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pvic I mean it’s like liking someone’s sibling more than the other one or liking a friend more than the others. As long as you’re not begging to talk to that one alter or visibly showing you’re not interested or attentive to the alter fronting, I think it’s all good. DissociaDID explains it in one of their livestream vids I believe.
@dr feel nahh i wasnt accusing of anyone doing that. This comment just triggered that thought. I'm not saying anyone likes one alter more than the other. But I could see some alters rubbing people the wrong way while other alters dont. Like one of the said, its like having 12 people in 1 body. I dont know if I've met 12 people I like all in the same place lmao. I'm sure as long as you're respectful, you should be good. Liek you would do with anyone DID or not
@@Elvings92 Nin and Kyle are two different people. They just share the same body and headspace. So you could say Nin betrayed Kyle. But I think this was just Nin dressing up nicely in her style.
I love Kyle reacting to this interview. He takes over for Nin at one point to express his frustrations about being seen as the banana guy 😂 I would be mad too Kyle. If she had changed the outfit for this day without telling him
I don’t know why but every time a small child does something like that where an adult is saying oh this is what we’re talking about and they light up and go I/we know what that is or I/we have that it makes me cry cause it’s so adorable and heart warming
The really scary thing about DID and it being more common than most people think it is, is that so many people faced that level of trauma in their childhoods. The real monsters are the people who hurt them, and there are so many of them out there. 😞
@@wovvme I'm glad I'm not the only one that noticed it. Can definitely see the pupils dilate a couple times during the switch. I find it interesting that with Nin's the body visibly pauses and 'reboots' while others like Z it's nothing more than a hesitation in speaking pace.
The “we have did!” melted my heart😭❤️ As a teen who was diagnosed with dissociation at either 7-8 I can relate to this a lot, and for some reason it means a lot to see someone with kind of the same as me dissociate and have an alter come to the front cause it makes me feel less alone. I have a lot of alters, but I have one that I’d like to specifically mention; her name is Bella and she’s six, and she thinks Nin is very pretty :) Edit: Bella is now Seven, her birthday was a week ago lol
I had a friend, my best friend, (we grew apart but oh well) who has OSDD. The previous host was named Bella. She’s 8. If you ever need to talk I’m always open, I have experience handling these situations
@@thraxxxxxxxx Their brain is making other personalities as a defend mechanisam due to past trauma and mostly loneliness.We are socity beings we arent made to live this life alone.And if we dont have anyone some brains will create others in our head to fix that and thats when it comes to DID or to in case of trauma it will make new peronality because brain cant deal with that trauma and it wants to start over with new personality that didnt live trough trauma that happend.
Angel Tirta Yeah he’s all like “idc if u r wearing a skirt, have makeup on, have female like facial features, and have long hair!? You’re one of the dudes!
I knoww i felt that 100%. Im also greatfull because the system is very protective of their littles and so shes never let a little on her videos be names or even shown in a magority of her vids so that was cool
Kyle, Stepping back into inner world. Nin: oh hey kyle Kyle: wait i thought you were fronting next nin: wait if im not fronting and you’re not fronting.. kyle: *shit thE LITTLES*
@@eyeluvviewtwo1814 nin: so what happened? (Why am i crying?) Little just came out and did an amazing job answering the question. Do you want to redo it? Nin: oh yeah sure. (I hope the little wasn't upset)
"We're not alone anymore" part gets me evertime... I've watched this interview bunch of times and i still cry at that part. I don't have D.I.D. But if i ever come across someone who does, i will be more understanding and open. Thank you all.
NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT ANTONY’S VOICE WITH THE LITTLE ALTER!!! His voice pitch went slightly up at the end, THE WAY WE DO WITH CHILDREN, he literally just went ‘yes this is a child’ almost unconscious, his pitch LITERALLY CHANGED
Olivia Shanks it’s a good thing! he’s recognizing that this alter is a child and has a childlike state of mind and is being respectful and trying to make them feel comfortable with him. the DissociaDID system is very protective of its littles so the fact that the little’s part was left in just shows that they felt comfortable letting him leave it in because of how he handled the switch
Olivia Shanks most definitely a good thing! The respect of seeing this alter as a child, not a ‘child-like personality’ is great, there’s a subconscious difference we all have when speaking to a child that we wouldn’t have with say a ‘little’ in the DDLG sense, like why I said, the pitch uptick at the end of his sentences
Coming from DissociaDID's channel, the fact that the Little fronting was kept in the edit is a HUGE deal because they've never featured their littles in any of their videos and they're incredibly protective of them. Anthony was quite kind of how he handled the sudden switches, especially for someone who is just learning about DID!
When the child alter said it’s lonely I cried. I don’t have D.I.D but my husband does and I know how hard it is for him, he also knows how lonely it can feel for me sometimes.
@@crispy4478 yeah definitely also imagine like in school you are doing say a math test and you forget some equation but the on of the other personality’s reminds you of the answer I think that would be cool.
yeah same, also the fact that Nin's system's protectors didn't front when the little came out, typically Jade or Kyle comes out to protect the little but they trusted Anthony.
I know right, it was really respectful, and overall just something extremely thoughtful Thing to do, Anthony did such a nice job interviewing them and making them feel comfortable.
not only Nin but Jade as well. i mean, she's like a mother protecting their children (or the system for that matter). and i think that it was 100% Jade who told them to not display the littles name/age.
she did a video about why she allowed it. simply because anthony and his crew were so accommodating and let her watch the clip and cut it as she saw fit. that gave me a whole new respect for him
As someone with OSDD I would like to say that the way Anthony talked to Nin when she was dissociating was great. He didn't yell, try to get her out of it, or make a loud noise, he just made sure she knew she was safe and that she could take a break if needed. This is how you should always treat people who are dissociating as it is often scary and confusing!
Ik right Nin is amazing. She’s so great and everyone in the system is a sweetheart. Also I’m sorry if this is wrong or rude I don’t mean anything and if you do see anything wrong with my comment please tell me.
The dislikes is just Kyle creating accounts because of the fookin skert and being called the banana guy (edit) omfg thank you sm for almost 7K likes i-
Man, nin talked to professionally and articulately, and then Kyle comes in like the absolute essex boy he is and asserts his dominance all while wearing a skirt 😂
Nin's alters all had me feeling all sorts of feelings - and her child alter's words were so beautiful and emotional and deep...got me in tears. What strength every single person and alter on this show had to talk about their struggles and joys with DID!
@@emiliagn those are the YT channels of Nin and her partner who both have DID! Nin's system is named "DisociaDID" if I'm not mistaken and her partner's system is named "Team Piñata" :DD
@@julianaseleneaguilan653 oh i know hehe, i thought the person was being shady because of the drama that there was, and didn't see the place for it here . but thanks you're niceeee :))
The way anthony was so soft and sweetnto the younger alter and how he spoke so softly, hoe he changed the question around for her to understand better. Such a caring dude
Raine L he’s really smart though. He gave really clear points and it was obvious he knew where he was talking about. I was super impressed with how he explained things while still showing his frustration.
