Going through it now and hurting. Even though I was the one who walked away from a toxic connection, I keep hoping things were different and it hurts more.
I’m going through it right now. Things went horribly wrong, we both made mistakes. I guess i made bigger mistakes. Things escalated to such a level that friends had to intervene. Now she’s at her friends place and I’m here alone. I miss her. I want to become better for her. Idk what’s wrong with me, why do I hurt her. I care for her, really do. I love her. I miss her now :*(
@@abhilashsundaram2432 going through the same feelings man. but you want to know what came to light after the break up? I was always focused on improving and changing FOR her and didn't think if that change I made is what I want. it's good to hear them out, but you need to figure out what you want and need to do to become better for yourself, not her. because if you are able to rely on your own support, it gets easier
Life’s like a grid. Start at the bottom, make your way up, sometimes there are interferences which cause you to go back down, but mistakes and accidents get you to the bottom unfairly. 💔
It was a blessing. It was overdue and I finally feel free from burdens I wasn’t meant to carry. Sometimes I realize I’m so selfless I take on other peoples burdens without a second thought and then I see them not making any effort and realize the only person I’m hurting is myself. It was overdue and I’m grateful. It needed to be done
You know I love how the actuality of the uncontrollable variables takes center stage! No matter what dont let people tell you who, what, where and when you are! Why rich people become the authority on everthing pertaining to life! Love The law of God , the word , the ultimate standard!
She said it was all too much.ik I probably cared about her more than I should've honestly bc even wen she God moody I didn't disrespect her but she did to me.i told her I felt like she took things for granted n just didn't care.it was always watever n I brought it up n she swept things under the rug alot.finally breaking up w me n saying it was to much but I'm a genuine n nice guy n hopefully we'd see each other again in the future...the things I started letting go of n the focus I started putting in.once I create my business n start making things happen I surely hope she doesn't come back bc the blood sweat n tears I went through to get hear to pull myself out of depression I could really only explain w words n even then it's heartbreaking.then told me she actually wanted something...
Yes for me is good reason why I’m breaking out 18 years of marriage!!! My step kids and her family I’m done is time for new beginning Lord help me is not going to be easy!!!
Yep and what a lot of people don't realize is once you make that break you can't go back it's a done deal there's one bridge that you can't cross back over.
@@CT-yl3oj We both discovered we lost what makes us happy in each other. After 2years of separation a knock on my door was the beginning of another 25years of reunion. The underlying fact is 'true love' never split for forever.
@@DiReal_Donclassy I see. Well glad you got it fixed. Not sure if I could wait two years though. Lol. She is the only one I've experienced love with. So hope I can have a good ending like you. Thanks for the reply! 👍
But how were you able to move on during those two years knowing she could be laying down with someone else? That’s the only part that hurts, knowing someone else will replace me
i broke up with several persons, because they have so many flaws in their character, and the way they live, its a blessings so i won't feel regretful at the end , thanks , God !!
"You've got to free yourself" this hit hard
In his case over and over and over again.
Sometimes the breakup is a setup for a come up! Amen
Amen to that Sis God Is Great
Breaking up is Never in the Bible. So i disagree.
What does that even mean?
Yes, Definitely true
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER!!!!💯💯💯💯💯
Going through it now and hurting. Even though I was the one who walked away from a toxic connection, I keep hoping things were different and it hurts more.
I’m going through it right now. Things went horribly wrong, we both made mistakes. I guess i made bigger mistakes. Things escalated to such a level that friends had to intervene. Now she’s at her friends place and I’m here alone.
I miss her. I want to become better for her. Idk what’s wrong with me, why do I hurt her. I care for her, really do. I love her.
I miss her now :*(
@@abhilashsundaram2432 going through the same feelings man. but you want to know what came to light after the break up? I was always focused on improving and changing FOR her and didn't think if that change I made is what I want. it's good to hear them out, but you need to figure out what you want and need to do to become better for yourself, not her. because if you are able to rely on your own support, it gets easier
In this spot rn
Relate here
I hope you're good now>
I truly had to free myself after 8 years...true blessing 🙌
F that I am good...
