True. Instead of actually caring to make them regret losing you. If you really don’t care, why care if he regrets it? Why shouldn’t teach heartbroken women to get back at their ex partners by making them regret losing you. It puts you energetically in a negative deposit. 😅
🎉he ghosted for 4 days. gut wrenching. refused to give him a 2nd chance to disrespect me😢. 😤 blocked. saw me by happenstance ,HE ran over said hi & wanted to engage n conversation. held my head up. smiled 😃. & said one word. Bye 👋 paid him dust. he was shocked 😲. I run🏃♀️ from losers & ghosters!
I’m honestly direct and a bit mean with men, and because of that, they end up falling hard for me every time. I know my worth, and I make sure they do too, especially those who might not be at my level. I keep them in line, ignore them, and don’t hesitate to be blunt. It’s like a switch flipped one day-I realized that a no-nonsense approach actually works. I think a lot of women are too caring, emotional, and insecure. Value your time. Ask yourself what value someone brings into your life, and if it’s worth it, let them in. But always live as if you’re single until there’s a true commitment. Even then, remind them you don’t need them. We know why men are drawn to women who play it mean rather than the overly nice ones. The secret is to keep them at anxiety level -don’t let things get too easy or predictable. Make them work hard every single minute. Exhaust them, they like it without verbally admitting it. It’s unspoken and they love to prove themselves and chase. Period.
These games only work if u dealing with the wrong one Once you find "the one" Yk he ur husband n he knows ure his wife None of these games will ever happen Only a man who knows ure not his wife will treat u like shewt n play all these lame games
All of these tips happen when you don’t care to make them regret anything. lol. It’s so funny because these are true but you wouldn’t have the desire to make him regret losing you if you just didn’t care about his existence and so on. Lol
25:00 if your ex is highly narcissistic, it's better to block him because he doesnt deserve access to you to manipulate or breadcrumb you. Narcs don't like losing control over you. They will use what you post to judge when or how to play you again. I wont unblock again until he makes a real apology by crying and gifting me.
Omg did I let him watch 😆 I went to an ecstatic dance night with a girlfriend and ran into the guy who I dated for a while and broke up with me (via text) a few months ago. I had no idea he was there but he saw me and walked past me looking me straight in the eyes with an intense gaze (no talking at these dances) I stared straight back at him with a look as if he was a stranger 🤣 The whole night he was kind of hanging around me at a distance while all men at the party took me for a sweaty dance 😏 I ignored his existence completely while he saw all man fight over me for a dance
I accidentally did this to my ex husband. I was feeling down about our divorce, so I wanted to let loose at a bar and go dancing. I picked a popular bar hangout, ordered myself a drink, talked to a cute guy who saw I was there by myself and approached me to chit-chat. Turns out, my ex husband was setting up on the stage to play drums for the live band that was performing that night lol. We both saw each other and both acted like we hadn't. At the time, I just wanted to get the heck out of there because I didn't want to be in the same room as him. But when the music started playing, and this cute guy asked me to dance, I said eff it, and joined him on the dance floor. It was my night to let loose and try to have some fun. So I did. And it was a blast. Guy was a good dancer, too. We got a bit lewd with each other a few times on the dance floor and my ex husband was visibly upset. Me and the guy ended up staying and dancing, drinking, and chatting the entire duration my ex husband had to play. As soon as their set was done for the evening, he booked it off stage in a huff lol.
I had to block after so much back and fourth. I use to not want to block because I didn’t want to seem to care but I’m exhausted. He’s a married co worker 🙃
Run 🏃♀️ for ur life from married men aka evil liars. 😈 no respect or integrity for his wife, u or the sanctity of marriage. Total loser! Wanting s-ex for cheap or free from u. Bye grownboy.
@@Namelessly554 MARRIED means run 🏃♀️ for ur life. what he'll do w/u, he'll do 2 u. proof he's a liar/cheater & evil 😈. Nothing good will ever come from ur relationship. Bc it can only go down from there. Even if he married u, u could/would never ever be able to trust him. Trust!!
