They Gave Their Victims HIV / AIDS on Purpose
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- Опубліковано 3 лип 2024
- We heard all sorts of urban legends all the time during our childhoods. Sometimes, those legends aren't exactly true to a tee, but they're very much based in reality. Sometimes, such as in the instance of today's topic, it happens a lot more often than you might think.
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Mistake: I kept calling "boss man" Darell. His name is Darnell. I am dumb and take full responsibility for my actions
Oh no worries it happens
No, an apology is not complete until you make an apology video with a ukelele singing a song about how it's really all of us that misheard it.
@@gloriascientiae7435Nooo why did you have to remind me of that one apology video!!! It's stuck in my head again.. 😭
Ur so not dumb.... I think it’s hysterical lol how old are you? You’re not gonna answer me but I’m not chums. I am Jennifer chum’s mom.😂😂😂
Don't ever ever call yourself dumb, even if you’re just playing because I couldn’t do what you do, my friend you’re one of my 😍😍😍😍😍
If I found out that someone knowingly infected me with AIDS, they wouldn't ever have to worry about appearing in court.
My thoughts exactly!
Why? Because you believe so much in due-process that you'd give them a wake-up call on court days?
Being recommended to Dr Abiola on UA-cam was a blessing after years of suffering I have finally been cured thanks Dr Abiola you are indeed a Blessing to this generation #DRABIOLA ...
@@paddiowilson : The only person going to court would be me, as a defendant on a class Y felony charge.
Period
It is legal in California *to not notify* a partner of your HIV status. That seems evil.
Sounds like liberal views
Sounds like Commiefornia alright
@EdgarHeedSan Francisco, California, the real life one, is actually doing worse than a fictional version in a dystopian sci-fi world
@EdgarHeed Facts.
Yes unless you are married crazy!!! But even if the person is married but still puts single in the paperwork, the doctor has no obligation to tell their significant other 🤦♀️
I’m GenX and grew up during the AIDS panic. When I was teaching my young kids the facts I leaned heavily into STDs. I explained that you aren’t just with that one person. You’re with everyone they have been with and everyone they have been with. Like a pyramid. Sleeping with just one person can mean exposing yourself to 1000 people’s histories. If you sit and think about it, it is pretty terrifying.
Very well said
Yep! That’s how I also think about it.
I’m genX as well and yes I paid attention to those classes and speeches as well
@@tiffanydennis4227 i m genZ and paid attention to those classes as well because in my school when i was 13 there was this girl my scenior(16) who got hiv from the hairdresser who pealed her brows and accidentelly hurt her one drop of blood who came out was enough to assure transmission
Very well said ! It’s the reason I could never be with someone who has had already dozen of sexual partners
There was also a man who injected HIV positive blood into his newborn son to try and get out of child support.
People are fucked
Wow, that is brutal
Sounds like he and my "dad" should go bowling. He tried to suffocate me to get me to quit crying.
and his son ended up having it, was expected to die at 5. He’s still alive to this day. The man was also a DOCTOR 🤦🏽♀️
@umchileanyways8603 omg I remember that case!!! Disgusting!!!
To put this in perspective, you have people serving life sentences for selling drugs... something one wants to buy and others want to sell, yet she gets 26 years for giving someone something they never wanted and they'll have for the rest of their life.
At least she got time. There are many people who do this and get off scot free. The guy right after her did the same thing as she did, only he did it with 12 year old children. Never saw justice, but at least he can't hurt anyone anymore.
@@WobblesandBean eh, there was another in the same video connected to a 1000 men and got 32 months and only served half of it.
Pure Insanity.
@@WobblesandBeanur complaining about the guy who didn't go to jail because he was murdered prior to that possibility ? Lmao
That is because the government can’t tax transmission of diseases however they can tax sales of substances.
There’s a clear incentive for them to prefer one over the other.
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You don’t get life for knowingly exposing multiple people with a terminal illness that’s fatal without treatment? The justice system is a joke. At least the 2nd guy was brought to justice
It use to be that way. Thankfully now the treatment is so effective that you can test negative. And not pass it.
@chrilpy
I was honestly expecting the U.K. one to get like 5 years or something given the country and circumstances.
