How to Make SURE He Regrets Losing You!😂👍🏽
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A man that is ok with losing you and only keeping you as an option is worth losing. Let the next woman have him
BOOM!!
👍🏽 yep
Facts
80's Baby 👏🏽
Wow so true 👌
Walk away
if he can walk away from you...just let him go. take care of yourself. just be beautiful.
Amen, yes ma'am!!👏
Thank you
Needed that
I strongly agree. Just thank God cause you've eliminated someone that should not be in your healthy life
@@dashatanteria OMG, you took the words right out of my mouth. 😊
The best revenge is to BOSS UP ! Give him no ENERGY! Put it into yourself SIS! 😍🔥🤞🏽
Exactly 💯💯💯
Yassss
Yes
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Yass Queen❤️
MY ABSENCE IS HIS PUNISHMENT 😁💫💫💫
Exactly
100%
Yesssss my ex dying i haven't talked to him n 4days I'm going longer
You’re doing right by yourself.
Wow
Do nothing NEVER let a man tell you he doesn’t want you twice!
Shows u deserve better, ex for a reason, made his decision then
Dont look back ur not going that way, live for today & look forward
Didnt appreciate u then dont deserve u now
Cheated on so many times in life & ask me back years later but u learn to value ur own worth & deserve someone as good as you
Xx
Amen!
2shae88 I likeeeee!
Yep, I agree who the heck is he not too want me. I am moving on. Already you know it would have never worked.
2shae88 I sooooooo wish I heard this before or had a brother. Now I’m a place of being damaged beyond repair. Stuck in between wanting love marriage etc but being single and alone seems less stressful and more peaceful
The best revenge is squats, natural hair growth, financial goals and ice cream.
Celeste Garcia what do they do?
Celeste Garcia I am entitled to my own opinion. I got ass from squats OK.
😂😂😂😂💕✋✋ say that again lmao
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Yassssss
Don't worry about how he feels. You've already spent all of your time and energy on him. Focus on you, girl. I just got a hair cut, eyebrows done, got some facial beauty treatments, got my teeth whitened, wearing makeup, dressing cute, hanging out with girl friends, about to get my nails done, and working out.
I plan on applying for a mortgage...... I'm leveling up and moving on!!
The best revenge is really NOT TO GIVE A SHIT ANYMORE. He eats up any attention you give him good or bad. So don't give it to him.
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Great video! Let me add... Best revenge: Live your own life. Remember that pedestal you had him on? Put yourself on it. Honor yourself. Love yourself. Take back your energy.
Take back your energy_ noted
@@noziphomazibuko4364 Snatch it babe!
Lerato Your such a smart girl in obviously compassionate in kind.. That was the best advice I think I have ever heard for someone in that situation. You for sharing . And helping people make Better decisions for themselves😇
@@hggtg I appreciate your kind words 💫
Lerato Mosella I love your comment! Hell yeah!!💪🏽👍🏼😁
Self improvement is the best revenge. Looking good is #1.
Sure is
Amen 🤞
Number 2 is getting that bank account up..i always stay beautiful n my bank accounts always stay hefty
Verdade 😄✔💯
Yeah that's how I got my husband.
Cutting them off completely works the best. You have to punish them mentally, get their mind thinking about what they did wrong, make them miss you. Silence is golden. Be cold 🥶 with it, you have to protect your spirit. I had man break me down and I will never let that happen again
Yes girl
These guys broke me down so bad
@@lifewithsemaj_ I understand this I had a guy do that too and my family too.
I felt this. My ex texted me like crazy once I ignored him. Never saw his ass ever again.
You won't heal if you go back to what broke you.
Misty Hood AWESOMELY SAID,,,, BRAVO 💯💯💯👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
"Cold🥶, Ice Cold❄️, Igloo🗻, North Pole📍, Santa🎅🏾..." 😂😂💯
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haha....this cracked me up as well.
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The Best Revenge is Allowing God to Send You A Husband & Hear About You Getting Married to Someone Else. It means You Moved on and did not Allow that Clown Ruin Your Happiness.
That’s what I did.
Amen)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Amennn amennn!!!!!
God bless u for saying the truth that's wat I'm doing now
That's what I did. And God has blessed us with a healthy pregnancy.
AMEN
“How do I make him regret losing me?”
🤔 Why we out here pressed over trash?
If a man don’t want you, you don’t want him. Period.
clovers10 don't care about it no more
Thank you for your words of encouragement! I really needed to hear that!
