Nurse at L.A. County Jail-Nurse D

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  • @Nurse__d__
    @Nurse__d__ 16 днів тому +2892

    Nurse D here! :) Thank you all for the positive feedback it is an honor to be a nurse at this capacity and being able to share my story!! Thank you for the opportunity Mark 🙏🏼💕

    • @Stepheub
      @Stepheub 16 днів тому +60

      Fellow RN and Venturan here. Thanks for sharing your story! 😊

    • @marysunshine5587
      @marysunshine5587 16 днів тому +30

      Thank you for sharing your story

    • @wojciechgrzybowski7497
      @wojciechgrzybowski7497 16 днів тому +24

      Cool story. Greetings from sunny Poland.

    • @scottmalpass4802
      @scottmalpass4802 16 днів тому +18

      Thanks Nurse_D_! Awesome interview. 😎💪🏁

    • @betsylaughlin8652
      @betsylaughlin8652 16 днів тому +27

      You are a great interview subject. Truly an angel warrior🙏💕 👑

  • @hellraisincraisin
    @hellraisincraisin 16 днів тому +1261

    “I’m here to provide care, unbiased care” a true Nurse! We appreciate your hard work and efforts Nurse D! You make a difference ❤

    • @Health-Wealth-Hope
      @Health-Wealth-Hope 16 днів тому +14

      I love your comment... Well stated❣️

    • @hellraisincraisin
      @hellraisincraisin 16 днів тому +6

      @@Health-Wealth-Hope thank you! I hope you have a great day 💓

    • @michaelleonard1491
      @michaelleonard1491 16 днів тому +3

      I don’t know see much difference

    • @life_withl
      @life_withl 16 днів тому +2

      Amen

    • @rgh-mf2nr
      @rgh-mf2nr 16 днів тому +2

      Unfortunately this attitude is few and far between. Correction nurses start thinking they're deputies pretty quickly and milking the system becomes the mindset.

  • @blondieblu8819
    @blondieblu8819 16 днів тому +572

    Thank you for interviewing a nurse. It is SUCH a hard profession and she approaches it in the most professional way. She deserves the upmost respect and admiration.

    • @kimh4508
      @kimh4508 16 днів тому +3

      Thank you Blondie ~ I’ve been a nurse over 30 years. Graduated at age 19. I can tell ya from experience…it’s a challenging and often disheartening career!! She mentioned politics - there’s distinct politics within corporate life too!! All that said, caring and serving the public all my life, without bias to my best ability.

    • @pennyp7382
      @pennyp7382 16 днів тому +7

      It's really not. Most are lazy and incompetent, but graduated. I'm not speaking out of arrogance or ignorance. I worked in the hospital 10 years and in the outpatient 5, plastic surgery assistant for 6. More don't care. Sad but true.

    • @michaelscott33
      @michaelscott33 15 днів тому +3

      Very rarely do you find a nurse that actually works hard. The field is over saturated now and full of gossip girls and lazy brainless zombies. I was a nurse tech for 10 years, BSN for 2 years and now I am a critical care physician. It’s sad how entitled and arrogant most nurses are nowadays.

    • @woodiewill1907
      @woodiewill1907 15 днів тому +2

      I witnessed 2 brand new young nurses manhandle my terminally ill 81 year old father to the point he stopped breathing. Incidentally, the entire staff rushed in after I yelled for them to get help and revitalized him. They had no business practicing on him.I had words with the head nurse who apologized for the lack of experience of the nurses under her watch. It was also disheartening to witness the revolving care to which I had to continuously familiarize each new staff member to his condition. They kept him in a tiny room with the door shut. He died 2 hrs one night after I left. He could have done the same thing at his home more comfortably without all the hassles. I hope I don't go in a hospital like he did.

    • @ChideNorms
      @ChideNorms 14 днів тому

      Shut up

  • @teresakimhopkins2784
    @teresakimhopkins2784 13 днів тому +44

    Retired after 40 yrs of ICU/ER in community hospitals. Became un-retired after 2 yrs to work in a med/max men’s prison two days a week. Didn’t know how much I would come to love it. 72 now!

  • @frenchalix1524
    @frenchalix1524 16 днів тому +430

    What a professional nurse! No inside crunchy personnals stories ( asked by Mark x times) but general conditions. This is ethical manners!

    • @CallieDHopes
      @CallieDHopes 16 днів тому +41

      Mark was trying to get the gory details for sure lol

    • @hydraflora1342
      @hydraflora1342 16 днів тому +29

      he always does. it. was interesting at first but became creepy.

    • @DSPsWifesBf
      @DSPsWifesBf 16 днів тому +32

      @@CallieDHopesto make the interview interesting. Saying “I’ve seen it all” isn’t that captivating.

    • @tinam761
      @tinam761 16 днів тому +22

      @@DSPsWifesBfyes … saying I’ve seen it all doesn’t describe anything… it’s assuming the listener knows what that means. So, we sit here somewhat clueless and having to imagine what “it all” means.

    • @DSPsWifesBf
      @DSPsWifesBf 16 днів тому +33

      @@tinam761 agreed. The entire reason I watched the interview is to hear her stories. Not general knowledge like “we see a lot”.

  • @loree72
    @loree72 16 днів тому +385

    I'm also a corrections nurse, I make it a point to NOT know why my patients are locked up! Everyone judges, everyone is biased in their own way. I choose not to be like that.

