This is the type of fun I experience INTJ wild fun : put music and dancing when nobody is home, or alone in my room it will last for 15 to 25 min. Depending of my energy levels. INTJ fun: reading, surf the web, eat, drink tea, plan everything in advance, write, learn and stay home all day in my comfy clothe.
I’m an INTJ female. What I usually do for fun is delve deep into research about cults /secret societies/ancient cultures/religion/anything related to mystery. I sit on my couch in silence and just read with a cup of coffee and my pup at my side surrounded by my plants.
Work friends: "Let's go out and have fun this weekend!" Me: Stays in my apartment for 3 days straight watching psychology lectures, contemplating quantum mechanics, listening to music and planning all future scenarios and contingencies for the next ten years in excruciating detail. My kind of fun. If I get really wild, I might even have a glass of wine.
@@lostathenian1836 , He had some good information on the front, from an objective perspective but quickly became a zealot. And I don't make leisure time for zealots. It isn't personal, this is based purely on his professional output. I find his personal life kind of fascinating.
INTJ fun is reading a book, seeing an interesting movie, etc. Hobby in your words. It's a timing calculus. Spend quality time with select people. They will find you interesting. It's a question of being crafty about how you spend your time.
What I do, is when I plan to be spontaneous, I have a back up plan in case the situation is going south, often times it is related to distracting everyone else, while giving me an opening to leave the situation
As an INTJ, I relate to everything you are saying. The majority of my time is spent in my room. I’m listening to music, playing video games, surfing online, deep-diving into my favorite topics of astrology and psychology, watching tv or movies, reading. I do most things alone or at home. It’s hard for me to easily do what people traditional call fun: going out, experiencing new places and people, putting myself out there, partying, drinking, opening up and not caring how I come across. I don’t know how to truly relax or relinquish control. I’ve made huge strides though this past year and a half. I’ve been coming out of my shell and accomplishing things, not just wishing i did. This has all been facilitated by a close friend of mine, who I believe to be an EP. Her love and encouragement has helped me try to new things and go beyond my comfort zone.
I could see the value of coming out of your shell if your not accomplishing things but what if you were accomplishing things by staying in your shell? Would you still want to come out of it?
i'm an enfp and I'm equally comfortable staying home playing video games, watching tv or movies etc. as I am going out and exploring new places with one of my friends. Maybe ENFP's are less traditionally fun-loving as ESP types, because of our dominant Ne.
That I can totally get. Hawking was a childhood hero of mine and I was destined to become an astrophysicist! What’s not to love about a scientifically-verified enigmatic paradox!?
NiTe = The process of achieving my vision FiSe = Doing what i like in the moment Simple but very clear explanation of cognitive functions. Cognitive functions explained well in pairs than separetely.
After coming back home from my mentally exhausting job, I usually sit in a place and just think for an hour in silence. That is fun cause you a) get your thoughts back in order and b) you come up with the greatest concepts because exhaustion unblocks your mental barriers and dogmas. Visiting contemporary art museums also helps as it is a total opposite of a busy day job and you absorb more beautiful concepts. Doing a hard reset on remote raves sometimes helps as well 😅 I don't think this is fun, is it
I always get told I'm not fun....... my ex-girlfriend always said "I want someone who is happy go lucky" and I always thought happy go lucky people never achieve anything in life. Life is not fun.
Mat mac.. Happy go lucky types usually have different perspectives and do what works for them which is perfectly fine and yes thry are successful in their own way (which may be different than INTj types). Cannot judge and say thry wont be successful etc..thr happy go lucky live in day to day types are some of the happiest I know and that can be construed as highly successful.