He probably only would've got off with maybe a decade or so had he not tried hiding from police and just plead guilty from the start.
@@hollowgonzalo4329 Right? If there's one thing I have learned about the UK, it's that their justice system is an absolute joke.
@@hollowgonzalo4329 hell the lady from there was in contact with a thousand men, got 32 months, and did half of that. She even admitted she did it because a black man gave it to her. There is noone alive that can convince me that that was nothing less than racial bias.
@@Heyden_Weid From what I've read, the meds (IF you can tolerate it) makes it undetectable. But it's still there. So how do you know you haven't spread it?
None of them should ever be let out ever again
And even in prison, they should be isolated form gen pop.
The same happened in my country as a child and was all over the news. Two men roofied their dates and literally injected them with HIV. This has been my biggest nightmare since. I just can't believe people are so evil.
Scary
I can believe it
South Africa?
To confirm, was this case in the Netherlands?
First time discovering humanity?
Some people are so evil. There is no excuse not to inform your partner of your status.
Being recommended to Dr Abiola on UA-cam was a blessing after years of suffering I have finally been cured thanks Dr Abiola you are indeed a Blessing to this generation #DRABIOLA ...
There’s a girl on YT who talks about being one out of many victims of someone maliciously infecting others with HIV. Her story is heartbreaking, but she’s thriving and living her best life.
My aunt is a victim of this. Married and faithful. 10 years. But her husband, my uncle-in-law, was a cheating scumbag who later infected her. And it wasn’t until a series of doctor visits and medication failing her that we finally decided getting tested might yield some answers. Needless to say, finding out that her husband was cheating on her from an HIV test was devastating. She quickly plummeted into a life of alcohol and depression. Me and the rest of our loving family are doing all we can to support her as she recovers and regain some sort of normal in her life again. She’s trying but I can see in her eyes she isn’t the same anymore. Always distant and lost in thought
@@needlessnash I’m so sorry to hear that. Your aunt needs to know how much she’s loved and that life isn’t over for her. I hope she realizes soon enough that the best revenge she can give that scumbag husband is for her to live her best and healthiest life!
good to hear that godbless her and other victims
I'm putting this out there and I don't know why but my mom was a carrier and she didn't know it thing with her though is like sometimes she tests positive and sometimes she wouldn't yeah it was a really flipping weird I like I didn't believe her for a long time for years and years and years and years I did not believer until a judge told me and I still don't believe her until the corner told me cuz I seen the results myself be negative and then I seen them be positive and I thought oh wow Mom you're quite the narcissist how can you mirror that kind of s*** know what it was is she carried it in her lymph nodes she could affect people but she didn't even get symptoms of it herself but she definitely for sure 100% habit she had it for sure it was HIV not AIDS come to find out she had it when she was pregnant with me and my brother cuz she got it when she was got in a car wreck when she was a teenager neither me nor my brother got it but here we're going to do the what the f****** bleep about
I love you mom you are sorely missed
When I was younger, it was things like this, that make me fear getting intimate with other people. There are some vile human beings out there, and they’re STILL out there.
Same
Same here.
They only getting more vile nowadays
It’s even worse now , lack of morals at high time high.
Yeah even now im still scared😢,going through a breakup and Im really fearing for my future if i wanna look again.
Omg, 😢. That's malicious BEYOND comprehension and completely horrendous and vile.
Welcome to 2024
It’s been going on way before 2024
@@firefighter343this has been happening way before 2024, lmao
@@firefighter343 exactly. Good thing this person lives a sheltered life. It's a very cruel world.
I remember an episode of “Oprah” where 5 women were unknowingly dating a man who had HIV (or AIDS) and contracted the disease. It was wild to me how the audience in the studio were essentially blaming the woman for getting the disease when their only mistake was trusting the person they were dating.
They do have to take accountability for daying him. Im pretty sure they knew he was cheating and no good. I remember that episode
Being recommended to Dr Abiola on UA-cam was a blessing after years of suffering I have finally been cured thanks Dr Abiola you are indeed a Blessing to this generation #DRABIOLA ...