Anthony was so nice to the child alter. I wish more people were like that, we're honestly kind of nervous to let our child alters front around anybody besides the hosts best friend.
The movie shown in psychology classes is Sybil which is based on a true story. Very interesting case cause now the real Sybil claims her therapist made it all up and put it in her head that she has DID
The way Anthony handled both switches and the child alter was BEYOND respectful and so so gentle and kind; I am consistently impressed and relieved to see his conduct in every single interview he's held.
Oh my God I really love little he or she was so cute and adorable and that smile just took my breath away I just want to give them a hug .I am very curious to know more about D.I.D now also When is a little Crying my heart just sank and I feel like I’m about to cry like oh my God we need to protect this little one.
shahely S EXACTLY! When the little started crying and saying they don’t feel alone anymore, I teared up. It’s nice that Nin was comfortable sharing that footage
Nin: Trying her hardest to stay in their body Kyle: stares into the distance for 30 seconds Anthony: do you need to take a moment ? Kyle: ... I'm sorry wot?
Yeah I'm actually here because of her. She and others in the system explain a lot of stuff about DID really well on their channel. It's called DissociaDID.
@Grayson Land I thought being a sociopath means you do not care about the feeling of others? Or is it more that you don't want to manipulate others because you know you are good at it but you know others don't think highly of manipulation?
Grayson Land it isn't odd from my perspective. You don't do it on purpose. Right? "Asshat" or otherwise (clever or not) doesn't help lol But yes. A lot of folks are coming to know you exist. I think it's for the best in the long run but either way you will be okay. 😘
@Grayson Land First and formost, thank you for sharing your story, I know it could feel very exposed to share a part of your life like that. However, I think your story could really help some people, like me, so thank you. Your experience wth ASPD made me realise I might suffer from ASPD myself. I never knew what might be wrong with me, but I've always known that either there is something wrong with me or I am just a bad person (,like one of those really boring villains who does bad thing simply because they are bad). I am extremely manipulative and I really want to be "better than that". However, at this point, manipulation is basically on autopilot: I say I don't want to do it but I do it anyway. I'm unsure whether to get help because I don't think I want to admit to anyone irl that I am a "bad" person. I have dip my toes into the pool before, going to a counsellor, because I wanted to change. But I end up making up other issues because I just couldnt get over the fact that I was gonna expose myself to someone irl that I do bad stuff to people, it's illogical and it's actually really scary. But my current state is really exhausting because a large part of me thinks I need to change and I need to be a better person, but there is also another part of me just don't see the point of changing. It doesn't really hurt me, a lot of times it doesn't really hurt anyone (they don't think they are being exploited, I make sure that they think they are the ones who wanted to offer me, their friend, the "help", they think they are doing a good thing, they feel good, I get what I want out of it, there is no tangible downside to it). just saying that alone makes me think I am a bad person and maybe I should change -- and the cycle continue. I want this feeling to end. This exhuasing, confusing and scary feeling. I wish your comment can be the answer to my confusion. But I know it isn't. I will have to get over myself and get real help eventually. As of now I don't think I am ready...
I loved the part where they talked about how kyle would hate her for calling him banana man, it really showed how realxed and welcime these people feel with anthony. This was so eye opening
Reminds me of the video where one of Nan’s (Nin’s partner [edit: actually there’s been recent drama which could’ve put this in jeopardy but I don’t wanna spread rumors for something I don’t know all about so anyway]) alters tried to do her makeup and then they started mocking Kyle, but then Nin felt him fronting and he muttered “I don’t fuckin sound like that”
Lets appreciate that Anthony and his team gave Kyle a jacket to cover his legs when he wasn’t comfortable wearing a skirt!! That was really attentive and polite of them!
I honestly love how Anthony is with these lovely people and their alters. He genuinely wants to understand and communicate. I have DID too and it's really nice to see someone not demonize or call us psychopaths or mental cases for once.
my mom dated a guy who discovered he had DID while dating her. after that, they came out a lot more often. his little’s would wake me up in the middle of the night asking me to play hide and seek or paint their nails or get them a snack.
just kinda scary when a grown man woke me up for the first time out of my dead sleep to paint his nails & cry bc “she” (eve) was dressed like a boy. it wasn’t all nice though. i loved his 2 littles (johnny & eve). he has 2 other alters that always fought each other over being the caretaker. a lot of times it resulted in scary things happening. he had another that would just run away from you bc he didn’t know where he was when he came in.
I have DID (diagnosed) and I can say it’s not fun. Sure there are positives and stuff but it sucks because there’s been times where another alter hurt my mom and I don’t remember it. Our system is very large and kinda chaotic, plus we have autism so that’s like a double whammy. Watching this video made me feel better about who I am as an alter and who we are as a system. Having trauma at that young of an age sucks. Thank you Anthony for this video
I strongly encourage you to watch dissociaDIDs videos on system communication. lots of strategies and techniques for moving towards a more peaceful and cohesive system.
Just curious… if you suddenly discover a jacket on your lap, would you be too busy with switching accents to not notice the jacket and act like you already knew it was there (even tho you had no option to know about it, since your personality switched after the jacket had been put on your lap)?
@@DonPetrushkait is very common that alters can co-con and are aware vaguely or all the way of what’s happening to whoever’s fronting. esp between protectors and hosts. it is explained by the one system in their videos that a lot of the time several people are fronting and watching
I've seen clips of this video all over, and finally decided to give it a try, and boy was that a good choice. Nothing new learned really, but seeing all of them talk and seems so comfortable is reassuring and fascinating. Seeing a child alter made me tear up though. Seeing such an innocent soul and knowing that they exist in part due to a trauma makes me so incredibly sad that they had to live through that...
Dude this man in the interview is SOOOOO respectful. “Take your time” “if you want a moment it’s ok” “nice to meet you” he was so nice to all of them and even gave the crying one a hug. Wow I’m impressed.
Vegan Pete that is absolutely ridiculous. They’re normal people too, why is hugging them a bad idea? In this case, it was a literal child who was crying. I most definitely think she needed a hug.
Vegan Pete that’s so fucking ridiculous, did you not watch the video, they’re people! They have been through so much they are very likely to never be dangerous or aggressive because they know what it’s like on the other side. That was a disgusting thing to say and I hope you get some better morals
Vegan Pete what “risks” are there? Because people with DID are never inherently dangerous people. That’s not what the disorder does. They are actually often *less* dangerous than the average person, because many of them would never react in a way that would put themselves in any kind of danger, such as attacking someone. So please tell me, what “risks” do you speak of?
I feel that when the little came out, I think it was Nin (or another grown alter) saying ‘there’s somebody else here I’m sorry’ being co-con based on the voice in that moment. And I think it may have been her being unable to come to full consciousness. And weather it was or it wasn’t it’s just such a different way to live and I feel for all of them in all three of the systems within the video. And gosh the little was so precious.