44:04 Nahhh no body bases their existence around making themselves “desirable” for other people. That’s some low self-esteem shit. People put in the effort for themselves and other people desire them for it. It’s not that we do that to get approval from other people. 😅 At least this is how it’s should be going. (And not being constantly available via phone and have no boundaries) 😂
People, yes, but they're not like women. Mn are highly ego-driven, self-centred, cruel and narcissistic. That's who you're dealing with. The good person act in the beginning is a facade. Deep down, they're full of manipulation.
I was in no contact for 8 month now he starts coming back but we have kids so now he always use the kids to call me, to visit me randomly, to call me daily ect. I can’t say he is not allowed to call his kids ect but I don’t know how to handle the situation bc even for the kids it’s not necessary to call me daily. I need more videos for woman with kids …. Don’t know what is better for me and what goes already in the wrong direction
If u genuinely wan make it work with him n give it a 2nd try Make him do all the work n test him Tell him straightup if he wants u back he'll have to work for it n prove he won't ghost u or go silent ever again If he don't listen. It's over Don't give him no more chances Do like cardi b does She co parenting with offset but not giving him zero pussy time
These games only work if u dealing with the wrong one Once you find "the one" Yk he ur husband n he knows ure his wife None of these games will ever happen Only a man who knows ure not his wife will treat u like shewt n play all these lame games
42:23 Bro she was talking about *”being loved”* not being desired. 😅 And so many great women out there, who love broke…. men and rich men complaining, why women only want them for their money/resources. Money doesn’t determine whether you’re being genuinely loved or something. 😅
Nahh girl. If you unblock him now he’ll notice that you didn’t and “bamm” he’ll notice you’re still thinking about him and want to influence him into getting jealous. And also you while checking to see, if he seen your WhatsApp stories you can see that he posted some. You might actually be tempted to watch it or click on it accidentally. 😅 Girl you don’t want him. And if you really don’t then you don’t care what blocking him changes his perception of him. You’re still obsessed over him and by putting the energy into unblocking him he’ll notice. 😂
Unblocking is breaking no contact. If you want to unblock, probably at 4 months is enough time to accept its over. There's many ways around the block if he really wanted to talk to you.
@@kearanswinderman1246narcissistic exes hate when you go no contact and silent because they lost control over you. They do care when you take your power back
46:23 Dude when I go grocery shopping I see the *real life* . 🙄 And the RL isn’t filled with hot 20-30 years old instagram models, but they still got to work, have hobbies, a family and a partner. I really respect you for all of your good advice, but this is getting silly now. 😂 That’s why I actually don’t like dating coaches, because they teach people “unless you’re perfect” you won’t be getting a partner. Which is so silly. We’re surrounded by people with flaws, who struggle and still have a partner, who also has flaws. Stopp with the perfection. Workout is good for mind and body, but really important is one’s attitude. (Boundaries & respect) Only, if you want an actual instagram model you have to go “work” on your income and looks. 😅😂
This vieo should have been titled "How to stop caring if he will regret losing you, respect yourself and get a life".
True. Instead of actually caring to make them regret losing you. If you really don’t care, why care if he regrets it? Why shouldn’t teach heartbroken women to get back at their ex partners by making them regret losing you. It puts you energetically in a negative deposit. 😅
I love it
🎉he ghosted for 4 days. gut wrenching. refused to give him a 2nd chance to disrespect me😢. 😤 blocked. saw me by happenstance ,HE ran over said hi & wanted to engage n conversation. held my head up. smiled 😃. & said one word. Bye 👋 paid him dust. he was shocked 😲. I run🏃♀️ from losers & ghosters!
I’m honestly direct and a bit mean with men, and because of that, they end up falling hard for me every time. I know my worth, and I make sure they do too, especially those who might not be at my level. I keep them in line, ignore them, and don’t hesitate to be blunt. It’s like a switch flipped one day-I realized that a no-nonsense approach actually works.
