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As a mental health profession, good on you for cutting ties with this company! Lots of respect for creators who value the quality of care their followers receive over getting sponsorships
As a cyber-sec engineer, this guy lacks the focus, discipline, and work ethic to work remotely. Complete undisciplined flake that i wouldn't trust with the 'keys to the kingdom' as it were.
When Caleb caught that he was double dipping with how the mom is paying for his transportation I almost cheered. That's not something that slipped his mind. He was purposefully misrepresenting things so he looked better.
When I was his age, I was living with my parents as well. I wasn't ashamed though - I worked, went to uni, cooked, clean and helped out my parents around the house. Not paying rent at home isn't an excuse to not be helpful or learn skill sets for proper adulthood.
@@baconoftheark This is key. Living with your parents as an adult does not mean that nothing changes, even if you are not paying rent. I moved out early, but many friends kept living with their parents for longer and their responsibilities increased compared to what they used to do in high school. It's like with homeschooling - if you do it right, you will end up a functioning adult, unfortunately the stereotype of being emotionally stunted exists for a reason
This dude is the definition of "all talk, no walk". He is good at sounding confident in his voice and has most likely not been called on his crap that often.
Yeah I’ve never seen this channel before…. But it’s like he thinks he’s slick and was going to spout his BS and expects he is going to move on but got called out on everything he has claimed. I’m like 10 minutes in up to now.
He goes into the grocery store and buys just bread and drinks? What can you do with just bread? Not even peanut butter to go with it? Did these people never hear of Goodwill? He could get all the pots, pans, dishes, silverware, etc he needs for under $10. If he will be living at home, maybe Mom can teach him how to set up and use a functional kitchen. Maybe Caleb should partner with a company offering a course in basic life skills (shopping, cooking, meal prep/freezing meals).
Any person that says “leverage my time” or “leverage my money” spends way to much damn time watching these “financial gurus” and not enough time actually working
I am seeing more and more of that sort of mentality. Guys who watch 15 second reels think they know more than people who actually doing work. “Leveraging your time” you have no skills, experience, discipline to leverage your time with! I had one guy tell me a 401K was a waste of money….
Whenever I hear ppl talk about their value for time and DoorDash saving them money cos their time is so valuable it’s lol. Maybe if you were a Fortune 500 ceo, but most likely these are ppl spending their time watching Netflix
@@マリー-v4pfr, the doordash saves you time then and now right but.... time is MONEY, they're going to spend a couple hours of their life earning back what was spent on DD
I disagree. It doesn't always work for everybody but OE on reddit speaks for itself. These kind of people just parrot ideas they don't actually understand and conceptualize them. They just assume like it will happen as if life is truly a "visionboard" and thats all it takes
Thank you for saying this! I was curious about WFH nursing positions because I wanted to do something other than bedside, but at this time I'd rather not work 9-5 every day, from home. Most positions I saw were just that.
I work remote with very flexible hours. I always start by at least 11am but when I'm extra good I'll start by 10. I still work to at least 5 or 6 everyday, and often times longer. No matter what time your chosen schedule is, you have A LOT TO DO. So it's all about getting it done and it's up to you to work through your never ending to do list in a timely manner. It's been stressful honestly lately because I've been handed more clients to take care of and they're big. But I'm looking for another remote job that I think will hopefully be busy but less demanding and higher paying.
yup wfh as i speak, i have a meeting at 9am every day on top of other meetings, they still can see if you are working or not lmaoo its still a job! lol but thankful
Just wait until he finds out that cybersecurity rapidly evolves and requires you to stay on top of it by constantly studying and learning new things. Then he will be in for a huge surprise when he has to do on-call differential on top of 40 hour work weeks and when there's an incident he will be putting in crazy hours... 9-5 would be paradise in cyber, it doesn't happen. He is also targeting a SENIOR level field along with a SENIOR level position in said field. He will be doing bottom of the barrel work for years before getting to where he wants to be.
And somehow they have no idea they are a such a caricature. They think they have all of these unique qualities and abilities, and it's like, dude, I've met 100 of you. Exact same lame excuses, exact same "but it's different".
@@Cat22275 oh honey, it's not a generation problem. Plenty of people of all ages come into this show and bring up excuses after excuses and trying to defend their behaviour.
The fact that this guy REFUSES to admit mommy supports him is infuriating. He’s trying to take credit for something he doesn’t deserve. I would LOVE to hear his mom’s viewpoint on this.
- Barely has a job - Can’t afford living expenses - Doesn’t know how to cook - Credit card debt - Bad GPA - Relies on mommy - No plan for the future - Plays video games competitively - Expecting handouts - Knows everything Poor kid.
Definitely connected to those who call themselves an “entrepreneur” after financing a “business opportunity” (coaching scam or MLM scam) with a credit card.
Yeah I can basically step out to get a haircut or pick up some groceries here and there on my WFH days but the rest of the day I’m locked in my damn office lol.
Cyber security engineer here, his idea that cyber security will work for him because of his ADHD is a bad view imo. Cyber security deals with a ton of documentations and constant studying to stay on top of the field. Even penetration testing has a ton of documentation. Working in the compliance? Even more documentation. 100% an 9-5 office job. Not going to be an easy field for a guy who is lazy and blames ADHD for his struggles.
As someone going into cyber security with background in electrical engineering and UAS, it also requires a lot of learning and coding expertise which can be frustrating and difficult with those who have ADHD.
The Google Cert is also a joke for getting a job. It's a good foundation but won't get you a job. Now if you had Certs from Offsec that would perk up some ears for a job for red team.
Most jobs ppl think are "easy" have the most document work ever lol. I'm in property management and I have to do so much paper work, but ppl think I sit at home and do nothing. 😂
💯 I love when people act like other people actually WANT to have “boring” jobs, and they’re clever enough to find a way around that without working hard 😂
I'm 30 now. been listening to Caleb for a while; it helps to hear the kick in the pants as well as to know I'm not in such a bad way. Zero credit card debt, with about $50k now saved between myself and my partner for a down payment on a property. Working on a large emergency fund, I feel that is where I'm most lacking. Thanks for keepin it real, much love from Canada!
@@basementality4924 There are still pro players. Blizzard restarted the pro scene as the OWCS, which basically let's FaceIt handle it, which are the same org that runs Counter Strike competitive
@@basementality4924colleges like mine still pay student to play apex, league, smite, rocket league etc. OWL was a national League. He's talking of college league. National leage died, but college still exists.
LMAO - His career plan is “I’m hoping this will happen. I’m banking on my networking to produce my dream job that doesn’t require me to work, but get paid big bucks!” He’s going back to NY, because he knows Mommy and Daddy will get his old room back together and tell him what a special boy he is!
My husband was a golf caddy and he basically had the same mindset as this guy. He spent 10 years in golf course industry and he didnt get any opportunities from any of the “networking” he did at the golf course. He finally gave up and got a job at golftec as a golf coach. Now he has stable income and set schedule with 2 days off during the week and all holidays off plus pto. I would suggest this guy should try to get a job in golftec as well.
He's led thru the magician energy , unfortunately has been over run by the shadow, the trickster . Caleb has a similar energy, however he's been able to harness it and implement in a much healthier way
Hi Caleb, my name is Autumn and I was born deaf, I have cochlear implants now so I can hear. However, I still need captions to be able to understand anything I'm watching. I love watching your videos and all of them have had auto generated captions which isn't always accurate but I overall end up understanding. This video however does not have any captions at all, which is sad cause I love watching your videos so much. Im still going to try and watch this and turn up to the max so I can understand what's being said lol. But if it's not too much trouble and if you happen to see this, please have caption options for your videos. Id be so grateful. Either way I'll still watch your videos. Thank you Caleb, TAQUITOS, Autumn :)
Not sure why the auto-captions are off here, that’s disappointing. Caleb, accessibility matters! Step up and make sure that Autumn and everyone else can enjoy the show 😊
I can enable auto captions now. Caleb posted they cut the sponsorship from the video so during reprocessing it was probably unavailable. Retry now Autumn :)
Hey Autumn! Sorry about captions not being available during your viewing, cutting something from the video and reprocessing from UA-cam because of that most likely was why they weren’t available :( Internally we always want to minimize inconveniences like that for the audience and we’ll be sure to do our best in preventing something like this in the future. We appreciate you bringing this up and supporting the videos! -Mika
this dude is so disrespectful and oblivious to how much of a blessing his mom is. every time he admits to her paying for something its always "a little bit". Your housing, college, and transportation are not "little things" or "a little bit". this kid is entitled and diluted
@mithicash1444 Not only really good... good enough to get a full ride scholarship that covers 80% of his bills to go to college for nothing because he's going to community College. Bro can't admit he's a loser lmfao
If this guy didn't lie or dodge every question.. it would of been a 5 minute episode where he has two maxed out credit cards with no job, get a job THE END.
