This Makes Him See You As The Most Important Woman in The Universe!
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My father always told me , " a man respects a woman who respects herself." My pop is always right.
Exactly
I love & respect myself, I just haven’t found someone who respects me.
Nancy V I love owls
So true
Not all the time... just because you respect yourself doesn’t mean others will also.
Keep him guessing by marrying someone else. You will be the most important woman to him suddenly. Works everytime.
LOL
Facts!
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A narcissist can never.feel respected. Make sure the man is normal first before.respecting him
Crystal Climenhage true dat
Amen, they are some fucked up individuals. Invasion of the body snatchers!!
Aleliuja!
Hahahaa. ....totally agree
yeah this guy sounds like a douche demanding respect so much, everyone respects everyone on a normal level, and he needs to open doors to feel like a man? i think he needs a few classes himself
thats not a man to me, a man knows what makes him manly, opening doors is not part of that, thats just basic human decency
1. He feels respected by her to be significant to her
2. Thank him
3. Set boundaries to value you
Find the one that can be respected first...do not respect just because
Thank you for taking notes within the comments you are appreciated! 😊 be blessed
How to use this in a professional situation cause there were mistakes on my part yet great learning potential here (not romantic) although it vould be, but we're not there.)
For men and women.. vice-versa
We all want respect. But a lot of these men do irritating stupid things, that don’t warrant respect. Know this>> the woman has to have what she desires, before he can truly get what he wants!
FOR THE WOMEN:
PUT YOURSELF FIRST,LOVE YOURSELF FIRST AND DONT BEG FOR LOVE.
DONT WAIT FOR SOMEONE TO FIX YOU BUT TRY TO BE INDEPENDENT.
SOMETIMES IT IS HARD,BUT IF YOU CAN DREAM BIG,YOU CAN DO IT TOO.
RESPECT YOURSELF AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP.TRY TO CONTROL YOUR MIND AND WORK HARD TO BE AN INDEPENDED STRONG WOMAN.
THANK YOU BRIAN.
Thank you for this message i am going to work on myself and improving my life. Few weeks ago i had i wake up call about my relationship with my partner. As a woman having responsibilities of the house and work i was letting myself go no more taking the criticism of the husband time to put myself first.
Thank you 😊
Thank you guys
Yes!!!!
My experience says otherwise, if you are nice and treat them well, they dump you. But they run to chase the mean girl who treats them badly.
Swan Queen. Hundred percent agree with you. They ghost you when you are nice, gentle, respective and sympathetic to them.
Goes both ways. Ladies dont want a "good" man. The bad boy will always win. Oh well that's fine. I gave up on relationships/love years ago.
Swan Queen I do same experience this same
Swan Queen I was a angel to him then he is big devil cheat me morethan I can imagine
Ratna Priya sometime we act bad so they can’t use us respect to man is depend how they treat us
What I have learnt in life is to build very strong self esteem and don’t even think about entering a relationship until your have clear values and strong boundaries about what you want and never compromise those things. There are some very abusive people in this world and abuse can be so subtle. If you don’t have self esteem right now - you can build it. But never enter a relationship without feeling strong.
Interestingly, when I feel super strong, I really don't need a guy anymore, then he comes.
This is so true!! Well said!😊
Amelia Totally agree!! You will learn this the hard way if you don’t.
This is so true... 🖤🖤🖤
So true!
Its not true ... When I respect a Man he treats me like nothing...when I am a bitch he starts to treat me good...and chase me...they are crazy🤭
You're attracting men who had unstable mothers. That's got tocix written all over it
Jarzębina 77 omg you’re so right, I was a sweetheart I did everything to please him to but he became a bitch toward me so I had to learn not to give a fvk now he chasing me and treating me batter
This is fact
Same with me. I treat them like they don't matter and they submit to me and I like this.
Jarzębina 77 they are terrified by a woman who actually wants them. They love a woman who treats them like crap cause that woman is “safe” cause he figures she won’t try to trap him in a relationship. Seriously, you’re right, they are crazy!