I think a lot of women are too caring, emotional, and insecure. Value your time. Ask yourself what value someone brings into your life, and if it’s worth it, let them in. But always live as if you’re single until there’s a true commitment. Even then, remind them you don’t need them. We know why men are drawn to women who play it mean rather than the overly nice ones. The secret is to keep them at anxiety level -don’t let things get too easy or predictable. Make them work hard every single minute. Exhaust them, they like it without verbally admitting it. It’s unspoken and they love to prove themselves and chase. Period.
These games only work if u dealing with the wrong one
Once you find "the one"
Yk he ur husband n he knows ure his wife
None of these games will ever happen
Only a man who knows ure not his wife will treat u like shewt n play all these lame games
his text's are his way to see if your still available. Don't fee his ego. Move on to better !
All of these tips happen when you don’t care to make them regret anything. lol. It’s so funny because these are true but you wouldn’t have the desire to make him regret losing you if you just didn’t care about his existence and so on. Lol
I'm leaving it to God, I'm definitely stepping aside with popcorn.
I go to the gym 4x wk and spa visits 😊 and took makeup classes
This is a great video! I think the best one. Thank you! I now get clarity...his behaviors is enough is enough.
This is really helping my self-esteem
25:00 if your ex is highly narcissistic, it's better to block him because he doesnt deserve access to you to manipulate or breadcrumb you. Narcs don't like losing control over you. They will use what you post to judge when or how to play you again. I wont unblock again until he makes a real apology by crying and gifting me.
I listen to your channel everday. Just keep doing what you doing. Good luck❤
36:21 yeah fr you are so right.
Omg did I let him watch 😆 I went to an ecstatic dance night with a girlfriend and ran into the guy who I dated for a while and broke up with me (via text) a few months ago.
I had no idea he was there but he saw me and walked past me looking me straight in the eyes with an intense gaze (no talking at these dances) I stared straight back at him with a look as if he was a stranger 🤣
The whole night he was kind of hanging around me at a distance while all men at the party took me for a sweaty dance 😏 I ignored his existence completely while he saw all man fight over me for a dance
I accidentally did this to my ex husband. I was feeling down about our divorce, so I wanted to let loose at a bar and go dancing. I picked a popular bar hangout, ordered myself a drink, talked to a cute guy who saw I was there by myself and approached me to chit-chat.
Turns out, my ex husband was setting up on the stage to play drums for the live band that was performing that night lol. We both saw each other and both acted like we hadn't. At the time, I just wanted to get the heck out of there because I didn't want to be in the same room as him. But when the music started playing, and this cute guy asked me to dance, I said eff it, and joined him on the dance floor. It was my night to let loose and try to have some fun. So I did. And it was a blast.
Guy was a good dancer, too. We got a bit lewd with each other a few times on the dance floor and my ex husband was visibly upset. Me and the guy ended up staying and dancing, drinking, and chatting the entire duration my ex husband had to play. As soon as their set was done for the evening, he booked it off stage in a huff lol.
Make him feel his loss
I had to block after so much back and fourth. I use to not want to block because I didn’t want to seem to care but I’m exhausted. He’s a married co worker 🙃
They deserve the block. It means: I care about me, and I've revoked your access to me. F off.
Run 🏃♀️ for ur life from married men aka evil liars. 😈 no respect or integrity for his wife, u or the sanctity of marriage. Total loser! Wanting s-ex for cheap or free from u. Bye grownboy.
I’m in the same situation
@@Namelessly554 MARRIED means run 🏃♀️ for ur life. what he'll do w/u, he'll do 2 u. proof he's a liar/cheater & evil 😈. Nothing good will ever come from ur relationship. Bc it can only go down from there. Even if he married u, u could/would never ever be able to trust him. Trust!!
True2heart here hello
44:04 Nahhh no body bases their existence around making themselves “desirable” for other people. That’s some low self-esteem shit. People put in the effort for themselves and other people desire them for it. It’s not that we do that to get approval from other people. 😅 At least this is how it’s should be going. (And not being constantly available via phone and have no boundaries) 😂
are men not people like??? can i just reach out maybe he is also shy?
