We LEFT the girls and took a TRIP!

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  • We left the girls with some family and friends and took an anniversary trip.
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  • @sheriturner6118
    @sheriturner6118 4 роки тому +65

    Never feel guilty for working in your marriage and relationship. Children grow up and have life of their own. And if you dont have a relationship, well it makes marriage very hard. I wish someone had taught me that and encouraged me and my husband to have that at a younger age.
    Yall are great!!! And have a beautiful and blessed relationship and family.

  • @traceytyler2138
    @traceytyler2138 4 роки тому +32

    Y’all are a trip love it so much y’all are totally keeping it 100. I’m just gonna say this is how baby #4 comes along lol.

  • @candlegirl1973
    @candlegirl1973 4 роки тому +18

    "Doing the things"....😂John's face got so red. Y'all had me rollin' 😂😂

  • @MC-sc2oh
    @MC-sc2oh 4 роки тому +17

    Y’all personalities fit in so well. So cute to see a young Godly couple be so happy. Much blessings from Hollywood, FL

  • @virginiamena3189
    @virginiamena3189 4 роки тому +22

    Alyssa you are so beautiful and classy. I really loved this video, I hope to have a marriage like this someday.

  • @christinesmith7678
    @christinesmith7678 4 роки тому +24

    John cracks me up with his happy dance! lol😂 I love to see how happy you guys are and how you adore each other.Alyssa you looked amazing all dressed up and John looked hot in his shades! Stunning date night dress Alyssa! That meal looked delicious! God bless you both in your marriage and life.❤️❤️

  • @terrythomas4553
    @terrythomas4553 3 роки тому +4

    I love the love in your family!! After 3 (and 1/2) kids, you two still act like newlyweds. You two are truly blessed!!

  • @brittanybonnell4769
    @brittanybonnell4769 4 роки тому +18

    Two weeks before quarantine my husband and I took a cruise to the Bahamas without our 2 year old and 6 month old. We were gone 12 days. We got a lot of hate from some friends and family but it had been 3 years since we had been anywhere alone together. It was the best thing we could of done!!! We missed our babies but I loved alone time with my husband. ♥️

    • @aventuramami
      @aventuramami 2 роки тому

      Forget the haters - they know nothing. Very glad to read that you did just that and followed your instincts together instead of caving to fear mongering and lost people who have time to insert their nose where it don’t belong and then shame others. I love hearing when people know their true power and understand that they are the ones who know best for them

  • @LisaR2392
    @LisaR2392 4 роки тому +5

    This is the BEST vlog yet! Y’all crack me up with all the “adult” giggles!bow chicka wow wow!! Lol. Love the different dolls too!

  • @righteousnessofGodinChrist555
    @righteousnessofGodinChrist555 4 роки тому +7

    💖💖💖Love when ya'll pray and you all have the most beautiful smiles.. such a joy to watch😊😊

  • @momof3blessingsfaithhopelo869
    @momof3blessingsfaithhopelo869 4 роки тому +5

    Love this!! You all deserve to get away. Every married couple needs time alone. Don’t feel bad!!! Remember when your kids grow up it will be just you two so you must keep your relationship good. Hope you had a blast and stayed up and did “all the stuff” 😂 happy for you guys!!

  • @juditharenas8984
    @juditharenas8984 4 роки тому +23

    I love this video! You two are so cute!
    I loved how you didn’t cook at all even though you had a kitchen. I am a mom of three as well and this is the type of vacation I need. No cleaning or cooking just chilling.

  • @mariekastigar2294
    @mariekastigar2294 4 роки тому +2

    Loved it! Always remember to make time together even if it’s an hour of alone time. My Husband and I always did and do and we are going stronger than ever at 36 years married. Love to you all. 😍❤️🙏🏻

  • @staceynelson2357
    @staceynelson2357 4 роки тому +7

    Hi Alyssa and John, I love your channel and it's really fun getting to know you both on a different level. Thank you for sharing your fun date nights and God bless you both, your girls and each of your families💖

  • @MrsSaltShaker
    @MrsSaltShaker 4 роки тому +5

    Happy Anniversary! Quality time with our husbands are the best. Thanks for sharing.

