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This is scary but accurate. Dealing with this situation. Talking, reminding, and repeating is no longer working. I'm out. I'd rather be completely alone then to deal with another person who can't get it.
Im glad I got out. Been 9 days. My stomach is in knots but I did it 9 years of pure hell. God is with me I will be ok. Thanks for your video God bless 🙏❤️
I really felt this because I'm a real one. And I know my ex is suffering severely, I will never look back. U snooze you lose while dealing with me. Everything you're saying is 100% accurate.
💯 shout out to all the queens and the Baddies and the goddess is out there beautiful in every way I'm kind of going through a situation right now with my boyfriend / ex-boyfriend it's hard cuz I'm still in love with him
No matter what Derrick's flaws, and indiscretions were & are You cannot deny the value and wisdom that He consistently contributes and shares with us 💎🙏 I deeply appreciate him for that!💯
That’s me , I literally can never open the door again and even if I want to . I will never see my ex the same again. I warned him this is how I am but he didn’t listen. 💜
I’m at that breaking point right now… I don’t want to abandon him like his family did but he hasn’t healed yet and the instability of his issues is wearing me down. And you’re right, I need to stop raising him😢
To make this short and not lengthy my long term relationship of 5 years is very inconsistent. What is always consistent is how emotionally burned I get and lonely. I am finally checked out. Thank you so much for your insights.
You so right i open back up he wanted to rekindle and he still trying to hold on to a woman that's moved on bit wanna see me. But givin her a choice to take him or he gonna move on i just had to text him and tell him i hope we both find someone who will value our hearts. Even after we agree to rekindle he still was inconsistent no calls no communication so i wasn't gonna hold myself back i gotta protect my heart period
Mind reader okay d I am a mind reader that's how I read That's how I know that April Mendoza can't eat no f****** peaches because she breaks out mother f***** okay she's allergic to peaches
I embrace but sometimes I feel bad when I get a cold shoulder, but easy to forget and forgive. I love ❤️ my hubby ❤️ hundred 💯. I don't hold grange at all. Thanks 🙏 😊 🙌
Everything you talked in this video it's very true! Males have to start to look at themselves in the mirror ,get rid off those big egos , and do work on themselves, and healing! We ladies are not therapists,and punching bags. We also deal with ourselves, kids,work ,home ,our bodies....
This is completely on point!! Very unfortunately my ex is loosing his mind and life because of our divorce and that I’ve moved on. No matter how I attempt to help point him in the direction of healing, it just gets worse.
Yes , forgiveness is for oneself and not for the person that did you wrong...it helps you heal yourself and not carry the karmic tie of animosity...forgive and let go....women that have integrity, morals and values and know her self worth doesn't need validation from anyone except herself...and thats the reason she will walk away and not look back...
I just talked to a friend about Forgiveness vs. Forgetting. Society always pushes forgiveness for the person who committed the offense and never for the person they offended. As if it's bad for us to feel all the feels that come with things like betrayal or other wrong doings. But I think that forgiveness, just like respect, should be earned. Cause what if the offender is a repeat offender?? So yeah, I feel like forgiving ourselves is much more beneficial to us in the healing process than to just be forced to forgive another person. People say forgive but don't forget but, I would much rather forget a person.
It’s funny how men get traumatized by when the father leaves or if they only have a mother that raised them. And their sisters just go on with their life, like nothing never happened. Weak men, only weak men. It doesn’t matter if it was the mother that left or father, all I see and hear is weakness. Only weak, problematic men. They use this as a crutch, sometimes for life. You know what I say, cast those small fish right back into the ocean of life, and let the sharks deal with them.we can’t chase them but the sharks will.
Relatable. Only if men worked on becoming self aware earlier in life. So they don’t go on to have kids and repeat the cycle. It’s the innocent children who bear the most pain of separation.
My ex didn't even try to fight for me when I checked out I don't know what I was even expecting he didn't fight (not physically) for the relationship during the relationship
Ysssssss! you are soooooooo correct! I have experience in our relationship he didn't want to loose a decent woman when I cut him off or checked out...but he got it right even still now!
Im done done enough is enough I’m tired be used and I make mistakes in my life I learned my lesson and I’m not perfect I don’t need nobody I have god in my life 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏✝️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You make a lot sense ❤ I learn so much by watching your videos and I also get confirmations on some of the things I did in the or how I handled them! Thank you for sharing Knowledge 👍🏼😘
I haven’t been to this page since all of the drama but this video appeared on my timeline. This was definitely on point. I can say you are truly gifted in this field of relationships.
