MyFestivus that’s what she is trying to say the world is so caught up on appearance they don’t ever see you for who you are. She is trying to get people to be aware of that and fix the situation by saying looks aren’t everything there is in life
hallelu lee But looks play a HUGE factor. You can probably talk to a pretty girl and get her number but it is VERY difficult, that is why you are better off working on looks, plus since when do you see an ugly man walk with a pretty woman? Unless they were already friends before.
Of course attractive people have some issues in life cos of their looks (i think especially females), but the advantages weigh out the disadvantages by far in my opinion. Everybody in the range from "really ugly" to "incredibly beautiful" has reasons to complain somehow, but i think almost everybody knows where he/she wants to place himself if he/she could choose his/her looks. No where even near average ;)
@@giovannaroma9527 unattractive people get every chance.... Too often they're just too caught up in the pretentious superficialities of a tacky consumerist society, looking in all the wrong places for all the wrong things to even entertain the idea.
People like to think that if they were more beautiful, skinnier etc they would not be insecure, they would be happy and basically all their problems would go away. They get mad and jealous when beautiful people talk about being insecure. They probably feel like beautiful people don’t have the right to be insecure. But being insecure in reality has nothing to do with how you look. You can always find someone more beautiful than yourself. And like she says the more you focus on the way you look, regardless of how you actually look, the more insecure you are. Cause the more you focus on it the more flaws you find. The best way to learn how to be confident in your looks is to find a way to accept that you don’t look perfect and that you might not even be especially beautiful at all and try your best to not put your worth in your appearance. I’m not saying this is easy. But it is easier and better than changing your looks only to find that you still feel insecure.
It same like flexing with money. People dont want to hear that others are doing so much better than themselves. (especially when its not anyhow "deserved" or worked for)
I think the title conveys the message well. When someone says that something "isn't everything", the implication is "although it's big, it's not everything". And she went on to say that society places too much importance on something that is actually very superficial. Moreover, good looks don't shield you from insecurities.
I don’t think most people in the comments understand the point she is trying to make. She’s not saying that looks don’t matter. She says that no matter how beautiful other people perceive you at the end of the day you can still be very insecure and unhappy with your looks.
She made a very important point: she won the genetic lottery. That’s not something you can strive for, and yet our society places so much importance on physical appearance. I wish her speech was longer, I can tell she has much more to say.
Why are you guys so fucking stupid... It's cause human look for the better endowed people... It's in our DNA it's very simple biology.... Life isn't fair, stop trying to equalize everything.... Cause there is no equal in basic biology.
@@pericyerima2466 While anyone can get slimmer which is true, you simply cannot change your facial bone structure. Which is in fact a genetic lottery and not something that you can work hard to obtain. Just being real here.
I love that she is really open about the modeling industry. Lots of young girls look up to all the models they see in magazines; it's important to teach them that most of these pictures are altered and almost completely reconstructed.
I think I know where she's getting at. At first, I noticed she was really nervous from the way she laughs and breathes, and the look she's giving to everyone. She really showed that insecurity and for her to admit that even though she's a model is quite amazing. She may be a model but that doesn't mean she has the greatest life ever. She showed humility and care from people she doesn't even know. I'll give her 10/10 for that.
Because no one was going to take her seriously so i totally get it...im glad she was brave enough to speak on it. Because she could be blacklisted. Bravo to her
@@sadhgurusfunniestandwittie3620 intellect is subjective while intellectuality is noun. and I was using the latter because I was concerned about the way she made opinions and stated her thoughts through speech, but thanks for trying to correcting me. :)
@@thegameshows1 Freedom is the currency to buy happiness. Money can not provide freedom every time. It depends on which is the reason to be happy for an individual.
Money doesn't matter. Health matters way more. Love matters way more. How do I know? Look at what rich people spend their money on... staying heathy and buying friends...
Bullshit.... life gives no short cuts or easy paths to ANYONE...Good looking or not..... life gives us different sets of problems/obstacles to overcome, that's it.
I come from a smallest village in eastern europe and poor abusive family that raised me into an unsociable introvert with issues. The main thing that made me break thru is my looks. People actually perceive cute ones as better in everything (including smarts) than they really are. Psycollogists agree with my experience on this.
@@ralphpinkins5619 Oh, but it does. Everyone has problems and hardships of course but good looking people always get more attention, support, people are biased towards them, etc. Even on UA-cam i see it sometimes: there is a handsome guy or beautiful girl and their channel instantly gets many more subscribers than others with sometimes much better content. They just get more opportunities in life usually. How they use it it's another thing.
@@todanrg3 you're proving my point. God gave these individuals good looks. But that's their obstacle to overcome as well as their advantage. You may not be as good looking as them but smarter then them , let's say for example , if we were to compare the two. Would life be easier for you because compared to a good looking person you're smarter than them? No ofc not. Because your ugly and looks matter too. Get my point. You cant compare apples and oranges and then say life is easier. That's like comparing struggles.
Fascinating talk. It's not surprising that looks can get someone ahead in life, but that's only part of the equation of success. I found it refreshing that she said that models are the most insecure about themselves physically.
Do you think she was being truthful, Hmm maybe she was. What surprised me was she could walk normal not the usual stepping over invisible things. when I see them walking like that I have an uncontrollable urge to sand off my finger prints. So I can prove I have no relation to the human race.... The only bright side to sanding off your finger prints, Your now the GI Joe action figure with the KungFu GRIP!!!
I worked for a short time in a strip club - not my proudest moment - and I noticed the same insecurity in the women there. And it makes sense - when your entire life, your entire sense of self-worth, is built strictly around your looks, it seems only natural to be insecure about it, attractive or not.
Actually, it was pretty lame. She didn't address any of the counterargument. Anyone can pontificate. Unless you're completely PC, you recognize that people like her are the reason TEDex is doing so poorly.
+J Girl _"Poor thing. I'm glad that she held it together."_ She's not a a baby. Many people get nervous. You only feel for her because she's pretty, thus proving her point in the video.
Brave of her to speak the truth about her experience. She used her first outfit to great effect. Her talk was so powerful because it’s easy for a person blessed with good looks to think they are just better. Kudos to her.
People mad in these comments missing the whole points. She was soooo honest, most people don't wanna admit they got where they are through lottery/legacy.
@@gufestus4106 i have changed my mind. Looks do matter and I understand her message but the fact that she was able to get in get jobs and also get on the cover of the most pretisuges magazines covers just because she was accactive. Her looks help her out a great deal
@@philipsk i know many idiots that have degrees. They smoked, drank, and cheated their way through college. I'm willing to believe that she's intelligent, but a degree means nothing.
First time I have seen something like this. A person who were a model talked about the outlook is not everything, my favorite topic! Can we just appreciate her honest and how professional she were in this talk… This channel needs more talking video like this!
I agree completely. I think her writing and editing for the timeslot reduced the potential of her sincere thoughts almost to quips. I think a great forum would be for her to chat, in comfortable clothes, about her experiences as a model, and what it does for you, and what it can never do for you. I'm sure she's got some great stories! It would be pretty damn interesting to hear from someone in the modeling trenches, and someone who also appears to be thoughtful about the parts of herself that are not a model. Hey Netflix, are you listening???
I used to be morbidly obese, I lost weight. The contrast to how im treated now compared to then is revealing about society. People can be really shallow and often don't even realize it.
Well, it's a reflection of character. Obesity looks like: irresponsible, doesn't care about self, no discipline. It's mean, but we want friends that are like us to some degree. If I'm successful, wealthy, good-looking and in relatively good health, I'm going to want similar people around me. Everyone else is just part of the hi-bye culture. It's how we navigate a population of 326 million people. It's human nature. At least we don't cannibalize opponent tribes anymore.
Yea being overweight is rough , it's important not to dehumanise people based on their weight especially because some weight issues both being overweight and underweight are linked to mental health issues , the fact is you don't know if somebody is just lazy or is in fact severely depressed and being self-destructive. They could have been trough god knows what and use food to escape , they may lie in their beds all day because they have no self-worth are super depressed. Those who are overweight are people too and deserve to be treated as people. You don't have to encourage obesity to show kindness and tolerance towards these kinds of struggles , what we need is to be supportive to make people who are overweight feel that they aren't horrible people and that the importance of losing weight is for them ; for their health and mobility not for them to become passable as human beings just to become healthier and freezer ! Well done for losing the weight btw (= I'm sorry you felt people treated you as a lesser person because of your weight that's not right.
@@manictiger It is mean. Humans are above are primitive intuitions and able to intellectualise the true nature of a person no matter what their weight is Honestly I'd be friends with people of all sizes , somebody with self-harm scars , I'd be friends with somebody with depression or who struggles with addiction and the fact is sometimes our friends go through bad times , they are human beings and can't be perfect all the time. As long as they are good people I'll be their friend and I don't see fat people as bad people , fat people can be loving , caring , giving , funny and smart and that's what I care about. Don't get me wrong though I wouldn't encourage them to be fat , but I would love them despite it and if I could help them lose weight I would want to , but not because them being slim makes them a better friend but because I care for them I would want them to be in good health.
@@aprioriontoast704 The only goddamn reason you can "intellectualize" (not a real word) at all, is because we ate meat for millions of years. So yeah. You're delusional on every possible level. But hey, you do you.
I find it amazing how so many people can watch the same thing and get two completely different messages out of it. She clearly stated that what we see on the magazine covers/pages, isn't her. It's a "Construction" of her. How much clearer can she be. That one sentence speaks volumes. Maybe if she pointed out how short term a model's career is or how her looks will fade with time and gravity, some of you wouldn't be so negative. Society pays far to much attention on the packaging instead of the contents. You can be beautiful on the outside but when gravity and age have taken their toll, all you are left with is who you truly are. And that can only be found on the inside. That is what we need to pay attention too. And I don't know about any of you, but I would much rather be beautiful on the inside because that's the person you live with 24 hours a day. And no amount of money would be worth a temporary superficial beauty and a hateful and miserable soul that you have to live with your entire life. And there are many people in this world that fit that description. They have my sympathy. Simply my humble opinion.
Taylor Reyland I thank you so much for taking the time to share your kind words with me. It's so good to know there are others out there who have the same perception on certain things in life that I do. I sometimes wondered if it was just me who looked at things differently.
Wonderful words of inspiration right there...I once wanted to be a model when I was 16 and now? Whats changed? I have learnt to be my own model, my own image, a self that the world would look at and say God bless you, I use my beauty meticulously using it to attract men and women so that they could see my words of wisdom, with every perfect picture I upload, I attach a life inspiring quote to it, so when people see me, all they would want to do is believe in themselves and be inspired. Am glad I did not become 'the' model because I could have lost myself to this self 'constructed' look. Plus I also think models should be appreciated more, since theh give away themselves to show off the art of others that are passionate of their work be it hair, clothes, makeup, campaign or shoes. Bless y'all
First time I have seen something like this. A person who were a model talked about the outlook is not everything, my favorite topic! Can we just appreciate her honest and how professional she were in this talk… This channel needs more talking video like this!
That was brave. In my opinion, she didn't say looks are nothing; she said that looks are not the end of who you are and should not be the end of your identity.
That is what you understood. What me - an ugly cis male understood is: She was handed everything on a silver platter, yet still it is not enough. I have had to work extremely hard to get where I am, maybe this is why I appreciate what I have achieved unlike her who got it all because she's pretty? Here is a good response for her: "You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, well, you might find you get what you need".
@@Davide-xk4bg my point is that fashion is superficial from the very start no matter how you look at it. she paints a picture that fashion is racist and that this is bad. but fashion is SUPERFICIAL how can something that is so shallow and surface oriented be racist? is a person who is not attracted to certain people for example aborigines a racist?
If she thinks modeling restricts your identity, why doesn't she quit and get a different job? Maybe because she just wants to sound "noble" but still make money from her modeling.
+Hiến Nguyễn Đình It just means that she was lucky to inherit from her parents the type of appearance that paved the way for a successful modeling career. "Genetic lottery" is a metaphor comparing the results of her birth to a biological gamble or roll of the dice, like playing the lottery.
intpop Their impression may be correct. I just thought everyone was criticizing the video until I watched it and found out it had nothing to do with what they were complaining about.
I really relate to her experience , as someone who has been through looking "ugly" (at this time I got ignored a lot and feel invisible to others ) and then glowing up to somewhat good looking. the surprising thing is that I don't feel any less insecure . you just find new things to hate about yourself but now all your accomplishments and personalities become invisible instead. I don't think it's as huge of a benefit as people think it is.
@@oaklandsoldier8520 if I'm being honest I can't really know how it heels like to be a guy and probably will never find out. but that doesn't prevent me from sympathizing.
you are so unaware it's insane. it's like when rich people complain and say money isn't everything when they get a disease. yes money isn't everything, but there's people that don't have health and don't have money and they are worst than you. the same goes to you. sure you may still have problems about your appearance in your own mind, but people treat you better, you are praised and encouraged to have confidence, you get better jobs and you are payed more just because you look better. stop whining for once and listen to the people that you acknowledged have less than you.
