A true leader commands respect by fulfilling actions followed by respectful words - a weak leader demands respect by empty words followed by disrespectful actions
He only treated me good enough to get what he wanted. I stopped listening to what he was saying and started watching what he did. He was totally inconsistent. He was not a safe person to be with. I and healing my heart and spirit. My goal in life is to have peace, love and balance in my life. Thank you Big Brother for your pearls of wisdom. ❤🙏🏽
😮some times dropping facts the way you do with passion kind of triggers me but when you speak with a strong emotional spirit I appreciate that. Keep Teaching what is so needed Big Brother. ❤😊
I have listened to this many times in the past few days, so it sinks in, all of it. I am a sponge right now and I’m letting this all soak in. Because If I don’t. I’m doomed. Were doomed.
Derrick u r speaking facts. I’m so glad , God has blessed u 2 help a lot of us females who need to hear the facts about how it really is with guy’s that deliberately plays us females cheap & dog us. In the name of Jesus may God continue to bless you & protect. In the name of Jesus Christ. Amen
You just said everything in one sentence if someone would just have said the truth so much could have been avoided. I really wish I had known about you earlier watched your videos ... Would have saved me from so much!
…and having a backbone doesn’t mean dominating your lady in communication, decisions, and her requests because that’s not leadership and will also make us feel unsafe.
You just nailed a few complicated issues beautifully! I've dealt with a lot of these issues personally, but couldn't put a finger on what was going on. You just did. Thank you. Shared. 😁
Thank you, Derrick. ❤ You've helped me as a woman get in touch with parts of myself I didn't know or understand. I'm so grateful you were able to put it into words that I can understand. ❤❤❤
I'm always confused listening to you because my boyfriend is the kind that listen and apologize when I complain about issues and promise that he will do better. Unfortunately he never come right with changing. My question is why is he humble and respectful and never do as he promised? I had to leave him as we been back and forth for 5 years what the waste of time for me 😅
I just ended a 4 years relationship. Some men want their cake and ice cream. My ex did the same and he told me he didn’t want anyone else to have me. He’s breadcrumbing you. He’s saying the bare minimum to keep you around, but he doesn’t want you.
mine turned out to be married and asked 6 other baby mommas to have his kid!!!!!!! I almost, past out!!!! hes never getting me back. see ya when I see ya
Having prior knowledge of what could happen doesn’t prevent love from happening. Once love happens, hope takes the wheel…until you get tired of coming close to death (spiritual, mental, emotional, physical or financial) because of this person.
This is great!! God fearing men or lost. You cant be lukewarm and happy. Only God can transform and renew your heart. First love God with all your heart, soul & mind- then love your neighbor as yourself! Gods laws are simple but people are selfish! End times:(
This is good teaching! I listen to genuinely learn a man’s ways so I will understand my role better of who I am as a woman to step up for his benefit. I pray the fellows take this all in genuinely to learn the woman. We both need to be willing to healthfully please and respect each other to grow together.
Not only how he treats you but how he really feels about himself.
And once she’s done, she’s done 👍
Never look at them the same.
A lot of men want the benefits but dont wanna put in the work they need to do.
Absolutely! But I take responsibility for falling for the bullshit. With my life’s experiences I should have known better.
THAT ISNT YOUR FAULT!!!!!
I did it too cos I should know better then, when I left I still said to myself that how did you put up with that bullshit hmmm
Same here -
Right!!
Same girl same!!
A true leader commands respect by fulfilling actions followed by respectful words - a weak leader demands respect by empty words followed by disrespectful actions
"A mans effort is a reflection of his interest" (Derrick Jaxn ) Wow that is truth.
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Yes
Yes and No
He only treated me good enough to get what he wanted. I stopped listening to what he was saying and started watching what he did. He was totally inconsistent. He was not a safe person to be with. I and healing my heart and spirit. My goal in life is to have peace, love and balance in my life. Thank you Big Brother for your pearls of wisdom.