But it's so Fucked up about how he did me! And there is no closure! And I'm so angry about that! And I didn't even do anything wrong! I gave this "piece of a man" my Everything! For for 4 years! And for what?
clovers10 it gives the woman some dignity to hold onto if she’s been dumped in a cruel way for no reason just something for her to make herself feel a bit better after losing someone she loved
Thanks for being straight up!
Make him miss you
1. No conversation
2. No communication
3. No online posts, sharing or liking
4. Be single out in the city
5. Look good
Most importantly, invest in you and live your #BEST life, not thinking about him.
Atlanta718 Right on💯👍
What if there are kids involved? I have to talk but don’t want to. Trying to keep it business like and do me when I can. I’m working out, going on a diet hanging with my girls. And making my house clean and beautiful and he still wants to leave. So thank you, next.
Magical Moments with Monica same as me,
Halle lew ya
Atlanta718 amen 🙏
Turn to God, Turn to Jesus. PRAY. All the rest will come effortlessly and naturally. In the Mighty Name of Jesus 🙏🏿
Praying doesn't always work
@@egyptianqueen4007 yes it does im sorry that you always had to wear them dirty shoes in school
Prayers do work when you believe and have faith.
@@jazzlove8880 and many people have prayed that they wouldn't lose their loved ones especially in times like this to covid and look what happened? Stay in your little fantasy bubble and assume God is a Jennie that grants your every wish.
The best response ever
Walk away and lock that door behind you ✊
They don’t appreciate you until you’re long gone
But what if he doesn’t. What if he doesn’t appreciate me and doesn’t even try to reach the door? I know a lot of ppl will say “then he’s not worth it” but that guy made me fall in love with him on a whole other level. So if he doesn’t come back I’ll just be unhappy. Mayb happy with my friends or when I’m out. But I know deep down when I’m about to sleep he is the only one I can think of...
@@safae3967
Perhaps a change of perspective ....
When you change the way you look 👀 at things,
the things you 👀 look at change ...
When rose coloured glasses tint your vision one sees things differently than with a fresh pair of eyes 👀
This is so true. I let him have the last word and he still text from time to time to see how I am doing. I give him ZERO conversation. You lost me. I don't go backwards.
Jennifer McMillian Ah...that. Ignoring the ignoring. What is he trying to prove? I have the same problem.
go girlllllllll!!!!
If he contacts you it is just an ego boost. He wants to know if you still want him so that response you give him will validate it. I like to perform a quick death on an ex. I treat you like you died and keep it moving.
Jennifer McMillian if u are serious . U wud block his ass
Thank you
I don't waste my time with revenge. The only revenge is living well. Amen.
Yes! Revenge only makes you bitter.
Exactly, someone with some sense lol. That petty stuff is draining and exhausting.
Facts
That's the classiest response to someone who dumps you. Thank you.
“you need to be out and about!” well covid said not so fast :/
😄😆😅🤣😂
Yeah i miss parties so i could have some fun, meet new people and not be depressed. All i could do now is just work and hang out with my old friends
Sucks
I know right! You pretty much staying in at this point! COVID ruined a lot of shit!
That part...
The best revenge is to cut all communication. Won't see my eyes again.
They always regret losing you when it’s too late!!!
True
Every time
True...
Exactly 💯
Always
You make him regret losing you, when you level up out of his league. Hit the gym and do it quickly.
Sis, i poledance 💅💃
Most likely you were out of his league anyway! But definitely hitting the gym helps with your mental state with the nice ass and small waist as a the cherry on top!! 🏋🏽♀️
LA James was way out of his league on every level
OK THEN!
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My narc husband will regret it specially on his deathbed. I know my worth. Yes it works, but a jerk will always be a jerk
swear i’ve heard this some where
True!
what?
He’s still watching honey. I did nothing but walked away and currently living my best life. ✌🏽
And I’m 100% sure that equals to getting you back blown out by a lot of dudes
Ladies listen to him, this really does work. And makes sure to get in the gym, not only Will you look good but you will feel even better mentally. Every time I was sad or hurt during my free time I went to the gym. When something painful is hurting you , turn that pain around into something that can benefit you.
Amen lady. I agree with you.
Can u please give me advise
@@baddiesmusuicandaesthtic7035 of course, how can I help ?
