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7 simple ways to be better at love
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- Опубліковано 14 сер 2024
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UR ALWAYS ON TIME WITH THE RIGHT TOPICS WHEN IM IN A CRISIS ANA!!!
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That's because you're always in a crisis Emily.
@@ZeroRiskAppetite lol
I swear, she's mind reading or something
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Simple Catagorization of the Verbs:
- How you respond to wanting something (Ask / Take)
- How you respond to someone else wanting something (Give / Refuse / Share)
- How you respond to Receiving something (Receive)
- Play
Also worth noting that:
- "Sharing" is a form of "Giving".
- These are all words for the process of negotiation and transaction.
- "Play" is a shared experience you agree upon (via explicit or implicit negotiation)
“It is a love based on giving and receiving as well as having and sharing. And the love that they give and have is shared and received. And through this having and giving and sharing and receiving, we too can share and love and have and receive.”
gotta love Joey 😂😂
I came to the comments searching for this 😂 I guess Joey was on to something
Joey ftw 😂😂😂
I immediately thought of this when Anna mentioned “take, receive, share,..” 😂😂😂
joey is a psychological genius
My toxic trait is forwarding Anna Akana videos to friends with no message or context.
Lmao
I was planning to do that should i
@@dramatic_3047 same… so tempted
I love that almost everything always comes down to this acceptance, kindness and awareness that you can always change. You are not permanently wired a certain way, things are always more or less flexible
1. To share
2. To ask
3. To take
4. To receive
5. To give
6. To refuse
7. To play
Thank you 😊
Wow I have never seen love and intimacy described in terms of these words. The doing words of love.
By making your mental health and personal growth a priority, you will heal much faster. I understand that this can be hard to do, especially if you have little ones to look after. However, if you do have little ones to look after, it’s even more crucial that you take care of yourself first. This is so you are fully able to take care of others.
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esther perel is so brilliant and she is just so elegant when she speaks on her research about relationships. always feels like i can learn smth from her again and again. thanks for the reminder, anna 👌
I love an Anna Akana post in the morning🧡
Whoever is reading this, i pray that whatever you’re going through gets better and whatever you’re struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day! Amen
Thank you.
You know it's really difficult to say whether that comment is genuine or not because bots seem to use them to promote their channel these days. If it's genuine, thanks but if it's not, eff you xD
@@syro2412 it's not genuine, I see those comments all the time, almost verbatim
I pray that you find your way out of religion.
My issue with asking is that, often times, if I have to ask for something, then I won't enjoy getting it anymore. I'd rather the person gives it to me on their own and not because I asked. So it's a dead end that I don't know how to counter.
The typo in the thumbnail is very funny
interesting to have something I perhaps subconciously understood explained well. I was lucky to be raised well, and I realise that now. In those terms, I've always realised "my most difficult verb" is refuse - even in non-romantic interactions, if people need help I want to help them, but sometimes later when there's no time for the things I actually need to have done or wanted to do, I get a bit frustrated. It's OK to say "I can't help you with that right now, but maybe later" if you really have to for your own good, and that's something I have to keep reminding myself of.
Btw The thumbnail has a “simple” spelling error…
This was so jam packed. I have to watch in .5x to digest all the wisdom
i took notes on little cards i flip through during the day.
Anna, as an avid Iranian fan, I would REALLY appereciate it if you also talk about this issue. Please be our voice...
🙌🙌Hey Anna or whoever uploads for Anna! Just a Heads-up, There is a Spelling mistake in the Thumbnail Text, it says "SIMPE" instead of "SIMPLE", incase this was not intentional, which it doesn't seem like it is, I thought I'd point it out since you are always in my recommended since I started watching last week and I love your videos, already changing my everyday habits!
Thanks for making these in bite size chunks. It's a lot to internalize.
I have very few needs so I'm more of a giver than anything. I just like making people happy and I really don't lose anything of value
my mental concentration thanks you for how short but right to the point your videos are
And now for something completely different: Why am I JUST finding out you did a role in "Corporate"?! 12/10 and watching again
The most intimate part of Peter Pan was when Captain Hook fought with giant shrimp costumed Anna.
I hope one day she decides to make a podcast, she has the perfect voice for it
Did anyone else notice it says 'simpe' ways to love in the thumbnail 😂
I noticed cause it looks like she’s looking at the mistake.
Thanks for reading another article to us.
I feel like I'm going to be single forever. I've been so toxic in the past that I feel I need to let karma teach me what it needs to teach me. But at the same time I feel like I'm going to be punishing myself for years.
Gonna take notes - this is helpful for my self-improvement journey, thanks!
Thank you very much for having canalized the main parts in 7 key points.
whats funny about me being bi is, im always bi-myself
(ik thats an overused joke but thats how i feel-)
I can definitely improve in the ask area.(I'm inept at asking for things.)
Good to pause these videos after each part, so I can sit with it for a bit
Especially appreciate the note on "change" cos we can if we want/need to.
Thank you , we really needed to hear this today. to accept it... will be another story.
This is gold
Love this “crossover” post!
If I had a jar full of all the pennies you've dropped, it would be a very big jar ❤️ thanks Anna ❤️
I love all your videos Anna! they're all just so interesting, educational and funny...I genuinely enjoy every single one no matter what it is!
Thank you so much for this. Very interesting and eye opening when I took a minute to reflect.
I can't believe I am so early!
Thank you for being my therapist 💖
Love you 💓
I can’t be the only one who is dying to know where Anna got the boo job done because that looks amazing even after this many years!
Great to see you princess!!!
I love your hair
Ooooooooh been learning these past few months!
Thank you for sharing, wording & editing this so beautifully and intelligently. #TeamAnna for me.
Anna: Which verbs are you currently acing?
me: ehhh...
