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This was once an all female run tribe...They were warriors..Once or twice a year they met with an all male tribe...The female tribe raised their male children to the age of 5..They boys were then handed over to the male tribe..Both thrived for a very long time until invaders came in..
My mother was born in 1962, my father born in 1964. My mother is the most immature person I believe I have ever met in my life and I have two children. She was raised by her mother and stepfather who did not teach her how to be a parent, or even an adult. All they taught her was neglect. The father of my children disappeared after 10 years of commitment. His father drink himself to death when he was a child. His father's father committed suicide when even he was just a child. Do you see where I'm going with this?
@@davidangelo2874 I don't know but it sounds good. Unlike the normie "switch-around" of the likes of Nelson Mandela. "If you see a butterfly on a tree, the tree sees the butterfly on you". (Not an actual quote) but similiar. If somebody makes a mistake a lot of their "friends" will pile on the musts and faults of this person like a Jesus figure - and they are now proven to be 100 % righteous ? I don't buy into that. It's common among insecure youngsters though. How is this adult ?
@@jai2776 It's understandable, to be honest. But in short: People frown upon a different idea and brand it as 'juvenile'. And the "i told you so" is the ultimate reinforcement to their frigid thinking. Well - my boomer parents often wondered what happened to their old 'friends'. Good parents but they were wrong about about some stuff.
this was thrown around as an insult on the game server i used to play on 4-6 years ago. i guess you could say they were glowing. like this boo kseems to
@@YonatanRon-o3q yeh yeh. easy to judge others when you jump the gun as well. pathetic. only God wil ljudge me, not faux god, not mushroom people god. not jesus, god
reminder to all my angels in the comments to never place your self worth in how much attention you get from strangers or even your loved ones. the strongest relationship you will have in this life is the one you have with yourself. don’t shut others out but forgive yourself, forgive them. have empathy and watch it all wash over you. it took me so long to wrap my head around this, but if i can figure out how to love myself so can you !!!! ❤
@@kika-ge5qrof course!! but, in my opinion, the deepest and healthiest relationships you will develop in this life where you love and are loved in return will only come your way once you have truly not placed your self worth in the attention you get from others and instead place that effort and obsession into the attention you give to yourself, your personal goals and dreams, and that inner dog in you that barks like crazy. You have to be in touch with all of those aspects of yourself and then, only then will you know true love. 😭❤️
Sad existence to have strongest to yourself and running therefore Satans path. I prefer to vuild on our creator and possible saviour Jesus Christ. In yourself you will only find sin, suffer and death
This was a great listen. With the battle between “what a masculine man is, what a feminine woman is” people always forget to remember that we are first, human beings
You my friend, are as right as 3 left turns. We are humans first. But just like every other animal on earth we have our gender specific roles. Those roles are the foundation on which we have built our societies as we know it. The same roles that brought you’re lineage to this day now to where you have been born and are able to not only express freely you’re ideas but also thrive with the luxury’s that you have available to you now. Without these roles, and by “roles” I mean duties, who knows where we would be. Maybe we can treat everyone equal and it would work out the same or better. But something tells me that human beings tried that at one point and realized that men should lead the way. I’ve been wrong before but if you’ve ever followed a woman through the mall you would realize that if they were to be the ones to lead society, we would still be in the Iron Age trying to make that new girdle and gown that she really wants and indoor plumbing and electricity and automobile would be only an idea to be dreamt of and never obtained… and wars?lol how about ww35 “battle of the smart mouth bitches from the restaurant the other night” and we would be the soldiers in that war of course.
Every video essay of yours has me feeling terribly and wonderfully seen. I'm grateful for your efforts and insight, keep it up man, the world NEEDS this.
And I believe myself and others to be acting rather than being. I feel it would be more valuable and productive to be and watch at the same time and only with a certain amount empathy do I think this is possible. I am first and each is given the same right. I am nothing without all that are a part of the show, known or unbeknownst.
I’m deeply grateful for the divine randomness of the world that led you to create this channel and present such complex ideas for those of us who seek knowledge but feel too lazy to discover it on our own. You truly have changed peoples lives. Thanks.
I swear this channel, along with Academy of Ideas, are two of the best, most comprehensive and in-depth channels that exist. Every time I watch Eternalised's deep dives into psychology and philosophy I feel like I die a little and then are born again a new, better man and a human being.
I agree. There is a lack of good male role models. Fathers who actually speak to and ask questions of their sons. Helicopter Moms and absent fathers. Social media is taking over the role of parenting. I feel sorry for young men today. And the women can’t find a mature man. But social media is affecting women as well. People aren’t meeting each other naturally. In person anymore. Very sad.
I've heard this before. When I was a child our parents generation said it was video games and rock music. Oddly their parents generation blamed television, and their parents blamed the radio. . . I'm not sure what vague reasons the generation before that came up with, But I'm guessing there was something. . . The printing press ? Men were a great deal more manly before the wheel made them soft.
@@conked944 I'm deliberately not being specific because there's a pattern. Every time we apply ancient or even old ideals to modern or current issues we get the same results. I've noticed this is especially evident with historians who have natural biases and try to apply ancient world " truths " to guide people inevitably toward their agenda. Usually political. Always political as a matter of fact.
@@longshotkdb How much do you know about ego death? Do you think the collective consciousness would see that the greater majority of humankind is dangerously falling in Archetypes and thus; a lesser group of humankind begins to experience mass ego death?
I applaud any man that can really access their emotional side in a world that does not support this. It's detrimental to everyone when men are expected to be "strong" all the time.