  • @anj81012
    @anj81012 4 роки тому +10

    Love seeing more personality from you guys!!! Would love to see grocery haul, couples 123 tag and some fashion videos ...curious about your cute style Alyssa

  • @addie-eileenpaige6460
    @addie-eileenpaige6460 4 роки тому +9

    Looks like you guys had a very sweet getaway. I'm glad you take the time to keep your marriage strong. I heard the best gift parents can give their kids is their parents in a happy marriage.

  • @charlotted6247
    @charlotted6247 2 роки тому +1

    It's a must to take time for you as a couple. I keep my grandbabies and encourage my kids to do exactly what you done. If you lose yourself you will be in trouble!!! God Bless and protect your sweet family!! Love you guys

  • @maryadam7616
    @maryadam7616 4 роки тому +2

    Happy Anniversary. Love y'all so much. Glad you had a great time.♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @SarahsOctoberHome
    @SarahsOctoberHome 4 роки тому +12

    How fun! Looked like a nice trip from Instagram ❤️I think we are going to Sedona, Arizona this year❤️ we have not went away in almost 4 years without our girls , so now I think it’s time to get away😂 it’s hard to leave them🙃

  • @priscillarobinson7740
    @priscillarobinson7740 4 роки тому +3

    Alyssa you’ve really married a character. You can never tell what John will do or say. Your love for God and for each other is beautiful. ❤️

  • @bereanist
    @bereanist 4 роки тому +2

    Wise of you to take time away together alone. You are great parents! May you be blessed with MANY more years together! 🙌😇

  • @sondra.kohlman892
    @sondra.kohlman892 4 роки тому +2

    Ya'll so cute.Glad you enjoyed your trip

  • @maryransier3165
    @maryransier3165 4 роки тому +1

    We love to window shop, walk on the beach and eat out breakfast and dinner! Just drive and stop and look, take pictures and drive some more. Whale watch.❤

  • @brittanyrogers8956
    @brittanyrogers8956 4 роки тому +7

    You guys are so cute! I am always so excited when i see you have a new post!

  • @sary4993
    @sary4993 4 роки тому +3

    Ya'll seem so fun!! I look forward to your videos every time!!

  • @brendanelkins8524
    @brendanelkins8524 4 роки тому +3

    Awesome video! Hope you and your family are doing great especially with all this that's going on, hope y'all are having an amazing summer. Can't wait until Bringing Up Bates returns next month.

  • @mandygrace3688
    @mandygrace3688 4 роки тому +11

    I remember my mom dropping me off at my cousins, love that you guys were excited about snacks lol
    It’s the little things

  • @christinefigueroa2529
    @christinefigueroa2529 4 роки тому +11

    You guys are too cute! My husband and I never even got to take a honeymoon and now that we have 5 kids it doesn't seem possible to ever get away alone but it looks like so much fun. Oh well, maybe one day.

  • @sherryhand8120
    @sherryhand8120 3 роки тому +1

    Probably my fave video so far. Y’all seem real down to earth and that really speaks to people.

  • @maryransier3165
    @maryransier3165 4 роки тому +17

    So baby #4 will be here in 40 weeks! ❤

    • @ssh6414
      @ssh6414 4 роки тому +2

      Was just thinking that

    • @jeanforbis2203
      @jeanforbis2203 4 роки тому +1

      I thought the same thing! LMAO

    • @emmylove9912
      @emmylove9912 4 роки тому +2

      Maybe a boy this time! I had 3 girls in a row and about fell over when I got a boy for #4. It just felt like i would only ever have girls

    • @maryransier3165
      @maryransier3165 4 роки тому +1

      @@emmylove9912 I have 2 sisters that had 3 girls a piece and gave up on having a boy.

