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This video is all about how you can BE MORE PRODUCTIVE! I talk through effective lifestyle changes you can make because productivity is affected by your daily routine and then I go through my favourite productivity hacks which are backed by science!! Enjoy xoxo
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If you wanna be a lucky girl and the main character YOU HAVE TO wake up early because that’s make you control your day, if you wake up an hour or half before school/job you let you life controls you. You have to do what you want and then go to school/job after you did YOU things
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I need one hour to get ready and one more to travel to work. So if I add one hour for doing "me things" I have to get up at 6am. Sounds miserable to me.
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Procrastination is the cause of the fear that you don’t know how to do something. You will never know how to do something unless you take the step to try. Taking the first step sets you on a roll.
1. Morning routine:
Wake up early: slow morning with no work schedule. Wake up 1 hr earlier than usual.
- Go gym for mental health: exercise creates more energy and productivity (every other day: read a book).
- Nutritious breakfast (low sugar): eggs, avocado on toast, oats, granola, healthy high fibre yoghurt bowls
- Get ready for the day/work.
2. The working day
- Time restrictions for each task (= time blocking: e.g. 11.15-12 pack and ship orders). Helps against procrastinating bc no infinite sense of time.
- Don’t say you’re going to work all day: it’s not focused productive work and you feel burnt out.
- Stay organised and create organising systems: use apple calendar app colour code the things you want to balance in your life and use time blocking technique. Do a little bit of each task every day to not get bored and procrastinate.
- Allow for flexibility: follow your intuition (feminine energy) rather than logic and rigid order (masculine). Play to your strengths. Write down your top priority things - urgend, mid priority - important, low priority - can be moved and the rewards (e.g. netflix, yt, starbucks solo date, journalling, reading).
- POMODORO timer: 25 minute timer online + 5-10 min break, another 25 min work session.
- Just focus on the first step.
3. Best productivity hacks talk through: PREP TO TAKE THE THINKING OUT OF LIFE so you know what to do every day
- Create the calendar and colour code & time block it every week
- Commit every evening and saturdays to do things that spark joy: relax, see friends, take time for hobbies,
- Commit sundays to get your life in order to prepare everything for the week ahead of you to make life easier
- Habit-tracker app: tick off goals, e.g. taking supplements, journal
- Increasing motivation: watch motivational videos save in folder. Rely on discipline. You’re saying no to urself to take control in ur life: create a habit step by step.
- Create separation: change surroundings with longer study periods, e.g. 9 am till 12 pm study at home & lunch, then 1 pm till 4 pm study at a cafe, go home eat dinner and then spend 3-4 hours at uni library. Refreshens your mind and helps with time blocking, you don’t have infinite sense of time.
- Journal: question why you have fear of failure, e.g. why do i fear this, what is the worst & best case scenario, why do i feel incapable of doing well, how can i better prepare to feel more confident in doing so - keep questioning until you destroy ur fear of failure with logic.
- Low energy: take 1 day to do the things you want to enjoy, then the next day work. Mental health comes first.
- Rest: regular breaks and balance.
4. Work life balance
- Use the little joyous things and the comfort as the thing that gets you through the working day, e.g. going to a starbucks and journal. Work smarter not harder.
- Journalling about accountability as well: did i achieve the goals for the day
- Good night routine: slow, winding down properly. E.g. cup of tea, netflix, read a book. Make sure you're well rested for the busy day the next day.
Thank you! ❤
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i needed this so badly, i told myself i was going to study for the whole day and then kept feeling bad about the fact that i keep getting distracted and unmotivated to keep studying, this truly opened my eyes thank you so much!