Do you all realise how horrible the “1-3% of people have DID” is? That means at least one person in every hundred you meet has experienced severe childhood trauma and abuse alongside not feeling a connection to their parents and/or caregivers. It’s legitimately horrifying. And also a big reason why videos like this are so important to spread the word. So thank you Anthony, DissociaDID, the Redwoods and Amanda and co. Thank you.
Thank you for pointing this out. I am one of the 1-3% of people with DID. As the memories resurface people have difficulty believing that that severity of abuse happens to us when we are so little. But there are cruel monsters out there. People who should not be allowed around children or anyone else.
lillmango not all childhood Trauma is caused by parents. Like for me some of my child hood trauma is caused by things like seeing my only friend in life pass away in a pool. Like my mom wasn’t the best but she did the best she could for our situation. So I wouldn’t necessarily say she’s the cause of my other trauma.
THIS is how you handle an interview with someone in a system. Anthony has truly earned so much of my respect. The fact DID System let him keep the little content in? They trust him 100%. Fantastic job.
I love how he rephrased some sentences and adapted his behaviour depending on which alter he was talking to. So much open mindfulness and respect it’s amazing 🌸 amazing
mint zi giving out information about littles on the internet can be dangerous, so many DID systems censor that info carefully. It’d be like giving out personal info about a small child to the entire internet: anyone can see it and know that info about the child.
What I find interesting is that when Kyle takes over for Nin, The accent and how the voice was carried shifted extremely, Despite it being quiet obviously the same voice, It was held like someone had swapped minds, Much how I imagined that the movies where they do that should. I could probably word this clearer and I know this was 3 years ago, But dang, This is intriguing!
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AnthonyPadilla thank you for being a legend
Legend
Thanks for always giving us awesome new content 💙
This is great! Props to you for the extra thought!
im here you should interview imigrants that came to the USA
Anthony: *hugs little*
Little: *cries*
Me: *sobs*
UA-cam: LETS SUPPOSE YOU ARE WRITING A REALLY IMPORTANT EMAIL TO A COLLEAGUE.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I hate that we all know exactly which commercial you’re talking about 😂
That’s on grammarly
HAGSHSHHS STOP
gOD DAMNIT G R A M M A R L Y
Nin: friendly, nice and sweet
Kyle: *f o o k i n s K i R t*
kyle is a kyle
Ezz eldin Abdelazim gotta love him right
This could potentially be very very rude of me, but we're all here to learn so please bear with me. is it rude to like one alter more than others
pvic I mean it’s like liking someone’s sibling more than the other one or liking a friend more than the others. As long as you’re not begging to talk to that one alter or visibly showing you’re not interested or attentive to the alter fronting, I think it’s all good. DissociaDID explains it in one of their livestream vids I believe.
@dr feel nahh i wasnt accusing of anyone doing that. This comment just triggered that thought. I'm not saying anyone likes one alter more than the other. But I could see some alters rubbing people the wrong way while other alters dont. Like one of the said, its like having 12 people in 1 body. I dont know if I've met 12 people I like all in the same place lmao. I'm sure as long as you're respectful, you should be good. Liek you would do with anyone DID or not
Nin: trying to keep it PG
Kyle: I'm gonna ruin this whole man's career
Lol
lmao
Wheeeeze
The Ghast Beast ALWAYS FUCKING ALWAYS LMFAO
Sooo true love Kyle lmaooo
Shoutout to whoever gave Kyle a jacket to cover up their legs. This entire video was so respectful and kind
It was Nin's jacket. I feel like they decided on trousers, then Nin decided skirt and brought a jacket just in case. lol
Ikr, like when I saw that I was so happy that Kyle can feel more comfortable
LOL G4YYYYYY
@@meisme20not appropriate for this kind of thing.
@@argosdash g4y ass response lmao
nin: happily wearing a skirt
kyle: god i gotta cover up
He did say they agreed on wearing trousers
@@nonexistingvoid Bet he couldn't believe it when he saw the skirt! 😅😂 "That liar!!!" 😂
@@sarahj2551 I wouldn't be surprised 😂
So he/she basically betrayed him/herself
@@Elvings92 Nin and Kyle are two different people.
They just share the same body and headspace.
So you could say Nin betrayed Kyle.
But I think this was just Nin dressing up nicely in her style.
Kyle is honestly such a mood, he’s great
“Do you need a moment?”
“Wot?”
bAnaNaS
Lol.. he just said "what"
Clare O'Connell it’s a joke take the joke
@@mayaharvey5363 No need to be a aggressive, Jesus. I aware it was a joke.
LMAOOOO
nin: gives a tedtalk
kyle: RiTE wOTs aLL tHiS ThEN
Lmaooooo. But I really really like Kyle. He's so carefree and optimistic and it just warms my heart.
LMAO STOP!! I LOVE KYLE THO 😂
LOL. YES I AS LIKE LMFAOOOOO THIS IS AESOME
HAHSHDJDJFJFJ
i love thissss 🤣🤣🤣
"I'm really sorry im too small" i cried so hard. What a sweet angel
I cried too once I realized she just fakes everything 🤦♂️
@@noahwhite3894 what?? is this fr?
@@yuki_mo0n183 yep yep it's pretty obvious
@yuki_mo0n183 I mean come on you cannot seriously watch this video with a straight face
@@noahwhite3894do you have actual proof of this? Or are you just choosing not to believe it?
"of course we're wearing a skirt" "stop lookin at my legs"
that is the most Kyle thing I have ever heard
XDDD Kyle tho
And the banana thing 😂 that’s SUCH a Kyle thing lmao
Kyle : forever mood
I love Kyle reacting to this interview. He takes over for Nin at one point to express his frustrations about being seen as the banana guy 😂 I would be mad too Kyle. If she had changed the outfit for this day without telling him
Kyle 🥺...
Anthony: We were doing an interview on DID...
Little: 😯 we have DID!
I don’t know why but every time a small child does something like that where an adult is saying oh this is what we’re talking about and they light up and go I/we know what that is or I/we have that it makes me cry cause it’s so adorable and heart warming
@@SA-uj2gx when they said that i started smiling cuz 'aww cute'
little is just so pure 🥺
I smile cried...
Alter was just soooo cute and pure..
PROTECT at all cost!!!
Price doesn't matter..
why am I not surprised that Kyle would eat in a tub and leave the leftovers lmao
Not at all!
faithhh “sorry babes i got peckish” 😂
Right!? 🤣🤣🤣
Honestly tho🤣
faithhh ua-cam.com/video/u7S9K8XjIk4/v-deo.html
The really scary thing about DID and it being more common than most people think it is, is that so many people faced that level of trauma in their childhoods. The real monsters are the people who hurt them, and there are so many of them out there. 😞
I couldn't have said it any better. This is so true.
Its more common than ginger hair. Nin was definitely right about how a lot of people have but dont realize it.