Looks arent everything, said a beautiful person... Money isn't everything, said a rich person.... Fame isn't everything, said a famous person..... Our desires will never be satisfied said a guy who realized....
@Jeff Jedi, looks are not everything, nor required to be accepted. Confidence and treating others as respectable is sexy. Haven't you ever seen an average looking guy with a sexy woman? I have.
Ugly people just use their looks as an excuse not to better themselves. If you’re funny, kind and confident then so many doors open up. Looks are the first thing people notice, but who you are is what stays with people.
Well possibly yes but as a woman being confident doesn't matter. I'm confident about myself even tho I'm ugly (Im just being realistic). You can see average looking guys with pretty girls but you'll never see good looking guys with average looking woman.
me neither Oh no darling. thats not true at all. I know a bunch of handsome guys and whenever I met their women or girlfriends I often asked myself, why they were not more attractive compared to their partner. (In my subjektive opinion of course)
I love how she is opening talking about her race and her body type benefited. I love that she is honest about it. She was talking about this in 2013 and still in 2021 we are struggling with these issues. Atleast she made people become aware of the inequality.
Someone here is trying hard to find a reason why she is not considered beautiful. Maybe it's because you are not. Racism is not the issue. Inequality is not the issue. You are just not attractive, get over it.
I really like the idea she is trying to portray. She is trying to tell us that despite how we look our personality and character is what matters most and if we choose to define ourselves by our looks we aren't going to go as far. I love the open honesty she gives the audience about the benefit she has as a white woman who fits into the standards in a luxury industry such as modeling and how she uses that to her advantage. I'd rather have people acknowledge their privilege than hide behind it. Cameron Russell is a successful model who has walked for luxury fashion houses such as Chanel and Versace.
looks are like a first door to a person. if you’re beautiful then that door is opened and people will go to the second door which is personality, who you really are, etc. if you’re not attractive then the first door remains closed and people won’t even bother trying to get to know you. Beautiful people say looks don’t matter simply because it’s something they don’t struggle with (so eventually personality will become their main focus) You can be unhappy for various reasons, but it’s unfair to say something doesn’t matter because /you/ don’t struggle with it. Ideally we all should focus on what’s inside but the vast majority of people will never bother that much if they’re not impressed after a first, superficial glance towards someone.
The problem is when you cannot go to the second door because you're Latino or dark-skinned... Those are things we must work on to change in modern societies. Less worse that how do you look physically is not the only component of the first door, but also, how are you dressed, how do you talk, how do you behave and even your body expressions.
You don’t have to be beautiful to get people to “go to the second door.” You’re basically saying that you’ve never seen an unattractive person with friends before or you’ve never seen an unattractive person in a relationship before. It‘s about confidence and personality, which good looking people tend to have more of (for obvious reasons) and that’s why they’re more popular or have more people going after them.
it isn't like that at all... you're still not getting the point of this. People that rely solely on their looks are bound to be extremely insecure. Looks fade, dumb is forever...
@@elastronaute1198 We get that... I'm pretty sure 99% of people know what her main points were ahead of time. The irony is you don't get to say, "Trust me, because I am [insert topic]" because the people who don't benefit from that know what it's like to be on the other side of the fence and can see the privilege received. A great example is in dating. A young beautiful female or male has a significant advantage of finding a partner, especially male, if they are scaled 8+. That's because 80% of the women tend to be attracted to 20% of the men. So the other 80% of the men are having to fight tooth and nail for female attention, while the 20% look down and say, "ayy don't worry, it's not all that great". The issue is people say and want to do something positive, but on the other hand their actions say otherwise.
I think that took a lot of courage for her to go on that stage and talk about those things in a very honest and vulnerable way. I think your talk shed light on some important topics and gave a window of insight into the life and mind of a model. For others who had the assumptions that models are happy all the time or have "perfect" lives, after watching this their minds may have changed and become more closely adjusted to the reality of the situation. Thank you for doing this, I enjoyed listening to it.
I love what she says about those pictures being constructions. They are not real. Models like Cameron are the raw materials that beauty illusionists use to create a faux view of women and beauty. These are painful illusions.
Yes, it's a little bit like they pointed it out on unREAL, a tv show aired by Lifetime, that depicts the production of a show like the bachelor or the bachelorette. They call the lead and the contestants meat puppets. This would also apply to models and the beauty industry ...
ya man.. you convince your ugly face by that.. she is beautiful even without any makeup.. what is wrong with a little bit of brushing in photos.. painful illusion.. dude you need to get laid..
I came to this talk many times and reconsidered about the message that she wanted to transfer. It's true that being beautiful is the advantage that we could get to be treated better in life. However, it's just a factor and it's important that we should not be obsessed about how we look. Social standards of beauty affects the society at large, even with the people like models are still insecure about their appearance. I truly appreciate that she came up stage and discussed that images of models are the results of the entire beauty industry and the real person can be totally different than we've imagined.
She recognizes her privilege, multiple times throughout the speech so that we don't forget that she recognizes it. I don't think any of the negative comments are justified. If anything it proves her point that she cannot be anything more than a pretty face.
Maybe she is no more than that but...she clearly showed us an point of models most uf us would never thinked about. An Model insecur about her looks? Would have never guessed that, for real .
@Danji ASMR Český She not arrogant so much as self aware. She's attractive and she knows she is, because she'd have been told that her whole life and she makes a living out of it. She doesn't make it out that she's better than everyone else though and she says herself that she just got lucky.
She said that, and with the point being that looks rule a lot of things that it shouldn't be able to. Looks are not what there is to a person, yet society is built to value looks above all else. That's the real point. You can look good and receive benefits but be miserable at the same time for entirely different reasons, or you can look a certain "bad" way and life will treat you poorly despite your personality having nothing to do with how society judges you. The key thing is, that it's always harder to speak up when you are in the segment that in the majority's eyes is benefitting from what you are talking about. A millionaire says money isn't everything? Nobody cares. A model saying looks aren't everything? People rarely care. I think she struck a good balance between highlighting the ups and downs not just for her, but for everyone, which is difficult when coming from a position where people are less likely to value your words.
@@Real_MisterSir I disagree. I know what she is trying to say but I disagree with her perspective. This entire viewpoint (intentionally in a larger/societal sense, unintentionally on the individual level) induces guilt in women for the crime of having good genes.
Thanks for her honest and it let me know that everyone has their own difficulties in life. Looks does influence us in our daily life, how people treat you or if they respect you. That kind of people are superficial so we don't have to care about what others think of us. Just be yourself!!
Exactly! She's not saying looks don't matter. She's given multiple examples that it DOES matter and that she privileges from this fact. That's why she made this TED Talk. The people in this comment section really don't understand the point.
I like how she is aware of her privilege, and also that she brought up racial injustice. Not just a pretty face. Thoughtful. What she said about models being very insecure is true.
I can train a parrot to bring up privilege and race; it means nothing as far as intelligence, wisdom, or insight when all it is doing is squawking back at you what its heard from somewhere else.
@Fnord Fnordington white people are privelleged because you dont see white people being killed for being white and "fiting the image" and white people dont need to worry about their safety around police officers and they dont need to worry about their families and their wellbeing its unfair for black people because they always "fit the image" and they are always being killed have you ever seen the news about protest and have you ever been to one (ever been to a protest) black people dont get the privellege and freedom that white people do.
@@Alex-zi4ll this is false more white people get shot by police and white People do get racialy attacked by blacks although there is no outrage when white people get killed
ITS NOT EXPOSING ITS THERE IN FRONT OF YOU ALL ALONG JUST THAT YOUNG GIRLS DONT CARE THEY JUST WANT MONEY. IM A FASHION DESIGNER I UNDERSTAND WHY FASHION DESIGNERS IN THE INDUSTRY DO THIS AND WHY THEY HIRE VERY SLIM MODELS. IM VERY SLIM MYSELF IM WORKING ON A BOOK TO EXPLAIN WHY FASHION DESIGNERS THINK THE WAY THEY THINK.
Looks aren't EVERYTHING, but they're very, very good to have. Her looks have elevated her entire life and have her living in luxury. That being said, I liked her presentation. Very honesty and self-aware. Plus, she was obviously nervous and a bit socially awkward, which was endearing. 😊
A Non “ugly on the inside” that’s saying I have an ugly personality... and that description suits you better than me. No you’re ugly on the inside!!! >:((!!
There is a thing in psychology called the "Halo Effect", that means people who are better looking and more physically attractive, are generally perceived as more intelligent, more successful and happier people in their lives
You guys in the comment section are basically why she made this talk. Just because you were treated poorly because of how you look, you also believe that people should be treated based on their appearance too? She was brave okay? Doing this could cost her her only job but she did it anyway. And you keep on complaining. Just treat others the way you wanted to be treated, it'll pay off.
Then i feel sorry for those who treated you that way. Cause i've been there too, but that doesn't mean im gonna stop helping others or treating others poorly at all.
Why are people still ignoring the point of this talk? She's literally admitting her privilege and pointing out both the biases and superficiality of the fashion industry (which can severely affect the body and beauty image of young girls everywhere) and the way people judge others based solely on physical appearance (RACE, gender, weight, hair color etc). The first part to fixing a problem is letting it be known. But if you ignore her message because you're actually just jealous she was lucky enough to be born physically attractive, you're LITERALLY contributing to the problem. This is an important message.
TheAlphadog I understand your points, it really all boils down to personal opinion and how the individual perceives these issues. The most significant part for me, though, is concerning young girls. I do disagree with you on that, only because girls in these newer generations (due to the accessibility of social media and the presence of advertisements everywhere) are almost always surrounded by what society considers the ideal body type/beauty. Usually the ideal is portrayed as a beautiful woman with lovely skin and a fit body, perfect hair teeth and nails, etc. If the girl doesn't have a strong enough body image of herself (you know, the low self esteem middle school years are super common) nor is she taught to realize that the people presented to her in ads/social media aren't necessarily 'attainable' (not sure how to word this part my apologies) she might become desperate to achieve these ideals and do something dangerous like starve herself or even become depressed. It's the same for boys too, I'm sure many have gone through periods of low self esteem and depression due to not being 'ideal' (ofc I don't know for sure, I wouldn't know what it's like to grow up as a boy in this age). Mostly I just support the fashion industry introducing images of health rather than unattainable beauty, ethnic diversity for poc representation (a young latina girl may not feel beautiful if the only beautiful women she knows about are all white, for example) that sort of thing. Education in general needs a lot of work, but we can't forget that children retain a lot of information from social media/advertising. It's like another educational outlet, so we gotta make sure they're not contributing anything potentially harmful. xx
Glory Knights "I do disagree with you on that, only because girls in these newer generations (due to the accessibility of social media and the presence of advertisements everywhere) are almost always surrounded by what society considers the ideal body type/beauty. Usually the ideal is portrayed as a beautiful woman with lovely skin and a fit body, perfect hair teeth and nails, etc." You're wrong. Society doesn't "tell" people what is beautiful, that's just ridiculous. Have you ever had a friend who thought someone was super attractive, but you didn't find them that way yourself? Attraction has everything to do with biology and you perception of healthy. All those things you listed are signals of a healthy person that our subconscious picks up on so we can attempt to reproduce with them. Has nothing to do with the media. I agree with you on body image though, but seeing as how the average weight has started to go up and obesity has increased, heart diseases also. There should be a limit to what we actually tell young girls and boys. There are more benefits for a person to being fit, eating healthy and exercising than there is to eat bad foods and being told to love yourself anyway. That is completely backwards. Everything else though I completely agree, but unfortunately, you live in a free market society. So magazines can publish what they want depending on the demand.
TheAlphadog It's not blatant, I just personally believe having a majority unattainable image is subtle enough to cause harm to any young person who may not know better. A shift towards healthy bodies is definitely the move. If ads only include vv beautiful and the vv skinny, kids won't know that not everybody can obtain that body healthily. But you're right, it depends on demand. Money over all :(
@UA-cam Player It's not a lie, why is everyone judging her so harshly. Looks aren't everything, there are other things that matter other than looks. It's unfair to disregard someone just because they are beautiful.
Even hollywood actors admit to having insecurity, cause there's always someone who is younger, smarter, more talented or more gorgeous than you. You must realize your self-worth. There is no one like you.
aspi rine That's bullshit. It's what stupid and broke people tell themselves to make themselves feel better. Almost every Hollywood celebrity is a self-made millionaire. You have to be pretty intelligent to go from nothing to millions.
no hate but just realise the truth behind it ...she is beautiful and is earning so much if money by her looks and getting paid for sayung looks dont matter ....how cheap is this ..even she is trying to earn money ..i bet she is of those students or girls bullying the beautiful soules ...she dosent have any personality but only looks and still earning ...