Yeah, and you failed to understand the video essay and is just parroting what modern women speak. Men don't "access" emotion because that implies passivity towards it. We are supposed to dominate them, like we do everything else, including women.
IDK where I would be at without this channel, honestly. I used to casually read Jung as a teen, and it was foundational. But this channel not only reminded me of this, but has grown my understanding quite a lot. Thank you. This is one of the best youtube channels there is.
i love it when your videos have me thinking of people in my life who strongly align with certain imbalanced archetypes, and then you put the light on my own imbalanced archetypes and i get humbled real quick. this i appreciate a lot 👏🏽
I'm currently close to achieving my undergraduate degree and have reached a low point of confidence over the past couple months. The timing of your video is impeccable and you really helped me learn something new about myself because of the realization of these types of masculine traits men constantly battle with and aim to strive for positively. Thank you for sharing this knowledge and providing awareness I didn't know I was in need of.
It’s been 2 years since I saw your video about puer aeternus and from that point in time my inner journey begin. It’s kinda funny that it started simply as shadow work instructed by Carl Jung, where I ventured deep inside to face my unconscious, and somewhat lead me to find God in my life. What started as a mere autotherapy evolved into a full blown odyssey which continues to this day. This video that you uploaded now, from my point of view stands like a milestone of my progress, even a guidepost of sorts 😅 showing me what is still lurking ahead and what I already managed to get through. Thank you for your work and insight you give me with each video you upload, your work is truly remarkable ❤ Have a good one and may God bless your soul 👌
But unlike the story, you have to fight the monster more than once? Or it still isn’t defeated yet? The whole journey isn’t as neatly paced as if it were on paper?
@@BigToody The journey may seem endless as facing the „Heart of Darkness” is not simply a main objective but a turning point to the whole process. As Carl Jung said - „No tree, it is said, can grow to heaven unless its roots reach down to hell”. And once you reach hell, there's nowhere left to go but up. On your way back you start to see that the monsters were actually allies you forsakened and at some point you were a monster too. It is as you said, the main Bad Guy is elusive and impossible to defeat, that’s why you are forced to partake in never ending war that will see its finale only when you die. So brace yourself, draw your strongest weapon (love) and be ready to fight battle after battle after battle while having Infinity (God) backing you up whenever you fall.
This is the best video I have ever seen, in around 15 years of watching UA-cam. I've watched it twice already. You are one of the great thinkers of this generation.
This is literally the 2nd or 3rd time you've made a video about a book I was in the middle of reading. We're on the same path my friend! Keep up the great work!
This video encapsulates so many feelings, thoughts, and observations I have had about masculinity and the state of modern manhood in a way I could never begin to articulate. Thank you for your work. It cannot be understated how much these essays are needed.
Becoming aware that projection is a thing is one of the most fruitful discovery one can have over their own psychology! Eternalised’s video on Psychological Projection is a Masterpiece
Good luck being your own mother, father, grandmother, grandfather, son, daughter, brother, sister, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, sun, moon, day, night, and so on.
@@longlakeshore What I'm pointing out is that there are several problems with how you phrased it, allowing for more unintended meanings than intended ones. The point isn't to not project, since projection is fundamental to cognition, nor is it healthy to try to embody all archetypes necessary for psychological health within a certain environment yourself. The point is to project in a healthy way on to appropriate objects/subjects. *Note also that some archetypes may be very real, and so we should not assume or be shamed into believing that everything is inappropriate projection. The problem is with what we *incorrectly* project, that actually only belongs to ourselves.
These videos always coincide with my life I swear❤❤❤ you were my introduction to Jungian psychology, thank you for all the videos you’ve made , I don’t know where I would be if I hadn’t clicked on your video
I have watched and listened to each of your videos at least twice and this particular one resonates with me more than any other. My sincerest gratitude to you.
The best that I get from this video is that it is no longer necessary to limit oneself to one archetype. We must use all (last) four to our advantage and improvement. This is by far one of the best and most useful channels on all youtube. Thank you!
Bless all my brothers that are watching this 🖤 This video is pure wisdom. Puts a name to things i couldn’t quite put a finger on before. I would love to see a collaboration with women philosophers & writers that explores the immature female archetypes sometime soon!
Thank you for this, Eternalised, your videos are always full of insightful and deep knowledge and require several watches to be really understood. I'm a man, and am currently struggling with that it means to be a man. Your video exposed a clear presentation of what it means to be a man, the different aspects it involves, and the shadowy parts. I discovered some boyish or immature parts of my masculinity watching your video, and will work on them. Your video also made me feel relaxed and at peace, because what you describe as manhood is what I strive for, and I know I will get there.
Absolutely incredible work. What a well written Video and I think your best work yet. Every man needs to watch this in their quiet time and really take it in. The summation of what a Truely well rounded Man is to understand and become.. Well done my friend 👏
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you" that is SO profound and is something I keep trying to wake up in people around me but the ones that don't already understand it just don't seem to get it
It's quite rare that I comment on any video on UA-cam. However, I feel the need to say that your productions are extremely high-quality and have had a positive impact on my life. Thanks for doing the work that you do.
Beautiful video. Have been thinking about this topic and this book so this video came with perfect timing. Seems that immaturity may be the fundamental crisis of modernity. But I think we're on the brink of a great turnaround in the personal and collective maturity of humanity. Thanks for your efforts in that direction
Absolutely phenomenal work, there are many lessons in here that one learns throughout life but forgetfulness gets us a bit too often. I wish you to thank you for reminding me once more to honor those great figures within me.
"All our Inner Forces really want is to be Noticed, taken seriously, and Honored. And they have a right to be. Once they are Honored, and their feelings Validated, they no longer need to Act Out through our lives. Thus, a figure who started out as an Inner Persecutor may become a Lifelong Friend."
