider as the ‘prize’ 🙄) demands respect, yet don’t feel the need to respect others back. They whine, complain, and berate others as if they are a superior race than the women from third world countries. Sounds familiar? Hint: Supremacy.
These girls expect the men to do everything for them - and them NOT having to do ANYTHING. What is empowering about that? They demand for things to be done for them that they can’t even do for themselves. Just observe, listen and pay attention to their words. Anyone who’s smart enough can tell they aren’t looking for a partner but a sugar daddy. Bitter truth hurts.
I’m a truly empowered and independent woman. While I exercise my masculinity at work (making decisions for people under my wing), I can still be domesticated and be completely feminine at home to a man who can match my energy, visions and goals that both me and my man can ACTUALLY (note: not just by thoughts or ideal, but actual) work hard on to achieve together. That is what empowerment’s about! Empowerment is about taking accountability and ownership by actually working on something that you grow from, for yourself and the people around you.
My word to these girls:
ENTITLED, you are. EMPOWERED, you are not.
ARROGANCE, you have. SINCERITY, you lack of.
A GIRL, you are. A WOMAN, you have yet to become.
Yours truly,
J.
#sorrynotsorry #truthbetold #womensmonth
so that's the solution for these gross old men to go to asian countries to commit sextourism
I agree 1000%
You would 100 percent not take a man seriously who is feminine at work and masculine at home.
Amen!
@@lilblock3564 girl let them figure it out. If ur not wanted by the whole opposite sex in the whole country, that speaks volumes. She’s right how about other countries have a better school system tho.
One of my best friends who definitely struggled with women went to Indonesia, met a nice Indonesian lady, got married, and is doing great. It’s been interesting seeing some of the reactions within the friend group about it- and it speaks quite a bit to xenophobia and views on other countries.
You're allowed to have your preferences! It's not a racist thing. If men want to date women from other locations, that's fine!! There is no difference in meeting someone overseas and marrying them vs having someone immigrate to your country and meeting them that way and then getting married. Yes, there are absolutely predatory people out there that want vulnerable partners and they seek them out and prey on them, but that isn't the case with EVERY man.
From experience. Most women don't want to come to the U.S for two reason. Because 1. they don't want to leave their families. 2. America has a bad reputation as unsafe, & unstable place to live. They see our news.
@@hette457 As a fellow man, we have to admit that there are many predators and men exploiting the sex tourism industry
@@hette457no, what she said was fine. She didn’t specify an amount. She neither said most or a small amount of men, she simply said “there are absolutely predatory people out there”. You’re just arguing to argue
@@hette457 No. What she said was fine because we don't know how most men think. Women still need to be careful
I am not going to trust most men. Or most people period. I don't know you.
@@hette457 “but that isn’t the case with EVERY man”. They already stated it’s not every man, guess you didn’t read that part huh
Men just want to go somewhere they are appreciated and respected. And feeling needed isn't such a terrible thing either. What's actually offensive is acting like woman in other countries must be so dumb and weak that they can't choose a decent partner for themselves. There's amazing and smart woman all over the world!
It's not about being dumb or weak. It's about that fact that men like this specifically target women who are living in poverty and are looking for a way out. When you're dirt poor and you can barely afford to feed your kids, you're not dumb or weak for wanting to marry a rich American so you can give yourself and your kid a better future. If anything, it's a pretty smart thing to do, but it doesn't change the fact that a lot of these women get treated like dirt by the men they marry because they have a savior complex going on. Just look ad Ed and Rose from 90 day fiancé and try telling me that's not what's going on.
@@thelemurofmadagascar9183 There's woman in poverty in the west too, if all you want is to be a wallet, so its not that. I agree that its a smart choice for the girls though. Many of these are good guys who want respect because that's what they give in return.
no one ism stopping them. Why not just go, why make videos of themselves over there acting just as creepy as they do in the usa, filming women without their consent and what not. Weirdos.
Just like any normal functioning human of society would.
@@r.walker7986 there you feminists go again with that victim card nonsense when are y’all gonna realize that y’all do the same exact sh1t? stop tryna act like ur superior there are literal cougars praying around and taking advantage of teens like me and no one says sh1t bout it.
I was a waitress for 10 years and saw some interesting things. I saw couples that represented this dynamic that were perfectly healthy and then others...not so much; I've seen situations where the woman seemed taken advantage of and I've seen some where the man was. So it's not always what you might think. Everything, in the end, is a case by case basis. Because there are non "passport bro" relationships that are healthy and unhealthy and has nothing to do with the man or woman being from somewhere else.
Yes this.
Great take. Thanks.
You said absolutely nothing. I was reading waiting for you to make a point one way or the other but no, just polite anecdotal nothing. Thanks I guess.
@@Liu-Kang-Xi my point is anyone can be an asshole, doesn’t matter if they’re a passport bro or not. And it’s not always the passport bro being taken advantage of in those situations. Crappy people abound. Thanks for the comment I guess.
@@kelley4882 Oh okay. It checks out or wtv 🤙
Many years ago, long before the term "passport bros" was coined, I had a couple of friends who just went ballistic about men who married non-Western women. I could never understand why they took it so personally -- one of them wasn't even interested in marriage. And after all, the men who wanted non-Western wives were hardly the sort of men they wanted anyway, so again, why care?
They likely took it as a form of rejection. Even if a bad looking guy tells these women they are not interested, their ego will take a massive hit.
@@mishaa9563 They also don't like competition.
The trend of women villifying anything that excludes them personally from a person's dating pool, or preferances, continues, surprising absolutely no one.
The audacity to call it predatory, as if foriegn woman can't possibly consent. To say that they are "taking advantage of poor women, who are only going along with them, for financial gain, and opportunity;" When these are all the same women who want a rich man, top 1%, someone to buy and pay for everything they want . . OK. Sure.
But damn they turn racist real quick, when it serves their ego. Like "these foreign women can't possibly have any agency, or make decisions for themselves."
Most women in foreign countries are more educated than the average American. I married a Thai woman who had a chef's degree from a university, and speaks 3 languages. She's not meek or unwilling to give an opinion, as some people would like you to think. Vulnerable? She has 4 brothers, so I'd better toe the line! I have now been married over 10 years. People shouldn't condemn others for making choices that they simply don't like. There will not me a man shortage in the West.
How much happier would people be if they stopped complaining on social media and take better care of themselves. A lot of issues could be solved by exercising, healthy diet, therapy and think outside your own little world, try to see things from a different point of view.
Apparently they're like to bashing and riddicule other women more.
Imagine minding your own business and then your country get a wave of passport bros. You wondering what is happening, while you and your country get hate and bad mouth from a lot of angry women on social media whom giving that ex gf energy.
Because it’s easier to have no accountability, go with the crowd, and aim for hedonism. People need to realise that a victim mentality might make you feel good and get you likes on social media, but it’s not attractive.
This is the result of victimhood mentality. Blaming others for not being decent enough for people to date them.
I married outside the US in a “third world”, and she is anything but vulnerable. And she would find it insulting what these women are saying.
I do worry that some men are going with with little to no idea about those cultures and they could put themselves in a bad situation.
How did you meet her? I’m curious! Do you have any littles?
Yeah, I love the line where they say that all of these women are submissive. My wife (Filipino) is anything but
They conflate submissive with enslavement, when it only means that you submit to the man's leadership, as a man does for his boss at work, to help the business become better. Submissive merely means not combative, non-confrontational and cooperative.
“Oh, no! Our customers are shopping elsewhere! Our monopoly is threatened! What do we do? Should we improve the product? Give better customer service?”