I think I have did but I’m not sure if my maladaptive daydreams are making me forget things, dissociate and make me feel like someone else?
@@harrietsmellsgo to the dr if you think you might have did. Don’t ask strangers on the internet
@@harrietsmellsI’d recommend going to the doctor because there’s a lot of other possible reasons too, you should just try and get it checked out
Ahh I love Kyle. The moment he fronted he’s like “sorry what?” And “Oh of course we’re in a skirt”
Ellie Desautels lol
Kyle was great
Anthony, tactfully not mentioning the banana.
Gotta love Kyle, he's such a bro
Kyle is totallyyyyy the type to just eat a banana in the tub 😂😂we love him
Nin: Kyle is banana boy haha
Kyle: LET ME OUT IT’S MY INTERVIEW NOW
Beanie Stranger012 i was shocked he didn’t front the second she called him that😂
Kyra Proulx me too😂😂
At some points it sounded like he was co-con and fronted randomly, so maybe.. 😂
Mickyreen which video is it?
@Mickyreen I remember that video!
"We are not alone anymore"
I'm not crying I'm just allergic to feelings
first time hear this one, 100% gonna steal it XD XD XD
Same
Black lives matter.
@@Mr.Amazing_-xg6xn huh?
Mr. Amazing _ The door 👉🏾🚪
dude. anthony was so caring and so kind to the little.
we don’t deserve him fr
Fr fr
then you must suk
“of course we’re wearing a f*cking skirt” i DIED kyle is such a mood
time stamp?
@@jululul 17:49
Kyle is great
I love that they gave Kyle a blanket to cover (their?) legs
God I loveeee kyle he is just such a mood loveee him
Nin: “Banana guy..”
Kyle: *popped out* “wot”
also, their accents are so obviously different from each other. Kyle drags his words more.
I honestly love kyle’s voice
Kyle is basically London/essex accent. Nin is a bit more RP london.
timestamp?
If you looked closely, when Kyle switched over her eyes changed...not really but you could tell especially from the eyes that it wasn’t her anymore
@@wovvme I'm glad I'm not the only one that noticed it. Can definitely see the pupils dilate a couple times during the switch.
I find it interesting that with Nin's the body visibly pauses and 'reboots' while others like Z it's nothing more than a hesitation in speaking pace.
The second Kyle came forward and said, “sorry, what?” I said, “that’s kyle” out loud.
Same I noticed the Sussex accent
Lol same 😂
I love kyle so much i was stoked when he came out!
Yup! I like that the mid-roll add kicked in right as Kyle fronted, it gave me a second to pat myself on the back for recognizing him immediately 😅
Oh whoops I put this on the wrong comment
The “we have did!” melted my heart😭❤️
As a teen who was diagnosed with dissociation at either 7-8 I can relate to this a lot, and for some reason it means a lot to see someone with kind of the same as me dissociate and have an alter come to the front cause it makes me feel less alone. I have a lot of alters, but I have one that I’d like to specifically mention; her name is Bella and she’s six, and she thinks Nin is very pretty :)
Edit: Bella is now Seven, her birthday was a week ago lol
happy late birthday Bella! :)
I had a friend, my best friend, (we grew apart but oh well) who has OSDD. The previous host was named Bella. She’s 8.
If you ever need to talk I’m always open, I have experience handling these situations
@@shelbym4155 aww she says thank you so much! She says she’s sending smiles and ice cream your way :)
(ice cream is her favourite food lol)
@@kass-831 that’s very kind of you, thank you. I hope you’re doing well :)
@@MissysPlayPalace me too! Tell Bella I said happy belated birthday :))) sending ice cream for her
Nin: 😌
Kyle:🤠
Little:🥺
*Kyle: 🤠
@@idontknowwhatimdoingwithmy5877 NUUUH
Kyle: *England itself*
@Hasiger Hase it's not fake...you dont know shit fam keep that to yourself
@Hasiger Hase it's not fake
@@thraxxxxxxxx Their brain is making other personalities as a defend mechanisam due to past trauma and mostly loneliness.We are socity beings we arent made to live this life alone.And if we dont have anyone some brains will create others in our head to fix that and thats when it comes to DID or to in case of trauma it will make new peronality because brain cant deal with that trauma and it wants to start over with new personality that didnt live trough trauma that happend.
Nin: talks like a professional
Kyle: "there's a shit ton of evidence"
"it is bollocks" lmao
Kyle is amazing
Kyle is so freaking cute😂💕
That’s why I love Kyle
also "its bollocks!" we stan Kyle.
I love how immediately after Nin switched to Kyle he starts swearing
"Of course she she wore a f***ing skirt" Lmao
I also just realized Kyle squints more than Nin
I love Kyle sooooooooo much
Angel Tirta Yeah he’s all like “idc if u r wearing a skirt, have makeup on, have female like facial features, and have long hair!? You’re one of the dudes!
yeh and his accent was so different
Anthony is the best interviewer ever, so compassionate and kind. There should be more like him, but there aren't. God bless you, Anthony.
Yeah I wish more people uncritically listened to grifters
People say this about every good video they see.
“Everything’s different” “What’s different?” “We’re not alone anymore.” ❤️❤️❤️😭
I knoww i felt that 100%. Im also greatfull because the system is very protective of their littles and so shes never let a little on her videos be names or even shown in a magority of her vids so that was cool
Totally made me cry
CasWay413 I CRIED
My littles broke down hearing that, we haven’t felt alone thanks to the dissociadid system 💕
ahhh the tears streaming down maa face!
Kyle, showing up to the interview: ight so what’s all this then
laurelai mann lmao
The fact that he immediately put their hair up and covered their legs with the coat 😂
HAHAHHAHA
i was ready for him to say “i’m not the banana man”
I can HEAR THAT CLEARLY in my head.
Kyle: Oh yeah Nin is about to come out and answer this question.
Little: Hi!
Kyle: *O h*
jade must be SO PISSED OFF ANS SCARED
i can truly imagine kyle panicking and being like: oh. shit.
Kyle, Stepping back into inner world.
Nin: oh hey kyle
Kyle: wait i thought you were fronting next
nin: wait if im not fronting and you’re not fronting..
kyle: *shit thE LITTLES*
@@hikarishin7030 Oh 1000000%
@@eyeluvviewtwo1814
nin: so what happened? (Why am i crying?)
Little just came out and did an amazing job answering the question. Do you want to redo it?
Nin: oh yeah sure. (I hope the little wasn't upset)
"We're not alone anymore" part gets me evertime... I've watched this interview bunch of times and i still cry at that part. I don't have D.I.D. But if i ever come across someone who does, i will be more understanding and open. Thank you all.
NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT ANTONY’S VOICE WITH THE LITTLE ALTER!!! His voice pitch went slightly up at the end, THE WAY WE DO WITH CHILDREN, he literally just went ‘yes this is a child’ almost unconscious, his pitch LITERALLY CHANGED
Mae M So are you saying that’s a bad thing, or a good thing?
