It's interesting to know that the spirit of Jezebel is still around destroying people, and Prophet Elijah who delt with Jezebel at that time will return. "He will restore the hearts of the fathers to their children and the hearts of the children to their fathers, so that I will not come and smite the land with a curse." Makes sense
Thank you for informing us about this mental disease/demonic spirit. It is everywhere you find envy, jealousy, strife,confusion, deceit, selfishness and every evil work.
Thank you for this awesome teaching. I am finally free of my ex narc husband. Being married to him was the darkest time of my life. I ended up having servere PTSD and was such a mess. But God has led me out of that abuse and I am now working on my childhood wounds. When I began to seek God is when things began to change in my life. It got harder before it got better but here I am narc free and living for the Lord. I am so encouraged to hear a minister talk about this and have such knowledge about this because I think we are truly in the end days and narcissism is on the rise. My ex narc acted like the most spiritual Christian ever when we went to church and everyone there loved him so much. It was very confusing and disturbing for me to see that. But at the time I didn't know what I was dealing with. Anyhow, thank you so much. I wish all pastors had this knowledge. God bless you!
How do you get away I'm dead inside his taken my life shattered me so bad mentally emotionally physically and now spiritually I am loosen hope I pray no prayers answered why won't he lead me free from this
Soul Prospers Ditto. Learned a lot through it. God was and is my ROCK. And now I am fearless! For the Kingdom I surrender all. God can use me anywhere, anyway. So thankful for my life!
@@daniellesmccrae842 l tried 3 times to get away from my Narc, and all attempts failed, l'd wake to find him abusing me sexually, he controlled what l wore, and friends were Out..! l wasnt allowed out without a row, so l gave up trying, our children loathed him as small children, but then he changed tact and never showed his vile side in their presence, as they grew they Forgot and now he's somehow managed to make me look like the bad one, he "sets me Up" time & again, l thought I'd go mad, l had a heart attack at 40 from sheer stress and persecutions, then l found Jesus, he is the answer, honestly just ask him into you're heart, we're definitely in the end Times bcz EVERYTHING is getting worse! HE also showed me how to cope with him, He's revealed I'll be free of him soon l can't wait, l completely trust my Lord and saviour,
Jezebel....the name means "married to "....married to Baal...which involves withcraft....a person oppressed and or possessed by demon spirit or spirits...they do not repent...they are extremely prideful and arrogant...
.....in addition she has an inflated ego, lack of remorse, envious, self-absorbed, destructive, extremely manipulative,, agony, fear of abandonment, , & the person that sold their soul to gain ego & hide their emotional pain has overwhelming subconscious shame... to name a few .....& dear God pls help the person that Jezebel is in co-habitation with to find the light thru the darkness they r inprisoned in
I was married to a covert one...I ran for my life!!! 7 months of mental, emotional and psychological abuse. Worst part.. he's a Pastor and he knew how bad his secret behavior was, admitted to it often,. Seen some unbelievable stuff...thank God I was wise enough to start recording. Those recordings saved my life, on several levels.
Yeah. Anyone can be bound by any demonic spirit at any given time. Especially those that are bound by the spirit of religion. Along with that is the spirits pride, envy, jealousy, wrath, anger, witchcraft, and rebellion. It stems from what lies in a person's heart, and whether or not they have an actual relationship with Christ or not. A title or position in a church won't save or deliver you from it. Only a relationship with Christ will and can deliver you from it, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. But generally a person bound by the Jezebel spirit don't get delivered, because the spirit encouraged them to believe that they are good where they are, and that they don't need healing or deliverance. It convince them that they basically save themselves by their quote/unquote good works. The devil is a lie. We are saved by the grace of God, and faith in Jesus Christ. The blood of Jesus is what saved, save, deliver, heal, transform, renew, and keep us, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
Thank you for this. My husband and in-laws are psychologists, and I am in school studying abnormal psychology. We are all Christians, and I've always felt the Jezebel spirit was associated with this. Out of the (absurd) amount of information that I've learned, you hit the nail on the head the best. And thank you for specifying the age range that this spirit manifests. God bless you and your wealth of information!
Chrissy H pls have your in laws study dr Craig Childress iTube standup lecture on pathogenic parenting- parental alienation- alienators are pathogenic parenting pathogenic genesis parenting is the Jesabell spirit training the next generation into growing up as a Jesabell creating nod and borderline pd in the adult child
I’m gonna look it up. This describes my ex and his enmeshment with his dead mother who he had to care for as a child. He never married nor has children but likes to future fake. I’ve gone no contact and am trying to recover from 7 years with this narc.
It's great you can identify and have compassion for these people, but I have found they really don't want to change. There is a point where you have to let them go.
@Mary Carroll This is the first account I've heard of any of them being helped and I've really been searching. Thank you for giving me more hope! God bless.
Exactly. They do not change and the best thing to do is to go No Contact and focus on your own healing and recovery. Narcs don't change. Ever. This is a personality disorder marked by toxic coping mechanisms developed during childhood that has affected their empathy development and the development of their prefrontal cortex, among other parts of their brain. (Yes, this is spiritual warfare!) Confronting them does nothing but bring on more abuse. Unless you are the leader of a group, it is not your job nor your responsibility to confront an Abuser and demand/ask/pray they change their behavior. Unless you are a ministry leader and specialize in demonic exorcism, you have no business going after a Jezebel or Narc. Unless you are a parent to an underage child, you have no business engaging them. Unless you are a boss and have the ability to fire them and go NC and save the peace and well-being of the rest of your employees, you have no business going after them. Scripture specifically instructs us to "turn away from such people" (2 Tim 3:1-5) and to "shake the dust off your feet" (Matthew 10:13)!! Save yourself. Go No Contact and focus on the 3 things: 1. Learn how to spot the Red Flags of an Abuser 2. Practice NOT justifying or ignoring those Red Flags 3. Have high and strong Boundaries so you kick Abusers out of your life as soon as you recognize the Red Flags so the Trauma Bonds aren't created and the CPTSD can't start.
@@strat23egy50 Exactly. Agape love from afar. Remember "Holy" means "set apart". Even Jesus said His family are those that follow His Father, not his bloodline. This is between them and God and their free will dictates whether they will submit to Him or keep doing the devil's work. Wheat vs. Tares I said above that Narcs do not change, ever and that is 99% true, but Yah can change them if they are willing to get deliverance from the demonic oppression that leads their life. Most Narcs refuse to humbly submit themselves in order to bring on change in their hearts and minds. Even God does not affect someone's free will. We cannot change them, only God can and only if they choose it. 99% of them don't. Save yourself from the devil's minions before they destroy you and take you off your path 💙🙏💙
That's what I feel as well. He states that prayer won't change them or fasting or whatever. But I don't see how confronting and acknowledging that spirit is beneficial either. Because they will not respond in humility or whatever the case maybe. I believe at times all you can do is fast, pray over them, and speak the word of the Lord over them from a distance when the Lord lead you to do so. Because nothing is impossible with God, and interacting with them generally only lead to an argument and unnecessary drama and stress. Because they honestly won't listen and interact with you in a healthy and mature level.
I got my BUTT KICKED by someone who was harboring a Covert Jezebel spirit. It worked pretty hard to hide from me and I have spiritual gifts. I kept trying so hard to demonstrate good Christian Principles. It was horrible and very evil. In the end I had to go NO CONTACT but not after severe damage I had allowed it to do to my spirit. Turns out it was a painful lesson that forced me to learn that I needed MUCH Deliverance!
I've actually learned a lot from him he basically repeats the same thing in the same order very predictable. And therefore I could look at myself and see how I reacted I learned from it. So I can be around him as long as he isn't drinking or taking pain pills. When he's under the influence of those there's no talking to him there's no reacting and there's no response 2 stop it. Then I just withdraw myself usually by saying okay I'm done talking or if we're on the phone I hang up and I blocked the number for a while! because I've already told him conversations will be positive and uplifting if they're naked if we stop talking and he is come to that understanding. So if I hang up he knows he's messed up. Otherwise I can pretty much handle what he does because he is very childish. And in those moments you have to be the parent or the mature adult. If he's going to do something foolish or very stupid I can usually say I don't think that's going to work out well for you if you do that. He might say why. And I'll tell him why because if you do this, then this is going to happen. I tell him about the cause and effect of it. And then he will usually change his mind not every time but most of the time. it has caused me to really pay closer attention to what he's saying and i mean ..."really listen".. and therefore figure out my next move or my next response so I don't get sucked in. That's where we get trapped.... we allow what they say and do to suck Us in instead of watching and/or listening to what is actually really going on at the moment. The facts at the moment! You can learn to outsmart them if you really pay attention... and hold your ground, your values, and your morals!
You probably have codependency. Because when you have that issue you tend to try to make yourself a form of a god, trying to save and heal people. We can have spiritual gifts all day long, but if we don't know how to utilize them in the way God intended us to. Then they are not much benefit to us or anyone we come in contact with. We must learn how to let God be God, and let Him do the healing, mending, transforming, and renewing like only He can do. We need to pray that the Lord remove the stony heart and replace it with a heart of flesh. So, that they can receive HIM for themselves, and learn to recognize who and what HE really is and mean in their lives. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
Go No Contact with him and never look back. He will never change and confronting Narcs is a very dangerous game, ESPECIALLY if the Narc is a male and your romantic partner. Do NOT confront him. Plan your exit and get away from him as soon as you possibly can.
The covert narcassist in my life was my high school counselor. She learned early on what I needed. We became close stayed in touch.....she took on a mom role . 40 years later I finally got it. 1 year of no contact and all is going great. They are people full of ugliness.
Thank God for you! I'M NOT CRAZY..This spirit has nearly killed me, has destroyed my family entirely, I'm alienated by my own grown kids and entire family, literally.. I have come way too close to death...I repeatedly have told my husband this is a lifetime assignment on my life...i just didnt know what spirits i was up against..Oh but now I do!! THAT TRUTH IS HUGE for me..Thank you Dear Brother
Omg who cares when last days are...why do religious people get so hung up on one thing. Let's remember what people need to know...narcissists are among you!!!!hello???!!!
These types of people are very twisted if you give them the slightest in into your lifes they will try any way to destruct you and your lives. As soon as you spot their behaviors get them gone from your life and environment...yes evil is rampant as it always has been even more so because it is so accepted and so it continues...
Gosh,... this ties it together for me like nothing else thus far. I’ve been learning about narcissism in the last three months and what an awakening it has been for me, affirming exactly what I have been dealing with with my wife. Thank you and God bless
This has answered so many things thank you! I've been blaming myself for years and caught in some web mentally. This also sheds light on having some inherited narc traits that I should work on. This was really packed with a lot of answers and clarity, very good.
I cannot tell you how much this has solidified the resolve to not go thru a third recycle & resist hoovering. I've view thousands of vlogs educating on this disorder as well as the most important & bottom line od self introspection. Not more than a couple that touch on the Jeszabel. This completely erases any pining, cognitive disonance or misconceptions that was induced by a narcopath. That is pure discernment & not a frivolous or hasty judgement. I would hope all could here this early into a manipulationship. It sometimes takes many aggressions till your patience, kindness & courage is bankrupt. Many thanks, this can save lives.
I just recently came across someone who came across as very helpful. Now I feel as though I owe them something. And also this person started to jokingly undermine me saying things like “ I never know where you’re at “. Like I’m mentally unstable.
Man...this is what I am noticing in my interaction with an individual. Very subtle and insidious, wouldn't suspect a thing unless you have the knowledge about this demonic, toxic tendencies.
Have u ever seen or heard of Jezebel/narcissist set free? Me 40 years before I woke up 2 years ago...she is a covert narcissist/Jezebel..me a perfect target..self love deficit disordered aka ahab spirit...this thing destroyed me physically, emotionally spiritually and financially ...still with her...holding on...
Sorry, I forgot to add one more thing, I have found that those who are the most narcissistic are the ones who were never given boundaries or rules within their families homes, they were allowed to run wild, because the parent didn't want to actually raise the children, they ignored them but praised them excessively in order to build pride in them. Our son in law and my husband were raised in this way, they didn't have rules, no one corrected them or even instructed them. When they grew older they couldn't stand for anyone to tell them what to do, AND, they perceived a request from a wife or someone in the community as an insult as though it was wrong to correct or instruct unless they wanted it.
Gwendolyn Wehage someitmes perhaps. My daughter is one, but I had very clear rules and boundries while raising them. I will say their father did not and would purposely go against me to undermine me so it made things much harder.
You are 100% correct about this! We adopted our 2 full sister foster daughters 7 1/2 years ago. They were 5 & 9 when they entered our home as foster children and we adopted them 1 1/2 years after that. When living in their biological family home, the oldest one was allowed to run freely through their neighborhood (since the age of 4) and do whatever she wished. They even put a ladder over their back yard fence to her friends back yard, in order for her to go there whenever she wanted to. The youngest one was not allowed to do these things at all. The oldest one entered our home as a narcissist at the age of 9 - she already had the Jezebel spirit in her before she got here (we only learned about this last year). The girls are polar opposites due to the completely different parenting techniques that they each received. Our youngest daughter is very sweet, caring, loving and has bonded extremely well with us - an absolute blessing.