“No, that’s just too much work! Let’s insult the customers and tell lies about the competition until the customers come back!”
Brilliant!
Damn this is actually a good analogy
American women : we hate men
American men : aight so imma go get my passport
American women : *surprised Pikachu face
@Kim maybe women could change themselves and Take responsibility for their Actions instead of being bad women
@@user-fh1di6zk4wThat’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. Especially considering the fact that many American women say go where you’re celebrated not where you’re tolerated
@Kim Its always men that need to do something huh? Never you saintly broads huh?
@@user-fh1di6zk4w🤣🤣🤣🤣 how many cats do you have already
@Kim You think this as running when it is not running men historically are going to get theres. America was made from men saying fuck the royal family and leaving. So men don't have to change nobody wants to come home to a headache.
I want to share my observation, these passport bros are everywhere. I live in Poland, so probably according to passport bros from Western countries, we as eastern European women are what they’re looking for. But according to Polish men we funnily enough are not. A while back after the war in Ukraine had started which resulted in a lot of Ukrainian women to move here, facebook was flooded with pages like „Polish men looking for an Ukrainian wife”. Most of the posts on these pages centered around Polish men complaining about the very same things as the men shown in this video 😂
Mayne Polish women have become too feminist and modern
Hilarious.
and the thing is, I met quite some ukrainian women so far and they're not much different from us XDD
As a Ukrainian woman, gotta admit, Ukrainian women are westernized as well (the consequences of western influence, ofc), but sometimes they may be not as demanding as Western women.
Essentially, it's a matter of degree, because, for example, sometimes Ukrainians are a lil extreme even for me. I can't even start thinking about the actual Western women in these issues.
Szczerze to przed wojną już mieliśmy wysyp takich reklam i stronek 🤣
As a woman, I can confirm that you're so right about female behavior when it comes to rejection. That's exactly how we roll. Slay Queen! 🤣
I wish more women were honest like you 2 👏
The passport men are going overseas and finding nice women to date or marry but I notice that overseas men are not rushing to America to date these women. Pretty telling I'd say.
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Hi Patience, as a woman from Africa, you have shown yourself to be far more articulate and intelligent than all of these western women making comments. Your video pauses are well timed with very good points being made.
@unbiasedreviews6167i guess a different perspective since most of her audience is western
@unbiasedreviews6167 that she's a woman from Africa?
@Unbiased Reviews you mentioned you were born in Africa.
My opinion is that you showed yourself to be more articulate and intelligent than those ladies making the comments.
Did this offend?
@@BikersDoItSittingDown You do realise Patience wasn't who wrote that comment right?😂 so I don't know why you replied as if you're speaking to her directly
@@joonasjantti4175i don't know... she's still Western though cause she was raised and educated in the West. But I guess she has a blended perspective cause she wasn't born in the West
From personal experience I have chatted with women from the Philippines. They know excellent English, they AREN'T submissive as these women think, they just know WHEN TO ACT submissive to make their men happy. They have pride, they have standards, they are SMART, EDUCATED and sometimes sly and smart to the point of manipulating men and getting their money. But most of my experiences are very positive on that regard and their pride wouldn't allow them to accept any form of payment. Also many of them don't even want to move to the west and prefer to live in a certain level of poverty because they are emotionally rich (because of their family culture.) They aren't entitlement, they are family oriented and know how to take care of their man, they are beautiful but not narcissistic and they always make your day brighter
The whole submission talk is giving some of these women too much credit.
All it really boils down to is being a kind person with basic manners.
@@themarathoncontinues4211 True!
Nobody prefers poverty 😂
@@somegrill7561 You have just never met people with pride😂
I knew a white man arab woman couple. Outside of the house he was in charge. But everything inside and related to the house was her domain.
I feel like shows like "90 days fiance" are the reason why so many people see those men as predators. Think about Big Ed with Rose, a Filipino woman: she was nothing but amazing, and he obviously just wanted someone who would feel so greatfull by his mediocrity that would sleep with him and just be quiet. I've dealt with American guys thinking they could buy me just because I'm Brazilian, like I was starving or something. Essentially, that's just Americans being Americans, always thinking they are better than everyone else
In the end of the day I feel annoyed by most Americans (men and women) who will search abroad for all the wrong reasons as much as I do by those people thinking that women from other countries that not USA or west European are all so helpless and ignorant.
@@min181094 speak your truth
@@min181094 helpless and ignorant? How? Are the East Asians helpless and ignorant? What?
@@harharharharharharharharha240 I'm sorry, english is not my first language, but I meant that that's not the case, but many Americans seems to see it that way - and that's annoying
@@min181094 oh sorry I misunderstood i missed out a line yes I agree with you I am so sorry sister
There was actually a reverse kind of discussion in my home country. A female writer stated that Swedish men were boring and she much preferred Italian men. The next day a male writer replied in relatively simple terms. If you want Italian men, then go meet them we're not going to force you to date us. Who knows maybe the Italian women might be interested in us.
thats why pewdiepie go for marzia
Can you elaborate further on this aspect of the dating scene in Sweden please? I genuinely want to learn more about it.
There is not so much to say, the female writer stated that Swedish men were not romantic enough and lacked ambition, drive, passion and intiative. She prefered her experience of dating in Italy, where she felt the men pursued her more passionately. Whether her experience can be extrapolated to the nation as a whole for both countries I couldn't say.
A good buddy of mine has been talking to this girl from Vietnam and he recently just met her for the first time in her city. He told me she was waiting for him at the airport with a huge bouquet of flowers and was holding a "welcome" sign with the biggest smile on her face. He literally got engaged to her 5 days later and when I asked what made him do that so quickly, he told me he's never met a woman who was feminine, friendly, and respectful before in his life.
He's planning to officially leave the US behind and move out there next year which is insane to me but I'm happy for him.
I know one guy too like this. He isn't that good looking or has some huge sum of money instead he struggled with it and was suicidal.
Went to vietnam for work and met a receptionist. She fell hard for him and would do anything to be with him. She let him stay in her home, gave him her vehicle, cooked, cleaned for him. Everything a man can expect from a woman. He came out of depression and was so thankful for her. Truly that woman is sent from heaven.
They're married now and have a kid. Really a lucky guy to have found such a woman.
@@sushilsharma4202: I have a coworker that found his wife in Vietnam a few years ago. He is very in love and happy with her.
Saw this guy on richie Mac channel 30yr difference in Thailand, he said got to leave it to someone.
@@sushilsharma4202 That was so heartwarming to hear. What a lucky chap.
I completely agree with what you were saying Patience, my nan came here from Jamaica and although she didn't have the education we have today, that didn't mean that she was not intelligent. People conflate intelligence with education, but they are not the same thing. And people assume that just because someone lives in a third world country or a country that's not first world that they cannot possibly have a good life there at all. It's the 'I'm better than them' mentality that is what's chasing men away.
Keep up the great work, love watching your videos.
Ps. Your laugh is so cute.
THIIISSSS!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Filipino here! I didn't go to college but I will run circles around you if we're talking world history 🤣
Also people conflate intelligence with speaking English. Many people who can't speak English are brilliant! And many who do speak English are as dim as the abyssal plain.
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AGREE 100%! Being a citizen of a first world country doesn’t automatically mean you’re smarter or better than a third world country. It just means your country’s society is more developed in certain areas. Still, even developed countries have policies in place that prevent everyone from benefiting from the very things we build.
Agree. From what i've seen the trend to hate men and belittle men to show how strong you are is what chasing men away. I mean you can't expect them to want you when you treat them like archnemesis. Sometimes i feel bad for those guys.