This is so true. What you're saying is describing me. I am just like this. I can see you, I can laugh with you but I can walk away and I don't feel bad about it.
I forgave my x but it still didn't matter he liked his younger women so I divorced him,and now I'm comfortable in my own skin and I'm working on the talents that God has given me.
The last line for me, stop wasting time on someone who's mama never finished training....Men without a mum is just a personal help from GOD to be better for a good woman
This is so much talking to me about my marriage in several ways. We have been separated for two years now and I am now ready to file for divorce. I can no longer be or do anything for this marriage.
Because of myself worth and I know I have given my all and he misused it, I never open that door again. One ex stacked me for 2 yrs, and he was the one messing around.
This is my entire story. He didn't know what he had until I checked out fully.
💥💯🤗
This is scary but accurate. Dealing with this situation. Talking, reminding, and repeating is no longer working. I'm out. I'd rather be completely alone then to deal with another person who can't get it.
😜😜😜
Seriously
Or who pretends they dont get it
I’m praying for you because I’m definitely in the same situation. Love and light
😪👌🎯💌🛌
Im glad I got out. Been 9 days. My stomach is in knots but I did it 9 years of pure hell. God is with me I will be ok. Thanks for your video God bless 🙏❤️
A new chapter for you! How exciting. I did it and it was so WORTH IT!
Madame Luisa..Best of Luck, Good for you. "LIVING YA LIFE LIKE IT'S GOLDEN"...JUST LIKE THE SONG SAYS..YEAH GIRL!
how do you build the courage im almost 10 years in
@@Godisfirst21 SO excited thank you!!
@@sharonsmith6022 yas queen!! 🙏🏽❤️
I relate! Absolutely MEN would not FORGIVE A WOMAN ON THE THINGS THEY HAVE DONE
THAT DOESN'T GO FOR ALL MEN CAUSE MY SON TRIED WHOLE HEARTEDLY.
I really felt this because I'm a real one. And I know my ex is suffering severely, I will never look back. U snooze you lose while dealing with me. Everything you're saying is 100% accurate.
Same sister same. What they take for granted will follow them for a very long time.
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💯 shout out to all the queens and the Baddies and the goddess is out there beautiful in every way I'm kind of going through a situation right now with my boyfriend / ex-boyfriend it's hard cuz I'm still in love with him
No matter what Derrick's flaws, and indiscretions were & are You cannot deny the value and wisdom that He consistently contributes and shares with us 💎🙏 I deeply appreciate him for that!💯
True
So you might as well put R Kelly’s flaws aside and let him help young girls make music since he’s the most musically talented artist of our generation
WHY ARE YOU LOOKING AT HIS FLAWS AND INDISCRETIONS????
FORGET THE MAN'S FLAWS AND LISTEN TO HIS WORDS FOR GOODNESS SAKE
GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST
📢 HE IS DEFECTIVE 📢 that’s all you *really* need to hear.
That part‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
BOOM 💥
What do you do with damaged goods you take them back 🎤
Basically
That’s me , I literally can never open the door again and even if I want to . I will never see my ex the same again. I warned him this is how I am but he didn’t listen. 💜
1. He's manipulative/ he's gaslighting you
2. There's no proper communication on the urgency of what you needed
3. He's an abandonment
Im one of those women that will not open up agin. Done with the games.
I rather be alone than to be in relationship with only drama ..
“When you fumble a good woman you feel it for the rest of your life”
I’m at that breaking point right now… I don’t want to abandon him like his family did but he hasn’t healed yet and the instability of his issues is wearing me down. And you’re right, I need to stop raising him😢
100% relatable, I'm not his savior and I was just enabling him sticking around
Leave. Give that energy to yourself. You don’t owe him ANYTHING! The one that’s for you is waiting-Act now.
Just to let u know I'm there now...glad to know it's not just me with a great heart.😘😘🥰🥰
@@syreetamcfall9580your not, I just let go, and loving my peace
@@Thegoodlife4meAmen
To make this short and not lengthy my long term relationship of 5 years is very inconsistent. What is always consistent is how emotionally burned I get and lonely. I am finally checked out. Thank you so much for your insights.