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All it took was your 22 minute video to literally break my sluggish cycle. Your STYLE, FEMININITY, ELEGANCE, and INTELLIGENCE spoke to me. Thank you so much…LITERALLY. God bless you!🌷
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Control is not going against
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Ngl this was all super ADHD friendly advice, normally I click on these videos and they're like "you just have to do it, just build a routine and stick to it with no break/time for yourself". I think this is really good advice for people struggling with mental health/ADHD, thanks tam xxx
That makes me so happy. Thank you! I’m so glad you find it useful 💕
@@tamkaur yes it's really help me because me to have ADHD thank you very much for make this video 💗💗💗💗
Really? Ive never seen one saying that
Not for me 😭
Can’t put all the fucking people in my head in another room. Half of these I already do/don’t work for me. I naturally wake up early anyways and I do routines for the enjoyment. I still sit there and talk to people who aren’t real all day anyway.
YES. My ADHD has been the bane of my existence for the past 17 years and I finally decided that I have fucking have had enough and now I refuse to resist it and try to work around it now. And that essentially meant I'm creating my life again from scratch not the neurotypical way but the neurodivergent way, and boy was this video a GOLD MINE.
Not me waching this video to procrastinate studying for my exams...
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this was probably the most realistic one yet. other videos are so strictly focused on glorifying the hustler mindset and overworking yourself till you’re burned out and tired. this video gives you super helpful and realistic advice, while also intertwining self-care and emotional comfort. so that you can grind and work hard but also still feel like you have a life outside of your responsibilities but not jeopardizing them along the way
I have been a life coach for over three years, and I have never heard some pretty complex methods presented so simply. Your positive approach is contagious. Thanks for motivation.
I just want to say, as a brown girl, I’m so happy to have a role model that looks like me…I didn’t realise it, but I didn’t relate much to people who didn’t look like me, I always wondered why certain makeup didn’t look good on me, or why certain products made my skin dry - so recently I’ve been trying to follow people who look like me, so I have someone to relate to, thank you so much ❤
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•Wake up early
•Prioritize doing something which you enjoy doing after waking up
•Eat a nutritious breakfast
•Freshen up
•Use time blocking technique(dedicate a certain amount of time to a task, don't work for long hours... instead separate your time into blocks)
•Use pomodoro technique(setting timer for small amount of time and taking breaks in the middle)
•Just focus on the first step (it's the hardest part)
•Create seperate spaces for blocks of time
•Journal when you're feeling scared to do something-
• Why do I fear this?
• What is the worst case scenario?
• What is the best case scenario?
• Why do I feel like I'm not capable of doing this?
• Why don't I know how to do this task?
• In that case what can I do to make myself more prepared to do this task confidently?
•Take one day to yourself and do whatever makes you happy
•Rest well and take breaks regularly (don't overwork yourself)
•Journal your daily life so that you can have accountability (you can keep a track of what your goals were for the day and what goals toh actually accomplished at the end of the day)
•Create a slow and comfortable night routine
@jeon_yuki Thank you! I always look for someone like you on the comment to take note.
Thank you !
Also go to the gym in the morning for mental health
Put good outfit , makeup
Pay attention to What kind of work u feel like that day
I love how she is growing day by day. More people are getting benefits from her videos❤
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This is actually the best productivity video I have seen. It explains everything really well, especially some of the things I have heard from other videos, but those videos didn't explain it well. I also really enjoyed how organized and structured it was and every point was really good.
this makes me so happy 🥺🫶🏽
It's literally like your videos were made for me! Have recently decided to let go of someone who doesn't know what he wants and it has been hard to stay disciplined and push on. So grateful that it now is so much easier and that I no longer feel like that❤❤
thank you so much for reminding me that it's also important to take time for my mental health. i always feel so guilty and stressed when i'm not getting my work done due to mental/physical illnesses. but you were absolutely right when you said one day off won't make a big difference and it's okay to take a break. this video has changed my mindset and i appreciate you teaching me your wonderful advice while being kind and understanding at the same time
the way you explain productivity and having a balanced life makes so much sense to me and makes it seems ACTUALLY attainable
i've been waking up early lately, but, I've clearly been a lazy ass and procrastinating a lot and no amount of videos would do me any help actually but Tam, you, your video just helped me out in every way. the elaboration of every point is all what i needed. thank you so much!!💗💗
My school starts at 6:30am so i wake up an hour ago to get ready so if I add another hour I'll have to get up at 4 😭
Currently going through a awful breakup while battling with depression, I just want to thank you for existing 🥹🥹🥹🥹💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗 you literally just motivated me to go to the gym and commit to myself and to love myself 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗 please upload more videos like this or videos on how to glow up after a ugly breakup, you truly are an inspiration to soo many Tam 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗 Sending lots of love and support from Guerrero, Mexico 🇲🇽🌴💗💗💗💗💗💗
Wow. it explained everything. from working, being disciplined to taking rest, feeling peace and having fun. A BALANCED LIFE . loved it. needed it.