You have blessed me with this video. My wife is battling this entity. We actually saw it manifest in our house and it terrified her but I witnessed the group of demons myself. I rebuked in Jesus’s name, but they returned. I think a door was left opened. The environment on our house has been heavy. You can feel it.
Wow, this is exactly what I have experienced my entire life in extended family members and now in my children. They prefer my husband over me, because he is an accomplished man over the years in his job and politics. They see him as the one they want and will not engage with me on any level. They elevate him and devalue me all the time. I have even been told by some that I am a woman and they will not speak to a woman. I have never attempted to thwart the authority of the elders or anyone else, I am just open about my beliefs in conversation settings. I was told by my husband a few years ago that I was not allowed to talk to men about spiritual matters even in casual conversation. He was being pressured by our narcissistic son in law and daughter who treat me with contempt every time we are with them. They will hold a conversation with my husband and negate anything that I would say even if it is scriptural. My husband appears to have changed his mind on this because I have gone no contact with our son in law and daughter to pray and heal from their abuse. My husband negated me while we were raising them, saying things like "your mother wants or your mother doesn't want", instead of saying "your mother and I want or don't want." Whenever the children wanted something I didn't approve of such as a movie or activity, my husband would never affirm my conversations with the children and then do some fun activity with them after to get them to like him. Now all the children and their spouses avoid me and demean me in covert ways when we are together. Since I have limited my contact with them in phone conversations and letters, most live far away, my husband is acting better toward me, but I have the sense that if the children came back into our lives he would do it all over again. He is alright, at least on the outside, with having little contact with them, but I never know if he is REALLY alright with it. He knows that I will no longer put up with their silliness anymore, so he is often very attentive to me. It has been a hard road because my parents and a brother have gossiped about me, my husband's family have gossiped about me so that no one in the extended family cares to have anything to do with me. I was the radical Christian, as they put it, "the Bible thumper", in the family, so often I was demeaned, mocked and negated continually. Sadly, my husband says he believes me, but acts as though he is just going along to get along. He would never handle the abuse when in their presence and often took their side as though I did something wrong, when I know I didn't. Long story, but I say all this to explain that I appreciate those who expose this evil, it is easier to be strong and deal with when we know the enemy and his tactics. Thank you for listening, may the Lord bless your work in this area, I know that we are living in 2 Timothy 3 times, being aware is to become stronger. The Lord is helping me, I feel stronger today than I ever have through prayer and knowledge of His Word. Blessings Brother
God bless you sister, He is truly the Lord to those that remembers John 16:33. But best part of this is that He overcame the world of His days surrounded by Roman empire who crucified His and falling right into the plan of God for the salvation of mankind. Stay strong in the Lord till the day of Christ. I am also surviving that atmosphere and today I am strengthen by Him who holds the universe together, Jesus Christ the Lord.
Hello Sister, Your story is exactly like mine. This morning I got up and I'm feeling so sick over the treatment my younger son and I been getting. We also have been demeaned, devalued and disgarded. The more I have been praying. The more God is showing me how evil they are. I've been attacked both me and my son. They use any excuse as to why not to like me or my younger son. I'm divorced because of a narcissist ex-husband. I was fighting for my children and my survival. But they treat me with contempt. Because I should not have divorced. They have no idea how bad it was. But still they judge my younger son and I. He is the only one who has brains and protected me from all this evil. My older son now who is married to a covert Narcissist wife. She manipulates lies to him and of course she hates me because I love my sons. And of course she has the Jezabel spirit to break the relashionships between my son and I and the 2 brothers. These people are sickoss. They are so mean and know how to play the game to get people and family on their side. I'ts so hard to watch. I am so tired over the whole ordeal. I have learned that no amount of time you spend with a psychologist is ever going to fix any relationship as long as there is these evil jezabels influence the family. They don't want to change for the better. They feel so good when they can destroy someone else's life. How sick and perverted is that? God help me to be strong and courages.
in my church there is a man who is a severe narcissist, covertly, his wife told me of horrific control and cruel mental abuse but in church he acts like a man of God, the pastors believe he is a man of God and he even prophesies and preaches. He manipulates everyone and they think hes a nice guy but my friend sees his real face and he threatened her if she uncovered him because his image is the most important thing to him. I tried to help my friend and he destroyed me. The pastor is so under this guys power
I sincerely believe my mom has this spirit. I can't believe it. Dang, the similarity is so close including things in her past that would be a fertile ground for this spirit!! Constant drama, I'm always right, God is on my side, I'm a prophetess, can't take criticism and will cry for no reason when discussing issues, never wants to sit in front of the car when someone gives her a ride, but sits in the back ALWAYS, sowing thoughts of discord and doubt about other family members, manipulating emotions, confusion, etc. Thank you Lord!!!. Now to begin to challenge this spirit!!!.
But what about abused people who are labeled narcs by their abusers? My sisters would gang up on me call me names then I'd tell and be angry with them, I stopped trusting them...then they told the family I held grudges and was always wanting to play alone. I played alone bc I was afraid of them.
Lean Meat lve experienced the same thing being the youngest of 5 sometimes older siblings r the worst not knowing that all that their dealing with their abusing the younger child it's sad
Projection is a very common Narcissistic Abuse tactic. Go No Contact with them and those who back them up ("Flying Monkeys") and hold onto your truth while you Heal and Recover and work on your Boundaries.
I have lost everything. I am 26 and feel like my worth isn't worth living. I have developed strange phobias and have CPTSD and depression like most empathic people. It's very similar to vampire / draconian stories. I am alienated and haven't achieved anything due to abuse, my mother created a codependant woman and having a learning disability I've always been embarrassed to seek help. I'm very ashamed. O' Lord! Please restore my heath and the health of others and please forgive me for the narcissistic traits I have developed over the years as forms of protection from my enemies. God Is Able 🙏
I felt like this, I used to wonder what do I need to do to fix myself. For years, and didn't socialize. Now I know it was my NM. Do not feel embarrassed with a learning ability, you really shouldn't. I'm 42 and life is good but it wasn't before due to my messed up family dynamic. I completely agree about it feeling vampiric and they are getting an energy hit from you. Keep seeking Him and don't listen to the lies of the other one. My NM still asks what is wrong with me and tells me I will never be successful blah blah. I asked her nicely not to say negative things to my partner or kid if she visits while I'm away and she has gone non contact which is a huge relief (she has told him to leave me on several occassions and screaming in front of my child about how I'm a failure in front of my child) . I don't want this to affect my child like it did me. There are some N M groups on FB I just found. It's sad to see how rampant this is. God Bless Also, I feel like I am starting to achieve things now. I have a home business doing something I love and I have the time for my child, and contribute to supporting the household. Don't listen to your NM. Look to Jesus for strength
I truly understand what you’re going through. I want to give you a hug so badly It’s so hard to continue living in this world. However, you are so strong, beautiful, and wonderful. Do not feel ashame. Me and so many people have been in your shoes. Find comfort that you aren’t the only one experiencing so much pain. You are healed already. Believe that. Your future is bright. Believe that. Your energy can’t be giving up freely without your authority. Believe that.
Absolutely! May the precious virtue of God so flood your soul with healing that spreads through your entire being and give you peace that passes all understanding! Read Psalms, praise God many times everyday! God bless you, dear one.
This makes so much sense now, coming from the spiritual realm, i've heard of spiritual warfare as a young adult, but never to this capacity. Thank God for his grace, and his mercy...
Listen to them when they think they’re alone. They will curse and mumble angrily when things don’t go their way . Also I noticed how they treat others with disrespect .
My understanding of I narcissists / Jezebel need to be worshipped! Admired more like it. From my experience the need for affirmation comes from being overlooked, and not blessed as a child. God has made it very clear how important it is to bless our children into wholeness at every new threshold of their life
What you said @ 13:40-14:02 really spoke to me. Your mind feels insane and the words self destruct and disfunction are huge words - hit the nail on the head!
I lived everything you have said for 8 years! When I got to the point of trying to figure out how to end it all and make it look accidental (because of my children) I realized I had to GET OUT before it (he) killed me! He stripped me of who I was. Sucked the life right out of me. Glory to God that I got through it. I read books Pigs in the parlor) stayed in the word of God. Ive heard that he has told people I was a religious fanatic and that I was strung out on prescription medication!!! LIE!
I appreciate the information that you are sharing regarding the narcissistic jezebel spirit. I'd like to request prayer that I would have the boldness and the courage required to contend with the covert narcissist jezebel who has been tormenting me in my life. I just want peace and contending with this spirit is so exhausting. The jezebel spirit manifests whenever I tell the person "no" or dont go along with what they want. Sometimes I don't even have to do anything but they are just waiting for an opportunity to lash out at me. Most of the time I just quietly go along just to keep the peace but it is not working for me in my life. I'm just getting angry and resentful after decades of this kind of interaction. I do not want to be an angry person.
The only peace you will get from this is the gift you give yourself called No Contact. Make sure you are proper and full NC (BLOCKED everywhere) so those Trauma Bonds can break and you can Heal from the CPTSD that this type of abuse often creates in its victims. Proper and full No Contact is very important for Healing and Recovery. This means you: BLOCK them from being able to email you BLOCK them on all social media BLOCK them from being able to text BLOCK them from being able to call BLOCK them from being able to leave a voicemail BLOCK them from being able to get a communication through to you in any way, shape, or form. Basically, you want to stop your brain from processing any new information regarding your Former Abuser(s) so that it can Heal from the CPTSD, change those synapses, break those Trauma Bonds, and protect it from Triggers and prevent Hoovers. They will never change and will just destroy you from the inside out. Go No Contact and get your peace back.
This has been my life for 10 years! Everything he says and I mean everything he says is totally spot on to the life that I have lived with my partner. I know that God is confirming what he was telling me for years but I was caught in the web. Praise the Lord for the anointing on Summers Ministeries 🙏🏾
Old school people used to say the Jezebel spirit was a woman that wore make-up and dressed in a sexy manner, and that is why so many people don't know how to recognize it. I didn't understand what the spirit was in its entirety, but I always knew that was incorrect, and never did sit well with me. I appreciate you and others like you for these teachings.
Your thesis on Narcissism and Jezebel reflect your impressive level of knowledge on the subject, likely gained through painful experiences. You've hit home run on every base. As someone who's done her own homework, I'm going to grade you A+ and THANK YOU. Bless you for generously sharing.
I am married to a vulnerable narcissist. I left my business and sold everything because my boyfriend/ now husband professed to take care of me. WRONG!! It has been 5 years and I am leaving him. Stop praying for them Jerimiah 14:11. Pray deeply, run don’t walk. They are emotionally destructive and it will only get worse. If you stay you will become like them
Sometimes a Covert Jezabel network affects you negatively physically FIRST for having integrity and are jealous and if you’re not a jealous person of others yourself you don’t know what to call it:
You have literally described my ex-mother in law, and my ex-husband all in one great, big swoop! I have been falsely accused, falsely arrested (and all charges were dropped), my children taken from me (and given back), spent over $25k in attorney fees, and name disparaged all over town by these insidious, malicious people. Did I mention that my ex-husband is a bishop and his mother is a first lady? The part that he mentions that brings me to a bit of confusion is when he says CONFRONT them. Because when I did that, they went ape all over me. That's what made them go bonkers is being called out, and always keep in mind --- THEY HATE THE LIGHT!!!!
I've always heard never to confront them, the only thing to do is to go no contact. Very sad for our young children. I don't want to give up on my son. He caught this from my exnarc covert spouse. It's tragic and terrifying.
April mack • only coming across this video now, you're life sounds like mine, l agree you can't confront them, they have demons controlling their words, and I have Always come off the worst after a confrontation. It's impossible.
gericlarke You are so right! Never ever ever confront them ever under any circumstances because they will literally try to kill you or destroy your life if you do that. Once you try to out them they have to make you look crazy or they have to stop you so that their reputation and image will remain untarnished because that’s all they care about is their image. A word of caution too, it doesn’t matter who they are family, coworker, friend if you try to out them you’re signing your own death warrant whether it’s a financial death a spiritual death or an emotional death. The key is to walk away let them think they wounded you and won! Let them show their true colors to someone else and as they do, in time people will start to think hmmmmm so put it in God’s hands and walk away. We have such a need to fight for injustice and to speak the truth and be heard and to be told that yes I hear you and I made a mistake but these people are incapable of that! In fact they’ll do the opposite just to screw with your head! They are demons masquerading as humans.
NEVER confront a Narc. Save yourself by going No Contact with them. They will NEVER change, and confronting them only makes things worse and puts you in danger.