I truly don’t mean to be a downer or a doomer, but you can’t have a completely atomized society and then think that “the individual” will overcome it all. Community, rituals, and maturity are ALL things that develop in relationship to other things outside of ourselves. Even the archetypes mentioned here are only valid in the context of being around others, be it friends, family, or “society” at large. This is not to discredit the wisdom showcased in this video, but a reminder that the preconditions needed for these old rituals and archetypes are no longer present to the same extent as before.
All we've had to fix our karma from family. Understand where can come our immature trails. This's like quest to understand our spirits. Achievement of our goals can be long way to go. Time is abstract. Understand how body works, unconscious.. Focus on own way and ask for questions if answer is not applied.
This is about how a person acts and conducts oneself in a society, and by yourself in your mind. It’s about watching by timeless arch’s in personality seem through all of us . Your comments make no sense
While an ideal structure of one's environment may not be present today (or ever) we must all deal with the reality we are in as best as we can. In today's world this means learning self reliance may be more necessary than before. Creating a like minded community is difficult but not impossible. And being discerning in who we allow truly close to us has always been important, as all your hard work can be torn down quickly just by having the wrong friends.
@@Dondillilochevrolet No his comment makes complete absolute sense. Nobody and nothing exists on this planet in a vacuum. Long is only long in comparison to short. Hot to cold. Light to Dark. Big to small. Bees and Flowers. You cannot have one without the other. How can anyone grow and learn who they are and become their full and complete with the absence of such things. It’s the same thing. Individuality and becoming a full rounded human comes from being in relation with something else. There’s no other way.
@@mattm.5436 Thank You for this last comment. While one can grow very strong, the need for Humanity to understand each other is most important nowadays.
I am very glad you have made this episode. I have read through this book multiple times, trying to figure out how I might improve and grow into a Man. A very good and concise summary of the book! Thank you!
This is all so well done that at times it's difficult to watch as I can see some of the terrible qualities of these boy models within myself...meaning that there is a still a lot of work to do
thank you so much for this incredible presentation ! i can't believe how much i learned about masculinity in 48mins . this so on point and much needed information for these times
I recognise and acknowledge that I am deeply childish, hurt, ignorant, egocentrical and very proud. I need help and guidance and thank you for posting this. Humility brings me inner warmth and calm.
I relate so much to this, as a stud lesbian, I am finally in a good place and have healed my King/Magician/Warrior/Lover archetype at 33 years old. I used to be an addicted, tyrannical, coward and now I confront difficult circumstances head on. I am much more grounded, fair and compassionate. R.IP to my father, grandfather and uncles.
I absolutely adore your videos man. You are so good at what you do, at explaining and making things clear. Also, I don't know if you have any insecurities about your voice But you have an excellent and well paced speaking voice and I could listen to you all day. Much love brother! (Say brother like hulk Hogan 😂)
44:23 to 44,43: ''All these forces really want is to be noticed, taken seriously, and honoured... [then] they no longer need to act out through our lives.'' I suppose by understanding each archetype force within ourselves, it then ceases to be a troublesome shadow self.
I heard someone say once that men aren't taught to be men. They're taught "not to be women." - to be fair, I don't know many TRULY good, honorable men in this life. I know they're out there but the fact that it's rare shows the lack of a well rounded "masculine energy". I hope this makes sense
This channel truly heals me. Every time I reach the middle of the video, when the words bring hope and the music in the background is beautiful, I shed tears. ❤
14:40 knew somebody just like this. Its spot on. Incredible that in the 21st century, philosophers as far back as the BC era were spot on with their observations
"No, women can't be immature. If they are, they won't change. Immaturity is something only men experience. If a man is not useful in his life, he is immature. Women are born useful."
Yes, there are distortions in the same way that the masculine psychology has distortions. One of the differing things compared to men is that women are more strongly associated with three stages of life (girlhood, motherhood, matron) compared to men being more associated with the two phases of boyhood and manhood. Biologically this is largely linked to the cycles of fertility and much of the psychology of the issue flows from that. Anyways, here are three examples amongst many. You have a number that are related to the jealousy of aging women, particularly as their self confidence takes a hit if they are too immature to grow into the matron role. Just a note on the example that I'm about to use, it's pretty grim if you look it up. So if you don't like that sort of thing, don't. Empress Lu of China was jealous of the attention one of her sons bestowed upon his lover, Qi. So she took Qi and physically ruined her and then displayed in that state to her son. There is the inverse of the match-maker where a woman seeks to ruin the lineage/image of someone, often out of jealousy. Tsarina Anna of Russia, for example, had an incident where she pettily tried to humiliate and ruin a noble named Mikhail Alekseyevich Golitsyn, first by making him her court jester servant and then by marrying him off to an ugly woman, forcing the two in the mock-marriage to spend the night in a freezing castle of ice. The smothering mother, to the point of harming her children, is best illustrated by the modern 'Munchie' phenomenon where mothers try to get doctors to put their children on insane amounts of medications, largely so that the mother can showcase them for social media credibility. Those are just a few of a much larger number, most of which are associated strongly with the three stages of female life (girlhood, motherhood, matron). And that's before getting into the abnormal/aberrations like the complete rejection of femininity. Of course, one thing that makes this a bit difficult is that we do have to take into account that a number of concepts of masculine and feminine roles are not necessarily intrinsic, and by that I mean that a number of them come from social constraints rather than essence. The essence ones are the more psychologically important, the constraints and often psychological formations emerging from rejection of constraints are often aberrant/temporary. Hope that helps.
