This happened to me. I left and I started making so much more money. You don’t think things are connected like that! And obviously, my mental health and anxiety was so much better!
Congratulations!! That’s a HUGE accomplishment. Stay away & you’ll see how & why you got away from that person. It’s been a year for me & he is still trying to provoke me so I can contact him. But I don’t care & ignore him.
I completely agree with you! My ex was a dangerous narcissist. After I broke up with him, he wouldn’t leave me alone. It took me 2 years to heal after breaking up with him, but then I ended up meeting a manipulator, not sure if he was a narcissist or not but definitely a manipulator and a player. After going no contact with him, I’m doing better mentally, I’m not overthinking all the time like I was when I was with him. I’m not stressing like I was and anxiety is better as well. Thank you for standing up for those of us who have been abused!
Watch out for the ones who start out heavily interested in what you do, only to take it away and then rub it in your face. They are not the positive ones they claim to be. You take all the criticisms even when you know better. The moment you call them out on their bullshit, you get ousted as the bad guy.
Husband did this with a county fair. Took my joy away. I won a fish on the last try even the staff was like oh no she didn't...now we gots to pay this chick a fish for her son. I jumped up and down like a little kid with my son in excitement. I instantly was meant with the look of death. First for even thinking of trying to win the fish. Second that everyone around was now watching in excitement with us on the win. We walked out without the fish I won for my son. He once asked me why I always bring up "the past" when its something that just happened last week. He once asked why I call him a narcissist. My mom was the most dangerous narc with holding a pew pew up twice to me once while holding my first born after I left my second narcissistic bf. I went into my first domestic violence shelter from her and him. My husband learned off my mother and my ex bf. The last most dangerous narc I will be dealing with as I am healed now and know...if I go missing or die...he already tried once...I've just been a bug he can swish and has for two years while making me destitute. I now have my own place, new job with career advancement, and a strong stand on getting custody back from two false CPS cases he attached himself to that I opened. His son has a lying problem because he taught him to lie to government officials about our abuse and that I am his abuser. This was when my son was 6 hes now 10 and even with him lying on me and protecting his dad...weve got recordings now and weve learned...NEVER underestimate narc police officers who then got a corrupt narc CPS worker to stage a coup against a single mother trying to escape abuse. The narc husband was helped by the narc police officer, the narc police officer investigated me never my narc husband. I will now be sending said recordings after obtaining custody to every CPS unit that vouched for my husband over me. KARMA comes least expected.
That’s what my Narc did…He pretended to be something he was not! Pretending to be smart pretending to be successful pretending to be a good man and pretending to care…
The worst type is the ones who abandon their kids but are raising their stepchildren! Fighting here for two years to get alimony and he just doesn’t care…
I would say yes, but I'll one up it with a narc who abandons you with your children and stepchildren so they can "live their best life". They are all rough honestly
I have been gone for over 5 months after a 21 year toxic marriage. I just heard yesterday of the smear campaign and lies he has spread about me, after I kept the abuse I suffered quiet so not to talk bad of him. God had a hand in that being revealed to me. I had been praying God to heal him and change his heart. Now I have closure and know there is absolutely no chance. Thank you for all you do for us, Lee!!
I have separated myself physically from my narc of 22 years this year I know exactly what you're going through I'm just waiting for God to open up that door for me to leave. It's coming soon.
Good for you! Praying for them is what we're called to do and shows the strength of your faith and the integrity in your heart. I've prayed for my ex, but I finally stopped as I've been shown God has given him over to his reprobate mind. Some of them just can't be saved. They don't want it
@@mingo2024 exactly!! Yahuah (God's real name) assured me that he is turning my husband over to a reprobate mind and granting the desires of his heart which is all filled with evil. And this was after continued prayers of begging to change his heart and change his mine but unfortunately if they're not a willing soul it's not gonna happen.
This a word. You better say it. Don't have to worry which " type" is the most dangerous, it's YOURS, that is the worst 1 solely because it is all damaging you. You hit that sir 🙋🏽♀️
Please keep going. I've been stalked, Everday spied on, everyday harassed by a religious narassist for 14 years and he has Alot of followers AND I'm sick of it. Enough is Enough.
On a narc Facebook page, the question was asked: What's your narc's profession? Many said police and military. Religious leaders using spiritual abuse is a particularly vile form of narc abuse.
@ Yes! Big time. My h is M.D. Internationally in demand. People actually refer to him as a god because his expertise is so gifted in a difficult specialty. In some ways, he does a great job not getting the big-head, but in other ways, he fails miserably.
