WHY A SILENT WOMAN IS DANGEROUS! 🤫

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    • @michelleriffert7724
      @michelleriffert7724 9 місяців тому

      Always have a plan B.
      Things dont roll like that. Personal growth comes first!

    • @taralove1806
      @taralove1806 8 місяців тому

      DROP THE 🎤 BOOM!

    • @letsdolife
      @letsdolife 8 місяців тому

      Right on brother

  • @danieb4273
    @danieb4273 9 місяців тому +1034

    If she's gone silent she's already started the healing process

  • @kristineroethle5028
    @kristineroethle5028 10 місяців тому +1059

    When a woman is silent, she's truly completely done with you !!!!

    • @chimom5635
      @chimom5635 10 місяців тому +18

      Amen 📢

    • @user-im6ht5qy5o
      @user-im6ht5qy5o 10 місяців тому +44

      When a woman becomes silent in a relationship most likely she has been hurt not heard when she expresses her feelings basically used as a doormat when the true ending of the relationship she has no more words

    • @LazyWitch11
      @LazyWitch11 10 місяців тому +8

      YES

    • @donnaevans5131
      @donnaevans5131 9 місяців тому +6

      💯

    • @debrawashington5084
      @debrawashington5084 9 місяців тому +4

      Exactly

  • @zucchininoodles4513
    @zucchininoodles4513 9 місяців тому +873

    She is not trying to teach you a lesson, she has learned hers. 💯 After 20 years of BS this is me

    • @SophiaParker-mc3kg
      @SophiaParker-mc3kg 9 місяців тому +9

      I agree with your statement!❤🙏

    • @SophiaParker-mc3kg
      @SophiaParker-mc3kg 9 місяців тому +9

      23 years of bullshit for me!😢😡

    • @4allu568
      @4allu568 9 місяців тому +5

      FACT!

    • @JElven-hk3vl
      @JElven-hk3vl 9 місяців тому +15

      It's never too late to get back on your own path ❣️🦅🦋

    • @jeprusan
      @jeprusan 9 місяців тому +1

      Facts!🔥 Same here…

  • @paigejohnson71
    @paigejohnson71 9 місяців тому +597

    A women’s silence is her resolving the conflict within her and realizing that SHE is now her priority.

  • @deec411
    @deec411 8 місяців тому +350

    A silent woman is at peace with herself and she doesn't need or want the breadcrumbs she's been getting from an emotionally immature manchild.

  • @AscendingPriestess
    @AscendingPriestess 10 місяців тому +1141

    We stop talking when we accept you’ve stopped caring 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @nursechriswright528
    @nursechriswright528 9 місяців тому +883

    A suddenly quiet woman means she is no longer trying to figure it out....now she's strategizing on how to get out!!!

    • @tandty321
      @tandty321 9 місяців тому +33

      This is 100% accurate

    • @Bruja13-cq4oz
      @Bruja13-cq4oz 9 місяців тому +22

      This is exactly right

    • @to6030
      @to6030 9 місяців тому +19

      So true!!!

    • @kkkkkkk7
      @kkkkkkk7 9 місяців тому +19

      🎉❤FREEEEEEEE DOM FROM UR BS 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷💪

    • @iaaeottg21
      @iaaeottg21 9 місяців тому +13

      💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @jenndesharnais6101
    @jenndesharnais6101 10 місяців тому +559

    Yes, men yell out of anger... women yell out of frustration from not being heard.

  • @Sandra.B
    @Sandra.B 8 місяців тому +264

    "..her nagging, her complaining, telling you blatantly what was wrong was a privilege..".. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻

    • @VanitaB-r1j
      @VanitaB-r1j 8 місяців тому +8

      Im there now and mentally I've left already I'm just trying to figure out what's my next move

    • @shanteianwokorie9622
      @shanteianwokorie9622 8 місяців тому +7

      And don't forget about "calling her crazy" was also a privilege 😏

    • @Stephanie-is3mh
      @Stephanie-is3mh 8 місяців тому +1

      Yup! Especially coming from an Aries!

  • @pinnock90
    @pinnock90 8 місяців тому +227

    Our silence is preparing us to leave the relationship mentally, emotionally and physically

  • @Unfold818
    @Unfold818 10 місяців тому +422

    I’m in the period of silence, and everything he’s saying is 1000% accurate. Disengage to protect your peace, your heart, and your sanity.