Olivia Shanks it’s a good thing! he’s recognizing that this alter is a child and has a childlike state of mind and is being respectful and trying to make them feel comfortable with him. the DissociaDID system is very protective of its littles so the fact that the little’s part was left in just shows that they felt comfortable letting him leave it in because of how he handled the switch
It's amazing that he is so understanding! This is how you do things and talk to people with mental disorders
Olivia Shanks most definitely a good thing! The respect of seeing this alter as a child, not a ‘child-like personality’ is great, there’s a subconscious difference we all have when speaking to a child that we wouldn’t have with say a ‘little’ in the DDLG sense, like why I said, the pitch uptick at the end of his sentences
Mae M OK WE GET IT
Nin: *speaks professionally*
Kyle: "IT'S BOLLOCKS"
He is a mood
Mitsuba同様に why would it be offensive? Kyle seems really cool tbh
@@mitsuba675 why would it be offensive? Why must EVERYTHING be offensive? Laugh and move on.
@@mitsuba675 unless you offend them or make fun of them, it's not offensive
Proper English bloke
When the child came to the front, all confused and shy, but lit up when Anthony explained the situation.... Oh my god that was so cute
Q Fesk wich part is that
Lorenlovespink5 23:22
Dude I can't it was so flipping cute 😭😭😭
When she stated crying I almost cried ;-; she was so wholesome 💜🤍💜🤍
Coming from DissociaDID's channel, the fact that the Little fronting was kept in the edit is a HUGE deal because they've never featured their littles in any of their videos and they're incredibly protective of them. Anthony was quite kind of how he handled the sudden switches, especially for someone who is just learning about DID!
When the child alter said it’s lonely I cried. I don’t have D.I.D but my husband does and I know how hard it is for him, he also knows how lonely it can feel for me sometimes.
nin: "Kyle, the banana guy"
all dissociadid watchers: "yup, that's Kyle"
It really is.
I loved hearing her mention this story. Made me feel like I was in on something
time stamp?
@@aisyahnassim2545 6:23
Haha yep that’s so him 🤣
I love when Kyle comes out and the first thing he says is “of corse we’re in a f*cking skirt”
time?
-Vix the shadow therian- 17:52
and then he’s like stop looking at my legs and covers his legs with a jacket 😂
Ariel Schlusemeyer it was nice they gave him something to cover his legs up with
Didn't even make it 22 seconds into the video before I read this comment; I'm now more inclined to finish. 10/10 entertained
nin: *explaining did in a formal language*
kyle: lmao skrrt skrrt
Child: “I don’t know where I am 🥺🥺”
Yeah I could hear how Kyle had a deeper voice and a thicker accent
LMAOOO
nono, no skirts here
Lmaoo Kyle the banana guy
Nin is fascinating. Her personalities are so distinct. mannerisms, accents, facial expressions. Did anyone spot how Kyle sat differently?
Like a dude, and when the kid came she bounced around like a kid.
And people still think she's faking it
@@The-Busy-Beeeeeexactly , even if I try to force myself to see the acting, I can't see it.
@@dhaatri014 neither
I love how Kyle immediately went to shake the guys hand he's so friendly
Nin: yeah I'm sure Kyle is gonna LOVE this skirt
Kyle: ah shit here we go again
Hahahaha
LMAO
XD
kyle’s accent is SO much stronger than nin’s, also i love it that they gave him a jacket 🤧
that's exactly what i was thinking! Nin's accent was so soft and Kyle's was much stronger
@@crispy4478 yeah definitely also imagine like in school you are doing say a math test and you forget some equation but the on of the other personality’s reminds you of the answer I think that would be cool.
Yea I immediately picked that up
Lol
"Him" you mean her?
I love that he asked the alters permission before continuing to ask questions when they switched.
yeah same, also the fact that Nin's system's protectors didn't front when the little came out, typically Jade or Kyle comes out to protect the little but they trusted Anthony.
Same! Anthony's one of the few UA-camrs I've seen who've been very respectful and mindful of how they interview people with DID.
cLaN_Barbalax jade is goated. Gotta love jade
I know right, it was really respectful, and overall just something extremely thoughtful Thing to do, Anthony did such a nice job interviewing them and making them feel comfortable.
He's super respectful and sensitive. :)
alright, kyle seems cool asf
Kyle is a whole mood, he's such a good protector
I wanna meet Kyle
Reminds me of the cooler older brother that's protective of his siblings
trueee
Hell yah he is lmao
Nin : *talking like a psychology major*
Kylie : * itS fOkiNg B.O.L.L.O.C.K.S*
Kyle*
One of The littles : *Being adorable, confused and happy*
Kyle*
@@Why-uo7cj *and then sad*
@Lady Jane its supposed to be Kyle I think they just misclicked
You can tell Nin has given A LOT of trust in Anthony because she never shows her littles on camera ever
not only Nin but Jade as well. i mean, she's like a mother protecting their children (or the system for that matter). and i think that it was 100% Jade who told them to not display the littles name/age.
That’s what I was thinking! I was genuinely surprised that one of the littles was on camera
she did a video about why she allowed it. simply because anthony and his crew were so accommodating and let her watch the clip and cut it as she saw fit. that gave me a whole new respect for him
We can also see in the subtitles how Anthony and his crew are loving the Little that came out to play ! :D
I actually have a feeling some of the alters would be unhappy with that decision. Namely Jade
As someone with OSDD I would like to say that the way Anthony talked to Nin when she was dissociating was great. He didn't yell, try to get her out of it, or make a loud noise, he just made sure she knew she was safe and that she could take a break if needed. This is how you should always treat people who are dissociating as it is often scary and confusing!
Nin and Anthony: *making fun of Kyle*
Kyle: *kicks down door* “I HEARD U WAS TALKIN SHITE”
EXACTLY 🤣🤣
This made me actually slap my knee
🤣
I fucking laugh
Everytime 😂
No one:
Kyle: "I'm sorrey whoat"
Us: KYLE MY GUY
Nina Torres literally my EXACT reaction
YEEESSS SAME
YEAAAAAH I KNEW IT WAS OUR BOY😎
YAS! “Of course we wore a fucking skirt” 😂😂😂
This sound like a bunch of bullshit. But i respect
The girl w purple hair was so chill and respectful.
The DissociaDID system is full of sweethearts ^-^
Ik right Nin is amazing. She’s so great and everyone in the system is a sweetheart. Also I’m sorry if this is wrong or rude I don’t mean anything and if you do see anything wrong with my comment please tell me.
witch one?
The child alter was very cute
Is her name nin or chloe? Bcause im confuse
Using split to educate kids about did is like using jaws to educate them about sharks
Lol literally.
What about using Fast and furious to educate kids about safe driving?
@@DonPetrushka to teach them about family
Well considering they conveniently swap personalities like it’s split, split can’t be that bad
@@xypherath their switches were NOT convenient AT ALL, especially when it comes to littles
Kyle: so we're gonna wear trousers, right?