Omg same and same amount of time
There are better days ahead..stay strong🥰🥰💕💕🙏🏽
@@softandsupplecosmetics Thank you ❤️🙏
@@softandsupplecosmetics Thank you ❤️🙏
You so right i open back up he wanted to rekindle and he still trying to hold on to a woman that's moved on bit wanna see me. But givin her a choice to take him or he gonna move on i just had to text him and tell him i hope we both find someone who will value our hearts. Even after we agree to rekindle he still was inconsistent no calls no communication so i wasn't gonna hold myself back i gotta protect my heart period
My heart is closed bolted, now locked. I will stay alone. No more jerk breaking my heart
Real talk! I’m like that I don’t have a multiple chance mindset Once I’m really done I’m done
Mind reader okay d I am a mind reader that's how I read That's how I know that April Mendoza can't eat no f****** peaches because she breaks out mother f***** okay she's allergic to peaches
Yes
💯Thank you! And don't get my attention through other people! I'm moving on!🤗
I am married to one of the “evolved men”…. Thank God for him daily…. had my share of little boys in the past…. You’re speaking 💯 facts.
I am happy for you 😊
I embrace but sometimes I feel bad when I get a cold shoulder, but easy to forget and forgive. I love ❤️ my hubby ❤️ hundred 💯. I don't hold grange at all. Thanks 🙏 😊 🙌
How did you end up here on this post if that’s true?
Everything you talked in this video it's very true! Males have to start to look at themselves in the mirror ,get rid off those big egos , and do work on themselves, and healing! We ladies are not therapists,and punching bags. We also deal with ourselves, kids,work ,home ,our bodies....
True that.
Once I’m done I’m done ✅
Word
True talk
All of this is so true. I lived it and when I was done, I was done. I divorced him and have been immensely blessed with my husband now.
May God bless you and your new husband. I went through the same and believing God for a good husband.
@@dorothymatthews6690 Thank you so much! I'm praying God will send you a new, good husband.
There are too many players out there, we need real men out there!!! Stop the kindergarten behavior…
This literally happened last night…divine timing af. Needed to hear this thank you.
Yes even though they try I just don’t see them the same I become so angry it’s best if we don’t try again
Definitely speaking facts💯 have been done wrong so many times by one person but he would never be able to handle it if I did the same to him
He will continue as long as you allow it. You need to move on from toxic ppl
it will not be the same NEVER.. how do you bounce back from the pain at my lowest point you dragged me through!!!! I don't even see how God can fix it
God will fix see them for who they really are. If you are a good person and treated someone good He will protect your gear and heal you
I can forgive you, but I can’t take you back. At this point your defiled.
Once defiled, there's no going back.
This is completely on point!! Very unfortunately my ex is loosing his mind and life because of our divorce and that I’ve moved on. No matter how I attempt to help point him in the direction of healing, it just gets worse.
Yes , forgiveness is for oneself and not for the person that did you wrong...it helps you heal yourself and not carry the karmic tie of animosity...forgive and let go....women that have integrity, morals and values and know her self worth doesn't need validation from anyone except herself...and thats the reason she will walk away and not look back...
I just talked to a friend about Forgiveness vs. Forgetting. Society always pushes forgiveness for the person who committed the offense and never for the person they offended. As if it's bad for us to feel all the feels that come with things like betrayal or other wrong doings. But I think that forgiveness, just like respect, should be earned. Cause what if the offender is a repeat offender?? So yeah, I feel like forgiving ourselves is much more beneficial to us in the healing process than to just be forced to forgive another person. People say forgive but don't forget but, I would much rather forget a person.
It’s funny how men get traumatized by when the father leaves or if they only have a mother that raised them. And their sisters just go on with their life, like nothing never happened. Weak men, only weak men. It doesn’t matter if it was the mother that left or father, all I see and hear is weakness. Only weak, problematic men. They use this as a crutch, sometimes for life. You know what I say, cast those small fish right back into the ocean of life, and let the sharks deal with them.we can’t chase them but the sharks will.
Relatable. Only if men worked on becoming self aware earlier in life. So they don’t go on to have kids and repeat the cycle. It’s the innocent children who bear the most pain of separation.
Yeah maybe they could teach that in school instead of the goofy useless sh*T they teach these days...
So true.... you can never really go back.
My ex didn't even try to fight for me when I checked out I don't know what I was even expecting he didn't fight (not physically) for the relationship during the relationship
Same here. Wondering if my BF puts in so little to cause me to leave because he's too lazy to do itself and can claim I left him and not vice versa
Same. Thats actually a blessing
This is 1000000 % accurate. He has child trauma that is why he is transferring it to me all his anxieties and etc.
Narcissistic tendencies
These people have never been in my housenever spent a day with me with me
Will he ever realise I was a real one 🥺
I don't feel I can love him or anyone the same now
Are you looking in my windows? This is so so so on point!
You are so wise. Thank you for sharing a man's perspective. Totally respected.