    • @veebliss1266
      @veebliss1266 10 місяців тому +21

      When you give yourself all of your energy you glow up !! ❤❤❤

    • @EmpressKB4678
      @EmpressKB4678 10 місяців тому +8

      ❤❤

    • @robinlewis1645
      @robinlewis1645 10 місяців тому +10

      SSSSOOOO TTTRRUUUEEE!!!

    • @domenicaarechiga482
      @domenicaarechiga482 9 місяців тому +3

      🎉1000% YESSSSSSSS

    • @Kklewis2223
      @Kklewis2223 9 місяців тому +7

      Agree.. I’m there too. My silence means I’m done emotionally and mentally with you. I’m taking care of me now.

  • @vertinavardeman723
    @vertinavardeman723 10 місяців тому +591

    My Silence means, I’ve gone deep within myself & I’ve accepted you for who you are & who you are not to me. I give all of you back to you. And I take all of me back from you ✌️

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  10 місяців тому +27

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    • @IzThis4ReaL
      @IzThis4ReaL 9 місяців тому +4

      💯

    • @donnaharding9604
      @donnaharding9604 9 місяців тому +6

      @vertinaverdeman723 THIS! This right here! 💯💯💯

    • @donnawashington4719
      @donnawashington4719 9 місяців тому +7

      Well said...

    • @domenicaarechiga482
      @domenicaarechiga482 9 місяців тому +7

      Amen!! Your spirit has more value than what men see…

  • @Notbothered1
    @Notbothered1 10 місяців тому +1305

    when shes silent she doesnt give af.

    • @vernasmith1108
      @vernasmith1108 10 місяців тому +63

      Say it again

    • @ay-tj7pj
      @ay-tj7pj 10 місяців тому +148

      it means she's matured & don't like wasting time on pointless argument

    • @BLessed758
      @BLessed758 10 місяців тому +42

      period. On God

    • @yissel_emperatriz-81
      @yissel_emperatriz-81 10 місяців тому +32

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @velmaphillips2701
      @velmaphillips2701 10 місяців тому +30

      PERIOD

  • @aboutlife4887
    @aboutlife4887 8 місяців тому +167

    When I get quiet, I am listening to the voice of my creator. ONLY

  • @Heavenlysky89
    @Heavenlysky89 8 місяців тому +125

    When a woman goes silent , it's self protection from further hurt and also it's usually because she's fed up and just done .....

  • @kourtney8850
    @kourtney8850 10 місяців тому +320

    When a woman goes silent, and she’s stopped talking, she is mentally and emotionally checked out. She feels like she has nothing left to give to the relationship because everything she tried has not worked up until that point. She’s ran out of energy to give to the relationship. What he’s saying is 1,000% correct.

    • @zucchininoodles4513
      @zucchininoodles4513 9 місяців тому +12

      Yes 💯 truth

    • @lisabid5926
      @lisabid5926 9 місяців тому +3

      So true!

    • @taniaroberts2478
      @taniaroberts2478 8 місяців тому +5

      What you do, say, don’t do, and don’t give, no longer hurts me and no I no longer care 😌

    • @zionstayfit920
      @zionstayfit920 8 місяців тому +1

      This

    • @vernitajones884
      @vernitajones884 8 місяців тому +1

      Do you officially my past not my future keep it moving you do you after all you were on the individuals never married no children individuals so I can do me like I said pass not my future

  • @liveitup_GJ
    @liveitup_GJ 10 місяців тому +164

    I’m a woman and he is 1000% right! Women leave mentally waaay before they leave physically!!

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  10 місяців тому +1

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    • @ramonaschuler4134
      @ramonaschuler4134 8 місяців тому +1

      Say that!!

  • @darlenegantt3954
    @darlenegantt3954 10 місяців тому +246

    When a woman stops arguing with you or discussing things with you and just letting you have your way. She could care less about you and what you think. She is on survival mode. She has given up on you because she knows whatever she says or what she wants will just get ignored. She has given up on you and has lost all faith in you.

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  10 місяців тому +7

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    • @zucchininoodles4513
      @zucchininoodles4513 9 місяців тому +4

      💯

    • @Kklewis2223
      @Kklewis2223 9 місяців тому

      💯

    • @SunDiamond888
      @SunDiamond888 9 місяців тому

      🙏🏿

    • @ms.huntincrybabies3980
      @ms.huntincrybabies3980 8 місяців тому

      So very true!

