Skipping Out on Child Support
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- Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
- The plaintiff says the defendant was his first love and they began dating as teens. It all went downhill after their two children were born. He’s suing her for emotional distress because he claims she had him falsely arrested. The defendant says she had her first child at 14 and got pregnant again six weeks later. She alleges the plaintiff beat her, and she’s countersuing for child support and emotional distress.
So unfortunate, kids having kids.
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👄 It's a lot of oops walking around here I was an oops my mother got pregnant at 15 had me at16 this oops turned into a well respected business owner my daughter is getting ready to sit for her PHD🎓😊
@@leoqueen300 so that justifies laying around at 10- ok
@@Proverbspsalms 10 What?
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 🙄🙄🙄🙄🤦🏽♀️
It is most unfortunate. They threw away their youth for sex. 😔
Dude was a real catch. He can’t even string together two sentences.
She CHOSE him! Her mother even warned her and tried to stop her, but she still CHOSE him!🤷🏿
He's horrible...
7th Freaking Grade, hes a freaking predator and loser.
I can’t believe he’s a “senior in college”.
@@carltonwomble4790 she was 14, a child. Cmon now🙄
Who told the plaintiff it was a good idea to go to court, especially when Judge Mathis the judge 😂😂😂 he put on his best suit to lie. “You talking mighty slow are you using OxyContin” 👨🏾⚖️
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To the person who is reading this,
May God cover you and all whom you love, may God shower blessings over you 10 fold.
May God bless you with the desires of your heart and May he protect and love you always.
Never give up You can do it!
I so needed to hear this 🙏😪🙏
Thank you, I needed to read this comment 🥺 May God do the same for you and your family 💕
Thank you! 😊
@@ethelbentancourt2233 Amen God is good. All Glory to him💪🏽💯
@@Crystal-Love Thank you so much and God bless you. All glory to God! We are all in this together.
The tell that he was abusing her was when the judge asked, his response was “there was no case for domestic violence”. He didn’t flat out say I didn’t do it right away. Abusers alway say stuff like “If there’s no proof then I didn’t do it” or “no one saw it so it must’ve not happened”. Dude is a bad liar, and started stuttering the moment he got checked.
Yes he did lol
💯💯 yup he’s sickening I hate it when people do that
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Yes he did
Wrong his first answer was "I didn't beat her". And he said it right away.
When I was 16 , I had a guy trying desperately to date me . Thank goodness I had the sense to tell him no . I told him that I would consider him , if he got into university and finished his degree . He smirked , and started making fun of me in school . I just ignored , and concentrated on my studies . End story , I ended up in med school , and completed my degree and speciality . And met a very nice man , 7 years my senior , in a good job and financially very successful . The other guy dropped out after high school , did drugs . Totally derailed . I guess the joke’s on him now , and I had the last laugh . I just thank God that I had the common sense to say no to that loser .
poverty, generational trauma and dysfunction, abuse, uneducated. All I see. Hope defendant stays the right course and he needs to take an absolute WALK.
All👏🏽of👏🏽this👏🏽
Birth control is crucial for all young girls and women... Plus condoms!
But that requires self worth/self control
The plaintiff is a bum! How dare he try to take food out of his kids mouth (by suing mother) but doesnt pay child support! Smh
She's a t h o t made for each other
How he owe 2700 but the judge read 3500 in child support
@@christiandilday7543it doesn’t matter. You owe child support, but you have the unmitigated gall to sue the mother of the children you aren’t taking care of
@@PrincessZaire100 I know that I'm just confused on the amount of back support
@@christiandilday7543 I’m gonna guess she probably grabbed old paper work, where at one point he was behind 2700, and he has the updated paperwork that says 3500
The end had me dead. He definitely was on something. Higher than the cost of living. Sad asf
Right 😂😂
DEZ!!! You seriously have my whole name!!!! What a coincidence! 💞
he was gone with the wind, chile
"Huh?"
