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  • @findparadise
    @findparadise Рік тому +225

    Lima reminds me of a first year university student trying to reach the word count on an essay without doing any of the readings

  • @RaccoonNation
    @RaccoonNation Рік тому +349

    If Lima had any idea what she was talking about and was even slightly trained in the field of Recovery (as I am) she would’ve taken a class on Recovery Messaging, where proper terms and correct language is taught.
    She would have learned that her sisters developed a *dependence* upon (rather than an addiction to) their legally Dr prescribed medications.
    She also would’ve learned that one of the worst things you can do to someone suffering with any mental health condition is to capitalize upon their illness.. as she has done with her sisters.
    Third she would’ve taken an Ethics class that included patient rights and HIPAA laws.
    Limas actions and words could have a detrimental impact on someone in recovery by contributing to a clients feelings of mistrust (which many people in recovery already struggle with).

    • @Rebecca-1111
      @Rebecca-1111 Рік тому +28

      I know the HIPPA law she neglected with different people. 🤔 Very strange. The truth always comes into the light. Never seen it fail yet sometimes takes time. It's coming.😊

    • @B-NewJersey
      @B-NewJersey Рік тому +12

      FACTS FACTS FACTS !!!!

    • @JessaLynn8
      @JessaLynn8 Рік тому +9

      Great points! Well said!

    • @PNWCagey-Dub
      @PNWCagey-Dub Рік тому +30

      I came here to make this exact comment. Lima is dangerously incompetent.

    • @Aarrrow
      @Aarrrow Рік тому +38

      Also, I have NEVER heard of ANY psychiatrist prescribing Suboxone for Bipolar Disorder. That just isn't a thing.

  • @backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594
    @backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594 Рік тому +136

    I think I want to be an Olympic trainer. I'm going to get tax money from the government to fund my business. My cousins boyfriend knew a guy who's cousin was in the Olympics so therefore I have first hand real life experience. I'm a professional. Anyone who disagrees I will sue for defamation. Taking deposits for future training now🙄

  • @kalima9235
    @kalima9235 Рік тому +125

    when I listen to her talk about this story with calling the police on her sisters and them getting arrested, ect... I feel like we're hearing a fluffed up version of the first time she attempted to put someone in a conservatorship but ended up failing. She's just advocating for ways to put vulnerable people in that situation easier, right?? You know...so she can do it. She's not advocating for people to seek help, she's not providing any details about the alternative solution she offers or doing studies/getting an education in this area but claims to know how to treat mental illness. This just screams con artist all the way

    • @ThatSurpriseWitness
      @ThatSurpriseWitness  Рік тому +36

      “Step 1: Conservatorship or jail”

    • @Magic-dn4yp
      @Magic-dn4yp Рік тому +10

      Foreal, she probably spent two hours otp with the police trying to Convince them to take her sisters to jail & they were like… there are no grounds too…

    • @kalimoore8642
      @kalimoore8642 Рік тому +3

      Irrelevant but I saw your user name and thought it was me 😂

    • @kalima9235
      @kalima9235 Рік тому +2

      @@kalimoore8642 🤣

    • @stupid2do2
      @stupid2do2 5 місяців тому

      Well, then it's whispering Bottom B*tch

  • @jlcollins7673
    @jlcollins7673 Рік тому +256

    The part that bothers me the most is...there is no way both the sisters have the EXACT SAME diagnosis and every symptom every single time.
    How is ANY doctor not asking questions!!!!!!! It makes me crazy!!

    • @sciencenotstigma9534
      @sciencenotstigma9534 Рік тому +84

      Right? Lima talks about her sisters as if they’re one person, with one illness. It’s just bizarre and obviously questionable.

    • @efolinsky
      @efolinsky Рік тому +50

      As a licensed therapist who is plural…..
      I agree
      Even for identical twins

    • @DeluluNews
      @DeluluNews Рік тому +39

      SAME! I just comment the same thing.. why does she discuss them like they are one person.. two people would had separate reactions - point blank period.. twins or not.

    • @sciencenotstigma9534
      @sciencenotstigma9534 Рік тому +34

      @@DeluluNews Yes! That’s what’s creepy…not her sisters, but how she talks about them. Where did this weirdo come from? I am so glad I’m not in her head space (even if I am poor and she’s living the life), but would sure like to know what goes on there. If anyone needs their head examined, it’s Lima. I’m sorry…I am not a mean person, but the things she says are scary and worrisome.

    • @DeluluNews
      @DeluluNews Рік тому +24

      @@sciencenotstigma9534 there are WORSE things than being poor, truly... There are real evils at play with people who talk about other human beings the way she does.. it is truly mind-blowing.

  • @Shyfren
    @Shyfren Рік тому +217

    Lima up here projecting her narcissism and mental illness on her far MORE INTELLIGENT, CREATIVE and beautiful sisters! These girls, above all else deserve freedom and PRIVACY! It’s outrageous that she spills all their supposed alleged mental health issues right into the public. It’s criminal just what we’ve SEEN HER DO TO THEM! Keep slaying it, playa you’re a true hero!

    • @RAralar
      @RAralar Рік тому +18

      I was wondering if Lima was violating her sisters HIPPA rights

    • @Aarrrow
      @Aarrrow Рік тому +18

      ​@RAralar Only mental health professionals have to adhere to HIPPA Laws, as far as I'm aware. Unless she has a license, the only crime she may be guilty of is defamation. I can almost guarantee that most of what she has said is a lie and/or incorrect.
      She literally said her sisters were prescribed Suboxone by a psychiatrist for their Bipolar Disorder. I can tell you that no reputable psychiatrist would prescribe a medication for opiate addiction to treat Bipolar Disorder.

    • @CLB134
      @CLB134 Рік тому +18

      In dysfunctional, narcissistic or alcoholic family dynamics, when a member (or members, in Dahlia & Dia’s case) of the family is projected upon by the narcissist/s & their enablers as being severely mentally ill, unable to think for themselves, etc., that member is forced into the role of the “identified patient” of the family. The family projects & blames all of their issues & dysfunction on the identified patient. Instead of focusing on themselves & their mental state, the focus is all on “taking care” & “helping” the identified patient. The narc/s believes it makes them look good, plus it serves to distract them from their own mental illness, & lastly, it serves as a way for them to take out their deep-rooted shame on the victim.

    • @Aarrrow
      @Aarrrow Рік тому +2

      @bonniedwyer8523 I do not have the link, I'm sorry. It was in one of BJ's videos. Let me figure out which one and I will comment again to let you know which one to watch. 😁

    • @Aarrrow
      @Aarrrow Рік тому +12

      @bonniedwyer8523 ua-cam.com/video/b0twUppY6Z4/v-deo.html
      She mentions it at 5:10 in the original Soft White Underbelly video titled Aura-Lima Jevremovic. She claims that they were prescribed Suboxone for issues related to the "cocktail of medications they were on." But you are prescribed Suboxone in MAT treatment for opiate addiction. Even if they were dependent on their medications, they would never have prescribed Suboxone for that unless they were withdrawaling from an opiate. None of the medications she listed are opiates so I find it really hard to believe that they were prescribed Suboxone by a psychiatrist.

  • @CoolOPMan
    @CoolOPMan Рік тому +60

    I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and have been working in mental health for over 10 years. In those ten years, I have never met someone diagnosed with DID. Not only that, but I also have never talked to a fellow therapist who has met someone with DID. DID is perhaps the most rare mental health diagnosis in the DSM. The odds of both twins having DID is laughable. It's beyond unbelievable. It's frankly impossible.

    • @shannap.lawnerd125
      @shannap.lawnerd125 Рік тому +3

      Thank you. Yet soooo many people on this Almighty Algorithm have said it’s similar in occurrence to the amount of people who have red hair (“gingers”)… Something along the lines of 2% of the population. 😵‍💫 I ALWAYS appreciate a professional opinion. So, thank you, again. 🤓💪🏽⚖️

    • @ornamentalhermit333
      @ornamentalhermit333 3 місяці тому

      They don't even teach DID at university. My classmates begged my teachers to make a masterclass on DID and they said they've literally never met any patients with it and that we probably wouldn't either, and that's why they don't teach about DID on psychology schools. It's so rare they don't even bother to mention it.

  • @badbilly1083
    @badbilly1083 Рік тому +163

    If I was a former “patient” of Lima I would find the best medical malpractice attorney in my state and unleash the hounds. She seems to have a ton of skeletons in her closet that are just waiting to be exposed in court.