Caleb, thank you for being brutally honest with this guy. He is SCREWED if he doesn’t change his lifestyle, it’s hard to watch someone so young not willing to compromise and even work to live, at least most of the guests on this show are willing to get a 2nd job or a more menial one in the meantime whilst they sort themselves out. Unfortunately he may get a shock in the real world and that will be very soon!
23, "pro" gamer, barely works as a golf butler, has thousands in credit card debt, getting paychecks from mommy, doesnt own a car, cant afford rent, cant hold down the relationship, has no plan, afraid to drive on the highway, dude grow up.
Watching Caleb yell at guests for being lazy helps me curb my desire to ignore my own smaller responsibilities, the little needs that I don’t naturally feel compelled go accomplish.
At a glance, the hood of his shirt makes him look like a little kid with a towel tied around his neck like a Superman cape. Really amplifies the childish-ness.
I've been in the golf business for 30 years now and some of that was spent with a caddie program at a private club outside a major metropolitan area. The caddies that showed up EVERY DAY, regardless of weather or IF there were "no loops available," were the first caddies that got called in OR were paired up with high dollar members on busy days. Just like with any job, it's ultimately all about the time and effort you put in during the down time to reap the rewards during the busy months. His mentality is all backwards and I hope he turns it around.
Bro should look into being a flex employee for Amazon. Not flex delivery driver. But flex part-time. It's a warehouse associate position. You don't get benefits but you get to essentially build your own schedule by picking up shifts as they're posted. You could use that to work around your caddy job and still make income
Cool. But obviously not everyone can do that. If we were all the same the world would be what it is. Never compare mental health of other ppl. Especially if other mental illness or health conditions are a factor. This dude needs a career not a summer job.
I also have severe unmedicated ADHD! I work overnight in a more physical job that I find interesting and that keeps me way more engaged. This guy just doesn’t want to actually do the “work” part lol
Friend: I work in IT. I've been a software engineer for 22 years. Programmer, Architect, Quality Assurance Enginner, DB developer, you name it. I've worked in offices as well as remote (since 2014). Overseas and in the USA. Remote works don't mean you sleep until noon. Yes, there is more flexibility but you still need to meet the deadlines and believe me: many times putting 8 hrs/day won't be enough. I have yet to work for a company where the IT team doesn't work an insane number of hours. Also: you never stop training: that's what I love/hate the most about this job. You cannot go 6 months without learning something new, which means sacrificing personal time to do it. If you're allergic to structure, discipline and working hard: IT is the last place you need to be in.
17:24: also: you can get a great job in IT without a college degree, but you need to put a lot of work towards becoming the best in an area (cybersecurity, data analytics, machine learning, etc); that requires dedication and a lot of discipline to sit and learn until you master it.
As a Security Analyst myself, please do not become one. This job is NOT entry level and you need to have critical thinking skills along with self-driven research. This guy sounds lazy, and that is the last thing we need in CyberSec/InfoSec.
@@joeygallegosI fear the cybersecurity boot camp people. If you’ve never experienced an enterprise environment, I don’t understand how a bootcamp can provide any value.
@@joeygallegos This guy wants to get into CyberSecurity but has no idea what it is or if he even has any discipline towards it. He is too all over the place.
I’m team lead of security engineering at one of the largest companies in the world. It is infuriating how people think it’s “so easy” to get into cyber security. It’s mainly due to the so called “tech experts” who tell people you only need a google cert or a boot camp certificate to get a 6 figure job in cyber. Yes it’s possible but not likely.
As his (now) ex-girlfriend’s sister, he was most definitely lying a lot in this video. He’s a pathological liar. He also never had his mom pay for his “ride shares”, my sister (his then girlfriend) drove him everywhere. She also furnished his apartment.
The fact that this kid thinks that ANY of these adult high functioning golf players are going to remember him “if” he comes back shows how highly he views himself and how delusional he actually is. He must assume he makes an extraordinary impression.
He is relying on one of these well off players to place him in a high paying job. Dude is just lazy and waiting for a golden opportunity to fall in his lap.
@@mattbaillargeon he's relying on miracles which have not happened yet as he approaches 30. Scholarship for gaming, connections from being a caddy but no effort to get him buy until he gets a break. Completely delusional.
I'm glad that I learned that lesson in my early 20s on a pretty low balance purchasing a few speakers for my car. Dumb, but it was a learning experience that only cost a couple hundred bucks in the end.
Wait so if you are late one payment then the interest accrues immediately with 30 pee cent ? Or how does it work ? Let's say I was supposed to pay back 10usd on 1 April but I didn't so on 2 April I already have 13 USD to pay back ?
From someone who works in Cybersecurity doing red teaming (what the guests wants to do), it's pretty much impossible to find a remote job with no experience. Employers will want you in the office for the first year or so to learn from other members of the team before they see you as capable and trusted enough to do client work remotely. There's a lot of snake-oil bs on Cybersecurity being spread by "influencers" who are trying to sell you courses that tell you that you can land a 100k+ job with no experience.
This. Google certifications are good for getting an introduction to certain topics, but in my experience they’re not useful for getting interviews. You can just coast through the courses, complete a few quizzes, maybe a capstone project, and that’s it, but they’re not proctored. Pair that with an aversion to the 9-5, and you can quickly see this guy has pretty unrealistic expectations.
@@galoiscries1998 Yeah. I wouldn't even class them as certifications, they're just certificates. They don't hold any weight on a CV compared to some other entry level certifications such as Sec+
@@x_____________I completely agree. I completed the Google Data Analytics “certification” when I graduated. My now-employer thought it was interesting, but I ended up working in IT and far from a data analytics role. The only valuable module was the intro to relational databases and SQL. It’s a good conversation starter, but lacks real substance when comparing it with actual certifications (CompTIA, AWS, Microsoft, and the like)
I think social media plays a role in telling people if they grind at a regular job, then they are doing it wrong. I can't tell you how much digital marketing and get rich with minimal work courses pop up in all my social media platforms.
They are also cherry picking people that make for good content then making good life choices. Of all the people that probably apply to the show they chooses those that have been making the worst decisions more then the vast majority of people. Makes it entertaining. Stable people are not as fun to watch.
My sister is “Josh’s” “girlfriend” (they have since broken up), but he never had anyone pay for his Lyfts or Uber, my sister drove him everywhere. His apartment? My sister and her friend furnished his entire apartment (aside from the moldy food in his fridge and his questionable bedding). She LEFT him fast. Just a cautionary note to any woman who decides they want to be with him: he does NOT clean, he does NOT like to pay for anything, very much like what was stated in this video he does NOT like to work. We’re currently at his apartment with a U-Haul picking up everything that my sister and her friend bought. All of the dishes that my sister bought, DIRTY and some with mold on it, we decided to leave it for him, since we’re decent enough to leave some things that my sister bought. If I could make a whole video on this I could, but I’d rather not go into more detail on what we’ve encountered in his apartment. And to “Josh”: next time you move into a place payed for by your mother, and furnished by your next girlfriend, atleast treat the place with respect. You’ve got a nice apartment, many people have parents that can’t help them pay for this kind of place. You didn’t treat it nicely, if you’re looking for a place you can trash the way you did this apartment unit, then I’d recommend just renting out a room for a few months at Motel 8.
I'm sorry that happened to y'all..he's young and needs to grow up and I get the impression he blames his troubles on everyone else and doesn't ownership at all.. He mentioned it would be bad mentally being homeless..well tbh I feel like the way he "sounds" and doesn't want to work at all he will probably end up like that or unfortunately leech on someone else in the future :(
This is a pretty fucked up comment. Sure he lied a lot but at least he came on here and embarrassed himself, you’re just doing waaaaay more damage bringing up past shit that wasn’t mentioned in the video
I don't like when Caleb wears the same shirt in the video that he wore for the little ads he does. It's harder to judge how far to go forward to skip them 🤣
It’s age and using it as an excuse/not treating it correctly and not advocating for better care. He said he’s been diagnosed for 10 yrs and it hasn’t improved!? Dude say it hasn’t and advocate for better results. It was hard to hold a normal 9-5 for me, missed appointments, forgot things etc when younger. I’m now 39 was diagnosed 2 yrs ago, and it explained a lot. Like why I couldn’t make it through schools, and did make me wish I had went for help sooner. But I also don’t use it as an excuse for why I mess up still sometimes. The diagnosis HAS given me tools though, be it medication or being able to recognize symptoms and work through and with the condition. I was flying blind before because I just didn’t know, and just thought I didn’t fit in to this world or was broken lol. This guy has no excuse, he knows he has this. “Man up” and be an adult.
This is the most abused diagnosis next too depression. Yes you have some diagnosis and there are challenges but that doesn't unfortunately mean much to the rest of the world it's a diagnosis to help you get the tools and use the tools. Yes we all deserve some compassion and understanding yes but all the time it's this I got adhd ... Okay you have challenges working 9-5 then work Uber get a used civic or corolla and run Uber he can make all the "networking connections" he could ever dream of.