When a person break up for a reason like he said it's sometimes a blessing. It hurt but you'll get over it and then you be happy. 🙏🌹
Not always true. You move on some losses always hurt, you learn to accept it.
@@kimmiet.8962 yea but it's a blessing to not have tht pain n still be there
Yes I was Soo hurt when me n my baby father broke up at age 20 my don was 2 n now he's calling me the love is gone but we still friends tho
I had broken with my friend now I felling very alone and i am not able for doing anything. I couldn't all the memories which had with him
@@ermalovette2075 0
Remember a toxic relationship. Thank god I’m out of there.
AMEN AMEN AMEN, ME 2!!!!💯💯💯
I’m still there
@@versusstatusxme too
I’m in one now and don’t know how to break free
@@versusstatusxme too
My break up was a blessing. I didn't stress, now I have peace. I will fight for peace. Period
❤❤❤ Happy for u. Yeah I know your feeling
Yes The Blessing Is Called Peace Of Mind 🙂
If you went to a Break up then its a blessing because maybe hes not the right Person for you wait for the right Person who values you 💖
@Harry Potter Thank you for the offer but i dont want a man in my life i have everything i want and i am Happy
Wow the timing this came to me… is impeccable… I needed to see this
Thank you Mike ...
HALLELUJAH FREEDOM IS GOOOOD🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Sometimes one person quits loving and respecting. That hurts forever. Good and big hearts can't heal sometimes 💔 😪.
Nah. You gotta realize that isn't your fault and you can't control how someone else feels. So move on and find new love and get over it.
If that’s the story you want to tell yourself…
@@blakehansen5434 Stop being insensitive. Respect that persons pain. Your lack of kindness is showing your story.
It does hurt. Especially when you give it your all and the other is downright mean and abusive. Yeah, it sure does hurt. A lot...
Healing is a CHOICE
Thank you. I know I need to be alone and rebuild this monolith inside me.
Amen. Thank You so much God for everything
Amen!
This video hit home today. Freedom from bondage
Amen!
Too blessed to be stressed self love and being happy in life is the greatest treasure 😍
Yes sometimes it is a blessing true
Life’s like a grid. Start at the bottom, make your way up, sometimes there are interferences which cause you to go back down, but mistakes and accidents get you to the bottom unfairly. 💔
Amen thank you Steve Hartley
Steve needs a hotline for when you need a dad
RIGHT! 💯
Right 👍👍👍
Exactly Steve
Thank you for the reminder
Totally!💯
My breakup was the best thing that happened in my adult life. May he rest in peace! Won't he do it!!!!
I agree 💯 totally true. People lose sight of this. We need to be reminded.
Amen to this
Im really free and peace ..🥰😍
❤❤❤Go Steve preach it!!!❤❤❤
Truly!
You are telling the truth bro Bllesed be and you are more light and love I believe you and I love your adorable woman you are great thank you
Ughh thank you verymuch
SO true!!!
Exactly. . Then u r free to meet thr one God has for you !!! ❤️❤️✨️✨️
Thank you 🙏 this resonates.
The breakup is the breakthrough
I love that
It’s hurtful Steve! I’ve been in tears for the past few days!
Amen! Halleluyah. Thank you baby Jesus
So true! Also deep
Soooooooo true 👍 🙌 👏
Big Facts🤲🏽💛
Love is freedom! 🌺🌺
Lack of honesty
♥️♥️♥️
I needed to hear this
Hallelujah amen Lord Jesus 🙏
Yes Lord ! And Thank GOD For The Greatest Revelation In Long Time ❤💯💯💯🩸🔥😂 Now Thrive Like Never Before !