    • @bdpage2023
      @bdpage2023 16 днів тому +17

      I did prison nursing for a while. Most of us looked them up in DOC system out of curiosity. Never affected how I perceived them healthwise.

    • @alpacamoose4378
      @alpacamoose4378 16 днів тому +8

      I like to think if you’re a nurse and you ask: “so what brings you in here?” And the inmate goes: “oh I robbed a few banks…” no… no. 😭😭😂😂

    • @karenk2409
      @karenk2409 14 днів тому +13

      I taught college courses at a federal women's prison for five years. I never looked up my students until after the class was over. Their crimes went from tax fraud to murder of a child, and everything in between. I knew that it could affect me unconsciously and that would impair my student-prof relationship with them.

    • @lvnprntlc
      @lvnprntlc 13 днів тому +4

      Same! Though there is really no way around my death row and high profile inmates.
      I will never forget watching a show (I won't say which one, but think of 20/20, Dateline, etc.), and up popped a pic of an inmate I provided care to. That was one for the books! 🤣

    • @taotaostrong
      @taotaostrong 13 днів тому +6

      Thanks for being this way! Defense atty here. There is so much bias in healthcare in general. It’s profoundly important to recognize it in the corrections context. Thank you for your service. ❤

  • @desireeisidore9994
    @desireeisidore9994 16 днів тому +130

    As a nurse who’s walked away from this field, I truly enjoyed this interview. You can tell she’s a great nurse. Very inspiring ❤️

  • @aubreyd3883
    @aubreyd3883 16 днів тому +159

    As a fellow nurse, Nurse D is a gem and made of the same cloth that all good nurses are made of. Thank You, Nurse D for your service to your patients! They will remember your kindness in their world which is all too often so unkind.

  • @neshdogsage3499
    @neshdogsage3499 16 днів тому +299

    She seems kind-hearted, not judging, truly wanting the best for others✅️

    • @rondaallen7211
      @rondaallen7211 15 днів тому

      i hope she doesn't dress like that in jail.

    • @kookadams85
      @kookadams85 14 днів тому

      She ain't hard to look @; either.

    • @handled99
      @handled99 13 днів тому

      God judges

    • @rondaallen7211
      @rondaallen7211 13 днів тому

      @@handled99 so do humans. it's the thing we excel at.

  • @hollylaughlin8115
    @hollylaughlin8115 16 днів тому +465

    Sharing with my nursing staff…I have 50 nurses on my team and some are new grads. We forget often as nurses to teach each other coping skills that we try to implement for our patients. Corrections is not for the faint of heart, but the challenge of it is exactly what makes me continue to use the tools I have to make even the smallest changes. Thank you for your “unbiased care”. Our patients are not their crime..and every single one of us could switch sides of the fence at any moment.

    • @Chungalhunga
      @Chungalhunga 16 днів тому +12

      Thank you. In my country doctors are on months long strike, they want private healthcare system, won't take patients for months, guess who is in the last line of defense; nurses.

    • @ridiboo7738
      @ridiboo7738 16 днів тому +2

      I'm super sorry for saying this. But why would u like to revive these type of cruminals? After an overdose? Be safe and seems like you are a pretty cool nurse.

    • @michaelleonard1491
      @michaelleonard1491 16 днів тому +5

      What a difference maker

    • @Matt-yy8tl
      @Matt-yy8tl 16 днів тому +9

      Please also share that there is at least one error that needs to be called out. Being afraid of fentanyl "exposure" is insane and demonstrates poor understanding and knowledge of the drug, as well as chemistry in general. Not what we want to see in healthcare. This stupid myth is too prevalent in what are supposed to be educated professionals.

    • @baublesanddolls
      @baublesanddolls 16 днів тому +10

      You definitely should show this to your nursing team. I’ve worked in healthcare most of my life with a lot of nurses and I’m not a fan of a lot of them. Unfortunately, I worked with more horrible, uncaring, often addicted, nurses, than the those who want to help or have compassion. Many are there for the pay and the pension, not to help, and I’ve seen them make people purposely suffer because they’re on a power trip, or just plain hate their job. I’ve seen and worked with nurses who simply do not like people and should not be in that profession. It sure changed my outlook on nurses, and it’s heartwarming when you run into a few who are caring and non-judgmental.

  • @NYLI11
    @NYLI11 16 днів тому +210

    My mom is a physical therapist and worked in a maximum security prison in California. Those guys loved her. It was a privilege for them to have PT.

    • @jules8029
      @jules8029 15 днів тому +10

      It’s a bummer that it’s a privilege and not a necessity. Those people lived hard lives and I bet PT keeps them from needing further treatment or more invasive treatment.

    • @handled99
      @handled99 13 днів тому +7

      ​@@jules8029a bummer? Don't go to prison

    • @JennAmazed
      @JennAmazed 13 днів тому +7

      ​@@handled99Your mind set is gross. In America, the system we voted for and created says that when we incarcerat anyone, we don't not abuse or neglect them physically. You cannot lock a human being up and then not provide the medical care that they need. That's called torture and cruel and unusual punishment and that's not what our system is supposed to be about.

    • @handled99
      @handled99 13 днів тому +4

      @@JennAmazed Maybe they should have thought about that before they committed crimes. In other countries they'll just flat out execute you on the spot or chop off the hands of a thief. In the bible, it says those who practice sin will be thrown into hell.
      So if that is how God sees things, why do you think giving them a free pass will benefit them when God himself judges them? Are you God? You live in the land of no accountability, Satan is the same way.

