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  • @ChavisGreenard
    @ChavisGreenard 7 місяців тому +378

    My Lord Jesus. This generation (really EVERYBODY) needs Jesus.

    • @melinyc7279
      @melinyc7279 7 місяців тому +15

      DESPERATELY.

    • @p.a.753
      @p.a.753 7 місяців тому +12

      We really do. I’m so encouraged that there are those in the younger generation speaking against this. An example for us all. 🙏🏽

    • @belovedinthebuilding
      @belovedinthebuilding 7 місяців тому +8

      Mmm, yes ma’am. I need Jesus

    • @killa704
      @killa704 7 місяців тому +6

      Have mercy on us

    • @pat4502
      @pat4502 7 місяців тому +4

      Totally

  • @denisebycapricorn
    @denisebycapricorn 7 місяців тому +285

    He looks older than her too. Anywhere from 25-30. Sexual liberation is bullshyytt. Nobody is giving these young girls the game, "protect yourself at all time"

    • @tiffanyyisrael7989
      @tiffanyyisrael7989 7 місяців тому +42

      Alot of older women are trying to give them the game, but they don't listen and think they know better.

    • @glassawata
      @glassawata 7 місяців тому +21

      Yes. My daughter will be so gamed up, it's my life's mission.

    • @jessicatsao92
      @jessicatsao92 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@tiffanyyisrael7989 It's because of young ladies and even girls who believe the player STD-ridden men who say, "Oh, they're just bitter. They're jealous of you." The problem is that the vast majority of young women, especially the promiscuous young women, believe them more than older women. 13 year old girls growing up to believe that they are more attractive than 23 year olds to these 30 year old men who hang out at junior high school and high school to get girls to lay with them.

    • @nubian77
      @nubian77 7 місяців тому

      @@tiffanyyisrael7989some older women actually introduced them to certain things.. look up childhood abu$e in the black community. The influence of older women/men need to be examined on a case by case basis

    • @erowry22
      @erowry22 7 місяців тому

      ​@@tiffanyyisrael7989I tried talking to one and I should have talked to the wall. I wish I had someone to guide me and put me on game. But these new young adults are hyper everything! Hyper sexual, hyper killing, hyper scamming, hyper spending, hyper EVERYTHING! No self control.

  • @MorKing86
    @MorKing86 7 місяців тому +178

    People ask me why I don't want kids... I'm like look around.

    • @HollyMaysHarshAwakening2024
      @HollyMaysHarshAwakening2024 7 місяців тому +23

      Yes, my daughter 23 said the same thing. I overstand why folks say that and it's soul crushing to hear 😢

    • @LerouxLeroux
      @LerouxLeroux 7 місяців тому +37

      Precisely. I'm 34 and my family at one point, thought I was gay just because I was still unmarried with no kids SMH. It's unbelievably hard to be a parent.

    • @James_follows_Christ
      @James_follows_Christ 7 місяців тому +27

      Sooo that’s why I’m doing it GOD’S why these days.. If it’s GOD’S will for my life HE’LL send me a woman who’s chasing after HIM first because a man who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD. When a man or woman truly knows Jesus for themselves then they’ll know how to love you and you (and everyone as well) through the eye lenses of the LORD and not from our human jacked up sinful perspectives.

    • @Veracityseeker7
      @Veracityseeker7 7 місяців тому +9

      Exactly

    • @realist4900
      @realist4900 7 місяців тому +24

      @@LerouxLerouxcrazy how parents rationalize calling you gay for not dropping your morals and standards, having common sense, being smart, and prioritizing your self preservation. Instead of being supportive & understanding.

  • @terristrange
    @terristrange 7 місяців тому +117

    People need to stop putting all their Ls on blast. A man using and abusing you is not meant to be content.

    • @mgh174
      @mgh174 7 місяців тому +34

      I hear ya but some young girls need to see this. Sadly I seen many of my friends get treated badly by guys and guess what?? It helped me avoid those types of guys. I’ve dodged many bullets. There’s lessons in those posts.

    • @celinasjourney
      @celinasjourney 7 місяців тому +5

      No I think this is a great lesson

    • @6ftNaturalBeauty
      @6ftNaturalBeauty 7 місяців тому

      For these people, putting their L’s on blast equals money in their pockets and fame

  • @saradauchiha7112
    @saradauchiha7112 7 місяців тому +43

    No sex before marriage.

  • @PaperMario64
    @PaperMario64 7 місяців тому +218

    That “hands on ya knees” video made me extra sad because it popped up after I had watched a little white girl being treated extra special at Disney World by one of the characters. 🤦🏾‍♀️ Our little girls don’t get to be little girls. Their innocence isn’t protected and preserved. They are exposed to too much too soon.

    • @cryaboutit7499
      @cryaboutit7499 7 місяців тому +3

      Little boys too. Too many of these little boys are exposed to p9rn at a young age and become hyper sexual as young teens.

    • @trisha1989
      @trisha1989 7 місяців тому +37

      Adultification

    • @Itsjustcazzata
      @Itsjustcazzata 7 місяців тому +2

      I get what you’re saying but if only you knew lol smh. Sadly kids of all races are being exposed to too much too soon. It just depends on whose raising you and the other circumstances. It’s just a sad low energy spirit floating throughout the world..honestly demonic. But don’t believe the hype and think the grass is greener. It’s little white kids being exposed to porn, drugs, sex and all types of mess. It all depends on the parents and the community. I will say that the music promoted in our community does make things 10x worse ..that’s def a fact.