@@aniyamarie8370 exactly
I recently spent a month in Africa, and I'd never been treated so well by women before. I'm definitely a passport bro now.
African women are top tier for sure.
That's great! You only live once!
Just an fyi, even though you're right, as an Eastern European, I see there's a bias toward foreigners here. They're perceived as innately more interesting and more vulnerable, being in a country foreign to them, so the initial good treatment more often than not has to do with this. Not to discourage you from pursuing someone you like, just be careful with their intentions.
@@bloodrayneg That's a great point
I can't wait to leave to Africa to find my wife
Thank you for this. After being cheated on in my marriage and almost every with every girlfriend after my divorce I decided to completely stop dating american woman. I learned Spanish and moved to Colombia for the last couple winters. I immediately found the love of my life and she is hands down better in every way compared to all the American woman I'd been with. She's beautiful, traditional and she is demanding but in a good way. She has expectations out of me that are only meant to make me a better person. I'm finally happy now after 35 years of being taken advantage of.
stop complaining and go be happy 💀
Isnt colombia a western country though?
@@dreamkittywhere in the world do you see him complaining? See this is why guys leave Americans lmao
@@dearinsaniiity i’m glad they leaving 💀 they poor anyway
@sakuratwister870 you’re angry obviously 💀 off ys
I am from Africa, and I remember how confusing my first 5 years of living in Canada was. And my confusion was about how ignorant and awful the education system is. I am not trying to be mean and insulting, but I am still shocked that most of the things I learned in middle school were still taught in my late high school years. As a main subject. I have family all over the world, and some of them that live in non-Western countries are also shocked when i talk about the education system here. It's crazy to me that some of the women in this video think that other countries equal being uneducated and weak minded.
Actually, never mind. I still have flashbacks of my parents having to kindly explain to some of our white neighbors' friends that black children in africa do wear normal diapers and that we don't all live in small villages. But that was almost over 10 years ago. So, I thought people were less ignorant.
In terms of family life, most women from non-Western countries tend to have the strongest voice in most family unit. Even toward their husband. Which most of them don't mind since those women actually still support the family. Help with the houses chores. And are heavily involved with the children education. All that without complaining. Something apparently most Western women don't want to do. So no wonder their men are tired and going elsewhere. What the point of being in a relationship with someone if y'all don't have fixed roles in it. I was taught that being in a relationship with someone is helping your partner. I personally don't want to work long shifts each day. So it only natural that if I get in a relationship with a man that do not mind those long shifts and that bring the most money in the table for me to do more traditional feminin roles like cooking and cleaning the house. And I except the same if let say I wanted to be the one to bring more money and do long hours for my man to take care of the house. Especially since I want to have kids in the future. I don't want to be a nuisance to my partner by only expecting to receive in the relationship and not give back. That not love, in my opinion. And thanks to my own mom, I learned pretty young what most men want in a relationship and what bothers them.
What a beautiful comment. God bless you and I hope you find a partner you deserve!
Great to hear you have not adopted the toxic version of the western women mindset that many of our African sisters fall trap to.
There’s healthy balance between tradition + modernity
I think you sound like a great person, a lot like my mom!
You mean white people overseas there are white people in southern africa
Having good male role models in your life can make all the difference. Good job and best of luck in your future.
My wife is from a India, so I guess that makes me a passport bro. If that's the case, I am proud to be one because the love and support that we have each for other is so strong. And today, we have been married for 3 years, and we're blessed with a little princess.
While I have tried to date women in the UK, it became degrading for me after suffering countless rejections and going through heartbreaks.
Exploring the option of going abroad does come with its risks. You don't have the option of regular face-to-face interaction, I only communicated with my then future-wife through Whatsapp before I met her. But as I communicated with her, a spark happened. So I went all in.
To add, my wife is well-educated, comes from a decent background, speaks english well and works in a lab at our local private school.
She's happy, because I made sure she got a good start here.
So coming from an passport bro, there's no harm to look elsewhere for a life partner. The world has over 8 billion people, so there is someone out there for everyone. We just need to widen our horizon.
Congratulations on your happy marriage. Don't feel bad about making the right choices for yourself!
The thing is guys like you are also problem to the culture in the west
@@raghavnamasivayam8706 How I am a problem to the culture in the west? I am talking from personal experience about how I struggled to find to someone. I didn’t blame anyone and I accepted that I was struggling. It was after I accepting this fact about my own life, I decided to explore another option. And since I am of Indian heritage, my mum introduced to my now-wife where we got to know each other WhatsApp calls and messaging.
I admit, I didn’t expect her to be my wife and I decided to see how it goes, and I am glad I did.
@@davidmparag2137 if you sleep around and use western women you too are a problem to the culture people should blame both genders of the west
@@raghavnamasivayam8706 I have never slept around. Yes, I went out on dates, but that does not mean I slept around. It’s means I had dinner or coffee to get to know the person.
And for your information, I was a virgin before meeting my wife. And I am proud to admit that.
Your comments on women often using "Shame" as a tactic to get men to conform to their thoughts is so real. I appreciate that you as a woman can admit that it is happening and just how wrong it is to demonize men for wanting a better life with another consenting adult woman.
Facts. Men do the same as well. I just wish both sides were acknowledged
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People in Asia are generally respectful and traditional. Both men and women =) you’re very very rare in US. Kind, respectful , beautiful
As a woman from Eastern Europe, I couldn't help but laugh at 4:19 when that lady called us "more biddable". 🤣
hahaha same! or when she said that we "won't speak out" or "don't expect anything from men", when I'd say we're the complete opposite of that
Real real
Rel
as a fellow east european, i can voch for that. They are fierce and determined. Quite the opposite of "biddable"
Bruuuuh right. In Eastern Europe women run the household and make most decisions. They're gonna let their man know when he's been lacking and slacking. Lmao.
I AGREE with these men. These last few years my closest female friends were from abroad, not even by intention, they were just less toxic to hang around most of the time.
Went to Thailand and a lot of old men have barely legal if legal girlfriends, there's a nuance here but pretending that all is well and consensual is false. Took a class about sexual violence and the statistics are there to back this up, sex trafficking (bringing sex trafficking because there's so much overlap) has damaged a lot of developing nations. Not to mention there are many local charities combating these issues so I'm not sure why none of this was brought up because there's literature on this. It's one thing to find the love of your life in another country but it's another to be so undesirable you seek out vulnerable women in another country who don't have the full context of how undesirable you really are. Many of these passport men get robbed, drugged, and taken advantage of right back so I guess there's that. But this pushback isn't being 'bitter' its nuanced. I do agree that western women should stop encouraging younger women to do sex work as it is overall detrimental to women's youth however predators are very real and it is weird to be 50 years old dating someone who just completed high school half a year ago. Just as you played a clip of an Asian woman who feels strongly and agrees to what with you're saying there's plenty saying the opposite as well.
Finally someone brought up the sex trafficking issue when men go overseas to date women. There’s no problem with finding a partner overseas however it does depends on the persons intentions and it should be a red flag if these so called passport brow can’t find a woman to date and marry in their own country.
She did say adult women. That is the context here. Sex tourists who go abroad to abuse lax laws are of course predatory, but that's not the conversation
I agree with everything except that the women complaining are nuanced. No they are clearly bitter and they don't care at all for the wellbeing of women in 3rd world countries
@@joannaalexander1006 I can't find and date a woman in my own country because I am too conservative for them. Does that make me a red flag because I look for compatibility in other countries?