There is a quote I read on a past financial audit that is really applicable here. “20 year olds are hilarious. You’re at a time in your life where you don’t know anything, but you’re very confident that you’re smarter than everyone else.”
@@kylekampa6721 20 year old are adults ONLY in the sense of legality of age. the true adult 20 years sadly come at the experience of traumatic life. otherwise a cushy life literally denies children from feeling the consequences of their actions. so yeah adults in their 20s have been in school LEARNING but not really feeling the experience of their choices. and its moreso a problem if the standardized school system doesn't teach financial literacy classes. just think, kids i mean adults can run up a 50 to a 100k loan for education. they can finance cars before even securing long term stability. so yeah lots of these young adults sadly crash and learn along the way.
My husband has ADHD and is going into tech. He’s one of the hardest working people I’ve ever met and actually prefers a 9-5 because having a consistent schedule is good for people with ADHD
Exactly right. My husband is also an ADHD developer and if somethings not on the schedule it doesn’t get done. Having routine is crucial for functioning well as an adult with ADHD, to keep you from procrastinating/forgetting.
Yeah I’m wondering if this kid has ever tried working a 9-5 or if he just heard from some online motivational grindset videos that a 9-5 job is the worst thing ever
Not everyone fizzled out, I worked full time as a Fedex delivery driver and graduated Cum Laude with my BBA in Supply Chain Management in July 2021. I grinded the shit out not going out much and paid for my degree out of pocket, lived on ramen and sandwiches, I have no debt.
@@emilybickel9370 grind never stops, I’m one final exam away from a MS in Business Analytics, still debt free. Got a big boy job outta college and didn’t let my lifestyle creep I drive a 1994 geo metro to work. It cost me $1000 in 2019 been daily driving it and putting every extra dollar I make into my classes and SPY.
Wait, remote cyber security? Those are rare. Most cyber security jobs have to be in person due to what theyre working with. Remote inherently makes things less secure.
He should do a survey of his subscribers to see how many have improved their finances by watching this channel. Every videos I watch, there are people in the comments talking about the changes they have made and their successes, Always good to hear! I'm rooting for you all.
I'm a senior in high school and honestly all of this information is incredibly insightful I never rly thought Abt how impactful good financial management is until I started watching this. It's actually insane and i hope other people are realizing how important personal finances are!!! :)
Literally and I’m 26 I have NEVER had a credit card and I was still able to buy a car people getting credit cards is one of the biggest mistakes, don’t spend money u don’t have and u have zero debt
@@Jasmine-ju2yfcredit cards aren’t bad if you know how to use them. all you have to do is just pay it off every month and don’t spend what you don’t have. I don’t know why so many struggle with that
Trying to argue eating out for all of your meals every day is cheaper than grocery shopping is insane. Why are people so helpless when it comes to shopping for food?
I have many friends who make less than 32k USA a year who get ubber eats 3x a week and eat out. Its the "an app for that" excuse and just easy lazy excuses. Plus cooking will land you a partner, not ordering uber eats haha
honestly in some places it depends, ive lived in a place where i’ve literally priced both out and it has been some months less expensive to eat out once a day than have enough groceries to eat multiple times a day- i genuinely think apart of the problem is the current economy 🥲👍
Software engineer here. If you work in cyber security particularly if you’re contracted with the federal government, you will often be working more than 9-5. They can be very flexible but these jobs are not always magical high paying jobs where you work 2 hours a day. Also very hard to break into.
You might also be working an overnight at some SOC for peanuts because everyone wanted to be virus/malware detectives but 99% of cybersecurity is reminding people NOT TO SHARE THEIR GODDAMN CREDENTIALS FUCK If you want to get into cybersecurity/IT, get an entry level IT job, and while you're there, see what that company or those kinds of companies actually need. Then study/certify accordingly.
Exactly that, I have spent weeks straight in data centers until 4am then going to get a few hours of sleep at a hotel then going right back to it. When an incident occurs it can be hell.
@@sweep_auto For real, I love getting woken up at 3am because alarms are flooding in from SIEM at a location. Gets really awesome when I have to drive on site at that time.
I agree just about everyone has to work a job at some point that they don't like, but in most places you can get a better job at some point. Or have made financial choices to no longer need that crap job
I wish people also considered that you can make your job, if not fun, agreeable. There may be a few nice people, you are learning, you are applying yourself, whatever. I think there is inherent value in our commitment to it, even if we want to look for something else.
I typically don’t comment on others’ weight, but since Caleb has been so open about his weight loss journey and the struggles behind it…. GO CALEB!!! I SEE THE PROGRESS!!!! SO PROUD OF YOU
I read comments that now Caleb is in their heads everytime a taquito is about to be purchased and it's true! Now I hear taquitos in my mind when it is just instant gratification BS and just put them back. Thanks Caleb!
When people say “making connections” and “I can’t disclose that” they’re lying to themselves and have no idea wtf they’re talking about and can’t admit it
These people who have convinced themselves that eating out is cheaper than grocery shopping are ridiculous!! It is not even close. I used to overuse DoorDash and I was spending over $40 some days on just food for that day. Now I only grocery shop and I can use $50 to get me through an entire week and never feel hungry or unsatisfied. It’s absolutely not even close.
Exactly!! When I was pregnant with my daughter, my pregnancy cravings were no joke. I spent almost $200 using door dash and Uber eats every single day. Thank God it was just at that time but I couldn’t do it again, I’d rather cook.
Well, more that it CAN be. It can also be a lot more expensive than you might think depending on what you want to eat. But yes, if money is the issue, cooking at home can be much cheaper while having decent quality, but maybe not exactly what you want. some things like an air fryer make stuff a lot easier.
in ny its really close tho. Assuming people just eat in the restaurants and not use door dash or uber eats. Everything costs 40 percent more than it did 2 years ago
My son's teacher told me that the most frequent answers to what do you want to do when you graduate are be a pro-gamer and be an influencer. It's a little scary how many think it's a viable career path
I mean when you pin your entire self worth on being mediocre at a video game (top 40 in North America for a relatively dead game) it’s sort of all you have. He mentioned doing his degree for 2-3 years with a “I will” implying that he hasn’t started yet. At this point he’s 4-5 years behind his peers not to mention the classes skipped in secondary school. It’s sort of a vicious cycle where you play video games to escape reality but in doing so you’re making your situation even worse.
@@andyh964top 40 for a game with over 24 active million players in the past month is pretty damn good wtf do you mean. Idk how viable of a career it is but idk why people are trying to say top forty is “mediocre” that’s ridiculous.
The first guest screening question should be “do you think eating at fast food restaurants or Doordashing is cheaper than grocery shopping?” If they answer yes then the crew will automatically know if the guest is hopeless.
Grandiose at its finest. He is above getting a peasants job. He is networking to start at rhe top by bypassing all the grunt work it takes it get there. Still waiting for this CEO job to fall out ot rhe sky. People need to support me while I wait.
The crazy thing is golfers do not give a shit. I work with them and they are not tryna play with their money with some random kid. That’s like being a barista in Hollywood hoping a celeb would notice you.
as someone with ADHD, having an irregular schedule made me super sluggish. now i have a regular, overly busy (i need to fix that part…) schedule and i am so productive that i never rest. i don’t recommend that, but my point is that ADHD is NOT a reason for being lazy. it paints a bad picture of us. i have always so badly wanted to be productive and i always thought i’d thrive with an irregular schedule and then wondered why i was always depressed, anxious, and got nothing done. the regular schedule totally fixed it for me! not saying it works for everyone, but he at least needs to give it a TRY for goodness sakes.
Agreed! The regular schedule is a lifesaver. You can get bored AT work, but the trick is to just blow through your work in the morning all at once. i also have ADHD and agree strongly, I love my 9-5
As an IT engineer in big boy pants I’d like to let this guy know that his work ethic will not mesh well with cyber security, or any other career in IT. It’s a brutal field with long hours and ulcer inducing stress.
Don’t let stress affect you. I’ve been in security for 15+ years and have never ‘cared’. I clock in, do what I can and call it. Please don’t let work affect your health.
This kid is weirdly ungrounded and brutally honest at the same time. I am not convinced that he cannot be turned around with the right guidance and mentor. I think there is a glimmer of hope in this episode.
@@strangestecho5088 that's literally what every Boomer, Gen Y, and Gen Z taught us. "just do the job and you will like the job." yeah, "like the job" my a**. i realized that too late the hard way. thxu common sense for ruining my life.
I've been in similar shoes. He needs to hit bottom or close to it to ever snap out of whatever he's doing now. The moment mommy can't support him anymore he will get a wake up call. Only then can he turn it around
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Can you please hook me up with a course careers course or at least a discount? I really want to better myself but can't find room for it in my budget even with the $50 discount using your promo code.