Nin: sure!
Kyle: oh okay...
Nin: SYKE
No hat either for him to wear
Kyle: ...we’re wearing trousers, right?
Nin: Of course!
Kyle: ...Why you holding the skirt then?
Nin: ...
Kyle: ...
The dislikes is just Kyle creating accounts because of the fookin skert and being called the banana guy
(edit) omfg thank you sm for almost 7K likes i-
And the "banana guy" incident :D
Skert
Underrated comment
B a n a n a i n c i d e n t
Also the banana guy comment as well
Anthony: We're talking about DID...
Nin's Little: We have DID! 🤗
MY HEART 💖
I was SOBBING
Why did I read that as “did” and not “d-i-d”
so cute ;--;
Angel Skyy me too 😭🥰
Queen P0tat0 23:40
Anthony handle that so well. Knew exactly how to talk to each one. I LITERALLY cried when the baby came out.
Nin: *talking like a psychologist*
Kyle: ITS B O L L O C K S
I love Kyle he's so funny😂
typical essex boy 🤣
I like bollocks it’s a cool swear word
Man, nin talked to professionally and articulately, and then Kyle comes in like the absolute essex boy he is and asserts his dominance all while wearing a skirt 😂
gotta love kyle
Nin: * literally the sweetest person ever*
*switch*
Kyle: Fookin SKERT
Lauras Chronicles he’s incredible 🤣👏🏻
😂😂😂
Kyle is the best ngl
@@doodlebug7826 he really is 😂😂
Fookin SKERT
In a technical sense, this is the most amount of people Anthony interviewed.
Yeah, kinda.
At a time
Yeah
It's... Eight, I think?
Lord Of Deception no nin has 22
Nin's alters all had me feeling all sorts of feelings - and her child alter's words were so beautiful and emotional and deep...got me in tears. What strength every single person and alter on this show had to talk about their struggles and joys with DID!
Anthony: We're talking about DID
Nin's little: *lights up* We have DID!
Ikk it sounded so sweet
@@mylkshake3332 it looked really cute and adorable! Right?
Time stamp?
@@bonelesspizza3520 23:38
It was so cute, I loved them!
The way Kyle just came out and went full chad was actually kinda sick ngl.
Nighttmare IKR? Kyle is so cool
I was just about to say that! even their accent changed and everything!
the way nin was speaking totally changed when they became kyle and the way he changed his hair
the name Kyle really does fit him
Daniel Burns kyle energy in the best way
Anthony: we can stop this interview at any time Kyle: NAH
Thats Kyle for ya 😂
Sadie Mcmurray I love Kyle, he’s so funny and personable
Kyle is such a babe honestly
Kyle literally doesn't exist
Kyle from Dissociadid system?(I’m only 4min in and happened to see this comment)
The child alter is a baby 😭😭 The little is probably like 3-5 I can tell and it’s so sweet and wholesome 😭😭 they don’t deserve that 😭😭❤️❤️
What if she's in the middle of having sex and her underage kid alter comes out?
As soon as Kyle said "sorry what" I was like oh Kyle because of his accent
Same!
Nin dissociated and I knew Kyle was coming up front. Then he talked and I was right lol
SAME
@{DevilChild} his yorky accent lol thats how you know
@@impossible8034 what that even mean lmao
Little: * bounces in the chair *
Everyone: If someone hurts you I will destroy them with all the fires of hell
Well, it's destroying time
If you want to you should look up team piñata disocidid
@@serenabean868 what for? like whats the point
@@emiliagn those are the YT channels of Nin and her partner who both have DID! Nin's system is named "DisociaDID" if I'm not mistaken and her partner's system is named "Team Piñata" :DD
@@julianaseleneaguilan653 oh i know hehe, i thought the person was being shady because of the drama that there was, and didn't see the place for it here . but thanks you're niceeee :))
When Nin's little said
"We're not alone anymore"
*EVERYONE CRIED AT THAT*
@@oaix8100 my comment says Nin's little
Little lives in Nin
I literally started tearing up too man, because I somehow can understand how helpless they must've felt before...
@@holicxhunter me too
Maybe most of us relate to their situation💔
i swear to god i actually almost did
I CRIED
The way anthony was so soft and sweetnto the younger alter and how he spoke so softly, hoe he changed the question around for her to understand better. Such a caring dude
when nin switched out i was like “it’s gonna be kyle i know it’s gonna be kyle” bless him though the damn outfit🤦🏻♀️😂
Same😂
Me too! As soon as they switched he gave a look and I was like oh that's Kyle!
Same, poor Kyle with the skirt, I'm glad nin had brought her jacket.
Kyle was fighting to switch out around 13:10 too when he said "why in the world" 😭😂
I literally threw my hands up and yelled KYYYYLLLE!
THE WAY NIN DRESSED UP AND KYLE POPPED UP AND WAS LIKE "oh hell nah" THAT WAS AMAZING
WHICH TIME MARK? GIVE PLESASE.
@@dumplinglover8042 17:57
I KNOW @TRIZTEN, IT WAS SO FUNNY!
Kyle has a completely different accent to Nin as well it's so cool
I got chills watching that part.
Nin: talks like a professional psychologist
Kyle: “there’s a sh*t ton of evidence”
Lol love them both
Raine L he’s really smart though. He gave really clear points and it was obvious he knew where he was talking about. I was super impressed with how he explained things while still showing his frustration.
Raine L Nin is really well spoken and Kyle talks like me lol. He is very smart, everyone in the system is I think, even the littles 💕
Kyle passed the vibe check
I love Kyle. He is super capable and great at his job as primary protector, but he keeps it real
sarahtolkien banana guy 🤣 bet he’s thrilled with that one lol. He can’t be banana man because that was already a cartoon years ago lol.
Anthony was so nice to the child alter. I wish more people were like that, we're honestly kind of nervous to let our child alters front around anybody besides the hosts best friend.
I think I saw you somewhere before
Hopefully this interview is used in classrooms instead of that movie.
ELPAdog
EXACTLY. That’s so sad they used a movie to educate people on such a sensitive topic.
The movie shown in psychology classes is Sybil which is based on a true story. Very interesting case cause now the real Sybil claims her therapist made it all up and put it in her head that she has DID
I couldnt agree more
Yeah it's sad because my psychology professor did show the movie to teach us about it but I had to tell her that it's really damaging
I’m a teacher, and I used this video online fro my kids to watch, thanks for the suggestion! :)
The way Anthony handled both switches and the child alter was BEYOND respectful and so so gentle and kind; I am consistently impressed and relieved to see his conduct in every single interview he's held.
Tony Banner can you drop the times
cortney imes for the DissociaDID system: 17:08 (Kyle, primary protector) and 22:47 (little/child alter)
He's truly remarkable and respectful! We are so lucky to have him as a role model really..
