A true leader commands respect by fulfilling actions followed by respectful words - a weak leader demands respect by empty words followed by disrespectful actions
He only treated me good enough to get what he wanted. I stopped listening to what he was saying and started watching what he did. He was totally inconsistent. He was not a safe person to be with. I and healing my heart and spirit. My goal in life is to have peace, love and balance in my life. Thank you Big Brother for your pearls of wisdom. ❤🙏🏽
Having prior knowledge of what could happen doesn’t prevent love from happening. Once love happens, hope takes the wheel…until you get tired of coming close to death (spiritual, mental, emotional, physical or financial) because of this person.
I'm always confused listening to you because my boyfriend is the kind that listen and apologize when I complain about issues and promise that he will do better. Unfortunately he never come right with changing. My question is why is he humble and respectful and never do as he promised? I had to leave him as we been back and forth for 5 years what the waste of time for me 😅
I just ended a 4 years relationship. Some men want their cake and ice cream. My ex did the same and he told me he didn’t want anyone else to have me. He’s breadcrumbing you. He’s saying the bare minimum to keep you around, but he doesn’t want you.
You just said everything in one sentence if someone would just have said the truth so much could have been avoided. I really wish I had known about you earlier watched your videos ... Would have saved me from so much!
I have listened to this many times in the past few days, so it sinks in, all of it. I am a sponge right now and I’m letting this all soak in. Because If I don’t. I’m doomed. Were doomed.
Derrick u r speaking facts. I’m so glad , God has blessed u 2 help a lot of us females who need to hear the facts about how it really is with guy’s that deliberately plays us females cheap & dog us. In the name of Jesus may God continue to bless you & protect. In the name of Jesus Christ. Amen
😮some times dropping facts the way you do with passion kind of triggers me but when you speak with a strong emotional spirit I appreciate that. Keep Teaching what is so needed Big Brother. ❤😊
…and having a backbone doesn’t mean dominating your lady in communication, decisions, and her requests because that’s not leadership and will also make us feel unsafe.
mine turned out to be married and asked 6 other baby mommas to have his kid!!!!!!! I almost, past out!!!! hes never getting me back. see ya when I see ya
You just nailed a few complicated issues beautifully! I've dealt with a lot of these issues personally, but couldn't put a finger on what was going on. You just did. Thank you. Shared. 😁
Thank you, Derrick. ❤ You've helped me as a woman get in touch with parts of myself I didn't know or understand. I'm so grateful you were able to put it into words that I can understand. ❤❤❤
I've been the caregiver more than I was given that same treatment and that got old been out of relationship for 12 yrs in all aspects I feel me and Jesus all good God and I r what I need
Not only how he treats you but how he really feels about himself.
And once she’s done, she’s done 👍
Never look at them the same.
A lot of men want the benefits but dont wanna put in the work they need to do.
Absolutely! But I take responsibility for falling for the bullshit. With my life’s experiences I should have known better.
THAT ISNT YOUR FAULT!!!!!
I did it too cos I should know better then, when I left I still said to myself that how did you put up with that bullshit hmmm
Same here -
Right!!
Same girl same!!
A true leader commands respect by fulfilling actions followed by respectful words - a weak leader demands respect by empty words followed by disrespectful actions
"A mans effort is a reflection of his interest" (Derrick Jaxn ) Wow that is truth.
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Yes
Yes and No
He only treated me good enough to get what he wanted. I stopped listening to what he was saying and started watching what he did. He was totally inconsistent. He was not a safe person to be with. I and healing my heart and spirit. My goal in life is to have peace, love and balance in my life. Thank you Big Brother for your pearls of wisdom.
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Same space I'm in
Same
This part
Same… 😢
Frfr
Emotional intelligence is everything
your are speaking truth I respect my husband for being the calm safe place when I am upset. More men needs to understand this fact
I just found myself in this situation today. I am done with it!
Your speaking truthfully. Keep telling it.
125% facts all women should respect you for speaking your truth.
The medicine might taste nasty but it will heal us! You are speaking truth!! Thank you for this ministry of healing!
Thankyou for your help in clarifying the behaviour of these toxic men that are destroying women’s lives.
men always point everything on the women and make like he is perfect and never did anything wrong
Inwish i would have known this before i got my heart broken n wasted so many years with him😢
That’s why I sent this to my 16 year old daughter!
Having prior knowledge of what could happen doesn’t prevent love from happening. Once love happens, hope takes the wheel…until you get tired of coming close to death (spiritual, mental, emotional, physical or financial) because of this person.
I watched this a long time ago but I needed a reminder, I knew this would hurt. But I'm thankful for you
Accurate. Exactly what my girlfriends and I talk about, exactly why we choose to be single.
Pure Fact's. He knows what he's talking about.
Being Alone all these years feeling Strong and Safe. Then I let him in But I know who IAM and I Know what I Been through
Praise Father GOD 🙏🙏
Wooohoooooo Mr. Jackson!!!!! May our good Lord protect you always.
30 years I left
I need he8
Help
😮💨😮💨the power of knowledge in this video is insane 100% spot on from beginning to end!
Whatever dudes are hearing this - LISTEN bc it’s 100000000000000 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I’m a BM & I 💯💯💯💯 approve this message. Lots of BW will be perfect for the role that he wants at that time.💎
Thank you Mr.Jackson exactly! I enjoyed watching your videos while at work.💯
You are absolutely right about all of it. I do not understand why most men don't know all of this. It's tiring.