Cherrybabz1 so like I met this guy and he’s in California and I’m in Philadelphia he told me he liked me and stuff and then I found out he was saying the same things to other girls I told him I didn’t want to talk to him again and he said “ok” that his friend start texting me and told me that he was texting other girls.... LEMME JUST SAY I basically want revenge and him to regret losing me but I need advice how I can do that
@@baddiesmusuicandaesthtic7035 ok.well theres a few things I want to say. First, long distance relationships are really hard and take allot of work, especially if you guys havent built a steady foundation before hand. Second, how well do you know this friend of his? you have to question why he would rat out his friend and tell you he was talking to other girls. What's in it for him? Third, the best way to get over a guy and to make him regret losing you is bettering yourself. A guy hates when he leaves a woman, and sees them doing better without them. That means read, get your mental right. Get in the gym, so you can feel amazing. Focus on your career and setting goals to achieve them, and he will try to come back. But do not let him back. Reject him with silence. Block him on all your social media so he goes crazy wondering what your going. Dont talk to his friends about him, cause they will go back and tell him. And then he will know he still has you. And the most important thing, just have fun and live life. Dont worry about rebounding, just allow yourself time to heal enjoy the summer. ❤ I hope this helped
When my man dumped me, I bought myself some new red lipstick and some heeled boots, laced that shit up, walked away and never looked back.
Spicy
Those boots are made for walking!
Yes maam!
Did the same thing but in red thigh high lace back heeled boots....walk was on Naomi Campbell level💃🏿
inglorious_Machina oh yes girl ! We can do that ! 👌🏽💪🏽💄👄👸🏻
Aaaaahhhh.. You comment felt like a jolt sister...
😂😂😂😂 came back just to laugh at this righteous brother ....
We all know why we here 🤣🤣🤣
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What happened?
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Silence is GOLDEN...
.I PROMISE! I had an Ex call screaming; "U act like you don't care!" Laughing uncontrollably
Blaq ladybug 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣❤❤❤
Blaq ladybug Ha! I'm in the process of doing this now
Blaq ladybug Lolo loll
Blaq ladybug this literally made my day xP lol
adanne1990 - my pleasure
The best revenge is to live your life, ladies! Don’t focus on making him regret losing you. Focus on being happy and at peace! Life is too short to be stuck on any loser that doesn’t feel you’re worthy enough for him... Move on with your life and live!
K W exactly
Being truly happy is the best revenge. Bc when u are, u don't care what your ex is thinking or feeling...
Exactly! Those childish games.... Like are those advisors children themselves? Normal humble intelligent person will acknowledge the situation and moves on to continue living their life the best they can do. Don't encourage people playing games unless it's football or so....
K W Amen
Rite the shit bro jus said in dis video is all wrong
We met and told me he was single,he was a gentleman carrying my grocery bags and all,i really liked him& believed him.We had sex and a few days later told me he had a girlfriend and I I replied with “It was lovely getting to know you”,I ddnt even try to make him explain to me what had changed or try to send a dozen of you used me messages or you lied to me messages but all I said was “it was lovely getting to know you”.He then sent a sorry message saying he ddnt want to use me and I never replied,he had the last word.I was honest with him when I said I was single and I believed him but he chose to lie just to get what he wanted and that’s okay,I know I am an honest person,I know my heart is beautiful,my soul is beautiful and that will never change for me.
Do not reply back so not talk back do not call back. I know it hard but don't this gone kill his assss hard. I was in the same situation only I didn't do sex with him. But if u do what am telling you u he will realize how good lady u were and he lost it all. Don't look back forward gal
You go girl 🥰x
You win because you were honest all the way and that’s the beauty of the soul and the heart that no one can beat.
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"Thanks for the free trial" works too. 😂
He was just talking about himself the whole time. 😳
I know of a powerful man who can make your ex to come back to you begging you back for a second chance.
He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours
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RIGHT 😭
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Block his ass! Let him cry in peace for his stupidity ! Class up level up! 🔥♾👌
Lool this comment made me laugh out loud on the train! Yas sis, let him cry for his stupidity in peace!!!
Yes! Dont ever waste another min entertaining him.
Ayeeee!!!!🔥😜
Don't block him though.. you don't want him to know you mad... just let the sucker watch your happiness :)
Roxana Braica. That is exactly what every woman with self respect and standards should do.
I told a guy who I liked to either fix up or step off as he began being silly like a man child with games like to play. I was surprised with him personally, honestly. I must say, I thought he was a real man. Oh how us ladies can be duped 😂🙄. In the early stages. Anyhow after telling him I don't play games, a clear warning, he went quiet. Came back 4 days later, crawling after I called out his behaviour, I believe in stating facts to a man to set your boundaries and standards. He seemed as though he was trying and said he was not playing games, quizzed if I was dating anyone so I thought ok he should of got the message, gave him a opportunity to start over, *he was not originally blocked.* then he went back into play mode today, day 5 of his return. Like I said I gave a clear warning and chance to him to step up. Today I blocked him on every social platform that he could get me on. 1 chance given, 1 chance blown. No 2, 3, 4 etc. He was lucky he got 1 chance with me.
