Interested Men Commit Much Faster to Women Who Understand This!
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Never try to convince someone to spend time with you. Either they make you a priority or not.
Yep!👏🏽
Fact!!!
Yes!!! And if they cant, they won’t be scared to tell you why.
@@ilinavelkova858 be careful. What goes around comes around
We all make mistakes & bad choices
What if he simply say that work his priority and I comes second?? But he also say that he loves me?
No good man will ghost. A good man would have the decency to break up with you or let you know he is moving on. Ghosting is unacceptable behavior.
Thank you for great message...as always your message is valuable to those who have gone through this..
You would think, right?
@@nvb455 sometimes, it's best to keep it simple and realistic. Of course we shouldn't be blaming anyone for anything, neither ourself nor them for why the relationship failed. We should just except the results and move on with an open mind for the possible future and them. I'm writting this for the people with the same mindset as the original commenter and myself cause i just got ghosted by someone i'm extremely compatible with and i just made the mistake of freaking out and made the ghosting final. And it's ok
@@nvb455 everyone has their reasons and their own problems for why they do the thing that they do. So does your friend. But it doesn't give them a pass on hurting others by ghosting. Whatever their reasoning is, they are hurting people and they should only be accepted when they're aware of their problems and are actively trying to get better. I understand your point of view and the original commenter's point of view. I'm here making a statement of my own relative to both sides, not trying to combat anyone.
They're prolly not mature enough to tell u you're not what they're looking for which should be the 1st question u ask them upon 1st meeting. Wish I did that but now I will next time around if I do which I doubt. Can't deal with with these hassels. Better off staying single & content. Dating is nothing but playing insecure mind games. I don't know how people get married.
Ladies,
STOP making excuses for men who do not know what they want. Do shadow work, practice self love, go to therapy if need be. Put yourself first before any insecure or immature man. Even if he is a “great guy”, the moment you start second guessing his feelings for you, he is not the one. Accept it and move on. Open yourself up to meet the person who truly values and will feel blessed to have you.
Waiting and trying is degrading.
Exactly! The right one won't run but will work with you to make your relationship solid. Men know what they want and are not going to let a true opportunity slip through their fingers.
Totally agree!!!
My dear Astrid! Wow
Sistah!!!😳😳 SAY THAT!
Ouch reality hurts!! 😭 Am i not enough? 💔
If a man I'm dating pulls back because I do something that reminds him of his ex, that tells me he's not over the past and he needs to go away and heal from it. I want a man who is emotionally whole and ready for a healthy relationship with me.
I feel ya. This is exactly what we need and want. Should hold this standard.
Good luck
Thank you. We all have trauma.
Hahahah... Good luck with that 🤞
YES. Also, we live in a dualistic world where we all will always have healing to do and the #1 place we do that is in our closest relationships. So it’s about knowing your worth and ALSO knowing that they are not perfect, just like you.
A good man may get scared sometimes but at least they know how to say goodbye in a respectful way.
True.
Yes
Exactly. First man who broke up with me ghosted me and I had to beg him to be honest with me and give me closure and not ignoring me like that. He wrote back and broke it off and that was enough for me and I respect him for that. Rest of my relationship, a man shows inconsistent efforts and ghosted me I straight up blocked him and never begged for closure. NEVER AGAIN!
Men need to work on themselves internally so they can handle a mature grown up relationship !
This guy is so nice and well meaning but I’ve realized that most of the time if you’re searching up videos like this..... the guy is the problem not you bby.
100
True dat. But we should alway be aware of these info so that we don't blame them or hold a grudge on them and learn to understand and except
I actually wasn't looking them up.. he was recommended to me.. but I agree with you..
@@metamorphosisjewel233 I used to wonder this as my exes were all violent and abusive. My ex husband even had the nerve to excuse his bad behaviour by telling me that i was the common denominator! ie it was 'my' fault he and the rest hit me!
After a couple of years watching channels like this and researching Narcissism to understand the dynamics of my family members . ..I decided that no more was I going to accept or toletate bad behaviour from anyone.