  • @MelaninBeauty1989
    @MelaninBeauty1989 9 місяців тому +16

    Fellas just listen to that song by R.Kelly “when a woman’s fed up” tell u everything about a woman’s silence

  • @opeolojo5978
    @opeolojo5978 8 місяців тому +96

    When a lady becomes silent, she's checked out of that relationship/marriage emotionally.
    She then begins to strategize if it's worth fighting for, or if moving on would best.

  • @casperinsight3524
    @casperinsight3524 10 місяців тому +285

    When she's quiet she has nothing left to say 💔

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  10 місяців тому +9

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    • @moonchild650
      @moonchild650 9 місяців тому +12

      Yes, she doesn't want to continue wasting precious time & energy on a lost cause/ damaged goods.

    • @enlightenindi7673
      @enlightenindi7673 9 місяців тому +17

      Literally planning my exit

    • @westcoastbred7745
      @westcoastbred7745 9 місяців тому

      ​@@enlightenindi7673same here good luck to you!

    • @louisaatkinson4828
      @louisaatkinson4828 9 місяців тому +1

      Well said

  • @Tanz-og6yh
    @Tanz-og6yh 10 місяців тому +635

    My silence means you have lost me forever, no take backs, nothing.
    No talking, no communication nought.
    Gone! As if you are dead to me. Not angry, not vengeful, just done.
    All facts 💯

  • @elorenemiller4787
    @elorenemiller4787 10 місяців тому +329

    You are so right. Two different kinds of silences. When I get silent, I’M DONE!!! DONE!!!

    • @cortneyhrasdzira4336
      @cortneyhrasdzira4336 9 місяців тому +2

      Cuz once they kill the feelings it's hard to go back

    • @terryseufert5011
      @terryseufert5011 9 місяців тому +2

      Saying it loud and proud with you. I. Am. Done.

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 8 місяців тому

      AMEN AMEN AMEN, Sister, Me 2🎉

  • @dalpega
    @dalpega 4 місяці тому +11

    A woman goes silent when she finally realizes that she isn't being heard and in reality she was never heard in the first place.

  • @yanipoo62
    @yanipoo62 9 місяців тому +112

    When we’re silent, we’re planning. And the plan doesn’t normally involve the person that is receiving the silent treatment.

  • @kittenmayz611
    @kittenmayz611 10 місяців тому +92

    My mom always said a woman’s silence is worth more than gold. Now that I’m grown I FULLY understand what she meant.

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      @JaxnVideos  10 місяців тому

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  • @annette1982
    @annette1982 10 місяців тому +197

    The mind is made up of GOING, GOING, GONE...silence is a disconnect and withdrawal of energy.

    • @veebliss1266
      @veebliss1266 10 місяців тому +13

      Yessss disconnect ❤ withdrawal of energy !!

    • @andreastanford8795
      @andreastanford8795 8 місяців тому +1

      Withdrawal of Energy
      Facts

    • @ElderSophia1Pistis
      @ElderSophia1Pistis 8 місяців тому +1

      Yesss,withdraw your energy. I learned that is the 1st step. 2nd step silence. Protect and cleanse your energy on the regular.

  • @anniesmith8552
    @anniesmith8552 10 місяців тому +72

    When a woman goes silent, it is finished. There’s nothing left for her to talk about.

  • @PsychoSpiritual717
    @PsychoSpiritual717 8 місяців тому +66

    I JUST wrote some poetry about how I’m done. It starts “Her declaration arrives on silent seas. There is no raging storm. There are no thundering skies. There is only a leaden silence as the sands shift to fill the prints where her feet used to be.”

    • @loridean.5986
      @loridean.5986 8 місяців тому +5

      This is a beautiful poem, strong and powerful. You are a very talented composer of your poetry!

    • @sharoncherono5678
      @sharoncherono5678 8 місяців тому +4

      Beautiful and profound❤. Borrowing this😊

    • @flowergarden-1
      @flowergarden-1 7 місяців тому +3

      Just exactly how I feel

    • @MaryComba
      @MaryComba 7 місяців тому +4

      Wow! Perfectly said! Like...My cup for "you" that was once full & overflowing with sweet & honest love....now is empty, dry & void." Yeah!!

    • @welthablunt6217
      @welthablunt6217 6 місяців тому +1

      Beautiful poetry.

  • @amiriparks
    @amiriparks 10 місяців тому +169

    When she silent she knows what you are doing..