I know you've done a couple deep dives on these individual psychologies but I would love a deeper dive on all of these. As well as the feminine archetypes you released a video on. Thank you ❤
I was like 43:39 in my early to mid 20’s (I’m 33 now). I wholeheartedly believe to escape this state you have to Integrate your shadow. Don’t lie to yourself about yourself, ever. Hold yourself accountable, accept where you fall short. Just think of it like this, how can you operate when the narrator in your own head is an unreliable one? You ever read a book with an unreliable narrator? The narrative and events are all warped and inaccurate, and that’s your waking life without an integrated shadow. Constant self sabotage, regret, shame, lack of confidence, lack of progress and a distorted view of yourself, others and the world you live in. What I’ve described is the reason people are so ridiculous nowadays. Both sides of the sociopolitical spectrum are ridiculous, the left with their warped Identity politics, and the right with their hatred and bigotry. This is due to the world being filled with people who have a desperate need for self awareness and integration of their shadow. People are walking talking shells filled with ideas and beliefs that play on their emotions and not their intelligence or powers of reasoning.
@@mariusloveless7880 Wow this is, incredibly insightful! Thank you. I'm currently mid 20s myself. I realized a while ago just how much I was ignoring my real life and how much I was lying to get by. I also know it has ruined me. I don't fully understand what the shadow is or how to integrate it, so that is where I'll start. Maybe in a while I'll return to your comment and let you know how it goes.
I wouldn't say love yourself, more like strive to become emotionally resilient and mentally fortified. Strive to be the strongest person at your fathers funeral "but give allowance for their doubting too "
@@retpal2302 no it’s love yourself. You can’t give $10 when you only got $5. Love yourself has to do with an understanding of love, what it means to care for yourself. Ain’t nobody gonna love you if you don’t. I was the only one to speak at my father’s funeral btw. One of the hardest things I’ve ever done.
@@lakshverma8663 loving yourself in the way that you would your own child, care, doing the things you tell yourself that you’ll do, being impeccable with your word. Integrity
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This was once an all female run tribe...They were warriors..Once or twice a year they met with an all male tribe...The female tribe raised their male children to the age of 5..They boys were then handed over to the male tribe..Both thrived for a very long time until invaders came in..
27:41-28:53 ✨
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I Just Came To Say A Sentence ,
It Is a World There Which Is Beyond Psychology! Oky 2 sentences 🤦🏽♂️ It is Called The World Of Greatness
When I was an infant I saw a world filled with adults. And now as an adult, all I see is a world filled with infants masquerading as adults.
My mother was born in 1962, my father born in 1964. My mother is the most immature person I believe I have ever met in my life and I have two children. She was raised by her mother and stepfather who did not teach her how to be a parent, or even an adult. All they taught her was neglect. The father of my children disappeared after 10 years of commitment. His father drink himself to death when he was a child. His father's father committed suicide when even he was just a child. Do you see where I'm going with this?
I can remember starting my first full-time jobs after university and realising this.
100%. Most people are carrying around unresolved childhood traumas, acting them out unconsciously, and never getting to the root of their issues.
Now Imagine growing up in Los Angeles imagine how many humans I saw
Poetic
Excellent. As Nietzsche says, Man's maturity: to have regained the seriousness that he had as a child at play.
well said.
Which piece of writing did he say this in
@@davidangelo2874 I don't know but it sounds good. Unlike the normie "switch-around" of the likes of Nelson Mandela. "If you see a butterfly on a tree, the tree sees the butterfly on you". (Not an actual quote) but similiar. If somebody makes a mistake a lot of their "friends" will pile on the musts and faults of this person like a Jesus figure - and they are now proven to be 100 % righteous ? I don't buy into that. It's common among insecure youngsters though. How is this adult ?
@@terjehansen0101I keep reading this but I cant understand what you’re trying to say. Help.
@@jai2776 It's understandable, to be honest. But in short: People frown upon a different idea and brand it as 'juvenile'. And the "i told you so" is the ultimate reinforcement to their frigid thinking. Well - my boomer parents often wondered what happened to their old 'friends'. Good parents but they were wrong about about some stuff.
7:21 to 7,28: ''The key to maturity is to become humble, which consists of knowing our limitations and getting the help we need.''
Finally accepting this as truth recently
@@Jhawk_2kwhich is hard for most people considering how much value society places in "pride."
this was thrown around as an insult on the game server i used to play on 4-6 years ago. i guess you could say they were glowing. like this boo kseems to
Men maturity = being humble, responsible / accountable and pragmatic who seek to grow rather than being stuck in comfort and beliefs
@@YonatanRon-o3q yeh yeh. easy to judge others when you jump the gun as well. pathetic. only God wil ljudge me, not faux god, not mushroom people god. not jesus, god
reminder to all my angels in the comments to never place your self worth in how much attention you get from strangers or even your loved ones. the strongest relationship you will have in this life is the one you have with yourself. don’t shut others out but forgive yourself, forgive them. have empathy and watch it all wash over you. it took me so long to wrap my head around this, but if i can figure out how to love myself so can you !!!! ❤
Loving yourself is great but not enough. We all need someone to love. Stay well. ❣️
@@kika-ge5qrof course!! but, in my opinion, the deepest and healthiest relationships you will develop in this life where you love and are loved in return will only come your way once you have truly not placed your self worth in the attention you get from others and instead place that effort and obsession into the attention you give to yourself, your personal goals and dreams, and that inner dog in you that barks like crazy. You have to be in touch with all of those aspects of yourself and then, only then will you know true love. 😭❤️
The ego. Neutralize it.