@@SpiffyPenguin lmaooooo hell yeah he wss. She said u always look iggnit ! I screamed 😂😂
Generally, I don't believe parents should put their hands on their kids in anger. However, if I had a 16 year-old son who was messing with a 13 year-old, I would have a man in the family beat his...Then for them to get pregnant again 6 weeks later. Smh goodness gracious, both of them were out of control.
Says a lot about their parents...
And that " Man" in the family would be in jail for assault.
Not very smart.
@@tom11zz884 Awww, I love how you think that all crimes are reported and all reported crimes are prosecuted. Your naivete is cute. 😂
@@eloahnon4952 I would love to know what his parents were doing and saying during all this. The young woman clearly stated she wasn't listening to her mother at the time. Very sad.
@@King-Killa-Ca he was 16 you pay attention.. she said he was actually 16
Anyone else here have secondhand embarrassment from this joke of a brotha? Sheesh! 😓
Nope! She is paying the price for being hot in the pants
The girl is a joke herself , she let him hit
@@Remnant.Garments7 naw think ab it, where was his homies at 2 roast him for fw a middle schooler, ik my friends would lmfao
For him to be a sophomore in high school saying an 8th grader was his first love is very nasty business 🙄
She was in the 7th grade
I thought to myself he was a upper classmen at that
7th
Umm don’t just blame him, she said yes. Don’t do that. They both accountable! Also young girls always loved the older guys, so don’t make it seem like it’s a big deal!
@@andrejamal5438 it is a big deal! If a 7th grader tried to hit on you are you going to entertain it??? Cause young girls always like older guys??? Yes it’s normal but it is NOT normal for an older person to even want to engage in it. Especially not a sophomore in high school with a 7TH GRADER. I promise you his peers was looking at him weird
Just started watching and already know judge Mathis is gonna roast this dude. Let's see 👀 😏
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Young ladies.... stay home. You're not in love... neither is he...
If you are in an abusive relationship, I hope you get out. It is not worth it staying with someone who abuses you.
exactly....they dont wait until 9 yrs and 5 kids...then they wanna leave after they have tried to take your life !! this is crazy !!
Mannnnn we all knew in high school that 7th graders were off limits......listening to him talk pisses me off
He got with her bc he was on the same maturity level and couldn't bag girls his age. He's a predator
Your parents raised you right. Some men just don't give a shit period. And it doesn't help if the young girl isn't smart.
@@wildfiregirl1556 yes and I have 4 sisters, only boy. So Im very protective and mindful of women. And most definitely does not help if the parents aren't doing what they should be doing. No way a father lets his daughter get caught up so young. So shame on the parents, the girl was looking for love at such an early age and that shows how much she was receiving from her father.
He’s gross
@@MrLenroc82 Lol. I have 3 brothers and no sisters. Everyone in my family would fuck me up if I went that path. And we can't throw the parents under the bus. Some kids just going to do what they want to do come hell or high water. Just hopefully she makes better decisions in the future. Blessings.
He so slow he going in reverse😂
Well damn 😂😂😂
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My mom would have took me out. I wasn't even thinking about sex period at that age period. Blessings.
Best comment all day
@ 8:18 "if you get beat 3 times a week you better be glad you didn't get cut, stabbed or run over!" I am not condoning violence but that statement summed up the case for me.
He should have never taken her to court, he made himself look bad, I don’t completely blame him for what they did as children even tho it doesn’t look good but the defendant admitted to being rebellious to be around him, just goes to show that puppy love isn’t worth messing ur life up over
He’s doing most of this stuff as an ADULT not as children! 😒
@@dennissmith7214 And that’s why I only excused what he did as a child
I cringe watching the PLAINTIFF, the person who FILED the case, not comprehend well. 😑Can’t process or answer questions. Can’t explain the case. Ugh!
He should have been charged for messing with a middle schooler. ☹️
They were only 2 years apart..
@@mostdivine6192 actually 3 years, if you pay attention she said he was really 16
They both were under age still
Ummmmmm they both were underage 🙄
They were both under age. The law can not do anything on that. Both teenagers.
Glad the judge made the point that he preyed on a middle schooler.