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  10 місяців тому +4

      Hey @amiriparks, I can sense the pain you're going through and I want you to know that you are not alone in this. It's okay to feel lost and overwhelmed at times, but remember that you are stronger than you think. Take small steps towards healing and don't be afraid to reach out for support when you need it.
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    • @LazyWitch11
      @LazyWitch11 10 місяців тому +13

      YES!!! I KNOW THEY ARE PLAYING GAMES AND IM NOT PLAYING ANYTHING.

    • @danieb4273
      @danieb4273 9 місяців тому +7

      Amen

    • @Reeluvs111God
      @Reeluvs111God 2 місяці тому

      YUP🎉

  • @marilynbradley8487
    @marilynbradley8487 10 місяців тому +138

    My silence is not a treatment, it means I've checked out for good. If I'm being polite, I'm setting you up for the ghosting.

    • @tangyjoe4326
      @tangyjoe4326 9 місяців тому +12

      This right here! Just because my mouth is still don’t think my mind isn’t grinding away either about how I’m going to get away or how my life will be when he’s gone.

    • @unikapayne6641
      @unikapayne6641 8 місяців тому +3

      I love you I just told my home girl this today he thinks be wit me while still sneaking around wit his ex nope wrong one 🙏🏾😇

  • @willowsoul_69-36
    @willowsoul_69-36 9 місяців тому +112

    Silence means there's nothing left to talk all about. Everything has already been said and done. Silence also means bad behavior is not being rewarded... Boundaries are real. 100 real...

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 8 місяців тому +1

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN,,Sister 🎉

    • @Reeluvs111God
      @Reeluvs111God 2 місяці тому

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN

  • @beautifulleopard3929
    @beautifulleopard3929 8 місяців тому +22

    The most dangerous animal is a silent smiling woman. 💯 ......

  • @Ms-NE19
    @Ms-NE19 8 місяців тому +32

    A woman’s silence is loud ASF! Now tables has turned.

  • @wendydaniel1110
    @wendydaniel1110 10 місяців тому +82

    When a woman becomes silent ,she's through with you. Its a wrap...❤

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  10 місяців тому +2

      Hi Wendy, I can hear how challenging this situation is for you. Remember, it's okay to feel overwhelmed at times, but it's important to take care of yourself and prioritize your mental health. You are strong and resilient, and you have the power to overcome whatever obstacles come your way. If you ever need support or guidance, know that I'm here for you. Also, don't forget to check out my new master class for some valuable insights and strategies that can help you navigate through tough times. Take care, and stay strong!

    • @zucchininoodles4513
      @zucchininoodles4513 9 місяців тому +2

      Yeap

    • @MineAccount-hz5vu
      @MineAccount-hz5vu 2 місяці тому

      🎯💯

  • @jasmineweeks2291
    @jasmineweeks2291 10 місяців тому +83

    When we go silent we're pretty much done with you , women won't waste their energy on things they no longer care about

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  10 місяців тому +1

      Hey Jasmine, it sounds like you're going through a tough time right now. I want you to know that it's completely normal to have moments of doubt and uncertainty in relationships. Remember to take care of yourself and prioritize your own well-being. Communication is key in any relationship, so make sure to express your feelings openly and honestly with your partner. And if you ever need more support or guidance, feel free to check out my new master class that can help you navigate through these challenges. Stay strong, you got this!

  • @angiemaggard5089
    @angiemaggard5089 10 місяців тому +188

    I'm normally a chatterbox. So when I'm not speaking, that means I've had enough . That means I'm evaluating everything. That means I've stopped caring and that means I've stopped trying. I've checked out emotionally.

    • @wendydaniel1110
      @wendydaniel1110 10 місяців тому +21

      So true especially if you are communicative usually...

    • @robinlewis1645
      @robinlewis1645 10 місяців тому +12

      Period, I am going thru this right now!!

    • @arnelevans4803
      @arnelevans4803 9 місяців тому

      ​@@robinlewis1645Same here

    • @queenjj8122
      @queenjj8122 9 місяців тому +5

      Exactly 💯

    • @Reeluvs111God
      @Reeluvs111God 2 місяці тому +1

      SAME HERE🎉🎉🎉

  • @Lock_inTwinn
    @Lock_inTwinn 9 місяців тому +34

    When I’m silent I’m either observing or thinking before I speak. When you gain wisdom , you don’t just say anything.

    • @225Qc
      @225Qc Місяць тому

      This is the main reason I learned to go silent when I’m angry. It allows me to calm down and think rationally because I have a very reckless mouth and IDGAF when I’m angry.