Women want to be respected too. I cannot give a man respect who does not respect me first.
Respect is earned
A women feels respected through having her feelings cherished. A man feels cherished by having his mind and thoughts respected. Normally even in same sex relationships, someone cares more about one or the other. Masculine energy people use logic and thinking more than feminine energy people who are more feeling oriented.
Jeanie K do you people even listen? Ugh 😫
actually he said it in the video countless times that it should be mutual..so both of you will be happy
Good grief woman, he even took the time to explain why it is important for a man to feel respected in a way women don't. It's a different kind of respect. Just pay attention!.
He was my hero for YEARS. It doesn't work if the man isn't in love. You can make him feel important, that he is special, respected, valued, important.... if he doesn't love you it won't matter.
Exactly.. It's a waste of time and effort
You deserve someone who's crazy about you. I hope you've moved on from this 🙏🏻
1. Respect him.
2. Support him.
3. Challenge him.
Same goes for women. If a guy doesn't respect me and starts to neg me, or criticize me, I don't give them the time of day
Thanks. The wrong one will still disrespect u and cheat if u do those things and they are bad.
@@BlueBerryTdot I agree
I lose track and it’s all gibberish lol
Good advice
Wanna be respected? Have principles and morals and treat others with respect and compassion. Wanna be treated like a king/queen? Behave as such. Respect has to be earned unfortunately
Yet..if you treat him like a king, that kind of makes you his commoner. Isn't it?
@black white exactly!
@@marielamuller4657 have you seen black white reply? You may consider yourself as a commoner, not a queen.
This guy is completely adorable. I'm so glad I saw this. It's super rare to see a real man who understands how to be in a functional relationship.
Yes girl. We need more men like this but it goes for a women to. Cause I don't side on females cause I am one But . a lot of men need to here this. And females to goes both ways. This is my 1st time hearing and seeing the videos.
Recently, I mentioned an exhibition I wanted to go to. He bought advance tickets for us. Whilst we were waiting to go in at our allotted time-slot he said ''I think this is probably going to be good''. I said ''it's going to be awesome and I have an awesome man who got tickets for us!'' He wrapped his arms around me and nearly hugged me to death! :-D
sadie p Awww, that's super sweet!! I'm happy for U!! Sounds really lovely~ 💞
You got it!
Wow your so lucky to have him 😍
sadie p Aww! How cute, that was so sweet of him💗😊
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Unfortunately most men are egotistical, the stuff you are referring to only works to the very few good men out there. For the most part if you want him to respect you make sure he knows he can be replaced
this doesn't sound like good advice at all. there are more than a few good men out there. and some men just need to grow up. never have a relationship which is build on fear of being replaced.
This is how my 21 year relationship w/my lovesponge was. 4th of July will be his 4th year in Heaven. It was a bed of roses, thorns & all!! My personal blessing from God...
One of my aunts once told me the key to a successful relationship is to find someone who likes you more than you like them
This reminds me of another piece of “advice” was the best way to get over somebody is to get under somebody else.
My grandfather told me the samething
My friend's Mum (summed up what I have learnt from 35 yrs+ of dating): "if u love them more than they love u, they treat u like dirt. If they love u more than u love them, they treat u like a princess".
My dad said the same to me 🥴
Yes never let them know you care. Find one who likes you the MOST
I'm pretty sure Mae West was the original source.
This is true. A high value woman is someone who respects herself to know that she deserves to be treated well, and vice versa.
The relationship free from manipulations will always work.
Exactly
it wont always work, but at least the people in the relationship can end it on good terms if they realize it's not right for them. some people simply fall out of love. but yeah. healthy relationships will always prosper.