    • @JennAmazed
      @JennAmazed 11 днів тому +1

      @@handled99 you think that treated humans humanely is condoning sin? I'll pray for you.

  • @dahnaphillips234
    @dahnaphillips234 16 днів тому +54

    She is so well spoken, represents all nursing. Glad to hear she isn’t jaded, and still has empathy for those she cares for. This touched me as a nurse myself.

    • @whitefang112
      @whitefang112 14 днів тому

      what do you expect - she is handling life and death - you want her to be toothless and babbling incoherent ?

    • @butterflygirl2285
      @butterflygirl2285 День тому +1

      IMO - Nurses deserve all the praise they can get. Often, they are under appreciated.

  • @sputnik1941
    @sputnik1941 16 днів тому +406

    Nurse D deserves a huge raise . God bless her heart. She really believes in unbiased care which is incredibly important in any healthcare environment .

    • @terrytownsend5583
      @terrytownsend5583 16 днів тому +5

      I’d give her raise

    • @elisabethsalmon4107
      @elisabethsalmon4107 16 днів тому +3

      Nurse D definitely needs a boost in her pay. God Bless her Heart for truly enjoying her job, and caring for People unbiased. ❤

    • @HookahAnonymous
      @HookahAnonymous 16 днів тому +2

      very true and she exposed without saying, that there IS nurses and people of healthcare who are biased against these inmates.

    • @animal79thecat
      @animal79thecat 16 днів тому +6

      For doing her job?

    • @KentWav
      @KentWav 16 днів тому

      @@animal79thecatpeople get raises for doing their job exceptionally well 🤡

  • @sheystolz1960
    @sheystolz1960 16 днів тому +80

    I've been a nurse for almost 30yrs. I worked at Tulsa County jail for years. It was my favorite place to work. She's correct about jail politics. If I told an offender I was going to do something I did it. I always said I was there to provide care not to judge. I treated everyone with respect as long as they treated me with respect. I hated anyone in there that mistreated people. There's really one convient store in close proximity to the jail,it's downtown. That is where most homeless congregate. I ran into alot of people that I served during their confinement. I was often thanked for treating them with kindness and like they are human. That was so rewarding and so sad at the same. They dont experience much kindness and that is ridiculous. If you are void of empathy that is not a place for you.

    • @liivikasaarman995
      @liivikasaarman995 12 днів тому +2

      I understand that she keeps working there and is not into personal storys because it would affecr her career. But maybe Mark can interview you and you can tell a story the world needs to hear. This interview with nurse D was nice and she is awesome but answers were too general.

    • @generallyspeaking850
      @generallyspeaking850 11 днів тому +1

      @@liivikasaarman995I agree 👍

    • @Allyson158
      @Allyson158 4 дні тому

      I’m a nurse in Tulsa as well!💞

    • @tylerjones1155
      @tylerjones1155 3 дні тому +1

      David L Moss!

  • @victoriah6384
    @victoriah6384 16 днів тому +214

    As a mother of a son that’s been in/out of LA County jail, thank you for sharing your insight, and providing the care that you do. You are amazing and very much appreciated. Again, thank you.

    • @humanOilslick
      @humanOilslick 16 днів тому

      Tell that foo to get off the meth and fentanyl 😂

    • @stevec310
      @stevec310 13 днів тому +3

      It’s an actor / I did 6 months in LA County there is no medical care you would have to be in a coma to ever see a doctor and or nurse . Sucks to see a cop plant as a nurse and lie to avoid lawsuits which would bring positive changes to La County

    • @humanOilslick
      @humanOilslick 12 днів тому +3

      @@stevec310 😂very good point she hast to be an actor and the face for the medical unit in the jail but in all reality, you will not see this lady unless you’re dead have fun trying to look at her then ⛓️😂

    • @humanOilslick
      @humanOilslick 12 днів тому

      @@stevec310 I am sorry that I got fooled even for a second because I totally believe you just like Ryan Leoni’s story when he was coming off of methadone and heroin in MDC LA and when the nurse finally came to him after days of screaming, bloody murder, she said I’ll get something to help you then three hours later comes back with an 800 mg ibuprofen, “” the strong kind “😂😂 so basically get fucked ❤️

    • @allisonegan8782
      @allisonegan8782 11 днів тому

      So is she an actor or a cop lol​@@stevec310

  • @scottwwsi
    @scottwwsi 16 днів тому +83

    refreshing. my brother got into nursing (ER) in Seattle because he said, "I was tired of being broke."
    he recently retired and is one of the most jaded people I know. glad to see people who actually stay on top of their humanity.

    • @ustabee6091
      @ustabee6091 11 днів тому +6

      😅 Also ED RN. Really enjoyed almost all of my patients but myself am jaded a bit. The crazies and addicts were sometimes more of a challenge. Probably have a little PTSD or so my wife says.
      Probably some compassion fatigue.
      But was able to retire a little early and not worry about money ( the possibility of having to go back to work)

  • @southern-sass
    @southern-sass 16 днів тому +46

    Great respect for this nurse. She definitely found her niche. The people you serve are blessed to have you. Thank you for sharing.

  • @LKre-vi5oq
    @LKre-vi5oq 13 днів тому +11

    What an intelligent, savvy, compassionate, well-spoken and fascinating woman. She never let's go of the fact that she is there to be a nurse, not to judge. What a life she leads. Great interview.