I normally don't listen or watch videos where someone put the title "Apostle" "Prophet" or "Prophetess" because of false teachers. My ex wife was like your description of the covert Narcissist/Jezebel. I never spoke about it outside the realm of NPD. But she would change in appearance, her skin texture changed, the lines in her face changed and her eyes became dead, hard and cold. When I confronted the pastor about her and tried to tell him about it, he asked me to leave the church. I tried everything to warn him and all I got was hostility in return. Eventually I quit trying. You got the hyper vulnerability to criticism right. And it is coupled with an inability to take responsibility for their own actions words or the consequences of them. I invoked the wrath of that demon and was put through 9 months of exhausting mental torture and was repeatedly set up and gaslighted. By the grace of God the repeated set up attempts failed. Then she divorced me, and remarried in a short time. I was very depressed for a long time after we divorced, ended up homeless but Jesus never left or gave up on me. First God had me forgive the person, then He started teaching me How to deal with the spirit inside her. How to do spiritual warfare. One thing God revealed to me, and you need to search this out biblically and prayfully. The Jezebel spirit doesn't work alone their is another demon who is always found with the Jezebel spirit; an Ahab spirit. The are and work together. I did some of the things you describe the Jezebel/NPD person doing, and was in the position of being hurt, but I withdraw and and try to deal with it in a positive way. I feel like crawling into a hole and pulling the hole in after me. I suffer from insecurity and have always felt like I have to excel to feel as good as others. I grew up in a house with one NPD parent and an NPD sibling. I did have to be delivered from a spirit of pride, and I experienced mental and physical abuse as a child. But it isn't about me, it's about being like Jesus and servanthood. It's about others and using the things I learned by what I went through, to help and pray for others with empathy and compassion for them. When a person is wounded, they either work through a process of forgiveness as we Christians are required to do, or they hang on to it and become; bitter, stuck in woundedness, hateful, prideful and/or vengeful. I chose to forgive and that is when my path to recovery began.
Good for you. Forgiveness can be very difficult, but don't let the enemy win! I chose the road of recovery too and sometimes its a long road. But one day it will all be worth it when we receive the prize
I promise you..God is using you to confirm everything he has shown me about my ex narc. My mother passed in July and she was with a narcissist. She self destructed. I watched over the years how her body deteriorated because this man did not love her the way she deserved. This spirit can be generational. It tried to literally kill me, like you said from the inside, but God intervened and I am still here today. Keep letting the Lord use you.
I have dealt with a Jezebel in my life.. This person caused me to lose my sensitivity to a certain extent. I use to be naively caring and let people run all over me cause I wore my heart on my sleeve.. I have changed.. Now I think sometimes I have took on some of those traits of Jezebel out of defense.. Not sure?? I pray to God a lot and still deeply care about people I just cry less and have less emotions.
Bless your pea picking heart. Questioning yourself is sure sign your not fitting the personality. You are becoming wiser about people and are able to not be drawn into the drama people enjoy displaying. Sounds like you're maturing to me in a healthy way.
I recently met someone who seems very nice. He came over to my house and started helping me with improvements won’t let me pay him. But then I overheard him one day when he was working outside building a deck , cussing . Made me feel uncomfortable. Not sure how to handle this
I have a serious aftermath recovery issue from and narcissistic Jezebel relationship disaster in my marriage and destruction of the church I am pastoring! My children and grandchildren are also suffering!
Thank you Lord for saving and delivering me from this spirit that came to kill,steal and destroy from me... God removed a covert jezebel from my life it broke my heart, I got into an ungodly soul tie in accepting that person and now I'm recovering, healing, growing and glowing each day with the grace of God... Praise the Lord
Thank you thank you I feel relieved finally answers! My mother passed earlier this year and its been a challenge dealing with my Jehovah Witness father in law. Jez/Narcissist videos came up and your videos showed. I just cried as I watched the videos for relief. I have never really understood my father in law but its is even harder for my husband we knew he was self focused now it all makes sense I am going to order your book. Thank you we have a place to start.
Oh man, I've been getting hammered by a covert narcissistic spirit at work. She started off being cooperative and loving, but it changed as soon as I didn't do something she wanted. The campaign of intimidation and threatening innuendo has been ramping up the more I resist the attempts to control and manipulate. I am keeping a journal of harassing and bullying behavior and minimizing contact with the individual manifesting the spirit. All I can do is keep the department manager informed and continue to contend against giving in to her agenda.
Yes, they will try to use gossip to gain entry into one’s life. That’s exactly what they used on me, despite not having nothing personally to do with them. They currently keep trying to use it as a means to sink their teeth into my life. They also use stalking as a means in conjunction with the gossip. You’re absolutely correct.
Thank you very much! Praise God! This used to be the story of my life. Thanks to God, good psychotherapy, deliverance and excellent videos like this, I'm mostly set free. What a super presentation. You covered so much in such a relatively short time. Thank you for caring for the (hosts), the people who have Jezebel networks operating within them, and not just the victims of these folks, alone. Psychotherapy alone doesn't usually seem to offer much hope to the hosts themselves, since they usually deny they have any sort of problem and need to blame you for whatever issue you try to lovingly confront them with. But with Jesus and prayer even Jezebellic personalities can be healed if they can be open minded enough to give deliverance a chance. It's a lot of work to identify and change these difficult patterns, but so worth it.
I am a fifty two year old woman and until I prayed for God to illuminate my mind and heart so that I could understand why my mother has never loved me, she has abused me my entire life and even tried to kill me. It is because she is a narcissistic, covert aggressive, manipulator and or Jezebel Spirit. The last time I saw her, I ended up in the hospital and nearly died. It has taken me years to try to get my health back and I am still trying. My mother has brainwashed my family into thinking I am mentally ill and she has isolated them all from me. I am on this earth, all alone, living in hiding because if my mother ever found me, she would have me killed. She is possessed by many demons.This stuff is real people. I pray those who suffer like I have from the mental and physical abuse from this evil spirit , will find this video and listen to it well. May they find deliverance soon. Pray to God He will set you free!
one ran into me it took me 6 months to reconstruct my life. It was with a male and the first thing I noticed was the seduction level which was off the scale. There was no aggression , a very , on the surface, loving, gentle person of God who was back sliden. Seems that he fit all the boxes
oh. my. goodness. this is so spot on. I don't fell crazy or in twilight zone. thus describes every challenging person from a former supervisor to my sisters, especially 1 in particular that was abusive to me and my mother during mom's illness. Praying for mom's deliverance and healing too! Explains why my oldest sister called me crazy and dies not investigate my claims of abuse! AHHH She's SUPER PRIDEFUL, And said I was slandering other sister's name! ??? Why would I be homeless with my sick mom if I were making up why I had to get mom outta there? Tgen they turned rest of family against me with lies!! But this video all makes sense, because although my mom's saved, she has similar traits too! Just not as strong and she'll flip back to being nice if she sees I'm"too hurt". in other words, she has more conscience. I was literally coming up with plans to end my life TODAY- So tired and drained. Doing fall this good to be attacked over and over. Gonna fast and pray as last resort, but this vid's giving my spunk back! Now that I've learned and KNOW it wants to kill me! Also today was the 1st time in my life, I've seen actual fire from burning food in stove. It was full blown fire, git bigger and bigger- super scary! At mom's apartment and she somehow put it out Ha! Feel like I'm winning chess.
I believe that one of my ex's in particular knew what he was doing. Know that a demonic spirit is attached to them, and know how to use it for his benefit. I saw him smile when he knew that something made me sad. Or get like excited when he felt like that spirit had some type of control over me or the situation or what have you. He tried to pin me against my son, and cause confusion between us. Because he wanted me to fully rely on him and be his supply. And not have anyone else around me.
This a great teaching! I sent to several who needs to hear this. Also your ministry has ministered to my spirit immensely. I just bought one of your books off Amazon. I found your ministry to understand controlling leadership in churches. Powerful and timely words. Bless your ministry.
Omg. I went to u tube out of the church because I didn't think the church covered this. In 34 yrs of a Christian marriage an bewildered a lot of the time. I've known this demon up close and how it has dismantled my confidence even after a good attachment in my formative years. Thanks you keep me sane. An overcomer 😅
“Everybody” is another one of their favorite words. I rented from this lady and she consistently and persistently attempts to control my life, even 9 months later after moving. I suspect I was around quite a few at least 6 jezebel spirits while living there, including her criminal boyfriend. I didn’t know he was a criminal when I moved there. Due to the nature of their attitudes and behaviors, it prompted me to see if he had a criminal record. His criminal record is over 30 years long. He’s an overt narcissist and she’s a covert. A couple of others go from overt to covert. All of them are extremely sneaky.
This is brilliant! I was married once to a man who is exactly this. It was terrifying at times and crazy. I was at a point of complete exhaustion by 2011 after his ongoing affair with firefighter coworker. I was devastated and my spirit was broken. Not only from his affairs but the abuse on the children and I. He would rage, threat, scare and then either leave and come back to the scene of his families destruction and become the rescuer. Talk about absolute confusion. I started to think one of us is crazy, and today I KNOW it was not me. When it has come to family court, he played a sweet, charming innocent man in a prominent position in a fire department. Nobody believed me when I start to let the truth of what we had been living for 16 years out, everyone said I had to be lying because he was such a lovely person. In court, he even went so far as turning the female judge on me in such a vicious way because he became a chameleon. I have now experience terrible legal abuse for 10 years because of this. Funny because he always said he was a genius, and thought he should have married more than one woman because he claimed he had just "so much love" to give every woman he came across. I am still healing my emotions and mind from him mixing it like a blender and destroying my children and I. He left us destroyed and devastated. I will say though I know God saw EVERYTHING and I know that things will be restored and repaid in time.
I am too grateful to have come across this video which solves some of my questions in my mind re my own terrible experience in hell with him(narc fiancee I stayed with).Too true! I got separated from him physically as he's been too dangerous. I really loved him as husband but he sometimes said he loved me sometimes he called me names. I fell in love too deep with him as I've given much more than I had. I got intimidation physically, emotionally and spiritually close door every two three days over past few yrs in hell. He kept abusing me, frequently put me & my mom in hugh debts with lies and life initimidation close door and lately I knew he even cheated. I lost myself when I was with him and each time I left him and back to my mom when he was too dangerous. I was too scared to be pushed and threatened by him and then I again trusted him and went back then he punished me after a few days after I came back to him by slapping me and showing me the devil which he called himself one. JESUS saved me from hell. I was even praying with him when I was with him who tried to pray with me too but now I know he just acted to impress me in order to further torture,abuse,cheat me plus worst non stopped pushing us to borrow loans everywhere to hand him cash close door without us being able to tell anyone as we were too fearful.Its like brainwash. He did sometimes speak something like don't you want two husbands? I want both your and your mom's souls when the devil manifestated. When I asked him who he's, he shouted at me saying you dont have to know who I am, because you sin then I come,etc a lot of spiritual things,like this. When he was a bit normal next day after the devil manifested every two three days to give me hell like torture for many hours with me being fearful & silent, he didnt even want me to speak a word abt the torture I was given by him. I never knew what it was until in the later stage. I knew I was staying with a devil possessed with demons. I couldnt get out coz of fear and love. I was even so silly trying to save him from darkness with my love but I got trapped me in hell together. He drank too much each day and I originally thought hes drunk thats why he did so evil to me. however, when time went by I found out that why he could be nice to others while he was this bastard to me and my mom close door. I knew its not mental illness as if its mental illness or due to drunkness, he should have treated everyone same in that spot right? but he just did evil to me&my mom. He ever asked me to help me out and said he loved me truly as wife and asked me to help him. I was too struggling that time why he said he loved me truly but he could have done so many bastard to me. I felt too helples to have loved truly someone I had no ability to save him from darkness. I thought so that time but same time I felt too down thinking why he could treat me this bastard? I've been too faithful but hes been cheating. He always close door checked my mobile and threatened me saying if I cheat him he will kill me but I never did anything even making him to think abt that I lost all my good decent female friends I only had. He called me crazy sluts too insulting things u cant trust a man could say to wife. I never knew he kept cheating me as I thought hes just flirting online but I never trusted that he could even have cheated or even cheating me when i 've loved me with love and tolerance.I physically left him from the stay in relationship seven months ago but im still emotionally attached to him that we nonstop indirectly communicating. Ppl say I should cut contact with him. Nowadays, Im a bit better than first few months after separation that I got too blue at first how a human could be this bastard to wife and until then I found out he had been cheated, now at this moment I sometimes I feel too angry why hes such bastard seeing me so painful suffering hugh debts he put me in and the trauma of his constant evil abuse and cheat without any empathy but still gaslight and reverse the truth.I can say he should be now cheating and trying to find next victim Im still confused one thing one question of my life, did or does he really love me as wife when I've treated him with true heart? I meant the inner him? or even the love between us has been just an illusion created by Jezebel? Or he wants to get out but he just cant due to the depth of influence Jezebel has done on him(I believe from his childhood or even at birth until now at his thirties)? Does Jezebel want to destroy him or the evil spirit wants to use him to destroy other good souls and finally his? I got trapped in hell when I was staying with him, now I got physically separated but im still very confused with all the above questions? How can he be saved without me being dragged in hell as nowadays I even stand up for myself in front of him through online communication. I mean I never dared to speak a word whem I was with him as I was too scared of him. Nowadays, I even challenge the devil with words through online commication which I also believe he keeps all these in mind. I am not thst scared of him as I was before. Really thank GOD! Also, the devil manifested usually with the consumption of alcohol and he knew that he became a devil after drinking but he kept drinking and got crazy on me no matter how muxh I begged him not to drink. Its like he purposedly drink to make me scared sometimes as he knew I was scared to see the devil. Do you think its just the demons want him to drink in order to lose conscience so they can take over him to destroy me? Once hes ok everythings seem a bit less tensed, the next he became a devil but I obseeved a situation that each time he shifted from being ok to a devil came a time gap of him being away from me from ten mins to few hours. I never can figure out myself whats the time gap for? Did he purposedly call the demons out to help him or the demons dragged him away to influence him negatively to come back to me. for Abuse and insult. Usually the time gap was the time he went down to buy alcohol. Why is it? What should I do? Hes too dangerous. If I didnt love him real I wouldnt have the strength to tolerate this much over hundred times of inhuman abuses for hours hours every two three days. Sometimes I thought I should cut my focus on him but not sure why still cant coz I fell too deep in love with him. On the other hand, he keeps gaslighting me breaking me further more to a degree I can no more cry but to accept hes really a bastard.Do you think he wants to get out from darkness too as he cried when hes in church with me few times but he just cant? Or hes purposedly being friend with demons? Im too confused if the demons controlling him too strongly that all he does or speaks are all from demons or some really from his own or he wants to get the demons to help him?I cannot figure out who is real him or the innocent one in him also a fake illusion he made? He ever said its all a game he wins anyway he said that but I was thinking it doesnt make sense if u love someone truly u cant do such bastard things like this. Whats the truth? If this love is real, I want to find ways to solve it no matter it may be risky but I can never know if this is real or not or just made by Jezebel only. The one I've loved is a fake illusion or he did and does love me real but Jezebel has been playing behind?I am sure the Jezebel behind him is too angry at me. I am getting closer to GOD each day. What else I can do? pls kindly advise. I've been too exhausted physically mentally spiritually. I was many times going to be broken but I was holdin coz inside I know im very strong with truth.By the way, hes indian and he did tell me Shiva was his God but sometimes he said he was God when the devil showed up. I believe this also is the main element he got spiritualyl attacked. By the way, I am in Asia. Thanks GOD!.I am really thankful that I finally can ask a professional on these kinds of things which are questions if my life. Many thanks!