@linneasimchah1621 my ex is a doctor. Very altruistic on surface, horrible behind a closed door. He is the coldest, most calculated and evil person I have ever met
This was probably the best vid you have made so far. It’s rare to hear a man stand up for abuse victims, but to call out the “other side fairness” high horse jerks is awesome! Thank you Lee!
You are telling the truth about all narcissists. I am married to a covert narcissist, but I have been separated from him for almost 2 years now. I am on my healing journey now.
Not mad at all. You tell it EXACTLY like it is. I cannot trust anyone in my family. I trusted one sibling years ago. Turned out this sibling and diabolical mother were ruthless. I never saw it coming because I used to trust this sibling. Found out recently they ALL are behaving the same treacherous ways towards me. Now, I stay far away from them all because they have only the best interests of my lifelong abusers in their hearts. Keep telling us like it is - We NEED to hear the truth. It protects us
I'm definitely not mad! I appreciate your passion. Thank you for being real and being yourself! People seem to think, if we show emotions we're unstable or they're trying to teach us to suppress our feelings. My narc husband says I'm too ghetto for showing any emotion. Thank you for showing me I'm not the problem!
LEE! If you've doubted yourself a little- we hear you with the "this year better than me getting tired last year" blahblah bububb....but this video I was in the other room (I listen loud when I'm cleaning house) and I rushed back into the room to tell you I thought, "There you are, Lee!! That's the spot!" Great video. TikTok ban=Energy for UA-cam you've been looking for. 😊
Everything you said is truth. Narc mother, I married my mother who was a dangerous narcissist, Narc mom put a gun to me twice once with my oldest daughter who was 6months, my narc bf who I fled to my mothers house because of put me up against a wall at 4 months pregnant. Narc husband that came right after ex bf where they battled each other over me and narc ex bf lost bad then started using our only daughter to wage war making her physically sick everytime we had pick up. It was trauma I had to heal her from for a year of things he was telling her...toxic toxic toxic. Ex bf came from huge family of narcs, they took my daughter from me cuz he lost full custody to me. Narc husband offers false sanctuary and I'm lured back into abuse and narcissistic patterns learned from my mom of enabling and lying to protect. Narc mom and Narc husband have a drug problem. This is the most dangerous time for me as a domestic violence victim. If I go missing or come up dead lee...it's either my husband, his narcissistic sister or whose trigger happy, or my mom. I do not fear death. This man tried and failed before. I am happy to be called early and am fully accounted for in a book somewhere up above. Can't get restraining order again without block access of kids which right now they come first. Lawyer next week then filing. He will lose everything and he WILL come like Babyaga...The Devil you Know
Idk where you are, your financial/insurance situation, or if you have accessible resources available. But that a lot going on. Even if you don't have mental health resources near you I would reach out to a regular physician, clinic, or anything in an effort to be referred to appropriate resources. IMO You need help to navigate that because that's a lot, and you're not going to get help from your family. Stay safe, and know you can escape this.
If u mistreatment me and just for ur fun no I will never have anything to do with you there is no amount of stalking, talking, nothing can change my mind I have left bad relationships due to being mistreated and I refuse to listen to fakeness and lies.
Just wanted to touch on what you were discussing about narcissists who go after the whole family because they are trying to leave the abuser. When the abuser takes their whole family with them, then all they're really doing is absolutely proving why the family was leaving to begin with.
True. My narc ex has drug me through the mud. He cheated on me with a 26 year old now with child. I recently found out that he had been grooming a 23/24 year old which now she is 26. Im 42 he is 38. He has had me put in jail, ive lost so much weight I barely recognize me on some days. The hold they have on you is unreal. He hurt me too the core several times and it just seems like his life keeps getting better and better. While Im hurting he has moved on completely. Its been a long year of trying too get over him. It has taken a toll on my mental health. And in the end i get called crazy
My son, relying on the never-ending forgiveness of his mother, regardless his abuse with zero accountability….. in my seventies I’m done. Thank you Lee.
Loved this video. You’re helping people so much. At least you’ve helped me move passed a lot. I’m so glad I found your channel. Thank you for what you do.
One thing what I have noticed. When u think about them, talk about them, even watching this videos u are not even close to get over them, I was even three weeks ago, thinking about him. Idealising him and one day I just put God first and ask God to be Gods wil not mine anymore cos I didnt succeed, I feel much beter, I let it go, he is gonna, not gonna come back, I do not count days with no contact, I dont care how he is, I dont check his sociaal media, like he has never existed, the money what he took, I do not think about that cos I have God now, I start worshipping God not man. Thank u Lee for ur videos.