  • @tiadavenport5465
    @tiadavenport5465 4 роки тому +1

    Good for the two of you. This is important and maybe more important for your children. They need to see happy parents doing happy things with each other that are for adults. They need to experience time with others and how other people/families have rules etc. It will help them grow in a healthy way. Have fun and stay safe.

  • @katiehicks1348
    @katiehicks1348 4 роки тому +1

    Last we got away for our 15yr anniversary almost 8 months late, lol! It feels great to just get away with out the kids! FREEDOM! You do really need the escape being mom & dad to being just you!

  • @elizabethcapdepon2042
    @elizabethcapdepon2042 4 роки тому +1

    You guys are amazing ! Such a breath of fresh air !!

  • @krystynaolszewski6187
    @krystynaolszewski6187 4 роки тому +2

    So much food in 4 days was consumed! And you both look so lean....I’m jealous! Happy Anniversary!

  • @lindafox7822
    @lindafox7822 4 роки тому +2

    So happy for your family. I know you guys will enjoy your trip!!

  • @UnBoxItwithMaureen
    @UnBoxItwithMaureen 4 роки тому +1

    I am so happy I found your channel...I have watched a few videos and love your family. I appreciate your wholesome videos. I have subscribed and look forward to watching so many more of your videos.

  • @emilydowan919
    @emilydowan919 4 роки тому +3

    I’m from England but love American restaurants. It would be so nice to have a child free meal out like you did 🤣. It looked so much fun x

  • @leighg6343
    @leighg6343 4 роки тому +3

    Couple time yay!❤️👏🏻❤️

  • @forevr_disturbd
    @forevr_disturbd 3 роки тому +1

    Yall are too cute together!! Love this family!!

  • @lenaecrumley5427
    @lenaecrumley5427 4 роки тому +3

    yes time alone is amazing and so important. Sadly the day I had my son I quickly became a burden to my husband. Keep up the date time you guys are amazing thank you for sharing.

    • @consuelojorgensen5085
      @consuelojorgensen5085 3 роки тому +1

      That's a shameful shame on him stay happy 😊🔆🤗💌🙏 n. Hopeful !!😊

  • @kellyh6621
    @kellyh6621 4 роки тому +2

    Wonderful video. It is very important to take time together , regenerate, do activities 😎. It does set a wonder example for the kids . Plus you took the time to decide how this adventure would fun for them as well. Have a blessed day 😇

  • @vincentshiflett6701
    @vincentshiflett6701 4 роки тому +3

    I’m Karen and I just love you guys and watching you !! God bless your next year .❤️

  • @linak7155
    @linak7155 4 роки тому +8

    Lovely! 🌹
    Dad & Mom need some time to just be yourselves get reconnected and recharge your batteries.
    Please *make the time* for these outings even if it's an overnighter.
    Stay cuddlely! 💐🕊️💜

  • @megstarbright
    @megstarbright 4 роки тому +6

    This really inspires me to keep in mind these thoughts and ideals for when I am married

  • @elishaallen3189
    @elishaallen3189 4 роки тому +1

    yall are so adorable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @nicholebreneman5000
    @nicholebreneman5000 3 роки тому

    Happy anniversary ! 🎉New viewer...you guys are great

  • @kelsayskaggs9173
    @kelsayskaggs9173 4 роки тому +5

    Love it! That air bnb looked AMAZING. Would love to know where it is!

  • @lindaneuhaus1026
    @lindaneuhaus1026 4 роки тому

    Absolutely love Bob Evans cappuccino. Yes , love it.

  • @rayleannehornsby7199
    @rayleannehornsby7199 2 роки тому

    #goals!!! 👌🏽😅 Y’all are too cute 🥰 that’s how Maci happened 😅😂🤟🏽😎

  • @Malita2810
    @Malita2810 4 роки тому

    This is so sweet! So glad you you got time away!