People who truly love you will not continually abuse or hurt you!
I used to give people 3 chances. ..then i realised how ludicrous this was! One mistake, one warning gut feeling even a tiny one and I was gone!
i joined an online dating site Dec 2019 and weirdly circumstances were such that i only met two men. As they all happened to be visiting parents or cancelled dates. Both very nice but the first messed me about with dates, asking me out but not sorting out the third date. Everything was said by text message. 3 weeks of waiting was too long for me and a full 3 days of texting and compliments whilst he was off work but no date. He only lives 10 mins drive from me.... said he would have got "around to asking me out eventually"...well tough luck.. too late.
The other is my wonderful boyfriend of almost a year who treats me so well and with respect. Everything is just so nice and easy and he is so reliable.
I never had to worry about him calling or making a date in the early days.
I am 56 and he is 3 years younger.
I am very happy and even my health has improved.
Beware tho there are men who troll sites like this and tell you that you are too old etc or be abusive to the women leaving comments but take no notice...the only thing that you are doing 'wrong' is not valuing yourself enough to walk away from bad behaviour.
Everyone attracts the wrong people now and again and kind people do get used but don't keep allowing it.
At some point in our lives we were conditioned to accept and put up with bad behaviour. Please dont get to your 50s like i did before valuing yourself. And if you are...don't worry...plenty of time to become used to someone who sticks to their values and only surrounds themselves with the kind of person we wish to be.
You are obviously not conceited or you would not even consider it being your fault.
Well...it isnt!
Its not a sin to be a kind person but it is a waste of your time and energy to continue to put up with people who treat you badly.
So all the best for the future. There are plenty of good uns out there. .but you only need find one. Value you yourself and he will find you. Just put yourself out there and have fun.
or your searching videos like this because you have relationship anxiety
I'm so done with dating. I'm 51, divorced for 8 years and this behavior gets much worse at this age. Just enjoy your lives and prioritize yourselves.
I absolutely agree that you should focus on yourself and enjoy living your life, but I also think you should remain open to a relationship. This doesn't mean you have to actively seek out a relationship, but if you're completely closed off to one it will show, and if there is ever going to be a chance of finding one, it will prevent that from happening.
I was hoping men would be more mature at that age but i guess they never mature
Ditto! I’m in the same boat!
I understand exactly how you feel! But, the moment we start closing our hearts...💜... Everything goes downhill.You got this 🤗
It blows my mind how men in their 50’s are the same or worse! The wonderful Man I wasted years on completely blindsided me and yet Still wants to continue!
I was ghosted 2 weeks ago by a guy I had been seeing intensively for 2 months (and had known for years). 10 dates in, flowers, hand written letters, he talked of us being ‘serious’ and that he was ‘enamoured’ with me. Disappeared without a trace. The abandonment and mental gymnastics has been so painful. But now I’m moving on
So sorry this has happened to you. Hope you're ok now. Keep strong
@@tg9898 thank you for your kindness ❤️
That is so bad! This crappy behaviour should be illegal!
@@sw8916 . I mean it hun. I sympathise. I've been there its hurtful. As much as I live my life and depend on no one, I'm in a situation ship at the moment and I'm thinking this will happen to me too. He has contracted covid and communication is not good but it wasnt before
WOW that sounds absolutely awful!!! (I’ve had something similar happen to me once but not as bad). I’m so sorry to hear that sweetie, hope you’re able to move on and live your best life because you deserve it! Your person will find you! And as for him....he is NOT a good man and karma will deal with him. You dodged a bullet!
Ghosting is a form of abandonment and it’s abusive
If he needs space to reevaluate your relationship, give it to him. Go on with your life like you will be ok if you don’t reconcile. Wanting him but not needing him.
But how though if it's a relationship ? .. should I not pick up calls ? Allow him to come over? Etc
@@melcab1433 Its really really hard to do. But you have to value what you need from the relationship more than your connection that is not what you need. It's hard, but what you need matters.
Preach it sista!