When it comes to safety, especially children.. you have to be passionate about protecting them. That's what you can do, bare minimum, as a guardian. And no, you're not even a bit wrong if you get upset and angry talking about safety and security. One must protect themselves and all others that aren't adults at all costs. People.. don't let a badly raised (it could be family or outside) grown child destroy you. See folks for what they show themselves as through their actions.. DO NOT GO BY WORDS, GO BY ACTIONS!
@superwoman7397…. I was deeply concerned because my Narc kept walking around Nude in front of our daughter ( this was a repeated habit of his)… My Daddy never displayed this behavior in front of me…. I started telling him “ Put on some damn clothes!” His excuse was she’s always around me… My son was always around me and I never ever walked around nude in front of him…My Nasty Narcissistic husband’s behavior was certified as tasteless….
The one that says he's dying and wants to see you one last time. Even though I truly know he's not. He forgot I know all if his lies and tricks he still wants to play on my heart strings, he just doesn't realize it yet but I don't have a heart anymore because of him. Guess the jokes on him this time.
Ooooh, I like Spazzin Lee🤬🤬🤬! You're speaking factz, we don't need the other side when it comes to abuse💯💯💯. This year, 2025 will be a great 1 Lee....we are listening and comprehending🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉💡💡💡💡💡💡💡💡. Greaaaaat video🔥🔥🔥🔥!!! Wake em up Lee...no soft parenting w us. Cuss if u need to😂.
Straight up, wolves in sheep’s clothing honey. I met one, and by the grace of GOD I’m still alive, literally hell on earth. Real life angel of the light honey.
I just broke up with my Narcissistic boyfriend of 2 years we were friends for 15 years prior to that but I didn't notice his bad side I until we dated and he moved in with me and my daughter. I found out that he was doing drugs in our home and would use the fact that he was working on our house as an excuse to get out of it and anything else that he did wrong and he would scream in my face in front of my daughter and recently he snapped off on me and her in the car and told her to shut the fck up she was praying because she was so scared we wouldn't get out of the car alive and he doesn't care he's trying to get other people to believe that he has justified reasons.
@irenehamilton2981 Thank you I'm doing everything that I can to recover and heal my daughter as well I feel like I just escaped a prison and finally I am free.
My Narc was always quiet and sneaky he lacked communication skills…. Kept watching me spying on me following me around he put cameras in our house to monitor my every move…. Without my knowledge… I wasn’t doing anything….
Paused here. Guessing. The dark triangle tethra what was the name again? psychopathy ,antisocial disorder , narcissism. I knew one of those. he left a trail of death and despair whelming in his own grandiosity as a failed doctor. So took sick poor people from the streets and started treating them. With homeopathie, he hated allopathy, but he screamed and denied sick people medications. One woman died and he was in prison, before I knew him. He died very sick and unhappy. In his 60's He believed so much in himself that he treated himself with homeopathie, he died soon after that. He came in my dream after his dead in a dusk dark world looking for help. I denied him the help and told him to go away. His karma I guess. This guy was freaking scary
Hello Lee. I watched all 18 minutes of this video. This video is one of your best ones❤👏👏🙌. I started laughing when you cussed. LET ME SAY SOMETHING EVERY ABUSED PERSON BY À NARCISST CUSSES AT THEIR "AMAZING BEHAVIOUR." I MEAN ITS MY FAULT OUR FAMILY IS BROKEN YOU LEFT. WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE? I have à narcisstic fiancé. He has really abused me for 2 years. Shouted at me in front of people in the street, cheated on me it would take time to write the list of what he’s done to me. He even took me to his friend who is a rapper,we created and made 22 songs with my voice then while I would practising my part in the song, he would call his mistress and go into his friend’s bedroom while his friend would be working with me. WHAT KIND OF MENTALLY IRREGULAR DO YOU CALL THAT? The daring of these types of people is outstanding. I mean yeah....right these people’s goal is"WE ARE GOING TO ABUSE PEOPLE AND WE HAVE TO DO IT EFFECTIVELY, THOUROUGHLY. AND WHY WILL WE ABUSE PEOPLE BEHIND CLOSED DOORS? ANSWER➡️➡️FOR FUN JUST FUN
So many people serial date the "same" person, just with a different face/name. I heard a matchmaker say the research shows the best predictor of a healthy relationship is being genuinely happy/content living life solo on your own first.