Apostle Robert Summers Many.thanks! I've been feeling very lonely.as I know nobody believes or feels my experience until I came across your chanel where I can ask.the questions which i thought i would never be able to find out their answers within my life.I did subscribe:) Thanks a lot!
Chill dude. Crystal needs to tell her story because she is traumatized by a narcissist and most likely now suffers from complex post traumatic stress disorder. Traumatized people need to tell their story over and over again until it no longer serves them to do so. I've been severely abused by narcs which I'm so grateful for as I was led to Jesus by being able to see the very real existence of demons and the devil through a malignant narc boyfriend. Let people be themselves. We are all doing our best. Even the narcissists are just basically possessed. Covert narcs are the absolute worst. You don't see them coming. Demonic for sure.
The Girl Who Speaks Who are you to say I don't want to hear her story. it's healthy. You hint that action is needed yet that's dangerous. Prayer, faith, and guidance of the Holy Spirit is essential. Go to the cross, feel the sacrifice of Christ, his pain and his Loving gift. Have unquestioning Faith that he loves you. Ask Him for guidance, do not repay evil with evil. By being kind, you pour coals upon the demon's head. Read sermon on the Mount and understand the armour of God. Fear not, trust in Christ, ask his Jezebel or his Shiva to acknowledge the gift of Christ. Talk about the pain Christ voluntary endured. Burn the sacrifice into him swing the power of the cross. Make him face it, he will run. Talk about Christ constantly. Ask him, taunt him with Christ's example, pour out Christ constantly. Tell him, you know his spirit is a liar and ask him to unbind his bound up Spirit in the name and power of Christ. Burn this emotional vampire with the cross. Cast it out or make it run away. Let your Faith not be waived. Tell him you will not be unequally yoked to evil. Implore him to call to Christ for help. He won't. He is spirituality bound. He will run away. Always speak about Christ, be only about that.
Bless ya girl u are strong...I have been where u are u deserve a gold metal 😘😍😎✌👊👍❤💗💖 life will get better u will be happy and healthier..and will find friends again it takes time trust me u will he likes u that's why he does that they're weird...don't go back leave quietly if and when u get the chance gather all of ur personal info..keep journaling...document every thing incase u have to go to court 😙xoxo
Yes, you are right. I married a man and I divorced him ... I was not aware. .. I was blinded. After two years still feeling lost but I am feeling much stronger after two years. It was awful !!! It was awful!!!
My X husband is a dangerous man.... He needs psychological counseling to help him get through his bad behavior. I looked at him in the basement of our old house something Dark came out to greet me. I saw it.. I told him if you don't change you'll never get out of the hole your in. You go to the dark side you don't come back!
Have had a woman pursue me from Church have had to get the police involved to get her to leave me alone. Thought maybe it was me had some of the same traits so at first thought it was me. When the Lord called me to pull away she started harrassing me and started slandering me talking about my kids and leaving strange things on my doorstep. Even left the Church that was preaching about the Kingdom. What you are saying about preaching the Kingdom resonated. I really haven't known what to do except that I had to contact the police to get her to leave me alone. Really didn't expect this she seemed so nice. Can be disheartening. Hope everyone can get equipped.❤👑
Everything he said was 100% accurate and exactly what I've had to deal with in my ex-wife. I've also had to acknowledge that the spirit will bring the worst out within yourself and so you have to do the work internally and through prayer to fight against it within. Although the spirit may not possess you that does not mean it doesn't oppress you because it will certainly will do that.
I have encountered this spirit my WHOLE life, but I didn't know this until the Lord started revealing this to me through various videos on UA-cam. I have encountered it on my job when I speak with them on the phone, in my family, at times at church, or whatever the pass maybe. But again I didn't initially understand it. I don't even interact with people like this after awhile. Because the spirit in them will always cause them to respond in defense, never apologize, be argumentative, never forgive, say mean, sneaky, and understanding things, gaslight you, deflect, or whatever the case maybe. So, I have found that it's not beneficial to interact with them at all, or only interact with them very minimal. Because more often then not that's the only way that you can protect your joy, peace, and sanity. Otherwise being around these people can lead you to become depressed, experience having suicidal thoughts, and so on and so forth. It's not worth it. Because you CAN'T change anyone, and if they are not willing to acknowledge that they have an issue. And they are not willing to humble themselves in the Lord, then there is not much of a benefit to actually address it.
What a great video ! So informative , very well done . Thank you so much . You have done a great job in helping the collective and for that I thank you ! ❤️
My daughter has a covert Jezebel spirit in her that I know got to her from her boyfriend's house and now the spirit has changed her completely. My family has been destroyed by it. My daughter will be loving then suddenly cold and distant and suddenly ghost me and her father. She tries to make like it is all in our head. She flips quickly like you said. She appears to be sensitive and kind and spiritual yet she turns right around and doesn't care how she speak to me nor respect my house rules. People who don't know her think she is the nicest person they met but it is all just a cover, and act. She constantly tried to get me to argue with her.
Wow.. I knew it. I’m speechless, thank you for this video. May the one and only Creator bless you. I have PTSD now, dealing with a Narc in my life, I’m on Risperidone and Zoloft because of him. I felt his evilness. There’s no way that I will stay married to him. God willingly I will leave.
Have you thought of fasting and prayer?? If you leave you cannot remarry. Either you reconcile or remain single. But whatever you do make sure you pray for your husband to he born again and delivered in JESUS NAME AMEN
Connecting dots & going WOW ✔ YES, YES & YES, been down that road! Been learning for several years now about what I have unknowingly been wrestling & encountering in several apparently NPD individuals in my circle for many many years. Ultimately, dealing with the main & last one was like the complete decimation of a Tsunami, nothing much remained in the aftermath of that one, but I made it out. I feel bad for people on both sides, its awful! But I thank God for His grace to keep see me through. The suffering affects so many, its very painful not to know at times how to help, save & recover oneself from ground zero & save the rest of the innocent in fallout. There are far bigger problems in the world today, but we're searching for how to precisely navigate the landscape for a complete escape for those still esnared by this dominant NPD figure. The motis operandi & behavioral references or "checklist" in your vid primarily applies a high % for a marriage/head of household (& leader) & then, secondarily to several other relationships (professional, personal, family, ministry leader, friendships). Initially kept dismissing & ignoring all the red flags & signs, taking blame & covering for the person so others would not see it. Had so many questions at first, now more direct revelation & good insight! I am trying to understand, just learn about "people & personalities" & use practical tools like your video & others to enlighten, teach, inform, help & equip myself for the future, but more importantly the youngest suffering in the shadows now (stressful residing solely with the CN purely due to economic advantage in the situation). Can you answer these 3 questions: 1- How prevalent is this thing & how exactly do you stop it from TRANSFERENCE in the 1st place, for example - development in a child or youth who mainly resides with an NPD parent provider. 2- Are you saying all people who have experienced hurt, pain, loss, rejection & suffering in their childhood will likely & hopelessly grow up to inherit NPD against their knowledge & wishes? 3 - What more besides prayer & education can be done to help people get free, recover & successfully move forward (victims/survivors) in their healing process without costly expenses they may not have? Thank you!
This spirit is running rampant in the world not just church. It's in full force destructive mode especially in families
It's interesting to know that the spirit of Jezebel is still around destroying people, and Prophet Elijah who delt with Jezebel at that time will return. "He will restore the hearts of the fathers to their children and the hearts of the children to their fathers, so that I will not come and smite the land with a curse." Makes sense
It is alive and unwell in my family!!!! I cannot take them and need help!!!
Yes. very true.
Lauren I believe they are aware
Designated Driver Yes!
Thank for info I almost died when going though the self distruction stage but got out by God’s grace and mercy amen
Thank God🙏🙏
Can u explain that deeper...how
Keep Fighting Every Day
Thank you for informing us about this mental disease/demonic spirit. It is everywhere you find envy, jealousy, strife,confusion, deceit, selfishness and every evil work.
Thank you for this awesome teaching. I am finally free of my ex narc husband. Being married to him was the darkest time of my life. I ended up having servere PTSD and was such a mess. But God has led me out of that abuse and I am now working on my childhood wounds. When I began to seek God is when things began to change in my life. It got harder before it got better but here I am narc free and living for the Lord. I am so encouraged to hear a minister talk about this and have such knowledge about this because I think we are truly in the end days and narcissism is on the rise. My ex narc acted like the most spiritual Christian ever when we went to church and everyone there loved him so much. It was very confusing and disturbing for me to see that. But at the time I didn't know what I was dealing with. Anyhow, thank you so much. I wish all pastors had this knowledge. God bless you!
I also suffer from severe PTSD for same reasons. Keep clinging to God Soul Prospers. He's the only one to heal us.
How do you get away I'm dead inside his taken my life shattered me so bad mentally emotionally physically and now spiritually I am loosen hope I pray no prayers answered why won't he lead me free from this
@@Texasborn99 how do we go tho it's hard.
Soul Prospers Ditto. Learned a lot through it. God was and is my ROCK. And now I am fearless! For the Kingdom I surrender all. God can use me anywhere, anyway. So thankful for my life!
@@daniellesmccrae842 l tried 3 times to get away from my Narc, and all attempts failed, l'd wake to find him abusing me sexually, he controlled what l wore, and friends were Out..! l wasnt allowed out without a row, so l gave up trying, our children loathed him as small children, but then he changed tact and never showed his vile side in their presence, as they grew they Forgot and now he's somehow managed to make me look like the bad one, he "sets me Up" time & again, l thought I'd go mad, l had a heart attack at 40 from sheer stress and persecutions, then l found Jesus, he is the answer, honestly just ask him into you're heart, we're definitely in the end Times bcz EVERYTHING is getting worse! HE also showed me how to cope with him, He's revealed I'll be free of him soon l can't wait, l completely trust my Lord and saviour,
Jezebel....the name means "married to "....married to Baal...which involves withcraft....a person oppressed and or possessed by demon spirit or spirits...they do not repent...they are extremely prideful and arrogant...