So tiring 🤦🏽♀️I never thought I’d get to the I don’t want to be bothered but I’m there! I’m going with Jesus❤
U definitely speaking truth to Power!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I'm always confused listening to you because my boyfriend is the kind that listen and apologize when I complain about issues and promise that he will do better. Unfortunately he never come right with changing. My question is why is he humble and respectful and never do as he promised? I had to leave him as we been back and forth for 5 years what the waste of time for me 😅
I just ended a 4 years relationship. Some men want their cake and ice cream. My ex did the same and he told me he didn’t want anyone else to have me. He’s breadcrumbing you. He’s saying the bare minimum to keep you around, but he doesn’t want you.
Yup and you should speak about when a woman warns you,she’ll warn you
True. Harmony has power.
You just said everything in one sentence if someone would just have said the truth so much could have been avoided. I really wish I had known about you earlier watched your videos ... Would have saved me from so much!
I have listened to this many times in the past few days, so it sinks in, all of it. I am a sponge right now and I’m letting this all soak in. Because If I don’t. I’m doomed. Were doomed.
You are a Problem Solver and I appreciate the fact that you talk from a place of experience. Some really great teaching happening here.
Your forever speaking Facts 100%
Derrick u r speaking facts. I’m so glad , God has blessed u 2 help a lot of us females who need to hear the facts about how it really is with guy’s that deliberately plays us females cheap & dog us. In the name of Jesus may God continue to bless you & protect. In the name of Jesus Christ. Amen
Mic drop. Thank you. I needed to hear this today.
Yes he walked out tonight after a raised a few issues he constantly leaves when im hearting i deserve better but i lost myself giving him everything
That’s sooo right , you are talking the truth all the way big brother .
😮some times dropping facts the way you do with passion kind of triggers me but when you speak with a strong emotional spirit I appreciate that. Keep Teaching what is so needed Big Brother. ❤😊
You're absolutely telling the truth!! That will definitely turn me on him staying in his masculine 🎯💯
You're speaking facts!
Facts
Here from Brazil and I totally agree with you. Just end a relathionship of 2 years and heartbreak at The moment.
Thank you for The video!
You telling the absolute truth 💯
Right!!
…and having a backbone doesn’t mean dominating your lady in communication, decisions, and her requests because that’s not leadership and will also make us feel unsafe.
Like my mom use to say " Head full of knowledge ! God Bless you . Keep on Teaching 🙏🙏🙏
Thank yooouuu D!! A to the guys hearing him, he’s speaking the TRUTH!!
Thank you Derrick I definitely need your guidance and back to my best self in 30 days. Amen.
mine turned out to be married and asked 6 other baby mommas to have his kid!!!!!!! I almost, past out!!!! hes never getting me back. see ya when I see ya
This is your best video ever! You nailed it D, thank you.
Genius ❤❤❤❤. If all men knew what you know.
Yesssss as a leader IT STARTS WITH YOUUUUUUU
You just nailed a few complicated issues beautifully! I've dealt with a lot of these issues personally, but couldn't put a finger on what was going on. You just did. Thank you. Shared. 😁
Broke nursing student discount please bc yesssss everything you’re saying is 💯
Derick, you are, "Blessed to be a Blessing!" Keep paying it Forward!❤🎉
Facts. I applied. If this was my ex husband that made you speak truths to this level thank you D.
Thank you, Derrick. ❤ You've helped me as a woman get in touch with parts of myself I didn't know or understand. I'm so grateful you were able to put it into words that I can understand. ❤❤❤
You are definitely Spot on! Thk you for speaking and teaching truth.
I just can't say how thankful I am for your videos right now. I'm going to heal and learn my lessons well.
You should do this topic for those in marriages and relationships please
❤ I need tonhear this, I know my worth ty
You are definitely right
Wow! You nailed it! This is what I’ve been missing in my almost 30 year marriage.
Everything, and I mean EVERYTHING you say is 💯 percent truth!!!!
I completely agree with everything you said. Thanks Derrick for your words
You are telling the real truth amen ❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾💯💯
You're speaking facts and you're telling the truth
You are right a woman doesn't want to feel like a mother
"Amen" 👌🏾 Awesome listen to the message.
You are speaking the truth.
This is a wonderful wake up call for the whole world I like this if you want to know something let this sink into your head and apply.
Im just done with the whole past. God give me something new and refreshing.
Thank you Derrick, this talk was fire 🔥 🙏 First time Ive had a brother figure in my world. I appreciate you and this healthy dose of truth.🙏
All true ❤ me
Absolute Truth!!
You speak the truth.
Match my energy by making me feel secure in every circumstance/situation. That makes me want to love you real good!!!!❤❤❤❤
Yes!! Be in your masculine so that I can stay in my feminine. Absolutely huge turn on. Makes me feel safe.
Facts!❤🎉
Absolute I understand you thanks so very kindly God Bless you 🙏😘
At least we are having a conversation that shows he cares
You’re completely speaking the truth. Needed to hear this. Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤
No harm intended, but I love Derrick Jaxn. Thank You Derrick for your guidance. What a BIG BROTHER. GOD BLESS. Thanks for caring.
I’m there and I get it. It’s a bitter pill to swallow, but it is what it is.
On point 🙌👍
So accurate, so insightful!!! Beginning to end… wow!
Great message!
This is how SOME men are.
I've been the caregiver more than I was given that same treatment and that got old been out of relationship for 12 yrs in all aspects I feel me and Jesus all good God and I r what I need
12 mins in has me writing it down - 🔥🔥🔥 this is so true i related sm
You are speaking all the way facts!❤
Speaking facts like a real brother
Hands down thank you for this
Very well put. There are alot of liers out there.
OMG SAY THAT!!!!!!
TRUTH 👏😊
Yes, definitely, what a powerful moment! Very attractive!
U bringing what's real u speaking facts no jive
You are really speaking the truth! How can I feel protected if he is more emotional than me?
Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙌🙌 thank you. Everything you said are facts.
You're the best Derrick✨!
True Facts 💯👍