@@festeringfingerprintvicodin What's with the flood of tears? Check out Teal Swan today about self love. 🤗
Sad existence to have strongest to yourself and running therefore Satans path. I prefer to vuild on our creator and possible saviour Jesus Christ. In yourself you will only find sin, suffer and death
This was a great listen. With the battle between “what a masculine man is, what a feminine woman is” people always forget to remember that we are first, human beings
Absolutely CORRECT!!
You my friend, are as right as 3 left turns. We are humans first. But just like every other animal on earth we have our gender specific roles. Those roles are the foundation on which we have built our societies as we know it. The same roles that brought you’re lineage to this day now to where you have been born and are able to not only express freely you’re ideas but also thrive with the luxury’s that you have available to you now. Without these roles, and by “roles” I mean duties, who knows where we would be. Maybe we can treat everyone equal and it would work out the same or better. But something tells me that human beings tried that at one point and realized that men should lead the way. I’ve been wrong before but if you’ve ever followed a woman through the mall you would realize that if they were to be the ones to lead society, we would still be in the Iron Age trying to make that new girdle and gown that she really wants and indoor plumbing and electricity and automobile would be only an idea to be dreamt of and never obtained… and wars?lol how about ww35 “battle of the smart mouth bitches from the restaurant the other night” and we would be the soldiers in that war of course.
very true
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That's such a superficial plattitude.
This is juicy, juicy wisdom-- I appreciate all that you do and all that you are. 🐝 Blessed Bee
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Every video essay of yours has me feeling terribly and wonderfully seen. I'm grateful for your efforts and insight, keep it up man, the world NEEDS this.
I think that inside every adult is the heart of a child. We just gradually convince ourselves that we have to act more like adults. - Shigeru Miyamoto
And I believe myself and others to be acting rather than being. I feel it would be more valuable and productive to be and watch at the same time and only with a certain amount empathy do I think this is possible. I am first and each is given the same right. I am nothing without all that are a part of the show, known or unbeknownst.
" we never grow up just grow old along the way" Oliver Anthony from" Purdy Good"
Maturity is freedom from conditioning - Jiddu Krishnamurti
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I’m deeply grateful for the divine randomness of the world that led you to create this channel and present such complex ideas for those of us who seek knowledge but feel too lazy to discover it on our own. You truly have changed peoples lives. Thanks.
I swear this channel, along with Academy of Ideas, are two of the best, most comprehensive and in-depth channels that exist. Every time I watch Eternalised's deep dives into psychology and philosophy I feel like I die a little and then are born again a new, better man and a human being.
Pursuit of wonder is also noteworthy.
@@yeisongomez4286 100% agree!
horses does some great vids also also
@@sergeiourhesou thanks for the recommendation - I'll check him out!
Indeed
You and your channel are brilliant , thank you for all your amazing discourse✍️
I agree. There is a lack of good male role models. Fathers who actually speak to and ask questions of their sons. Helicopter Moms and absent fathers. Social media is taking over the role of parenting. I feel sorry for young men today. And the women can’t find a mature man. But social media is affecting women as well. People aren’t meeting each other naturally. In person anymore. Very sad.
I've heard this before.
When I was a child our parents generation said it was video games and rock music.
Oddly their parents generation blamed television, and their parents blamed the radio. . .
I'm not sure what vague reasons the generation before that came up with,
But I'm guessing there was something. . .
The printing press ?
Men were a great deal more manly before the wheel made them soft.
@@longshotkdbbe more specific; what era, when choosing a group to categorize (like men) take into account world events, Access to technology
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I'm deliberately not being specific because there's a pattern.
Every time we apply ancient or even old ideals to modern or current issues we get the same results. I've noticed this is especially evident with historians who have natural biases and try to apply ancient world " truths " to guide people inevitably toward their agenda.
Usually political.
Always political as a matter of fact.
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I'm new to the channel.
Just read the other comments, bull in a china shop comes to mind. . .
Excuse me.
@@longshotkdb How much do you know about ego death? Do you think the collective consciousness would see that the greater majority of humankind is dangerously falling in Archetypes and thus; a lesser group of humankind begins to experience mass ego death?
I applaud any man that can really access their emotional side in a world that does not support this. It's detrimental to everyone when men are expected to be "strong" all the time.
Yeah, and you failed to understand the video essay and is just parroting what modern women speak.
Men don't "access" emotion because that implies passivity towards it. We are supposed to dominate them, like we do everything else, including women.
IDK where I would be at without this channel, honestly. I used to casually read Jung as a teen, and it was foundational. But this channel not only reminded me of this, but has grown my understanding quite a lot. Thank you. This is one of the best youtube channels there is.
Thanks. I love your work 🙏🏾
i love it when your videos have me thinking of people in my life who strongly align with certain imbalanced archetypes, and then you put the light on my own imbalanced archetypes and i get humbled real quick. this i appreciate a lot 👏🏽
I'm currently close to achieving my undergraduate degree and have reached a low point of confidence over the past couple months. The timing of your video is impeccable and you really helped me learn something new about myself because of the realization of these types of masculine traits men constantly battle with and aim to strive for positively. Thank you for sharing this knowledge and providing awareness I didn't know I was in need of.
Proud of you!
What are you getting your degree in
keep it up bro !!!!
Don’t get zesty now bro
Atta boy !
It’s been 2 years since I saw your video about puer aeternus and from that point in time my inner journey begin. It’s kinda funny that it started simply as shadow work instructed by Carl Jung, where I ventured deep inside to face my unconscious, and somewhat lead me to find God in my life. What started as a mere autotherapy evolved into a full blown odyssey which continues to this day.