    • @stereo-soulsoundsystem5070
      @stereo-soulsoundsystem5070 7 місяців тому +19

      Its the girls and the boys don't forget its all of our kids fam

    • @mailvoor698
      @mailvoor698 7 місяців тому

      @@stereo-soulsoundsystem5070 and white girls get shitfamilies too

  • @babou5694
    @babou5694 7 місяців тому +68

    Growing up in the 90’s my mom said sex is only for grown up. She told us stay away from the D cause it brings responsibility consequences , and problems. Thank goodness we listened to her. She saved us from a lot foolishness cause life ain’t no joke . Now, 2024 we living our best life Thank you lord 🙏🙏🙏🙏.

  • @SamtheRightway
    @SamtheRightway 7 місяців тому +137

    Being a proverbs 31 godly woman is not for the weak.

    • @honeybee4361
      @honeybee4361 7 місяців тому

      How do you not know who you having sex with????? Are how many men are you doing

    • @90ejb
      @90ejb 7 місяців тому +27

      But it does help you stay on code with the Lord. I'm watching these young girls and women wreck their lives and losing their lives. And I'm 29.

    • @Sweetheart0189
      @Sweetheart0189 7 місяців тому +6

      Amen ❤

    • @user-tv7kh7vw5m
      @user-tv7kh7vw5m 7 місяців тому +7

      Amen

    • @tessajones1693
      @tessajones1693 7 місяців тому

      Amen but we are not appreciated. Men want loose booty

  • @IvyElizabeth918
    @IvyElizabeth918 7 місяців тому +130

    It’s the pinned bed sheets as curtains for me… baby girl 😢 as a society, we really have to have standards.

    • @MsDisneylandlover
      @MsDisneylandlover 7 місяців тому +1

      Back day we did 2 lol

    • @OhGodSheALeo
      @OhGodSheALeo 7 місяців тому +1

      Lmfaooooo omg

    • @OhGodSheALeo
      @OhGodSheALeo 7 місяців тому +1

      Lmfaooooo omg

    • @maryfields877
      @maryfields877 7 місяців тому +2

      Yes, girl. Like what in the world was she thinking? Smh...

    • @ITEEZ-
      @ITEEZ- 7 місяців тому

      This is the same teenage girl that had a child with an abusive male smh

  • @JesusIsGod.
    @JesusIsGod. 7 місяців тому +72

    This is what sin brings. A life full of trouble. Jesus Christ forgives. Looking for love in all the wrong places. Jesus Christ is available, dear young lady! ♥️

    • @ayanadavis9449
      @ayanadavis9449 7 місяців тому +10

      I’m so glad someone said this. God will show you exactly why he forbids premarital sex. These things are happening because most people are going against Gods word.

    • @keyahninaylor4974
      @keyahninaylor4974 7 місяців тому +3

      Amen 🙏

    • @JesusIsGod.
      @JesusIsGod. 7 місяців тому

      @@ayanadavis9449 precisely. Nothing good will come from it.

  • @wandak1889
    @wandak1889 7 місяців тому +83

    Abortion is not birth control!

    • @jaemelancholy1684
      @jaemelancholy1684 7 місяців тому

      Blame the disgusting men preying on these YOUNG girls that leave them once a kid is due. These poor girls have no choice because of GROWN MEN

  • @lisette1976
    @lisette1976 7 місяців тому +102

    God's way is always the best way. Dont let the world fool you❤

  • @bambina5604
    @bambina5604 7 місяців тому +70

    I'm an atheist and agree with everything you said. You don't have to be religious to behave and have morals, you just have to be raised right.

    • @charlotteschnook1351
      @charlotteschnook1351 7 місяців тому +5

      Precisely, if someone NEEDS the threat of punishment to act right, they aren't in love with Good or a God - they are just in love with themselves and only appeal to a god to try to save their insignificant mortal life

    • @queensavage9896
      @queensavage9896 7 місяців тому +4

      Non-religious as well. I wasn't raised right but I still CHOOSE to be a good person and evolve. ❤

    • @Sylver_Echo2923
      @Sylver_Echo2923 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@charlotteschnook1351 but don't you find it weird how we as kids inherently already know how to do bad things, but we gotta be taught to be gentle and nice, and to share. We seem to have a natural proclivity towards the bad. It also sounds like you've never even picked up a Bible, or read it in its proper context. seems like the people that know the least about the bible and the faith seem to have the most to say about it based upon what they've heard other people say about it, when those people are also cherry picking and twisting it's meaning.

    • @SarahR2D2
      @SarahR2D2 7 місяців тому

      ​@@charlotteschnook1351Why does society have laws?

    • @6ftNaturalBeauty
      @6ftNaturalBeauty 7 місяців тому +1

      Your morality is based off of religious moral and values. No matter how you feel, it is what it is. God is omni present and his loving reign can be intertwined even with the most evil of thoughts and actions. Even Satan gave gives

  • @ChainBreakerswithDrTrista
    @ChainBreakerswithDrTrista 7 місяців тому +197

    It starts in the homes...Parents need to only have kids that they want & can provide for (especially emotional support). People need to heal prior to kids. This is a huge problem! If we nurture kids better, they won't be so attracted to toxicity & dysfunction. The partners we choose are very often a reflection of the relationship we have with our parents. Most people didn't have healthy parents, upbringings, nor felt loved by their parents. All of this shows in how we respect ourselves, handle romantic relationships & treat sex.