The worst narc imexp is the one that breaks your sense of reality, gets you to doubt your own sanity and believe you’re insane, to the point of freaking out and willingly seeking an extended psych eval… which revealed PTSD, other than that I was perfectly sound, sense of reality was fine, and actually quite well adapted according to him, considering the context, events, traumatic attacks, and all the dynamics at play. I’m sane, but extremely sad, but who wouldn’t be if they were conspired against by their parents/family and their ex-husband/father to their 2 children in 50/50 custody, to hide the attack where I was strangled for wanting to divorce this horrible man, by lying to everyone who once knew me they could reach, by annihilating me with insane accusations. They did everything they could to turn my sons against me, triangulating me, celebrating the holidays and my sons birthdays at their place without me, as if I was already 💀, push me to unalive myself. That lasted for 8y. It’s still ongoing. But their investigation too now this time around.
You wouldn't believe the things I've endured at the hands of narcs. They truly don't know when to quit and get hella mad when you won't just lie down and take their 💩literally AND figuratively. Bottom line, Imma unfollow (online and in real life) and get on up out my space ANYBODY that is purposely triggering. Throwing rocks and tryna hide their hands 🤨 find some original material, and stop being a bandwagon bish is my motto. 2025 is the year narcs can get it! It's crazy to lie on folk when they can annihilate you with the TRUTH!
@MentalHealness Definitely true. The vengeance of a narcissist is dangerous, scary, and eternal. The coverts are harder to identify tho. They seem to have better control of themselves for the most part, especially in front of any witnesses. But when they finally snap, really bad things can happen really fast. Like becoming the victim on an episode of Snapped.
I am not sure if my friend is a narcissist, but he has a lot of traits and lies all the time and he always has to have a different woman like every few months and he says hurtful things and he can throw a little temper tampons. We have been known each other for five years. I cannot figure this guy. I do know he’s always in social media posting himself pictures with women what he do his travels where he lives how he lives what he eats. What is he?
I think that the more trauma the more dangerous. I just realized that I am a covert narcissistic. I look for the lie and use the truth to destroy your life. My dad's wife was a covert narc and I learned from her actions.
23 days in no contact and so far I been excelling in life some how. Karma just maybe real after 4 years. No cap.
Stay safe and protect your peace
This happened to me. I left and I started making so much more money. You don’t think things are connected like that! And obviously, my mental health and anxiety was so much better!
Congratulations!! That’s a HUGE accomplishment. Stay away & you’ll see how & why you got away from that person. It’s been a year for me & he is still trying to provoke me so I can contact him. But I don’t care & ignore him.
Best advice was to be alone after finally getting away! I spent 2 years learning me and healing! Thanks to you!
"When you are dealing with abuse; sometimes one side is enough" Well-said!
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Soooo true
Preach!!! I kept telling my mother about my Narc’s abuse she told me “Let him be a man and listen to what he says.” I was young naive and gullible!!
The worst narcissist is the one who finally breaks your sense of self
That was my nasty Narc husband!!! I was lost back in the day from his foolishness…
That happened to me
I completely agree with you! My ex was a dangerous narcissist. After I broke up with him, he wouldn’t leave me alone. It took me 2 years to heal after breaking up with him, but then I ended up meeting a manipulator, not sure if he was a narcissist or not but definitely a manipulator and a player. After going no contact with him, I’m doing better mentally, I’m not overthinking all the time like I was when I was with him. I’m not stressing like I was and anxiety is better as well. Thank you for standing up for those of us who have been abused!
overthinking is my disease now and ending up,into other physical ailments
Watch out for the ones who start out heavily interested in what you do, only to take it away and then rub it in your face. They are not the positive ones they claim to be. You take all the criticisms even when you know better. The moment you call them out on their bullshit, you get ousted as the bad guy.
Husband did this with a county fair. Took my joy away. I won a fish on the last try even the staff was like oh no she didn't...now we gots to pay this chick a fish for her son. I jumped up and down like a little kid with my son in excitement. I instantly was meant with the look of death. First for even thinking of trying to win the fish. Second that everyone around was now watching in excitement with us on the win. We walked out without the fish I won for my son. He once asked me why I always bring up "the past" when its something that just happened last week. He once asked why I call him a narcissist. My mom was the most dangerous narc with holding a pew pew up twice to me once while holding my first born after I left my second narcissistic bf. I went into my first domestic violence shelter from her and him. My husband learned off my mother and my ex bf. The last most dangerous narc I will be dealing with as I am healed now and know...if I go missing or die...he already tried once...I've just been a bug he can swish and has for two years while making me destitute. I now have my own place, new job with career advancement, and a strong stand on getting custody back from two false CPS cases he attached himself to that I opened. His son has a lying problem because he taught him to lie to government officials about our abuse and that I am his abuser. This was when my son was 6 hes now 10 and even with him lying on me and protecting his dad...weve got recordings now and weve learned...NEVER underestimate narc police officers who then got a corrupt narc CPS worker to stage a coup against a single mother trying to escape abuse. The narc husband was helped by the narc police officer, the narc police officer investigated me never my narc husband. I will now be sending said recordings after obtaining custody to every CPS unit that vouched for my husband over me. KARMA comes least expected.