I had this. A month ago. It was finally going somewhere but I followed your advice, didn’t chase and let him do what he needed to do to make it appear he’s in charge. He promised me so much. Asked me to be his girlfriend and then ghosted me! I think he expected me to chase him! Not a chance. Deleted and moved on. Can’t be dealing with it.
good for you! Waste of energy and time!
He showed his true colors
He sounds indeed like a feminine man who wants to be chased. Yiak.
Glad you know your worth 👏❤️
Well done you!
Everything needs time, time to grow and develop naturally. A true relationship SHOULDN'T be forced or manipulated in any way. 🙏
Seriously I was traumatised when my ex ghosted me. It is one hundred percent immature. It’s damaging behaviour. I had another guy do the same and I just didn’t have the time for it. It does being out the worst in me. But like it’s just bad manners. If they guy is freaked out, he needs to tell you, if the guy is worried about commitment and has been leading you down the garden parth. He needs to communicate. I have never ghosted and there is no reason to do it. This is just excuses. I get scared in love too, we all do. You need to learn to control that fear. If he can’t do that, nope not mature enough.
Ghost= ANOTHER WOMAN
Yip !! Mine just ghosted me for someone new xx
Exactly!
*women/options
Sure is unfortunately
Not necessarily. This video even explains why it’s not the case.
If he ghosts you move on!!
Love yourself first. If a relationship takes a lot of work chances are you need to move on.
A good guy won't ghost
100 fact!
Yes!
But if a good guy finally ghost you, its because something happened that he feels wrong and dont like about you. But if he said that to you, he afraid that he might be fighting with you. Ghosting is an unacceptable behaviour of man. But the only thing we can do is let him go. Dont ask or cry and dont show that you cant live without him. Just move on. Brian knox videos are most right!
Very true.
Facts
Most of men that I met were all complicated and unsure about themselves, that's why I stay single for years, I'm waiting for the right man to meet, I have zero energy dealing with an unsure and immature man
If a guy wants to ghost help him do it disappear and don’t contact a ghost bec guess what ghosts are dead 😀 focus on someone alive and there for you x
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True, but learn from it so it doesn't happen again. Sometimes ghost never leave the haunted mansion. Don't let his ghost repeat in others, you know what I mean?
@@tempest0078 🎯👏👏👏👏🏆another gem, say that point 👍
Haha 😂 true story 😅😅😅💯💯👌🏾🎊
A weak dead guy..😂 karma will find him
A great guy knows how to communicate and explain his need for space. He will know how his actions are likely to affect u. I don't want an immature guy that can't explain what's on his mind. I like a mature vulnerable man.
This!!! Communication is key!
This happened to me. He nearly shat his pants... I gave him space. And didn't get MY needs met for months. Until he finally broke up with me. Screw this advice. Is the woman the only person to be accomodating to a mans past wounds? He can grow a pair, do some therapy and take responsibility for his own past... Not me. Not again.
I agree with you!
Any man we have to *change our natural behaviors for* ISN'T the one for us. ❤ Be you, sis. We spend so much time and energy trying to figure out what they want from us but you rarely see men doing the same. Let's take the ball out of their court.
this is such genius advice omg !!!
❤️it, especially the last sentence. A gem I'm keeping..
👌❤
Indeed!
So true!
IT IS SO HARD. To walk away from someone unsure. It has been 6 months and I believe my actions were right, but my mind has him on replay.
if he wanted to, he would. get feeling better ❤️
Bottom line is you deserve a man who is so sure that you're the one he wants. You want to be with a man who knows he wants you. If he's unsure, he's not seeing your value.
@@Rene-po7im💯💯💯💯
I'm in a relationship now, but if I was dating I wouldn't like how constantly texting each other could lead to a false sense of intimacy in a relationship. You are strangers getting to know each other. Do it slowly. Do it right.