We made him feel respected, loved for what he is, expressed how much he means, and what not. every time we respect them, they take us for granted and comes to a mindset that she will always be there. in that case why should you take effort is what he thinks. the moment u make them feel like they are losing that's when they take a move
You can give a man everything he asked for as his needs. And it still won't work out. He can't meet your needs when he knows he doesn't deserve you. Because he doesn't really want you. If you try love a man who doesn't love himself and when he knows he doesn't deserve you, it also won't work out. See people for who they are, not what you want them to be. If he is a people pleaser, drinks heavily, has money, entertains, claims to love people so so much. Run. They usually have a handful of women on dial. You usually see the cracks early on. Stringy, they self loathe so you try to build them up. He isn't worthy of the building up because he needs to do that himself
1) To be respected, to be a hero in her eyes, feel needed & important, let him find a solution for you in your problem, let him feel special/significant, that he is better than other man ALWAYS ONLY IF HE TREATS YOU GOOD.
2) Because he feels she makes him a better version of him.
3) He CAN'T walk all over you !!! Always let him know your boundaries, your values, your power. If you don't like something He does to you you speak up and tell him !!!
A man needs 3 things in relationship - to be needed, to be free and to be respected. As I see it. Thanks for video 👌
So they want dependent women who need them? Sad
Channel Tools what is wrong in needing the one you love? What is it when you tell each other I don't need you?
@@user-xl6jx7pi7k Isn't it great when a woman WANTS you instead of just needing you because she doesn't have job, or needs you to fix her problems?
@Cindy Lou word 🙌
To be free?
Yeah that's the order of the game. I mean treat me like a Queen & I'll surely treat you like a King.
Exactly
As a trained Behavioral Therapist, I must say, you are positively spot on. Games within any relationship is Toxic and Unhealthy. Thank you for sharing and sprinkling your fun levity into this valuable message.
Respect is a give and take. Many people doesn't understand that. If a man/woman love you then he/she respect you!!!
I am actually in a beautifully blossoming, healthy relationship and in watching, realizing that we both do all these things for and with each other! I recognize each point and how we have successfully managed to provide a special give and take, loving, and intimate bond already, the way you have suggested. I know God sent me this beautiful man to me and I have actually been waiting to call him MY Hero the very next time he makes me feel as important as only he can! He is my personal hero and forever will be! Of that I have no doubt. Thank you for sharing such accurate advice and confirming our actions towards each other so far. Blessings to you and yours.
You are the best one at explaining relationships and psychology of men and women. You have a veyr soft spoken voice and explain things so well I never get bother to listen to your lectures. I usually start your videos whilist cooking every evening
Respect is a two way street..I respect a Man who respects me.. It's one of the most important things.. and I know what it is, because I have experienced it.. 💯💯
Facts 💯
''If you're too independent, his masculinity will be threatened''....... LOL oh well, so be it. I'm not responsible for his fragile toxic masculinity. If I don't need him but instead CHOOSE him, he becomes irreplaceable.
This isssss sooooo me right now, we broke up because I wasn’t needy enough basically and it made him feel like the loser
Hey guys, the only thing that will give you long lasting and a loving relationship is two people meeting that are ready to be in relationships. And you’re ready to be in a relationship once you’re comfortable by yourself and they’re ready when they’re comfortable by themselves and you guys decide to come together because usually people don’t give up their comfort for anything less than what is worthy
..true and all these points that can be worked on can never work if I'm the first place two people are not ready or deliberate to start to work on the relationship for the long haul. You must be on the same page....I agree
Intelligent realisation jennybrown, "people won't give up there comfort for what is not worthy"...
This is probably the best video I've ever seen on this topic. Women want to be adored and men want to be respected . Amen ☺.
Angelica Angel my mom told me. Men want to be admired. Women want to be desired...
Even the Bible says so. Women are to respect their men and men are to love their women.
@@sherryc90 I'm so glad someone caught that! Yup, god commands men to love their wives, like Christ loves the church and women are to respect their husbands.
Sharon Kwenda I was about to say that. YHWH created us, and he knows that for men respect is most important, and for women love is most important.
I tried to show respect and appreciation to a bad guy, and he just wouldn't accept it, because of his deep insecurities. I know better now. Thanks, Brian! You're awesome
@@lonewolf-oc9vr I found a wonderful man now. I wish the other one the best, whatever he chooses for his life.