This video that you uploaded now, from my point of view stands like a milestone of my progress, even a guidepost of sorts 😅 showing me what is still lurking ahead and what I already managed to get through.
Thank you for your work and insight you give me with each video you upload, your work is truly remarkable ❤
Have a good one and may God bless your soul 👌
But unlike the story, you have to fight the monster more than once? Or it still isn’t defeated yet? The whole journey isn’t as neatly paced as if it were on paper?
@@BigToody The journey may seem endless as facing the „Heart of Darkness” is not simply a main objective but a turning point to the whole process. As Carl Jung said - „No tree, it is said, can grow to heaven unless its roots reach down to hell”. And once you reach hell, there's nowhere left to go but up.
On your way back you start to see that the monsters were actually allies you forsakened and at some point you were a monster too.
It is as you said, the main Bad Guy is elusive and impossible to defeat, that’s why you are forced to partake in never ending war that will see its finale only when you die.
So brace yourself, draw your strongest weapon (love) and be ready to fight battle after battle after battle while having Infinity (God) backing you up whenever you fall.
“Freedom is what you do with what’s been done to you.”
That’s a gold-star quote.
This is the best video I have ever seen, in around 15 years of watching UA-cam. I've watched it twice already. You are one of the great thinkers of this generation.
Will watch again for sure, gr8 wrap bringing up toxic femininity at the end.
This is literally the 2nd or 3rd time you've made a video about a book I was in the middle of reading. We're on the same path my friend! Keep up the great work!
This video encapsulates so many feelings, thoughts, and observations I have had about masculinity and the state of modern manhood in a way I could never begin to articulate.
Thank you for your work. It cannot be understated how much these essays are needed.
Only you could tackle such a controversial subject and nail it. This is fantastic.
Be childish and playful, but not immature. Don't loose the important qualities that make you beautiful, just add to them more.
This may have saved my life.
When you stare at the abyss it stares back. The reality of that is deeper than you could possibly comprehend
Psychological maturity is recognizing and withdrawing all archetypal projections on others and owning them within ourselves.
Becoming aware that projection is a thing is one of the most fruitful discovery one can have over their own psychology!
Eternalised’s video on Psychological Projection is a Masterpiece
Good luck being your own mother, father, grandmother, grandfather, son, daughter, brother, sister, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, sun, moon, day, night, and so on.
@@PeeGee85 I think you missed the point.
@@PeeGee85 you can own more than one pair of pants!
@@longlakeshore What I'm pointing out is that there are several problems with how you phrased it, allowing for more unintended meanings than intended ones.
The point isn't to not project, since projection is fundamental to cognition, nor is it healthy to try to embody all archetypes necessary for psychological health within a certain environment yourself.
The point is to project in a healthy way on to appropriate objects/subjects.
*Note also that some archetypes may be very real, and so we should not assume or be shamed into believing that everything is inappropriate projection.
The problem is with what we *incorrectly* project, that actually only belongs to ourselves.
These videos always coincide with my life I swear❤❤❤ you were my introduction to Jungian psychology, thank you for all the videos you’ve made , I don’t know where I would be if I hadn’t clicked on your video
I have watched and listened to each of your videos at least twice and this particular one resonates with me more than any other. My sincerest gratitude to you.
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The best that I get from this video is that it is no longer necessary to limit oneself to one archetype. We must use all (last) four to our advantage and improvement. This is by far one of the best and most useful channels on all youtube. Thank you!
Bless all my brothers that are watching this 🖤 This video is pure wisdom. Puts a name to things i couldn’t quite put a finger on before. I would love to see a collaboration with women philosophers & writers that explores the immature female archetypes sometime soon!
Thank you for this, Eternalised, your videos are always full of insightful and deep knowledge and require several watches to be really understood. I'm a man, and am currently struggling with that it means to be a man. Your video exposed a clear presentation of what it means to be a man, the different aspects it involves, and the shadowy parts. I discovered some boyish or immature parts of my masculinity watching your video, and will work on them. Your video also made me feel relaxed and at peace, because what you describe as manhood is what I strive for, and I know I will get there.
Excellent insight ❤ you're on the right track
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Check Mr.Locario and Miles Cunningham, they'll give you that knowledge
Thank you eternalized you have no idea how much this video helped me today.
Thank you for this work! This 48 minutes should have a dollar amount to be totally honest with you! It's that good
All your videos are beautiful, informative and easy to digest. You are doing a great service to humanity.
What a powerful, well done video! Thank you so much for helping me understand myself more deeply, and in turn, maturing into a sacred warrior. 🙏
Absolutely incredible work. What a well written Video and I think your best work yet. Every man needs to watch this in their quiet time and really take it in.
The summation of what a Truely well rounded Man is to understand and become.. Well done my friend 👏
I have been playing with this theme on my mind. I needed this video. Excited to listen.
This is deeply appreciated, I learned lots and had a fun time
Thank you for making this and sharing it
Babe wake up, eternalised just dropped a new video
"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you" that is SO profound and is something I keep trying to wake up in people around me but the ones that don't already understand it just don't seem to get it
I loved this book. Always good to hear someone narrate the main points!
It's quite rare that I comment on any video on UA-cam. However, I feel the need to say that your productions are extremely high-quality and have had a positive impact on my life. Thanks for doing the work that you do.
Humility and gratitude do a lot.
Beautiful video. Have been thinking about this topic and this book so this video came with perfect timing. Seems that immaturity may be the fundamental crisis of modernity. But I think we're on the brink of a great turnaround in the personal and collective maturity of humanity. Thanks for your efforts in that direction
Great work! Serious and well studied. I learn so much. Thank you and the same to those that help you.