  • @shereecampbell2582
    @shereecampbell2582 8 місяців тому +25

    it's called emotional intelligence

  • @cherlettejohnson4118
    @cherlettejohnson4118 10 місяців тому +77

    You are 100% right. As long as I'm still talking that means I'm still trying.
    When I stop that means I have given up and working on getting out.

  • @flygirl505575
    @flygirl505575 10 місяців тому +82

    "You may have pushed her beyond her normal limits/she's sparing you." 💯

    • @N_goat
      @N_goat 10 місяців тому +2

      🙏

    • @veebliss1266
      @veebliss1266 10 місяців тому +8

      True Queens still gracious even after being done dirty!! 👑👏❤ that self control is crazyyyy 🤤🔥

    • @michelledawson5364
      @michelledawson5364 10 місяців тому +2

      Jasmine 😊

  • @Legacy_125
    @Legacy_125 9 місяців тому +51

    Once you've lost access to me, you've lost all access.

  • @belladonnabudgets7362
    @belladonnabudgets7362 6 місяців тому +4

    If she goes silent, she's protecting herself and saving all her energy that would otherwise be wasted on deaf ears.

  • @khoney32
    @khoney32 8 місяців тому +8

    Silence means I realize he is not for me and will never give me the love/consideration/respect I deserve and I’ve gone cold, because I am only willing to have a reciprocal honest loving relationship. I give good and always attempt to be gracious in relationships, seeing no need for controlling or backward tactics. Some men do not want that, just want to bully, control, manipulate. That is a NO GO.

  • @carlarobinson7658
    @carlarobinson7658 10 місяців тому +88

    When a women get silent watch out. Those are facts.

  • @Eubones
    @Eubones 10 місяців тому +140

    She’s not dangerous, she done!

  • @tiffanycuevas1660
    @tiffanycuevas1660 9 місяців тому +82

    I’m naturally a quiet person. But when I’m done with you I’m done . You will feel the difference ✌️❤️😁

    • @tiffaniw8270
      @tiffaniw8270 8 місяців тому +3

      Same

    • @lohar874
      @lohar874 8 місяців тому

      Exactly 💯

    • @225Qc
      @225Qc Місяць тому

      Same herre. The energy will definitely be different.

  • @patjenkins3090
    @patjenkins3090 8 місяців тому +30

    My silence means that I will no longer throw my pearls to the swine on that subject. If I continue to remain silent because you keep ignoring my feelings, I’m done. My next move will be made without you. We will be done. It takes me a while to get to that point but once I’m there, I won’t be looking back!

    • @bellamartrice
      @bellamartrice 8 місяців тому +1

      💯💯💯💯

    • @beverlyfleming6352
      @beverlyfleming6352 8 місяців тому +1

      So true, done is done.

    • @Elizabeth-ef2mm
      @Elizabeth-ef2mm 5 місяців тому +2

      Took me a year of back and forth and heartache, but I’m finally done. Thank you Jesus for strength, self love and clarity 🙏

    • @NandiB
      @NandiB 4 місяці тому

      Praises know your self worth no matter what 👏👏👏👏

    • @abbasgirl8153
      @abbasgirl8153 2 місяці тому +1

      💯

  • @mascara_lashes
    @mascara_lashes 4 місяці тому +4

    When a woman talks to you she’s trying to help you keep that strong bond with her and connection.If she is silent she can no longer help and therefore a lost cause.. Women don’t want men who are lost..

  • @TheTeawithK6095
    @TheTeawithK6095 10 місяців тому +43

    Your telling the Truth most men won't listen though..they will just keep losing good women and cry later

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  10 місяців тому +2

      Karen, I want you to know that you are not alone in feeling this way. It's completely normal to have doubts and uncertainties in relationships, especially during times of transition or change. Remember to be kind to yourself and give yourself the grace to navigate through these feelings. If you're looking for more guidance and support, I'll be hosting a new master class that can provide some valuable insights and tools to help you in your journey. You can find the link in the description below. Stay strong and believe in yourself, you've got this! 💪🏼 #YouAreNotAlone

  • @cmr88
    @cmr88 10 місяців тому +143

    TRUTH 🎉🎉A WOMAN SILENCE VALIDATES HER QUEENSHIP !!! A TRUE QUEEN IS NOT GONNA WASTE HER TIME !!! LIFE GOES ON ❤🎉🎉🎉

    • @jakayabillings
      @jakayabillings 10 місяців тому +7

      Yess❤

    • @kimberlymay9497
      @kimberlymay9497 10 місяців тому +8

      This 🙏 going to write this down in my journal 📓 ❤

    • @veebliss1266
      @veebliss1266 10 місяців тому +10

      Why waste another breath on ears that don’t hear 👂 🤷‍♀️ just move forward

    • @robinlewis1645
      @robinlewis1645 10 місяців тому +6

      Enuff said, I couldn't have said it better!!