    • @welsh.truth.dragon3914
      @welsh.truth.dragon3914 Рік тому +25

      Agreed. But she picks on the vunrable , people who have no money . Drug addicts and the homless. X

    • @MA-ir8oc
      @MA-ir8oc Рік тому +11

      Bam should be doing that but since he is a little too unstable, i think it would be hard to get an accurate account on the whole situation.

    • @sourgreendolly7685
      @sourgreendolly7685 Рік тому +19

      @@MA-ir8ocWhich is a solid reason he shouldn't be doing that. Also it could be very retraumatizing with stuff like this. I don't blame him for a second if he just wants to move on with his life, especially having lost so much of it not only to addiction but Lima's scheming too

    • @lillymurray8408
      @lillymurray8408 Рік тому +7

      @@princess-violetsome take on cases like this for free. Very good lawyers too. Especially being that she has zero medical schooling for this stuff. It would be a slam dunk, they know they’d get paid in the end.

    • @Promontory_Flipping
      @Promontory_Flipping Рік тому

      I WAS almost a victim of this very person. She wasn't going by Lima at the time, but she was rounding up kids in jersey to get em into Florida shuffles. "Oh you'll be living at a resort, I'm hot, you need to trust me". Luckily I could SMELL the evil, but she took a good number of good young girls and boys and they are GONE now. Go ahead ban my account again. I'll make another.

  • @mihoart
    @mihoart Рік тому +46

    Isn't Dissociadid a scammer as well? No wonder these two liked each other.

    • @human_plant
      @human_plant Рік тому

      no

    • @phoebesmith8154
      @phoebesmith8154 Рік тому +29

      Depends on who you talk to… Dissociadid’s fans, or everyone else lol

    • @mihoart
      @mihoart Рік тому +4

      This is bonkers, she's such a bad actress!

    • @Em_Elizabeth
      @Em_Elizabeth 10 місяців тому +4

      They collaborated on one video, that's not exactly liking each other but yeah, Dissociadid is a whole other can of drama.

  • @juliamoon6562
    @juliamoon6562 Рік тому +101

    I get the feeling that this is part of a bigger operation and Lima is just the one pushing it but she has people backing her, likely powerful people. The way she worked with Mark and then they got Amanda's dad involved, and she gets others to take her side on this publicly. Of course, you mentioned, the military ties as well. Keep digging BJ you're doing a fantastic job. Love your sass girly.

    • @RogerLewis-ey2tt
      @RogerLewis-ey2tt Рік тому

      Lima's big pitch is to criminalize being homeless, forcibly moving the "unhoused" into supposedly nurturing, healing institutions AND OFF THE STREETS OF LA AND SF! And then making it almost impossible for them to leave "treatment". Think of how THAT thought appeals to someone getting a whiff of sh1t as they're helped out of their chauffeured car

    • @MeriRose2024
      @MeriRose2024 Рік тому +3

      I'm so intrigued by where these twins freaking currently are

    • @darlenea653
      @darlenea653 Рік тому

      Yes, and she’s been very sloppy. They (backers)are taking advantage of what they can from this knowledge wise and she will take the fall. My opinion.

  • @painalpeggy
    @painalpeggy Рік тому +57

    dissociadid controversy runs deep, theres so much info in the sub I been on it for a while but even I havent combed through it all - its endless..

    • @ThatSurpriseWitness
      @ThatSurpriseWitness  Рік тому +19

      Which one? I’m investigating

    • @painalpeggy
      @painalpeggy Рік тому +18

      ​@@ThatSurpriseWitnessr/dissociadid

    • @CRS406
      @CRS406 Рік тому +4

      Lots of timeline videos on @michelle_mana too!!

    • @LennyPepper
      @LennyPepper Рік тому +6

      @VangelinaSkov has made some videos too

    • @BROWNlES
      @BROWNlES Рік тому +4

      ​@@ThatSurpriseWitnessyou're in for a wild ride. 🎢

  • @Maisondebase
    @Maisondebase Рік тому +103

    Only half way through this and what really strikes me is how scripted and memorized her story about her sisters being wrongly diagnosed is when she’s talking about it to others ….it’s like she’s literally memorized a speech to tell people over and over, almost like a bad phone sales person. So off putting! but what about her isn’t…..

    • @ThatSurpriseWitness
      @ThatSurpriseWitness  Рік тому +55

      “Growing up, my father was very abusive to my sisters and I. I remembered everything and they forgot everything 🤖”

    • @Maisondebase
      @Maisondebase Рік тому +15

      @@ThatSurpriseWitness after commenting this and I continued the video when you said “same old script” I was like YES! It’s so weird, like a flat out scripted speech, I don’t see how anyone could fall for her BS haha 😂 it’s sooo weird. Love your work BJ! Keep going!!!

    • @Barba_Fett
      @Barba_Fett Рік тому +11

      @@ThatSurpriseWitness DID puts memories in different parts of the brain because you can't deal with the abuse. My kid was 13 when they started having memories of their abuse. Comprehensive seizures was part of that. No therapist would see them the said it had to be someone who was trained in childhood trauma or they could traumatize her. Which we were told would be worse than doing nothing. I am willing to bet that is what happened to her sisters. She probably tried to give them therapy and caused them to go catatonic. I was told if one alter told me about abuse I could not tell any others about it or it could cause major issues.

    • @lillymurray8408
      @lillymurray8408 Рік тому

      @@Barba_Fett….. while we agree with you for real cases of DID. Lima is lying. Also, it’s extremely uncommon for twins to have the same diagnosis…… multiple licensed professionals have sounded off about this in the comments. Limas story is scripted and rehearsed. She shouldn’t need a script for the truth. Period.

    • @RogerLewis-ey2tt
      @RogerLewis-ey2tt Рік тому

      Tyvm. Why others cannot see this...I don't understand

  • @AlpinePreparedness
    @AlpinePreparedness Рік тому +55

    I have a real problem with people being an ‘expert’ in an area with no formal training or education (Lima)

    • @backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594
      @backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594 Рік тому +4

      Yes I was always under the impression trained educated researchers/ developers were a requirement in medical treatments. Who knew high scorer of Mario Kart can be the qualification to develop treatment of medical/ mental conditions. I surely won't seek "professional" help if I should ever need it.

    • @AlpinePreparedness
      @AlpinePreparedness Рік тому +2

      @@backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594 oh yes exactly. Now I feel like my 10 years of university were a waste. I could have achieved my dreams so much quicker with no training at all!

  • @francescaetc
    @francescaetc Рік тому +16

    Amen to the part about *ditching all the damn labels!!*
    My old therapist retired recently and in my first conversation with a new provider she asked me, "So what brings you here today?" to which I replied: "Well I have been *TOLD* over the years that I have *Childhood Trauma based PTSD, OCD, Severe Anxiety, Depression, Bi-Polar DIsorder, Mania, ADHD, and Sensory Processing Disorder* That being said, can we please reference these traits as 'quirks' vs. disorders because I prefer to never think of myself as a victim and I truly feel that I don't suffer from disabilities. On the contrary, I think they are my uniquely special *abilities* which I have developed from a life full of experience. Hard sometimes, sure. But mostly a life that is adventure-filled, soul-growing, lovely, wonderful, confusing, beautiful, incredible LIFE

    • @spiritqueen1978
      @spiritqueen1978 Рік тому +2

      Ignore the person Naomi that made that ignorant statement. She is all over this page today trying to trigger people. She/he/they/ them obviously has issues themselves.

    • @simplymonca
      @simplymonca Рік тому

      Yes, what Sprit said. Taking care of it now!

  • @christamarie818
    @christamarie818 Рік тому +47

    As a former junkie, I swear Lima's whole demeanor and voice screams that she is ZONKED on benzos 🤔🤔

    • @ediesaffron3593
      @ediesaffron3593 Рік тому +6

      Yes!!! Same here 😂 I was thinking either that or opiates lol

    • @gnolalegna6432
      @gnolalegna6432 Рік тому +2

      For sure

    • @lacey892
      @lacey892 Рік тому +4

      same.. especially in this video, she's speaking sooooo slooowwwwlu it's like come on girl

    • @ChillyIllie
      @ChillyIllie Рік тому

      She sounds similar to Warren Jeff's of the FLDS cult. I think she's trying to woo people with her voice to distact them from her lies and visible inner snake, but she just sounds off putting and creepy. Same with her body language.