This is such a good Ted talk that is actually timeless bc looks will always matter to the human race as it is ingrained in our biological way of thinking. People don't get that she acknowledges this fact and actually tells us that she's priviliged with her looks and skin color. She never denied this and stays very factual about her privileges in comparison to those that don't have the same privilege as they don't fit the discription box. Being pretty paid her all the way to college but she wants to acomplish more in life then her looks and this Ted Talk was a part of it. Her insta is also very activist orientated and I applaud her for that. She has substance and we are now left with a generation of instagram teens that think everything that glitters turns into gold. They would have to see this to understand that there is more in life than having 100k followers and up.
I can't believe how many bad things people have to say about this video. This talk was heartfelt and emotional, and it was an acknowledgment that there is more to focus on in life than looks and wealth. So many models wouldn't even bother to do something like this or have the sense of self worth. She is a hero in my book.
hi my name is Georg e I'm a black guy who is interested in modeling I'M the right height in size with a good personality who wears a smile out of style n love to dress in step out to turn heads so if there's any one out there in world of modeling agency please look me up you want be disappointed in what I have to offer I want to see for myself about this modeling leave me something I will be getting bk to u soon love all
I was going to say 99.9%, but I think you may have a great point at a lower 97%. So true in business or anything. Unfortunately, looks do make a difference.
@ldyson22 in reality, since you will have to experience wealth and poverty, health and illness, beauty and ugliness, being a woman and a man, being white and being black. The important thing is: how you behaved as poor, and how you behaved as rich. I think anyone can answer that question honestly.
Hot person "looks aren't everything" "Easy for you to say! You've never had to worry about your looks!l Ugly person:"looks aren't everything" "You're just trying to comfort yourself of your ugliness!" I guess nobody wins
Ironically, looks Are everything for perfect looking people; people look them only by their looks, not by other characteristics of them, and fail to see them as fellow human, because they are so shiny and inhumanely well organized physically. But I guess that's the reason why they complain 'looks aren't everything'; they want to be look as a human.
L CC she didn't say it's a problem. She pointed out that life isn't fair and society isn't fair. It favors the pretty ones and you have no control whether or not you will get that gene, so don't weight your happiness on your look because you will end up unhappy. Don't over look all the things you could be doing that don't require winning genetic lotteries. Even if you have the gene to look beautiful you might still be the most insecure woman and people won't take you seriously because you were once an underwear model.
As a kind of introvert and insecure person myself I can feel her. The story she's conveyed is not really appealing to most people but hey, she's told us her story with a good and honest heart from her specific background. You don't have to be poor, in suffered or disadvantaged minorities or community to have a stand to talk of what you want like hey you're white you should not talk of the black, you're rich you have no right to talk of the poor, you're beautiful you have no idea of the ugly, and so on. That's insecure to me.
yes, that's so true. I have been struggling with self confidence for my whole life, but there is so much more to live for than your looks. We're humans, life is too short to let our looks define us. We know what is best for ourselves, we should be kind to ourselves, and whatever holds true to us is who we really are. Anyone should be allowed share what they would like, because judgement and stigma should not stop us from having a voice.
no hate but just realise the truth behind it ...she is beautiful and is earning so much if money by her looks and getting paid for sayung looks dont matter ....how cheap is this ..even she is trying to earn money ..i bet she is of those students or girls bullying the beautiful soules ...she dosent have any personality but only looks and still earning ...
I can't believe some of the comments here!!? She is NOT saying "looks don't matter"....or anything of that nature! She is saying that as somebody who inherited good looks and made a career based on that, it doesn't mean that her life is always fabulous or that she is constantly happy and self contented. In fact she is MORE insecure than the average person because she knows she only has a career because of how she looks, not because she did anything to deserve it.
JohnTheBaptist Yes thats also true. The western standard of physical beauty is rather narrow and geared strongly toward white people, and thats no coincidence.
how can you say she didn't deserved it? she is a model bc she took care of her physical appearance more and that's an effort. I don't like the way you put the sentence. looks is very subjective it's a matter of being self confident and content with oneself. modelling industry is more than look having what you say "genetic lottery"
saniyauzumaki I didn't say she "didn't deserve it". I said being tall, white, with fair skin and a pretty face are not something a person "deserves" through having done anything to earn them. You either get lucky in the gene pool or you don't. It's not like you can go to college and learn how to be tall, slim and pretty like you can go there to earn a degree and get a career that way. Therefore it is not something that is "deserved" or not deserved it is mostly just luck of the draw. Yes I am sure she eats well and exercises....which are things everybody should do, not just models. That doesn't mean anything.
can we all just appreciate her for actually admitting that her looks have helped her in life, because quite a lot of good-looking people through no fault of their own, who have been given this privilege and have been treated better by everyone because of it, just don’t realise it. I’m a not so attractive lad, and believe me, LOOKS MATTER SO MUCH! they really do. and it’s not just the opposite gender that treat u better, it’s friends, aunties, uncles, colleagues, kids, elders, teachers, strangers as well... I’m not saying looks are everything but oh my, they do matter a lot. I remember having a good looking best friend in high school who had the most boring personality ever and still made a lot of more friends than me. And girls would roll out a red carpet for him. And he was every teachers favourite
Yup, I also like how she didnt go so far down that path where it turned to guilt though. She's gorgeous and its good that's she's clearly self aware enough to recognize that it has benefited her greatly (surprised she didn't mention her families affluence more though), and that's all that matters, it's no more her fault that the world desires her than it the fault of a person who can't even look good in the dark that the world does not.
I think looks matter only with strangers, People I don't know treat me like I'm a princess but my friends, family, close people basically, treat me like a normal person. In the beginning people are all nice but as they get to now you better, the attitude changes ? I don't know how to explain it, like they don't change in a bad way, rather start treating you like a normal human being.
Most of my so called friends ignored me most of the time never even invited me to go with them anywhere i literally didnt talk in the company because they ignored me and this has been happening in every group i was...i dont know why though i was super friendly tried to talk about what they like but they just still didnt like me and always THEY would try to get rid of me...so friends don't always treat u good when u are attractive....Once i showed one painting to my friend and she said its gorgeous and the other girl said its ugly...it was literally very beautiful
There are a lot of comments on here about how she is a hypocrite for being beautiful/rich/fill-in-the-blank and saying that all of that stuff isn't important. You are all missing the point. She is saying that it IS important, but that it SHOULDN'T BE. She is being so brave and vulnerable by standing up on stage and admitting that the world she benefits from is the same world others get hurt by. You can't criticize a model for being blind to her privileges and then criticize her for seeing and standing up against those same privileges. She can't change the way she looks and how the world favors her, so I commend her for doing SOMETHING to combat this issue.
Because they have experience with it. You wouldn't take a poor and ugly person seriously if they said money and beauty aren't everything, you'd think they're just saying that to feel better about themselves. Have you ever heard of the phrase "More money, more problems."? A lot of self-made rich people commit suicide because of the pressure they're under and all the fake people around them.
@@cutienerdgirl "...you wouldn't take a poor and ugly person seriously". Yup, you are just saying what it is.. lol. The attention a beautiful woman receives is better than a ugly one.
The point is. Society judges by the way you look. It’s not right, but it is what it is. Hate the game not the player. And learn how to fkin play the game on the right way!
@@cutienerdgirl I do believe you have a misconseption about rich and suicide. Alot of theos suicide rich people they tend to be a celebrity ad well, or some one who is constantly have to maintain certain image and gets judged by people on daily basis, and I believe this to be the case of the suicides, the celebrity part and not the rich part. I doubt safe made millionaires are having a sad life.
To everyone hating on this talk, consider this- she probably just eight-balled herself by giving this talk, i.e. she likely pissed off a lot of potential employers for her. This took guts, both in terms of coming to grips with the only personal reality she's ever known, and in terms of calling it how it is in the face of impending professional backlash. Did she cure cancer? No. But you have to appreciate her candidness and honesty in spite of an industry largely shrouded in a mum's-the-word approach to results transparency.
***** If more people like her would do exactly what she just did, they would inspire the current and next generation to stop hating themselves and hating what they can't have. It may not fix cancer, but it certainly helps to fix the mass mental illness of today's society that we are all subject to or directly take part in.
***** Not really. I've seen a few behind the scenes of a fashion runaway. And a few of the make-up artists, stylist and designers have vocalized their preference for aware/ smart models. They're not all stuck-up and unaware; or even unconcerned about the trappings of superficiality of their business. In fact, they're more aware of it than most, arguably. And people like Cameron Russell may indeed find like minded people in her business; sympathetic and understand the pros and cons of a constructed image-emphasized work environment. And it's not like she did a Katherine Heigl, wherein she outright dismissed the industry. Cameron Russell actually inspired her would-be predecessors to aim higher than a model. 'BE HER BOSS' - if they want to be in this type of work. Anyways, she also said she "was" a model, meaning she might have retired. I don't know, I've only just heard of her after seeing this video. Ah, this comment is to the 'she probably just eight-balled herself by this talk.'
Anyone who thinks that looks don’t matter has never been attractive & unattractive before. I’ve experienced being overweight & unattractive, and thin and very attractive. And believe me when i tell you... LOOKS MATTER! They affect the way people (men and women) treat you. Your love life. Your Access to different places. I was hired for jobs i wasn’t qualified for, because of how i looked. Everything is affected by how you look. Everything! Anyone who’s says anything different is lying, or doesn’t know better. Period.
They do. Whether humans want to admit it or not we do categorize people involuntarily. My Asian parents are at my throat for not being pretty enough and not withstanding the standards
I don't think anyone actually listened to what she said. "looks DO matter!!! shes so wrong LOL" You didn't listen. She talked about how she's treated differently because she's physically attractive, and how it's unfair. She's arguing the same point you are.
I understand her point, but so what? Acknowledging that you are privileged is not going to change anything. She still benefited from her looks. It's unfair but that's life, we are all born with different abilities. Somebody who is naturally athletic has more chance of becoming a sports pro. Is she going to give back all the money she has made or give it away to less fortunate looking people? I don't think so.
I know I am a guy but I feel like a lot of what she has said can be transferred to a male perspective. I am a 23 year old guy who has only grown into my looks and from what I've personally experienced we truly live in a shallow world. From the ages of 16 until 21-22 I was an awkward looking thing; weedy with a narrow long face. During that phase the reception and general judgement I would receive from people tended to be dismissive. Now that I have blossomed into someone of an average build and am now apparently aesthetically considered' above average' (whatever that means) the manner in which the world perceives me has transformed. Now all of a sudden women are more forgiving of my faults and mistakes and I've now become more desirable to the opposite sex. When I dwell on how different my life is just because of my outward appearance it really fills me with real sadness. Looks shouldn't matter but unfortunately due to the media's constant indoctrination of what is considered conventionally appealing people do give greater gravitas to appearance.
Please don't judge humans so harshly. There is an innate genetic drive for both men and women to be drawn to other young men or women as potential good mates for possible children. I am queer so never really had that urge, which in some ways has allowed me to step back and observe more than I might have otherwise. My sister, who has a marriage of 50 plus years going - they're both 85 now- she chose someone yes who was healthy and attractive but mostly intelligient and caring with a sense of humor.
This is an old video BUT after I went through puberty and lost any extra weight I was carrying, I got treated COMPLETELY DIFFERENT! Before I became "pretty " I was treated just basic, kinda rudely, by people. Now, I get traded a lot better, guys help me at the drop of a pen, it may sound harsh, but that's the truth (in my personal experience) I'm just saying, skinny pretty woman get treated a lot better.
Allie Babydoll Beauty/Handsome Aging Bell Curve Teen: High sexual market value 20's: Prime sexual market value 30's: Lower sexual market value 40's: Far far lower sexual market value 50's: No sexual market value 60+: You're Done!
I'm skinny....and is called cute by a lot of people... but no guy notices me. (literally, I'm the skinniest girl in my class) Maybe cuz I was always skinny since I was in 1st grade...no one notices me and to be honest...I'm glad no one does. : )
My favorite ted talk ever. Personally I want to become a male model and hearing this really reminds me that if or after I have a successful career I must apply myself in something that validates my person beyond my image.
I've had two VERY good-looking girlfriends in the past, and they definitely live in a different world. Everywhere we went, men fell all over themselves to do anything they could to gain their attention and favor. One girlfriend forgot her debit card, and got free gas. The other got employment pretty much anywhere she wanted, despite being vastly under qualified. And these are just two examples of the dozens of situations I saw while dating each of them. The world fell at their feet, because of their beauty.
***** I am also - 'fairly good looking' i have my DP so i guess you can judge yourself. I also try to be mild mannered, and i believe fairly similar things happen to me as him . . . I think its just his observations, no need to judge him that way
***** Nice try. I think we both know you're talking bollox as per usual. I think it's time again for you to remind us all online on how good looking and successful you are. Say it over and over again until there can be no doubt! ;-)
+Belletaina Lol, for fuck's sake. Looks only matter to superficial people to begin with and for superficial reasons at that. If you care about that, then that's sad in and of itself. True love isn't about looks at all, for one. Neither is friendship.