As he should the parents are to blame
@@TheGreatB. 🤣 no they aren't always at fault. As teenagers we do sometimes what we want thinking we know better. Doesn't mean we weren't raised right. It's the teenage rebellious phase. Not everyone has it but most do. A parent can literally do everything right and get a psychopath as a child. It's not the parent's fault. Mom was right there to support her daughter.
@@TheGreatB. right. She’s crying now. Why didn’t she go drag that lil hot girl home
@@daniella9787 exactly
They were 13 and 15. This wasn't an R. Kellyish situation... where an adult or near-adult man preyed on a little girl. They were both children in the same general age range.
He still sounds like teenager
Wow, I can't imagine having a child that young. Back in my day (I am officially old 😂) if you were caught alone with a boy, you got a scolding. But both of these young adults are at fault for having babies at a young age. The dude needs to put away childish ways and grow up mentally, the girl needs to enforce the child support and become a good role model. It's good her mother is helping her
Where was her mother when she was hot in the tail at 10
That man just slow and she right he act ignant as hell!
She laid with him. Being hot in the pants
he beats her, has his babies, and tolerates his foolery, dont pay child suppor, been to prison ...she just as slow
He still got a lot of maturing to do
Lol women like this
Uhhh she put herself in this situation.
He certainly does.
she as well
Lol that's an understatement..he needs to revamp his soul
I hate to see young girls being preyed on and their childhood ruined. Hope this lady gets him out of her life.
Her fault
@@Proverbspsalms okay pickmesha
@@cmdchic4life sorry- hit dog hollering
@@Proverbspsalms Hey there, lol. Yeah I agree I mean come on at 13 I was waiting for drake and josh to come on, why y'all messing around? Tf too young and not developed enough.
@@judekwabenaadjei-kontoh2071 exactly. At 14 I started being interested in boys. Because that’s normal. And I talk to them on the phone. Well that’s as far as it went. I didn’t graduate from college before anything happened with anyone. And I still knew better at 23 years old. I was still wrong because my parents raised me better than that
This is a very sad story… A high schooler impregnates a middle schooler and makes her life a living hell 😥
No, they both were wrong. SHE SHOULD HAVE listened to her momma and stayed her behind at home
She did it to herself. I guess her mom wasn’t as active in helping her protect herself either. I’d understand one, but a second one within 6 weeks. They’re both silly.
@@valpooh7532 You aren't even supposed to have sex until after 6 weeks. When I had my son i was scared to have sex even after 6 weeks. She is a brave 1.
And is behind in child support and they TOOK his TAXES 🙄💰💸💵🪙
@@christiandilday7543 At least he worked. Some men want do shit period.
AT 17 THERES NO LOOKING BACK TO AT A 14 YR. OLD ...THIS IS CREEPY ..2 KIDS ?? IM DONE...SMH
A 14 year old can easily be a freshman & 17 year old a junior. Not that crazy
How Ami HIGH???(shrugs shoulders)...Get out of here man!!...I'm deadddddddddd 😂😂😂😂😂
I don't understand why some men beat up their girlfriends this is senseless.
like nigga and she fucin good and you want to ruin her and I bet she was taking care of him he is a real Fool
I totally get what you’re saying…a person is only going to do what you let them do…my ex tried it &nd failed miserably he thought I was going to be the one after that good beat down I gave him we went our separate ways that was 12 yrs ago…in their case they were young a parent should’ve intervened there’s no way as a mother I’m going to sit back &nd let anyone put hands on mine…
She was hot in the tail. She put herself in this messy situation- not saying he should hit her, but nobody’s holding her accountable for her actions as far as getting knocked up
He might have seen his daddy do it and thought that's what being head of household meant
It’s sad, but they were both abusing one another! I just hate it paints only one side!
So much dysfunction. I bet neither one had an active father in their lives when they were growing up.
Most of these toxic, dysfunctional stories have that in common and then they repeat the cycle by having children out of wedlock.
The defendant should go to therapy and figure out what type of boundaries she needs to put in place for herself and her family.
Middle schooler and high schooler. The parents didn't take charge. Ain't no way.