    • @eileenann1510
      @eileenann1510 11 місяців тому +4

      Her eyes dont ever look anywhere but exactly forward. Wtf.

  • @FukaiKokoro
    @FukaiKokoro Рік тому +88

    My issue is she makes it seem scary to look for help. Because you'll be put under care of people like her. Given a ton of meds you don't need. And possibly due to maltreatment

    • @sciencenotstigma9534
      @sciencenotstigma9534 Рік тому

      💯. Lima thinks people should be locked up if they can’t afford rent, which has been rising faster than wages for years. What if you had an actual mental illness? Like approximately 1 in 5 people in the U.S. do, at the moment? Close to half of people in the U.S. will have a mental illness at some point in life. Of course, Lima can’t lock everyone in her proposed mandatory residential treatment facilities. She only wants the most vulnerable ones she can experiment on and profit from, it seems. Scary, indeed!

    • @bridgetsieger2261
      @bridgetsieger2261 Рік тому +20

      This makes me wonder, a lot, why my last therapist was asking me inappropriate questions about my money, bank, and does my family have someone else in charge of it?
      I got rid of her as she creeped me out but Why would a therapist ask about $$ in that way when it wasn’t even the topic?

    • @simplymonca
      @simplymonca Рік тому +5

      @@bridgetsieger2261 Wow!

    • @bridgetsieger2261
      @bridgetsieger2261 Рік тому +14

      @@simplymonca I think this is more common than we all thought.

    • @sciencenotstigma9534
      @sciencenotstigma9534 Рік тому +4

      @@bridgetsieger2261 Very good call! Run, don’t walk, if you’re getting those questions.

  • @Neffie42
    @Neffie42 Рік тому +42

    She is a scary person. The monotone script reading creeps me out. She never looks away from the camera at all. Does anyone watch her video and think she is valid? I think she has some of the issues she talks about as well, POSSIBLY…

    • @19Delain
      @19Delain Рік тому +4

      I agree!! Something seems off about Lima, In my opinion.

  • @FukaiKokoro
    @FukaiKokoro Рік тому +75

    She's literally describing herself when talking about her sisters treatment.
    Wrong diagnosis, wrongful and maltreatment with medications etc

    • @ville666sora
      @ville666sora Рік тому +6

      Exactly! Tbh I'd much rather go to a professional and be misdiagnosed and treated with the wrong medication, than go to Lima for ANYTHING. Lima is FAR from being a professional anything. I would not trust her to care for a houseplant, let alone a human being in need of mental health care.

    • @backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594
      @backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594 Рік тому +6

      A narcissist accusations are confessions

  • @KaliIntusMortuis
    @KaliIntusMortuis Рік тому +122

    The government will outsource anything. There is a need to ease pressure on the courts and healthcare system and Lima offers that through her conservatorships. She found a market in her sisters' illness and it's sick and disgusting but think about all the kids who are abused in foster care. This is Lima's sales pitch.

    • @sciencenotstigma9534
      @sciencenotstigma9534 Рік тому +8

      💯

    • @Rebecca-1111
      @Rebecca-1111 Рік тому +4

      Well said.

    • @shannap.lawnerd125
      @shannap.lawnerd125 Рік тому +5

      💯🎯👏🏽⚖️

    • @aggir.3425
      @aggir.3425 Рік тому +8

      Is anyone elese having strange Robot vibes with Lima? Since some weeks i can't put the thought off when i listen to her. Is she maybe one of the first living cloned bots and actually the whole Aura thing just decoration? 😅 idk ....

    • @ruthycantfail
      @ruthycantfail Рік тому +6

      ​@@aggir.3425i'm getting stepford wife vibes

  • @kalima9235
    @kalima9235 Рік тому +43

    She also said her sisters were diagnosed with CPTSD. I have this, there is no way this would be confused with DID or schizophrenia. You're 100% right, girl doesn't know wtf she's talking about

    • @DeluluNews
      @DeluluNews Рік тому +10

      And how if BOTH her sisters have it, and Lima Bean CLAIMS she ALSO grew up with this "abusive father" how is she COMPLETELY VOID OF ANY OF THE SAME TRAUMAS?!?
      I think she just found these twins somewhere and is claiming them as her sisters but, really they are just her poor test subjects...
      It's disturbing.. and makes a mockery of actual people struggling with real problems and traumas.

    • @gnolalegna6432
      @gnolalegna6432 Рік тому

      Lima actually does seem like she has DID or mk ultra. I think this is bigger than people think. I think Lima is being used as a kind control slave to push this Trans human agenda.

    • @quinnm.3127
      @quinnm.3127 Рік тому +5

      @@gnolalegna6432 i do not think lima is innocent.. even if she was/is/has been a victim, she is harming people, and she could choose to stop at any point. but she wont stop, even when her "subjects," the ppl shes claiming to help, say or demonstrate that she is harming them. lima is fully aware of reality, conscious of her own actions, able to helm businesses, and deliberately ignores the voices of the vulnerable people she claims to care for. people who are actual victims of these control experiments do not have the power and influence that she does.

    • @gnolalegna6432
      @gnolalegna6432 Рік тому +5

      @@quinnm.3127 I don’t know if she’s innocent or not but I do know she has a hell of a lot of signs of MK ultra mind control. I’m sure at least a few of her alters are aware of what they’re doing and they could be taking over any innocent parts. Her husband is probably her handler and can pull certain alters forward to work in his benefit. I know that sounds crazy but the government has admitted to doing this in the past. What are the odds that they actually stopped? Slim to none Id say.

    • @quinnm.3127
      @quinnm.3127 Рік тому +3

      @@gnolalegna6432 we would know something is wrong, and that lima was a victim. she is fully in control. whatever personality she is portraying, she is in control. and shes the one choosing to harm others, maybe her husband is in on it too tho.

  • @elisa-beary
    @elisa-beary Рік тому +42

    I cannot STAAAAAND the way Lima talks. At. All! No shot that’s her natural speaking voice, it’s absolutely forced and idk why cuz sounding 5 doesn’t give me the medical professional vibe in the slightest.

  • @Barba_Fett
    @Barba_Fett Рік тому +19

    My kid has OSDD a form of DID. 1. She don't speak for my kid
    2. She is not helping anyone with what she is doing.

  • @MonsteraFairy
    @MonsteraFairy Рік тому +14

    As a person with PTSD, C-PTSD, Autism & ADHD, not wanting to talk about my issues with certain people is because of them, how they react, how they respond, what they say, how they treat me. Weird Lima has never thought about that, the reason her sister don't wanna talk about it with her might be, because of her?!

    • @heidigoodman6274
      @heidigoodman6274 Рік тому +2

      Thing is anyone who goes to a psychiatrist is going to walk out with some "diagnosis". There is so much overlap in symptoms...it makes me side eye all of them.

    • @ornamentalhermit333
      @ornamentalhermit333 3 місяці тому

      Exactly, like, if you treat a person like a weirdo why the f would they want to associate with you? Didn't she ever wonder that treating them like weirdos and diagnosing them with DID without even being a mental health professional who is informed on how diagnosis works... I bet she's never picked the DSM or ICD in her life.

  • @shanawirtz
    @shanawirtz Рік тому +82

    What I think is weird is just because Dalia and Dia are identical twins these "doctors" have given them identical diagnoses? That to me was always a red flag. Then she said her sisters didn't remember any abuse from the father. How would she know what they remember?!

    • @teijaflink2226
      @teijaflink2226 Рік тому +17

      Makes me wonder if they have been manipulated into believing things. Specially as this woman seems to be really into DID, which is a very controversial condition if it's even real specially as many therapists manipulated their patients into believing they had multiple personalities because this was a cool and unique condition back when it became a thing in the 70s and 80s after the book Sybil, which is a totally fabricated story.

    • @shanawirtz
      @shanawirtz Рік тому +15

      @teijaflink2226 and how Lima said they got straight A's but on the news clip when Dia was missing, the news lady says she's mentally impaired

    • @gnolalegna6432
      @gnolalegna6432 Рік тому +9

      DID is from childhood trauma. It actually makes perfect sense that they would both have DID

    • @shanawirtz
      @shanawirtz Рік тому +5

      @gnolalegna6432 oh but Lima said they didn't remember anything (how would she know that?!)