Nicu Drosu IDK about you man but it effects me pretty much every day of my life and it really sucks. Some times I just sit and think why it had to happen to me haha you don't know the struggle if you haven't been in these shoes lol which is why when people with good looks say crap like this.
all comments are negative, including yours and her presentation ... if it was good, people wouldnt vomit it but let it for themselves, wouldnt they? since when is aggre$$ion positive? you mean to put on other people, i guess that means "positive" in Latin? words - wrong, worries, wrath ...
Its not that since they have it they don't care....maybe their's too much imp put on this just like diamonds are valued so much but at the end of the day its just a stone when u look at it without prejudice it won't make u any happy to even if u have it.
@Elisson Dormezil First of all, my intent was like to write something like meme anyways(i hope i would get lol, haha or 🤣) but it also radiate the reality where they may say and show that those things aren't everything to them but they tend to forget or rather unsee the fact that they are and known mainly because of the things they said don't matter, as you said at first they are not born rich or beautiful and all, but initially they do crave or want to achieve it, once goal is reached they tend to show less interest consciously (though subconsciously they always want to retain and also increase it) , and this is also a psychological fact, they do talk about immaterial things of important and morals, but they tend to keep double standards between said and done (plz don't give exceptions cuz i know some) and as you talked of realistic you might know the REALITY or TRUTH of things that matter in every day world.[By the way, since in Asia(i am from india) parents are very strict about academic result and the one who do get extraordinary high score or marks are called toppers means to top in EVERYTHING, and they are very respected and looked by other]
What's up with all the stupid "hot white chick tells us beauty isn't everything" comments? Did you even listen to a word she said? She is saying exactly the opposite - that her success is thanks to her beauty which is the result of a genetic lottery, and also thanks to legacy of racial/cultural oppression. She is honest - if you aren't white or beautiful you need to find another way to succeed. And in the meantime - let's try and change the society so that it isn't so for future generations. Brutal and honest. Great talk.
Great speech. Honest, humble, thoughtful. Very intelligent too. And I like it that she cares for those almost 80 percent young girls who don't like their own bodies because of how the fashion industry creates a false image of what a human being really looks like.
People without money always think money is everything. Well it's not, sorry. Money is certainly something- it gives you comfort, but it's most definitely not everything. I've known plenty of miserable people with money- I can even think of one who committed suicide :(
why are people ignoring the point of this talk?! she was so amazing, her talk was powerful. she admitted and voiced the dark side of being a model that no one knows. she showed us models are just as insecure or maybe even more insecure than us. and that’s just one part of it. she didn’t talk about how they need to count calories and make crazy diets to look beautiful and skinny. a lot of girls go through instagram, looking at model girls and doesn’t even realize that is not true. in the end, we are all the same. and we are the ones putting so much pressure on ourselves
She isn't saying looks aren't important. What she means is that they are not the only thing that matters in life. Or in other words, they are not everything.
Of course, if I am a clam who do not have basic social skills, I will be ruined anyhow. But trust me, a good looking clam will get more things than an ugly looking clam. Anything + good looks = nicer
@@guilles8905 that's the point of all this?? like, everyone complaining but she DID say how her looks helped her a lot in life and how other people treat her better because she's pretty... she said that being pretty isn't EVERYTHING. model and all, the modeling industry can make the prettiest woman insecure and miserable
@@yutisima Do you notice than saying it doesn't invalidate it or make her more honest etc., right? We all know that. Of course pretty people can be good people too (how cool is that!!!!). Seriously, she needs to get in touch with a specialist in psychology, it looks like she did this talk for her. Btw, like it or not, she will never need to go through things like the ugly do. It is very easy to comment on stuff from a safe distance.
@@guilles8905 "It is very easy to comment on stuff from a safe distance" how curious... literally the same applies to you, to me etc. we will NEVER know what is like to be a model in the industry, and STILL people criticize her for the title of the video, as if they didn't LISTEN to what she said. "it looks like she did this talk to herself" OF COURSE SE DID??? it's literally about the MODELLING INDUSTRY. she speaks about the things models go trough that people like us DON'T SEE because we believe that being rich and pretty and a model is the best thing that can happen to a person, but we don't know what it is like, and she's telling you what it is like, and you still. don't. listen.
Looks might not be everything but good looking people are generally treated better than ugly people in just about every situation.
MyFestivus that’s what she is trying to say the world is so caught up on appearance they don’t ever see you for who you are. She is trying to get people to be aware of that and fix the situation by saying looks aren’t everything there is in life
hallelu lee But looks play a HUGE factor. You can probably talk to a pretty girl and get her number but it is VERY difficult, that is why you are better off working on looks, plus since when do you see an ugly man walk with a pretty woman? Unless they were already friends before.
Of course attractive people have some issues in life cos of their looks (i think especially females), but the advantages weigh out the disadvantages by far in my opinion. Everybody in the range from "really ugly" to "incredibly beautiful" has reasons to complain somehow, but i think almost everybody knows where he/she wants to place himself if he/she could choose his/her looks. No where even near average ;)
True! I can tell that!
Jason Eisenhauer true so trheee
truth is
looks will give your personality a chance..
giovanna Roma 👍🏻
Yeah, a chance to be seen as something unrelated to who you authentically are!
@@emotophobiccdd8006 But unattractive people don't get a chance at all ..
@@giovannaroma9527 unattractive people get every chance.... Too often they're just too caught up in the pretentious superficialities of a tacky consumerist society, looking in all the wrong places for all the wrong things to even entertain the idea.
That is such a myth and a lie. on the contrary good looks makes people believe you're just a doll. No one cares about your personality.
Why are people hating on her? She’s trying to be honest about why she is successful and that she isn’t perfect. What else do you want from her?
let's just say there's a lot of strange and perverse people in the world.
Money isn’t everything
- Billionaires
Looks aren’t everything
- Model
there is a connection here
People like to think that if they were more beautiful, skinnier etc they would not be insecure, they would be happy and basically all their problems would go away. They get mad and jealous when beautiful people talk about being insecure. They probably feel like beautiful people don’t have the right to be insecure. But being insecure in reality has nothing to do with how you look. You can always find someone more beautiful than yourself. And like she says the more you focus on the way you look, regardless of how you actually look, the more insecure you are. Cause the more you focus on it the more flaws you find. The best way to learn how to be confident in your looks is to find a way to accept that you don’t look perfect and that you might not even be especially beautiful at all and try your best to not put your worth in your appearance. I’m not saying this is easy. But it is easier and better than changing your looks only to find that you still feel insecure.
Sarah Marshall because most of these people people didn’t watch the video and just got triggered by the title.
It same like flexing with money. People dont want to hear that others are doing so much better than themselves. (especially when its not anyhow "deserved" or worked for)
I love this talk but I feel like they gave it the complete wrong title, because her whole point is how important looks are in our society
Irony
I think the title conveys the message well. When someone says that something "isn't everything", the implication is "although it's big, it's not everything". And she went on to say that society places too much importance on something that is actually very superficial. Moreover, good looks don't shield you from insecurities.
meanwhile it's told to you by a model and not a subhuman
As if like, "Looks aren't _everything._
It's the _only_ thing."
I think that's the idea they're trying to give away.
The title is not wrong, it's satire.
Looks aren't everything but it makes everything easier.
+187onaPigeon You just freaking inspired me
+187onaPigeon You are very true Bro, Hahaha.
True...
+187onaPigeon TRUST ME, when you go from that Lizzy girl to this video you're just like :|
+Tomoki Azuma She's being honest
I don’t think most people in the comments understand the point she is trying to make. She’s not saying that looks don’t matter. She says that no matter how beautiful other people perceive you at the end of the day you can still be very insecure and unhappy with your looks.
galaxyandromeda yeah I think a lot did that
Bullshit!!!!!!
Saman Hasani what do you mean? Do you not agree with the statement she made or do you think she meant something different?
Thank you finally someone got it!
ted ed should pin this comment
She made a very important point: she won the genetic lottery.
That’s not something you can strive for, and yet our society places so much importance on physical appearance.
I wish her speech was longer, I can tell she has much more to say.
Genetic* (???)
@@Occult_Gibbet Of course. Thanks.
That whole genetic lottery thing is a myth any one can get skinny
Why are you guys so fucking stupid... It's cause human look for the better endowed people... It's in our DNA it's very simple biology.... Life isn't fair, stop trying to equalize everything.... Cause there is no equal in basic biology.
@@pericyerima2466 While anyone can get slimmer which is true, you simply cannot change your facial bone structure. Which is in fact a genetic lottery and not something that you can work hard to obtain. Just being real here.
I love that she is really open about the modeling industry. Lots of young girls look up to all the models they see in magazines; it's important to teach them that most of these pictures are altered and almost completely reconstructed.
I feel like her jokes were very unappreciated, she’s got a good sense of humor and you could tell she was nervous to be there
I felt the same
Same
who cares
But, she was still awesome.
Probably from the low carb diet.. man did you see how those poor models eat it's sad
I think I know where she's getting at. At first, I noticed she was really nervous from the way she laughs and breathes, and the look she's giving to everyone. She really showed that insecurity and for her to admit that even though she's a model is quite amazing. She may be a model but that doesn't mean she has the greatest life ever. She showed humility and care from people she doesn't even know. I'll give her 10/10 for that.
She doesnt even have to admit that its so obvious with everything she did and does
GTFO. you give her 10/10 because she s pretty. Halo effect.
God Bless her, she spoke so openly and genuinely, it was wonderful
Of course, she's nervous. She's not a public speaker. She does not even have to speak much/communicate a lot in her career if she chooses not to.
Because no one was going to take her seriously so i totally get it...im glad she was brave enough to speak on it. Because she could be blacklisted. Bravo to her
she got a really good sense of humour and how she spoke with sarcasm speaks much about her intellectuality. I'm impressed by her speech!!
Nd i'm impressed with your comment.
Its intellect, not intellectuality
Looks don’t define intelligence.
Are you a Chinese using a vpn or what
@@sadhgurusfunniestandwittie3620 intellect is subjective while intellectuality is noun. and I was using the latter because I was concerned about the way she made opinions and stated her thoughts through speech, but thanks for trying to correcting me. :)
Only a rich person will tell you money doesn’t matter.. Respect to her for being honest about her life
Every single rich person on earth will literally tell you MONEY MATTERS. Its poor people who say money doesnt matter, money cant buy happiness etc.
@@thegameshows1 Freedom is the currency to buy happiness. Money can not provide freedom every time. It depends on which is the reason to be happy for an individual.
@@thegameshows1 this!
Money doesn't matter. Health matters way more. Love matters way more. How do I know? Look at what rich people spend their money on... staying heathy and buying friends...
@@Clickbait_Wisdom money is not freedom, lack of need of it is, you can still move to mountains and herd goats and live off their milk and meat.
As someone said: "Looking good is like playing life on easy setting"
But I want an easy life :(
Bullshit.... life gives no short cuts or easy paths to ANYONE...Good looking or not..... life gives us different sets of problems/obstacles to overcome, that's it.
I come from a smallest village in eastern europe and poor abusive family that raised me into an unsociable introvert with issues. The main thing that made me break thru is my looks. People actually perceive cute ones as better in everything (including smarts) than they really are. Psycollogists agree with my experience on this.
@@ralphpinkins5619 Oh, but it does. Everyone has problems and hardships of course but good looking people always get more attention, support, people are biased towards them, etc. Even on UA-cam i see it sometimes: there is a handsome guy or beautiful girl and their channel instantly gets many more subscribers than others with sometimes much better content.
They just get more opportunities in life usually. How they use it it's another thing.
@@todanrg3 you're proving my point. God gave these individuals good looks. But that's their obstacle to overcome as well as their advantage. You may not be as good looking as them but smarter then them , let's say for example , if we were to compare the two. Would life be easier for you because compared to a good looking person you're smarter than them? No ofc not. Because your ugly and looks matter too. Get my point. You cant compare apples and oranges and then say life is easier. That's like comparing struggles.
Fascinating talk. It's not surprising that looks can get someone ahead in life, but that's only part of the equation of success. I found it refreshing that she said that models are the most insecure about themselves physically.
Do you think she was being truthful, Hmm maybe she was. What surprised me was she could walk normal not the usual stepping over invisible things. when I see them walking like that I have an uncontrollable urge to sand off my finger prints. So I can prove I have no relation to the human race.... The only bright side to sanding off your finger prints, Your now the GI Joe action figure with the KungFu GRIP!!!
I love you
that's a HUGE part of the equation.
I worked for a short time in a strip club - not my proudest moment - and I noticed the same insecurity in the women there. And it makes sense - when your entire life, your entire sense of self-worth, is built strictly around your looks, it seems only natural to be insecure about it, attractive or not.