New videos make my day
This hits. Jung is a genius. Your a good man for bring this to our awareness.
Yesterday I finished reading the last page of this great book and I wish you could talk about it. I am grateful to you.❤
Absolutely phenomenal work, there are many lessons in here that one learns throughout life but forgetfulness gets us a bit too often. I wish you to thank you for reminding me once more to honor those great figures within me.
"All our Inner Forces really want is to be Noticed, taken seriously, and Honored. And they have a right to be.
Once they are Honored, and their feelings Validated, they no longer need to Act Out through our lives.
Thus, a figure who started out as an Inner Persecutor may become a Lifelong Friend."
World most underrated channel i ever seen.. This channel deserve 10million subscribers 😢❤
This hits so close to home it’s unreal😂 amazing commentary😊
Very compelling video. Not just for personal growth, but to help my loved ones too.
I truly don’t mean to be a downer or a doomer, but you can’t have a completely atomized society and then think that “the individual” will overcome it all.
Community, rituals, and maturity are ALL things that develop in relationship to other things outside of ourselves. Even the archetypes mentioned here are only valid in the context of being around others, be it friends, family, or “society” at large.
This is not to discredit the wisdom showcased in this video, but a reminder that the preconditions needed for these old rituals and archetypes are no longer present to the same extent as before.
All we've had to fix our karma from family. Understand where can come our immature trails. This's like quest to understand our spirits. Achievement of our goals can be long way to go. Time is abstract. Understand how body works, unconscious.. Focus on own way and ask for questions if answer is not applied.
This is about how a person acts and conducts oneself in a society, and by yourself in your mind. It’s about watching by timeless arch’s in personality seem through all of us . Your comments make no sense
While an ideal structure of one's environment may not be present today (or ever) we must all deal with the reality we are in as best as we can.
In today's world this means learning self reliance may be more necessary than before.
Creating a like minded community is difficult but not impossible. And being discerning in who we allow truly close to us has always been important, as all your hard work can be torn down quickly just by having the wrong friends.
@@Dondillilochevrolet No his comment makes complete absolute sense.
Nobody and nothing exists on this planet in a vacuum. Long is only long in comparison to short. Hot to cold. Light to Dark. Big to small. Bees and Flowers. You cannot have one without the other. How can anyone grow and learn who they are and become their full and complete with the absence of such things. It’s the same thing. Individuality and becoming a full rounded human comes from being in relation with something else. There’s no other way.
@@mattm.5436 Thank You for this last comment. While one can grow very strong, the need for Humanity to understand each other is most important nowadays.
I am very glad you have made this episode. I have read through this book multiple times, trying to figure out how I might improve and grow into a Man. A very good and concise summary of the book! Thank you!
This is all so well done that at times it's difficult to watch as I can see some of the terrible qualities of these boy models within myself...meaning that there is a still a lot of work to do
Respect brother…. Thanks for sharing
What a valuable gift to stumble upon! Resonates a lot ✨ transformative times - as above so below 💎
thank you so much for this incredible presentation ! i can't believe how much i learned about masculinity in 48mins . this so on point and much needed information for these times
Such an awesome channel.
Sure is
I recognise and acknowledge that I am deeply childish, hurt, ignorant, egocentrical and very proud. I need help and guidance and thank you for posting this. Humility brings me inner warmth and calm.
These videos make me a better human.
Thanks!
Your description of the Magician archetype reminds me of Tyrion Lannister! That makes so much sense. Insight and thoughtfulness was the magic.
Is a bitter alcoholic the best archetype to follow?
You are legend mate nobody on yt like you
This video is *incredible*, uniting ideas from different concepts and philosophies in such an elegant way. Thank you!
Thia is such a wonderful flow.
So relevant and intense.
Just what my life needed today. I got two pages of notes. Thank you.
An amazing video, definitely needed to ground myself with these truths as of late
You're the best, Eternalised. By making these videos, I hope you achieve the outcome you're seeking, or rather the treasure hard to obtain ;)
Great review, wonderful writing and excellent selection of art!
Your videos always appear when i need them the most!
The best channel 🙏 Thank you
This is a sign
Awesome!! Please make a video on the women psychology too
another stunning essay. your use of artwork unfolds my brain. thank you
I relate so much to this, as a stud lesbian, I am finally in a good place and have healed my King/Magician/Warrior/Lover archetype at 33 years old. I used to be an addicted, tyrannical, coward and now I confront difficult circumstances head on. I am much more grounded, fair and compassionate. R.IP to my father, grandfather and uncles.
Wow, you are an archwarriortype!
Smh... this is so deep... to the point it's actually bone chilling paradoxically 🥶
I absolutely adore your videos man. You are so good at what you do, at explaining and making things clear.
Also, I don't know if you have any insecurities about your voice
But you have an excellent and well paced speaking voice and I could listen to you all day.
Much love brother! (Say brother like hulk Hogan 😂)
44:23 to 44,43: ''All these forces really want is to be noticed, taken seriously, and honoured... [then] they no longer need to act out through our lives.''
I suppose by understanding each archetype force within ourselves, it then ceases to be a troublesome shadow self.
Thank you very much, this is a beautiful way to touch people deeply with a well-founded description of masculinity and human behaviour
I heard someone say once that men aren't taught to be men. They're taught "not to be women." - to be fair, I don't know many TRULY good, honorable men in this life. I know they're out there but the fact that it's rare shows the lack of a well rounded "masculine energy". I hope this makes sense
It does!
I would reference the Oedipal archetype perhaps
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If I said that I dont know many good women id be told that I was the problem. Why are women seen as better people than men by default?