  • @nessasbestdiy
    @nessasbestdiy 4 роки тому +16

    My husband and I always se "WE ARE FREE!" When we drop our kids off or have a sitter! Lol

  • @kimwhitehurst1738
    @kimwhitehurst1738 4 роки тому +18

    Im so glad you got the time alone together.

  • @emmylove9912
    @emmylove9912 4 роки тому +2

    Y'all are really sweet and a vacation is a great thing not just for your relationship but your own mental health. I have 4 kids and no family around so I'm happy you all have family there!!!
    The Bates girls are blessed!!
    My husband is working on his HVAC license. Is John a journeyman? 😀

  • @beccaboyer8562
    @beccaboyer8562 4 роки тому +2

    Love alone time with my hubby!! You look so pretty alyssa!!

  • @tracysmarty
    @tracysmarty 2 роки тому

    Y’all are absolutely too cute! Love the whole family and so happy I found y’all on UA-cam!

  • @mo9-76
    @mo9-76 4 роки тому

    God bless you both and your beautiful girls!

  • @chelseatroy6175
    @chelseatroy6175 4 роки тому +9

    I love how sweet they are with each other!!!💓

  • @casandraanderson7453
    @casandraanderson7453 4 роки тому +2

    You two are such a cute couple..Looks like you had an awesome time on your getaway :)

  • @christinaarnold2546
    @christinaarnold2546 4 роки тому +1

    Never feel guilty for spending time with your spouse. As you said, you need that time together. Especially now since you have been quarantined for a long time all together. So this is a good time to have alone time. Great for your kids too.

  • @sabrina959595
    @sabrina959595 4 роки тому

    How adorable! Every couple needs time alone to just spend time alone. Looks like you guys had an amazing time. I'm trying to figure out the area. It looks kinda like Bonita Springs or Naples. Happy Anniversary!

  • @vickipalladeno5334
    @vickipalladeno5334 3 роки тому

    Y'all are just too adorable!!

  • @maryamalfayed223
    @maryamalfayed223 2 роки тому +1

    I became a widow when my children were young so I never got a chance to do those type of trips but you guys was so much fun to watch that I felt like I had a little break and vacation too! .. Now that the children are grown I think now I'm going to plan something thanks so much for the inspiration!🌹❤🌹

  • @shirleyfreeman7101
    @shirleyfreeman7101 4 роки тому

    Congratulations im so happy for you 💗 both ,enjoy and have fun 💖💖

  • @tiatong9383
    @tiatong9383 3 роки тому

    There is Parenting with Love and Logic. You two turn it into Marriage with love and logic. Relationship goals, should write a marriage tip book. I have been married about 25 years, and Ihave learned from you two. May God keep the blessing coming! and thank you for showing the joy and laughter while also keeping it real.

  • @rachelcoffin4872
    @rachelcoffin4872 4 роки тому +18

    Everyone needs a break!

  • @kfriebe87
    @kfriebe87 4 роки тому

    Love you all and your family!

  • @luanamcdonald1243
    @luanamcdonald1243 2 роки тому

    Love the song. Great vlog!!!

  • @GenerationX3333
    @GenerationX3333 2 роки тому

    Enjoy! Love y'all

  • @kellypurifoy2386
    @kellypurifoy2386 4 роки тому +2

    I left my babies for the first time in 3 years, and it was for a night. It was bliss and I didn’t realize how badly I needed that, until I got it! Happy anniversary! And thank god we live in Florida. We need our freedom before hurricanes hit 😂

  • @amandaellis5368
    @amandaellis5368 3 роки тому

    I have enjoyed watching y'alls UA-cam videos. Completely random but the chocolate milk you got is just awesome. Best lactose intolerance milk ever. They have new flavors in small bottles. Strawberry an Vanilla.