Yup
.....in addition she has an inflated ego, lack of remorse, envious, self-absorbed, destructive, extremely manipulative,, agony, fear of abandonment, , & the person that sold their soul to gain ego & hide their emotional pain has overwhelming subconscious shame... to name a few
.....& dear God pls help the person that Jezebel is in co-habitation with to find the light thru the darkness they r inprisoned in
@Mary Carroll Repenting at 90 --- how convenient. lol
Sylvia Simpson better late than never
If their lips are moving, they are lying.
I was married to a covert one...I ran for my life!!! 7 months of mental, emotional and psychological abuse. Worst part.. he's a Pastor and he knew how bad his secret behavior was, admitted to it often,. Seen some unbelievable stuff...thank God I was wise enough to start recording. Those recordings saved my life, on several levels.
RECORDING THEM IS LIKE CRYTONITE TO NARCZ. I KEEP MINE READY TO GO ALL THE TIME NOW.
Im going throu and i dont know what to do
When you start to film , they now the gig is up
@@amorxlntwa8 yeah it is, they want only you to get exposure to that behavior
Yeah. Anyone can be bound by any demonic spirit at any given time. Especially those that are bound by the spirit of religion. Along with that is the spirits pride, envy, jealousy, wrath, anger, witchcraft, and rebellion. It stems from what lies in a person's heart, and whether or not they have an actual relationship with Christ or not. A title or position in a church won't save or deliver you from it. Only a relationship with Christ will and can deliver you from it, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. But generally a person bound by the Jezebel spirit don't get delivered, because the spirit encouraged them to believe that they are good where they are, and that they don't need healing or deliverance. It convince them that they basically save themselves by their quote/unquote good works. The devil is a lie. We are saved by the grace of God, and faith in Jesus Christ. The blood of Jesus is what saved, save, deliver, heal, transform, renew, and keep us, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
Thank you for this. My husband and in-laws are psychologists, and I am in school studying abnormal psychology. We are all Christians, and I've always felt the Jezebel spirit was associated with this. Out of the (absurd) amount of information that I've learned, you hit the nail on the head the best. And thank you for specifying the age range that this spirit manifests. God bless you and your wealth of information!
Chrissy H pls have your in laws study dr Craig Childress iTube standup lecture on pathogenic parenting- parental alienation- alienators are pathogenic parenting pathogenic genesis parenting is the Jesabell spirit training the next generation into growing up as a Jesabell creating nod and borderline pd in the adult child
I’m gonna look it up. This describes my ex and his enmeshment with his dead mother who he had to care for as a child. He never married nor has children but likes to future fake. I’ve gone no contact and am trying to recover from 7 years with this narc.
I missed the age range
Yes when they throw their temper tantrums they are about the age between 5 and 7 when they should have been learning morals and empathy and compassion
He said developed between I believe 3 and 12??
It's great you can identify and have compassion for these people, but I have found they really don't want to change. There is a point where you have to let them go.
@Mary Carroll This is the first account I've heard of any of them being helped and I've really been searching. Thank you for giving me more hope! God bless.
Exactly.
They do not change and the best thing to do is to go No Contact and focus on your own healing and recovery.
Narcs don't change. Ever.
This is a personality disorder marked by toxic coping mechanisms developed during childhood that has affected their empathy development and the development of their prefrontal cortex, among other parts of their brain.
(Yes, this is spiritual warfare!)
Confronting them does nothing but bring on more abuse.
Unless you are the leader of a group, it is not your job nor your responsibility to confront an Abuser and demand/ask/pray they change their behavior.
Unless you are a ministry leader and specialize in demonic exorcism, you have no business going after a Jezebel or Narc.
Unless you are a parent to an underage child, you have no business engaging them.
Unless you are a boss and have the ability to fire them and go NC and save the peace and well-being of the rest of your employees, you have no business going after them.
Scripture specifically instructs us to "turn away from such people" (2 Tim 3:1-5) and to "shake the dust off your feet" (Matthew 10:13)!!
Save yourself. Go No Contact and focus on the 3 things:
1. Learn how to spot the Red Flags of an Abuser
2. Practice NOT justifying or ignoring those Red Flags
3. Have high and strong Boundaries so you kick Abusers out of your life as soon as you recognize the Red Flags so the Trauma Bonds aren't created and the CPTSD can't start.
Thats hard too but it comes to a point to where as you don't let them go its gonna hurt you.
@@strat23egy50 Exactly.
Agape love from afar.
Remember "Holy" means "set apart".
Even Jesus said His family are those that follow His Father, not his bloodline.
This is between them and God and their free will dictates whether they will submit to Him or keep doing the devil's work.
Wheat vs. Tares
I said above that Narcs do not change, ever and that is 99% true, but Yah can change them if they are willing to get deliverance from the demonic oppression that leads their life. Most Narcs refuse to humbly submit themselves in order to bring on change in their hearts and minds. Even God does not affect someone's free will. We cannot change them, only God can and only if they choose it. 99% of them don't.
Save yourself from the devil's minions before they destroy you and take you off your path 💙🙏💙
That's what I feel as well. He states that prayer won't change them or fasting or whatever. But I don't see how confronting and acknowledging that spirit is beneficial either. Because they will not respond in humility or whatever the case maybe. I believe at times all you can do is fast, pray over them, and speak the word of the Lord over them from a distance when the Lord lead you to do so. Because nothing is impossible with God, and interacting with them generally only lead to an argument and unnecessary drama and stress. Because they honestly won't listen and interact with you in a healthy and mature level.
The workplace is off the hook because of this! So much of it now, giving in multiply the control like crazy.
thank you ... I like that you said deliverance is a ministry of compassion and love... great teaching
I got my BUTT KICKED by someone who was harboring a Covert Jezebel spirit. It worked pretty hard to hide from me and I have spiritual gifts. I kept trying so hard to demonstrate good Christian Principles. It was horrible and very evil. In the end I had to go NO CONTACT but not after severe damage I had allowed it to do to my spirit. Turns out it was a painful lesson that forced me to learn that I needed MUCH Deliverance!
I share the same experience. Thought I was walking in the spirit but was deeply deceived by a covert narcissist aka under cover snake.
I've actually learned a lot from him he basically repeats the same thing in the same order very predictable. And therefore I could look at myself and see how I reacted I learned from it. So I can be around him as long as he isn't drinking or taking pain pills. When he's under the influence of those there's no talking to him there's no reacting and there's no response 2 stop it. Then I just withdraw myself usually by saying okay I'm done talking or if we're on the phone I hang up and I blocked the number for a while! because I've already told him conversations will be positive and uplifting if they're naked if we stop talking and he is come to that understanding. So if I hang up he knows he's messed up. Otherwise I can pretty much handle what he does because he is very childish. And in those moments you have to be the parent or the mature adult. If he's going to do something foolish or very stupid I can usually say I don't think that's going to work out well for you if you do that. He might say why. And I'll tell him why because if you do this, then this is going to happen. I tell him about the cause and effect of it. And then he will usually change his mind not every time but most of the time. it has caused me to really pay closer attention to what he's saying and i mean ..."really listen".. and therefore figure out my next move or my next response so I don't get sucked in. That's where we get trapped.... we allow what they say and do to suck Us in instead of watching and/or listening to what is actually really going on at the moment. The facts at the moment! You can learn to outsmart them if you really pay attention... and hold your ground, your values, and your morals!
@@leneasmith1501 👍🏽 Success! You passed your test
I was awakened after being almost demolished and thanks be to God.
You probably have codependency. Because when you have that issue you tend to try to make yourself a form of a god, trying to save and heal people. We can have spiritual gifts all day long, but if we don't know how to utilize them in the way God intended us to. Then they are not much benefit to us or anyone we come in contact with. We must learn how to let God be God, and let Him do the healing, mending, transforming, and renewing like only He can do. We need to pray that the Lord remove the stony heart and replace it with a heart of flesh. So, that they can receive HIM for themselves, and learn to recognize who and what HE really is and mean in their lives. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.
I’m literally shocked!!! You nailed it OMG!! My boyfriend fits this description completely I cant even talk I’m in total shock
Go No Contact with him and never look back.
He will never change and confronting Narcs is a very dangerous game, ESPECIALLY if the Narc is a male and your romantic partner.
Do NOT confront him.
Plan your exit and get away from him as soon as you possibly can.
I am related to several of these types. Horrible 'Nightmare'. They are extremely 'Dangerous'...
This message stung because I am harboring many of these traits. I didn’t want this message but I needed it. Thank you.
The best study of narcissism I heard not religious at all which I like it, very scientific and spiritual
The covert narcassist in my life was my high school counselor. She learned early on what I needed. We became close stayed in touch.....she took on a mom role . 40 years later I finally got it. 1 year of no contact and all is going great. They are people full of ugliness.
Thank God for you! I'M NOT CRAZY..This spirit has nearly killed me, has destroyed my family entirely, I'm alienated by my own grown kids and entire family, literally.. I have come way too close to death...I repeatedly have told my husband this is a lifetime assignment on my life...i just didnt know what spirits i was up against..Oh but now I do!! THAT TRUTH IS HUGE for me..Thank you Dear Brother
Do you believe it’s because we are in the last days. I have never seen more people affected by this spirit.
Teresa Kunath: The Bible says in the last days that people will be lovers of themselves.
oh ffs.here we go
Omg who cares when last days are...why do religious people get so hung up on one thing. Let's remember what people need to know...narcissists are among you!!!!hello???!!!
Why was I put here to be around selfish people only interested in themselves???
These types of people are very twisted if you give them the slightest in into your lifes they will try any way to destruct you and your lives. As soon as you spot their behaviors get them gone from your life and environment...yes evil is rampant as it always has been even more so because it is so accepted and so it continues...
Gosh,... this ties it together for me like nothing else thus far. I’ve been learning about narcissism in the last three months and what an awakening it has been for me, affirming exactly what I have been dealing with with my wife.
Thank you and God bless
This explains everything! So happy to be free of him.
Bobbie Maiello, you deserve better 🙏🤙
This has answered so many things thank you! I've been blaming myself for years and caught in some web mentally. This also sheds light on having some inherited narc traits that I should work on. This was really packed with a lot of answers and clarity, very good.
I cannot tell you how much this has solidified the resolve to not go thru a third recycle & resist hoovering. I've view thousands of vlogs educating on this disorder as well as the most important & bottom line od self introspection. Not more than a couple that touch on the Jeszabel. This completely erases any pining, cognitive disonance or misconceptions that was induced by a narcopath. That is pure discernment & not a frivolous or hasty judgement. I would hope all could here this early into a manipulationship. It sometimes takes many aggressions till your patience, kindness & courage is bankrupt. Many thanks, this can save lives.
I just recently came across someone who came across as very helpful. Now I feel as though I owe them something. And also this person started to jokingly undermine me saying things like “ I never know where you’re at “. Like I’m mentally unstable.
Man...this is what I am noticing in my interaction with an individual. Very subtle and insidious, wouldn't suspect a thing unless you have the knowledge about this demonic, toxic tendencies.
Thankyou for the treasure of heaven is like a fine pearl! My prayer is that the narcissists would truly find the Kingdom of Heaven! Be free in Him!
Have u ever seen or heard of Jezebel/narcissist set free? Me 40 years before I woke up 2 years ago...she is a covert narcissist/Jezebel..me a perfect target..self love deficit disordered aka ahab spirit...this thing destroyed me physically, emotionally spiritually and financially ...still with her...holding on...
Sorry, I forgot to add one more thing, I have found that those who are the most narcissistic are the ones who were never given boundaries or rules within their families homes, they were allowed to run wild, because the parent didn't want to actually raise the children, they ignored them but praised them excessively in order to build pride in them. Our son in law and my husband were raised in this way, they didn't have rules, no one corrected them or even instructed them. When they grew older they couldn't stand for anyone to tell them what to do, AND, they perceived a request from a wife or someone in the community as an insult as though it was wrong to correct or instruct unless they wanted it.
Gwendolyn Wehage someitmes perhaps. My daughter is one, but I had very clear rules and boundries while raising them. I will say their father did not and would purposely go against me to undermine me so it made things much harder.
nope
Gwendolyn Wehage
Every word you said is SPOT ON!
You are 100% correct about this! We adopted our 2 full sister foster daughters 7 1/2 years ago. They were 5 & 9 when they entered our home as foster children and we adopted them 1 1/2 years after that. When living in their biological family home, the oldest one was allowed to run freely through their neighborhood (since the age of 4) and do whatever she wished. They even put a ladder over their back yard fence to her friends back yard, in order for her to go there whenever she wanted to. The youngest one was not allowed to do these things at all. The oldest one entered our home as a narcissist at the age of 9 - she already had the Jezebel spirit in her before she got here (we only learned about this last year). The girls are polar opposites due to the completely different parenting techniques that they each received. Our youngest daughter is very sweet, caring, loving and has bonded extremely well with us - an absolute blessing.
Spot on. Spirit of rebellion, witchcraft derived of it
Thank you! I've recently experienced this in a heartbreaking way.