They was just as responsible
Trust but verify is the new etiquette unfortunately. Both partners get tested at the same time on the same day and show paperwork
I'm from Western New York where Neshawn Williams was from. He was living in Jamestown NY at the time he infected all of these kids and young women and unborn babies with HIV, In the 90s it was a death sentence.
All of Neshawn Williams victims were a guest on a talk show in 1997 or early 98.
Neshawn has since changed his name
It's something like Sha Tqu
Shyteek Johnson is his new name
He needs to be locked up!
I remember that.
Either way, he is a remorseless menace to society.
I went to high school with a boy who was sentenced to 120years in Jail in Texas for infectiing 3 women [at least] with HIV\AIDS
You guys live to an old age there! Plus I thought it shortened your life too 🤷🏻♂️.
@@WezzleGHIV is now different from what we had in the 80s and 90s. Now when people take their medication they are mostly not infectious or is that non transmissible. I'm sorry I don't know the politically correct terms. It is not the killer we had back on the day.
@@Alphacharlie6Yes, you're right. HIV is different to aids and is now not the killer people think it is. Just a few tablets a day and you can live a long life. These medications also mean you can have sex without spreading the disease.❤❤
@@WezzleGI think you need to do a quick Google before you comment.❤
@@WezzleGjust because we like guns and don’t sell high percentage weed I bet. Did u know there is over 700 billion in debt frm the cannabis industry in Cali and half of them that owe closed down
anyone who does this should get life in prison.
early 2000"s in the gayest part of Toronto I saw a billboard suggesting it was wrong to expect Aids infected men to disclose their condition. I had to read it three times to understand that it was actually saying that. so strange.
It is wrong to *expect* that. Just because it's the right thing to do doesn't mean that people will do it. It's obviously evil to expose people to it knowingly but that billboard is reminding people to protect THEMSELVES and not expect everyone to tell the truth. The world isn't all sunshine and rainbows.
@@mayanovak2497 fair enough. I think it would have been appropriate for the billboard to also mention the "obviously evil"
@@8pprentice well that much is a given lol. It's like saying lock your car doors, take your valuables. You can't expect *obviously evil* criminals to not take your stuff, the onus is on you to protect yourself
@@mayanovak2497 i honestly dont think that much is "a given" especially in that community.
I hate to be that person, but the religion I follow states there would never be a group of men that practice homosexuality without diseases running rampant between them. That was said 1400 years ago, proves to be true
I protect my own health; that responsibility belongs to ME. Treat ALL as if they are positive; just like medical professionals do. Be safe out there. ❤✌🏾
That's the best take NO chances.
It's sad, but the truth is that the risk is too high. Especially if you're the type the does one night stands.
In high school I was in class with a girl who straight up said her first thought when presented with sex was, “am I willing to DIE for this person?” And that’s what kept her from giving in to most. So young yet so brilliant!
It’s not that simple, you could be married and your spouse steps out on you. I get what you mean though when it comes to sleeping with women that you aren’t married to, in this day & age I wouldn’t recommend even doing that at all. Chances skyrocket
@@hotmess9640 Married 14 years and divorced. My now ex husband and I always had regular check-ups and physicals. Before and during our marriage. Stay ready means not having to get ready. Best wishes 💕
In the UK there were 3,000+ people who were infected with HIV tainted blood by the National Health Service.
Imagine going into Hospital for a minor condition and coming out with HIV.
I know it's disgusting isn't it. It wasn't just HIV either, it was hepatitis C, and other blood disorders. It's absolutely horrific.😔💖
That plasma for the Factor VIII came from the US. The contaminated blood-supply in US killed more than half of the hemophiliacs in America.
I knew a guy who got HIV that went to full blown AIDS. He moved across the the country not long after. Didn't know he came back until word got out he was sleeping with all kinds of people and not telling them. Last time i saw him, was a picture of him in the hospital on Facebook looking like he was about five steps from death. I would have felt worse if he hadnt have spread his illness to people with them not knowing.
I used to live with someone like this, haven't spoken to him since his boyfriend showed up at our house fraking out about it and my housemate didn't deny it. What a lowlife thing to do, it wasn't even revenge or anything, he just didn't tell him even though he asked. I hope he's in prison if he's still alive. It was the 90s so meds weren't as good as they are now.