    • @kathleenking47
      @kathleenking47 7 місяців тому +6

      We can't assume, these people even HAD a mother & father IN the home
      Wee 3 generations deep in foolishness

    • @Sky-yh3ml
      @Sky-yh3ml 7 місяців тому +4

      @@kathleenking47biggest addicts I knew in high schools are two or more generations households! Renters and buyers alike…
      Trouble is struggle does!

    • @mailvoor698
      @mailvoor698 7 місяців тому

      like I hear myself speaking 😅very true tho! and the kids will be used as shitpole and gather their own traumas

    • @sparklesp9304
      @sparklesp9304 7 місяців тому

      ​@@kathleenking47A two parent home doesn't mean it's a healthy home. People have to go to therapy to heal before having children.

    • @whippoorwillholler740
      @whippoorwillholler740 6 місяців тому +1

      YES, I agree. Parents have got to do better.

  • @stephaniehenry5617
    @stephaniehenry5617 7 місяців тому +156

    Wait so she said it's hard being a mother and a father at 19 but in the same breath said I really wanted this new child? What was she thinking it was going to get easier having two kids to do everything by yourself. The sense this generation does not make.

    • @farmhouseonthemountain
      @farmhouseonthemountain 7 місяців тому +1

      Some people are just poorly bred. Generations of low iq, low income individuals coming together over and over again, ugh.

    • @Beebie247
      @Beebie247 7 місяців тому

      MALES HAVE BEEN LIKE THIS FOR CENTURIES. EXPECIALLY BLAK MALES. THIS AINT NEW

    • @SisterLiyah
      @SisterLiyah 7 місяців тому +3

      God Bless you and your Beloved household in Jesus name
      So grateful to God for your service to him, A heart after His heart
      Praise be to God for the godly love He has witin you towards His creation
      I pray for your beloved children too, that God bless and keep them all the days of their life, and may your Beloved wifey ,and you , yes your household be strong living that God's dream for his beloved ones 🙏🏼... May your household continue before Him and His face all the days of your life and even all unto the eternity,may you continue before Him, seated in heavenly places with Christ 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💐💐💐💐

    • @evaphillips2102
      @evaphillips2102 7 місяців тому +9

      Babies are blessings despite being challenges. I can’t imagine having to go through with an abortion, even if it were to save my life. That would be just devastating.

    • @ruffandrelax290
      @ruffandrelax290 7 місяців тому +17

      @@evaphillips2102babies are blessings
      If they are such blessings how come nobody actually prepares for them 😂😂
      They are blessings when everyone knows they are going to ruin the moms life
      But not blessings enough for anybody to sit down long enough to create a good environment for one.
      No hate it’s just annoying to see how a baby can ruin a woman’s life and all ppl can say is “babies are blessings”

  • @gaz3606
    @gaz3606 7 місяців тому +77

    This generation is not lost, but a nightmare 💀

    • @bellemyjade686
      @bellemyjade686 7 місяців тому +6

      They are zombies… wandering aimlessly, needing brains to eat, and clearly never finding one

  • @Lightreign888
    @Lightreign888 7 місяців тому +112

    This is why our society is in shambles my gosh. 😵‍💫 This isn’t cute and should not be praised nor rewarded. The fact that there is no shame and people are openly sharing their dysfunction makes me more solid on not partaking in this circus. 😢

    • @Sky-yh3ml
      @Sky-yh3ml 7 місяців тому

      Pedophilia is global…

  • @shanellem6310
    @shanellem6310 7 місяців тому +110

    I tell my kids ( I have 2 teens), having sex is for grown ups only. IE couples who are established and can afford to have & raise kids. If you can't do that, then you shouldn't be having sex. Period. Kids are expensive and deserve to have parents who are going to love them, want them, & do what's in their best interest at all times. Having kids require sacrifice, sacrifice of yourself, your money, & your time. If you are not ready to make that kind of sacrifice, don't have sex. If you have a lack of self-control, then use consistent birth control, at minimum- wrap it up. I haven't even touched on all the STD's out there. Not to mention, we live in a world where people will use you for sex. Self preservation is OK.

    • @OrchidTingz
      @OrchidTingz 7 місяців тому +11

      I told my kids the exact same things when I was raising them you are speaking nothing but facts 💯 Thank you for your comment 🙏🏾

    • @realist4900
      @realist4900 7 місяців тому +3

      Exactly my sentiments.

    • @Sweetheart0189
      @Sweetheart0189 7 місяців тому +2

      They are still going to do it. Our bodies want & desires sex. Teach them to NOT have babies & to use birth control. Tell them to come to you, when they start having sex. Telling someone not to, when their body says other wise, won’t stop the problem.

    • @kathleenking47
      @kathleenking47 7 місяців тому +3

      ForniDating raises property taxes..especially if kids are coming.
      1st generation wasnt too bad, although not right
      By third, living gets EXPENSIVE
      ALSO..TURN OFF PORNO MUSIC!!
      5 year olds are hearing
      Sexy red😢
      In 1948, the biggest song of year was NATURE BOY by
      NAT KING COLE
      In 2023, it was POUND TOWN by
      SEXY RED

    • @Sky-yh3ml
      @Sky-yh3ml 7 місяців тому

      @@Sweetheart0189and tell them bout all the type of sex men do denial never stops anything

  • @demi_nicole
    @demi_nicole 7 місяців тому +16

    the fact that all her friends have to ask who the daddy is speaks volumes. pray for this generation

  • @jazzymommyx3
    @jazzymommyx3 7 місяців тому +80

    My baby dad did the same thing. I have 3 with him and he didn’t want my last child which is my son. I had my baby and never looked back. While thinking and crying about getting an abortion I heard God’s voice. He said I will provide. I believed him and he’s been doing exactly that ever since. We need faith more than ever. My heart breaks for those who have no understanding.