Real truth. I let go and let God.
You have blessed me with this video. My wife is battling this entity. We actually saw it manifest in our house and it terrified her but I witnessed the group of demons myself. I rebuked in Jesus’s name, but they returned. I think a door was left opened. The environment on our house has been heavy. You can feel it.
WOW!! SUPERB KINGDOM TEACHING!!
“Destiny destroyer “ wow! This explains my husband’s mother’s actions. Thank you.
Wow - this is THE BEST VIDEO SO FAR explaining this whole situation on ALL levels. THANK YOU so very much.
also it mimicks so many times those without the spirit get blamed when those with it many dont see it
Wow, this is exactly what I have experienced my entire life in extended family members and now in my children. They prefer my husband over me, because he is an accomplished man over the years in his job and politics. They see him as the one they want and will not engage with me on any level. They elevate him and devalue me all the time. I have even been told by some that I am a woman and they will not speak to a woman. I have never attempted to thwart the authority of the elders or anyone else, I am just open about my beliefs in conversation settings.
I was told by my husband a few years ago that I was not allowed to talk to men about spiritual matters even in casual conversation. He was being pressured by our narcissistic son in law and daughter who treat me with contempt every time we are with them. They will hold a conversation with my husband and negate anything that I would say even if it is scriptural.
My husband appears to have changed his mind on this because I have gone no contact with our son in law and daughter to pray and heal from their abuse.
My husband negated me while we were raising them, saying things like "your mother wants or your mother doesn't want", instead of saying "your mother and I want or don't want." Whenever the children wanted something I didn't approve of such as a movie or activity, my husband would never affirm my conversations with the children and then do some fun activity with them after to get them to like him. Now all the children and their spouses avoid me and demean me in covert ways when we are together.
Since I have limited my contact with them in phone conversations and letters, most live far away, my husband is acting better toward me, but I have the sense that if the children came back into our lives he would do it all over again. He is alright, at least on the outside, with having little contact with them, but I never know if he is REALLY alright with it. He knows that I will no longer put up with their silliness anymore, so he is often very attentive to me.
It has been a hard road because my parents and a brother have gossiped about me, my husband's family have gossiped about me so that no one in the extended family cares to have anything to do with me. I was the radical Christian, as they put it, "the Bible thumper", in the family, so often I was demeaned, mocked and negated continually. Sadly, my husband says he believes me, but acts as though he is just going along to get along. He would never handle the abuse when in their presence and often took their side as though I did something wrong, when I know I didn't.
Long story, but I say all this to explain that I appreciate those who expose this evil, it is easier to be strong and deal with when we know the enemy and his tactics. Thank you for listening, may the Lord bless your work in this area, I know that we are living in 2 Timothy 3 times, being aware is to become stronger. The Lord is helping me, I feel stronger today than I ever have through prayer and knowledge of His Word.
Blessings Brother
God bless you sister, He is truly the Lord to those that remembers John 16:33. But best part of this is that He overcame the world of His days surrounded by Roman empire who crucified His and falling right into the plan of God for the salvation of mankind. Stay strong in the Lord till the day of Christ. I am also surviving that atmosphere and today I am strengthen by Him who holds the universe together, Jesus Christ the Lord.
Hello Sister,
Your story is exactly like mine. This morning I got up and I'm feeling so sick over the treatment my younger son and I been getting. We also have been demeaned, devalued and disgarded. The more I have been praying. The more God is showing me how evil they are. I've been attacked both me and my son.
They use any excuse as to why not to like me or my younger son. I'm divorced because of a narcissist ex-husband. I was fighting for my children and my survival. But they treat me with contempt. Because I should not have divorced. They have no idea how bad it was. But still they judge my younger son and I. He is the only one who has brains and protected me from all this evil. My older son now who is married to a covert Narcissist wife. She manipulates lies to him and of course she hates me because I love my sons. And of course she has the Jezabel spirit to break the relashionships between my son and I and the 2 brothers. These people are sickoss.
They are so mean and know how to play the game to get people and family on their side. I'ts so hard to watch. I am so tired over the whole ordeal.
I have learned that no amount of time you spend with a psychologist is ever going to fix any relationship as long as there is these evil jezabels influence the family.
They don't want to change for the better. They feel so good when they can destroy someone else's life.
How sick and perverted is that?
God help me to be strong and courages.
in my church there is a man who is a severe narcissist, covertly, his wife told me of horrific control and cruel mental abuse but in church he acts like a man of God, the pastors believe he is a man of God and he even prophesies and preaches. He manipulates everyone and they think hes a nice guy but my friend sees his real face and he threatened her if she uncovered him because his image is the most important thing to him. I tried to help my friend and he destroyed me. The pastor is so under this guys power
Not fer long keep the faith
typical. many pastors are in the narcissism mentality themselves... and prefer those who flatter them and boost their ego..
I sincerely believe my mom has this spirit. I can't believe it. Dang, the similarity is so close including things in her past that would be a fertile ground for this spirit!! Constant drama, I'm always right, God is on my side, I'm a prophetess, can't take criticism and will cry for no reason when discussing issues, never wants to sit in front of the car when someone gives her a ride, but sits in the back ALWAYS, sowing thoughts of discord and doubt about other family members, manipulating emotions, confusion, etc. Thank you Lord!!!. Now to begin to challenge this spirit!!!.
How are things now ? Has it all stopped ?
i could relate to this, sister.
FreedyG • you're mom sounds more hurt and deppressed than a Narc, possibly got issues,
One of your best videos yet , so much truth .. especially how it's rooted in insecurity
oh my goodness..this is so good. I learn something new about this all the time and I am constantly in awe of how I've been bamboozled for so long.
But what about abused people who are labeled narcs by their abusers? My sisters would gang up on me call me names then I'd tell and be angry with them, I stopped trusting them...then they told the family I held grudges and was always wanting to play alone. I played alone bc I was afraid of them.
Lean Meat lve experienced the same thing being the youngest of 5 sometimes older siblings r the worst not knowing that all that their dealing with their abusing the younger child it's sad
Been there. Lived that. I am so sorry that happened to you. Hugs.
Projection is a very common Narcissistic Abuse tactic.
Go No Contact with them and those who back them up ("Flying Monkeys") and hold onto your truth while you Heal and Recover and work on your Boundaries.
I have lost everything. I am 26 and feel like my worth isn't worth living. I have developed strange phobias and have CPTSD and depression like most empathic people. It's very similar to vampire / draconian stories. I am alienated and haven't achieved anything due to abuse, my mother created a codependant woman and having a learning disability I've always been embarrassed to seek help. I'm very ashamed. O' Lord! Please restore my heath and the health of others and please forgive me for the narcissistic traits I have developed over the years as forms of protection from my enemies.
God Is Able 🙏
I felt like this, I used to wonder what do I need to do to fix myself. For years, and didn't socialize. Now I know it was my NM. Do not feel embarrassed with a learning ability, you really shouldn't. I'm 42 and life is good but it wasn't before due to my messed up family dynamic. I completely agree about it feeling vampiric and they are getting an energy hit from you. Keep seeking Him and don't listen to the lies of the other one. My NM still asks what is wrong with me and tells me I will never be successful blah blah. I asked her nicely not to say negative things to my partner or kid if she visits while I'm away and she has gone non contact which is a huge relief (she has told him to leave me on several occassions and screaming in front of my child about how I'm a failure in front of my child) . I don't want this to affect my child like it did me. There are some N M groups on FB I just found. It's sad to see how rampant this is. God Bless Also, I feel like I am starting to achieve things now. I have a home business doing something I love and I have the time for my child, and contribute to supporting the household. Don't listen to your NM. Look to Jesus for strength
I truly understand what you’re going through. I want to give you a hug so badly It’s so hard to continue living in this world. However, you are so strong, beautiful, and wonderful. Do not feel ashame. Me and so many people have been in your shoes. Find comfort that you aren’t the only one experiencing so much pain. You are healed already. Believe that. Your future is bright. Believe that. Your energy can’t be giving up freely without your authority. Believe that.
Absolutely! May the precious virtue of God so flood your soul with healing that spreads through your entire being and give you peace that passes all understanding! Read Psalms, praise God many times everyday! God bless you, dear one.
This makes so much sense now, coming from the spiritual realm, i've heard of spiritual warfare as a young adult, but never to this capacity. Thank God for his grace, and his mercy...
Listen to them when they think they’re alone. They will curse and mumble angrily when things don’t go their way . Also I noticed how they treat others with disrespect .
My understanding of I narcissists / Jezebel need to be worshipped! Admired more like it. From my experience the need for affirmation comes from being overlooked, and not blessed as a child. God has made it very clear how important it is to bless our children into wholeness at every new threshold of their life
Sweet Rose,Hope you are not with a narcissist....
What you said @ 13:40-14:02 really spoke to me. Your mind feels insane and the words self destruct and disfunction are huge words - hit the nail on the head!
I lived everything you have said for 8 years! When I got to the point of trying to figure out how to end it all and make it look accidental (because of my children) I realized I had to GET OUT before it (he) killed me! He stripped me of who I was. Sucked the life right out of me. Glory to God that I got through it. I read books Pigs in the parlor) stayed in the word of God. Ive heard that he has told people I was a religious fanatic and that I was strung out on prescription medication!!! LIE!
Amazing teaching! Thabk you Lord for this Deliverance Apostle,training and sending others out!
just awoke after 38 years ...I'm feeling sick
I know the feeling
Stay in the truth.. REALITY is truth.. not what you want it to be.. but what it really is. May god release you from any soul ties and unclean spirits.
I appreciate the information that you are sharing regarding the narcissistic jezebel spirit. I'd like to request prayer that I would have the boldness and the courage required to contend with the covert narcissist jezebel who has been tormenting me in my life. I just want peace and contending with this spirit is so exhausting. The jezebel spirit manifests whenever I tell the person "no" or dont go along with what they want. Sometimes I don't even have to do anything but they are just waiting for an opportunity to lash out at me. Most of the time I just quietly go along just to keep the peace but it is not working for me in my life. I'm just getting angry and resentful after decades of this kind of interaction. I do not want to be an angry person.
The only peace you will get from this is the gift you give yourself called No Contact.
Make sure you are proper and full NC (BLOCKED everywhere) so those Trauma Bonds can break and you can Heal from the CPTSD that this type of abuse often creates in its victims.
Proper and full No Contact is very important for Healing and Recovery.
This means you:
BLOCK them from being able to email you
BLOCK them on all social media
BLOCK them from being able to text
BLOCK them from being able to call
BLOCK them from being able to leave a voicemail
BLOCK them from being able to get a communication through to you in any way, shape, or form.
Basically, you want to stop your brain from processing any new information regarding your Former Abuser(s) so that it can Heal from the CPTSD, change those synapses, break those Trauma Bonds, and protect it from Triggers and prevent Hoovers.
They will never change and will just destroy you from the inside out.
Go No Contact and get your peace back.
This has been my life for 10 years! Everything he says and I mean everything he says is totally spot on to the life that I have lived with my partner. I know that God is confirming what he was telling me for years but I was caught in the web. Praise the Lord for the anointing on Summers Ministeries 🙏🏾
hope you are free now!
Old school people used to say the Jezebel spirit was a woman that wore make-up and dressed in a sexy manner, and that is why so many people don't know how to recognize it. I didn't understand what the spirit was in its entirety, but I always knew that was incorrect, and never did sit well with me. I appreciate you and others like you for these teachings.
Your thesis on Narcissism and Jezebel reflect your impressive level of knowledge on the subject, likely gained through painful experiences. You've hit home run on every base. As someone who's done her own homework, I'm going to grade you A+ and THANK YOU. Bless you for generously sharing.
I am married to a vulnerable narcissist. I left my business and sold everything because my boyfriend/ now husband professed to take care of me. WRONG!! It has been 5 years and I am leaving him. Stop praying for them Jerimiah 14:11. Pray deeply, run don’t walk. They are emotionally destructive and it will only get worse. If you stay you will become like them
Sometimes a Covert Jezabel network affects you negatively physically FIRST for having integrity and are jealous and if you’re not a jealous person of others yourself you don’t know what to call it:
You have literally described my ex-mother in law, and my ex-husband all in one great, big swoop! I have been falsely accused, falsely arrested (and all charges were dropped), my children taken from me (and given back), spent over $25k in attorney fees, and name disparaged all over town by these insidious, malicious people. Did I mention that my ex-husband is a bishop and his mother is a first lady? The part that he mentions that brings me to a bit of confusion is when he says CONFRONT them. Because when I did that, they went ape all over me. That's what made them go bonkers is being called out, and always keep in mind --- THEY HATE THE LIGHT!!!!
I've always heard never to confront them, the only thing to do is to go no contact. Very sad for our young children. I don't want to give up on my son. He caught this from my exnarc covert spouse. It's tragic and terrifying.