    • @gnolalegna6432
      @gnolalegna6432 Рік тому +5

      @@shanawirtz she says they were horribly abused by their father. Maybe she witnessed it? Maybe they had repressed memories. That’s pretty common. Especially with DID. What do you mean how would she know though? I’m sure they communicate they’re sisters or maybe her daughters…

  • @StefWithAnF
    @StefWithAnF Рік тому +77

    How is she so emotionless when talking about something potentially traumatic? I know if I saw my sisters like that, I wouldn't be straight faced when recalling it.

    • @DeluluNews
      @DeluluNews Рік тому +16

      I am thinking she didn't have her "manipulative -emotions-chip" fully patented yet... The way she talks creeps me TF out.

    • @sourgreendolly7685
      @sourgreendolly7685 Рік тому +15

      Let's not forget that some of us do respond by emotionally shutting down. I don't trust Lima, but that's not inherently abnormal.

    • @soude85
      @soude85 Рік тому +15

      She is reading out the story, you can see her eyes looking to the side and the wording is the same, every time she tells it…

    • @StefWithAnF
      @StefWithAnF Рік тому +3

      @@sourgreendolly7685 fair.. I personally still think some emotions would leak out on her face, but you have a point.

    • @StefWithAnF
      @StefWithAnF Рік тому

      @@soude85 yeah, fair enough. i didn't realise that..

  • @elisa-beary
    @elisa-beary Рік тому +58

    Perhaps the stigma and people not wanting to talk about it anywhere in the vicinity of HER is cuz she’ll prey on them, attempt to lock em up or high jack their human rites && if there’s money involved… even better. Then if she screws up and they die… cover it up. That could cover why no one talks to HER about it.

    • @sciencenotstigma9534
      @sciencenotstigma9534 Рік тому +6

      You got it. Lima is the last person I would go to for “help.”

    • @Rebecca-1111
      @Rebecca-1111 Рік тому +2

      ​@@sciencenotstigma9534exactly! Lima sounds like a little spoiled girl I couldn't take seriously. The Kardashian's have more than her up stairs. I wouldn't trust them either but dang! Just couldn't take rules from her nor take her seriously.

    • @JaclynAlways
      @JaclynAlways Рік тому +1

      Ummmm yeah that is definitely what does it for me

  • @PNWCagey-Dub
    @PNWCagey-Dub Рік тому +20

    How the hell did Lima come out of that same abusive household completely fine, according to her but her sisters are so fucked up, according to her?

  • @BB_TRUTH
    @BB_TRUTH Рік тому +50

    I'm so glad you're gonna do a deep dive into DissociaDID, I remember about a year ago I was watching a podcast and they were exposing this girl for her fake diagnosis..I don't believe she's a genuine person whatsoever she just greedy and loves getting gifts and money from strangers online.

    • @ediesaffron3593
      @ediesaffron3593 Рік тому +16

      I’m SO excited for a DissociaDID deep dive too! I’ve always thought her story was a little suspicious. Then I found out that many have realized that a lot of her story is essentially copied straight out of a couple different books. The one with the most coincidences is called "The Illuminati Formula Used to Create an Undetectable Total Mind Controlled Slave" … very strange stuff lol just when you think the Lima case couldn’t get any weirder, it always does 😂
      For anyone interested there’s a ton of reddit threads, websites, and youtube videos discussing the similarities between her story and the books that her story seems to be based on. It’s a rabbit hole tho, so prepare yourselves because it’s a real doozy haha 🕳️🐇

    • @Lea____915
      @Lea____915 Рік тому +14

      Dissociadid literally filters and deletes every comment that questions her.Her main audience must be children because it's very obvious that she's just acting

    • @BB_TRUTH
      @BB_TRUTH Рік тому +2

      @@ediesaffron3593 agreed, ty for the recommendation 😉

    • @BB_TRUTH
      @BB_TRUTH Рік тому

      @@Lea____915 agreed, I think so too..she's warping the minds of many children..it's a shame and a big scam and should be banned 🚫

  • @ediesaffron3593
    @ediesaffron3593 Рік тому +114

    I’m SO excited for a DissociaDID deep dive! I’ve always thought her story was a little suspicious. Then I found out that many have realized that a lot of her story is essentially copied straight out of a couple different books. The one with the most coincidences is called "The Illuminati Formula Used to Create an Undetectable Total Mind Controlled Slave" … very strange stuff lol just when you think the Lima case couldn’t get any weirder, it always does 😂
    For anyone interested there’s a ton of reddit threads, websites, and youtube videos discussing the similarities between DissociaDID’s story and the books that her story seems to be based on. It’s a rabbit hole tho, so prepare yourselves because it’s a real doozy haha 🕳️🐇

    • @ubahfly5409
      @ubahfly5409 Рік тому +15

      OMG. Yeah was not expecting to see the Malignant Malingering Menace herself on here. But scammers do stick together so it def checks out !

    • @BROWNlES
      @BROWNlES Рік тому +5

      Such a doozy. I think that'd make a multiple part deep dive series.

    • @malibubarbie9098
      @malibubarbie9098 Рік тому +4

      Me too! I can’t wait!

    • @ubahfly5409
      @ubahfly5409 Рік тому

      @@BROWNlES Chloe's an incredibly sick individual, just not in the ways she pretends. She has "multiple personality disorderS" alright, Narcissistic, Borderline, Antisocial (sociopath), you name it !

    • @shannap.lawnerd125
      @shannap.lawnerd125 Рік тому +4

      😂ty for occupying my time for the next [will edit later] hours. 😅 🤔🤓🚀

  • @zita7445
    @zita7445 Рік тому +19

    Honestly what are the chances for two siblings to be misdiagnosed for a same disorder and then diagnosed for the same disorder again ( especially did which is a very rare and complex one) and then react THE SAME way to meds? Maybe in a parallel universe

  • @YeseniaJessiMU
    @YeseniaJessiMU Рік тому +6

    Why would Harvard Medical invite her to speak? What did she speak about?

  • @xdfcgvhbjnk
    @xdfcgvhbjnk Рік тому +75

    Would love to see a deep dive on the DissociaDID girl.

    • @ThatSurpriseWitness
      @ThatSurpriseWitness  Рік тому +53

      It’s on the roster

    • @phoebesmith8154
      @phoebesmith8154 Рік тому +12

      @@ThatSurpriseWitness sitting on my hands trying to wait calmly 😁

    • @xdfcgvhbjnk
      @xdfcgvhbjnk Рік тому +7

      commented too early - yesss for you and jake to shed some light on this!

    • @CRS406
      @CRS406 Рік тому +4

      Yes!

    • @lyvsix
      @lyvsix Рік тому +14

      Great! I missed how she managed to get away from ll the heat she was getting from her lies...I think she disappeared for a while.
      Yesterday I watxhed her on a 5 min interview and she switched mid interview. In 5 min inyerviewwith no triggering sibjects.. such a coinquidink!
      She even spreds wrong facts about her supposed Did....smh... i didnt know she used to be "chloe" and not have did. I will look into thet.
      She comes lff as very sweet an honest an for a long time I believed her.... but the contradictions and "coincidences" were beginning to become too much for me and in a few months shit hit the fan.
      It was sad in a way.... and I feel for anyone with this illness nowadays when kt has become cool to act like u have certain mental illnesses that can be "seen" to a certain extent on a video and be shocking.....disgusting.

  • @rhaybiesdolls
    @rhaybiesdolls Рік тому +21

    Ps. That piano concerto while she’s giving that sob story about her sisters was too much 😂😂😂

  • @stephaniekeeping
    @stephaniekeeping Рік тому +145

    Bracing myself for the DID community drama to follow...

    • @jenroaden2090
      @jenroaden2090 Рік тому +29

      You know they're coming. To educate.

    • @phoebesmith8154
      @phoebesmith8154 Рік тому +11

      @@jenroaden2090it’s gunna be beautiful 😂 (though it’s the DD community, rather than the DID community lol)

    • @ThatSurpriseWitness
      @ThatSurpriseWitness  Рік тому +120

      They can act right in the queens court or get blocked I don’t play clown games

    • @BrittanyEwing6250
      @BrittanyEwing6250 Рік тому +12

      Yasssssssss!!!! I love this chick 🐣 BJ YOU ROCK 🪨

    • @geminicattheinsomniac8408
      @geminicattheinsomniac8408 Рік тому +7

      @@ThatSurpriseWitness 💯 👏🏿 👏🏿

  • @FukaiKokoro
    @FukaiKokoro Рік тому +28

    She's acting like when someone get diagnosed all of a sudden it's a challenge to deal with that person and to basically talk down to them like children.
    How about you just treat them like people? Like the same person they where before the diagnosis?
    Having a diagnosis dose not change you. You're literally the same person.
    That's so disrespectful and rude to people going through stuff.