Context is always important
@@Debziiie Excellent 👌
After 2 western wives that were entitled spoiled non sexual and disrespectful I found a Filipina that had non of those traits. I would never be with a western woman again ever. Been with my Filipina wife now 10 years and thankfully she is still nice and respectful to me. Little drama and pleasant.
Did you have to bring her whole family over?
I am a Filipina who's in 5th year med school, but I always get shamed for wanting to be a stay at home mom and wife if I ever get married... Like I'm gonna waste my life and education for what? But I disagree, I saw the beauty of nurturing a family from my own mom who I respect and truly admire, and I wanna raise a family whose values are strong and not driven by money, fame, or trends. After all, we're just gonna live in this world for 60 years if we are lucky... Let's build relationships, create memories, and thrive together in kindness.🤗
Fellow filipina doc here. Most of my female dra friends and i agree that if there is an opportunity to be a housewife we would gladly do it. Nothing replaces quality time with the family.
Exactly, we want a nurturing woman and most of us are tired of these girls who say kill all men and are hostile
I feel you so much! I'm not Filipina or studying medical but when I tell my groupmates on my Computer Science course that if I find the one, I want to marry them and have a happy family with them, they're telling me to not waste my life on that.
Waste my life on what? On happiness? I want to live a happy life with the person I love and have little children, that doesn't mean that I'm helpless or wasting my life.
Why are you in med school if you wanna become a SAHM?
@@nah_. are we not entitled to have education and pursue our passion as traditional women? We are human too, and just like you we have dreams and principles. This argument is misogynistic, I don't even know why people ask these kinds of questions. It's stupid, like asking a football player, "why play football if you want to be a businessman in the future?"
Eh, it can be predatory if you target younger girls that live in a village and have little idea what life is like in the city and what they would really want. It is also dangerous cause she may just go wild with all this new info :D
But yeah, most of the time is perfectly fine, women know what they want and they can make up their mind, stop underestimate women in smaller countries.
I would add fetishization of non-American women.
Or for men that aren't predatory it can backfire big time if you take such a woman to the west in a big city lifestyle and she is suddenly being bewitched by all those temptations she never thought existed
@@serenityssolace like what? is she gonna lose her mind coz she saw a bus or an iphone for the first time
@@reasons4171 No. Women in South east asian countries for example aren't desired from their men because they are dark skinned and men there have a white skin fetish so to speak. The whiter the skin the more socially higher you are. So once such a woman comes to the west and suddenly countless of men flirt her, her world will turn upside down and you might not seem like such a big catch to her anymore
@@reasons4171 You’re being purposely stupid.
You see the debate from only one side, It’s not a problem for those men to marry outside their country, as long as they treat these women with respect and give them their rights. it’s a problem tho that they go to poorer countries and marry vulnerable women and treat them poorly because these women can’t get away from this marriage or ask for their rights.
Yeah, I haven’t watched it but I hope she don’t just stand by them cus sometimes…😭
Exactly. There are way too many men like that, and we can't ignore they exist just because of a few crazy feminists. No, marrying someone from a different country isn't inherently bad, but a lot of the people doing it are specifically and intentionally preying upon women who are living in poverty.
@@somegrill7561 well, watch and you will see,and I am disappointed
@@thelemurofmadagascar9183 why aren't they going to Sweden? Or Denmark? , Or Morocco? Or the UAE? .exactly
the existence of crazy feminists won’t change the fact that there are very bad men who just use poor vulnerable women because they can’t face them or ask for their rights.
It’s just natural selection. Western women no longer make suitable mates. Not with their current attitudes. And, lo and behold, there’s a big, big world out there. Full of women with different views and different outlooks. Isn’t it amazing? More and more men are catching onto it.
I'm currently the target of bitterness and vitriol from Western women who want to sleep with my american bf 🤣 I'm a Filipino woman, born and raised in the Philippines. I very recently started a long distance relationship with an American man who has been my best friend for more than 5 years (we met while I was backpacking) He'll be moving to the Philippines soon to be with me and live out his dreams of being a diving instructor. Whenever he tells people, specifically western women, his plan they immediately assume I'm some mail order bride????!?!?!!! No offense to mail order brides, but that has some serious negative societal connotations! Especially as a Filipino woman! They assume I'm an uneducated, desperate for money, will-marry-anyone-to-get-a-green-card woman? No, honey! First of all: I don't need his money cause I have my own businesses. PLURAL. Second: no thank you to living in the US. And third: he doesn't even love me for traditional values (in fact that's the thing he likes the least about me lol) he loves me cause we have intense trust in eachother, can communicate very well, and I can quote Lord of the Rings as if I had the movie script onhand at all times!
So to these bitter women...Keep your forked tongue behind your teeth. I didn't pass through fire and death to bandy crooked words with a witless worm 💅🏽✨
How can you be a mail-order bride if he's the one moving to the Philippines? The ignorance of some people is astounding.
Your last paragraph has elevated you to one of my heroes.
You bow to no one.
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Slaayyyyyy queen
I'm not a passport bro (at least not yet), but what is surprising me is the extra vile, extra rude, extra disrespectful and extra nasty these modern women are saying about, not only about the passport bros, but the women and the countries they come from. Makes me want to be a passport bro as soon as I retire.
Don't wait do it.pick a place close or go all out. You see why guys are leaving.
You won't regret it, bro.
I became a passport bro at 53 (l'm now 70, and thousands of miles away in the south). Best thing l ever did.
the audacity american women have to say that if you come from a "poor country" automatically you are more vulnerable, or uneducated, or will do whatever a man wants, just sounds like racism for me. i came from brazil, i am smart, i work, was well-raised and educated, and above all, i respect everyone and i believe that men should be honored, respected, taken care of, as much as i think women should have all those things too. there's absolutely nothing wrong in trying to build a relationship with an american man, in fact, many women from these countries deserves to better their lives!!!!!! tbh women like these are hurt bc they are rejected since they want men doing everything for them without moving their asses.
They are racist and look down on women from other countries. Any immigrants can confirm this, I’ve seen American women do it time and time again to my female family members.
Many of them genuinely try and drag other women into hating men for no reason, it’s terrible. Not ALL American women ofc, but a sizeable number
I am married to a Japanese woman and I hate this. Whenever we go home you can see the cogs turning when people see us and the probing questions and weird comments are so awkward. I've lived in Japan for 17 years from 23 years old. Of course I'm going to fall in love and marry, yet people always search for the sinister motive behind someone marrying someone different to them.
It's so embarrassing because it's demeaning my wife like she doesn't have agency to choose her own husband or something. I married my wife because she is an awesome person and I fell in love with her, thank you very much.
There are so many men in the west now who will have little to no success dating western women for a variety of reasons. It's just how it is, western women aren't interested in these men and we know it. Theres no point blaming each other for how it's turned out, it is what it is. If these men can find partners overseas and actually get to experience love and relationships then that's absolutely a positive thing.
The fact that they can't generically find love where they live because of attributes they possess is sad. But..... everyone deserves Companionship. It's how God made us.
This is because, black women in America treat the black man with such disrespect and such dishonor.... You can even look at a black woman only to pay her compliment without her turning her nose up and looking down upon the black man as if he is nothing.... I don't blame the PASSPORT BROS for going abroad to find a better grade of woman as the black woman here in America has become undesirable...
@@MorganJohnsonAuthor Bull fucking shit. Black women are the least respected by black men just like how Asian men are put down by Asian women. Black women and Asian men have been considered to be the least desirable while black men and Asian women are hyper sexualized. Can't prove me wrong because look at all of the videos and comments made by Asian women.