Please reconsider, sponsoring better help, they are known in the therapy world as being very toxic, and do way more harm than good
I'm glad to hear your cutting ties with them.
As a mental health profession, good on you for cutting ties with this company! Lots of respect for creators who value the quality of care their followers receive over getting sponsorships
Thank you Caleb, I was just about to leave a comment about Betterhelp.
This is like Caleb Hammer talking to Caleb Nail
I’m cryingggggg hahahahaha
Underrated comment 😭
LMAO
This made me giggle 😂😂
I snorted so hard I nearly choked
2024 Caleb VS 2014 Caleb
One was 100 percent gay and the other was only 10 percent 😔
@@salc325u a rard?
@@TheCreepyArchives probably 😔
@@TheCreepyArchivesu a gay?
literally ..
This looks like if Caleb was talking to himself from an alternate universe
LMFAOOO same thing i thought right away dawg
Bizarro Caleb.
Had to check the date… thought it might be Caleb’s April Fool’s self interview.
Holy mackerel we’re in the multiverse
Deadass uncanny. The back and forth in the intro already has me twisted
As a cyber-sec engineer, this guy lacks the focus, discipline, and work ethic to work remotely. Complete undisciplined flake that i wouldn't trust with the 'keys to the kingdom' as it were.
Bros fighting for his life to not admit his mom pays for everything lmaoooo
He’s say a lot but It’s painfully obvious he loves his job because he can work 4 days a month😂
When Caleb caught that he was double dipping with how the mom is paying for his transportation I almost cheered. That's not something that slipped his mind. He was purposefully misrepresenting things so he looked better.
When I was his age, I was living with my parents as well. I wasn't ashamed though - I worked, went to uni, cooked, clean and helped out my parents around the house.
Not paying rent at home isn't an excuse to not be helpful or learn skill sets for proper adulthood.
@@baconoftheark This is key. Living with your parents as an adult does not mean that nothing changes, even if you are not paying rent.
I moved out early, but many friends kept living with their parents for longer and their responsibilities increased compared to what they used to do in high school. It's like with homeschooling - if you do it right, you will end up a functioning adult, unfortunately the stereotype of being emotionally stunted exists for a reason
@@baconofthearkI agree, I feel like if you're living with you parents you should help with paying bills or doing some chores.
SHOCKED this kid is not involved in a pyramid scheme yet
How do you expect him to have time for a pyramid scheme in between his caddying 3 times a month and daily video gaming? Come on man, use your head.
Life coach 2025 - coming soon
Give it time.
Blockchain or crypto coming up?
😊@@joshpointoh
Dude's talking tax deductible when he's not even making enough to be taxed.
I was thinking about that too
😂
As a CPA, those comments are my favorite.
😂😂😂
Write it off!
This dude is the definition of "all talk, no walk". He is good at sounding confident in his voice and has most likely not been called on his crap that often.
Yeah I’ve never seen this channel before…. But it’s like he thinks he’s slick and was going to spout his BS and expects he is going to move on but got called out on everything he has claimed. I’m like 10 minutes in up to now.
Being that it's Texas, I like "all hat, no cattle"
He goes into the grocery store and buys just bread and drinks? What can you do with just bread? Not even peanut butter to go with it? Did these people never hear of Goodwill? He could get all the pots, pans, dishes, silverware, etc he needs for under $10. If he will be living at home, maybe Mom can teach him how to set up and use a functional kitchen. Maybe Caleb should partner with a company offering a course in basic life skills (shopping, cooking, meal prep/freezing meals).
Any person that says “leverage my time” or “leverage my money” spends way to much damn time watching these “financial gurus” and not enough time actually working
I am seeing more and more of that sort of mentality. Guys who watch 15 second reels think they know more than people who actually doing work. “Leveraging your time” you have no skills, experience, discipline to leverage your time with! I had one guy tell me a 401K was a waste of money….
Ouch
Whenever I hear ppl talk about their value for time and DoorDash saving them money cos their time is so valuable it’s lol. Maybe if you were a Fortune 500 ceo, but most likely these are ppl spending their time watching Netflix
@@マリー-v4pfr, the doordash saves you time then and now right but.... time is MONEY, they're going to spend a couple hours of their life earning back what was spent on DD
I disagree. It doesn't always work for everybody but OE on reddit speaks for itself. These kind of people just parrot ideas they don't actually understand and conceptualize them. They just assume like it will happen as if life is truly a "visionboard" and thats all it takes
Remote jobs don’t mean “work when you want”. Most remote jobs still have required at the the desk schedules. Emails, meetings, etc follow a 9-5.
Thank you for saying this! I was curious about WFH nursing positions because I wanted to do something other than bedside, but at this time I'd rather not work 9-5 every day, from home. Most positions I saw were just that.
I work remote with very flexible hours. I always start by at least 11am but when I'm extra good I'll start by 10. I still work to at least 5 or 6 everyday, and often times longer. No matter what time your chosen schedule is, you have A LOT TO DO. So it's all about getting it done and it's up to you to work through your never ending to do list in a timely manner. It's been stressful honestly lately because I've been handed more clients to take care of and they're big. But I'm looking for another remote job that I think will hopefully be busy but less demanding and higher paying.
Can confirm this 💯
yup wfh as i speak, i have a meeting at 9am every day on top of other meetings, they still can see if you are working or not lmaoo its still a job! lol but thankful
Just wait until he finds out that cybersecurity rapidly evolves and requires you to stay on top of it by constantly studying and learning new things. Then he will be in for a huge surprise when he has to do on-call differential on top of 40 hour work weeks and when there's an incident he will be putting in crazy hours... 9-5 would be paradise in cyber, it doesn't happen. He is also targeting a SENIOR level field along with a SENIOR level position in said field. He will be doing bottom of the barrel work for years before getting to where he wants to be.
It annoys me when people “talk” like they are on some elite level but have every excuse as to why they don’t do x y and z.
100% fluff indeed
And somehow they have no idea they are a such a caricature.
They think they have all of these unique qualities and abilities, and it's like, dude, I've met 100 of you. Exact same lame excuses, exact same "but it's different".
I was about to snap if he said, "that being said" one more damn time!
That part!!
Someday you'll be on his gaming prowess
Trying to excuse $1000 a month eating out expense because he doesn't own a $20 pan is WILD.
You know how much effort it takes to buy that $20 pan!? ... A ton
Amen!
This generation in a nutshell. 😂 I’m glad my kids are not like that!
@@Cat22275 oh honey, it's not a generation problem.
Plenty of people of all ages come into this show and bring up excuses after excuses and trying to defend their behaviour.
He's acting like he needs to buy that pan every single time he cooks instead of just once.
If you’re his girlfriend and you’re reading this, leave this boy. You won’t be his wife you’ll be his mommy.
I've been searching to see if someone else was going to recommend she run for the hills!
I agree he needs to learn to make a living, but if he does provide for her, is he her daddy and is that ok?
that’s just negative and not helpful to anyone at all
Kinda cringe telling someone to leave a relationship but hey you do you
@@hahamasala The point is he can't provide for himself.
It's sweet that Caleb had his little brother come on the show! 😊
Nice Profile pic! MXPX!!!
😂🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣😂
Yes they look exactly the same one is just older than the other
Bro: i wanna work in cyber security
Caleb: Plan. Budget. Buy a pan, bowl, plate, knife, spoon and fork.
Bro: that's too difficult 😅
This kids biggest problem is he thinks he’s a lot smarter than he is. The entitlement off the charts
That’s how this dude I know is. Talks around in circles, thinking he’s sounds smart. He didn’t even finish middle school.
The fact that this guy REFUSES to admit mommy supports him is infuriating. He’s trying to take credit for something he doesn’t deserve. I would LOVE to hear his mom’s viewpoint on this.
She's probably super hopeless about his future. He's already had 10 years of therapy.
At some point, you just have to let them be homeless (even for a short amount of time)
she likes him because he caddies for mom
I’m a newer listener and he may b the first person I don’t care if he goes into more debt. He can’t admit anything
Dude was definitely trying to lie, the accountability is lost on him. Stuck in denial.
- Barely has a job
- Can’t afford living expenses
- Doesn’t know how to cook
- Credit card debt
- Bad GPA
- Relies on mommy
- No plan for the future
- Plays video games competitively
- Expecting handouts
- Knows everything
Poor kid.
"competitively"
They always know everything
How damaged is his girlfriend?
He gonna be a poor man
You forgot the "ADHD" that makes a normal 9-5 job too hard to do.
Anytime I hear someone say “networking” it’s a red flag that they are going nowhere fast
B-but bro, Sigma Chad said that your "network is your networth"
Definitely connected to those who call themselves an “entrepreneur” after financing a “business opportunity” (coaching scam or MLM scam) with a credit card.
@@g00bers24😂😂😂
It has to be incredibly intentional
Dude is just full of excuses get off ur ass go to work!