INTJ's main motto: "If you want something done right, you've gotta do it yourself!" And that's exactly how I feel. Nobody else is going to live up to my expectations, so why not just work on fulfilling my own expectations?
me: *accidentally explained something and turn a non specific conversations into a lecture and thought it was fun* the noisy rest: *turns into crickets* and so it gets boring again with their random conversations :')
*Listening to music and dancing alone in my room is so much fun. * taking care of my plant collection is a blast * shopping for home and kitchen appliances is so much fun * Looking at fashion online is so satisfying * having Ah-ha moments in my Mind is fulfilling
As an INTJ I have the most fun combining the process of making my plan a reality with helping others, but at the end of the day my focus is not the people I help, but on how helping them helps me achieve my goals
As an 95% introverted INTJ I've found out that spending time with my ENFP and ESTP friends really thrusts me into this spontaneous no-overthinking natural behavior where I can really enjoy in the moment even if it's not natural to my algorithmic mind ... They can really teach us some of "basic" human things that we usually consider stupid (lol) but are really needed in life, something we lack to be a complete person.
As a hard core INTJ I long ago understood that my idea of fun was basically alien to common society. And I couldn’t care less what other people think of that. This is a great video because I think a lot of INTJs go through some distress about how disconnected their sense of fun is from most people, and if you’re an INTJ you need to embrace the fact that what you find fun is just fine! INTJ is a rare personality style so start to expect and accept that you will not connect with the vast majority of humanity on what’s “fun.” But to be sure what you think is fun is 100% legit.
Yess you get it. Also when you said hardcore INTJ I had to laugh because I had the mental image of us trying to be tough and “hard” which is damn hilarious lol
To learn and grow, to take initiative, it's part of character especially understand the culture you work, and also every individual is assigned to different departments because of their strengths and weaknesses. However some of us like to focus on the tasks and while others chat about mundane things like their days, life stories, and pets etc. There is also changes too and new policies at the store, that are in effect just for the safety of our customers, we inspect every item that is allowed or outlawed, and watch out for expired dates they need to be thrown away immediately, keep an eye for clothes that are in a bad shape if it has holes, bodily fluids or has offensive messages, we recycled it. It's a thrift store but religious, we donate this stuff to poor countries.
INTJ female here. Understanding/dominating the world, reading books, strategizing do interest me but I also love concerts, comedy shows, dancing, movies, museums, being out in nature....many many different things. I must be a more moderate type of INTJ. I view myself as a fun lover and others do too.
@@InternetLiJo You're welcome. Also, if you don't want to deal with many people, you can just drive to the lake and sit in your car. I do that when I want to enjoy nature ALONE. Now that the fall season is coming soon, color tours may be a nice way to enjoy nature without being around too many people also (depending on where you live). I drove across the upper peninsula of Michigan in the fall a few years back and it was great! :) You can be private and outgoing at the same time.
It is such a relief to find someone who thinks the same way. Almost all of my 'free time' is spent either on projects or online courses because it's a path to a desirable end goal (which most people won't understand if you try to explain that after they ask what you did over the weekend lol). I feel like if I'm not doing something that's focused on improving then I'm genuinely wasting my time. Thanks for making these kinds of videos 👌
INFP here. I recently caught an INTJ friend using my exact humour style with a colleague. I felt a mixture of awe (that they were able to figure out a formula that I didn’t even know I used until I saw it “copied”/emulated) but I also felt violated, like the person had stolen something precious from me for their own dopamine hit. It wasn’t plagiarism, they didn’t steal my joke verbatim and I don’t own jokes. I felt like the’d nicked the essence of me, something I’d shared with them as a jewel rather than a tool. This video has given me some clarity. Thanks.
Thank you so much! 🧠 As an female INTJ new to personality types, and being lost at 23, these videos help to not feel so alone (not lonely). Thank you again. New subscriber! 🤳🏽#KeepGoing ~Watching at 5am, self-growth never stops🕔
Hey! So what you said here ^ is literally the only reason I have stuck with this channel. I wish I had discovered typology and practical psychology earlier in life. It’s a lonely world inside our mind. Know that there’s others out there that understand you really helps 👽 welcome!
My idea of fun often includes activities that involve creation or self-improvement. I love ice skating, playing tennis, playing the piano, trading, sewing, knitting, watching videos that teach me something or reading books that teach me something. When I was younger, I loved traveling and exploring, getting lost, finding my way back. It is true many of these activities are solitary. Many but not all. Some of these activities, I’m fairly good at, others only passable, but I enjoy the journey of constant improvement.