Ladies I have not blocked him because I am mad, as another commenter stated, blocking them shows this. I blocked him because I don't want to be contacted by him. I don't want him to have any kind of access to me or for me to feel slightly tempted to reply as us woman fall into the trap of doing so after a drink or another girlfriends delusional perspective . It is that simple.
If you block a man child you disengage his power to try weasel his way back and mess with you further, even if you class yourself as a mentally strong woman, taking away the attention he had from you really messes them up emotionally because they are the ones normally in control of your head once you give them access.
A man child doesn't like it when a woman walks away, trust me because they 9 times out of 10 have always gotten their own way and by blocking them and walking away after they had been given a clear opportunity, says to them, you meant what you said and this is their huge loss.
And so the mental emotional explosion of shock begins in their head. Lol full brain fireworks in that small brain of theirs that they done F up.
Whilst you go about your business as normal they are still thinking about you. 😁😂 so block them ladies. Plenty of good fish in the sea that don't leave a bad taste in your mouth or in your head and heart and man children need to know us woman can at any point cut off all communication just like that. Only difference is we are not a woman child, communication is cut off because we only deal with adults.
to me if he walked away he never wanted you in the first place move on and don't look back
So true..
Honestly I just want someone, anyone to want me😩
Pibb Mcknight depends on circumstances
@@ChelseaKMusee hi I hear your pain I'm in the same boat
I just did.
No need to make a man regret losing you and vice versa. Every person that comes and leaves your life serves and has served a purpose. Does it hurt at times? Yes! But let it go! Rather than trying to feed in to your pride why don’t you focus that energy or something more useful that will grow up and make you more confident in yourself! There is always more room for improvement in these areas of our lives.
When they don’t respect your presence then they will have to accept your absence.
Delete social media and keep him guessing.. that shit killllllsssssss!!!! Go to the gym where his friend works and get fit asf lol
Keep busy and keep pushing.
Save for that car, that house, that bag what ever!!!
Also yes be COLD!!! I was super cold, like ice cold ❄️ keep your friends close and family.
Don’t cry in front of him!!!!!
Don’t jump into another relationship for a very long time!
did he/she ever get back with you?
Anitah Hawii Uh no because I don’t want him back? But he regrets what he did everyday!
YB what if he doesn’t love me anymore ?(
Mariam Grigoryan This isn’t about making the guy love you. It’s about him regretting the fact that he lost you? You need to love yourself first! Have standards
This only proves that you still care. This coming from a man: When I'm done, it's a wrap. I wouldn't care if you showed up at my house butt naked on your knees begging. It's ball game. All of that, "make them want/miss me crap is for the birds." Don't be a bird. Pun intended!!!
The best revenge is no revenge! Move on with a smile😊.
Love this
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They made their choice! Let them keep moving!! Smile, Pray, Keep your head up QUEENS!👑
Exactly!!!! Just be at peace and not worry about it because it kills them!
Accurate 💯
I am going through the worst break up by far ! It’s taking a tole on me I can barely handle it but I will be taking this advice 💙 I didn’t deserve nothing I’ve went through
I hope that situation is better now and you're feeling better than when you wrote this comment.
Sending love to you ❤️
I just found out the father of my child cheated on me. And it hurts so much. I’m just going through the motions right now. Just know that u are worthy. I can’t cut him off as Derrick said bcuz he’s the father of my child. I just put myself first.
hope you’re doing better sweetheart ❤️
I hope you’re doing better baby girl ❤️
If "Negro Please"! was a person.
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Men always come crawling back...that in itself is the best revenge!! Never go back 🧛
Amelia idk I don't think that's going to happen for me this time
Not all men do that ☹️
I CAN'T wait for the day.. Especially when he sees I'm doing BETTER without him then I was when I was with him.. And I got thick.. Lmao. I was a twig!!
emmm… but it's too many other options. why crawl back?
Not all of us are like that. Everyone has a different situation.
He regrets it. Im a good good woman. I tried everything. I wasn't perfect. But he will regret the rest of his life
His lost
Michelle Drayton they always do sis you deserve better love I’m praying for you just don’t go back we got this!!!💪🏽💋🙋🏽♀️🥰
LaShell Anderson it’s sad we gotta be like that but I truly don’t believe truly love can assist now days too many distractions and temptations
Me too. Wtf never knew how sweeet revenge feels
Michelle Drayton AHHH-MENNN 😂😂
This actor 😆✅😂🤦🏿♂️ playa playa
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He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours
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They don't leave you for someone better, they leave you for someone who can't see through their bullshit!!!!!