This reminds me of a concept I heard about called “the wave.” The wave (of distancing) that can happen even with good men or ourselves, where we have a moment of needing to pull away and regroup, for some reason, or just because we have big feelings. I like the idea of not overreacting to that (in self or other). But like you said, it’s good to demote the person when that’s happening. If they come back ready for the big relationship, great (if you’re still interested). But I agree that ghosting is always a bad sign. Mature adults don’t do that.
this is how I treat men now days if I am not important to him he is not important to me,i don’t overeact I just keep it moving.I do this due to a heartbreak I went through few years ago.i just look at men now like flawed human beings just like the rest of mankind,I used to idolize them so much,I guess it was immaturity from my part.we live and we learn
Don't ever idolise men 🤢🤮
Same thing happened with him
@@sansadrake4133 I learned the hard way 😂
@@nurarich4945 at least you learnt your lesson lol
Same. I match their energy right back to them.
Even if I’m internally screaming “no don’t go”
they’ll never know
If he tests me, he is childish... That is when I lose interest
A man should test like a woman test, but sometimes theirs is stupid.
I enjoyed your advice just what I needed. I am in a long distance relationship. . My guy was a high profile guy and I never in my wildest dreams thought a man of his class and integrity will behave like a spook Everyday he would make me feel soo special and let me know he was crazy about me. I received endless pics and videos. I really starting loving this man. I had not been in a relationship since my divorce fourteen years ago. I trusted him respected him and was very proud of him. He told I am the full package and I am everything a man is looking for in a woman. He just went quiet and ignored my messages. Anyway I became worried and missed him and kept looking at my phone dropped a line or more out of concern. After two days he answered . Not in the sweet way he would normally chat. He was away a few days and retuning to his place of work. He wrote, On a flight back . "I am tired. Hope you had a great Sunday. ". Not a word about boo or baa. . That's it . We were chatting just over four months. I refuse to answer. So glad I watched this video. Even good men are creepy..
Not true
Sadly every man will test you there is no exceptions
So in summary, dating is like living in a house made of unpinned grenades.
😄 spot on. Welcome to today's dating world.
Exactly
Once the pin is pulled out, boom 😀😀😀
I had to laugh at this one. Kudos, that was good, lol.
🤣😄😆 right? Screw the games
This is frustrating. Why do I have to pay for something another woman did, or for man not being ready to be in a relationship and him having psychological traumas? Everyone has a past. I shouldn’t have to methodically talk or act around him. It sounds like men are in a glass bubble and women have to be so careful not to break it. 🤷♀️
THIS.
to me, it's all good info for why things didn't work out in the past--it explains a lot!--and even though i'm naturally an accommodating person, i refuse to walk tightropes and use scripts just to protect fragile men. if he's not strong enough to take me as i am, he can take a hike.
He gave me the classic "I'm going to replace my phone." reason. It's been two years guess he hadn't gotten around replacing his phone😂.
But seriously it gutted me. I wanted closure so much, answers to my whys but eventually accepted that him ghosting me was the answer and the closure.
I wanted closure too but all I got was a big lie and another lie after lie. We are not going to get the 'honest closure' we need, anyways. They moving on fast. The only closure we need is to move on even faster remember ladies MOVE ON.
He was a chump then, no honor in doing that! Dishonorable and cruel.
@@beachynailsaus yep if you stick around it’s all lies and more lies.
It was enough right?
You are worthy of a beautiful love story ❤️
I hope so. I'm 29 and have never been in love. 😕
So sweet! Thank you! ❤
but don't tell them they are beautiful haha
Yes! 😊❤ I am! I really am worthy!😊
I'm a 60 year old female.My aunt used to say if a guy really loves u u won't have to question it .
My boyfriend ghosted me few times during our 3 years relationship. I can forgive him and now he is angry with me and blaming me. He said he always love me. But I'm not dumb to accept and forgive him. Blocked him and I'm trying to move on. I'm okay now, there are times when I cry in my room but I'm moving on.
I'm surprised it lasted three years. Don't waste your time on men who aren't worrth your time and energy.