My definition of fun when no one else is around: reading, watching series, thinking, studying something I want to learn, taking a walk, taking photo's and editing them and some more thinking, about life, my future, the universe etc :) I'm an INTJ by the way.
I literally want to cry rn. I never thought someone wanted to be an intj, I kinda hate being an intj in the last days beacuse I feel like people perceive me as a robot and I can't show emotions as I'd like to. I want to be spontaneus, exteoverted, funny so bad but I simply can't do it naturally. I feel so lost and out of this world
@@berry2nicky3 i understand now that it's common for us intjs to feel this way, i am no longer trying to be something that im not just to appeal to more people. i have found that even those who do not understand me still accept me in many ways. which is often enough, but only an intj can understand a fellow intj and sadly we're very thinly spread out
My idea of fun is something that I find challenging, intense, and thought provoking enough, exploring new ideas and concepts, and take it in my own direction. Letting my brain go and acting like a sponge taking everything in. Accomplishment is the cherry on top ^_^
Honestly as an INTJ that's been struggling with this lately, cool vid thanks. And I love P function people for the same reason too. I'm a glutton for serenity and peace, sometimes you need somebody to kick you out of your comfort.
I'm an INTJ from Southern California and watching UA-cam is fun for me because I learn new things everytime and I enjoy sleeping after being around the Extraverted world.
"Why would you only want to rely on 2 functions and rely on the rest of the world to be good enough to pull off all the other functions in your life to help you with that. If you think that way, you must have a lot more faith in people than i do" I subbed as you said that cz i have trust issues too :p Precisely why I'm thoroughly studying cognitive functions after scoring INxJ to know and better myself (both my Te and Ti are higher than Fi and Fe for some reason Fe being slightly higher, hence the confusion of x and I wanna know how to balance it better) Also, god bless my ENTP best friend for giving me overriding anxiety and making me used to spontaneous nightmares.
I need to plan to be spontaneous, practice having fun, just in case having fun is required in my future so I am prepared. Got it. You are awesome! Love you to bits!🥰
''Fun'' is such a relative term. For every human being on this planet, ''fun'' may mean thousands of things. For some people, fun is when they hang out with alot of friends and drink or watch a movie together, for other people fun is playing... funny games and laughing. For me personally, ''fun'' is when I'm home alone, watching a movie or a documentary, going out all by myself and having some long walks, reading or studying something fascinating for medical school - something that would help me understand stuff for my future career. At other times, fun would mean me talking to a friend or two about something interesting or, why not, funny (smarts jokes are the best jokes). It's just the way it is. People create their ''own fun''. Great video! :)
INTJs are plenty of fun. We just know how to entertain ourselves unlike extroverts who absolutely can't just stay home and mind their own business for any length of time.
what I do is read, listen to music, or write and people think that’s all I do but in reality I’m in my dreamworld planning for my future and what I’m doing in that moment or what I need to be doing to get where I want to be. I like to envision my future a lot, like I mean A LOT lmaooo😭 and while I’m doing normal things, I distract myself by daydreaming and planning 💀💀💀
Right now, my long term goal is to perfect my japanese, so a lot of the time I only watch japanese media (mostly on youtube) to get the important words and the grammar elements. Then, for the rest of the day I will just put them in a list and learn them. That's it. That's what fun is for me. Sometimes I try to stop. Going out and have normal fun, or watching a movie with a friend. But even in those occasions, I'm only thinking that I could be working on my japanese and being one step closer to my goal.
My work colleagues on a Friday - "so what are you doing this weekend?" Me - "i'm going to go for a soya hot chocolate and read my book at Rustic Bean cafe, I can't wait"
That control thing hit really close to home. I feel like I isolate and do everything on my own because at least then and only then I can do what I want to do. When I go out with friends, I don't have control over what activities we do and sometimes that is necessary for challenging yourself and discovering new things. Also, this has nothing to do with the video but, I love your sense of style.