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Also, stop looking for a man, and start praying.🙌
just stop looking for a man...
@Lloyd Norwood if you're not a believer then my message does not apply to you.
Yes.. I need a closer relationship with God.. He has all the answers!!
Barbara Williamson...praying for what? A man?
@@kearab4238 keep me in your prayers and i will pray for u..sister
When I'm done with a guy, I don't want another one in my face for like a decade.
Amein! 👏😂🌹
Yes Mam. Like I'm really wondering how people jump from one to another
Sooner or later your will desire a boy again. its nature and inevitable
same here... i just can’t deal.
brewer brewer nah not rlly its fun being single
UA-cam is so shady for recommending this video lol
just came for the comments and yes to slander his name 😂
I’m here for the comments too 😂😂😂 🍿🍿🍿🍿
Bruhh...
Me too 🤣
You are right,. Silence is golden and success is priceless. Keep it moving and don't sacrifice your integrity for a small fraction of happiness. Love is never supposed to hurt. Love is love. Yes we make mistakes, but it comes with a cost. This is how you learn. Being in an unhappy relationship is costly and it's never worth it. Find your self worth and love yourself.
Only by this you will attract like minded ones. If a person is not happy before they will never be happy with you. If they don't treasure you as an individual they will treat you like everyone else. Be wise. Choose wiser.
Selena Thomas this is the truth, i fell deep in love with my ex, but I built a wall and couldn't let him in. I needed more than he could give, so he left me in a constant state of need. I should have left him a long time ago,i was just too fearful that no one else would want me. But I now realize that it's best 2 walk away when a.relationship is not serving your needs. It's pointless . A waste of time
Selena Thomas 💯💯💯
Selena Thomas best comment 👌👏👏👏👏🙋♂️🙋♂️🙋♂️
Selena Thomas Wise advice
Selena Thomas this awesome advice
He already knows he lost the best thing that ever happened to him.
I believe that you are right about that every woman can make herself look good every now and then.
The way i look at it is, rejection is gods protection so if I am rejected, which i have been, i leave, take the lesson with gratitude and let go. Knowing God has a plan for me. I have no interest in making them feel bad. I simply say, our love language is not the same and I genuinely wish you and your family all the best. My unconditional love for you is real, may you find your blessings elsewhere, i hold no bitterness or ill will towards you for things you may have done. We are all at different points on our journeys. I hope you find the one you are looking for, the one that sets your soul on fire just as I hope the same for myself
The best revenge is success in all aspects of your life and absolutely no contact.Like Derrick said,let him wonder what you are up to.Some men can be so narcissistic. They want to dump you and then sit back and wait for you to come begging and pleading.Don't give him that satisfaction.Act like he did you a favour when he dumped you.
Amen sister!
OK now I ask you what if it's the other way around. No offence not trying to sound rude but as a young male in his mid 20s I'm wondering why most of these videos are about guys messing and fucking up when girls not all girls probably do the same.
2unsher I understand what you mean. Its a two way st for sure, I'm a woman but not bias. So of course this happens to men as well, if a woman has done this to you & you're a good man, run & don't look back! Don't let someone treat you less than your worth!
2unsher mate you do just what he says in the video. It applies to all sexes. They broke your heart delete and block. Karma has it, that they will run into you in the future and when they do, make sure you look your best and doing your best. If you want to be cheeky...if they come over to say hi pretend like you never met before or you doing remember them. Did that to an ex of mine. Act like I've never seen them in my life and we was actually together 9 yrs. Get the point...your worth more then the person who did you wrong.
2unsher It applies to both men and women.If its a woman,then you do the same.Although men and women react somewhat differently when it comes to breakups , the effects are usually the same.
If he wasn’t a good person to be in a relationship with and had no respect, why waste time on hoping he regrets loosing you. Blockedy block
Blockedy block🤭
Block block blockity blocked🤞🏽
EXACTLY!!
I block him last night
Agreed. I did that 3 days ago.
You are brilliant because that's exactly how it works!!! I blocked him, cut he off from all contact so he can't even view me on social media. I have moved on with my life and feel great doing it. Keep up the good work Derrick you are every woman dream!