Black men(& Asian women) are the most sellouts when it comes to gender equality in intra- race/gender. You're blaming black women for black men's problems. It's called responsibility and accountability. Instead of fixing said issues, they are bringing their garbage to other countries and branding themselves as sexpat bros. Hence why black women called the sexpat bros dusty bros.
This will be the case with every developed nation in the future and not limited to western society in general.
We humans have become hedonistic in pure sense because of industrial revolution.
Also in history only 35% of the men have ever reproduced as compared to 75% of the women.
Nature is brutal towards men in the context of mating.
I understand both sides. I am Latinamerican and well my ex used to talk to me about how women from his country were fat, lazy, careless, demanding, etc etc etc. I did all i was taught to do when you are married. I kept the house spotless, cooked, he just have to worry about putting his a$$ n the sofa and i was in charge of everything!! And guess what? He was a narcissist, abused me, serial cheater. He went back to Latinamerica brought another and replaced me like i was an old pair of shoes, painful but thats the truth. I am with someone else now, and they have three kids… needless maybe to say she is basically moving her family and treating him like a provider/father/bank kinda. BUT thats life 😅 so yeap understand both said.
Uy que mala, al menos te libraste de ese wey
the guy above me says 'oof, how shitty, at least you got rid off that guy'
Exactly, western men think they are so much better but they are worse, in my opinion.
Hey. I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through. I certainly hope that you’re doing ok.
My mum is Colombian and she is highly educated, speaks 5 languages, and trust me she’s not some doormat. She was raised with more traditional values about girls are feminine and men are masculine. She taught me her ways and let me tell you it felt like witchcraft in a modern western dating world 😂
I could definitely teach these women a thing or two but I expect it wouldn’t be well received. Oh well, too bad for them.
Im Colombian woman looking for a husband! 😊
As someone from chinese background I have a different opinion. If a man finds a country or culture interesting and decides to explore or live there, and then found a wife, I think that’s fine, but on the other hand, if the man going to other countries for the purpose of “finding an obedient wife, find the wife who is raised to respect men”, I find that pretty predatory.
Firstly, you can’t deny that racism still exists, that translates to for example in where I’m from, white people are seen to be superior, then Chinese, and then other races, especially black people are look down on (generally speaking). I completely disagree with this but the truth is the idea objectively exists in the culture. Then it is represented in things such as men would say they want white women, and they would get mad for Chinese women who find white men because those women are their sexual resources if it isn’t the race, etc.. Obviously that’s not everyone but still white people are more easily perceived to be good. And foreigners especially white people are treated better in the society. If some white men holding that idea using their race to make use of the racial bias for their advantage then the motive is quite morally dubious.
Secondly, I don’t think describing women from certain places as uneducated etc. is completely offensive in this case, just like when we talk of children can’t make their own decisions is not trying to offend them and call them stupid, or when we talk of consent between people with power difference, like teacher and student, bosses and employees. I’m some places women just don’t have the opportunity or ability to think they deserve equality and fair treatment from men. I found it quit disgusting when the men talked about finding women who are “raised to be wives” etc., in some places the feminist idea has not grown as much as the west. Where I’m from there are women who believe they’re inferior than men, that they should serve men. There are places that women can’t sit on the table for dinner with men and they make the dinner for men and eat at the kitchen. Women who experience domestic violence are told to take it, cuz that’s totally normal, or don’t destroy the family for the children, and a lot of the times even if they called the police it’s considered family matters, and many times if they file for divorce the court would decide that their relationship is still intact. There are abortions and killing of babies just because they’re female, and women who are basically sold from her family to the husband’s family through marriage. There are girls denied education and be demanded to support their brothers. Left alone that western people are generally more wealthy compare to developing and undeveloped countries or less developed regions and some families would happily “trade their daughters for their bloodline (ie for the son to get married)”. And the men going all the way and looking for submissive women is just predatory because they can’t get a wife or stand women who are their equal, and just exploiting the vulnerable women who are already hurting.
Lastly, I found it offensive to assume women who call out these behaviour are wanting to keep those men. We are only wishing the best for our sisters, especially the sisters who do not have the privilege like us, and imposing this “female competition” idea is both crèche and disgusting, we’re so tired of it. Maybe there are women saying these actually wanting to keep those men, I feel sorry for them and hope they and everyone else comes to the realisation that women have better things to fight for.
Yes. I hate this. These men said like it was a good thing but I feel like they talk about an object. I’m from SEA and they talk about us like we are less less inferior. Hence, we sound easier to get. Just dangling some rice and 100 dollar bills. Always the old, creepy dude asking me in my early 20s out 😂😂😂
In defense of the rude Tiktok ladies, there is a huge culture of fetishization of non-western women. Especially in the US, there was so much exploitation of Vietnamese and Korean women during those wars. My understanding of the passport bros phenomenon comes from the assumption that that behavior is not about values but more about exoticism. I am happy to hear that the arguments about this topic have stemmed from the idea of traditional values rather than physical preference.
Idk why people would assume it was based off appearance to begin with anyway. They always made it clear it’s a values thing + weight issue.
I also find it very interesting how if you like certain groups, that’s considered default/normal. But if you find Asian women attractive or any non-white group attractive, that’s a “fetish”. As if these groups can’t also just be found genuinely attractive
It’s not that complicated. A guy assumes any woman he’s with is not going to contribute very much to the relationship or his life in general. So they choose 2-3 priorities that are important to them and go where he can find a woman like that. Most of these lists are simple, like “I want to be appreciated, I want to be attracted to her and I want her to be faithful” … that sounds very basic but it’s surprisingly difficult to find a western woman that meets all 3. We don’t care that she’s flat broke and half the time we’re a better cook, so the old stereotypical women they think we want are entirely off base.
the bitter tiktok women KNOW and know damn well its about traditional family values and traditional family roles.
@@mithril1584 exactly. Once you show any women outside of the west attention it’s fetishisation.
Keep in mind these are the same women going crazy over K pop stars.
Now the woman I’m with isn’t overly dependent- she is very intelligent and authentic, / comes from a wealthier background than me and is far more caring about this world than any of the women I’ve interacted with in my classroom settings.
Moving to the Netherlands and marrying my Russian Fiancé lol. Guess I’m a part of the problem.
I do not like the western culture wars.
I’m a virgin saving myself for marriage and also a software engineer that dabbles in modelling.
Found someone who is very similar to me , but she’s from Russia.
God bless your marriage when the time comes! Wish you happiness
My brother when you find your happiness and you find someone who shares your values hold onto it and don't give a toss what anyone else has to say. It is too difficult out here to be giving people a hard time when they find the right partner. I wish you all the best, and this is coming from a black woman.
Same story,my boyfriend is from El Salvador but we met in The Netherlands and he def wouldn’t call Eastern European biddable or get me because I’m less educated💀
I don’t blame men for a bit, imagine normalizing thot culture, shaming women who choose to wait (all from other women btw), and getting mad that you aren’t being chosen to be the mother and model for their future daughters.
I’m a traditional woman getting up there and losing chances because of this all sucks.
We need more don’t Stop ! I’m looking and praying for one!
I feel bad for the decent women, I’ll be honest… but yeah, can’t wait to get away from this country and its oppressive laws against men when it comes to family and marriage… it’s extremely hard to even trust a very good woman here even though I want to….
Hearing American women call asian women stupid is beyond asinine. Half of our college grads wouldnt be able to do the math needed to graduate high school in most Asian countries
I think I speak for a lot of men when I say I just like women who are nice. It's nothing to do with being submissive or any of that shit, I just want to be surrounded by nice people who will allow me to be nice and warm back to them. A lot of us just want to give and unfortunately a lot of people aren't worth letting your walls down for.