  • @wheezyjefferson9136
    @wheezyjefferson9136 16 днів тому +48

    My husband was a prison nurse for a while. He always said they treated him better than most hospital patients. What she said about the code is the thing, he honestly didn’t care what they’d done and respected them, they knew he was really there to help them, and respected him. He only left that job because of the commute, and now works at home, he actually enjoyed it.

  • @wvusciguy
    @wvusciguy 14 днів тому +18

    As a fellow healthcare professional; I see this woman as being a skilled example of a nurse working in an incredibly difficult environment to meet patients where they’re at physically, emotionally, and mentally. Hats off to her; and thanks to you for providing platform to highlight the excellent work. She thousands of others do for vulnerable people.

  • @GGxPrinceAli94
    @GGxPrinceAli94 16 днів тому +65

    I love individuals like her. They make the difference and are the light many of us need in the dark ❤

  • @heatherh.197
    @heatherh.197 16 днів тому +62

    I want a longer video of how she grew up and to get a better insight on why and how she got the strong personality she shines. Thank you, Nurse D. Thank you, Mark. Great watch. Very inspiring. This is a video I want to share with my children for an insight on helping people and its more age appropriate for them then most videos so far.

    • @billTO
      @billTO 5 днів тому +1

      Great idea to share with your kids. They need to understand how other people's lives can be so different from their own.

  • @johncena04101
    @johncena04101 16 днів тому +54

    She seems like a true nurse. There are many who show no empathy but she obviously isnt that way.

  • @michaelbettisworth8938
    @michaelbettisworth8938 12 днів тому +19

    Ty Nurse D. Former inmate here who has nothing but gratitude for the nurses and medical staff throughout my few years locked up. Appreciate you

  • @micheleharris6851
    @micheleharris6851 16 днів тому +87

    Fellow nurse here; worked at County jail for 2 years. The inmates were mostly respectful, but the custody officers were less than helpful. Safety was paramount. If officers were doing their job, I would of stayed. Thank you for explaining our profession and our intention to help.

    • @leilamb1978
      @leilamb1978 11 днів тому

      You would have? Can you elaborate?

  • @susanfontaine5214
    @susanfontaine5214 16 днів тому +86

    I’m an RN. Never worked in jail/prison, but worked in ICU. She is correct in so much she said. Our ICU, got many patients from county jail. They were ALWAYS polite, appreciative and respectful in my experience.

    • @windermere2330
      @windermere2330 15 днів тому +7

      Because you treat them like a human being!

    • @cherrygirl64
      @cherrygirl64 15 днів тому +3

      Same, always polite in the units but not so in "their home" as she says. Corrections is BURN OUT city. I'd never ever do it again because my safety was compromised due to staffing issues. Prisons and jails are woefully understaffed with officers/guards. She will change her mind fast when the event she never expected happens.

    • @MrJerry160
      @MrJerry160 14 днів тому

      yes because on the streets you talk sh!t you get h!t! Where as with "civilized" society you can get away with being rude.

    • @TornadoCatcher
      @TornadoCatcher 14 днів тому

      ​@@windermere2330well they didn't treat their victims like human beings, so, fuck'em!

  • @sarahmitchell7700
    @sarahmitchell7700 16 днів тому +37

    I can tell Nurse D does not play around and just by her demeanor I can tell she’s the perfect nurse for that specific environment, though I’m sure with her background she could work just about anywhere now and not be phased.
    Love seeing more interviews from people in helping fields trying to rehabilitate society. Would love to hear from more nurses in different settings, social workers of all different backgrounds, counselors and therapists, OTs, PTs, I myself am a licensed massage therapist and would love to see an interview from an LMT. Thank you Nurse D and Mark!❤

    • @jules8029
      @jules8029 15 днів тому +1

      I already know ya’ll have weird stories to tell. I can imagine the people ya’ll run across wanting a lot more than what they paid for.

    • @sweetsugarjones
      @sweetsugarjones 12 днів тому

      Great idea, it would be interesting and enlightening to see perspectives across the “helper” spectrum.

  • @lornahudson4454
    @lornahudson4454 16 днів тому +56

    As a mental health nurse here in the uk, I just want to say thank you to the nurse and for her understanding and hard work 🫶

  • @ericinla65
    @ericinla65 16 днів тому +315

    MY WIFE is an R.N. In Los Angeles. She has the luxury of working from home. Still makes $150K. She said she would never work in the prison system. It is way to dangerous for a woman. Hats off for this nurse.

    • @Lilliesandlilacs
      @Lilliesandlilacs 16 днів тому +73

      Can I ask you what she does as a nurse from home? I can't imagine there are patients coming to your house.😂😂

    • @Elishazee
      @Elishazee 16 днів тому +41

      It’s not as bad as it seems. Respect is huge in prison. You’re dealing with a dangerous population but, not anymore dangerous than on the outside. You have guards with you also.

    • @chimpchimperton
      @chimpchimperton 16 днів тому

      @@Lilliesandlilacs He's full of sh*t

    • @MrPnew1
      @MrPnew1 16 днів тому +10

      @@Lilliesandlilacs that's what I want to know too ???

    • @randymarsh9488
      @randymarsh9488 16 днів тому +39

      How do you work from home as a R.N?