Wow Derrick, you're insights are valuable. I'm sending your teachings to my daughter. She's 35, single, and having a terrible time being a conservative young woman. You just reinforced the modern day meaning of self-respect for women. Thank you! Plz keep your teachings out here so we can continue to protect ourselves and gleen.
When I dated this guy named Mike a year ago I was at my heaviest weight wise. there was a age difference, his baby mommas and his children yet we pushed passed that. The day he dumped me - I cried that night & the next day I learned everything about myself daily, fell in love with myself and then I began to lose weight and the next time he saw me which was this year of January he begged for me to take him back.
I opted not to, because I gained my confidence and self respect, became thick, began going to school and moved to a new city.
I know for a fact he misses me but his lost because he was the best that I never had.
ladies, focus on you first then let love come to you 💛
SunKissNicole Yes exactly! 💯
SunKissNicole yasssssssssss #winning
SunKissNicole preach!
SunKissNicole aaaaay that's what's up. Good for you girl
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As a strong woman, I don't play games. I will make sure the day I express my feeling is going to be the last. My biggest regret is giving a person second chance. I no longer care. I like you Derrick, but men are different. One thing we Queens have is that once we are done we are done and you could be dead and we be like sad, but life goes on. When a man breaks your soul it's at another level. Under no circumstances care if he regrets losing me. My point of view it's time to move on and let God handle it. God removes the garbage. Women need to stop worrying about losing a fool. A real man will make your heart at peace and a real man will cherish you and above he will not play games of whether he is going to text your or not. That's a game for a teenage boy.
Yours is the best comment on the topic, Veronica! I believe most women who play these games are hoping deep down the lout will come crawling back, completely changed. They don't miss you, anyway. It's just their ego that misses you. Take them back and they will treat you twice as crummy.
I needed this,thank you!
Veronica Sharp truth
Sister I respect you soooooo much! And I'm so trying to be like you! Much respect!
Amen! And Amen!
I followed your rules, they really work
Girl..he sick somewhere stressing and I just...walked away..reclaimed my power and idc at all. God bless 🙏🏾...he blocked and dont know where I live 😁
I followed every rule except the last word part because I let him have it before I went radio silent.
I swear this is 10x funnier now 😭😭😭
I know of a powerful man who can make your ex to come back to you begging you back for a second chance.
He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours
What''sapp him
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He cheated on me, abused me, I filled for divorce and the last word he said to me was him crying saying “I love you” and I turned away and just walked away.
You are worth so much more,know your worth,being cheated on and abused that's to much right there...keep your faith and put it in gods hand...you will be ok
What kind of love was he talking about? Crazy Love.
Sabrina Dove lmao 😂 yes
I just got out of an abusive relationship and he cheated multiple times
Cheating is abuse.
Turn ALL that negative emotions and energy into yourself. Better yourself. I did this and my ex came running. I wasn't heavy but I had a little weight. So I lost weight, got my drivers licence, got me a good looking car I graduated got me a career. Got confident and happy and that deadbeat negro was like "I am sorry for hurting you, I want you back in my life am gonna marry you" I was 🙄 BOY BYE.
So focus on yourself and improving yourself in positive ways for the right right reasons. Not to get him back in your life or make him pine over you when he sees you in a couple of years because you'll be doing it all for the wrong reasons that might just backfire.
Bottom line: BE A QUEEN 👸🏾
Maggie Matthews Yesss Queen👸🏿
Maggie Matthews - Amen!!!
Yes ma'am, congrats to you and your success queen 💕👑
Yes Queen, your right 😊 Needed to hear that, thank u
Congratulations! Been there. Even tho I don't know you...glad you are now happy and respecting yourself! 😊
Santa... Gina.. Jaxn wisdom that still applies 3 yrs later..
This vid is a keeper
Yess!! Thank you so much ! Not only did you stop me from being in a deep depression you helped me look at things in a different light. I appreciate this so much! God bless ❤️
I blocked him and life has gotta so much better I'm still very sweet and kind and have a big heart! The next man I date he will have so much love! It's his loss!
@Mauser 96 thank you.
You will think of them from time to time but your feelings and thinking about them will fade and you will be in a much better place and state of mind!
You go girl!!!!
@@itspinkpanda99 😁
Love your comment!!! You have a healthy mindset
I have always been able to walk away from a man. My grandmother taught me how to walk away. I may miss him, but I can walk away and I am so proud that I can do this.
How do you walk away?
Same. But that’s just because my dad left during my teen age when I was very close with him so I developed coping mechanism that way and don’t attach easily to men.
isata baj what are those coping mechanisms?