You're speaking my truth, brother. Nice people makes a world full of suffering more bearable. God bless.
I've met Philippinos and they were wonderful to be around. I've heard the culture over there is the same and the women are smart and family orientated. What more could a man ask for?
I remarried an Indonesian woman who came to the US legally, established her citizenship, and started her own business over a 4 year period. This all took place before I met her. She was raised to support her man, something I did not have in my previous marriage. I’m not saying she is perfect but is easy to get along with and is not tainted by the negative influences of western culture.
I think the passport bro shit is cringe. But a lot of these women just come across as super bitter.
Yeah 🤷
I have to admit I find it rather cringe as well.
@@user-fh1di6zk4w if these guys are going to dirt poor villages in the middle of nowhere sure. But if they are in major cities like Bangkok, Saigon, Manila no. The women in those cities are educated and employed. Not desperate.
Do you think it's "cringe" when men in the miltary go overseas and find wives also or are you just a weirdo?
@@tupactargaryen I think it’s cringe to say that all “western women” are garbage and paint non-western women as submissive and obedient like what some of these passport bros are doing.
It's surprising how many people get upset that people who don't like them, don't want to date them. Why would you want to date someone who doesn't like you? Or someone who will only date you if you change major aspects of yourself. It hurts a lot when people don't like you. However, wouldn't you want someone who loves you because of who you are at your core?
It's not inherently wrong for anyone to move somewhere for love. I've seen women get shamed for it, usually kpop and anime fans. The time it becomes a problems is when the issue isn't really within the people around you so much as yourself, and you've built up an entire idea about a culture without ever actually experiencing it, and you see the other person as their culture first, person second. It's weird to assume everyone who moves somewhere is wrong first, and acceptable after consideration....
Yep, it's not a problem to find love with someone outside your country or even to have a preference for a certain group if you like their values, customs, etc. But to use your example, it would be a problem if a kpop fan's goal was a Korean bf and any passably attractive guy was interchangeable with any other as long as they were Korean. Because then that's treating the person like an accessory instead of their own whole person who is not some cookie cutter stereotype for their culture.
isnt that quite common with uk and thai brides? men looking for younger women who perhaps think western men are wealthy, and the ladies are more inclined to be home makers. the men are probably not the most attractive, so western women might avoid them?
a friend of mine, her husband went off with a much younger foreign woman in the uk, she wiped him out for 30k. so not as subservient as he thought she was.
As a future passport bro that has a preference for Asian women and culture I can guarantee you one thing. Any man that thinks Asian girls are submissive is in for a surprise 😂
@@serenityssolaceI’m thinking that there are plenty that are very similar in attitude to Disney’s Mulan (the original version).
@@Locke350 True! They are strong, the have fighting spirit, never give up, but know how to value family, men and how to be feminine
I was quite offended for my friends because I have friends from overseas and they are very educated and speak up for themselves. And some are married & happy. I know there are some men who go overseas for sex but that's not ALL men. Because don't women sometimes go overseas on "girl trips" and talk about how they had sex with a local once they get back home??? I'm just annoyed with all this dating content that has exploded over the lockdown and still continuing.
Excellent point! Nobody ever brings up the "girl trips". Preach sister!
I’ve seen videos of women threatening to take their business elsewhere in Jamaica if the men in question didn’t “lick her pum pum”.
Okay "sleep with mammoths" is wild 😂😂😂 I was trying to be serious
I'm an American woman who moved to the EU to be with my boyfriend of 4 years, and before I moved I was worried his friends would think I was in it for the 'wrong reasons' or that I had to downplay my childhood dreams of moving to Europe, since they were unrelated to my current situation. I got none of that and got called brave and romantic. I feel bad for these guys for fearing that criticism and then actually having to face it, especially with the reality of working on a relationship that hasn't been irl for a chunk of time. that's just plain rough.
So you moved from your country for a boyfriend and not a husband, wow so much for self value
@@purplelove3666 wow, so judgemental
How are you still not engaged after 4 years? My Latin mother would tell me the maximum I should wait to be engaged is 2 years, definitely not 4.
Good for you! I always wanted to move to France, maybe in my next life!
@@Quixina I hope you're joking. There isn't an expiry date on a relationship status and being pressured into marriage by a parent is kinda messed up. I've been with my bf for 13 years and we couldn't be happier. But in the end, it's all about personal preferences
To your first point - it’s often about accessibility. The average non western woman won’t necessarily have the financial means to move to the western country. So already we are talking about a power dynamic that favors the passport bro. So yes it CAN BE (benefit of the doubt is always there for this. It isn’t always) predatory when the passport bro finds a girl in the nonwestern place. The reverse situation can still be predatory as well - especially if passport bro shows signs of a certain type of girl he prefers to date
Women in general only want men who make more than them. So when a 40k a year western women says “if you aren’t paying all my bills + earning 6 figures, keep it moving” that’s fine.
But if a woman from a non western nation wants the 40k a year a guy, now all of a sudden it’s a power dynamic issue. The power dynamic ALWAYS favours the men financially because women don’t like men who earn less.
I did agree with some of your points. A man who wants a more traditional or submissive women isn’t necessarily a predator. And a women who behaves in an overly aggressive and/or confrontational manner is going to have a hard time finding a partner (because who wants to deal with that).
But as someone who has fallen prey to predatory men (and this isn’t to say that women can’t be predatory as well) I find the way you addressed the issue dismissive. I don’t know if you have any experience with predatory men (and I hope you never do), but it is very much a real thing.
There are people who go out of their way to find others they can manipulate and control. There are also people who are just emotionally lazy who want the benefits of a relationship but don’t want to do the work to build one. So they seek out the most vulnerable person they can and manipulate them into participating in an unequal partnership.
I just feel this was a facet of the topic that should have been addressed and wasn’t.
Agreed.
There is far more nuance to this story than just piling each side into a restrictive stereotype.
The distance between sex tourism and entrepreneurial relational opportunities isn't so great, after all.
People are predatory. It does very little good to simply cherry-pick the stats or the stories just to fit a desired narrative. We are all far more complex than that.
Of course not all people operate with bad intentions. But saints are scarce, too.
I would think that these complexities, when run through the wringer of inter-racial, cross cultural, and lord knows whatever else of the mountain of differences between people born and bred in radically different societies, raise no end of issues that can prove insurmountable, betray sordid motives, and remind us just how vulnerable and defenseless we can sometimes be.
Especially when confronting the emotional volatility of romance.
You assume every guy who go there way to find a hood as predatory??
You ladies just have a nature the need to be right. Most of these guys are building homes marrying. Who do you think is going over there? Bunch jerkoff? Why would need to leave the USA when grooming has now be legalized ?? I think most of the men going overseas to marry are tired of loose morals. I have fiancé from the Philippines 🇵🇭 long before this whole passport bros took over. I’m not even of them, but you ladies paint all men as predators sick!!
@@Johnsons97 I’m starting to notice that. She’s going more and more towards “shock” or “outrage” content that’s distinctly geared towards certain individuals. It’s a shame really.
I feel that the problem is that people paint us third world women as default vulnerable to "predators" because we are in a third world country. But we are not, trust me. You think a truly Predatory Passport Bro could just come here and attack any vulnerable women? You'll be dead wrong. We have a more tight nit families here, more people looking out for you. In my country itself, the amount of times that a passport bro has been deported because of domestic abuse is twice... In TWO decades.