She kept running away.. Looked as if her mom abused drugs back then so that definitely could of played a big part.
Seems like both sets of parents just didn't care.
He,s not slow. He is in park.
Idk why he even came in here with that foolishness! He should have just left this woman alone, paid his child support and been a positive active father in his children’s life.
So 3 FOOLS... Plantiff, defendant AND His wife. SMH. And throw in the mom for good measure.😞
Wow, didn’t even start off right in a second I’m like what he appears to have done too many drugs or something.
Did the defendants mom really blame the plaintiff for messing up her daughters life?? They both we're children. Where was the parents at is what I want to know! Those fingers she pointing at him need to be pointing right back at herself.
At the end when she said, “that’s all you do is look ignorant..” 🤣 I’m glad she is a strong, stable parent for her children ❤
Uhhh- she’s not strong and stable, or she wouldn’t be in this mess
@@Proverbspsalms are you serious? Victim blame much? She is doing what she has to do since he’s an abusive and inconsistent parent!
@@hellochely687 she’s doing what she has to to because she couldn’t keep her legs closed at 10. Strong stable people own up to their own crap, and don’t keep doing the same thing - putting all the blame on others.
Just because the show didn’t mention it does not mean she doesn’t have five more with 5 other men- by the time she was 20. They probably cut that part out. Anywhoooo - hit dogs holler. Owoooooo 🐕
@@Proverbspsalms lol “just because the show didn’t mention it”, how else are we supposed to get any information about them? 🤣 you are making very little sense and the last part of your comment is proving that you are as ignorant as he is! 🤦🏻♀️
You full of shit if you so a strong woman lol
Good job young lady on being in college!
Congrats for what? Nobody wants to address the fact she is in this mess because she couldn’t stay off her back at 10
@@Proverbspsalms you’re really mad in the comments . If anything blame her parents .
@@Proverbspsalms Congrats because she's at least trying to be better. Her being better in her 20s than she was in her preteens and teens is good for ALL of society--the taxpayers, her children, and their community. Would you rather her be on welfare or gangbanging? Obviously, she was making terrible choices in her youth. But as a society, we need to be glad she learned a lesson.
@@MsKolo90 I am not mad. And I did blame her parents. And again a hit dog is hollering because nobody wants to accept the fact that she was just as wrong. That’s why y’all keep ending up in the situation because you wanna keep blaming everything on a man instead of keeping your legs closed.
@@ambzcloud i’m just saying that all of the blame does not belong on him. She was being hot in the pants and now she gets a trophy. While he’s horrible. I’m so glad had I made a dumb decision like this, my parents wouldn’t uphold me in my mess. I’ve made bad decisions- but darn sure not involving kids at 10 because i wanted to be rebellious and I couldn’t stay off my back.
He is High is the SKY On a Cloudy day😏
Thank God prayer works and my village is strong. I pay attention and keep up. Ain’t no way my daughter was going to get this far gone under my care!! I have conversations. I go through phones, drawers, closets. I’m involved !! When my daughter was in middle school she ran up on a snake like this plaintiff - except he was about 16 in 8th grade. 🙄 She thought she was in love because he knew how to talk, charm the girls. I saw the destruction 100 miles away and I was not having it! Thank God for wisdom, prayer, support…we interrupted that before he could really get his hands on her. If he had a car I shutter to think what could’ve been. My daughter is doing well in high school and has her head on straight when it comes to boys. She is now grateful I got all in her business. I’m still all in her business 😂
This made my heart ache. I’m glad she got out. I pray for her continued healing and success.
I know I'm late but yall know that when a JM video mention child support it's gon be good so grab ur popcorn
How do you come to court, not know anything and you're the one suing? He cant even answer a question thoroughly, goodness.
This is really sad! Babies having Babies ! Too young to be parents. They had no adult supervision! The plaintiff has no sense! How he is going to sue the Mother of his children? Take care of your children!
Yes, he's high. On another note, she's a beautiful sister.
He so slow and he lying ….. 😂😅
He says: "Everything was was good, until you know, the kids got born..." and "I never had a domestic violence case...". Those statements made me think, he was definitely putting his hands on her. Also, the age difference when they first got together puts me off.