@@messrsandersonco5985 because I was stupid to forgive him whenever he cameback and tell me he's sorry and how much he miss me. When he ghosted me again and again I felt like I was being played by him. I don't want him back. No more pain and suffering
@@amyyellowrose2798 don’t take him back for your own sake,he will break you until there’s nothing left.
@@nurarich4945 true. I will not let him ruin my life anymore. He told me he loves me all the time but he was just using me for his own convenience. During my difficult time he is not with me but when he's down he's expecting me to be there for him. I've had enough and I just want to heal. Being single is better than being in a broken relationship
So powerful a message out here. That exactly what happened to me. 'Want him but dont need him. Move on with your life girl'...there is so much more to life than sticking your nose holding on to uncertainty. And most of all while moving on, just rest it all up to God. Continue to do good things and just be awfully best in everything and the right one will be there whoever and whatever thats meant for us. Thank you Brian Nox
Yes!! So true! Thank you for this reminder!
9:45 is a gem 💎 👏👏 “...which is fine, you should just be yourself. But this makes me like you less of course”.
I love you!!!!! Lol
It really is. This man is helping me soooo much with my relationships! He's the best I've found thus far.
Good thing I found this vid before I confront my man and freaked out. 😂
I’m gonna play that on a continual loop
I did so, six months later he asked if I was angry that he disappeared. I said that I see no reason for being angry. Then he asked if that means I forgot him, I said that I never forget people I had relationship with. He was confused....
I gotta say there ARE signs before you get dumped. Happened to me and in retrospect I should have known. Why haven't I? I was blindly in love with this guy. I was not willing to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation. Had I done this, I would have drawn the line immediately. And yes, I got needy af, not my everyday baseline behavior at all.😑 Great video, btw. 👍🏻
But why get needy for someone who basically dont care if you exist or not. Never understand why women do this
@@sansadrake4133 It's not a gender thing, trust me. I've had plenty of males chase after me even tho I clearly said I wasn't interested. Love, hope and hormones can render any human life form irrational. Hindsight is always 20-20. The older you get, the more cautious and rational you become. It's unfortunate, but also inevitable.
@@808Fee i would say there are more women who do this though than men.. and yeh i guess so..
@@808Fee i agree with you, its like the guys you actually dont care about are stuck on u like glue even if you show them you are not intrested by your actions. While we chase the ones that are not that into us... Ugh
Ghost = totally not responding to email ,calls, texts ,makes new dating profile in different town , comes back after 2 months when the new girl dumps him. 😆👻
Or when you are in a new great relationship!
Be rational on giving him the importance he deserves. Don’t hive him priority depending in your feelings, yet on how he treats you
Never tell a man how you feel about him first. He must tell you first! If he doesn’t and it’s been 3 months, then pull away.
The level of importance should always match .....i heard that ,thank you !!!
Yes honey 👏🏽💯
We definitely all have emotional scars from past relationships and experiences. There have been times when someone has done something to remind me of someone from my past and I was immediately turned off by him even though I know they're two different people. However, I have worked through these problems before and I come to my senses even though my initial reaction is RUN
"Any man that, for any reason under the sun, is unsure of wanting a long-term relationship with you IS NOT important, romantically speaking." 👏
7:45 pre-ghost you yes. It has happened twice in 6 months before the final ghosting 6 months later. So it took a year of him 3 times ghosting waster of my time. Karma will sort it for him.
Each time he apologised but no honesty there. Just empty apology & lies. No real honest, closure.
A good man will not ghost. Anyone that ghosts without a convo needs to do deep self exploration.
Thanks, Brian! Your suggested script here is brilliant in this situation of: "Look, you've changed. You used to (list specifics here) that I loved and you've stopped. And, that's totally fine, because, of course, I want you to just be yourself. AND, this makes me like you less, of course."** Saying it in this way works in all kinds of situations! I love it! I also loved your line "Ghosts are spooky" too! 🤣
**Wording edited to eliminate "but", which belongs to the old dualistic paradigm of either/or. There are always more than 2 options from which to choose. Also, edited wording to remove "you should" that phrasing contradicts giving him the freedom to behave how he wants.