    • @phoebesmith8154
      @phoebesmith8154 Рік тому +4

      I was wondering what it was about her phrasing that was bothering me, you’ve hit the nail on the head!

    • @shannap.lawnerd125
      @shannap.lawnerd125 Рік тому

      💯🎯💯👏🏽👏🏽💪🏽👏🏽🎯💯

  • @skarletcharity
    @skarletcharity Рік тому +150

    I'm dying laughing. Chloe (DissociaDID) pretends to have dozens of alters on the internet for fun and for profit. She has been ITCHING to get into drama with somebody (threatening to dox tiny tiktok users with no following) because they criticize her bad acting. She is constantly swapping out the cast in her mental Cinematic Universe, but don't be surprised if you get some angry responses from her and all her head friends very soon. Also, she's probably going to accuse you of traumatizing and triggering her, which will result in a new alter. Im not a youtube psychic, I just know how that particular faker works.

    • @ThatSurpriseWitness
      @ThatSurpriseWitness  Рік тому +116

      I don’t play clown games. If a UA-cam video can traumatize her, she shouldn’t be a UA-camr. 🤡

    • @SarahSkinnyJeans
      @SarahSkinnyJeans Рік тому +4

      Totally!!

    • @skarletcharity
      @skarletcharity Рік тому +28

      ​@ThatSurpriseWitness it would be awesome to see an entire Investigates on this!

    • @phoebesmith8154
      @phoebesmith8154 Рік тому +10

      @@skarletcharity seconded!!

    • @lindsey.quinn89
      @lindsey.quinn89 Рік тому +6

      ​@@skarletcharityyes!!

  • @kaseyjones2861
    @kaseyjones2861 Рік тому +11

    I really don't like disassociadid or whatever her name is......she tries to glamorize trauma, and it's dark.

    • @ThatSurpriseWitness
      @ThatSurpriseWitness  Рік тому +13

      It was the demon alter for me 😭😭

    • @painalpeggy
      @painalpeggy Рік тому +4

      ​@@ThatSurpriseWitnessshe literally bit off my aesthetic for that 🤦‍♀️ ima send u some info.. currently scouring the comments for where i saw you listed ur contact

  • @light9623
    @light9623 Рік тому +4

    I no longer trust the medical field including mental medicine such as psychologists and psychiatrists. They keep records which can be obtained. I'm not saying do not seek help, I'm saying I have sought help that never helped me and I do not like having my life being kept as a record that can be obtained.
    What did help me was cleaning up my life, meditating and praying daily; knowing myself, and then accepting myself as I am. My life changed. I still am working on myself and may for the rest of my life due to trauma. The trauma was actually the catalyst that changed my life.
    Stay away from people like Lima! Blessings to all

  • @annimanson5459
    @annimanson5459 Рік тому +22

    Your impression of Lima is on point and always makes me laugh 😂

  • @jaydingiesler5280
    @jaydingiesler5280 Рік тому +12

    Wow, BJ makes a scary point about labels. Yea, with an official diagnosis and documentation they could hold that against you. I’ve often thought I struggle with a couple different things, but I’ve also had multiple horrible experiences trying to get “professional” help, including being ghosted by two different doctors. Instead, I read about them, try suggestions, and collect what works. That’s done me well in regards to improving my life. I guess I should stop feeling bad about it.

  • @ryleeanne7061
    @ryleeanne7061 Рік тому +13

    FINALLY someone calls that chick out for her compulsive lying😂 girl everything you said in this video is facts. I’m here for it

  • @JustAmy76
    @JustAmy76 Рік тому +22

    I’m so tired of Lima trying to tell people that her sisters have the same exact mental illnesses at any given time.

  • @___t510
    @___t510 Рік тому +10

    Labels are only useful insofar as they help you learn tools or grant access to resources. Beyond that, it’s really just a list of symptoms. I’m going to stop claiming these disorders too.

    • @ThatSurpriseWitness
      @ThatSurpriseWitness  Рік тому +3

      Agreed. The dx labels helped me until they just didn’t. And all the discourse and rhetoric about what’s “real” and “valid” and who has it and who don’t etc is just a massive black hole. It stopped feeling like a “community” long ago (for me in my experience and opinion everyone should please live the life and seek the help that works for you!)

    • @quinnm.3127
      @quinnm.3127 Рік тому

      👏👏👏

  • @Tarrynn
    @Tarrynn Рік тому +8

    She is sooo hard to listen to. Your impression of her is spot on 😂 I can’t take her seriously and even though she’s so irritating, she somehow also has the darkest energy

  • @NOTW4422
    @NOTW4422 Рік тому +16

    For so many reasons, I love you for making this video. I appreciate you, and I appreciate what you do. While you are always light hearted, I can tell that you aren’t your usual, chipper self. And that’s completely OK, but whatever is going on, I’m praying for you, and I’m sending you a big but gentle hug.
    PS, you’re correct. It is about Lima. She’s hardly literate, much less professional. I lived in psychiatry, professionally, I should say, and I haven’t heard you say anything that would or could be hurtful to the DID community.

  • @naeratillnaturen
    @naeratillnaturen Рік тому +12

    Excited for the DissociaDID video. The subreddit really showed me her true colors

  • @deannatzitzis754
    @deannatzitzis754 Рік тому +7

    It bothers me so much that she says "if you think you have DID or a mental health issue I encourage you for the sake of the community to get help" like dude anyone that's going to get help should do it for THEM not the others around them. I feel like this shows that she doesn't stand with the person struggling but the others in their environment. I'm actually excited to see how this all rolls out. BJ you're frigging bomb, I love your facial expressions and commentary, you're savage I love it 😂😂

  • @FukaiKokoro
    @FukaiKokoro Рік тому +33

    I'm concerned with sixteen Leo and Molly Burke.
    Molly seems like such a nice lady and don't know why she's associated with lima.
    She's educated me so much on the struggles of people who are blind. She's such a great "ambassador" and brings to much light to accessibility.
    I don't understand why molly would agree with any of what Lima does.
    Hope it's just Lima liking certain channels and not her actually collabing with Lima.

    • @BoboCoOfficial
      @BoboCoOfficial Рік тому +5

      from what i can gather, id assume that Molly and Leo have no idea. Im pretty sure the youtuber selects what channels they would like in that section and also, im pretty sure Jess from Multiplicity and Me would not choose to be associated with her.

    • @FukaiKokoro
      @FukaiKokoro Рік тому

      I'd rather be positive and hope for the best. I really hope they have no clue. Still weird with sixteen Leo though..

    • @iu.lia.na.
      @iu.lia.na. Рік тому

      I have so much respect for Leo, he seems like a person with a head on their shoulders... shocked me a bit that they collabed like that. I wish he'd address this

  • @jlr1176
    @jlr1176 Рік тому +4

    I agree with your opinion on mental health disorders. My mom was diagnosed with BPD in the late 80’s early 90’s and the “goal post” is definitely changing. I know I’d fall into some categories, if I allowed myself to be diagnosed, but the reality is, I don’t want pharmaceutical drugs in my system & I don’t wanna be labeled anything, but a healthy woman, who struggles with life sometimes. I respect anyone who has a diagnosis & whatever their form of self care/ treatments are.. just speaking for myself, coming from a background of generational mental health issues. ❤️

  • @darien9891
    @darien9891 Рік тому +17

    Makes me wonder, after being raised by narcissists, maybe the twins were being experimented on or something, but were starting to figure it out, and so then the others attempted to continue to manipulate them and maybe if that didnt work, they had to get authorities involved. Liek as in my life, my parents were always messing around with me, were going to the public making it seem like i was the problem, meanwhile it was them. They keep you isolated, and then use people from the outside against you. When i started to figure out that narcissism was like a real thing and started to react to them differently, they started really laying into me that i was "depressed". Also when i was younger and was obviously acting out, they would go to my grandfather with only the part of the story that kept them in a favourable light, and then he would basically scold me, further gaslighting me.

    • @painalpeggy
      @painalpeggy Рік тому +3

      I kinda feel like the twins are probably still being experimented on.. that video where one of the sisters was playing the piano was uncomfortable..