You just don't contact him, you may still miss him, but just let him go on with his life. Easier said than done at times.
After I left my ex-husband every man after him I've been able to walk away from them like they don't mean anything. My cut off game is strong ASF
Lmao youtube knew what they were doing , putting this in my recommendations.
😂 SAMEEE
I feel like there’s a knife in my heart
Me too
I couldn't care LESS if he regrets losing me because when I'm done, I'M DONE! That's how you do it move on and no longer care about if he regrets losing you because if he didn't want to lose you, he would've done everything in his power not to lose you, PERIOD.
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god, how do you do this? i need to learn the technique!!!!
Real talk. It's all about how you love yourself.
You cared enough to watch this video. It's okay to admit you care a little bit
@@dawna4185 me too bc they making it sound easy. When you truly love someone and you're heartbroken it's easier said than done. Working on it though
Beyonce told yall..always stay gracious best revenge is yo paper! 😅After the break up, glow up! Ignore him, be cold as you can be & improve yourself in EVERY way
Beyonce stayed lol
Can't take advice from Beyonce when she stayed with a cheater boy bye🙄
Beyonce is with a cheater. She has no voice in this topic
In a song? Which one?
Please which song did she share this tip?? Care to share??
I have no single friends...lol
I'm here for you chile.👋
Lol
Bumble bee will be your friend since now on lol download it 😁
Contour and blend 🤣🤣 Love this advice. Thank you. 🙌🏽🥳
Thank God he removed that person from your life! Be a success for you. Trust that he is gone for a reason even if you never know specifics, believe HE IS NOT FOR YOU. PERIOD. You are worthy of way more than that person never/ever brought to the table.
My aunt always told me the best revenge on a man is to look like a million$$$$. Keep them starving.
Nathalie Duverna 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Amen to that!!
Thanks I needed to hear that just got out of a relationship
Lool😂 I love it!!
I love it! Nothing but the truth!🙌🏿
I am going through a break up ryt now as we speak.... And its not easy honeslty but after u said all that😍😍😍I jumped of the bed wiped the tears off my face and started affirming positivity in my life from now on and just developing the desire to greatly work on myself. Thank you soo much and may God increase ur wisdom in the knowledge of the heart many more u put ur mind to.... It's not revenge but its self-care🙂
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯
Whtsaap him**
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Literally everything was spot on. Idk if I’m proud to say that I’m really good at playing the game, but how he said a man would feel after doing all of these tips is 100% accurate, works every time with me.
#6: Make sure steps #1-5 are done in the interest of YOU moving on, and not to manipulate someone else's actions or feelings. If he left a good woman, then he's not even worth the effort of trying to make him miss you. In fact, he doesn't deserve anymore of your brain space. Thank God for dodging that bullet and try to keep it moving.
Agree!
Amen
Agree!
Well said, Michele! Well said!
Usually when I say i'm done with a Man,I'm not ,When I am done I won't say i'm done I'll just be done....if that makes sense.
Miaaa1. 11 It definitely makes sense!
Same here
frip lip lol shut up you loser
Same
Makes total sense.
Well this video got recommended to me at an appropriate time lol
Stop 🤣🤣🤣 Derek Jax men don’t cheat leave him. Is he going to give that advice to his wifey for his behavior.
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I'm in that space where I really don't give a flying flip if he regrets losing me. I'm not wasting my precious energy on wondering whether he has regrets. I spend my energy on living in the moment and enjoying life! Can you say FREEDOM!
What I learned is to take a step back and let a man have his space. No communication and not being available. You will see in time if he loves you and doesn't want to lose you.
This the most realistic comment
Love your comment🤍🤍🤍
@Sun label Reccord Then they would have to do things the old fashioned way before social media.
Be careful because narcissistic men come and go. Look into it...you might have one of those evil people. I blocked him and he keeps trying to make contact 🙄🙄
So true
"Call up that girl who knows how to contour and blend "..... now this had me🤣🤣
Shayna Moreno girl I was dying laughing but I feel him tho 💯👌🏽😂
Shayna Moreno I know right I was laughing so hard by abs hurt lol
Shayna Moreno lol
I laughed out loud at this bc its exactly what I did looking for tutorial about how to contour and blend. 😂😂
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I like moving after a relationship i like to move& start fresh outta sight outta mind 🏃 🏃 🚶
UA-cam is petty for recommending this. 😂
lol they know what they doing
hello do you need help why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
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So true! A wise person once said to me "silent is the only language which has no interpretation".... That alone is a BEAST of a method. I am a HUGE practitioner of "I can show U better than I can tell U" 😎😉
Yep!!Move on in silence 😆...I love it
Silence can be deadly 😉
Yeah its accurate quit often but there are time that its false
Yes hunny!