This goes both ways:) Women can feel this way too from a man’s behaviour. People need to be understanding and communicate more on both ends. ❤
As a married woman, of 10 years, I can tell you that people change and past pains do come up, and this is the best way I have also learnt to respond.
09:45 to 10:50, such brilliant advice. Thank you so much, Brian. I thought there was no turning back if one accidently freaked out the guy.
This has always been a constant struggle for me and thank you so much for sharing this!!
You talk so much sense, but in a way that makes me smile. Thank you.
The answer for my question... perfect ! Thank you ☺️
I love his advice that I press the 👍 button, watch his videos to the end and watch all his ads plus bought his book on amazon. That’s how I appreciate his wisdom🥰🙏
Thank you so much, Geert. You really help act as a voice of reason when I feel like "freaking out" due to this exact situation. The pain is real, no doubt. But your insight restores some of the lost confidence and disempowerment felt from being ghosted or ignored after opening up to the man I was dating...."this makes me like you less, of course" My mantra during this time!
This is so true! You're definitely correct!
Very important timely topic for me. I was already taking this approach but it felt reassuring that it’s best thing to do even though it doesn’t feel great.
So happy to have a new video!
Always the BEST explanations and with humor and a nice voice too💕
You can’t imagine how much this helped me, everything makes sense now
You are so good. This is the clearest advice I’ve found online 🙏🏽 Self integrity 101
How timely is this for me and I could 100% relate because this is happening to me now, good thing I saw this video first before confronting him. Thank you for your videos Brian, it helps me a lot.
Love your videos Brian! Wait for them all the time! Thank you.
Give him space. He don't want to go from the frying pan to the fire.
Brian, I love you! Thank you for being so amazing and giving me level headed info. Also, your voice is so soothing and gentle in a time where my anxiety is high! Thank you for being here for us all! ❤️
This video is by far your best 1 I feel!!! Maybe cuz it explains more from a man’s perspective but it just hits home so hard!! THANK you! For real! However you came to realize this truth or know it’s value to share with us, it’s very much needed!!! Please keep teaching these relationship foundational corner stones so that we may also go out to share or teach! Spread the love! 😊✅💯
Thank you a lot! This is exactly what i needed to hear! ❤ Thank God, I didn't overreact. 😅 You make a good job, here!
My man is a trucker, does he love me? I've no doubt, he can't text while driving, so he pulls his truck up just to text me 😊
Mines will text me back, which I appreciate him doing, I just hope he keeps it up?
Awww that's so sweet
Hi Brian I'm 23 female from Indonesia, just wanna say that I watched all your videos and it helps me so much during my hard time after breakups. I also read most of your books and recommend them to my friends. I rarely write comments but I wanna say that your content is really helpful and soothing you might not know how much soul you've already helped. Please keep creating content like this!
Hey diva
Yes, but please, marry your own kind.
@@richricogranada9647 The fuck is wrong with you? Yikes
It is true how often we forget that we all have previous experiences and they don't have to be great ones...
You have the best analogies Brian...You are also such a great speaker...I could listen to you talk for hours. Its so refreshing that your entertaining, have a wonderful personality and have fantastic information to share. Thank you for everything that do!
Sending you 💜 Much Love
Watching this all over again thank you so much Brian💕🥰
Thank you for this message. While all your messages are helpful, this one really hit the spot at this moment! Thank you 💖
This is an excellent expose on a very frustrating situation. Thank you so much for unpacking it so well. I have had this happen to me twice in the last 20 years; and I still feel in retrospect, it was very unfair to me! Both gentlemen are no longer in my life - their choice. For the record, I wasn't then, and still am not "a scorpion" :( But this situation is caused by him going through something that effects the other person in the relationship, but he will not accept ANY input from her at all - so, if he decides to vacate the relationship, there's nothing the other person can do about it. It's really just part of life, but in reality, he was "the scorpion", relatively speaking. The "why" of it is fascinating and logical. I understand it logically, but still feel it's such an emotional let down :( Great work. Yes, it IS IMPORTANT not to chase a man with this opinion of wonderful me! Best for me to move on and make my life a better place for me :) Thanks so much!