  • @lindajones8895
    @lindajones8895 4 роки тому

    Enjoy. Happy Anniversary

  • @nancyross3964
    @nancyross3964 4 роки тому +2

    no judging!! have a great time you 2 enjoy yourselves!! I wear an XL just saying

  • @ceifaci
    @ceifaci 4 роки тому

    How lovely!

  • @viccimauldin9786
    @viccimauldin9786 Рік тому

    Good that you two do these trips. As you stated, it is good for your marriage. 😀

  • @rayleannehornsby7199
    @rayleannehornsby7199 2 роки тому

    “Talking... watching movies”
    😅😂 Get your life cuties!!! 🤟🏽😎 you make beautiful babies 😍🤩🥰

  • @margosurrell9953
    @margosurrell9953 4 роки тому +1

    Happy Anniversary you guys

  • @karendavis418
    @karendavis418 4 роки тому +1

    SO HAPPY for you guys!! :)

  • @MsLibby76
    @MsLibby76 4 роки тому

    Love this!

  • @patriciamora2915
    @patriciamora2915 4 роки тому +1

    You guys are a beautiful couple.

  • @eviedaniels496
    @eviedaniels496 4 роки тому +2

    They're so cute!!!

  • @kellyterpstra591
    @kellyterpstra591 4 роки тому +6

    Yay for being Re-nude! Haha 😂 tons of respect and support for you!

  • @janezamudio2473
    @janezamudio2473 4 роки тому +1

    Am so happy you pick ihop i work at the one in St.George ut love working there hopefully you and your family come visit one day

  • @lucycisneros4627
    @lucycisneros4627 4 роки тому

    Happy Anniversary!

  • @jazzjournal
    @jazzjournal 2 роки тому

    Such an awesome family!

  • @modernfaithunlimited4821
    @modernfaithunlimited4821 4 роки тому +2

    You got the Blue Bell! Ice cream just isn't worth eating unless it's Blue Bell!

  • @kristinerickson8350
    @kristinerickson8350 4 роки тому

    I totally understand!! Been there!!

  • @katerrac9247
    @katerrac9247 4 роки тому +6

    This is how we vacation sans children. Lazy and slow and it's the best!!

  • @bemlexky
    @bemlexky 4 роки тому

    Looks like a fun get away!

  • @aventuramami
    @aventuramami 2 роки тому

    Awesome! you remind me of my sweetie and what we like to do in vacay :)

  • @dorismanning3906
    @dorismanning3906 4 роки тому

    I love the family and the show

  • @christiabreeden7777
    @christiabreeden7777 4 роки тому

    Yall.are awesome!!!!

  • @alyssarose9842
    @alyssarose9842 3 роки тому

    y'all are so neat! I really admire you for more ways than one..you are great christian models and your relationship with each other is how I want mine to be someday! hope I can meet you sometime!❤

  • @pamvatthauer5165
    @pamvatthauer5165 2 роки тому

    What surgeries have you had? ? Health issues? You both look great!!!! Good you get time alone! You do so well with the girls!!!!!!!!!

  • @lisaplanck7809
    @lisaplanck7809 3 роки тому

    Looove it!!!!

  • @Kat-fc7sx
    @Kat-fc7sx Рік тому

    It’s really healthy for husband and wife to get away without the kids I believe it makes the family stronger 👍❤️(And must include ice coffee)LOL

  • @tammynicole9850
    @tammynicole9850 4 роки тому +4

    How in the world do you drink coffee so late! Incredible!

  • @nessasbestdiy
    @nessasbestdiy 4 роки тому +11

    Alyssa "give me all the coffee!" Lol

  • @msa2470
    @msa2470 3 роки тому

    I’d like to hear more about how you make plans and goals it would be a good way to learn. I’d also like to know how you approach the frustrations that you mentioned in order to have a healthy marriage.

    • @karenphelps5865
      @karenphelps5865 3 роки тому

      Do the young men have to have a shop around when they're dating

  • @dreamygal7221
    @dreamygal7221 4 роки тому +1

    The both of you are so cute!