Miss Kaur, I absolutely love and appreciate you. Every video you put out comes with divine timing because it’s when I need to hear it the most. I love it when queens help queens and how you just help us become the best versions of ourselves. So grateful to have come across your videos since the beginning of 2023, because I can confirm that I’m a whole better person. 💖 lots of love 💕
Wow, thank you🥺
THANK YOU for the content you create!!! You can't imagine how much it helped me to overcome the hardest time in my life. I feel like I've finally found the strength to manage my life as I want and be myself😊
I just freaking love how you're giving us enery to prioritize ourselves and giving us tips to have main character energy in our lives....just luv ya girl....❤
Tbh you look so beautiful without makeup and you are the girl who literally guide us how to manifest and romantise ours life and be the main character of your own life . You are such a saviour for me .. lots of love from India
tam is literally the big sis I never had...i'm so proud of my yt feed at this point cause its filled with videos from tam and people like her who actually do the job of practical motivation that we really need....i seriously get a motivation spike every time i watch or listen to her videos in podcast mode❤❤
Slow mornings and nights are REALLY a thing. I totally agree to you on this one. I've been following the same for over 4 months now and OMG! the boost in energy it gives off every single day?? IT'S SO GOOD. You give time to your body and mind to take its own time to start up and relax, which just balances everything. You feel burnt out by the end of day, it's alright because that slow night is going to relax you and make you feel like you've done everything for the day, which is really satisfying and when you wake up with that satisfaction at night, you're naturally more motivated and energetic to repeat the same. This only increases the romanticism to be productive almost everyday, thus reducing the chances of you resorting to procrastination.
Thank you so much for this!
You have really helped me. All the things you talked about made so much sense and tbh i always fall back in my productivity even though after watching a lot of videos on it and that always made me feel guilty.
But i will be creating a better me now♡
This video is amazing and I am adding it to my motivation YT playlist. Your tips are genuine and also I really appreciate that you promote work & life balance and belief that we can achieve our dreams and still have great life and find time for everything that’s important for us. Thank you ❤️
This is the best productivity video I've watched ❤and I've watched a lot. You explained it so well, it flowed, it was simple and you covered literally everything!
you are so right about waking up earlier and prioritizing something you enjoy early in the morning before doing work. i woke up this morning late and it really makes my day feel off. thank you for your tips 💜
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This is the first video that I've actually felt truly tangibly helpful. Felt my outlook on life changing as I watched your video omg
honestly, this is so valuable! I am very grateful you popped into my life virtually
The timing of your videos is just insane!! Thank you soooo much!! 🌼✨️
So glad!✨
Read the Bible very morning! It is the best way to start your day!!! ❤️
Thx luv
Thanks for making this video.
I'm actually older, but I have often used my ADHD as an license to procrastinate, even though I know i have all the tools i need to be consistently productive.
I will borrow your line from the beginning of the video and say to myself whenever i dont "feel like it" ...."June 30th was the last day of my lazy and inconsistent productivity life."
Thanks again 🎉👍
OMG THANK YOU I REALLY NEEDED THIS 😭😭 I have really bad procrastination problems when it comes to me school work. All of my work is always corrects but I get points taken off for late work. Hopefully this helps !! 💗
oml im so thankful u posted this bc recently ive been procrastinating a lot n i rly need to understand that its not gud for me ty tam
So many good points made! I started my development journey this year and truly waking up earlier and having a morning routine has changed the game for me. You have to make time for yourself in order to see the results you are wanting. The gym also releases happy chemicals such as endorphins which boosts happiness💪 if you want to see a change in your mood and your life you have to review your routine!