Both of my aunts passed from AIDS. In the 90's one of them was so angry she used to threaten to bite me as a little girl and my sis as a teen, and give it to us.
Aw poor girl sorry that is crazy
That's terrifying beyond description for that bitter and angry excuse for an aunt to threaten that to you and your sister.
Reminds me of of that one case out of Australia where a prisoner stabbed a prison guard with an AIDS needle well in jail. The jailer died shortly after of complications related to AIDS. He was only 28
This is horrifying. They should be punished accordingly. !
Daryl was handled exactly how it should have been handled
Yup! 💯
Still, the little girls he violated will never be able to confront him in court. All in all, he got an easy ticket out.
Being recommended to Dr Abiola on UA-cam was a blessing after years of suffering I have finally been cured thanks Dr Abiola you are indeed a Blessing to this generation #DRABIOLA ...
I know hooking up is fun, but yall young people out there remember there can be serious consequences even if you think you’re being safe by wearing protection etc. Just make sure you only sleep with people you trust and remember one night of fun isn’t worth potentially ruining your life permanently
and get regular STD tests and request them from partners as well
@@BulkernatorKerb this
Facts exactly what I just commented.. a few moments of pleasure is NOT worth risking your health! Plz be safe yall ♥️✌️🙏
HIV transmission to straight, circumcised men is virtually unheard of.
@@BulkernatorKerbAt this point it should be normal dating practice 😭
It's such a level of Evil to KNOWINGLY seek out to give other's a life altering infection. They are lucky medicine has advanced. It used to be an utter death sentence. Thankfully there is at least options for people but it doesn't change how messed up this is. Especially when someone so clearly enjoys inflicting pain onto other's. It's just a different level of sadistic
This is beyond SICKENING.. ugh 😩 so so evil.. be safe out there ppl!! Your health is nothing to play with esp over a few mins of pleasure.. it’s DEF not worth your health/life. Periodt.
Here in Toronto 🇨🇦 Canada I remember during the late 90s people were afraid to go to nightclubs because of cases where 💉 people were infected by being“poked “ with HIV infected syringes. That’s why when Covid was launched by the government they use that term a lot and it brought back a lot of bad memories.
That's not a real thing that was just closeted gay people using being "poked" as an excuse as to why they had it. You'd feel it if someone stabbed and injected you
My best friend experienced something like this. She was given drugs and was assaulted by someone who knew they had it and gave it to her on purpose. She died from something unrelated and was luckily undetectable by the time she passed but still. I miss her every single day.
(Rest easy my love)
Sarah Jane Porter was the definitive definition of, "The Black Death".
I read about a NASCAR driver once that died from AIDS. Tim Richmond. He was a noted womanizer, and during the offseasons, he could be found doing whatever activity (or whatever women) he wanted to. Long story short, he slept with an unknown woman during the 1986-87 offseason, and became infected with it. There's a good video on here done by 'nascarman history' that explains his attempt to return in 1988, if anyone's interested.
6/7/24 Edit: That video doesn't exclusively talk about his attempted return, but it is a significant part of it.
Thanks that’s a deep story wow
lol gg ez
This is one of THE most evil and deplorable things to knowingly and purposely do to someone… I don’t care if that person cheated on you over 1,000 times- getting “revenge” by literally giving them AIDS is the most insane shit I’ve ever heard. Just… wow
I remember another version of this urban legend. It was reported on the news once that in clothing stores/departments ppl were poking themselves with pins or sewing needles hidden in clothes. The needles would have a little note saying something along the lines of " If you've poked yourself, congratulations, you now have aids." I hav no idea if this was at all true, but it definitely scared me.
that aint an urban legend thats a freaking real thing especially in dating apps
I worked in a hospital in the 80s, and such legends were common to the point that some believed them.
I mean, looks like they were real so yeah.
Yeah, not a legend. People purposefully giving other HIV knowing they have it common. I ran these lab tests on the daily and the number of HIV + is alarming. It's not usually a serial thing just the same reckless behavior people display and ending up in other STDs and pregnancies
Because it's literally true...?
-legends- *fact.
I NEVER thought that giving people aids on purpose was an urban legend.