If they would truly be predators, they wouldn't GO to our countries. They would bring us to to theirs to isolate us. Because that's how abuse works. Why would they go our country where THEY are the ones who are being isolated.
@@Johnsons97 Based on your previous comments in this channel, you are not nuanced either.
*Great video, Patience! To add to what you said about "friendzone" from **7:04**-**7:32**, there's a variable (common in the U.S.) you should consider: Single women often see men in their friendzone as "backup husbands" that can be utilized for emotional support when they (the women) get rejected by the men they actually want. Friendzone men are also backup husbands when women get too old to compete in the dating market and are worried about their (the women's) fertility. So, there's an incentive to try to shame SOME men into not going abroad in search of more appealing women.*
I live in Eastern Europe and let me tell you, most of the women in my country are educated, have bachelor's and master's degree. We are not raised just to be wives. I am saying this in connection to one of the Tik Toks that you showed,the woman in the video seems to think that we in Eastern Europe live in some kind of third world countries 😂
Как интересно встретить своего человека в этой политически освежающей среде американских расприй.
While I (an American) get the point - that American women and their entitlement and whatnot make dating tougher - I don't buy the "go overseas!" argument fully. I think it would be silly to move to another country strictly for dating prospects, and it's one of the red pill things that leaves me scratching my head.
I will say though, how we socialize young boys and girls (specifically around dating advice) leads to the issues we've had for a while. Even if "stranger danger" isn't as common of a thing as it once was, dating apps throw a wrench in dating being a success.
There is a conversation to be heard about how some elements of sex tourism are exploitative and fuel human trafficking. Moreover, I’ve seen some of these ‘passport bros’ online bragging about how cheap it is to get women into bed compared to back in their home country, and laughing it up, talking about “all it took was a bag a rice” 🥴 it makes me cringe as a guy who travels a lot. There’s something very dystopian about it. There’s something dystopian about openly expressing joy that you can solicit more sex from women and girls, because of the lack of economic empowerment in those poorer countries relative to your home country.
On the flip side you have the girls who see these passport Bros coming a mile away, treat them like a ‘Lick’, and these Bros, if they don’t know what they’re doing, can end up hustled and finessed. It may have its advocates but *nobody* can convince me it doesn’t have its dark sides.
"All it took was a bag of rice."
The implications in that sentence are staggering.
How big was the bag of rice? I might be interested in such an exchange.
Damn yea the bragging thing is an insane outlook. I'm a guy who is a LOT more lucky with women when I go abroad, but I've never looked at it from that standpoint; when I travel, I am going out every night in fun places and socializing with people, but when I'm at home, all I do is work and school and if I'm not all I want to do is relax at home and cook, play music , or smoke weed aside from occasionally going out with friends. (Not to mention I can't drive which in my home city is considered kinda a loser quality for a dating guy whereas it's completely justified as a tourist.)
We understand the dark sides of Passport Bros specifically and our country is addressing the issue very well
But what Filipinas are clapping back are the idiocracy, sexism and racism coming from these feminist women in the West, given the fact that those śéx wórkérs were a tiny fraction of the population
These lefties need to figure out the boundary between sex tourism and marriage ffs
they don't know when their so called cheap woman dried their blood and literally hung them. I wish that they didn't find the women i know or they will get what they deserve
2:40 😂 The Philippines?
Meet us at any mountain top in my country....we can speak to you.
Meet us in all the cruises, cargo ships, Airlines, and hospitals...IN YOUR country and elsewhere, we can communicate.
Honey, we speak 130-195 languages here...what makes you think we can't speak yours? 🤣🤣🤣
😂 lmao
I would probably be a "Passport bro" if i had the income for it.
Most people in general ive interacted with in general from outside America are just friendlier than the ones in America.
It's not the fact that the woman is from another country that makes people think the relationship may be predatory, but there is a trend among men to pursue women from other countries who don't have the resources/money/opportunities that women from their own country do. Men who pick these specific countries/regions mentioned (The Philippines, Thailand, East Europe etc.) are often picking them because there are high rates of poverty there and there is a large population of women who are struggling to provide for their families. Then a man from a comparatively well-off country can swoop in and play "savior" to these women, offer them the resources they need, but in return they can force her to stay with them and meet all their demands because if she doesn't, she loses that support she is relying on. It doesn't have to be that the women are unintelligent or incapable or anything, but generational poverty doesn't discriminate and it can be incredibly hard to get out of without outside help.
Of course not all women from different countries are part of a vulnerable population, and relationships built on love for a culture and respect for the person do happen and are 100% fine. But purposefully going after women who are part of a vulnerable population (whether it's international or within one country, *it's problematic either way*) because they'll be easier to manipulate *is undeniably, by definition, predatory.* When she feels obligated to put up with abuse, cruelty, manipulation etc. because her partner is providing for her when she can't, and she has no agency in the terms of the relationship, that's an abuse of power and is absolutely a red flag for the man's character. It shows that he can't built a relationship built on mutual trust or actual love, and instead has to force her to stay with him through fear and control. (This also goes for men who are in a similar unbalanced relationship.) It all comes down to an unequal distribution of power.
This is a great comment. You have pointed out the nuance in this conversation that the video missed (or possibly, dismissed).
Not every woman from these places is uneducated, or cannot speak English, or comes from poverty. But look at the overall economic situation in the country, and put 2 +2 together. How many women there _are_ disadvantaged?
Another thing to look at is age. Are these men looking for a partner close in age to them? Or are they going for early 20s, even late teens?
These are not questions to be ignored, and anyone trying to discredit people asking them _are_ turning a blind eye to predatory behavior.
So these abusive relationships are accounted for by what percentage? 90%? 70%? 50%?
And does the same situation not happen in the west?
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot what exactly are you asking? If these things happen often enough for concern?
@@SW23252 any incidence of stuff like that happening is enough for concern…but you used the words “often” and “trend”…so I’m asking for the percentage of such occurrences. How often do they occur by percentage?
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot you are the one asking for percentages, not me. You seem to understand that ANY incidence of this happening is cause for concern, so does the percentage really matter?
I think the "predatory" spin comes in because a lot of these so called "passport bros" look for partners abroad because they assign stereotypes to the woman they seek - "subservient" "submissive" "docile". It's inferred that they only seek women abroad because of these stereotypical attributes; ESPECIALLY as it relates to Asian women.
Don't get me wrong, I couldn't care less where grown adults seek love, but you can't ignore the fact that a lot of these men DO in fact prey on poor, vulnerable women who would love nothing more than to be able to provide for themselves and their families. Is it mutually beneficial sometimes? Of course. But coming from a young Caribbean woman, a lot of these men aren't looking for companionship, they're looking for a fantasy.
Well said.
Yeah it’s definitely more nuanced than people think. Some of these men just want a woman who will respect them and that is perfectly fine, but on the flip side some of these men want a woman who they think won’t challenge them and just fulfill their fantasies. The problem is that crazy feminists blow it out of proportion and think all of these guys want the latter.
There is not room for people who aren’t grifters on this channel.
Absolutely true, we shouldn't disregard it, makes one want to white knight for your countries women, xD, I personally hate this wierd stereopization of, for me, Eastern European women, like they're not human but an asset. You don't know the story of feminism and women liberation in my country, it's narcissisim to assume because country isn't western, it's people would be opposite to Western values or don't have liberal and left wing values of their own and I'm more right leaning myself. Sorry, people like Tate made me defensive towards my countries women and people, I don't want his likes around.
@@marketablesThere is. In her other video’s comment section, I see a lot of mix reactions that are valid, or maybe that’s just me.