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Same space I'm in
Same
This part
Same… 😢
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Emotional intelligence is everything
The medicine might taste nasty but it will heal us! You are speaking truth!! Thank you for this ministry of healing!
your are speaking truth I respect my husband for being the calm safe place when I am upset. More men needs to understand this fact
Your speaking truthfully. Keep telling it.
men always point everything on the women and make like he is perfect and never did anything wrong
125% facts all women should respect you for speaking your truth.
I just found myself in this situation today. I am done with it!
Thankyou for your help in clarifying the behaviour of these toxic men that are destroying women’s lives.
Whatever dudes are hearing this - LISTEN bc it’s 100000000000000 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Pure Fact's. He knows what he's talking about.
I watched this a long time ago but I needed a reminder, I knew this would hurt. But I'm thankful for you
😮💨😮💨the power of knowledge in this video is insane 100% spot on from beginning to end!
Accurate. Exactly what my girlfriends and I talk about, exactly why we choose to be single.
Being Alone all these years feeling Strong and Safe. Then I let him in But I know who IAM and I Know what I Been through
Praise Father GOD 🙏🙏
I’m a BM & I 💯💯💯💯 approve this message. Lots of BW will be perfect for the role that he wants at that time.💎
Wooohoooooo Mr. Jackson!!!!! May our good Lord protect you always.
30 years I left
I need he8
Help
You are absolutely right about all of it. I do not understand why most men don't know all of this. It's tiring.
So tiring 🤦🏽♀️I never thought I’d get to the I don’t want to be bothered but I’m there! I’m going with Jesus❤
True. Harmony has power.
U definitely speaking truth to Power!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
😮some times dropping facts the way you do with passion kind of triggers me but when you speak with a strong emotional spirit I appreciate that. Keep Teaching what is so needed Big Brother. ❤😊
I have listened to this many times in the past few days, so it sinks in, all of it. I am a sponge right now and I’m letting this all soak in. Because If I don’t. I’m doomed. Were doomed.
Derrick u r speaking facts. I’m so glad , God has blessed u 2 help a lot of us females who need to hear the facts about how it really is with guy’s that deliberately plays us females cheap & dog us. In the name of Jesus may God continue to bless you & protect. In the name of Jesus Christ. Amen
That’s sooo right , you are talking the truth all the way big brother .
You just said everything in one sentence if someone would just have said the truth so much could have been avoided. I really wish I had known about you earlier watched your videos ... Would have saved me from so much!
You are a Problem Solver and I appreciate the fact that you talk from a place of experience. Some really great teaching happening here.
Your forever speaking Facts 100%
Mic drop. Thank you. I needed to hear this today.
Yesssss as a leader IT STARTS WITH YOUUUUUUU
Thank yooouuu D!! A to the guys hearing him, he’s speaking the TRUTH!!
Like my mom use to say " Head full of knowledge ! God Bless you . Keep on Teaching 🙏🙏🙏
Yup and you should speak about when a woman warns you,she’ll warn you
Thank you Mr.Jackson exactly! I enjoyed watching your videos while at work.💯
Here from Brazil and I totally agree with you. Just end a relathionship of 2 years and heartbreak at The moment.
Thank you for The video!
You telling the absolute truth 💯
Right!!
Thank you Derrick I definitely need your guidance and back to my best self in 30 days. Amen.
…and having a backbone doesn’t mean dominating your lady in communication, decisions, and her requests because that’s not leadership and will also make us feel unsafe.
Genius ❤❤❤❤. If all men knew what you know.
Broke nursing student discount please bc yesssss everything you’re saying is 💯
Everything, and I mean EVERYTHING you say is 💯 percent truth!!!!