    • @Sweetheart0189
      @Sweetheart0189 7 місяців тому +1

      Are you & your Baby father together? I pray that you & your kids are well!

    • @cocopuff2852
      @cocopuff2852 7 місяців тому +18

      God said marriage before sex

    • @jazzymommyx3
      @jazzymommyx3 7 місяців тому +23

      @@cocopuff2852 clearly I know that but wasn’t taught that. My parents do not believe. I had to find my own faith through trial and error

    • @jazzymommyx3
      @jazzymommyx3 7 місяців тому +13

      @@Sweetheart0189 not at all. I pray for his soul and keep it pushing. It was and is very hard but I know God has carried us.

    • @milanC4659
      @milanC4659 7 місяців тому +5

      ​@@cocopuff2852Yes with the right person not just to get married !!!

  • @melgood8
    @melgood8 7 місяців тому +44

    He looks like a bum. Someone needs to teach her. Or give her guidance smh

  • @bonafide_forever
    @bonafide_forever 7 місяців тому +16

    Whoever she is, someone needs to contact her family or CPS because based on how she’s speaking, she and her child(ren) is not safe. She’s crying out!😢 This is extremely alarming🤯

  • @Misskwu
    @Misskwu 7 місяців тому +21

    Yes ! The bedsheets for curtains blew me away Smh. Jesus be a fence. This is why God says to abstain from sexual immorality. It’s to protect us emotionally and physically.

  • @essieaku3563
    @essieaku3563 7 місяців тому +48

    Sadly, we have no control over other people’s behavior. All we can do is pray for God to help us to stay away from the crap that's making people sick in the head.🤮We need His Holy Spirit more than ever! 🙏🕊

    • @OrchidTingz
      @OrchidTingz 7 місяців тому +4

      That Part The Holy Spirit ALWAYS Gets The Job Done!🕊🔥👑🦁🙏🏾

    • @misslady5029
      @misslady5029 7 місяців тому +3

      Exactly. We also need to live the life that we preach about and be an example. ❤

    • @keyahninaylor4974
      @keyahninaylor4974 7 місяців тому +1

      Amen 🙏

  • @youmatter2god552
    @youmatter2god552 7 місяців тому +28

    Broke Busted and Disgusted 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️His background tells me all I need to know about him✌🏽💯

  • @RahYisrael99
    @RahYisrael99 7 місяців тому +17

    She wants another baby, yet doesn't want the first baby she is already raising alone. If she's alone, who will raise her child if she's no longer here?

  • @AAA34FL448
    @AAA34FL448 7 місяців тому +31

    This is why my daughter is well informed and in church with me. She understands the consequences behind doing grown things when you're young, and that's because I'm bluntly honest with her. She's focused on her job and career and I thank God for that. She was blessed with a conscience and that is all from God
    I wish these young girls would understand their worth is so much more than what they're throwing at men these days.
    Sending prayers to this young lady and all young ladies to wise up and seek true love from the Lord.
    Good video, Shumake 👍👏

  • @KingdomxTeachings
    @KingdomxTeachings 7 місяців тому +30

    Righteousness > Wretchedness

  • @jwillsurvive05
    @jwillsurvive05 7 місяців тому +35

    Ain’t no way she thought a man with sheets over his window was about to be ready to be a father

  • @js43168
    @js43168 7 місяців тому +13

    "sin is always fun"
    Bars!!!
    She knows who the baby daddy, she was embarrassed to say so because she knew he wasn't going to be there

  • @sashalawrence4786
    @sashalawrence4786 7 місяців тому +18

    This generation is no
    More lost than ours and previous. They are just open with it and able to document it.

  • @isaidadollar4668
    @isaidadollar4668 7 місяців тому +11

    I just pushed pause at the 2:05 mark to make this comment. Look at her background and look at his. It appears that she comes from a good home and his background there's a sheet up to the window and the paint is peeling. That right there says a lot.

  • @djidjine5082
    @djidjine5082 7 місяців тому +22

    I want a daughter but I’m scaredddd. Lawd!! 🤦🏽‍♀️
    And I pray to God my son is not like that young man. Hope my son is responsible

  • @theironbutterfly1104
    @theironbutterfly1104 7 місяців тому +20

    They think it's ok, because its the culture and these young women have seen their mothers do it.

    • @Missylife-t7m
      @Missylife-t7m 7 місяців тому +6

      The same with fathers leaving their children to mothers raise on her own.

    • @theironbutterfly1104
      @theironbutterfly1104 7 місяців тому +1

      @@Missylife-t7m im not a man, so the shots fired backed fired on u.

    • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
      @doll.ov.poetrii4682 7 місяців тому +3

      ​@@Missylife-t7mYup. Just a vicious cycle of dysfunction...

  • @Olivia84818
    @Olivia84818 7 місяців тому +16

    I watch this UA-camr, she had mental breakdown with her first child. She’s young, fun and silly but she has low self-esteem, when you told me she wasn’t joking, I felt bad. I pray she knows her worth one day. ❤❤❤ This is Sad.