People, yes, but they're not like women. Mn are highly ego-driven, self-centred, cruel and narcissistic.
That's who you're dealing with. The good person act in the beginning is a facade. Deep down, they're full of manipulation.
Human nature has gender roles. Men and women are not the same. The masculine role likes to pursue, win, do and earn.
I was in no contact for 8 month now he starts coming back but we have kids so now he always use the kids to call me, to visit me randomly, to call me daily ect. I can’t say he is not allowed to call his kids ect but I don’t know how to handle the situation bc even for the kids it’s not necessary to call me daily. I need more videos for woman with kids …. Don’t know what is better for me and what goes already in the wrong direction
If u genuinely wan make it work with him n give it a 2nd try
Make him do all the work n test him
Tell him straightup if he wants u back he'll have to work for it n prove he won't ghost u or go silent ever again
If he don't listen. It's over
Don't give him no more chances
Do like cardi b does
She co parenting with offset but not giving him zero pussy time
36:45 37:55 🔑🔑🔑
These games only work if u dealing with the wrong one
Once you find "the one"
Yk he ur husband n he knows ure his wife
None of these games will ever happen
Only a man who knows ure not his wife will treat u like shewt n play all these lame games
Hahahaha you’re so hilarious thank you for keeping it real
42:23 Bro she was talking about *”being loved”* not being desired. 😅 And so many great women out there, who love broke…. men and rich men complaining, why women only want them for their money/resources. Money doesn’t determine whether you’re being genuinely loved or something. 😅
I'm late yall..I work nights 😢
JUST NEEDED to say that the thumbnail text grabbed my attention because I thought it said "Make Him Gay"
and I'm upset.
What if you were in business with him and you prepaid him for handyman/contracting work?
Imagine how I felt turning up my volume. Saying what is wrong with my phone why I can’t hear him? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
What if you already blocked him on Whatsapp, hes only got whatsapp do i unblock him?
Nahh girl. If you unblock him now he’ll notice that you didn’t and “bamm” he’ll notice you’re still thinking about him and want to influence him into getting jealous. And also you while checking to see, if he seen your WhatsApp stories you can see that he posted some. You might actually be tempted to watch it or click on it accidentally. 😅 Girl you don’t want him. And if you really don’t then you don’t care what blocking him changes his perception of him. You’re still obsessed over him and by putting the energy into unblocking him he’ll notice. 😂
Unblocking is breaking no contact. If you want to unblock, probably at 4 months is enough time to accept its over. There's many ways around the block if he really wanted to talk to you.
Ladies...you post that picture of yourself and he doesn't like it but you see him liking another girls picture on the same day! DONE..GONE...BYE 👋
Dang I just broke. Is it too late
Hello
I like being a woman vs a girl. Grown and sexy 😂😂and I don't mind still being young at heart.
That doesnt mean you arent grown and sexy. Sometimes girl and woman is used interchangeably like the term "girl's night" and "girlfriend".
What if it is a long-distance relationship?
So, should I unfriend him on Facebook and unfollow on Tik Tok?
If he is narcissistic, he will not care or feel anything at all.
So, how long does it take for a man to regret losing you? I really need to know.
I seriously needed this.
@@kearanswinderman1246narcissistic exes hate when you go no contact and silent because they lost control over you. They do care when you take your power back
A BREAK!!!
41:28 lmfao 😂
My ex husband invested to me 70.000 uero
46:23 Dude when I go grocery shopping I see the *real life* . 🙄 And the RL isn’t filled with hot 20-30 years old instagram models, but they still got to work, have hobbies, a family and a partner. I really respect you for all of your good advice, but this is getting silly now. 😂 That’s why I actually don’t like dating coaches, because they teach people “unless you’re perfect” you won’t be getting a partner. Which is so silly. We’re surrounded by people with flaws, who struggle and still have a partner, who also has flaws. Stopp with the perfection. Workout is good for mind and body, but really important is one’s attitude. (Boundaries & respect) Only, if you want an actual instagram model you have to go “work” on your income and looks. 😅😂
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