I approve of this message 👌🏿 👍🏾 👏🏾 😊
Very true. I don’t see him the same.
Ysssssss! you are soooooooo correct! I have experience in our relationship he didn't want to loose a decent woman when I cut him off or checked out...but he got it right even still now!
Im done done enough is enough I’m tired be used and I make mistakes in my life I learned my lesson and I’m not perfect I don’t need nobody I have god in my life 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏✝️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You spoke directly from the heart ❤️. Every words is detailed. Many Thanks
I, I can relate to this. I have forgiven him so many times. I left him after 8 1/2 of complete torture. I am free with the help of God the Father.
You make a lot sense ❤ I learn so much by watching your videos and I also get confirmations on some of the things I did in the or how I handled them! Thank you for sharing Knowledge 👍🏼😘
I haven’t been to this page since all of the drama but this video appeared on my timeline. This was definitely on point.
I can say you are truly gifted in this field of relationships.
I’m so grateful I found Derreck because he makes more sense that applies to my situation and this episode is spot-on
Derrick… sorry😊
Way to go! Derrick you're speaking the truth.
This is so true. What you're saying is describing me. I am just like this. I can see you, I can laugh with you but I can walk away and I don't feel bad about it.
Amen... I'm going to share your page with others ♥️
Definitely needed this!
I’m so proud of you Derrick keep on going love you ❤️
Number 3 hits home for my situation. Thanks Derrick!
Omg, I have been sharing your videos with my friends and my sisters and sisters in-law. You are sooooo right. Thank you
This is gold !!
Truth Truth Truth!!! This message is outstanding
Everything you’ve said 💡 word for word facts thank you 🙏🏽
So needed this! TY
This so absolutely golden.
I feel like the way you say things to us women on behalf of a males thinking is beautiful and greatly appreciate.
Thank you sir
Your seriously leaving and he didn’t take you seriously ~ Thrill of the chase or fear of abandonment
Wow, this right here, I am so thankful for your messages
Don’t blame the Mother of the son he makes he own choices.
I forgive but I do not forget.
Facts on top of FACTS.!!!
Yes your right when a woman seems to be leaving him and then that's when he acts right.
This is literally the REALEST video I've ever seen 💯
Keep it coming Mr jaxn.
Thank you for the last one, I felt it 😭😭😭😭
I forgave my x but it still didn't matter he liked his younger women so I divorced him,and now I'm comfortable in my own skin and I'm working on the talents that God has given me.
Thank you for your complete honesty ‼️🎯‼️💯‼️
Thank You Sir! Confirmation 🎯
Omg, this is so raw and real!!!
You are so on point and is really helping me. Thank you.
Thank you sharing and being so direct and raw with your message.
Yes.. this is on point
Been saying this for almost 10 years
No change so ima have to change how I react and move on ❤❤❤
The last line for me, stop wasting time on someone who's mama never finished training....Men without a mum is just a personal help from GOD to be better for a good woman
Thank you for sharing this video well said after listening to this I see I don’t need to go back I’m continuing to move forward
You are on point!
Wow. This is so true.... 💯🎯💯🎯
Another great video.
Thank you.
I really appreciate this message
OMG…! I’ve heard it ALL, and it clicked with me TODAY! Thank you! You just described what I am going through…, now!
Derrick thank you so much for this! So Rich so needed! Wow
They still gonna be hurting you. It happened to me and still happening to me. Had to block him out of my life.
Derrick, You're certainly speaking the fact....
Thanks you’re right with everything in my era
This is 100% accurate.
This is so much talking to me about my marriage in several ways. We have been separated for two years now and I am now ready to file for divorce. I can no longer be or do anything for this marriage.
The best on relationship coaching 100%
Thankyou so much! Straight facts 💯
My sentiments EXACTLY! I knew I did it right. U r a winner!
“…aren’t just bad forgivers of other people. Men also struggle, generally speaking, at forgiving themselves…”
Hey Derrick - so we’ll said, you’re very good at what you do
THIS IS SO TRUE I'M A LIVING WITNESS OF THIS MESSAGE DERRICK
Omgggg everything you said is so true, 💯💯💯Agreed with you. Wise words👏👏👏
Mr. Sir, thank you for your videos and messages.
I 🙋🏾♀️…Going thru this at the moment but I’m out…and NOT turning back. Ten years of my life I’m reclaiming. ❤
Thank you for sharing 💙
Spot on. 💖 . Thank you
Because of myself worth and I know I have given my all and he misused it, I never open that door again. One ex stacked me for 2 yrs, and he was the one messing around.