  • @weirdhousewivesclub
    @weirdhousewivesclub Рік тому +3

    I've been diagnosed with psychogenic nonepileptic seizures which Lima said her sisters suffer from, as well as several other mental health diagnoses. The way she tries to subtly (not so subtly?) lead people away from going to actual mental health professionals in favor of her is frightening. The ONLY reason I'm here today is because of the team of doctors and professionals I have, and the medications I'm on. I know that the path I'm on is not the same as it is for everyone but to eschew solid evidence and professionals for someone with no real credentials, no solid facts to show the results she is purporting, it's incredibly scary.

    • @foxyvasileva7383
      @foxyvasileva7383 5 місяців тому

      I agree, but this is also why I said that while I respect and like BJ, I believe that by disproving of mental health labels, she's inadvertently spreading dangerous rhetoric. Proper diagnosis and treatment in people struggling with any form of mental issues, is paramount.

  • @AshtenChambliss
    @AshtenChambliss Рік тому +47

    Glad you're gonna cover DissociaDID in more depth. This person tried to cover up her partner's distribution of child corn in 2020.

    • @ThatSurpriseWitness
      @ThatSurpriseWitness  Рік тому +32

      and turned it around on anyone who criticized her talking about she's so traumatized lolll clowns

    • @samhill7693
      @samhill7693 Рік тому +5

      😮😮😮😮😢

    • @ihavenodesiretocreateahandle
      @ihavenodesiretocreateahandle Рік тому +11

      don't forget, she even claimed it wasn't CP/CSEM because the characters were mostly 15-16, and to her "15 and 16 year olds aren't even children." (they said this somewhere in that 4 hour livestream with BraiDID)
      ... but also threw a fit when people sexualised the 17 year old alter, Nadia, saying she was a child. Oh, and the reason people sexualised Nadia is because DissociaDID often used a sexualised icon for/of Nadia when she fronted in videos with her p3do ex.. and the "sexy" art was made BY the p3do ex, who was 31 I believe.
      Their opinion always changes to be in favor of the one that makes them look the most like a traumatized victim.

    • @soude85
      @soude85 Рік тому

      @@ihavenodesiretocreateahandleIt is true that pedøphilia involes children before they enter puberty. Nevertheless, CP covers everyone everyone who is underaged.

    • @painalpeggy
      @painalpeggy Рік тому +6

      They also liked to pretended they were children and made vids making out in disney in that child state and uploaded it to youtube for all their viewers 🤦‍♀️ smhhh

  • @courtmiller4116
    @courtmiller4116 Рік тому +27

    Girl you should do a whole video on dissociadid. I researched her heavily. She stole all her alters from a book about dissociative disorder. I can't remember the name of the book RN, but it's easy to find out with a bit of research. She's a complete fraud!

    • @ashleybish0p
      @ashleybish0p Рік тому +1

      DissociaDID is so FULL OF SHıT it's unreal. There's NO way she's being truthful because she wouldn't have the ability to make UA-cam videos "introducing" another alter...or as this or that person. A person with actual DID, experiences tons if memory loss. When they "switch" back whatever to themselves, they had no recollection of what they were just doing. Meaning alter A could act certain ways and decide to drive or walk to the park...she could switch while driving or walking and get hurt/hurt others and would suddenly have no idea why she's where she ended up or where she was going even. It's funny, she'll make videos as a certain alter or introducing another alter and shell magically switch while recording and not questions anythint other than acting awkward for a second. Then you have to think, it takes hours to edit and/or upload videos...so how the hell is she doing so while switching as a toddler etc?? DiD is extremely difficult to diagnose because profesionals aren't sure about its legitimacy aside from trauma being the cause. She probably suffers from something else and she loves the attention she gets from the audience and she's making bank off faking the illness. Then she'll defend the disorder like she's super educated about it all. She takes her time to get ready and choose video topics blahblahblah...switching from one person to the next would create significant memory loss that would affect her ability to do anything successfully because she wouldn't have memory of anyone at the time other than who she "is" then. And this "leader" or whatever is just her...creating people and making up storyline for attention. She probably takes notes and suxh so she wont forget her lies. In my opinion. It's just ironic how she "switches" when cameras are rolling..but what about off camera? I just always wondered how she can upload videos with no problem when it's time consuming. It would interfere with her channel. And one of her alters would've surely uploaded a video by now that "she" didn't want uploaded etc. If that makes sense.
      She's in desperate need for attention and obviously suffered from some sort of personality/mental disorder but DID, 1% of the population has and its not her. Her subscribers are just young and naive and they are in need for attention and approval as well...or they want to be love hee so they pretend to have DID too and/or make crap up. Im.not saying did isn't an actual diagnosis, and people aren't suffering from it, but an attention seeking youtuber like her isn't one of them. She can't pick and choose when her alters pop in but she can pick and choose how she wants her channel, what videos go up and to edit and post and maintain a job with x amount of "people" in 1 brain without any of these people messing things up or her doing things she had no memory of???? Nope. I don't buy it.
      She creates a new alter or something "major" happens after a while of the same ol crap...her attention dies dowm...she doesn't want people bored lole she becomes and wants to keep her INCOME/channel off making a mockery of mental illness.

    • @ashleybish0p
      @ashleybish0p Рік тому

      Sorry for typos - I'll correct later when I'm able!

    • @ediesaffron3593
      @ediesaffron3593 Рік тому +8

      One of the books is called “The Illuminati Formula Used to Create an Undetectable Total Mind Controlled Slave" there’s a few reddit threads discussing the similarities that are VERY interesting! There’s also a few other books that she seems to have based her story on but the one I mentioned seems to be the main one. Hope that helps ❤

  • @_Fluorescent_
    @_Fluorescent_ Рік тому +12

    To me, Lima always sounds like a 5th grader giving a PowerPoint presentation in front of the class lol.

  • @beelea9854
    @beelea9854 Рік тому +9

    Please investigate

  • @Baphometh69
    @Baphometh69 Рік тому +19

    I wonder what Lima is diagnosed with. She talks with a baby voice, much like people who have suffered major trauma at younger ages.
    Keep it up BJ. Glad to see you doing other things, the online community around Bam is the most toxic place I’ve seen. I used to browse r/letstalkbam, but it’s just a bunch of misfits hating on everyone now.

  • @jojoess3191
    @jojoess3191 Рік тому +10

    I’m amazed that she (Lima) said pseudoseizures are just as serious as epileptic ones SMH

  • @caravanrose
    @caravanrose Рік тому +5

    "Lima and the transhumanist party." I have never been less surprised when finding out "new to me" info than when you said those words. And pretty sure she already hit the finish line

  • @aliciarowland3322
    @aliciarowland3322 Рік тому +12

    Imagine having such an inflated ego that you say you’re speaking for an entire community that you’re not even part of 😭😭😭

  • @kimmeah5603
    @kimmeah5603 Рік тому +14

    When she recounts these horrific experiences with her sisters, her attitude says it all, doesn't it? We can see right away that she is so genuinely involved and concerned, don't you think? 🙄

  • @Dolly_junkie
    @Dolly_junkie Рік тому +2

    Thank you BJ for standing up against evil people like Lima. I have struggled with depression and thoughts of unaliving since I was 14, am now 27. I am lucky to have never been locked up in a mental hospital by now. Mental health labels are too often used to take away peoples freedoms and ruin their reputations. We need to be understood, not put in a straight jacket.

  • @JustAmy76
    @JustAmy76 Рік тому +5

    I’m an Emergency Medical Technician in California. The reason the PD responds during a suspected mental health crisis is because they are the ones who have to 5150/Baker Act the person if it’s not a self-committal . No one is going to be 5150’d and “arrested”. You are transported by ambulance to the hospital.

    • @foxyvasileva7383
      @foxyvasileva7383 5 місяців тому

      Thank you! It's 1013 in Georgia, but that's exactly what I wanted to comment as well. You did it far more eloquently, so thank you again.

  • @catierobinson8969
    @catierobinson8969 11 місяців тому +1

    I've said this before but every time I watch one of these videos I'm completely flabbergasted that she has so much control over so many people. Like, who the hell watches her speak and thinks "yes, this lady knows what she's talking about. Let's trust her with these people's lives."

  • @crystalireland5892
    @crystalireland5892 Рік тому +10

    She is scary, her eyes look empty & dark and I don't mean the colour. Actually sinister is a better description. They send chills through my body. I would not want her in charge of my life, thats terrifying.