    • @LazyWitch11
      @LazyWitch11 10 місяців тому +2

      Yes it's inefficient especially when we have to use our energy to fight like he'll to improve our income and support our families.

  • @LK-qz7eh
    @LK-qz7eh 10 місяців тому +109

    Yup you’re speaking facts Mr. Jaxn. When we are silent that means we’re done!

  • @jstzolaa
    @jstzolaa 8 місяців тому +12

    Speaking pure fact.
    When a women is silent she has already been patient she has already tired to communicate she has already did everything she could but still nothing has changed and most time it gets worse.
    A woman’s silence means she’s reflecting

  • @Mingkai-cw6kh
    @Mingkai-cw6kh 8 місяців тому +18

    If I'm silent it's because I'm done! 🤷🏻‍♀️ Don't contact me, don't wait for me, and don't ever try to f*&k with me again! 💯🗣

  • @Autumn938
    @Autumn938 10 місяців тому +33

    A silent woman means she’s apathetic towards you. Simply put, she’s done!

  • @sweetrose19
    @sweetrose19 10 місяців тому +50

    Facts. We are done with you. No more arguing, no more communication and we don’t want to go for the jugular, so we stop talking.

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  10 місяців тому

      Dear @sweetrose19,
      I can sense the pain and frustration you're going through, and I want to remind you that you are not alone in this journey. Your feelings are valid, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed at times. Remember to be kind to yourself and give yourself grace as you navigate through this challenging situation.
      It's important to set boundaries and communicate your needs clearly to your partner. Open and honest communication is key in any relationship, and it's essential to feel heard and understood. Remember to prioritize self-care and take time for yourself to recharge and reflect on what you truly deserve in a relationship.
      If you're looking for more guidance and support, I invite you to check out my new master class that delves deeper into building healthy and fulfilling relationships. You deserve to find love and happiness, and I'm here to help you every step of the way.
      Take care of yourself, and know that you are worthy of love and respect.
      Warm regards,
      [Relationship Coach]

  • @angelcakes7314
    @angelcakes7314 10 місяців тому +215

    WHEN A WOMAN FED UP!!!

    • @Leigh-y8q
      @Leigh-y8q 10 місяців тому +13

      R. Kelly once said...

    • @veebliss1266
      @veebliss1266 10 місяців тому +16

      Ain’t NOTHING you can do about it 🎉 we control that 👏👏

    • @AT-zl6dk
      @AT-zl6dk 9 місяців тому +3

      Sho nuff 😩

    • @ramonaschuler4134
      @ramonaschuler4134 8 місяців тому

      I was trying not to say it, but thank you for saying it!! 1000%

    • @beautifulleopard3929
      @beautifulleopard3929 8 місяців тому

      Facts

  • @deec411
    @deec411 8 місяців тому +23

    Thank you DJ for verbalizing what women need. It's not supposed to be a competition!! God Bless you. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @weekenddiaries7975
    @weekenddiaries7975 4 місяці тому +4

    When I go silent it’s because I’m mourning, you are now considered “gone”.

  • @jeanetteturner6149
    @jeanetteturner6149 10 місяців тому +45

    Speak the truth! She's quiet cause she KNOWS THE TRUTH!

  • @somechicyoudontknow8590
    @somechicyoudontknow8590 10 місяців тому +57

    When I'm pushed too far, my silence will destroy you. There's no coming back !!!!

  • @melindahart2944
    @melindahart2944 10 місяців тому +70

    She has truly left the building

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  10 місяців тому +2

      Hi @melindahart2944,
      I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time right now. Remember, it's okay to not be okay. It's important to take care of yourself and prioritize your mental health during challenging moments. You're stronger than you think, and you have the power to overcome any obstacles that come your way.
      If you're looking for additional support and guidance, I highly recommend checking out my new master class. It's filled with valuable insights and strategies that can help you navigate through this difficult time. Take care of yourself and remember, you're not alone on this journey.
      Sending you positive vibes and strength.
      [Male Relationship Coach]

  • @Ladiiem77
    @Ladiiem77 8 місяців тому +15

    You are not lying 100% silence is whatever i dont care no more .