Just started watching your videos been feeling down and unmotivated, but your energy and tips make me feel better and like I can get out of this funk. Thank you so much for being you.❤❤
An important part of my selfcare is watching one of your videos❤ thank you queen
I wish I could find videos like this tailored to people who not only work and go to school but also have disabilities that make finding the balance between productivity and rest harder. I frequently find myself sick with stress because it's so hard to make all the money I need in order to pay for the things I need to, go to classes, study for those classes in the way that is most effective for me as a person, maintain the household, maintain my social life, and find time to treat myself gently/rest (mental health + chronic illness).Very frustrating! HOWEVER, this was an incredibly lovely video and I enjoy finding new things to adapt into my own routine. Thank you for posting!
I’m so grateful I fauns you Chanel! You changed my life with your videos about validation and confidence! Thank you very much! I love your channel, your energy, your character, everything!!❤️
This video is so good, glad to see you grow so fast, happy for you girl!!
I played this video on repeat, heard you congratulate me at least 4 times yk why? I need to let what you said sink in and be ingrained in my mind because its the golden blocks to a successful life.
This is literally the best and most helpful video I’ve seen about productivity, self motivation, routine, etc. thank you so much for making this and sharing all of the tips and what has been helpful for you ❤
I'm so glad!
You look so pretty without makeup! You look mesmerizing with makeup because you do it so well! What a beautiful queen!
I have watched a lot of productive videos. This is the best so far.
Thank you ❤
I can already see a great shift in my mindset and my mood instantly changes after watching your videos thank youuu so much Tam I love you❤
Thank you SO MUCH for this video!! I have started prioritising myself and not being so focussed on getting hours and hours of unproductive studying done. Some things can be hard as I live with 4 other people and so I'm not always in control over what or when things happen but you've given me a lot of new ideas I can incorporate into my day! I'm defiantly adding this to my 'motivation and productivity' yt playlist 💖💖💖
Girll you are literally the best when i feel depressed i see your videos and boom I'm myself again thank you sm❤️
Loved this video! So many wonderful and useful tips on being productive. Will be following some of these tips. Also the video was nicely curated. Refreshing to see a video with lots of b roll and not just talking through each point. ❤
the best morning routine for night owls that i have ever heard!!!!!!!!!!! thanks girl💛💛💛💛💛
I LOVE THIS VIDEO, even after working on myself for a while sometimes I find myself keep going back into my bad habits/ not waking up early + procrastinating and negative self talk, BUT this video is literally the reminder I needed ~ putting ourselves in a stance to succeed,so logical, prioritizing happiness and productivity~ty sm, rn I’m struggling with my mental health/quitting weed/ just wanting to sleep all day , but literally tonight~I’m gonna sleep early and wake early tmmr and go for a run( which I love to do) + dress up and do my makeup and make sure to make time in my schedule for things I love ❤❤❤ for all my girlies struggling u got this 🎉☺️
Oooh girl I needed to see this! Thank you so much for giving this to us in bite-sized chunks that I can understand!
Hi Tam, thank you for sharing this productivity tips content. This is really insightful for someone who struggles to find the right routine
I literally love your videos. It really helps me be a better person
What a queen! 🤩 Thank you so much for this motivating tips!
Just discovered your channel a few days ago. Universe gave me a gift when I needed it. Thank you for being such an inspiration 💪🏽
What this girl inspires in me is incredible, she makes me want to improve every day. 💓
honestly it's like you read my mind with the content you put out, i needed this so badly rn
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This video was really good. I can tell you really wanted to help. The information was not general, it was thorough and truthful!
Oh my gosh I do the Timelapse trick too! I do that when I’m cleaning my house and used to do it for workouts to make sure I wasn’t slacking on my form and effort! I should try it for blogging. Thanks for helping me with perspective shift for that and your other hacks!