Is he sure he doesn’t want to go into car sales? He’s got the car salesman conman speak DOWN
Perfect explanation of the way he talks lmao
I love that he thinks remote work automatically means it's flexible schedule. A lot of remote jobs require a regular schedule
Yeah I can basically step out to get a haircut or pick up some groceries here and there on my WFH days but the rest of the day I’m locked in my damn office lol.
Yeah I’m glued to my desk and my kid still needs daycare
If you have a cybersecurity job you will sometimes be working on "war room" footing AROUND THE CLOCK. It's NOT flexible, it's ON-DEMAND.
I mean on call sucks but atleast for me WFH makes my schedule extremely flexible
Mine is a 7 to 5 in my room all day 💀
Cyber security engineer here, his idea that cyber security will work for him because of his ADHD is a bad view imo. Cyber security deals with a ton of documentations and constant studying to stay on top of the field. Even penetration testing has a ton of documentation. Working in the compliance? Even more documentation. 100% an 9-5 office job. Not going to be an easy field for a guy who is lazy and blames ADHD for his struggles.
As someone going into cyber security with background in electrical engineering and UAS, it also requires a lot of learning and coding expertise which can be frustrating and difficult with those who have ADHD.
As a software eng with a cyber security background and aggressive ADHD, I can confirm documentation is the sucky bit. Breaking stuff however…
If you can't RTFM, you can't IT. Enterprise VoIP Engineer myself.
The Google Cert is also a joke for getting a job. It's a good foundation but won't get you a job. Now if you had Certs from Offsec that would perk up some ears for a job for red team.
Most jobs ppl think are "easy" have the most document work ever lol. I'm in property management and I have to do so much paper work, but ppl think I sit at home and do nothing. 😂
I too don't feel like having a job either. It's why I max out retirement funds annually so I can potentially live without having a job sooner.
💯 I love when people act like other people actually WANT to have “boring” jobs, and they’re clever enough to find a way around that without working hard 😂
I’m sorry but your username cracked me up
Fire method, baby
Rolling the dice for a 20! 😂😂
you a lawyer?😭
I'm 30 now. been listening to Caleb for a while; it helps to hear the kick in the pants as well as to know I'm not in such a bad way. Zero credit card debt, with about $50k now saved between myself and my partner for a down payment on a property. Working on a large emergency fund, I feel that is where I'm most lacking. Thanks for keepin it real, much love from Canada!
You’re doing great
🥳
That's a lotta Circle K Taquitos, let's goooo!!
his networking is talking to old retired men on the golf course 😂 this is gonna be a good one
fr networking doesnt matter if you do not have any skills that can help you back it up to leverage it.
I think his version of “networking”is trying ti get written into these old rich men’s wills. 😅
The minute he mentioned he plays Overwatch, I knew it was over.
@@basementality4924 There are still pro players. Blizzard restarted the pro scene as the OWCS, which basically let's FaceIt handle it, which are the same org that runs Counter Strike competitive
@@basementality4924colleges like mine still pay student to play apex, league, smite, rocket league etc.
OWL was a national League. He's talking of college league. National leage died, but college still exists.
@@basementality4924 National League is dead, college league still exists and many give full or close to full rides, like my own.
You know this guy is 100% toxic online
Overwatch is the new league lol
100%. This is the type of person that would fall for a pyramid scheme.
He has absolutely tried drop-shipping
This guy would have totally invested in NFTs 😂
LMAO - His career plan is “I’m hoping this will happen. I’m banking on my networking to produce my dream job that doesn’t require me to work, but get paid big bucks!” He’s going back to NY, because he knows Mommy and Daddy will get his old room back together and tell him what a special boy he is!
Waiting for his forex strategy
@@xcel007study ordinals
My husband was a golf caddy and he basically had the same mindset as this guy. He spent 10 years in golf course industry and he didnt get any opportunities from any of the “networking” he did at the golf course. He finally gave up and got a job at golftec as a golf coach. Now he has stable income and set schedule with 2 days off during the week and all holidays off plus pto. I would suggest this guy should try to get a job in golftec as well.
Brother, 99% of jobs are "boring" lol
Jobs are work, SHOCKER!! 😂
That's a large part of why they are paying ya.
They wouldn't pay you if it was fun.
@@michaelweyenberg6238 no then they'd crap buzzwords around it and talk people into paying them for the privilege of the experience.
99% of white collar jobs are boring.
He talks like he's smarter than everybody and talks down to everybody
Seems to be a pattern on this channel. I wonder if its some kind of defense mechanism for their ego.
@@b3dazzl3I think it’s not playing into their bullshit and whip them into real life
Yes🎉🎉🎉
He's led thru the magician energy , unfortunately has been over run by the shadow, the trickster . Caleb has a similar energy, however he's been able to harness it and implement in a much healthier way
Yep and has nothing but excuses in the chamber.
Hi Caleb, my name is Autumn and I was born deaf, I have cochlear implants now so I can hear. However, I still need captions to be able to understand anything I'm watching. I love watching your videos and all of them have had auto generated captions which isn't always accurate but I overall end up understanding. This video however does not have any captions at all, which is sad cause I love watching your videos so much. Im still going to try and watch this and turn up to the max so I can understand what's being said lol. But if it's not too much trouble and if you happen to see this, please have caption options for your videos. Id be so grateful. Either way I'll still watch your videos. Thank you Caleb, TAQUITOS,
Autumn :)
Not sure why the auto-captions are off here, that’s disappointing. Caleb, accessibility matters! Step up and make sure that Autumn and everyone else can enjoy the show 😊
I can enable auto captions now. Caleb posted they cut the sponsorship from the video so during reprocessing it was probably unavailable. Retry now Autumn :)
@@LethalBB thank you!
Hey Autumn! Sorry about captions not being available during your viewing, cutting something from the video and reprocessing from UA-cam because of that most likely was why they weren’t available :(
Internally we always want to minimize inconveniences like that for the audience and we’ll be sure to do our best in preventing something like this in the future.
We appreciate you bringing this up and supporting the videos! -Mika
Caleb turned off captions for this episode because he spent 25 minutes bashing deaf people.
"mental stress" this guy works 3 days a month and his mom pays for everything
this dude is so disrespectful and oblivious to how much of a blessing his mom is. every time he admits to her paying for something its always "a little bit". Your housing, college, and transportation are not "little things" or "a little bit". this kid is entitled and diluted
*deluded
*delulu
Sounds like my brother, mom bought him a car, lives rent free and is very disrespectful.
His mom didnt teach him to budget, cook, live as an adult. It's her fault too, she hamstrung her son and continues to enable.
@mithicash1444 Not only really good... good enough to get a full ride scholarship that covers 80% of his bills to go to college for nothing because he's going to community College.
Bro can't admit he's a loser lmfao
He looks like he's wearing a tiny cape.
Ok so I'm not the only one who thought he was wearing a little Superman cape at first glance...
It's a bird! It's a plane! It's... Some guy?
@@tylerkinley268It’s… not a credit card person
Looks a lot like an anime hoodie so fair
@alkarusalka it's the main character from jjk
If this guy didn't lie or dodge every question.. it would of been a 5 minute episode where he has two maxed out credit cards with no job, get a job THE END.
THIS. This need to be pinned. F this guy for wasting everyone’s time! He’s being such a douche
Caleb, thank you for being brutally honest with this guy. He is SCREWED if he doesn’t change his lifestyle, it’s hard to watch someone so young not willing to compromise and even work to live, at least most of the guests on this show are willing to get a 2nd job or a more menial one in the meantime whilst they sort themselves out. Unfortunately he may get a shock in the real world and that will be very soon!
beginning of the ep: “my mom helps me a little bit”
end: “I’m very aware I can’t survive without my mom”
She must be soo proud!!!
He must be in incredible shape with all these circles he's running.
“She took the PC I was using” bro she took her own computer back 😂
Probably for a real job 😂 even if not
I noticed this and thought the same thing lol he phrased it so weird, it was obvious what he meant. He was streaming from his girlfriend’s pc! Lol
Lol he phrases being too lazy to work more than 3 days a month as prioritising upward mobility...
That being said
LITERALLY.
23, "pro" gamer, barely works as a golf butler, has thousands in credit card debt, getting paychecks from mommy, doesnt own a car, cant afford rent, cant hold down the relationship, has no plan, afraid to drive on the highway, dude grow up.
"Wimpiest Momma's boy I ever met"
(Me): "Oh the dude from Monday is already back?"
Ha, most dudes on here are wimpy momas boys.
Hahahah I thought the same thing
😂
Same thought🤣🤣🤣
Teehee 😂
Bro fluent in yapping
Can be the greatest car salesman.
LOL!!!
@@thechrononaut1 "Yeah so this car has an engine and if you network you can upgrade. Idk how but yeah I heard"
😂😂😂😂😂
I think I'm most impressed by the fact that a girl is willing to put up with him....