    • @j.elixir6089
      @j.elixir6089 Місяць тому +1

      I forgot her name and have been trying to find her channel for weeks

  • @Keana43
    @Keana43 7 місяців тому +19

    Babies raising babies smh😢

  • @Ruizfamilia140
    @Ruizfamilia140 7 місяців тому +4

    ABORTION GOES AGAINST MY FATHER 😢 I DO NOT CARE WHAT YOU SAY 🙌🏽🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @Simplesavingsforatlmoms
    @Simplesavingsforatlmoms 7 місяців тому +9

    Not drop the baby and be outsiddddde in the Summer, No ma’am!

    • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
      @doll.ov.poetrii4682 7 місяців тому +7

      Being outside in the summer is probably how she got that baby in the first place SMH

  • @christinag1998
    @christinag1998 7 місяців тому +10

    Her parents failed her.

  • @Fungigi
    @Fungigi 7 місяців тому +20

    These are the types of women that men threaten to "leave" women past 35 for. May the odds ever be in your favor gentlemen.

  • @pat4502
    @pat4502 7 місяців тому +14

    My prayers for her…as an elder…I must do my part to cover this youth in prayer

  • @mgh174
    @mgh174 7 місяців тому +74

    AND these are the poor girls wolves prey on. Cause they could never pull a truly confident healthy woman. This girl was already broken, so he broke her even more. Can you imagine being TOLD to go have a medical procedure by someone you thought cared??

    • @amaradominique
      @amaradominique 7 місяців тому +9

      If she don’t she gonna he might unalive her.

    • @mgh174
      @mgh174 7 місяців тому +1

      @@amaradominique Exactly and the community tells girls like this to do better... HOW can females like her get better when crap like him walks into her already disordered life??... smh. unprotected, broken girls are preyed on so much they develop NO emotions and become shells- but when she becomes the WOLF and turns on any man in her path... they scream how no good women are out here... not understanding that the woman she is, is a product of other MALES mishandling/trashing/devaluing them.

    • @farmhouseonthemountain
      @farmhouseonthemountain 7 місяців тому +14

      Yes. And they lead with their sexuality because it gets them picked, and who doesn't want to be picked as a young girl? It's a sad cycle and neither party is to blame or blameless. It's messed up.

    • @mgh174
      @mgh174 7 місяців тому +1

      @@farmhouseonthemountain if she is unstable she will lead with sex… that’s a man’s job to lead right? But if he’s is a heathen or selfish then he’s gonna get what he can get, Right? This is why men are called to be leaders- so many of males are broken too yes understand this but ultimately it starts with men. LEAD the way if we lead men it’s backwards. Women aren’t stupid but order is order. Gods order. If he doesn’t want easy Pickens guess what… she wouldn’t be able to lead with sex.

    • @evaphillips2102
      @evaphillips2102 7 місяців тому +3

      I would literally go dumb. Wake up in a jail cell with no memory of prior events. “He had it coming.”

  • @dannaaaaa344
    @dannaaaaa344 7 місяців тому +9

    That’s why in high school when I realized the type of friends I kept around I went through a real season of being alone and detaching myself from these people. I wasn’t a believer at the time but them type of women as friends really don’t hold you accountable for anything and are very materialistic. They’re just lifeless and empty with no real identity besides social media trends. I’m still alone to this day, no friends just my spouse and my kid, no outside circle. Because every single female is all the same. They may have a female that’s cool and relatable but smoke and is a undercover alcoholic, it’s always something

    • @chitlinjuice
      @chitlinjuice 7 місяців тому +3

      Why did you lie like that and say you're alone when you literally have a whole spouse and kid. You literally have a family and you act like you going home to an empty house 😂

  • @JuliaShalomJordan
    @JuliaShalomJordan 7 місяців тому +52

    Integrity, morals and character are attractive…but not to this generation.🥴🙏🏻

    • @ruffandrelax290
      @ruffandrelax290 7 місяців тому +3

      No you got it wrong
      This generation wouldn’t know those things if it hit them in the face
      And that’s the problem to

    • @Taytaystegall
      @Taytaystegall 7 місяців тому +3

      Yea I'm in this generation and this generation is terrible that I wish I wasn't born in it

  • @mimikins314STL
    @mimikins314STL 7 місяців тому +25

    So sad…that’s why we have no community. This is why our children act like they are lost. Please stop sleeping with people and getting pregnant then using abortion as birth control. Just recklessly killing a baby unnecessarily. I blame him and her. Save sex for marriage, PLEASE!

  • @jackiehall__7275
    @jackiehall__7275 7 місяців тому +4

    The bedsheets for curtains most definitely said it all 😢 i feel sorry for her & that baby.

  • @celesteredding1550
    @celesteredding1550 7 місяців тому +61

    Males & females are not sexually protecting themselves 😢. Out here free-willy & taking chances.

    • @evaphillips2102
      @evaphillips2102 7 місяців тому +1

      Why be careful when you can just get an abortion if you slip up 😶

    • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
      @doll.ov.poetrii4682 7 місяців тому +5

      ​​@@evaphillips2102 It's better to get it right the first time and not have to put oneself or one's body in a possible traumatic situation through abortion. We should ALWAYS be careful and not be reliant on everything else to clean up the messes we make; pick up your own mess without the drama. The education is there, the resources are there (and some of them are completely free), there is no reason for unwanted pregnancies in 2024 (in America, anyway) unless women are just being careless, reckless and irresponsible intentionally and that's childish. (Excluding women and girls who are impregnated against their will. They don't represent the collective of women who abort though.)