Ann Le {Anneorshine} but people will find methods of being insecure about themselves in every other way.
She was absolutely terrified up there. Poor thing. I'm glad that she held it together. Those were super sensitive topics
Actually, it was pretty lame. She didn't address any of the counterargument. Anyone can pontificate. Unless you're completely PC, you recognize that people like her are the reason TEDex is doing so poorly.
Colton Yems wdym he?
+J Girl
_"Poor thing. I'm glad that she held it together."_
She's not a a baby. Many people get nervous. You only feel for her because she's pretty, thus proving her point in the video.
Apple Bee dangggg
Apple Bee
As a shy, insecure person, I feel for everyone who don't look at least 99% confident in their talk.
Brave of her to speak the truth about her experience. She used her first outfit to great effect. Her talk was so powerful because it’s easy for a person blessed with good looks to think they are just better. Kudos to her.
Should I be offended that UA-cam won't stop recommending me this video
Yah, cause it's click bait , the argument made in this video has nothing to do with the title
omg lol
On top of my recommendations is: 'Why thinking you are ugly is bad for you' -.-
X1 Z1 same
X1 Z1 same here friend
People mad in these comments missing the whole points. She was soooo honest, most people don't wanna admit they got where they are through lottery/legacy.
well said
Agreed
Yea I wasn’t expecting these comments to be so negative lowkey ruined the video
She says it doesn't matter. That's super dishonest
@@gufestus4106 i have changed my mind. Looks do matter and I understand her message but the fact that she was able to get in get jobs and also get on the cover of the most pretisuges magazines covers just because she was accactive. Her looks help her out a great deal
She is so intelligent, it takes alot to be someone in her position and come out to admit things like this.
@Sir Baconbaker 3.1 Humour is a sign of intelligence. I know this because of course, I'm boring.
Terence Tao is impressed by her being so smart
S I M P
@Sir Baconbaker 3.1 she has a university degree in 2 things I think.
@@philipsk i know many idiots that have degrees. They smoked, drank, and cheated their way through college. I'm willing to believe that she's intelligent, but a degree means nothing.
First time I have seen something like this. A person who were a model talked about the outlook is not everything, my favorite topic! Can we just appreciate her honest and how professional she were in this talk… This channel needs more talking video like this!
This girl needs an hour to give this topic the air it needs.
Darrin Nelson agreed
PREACH IT
no
I agree completely. I think her writing and editing for the timeslot reduced the potential of her sincere thoughts almost to quips. I think a great forum would be for her to chat, in comfortable clothes, about her experiences as a model, and what it does for you, and what it can never do for you. I'm sure she's got some great stories! It would be pretty damn interesting to hear from someone in the modeling trenches, and someone who also appears to be thoughtful about the parts of herself that are not a model. Hey Netflix, are you listening???
Yeah, 1 hour of tautologies. I can't wait
I used to be morbidly obese, I lost weight. The contrast to how im treated now compared to then is revealing about society. People can be really shallow and often don't even realize it.
Well, it's a reflection of character. Obesity looks like: irresponsible, doesn't care about self, no discipline.
It's mean, but we want friends that are like us to some degree.
If I'm successful, wealthy, good-looking and in relatively good health, I'm going to want similar people around me.
Everyone else is just part of the hi-bye culture. It's how we navigate a population of 326 million people. It's human nature.
At least we don't cannibalize opponent tribes anymore.
@@manictiger thank you for this perspective, it makes sense.
Yea being overweight is rough , it's important not to dehumanise people based on their weight especially because some weight issues both being overweight and underweight are linked to mental health issues , the fact is you don't know if somebody is just lazy or is in fact severely depressed and being self-destructive. They could have been trough god knows what and use food to escape , they may lie in their beds all day because they have no self-worth are super depressed. Those who are overweight are people too and deserve to be treated as people. You don't have to encourage obesity to show kindness and tolerance towards these kinds of struggles , what we need is to be supportive to make people who are overweight feel that they aren't horrible people and that the importance of losing weight is for them ; for their health and mobility not for them to become passable as human beings just to become healthier and freezer ! Well done for losing the weight btw (= I'm sorry you felt people treated you as a lesser person because of your weight that's not right.
@@manictiger It is mean. Humans are above are primitive intuitions and able to intellectualise the true nature of a person no matter what their weight is Honestly I'd be friends with people of all sizes , somebody with self-harm scars , I'd be friends with somebody with depression or who struggles with addiction and the fact is sometimes our friends go through bad times , they are human beings and can't be perfect all the time. As long as they are good people I'll be their friend and I don't see fat people as bad people , fat people can be loving , caring , giving , funny and smart and that's what I care about. Don't get me wrong though I wouldn't encourage them to be fat , but I would love them despite it and if I could help them lose weight I would want to , but not because them being slim makes them a better friend but because I care for them I would want them to be in good health.
@@aprioriontoast704
The only goddamn reason you can "intellectualize" (not a real word) at all, is because we ate meat for millions of years. So yeah. You're delusional on every possible level. But hey, you do you.
I find it amazing how so many people can watch the same thing and get two completely different messages out of it. She clearly stated that what we see on the magazine covers/pages, isn't her. It's a "Construction" of her. How much clearer can she be. That one sentence speaks volumes. Maybe if she pointed out how short term a model's career is or how her looks will fade with time and gravity, some of you wouldn't be so negative. Society pays far to much attention on the packaging instead of the contents. You can be beautiful on the outside but when gravity and age have taken their toll, all you are left with is who you truly are. And that can only be found on the inside. That is what we need to pay attention too. And I don't know about any of you, but I would much rather be beautiful on the inside because that's the person you live with 24 hours a day. And no amount of money would be worth a temporary superficial beauty and a hateful and miserable soul that you have to live with your entire life. And there are many people in this world that fit that description. They have my sympathy. Simply my humble opinion.
MissDistarr60 well said Miss Distarr60
MissDistarr60 i logged into my youtube account just to like that comment. They're such wise words which carried a great message. Thanksyou
Taylor Reyland I thank you so much for taking the time to share your kind words with me. It's so good to know there are others out there who have the same perception on certain things in life that I do. I sometimes wondered if it was just me who looked at things differently.
***** And she is absolutely right. Self image comes from within. The best looks in the world aren't going to change that.
Wonderful words of inspiration right there...I once wanted to be a model when I was 16 and now? Whats changed? I have learnt to be my own model, my own image, a self that the world would look at and say God bless you, I use my beauty meticulously using it to attract men and women so that they could see my words of wisdom, with every perfect picture I upload, I attach a life inspiring quote to it, so when people see me, all they would want to do is believe in themselves and be inspired. Am glad I did not become 'the' model because I could have lost myself to this self 'constructed' look. Plus I also think models should be appreciated more, since theh give away themselves to show off the art of others that are passionate of their work be it hair, clothes, makeup, campaign or shoes. Bless y'all
First time I have seen something like this. A person who were a model talked about the outlook is not everything, my favorite topic! Can we just appreciate her honest and how professional she were in this talk… This channel needs more talking video like this!
There are so much comments commenting on the negative comments, that the negative comments cant even be seen anymore
Yes lol
minus times minus makes plus. that‘s what you learn in elementary school
And that's a really good thing
Every video in UA-cam
Lol
Biggest paradox ever: Looks aren't important but they can give you a job.
Totally agree !!
Appearently it does like the handsome mugshot guy Jeremy meeks
So sad but that's today's world I guess...
U talkin about prostituting!
Are you saying there should be more of them prostitutes
Icek N exactly. Let’s see her earn minimum wage cleaning toilets.
That was brave. In my opinion, she didn't say looks are nothing; she said that looks are not the end of who you are and should not be the end of your identity.
That is what you understood. What me - an ugly cis male understood is: She was handed everything on a silver platter, yet still it is not enough.
I have had to work extremely hard to get where I am, maybe this is why I appreciate what I have achieved unlike her who got it all because she's pretty?
Here is a good response for her: "You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, well, you might find you get what you need".
just like fashion and the clothes you wear is not your identity. she chose the wrong profession and is now bitching about it.
@@nutzlos5198 There is no separation between you and the body
@@Davide-xk4bg my point is that fashion is superficial from the very start no matter how you look at it.
she paints a picture that fashion is racist and that this is bad. but fashion is SUPERFICIAL how can something that is so shallow and surface oriented be racist? is a person who is not attracted to certain people for example aborigines a racist?
If she thinks modeling restricts your identity, why doesn't she quit and get a different job? Maybe because she just wants to sound "noble" but still make money from her modeling.
Online dating statistics have absolutely shattered this entire talk...
a talk of 10 years ago to now? Wow big surprise.. who could have seen that coming
She d’t mention opening that box as well….
If you're good looking, people socialize with you.
If you're bad looking, you socialize with people.
Trutg
True :(
Wow
Damn man no wonder why girls don’t talk to me
relatable
" I won the genetic lottery" very good line
yes
can you explain this sentence, i dont under, please!
+Hiến Nguyễn Đình It just means that she was lucky to inherit from her parents the type of appearance that paved the way for a successful modeling career. "Genetic lottery" is a metaphor comparing the results of her birth to a biological gamble or roll of the dice, like playing the lottery.
+Ted Levy Ok i got it, thanks you!!
***** I prefer the Indian women anyway
That moment when you realize that all the negative comments are from people who didn’t watch the video and just got triggered by the title.
That moment when you realise people are just having a laugh learn to have a sense of humour snowflake
So if the title doesn't correspond the content of the speech totally the title itself is incorrect but not the impression of the readers.
intpop Their impression may be correct. I just thought everyone was criticizing the video until I watched it and found out it had nothing to do with what they were complaining about.
Well I took it as a joke why can't you?
The tittle didn't even come from her.
Nope, ur just salty
I really relate to her experience , as someone who has been through looking "ugly" (at this time I got ignored a lot and feel invisible to others ) and then glowing up to somewhat good looking. the surprising thing is that I don't feel any less insecure . you just find new things to hate about yourself but now all your accomplishments and personalities become invisible instead. I don't think it's as huge of a benefit as people think it is.
You know what it feels like to be an average man. We are seen as invisible everyday.
@@oaklandsoldier8520 if I'm being honest I can't really know how it heels like to be a guy and probably will never find out. but that doesn't prevent me from sympathizing.
@@oaklandsoldier8520 true man , iam 19 and I am invisible because of my looks
You are not good looking at all, so stop trying to flatter yourself.
you are so unaware it's insane. it's like when rich people complain and say money isn't everything when they get a disease. yes money isn't everything, but there's people that don't have health and don't have money and they are worst than you. the same goes to you. sure you may still have problems about your appearance in your own mind, but people treat you better, you are praised and encouraged to have confidence, you get better jobs and you are payed more just because you look better. stop whining for once and listen to the people that you acknowledged have less than you.
Looks arent everything, said a beautiful person...
Money isn't everything, said a rich person....
Fame isn't everything, said a famous person.....
Our desires will never be satisfied said a guy who realized....
@Jeff Jedi, looks are not everything, nor required to be accepted. Confidence and treating others as respectable is sexy. Haven't you ever seen an average looking guy with a sexy woman? I have.
Ugly people just use their looks as an excuse not to better themselves. If you’re funny, kind and confident then so many doors open up. Looks are the first thing people notice, but who you are is what stays with people.
Well possibly yes but as a woman being confident doesn't matter. I'm confident about myself even tho I'm ugly (Im just being realistic). You can see average looking guys with pretty girls but you'll never see good looking guys with average looking woman.
me neither Oh no darling. thats not true at all. I know a bunch of handsome guys and whenever I met their women or girlfriends I often asked myself, why they were not more attractive compared to their partner. (In my subjektive opinion of course)
me neither That reminds me of that kid from Target. He is good looking, and I think he was or is with a girl who’s not very pretty.
I love how she is opening talking about her race and her body type benefited. I love that she is honest about it. She was talking about this in 2013 and still in 2021 we are struggling with these issues. Atleast she made people become aware of the inequality.
The comment I was looking for! I absolutely agree
Black men prefer having white women
Someone here is trying hard to find a reason why she is not considered beautiful. Maybe it's because you are not. Racism is not the issue. Inequality is not the issue. You are just not attractive, get over it.
@@itsavibefr Of course. THere is no racism and equality here at all. Not in the Western world at least.
2012
I really like the idea she is trying to portray. She is trying to tell us that despite how we look our personality and character is what matters most and if we choose to define ourselves by our looks we aren't going to go as far. I love the open honesty she gives the audience about the benefit she has as a white woman who fits into the standards in a luxury industry such as modeling and how she uses that to her advantage. I'd rather have people acknowledge their privilege than hide behind it. Cameron Russell is a successful model who has walked for luxury fashion houses such as Chanel and Versace.
wokehead
looks are like a first door to a person. if you’re beautiful then that door is opened and people will go to the second door which is personality, who you really are, etc. if you’re not attractive then the first door remains closed and people won’t even bother trying to get to know you. Beautiful people say looks don’t matter simply because it’s something they don’t struggle with (so eventually personality will become their main focus) You can be unhappy for various reasons, but it’s unfair to say something doesn’t matter because /you/ don’t struggle with it. Ideally we all should focus on what’s inside but the vast majority of people will never bother that much if they’re not impressed after a first, superficial glance towards someone.