Tony Banner he’s just a great human being
I got teary eyes he’s so professional, yet caring at the same time and showed genuine concern.
Nin: talks like professional and understandable.
Kyle: talks like swag and power .
Child: full of innocence and depth.
lmao **swag**
I think you mean "Little"
Oh my God I really love little he or she was so cute and adorable and that smile just took my breath away I just want to give them a hug .I am very curious to know more about D.I.D now also When is a little Crying my heart just sank and I feel like I’m about to cry like oh my God we need to protect this little one.
shahely S EXACTLY! When the little started crying and saying they don’t feel alone anymore, I teared up. It’s nice that Nin was comfortable sharing that footage
omg I didn't get to that part yet, now I am anxious.
christ it's so refreshing to see my disorder being humanized. thanks Anthony for these respectful interviews.
Nin: Trying her hardest to stay in their body
Kyle: stares into the distance for 30 seconds
Anthony: do you need to take a moment ?
Kyle: ... I'm sorry wot?
At that point the switch was over, he was just being a dumbass and staring in deep space lmao
@@wreckitben1278 no, they switching still, it's not always instantaneous
@@wreckitben1278 I figured xD
@@wreckitben1278 nah he was dissociating which can cause dizzeness and shit afterwards
@@finnley905 Wait I thought you were the other guy but false alarm phew
The girl with the black/purple hair , knows how to explain stuff to us , i feel like she made it as simple as possible for our stupid mind’s
She has her own channel where she teaches about and shows parts of living with DID. It's really good
highly suggest their channel, its beautiful go check it if youre free :')
#DissociaDID
Fatma Dez she’s amazing
Yeah I'm actually here because of her. She and others in the system explain a lot of stuff about DID really well on their channel. It's called DissociaDID.
She has her own youtube channel , it's very good ! ❤
"We're not monsters. We're not out to get people. We are often... hiding from monsters" What a powerful statement.
@Grayson Land I'm sorry that happened to you, Grayson. I do understand.
@Grayson Land I thought being a sociopath means you do not care about the feeling of others? Or is it more that you don't want to manipulate others because you know you are good at it but you know others don't think highly of manipulation?
Grayson Land it isn't odd from my perspective. You don't do it on purpose. Right? "Asshat" or otherwise (clever or not) doesn't help lol
But yes. A lot of folks are coming to know you exist. I think it's for the best in the long run but either way you will be okay. 😘
@Grayson Land thank you for this it really helped me understand the disorder better!
@Grayson Land First and formost, thank you for sharing your story, I know it could feel very exposed to share a part of your life like that. However, I think your story could really help some people, like me, so thank you. Your experience wth ASPD made me realise I might suffer from ASPD myself. I never knew what might be wrong with me, but I've always known that either there is something wrong with me or I am just a bad person (,like one of those really boring villains who does bad thing simply because they are bad). I am extremely manipulative and I really want to be "better than that". However, at this point, manipulation is basically on autopilot: I say I don't want to do it but I do it anyway. I'm unsure whether to get help because I don't think I want to admit to anyone irl that I am a "bad" person. I have dip my toes into the pool before, going to a counsellor, because I wanted to change. But I end up making up other issues because I just couldnt get over the fact that I was gonna expose myself to someone irl that I do bad stuff to people, it's illogical and it's actually really scary. But my current state is really exhausting because a large part of me thinks I need to change and I need to be a better person, but there is also another part of me just don't see the point of changing. It doesn't really hurt me, a lot of times it doesn't really hurt anyone (they don't think they are being exploited, I make sure that they think they are the ones who wanted to offer me, their friend, the "help", they think they are doing a good thing, they feel good, I get what I want out of it, there is no tangible downside to it). just saying that alone makes me think I am a bad person and maybe I should change -- and the cycle continue. I want this feeling to end. This exhuasing, confusing and scary feeling. I wish your comment can be the answer to my confusion. But I know it isn't. I will have to get over myself and get real help eventually. As of now I don't think I am ready...
I loved the part where they talked about how kyle would hate her for calling him banana man, it really showed how realxed and welcime these people feel with anthony. This was so eye opening
anthony and nin: lmao banana man
kyle, vibing in the inner-world, probably eating a banana: ...I'm sensing someone's talking shit about me
Nah more like "did someone say banana?"
Reminds me of the video where one of Nan’s (Nin’s partner [edit: actually there’s been recent drama which could’ve put this in jeopardy but I don’t wanna spread rumors for something I don’t know all about so anyway]) alters tried to do her makeup and then they started mocking Kyle, but then Nin felt him fronting and he muttered “I don’t fuckin sound like that”
Kyle heard the word banana and immediately started sprinting to the front
InsufficientSerotoninProduction "IOm SEnsin sOmeOnEs taLkin shiEt abOu me"
Katie Tucker what was the video?
When Nin’s Little alter said “We’re not alone anymore” I started tearing up
I full on cried bro
Crying rn
when
Same. I feel so sorry for them all, both the Systems of Nin as well as all the people with DID
what time lolol
Lets appreciate that Anthony and his team gave Kyle a jacket to cover his legs when he wasn’t comfortable wearing a skirt!! That was really attentive and polite of them!
And the hair tie
ikr he is so repsectful and a great interviewer!
Anthony is Mexican
@@Coffeeisnecessarynowpepper okay?
Anthony is mexican
I honestly love how Anthony is with these lovely people and their alters. He genuinely wants to understand and communicate. I have DID too and it's really nice to see someone not demonize or call us psychopaths or mental cases for once.
I love how kyle comes in and is like: my legs are sacred
leg pics are for paying customers only
But like how could you love someone displaying discomfort?
yep, we LOOOOVE dysphoria. so funny! so cute!
Ikr fr I can totally relate
AHAH YES
my mom dated a guy who discovered he had DID while dating her. after that, they came out a lot more often. his little’s would wake me up in the middle of the night asking me to play hide and seek or paint their nails or get them a snack.
That’s seriously cute
awwwww
just kinda scary when a grown man woke me up for the first time out of my dead sleep to paint his nails & cry bc “she” (eve) was dressed like a boy. it wasn’t all nice though. i loved his 2 littles (johnny & eve). he has 2 other alters that always fought each other over being the caretaker. a lot of times it resulted in scary things happening. he had another that would just run away from you bc he didn’t know where he was when he came in.
that’s absolutely adorable 🥺
awwww, i have this, this is so pure
"So, you just realized that you were in a bathtub with a half eaten banana."
*Ad: I can't believe it.*
Conner Stout WELL YA BETTER BELIVE IT 👍
@@ur.mum.cum. OKAY! :D
I have DID (diagnosed) and I can say it’s not fun. Sure there are positives and stuff but it sucks because there’s been times where another alter hurt my mom and I don’t remember it. Our system is very large and kinda chaotic, plus we have autism so that’s like a double whammy. Watching this video made me feel better about who I am as an alter and who we are as a system. Having trauma at that young of an age sucks. Thank you Anthony for this video
I strongly encourage you to watch dissociaDIDs videos on system communication. lots of strategies and techniques for moving towards a more peaceful and cohesive system.