  • @user-lo1tj9ig1v
    @user-lo1tj9ig1v 16 днів тому +63

    She has a lot of empathy, refreshing interview. Thank you. God bless you.

  • @marypurpura4692
    @marypurpura4692 16 днів тому +29

    So Calm, intelligent & Non judgmental. Way to Go Nurse D! Keep up the good work⭐️

  • @Lizabethmoore-ow6mw
    @Lizabethmoore-ow6mw 15 днів тому +12

    Shes an amazing professional with the heart and soul of a sociologist!!! Those guys are soooooo lucky to have her!!!

  • @chrisdooley1184
    @chrisdooley1184 16 днів тому +52

    Excellent interview. Nurses are so vitally important especially in underserved areas and communities. I can absolutely see her succeeding with her personality where others have failed ❤

  • @kakmcloughlin1927
    @kakmcloughlin1927 15 днів тому +15

    WOW....what an excellent interview. She is so passionate about her job to many people we would throw away. I cannot believe she is Nurse in one of roughest jails. She is so pretty and smart and poised. Great job Nurse D.

  • @couchprincess698
    @couchprincess698 16 днів тому +18

    I’m so impressed and inspired by Nurse D. I’m working as a CNA and will go back to school.

  • @duerremueller3609
    @duerremueller3609 16 днів тому +22

    She is such an incredible person! As someone who also works closely with mental health she really restores my faith in humanity.

  • @Health-Wealth-Hope
    @Health-Wealth-Hope 16 днів тому +74

    Thank the for your valuable kindness and support to the people who are most judged for their addiction.
    No one wakes up and says "I aspire to be an addict ".
    Grew up by the beach, had a Beautiful Mom, but something happened to me and I just wanted the pain and memories to go. I have 23 years clean, thank G-D never ended up in the Criminal Justice System, but it could have been me in there. Your compassion and understanding is crucial along with some tough talks.
    I had to retire early from my RN career due to a Spinal Tumor, but I'm helping people with my business of Stem Cell Activation Patches. I definitely miss nursing and knowing people like you are out there makes me so proud!!
    I appreciate your valuable time and hard work with a population that is challenging.
    Sending Love Peace and Hope to All 🌟

    • @lifeinpodunkville543
      @lifeinpodunkville543 16 днів тому

      Stem Cell activation patches? I imagine this is saving lives.

    • @ginajones2328
      @ginajones2328 15 днів тому

      I use Lifewave patches. They are excellent 👌

  • @HistoryChannel1776
    @HistoryChannel1776 16 днів тому +44

    She’s a nice woman . God bless her . That job is rough.

    • @banjiegirl2001
      @banjiegirl2001 16 днів тому +1

      Absolutely! My daughter was a corrections office for several years, some stories are horror stories.

  • @amber76OH
    @amber76OH 16 днів тому +24

    Yes girl yes!! It lights a small spark in my heart, knowing there are people like you who care about the psychological aspect of addiction medicine. There are so few who understand 🖤🖤🖤

  • @Ariel-ll8go
    @Ariel-ll8go 16 днів тому +8

    Fellow ICU RN. Thank you for sharing your experience 💝 nurses like you make me proud I’m a nurse!!

  • @softsoundwhispers
    @softsoundwhispers 16 днів тому +26

    It takes a certain type of person to take on this profession. My mum is a nurse which has been a wonderful help growing up. My cousin followed in her footsteps but I could never because I am far too empathetic and I would be an emotional wreck. Bravo to the worlds medical staff ❤❤❤❤

  • @ow3wells
    @ow3wells 16 днів тому +39

    Attitude means everything when you walk into a work environment, wherever you work you have to demand respect.

  • @610supreme
    @610supreme 16 днів тому +59

    Amazingly, she doesn't get burnt out. My Daughter is a nurse and they deserve much more pay for what they do. Very special and caring people.

    • @howtorawk
      @howtorawk 13 днів тому +4

      Nursing is one of the most overpaid professions

    • @sanaamazhar5398
      @sanaamazhar5398 12 днів тому +3

      @@howtorawkno, it isn’t. Overpaid? We spend more time with the patient than the physician does (unless it’s for an invasive surgery). We are expected to have the same medical and health history, pharm, pathology knowledge that physicians do because it’s up to nurses to relay emergent and urgent assessment changes to the physician so as to maintain and save the patients life.

    • @KnewYawkPapi
      @KnewYawkPapi 8 днів тому

      @@howtorawkdefinitely not overpaid. You must have no idea how hard the work is pre-licensure. Definitely hard work in the many areas nursing exists!

    • @donnatirino3987
      @donnatirino3987 4 дні тому

      @@howtorawk RN for 33 years. The most ignorant comment I have read in awhile.

  • @Jj-bh1tv
    @Jj-bh1tv 16 днів тому +15

    The inmate, prison guard, warden videos are my favorite. Prison is such a surreal topic, almost unbelievable. I am fascinated by it.

    • @jbgood7694
      @jbgood7694 15 днів тому

      I was a Correctional Officer in California. What goes on inside a prison is a complete clown world. I worked in level 4 (highest security) and psychotic blocks. So my experience was more extreme than what would happen in a lower level prison. You just wouldn't believe what I've seen. Californias libtard policies make it so much worse.

  • @hejnye
    @hejnye 16 днів тому +15

    Nurse D, thank you for carrying the torch into jail. I am with you always in your struggles, people take as good care of yourself as you do for others, you are making an impression on these poor souls for the good, keep walking the path, much love and support I send you.