So damn right:((((
Just because that’s sth you don’t struggle with doesn’t mean that it isn’t a struggle for others
The problem is when you cannot go to the second door because you're Latino or dark-skinned... Those are things we must work on to change in modern societies. Less worse that how do you look physically is not the only component of the first door, but also, how are you dressed, how do you talk, how do you behave and even your body expressions.
Christy Ieong This topic is looks. Forcus on advantage by the difference.
Do you understand?
well said
You don’t have to be beautiful to get people to “go to the second door.” You’re basically saying that you’ve never seen an unattractive person with friends before or you’ve never seen an unattractive person in a relationship before. It‘s about confidence and personality, which good looking people tend to have more of (for obvious reasons) and that’s why they’re more popular or have more people going after them.
It is like saying: "Money isn't everything. Believe me, I'm rich."
Money ISN´T everything, unless you don´t have any money, in that case, money is everything.
it isn't like that at all... you're still not getting the point of this. People that rely solely on their looks are bound to be extremely insecure. Looks fade, dumb is forever...
@@elastronaute1198 We get that... I'm pretty sure 99% of people know what her main points were ahead of time. The irony is you don't get to say, "Trust me, because I am [insert topic]" because the people who don't benefit from that know what it's like to be on the other side of the fence and can see the privilege received. A great example is in dating. A young beautiful female or male has a significant advantage of finding a partner, especially male, if they are scaled 8+. That's because 80% of the women tend to be attracted to 20% of the men. So the other 80% of the men are having to fight tooth and nail for female attention, while the 20% look down and say, "ayy don't worry, it's not all that great". The issue is people say and want to do something positive, but on the other hand their actions say otherwise.
@@CodHumors Ya, but she never said that. Lol
@@GroundbreakGames she didn't say it... she didn't have to because it was implied
She graduated from Columbia with a double major in Economics and Poli Sci. She's hella smart.
RomanyGypsy92 The A's were all gifts so was the tuition.
Please never use the word 'hella' again
RomanyGypsy92 ugh i probably won't be able to even get waitlisted :(
RomanyGypsy92 So she hit the genetic jackpot. Woopdedo.
Mm.
Graduating with good grades doesn't necessarily qualify you as intelligent.
I think that took a lot of courage for her to go on that stage and talk about those things in a very honest and vulnerable way. I think your talk shed light on some important topics and gave a window of insight into the life and mind of a model. For others who had the assumptions that models are happy all the time or have "perfect" lives, after watching this their minds may have changed and become more closely adjusted to the reality of the situation. Thank you for doing this, I enjoyed listening to it.
I love what she says about those pictures being constructions. They are not real. Models like Cameron are the raw materials that beauty illusionists use to create a faux view of women and beauty.
These are painful illusions.
Yes, it's a little bit like they pointed it out on unREAL, a tv show aired by Lifetime, that depicts the production of a show like the bachelor or the bachelorette. They call the lead and the contestants meat puppets. This would also apply to models and the beauty industry ...
Samantha Derrick I find some models, like this one, to be absolutely gorgeous. I don't like the gaunt variety however.
Dave Nesbitt true they try so hard to shape our perception of beauty
I'm sure that might mean something to you. To the rest of the world, not so much.
ya man.. you convince your ugly face by that.. she is beautiful even without any makeup.. what is wrong with a little bit of brushing in photos.. painful illusion.. dude you need to get laid..
Just because something isn’t everything, it doesn’t mean that it is nothing.
Say whaaaaaaaaat???
@@CLASSICALFAN100 why is that confusing to you?
Excellent point
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Good point
And rich people: "Money isn't everything."
Homeless poor guy:"Nothing is not everything".
YES !
Mohammad Zahedy truth
I guess it means " money is important, but it isn't everything"
What means „and Rich People“ in this context with „beautiful white women“ for you Mohammad? This is fishing for applause.
I came to this talk many times and reconsidered about the message that she wanted to transfer.
It's true that being beautiful is the advantage that we could get to be treated better in life. However, it's just a factor and it's important that we should not be obsessed about how we look. Social standards of beauty affects the society at large, even with the people like models are still insecure about their appearance.
I truly appreciate that she came up stage and discussed that images of models are the results of the entire beauty industry and the real person can be totally different than we've imagined.
🎉 *EEEEXACTLY!!*
*YOU NAILED IT!* 🎯👍
She recognizes her privilege, multiple times throughout the speech so that we don't forget that she recognizes it. I don't think any of the negative comments are justified. If anything it proves her point that she cannot be anything more than a pretty face.
@v b very true, ugly and beautiful people want to be more than just another pretty and/or ugly
face.
@@blastedontape People in general tend to wish for too much and then wish even more after the wishes were granted.
Maybe she is no more than that but...she clearly showed us an point of models most uf us would never thinked about. An Model insecur about her looks? Would have never guessed that, for real .
There are so many things you can do to improve your image or appeareance. It's just a matter of doing it.
All she needs is a pretty face. Sucks for the majority without it and even more for men.
It’s sad that a lot of people miss the points she is trying to make. Goes to show how bad the problem actually is.
@The Most Interesting Man On UA-cam I'm pretty ugly and not even slightly insecure so you're wrong
Yeah..
Seyyid Kkt Exactly. Like she made it quite simple.
@Danji ASMR Český She not arrogant so much as self aware. She's attractive and she knows she is, because she'd have been told that her whole life and she makes a living out of it. She doesn't make it out that she's better than everyone else though and she says herself that she just got lucky.
Ok boomer
She's actually saying looks are everything and she's ashamed that she's benefited so much from this truism
Lots of other comments seem to miss this
She said she still is insecure, probably more insecure than the average person
@@ItsRaitisLV I can understand being insecure but I don't know about being more insecure than the average person.
She said that, and with the point being that looks rule a lot of things that it shouldn't be able to. Looks are not what there is to a person, yet society is built to value looks above all else. That's the real point. You can look good and receive benefits but be miserable at the same time for entirely different reasons, or you can look a certain "bad" way and life will treat you poorly despite your personality having nothing to do with how society judges you. The key thing is, that it's always harder to speak up when you are in the segment that in the majority's eyes is benefitting from what you are talking about. A millionaire says money isn't everything? Nobody cares. A model saying looks aren't everything? People rarely care.
I think she struck a good balance between highlighting the ups and downs not just for her, but for everyone, which is difficult when coming from a position where people are less likely to value your words.
@@Real_MisterSir I disagree. I know what she is trying to say but I disagree with her perspective. This entire viewpoint (intentionally in a larger/societal sense, unintentionally on the individual level) induces guilt in women for the crime of having good genes.
Thanks for her honest and it let me know that everyone has their own difficulties in life. Looks does influence us in our daily life, how people treat you or if they respect you. That kind of people are superficial so we don't have to care about what others think of us. Just be yourself!!
Looks aren't everything DOES NOT EQUAL looks don't matter.
WORDS HAVE SPECIFIC MEANING
True!
Exactly! She's not saying looks don't matter. She's given multiple examples that it DOES matter and that she privileges from this fact. That's why she made this TED Talk. The people in this comment section really don't understand the point.
Preach 🗣️
exacly jeez
@Matt Frazier You are insecure man.
I can tell just by that comment.That means you have bigger issues.
I like how she is aware of her privilege, and also that she brought up racial injustice. Not just a pretty face. Thoughtful. What she said about models being very insecure is true.
@Fnord Fnordington So being oppressed means having more privileges? Interesting.
@My Subliminal Results Being White is great, I feel sorry for you
I can train a parrot to bring up privilege and race; it means nothing as far as intelligence, wisdom, or insight when all it is doing is squawking back at you what its heard from somewhere else.
@Fnord Fnordington white people are privelleged because you dont see white people being killed for being white and "fiting the image" and white people dont need to worry about their safety around police officers and they dont need to worry about their families and their wellbeing its unfair for black people because they always "fit the image" and they are always being killed have you ever seen the news about protest and have you ever been to one (ever been to a protest) black people dont get the privellege and freedom that white people do.
@@Alex-zi4ll this is false more white people get shot by police and white People do get racialy attacked by blacks although there is no outrage when white people get killed
Love this ted talk. Exposing such a closed industry. Really brave and awesome.
None of what she said made any cohesive sense imo
Gabes Newells she’s trying to say the pictures aren’t her, they are a construction of art.
ITS NOT EXPOSING ITS THERE IN FRONT OF YOU ALL ALONG JUST THAT YOUNG GIRLS DONT CARE THEY JUST WANT MONEY. IM A FASHION DESIGNER I UNDERSTAND WHY FASHION DESIGNERS IN THE INDUSTRY DO THIS AND WHY THEY HIRE VERY SLIM MODELS. IM VERY SLIM MYSELF IM WORKING ON A BOOK TO EXPLAIN WHY FASHION DESIGNERS THINK THE WAY THEY THINK.
One of the best TED talks by a long chalk.
really
I found this quite moving, and brilliant delivery of more than one learning opportunities with meaningful examples.
Looks aren't EVERYTHING, but they're very, very good to have. Her looks have elevated her entire life and have her living in luxury. That being said, I liked her presentation. Very honesty and self-aware. Plus, she was obviously nervous and a bit socially awkward, which was endearing. 😊
True
I agree I love this response!
Yup. Oh totally!🔥
A Non you don’t know op. Stfu
A Non “ugly on the inside” that’s saying I have an ugly personality... and that description suits you better than me.
No you’re ugly on the inside!!! >:((!!
There is a thing in psychology called the "Halo Effect", that means people who are better looking and more physically attractive, are generally perceived as more intelligent, more successful and happier people in their lives
HAAHHAHAAH EXPLAINS WHY IM SO DUMB AND STUPID AMD FREAKING UGLY 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
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You guys in the comment section are basically why she made this talk. Just because you were treated poorly because of how you look, you also believe that people should be treated based on their appearance too? She was brave okay? Doing this could cost her her only job but she did it anyway. And you keep on complaining. Just treat others the way you wanted to be treated, it'll pay off.
Amen.
You are right
Maybe for you.For me,I just got used,by both men and women
Then i feel sorry for those who treated you that way. Cause i've been there too, but that doesn't mean im gonna stop helping others or treating others poorly at all.
Bull... She is still gorgeous, that's what matters! She's a model, not politician... No risk here
she is so humble. talking about how beauty blessed she is but she never talked about how wise she is
Why are people still ignoring the point of this talk? She's literally admitting her privilege and pointing out both the biases and superficiality of the fashion industry (which can severely affect the body and beauty image of young girls everywhere) and the way people judge others based solely on physical appearance (RACE, gender, weight, hair color etc). The first part to fixing a problem is letting it be known. But if you ignore her message because you're actually just jealous she was lucky enough to be born physically attractive, you're LITERALLY contributing to the problem. This is an important message.
I can not even agree more.
That was actual perfection
TheAlphadog I understand your points, it really all boils down to personal opinion and how the individual perceives these issues. The most significant part for me, though, is concerning young girls. I do disagree with you on that, only because girls in these newer generations (due to the accessibility of social media and the presence of advertisements everywhere) are almost always surrounded by what society considers the ideal body type/beauty. Usually the ideal is portrayed as a beautiful woman with lovely skin and a fit body, perfect hair teeth and nails, etc. If the girl doesn't have a strong enough body image of herself (you know, the low self esteem middle school years are super common) nor is she taught to realize that the people presented to her in ads/social media aren't necessarily 'attainable' (not sure how to word this part my apologies) she might become desperate to achieve these ideals and do something dangerous like starve herself or even become depressed. It's the same for boys too, I'm sure many have gone through periods of low self esteem and depression due to not being 'ideal' (ofc I don't know for sure, I wouldn't know what it's like to grow up as a boy in this age). Mostly I just support the fashion industry introducing images of health rather than unattainable beauty, ethnic diversity for poc representation (a young latina girl may not feel beautiful if the only beautiful women she knows about are all white, for example) that sort of thing. Education in general needs a lot of work, but we can't forget that children retain a lot of information from social media/advertising. It's like another educational outlet, so we gotta make sure they're not contributing anything potentially harmful. xx
Glory Knights "I do disagree with you on that, only because girls in these newer generations (due to the accessibility of social media and the presence of advertisements everywhere) are almost always surrounded by what society considers the ideal body type/beauty. Usually the ideal is portrayed as a beautiful woman with lovely skin and a fit body, perfect hair teeth and nails, etc."