  • @RenataRath1983
    @RenataRath1983 8 місяців тому +4

    Spot on! When we go silent we are already making a decision to redirect our energy. Basically throwing the towel.

  • @powdersplayground
    @powdersplayground 9 місяців тому +42

    ‘She is sparing you’ well observed. A woman can destroy you with a sentence if she wanted too.

  • @Braveh3artGirl
    @Braveh3artGirl 10 місяців тому +98

    Keeping the flame alive is actually fun and filled with excitement i don’t understand why some men are trashing their own romance it’s ridiculous

    • @cynicalafflictional1725
      @cynicalafflictional1725 10 місяців тому +8

      RIGHT!! So true

    • @veebliss1266
      @veebliss1266 10 місяців тому

      They are LAZY !!!! Uncreative !!! They self sabotage

    • @Balert-z8w
      @Balert-z8w 10 місяців тому +6

      Wow deep. Really!

    • @latoyarichardson2999
      @latoyarichardson2999 9 місяців тому +2

      Right it's crazy

    • @humblyg1
      @humblyg1 9 місяців тому +2

      I'm happy things are going like this generation's of this because we wanted to be loved properly we love men bit we must choose us first

  • @lashondalambrecht4566
    @lashondalambrecht4566 10 місяців тому +102

    These men are not picking up what your putting down....

  • @erinelizabeth5164
    @erinelizabeth5164 4 місяці тому +2

    Spot on. I fight when I care. Once I’m done, I will ghost you in a day

  • @KarmishiJuman
    @KarmishiJuman 8 місяців тому +4

    You are definitely speaking facts !!!
    These facts are for woman who are intelligent and have high self esteem.

  • @kimmiewilson3129
    @kimmiewilson3129 9 місяців тому +29

    This is soooo true. When I tried and tried to fight for our relationship avoiding the REDD FLAGS .
    It has gotten to a point that I felt the stress of me fighting alone. I gave him the rope so eventually he hung himself.
    I love him but I love myself more. I know my worth.Getting fed up is alot of bad energy and I got tired and worn .

  • @nileoracle
    @nileoracle 10 місяців тому +34

    The quiet before the storm is what she is mercifully sparing you

  • @yorubafreeman6069
    @yorubafreeman6069 10 місяців тому +50

    Truth! Our power is in our silence. Yes,we do check out mentally LONG before we do physically.

  • @Lakiesha_Fason
    @Lakiesha_Fason 7 місяців тому +3

    Facts. And when u think u pissing her off and she just laugh at u. Ur done!

  • @zenawarrior7442
    @zenawarrior7442 8 місяців тому +5

    Truth. The sliding down the wall really got me🤣I'm so kind, an empath, loved too hard. Never again. I'm taking care of my needs only now. Excellent info thanks. Most men don't have a clue about women & play games or are in their ego too much😊💚

  • @judywheeler2549
    @judywheeler2549 9 місяців тому +39

    Women check out emotionally long before she leaves

  • @ZOELIFE23-365
    @ZOELIFE23-365 9 місяців тому +23

    That's good. "You can recognize a mans potential but DONT IGNORE HIS REALITY 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @CBtalks8554
    @CBtalks8554 10 місяців тому +84

    They don't ever hear the Drum Roll because they're selfish and egotistical.

  • @Wouldntyouliketoknow65
    @Wouldntyouliketoknow65 8 місяців тому +22

    The sound of silence, the most beautiful noise I've ever heard.

  • @shayekisitu
    @shayekisitu 8 місяців тому +3

    Facts. I agree. 👌🏻 I was tired of not getting or being heard and as a result - Silence became my greatest strength and ally.

  • @sheiladixon-u1c
    @sheiladixon-u1c 10 місяців тому +41

    I'm DONE DONE when i'm not talking Keep Teaching those FACTS

  • @Latinalady2u
    @Latinalady2u 10 місяців тому +31

    You hit it right on the head! These men that think theyre all that just dont know what a woman is capable of. Dont underestimate a woman especially if shes a strong woman. Youll be hurting yourself!

    • @westcoastbred7745
      @westcoastbred7745 9 місяців тому +1

      This is facts. He hasn't learned his lesson of my inner strength. He's already witnessed and experienced it but still keeps playing with fire 🔥

  • @PatsyArmour
    @PatsyArmour 10 місяців тому +245

    Be slow to anger, be slow to speak, surrender to Jesus, if he can't love Jesus how can he love you ......