Yeah, he should have been in jail for having sex with a minor.
Disgusting!!!
I don’t see him beating anybody 3times a week he’s too slow 😂
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He picked on someone weaker than him at the time, but I bet he wouldn’t try that now! She has wisened up
@@Ericasgaines weaker mentally that dude is like 5'5 130 pounds lol
If they tested Alvertis, they would have found traces of blood in his Oxycontin system.
Not his whole system has oxy 😂😂😂
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Tit for tat my azz,He was beating the brakes off the lady ,Glad she finally left his crazy behind could have turned out differently these days too much going on in toxic relationships that one might think is LOVE, could leave to loss of life
His brain is fried.
So is hers. She caused it
I don’t feel bad for her she was disrespectful to her mom and ended up getting knocked upside her damn head. Hard head make a soft one
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I agree....no sympathy from me
Wow...y'all are rough. She was 13 years old
@@cynthiafrench4411 Thanks to those who understand I’m definitely not saying I condone domestic violence some people just don’t get it.
She literally bragged about the fact that she didn’t respect her mom back then but whatever
@@serious7179 at 13 you should be listening to your mom and focusing on your education not sleeping around and being disrespectful.
Ooooo girl how did y'all communicate this man is SLLLLLLOOOOWWWW....omg...I can't
He acts slow, he is lying about hitting on her.
That’s why he was nervous and acting like he couldn’t count …he knew that shit was weird. A 10th grader talking to a 7th grader. I am so disgusted.
At least I’m not the only one that thought it was weird
I had some wild/trifling schoolmates: An 11th grader got an 8th grader pregnant, and a (socially awkward) 8th grader was going around claiming a 4th grader as his girlfriend. 👀
@@darryljones8307 I remember this dude tried to holler at me when I was in 7th grade and he was in 10th. Back then I was flattered, now that I’m older that shits cringe. I hope one day girls will stop falling for the “you’re so mature for your age “ bs
@@PrincessZaire100 If you just talking no sex period.
@@PrincessZaire100 Exactly. It’s predatory, point blank period!
I blame both their parents. Point blank period. Both are products of their environment.
Bruh was hi as hell. I knew it. Surprised judge didn't catch on quicker!
He's been missing alot
3 times a week for 5 years… I believe they fought a lot. Where was her mom while she was doing all this in middle school?
She ran away from hoke and disobeyed her home, according to her own admittance.
I think the parent raised her right, kid are not gonna listen and do what they want. I bet she was gassed up that she was messing with a HS so she though it was a good status for her. She was being rebellious
Where was her mom, dad grandma aunt uncle 😢
@@djdeznyc middle school…. Nah somebody who was raising her dropped the ball.
I must agree. My mom would have took me out period.
I can only ask the Holy Creator to guide me to raise my daughter successfully. May she never fall victim to these harsh lessons of life. I've been abused, Secondary School crush that led into an adult relationship. No father figure, sexual abuse from aged 7-16 😭 I knew not that love is ACTIONS! Her father is in her life but I'm afraid of the values he can impart on her. Being who he was/is what guidance can he properly afford her?
My husband, her stepdad is an impeccable male figure to her. I pray that she uses our marriage as an example of how love is suppose to be.
In the mean time I will focus on releasing fears so as to not attract such energies to her.
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he was high as hell. the after interview like sealed that ☠️
My boy look like he auditioned for "Bird And The Midnight Falcons" back in the day.... If you know you know 😂😂😂😂
Lmao 🤣
PSA: According to the expert testimony of the plaintiff, "those that are not getting jobs because you smoke weed just drink regular water and you can easily pass the drug test." 🚬 🤔
Drinking plenty of water no sugar beverages for a couple of weeks can dilute a test and help u pass
My son pass his test he drank 2 gallons a water an passed
mom: “they’re straight A students you know that”
plaintiff: “……that’s not true your honor”
black lady in the back: 🙊🙈
I Would love to see more proof in these cases. So far it’s just he says - she say. Then it’s all based on who Mathis likes and we all know that Mathis is emotional and in his feelings half the time.