    • @quinnm.3127
      @quinnm.3127 Рік тому +2

      almost like your body "feels haunted" in the presence of lima...

  • @waterbearertarot3004
    @waterbearertarot3004 Рік тому +2

    Lima is a MK Ultra Handler. Her sisters aren’t ever her “real” sisters …. Allegedly.

  • @Runwaynottaken
    @Runwaynottaken Рік тому +7

    Can we talk about how it makes no sense that both twins have the exact same mental disorder? I get they are twins but I don’t think mental health works like that. I don’t understand how they magically have the same exact issues.

    • @Runwaynottaken
      @Runwaynottaken Рік тому

      Also pleaseeeeeeee look into dissociaDID (not sure of spelling). I fell into a rabbit hole of that content and she seems completely sus. I fully believe DID is a real mental disorder that people can be diagnosed with and suffer from. HOWEVER, im not sure if I believe Chloe or Nin or whatever her name is has it. I look forward to seeing everything you uncover about this person!

    • @gnolalegna6432
      @gnolalegna6432 Рік тому

      It makes perfect sense if they both suffered the same childhood trauma DID is from extreme trauma it doesn’t just randomly happen.

    • @Runwaynottaken
      @Runwaynottaken Рік тому

      @@gnolalegna6432 I’m not saying it happened randomly but it’s an extremely rare diagnosis, and there is no reason they would both have the same reaction to trauma. That’s like saying every sibling growing up with the same trauma will have the same reaction to it. That just doesn’t make sense

  • @demolitionFM
    @demolitionFM Рік тому +2

    “That was the beginning of the end of them” uh what? I think Lima has everything she claims the twins has tbh

  • @learning2live_brokeninchro157
    @learning2live_brokeninchro157 Рік тому +5

    ✨B.J. When you mimic Lima voice it kills me! It’s so good, and so funny! I love it!

  • @welsh.truth.dragon3914
    @welsh.truth.dragon3914 Рік тому +4

    Shes defo working woth the government or very high people who can pull strings . The fact the courts wont tell u who is suing you is a HUGE red flag and very worrying

  • @lifewith9cats153
    @lifewith9cats153 Рік тому +28

    Completely agree with labels and "diagnoses". I'm 55 years old and pretty sure I've had anxiety all my life just based upon some of my behaviors (ie, teeth grinding, unrealistic fears, etc.). I also believe I may be neurodivergent (or on the spectrum) again based upon my behaviors and experiences when compared to those of my peers. I've never been diagnosed but have gone on to live a productive and fulfilling life. I'm fortunate whatever my "ailments" I have been able to move forward and realize not all people can without help. But, I think often times psychiatry, psychology, and medications can do more harm than good. I enjoy your channel and insights.

    • @ediesaffron3593
      @ediesaffron3593 Рік тому +3

      Agreed 100%! I personally had a horrible experience with psychiatric meds. I was feeling extremely depressed after beginning treatment for an addiction to opiates. Looking back it’s very obvious to me that I was experiencing depression due to withdrawals. At the time I was only aware of physical withdrawal symptoms, I had no idea that the mental withdrawal symptoms can last for months and are often worse than the physical withdrawal symptoms. I felt so broken and didn’t know what to do, so I stupidly went to a psychiatrist for assistance and explained my entire situation, so the doctor was well aware of my recent recovery.
      I was prescribed SSRIs for my “depression” which imo I should have never been given. I was desperate and in a very dark place mentally, I just wanted to get better. So instead of doing a little research into SSRI’s, I just took them and prayed that they’d help. Not only did they not help, they actually made my situation 1000x worse!
      I was acting SO strange and felt so much worse than I had in the first place. Luckily my mom recognized my behavior was off, she got me off the SSRI’s and helped me to recover in a holistic manner. Lots of sunshine, nature walks, eating really healthy, exercise, herbal remedies, meditation, yoga, breath work, therapy etc. etc. Thank God she was there for me and was willing and able to help me heal. That experience made me realize how important it is to take care of your body and mind. Along with treating the root cause instead of throwing pills the problem which will only mask the issue and possibly cause more damage.
      It makes me so sad that our society has seemingly forgotten that we must treat our bodies like temples, we’ve become so reliant on pharmaceuticals. I’m not saying all psych meds are bad, as they do help a lot of people with serious issues. However I do believe that they are terribly overprescribed nowadays, especially in the US. ❤

  • @EMILY4DAYS
    @EMILY4DAYS Рік тому +18

    When is Lima Bean *not* distorting reality?!

  • @lacey892
    @lacey892 Рік тому +3

    imagine being one of the twins and having your sister run around using your personal mental health or addiction struggles to market her quack startup..
    id be furious. i hope they end up coming out against her.

  • @SharStar80
    @SharStar80 Рік тому +11

    Thank you BJ! You’re amazing! Thank you for sticking up for others!
    Ps. You look great! ✨🌟✨🌟✨🌟✨🌟✨🌟✨🌟

  • @HollieAndApollo
    @HollieAndApollo Рік тому +12

    Absolutely love your face! Much love and light to you and everyone here! ❤🧿

  • @lorimosser1783
    @lorimosser1783 Рік тому +6

    I don't understand why when she is speaking about her sisters health she is always read off her screen. Doesn't she know this information without having to read it off a script every time?

  • @SetASpark
    @SetASpark Рік тому +7

    Yesss can't wait for the video on dissociaDID! I used to watch her when she was Chloe and she seemed pretty normal then but apparently she fused and kept fusing and now it's like she's making stories and alters up. I don't know if she's always been lying or started to only recently.

    • @soude85
      @soude85 Рік тому +1

      Why would someone with an already controversial illness start to lie about it, while pretending to spread awareness about it? I don’t think they would, as it would defeat the whole purpose-in my personal opinion, she started pretending a long time ago…

    • @twinkletoes6290
      @twinkletoes6290 Рік тому +2

      Always been lying.

    • @AshtenChambliss
      @AshtenChambliss Рік тому +1

      She asked detailed, invasive questions about DID patients' childhood trauma and alters in FB groups before she started her channel. Then those alters became her alters, and those ppl's trauma became her trauma. It's been a lie from day 1

  • @cityremade
    @cityremade Рік тому +1

    that company looks like some nonsense. Nothing on their website. How come no tech/med professionals are proud of developing this product? Because it's a scam?

  • @Mrs.Dreadfulbliss
    @Mrs.Dreadfulbliss Рік тому +8

    The older I get the more I steer clear of labels

  • @sakkarabeirre
    @sakkarabeirre Рік тому +18

    I believe that a lot of people that have DID get diagnosed with Schizophrenia first and even visa versa.
    My mother has DID. Because people with DID have their "personality" fragmented, it make sense that they or doctors might think that they are just hearing voices like with Schizophrenia but then come to realize that it's actually DID.
    I didn't explain that too well but hopefully people understand what I mean. Fibromyalgia brain fog is a bitch .

    • @AzuraFallen
      @AzuraFallen Рік тому +2

      Yeah I got diagnosed schizophrenia before DID due to hearing voices inside my head - honestly either way I have a disorder that is hard to control and if doctors would actually listen to the symptoms and stop focusing on labels I do think that could improve mental health help.

  • @brentneykaye7022
    @brentneykaye7022 Рік тому +3

    Thanks for always being REAL. That is one thing I really enjoy about you. Not afraid to tell it like it is and speak your own opinion. We’ve got your back BJ. Much love 💕

  • @reesewitherspliff103
    @reesewitherspliff103 Рік тому +8

    How do two people have the same seizures happen at the same time?
    My sister and I both have mental health problems. We both have personality disorders.
    We do not have the same reactions at the same time. I don’t care if you are twins; you’re a separate human being.
    Sus

  • @pinkyhc4130
    @pinkyhc4130 Рік тому +10

    No clown games round this court!
    Good to see ya, BJ! I'm always commenting for the algorithm ❤

  • @AFFTFOMSICHTS
    @AFFTFOMSICHTS Рік тому +3

    The first thing I said was arrested for what?? They’re not doing anything 😂😂😂

  • @maryjanedoe
    @maryjanedoe Рік тому +8

    I'm so mad I got the premiere notification 12 MINS AFTER IT ALREADY STARTED!! is UA-cam drunk?
    Its crazy how people that search/speak truth get treated so differently..