  • @HeidiVetter-vy2vs
    @HeidiVetter-vy2vs 14 днів тому +4

    Hi nurse D. I am a correctional psychologist who has worked in LA county correctional facilities and CA state prisons since '96, including some time working in twin towers LA county jail. Working in these facilities can change the core of who you are, and vicarious trauma does take a toll after a while. But, as you indicate it can be rewarding and I also love my job. Thank you for your hard work and dedication to this population.

  • @esiteri5061
    @esiteri5061 16 днів тому +8

    Loved this interview! I worked in corrections nursing for 4 years and she speaks truth! You give respect to get respect! Goes a long way!

  • @MoM-do7js
    @MoM-do7js 16 днів тому +23

    I love this girl 🌸 As a 32 yr RN, working a psych and addiction facility, she’s exactly on track on how to be as affective as possible to try to help these lost souls ⭐️ (love the tatts, have similar 👍🏼) She’s awesome, pretty, and smart with a beautiful soul !!!

  • @patriciapolhemus8425
    @patriciapolhemus8425 16 днів тому +47

    Nurse D … you’re made for this work. Bless you!! 🙏💕✨

  • @vc663
    @vc663 16 днів тому +40

    This is a remarkable story. She wanted criminal justice in the beginning, so she got it along with doing her nursing. The universe has a way of directing our paths. ❤❤

  • @anamirkovic3206
    @anamirkovic3206 15 днів тому +5

    What a beautiful human being. So refreshing to listen to such a prudent, positive, strong and wise woman. It is important to realize that people like nurse D are the ones who really contribute to the society and should be recognized and respected. She is a role model and a great inspiration.

  • @m_starseed
    @m_starseed 16 днів тому +22

    More interviews like these, please!

    • @lightbright4737
      @lightbright4737 16 днів тому +2

      AGREED ! Seeing these videos are inspiring and refreshing to see ! Especially her !

  • @grantlilly4224
    @grantlilly4224 16 днів тому +105

    Mark pretending he doesn't know what the word shank means😂

  • @Elishazee
    @Elishazee 16 днів тому +33

    I worked at CMF as a corrections nurse. I tried to make an impact no matter who the patient was. Give respect and treat everyone as best as humanly possible. I wasn’t there to judge. They got that enough.

  • @Lexandraaaa
    @Lexandraaaa 16 днів тому +9

    I loved this interview. Personally, for me this was very impacting. As I am in the process of taking classes to apply for a nursing program. Seeing someone as genuine and happy as she is doing this incredibly challenging job is inspiring. Thank you for all you do and for being a great role model for current and future nurses.

  • @fearElohim34
    @fearElohim34 16 днів тому +9

    I was a county (Austin area) jail nurse for 1 year, before shifting to Psychologist, and it was a great time.
    Lot's of MS13, Mexican Mafia, and Aryan types at my facility and Nurse D hit the nail on the head - it's ALL about giving respect, getting respect.
    It doesn't work the other way and this is why cops that don't deescalate a situation pisses me off.
    Another great interview, Mark.
    Thanks for sharing, Nurse D.

  • @dannieleah6301
    @dannieleah6301 16 днів тому +7

    She told us “a lot” without saying much. I would love to have her back to tell actual stories that she has experienced.

  • @donacatanguma
    @donacatanguma 16 днів тому +26

    The addiction specialist, Gabor Maté, has always argued that we incarcerate the most vulnerable among us.
    Highest respect to this nurse who provides care without judging.☮️❤️

    • @Opticaldelusionist
      @Opticaldelusionist 16 днів тому +6

      Love Gabor❤❤

    • @mariesanchez3347
      @mariesanchez3347 15 днів тому +7

      Trauma takes a toll and ravages whole communities. Most inmates I believe had some form of major trauma stemming from a young age. It so important to continue prison programs that support addiction treatment and mental heath. I loved your talk Nurse D. Keep up the great work!!

    • @donacatanguma
      @donacatanguma 15 днів тому +4

      See: The Compassion Prison Project, “Step Inside the Circle.”
      This group has shown that 100% of inmates have suffered some type of adverse childhood experience. This supports Gabor Maté’s theory that we’re incarcerating our most vulnerable citizens.
      Not all victims of childhood trauma become addicts, but all addicts were traumatized as children, in one form or another.
      Plus, not all addictions are chemical, but many are behavioral, as well.
      And as you say, entire communities can be ravaged by trauma and intergenerational trauma.
      Again, highest respect to this nurse for her empathic and non judgmental attitude.❤

    • @robinyasinow2789
      @robinyasinow2789 15 днів тому +2

      Thanks for posting about the Compassion Prison Project. Very interesting!

    • @donacatanguma
      @donacatanguma 15 днів тому

      @@robinyasinow2789
      Also see the documentary,
      Doing Time, Doing Vipassana
      (1997)
      It’s about a prison in India that healed both the inmates and guards using Vipassana meditation.
      You can watch the full documentary on UA-cam.
      A similar program was enacted at the Donaldson Correctional Facility in Bessemer, Alabama, using Vipassana meditation.
      A documentary was also made about this program in 2010 called, The Dhamma Brothers.
      I don’t know if this film is readily available for streaming though.
      ❤️

  • @kendallhercreg3868
    @kendallhercreg3868 16 днів тому +28

    Fellow RN here, thank you for what you do!!