No, that is the saddest part.
He's quite the catch, isn't he.
Egirl bro she lives halfway across the country
D1 athletes get all the girls 💪
I’m friends with his girlfriends roomate and she dead ass pays most of his bills on a monthly basis. It’s pretty sad
Watching Caleb yell at guests for being lazy helps me curb my desire to ignore my own smaller responsibilities, the little needs that I don’t naturally feel compelled go accomplish.
At a glance, the hood of his shirt makes him look like a little kid with a towel tied around his neck like a Superman cape. Really amplifies the childish-ness.
I can’t unsee this now, bro is a manchild
I just noticed that too haha.
Literally my first thought when I opened this vid.
@TaylorWilkz because that’s Caleb from the Spider-verse 🦸♂️
I think its a jujutsu kaisen themed hoodie
I've been in the golf business for 30 years now and some of that was spent with a caddie program at a private club outside a major metropolitan area. The caddies that showed up EVERY DAY, regardless of weather or IF there were "no loops available," were the first caddies that got called in OR were paired up with high dollar members on busy days. Just like with any job, it's ultimately all about the time and effort you put in during the down time to reap the rewards during the busy months. His mentality is all backwards and I hope he turns it around.
Show up with your “A-Game” every day and you’ll never have to look for a job. Jobs will seek you out.
"Showing up is half the battle"
When mom says we have Caleb hammer at home 😭😭
🤣🤣🤣
But the home version gives the worst financial advice, won't work, or cook 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@talyahr3302He's the Anti Caleb!
Bro should look into being a flex employee for Amazon. Not flex delivery driver. But flex part-time.
It's a warehouse associate position. You don't get benefits but you get to essentially build your own schedule by picking up shifts as they're posted. You could use that to work around your caddy job and still make income
I have severe unmedicated ADHD. Work a 9-5. Have a standing desk, get a solid night sleep, get exercise. Hard? yes. IMPOSSIBLE? NO
Same. I literally work 3 jobs, 7 days a week, have a small chicken farm and grow my own food at home. It sucks, but I'm stable with zero debt.
Cool. But obviously not everyone can do that. If we were all the same the world would be what it is. Never compare mental health of other ppl. Especially if other mental illness or health conditions are a factor. This dude needs a career not a summer job.
@@Thefluffytutu He needs to grow up, realize ADHD is a hurdle not a handicap, and learn that not having dopamine blasted into him 24/7 is normal.
I also have severe unmedicated ADHD! I work overnight in a more physical job that I find interesting and that keeps me way more engaged. This guy just doesn’t want to actually do the “work” part lol
Dude, good for you - not an easy undertaking. Keep up the amazing work 😊😊😊!
Friend: I work in IT. I've been a software engineer for 22 years. Programmer, Architect, Quality Assurance Enginner, DB developer, you name it. I've worked in offices as well as remote (since 2014). Overseas and in the USA. Remote works don't mean you sleep until noon. Yes, there is more flexibility but you still need to meet the deadlines and believe me: many times putting 8 hrs/day won't be enough. I have yet to work for a company where the IT team doesn't work an insane number of hours. Also: you never stop training: that's what I love/hate the most about this job. You cannot go 6 months without learning something new, which means sacrificing personal time to do it. If you're allergic to structure, discipline and working hard: IT is the last place you need to be in.
17:24: also: you can get a great job in IT without a college degree, but you need to put a lot of work towards becoming the best in an area (cybersecurity, data analytics, machine learning, etc); that requires dedication and a lot of discipline to sit and learn until you master it.
As a Security Analyst myself, please do not become one. This job is NOT entry level and you need to have critical thinking skills along with self-driven research. This guy sounds lazy, and that is the last thing we need in CyberSec/InfoSec.
@@joeygallegosI fear the cybersecurity boot camp people. If you’ve never experienced an enterprise environment, I don’t understand how a bootcamp can provide any value.
@@joeygallegos This guy wants to get into CyberSecurity but has no idea what it is or if he even has any discipline towards it. He is too all over the place.
I’m team lead of security engineering at one of the largest companies in the world. It is infuriating how people think it’s “so easy” to get into cyber security. It’s mainly due to the so called “tech experts” who tell people you only need a google cert or a boot camp certificate to get a 6 figure job in cyber. Yes it’s possible but not likely.
“You either lied before or lying now. Choose which one.” CALLLEEBBBBB COLD AF 😂🥶🥶
As his (now) ex-girlfriend’s sister, he was most definitely lying a lot in this video. He’s a pathological liar. He also never had his mom pay for his “ride shares”, my sister (his then girlfriend) drove him everywhere. She also furnished his apartment.
@@Anastxsiawell damn..that sucks. Yeah he doesn't seem to be accountable for things at all..just my take from his attitude
@@Anastxsia thanks for the update, I’m sorry your sister had to go throug that.
Anyone arguing groceries are more expensive than eating out, is just not living in reality.
The fact that this kid thinks that ANY of these adult high functioning golf players are going to remember him “if” he comes back shows how highly he views himself and how delusional he actually is. He must assume he makes an extraordinary impression.
Yeah, if anything, he’s convinced me never to use a caddy ever again. Cringe.
He definitely gave me the strong impression he's a twat
He is relying on one of these well off players to place him in a high paying job. Dude is just lazy and waiting for a golden opportunity to fall in his lap.
@@mattbaillargeon he's relying on miracles which have not happened yet as he approaches 30. Scholarship for gaming, connections from being a caddy but no effort to get him buy until he gets a break. Completely delusional.
What I wanna know is what he expects to get from them by networking with them. It's not like he wants to golf.
i don’t think he knows that when the 0% credit card interest rate expires, the new 30% or whatever rate retroactively applies to your unpaid balance
Ohh, i never knew that
Yeah, that’s how they make money.
That depends on the card.
I'm glad that I learned that lesson in my early 20s on a pretty low balance purchasing a few speakers for my car. Dumb, but it was a learning experience that only cost a couple hundred bucks in the end.
Wait so if you are late one payment then the interest accrues immediately with 30 pee cent ? Or how does it work ? Let's say I was supposed to pay back 10usd on 1 April but I didn't so on 2 April I already have 13 USD to pay back ?
There’s a lot of people out there who say absolutely nothing with the utmost confidence and it’s so fascinating 😂
I can see myself becoming this kind of person if I dont get my stuff together. Im glad I found these videos when i did.
Same
User name checks out
I laughed when he asked Caleb if he’d ever gone to a grocery store. He thought this was a reasonable question.
@@strangestecho5088I hope you set some boundaries after that
From someone who works in Cybersecurity doing red teaming (what the guests wants to do), it's pretty much impossible to find a remote job with no experience. Employers will want you in the office for the first year or so to learn from other members of the team before they see you as capable and trusted enough to do client work remotely. There's a lot of snake-oil bs on Cybersecurity being spread by "influencers" who are trying to sell you courses that tell you that you can land a 100k+ job with no experience.
This. Google certifications are good for getting an introduction to certain topics, but in my experience they’re not useful for getting interviews. You can just coast through the courses, complete a few quizzes, maybe a capstone project, and that’s it, but they’re not proctored. Pair that with an aversion to the 9-5, and you can quickly see this guy has pretty unrealistic expectations.
@@galoiscries1998 Yeah. I wouldn't even class them as certifications, they're just certificates. They don't hold any weight on a CV compared to some other entry level certifications such as Sec+
He wouldn't get a red teaming job anyway, It's not exactly entry level.
@@x_____________I completely agree. I completed the Google Data Analytics “certification” when I graduated. My now-employer thought it was interesting, but I ended up working in IT and far from a data analytics role. The only valuable module was the intro to relational databases and SQL.
It’s a good conversation starter, but lacks real substance when comparing it with actual certifications (CompTIA, AWS, Microsoft, and the like)
land the OSCP, and there might be a chance. 😂
OMG how do none of these people not understand that work is just work. You put the time in to survive!
And to reach your goals. I work to make money to put into stuff that I want to build.
Kids are told all their lives to "do something you love". That's pretty rare unless you have a true passion that you can make a living out of.
Exactly. work is not supposed to be fun. That's why they pay you to be there. If it was fun, people would do it for free.
I think social media plays a role in telling people if they grind at a regular job, then they are doing it wrong. I can't tell you how much digital marketing and get rich with minimal work courses pop up in all my social media platforms.
They are also cherry picking people that make for good content then making good life choices. Of all the people that probably apply to the show they chooses those that have been making the worst decisions more then the vast majority of people. Makes it entertaining. Stable people are not as fun to watch.