That’s what my Narc did…He pretended to be something he was not! Pretending to be smart pretending to be successful pretending to be a good man and pretending to care…
The worst type is the ones who abandon their kids but are raising their stepchildren! Fighting here for two years to get alimony and he just doesn’t care…
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I would say yes, but I'll one up it with a narc who abandons you with your children and stepchildren so they can "live their best life". They are all rough honestly
The sad part is there is nothing you can say or do will ever make him care. Just keep that in mind. I'm sorry you're going through this.
No way! Those are the best ones. It protects your kids from them. Why would you want your kids with a personality disordered person?
A malignant, passive aggressive narcissist in my experience is definitely up there… borderline psychopath.
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I have been gone for over 5 months after a 21 year toxic marriage. I just heard yesterday of the smear campaign and lies he has spread about me, after I kept the abuse I suffered quiet so not to talk bad of him. God had a hand in that being revealed to me. I had been praying God to heal him and change his heart. Now I have closure and know there is absolutely no chance. Thank you for all you do for us, Lee!!
I have separated myself physically from my narc of 22 years this year I know exactly what you're going through I'm just waiting for God to open up that door for me to leave. It's coming soon.
Good for you! Praying for them is what we're called to do and shows the strength of your faith and the integrity in your heart. I've prayed for my ex, but I finally stopped as I've been shown God has given him over to his reprobate mind. Some of them just can't be saved. They don't want it
@@mingo2024 exactly!! Yahuah (God's real name) assured me that he is turning my husband over to a reprobate mind and granting the desires of his heart which is all filled with evil. And this was after continued prayers of begging to change his heart and change his mine but unfortunately if they're not a willing soul it's not gonna happen.
Sometimes you gotta make people mad to get their attention. Keep doing you, it’s working!!
7 months no contact!!!!! I got my life back. Hoping he moved on and doesn't come for me when he gets out or prison.
AMEN! The one you have in your life.
Yea definitely
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This a word. You better say it. Don't have to worry which " type" is the most dangerous, it's YOURS, that is the worst 1 solely because it is all damaging you. You hit that sir 🙋🏽♀️
Please keep going. I've been stalked, Everday spied on, everyday harassed by a religious narassist for 14 years and he has Alot of followers AND I'm sick of it. Enough is Enough.
One side is enough when you’re dealing with abuse… On point Lee!!
Aww. Nah, not mad, thank you for expressing
I appreciate you
On a narc Facebook page, the question was asked: What's your narc's profession? Many said police and military.
Religious leaders using spiritual abuse is a particularly vile form of narc abuse.
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Doctors...
@ Yes! Big time. My h is M.D. Internationally in demand. People actually refer to him as a god because his expertise is so gifted in a difficult specialty. In some ways, he does a great job not getting the big-head, but in other ways, he fails miserably.
@linneasimchah1621 my ex is a doctor. Very altruistic on surface, horrible behind a closed door. He is the coldest, most calculated and evil person I have ever met
This was probably the best vid you have made so far. It’s rare to hear a man stand up for abuse victims, but to call out the “other side fairness” high horse jerks is awesome! Thank you Lee!
That's what the ex narcissist said..".i just want you to win"🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Laughter for me and my situation is the best medicine…..
You are telling the truth about all narcissists. I am married to a covert narcissist, but I have been separated from him for almost 2 years now. I am on my healing journey now.
stay safe
A narcissist and a meth addiction.... I've been in fear for my life for years from someone I haven't even seen since 2011.
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The most dangerous ones is the one you love. The moment you stop caring you’re free to
Not mad at all. You tell it EXACTLY like it is. I cannot trust anyone in my family. I trusted one sibling years ago. Turned out this sibling and diabolical mother were ruthless. I never saw it coming because I used to trust this sibling. Found out recently they ALL are behaving the same treacherous ways towards me. Now, I stay far away from them all because they have only the best interests of my lifelong abusers in their hearts. Keep telling us like it is - We NEED to hear the truth. It protects us
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You are SPOT ON!! Period. ❤
Thank you Lee for telling it straight 💯
Thank you,Lee. Great podcast, as usual.