You're wrong. Society doesn't "tell" people what is beautiful, that's just ridiculous. Have you ever had a friend who thought someone was super attractive, but you didn't find them that way yourself? Attraction has everything to do with biology and you perception of healthy. All those things you listed are signals of a healthy person that our subconscious picks up on so we can attempt to reproduce with them. Has nothing to do with the media.
I agree with you on body image though, but seeing as how the average weight has started to go up and obesity has increased, heart diseases also. There should be a limit to what we actually tell young girls and boys. There are more benefits for a person to being fit, eating healthy and exercising than there is to eat bad foods and being told to love yourself anyway. That is completely backwards.
Everything else though I completely agree, but unfortunately, you live in a free market society. So magazines can publish what they want depending on the demand.
TheAlphadog It's not blatant, I just personally believe having a majority unattainable image is subtle enough to cause harm to any young person who may not know better. A shift towards healthy bodies is definitely the move. If ads only include vv beautiful and the vv skinny, kids won't know that not everybody can obtain that body healthily. But you're right, it depends on demand. Money over all :(
How can you say looks aren't everything when everything you have is because of your looks ....
That's well said
Wow level sarcasm Bro and that one line is enough 🔥👌
There are lots of models, she obviously worked hard too to get here and looks aren't everything.
Thinking like that fucks people up.
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@UA-cam Player It's not a lie, why is everyone judging her so harshly.
Looks aren't everything, there are other things that matter other than looks. It's unfair to disregard someone just because they are beautiful.
Even hollywood actors admit to having insecurity, cause there's always someone who is younger, smarter, more talented or more gorgeous than you. You must realize your self-worth. There is no one like you.
They are not as insecure as someone who can't even get up and speak in front of a large audience because they get so nervous doing it.
Not everyone is worth something. Stupid virtue signalling
yes exactly! self worth know your worth
aspi rine That's bullshit. It's what stupid and broke people tell themselves to make themselves feel better. Almost every Hollywood celebrity is a self-made millionaire. You have to be pretty intelligent to go from nothing to millions.
no hate but just realise the truth behind it ...she is beautiful and is earning so much if money by her looks and getting paid for sayung looks dont matter ....how cheap is this ..even she is trying to earn money ..i bet she is of those students or girls bullying the beautiful soules ...she dosent have any personality but only looks and still earning ...
I thought I knew enough about myself, but after seeing your presentation, I realized it wasn't enough. Thank you for letting me know myself further.
Bill Gate: “money isn’t everything”.
Me: 🤨
Let me steal his money
Facts, money isn’t everything. However, I must admit that I would rather prefer crying on a yatch than in canned tuna like public transport.
Tony Cole well yes , but being rich does give you access to the best medical tech . So Steve just got really unlucky .
LoserJ7 lol
That's why he and his wife are on a mission to give away half their wealth. If money was everything they'd hoard it, right?
Looks are everything. Believe me, I am not a model.
if you are stupid, have no skill or will to work hard, yeah than all you can depend on is your looks, until you get old though!
Guys this person is being sarcastic,jokes still exist ya know
Looks can't win you a Nobel Prize.
I was just being sarcastic if anyone is confused. Looks of course don't mean everything.
You are stupid. Believe me, I am not an idiot
This is such a good Ted talk that is actually timeless bc looks will always matter to the human race as it is ingrained in our biological way of thinking.
People don't get that she acknowledges this fact and actually tells us that she's priviliged with her looks and skin color. She never denied this and stays very factual about her privileges in comparison to those that don't have the same privilege as they don't fit the discription box. Being pretty paid her all the way to college but she wants to acomplish more in life then her looks and this Ted Talk was a part of it. Her insta is also very activist orientated and I applaud her for that.
She has substance and we are now left with a generation of instagram teens that think everything that glitters turns into gold. They would have to see this to understand that there is more in life than having 100k followers and up.
I love everything about this talk. Perfect mode of delivery and great sense of humour.
I can't believe how many bad things people have to say about this video. This talk was heartfelt and emotional, and it was an acknowledgment that there is more to focus on in life than looks and wealth. So many models wouldn't even bother to do something like this or have the sense of self worth. She is a hero in my book.
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I have a feeling people don't like you for other reasons lol
hi my name is Georg e I'm a black guy who is interested in modeling I'M the right height in size with a good personality who wears a smile out of style n love to dress in step out to turn heads so if there's any one out there in world of modeling agency please look me up you want be disappointed in what I have to offer I want to see for myself about this modeling leave me something I will be getting bk to u soon love all
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+Alexis The Dragon haha yeah but people who comment without listening to everything she has to say are also idiots.
Stop scrolling these comments are all the same lmao
killmebaby I literally stopped scrolling when I saw your comment. Thanks.
killmebaby cheers bro stopped scrolling, sick of hearing about models, rich people and happiness I'm gonna go watch some wildlife vids
killmebaby OK!!!
thank you so much 😂😂
killmebaby accurate af 😭️😂️
Looks aren't everything. They're only 97% of everything.
I would comment and ask but r/woooosh
try 98
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I was going to say 99.9%, but I think you may have a great point at a lower 97%. So true in business or anything. Unfortunately, looks do make a difference.
@ldyson22 in reality, since you will have to experience wealth and poverty, health and illness, beauty and ugliness, being a woman and a man, being white and being black. The important thing is: how you behaved as poor, and how you behaved as rich. I think anyone can answer that question honestly.
Interesting, refreshingly honest talk.
"Money ain't everything, trust me I'm a billionaire."
Danny Han - give me some $$
@@GvPro212 me too🤩✋
Danny Han
-Kylie Jenner
Well said.
I'm a broke college student sir
Hot person "looks aren't everything"
"Easy for you to say! You've never had to worry about your looks!l
Ugly person:"looks aren't everything"
"You're just trying to comfort yourself of your ugliness!"
I guess nobody wins
Cynical Ash I am the person who wearing the spectacles is look ugly but if wearing contact lens I'm look good,my feeling is looks is fucking important
Ironically, looks Are everything for perfect looking people; people look them only by their looks, not by other characteristics of them, and fail to see them as fellow human, because they are so shiny and inhumanely well organized physically. But I guess that's the reason why they complain 'looks aren't everything'; they want to be look as a human.
ringoaikocascade Well,different ppl different mind,but I don't agree what she said
L CC she didn't say it's a problem. She pointed out that life isn't fair and society isn't fair. It favors the pretty ones and you have no control whether or not you will get that gene, so don't weight your happiness on your look because you will end up unhappy. Don't over look all the things you could be doing that don't require winning genetic lotteries. Even if you have the gene to look beautiful you might still be the most insecure woman and people won't take you seriously because you were once an underwear model.
L CC That was not her point, you relly missed out.
As a kind of introvert and insecure person myself I can feel her. The story she's conveyed is not really appealing to most people but hey, she's told us her story with a good and honest heart from her specific background. You don't have to be poor, in suffered or disadvantaged minorities or community to have a stand to talk of what you want like hey you're white you should not talk of the black, you're rich you have no right to talk of the poor, you're beautiful you have no idea of the ugly, and so on. That's insecure to me.
yes, that's so true. I have been struggling with self confidence for my whole life, but there is so much more to live for than your looks. We're humans, life is too short to let our looks define us. We know what is best for ourselves, we should be kind to ourselves, and whatever holds true to us is who we really are. Anyone should be allowed share what they would like, because judgement and stigma should not stop us from having a voice.
no hate but just realise the truth behind it ...she is beautiful and is earning so much if money by her looks and getting paid for sayung looks dont matter ....how cheap is this ..even she is trying to earn money ..i bet she is of those students or girls bullying the beautiful soules ...she dosent have any personality but only looks and still earning ...
She really straddled that line between ‘my cross to bear’/‘woe is me’ and being respectful of her career. She landed it quite well!
Wow Cameron
I am really impressed. Never seen anyone so real and down to earth.
Hahaha. Seriously man. Such fake comments. She's not gonna be impressed, or contact you, and you certainly aren't gonna get laid..... :->.
How did you know I haven't got laid already ?
Diyar, dont stop believing. Hold on to your feeling.
+Seranic YESSSS😂😂
lol!!!!
I can't believe some of the comments here!!? She is NOT saying "looks don't matter"....or anything of that nature!
She is saying that as somebody who inherited good looks and made a career based on that, it doesn't mean that her life is always fabulous or that she is constantly happy and self contented. In fact she is MORE insecure than the average person because she knows she only has a career because of how she looks, not because she did anything to deserve it.
thank you
More : she's saying that the standards of beauty are socially and economically constructed. And that what we see is not the reality.
JohnTheBaptist
Yes thats also true. The western standard of physical beauty is rather narrow and geared strongly toward white people, and thats no coincidence.
how can you say she didn't deserved it? she is a model bc she took care of her physical appearance more and that's an effort. I don't like the way you put the sentence. looks is very subjective it's a matter of being self confident and content with oneself. modelling industry is more than look having what you say "genetic lottery"
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I didn't say she "didn't deserve it". I said being tall, white, with fair skin and a pretty face are not something a person "deserves" through having done anything to earn them. You either get lucky in the gene pool or you don't.
It's not like you can go to college and learn how to be tall, slim and pretty like you can go there to earn a degree and get a career that way.
Therefore it is not something that is "deserved" or not deserved it is mostly just luck of the draw.
Yes I am sure she eats well and exercises....which are things everybody should do, not just models. That doesn't mean anything.
can we all just appreciate her for actually admitting that her looks have helped her in life, because quite a lot of good-looking people through no fault of their own, who have been given this privilege and have been treated better by everyone because of it, just don’t realise it.
I’m a not so attractive lad, and believe me, LOOKS MATTER SO MUCH! they really do. and it’s not just the opposite gender that treat u better, it’s friends, aunties, uncles, colleagues, kids, elders, teachers, strangers as well...
I’m not saying looks are everything but oh my, they do matter a lot. I remember having a good looking best friend in high school who had the most boring personality ever and still made a lot of more friends than me. And girls would roll out a red carpet for him. And he was every teachers favourite
Yup, I also like how she didnt go so far down that path where it turned to guilt though. She's gorgeous and its good that's she's clearly self aware enough to recognize that it has benefited her greatly (surprised she didn't mention her families affluence more though), and that's all that matters, it's no more her fault that the world desires her than it the fault of a person who can't even look good in the dark that the world does not.
I think looks matter only with strangers, People I don't know treat me like I'm a princess but my friends, family, close people basically, treat me like a normal person. In the beginning people are all nice but as they get to now you better, the attitude changes ? I don't know how to explain it, like they don't change in a bad way, rather start treating you like a normal human being.
literally
You are extremely true
Most of my so called friends ignored me most of the time never even invited me to go with them anywhere i literally didnt talk in the company because they ignored me and this has been happening in every group i was...i dont know why though i was super friendly tried to talk about what they like but they just still didnt like me and always THEY would try to get rid of me...so friends don't always treat u good when u are attractive....Once i showed one painting to my friend and she said its gorgeous and the other girl said its ugly...it was literally very beautiful
One of the most believable and genuine Ted talks that I have ever seen .
Omg her photo comparisons are real deal and people should be know more about this. Beautiful
I wish looks didn't matter
looks are important to evolution
They only do if you let them
+StillTrustNo1 Bullshit
DankBudwoi Being a slave(to whatever) is a mental choise. Maybe some day you will get there to
its conditioning mainly as she said symmetry health and age ..everything esle is cultural.
There are a lot of comments on here about how she is a hypocrite for being beautiful/rich/fill-in-the-blank and saying that all of that stuff isn't important. You are all missing the point. She is saying that it IS important, but that it SHOULDN'T BE. She is being so brave and vulnerable by standing up on stage and admitting that the world she benefits from is the same world others get hurt by. You can't criticize a model for being blind to her privileges and then criticize her for seeing and standing up against those same privileges. She can't change the way she looks and how the world favors her, so I commend her for doing SOMETHING to combat this issue.
+Courtney Pena Smart girl :)
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PREACH
you can't miss a point which is not there, this talk is pointless
Too bad.
Humans are awful.
Wow! Superb speech! I am genuinely impressed with and enlightened by Cameron's psychological and societal comprehension of her professional industry.
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It's funny...always a beautiful girl or man who says beauty is not important. Same like those rich guys saying money isn't everything.
Because they have experience with it. You wouldn't take a poor and ugly person seriously if they said money and beauty aren't everything, you'd think they're just saying that to feel better about themselves. Have you ever heard of the phrase "More money, more problems."? A lot of self-made rich people commit suicide because of the pressure they're under and all the fake people around them.
@@cutienerdgirl "...you wouldn't take a poor and ugly person seriously". Yup, you are just saying what it is.. lol. The attention a beautiful woman receives is better than a ugly one.
@@cutienerdgirl u fool, u literally just proved his point
The point is. Society judges by the way you look. It’s not right, but it is what it is. Hate the game not the player. And learn how to fkin play the game on the right way!