  • @maninosaphangthong8668
    @maninosaphangthong8668 14 днів тому +4

    I was a nurse at a psychiatric prison. I graduated in 2005 and only left because I was pregnant and it just wasn't safe for me. I learned more in that one year than I did in the four years of college. Its not for everyone!!! God bless you Nurse D!

  • @skipper7854
    @skipper7854 16 днів тому +6

    What I like about her is that she’s compassionate! And she’s genuinely a Loving person! Her dedication to help total strangers because it’s her job and not being bias is what the world needs more of! She’s definitely a Jewel At heart! ❤️ Nurse D💕💕

  • @Buddy69Love
    @Buddy69Love 16 днів тому +7

    Thank you Nurse D for your service and sharing your journey.

  • @juliemackenzie1978
    @juliemackenzie1978 16 днів тому +9

    Much respect to Nurse D. I worked in a Cancer hospital in my local city for 22+ years. I am a Dietary Technologist & worked along with the nurses & doctors to give care...as a team. We would have inmates coming in for treatment & would be admitted, but they would be guarded with security 24/7. I would never have to visit them. The nurses,
    doctors, & only lab workers(taking blood samples) would only be visiting them. I can't imagine putting myself in harms way every day. I wouldn't want to do that. She definitely has the personality to handle that. Thank you for sharing this video with us. 👍🇨🇦😊

  • @MadMango44
    @MadMango44 11 днів тому +3

    Nurses and teachers should be the highest paid profession in our country

  • @daneslayer2269
    @daneslayer2269 15 днів тому +4

    Nurse D is absolutely 💯 gorgeous/beautiful, intelligent, tough nurse. Whatever she’s getting paid it’s not enough. Great clip, “give respect, you get respect.”

  • @jill2378
    @jill2378 15 днів тому +3

    Thank you Nurse D. The world needs more compassionate people like you. I am graduating nursing school in 3 weeks with my eye set on corrections nursing. Your story only adds to my desire to serve this population.

  • @patriciapursell6202
    @patriciapursell6202 15 днів тому +2

    I am not a nurse but, i think she is amazing. Without putting prisoners down and discussing their problems, she showed respect and kindness towards these individuals . Thankyou ma,am. God Blessyou and keep you safe .

  • @pao8176
    @pao8176 16 днів тому +3

    I was hoping for an interview like this and it finally happened! Thank you Mark

  • @juanaboynkin1196
    @juanaboynkin1196 14 днів тому +5

    Back in the late '70s, my friend's mom was an RN that worked at Sybil Brand Institute for Women in LA County. The stories she would tell as well as the advise for us kids. Tough women that deserve our respect.

    • @bizygirl1
      @bizygirl1 14 днів тому

      I spent some time at Sybil Brand back in the early 80’s in my addiction.

  • @kdeloris2225
    @kdeloris2225 16 днів тому +6

    Thanks for the interview Mark, this was a really good one.

  • @patriciareid1814
    @patriciareid1814 15 днів тому +4

    'EXCELLENT NURSE' in EVERY SENSE of what nursing means! Nurse D., you touched my ♥.

  • @VAPIDISM
    @VAPIDISM 16 днів тому +4

    She works from the heart and loves her job. What a superb human. I bet her patients know it too.

  • @cruzitahinostroza4742
    @cruzitahinostroza4742 16 днів тому +5

    Your mindset is incredible! Thank you

  • @TrippyTrappinProductions.100
    @TrippyTrappinProductions.100 15 днів тому +10

    Nurses are SO underrated and they are truly the hardest and most CARING workers thank you to ALLL the nurses ❤

  • @BELABIN
    @BELABIN 15 днів тому +2

    Thank you Nurse D! Fellow RN here! Anytime I have spoken to RN students I reiterate…….”PAY ATTENTION IN YOUR PSYCH class and LEARN bc Mental illness affects EVERYONE from birth to the dying. It’s sad to see Mental Health not being addressed. We cannot in this profession be judgemental, there are all kinds of people in every category.
    Thank you Mark for interviewing a fellow nurse! Nurse D….thank you girl, keep up the great work and take care ❤

  • @mysticmama740
    @mysticmama740 14 днів тому +2

    What a respectable and dignified person. Its a relief to know there good folks out there like miss d, working with the most vulnerable of us. Thank u miss d!

  • @user-sm1cb1ut7l
    @user-sm1cb1ut7l 16 днів тому +9

    From one RN to another....great interview bringing light to correctional nursing. I worked downtown LA in the ER and also saw a lot of crazy things! Great job D!

    • @Policearegood-mt6kx
      @Policearegood-mt6kx 16 днів тому

      Where did she say she was a registered nurse?

    • @user-sm1cb1ut7l
      @user-sm1cb1ut7l 16 днів тому +1

      @@Policearegood-mt6kx She said she is nurse. Maybe she is an LVN--regardless both RN's and LVN's play important roles in healthcare. Do you prefer "from one Rn to another nurse" ? Why do people nit pick so much? There are bigger issues in the world than micro screening words. I have my BSN, CPHON, WOCN, AMB-BC but still at the end of the day all nurses work toward the same goal--safe, quality patient care. Of course, as with any profession, you have the outliers.

    • @Policearegood-mt6kx
      @Policearegood-mt6kx 16 днів тому

      @@user-sm1cb1ut7l I was just wondering if I missed it. She probably is an RN if she took classes for several years.