Glad you enjoyed it
Thank you this really has to be said has to be known!
you’re welcome
There’s nothing wrong with telling it as it is and such an important message! ❤
I'm definitely not mad! I appreciate your passion. Thank you for being real and being yourself! People seem to think, if we show emotions we're unstable or they're trying to teach us to suppress our feelings. My narc husband says I'm too ghetto for showing any emotion. Thank you for showing me I'm not the problem!
LEE! If you've doubted yourself a little- we hear you with the "this year better than me getting tired last year" blahblah bububb....but this video I was in the other room (I listen loud when I'm cleaning house) and I rushed back into the room to tell you I thought, "There you are, Lee!! That's the spot!" Great video. TikTok ban=Energy for UA-cam you've been looking for. 😊
Thank you 🙏
Amen Lee, God Bless You
Preach it Lee!! Some people can't get it!
Everything you said is truth. Narc mother, I married my mother who was a dangerous narcissist, Narc mom put a gun to me twice once with my oldest daughter who was 6months, my narc bf who I fled to my mothers house because of put me up against a wall at 4 months pregnant. Narc husband that came right after ex bf where they battled each other over me and narc ex bf lost bad then started using our only daughter to wage war making her physically sick everytime we had pick up. It was trauma I had to heal her from for a year of things he was telling her...toxic toxic toxic. Ex bf came from huge family of narcs, they took my daughter from me cuz he lost full custody to me. Narc husband offers false sanctuary and I'm lured back into abuse and narcissistic patterns learned from my mom of enabling and lying to protect. Narc mom and Narc husband have a drug problem. This is the most dangerous time for me as a domestic violence victim. If I go missing or come up dead lee...it's either my husband, his narcissistic sister or whose trigger happy, or my mom. I do not fear death. This man tried and failed before. I am happy to be called early and am fully accounted for in a book somewhere up above. Can't get restraining order again without block access of kids which right now they come first. Lawyer next week then filing. He will lose everything and he WILL come like Babyaga...The Devil you Know
Idk where you are, your financial/insurance situation, or if you have accessible resources available. But that a lot going on. Even if you don't have mental health resources near you I would reach out to a regular physician, clinic, or anything in an effort to be referred to appropriate resources. IMO You need help to navigate that because that's a lot, and you're not going to get help from your family. Stay safe, and know you can escape this.
If u mistreatment me and just for ur fun no I will never have anything to do with you there is no amount of stalking, talking, nothing can change my mind I have left bad relationships due to being mistreated and I refuse to listen to fakeness and lies.
Just wanted to touch on what you were discussing about narcissists who go after the whole family because they are trying to leave the abuser. When the abuser takes their whole family with them, then all they're really doing is absolutely proving why the family was leaving to begin with.
Absolutely
You are here to protect children,Not your Narcissus husband or wife ,
Thank you Lee for looking out for me and everybody else that we really need this video
Thank you for this Lee!
True. My narc ex has drug me through the mud. He cheated on me with a 26 year old now with child. I recently found out that he had been grooming a 23/24 year old which now she is 26. Im 42 he is 38. He has had me put in jail, ive lost so much weight I barely recognize me on some days. The hold they have on you is unreal. He hurt me too the core several times and it just seems like his life keeps getting better and better. While Im hurting he has moved on completely. Its been a long year of trying too get over him. It has taken a toll on my mental health. And in the end i get called crazy
Hey Thank's Lee!
“In flying monkey mode” 😂 but seriously. They proudly allow the narcissist to put a battery in their back and send them off as crash dummies. SMH
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Idk but cussin Lee makes me listen harder 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂 wakes you up
My son, relying on the never-ending forgiveness of his mother, regardless his abuse with zero accountability….. in my seventies I’m done. Thank you Lee.
you’re welcome
Loved this video. You’re helping people so much. At least you’ve helped me move passed a lot. I’m so glad I found your channel. Thank you for what you do.
💯💯💣absolutely ex narc always threatening me to make my body disappear in a joking way. But he kept bringing it up.
Ohhh this is good!
You are so right, Lee..I love your rants...❤
Thank you
@MentalHealness ❤️
One thing what I have noticed. When u think about them, talk about them, even watching this videos u are not even close to get over them, I was even three weeks ago, thinking about him. Idealising him and one day I just put God first and ask God to be Gods wil not mine anymore cos I didnt succeed, I feel much beter, I let it go, he is gonna, not gonna come back, I do not count days with no contact, I dont care how he is, I dont check his sociaal media, like he has never existed, the money what he took, I do not think about that cos I have God now, I start worshipping God not man. Thank u Lee for ur videos.