@@cutienerdgirl I do believe you have a misconseption about rich and suicide.
Alot of theos suicide rich people they tend to be a celebrity ad well, or some one who is constantly have to maintain certain image and gets judged by people on daily basis, and I believe this to be the case of the suicides, the celebrity part and not the rich part.
I doubt safe made millionaires are having a sad life.
To everyone hating on this talk, consider this- she probably just eight-balled herself by giving this talk, i.e. she likely pissed off a lot of potential employers for her. This took guts, both in terms of coming to grips with the only personal reality she's ever known, and in terms of calling it how it is in the face of impending professional backlash. Did she cure cancer? No. But you have to appreciate her candidness and honesty in spite of an industry largely shrouded in a mum's-the-word approach to results transparency.
or she reliezed like Anita Sarkesian that you make money off of being a SJW / Victim.
Joseph LeForte
I'm pretty sure I missed that part of the speech.
I think it was courageous of her. Lovely vulnerability about her. We all grow and change. She obviously did.
***** If more people like her would do exactly what she just did, they would inspire the current and next generation to stop hating themselves and hating what they can't have.
It may not fix cancer, but it certainly helps to fix the mass mental illness of today's society that we are all subject to or directly take part in.
***** Not really. I've seen a few behind the scenes of a fashion runaway. And a few of the make-up artists, stylist and designers have vocalized their preference for aware/ smart models. They're not all stuck-up and unaware; or even unconcerned about the trappings of superficiality of their business. In fact, they're more aware of it than most, arguably. And people like Cameron Russell may indeed find like minded people in her business; sympathetic and understand the pros and cons of a constructed image-emphasized work environment.
And it's not like she did a Katherine Heigl, wherein she outright dismissed the industry. Cameron Russell actually inspired her would-be predecessors to aim higher than a model. 'BE HER BOSS' - if they want to be in this type of work.
Anyways, she also said she "was" a model, meaning she might have retired. I don't know, I've only just heard of her after seeing this video.
Ah, this comment is to the 'she probably just eight-balled herself by this talk.'
Anyone who thinks that looks don’t matter has never been attractive & unattractive before.
I’ve experienced being overweight & unattractive, and thin and very attractive. And believe me when i tell you...
LOOKS MATTER! They affect the way people (men and women) treat you. Your love life. Your Access to different places. I was hired for jobs i wasn’t qualified for, because of how i looked.
Everything is affected by how you look. Everything!
Anyone who’s says anything different is lying, or doesn’t know better. Period.
This exactly. Preach, sister!
Brittney Davis ua-cam.com/video/lYqCgiQ_5Gs/v-deo.html please watch this video, trust me sister...❤️
Thats so true. Surgery is the best choice.
Superficial.
They do. Whether humans want to admit it or not we do categorize people involuntarily. My Asian parents are at my throat for not being pretty enough and not withstanding the standards
When you're beautiful people treat you like you're human. When you're ugly you are treated like an annoyance.
I don't think anyone actually listened to what she said. "looks DO matter!!! shes so wrong LOL" You didn't listen. She talked about how she's treated differently because she's physically attractive, and how it's unfair. She's arguing the same point you are.
I understand her point, but so what? Acknowledging that you are privileged is not going to change anything. She still benefited from her looks. It's unfair but that's life, we are all born with different abilities. Somebody who is naturally athletic has more chance of becoming a sports pro.
Is she going to give back all the money she has made or give it away to less fortunate looking people? I don't think so.
Thats literally her point. You're arguing about agreeing with her. People like you are the reason we can't enjoy nice things... smh
Haha ok so looks don't matter just as much as money doesn't matter but I rather be rich and unhappy over poor and unhappy.
Is it Yuri on your profile picture? xD nice
John christopher i
I know I am a guy but I feel like a lot of what she has said can be transferred to a male perspective. I am a 23 year old guy who has only grown into my looks and from what I've personally experienced we truly live in a shallow world. From the ages of 16 until 21-22 I was an awkward looking thing; weedy with a narrow long face. During that phase the reception and general judgement I would receive from people tended to be dismissive. Now that I have blossomed into someone of an average build and am now apparently aesthetically considered' above average' (whatever that means) the manner in which the world perceives me has transformed. Now all of a sudden women are more forgiving of my faults and mistakes and I've now become more desirable to the opposite sex. When I dwell on how different my life is just because of my outward appearance it really fills me with real sadness. Looks shouldn't matter but unfortunately due to the media's constant indoctrination of what is considered conventionally appealing people do give greater gravitas to appearance.
Please don't judge humans so harshly. There is an innate genetic drive for both men and women to be drawn to other young men or women as potential good mates for possible children. I am queer so never really had that urge, which in some ways has allowed me to step back and observe more than I might have otherwise. My sister, who has a marriage of 50 plus years going - they're both 85 now- she chose someone yes who was healthy and attractive but mostly intelligient and caring with a sense of humor.
This is an old video BUT after I went through puberty and lost any extra weight I was carrying, I got treated COMPLETELY DIFFERENT! Before I became "pretty " I was treated just basic, kinda rudely, by people. Now, I get traded a lot better, guys help me at the drop of a pen, it may sound harsh, but that's the truth (in my personal experience) I'm just saying, skinny pretty woman get treated a lot better.
time to lose some of my weight ;D
you get "traded a lot better"?! Sorry, couldn't resist, lol
Allie Babydoll
Beauty/Handsome
Aging Bell Curve
Teen: High sexual market value
20's: Prime sexual market value
30's: Lower sexual market value
40's: Far far lower sexual market value
50's: No sexual market value
60+: You're Done!
I'm skinny....and is called cute by a lot of people... but no guy notices me. (literally, I'm the skinniest girl in my class)
Maybe cuz I was always skinny since I was in 1st grade...no one notices me and to be honest...I'm glad no one does.
: )
Yeh, these fuckers even get more likes
My favorite ted talk ever. Personally I want to become a male model and hearing this really reminds me that if or after I have a successful career I must apply myself in something that validates my person beyond my image.
I've had two VERY good-looking girlfriends in the past, and they definitely live in a different world. Everywhere we went, men fell all over themselves to do anything they could to gain their attention and favor. One girlfriend forgot her debit card, and got free gas. The other got employment pretty much anywhere she wanted, despite being vastly under qualified. And these are just two examples of the dozens of situations I saw while dating each of them. The world fell at their feet, because of their beauty.
***** Its also his manner, read your comment and think about how that reflects in yourself. you sound a bit bitter, people react badly to negativity.
***** I am also - 'fairly good looking' i have my DP so i guess you can judge yourself. I also try to be mild mannered, and i believe fairly similar things happen to me as him . . . I think its just his observations, no need to judge him that way
+VivaToddVegas sounds like you were at their feet as well
***** Lots of 'manly men' have nice goaties too, but not all...
***** Nice try. I think we both know you're talking bollox as per usual. I think it's time again for you to remind us all online on how good looking and successful you are. Say it over and over again until there can be no doubt! ;-)
''Looks don't matter, it's personality'' - good looking people.
+Belletaina Lol, for fuck's sake. Looks only matter to superficial people to begin with and for superficial reasons at that. If you care about that, then that's sad in and of itself. True love isn't about looks at all, for one. Neither is friendship.
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"... Gorgeous people
Nicu Drosu IDK about you man but it effects me pretty much every day of my life and it really sucks. Some times I just sit and think why it had to happen to me haha you don't know the struggle if you haven't been in these shoes lol which is why when people with good looks say crap like this.
I say the same thing and I look like a turd on a stick.
but what she is saying is that looks matter a lot in our society and that that sucks a lot.
I don't know whats up with the negative comments, this is an amazing presentation, she did it so well
all comments are negative, including yours and her presentation ... if it was good, people wouldnt vomit it but let it for themselves, wouldnt they? since when is aggre$$ion positive? you mean to put on other people, i guess that means "positive" in Latin?
words - wrong, worries, wrath ...
Just loved how open she was about everything and how clearly she conveyed everything with the right choice of words.
Models : Looks doesn't matter.
Rich people : Money doesn't matters.
Toppers : Marks doesn't matters.
Me : Everything matters.
It's so true.
It's bcoz they don't know the value of those things as they already achieved it...
Its not that since they have it they don't care....maybe their's too much imp put on this just like diamonds are valued so much but at the end of the day its just a stone when u look at it without prejudice it won't make u any happy to even if u have it.
@Elisson Dormezil First of all, my intent was like to write something like meme anyways(i hope i would get lol, haha or 🤣) but it also radiate the reality where they may say and show that those things aren't everything to them but they tend to forget or rather unsee the fact that they are and known mainly because of the things they said don't matter, as you said at first they are not born rich or beautiful and all, but initially they do crave or want to achieve it, once goal is reached they tend to show less interest consciously (though subconsciously they always want to retain and also increase it) , and this is also a psychological fact, they do talk about immaterial things of important and morals, but they tend to keep double standards between said and done (plz don't give exceptions cuz i know some) and as you talked of realistic you might know the REALITY or TRUTH of things that matter in every day world.[By the way, since in Asia(i am from india) parents are very strict about academic result and the one who do get extraordinary high score or marks are called toppers means to top in EVERYTHING, and they are very respected and looked by other]
GENETIC it's more important
Looks aren't everything, it's only 94% of what a person thinks of you
Citation needed
BamBam GOT7 that's a lot
Sean McManus not you're not that damn stupid you know some things are just observational
Yeah, my suicide won't be over my lack of inner beauty.
NOT!
What's up with all the stupid "hot white chick tells us beauty isn't everything" comments? Did you even listen to a word she said?
She is saying exactly the opposite - that her success is thanks to her beauty which is the result of a genetic lottery, and also thanks to legacy of racial/cultural oppression. She is honest - if you aren't white or beautiful you need to find another way to succeed. And in the meantime - let's try and change the society so that it isn't so for future generations. Brutal and honest. Great talk.
+Denise Kulawik Not true.Niels Bohr was a babe ;)
+Henry Victor what he did with those atoms... Mmmmm
Noel Down Oh Christ, what a pity party you got going on!
yesss 👏👏
Noel Down that message would’ve resonated for me if it came from someone else.
such a smart self aware and brave woman
Great speech. Honest, humble, thoughtful. Very intelligent too. And I like it that she cares for those almost 80 percent young girls who don't like their own bodies because of how the fashion industry creates a false image of what a human being really looks like.
A great man once said,
“ Money isn’t everything however one should earn enough to say that bs “.
I was happiest when I made the least amount of money.
totally true man
Alfa romeos are ugly
bitter enough?
People without money always think money is everything. Well it's not, sorry. Money is certainly something- it gives you comfort, but it's most definitely not everything. I've known plenty of miserable people with money- I can even think of one who committed suicide :(
Not gonna lie, came here straight up for the comments lol
Me too.
Same !
Haha same 😂
Looks are everything here: Take my money baby😛
Same here hombre
why are people ignoring the point of this talk?! she was so amazing, her talk was powerful. she admitted and voiced the dark side of being a model that no one knows. she showed us models are just as insecure or maybe even more insecure than us. and that’s just one part of it. she didn’t talk about how they need to count calories and make crazy diets to look beautiful and skinny. a lot of girls go through instagram, looking at model girls and doesn’t even realize that is not true. in the end, we are all the same. and we are the ones putting so much pressure on ourselves
She isn't saying looks aren't important. What she means is that they are not the only thing that matters in life.
Or in other words, they are not everything.
Of course, if I am a clam who do not have basic social skills, I will be ruined anyhow. But trust me, a good looking clam will get more things than an ugly looking clam. Anything + good looks = nicer
@@guilles8905 that's the point of all this?? like, everyone complaining but she DID say how her looks helped her a lot in life and how other people treat her better because she's pretty... she said that being pretty isn't EVERYTHING. model and all, the modeling industry can make the prettiest woman insecure and miserable
@@yutisima Do you notice than saying it doesn't invalidate it or make her more honest etc., right? We all know that. Of course pretty people can be good people too (how cool is that!!!!). Seriously, she needs to get in touch with a specialist in psychology, it looks like she did this talk for her.
Btw, like it or not, she will never need to go through things like the ugly do. It is very easy to comment on stuff from a safe distance.
@@guilles8905 "It is very easy to comment on stuff from a safe distance" how curious... literally the same applies to you, to me etc. we will NEVER know what is like to be a model in the industry, and STILL people criticize her for the title of the video, as if they didn't LISTEN to what she said. "it looks like she did this talk to herself" OF COURSE SE DID??? it's literally about the MODELLING INDUSTRY. she speaks about the things models go trough that people like us DON'T SEE because we believe that being rich and pretty and a model is the best thing that can happen to a person, but we don't know what it is like, and she's telling you what it is like, and you still. don't. listen.
@Jem Harper what do you expect. She hasnt used her brain her whole life and you expect her to be Aristotle