Amen this is the truth
thats true free youself and be happy
Amen 🙏
REJECTION IS GOD’S PROTECTION 🕊
This is so true 💯
You show no what say yes indeed Amen
It was a blessing. It was overdue and I finally feel free from burdens I wasn’t meant to carry. Sometimes I realize I’m so selfless I take on other peoples burdens without a second thought and then I see them not making any effort and realize the only person I’m hurting is myself. It was overdue and I’m grateful. It needed to be done
AMEN AMEN AMEN
Thank you Lord in the MIGHTY NAME of JESUS CHRIST AMEN
To free myself 😎✌🏽
Thank YOU Steve....though it's hurting but that's the best I will do
Thanks Steve needed that
That is so true
True Statement!!!!
boy am i blessed
Amen 💯 Truth
Thanks. I needed to hear this now!
You know I love how the actuality of the uncontrollable variables takes center stage! No matter what dont let people tell you who, what, where and when you are! Why rich people become the authority on everthing pertaining to life! Love The law of God , the word , the ultimate standard!
My favorite Steve 🎉🎉
She said it was all too much.ik I probably cared about her more than I should've honestly bc even wen she God moody I didn't disrespect her but she did to me.i told her I felt like she took things for granted n just didn't care.it was always watever n I brought it up n she swept things under the rug alot.finally breaking up w me n saying it was to much but I'm a genuine n nice guy n hopefully we'd see each other again in the future...the things I started letting go of n the focus I started putting in.once I create my business n start making things happen I surely hope she doesn't come back bc the blood sweat n tears I went through to get hear to pull myself out of depression I could really only explain w words n even then it's heartbreaking.then told me she actually wanted something...
She didn't love you. Plain and simple
Amen and 100% agreed🙌👌🙏🙏
AMEN✝️✝️🙏🙏Praise The LORD AMEN✝️✝️🙏🙏
Yes for me is good reason why I’m breaking out 18 years of marriage!!! My step kids and her family I’m done is time for new beginning Lord help me is not going to be easy!!!
How are you handling it?
So true. It's time to free myself. Thank you Steve
I really needed to hear this
AMEN AMEN AMEN!😇💜🙏
YESSSSSSSSSSS NO MORE TOXIC RELATIONSHIP IN JESUS NAME AMEN🙌🏾👏🏽💪🏾🙏🏾💯
Amen!
💯💯💯💯
We need to hear this.
IM FREE
GOD BLESS HARVEY 🙏💚
Facts😎❤️💫
WORD UP!!!🙏🏾
He’s absolutely right when I divorced my wife it was a blessing. I just wish the years didn’t go by so fast that I lost. Should’ve done it sooner.
Truth!!
Steve Harvey is such a wise man
Absolutely ❤🙌🏽
Hello
You are blessed!
Absolutely.....
Yep and what a lot of people don't realize is once you make that break you can't go back it's a done deal there's one bridge that you can't cross back over.
Exactly you gotta let that shit go
Amen yes right
One time I was the issue, but the issue proved the point. Im so blessed
Facts Amen 🙏🏿❤
Amen so true 🙏🙏
Sometimes you breakup to close up. It happened to me and my wife, 25years after our reunion we're still intact and still counting
My question is how did you stay sane? Did you really believe she would come back or have doubts? I'm in that boat right now.
@@CT-yl3oj We both discovered we lost what makes us happy in each other. After 2years of separation a knock on my door was the beginning of another 25years of reunion. The underlying fact is 'true love' never split for forever.
@@DiReal_Donclassy I see. Well glad you got it fixed. Not sure if I could wait two years though. Lol. She is the only one I've experienced love with. So hope I can have a good ending like you. Thanks for the reply! 👍
@@CT-yl3oj I'm sure she's feeling the same way you feel about her wherever she is. Nature has a way of reuniting true love, you'll be shocked. 🙂
But how were you able to move on during those two years knowing she could be laying down with someone else? That’s the only part that hurts, knowing someone else will replace me
More wisdom!!!
HELL yeah 💯
Good massage
Yes it’s a blessing am now happy with my white chocolate
i broke up with several
persons, because they have
so many flaws in their
character, and the way
they live, its a blessings
so i won't feel regretful
at the end , thanks , God !!
Yes indeed.
Amen, so be it
Yes true love s very pain💔💔
I'm Thanking God Everyday for the breakup
true words
Thank You I needed to hear this
Rejection is protection!