  • @shawkes6775
    @shawkes6775 16 днів тому +5

    Little different for me….spent 25 years with the California Department of Corrections and Rehabilitations, half in medical the other half custody and while Nurse D and I share the same “work ethic” I found it hard at times to have such a positive mental attitude as incarceration is in a word, grim. Best of luck to Nurse D and the rest of her career. She’s truly one in a million.

  • @WaltsChiliBowl
    @WaltsChiliBowl 14 днів тому +2

    As a registered nurse in hospital settings for 20 years, I have SO much respect for you, Nurse D!!🙌 You're an inspiration to nurses like me who want to TRULY make a difference in our patients' lives. Much love to you💗

  • @KylieFickell
    @KylieFickell 3 дні тому +1

    I love this woman she’s super compassionate and kind and I love that she sees people for all being human and she has non judgmental care for them we need more people like her in this world

  • @rachelleigh8238
    @rachelleigh8238 15 днів тому +3

    I'm a corrections nurse, and it feels like working in a documentary everyday! I think that the ever changing environment helps to prevent burnout. It's a lot like working in an adult daycare with the structure, schedule, and personalities of the population.

  • @laurie2324
    @laurie2324 16 днів тому +3

    Another incredible interview! Thank you Nurse D! You rock!

  • @bebelove--
    @bebelove-- 4 дні тому +1

    I want to be an RN more than anything. I'm having a hard time finding an RN program in California near me. Much respect for you Nurse D!

  • @10x10a
    @10x10a 15 днів тому +1

    beautiful. thank you for what you do both nurse and mark!

  • @CherylPetrossi
    @CherylPetrossi 16 днів тому +4

    I’ve been a nurse case manager in a DOC for a decade. I also love my job and love helping the underserved. Nurse D the jail and prison system needs to clone you, you’re the epitome of the best correctional nurse, God bless you!

  • @arlenehotep381
    @arlenehotep381 16 днів тому +5

    Soft White Underbelly thank you for doing this interview. Alot of people have careers where they are doing something for humanity and the never get credit for it. Nurse D is putting herself on the Frontline. Kudos to nurse D and Kudos to you. I'm saving this interview. My friend teaches nursing students and I would like her to show this to her students.

  • @stephenliviniuk7039
    @stephenliviniuk7039 13 днів тому +2

    Being tossed around the jail system in alberta Canada this lady is a breath of fresh air. Thank you for her and this interview. She cares about people and she does her job properly. Thank you for your compassion and care for people who need it

  • @Cspspack
    @Cspspack 11 днів тому +2

    I’ve worked in corrections as a therapist and it’s not what I heard or saw that wore me down over time, it was the constant hyper vigilance that is necessary. It’s exhausting. I built great rapport and boundaries with the guys but you are working with land mines every day. This lady is so right for her role, she’s in it for the process not the finish line. I still work with this population but in a different setting and I love the process of providing help whether they take it or not.

  • @Sangria
    @Sangria 16 днів тому +16

    Fascinating interview!

  • @MugDoe1201
    @MugDoe1201 14 днів тому +3

    As a fellow nurse, I admire this woman. She is strong person with a good soul. I was also told I wouldn't fit in at my interview (by the guard at the door 😂) I went into my interview with that attitude and turned the job down. It takes a strong, confident person to do what she does.

  • @ronniepolen3154
    @ronniepolen3154 16 днів тому +4

    Great interview. Prayers that you stay safe

  • @machoman9283
    @machoman9283 14 днів тому +1

    Awesome interview Mark. Thanks for sharing Nurse D, and you're right most are doing the best they can at the moment with what they have.

  • @LyntonGrice
    @LyntonGrice 16 днів тому +3

    Wonderful interview, such a great personality👌

  • @princesabonita79
    @princesabonita79 16 днів тому +19

    I'm a jail nurse too but I'm out in the Midwest (originally from SoCal) in a smaller county. We definitely don't have as many people as you do and we don't have the gangs like y'all do but it's definitely challenging. Been doing correctional nursing for 11 years now and it's all I know lol. I don't have an interest in other specialties.

  • @MelissaCorrales-qr5zj
    @MelissaCorrales-qr5zj 16 днів тому +2

    Love this video!! Thank u for all your videos mark!!

  • @MandieMayr
    @MandieMayr 9 днів тому +1

    When he said “That’s what I used to say too in these interviews but it just recently caught up to me… it affects you physically mentally everything.” That was so raw

  • @suzystone244
    @suzystone244 16 днів тому +7

    Hi Mark.
    Nurse D.
    What a great interview!
    You ROCK in the medical platform ❤

  • @dieodd9866
    @dieodd9866 16 днів тому +26

    Wow what a beautiful soul! I'v just witnessed a real life guardian Angel that raise my admiration.

  • @JasonBear-on8sy
    @JasonBear-on8sy 3 дні тому +1

    It's so refreshing to see someone who is tough & had class! It is possible!

  • @drb2k580
    @drb2k580 14 днів тому +2

    ER physician here. We accepted many prison transfers during my residency. One of my attendings gave me two words of advice: never ask what they are in for and always treat them with respect to get respect in return. He was so right. Knowing why they were in prison never helped matters. Also, treat them with respect and you will generally get it back. I rarely got attitude from them with this approach. Much respect to Nurse D. Being an attractive woman in the prison system can’t be easy.