Too*
@@sarahtara5546 how’s that going now? Update?
@@TheSevonne thank you for asking! We actually got married and moved into a camper to travel the country. We are doing great still :)
How was your experience? I have just met a guy and he is not able to take compliments....so strange. Was it similar in your case?
Relevant Hint -
Respectful men ask women how they like to be treated instead of insisting that the traditional “gentlemen” rules make him respectable. Gentlemen rules were created by men. Treat a woman like an individual not a gender and she will respect you more.
Wendi J this is pure gold thank you for sharing!
Wendi J I see your point but I think that intent matters. If a man is holding a door in an attempt to show respect, that isn’t a bad thing, if she says hey I don’t need you to hold doors, instead do (whatever) I think most men with the intent of giving true respect would gladly switch to a different means of showing that respect. The assumption that he’s treating her like a gender and not a person is pretty cynical, they aren’t mind readers.
Wendi J that is right but I enjoy the old chivalry and the old traditional roles. But I understand what you are saying. My man believes in traditional roles as well so it works great for us. I guess it depends on what your partner believed.
Im also into genderless roles yet call myself a gentlewoman that will equally open doors for men and women. Equally pay for them. Equally get them gifts inc flowers if they enjoy them. I will spoon into them etc... I'll enjoy them doing gentlemen things as long as i can equally be a gentlewoman and do them for them as well inc romancing them. Im a fan of it goes both ways equal effort. Doesnt have to be exact same things done for each other. Be yourself. But that things are equally done for each other. Equal energy exchange. Equal partners.
Gentleman rules were created by women. The man steps up like that bc it is the girl who expects to be treated like that. No guy will be asking you how to treat you, they will see how you treat yourself and what you expect and they will either meet it or flake. If they flake, they weren’t that interested in the first place.
In a relationship respect goes both ways. When I'm disrespected I lose all interest i no longer want any emotional or intimate connection with that person. I don't even see them as a friend let alone a partner in a relationship.
I trust my boy before,and I proud him,he is my hero,because he respect me and he faithful to our God
Ever since I started doing this, with way less nagging and more words of affirmation, my boyfriends confidence seems to be getting better slowly but surely. Thankyou so much
People like people who make them FEEL good. Different strokes for different folks, so figure out what makes your person feel their best and that will make them happy. Most men like to feel important or significant, stroke his ego when they earn it.
I appreciate it when you... I admire this about you....
I love it when you do .... Authentic sincere conpliments.
Be a high value woman, ppl respect those who are respecting
A lot of men want to have control over their women and they easily feel “disrespected” if they feel they are losing it.
Hello
True
This is sooo true!!
The badder you treat them the more they love you
Only to a toxic person. Attract more respectable men. Look within first.
Yes. This is why I don't have one
I was hear me was too nice
Not any more.
I am married to a man who is almost smitten with me, and I can agree with this. Even when he thinks and complains that I have been "disrespectful" (which is really just me responding to his random inconsiderate behavior) he still can't get enough of me (wanting to kiss, cuddle, know my feelings for him, etc). So, sadly this is true 😏
I'm at the beginning of a romantic relationship with a dear friend of many years. He wants to take things slow and I respect that. So he hasn't said, "I love you, Ariel." However, he has said to me and texted, "I appreciate you." So I have made a point to tell him *in writing* that I appreciate him, too. He also truly was my hero two years ago when he realized I was having a mental health crisis and because he is therapist in town, my case was taken seriously and he accompanied me to the ER. So was already going to commerotate his heroism!
Thank-you Brian for your practical insights into the male mind and how guys think/work. Assuming of course the man is a healthy male and not narcissistic.
He wants to be my hero. But he feels insecure that he won't be able to meet my expectations. All I want from such a loving man is his love ♥️
I agree with all of this... I think the problem is that most guys and gals have a different definition of the word Respect. I want a man to love and protect me, open doors, and punch out bad guys!
huh i just wanted him not to lie and cheat..i can open my own doors
I agree, Susan ☺ I want that too! 💖 I do like a man, though, that will treat me like a lady 😍
Carrie Smith girl, me too!!!