My sister is “Josh’s” “girlfriend” (they have since broken up), but he never had anyone pay for his Lyfts or Uber, my sister drove him everywhere. His apartment? My sister and her friend furnished his entire apartment (aside from the moldy food in his fridge and his questionable bedding). She LEFT him fast. Just a cautionary note to any woman who decides they want to be with him: he does NOT clean, he does NOT like to pay for anything, very much like what was stated in this video he does NOT like to work. We’re currently at his apartment with a U-Haul picking up everything that my sister and her friend bought. All of the dishes that my sister bought, DIRTY and some with mold on it, we decided to leave it for him, since we’re decent enough to leave some things that my sister bought. If I could make a whole video on this I could, but I’d rather not go into more detail on what we’ve encountered in his apartment. And to “Josh”: next time you move into a place payed for by your mother, and furnished by your next girlfriend, atleast treat the place with respect. You’ve got a nice apartment, many people have parents that can’t help them pay for this kind of place. You didn’t treat it nicely, if you’re looking for a place you can trash the way you did this apartment unit, then I’d recommend just renting out a room for a few months at Motel 8.
I'm sorry that happened to y'all..he's young and needs to grow up and I get the impression he blames his troubles on everyone else and doesn't ownership at all..
He mentioned it would be bad mentally being homeless..well tbh I feel like the way he "sounds" and doesn't want to work at all he will probably end up like that or unfortunately leech on someone else in the future :(
@@B_DOGG905 exactly. I mean dollar tree and dollar general has cute CHEAP stuff
He came on here for self improvement. Don’t put out his dirty laundry out on the internet especially since we don’t even know you are the real deal.
You seem like a real stand up person as well just airing buddies personal life details cause he dated your sister..
Grow up
This is a pretty fucked up comment. Sure he lied a lot but at least he came on here and embarrassed himself, you’re just doing waaaaay more damage bringing up past shit that wasn’t mentioned in the video
I don't like when Caleb wears the same shirt in the video that he wore for the little ads he does. It's harder to judge how far to go forward to skip them 🤣
I also do the same as maybe that was Caleb's goal because he knows.
Smart man lol
He saves money. He is a man. He has like 3 shirts, 33.33% chance the clips match
With all due respect, I’m so sick of hearing ADHD used as an excuse.
Absolutely agree!
It’s age and using it as an excuse/not treating it correctly and not advocating for better care. He said he’s been diagnosed for 10 yrs and it hasn’t improved!? Dude say it hasn’t and advocate for better results. It was hard to hold a normal 9-5 for me, missed appointments, forgot things etc when younger.
I’m now 39 was diagnosed 2 yrs ago, and it explained a lot. Like why I couldn’t make it through schools, and did make me wish I had went for help sooner. But I also don’t use it as an excuse for why I mess up still sometimes. The diagnosis HAS given me tools though, be it medication or being able to recognize symptoms and work through and with the condition. I was flying blind before because I just didn’t know, and just thought I didn’t fit in to this world or was broken lol. This guy has no excuse, he knows he has this. “Man up” and be an adult.
This is the most abused diagnosis next too depression. Yes you have some diagnosis and there are challenges but that doesn't unfortunately mean much to the rest of the world it's a diagnosis to help you get the tools and use the tools. Yes we all deserve some compassion and understanding yes but all the time it's this I got adhd ... Okay you have challenges working 9-5 then work Uber get a used civic or corolla and run Uber he can make all the "networking connections" he could ever dream of.
Same with BPD
My best friend has serious ADHD. He is a full-time, award-winning journalist and got his first major book deal 2 years ago.
There is a quote I read on a past financial audit that is really applicable here. “20 year olds are hilarious. You’re at a time in your life where you don’t know anything, but you’re very confident that you’re smarter than everyone else.”
The Dunning-Kreuger effect, if you will.
It’s why I prefer guests in their late 20s and up to be fair, they’re usually either more accountable or way worse without just seeming kinda entitled
@@user-yq7hd9wg5oprefrontal cortex doesn’t fully develop until 25. Kids also don’t read these days, they’re just iPad zombies.
It’s not just 20 year olds lol. It’s a certain type of person throughout the entirety of their life
@@kylekampa6721
20 year old are adults ONLY in the sense of legality of age.
the true adult 20 years sadly come at the experience of traumatic life.
otherwise a cushy life literally denies children from feeling the consequences of their actions.
so yeah adults in their 20s have been in school LEARNING but not really feeling the experience of their choices. and its moreso a problem if the standardized school system doesn't teach financial literacy classes.
just think, kids i mean adults can run up a 50 to a 100k loan for education. they can finance cars before even securing long term stability. so yeah lots of these young adults sadly crash and learn along the way.
31:30 “when’s the last time you’ve been to a store and like..tried to buy things to..make those things.”
BRUH I am CACKLING 😂
I'm dead😂 homie bought a bunch of random unnecessary things that are expensive and equated that to buying groceries to make meals
My husband has ADHD and is going into tech. He’s one of the hardest working people I’ve ever met and actually prefers a 9-5 because having a consistent schedule is good for people with ADHD
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I have a good friend with pretty strong ADHD. She has a very routine 6-3 job. Prefers it.
Agree. My husband also has ADHD, is a programmer, and usually works about 10-12 hours per day. This guy is ridiculous!
I have ADHD and can confirm this kid is using it as an excuse to be lazy
Exactly right. My husband is also an ADHD developer and if somethings not on the schedule it doesn’t get done. Having routine is crucial for functioning well as an adult with ADHD, to keep you from procrastinating/forgetting.
Yeah I’m wondering if this kid has ever tried working a 9-5 or if he just heard from some online motivational grindset videos that a 9-5 job is the worst thing ever
"Roll the dice and hope to get a 20"
A true man of culture
We thought the exact same thing 🔥🎱
Didn't invest in his luck feat
I think it's crazy because Caleb mentioned a month back that he didn't know what BG3 was
Not everyone fizzled out, I worked full time as a Fedex delivery driver and graduated Cum Laude with my BBA in Supply Chain Management in July 2021. I grinded the shit out not going out much and paid for my degree out of pocket, lived on ramen and sandwiches, I have no debt.
Good for you!😊😊😊😊
Killing it! Keep up the good work
@@emilybickel9370 grind never stops, I’m one final exam away from a MS in Business Analytics, still debt free. Got a big boy job outta college and didn’t let my lifestyle creep I drive a 1994 geo metro to work. It cost me $1000 in 2019 been daily driving it and putting every extra dollar I make into my classes and SPY.
Wait, remote cyber security? Those are rare. Most cyber security jobs have to be in person due to what theyre working with. Remote inherently makes things less secure.
Big Caleb interviews Little Caleb.
The Caleb that never grew up. Alternate universe
@@samanthafreeman4315Reverse Caleb.
@@REXae86Belac
He should do a survey of his subscribers to see how many have improved their finances by watching this channel. Every videos I watch, there are people in the comments talking about the changes they have made and their successes, Always good to hear! I'm rooting for you all.
I'm a senior in high school and honestly all of this information is incredibly insightful I never rly thought Abt how impactful good financial management is until I started watching this. It's actually insane and i hope other people are realizing how important personal finances are!!! :)
I used the Ramsey system but I just found put about caleb yesterday. Hes like evil Dave Ramsey 😆 🤣 ...both work though
I fixed mine by developing my own plan about 10 years ago? I then started watching Ramsey and now just watch Caleb to rot my brain lol.
I just shout NO TAQUITTOS at myself when I am driving around thinking oooo I could just stop and get blah blah
This "I don't know anything, but I know everything" mentality is insane.
Dunning-Kruger poster child
Literally and I’m 26 I have NEVER had a credit card and I was still able to buy a car people getting credit cards is one of the biggest mistakes, don’t spend money u don’t have and u have zero debt
@@Jasmine-ju2yfcredit cards aren’t bad if you know how to use them. all you have to do is just pay it off every month and don’t spend what you don’t have. I don’t know why so many struggle with that
@@Jasmine-ju2yfconsumer debt is bad, but when you get to higher levels everyone uses debt to their advantage
6:56 You know it's bad when you got Caleb going into disappointed Asian father mode within the first 10 minutes
Trying to argue eating out for all of your meals every day is cheaper than grocery shopping is insane. Why are people so helpless when it comes to shopping for food?
I have many friends who make less than 32k USA a year who get ubber eats 3x a week and eat out. Its the "an app for that" excuse and just easy lazy excuses. Plus cooking will land you a partner, not ordering uber eats haha
Convenience is what the issue is especially these aps
Don't know how to cook. You'd be shocked how many people can barely make boxed macaroni.
But... but... he might have to buy a $10 pan!
honestly in some places it depends, ive lived in a place where i’ve literally priced both out and it has been some months less expensive to eat out once a day than have enough groceries to eat multiple times a day- i genuinely think apart of the problem is the current economy 🥲👍
An "adult" that doesn't have dishes to cook and eat from is insane. This person can vote.
Lmao good point
i thought he was 18 then i went back and hes 23! with no dishes
Not like he would though😂 probably doesn’t
And probably thinks he knows everything about politics and why people need to be taxed more.
So can crack addicts. Your point?