It’s civil court not criminal court. You are not required to have 100% provable evidence, or dna, or video, or anything. A person’s credibility is enough for a judge to make a decision in civil court.
He's a woman beater, a suspected drugee, and a deadbeat. Your Honor was destined to dislike this guy. He was dead on arrival
@LiveLife LoveLegacy Then go watch court case recordings with lawyers who spent years in college learning how to litigate.
Would you liked to have been a fly on her wall while she was getting abused…….
Proof in domestic violence and child support cases? I'd be emotional and in my feelings as well. Also note, plenty judges take the same liberty. Mathis, and more, go off what's CREDIBLE. Says more about You, needing proof for cases like These.
Mom is like ok you went too far talking about the 💊.
Hard lesson learned.
“How I’m high?” 🤣🤣🤣 he higher than a kite !!!
He said he owed 2700 in child support but judge mathis read 3500 dollars 💸 🤨🤔
Basically senior and freshmen shouldn’t be in the same school basically.
Illogical. It’s done in America’s best school system:DoDDs. It’s more about the fact they are from a low socioeconomic area, not that there’s grades 7-12 🙃
@@shord140 exactly
She wasn’t even a freshman. She was in 7th grade
Only thing, I’m going to say ….. Where was the mom when her middle schooler was getting pregnant twice within one year….
She said she was sneaking out to go and meet with him. Sometimes there’s nothing the parent can do when the child is willing to be sneaky
Right
@@PrincessZaire100 Facts.
@@PrincessZaire100 oh yes there is. She failed her somewhere
@@Proverbspsalms 100
The dudes that we thought were lame in high school were the dudes that hollered at middle school girls. And sadly, that pattern barely changes
Where in the hell was their parents during all this BS to allow them to have kids at such early age
On DRUGS
Mom was probably to worried about a man instead of paying attention to her young daughter out freaking an she only in middle school 🤦🏽♀️
How do u come to court this damn high. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The minute he opened his mouth he already lost the case..😂😂😂😂
I don't feel sorry for any of them.
Exactly
This guy can’t recall anything because he is probably too high on something other than life
or in prison
Let that had been one of my twin daughters his ass would be in jail, I wouldn’t care how rebellious my daughter was. She’s in JHS, he had no damn business laying up with that little girl just sickening 🤬
But listen… water ABSOLUTELY works to get weed out of your system. He made it sound like it’s a ridiculous claim🙄
You gotta drink hella water and by the gallons and it will only work for a urine test water ain’t gonna get rid of the weed if your testing with blood or hair follicles
who knew all i needed to do to pass my drug test was to drink water 💀
its plenty of ways they couldve passed in two weeks
The mom knew he was in high school ?
JM: “ ya lucky ya didn’t get cut, stabbed or run over”
Why is the plaintiff just standing there and smiling?
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Goofballs have a tendency to look dumbfounded.
What a nightmare for a mother...an older boy liking your kid...
Imagine this guy managing your company. Yikes
I know both of them 😂😂😂 oh god
👀 What's tea?
I need the tea too 😂
@@scottrogue946 🤣🤣
spill
😂 Welp... We see that he is Dumb!!! AF... And she just needs to Thank him for his kids. Sperm Donor... 😢
He’s super slow
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She snitched him out that he sells drugs on National TV.
Damn 24 and 26 these kids had a rough life. I hope our community can get better at life and let's start growing our youth s better way. 🙏
Bro said “I’m high 🤷🏽♂️ “
Mama should have had him arrested at 16 PERIOD
He was DEFINITELYYYYY HUGH AS A EAGLE.
Where I live the district attorney always presses every charge they can and pressures people to testify in court.their prisons make lots of money from prisoners being in their prison.
Her parents should've called the POLICE on him & had him arrested..
They're both silly.
I don't why abusers and deadbeats go to Judge Mathis to sue the mother/woman.
@ 13:00 he looking like “😳 how I’m high” 😂😂😂😂
Good Lord it’s painful to listen to the plaintiff talk