April mack • only coming across this video now, you're life sounds like mine, l agree you can't confront them, they have demons controlling their words, and I have Always come off the worst after a confrontation. It's impossible.
gericlarke You are so right! Never ever ever confront them ever under any circumstances because they will literally try to kill you or destroy your life if you do that. Once you try to out them they have to make you look crazy or they have to stop you so that their reputation and image will remain untarnished because that’s all they care about is their image. A word of caution too, it doesn’t matter who they are family, coworker, friend if you try to out them you’re signing your own death warrant whether it’s a financial death a spiritual death or an emotional death. The key is to walk away let them think they wounded you and won! Let them show their true colors to someone else and as they do, in time people will start to think hmmmmm so put it in God’s hands and walk away. We have such a need to fight for injustice and to speak the truth and be heard and to be told that yes I hear you and I made a mistake but these people are incapable of that! In fact they’ll do the opposite just to screw with your head! They are demons masquerading as humans.
NEVER confront a Narc.
Save yourself by going No Contact with them.
They will NEVER change, and confronting them only makes things worse and puts you in danger.
Wow this was amazing! This needs 1,000,000 views.
I normally don't listen or watch videos where someone put the title "Apostle" "Prophet" or "Prophetess" because of false teachers. My ex wife was like your description of the covert Narcissist/Jezebel. I never spoke about it outside the realm of NPD. But she would change in appearance, her skin texture changed, the lines in her face changed and her eyes became dead, hard and cold. When I confronted the pastor about her and tried to tell him about it, he asked me to leave the church. I tried everything to warn him and all I got was hostility in return. Eventually I quit trying. You got the hyper vulnerability to criticism right. And it is coupled with an inability to take responsibility for their own actions words or the consequences of them. I invoked the wrath of that demon and was put through 9 months of exhausting mental torture and was repeatedly set up and gaslighted. By the grace of God the repeated set up attempts failed. Then she divorced me, and remarried in a short time.
I was very depressed for a long time after we divorced, ended up homeless but Jesus never left or gave up on me. First God had me forgive the person, then He started teaching me How to deal with the spirit inside her. How to do spiritual warfare. One thing God revealed to me, and you need to search this out biblically and prayfully. The Jezebel spirit doesn't work alone their is another demon who is always found with the Jezebel spirit; an Ahab spirit. The are and work together.
I did some of the things you describe the Jezebel/NPD person doing, and was in the position of being hurt, but I withdraw and and try to deal with it in a positive way. I feel like crawling into a hole and pulling the hole in after me. I suffer from insecurity and have always felt like I have to excel to feel as good as others. I grew up in a house with one NPD parent and an NPD sibling. I did have to be delivered from a spirit of pride, and I experienced mental and physical abuse as a child. But it isn't about me, it's about being like Jesus and servanthood. It's about others and using the things I learned by what I went through, to help and pray for others with empathy and compassion for them. When a person is wounded, they either work through a process of forgiveness as we Christians are required to do, or they hang on to it and become; bitter, stuck in woundedness, hateful, prideful and/or vengeful. I chose to forgive and that is when my path to recovery began.
Good for you. Forgiveness can be very difficult, but don't let the enemy win! I chose the road of recovery too and sometimes its a long road. But one day it will all be worth it when we receive the prize
THANKYOU FOR YOUR LEADING IN THIS DELIVERANCE MINISTRY .
I promise you..God is using you to confirm everything he has shown me about my ex narc. My mother passed in July and she was with a narcissist. She self destructed. I watched over the years how her body deteriorated because this man did not love her the way she deserved. This spirit can be generational. It tried to literally kill me, like you said from the inside, but God intervened and I am still here today. Keep letting the Lord use you.
What a blessing this teaching is! God bless and keep His had upon you!
Super video... It's so wonderful that someone is talking this! Yes!
I have dealt with a Jezebel in my life.. This person caused me to lose my sensitivity to a certain extent. I use to be naively caring and let people run all over me cause I wore my heart on my sleeve.. I have changed.. Now I think sometimes I have took on some of those traits of Jezebel out of defense.. Not sure?? I pray to God a lot and still deeply care about people I just cry less and have less emotions.
Bless your pea picking heart. Questioning yourself is sure sign your not fitting the personality. You are becoming wiser about people and are able to not be drawn into the drama people enjoy displaying.
Sounds like you're maturing to me in a healthy way.
My husband.. Hope it's not his wife too...
You sound as though you're simply maturing into a young Christian woman.
Thanks for great, great videos about narcissists.
I recently met someone who seems very nice. He came over to my house and started helping me with improvements won’t let me pay him. But then I overheard him one day when he was working outside building a deck , cussing . Made me feel uncomfortable. Not sure how to handle this
Great teaching! I thank God for you and this teaching today! It confirmation to me of what's really going on!
I have a serious aftermath recovery issue from and narcissistic Jezebel relationship disaster in my marriage and destruction of the church I am pastoring! My children and grandchildren are also suffering!
Praise God for your knowledge of narcissism bless you brother you have been a blessing to my life 🙏 ❤️
Thank You so much for this video...... it is the most powerful video I have ever come across. Very powerful video!!!!
Every description he does completely!! I already thought he was narcissistic and this confirmed it!! Thank you
Thank you Lord for saving and delivering me from this spirit that came to kill,steal and destroy from me... God removed a covert jezebel from my life it broke my heart, I got into an ungodly soul tie in accepting that person and now I'm recovering, healing, growing and glowing each day with the grace of God... Praise the Lord
Thank you thank you I feel relieved finally answers! My mother passed earlier this year and its been a challenge dealing with my Jehovah Witness father in law. Jez/Narcissist videos came up and your videos showed. I just cried as I watched the videos for relief. I have never really understood my father in law but its is even harder for my husband we knew he was self focused now it all makes sense I am going to order your book. Thank you we have a place to start.
Oh man, I've been getting hammered by a covert narcissistic spirit at work. She started off being cooperative and loving, but it changed as soon as I didn't do something she wanted. The campaign of intimidation and threatening innuendo has been ramping up the more I resist the attempts to control and manipulate. I am keeping a journal of harassing and bullying behavior and minimizing contact with the individual manifesting the spirit. All I can do is keep the department manager informed and continue to contend against giving in to her agenda.
The number one way to get them to manifest is to tell them no!!
Yes, they will try to use gossip to gain entry into one’s life. That’s exactly what they used on me, despite not having nothing personally to do with them. They currently keep trying to use it as a means to sink their teeth into my life. They also use stalking as a means in conjunction with the gossip. You’re absolutely correct.
Thank you very much! Praise God! This used to be the story of my life. Thanks to God, good psychotherapy, deliverance and excellent videos like this, I'm mostly set free. What a super presentation. You covered so much in such a relatively short time. Thank you for caring for the (hosts), the people who have Jezebel networks operating within them, and not just the victims of these folks, alone. Psychotherapy alone doesn't usually seem to offer much hope to the hosts themselves, since they usually deny they have any sort of problem and need to blame you for whatever issue you try to lovingly confront them with. But with Jesus and prayer even Jezebellic personalities can be healed if they can be open minded enough to give deliverance a chance. It's a lot of work to identify and change these difficult patterns, but so worth it.
This just blessed me! Thanks for all the information!
I am a fifty two year old woman and until I prayed for God to illuminate my mind and heart so that I could understand why my mother has never loved me, she has abused me my entire life and even tried to kill me. It is because she is a narcissistic, covert aggressive, manipulator and or Jezebel Spirit. The last time I saw her, I ended up in the hospital and nearly died. It has taken me years to try to get my health back and I am still trying. My mother has brainwashed my family into thinking I am mentally ill and she has isolated them all from me. I am on this earth, all alone, living in hiding because if my mother ever found me, she would have me killed. She is possessed by many demons.This stuff is real people. I pray those who suffer like I have from the mental and physical abuse from this evil spirit , will find this video and listen to it well. May they find deliverance soon. Pray to God He will set you free!
Wrennie Cat big hugs God loved you x
one ran into me it took me 6 months to reconstruct my life. It was with a male and the first thing I noticed was the seduction level which was off the scale. There was no aggression , a very , on the surface, loving, gentle person of God who was back sliden. Seems that he fit all the boxes
wendy hamilton, you deserve to be with a good man!
These people are very evil and could care less who they hurt/break. May God take control!
oh. my. goodness.
this is so spot on. I don't fell crazy or in twilight zone. thus describes every challenging person from a former supervisor to my sisters, especially 1 in particular that was abusive to me and my mother during mom's illness. Praying for mom's deliverance and healing too!
Explains why my oldest sister called me crazy and dies not investigate my claims of abuse! AHHH She's SUPER PRIDEFUL, And said I was slandering other sister's name! ???
Why would I be homeless with my sick mom if I were making up why I had to get mom outta there?
Tgen they turned rest of family against me with lies!! But this video all makes sense, because although my mom's saved, she has similar traits too! Just not as strong and she'll flip back to being nice if she sees I'm"too hurt". in other words, she has more conscience.
I was literally coming up with plans to end my life TODAY- So tired and drained. Doing fall this good to be attacked over and over.
Gonna fast and pray as last resort, but this vid's giving my spunk back! Now that I've learned and KNOW it wants to kill me! Also today was the 1st time in my life, I've seen actual fire from burning food in stove. It was full blown fire, git bigger and bigger- super scary! At mom's apartment and she somehow put it out Ha! Feel like I'm winning chess.
I believe that one of my ex's in particular knew what he was doing. Know that a demonic spirit is attached to them, and know how to use it for his benefit. I saw him smile when he knew that something made me sad. Or get like excited when he felt like that spirit had some type of control over me or the situation or what have you. He tried to pin me against my son, and cause confusion between us. Because he wanted me to fully rely on him and be his supply. And not have anyone else around me.
They are infested with a legion of demons
This a great teaching! I sent to several who needs to hear this. Also your ministry has ministered to my spirit immensely. I just bought one of your books off Amazon. I found your ministry to understand controlling leadership in churches. Powerful and timely words. Bless your ministry.
Omg. I went to u tube out of the church because I didn't think the church covered this. In 34 yrs of a Christian marriage an bewildered a lot of the time. I've known this demon up close and how it has dismantled my confidence even after a good attachment in my formative years. Thanks you keep me sane. An overcomer 😅
“Everybody” is another one of their favorite words. I rented from this lady and she consistently and persistently attempts to control my life, even 9 months later after moving. I suspect I was around quite a few at least 6 jezebel spirits while living there, including her criminal boyfriend. I didn’t know he was a criminal when I moved there. Due to the nature of their attitudes and behaviors, it prompted me to see if he had a criminal record. His criminal record is over 30 years long. He’s an overt narcissist and she’s a covert. A couple of others go from overt to covert. All of them are extremely sneaky.
Thank you for praying for us. We are grateful.
This is brilliant! I was married once to a man who is exactly this. It was terrifying at times and crazy. I was at a point of complete exhaustion by 2011 after his ongoing affair with firefighter coworker. I was devastated and my spirit was broken. Not only from his affairs but the abuse on the children and I. He would rage, threat, scare and then either leave and come back to the scene of his families destruction and become the rescuer. Talk about absolute confusion. I started to think one of us is crazy, and today I KNOW it was not me. When it has come to family court, he played a sweet, charming innocent man in a prominent position in a fire department. Nobody believed me when I start to let the truth of what we had been living for 16 years out, everyone said I had to be lying because he was such a lovely person. In court, he even went so far as turning the female judge on me in such a vicious way because he became a chameleon. I have now experience terrible legal abuse for 10 years because of this. Funny because he always said he was a genius, and thought he should have married more than one woman because he claimed he had just "so much love" to give every woman he came across. I am still healing my emotions and mind from him mixing it like a blender and destroying my children and I. He left us destroyed and devastated. I will say though I know God saw EVERYTHING and I know that things will be restored and repaid in time.
This is an excellent teaching with clarity and simplicity.
Yesss! They self medicate!
And so do their victims often times. The narcs drive them to do it!
everyone does if your head hurts take a pill..whats your point
@@0121-x2j shut up
Thank you , for helping me realize what I am dealing with.