  • @amyrowe8014
    @amyrowe8014 9 місяців тому +1

    You damn RIGHT. I AM SPARING HIM BIG TIME!!!! I’m better than than that though

  • @emanuelarangos4247
    @emanuelarangos4247 Місяць тому +1

    "She is sparing you with her silence "
    💯💯💯

  • @sophiashekinah9872
    @sophiashekinah9872 10 місяців тому +42

    That complacency is exactly why I'm much more suspicious of the whole "marriage" thing, now. A marriage licence seems to be more like a death sentence for a relationship. Idk if it's because men think we won't leave if we're married, or what, but guys seem to just get sloppy and arrogant once they think they've nailed it down.

  • @arianazabrina
    @arianazabrina 9 місяців тому +22

    SPEAKING FACTS! When we are quiet, We are done. We really could HURT your feelings but chose NOT to.

  • @cmr88
    @cmr88 10 місяців тому +57

    TEACH THE TRUTH !!! SILENCE IS POWERFULL!!! ALL WORDS HAVE CONSEQUENCES!!! DEATH AND LIFE IS IN THE POWER OF THE TONGUE!!! Proverbs 18:21

    • @veebliss1266
      @veebliss1266 10 місяців тому +2

      ❤❤❤ love that scripture

  • @tumeekabrown616
    @tumeekabrown616 8 місяців тому +2

    You ain't never lied. I'm the queen of silence

  • @ozalice96
    @ozalice96 9 місяців тому +14

    I am a woman. Let me tell you, Derrick does understand women immensely. Every word that he said is so true. ❤ from Australia

  • @vernitajones884
    @vernitajones884 9 місяців тому +14

    Women keep forgetting that they are individuals in a relationship where you are not married your individual you do what you choose to do 😊💘

    • @inettawalker9387
      @inettawalker9387 3 місяці тому

      Just figured this out❤ I can do bad all by myself.

  • @ceegee31379
    @ceegee31379 9 місяців тому +15

    100% Facts!!
    Once I go silent I’m done! Done listening to bs, Done trying to communicate to work on the relationship, Done being disrespected, Just Done! No take backs, no more negotiation. NO MORE! 👋🏽

  • @spiritualwingsllc7538
    @spiritualwingsllc7538 7 місяців тому +4

    True when you say leave me alone I'm going leave you alone.

  • @ShelovesJesus25
    @ShelovesJesus25 6 місяців тому +1

    A woman leaves mentality before she leaves physically FACTSSSSSS‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

  • @meandu052010
    @meandu052010 9 місяців тому +16

    He speaking FACTS!!! A woman silence 🤫 is very dangerous...and the more heart break a woman experiences, silence happens quicker. So be careful fellas, just because you lay it down in bedroom don't mean that silence women will stay

  • @JennaJanexxx
    @JennaJanexxx 9 місяців тому +16

    “There is a war on families, there is a war on healthy relationships” Yes! I LOVE that so many more people are calling this out!

  • @Beautiful1670
    @Beautiful1670 10 місяців тому +64

    In the words of R. Kelly “ when a woman fed up, ain’t nothing you can do about it”

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  10 місяців тому +3

      Hi @Beautiful1670, I can sense the pain and frustration you're going through right now and I want you to know that you're not alone. It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed and lost in relationships at times. Remember, it's okay to ask for help and seek guidance from those who can offer support. Keep faith in yourself and believe that you deserve love and happiness. If you're looking for more insights and strategies to navigate through difficult relationship dynamics, make sure to check out my new master class. You can watch it by clicking the link in the description below. Take care and stay strong. You've got this. ❤️

  • @carmelabrand3511
    @carmelabrand3511 9 місяців тому +9

    When you go silent, you know your value.You've learned your value and you're out

  • @abigaildiaz8237
    @abigaildiaz8237 9 місяців тому +1

    Derrick !!! 🎉🎉thank you …. You said it at all as it is !!!When a woman goes silent 🔕 completely …. There is nothing more to say , because she said at all before and was not heard . So she is healing , making her next step to just grow, learn and move on.

  • @dieannriddick3064
    @dieannriddick3064 8 місяців тому +1

    You have really hit the mark with your Discernment. The old saying is "Silence is Golden", especially when tempered with wisdom and God's grace and mercy and patience. ❤