@@cccopycat583 this is the truth!!!!!
This is very tru because my boyfriend tells me he’s better because of me even though I didn’t do anything but always Let him know how important he is and what a great guy he is and how proud I’m of him
First ,make sure this man worthy of your Love.If this men dont respect you first by testing his honesty.There are some good points.Stay away from guys who have addictions ,because their love is not constant.Some addiction is not just drugs and alcohol. Stick to your important boundaries.Take your time to get to know the person first.Honeymoon stage of a relationship can be deceptive. Good luck and Good Bless.
He used to make me feel like a princess and now even if i make him my top priority...even if i show him utmost respect...i am not his first priority and neither i get the love he used to give me before. The more i respect him the more he stops respecting me. He is taking me for granted.
Same as mine
I feel like every guy pursues you and loves and is in lust with you and as soon as you let your guard down a few months down the road he’s lost interest n doesn’t respect u or care about how he talks to you smh
@@mayziecammarata4870 ladies we have a problem
Was in the same situation, found out men treat you like that when he perceives you are no longer a challenge, he will take you for granted.
Then you are dating a boy, not a man
Thank you for acknowledging that respectful behaviour towards a guy should only be given to good guys that do the same! You are my no.1 male dating coach to watch x
@Simon S nah I have seen dating coaches that feed you a fairytale and I am not here for it. Brian is talking about people giving each other mutal respect. Girls could say the same thing how guys don't like good girls and just take advantage of them. At the end of the day if the person is actually physically and emotionally attracted to you and you are behaving respectfully, but not a pushover that is normally seen as a turn on.
I can't feel loved without feeling respected first and I will always choose to be respected over being loved, because first I need to love and respect myself and I'm not doing that if I allow others to devalue me. I will give respect when I am receiving it, but I've stopped being a doormat who allows rude behavior. If they are not treating me respectfully then it's not and can never be loving. I'm over all these rules and mind fuckery! If it's love, if it's meant to be, then it will be natural and easy and people will just show up in the relationship for each other and will both want to be there. It should not be so hard and when one is acting like they no longer want to be there, then maybe it's time to just let them go. Relationships don't work on the power and desire of just one.
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Absolutely
100% agree
His feelings changes faster than the weather....wow you are right this is really true
Yeah!! Indeed this is true! 😍😍😍 Men can "feel" if your self-confidence is fake or real. They respect your self-confidence. #facts
I recently heard a similar explanation of this concept. Yes the man is supposed to protect and love his wife significant other etc. and the woman is supposed to respect her man! However it is the man’s responsibility to love and protect first if he doesn’t love and protect The woman then she won’t respect him. And to my ladies it’s also believed that we are here to be POWERFUL!!💪💯
By the way I love when a man holds the door open for me on a date. I also reach over and open his. I feel it is respect for each other. Thank you for sharing!
Well done Brian!!!!
So true RESPECT is the KEY
"To be respected" is so crucial, is that what glued Johnny to Amber?
Your explanations with examples are very helpful and realistic.
It is better to have a pet and concentrate on oneself than to have someone in life romantically. Relationship is so stressful and no matter how much you love someone there is no assurance he/she can love you back.
I love how you deliver the video, very clear and upfront.
Thanks Brian❤
Your words are so warm!😃
YESS again another one! This should be weekly I love it so much thank you, so much respect for you x
You changed my life Brian Nox! 💗
Thank you Brian. I really appreciate your straight forward logic. I look forward to the next video.
I like the balance message you propose here. Thank you.
This is so sweet , it reminds me of someone I love. I'm bout to cry 😢
PERFECT advises!
Such powerful, simple truths. Thank you for posting!
Vicious cycles aside... thank you for putting light into this BEAUTIFUL cycle of self-worth and boundaries:personal empowerment : respect from other party : mutual respect and empowerment
This is so true and all your videos are great. They are always packed with good information. Thanks!