You’re welcome. Protect your peace
I'm in 8 months no contact sometimes still I'm depressed and stuck in loops in my mind 😢 ,it's hard to heal from them
Absolutely Lee, love the realness, sometimes that’s what it takes for people, keep it up
Real and raw lee is my favorite narcissist. Thank you for this message 😂
😂 you’re welcome
He did all that !!!!
The flying narcissist 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
This is the realist/best video ever Lee. ❤❤❤
My brother in law is a narcissist. He took psychology and banking in college. Joined a church to manipulate parishioners out of their money. 😢.
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Malignant but I think all narcs are capable of narcissistic rage.
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But covert narcs under stress and lack of supply become malignant or psychopaths. Really life threatening to deal with.
You Are Helping A Lot of People, Thank You So Much Mr. Lee!
When it comes to safety, especially children.. you have to be passionate about protecting them. That's what you can do, bare minimum, as a guardian. And no, you're not even a bit wrong if you get upset and angry talking about safety and security. One must protect themselves and all others that aren't adults at all costs.
People.. don't let a badly raised (it could be family or outside) grown child destroy you. See folks for what they show themselves as through their actions.. DO NOT GO BY WORDS, GO BY ACTIONS!
@superwoman7397…. I was deeply concerned because my Narc kept walking around Nude in front of our daughter ( this was a repeated habit of his)… My Daddy never displayed this behavior in front of me…. I started telling him “ Put on some damn clothes!” His excuse was she’s always around me… My son was always around me and I never ever walked around nude in front of him…My Nasty Narcissistic husband’s behavior was certified as tasteless….
I like to watch your videos, I find them very helpful in this crazy time I'm going through these days.
that makes me mad too 🤬 i just be like just take yourself you don’t have to take others out cause you mad.
Exactly
I love my own company being free peaceful and happy
YES all of them are!
Good video and the cussing was appropriate for the topic. We all feel the same way when it comes to abusers.
Covert Narcissists Period...
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That's Right the truth be spoken ⚔️🦁🔥🔥🔥🔥
That’s right! Someone is ALWAYS going to be butt hurt 😞
You can’t make everyone happy
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The one that says he's dying and wants to see you one last time. Even though I truly know he's not. He forgot I know all if his lies and tricks he still wants to play on my heart strings, he just doesn't realize it yet but I don't have a heart anymore because of him. Guess the jokes on him this time.
def a possibility
All of em’
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Ooooh, I like Spazzin Lee🤬🤬🤬! You're speaking factz, we don't need the other side when it comes to abuse💯💯💯. This year, 2025 will be a great 1 Lee....we are listening and comprehending🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉💡💡💡💡💡💡💡💡.
Greaaaaat video🔥🔥🔥🔥!!! Wake em up Lee...no soft parenting w us. Cuss if u need to😂.
Lee you came up my street when you got on them religious narcs. They next NEXT level!
‼️‼️ they are. it's insane
Straight up, wolves in sheep’s clothing honey. I met one, and by the grace of GOD I’m still alive, literally hell on earth. Real life angel of the light honey.
That’s the devil with a voice modulator 😂😂😂😂
Yes I love it when you speak the truth❤
I just broke up with my Narcissistic boyfriend of 2 years we were friends for 15 years prior to that but I didn't notice his bad side I until we dated and he moved in with me and my daughter. I found out that he was doing drugs in our home and would use the fact that he was working on our house as an excuse to get out of it and anything else that he did wrong and he would scream in my face in front of my daughter and recently he snapped off on me and her in the car and told her to shut the fck up she was praying because she was so scared we wouldn't get out of the car alive and he doesn't care he's trying to get other people to believe that he has justified reasons.
Glad you got out safely
@irenehamilton2981 Thank you I'm doing everything that I can to recover and heal my daughter as well I feel like I just escaped a prison and finally I am free.
My mother 😢
Hello thank you for being honest
So let them leave❤
The quiet ones are dangerous...😒
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My Narc was always quiet and sneaky he lacked communication skills…. Kept watching me spying on me following me around he put cameras in our house to monitor my every move…. Without my knowledge… I wasn’t doing anything….
Paused here. Guessing. The dark triangle tethra what was the name again? psychopathy ,antisocial disorder , narcissism. I knew one of those. he left a trail of death and despair whelming in his own grandiosity as a failed doctor. So took sick poor people from the streets and started treating them. With homeopathie, he hated allopathy, but he screamed and denied sick people medications. One woman died and he was in prison, before I knew him. He died very sick and unhappy. In his 60's
He believed so much in himself that he treated himself with homeopathie, he died soon after that. He came in my dream after his dead in a dusk dark world looking for help. I denied him the help and told him to go away. His karma I guess. This guy was freaking scary
that's a good guess
The dark triad and dark tetrad.