I am too grateful to have come across this video which solves some of my questions in my mind re my own terrible experience in hell with him(narc fiancee I stayed with).Too true! I got separated from him physically as he's been too dangerous. I really loved him as husband but he sometimes said he loved me sometimes he called me names. I fell in love too deep with him as I've given much more than I had. I got intimidation physically, emotionally and spiritually close door every two three days over past few yrs in hell. He kept abusing me, frequently put me & my mom in hugh debts with lies and life initimidation close door and lately I knew he even cheated. I lost myself when I was with him and each time I left him and back to my mom when he was too dangerous. I was too scared to be pushed and threatened by him and then I again trusted him and went back then he punished me after a few days after I came back to him by slapping me and showing me the devil which he called himself one. JESUS saved me from hell. I was even praying with him when I was with him who tried to pray with me too but now I know he just acted to impress me in order to further torture,abuse,cheat me plus worst non stopped pushing us to borrow loans everywhere to hand him cash close door without us being able to tell anyone as we were too fearful.Its like brainwash. He did sometimes speak something like don't you want two husbands? I want both your and your mom's souls when the devil manifestated. When I asked him who he's, he shouted at me saying you dont have to know who I am, because you sin then I come,etc a lot of spiritual things,like this. When he was a bit normal next day after the devil manifested every two three days to give me hell like torture for many hours with me being fearful & silent, he didnt even want me to speak a word abt the torture I was given by him. I never knew what it was until in the later stage. I knew I was staying with a devil possessed with demons. I couldnt get out coz of fear and love. I was even so silly trying to save him from darkness with my love but I got trapped me in hell together. He drank too much each day and I originally thought hes drunk thats why he did so evil to me. however, when time went by I found out that why he could be nice to others while he was this bastard to me and my mom close door. I knew its not mental illness as if its mental illness or due to drunkness, he should have treated everyone same in that spot right? but he just did evil to me&my mom. He ever asked me to help me out and said he loved me truly as wife and asked me to help him. I was too struggling that time why he said he loved me truly but he could have done so many bastard to me. I felt too helples to have loved truly someone I had no ability to save him from darkness. I thought so that time but same time I felt too down thinking why he could treat me this bastard? I've been too faithful but hes been cheating. He always close door checked my mobile and threatened me saying if I cheat him he will kill me but I never did anything even making him to think abt that I lost all my good decent female friends I only had. He called me crazy sluts too insulting things u cant trust a man could say to wife. I never knew he kept cheating me as I thought hes just flirting online but I never trusted that he could even have cheated or even cheating me when i 've loved me with love and tolerance.I physically left him from the stay in relationship seven months ago but im still emotionally attached to him that we nonstop indirectly communicating. Ppl say I should cut contact with him. Nowadays, Im a bit better than first few months after separation that I got too blue at first how a human could be this bastard to wife and until then I found out he had been cheated, now at this moment I sometimes I feel too angry why hes such bastard seeing me so painful suffering hugh debts he put me in and the trauma of his constant evil abuse and cheat without any empathy but still gaslight and reverse the truth.I can say he should be now cheating and trying to find next victim Im still confused one thing one question of my life, did or does he really love me as wife when I've treated him with true heart? I meant the inner him? or even the love between us has been just an illusion created by Jezebel? Or he wants to get out but he just cant due to the depth of influence Jezebel has done on him(I believe from his childhood or even at birth until now at his thirties)? Does Jezebel want to destroy him or the evil spirit wants to use him to destroy other good souls and finally his? I got trapped in hell when I was staying with him, now I got physically separated but im still very confused with all the above questions? How can he be saved without me being dragged in hell as nowadays I even stand up for myself in front of him through online communication. I mean I never dared to speak a word whem I was with him as I was too scared of him. Nowadays, I even challenge the devil with words through online commication which I also believe he keeps all these in mind. I am not thst scared of him as I was before. Really thank GOD! Also, the devil manifested usually with the consumption of alcohol and he knew that he became a devil after drinking but he kept drinking and got crazy on me no matter how muxh I begged him not to drink. Its like he purposedly drink to make me scared sometimes as he knew I was scared to see the devil. Do you think its just the demons want him to drink in order to lose conscience so they can take over him to destroy me? Once hes ok everythings seem a bit less tensed, the next he became a devil but I obseeved a situation that each time he shifted from being ok to a devil came a time gap of him being away from me from ten mins to few hours. I never can figure out myself whats the time gap for? Did he purposedly call the demons out to help him or the demons dragged him away to influence him negatively to come back to me. for Abuse and insult. Usually the time gap was the time he went down to buy alcohol. Why is it? What should I do? Hes too dangerous. If I didnt love him real I wouldnt have the strength to tolerate this much over hundred times of inhuman abuses for hours hours every two three days. Sometimes I thought I should cut my focus on him but not sure why still cant coz I fell too deep in love with him. On the other hand, he keeps gaslighting me breaking me further more to a degree I can no more cry but to accept hes really a bastard.Do you think he wants to get out from darkness too as he cried when hes in church with me few times but he just cant? Or hes purposedly being friend with demons? Im too confused if the demons controlling him too strongly that all he does or speaks are all from demons or some really from his own or he wants to get the demons to help him?I cannot figure out who is real him or the innocent one in him also a fake illusion he made? He ever said its all a game he wins anyway he said that but I was thinking it doesnt make sense if u love someone truly u cant do such bastard things like this. Whats the truth? If this love is real, I want to find ways to solve it no matter it may be risky but I can never know if this is real or not or just made by Jezebel only. The one I've loved is a fake illusion or he did and does love me real but Jezebel has been playing behind?I am sure the Jezebel behind him is too angry at me. I am getting closer to GOD each day. What else I can do? pls kindly advise. I've been too exhausted physically mentally spiritually. I was many times going to be broken but I was holdin coz inside I know im very strong with truth.By the way, hes indian and he did tell me Shiva was his God but sometimes he said he was God when the devil showed up. I believe this also is the main element he got spiritualyl attacked. By the way, I am in Asia. Thanks GOD!.I am really thankful that I finally can ask a professional on these kinds of things which are questions if my life. Many thanks!
Apostle Robert Summers Many.thanks! I've been feeling very lonely.as I know nobody believes or feels my experience until I came across your chanel where I can ask.the questions which i thought i would never be able to find out their answers within my life.I did subscribe:) Thanks a lot!
Chill dude. Crystal needs to tell her story because she is traumatized by a narcissist and most likely now suffers from complex post traumatic stress disorder. Traumatized people need to tell their story over and over again until it no longer serves them to do so. I've been severely abused by narcs which I'm so grateful for as I was led to Jesus by being able to see the very real existence of demons and the devil through a malignant narc boyfriend. Let people be themselves. We are all doing our best. Even the narcissists are just basically possessed.
Covert narcs are the absolute worst. You don't see them coming. Demonic for sure.
The Girl Who Speaks Who are you to say I don't want to hear her story. it's healthy. You hint that action is needed yet that's dangerous. Prayer, faith, and guidance of the Holy Spirit is essential. Go to the cross, feel the sacrifice of Christ, his pain and his Loving gift. Have unquestioning Faith that he loves you. Ask Him for guidance, do not repay evil with evil. By being kind, you pour coals upon the demon's head. Read sermon on the Mount and understand the armour of God. Fear not, trust in Christ, ask his Jezebel or his Shiva to acknowledge the gift of Christ. Talk about the pain Christ voluntary endured. Burn the sacrifice into him swing the power of the cross. Make him face it, he will run. Talk about Christ constantly. Ask him, taunt him with Christ's example, pour out Christ constantly. Tell him, you know his spirit is a liar and ask him to unbind his bound up Spirit in the name and power of Christ. Burn this emotional vampire with the cross. Cast it out or make it run away. Let your Faith not be waived. Tell him you will not be unequally yoked to evil. Implore him to call to Christ for help. He won't. He is spirituality bound. He will run away. Always speak about Christ, be only about that.
Thanks all!I feel a bit better now but still my life is still is a mass but at least I live with no fear of the devil now. Thanks GOD!
Bless ya girl u are strong...I have been where u are u deserve a gold metal 😘😍😎✌👊👍❤💗💖 life will get better u will be happy and healthier..and will find friends again it takes time trust me u will he likes u that's why he does that they're weird...don't go back leave quietly if and when u get the chance gather all of ur personal info..keep journaling...document every thing incase u have to go to court 😙xoxo
Yes, you are right. I married a man and I divorced him ... I was not aware. .. I was blinded. After two years still feeling lost but I am feeling much stronger after two years. It was awful !!! It was awful!!!
My X husband is a dangerous man.... He needs psychological counseling to help him get through his bad behavior. I looked at him in the basement of our old house something Dark came out to greet me. I saw it.. I told him if you don't change you'll never get out of the hole your in. You go to the dark side you don't come back!
Have had a woman pursue me from Church have had to get the police involved to get her to leave me alone. Thought maybe it was me had some of the same traits so at first thought it was me. When the Lord called me to pull away she started harrassing me and started slandering me talking about my kids and leaving strange things on my doorstep. Even left the Church that was preaching about the Kingdom. What you are saying about preaching the Kingdom resonated. I really haven't known what to do except that I had to contact the police to get her to leave me alone. Really didn't expect this she seemed so nice. Can be disheartening. Hope everyone can get equipped.❤👑
Just found u. Amen. My. Friend. Been hungry. For this truth past 12 years. Ur only real thing.
Everything he said was 100% accurate and exactly what I've had to deal with in my ex-wife. I've also had to acknowledge that the spirit will bring the worst out within yourself and so you have to do the work internally and through prayer to fight against it within. Although the spirit may not possess you that does not mean it doesn't oppress you because it will certainly will do that.
How do I remove it???
You sound like an expert.
I have encountered this spirit my WHOLE life, but I didn't know this until the Lord started revealing this to me through various videos on UA-cam. I have encountered it on my job when I speak with them on the phone, in my family, at times at church, or whatever the pass maybe. But again I didn't initially understand it. I don't even interact with people like this after awhile. Because the spirit in them will always cause them to respond in defense, never apologize, be argumentative, never forgive, say mean, sneaky, and understanding things, gaslight you, deflect, or whatever the case maybe. So, I have found that it's not beneficial to interact with them at all, or only interact with them very minimal. Because more often then not that's the only way that you can protect your joy, peace, and sanity. Otherwise being around these people can lead you to become depressed, experience having suicidal thoughts, and so on and so forth. It's not worth it. Because you CAN'T change anyone, and if they are not willing to acknowledge that they have an issue. And they are not willing to humble themselves in the Lord, then there is not much of a benefit to actually address it.
What a great video ! So informative , very well done . Thank you so much . You have done a great job in helping the collective and for that I thank you ! ❤️
God Bless You!!!! For bringing the Light on these Evil Narcissists!!!!!!
My daughter has a covert Jezebel spirit in her that I know got to her from her boyfriend's house and now the spirit has changed her completely. My family has been destroyed by it. My daughter will be loving then suddenly cold and distant and suddenly ghost me and her father. She tries to make like it is all in our head. She flips quickly like you said. She appears to be sensitive and kind and spiritual yet she turns right around and doesn't care how she speak to me nor respect my house rules. People who don't know her think she is the nicest person they met but it is all just a cover, and act. She constantly tried to get me to argue with her.
Wow.. I knew it.
I’m speechless, thank you for this video. May the one and only Creator bless you.
I have PTSD now, dealing with a Narc in my life, I’m on Risperidone and Zoloft because of him. I felt his evilness.
There’s no way that I will stay married to him.
God willingly I will leave.
Hi.Did you leave him ? Hows things now ?
Have you thought of fasting and prayer?? If you leave you cannot remarry. Either you reconcile or remain single. But whatever you do make sure you pray for your husband to he born again and delivered in JESUS NAME AMEN
I hope you have left and gone No Contact with your Abuser!
Praise Yah! Another one of His children set free!
Connecting dots & going WOW ✔ YES, YES & YES, been down that road! Been learning for several years now about what I have unknowingly been wrestling & encountering in several apparently NPD individuals in my circle for many many years. Ultimately, dealing with the main & last one was like the complete decimation of a Tsunami, nothing much remained in the aftermath of that one, but I made it out. I feel bad for people on both sides, its awful! But I thank God for His grace to keep see me through. The suffering affects so many, its very painful not to know at times how to help, save & recover oneself from ground zero & save the rest of the innocent in fallout. There are far bigger problems in the world today, but we're searching for how to precisely navigate the landscape for a complete escape for those still esnared by this dominant NPD figure.
The motis operandi & behavioral references or "checklist" in your vid primarily applies a high % for a marriage/head of household (& leader) & then, secondarily to several other relationships (professional, personal, family, ministry leader, friendships).
Initially kept dismissing & ignoring all the red flags & signs, taking blame & covering for the person so others would not see it. Had so many questions at first, now more direct revelation & good insight! I am trying to understand, just learn about "people & personalities" & use practical tools like your video & others to enlighten, teach, inform, help & equip myself for the future, but more importantly the youngest suffering in the shadows now (stressful residing solely with the CN purely due to economic advantage in the situation).
Can you answer these 3 questions:
1- How prevalent is this thing & how exactly do you stop it from TRANSFERENCE in the 1st place, for example - development in a child or youth who mainly resides with an NPD parent provider.
2- Are you saying all people who have experienced hurt, pain, loss, rejection & suffering in their childhood will likely & hopelessly grow up to inherit NPD against their knowledge & wishes?
3 - What more besides prayer & education can be done to help people get free, recover & successfully move forward (victims/survivors) in their healing process without costly expenses they may not have?
Thank you!
If No. 2 was true, then all us Scapegoats would be hardcore narcs at this point.
Excellent questions !