No women can respect a guy who disrespects her ...and then expect her to respect him
This is one of the best videos I’ve ever seen in my life online, and I have watched hundreds and hundreds of videos
Love your direct explanations because they are direct and to the point. Thank you, Victoria
You are sooo calm and have nice voice,it is great to listen to you 🤗💪🏼❤️
What an honest loving person you are!! I really appreciate your honest heart and beautiful energy! So thank you 🙏🏻
Great video. You also gave a lot of valuable information that should be natural for us women and men but for some odd reason it isn't. But it's never to late to start. Thank you. 💞
I've learned that respecting one another is a learning process and makes the love stronger
True and setting boundaries
Respect is not the main component in a relationship (it's on of the men's needs but not the main one). Many women respect their men but get used and abused by men. Brian, you should look much deeper into this... its all about natural reflexes and hormones. Men have predominantly testosterone. They have needs to fight, chase, and have uncertainty. When woman acts as an open-book, showing constant interest, trying to please a man, it's turns men off. Why do you think men fell in love with women who are hard to get ?
I bet youve been following Greta me too love her teachings
It's because he's not smart enough to realize he's giving in to his caveman instincts instead of using his brain and common sense
Horrible, horrible advice. Grounded, emotionally mature men don't want a woman they have to chase.
Always coming with facts💯💯💯
Respect. Now that I've heard this, I realize I haven't been respecting my guy. No wonder he's distant. Thank you so much.
Such valid nice reminders: Thank you!!
Really enjoy and appreciate hearing these lessons. Blessings guru Brian 🙏🏼 ✨️
thats why i really love to watch your vedios many times,i learn so much about mens behavior.thanks brianknox😊😊
Respect is when you first respect yourself.... I love your videos Brian knox.God bless you!
Thank you Brian 💕🙏🕊
Thankyou Brian !
Brian, I enjoy your videos thoroughly. You help keep my mind in line and on track. Your content, poise, confidence, personality, voice. It’s the whole bundle. Wishing you continued success.
If they do what they say they're going to do and follow through with it... Or accurately estimate logistics and be honest with themselves and you about the both big amd small examples.
Wow goodness me Brian it's taken me sixty six years to hear all this and will definitely take on board all these different ideas!! Thanks again Paula xxx
Subscribed! I love your mindset about relationships, it truly is the correct one.
I appreciate you Brian! Your teachings are valuable and help many lovelies identify truth more clearly in their situations. Thank you 🥰
Love your videos it’s so insightful
i am just listening to the way u talk , just amazing to me , nothing else i focus.
excellent examples and clarifications!
Thank u Brian 4 some clarity.
Don’t allow a man 2 b disrespectful nor dishonoring. We must value ourselves, know each of us is ENOUGH (check out Marisa Peers on this topic being enough), respectfully, calmly letting a man know his misbehavior or foul speech is not acceptable, while standing firm & fearless EVEN if he walks away.
Too many have accepted abuse / crumbs, accepted being treated less than the Crown Jewels we r just 2 have a grown boy vs a grown man.
Remember (not original 2 me)
B - burden
O - on
Y - you
vs
M - meets
A - ample ( I prefer 2 ‘All’)
N - needs!
Perfect! Thank for this!!
All right! So now I know what it woukd ne like. So fine!!
Brian you are a Godsend for me and your advices are awesome. Thank you so much.
You have very good advice.I started watching them to get the perspective from the other side and to learn as well how to check my own behavior.
Women do not cause men to be insecure. Sometimes you can give a man all your respect and admiration and he just doesn’t believe you because he doesn’t have confidence in himself. You are assuming that all men or normal and respond to this type of praise with love.
I agree, it doesn't matter what I say, even when it's coming from the heart, his lack of self confidence just diffuses it, a form of self sabotage I guess.
Wow wee truth.
Yeah that happend to me , i start to hate men and i don't believe in love anymore .
This is what it all comes down to.
so what do we do to this type of men then?
This is so good & well put! 🙌🏼🙏🏼👌🏼
You are just too good. Well done
This one really resonated with me , as well as your other ones too . Thanks so much for the info !