    • @Rebecca-1111
      @Rebecca-1111 Рік тому

      Yes. Same happened to me. 🤔 Makes me mad! I clicked the bell icon UA-cam! 😡

  • @J.Soffer
    @J.Soffer Рік тому +2

    Lima looks like she's wearing a hospital gown.

  • @lindsey.quinn89
    @lindsey.quinn89 Рік тому +47

    You distancing yourself from labels is definitely something I can get behind! I'm not my illness/health condition and you'll never see it in my bio!

    • @welsh.truth.dragon3914
      @welsh.truth.dragon3914 Рік тому +5

      Mental ilness is seen as a cool thing and people who have it in their bios probably DONT have the condition they claim to have

    • @sourgreendolly7685
      @sourgreendolly7685 Рік тому

      ⁠@@welsh.truth.dragon3914Speaking of harmful misinformation..! Some of us have found the tight diagnosis leads to the right help and that being open about it helps reduce the stigma. Don't lump people together like that, it's uncalled for and dangerous to people's mental health. People being open about their diagnoses doesn't mean they think it's cool. A fair amount of people are just seeking people that understand.
      Sorry but I spent far too much time in therapy and working through misdiagnoses to still be seeing people act like I must've been faking when I was open about it. We are all individuals that have our own reactions and ways to cope. Just because you wouldn't do it, doesn't make it fake for others.

  • @pana6211
    @pana6211 11 місяців тому +2

    I think my comment disappeared but I was trying to say, definitely look into iatrogenic DID, these twins are being hurt. Look up the famous cases, Roma Hart, Patricia Burgus etc. They were convinced that they had DID but it was all pushed onto them, covering up their real problems. This happens so often in bad therapy.

  • @tjdiamond2610
    @tjdiamond2610 Рік тому +4

    It is like she is reading a script rather than coming from the heart or even the truth.

  • @Nick_B_Bad
    @Nick_B_Bad Рік тому +10

    Oh YAY! This just made my Tuesday at work way better!! 🎉

  • @StandwithMirriam
    @StandwithMirriam Рік тому +3

    Hey, I can google how to do a heart transplant and watch some UA-cam, can I start signing up people up for surgery????

  • @kiraleigh9966
    @kiraleigh9966 Рік тому +1

    Why is there no conversation on how improbable it is for BOTH women to have the exact same illnesses? I have identical twins and they are wildly different people. Unlessss… they have been treated as the same person, with no individualization, their whole lives. Treating them as a unit instead of individuals is extremely unhealthy for their mental well being. Any person with basic mental health knowledge would know that. Which Lima appears not to, aside from what she’s cherry picked from the internet. I think Lima is using them as Guinea pigs bc she knows her way around the system. I hope she’s jailed. This is so angering.

  • @LoriJBayne
    @LoriJBayne Рік тому +15

    OMFG, I cannot STAND Lima's boring, baby talk!!! I NEVER trust a woman who talks like a baby!!
    And I LOVE what you say about labels. My generation learned that labels create separation and violence, so why have them at all?
    Thanks for all you do! Great vid, as usual. 🤎🧡🤎

    • @ThatSurpriseWitness
      @ThatSurpriseWitness  Рік тому +5

      Whew yes indeed that one hit.
      “NEVER trust a woman who talks like a baby”

  • @elisa-beary
    @elisa-beary Рік тому +16

    BjS makeup always looks beautiful!

    • @jlcollins7673
      @jlcollins7673 Рік тому +2

      Right? Sometimes I have to rewind the video because I'm staring at her face instead of listening. Lmao

  • @aliencreative9360
    @aliencreative9360 10 місяців тому +1

    the part that sticks out to me the most from this whole case, is that it's lima asking for help/saying her sisters need help. i havent seen a single video where dahlia or dia ask for help for their supposed mental illness. they would be advocating for themselves based on their videos.

  • @Jordys_Cursed_Camera
    @Jordys_Cursed_Camera Рік тому +15

    I use to watch Dissociadid but I began noticing things that were questionable and concerning I don't believe she has DID anymore and I don't believe she has chronic fatigue syndrome anymore either.

  • @MayaGTK
    @MayaGTK 8 місяців тому +1

    C-PTSD stems from long-term, repeat trauma. Since she spreads their medical info so freely, has she addressed what they may have gone thru (that she presumably didn’t)? e.g., DV or other kinds of LT abuse

    • @ThatSurpriseWitness
      @ThatSurpriseWitness  8 місяців тому +2

      Yes. She claims they were messed w by their dad

    • @MayaGTK
      @MayaGTK 8 місяців тому

      @@ThatSurpriseWitness Thank You! Eventually I realized you addressed it later in the vid (but if I don't post my thoughts as I have them, they flee...) HUGE THANKS for your excellent ongoing work across the board. You're brave af & a daily inspo xo

  • @DigitalFootprint-kjffbvcbbb
    @DigitalFootprint-kjffbvcbbb Рік тому +3

    I don’t understand why Lima speaks in the past tense about her sisters. “My sisters, who were identical twins” - she does this all the time as if one or both of them are no longer alive.

  • @savannakrakauskas1834
    @savannakrakauskas1834 Рік тому +10

    I respect your choice to reject labeling yourself. However discovering labels for my neurotype really helped me find resources in learning how to support myself better.

    • @ThatSurpriseWitness
      @ThatSurpriseWitness  Рік тому +6

      There was a time this was true for me as well so I definitely get that. As always I support each persons right to decide what’s best for themselves 💖

    • @jennmarroquin4467
      @jennmarroquin4467 Рік тому +1

      @@ThatSurpriseWitnesswe’re do we turn in information to you ? What email I found something interesting about pennelice county in Florida I wasn’t sure how to spell ot

  • @andin916
    @andin916 Рік тому +3

    As a psychology major, I agree with the labels. You can’t make humans that formulaic and it’s just a way to make everyone think they are wrong.

    • @foxyvasileva7383
      @foxyvasileva7383 5 місяців тому

      I respectfully disagree. I understand how the point was intended, however, the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Growing up around people who were harmful to themselves and others because of mental illness (predominantly cluster B personality disorders like NPD and BPD), but refused to seek and/or accept professional help and be bound by labels, has lead to a plethora of unintended consequences and damage. It can very much be a double-edged sword. Trust me, it can be a very dangerous rhetoric.

    • @andin916
      @andin916 5 місяців тому

      @@foxyvasileva7383 nope… you can’t force someone to get help, and therefore cannot force a diagnosis. It is a violation of their basic human rights, plain and simple. If they do something harmful, that should be addressed, but slapping a label on someone that will therefore discredit them for the rest of their life is just wrong.

    • @andin916
      @andin916 5 місяців тому +1

      @@foxyvasileva7383 actually, the more I think about it, I think it’s more important that we don’t make a diagnosis a permanent thing or assume everyone with similar symptoms automatically fits into a certain treatment category. It has to be assessed individually. I do see your point, though.

    • @foxyvasileva7383
      @foxyvasileva7383 5 місяців тому +1

      @andin916 You have a valid point. There is honestly so much anecdotal evidence to both sides. I do believe every situation is different and yes, so many factors come into play, absolutely. Unfortunately you are correct- you can't help people who don't want to be helped and many are functioning narcissists/sociopaths, etc. However, it often eventually escalates when the issues are swept under the rug and not properly addressed. I've seen a lot of people refuse to admit to themselves that they need help or refuse to accept psychiatric help due to the stigma of the label and I personally think that can have a lot of negative consequences. I've also seen a lot of people refuse to listen to professionals and provide behavioral or cognitive help for their children because of their perceived negative connotation of a certain label (ODD or ADHD for example) and without proper tools, guidance, communication, and discipline techniques ultimately a disservice is done to the kids, if that makes sense. I do, however, definitely understand your point and different situations you're referring to where it can indeed affect someone negatively.

    • @andin916
      @andin916 5 місяців тому +1

      @@foxyvasileva7383 very true. I think we are actually on the same side of this 😂 even you said that parents would reject treatment based on a stigma attached to a label - I think the labels can often be detrimental, especially because they take a set of symptoms and automatically assume they will need the same treatment. I think maybe using more scientific or neutral terms as a diagnosis and treating each person as an individual would be beneficial, but I see your point in that some kind of diagnosis or name is actually helpful when considering treatments.

  • @simplymonca
    @simplymonca Рік тому +148

    If you would like to help support BJ and her freedom of speech in her lawsuit with Lima, you may donate to her legal fund here: gofund.me/402332d3