@@cseptember6562 That's the first mistake & from that the problem arises & continues
Thank you for the video, you brought us top content as always. If possible, I suggest you to also make the female version of this theme, please.
I think I needed to hear some of this right now in life. Thanks for the content.
This channel truly heals me. Every time I reach the middle of the video, when the words bring hope and the music in the background is beautiful, I shed tears.
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Thanks chagpt
Why’s this in quotes lol
Yes english is not my native language so i used chat gpt to help me translate it in the idea i wanted to present 😅@@Yerbatized
@@Dondillilochevrolet i didn't notice i translate it from chat gpt
14:40 knew somebody just like this. Its spot on. Incredible that in the 21st century, philosophers as far back as the BC era were spot on with their observations
Oooo ooo do immature femininity next!
Too politically incorrect if you're going to delve into the details.
@@gammy4400 What do you think he would talk about?
@@gammy4400Exactly lol. He wont do it
"KING, WARRIOR, LOVER, MAGICIAN" was a good read... simple, but good...
Excellent job as always. Is there a “The Psychology of Immature Femininity”?
"No, women can't be immature. If they are, they won't change. Immaturity is something only men experience. If a man is not useful in his life, he is immature. Women are born useful."
@RafaelD.Oliveira make it make sense
Yes, there are distortions in the same way that the masculine psychology has distortions. One of the differing things compared to men is that women are more strongly associated with three stages of life (girlhood, motherhood, matron) compared to men being more associated with the two phases of boyhood and manhood. Biologically this is largely linked to the cycles of fertility and much of the psychology of the issue flows from that. Anyways, here are three examples amongst many.
You have a number that are related to the jealousy of aging women, particularly as their self confidence takes a hit if they are too immature to grow into the matron role. Just a note on the example that I'm about to use, it's pretty grim if you look it up. So if you don't like that sort of thing, don't. Empress Lu of China was jealous of the attention one of her sons bestowed upon his lover, Qi. So she took Qi and physically ruined her and then displayed in that state to her son.
There is the inverse of the match-maker where a woman seeks to ruin the lineage/image of someone, often out of jealousy. Tsarina Anna of Russia, for example, had an incident where she pettily tried to humiliate and ruin a noble named Mikhail Alekseyevich Golitsyn, first by making him her court jester servant and then by marrying him off to an ugly woman, forcing the two in the mock-marriage to spend the night in a freezing castle of ice.
The smothering mother, to the point of harming her children, is best illustrated by the modern 'Munchie' phenomenon where mothers try to get doctors to put their children on insane amounts of medications, largely so that the mother can showcase them for social media credibility.
Those are just a few of a much larger number, most of which are associated strongly with the three stages of female life (girlhood, motherhood, matron). And that's before getting into the abnormal/aberrations like the complete rejection of femininity. Of course, one thing that makes this a bit difficult is that we do have to take into account that a number of concepts of masculine and feminine roles are not necessarily intrinsic, and by that I mean that a number of them come from social constraints rather than essence. The essence ones are the more psychologically important, the constraints and often psychological formations emerging from rejection of constraints are often aberrant/temporary. Hope that helps.
I know you've done a couple deep dives on these individual psychologies but I would love a deeper dive on all of these. As well as the feminine archetypes you released a video on. Thank you ❤
33:22 The man obsessed with the succeeding has already failed.
These are great. You have so much depth and insight into this topic.
Thank you for your work, Eternalised!
great video, thank you for the free education
43:39 this is so heckin me ❤
I was like 43:39 in my early to mid 20’s (I’m 33 now). I wholeheartedly believe to escape this state you have to Integrate your shadow. Don’t lie to yourself about yourself, ever. Hold yourself accountable, accept where you fall short. Just think of it like this, how can you operate when the narrator in your own head is an unreliable one? You ever read a book with an unreliable narrator? The narrative and events are all warped and inaccurate, and that’s your waking life without an integrated shadow. Constant self sabotage, regret, shame, lack of confidence, lack of progress and a distorted view of yourself, others and the world you live in.
What I’ve described is the reason people are so ridiculous nowadays. Both sides of the sociopolitical spectrum are ridiculous, the left with their warped Identity politics, and the right with their hatred and bigotry. This is due to the world being filled with people who have a desperate need for self awareness and integration of their shadow. People are walking talking shells filled with ideas and beliefs that play on their emotions and not their intelligence or powers of reasoning.
@@mariusloveless7880 Wow this is, incredibly insightful! Thank you. I'm currently mid 20s myself. I realized a while ago just how much I was ignoring my real life and how much I was lying to get by. I also know it has ruined me. I don't fully understand what the shadow is or how to integrate it, so that is where I'll start. Maybe in a while I'll return to your comment and let you know how it goes.
A quote that I think would fit:
"I still don't know many things, but what I know for sure is that between guilt and fear, I choose to be happy"
If you don’t like you, why should you demand anyone else does? Love yourself, act like you do. Watch what happens in your life.
I wouldn't say love yourself, more like strive to become emotionally resilient and mentally fortified. Strive to be the strongest person at your fathers funeral "but give allowance for their doubting too "
@@retpal2302 no it’s love yourself. You can’t give $10 when you only got $5. Love yourself has to do with an understanding of love, what it means to care for yourself. Ain’t nobody gonna love you if you don’t.
I was the only one to speak at my father’s funeral btw. One of the hardest things I’ve ever done.
@@premiertrainingFLwhat exactly 'love yourself' refers to in day to day life. I mean how to 'love yourself'
@@lakshverma8663 loving yourself in the way that you would your own child, care, doing the things you tell yourself that you’ll do, being impeccable with your word. Integrity
oh I love myself alright