I feel like Caleb is the Judge Judy of this genre and I love it so much. I get yelled at but I also learn so so much and want to do better.
"what are you?!" is my new favorite exclamation 😅
Software engineer here.
If you work in cyber security particularly if you’re contracted with the federal government, you will often be working more than 9-5. They can be very flexible but these jobs are not always magical high paying jobs where you work 2 hours a day. Also very hard to break into.
You might also be working an overnight at some SOC for peanuts because everyone wanted to be virus/malware detectives but 99% of cybersecurity is reminding people NOT TO SHARE THEIR GODDAMN CREDENTIALS FUCK
If you want to get into cybersecurity/IT, get an entry level IT job, and while you're there, see what that company or those kinds of companies actually need. Then study/certify accordingly.
Exactly that, I have spent weeks straight in data centers until 4am then going to get a few hours of sleep at a hotel then going right back to it. When an incident occurs it can be hell.
Wait till he is on call and has to fix stuff at the drop of a hat. Might mess with his high level Overwatch gaming
@@sweep_auto For real, I love getting woken up at 3am because alarms are flooding in from SIEM at a location. Gets really awesome when I have to drive on site at that time.
Last week we had a production deployment go south and I slept 20 minutes in my chair during 72 hours of straight hell.
This man is a child, a lot of people do jobs they don’t like because they have do. Sometimes life isn’t fair.
he is still a child 23 is a baby. he has room to grow
I agree just about everyone has to work a job at some point that they don't like, but in most places you can get a better job at some point. Or have made financial choices to no longer need that crap job
I wish people also considered that you can make your job, if not fun, agreeable. There may be a few nice people, you are learning, you are applying yourself, whatever. I think there is inherent value in our commitment to it, even if we want to look for something else.
Honestly if he wants a job that doesn’t require you to sit at a desk he could always work on a farm.
I typically don’t comment on others’ weight, but since Caleb has been so open about his weight loss journey and the struggles behind it…. GO CALEB!!! I SEE THE PROGRESS!!!! SO PROUD OF YOU
I can see it too, good job Caleb!
Me too!! 🎉
I read comments that now Caleb is in their heads everytime a taquito is about to be purchased and it's true! Now I hear taquitos in my mind when it is just instant gratification BS and just put them back. Thanks Caleb!
Im exhausted! The mental gymnastics with this kid is insane, he probably has a better chance getting a gymnastics scholarship at this point.
Did you hear how Caleb is a gay pervert?
When people say “making connections” and “I can’t disclose that” they’re lying to themselves and have no idea wtf they’re talking about and can’t admit it
These people who have convinced themselves that eating out is cheaper than grocery shopping are ridiculous!! It is not even close. I used to overuse DoorDash and I was spending over $40 some days on just food for that day. Now I only grocery shop and I can use $50 to get me through an entire week and never feel hungry or unsatisfied. It’s absolutely not even close.
Exactly!! When I was pregnant with my daughter, my pregnancy cravings were no joke. I spent almost $200 using door dash and Uber eats every single day. Thank God it was just at that time but I couldn’t do it again, I’d rather cook.
When you cook for yourself, eating the food when it’s still hot is an option. Not with food ordered off of a delivery app.
Well, more that it CAN be. It can also be a lot more expensive than you might think depending on what you want to eat. But yes, if money is the issue, cooking at home can be much cheaper while having decent quality, but maybe not exactly what you want. some things like an air fryer make stuff a lot easier.
As someone who used to think that after doing my house finances, it 100% is FUCKING not😂 shut that shit down as soon as I had the numbers.
in ny its really close tho. Assuming people just eat in the restaurants and not use door dash or uber eats. Everything costs 40 percent more than it did 2 years ago
I wish Caleb told him to get cookware from the thrift store. It’s so cheap and you can find great quality items!
As Chili from Bluey says “boring things are still important”
A+ reference
Bluey is the greatest children’s show of all time
Caleb. You are killing me with these people who don’t think they have to work.
“Nobody wants to work anymore” is actually a real issue, I thought it was a made up propaganda but this channel shows us is real
I’ve also never seen him be more patient with anyone. It’s kinda bizarre lol
Caleb questioning his gamer status really got under his skin 💀
Holy hell it really burned him. The kid really needs a reality check
My son's teacher told me that the most frequent answers to what do you want to do when you graduate are be a pro-gamer and be an influencer. It's a little scary how many think it's a viable career path
I mean when you pin your entire self worth on being mediocre at a video game (top 40 in North America for a relatively dead game) it’s sort of all you have. He mentioned doing his degree for 2-3 years with a “I will” implying that he hasn’t started yet. At this point he’s 4-5 years behind his peers not to mention the classes skipped in secondary school. It’s sort of a vicious cycle where you play video games to escape reality but in doing so you’re making your situation even worse.
@@andyh964top 40 for a game with over 24 active million players in the past month is pretty damn good wtf do you mean. Idk how viable of a career it is but idk why people are trying to say top forty is “mediocre” that’s ridiculous.
@@andyh964to be fair I started my career at age 28. My undergrad was useless so went back for a masters in a different subject
Bro really pulled up to a financial audit dressed like Yuji
The first guest screening question should be “do you think eating at fast food restaurants or Doordashing is cheaper than grocery shopping?” If they answer yes then the crew will automatically know if the guest is hopeless.
This kid is the result of parents who spent every cent they had on him, who never knew boundaries and never had to work for anything. Digusting.
We need a parent / child audit! Would love to see if his mom agrees that she doesn’t support him 😂
3:30 Watching this in Dec 2024! Hope he paid it off
I’m a cyber security architect. Entry level talent usually starts at the help desk… this kid is doomed.
But... but his networking?
@@samanthafreeman4315I know you’re joking but you won’t find cybersecurity folks at a golf course. We are too business studying and up skilling 😂
Yeah and he’d have to go through levels of at least CompTIA right?
@@Britt4880not if he has a degree
@@LostRams oh really? I thought even with a degree you usually still needed certain certs
Grandiose at its finest. He is above getting a peasants job. He is networking to start at rhe top by bypassing all the grunt work it takes it get there. Still waiting for this CEO job to fall out ot rhe sky. People need to support me while I wait.
The crazy thing is golfers do not give a shit. I work with them and they are not tryna play with their money with some random kid. That’s like being a barista in Hollywood hoping a celeb would notice you.
Saying he was third in his lobby literally cut him so deep hahah
LMFAO 😂😂😂
Hammer really does know nothing about Overwatch though lol
@@njc9911 Dude it's a video game. I guarantee you nobody outside of it cares.
Is there a way to watch the replay they are talking about?
This is the kind of guy who trash talks over voice comms lmao I feel so much better abo my recent round
When he tried to say he has tried to go grocery shopping and "failed in practice":
Oh ya? Name 10 grocery stores.......
as someone with ADHD, having an irregular schedule made me super sluggish. now i have a regular, overly busy (i need to fix that part…) schedule and i am so productive that i never rest. i don’t recommend that, but my point is that ADHD is NOT a reason for being lazy. it paints a bad picture of us. i have always so badly wanted to be productive and i always thought i’d thrive with an irregular schedule and then wondered why i was always depressed, anxious, and got nothing done. the regular schedule totally fixed it for me! not saying it works for everyone, but he at least needs to give it a TRY for goodness sakes.
Agreed! The regular schedule is a lifesaver. You can get bored AT work, but the trick is to just blow through your work in the morning all at once. i also have ADHD and agree strongly, I love my 9-5
I’ve been having this problem! Are you taking stimulants as well?
As an IT engineer in big boy pants I’d like to let this guy know that his work ethic will not mesh well with cyber security, or any other career in IT. It’s a brutal field with long hours and ulcer inducing stress.
This young man wouldn’t survive the Helpdesk/ServiceDesk. If you don’t have a good work ethic you won’t make it in IT period.
Don’t let stress affect you. I’ve been in security for 15+ years and have never ‘cared’. I clock in, do what I can and call it. Please don’t let work affect your health.
@@user-ri4qk1xy3c Easier said than done when you have looming deadlines and clients/managers breathing down your neck.
What do you mean, should be about to play 6 hours of Overwatch and work 2 hours a day, right?
That definitely doesn't sound boring, though. That meets one of his criteria.
This kid is weirdly ungrounded and brutally honest at the same time. I am not convinced that he cannot be turned around with the right guidance and mentor. I think there is a glimmer of hope in this episode.
@@strangestecho5088 that's literally what every Boomer, Gen Y, and Gen Z taught us. "just do the job and you will like the job." yeah, "like the job" my a**. i realized that too late the hard way. thxu common sense for ruining my life.
@@GBR9794 your generation is the only generation that refuses to work. get outa here.
I've been in similar shoes. He needs to hit bottom or close to it to ever snap out of whatever he's doing now. The moment mommy can't support him anymore he will get a wake up call. Only then can he turn it around