Coverts are brutal 😮im staying single! Theres to many of them out there
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Quiet alarmed by this conversation
Coming from
Lee. I hope he’s ok.
Hello Lee. I watched all 18 minutes of this video. This video is one of your best ones❤👏👏🙌. I started laughing when you cussed. LET ME SAY SOMETHING EVERY ABUSED PERSON BY À NARCISST CUSSES AT THEIR "AMAZING BEHAVIOUR." I MEAN ITS MY FAULT OUR FAMILY IS BROKEN YOU LEFT. WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE? I have à narcisstic fiancé. He has really abused me for 2 years. Shouted at me in front of people in the street, cheated on me it would take time to write the list of what he’s done to me. He even took me to his friend who is a rapper,we created and made 22 songs with my voice then while I would practising my part in the song, he would call his mistress and go into his friend’s bedroom while his friend would be working with me. WHAT KIND OF MENTALLY IRREGULAR DO YOU CALL THAT? The daring of these types of people is outstanding. I mean yeah....right these people’s goal is"WE ARE GOING TO ABUSE PEOPLE AND WE HAVE TO DO IT EFFECTIVELY, THOUROUGHLY. AND WHY WILL WE ABUSE PEOPLE BEHIND CLOSED DOORS? ANSWER➡️➡️FOR FUN JUST FUN
Haha. I like the god modulator. I guess they’re all potentially the type except the ones that aren’t. Bit of a gamble I wouldn’t like them odds.
Stay safe
But that's logic nobody will be with anyone that's mistreating u
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@MentalHealness 💗
So many people serial date the "same" person, just with a different face/name.
I heard a matchmaker say the research shows the best predictor of a healthy relationship is being genuinely happy/content living life solo on your own first.
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Religious narcs, covert and malignant 😢
The paranoid ones eek 😱
Exactly 🎯all are dangerous
The violent type.
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Breathe, Lee, breathe❤️
Speak the truth❤
The worst narc imexp is the one that breaks your sense of reality, gets you to doubt your own sanity and believe you’re insane, to the point of freaking out and willingly seeking an extended psych eval… which revealed PTSD, other than that I was perfectly sound, sense of reality was fine, and actually quite well adapted according to him, considering the context, events, traumatic attacks, and all the dynamics at play.
I’m sane, but extremely sad, but who wouldn’t be if they were conspired against by their parents/family and their ex-husband/father to their 2 children in 50/50 custody, to hide the attack where I was strangled for wanting to divorce this horrible man, by lying to everyone who once knew me they could reach, by annihilating me with insane accusations. They did everything they could to turn my sons against me, triangulating me, celebrating the holidays and my sons birthdays at their place without me, as if I was already 💀, push me to unalive myself.
That lasted for 8y. It’s still ongoing. But their investigation too now this time around.
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This is evil at its finest
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@MentalHealness most definitely
You wouldn't believe the things I've endured at the hands of narcs. They truly don't know when to quit and get hella mad when you won't just lie down and take their 💩literally AND figuratively. Bottom line, Imma unfollow (online and in real life) and get on up out my space ANYBODY that is purposely triggering. Throwing rocks and tryna hide their hands 🤨 find some original material, and stop being a bandwagon bish is my motto. 2025 is the year narcs can get it! It's crazy to lie on folk when they can annihilate you with the TRUTH!
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The type that rages ...
💯 some don’t rage though and are still dangerous
@MentalHealness Definitely true. The vengeance of a narcissist is dangerous, scary, and eternal. The coverts are harder to identify tho. They seem to have better control of themselves for the most part, especially in front of any witnesses. But when they finally snap, really bad things can happen really fast. Like becoming the victim on an episode of Snapped.
Hey Lee 👋
Wind it up and let it go Lee!😁👍
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I am not sure if my friend is a narcissist, but he has a lot of traits and lies all the time and he always has to have a different woman like every few months and he says hurtful things and he can throw a little temper tampons. We have been known each other for five years. I cannot figure this guy. I do know he’s always in social media posting himself pictures with women what he do his travels where he lives how he lives what he eats. What is he?
I think that the more trauma the more dangerous. I just realized that I am a covert narcissistic. I look for the lie and use the truth to destroy your life. My dad's wife was a covert narc and I learned from her actions.
it can be so scary
Best advice was to be alone after finally getting away! I spent 2 years learning me and healing! Thanks to you!
Preach❤🔥🔥🔥🔥