  • @deannapaul4962
    @deannapaul4962 7 місяців тому +9

    I think that this generation is lost

  • @anonnnymousthegreat
    @anonnnymousthegreat 7 місяців тому +23

    From all the previous generations dealing with single motherhood and how ridiculously difficult it can be, i would think this new generation would learn from it. Seems like it will take gen alpha to not repeat the cycle. This new generation keep treating the most serious things like they are jokes and then want to whine and cry, “woe is me”, when they put themselves in these situations. I’m so tired of these cycles not being broken.

    • @pholoso8884
      @pholoso8884 7 місяців тому +4

      I think if the single mothers then were honest about how tough it is then the younger generation wouldn't see it as a possibility.
      As for the laughter :it's all shame, shame makes you want to reduce everything to a joke so you can temporarily cope and not deal with the immediate consequences of your actions. Sad part is a few years down the line, the laughter moves to your face as baggy eyes and a wrinkled forehead and a tongue that's so bitter no man wants to be around you...

  • @Superhb
    @Superhb 7 місяців тому +3

    This story is so sad , Im praying the next generation will make better discussions 😢 for there future.

  • @vannamacon2466
    @vannamacon2466 7 місяців тому +4

    worried about being outside after the baby lets you know her mindset ! after my kids the last thing on my mind was outside . once i found out i was pregnant i went into mommy mode

  • @tiffanyyisrael7989
    @tiffanyyisrael7989 7 місяців тому +5

    I actually saw a few of her videos about a year ago when she was pregnant with the first one, her mom was pissed!

  • @shaorl67
    @shaorl67 7 місяців тому +9

    I cannot understand what’s the appeal in being with a loser or a bum. Let alone having a baby with them. You’re not going to win the battle ladies. Even after the baby comes. The baby is always going to need both parents as a union to get through in life PROPERLY. Plus, is that Terry @10:54 ?! Lol 😂💯

  • @adp6714
    @adp6714 7 місяців тому +5

    And (older)men claim that these young(er) girls aren't ran through and don't have baggage.

  • @ichiban6004
    @ichiban6004 7 місяців тому +9

    I’m not Christian or religious but I love your content so much! So inspiring hearing this stuff come from a man

  • @Juspeachy13
    @Juspeachy13 7 місяців тому +101

    I'm so confused by this. If you have unprotected intercourse with someone, why would you just assume that you didn't father a child? He said, "That's not mine" as if he could just magically erase his DNA from the fetus.

    • @farmhouseonthemountain
      @farmhouseonthemountain 7 місяців тому +30

      Ij just said something similar. Like what? There's no saving people like this. They're not playing with a full deck.

    • @shanellem6310
      @shanellem6310 7 місяців тому +31

      It's old fashion gaslighting.

    • @Veracityseeker7
      @Veracityseeker7 7 місяців тому +21

      Cognitive dissonance.

    • @Sweetheart0189
      @Sweetheart0189 7 місяців тому +20

      They assume she slept with other men. Especially if she gives it up to him quickly.

    • @anonymixx8106
      @anonymixx8106 7 місяців тому

      ​​​@@shanellem6310 exactly. It's sad watching even commenters and observers get fooled by OG "deny deny deny." Not stupid, evil

  • @sampajuda1
    @sampajuda1 7 місяців тому +12

    Love your heart, brother in Christ. God bless you and your family. You are doing purposeful work and the ones that need to get it, will get it.

  • @warewellnessco
    @warewellnessco 7 місяців тому +6

    The beginning is a big NO. But this is what happens when good fathers and mothers aren’t in the home.

  • @restlessfae2407
    @restlessfae2407 7 місяців тому +6

    He look older than her.. like he's 30-40 years old.

  • @quilabill
    @quilabill 7 місяців тому +11

    Always appreciate your advice and wisdom , especially because you are a Husband with your heart and mind focused on Word of God🎉

  • @vannamacon2466
    @vannamacon2466 7 місяців тому +6

    im 34 and my mom talked to me growing up so i dont agree with half the stuff these girls do today including being naked in public and thinking its normal . im happy im raising my kids to be better

  • @belindarichards8395
    @belindarichards8395 7 місяців тому +8

    God Almighty I pray for our children, this generation and the coming generation. Father hide them under Your Mighty wings, make them invisible to the enemy. Father give us strength as parents, aunts, uncles, grandparents to pray for our children and every other child. Help us to rise and teach our children according to Your will and for Your Kingdom. Help them when they are not under supervision, that the Holy Spirit and angels, may guide them to do the right and correct thing. 🙏🏽

  • @crystaljones2892
    @crystaljones2892 7 місяців тому +2

    Facts!!!!!!

  • @francescamiller4340
    @francescamiller4340 7 місяців тому +11

    I think these young girls just want a baby & don't really care who's the daddy!😮

  • @kaishajones
    @kaishajones 7 місяців тому +5

    “Man had bed sheet for curtains” was a word.
    Then she telling her friends that’s she don’t know who the BD is?
    This generation makes me sad 😞

  • @nataliexrd256
    @nataliexrd256 7 місяців тому +4

    Not the bed sheets for curtains 😂

  • @GHO5tMod3
    @GHO5tMod3 7 місяців тому +17

    Why would she record herself?? There’s literally no shame

  • @That_girlAaliyah02
    @That_girlAaliyah02 7 місяців тому +94

    I really hate how everyone in this generation is being represented. Not all of us have no sense or just excepting these types of behaviors. I really wish the older generations would realize that my generation is still affected by the older generations. Are we going to act like our grandfathers didn’t have kids with other women in the same neighborhood. Are we going to ask like our grand fathers and great grandfathers wasn’t deadbeats. Stop grouping a whole generation into a group. She’s 19 and I’m 21 her friends on the video shows how the young lady is and the type of friends she has.