Neither did I. It was obvious it was true.
dating apps must have a lot em urban legends
The guys who deliberately gave it to children are especially evil.
This hits home…same thing happened to someone close to me n they were told to get checked for “ The Clap”, but it came back HIV positive….we the person knew they were “Positive”, and that was their way of letting it be known!!
This kind of stuff is why people are just not dating or getting into relationships anymore. Who wants to deal with this crap?
32 months??? The justice system in the UK isn't worth a damn!
Facts in the UK here, you get around 15 - 18 yrs for murder & you get out on good behaviour.
I'm from Doncaster England and we had a doorman in early 2000s who was purposly infecting women with HIV In the town centre
You should have added the case involving Johnson Aziga, who in Canada was the first person to be charged and convicted of first-degree murder in Canada for spreading HIV
I have a friend who was actually assaulted and given hiv from it he thinks it might've been on purpose
If someone were to take revenge into their own hands on the person who infected them i would totally understand
Yeah, which is why I don't understand why they would rather target random people who had nothing to do with it.
This is a very serious subject, but that initial urban legend about the lipstick and the AIDS club message sounds straight out of South Park or something. 💀
It was actually on family Guy
@@BackyardButcher yep, the felines aids lol I thought of that too but ugh 😩
@@katybug6572 😸
That urban legend dates back to WW2. It was originally about syphilis
family Guy did a joke referencing it
I'm from Saint Louis, MO. I grew up with Montrell Worthy, I remember Darnell "BossMan" McGee. His reign of Terror still reeks 29 years later. PROTECT YOURSELF!!! We live in serious times.
i love dire trips videos they’re so informative all the time we need more of theses
I really enjoyed the format of this video exploring crime related Urban legends and looking at similar cases. Excellent as usual.
just in time for my sesh, love u!
😱 wowsers what a shocking set of cases. Another interestingly outstanding video thanks Kyle 🖤🖤
Straight to the bone zone!Totally Awesome, narly and off the chain videoage sir
😩 ...and I'm reminded why I have trust issues without having had the experience 🙃 thanks..! No seriously, great video!
There's a guy in Florida that infected over 700women and girls surprised you have seen it it's been on UA-cam for a couple years and he just when to trial
You forgot the story about the Doctor Who took one of his patients who had HIV’s blood and injected it into his ex-girlfriend out of spite!
Yep I believe that story aired on one of Bill Curtis shows.
A new DT video on a rainy day off...nice.🤟🏻👑🤟🏻
Hey Kyle thank u for uploading so much lately love the content 💪🏽
Moral of the story. The world is evil. Don’t sleep with strangers and get tested in new relationships 😜!!
No sex before marriage is a pretty good idea as well.
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Wow. That saying of when someone willingly can be so cruel to you , does make one feel worthless and never the same. Its shocking. 😢. He said it well. I could not find the words ...😧😢✌️
This is why I don't sleep around I rather would be a virgin at 45 years old rather than be handed down a death sentence
Wow. I heard about cases like this here in Vancouver. Thanks for the upload.
This is scary but much needed to hear stories like this.
I get not wanting to be alone with such a scary diagnosis.... But go to a support group or something! So fucked up. Btw, good morning Kyle! 😊
My cousin has HIV and she is honest to her partners. They don’t care lol 😂
@@KDiamond666 wow.. what great ppl she’s hooking up w then ugh 😩
@katybug6572 or they just practice safe sex like everyone should be doing anyway.
Well not being funny but at least nowadays the anti hiv drugs (from what I know from friends who take them) work really well so nowadays I think there's a lot less to worry about im that respect.. thankfully
@@badbassnine I agree!
Back in the 80's an adult film actor named Marc Wallace filmed some scenes in Brazil where they didn't do any testing evidently.He knew he had contracted HIV and shot a bunch of films back in America in between the six month window they tested and spread it around to quite a few female costars.
I remember him
You got me at the end with "the bone zone."😂😂😂😂
Thanks for another great video!
What a great video to watch while awaiting for my own test results.
Why I don't trust no one. Dating in your 30s is not the same as it used to be. Also
The urban legend was the subject of an episode of St. Elsewhere, where the victim was Dr. Caldwell (Mark Harmon). This was 1985, so I'm not sure which came first. The Legend or this episode.