This video stands out as the most effective productivity guide I've come across. It articulates concepts comprehensively, addressing points that I've encountered in other videos but struggled to grasp. The organization and structure are commendable, making every key point exceptionally clear and valuable. I thoroughly enjoyed the video and showed my appreciation by clicking the like button and subscribing.
This video literally covered everything. All my questions. Thank you Tamanna ,this is genuinely helpful
That’s always my goal. Thank u xoxo
you are fresh and make me refresh from my depressed
Tbh girl you're my only source of motivation and I can't thank you enough for that! ❤
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GIRL THANK YOU FOR THIS!!! i literally dont know what to do with my life and have been procrastinating everything and the be stressed out cos i struggle finishing every task the last minute. this is really REALLY helpful THANK YOU🤧
You got this!🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
Okay wait wait wait, I just want to say for those people who had difficult starts to their lives or those who suffer with mental health problems....YOU ARE DOING GREAT! Look odds are against us and we still out here trying to better our selves.
The first 44 seconds of this video I cannot relate to because I couldn't go to school to get straight a's or get up in the morning because I was basically orphaned and had to take care of myself, but I STILL MADE IT and still making it. Let's hold space for those that just watching this video is a huge step, getting up, is a huge step. I SEE YOU. SMASHING IT.
the energy this girl radiates is so nice, i loved it 💓
Thanks girl 🧡
Your energy alone makes me motivated plus you have main character energy
You just gathered my whole life, thank you ✨
Finding your channel was simply the highlight of my day!🌹
I’m so obsessed with your vibe and the advice is everything!!! Ima start doing all these things 💕💕💕
Absolutely love your energy💜 Thank you for sharing.
I dont think you know how much this video improved and helped me and my mindset
Okay so in the end if you follow all that she told in this video is, Trust Me you will fall in love with your lifee. literally, you'll fall in love with the process of everything you do and YOU WILL BE HAPPY AND SATISFIED!
I saw this video few days back and all the content in this video made me more and more concious about what I'm doing, what should I do, how can I do better. I'm loving the process and so will you ! Love you girl! thanx. xoxo❤
AMAZING TIPS!!! This really helped me lot. Thank you Tam❤❤❤
Wow. Thank you, I so needed this right now! ❤
This girl has PREVAILED at life...and she is only 22!
Ah! I have ADHD and rly struggle with focusing so thank you sooo much for these tips!!! I have been trying all the productivity enhancing tools lately (lol) and recently started using superhuman meditations - the app is incredible for tapping into the mindset of focus and getting excited to complete to-dos. And the just frequency music tracks are specifically designed to boost focus. It's been a game changer for me so I can't help but tell others who might benefit as well :) Cw for next vid! xx
YOU and LIZ are the only persons who make my day , my life style and mind set better , LOVE YAA❤💋💋
i love your videos so much, i always write down your advice in my journal to meditate on and apply to my life
Girlll , you’re so inspiring 😭♥️
The best productivity video I've ever watched and listened to~ thank you Tam! ♡
Wow, thank you!
Thank you so much for helping us all really appreciate it🥰
That video is just directly to the point!!
Thank you so much ❤❤❤❤
Very glad this video was recommended to me, I can see how these methods will work as I've tried some before. Thanks a ton!
Thank you so much for thissss!!!!! ❤
no cap, but I REALLY needed this video, like I've been so off track lately... I used to do many of them that u mentioned, but, currently been so unproductive. love u
Brilliant video…. Motivating, practical and so much sense. Saving!!!! 😊 thanks Tam, very informative xx
you always blow me away in every video, like what a motivation!!!
Thank you, dear Tam for all your videos❤ sending love to you from Kazakhstan❤
Thank you for sharing your tips. This is one of the productivity videos I have seen
This is probably the best video I've ever watched, and I mean it. Thank you!
This video was super helpful for the time I spend doing my art and hopefully games design again soon! Thank you for your knowledge 🙏
Loving your pearls of wisdom. I will definitely implement.
I can’t even explain how much I loveee her vibe