Thanks Anna
THANK YOU!
I am all give and no take
okay, so this was perfect timing. the universe knows.
Anna Akana is a good example of someone knowing so much about love in theory but has no idea practically. Reading can only bring us so far.
Awesome job anna
What, nobody can read minds? Well that explains a lot!!
Thanks a ton!
Thank you!!!
Everyone: Talking about love.
Me: What does "Simpe" mean?
(First time writing a comment like that)
Don't even ask me how I got here when I was just browsing youtube for some fitness ideas. Nevermind, I stay for a while :D
I'm dead that she straight up called SquareSpace her daddy 😂
Anna!!!
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I'm confused about the difference between taking and receiving in this context. Can someone please help me understand?
To take is to allow yourself to go after what you want (allow yourself to go forward). To receive is to allow others to give to you (allow others to go towards you).
I think this holds true for any kind of relationship - even our professional relationships with jobs. It's difficult to find the balance between ourselves and our responsibilities.
I'm volunteer for two organizations to build up my resume.
One organization is massive, internationally renown, and 90% volunteer run. As a result, it's staff are over worked and have too little time to organize volunteers, so the organization's rules and structure end up being constricting.
The second organization is small, local, and has a relatively high percentage of staff. As a result, they're responsive, flexible, and have plenty of time and wear-with-all to welcome and support volunteers.
In the time I spend for the first organization, I typically feel unappreciated and put-upon. Five months ago, I pitched a project to them that could address several key issues. They gave me the green light, but the staff had too little time to pay attention to my progress reports and requests. So only when I submitted it for a final review did they tell me the organization's structure would never allow them to use my project. This is only one of several broken promises from them.
The second organization's work and structure means I get to do exactly what I want with them with hardly any prep-work. Consistently, I get to feel like what I'm doing is benefiting people and the planet. I'm appreciated and respected.
You'd think it'd be simple to walk away from an organization that doesn't treat you well. But just like romance in media often teaches us unhealthy lessons about relationships, we have the same thing happening with our cultural narratives around work/jobs/career. That, especially when you're starting out, you have to accept terrible bosses, crappy working conditions, sacrifice sleep, health, and relationships. We expect to be taken advantage of at work, it's part of how capitalism functions. You just hope you get a job that's better than the others.
Not necessarily good, kind, and worth-while. Just better than the others.
We know we're not supposed to accept that from our romantic relationships.
But I think most of us are still telling ourselves we have to accept that from our professional ones.
50 words?
I learned well over 100 words to visit Japan and still found myself is quite a few pickles.
Damn, after two weeks, this is such a great lesson to come back with. Also, so weird to see the Macedos so casual after what happened.
Wait, what happened?
@@JuJuGarlin they’re not friends with Anna anymore
@@traveler-a113 What?! What happened, how do you know?
@@LiteratiMuffin Anna said it in a livestream
@@traveler-a113 no way, that's so sad. is this livestream still available?
Number 8 needs to be "to stop talking" 🤣
I like quiet and peace, but them people be talking non-stop and driving me crazy
All important questions, however, you missed the big one: how to love. That question answers all the others.
Anna YOU LITERALLY CALLED ME OUT 💀😭
I LEGIT RAN AND HID ON MY ROOM AFTER THROWING MY PHONE ON THE COUCH as you talked abt each verbs.
petition for square space to change their name to DADDY SQUARE SPACE
THANK U SO MUCH FOR THESE ADVICE I WILL USE THEM…once i get a girlfriend
Your thumbnail says SIMPE not sure how many people have said this
nice!
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Can you please try educational contents? 'cause you're really good at explaining things please 🥺🥺
Hola Miss Akana and everyone ❤
There is a typo in the thumbnail
Hey, Anna. It’s written SIMPE (instead of SIMPLE) on the thumbnail!
Wow, I have issues with almost all of these. I suppose that explains why I have such a strained relationship with my mother lol
FYI, typo in the thumbnail says “simpe”
i think i equally struggle with all of these.
the thumbnail has a typo
0:56 Wtf, I thought they were the same person in your other videos lmao
7 SIMPE WAYS
UA-cam be like: who is your daddy?😉
Anna: square space😏
UA-cam: 🤯😑😐
There's a typo in your cover art 🥰
how do you work on take, receive, and give? im good at the rest
Watch a Foreigner stories in phillipines
I have a question Anna… since you said sitting in silence with each other’ does it also include using your phone while sitting together and not particularly for some work just for scrolling… my boyfriend do that and always find it annoying…! So just want to know me nagging him to use his phone while we are together is actually bad??? Should I stop doing that.?
You're there to spend time together not just stare at a phone.
first time seeing an error in a thumbnail 👹
Dam, so what you're saying is my f'ed up childhood and relationship with my parents has made me bad at everything that is required to be in a happy and fulfilling relationship?
Least now I know what the problem is and can give up in peace.
When you find a problem you can give up or fix it. Generally you end up happier if you fix it.
I hope you’ve had a nice day (:
You have a typo in your thumbnail, might need to have a talk with your QC team.
Typo in the thumbnail
@Anna I mean did she get upgrades, maybe I missed something?
People that still haven't evolved there relationship after 20 year s have not learned being realistic, centered, perspective, having a sexual engagement. Etc. Maybe empathy i don r exactly but something
The worst way to show love... I saw a guy who threw flowers on a girls lap on the passenger side and then he laughed it off.
Hello
Please update your thumbnail with the correct spelling, if it was a mistake.
I’m not sure if this is an easy fix but there’s a typo on your thumbnail!
Anna can you please avoid being 'overly distractive' I have hard time focusing on the topic this time.. 😅
Oh god, I am not doing great at these. I have to talk to Esther in one of these 9 languages.
The thumbnail says SIMPE instead of SIMPLE