This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you!
First of all I love your voice ❤️ Thanks for your guidance Brian..you made me realise what all went wrong with me..when actually nothing was wrong..Thanks for reading my heart and brain dilemma❤️❤️
I just wanna say thank you! You're doing such a great job! ☺️
Thank You So Very Much, Herge. You totally speak my thoughts and affirmed that I am on the right track with giving my man the space he needs.
Hey! I bump into this video just at the right moment ! Really appreciate this video , inspirational & yes ! Moving on is the best way !
Thankyou for such an insightful video, I always watch your videos and read you books and I feel now that I an ready to take on the dating world from a place of power. Thankyou again xxx
Wow I love how you make me feel empowered and really make me aware of my rights regardless of my intense emotions! thank you so much for your heart-soothing advice and explaination!
Your work is excellent! Thank you so much for helping women understand what is simply not logical to us. I especially like this video.
Thank you so much! If he treats me as unimportant then I should treat him as unimportant too no matter how it hurts! I love 💘 this!
This was on point, Brian! I can relate to this. 👌
This gave me so much peace. Thank u
Thanks Brian! Been waiting patiently for this!!!😊
Your voice is always soooooo soothing and yet another such great video!! ❤️❤️❤️
Nope. A good guy would never ghost...Communication is important and if he ghosts you it shows that he can't have a healthy relationship with you so be glad he left like this 🙋🏼♀️
It may not be immature to not want to be with somebody because of something they do that reminds them of their EX, but it is very immature to ghost somebody. It's not okay to ghost somebody. Not unless they're obsessive and psycho which most people are not
Your insights and teachings are fantastic and SUPER helpful. (And delivered with excellent humor, may I add. ;) They’re truly helping me make use of my brain’s capacity for neuroplasticity. Thank you!!
You are my fav speaker in love. Thanks Brian. Very wise man.
I loved this! Really good advice. I just wanted to add that I’m a woman and that I’m the one usually getting spooked if anything was to remind me of my ex or thinking it might be a red flag. And then of course they feel it and then I pull away even further and then it’s usually over except I don’t ghost. I let them know :)
But maybe if they weren’t as aggressive in trying to make it work, I would calm down eventually. Putting pressure on someone is probably not the best idea. Applies to both women and men.
Haha. Too true: ghosts are spooky. If a guy ghosts you, give him that space. He’s sorting things out. A good man will return to explain (whether to start where you left off or to give closure). Either way, you are the prize. It’s not you, it’s him. Life brings mental traumas that give us all pause. We all need time to think. Men need their cave time to re-group. Space is healthy. Hold your frame, stand in your sovereignty and see space as your ally. Having empathy and a listening ear can save a friendship.
Omggggg!!! I was thinking about you today! I desperately needed your advise which I couldn't find in any of your videos. And bam! This video shows up with the advise I needed!!!! You are a gift to this world! THANK YOU SO MUCH! ❤
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The way you explain this topic is genius. Thank you so much:)
Thank you so much !
Just brought me a clearer picture where I stand with the guy that I like !!👍❤️
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Hello Robert yes It would nice to talk to someone!
Great advice...I will always apply this to my life. Thank you for sharing your knowledge 💋
Great! Thank you! Concise and objective analysis!
Awesome. Thank you. This is true for all relationships, I find. Know your worth.
Your videos are so helpful. I really like how you include a scenario and a response to his behavior. I am 50 and just getting back into the dating world after losing my husband ten years ago. Your information is much more logical than many of the other vloggers. Thanks!
I agree! I’m in my early 60’s and I find Brian’s information so much more practical and logical than others also. Best of luck to you!
Very informative, thank you! I just went through this with my boyfriend. Circumstance number 2. He broke up with me.
Your videos are incredible and so helpful. Love them!
Wow! This was mind blowing for me. Thank you for sharing❤️ ❤️❤️