Not sure. I remember that show well- especially the end, even though I was a kid myself. It's possible they were kind of born around the same time. It's almost impossible to trace urban legends back to their specific root.
Interesting and informative ❤
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I have an irrational fear of radioactivity. One of those things that unless something catastrophic occurs, or you are just inundated with it in some capacity you really should not be worried.
I also thought my fear of contracting HIV/AIDS (or anything venereal, to be honest) was irrational. Something as natural being equally dangerous is just horrifying, and gives pause to whom you can trust, whom you can invite into your life in such a fashion. Even accidentally, but the sociopathy of deliberately causing this to another is just... horrendous.
Be safe out there, everyone.
I honestly have no words. Revenge or not that is just cruel. That is so sadistic.
As usual great video! I'm a little surprised you didn't include the guy from Greenville, SC who infected an entire county.
Are you talking about Jason pope cause he from Florence, sc n he was a popular dj
Was literally just thinking of you and how you put out such original content compared to so many content creators put there & was hoping you'd put out a new video soon. I opened up UA-cam and this was the first video I saw. Finally my prayers are being answered lol.
@diretrip I was so angry about what these creatures did by infecting the multitudes, but when you said "Bone Zone", it made me break out into hysterical fits of laughter. You have quite the sense of humour and are one of the best channels out there. Thx 4 the laugh, and keep up the great work, DT!!!
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That's a big compliment
Thank you for sharing
Very different and interesting topic Dire Trip
The woman hooking up with just the black men should have been also charged with a hate crime. Who knows how many more people she infected after she got let out of jail
Absolutely, can’t believe she barely did 2 years in prison
Right!
I think everyone should take responsibility for their own health.
What!! Dire Trip dropped video on Wednesday NICE!!!!
The rumor was if u went to the clinic & tested positive, they (clinic staff) made u not only contact, but also inform all past partners of ur pos status. IF u refused to contact them, they would do so for u...in person. SO..the joke was the Health Dept van was outside ur house, there to give u the bad news.
Yes there r many holes (no pun intended) in that entire process..but funny as hell [as long as u were negative) AH....the 90's.
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7:28 reminds me of the movie *Kids* !
I saw that movie too
I watched that movie "Kids" as well.
@@thecajunphoenix I saw that movie. One of Rosario Dawsons first movies.
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There are doctors who inyected their ex's not only with HIV but also hepatitis B
The darkest video you uploaded up to date.
“The women who fathered these kids” 🤭 😅😅😅😊
😂
I literally twisted my forehead up when that came up .like ha?
10:50 “…the women who fathered these kids” I didn’t know it was possible for women to father kids.
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All of these people should have been charged with 1st Degree Murder.
Facts
I heard this sort of thing is a big problem in africa as well. Dudes get mad they contracted it and spread it around as revenge
Terrible
LMAO! The bone zone. Thanks for the chuckle
My father died from A.I.D.S, I was 16 and found out after I had to bury him, trying to be kind I want to tell the lady he was with when he died to inform her and what she said to me was that she knew because she was the one that gave it to him, I snapped and just start to hit her over and over with a frying pan the next thing I know was I’m in the back of a police car, like wtf, my chargers were dropped and the judge just said I fought her do to grief. It is some sick folks out there, just remember to love yourself more than you want to sex with someone else
People should understand that sleeping around is a risky business
If this is the lifestyle you want, at least protect yourself and get tested frequently
As a woman dating, l have one rule: no SEX until we both decide to be in an exclusive relationship and before any sexual escapades, we both need to be tested and have sex with condoms.
People are playing games with their lives and involving others voluntarily
It’s up to you to be careful and take care of your sexual health
This is so scary to me!
I'm in the UK and remember the Sarah Jane Porter story very well. If someone is way too eager to have a one-night stand and isn't even bothered about using protection, those are red flags the size of the moon. Unfortunately, most of us ignore the alarm bells.
There used to be an entire internet forum community twenty years ago or so specifically dedicated to "POZ"'d people deliberately trying to "spread the bug" to others, or people looking to catch the infection. It was disgusting.
Reminds me of that character Telly from the 1995 movie Kids
Wish they explained how he got it.