While I agree with everything as an African woman married to a white American guy, we also have to acknowledge that some of these passport bro are going out of their way to find wives who are traditional so they can freely disrespect/abuse them while not having to worry about their women being as disagreeable. I’ve seen it. So much.
Thank you, I came here to say that we need to look at the rates of abuse that happen with "mail order" spouses and seeking out foreign spouses. This goes for both genders (I knew a Honduran man who married an American woman and she horrificly abused his daughters and him knowing that if he defended or retaliated she could have him sent back to his country where his daughters would be in much more danger of death, as Honduras is an extremely violent country). Even the example of 90 day fiancé isn't great because it almost always show cases someone extremely undesirable and controlling seeking out someone they can control or manipulate because no one in America wanted them but there are many desperate people in less developed places that seek citizenship or safety of western countries. This is never to say they're all uneducated, less intelligent, naive. Etc but the person who found you and "gave" you citizenship through marriage will hold a certain amount of power over you for at least a certain amount of time.
African women hate black American men, that why they don't go there looking for wives! African women only want white men!
Yes we need to do all this bc your jealous of remote workers who have rejected you and cant live without making them pay. Yes yesss thats whats important in the summer of 2023...
@@Henryharris6436wtf are you yapping on about?
@@marissashea5103this!!!
You are choosing some very interesting topics to discuss. I love it. And Asian and European/ South American women aren't biddable. Let's just make that clear.
hell yes
Yeah idk what dude thinks they're going to be making all the decisions etc when thinking abt dating outside north america, like the stereotype about latinas is literally that they will beat your ass if you disrespect them. However, the women from outside north america are also known for taking care of men if you're good to them, much more so than what it is in north america where there always seems to be this weird boundary between people in relationships where everyone is mostly just fending for themselves.
Foreign conceptions of love are much more romantic compared to the anglosphere, which seems more like a laundry list of criterion
Edit: at the same time the men from these countries are usually more dismissive of women, I know it's true in my home country. It's literally win-win for western men and non-western women
Glad I was born in a Latin family, we live in the US but since my parents aren’t US born, the way they raised me has a positive impact on me.
@@Quixina same with my Nigerian parents
I agree with most everything you put out. This is one time I don't. These passport bros looking for "traditional" women and coming to Eastern countries are most likely looking for a fantasy. While the comments these Western women make sound grating in itself, it is a really weird "red flag" when you're abroad specifically to look for a wife. They are coming here with really weird expectations. There is a certain fantasy and fetish involved here. These women can't make it more dehumanizing than men who are specifically here to look for "subservient" women. I'm saying this as an Indian woman. The women here are struggling against this very mindset where it's so hard to speak up for ourselves, being sacrificial is the norm for women here. and you guys out there putting us on a pedestal for these qualities which are essentially an enforced part of our culture. The white women may be projecting some of their own Insecurities here but it's not ok for Western men to come around looking for the same qualities that we consider to be a problem that needs solving.
I'm not against someone organically falling in love while they're abroad or they meet each other while studying. But I'm sorry, passport bros coming to the East specifically to look for wives? That's a big red flag to me. You can't tell me otherwise.
Same my main issue with passport bros is the submissive, subservient wife thing because why is you ideal relationship someone being beneath you
Exactly this. This point is getting missed so hard, and it’s so gross that that’s what these men are seeking out. They want to go find a servant wife.
This video made a lot of good points. I will add:
1. There are plenty of women in the West who _do_ want to be wives/stay-at-home moms/homemakers. You can find individual women who feel this way, and also entire subcultures.
2. Men who complain that there just aren't any women who were brought up to be wives in the West and they must search for them in another country are either unaware of the women from point #1 (in which case, they haven't looked very hard), or are maybe, _maybe_ some of them are being disingenuous about what they're actually looking for.
3. None of the women in the video phrased it this way, but purposely looking for a woman who was brought up in a different culture and then dropping her into Western culture _does_ put her at a potential disadvantage in the relationship. Bad behavior on the man's part can be disguised as her not understanding the culture, and it's generally harder to understand exactly what's happening. This can happen regardless of money or education.
4. These women are also being put at a large physical distance from their family and friends. Not having a support system outside of their romantic relationship can be very isolating.
5. Re: starting a movement, incels exist, too (although I think pickup artists are extinct).
Well, this is now so long that I doubt anyone will read it, but I'll close by saying that the women in this video _did_ seem bitter and demeaning to non-Western women, but I don't think that means that there shouldn't be genuine concern over the motives of _some_ of these men. There are certainly men who are looking for a woman with a more traditional cultural background or are just exhausted with a Western culture that seems to think women shouldn't, for example, put any effort into fitness. There are also men who don't see women as people and are looking for someone who won't pick up on the signs until it's too late and they're stranded in another country with him.
That's true, think that's why there was a distinction 'none traditional western women' cause there are traditional women in the West. But they are definitely less common these days compared to other countries.
@@Jack-id7ft Less common, sure, but not hard to find. Honestly, this guy could probably find what he was looking for by getting out of the city.
@@mercurymay39 that's true, small towns or the country are usually where women like that are
Thank you for bringing this up!
You're 1sr statement is already false because feminism inherently goes against the existence of said women. Women by proxy of feminism permeating throughout every institution in America disallows such a narrative. Women in America don't want to be housewives as none were raised as such they want to partners.
I have lived outside the U.S., and when I hear American women bash other women from Asia or Europe, I cringe angrily at the ignorance of Western women. In many cases, foreign women are more traditional and family-orientated than American women. Not forgetting that many can speak English pretty well. Ladies, if you are Butt hurt, remember many of you brought this upon yourselves! Please, STOP blaming men; many of you have belittled and pushed men away. We all have a choice in looking for a better life, and men now see this, and women are upset. Ladies, how does it feel now that the shoe is on the other foot!
As someone who doesn't like the red pill community, your video here needs more attention, there's a lot of hypocrisy you pointed out about western women, they think It's okay for younger women to start only fans but cant consent to having a relationship with an older man, which is really weird tbh.
A lot of the woke ones think that children can consent to take “puberty blockers” and hormones to change into the opposite sex too.
Some of these ladies are convinced that showing themselves on only fans is empowering when all they're doing is letting themselves get pimped by a man. Only fans created by a man and he gets a cut of all subscriptions. So yeah it makes little sense but I don't believe many of the people who do only fans put much thought into anything.
Not every western woman supports or encourages prostitution.
There’s a big difference between an older man having direct influence in a young woman’s life vs her just posting pics and taking money.
I agree with everything you said! One more thing to consider though, I've met men who married women from overseas because they loved those countries' culture. One told me he loved his wife who came from Vietnam because he learned so much from her, her culture and perspective and that he found American women to be boring and entitled which this video clearly proved lol. Funny how people keep saying we need more diversity and then get angry when diverse people are brought to their countries via marriages 🤣
But this video did not prove that Armerican women are boring as that would and is a generalisation. Also what about American men?
I have an old schoolfriend who met a Thai lady around 35 years ago. They lived in the UK until he took early retirement and they now live in Thailand with houses in Bangkok and Pattaya.
She is great, generous, friendly and cares for him. She comes from a good family who hold senior military and police careers.
But she's no push over and will stand up for her husband.
When I visited Thailand a few years back to see him I was amazed at how friendly people were, both sexes.
The women are polite, smile (no bitch face), they can cook, the y like men, they are pretty and take care of their figures, teeth. They are unfailingly polite and friendly. They have manners. Were I to marry again I would go abroad because most western women are a dead loss.
Patience Xina thank you for being honest! Very refreshing!