Niccole Evans love it!
When a man shows you he don’t care that’s your answer sad but true 💔
Yes indeed
SMH😒um um um! 🍿🍿I'm just here to read these new comments !
Even though derrick does none of the above. What he's saying is good advice. Lmfbo. It really is.
Unfortunately this doesn't work on sociopathic guys who have no emotions and fake their way through life. I watched this video more for ME. I genuinely want to move on and love myself for the first time in my life. The comments here have been helpful. Take care everyone.
Be Strong and Be Safe. !!!Narcissist men are more than evil and then those same nut jobs get worst when you expose them and leave their Craziness alone !
You think they don’t care ... but they do. They are righteous and want to be above you. Their ego is so destroyed that it doesn’t even matter if they show anything to you. You know they are unhappy creatures.
Omg this is so true! Exactly my situation.. Love to you from London girl, hope you moved on god bless ❤️
Hope you're doing well- you're absolutely stunning and should absolutely love yourself 👌❤
Lilac Roses
If u r truly done. Cut him off...never make contact again.I was in a abusive relationship. I cut him off and we never made contact again. What is ur worth and how much do u value that person? The question is. Is the person adding or subtracting from ur life? Yes, love is difficult but can become easy with loving you first. Removing ur emotions and weighing in what is good for u in this life. Relationships are like choosing a healthy meal. Either one will benefit you in the negative or positive. Sending u good energy.
Bessie Smith said it best: "If he can stand to leave me, I can stand to see him go."
kathy 2trips good quote I like this
Here from his confession video
I'm losing weight. Working out. Keeping busy. Making new friends. Doing what I enjoy. Going to new places. I'm doing this for me. And if one day he sees me looking the best ever, it'll be his loss. 🍒
Just secure your bag, look good both physically and mentally... Have peace... Be happy.. Utilise that energy in growing yourself in all areas
Periodt sissss
Amen sister
Okay but why is Derrick preaching facts in his car while dudes like Matthew Hussey are on radio stations? Somebody! I’d rather hear Derrick on the station, somebody promote him, he speaks to my mind and heart man, Derrick, write a book or something, you deserve acknowledgement and royalties
Kinney Kolah preach!! ✨
Ugh on Hussey. Derrick needs to be EVERYWHERE.
Kinney Kolah His new book is “Don’t forget your Crown”. Dropped the other day😌
Yes but at least we get a chance to see him. And he's looking straight in our eyes.
How bout that!
Agreed!!
I cant be the only one who just listen to him as a big brother that every girl deserves 😃🤭
You are hands down, the KING on male advice. Love it.😍
Thank you D
Actually many have called him King of the Simps.
Open Bible Up Put God first and Pray Thats what Im doing 🙋♀️
Dee Lopez yes. I’ll do this
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Amen
never again god sent this narc to me..nope
@@user-zm9yc2kb8x the devil is a liar and the father of lies he comes to kill steal and destroy he is a deceiver every good and perfect gift comes from God with no variation due to change please know that the devil will send ppl in your life to steal kill and destroy that is his life mission God is love and even in what he allows he uses everything the devil means to harm us into something good God is so good that he even uses or mistakes into something beautiful praying for you
How about, DON'T CARE. Stop caring about if he regrets it, is sad that you're gone, ect. Move on with your life. You should be focused on your life, not still focused on him and his.
That's so true, you shouldn't constantly be worrying about whether he regrets losing you or not. Strength comes from not being affected by if he does or doesn't. Still live your life & do things that make you happy instead of thinking about him :)
@@_angelicr Amen. I think it is very dysfunctional to think of what your ex or anyone is doing and what they still feel about you, trying to make them miss you, ect.
@@ShiningShiningShining Yes it is I completely agree with you!
I agree. I think when the breakup is fresh there's a part of you that wants him to regret it. But if you used the time apart wisely and focused on yourself, that want starts to go away. You slowly stop caring about that. When you've healed, you fully stop caring about that, you're free.
@@trixs90able When I'm in breakup mode, I don't care a bit about my ex. I move on to erase their memory and be to myself to regain my focus.
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00:50 Let him have the last word. “True”
Cold Turkey . Cut off.
03:40 Don’t post quotes ..good or bad🌚❌keep him in the dark
05:37 Look good
Wow! I did all of this naturally. I was just DONE. Glad to know I was on the right track. Happily Moving on....