Derick, you are, "Blessed to be a Blessing!" Keep paying it Forward!❤🎉
You just nailed a few complicated issues beautifully! I've dealt with a lot of these issues personally, but couldn't put a finger on what was going on. You just did. Thank you. Shared. 😁
Thank you, Derrick. ❤ You've helped me as a woman get in touch with parts of myself I didn't know or understand. I'm so grateful you were able to put it into words that I can understand. ❤❤❤
You're speaking facts!
Facts
I'm always confused listening to you because my boyfriend is the kind that listen and apologize when I complain about issues and promise that he will do better. Unfortunately he never come right with changing. My question is why is he humble and respectful and never do as he promised? I had to leave him as we been back and forth for 5 years what the waste of time for me 😅
I just ended a 4 years relationship. Some men want their cake and ice cream. My ex did the same and he told me he didn’t want anyone else to have me. He’s breadcrumbing you. He’s saying the bare minimum to keep you around, but he doesn’t want you.
This is your best video ever! You nailed it D, thank you.
You are definitely Spot on! Thk you for speaking and teaching truth.
Facts. I applied. If this was my ex husband that made you speak truths to this level thank you D.
You are telling the real truth amen ❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾💯💯
I completely agree with everything you said. Thanks Derrick for your words
You are definitely right
At least we are having a conversation that shows he cares
You're speaking facts and you're telling the truth
This is a wonderful wake up call for the whole world I like this if you want to know something let this sink into your head and apply.
Absolute Truth!!
"Amen" 👌🏾 Awesome listen to the message.
mine turned out to be married and asked 6 other baby mommas to have his kid!!!!!!! I almost, past out!!!! hes never getting me back. see ya when I see ya
You are right a woman doesn't want to feel like a mother
You are speaking the truth.
12 mins in has me writing it down - 🔥🔥🔥 this is so true i related sm
Yes!! Be in your masculine so that I can stay in my feminine. Absolutely huge turn on. Makes me feel safe.
You’re completely speaking the truth. Needed to hear this. Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤
Never prioritized, always felt ignored and invisable.
Inwish i would have known this before i got my heart broken n wasted so many years with him😢
That’s why I sent this to my 16 year old daughter!
Having prior knowledge of what could happen doesn’t prevent love from happening. Once love happens, hope takes the wheel…until you get tired of coming close to death (spiritual, mental, emotional, physical or financial) because of this person.
You’re speaking truth.
Speaking facts like a real brother
Match my energy by making me feel secure in every circumstance/situation. That makes me want to love you real good!!!!❤❤❤❤
This is how SOME men are.
No harm intended, but I love Derrick Jaxn. Thank You Derrick for your guidance. What a BIG BROTHER. GOD BLESS. Thanks for caring.
Your speaking FACTS!
Very well put. There are alot of liers out there.
You are a blessing on Earth!
You are 100% correct.
You are speaking all the way facts!❤
U bringing what's real u speaking facts no jive
Great message!
💯 Truth… you’re not tripping wrong sir.
Hands down thank you for this
You speak the truth.
You preaching tonight !!
I’m there and I get it. It’s a bitter pill to swallow, but it is what it is.
You're the best Derrick✨!
Yes, definitely, what a powerful moment! Very attractive!
This is great!! God fearing men or lost. You cant be lukewarm and happy. Only God can transform and renew your heart. First love God with all your heart, soul & mind- then love your neighbor as yourself! Gods laws are simple but people are selfish! End times:(
Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙌🙌 thank you. Everything you said are facts.
And never be afraid to walk away, Ladies ❤
Absolutely, Facts! 💯
Thank YOU for the truth,and Insite glad to hear you 😊
Absolute facts Derrick❤!
This is good teaching! I listen to genuinely learn a man’s ways so I will understand my role better of who I am as a woman to step up for his benefit. I pray the fellows take this all in genuinely to learn the woman. We both need to be willing to healthfully please and respect each other to grow together.
Thank you big brother of Christ.😊
Im just done with the whole past. God give me something new and refreshing.
Thanks for speaking Facts❤
Thank you for this video. Thank you for your words of wisdom. They're very eye opening.