Just curious… if you suddenly discover a jacket on your lap, would you be too busy with switching accents to not notice the jacket and act like you already knew it was there (even tho you had no option to know about it, since your personality switched after the jacket had been put on your lap)?
@@DonPetrushkait is very common that alters can co-con and are aware vaguely or all the way of what’s happening to whoever’s fronting. esp between protectors and hosts. it is explained by the one system in their videos that a lot of the time several people are fronting and watching
How many alters do you have? Just curious
“stop looking at my legs” *proceeds to put a jacket on legs*
I felt so bad for kyle, i've felt that scared and embarrassed when in the presence of men due to trauma and its a horrible feeling
@@brynbarton9314 Is the same person as her so she was the one abused
When Kyle fronted and they gave him a jacket for his legs and a hair tie to put it up, like that's so nice and respectful
Nin actually brought the jacket
Filza Mahmood Anthony said his producer gave it to him lol
Liz Dynok yeah Nin brought a jacket and took it off before the interview, so the producer went and grabbed it to give to Kyle
Sarah Stevens ohh ok
Jack Mehoff I don’t understand the question, sorry what do you mean?
Nobody:
Kyle: imma eat a banana in the bathtub
Well, he’s hungry. Let the dude have his banana 😩😂
6:16
I've seen clips of this video all over, and finally decided to give it a try, and boy was that a good choice.
Nothing new learned really, but seeing all of them talk and seems so comfortable is reassuring and fascinating.
Seeing a child alter made me tear up though. Seeing such an innocent soul and knowing that they exist in part due to a trauma makes me so incredibly sad that they had to live through that...
Dude this man in the interview is SOOOOO respectful. “Take your time” “if you want a moment it’s ok” “nice to meet you” he was so nice to all of them and even gave the crying one a hug. Wow I’m impressed.
Vegan Pete why?
I want to like your comment but it’s at 666😂
Vegan Pete that is absolutely ridiculous. They’re normal people too, why is hugging them a bad idea? In this case, it was a literal child who was crying. I most definitely think she needed a hug.
Vegan Pete that’s so fucking ridiculous, did you not watch the video, they’re people! They have been through so much they are very likely to never be dangerous or aggressive because they know what it’s like on the other side. That was a disgusting thing to say and I hope you get some better morals
Vegan Pete what “risks” are there? Because people with DID are never inherently dangerous people. That’s not what the disorder does. They are actually often *less* dangerous than the average person, because many of them would never react in a way that would put themselves in any kind of danger, such as attacking someone. So please tell me, what “risks” do you speak of?
But can we just appreciate anthony for not snitching on nin for calling kyle "banana guy" lmao
Lmao true
just wait until they watch the video
Time stamp??
@@iamunique1792 10:30
I mean keeping it a secret seems worst
Was lowkey tearing up when Nin’s child alter cried. Broke my heart.
Tearing up only? I'm sobbing silently here at 4AM what are you talking about
Me too it made me cry
Same made me cry
me too :(
Nin's?
I feel that when the little came out, I think it was Nin (or another grown alter) saying ‘there’s somebody else here I’m sorry’ being co-con based on the voice in that moment. And I think it may have been her being unable to come to full consciousness. And weather it was or it wasn’t it’s just such a different way to live and I feel for all of them in all three of the systems within the video. And gosh the little was so precious.
Do you all realise how horrible the “1-3% of people have DID” is? That means at least one person in every hundred you meet has experienced severe childhood trauma and abuse alongside not feeling a connection to their parents and/or caregivers. It’s legitimately horrifying. And also a big reason why videos like this are so important to spread the word. So thank you Anthony, DissociaDID, the Redwoods and Amanda and co. Thank you.
:( seriously some ppl really should not be parents
100% this comment. Children are the most vulnerable members of society and need the most protection we can give them.
Thank you for pointing this out. I am one of the 1-3% of people with DID. As the memories resurface people have difficulty believing that that severity of abuse happens to us when we are so little. But there are cruel monsters out there. People who should not be allowed around children or anyone else.
I experienced childhood trauma. A lot of it. I don’t have DID but I do have PTSD and am in therapy still and I’m old af. Like over 25. It’s hard.
lillmango not all childhood Trauma is caused by parents. Like for me some of my child hood trauma is caused by things like seeing my only friend in life pass away in a pool. Like my mom wasn’t the best but she did the best she could for our situation. So I wouldn’t necessarily say she’s the cause of my other trauma.
THIS is how you handle an interview with someone in a system. Anthony has truly earned so much of my respect. The fact DID System let him keep the little content in? They trust him 100%. Fantastic job.
Agreed!
I love how he rephrased some sentences and adapted his behaviour depending on which alter he was talking to. So much open mindfulness and respect it’s amazing 🌸 amazing
Is the DID system strict? Why wouldn't they let him keep that content?
mint zi giving out information about littles on the internet can be dangerous, so many DID systems censor that info carefully. It’d be like giving out personal info about a small child to the entire internet: anyone can see it and know that info about the child.
@@dvlishbrunette23 ohh i see. Thanks for explaining
kyle: DONT LOOK AT MY LEGS
*gives him a coat
Wholesome 100
him?
Bdx Hdhd different alters can chose their sexuality race religion age and gender they may look the same but they are all very different
@@Mha_enthusiast0 bruh it's not possible to choose what age, gender, or race you are that's some fictional stuff.
Bdx Hdhd yes you can these people who have mpd are not like us have you ever heard of trans people, gays or non bio ppl?
I love how anthony is so respectful about this and supporting the little and hugging the little its so pure, thank you for being so kind anthony❤️
I could tell Kyle fronted from the moment he said “sorry, what?”
EXACTLY!
yea
Wym fronted?
What fronting means the alter comes forward and takes over
the moment he said that I was like "ok kyle"you can literally TELL THAT that's Kyle who's fronting
Listening to Anthony’s voice go from his normal tone to something more gentle when he’s talking to the young alter was so pure.
Rebecca Bisaccio his a great guy, that just warms my heart 🥰
ikr he's so sweet
Yeah he treated her so well, made her feel safe
And how sweet he was when they were switching, and all the nice things he says, so cute
JeonghannieJamms around 23:00
“We’re not monsters.. were most often hiding from monsters” aww 😢
They are all great people
People are not the enemy. The monsters which are demons are the enemy. Jesus saves people from these monsters.
Yes!!! That line will definitely stay with me 😢
@@Ronyoutubething yes
is there a time stamp?
What I find interesting is that when Kyle takes over for Nin, The accent and how the voice was carried shifted extremely, Despite it being quiet obviously the same voice, It was held like someone had swapped minds, Much how I imagined that the movies where they do that should.
I could probably word this clearer and I know this was 3 years ago,
But dang, This is intriguing!
It’s a completely different person and Kyle’s a boy.