    • @PaperMario64
      @PaperMario64 7 місяців тому +29

      We get your point, but do you get ours? It seems like for every young person like you, there are 20 like the young people in the video. So, thats why we are alarmed. The little 5 year olds sing dirty songs isn’t cute. But someone thought it was, recorded it and posted it. And while we don’t know how those little girls will turn out and we hope for the best, history indicates they will repeat these patterns. We want the best for everyone in your generation. We want your generation to learn from our mistakes. But in some ways, there is no comparison because we didn’t grow up with the same amount of damaging influences as you do. Be proud of self restraint and self respect and please know that we are proud of you.

    • @cryaboutit7499
      @cryaboutit7499 7 місяців тому +23

      Right. I’m 20 and it’s funny because every generation had young people like this, it just was filmed and put on the internet because they didn’t have advanced social media in the 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s…
      I really hate how older generations group all young people together. I’m 20 and I’ve never dated, I’m just trying to live my youth which, surprise, doesn’t include acting the damn fool out here. I’m actually saving up so me and my 3 friends can go to Disney land Paris 😂.
      Young people like in this video are all troubled and I blame the people that raised them.

    • @anonnnymousthegreat
      @anonnnymousthegreat 7 місяців тому +7

      It may not be all of you, clearly. But it’s a good chunk of your generation though. Y’all who don’t fall into these categories need to start influencing your generation to change for the better or else the older generations are gonna keep lumping all y’all into one. They did the same for my generation (millennials), still do and even lump us in with your generation because my generation come right before your generation. All i have to say is that you guys have no excuse to not do better because my generation constantly got ragged on and still do for things that we also could’ve changed. So you guys definitely had us to learn from to not repeat the same type of behaviors. One thing for sure is that we never joked like this about things like pregnancy. This on a whole new level of it.

    • @cryaboutit7499
      @cryaboutit7499 7 місяців тому +15

      ⁠@@anonnnymousthegreat Your gen had the highest rates of teen pregnancies in my country some of y’all were raising some of Gen z…

    • @restlessfae2407
      @restlessfae2407 7 місяців тому +20

      Facts. A lot of teen pregnancies back in the 80's and 90's. During the crack epidemic. A lot of crack babies were the results of the birth of millennials which resulted in a lot of mentally ill and behavioral problems. And they had kids when they were teens and listening to nasty music back then. But where does it stop? How do we put an end to it? We can sit here and play the " blame game" all day. But how do we put an end to this? The only way we can put an end to it.. and people responsible for the behaviors in our society. Call them out parents and back influencers, don't let your kids listen to them. Stop letting tablets raise your kids. Talk to your kids.. treat your kids like human beings instead of emotional pets. IF your child has a mental illness.. get them the help they need. Stop saying " ain't nothing wrong with my kid". when your kids is acting up in school and attacking teachers.

  • @shantaloves9043
    @shantaloves9043 7 місяців тому +15

    Na, Shumake took me out when he said he got sheets for his curtains! But these guys out here are wild and insensitive.

  • @foreverunbothered1951
    @foreverunbothered1951 7 місяців тому +3

    Your child needs a strong daddy!!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾🫶🏾 and men and women need to raise their standards!!! I add the fact they need to take accountability for not standing on their standards!!!!

  • @shomarimonroe150
    @shomarimonroe150 7 місяців тому +2

    I enjoyed watching your video today

  • @tiffanyyisrael7989
    @tiffanyyisrael7989 7 місяців тому +10

    And the guy looks dusty, with bad teeth and a sheet as his curtain. 🤦🏾‍♀️She should've done better, this is sad. 🤦🏾‍♀️At 19 you should be in college, traveling and having fun, she's really setting herself up for failure.

  • @EvaVas03
    @EvaVas03 7 місяців тому +10

    Amen! But I switched the word Bold to Audacious! AUDACIOUS is to Audacity! Blessings 💜

    • @vee4847
      @vee4847 7 місяців тому +1

      I feel you i be trippin some days

  • @2ndTakeTae
    @2ndTakeTae 4 місяці тому

    Man I been so mad and upset with people that are being foolish and I forgot they can’t see what I see. Thank you. I have more perseverance now

  • @mirandarebecca3646
    @mirandarebecca3646 7 місяців тому +11

    Are these really the youth of today? I can’t believe what I am seeing in these videos. Please don’t concern yourself with rehabilitating them. It’s a lost cause and will be a waste of your time. All you can do is raise your children the best way you can.

  • @kiriyareview9823
    @kiriyareview9823 7 місяців тому +9

    What she expect? He is using sheets as curtains!!! Like girl. My goodness. OMG he just said it in the video… lol because I literally paused the video at 1:45 to type this… 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @realist4900
      @realist4900 7 місяців тому +1

      I was thinking the same thing - he’s a whole bum.

  • @spekialcay1
    @spekialcay1 7 місяців тому +21

    That’s the oldest trick in the book. Working for child support has shown me that these young men and women are totally clueless about life let alone getting pregnant! They just don’t know that life gets harder when you have a child. People will promise everything in the heat of passion but after the high, he’s moving on to the next one…

  • @Tiny-one-o6n
    @Tiny-one-o6n 7 місяців тому +3

    You gotta teach women that men are just like that! No matter what men put out and women take in!!! You gotta teach women better!

  • @natashamcclellan2707
    @natashamcclellan2707 7 місяців тому +3

    Great video my brother in Christ ✝️❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @oleghrozman4172
    @oleghrozman4172 7 місяців тому +1

    I strongly believe that it's not just "this generation" is lost, but entire HUMANITY is doomed as a whole.

  • @shanellraquel
    @shanellraquel 7 місяців тому +11

    Thank you so much for your content , such a blessing !

  • @Kira-berry
    @Kira-berry 7 місяців тому +5

    Brotha… we need to learn how to Unlearn the world ❤ If we were cleansed then Christian life wouldn’t be viewed as boring etc we need a camp how to unlearn the world❤

  • @MsDisneylandlover
    @MsDisneylandlover 7 місяців тому +3

    Praying for this sister she seems to need alot of help or need something smh..

  • @Bornagainvillain
    @Bornagainvillain 7 місяців тому +18

    That’s just fricking sad…
    I feel for the woman…

  • @mahastover
    @mahastover 7 місяців тому +4

    “He had Bedsheets for curtains” 😢

  • @ResilientIzShe
    @ResilientIzShe 7 місяців тому +3

    Ok, so my 1st post was while I was watching the beginning. She has mental health issues, that's sad. There is adoption as an option. However, we just need to pray for her & this new generation as a whole. So many men & women have been traumatized as children, sexually, which leads to promiscuity, insecurities, & low self-esteem. I'm about to be 43 & still struggle with those issues. I used to settle to feel loved because I felt unloved as a result of sexual abuse that I did tell yet nothing was done by the people who should've protected me & all of my uncle's victims, which included his own children. I empathize with her & understand how she might feel like it's the only way. Clearly, she is lacking a strong support system. Mental disorders are real & they can lead to harmful responses including suicide. Thank God I know Him, because despite have mental health challenges, I am not suicidal, have not been, & gratefully didn't experience post partum depression.

  • @hillmeli
    @hillmeli 6 місяців тому +1

    I set in my heart the following: if a man shows me with actions and words that he does not care for me or that he has no feelings for me, or even that he sees no future with me...then you can't have me any kind of way. You are not worthy to share my space or my time. You don't even deserve to be my friend.

  • @joybrooks564
    @joybrooks564 7 місяців тому +8

    I peeped those "curtains " too🔹️she could have given the child up for adoption, or better yet, should not have gotten pregnant in the first place..she should have known better

  • @whitneyfranklin9932
    @whitneyfranklin9932 Місяць тому

    Hi I'm new to your channel and I'm bless to come across it. Thank for being truth to God and speaking out. We need more real talk and go against all this foolish.

  • @FatimaLuv
    @FatimaLuv 7 місяців тому +11

    And thier bringing innocent babies into this world that didn't ask to be here. 😢

  • @felishapittman2778
    @felishapittman2778 7 місяців тому +6

    Who raised her? Where is her family? Is no one talking to these young women?

  • @rainbow310033
    @rainbow310033 6 місяців тому +2

    I need Jesus like I need air I'm not perfect but I not about this hook up culture no married nothing because a covenant with God is important 🙏 💯

  • @Latomdra
    @Latomdra 7 місяців тому +4

    Honestly, if I were to call all my friends and tell them I'm pregnant, they'd ask me the same question. Not because im out here loose and promiscuous. Its because I'm all the way single and not messing around with anyone. But of course this my situation and hers is completely different.

    • @kimwilson8140
      @kimwilson8140 7 місяців тому +3

      Girl why you trying get pregnant not married

  • @hellothere8347
    @hellothere8347 7 місяців тому +4

    I feel bad for her. couldn't imagine I would have been devastated as well my mental health wouldn't have been able to take that hit. I wish her the best I just pray she give up trying to do this thing called life herself and got o God..... its hard out here for us young girls especially thats why that bible verse, "Guard your heart above all else it determines the course of your life" stays in my head I don't even know the exact scripture but thats what it says and I hold on to it. I pray she get better and learn to just keep her legs close. sex is evil when you and the other person aren't one.

  • @mustyrious
    @mustyrious 7 місяців тому +14

    There’s no way she’s just innocent I’m not just gunna bash the dude but what she was explaining is telling a lot

    • @amaradominique
      @amaradominique 7 місяців тому +9

      She is mentally ill. I had a cousin who was bipolar and she did all kinds of mental stuff. It was sad she started self medicating with drugs and eventually died.

  • @izdirty9117
    @izdirty9117 7 місяців тому +2

    These woman’s choices baffle me ALL THE TIME

  • @ms.wonderful8099
    @ms.wonderful8099 4 місяці тому

    I'm pray for this young lady I hope she learn from this and protect herself and get closer to God

  • @HonestLeighSpeaking
    @HonestLeighSpeaking 7 місяців тому +11

    Ppl need Jesus and therapy!

    • @RahYisrael99
      @RahYisrael99 7 місяців тому +1

      Exactly. We love to leave the therapy part out.

  • @chloelageaux769
    @chloelageaux769 7 місяців тому +2

    Straight Facts!!! Keep going Shumake!

  • @VeeAll
    @VeeAll 7 місяців тому +1

    Amen.