This explain a lot, my 'friends' ass told me you should go out more and have some fun. My real answer is "what you consider fun I don't?" 🤣 It's tired to go out parties and just chit-chat which won't give me any Important information
My Intj sister just bought a house meanwhile I'm over here in my tiny barracks hating my life because an infps introverted feeling and extroverted intuition just puts my ass on a bmx bike at a skatepark. Lol. Wish I had an Intj mindset, you guys kill it when it comes to making moves in the work place.
Hey! Good news is, smalls goals make a huge difference. If you want to buy a house, you can start mapping out the big quarterly progress you need to make, and then also what you need to be improving every week. If the goal seems too big, just focus on the small steps to get you there. You can do the thing!
Enjoyed the vid...on point. My idea of externally fun activities focuses on controlled risk activities: motorcycling/track days, scuba, skydiving, trap/skeet shooting. These activities enable me to exercise and apply my knowledge/skill and experience towards 'risky' activities whilst applying my exceptional desire to envisage and control a positive outcome. This also allows me to, generally, associate with like minded, enthusiastic and well versed individuals sharing the same activity. This is very important to me. What I do when alone at home essentially coincides with what was stated in the vid...difficult to remove a Leopard's spots.
Oh my gosh! This was great! I totally related to Everything you said! Wow! I am going to start being more self accepting and stop being so hard on myself for being me... Big Thanks from this INTJ woman.
When you said "see how weird it gets" I first thought you said "see how our dick gets" I'm an intj who likes dirty jokes probably too much so I was dying of laughter.
Ha! Right I have. Plan for next month. I don't get planning people that do elaborate journals but I love art. It's more satisfying for me to do things in my head. I hate explaining my self, when that's the best option for me. My husband is an estp and I enjoy how outgoing he is but on that same note in like ok i’m like Down what makes sense lol
How I have fun: I stay in my room reading, playing video games, watching my favorites shows, laughing at sarcastic memes, learning how to do this or that. Knitting is really relaxing. My love for Jigsaw puzzles can keep me isolated from everything (my father thinks is stupid). As to outdoors activities, going for a walk with my dog is the best.
‘Why rely on the rest of the world’ for the functions I am not good at. Dmmit, that was an eye opener. ? Why did I click on this video.. stupid UA-cam prompts. I was just thinking I was doing OK, and maybe MBTI would not be the source of self improvement projects. How dare it appeal so masterfully to logic. Thanks for nada , LiJo. 💜🥳🖤
As an INTJ I would love to say you (people) are giving this more importance than it actually deserves... personality type doesnt matter as long as you are a good person and you are comfortable with who you are... so yeah...
The significance you mention here ties back to understanding which is the goal of my channel. To be understood and to understand others better. Sure being a “good person” is great, but there a million channels that talk about that. Not my goal here :$
Having a clear vision and being able to articulate the destination you see to your colleagues, seeing it materialize in the real world just the way you like it by reaching the apex.
On a serious note I'm actually amazed that my friends still try to get me to do social endeavors. I can have fun, but it always reaches that point where "hanging out" feels like "waste of time". Usually makes me feel worse once I reach that conclusion. Like I've done something wrong. In the end though they don't seem phased at all and are ready to usher me out again. Its confusing, but I've been making the effort to just go when they offer instead of making excuses.
I spend a ton of time exploring inside my own mind, theorize, developing new ideas and inspirations. So on the outside, I’d be sitting quietly in a corner, or beside a window, usually writing something on a notebook or my phone. Is it safe to say that we INTJs are professional daydreamers?
I’ve analyzed fun... the word, the concept, the definition, the activities, the moods and the outcomes in the process of having a good time. It was fun.
0:30 'What are you doing?' Watching UA-cam videos on MBTI and INTJs. For self development to feed Te, which feeds Ni. So basically NiTe. 0:37 'What is fun?' Learning from super intelligent people who are brighter than me. Listening to INTJ sarcasm/wit gets bonus points. 5:50 'Becoming superhuman and taking over the world'-Well done, bonus points for you, that's a maximum score! Seriously though, you make good points on developing the other functions. An ENTP friend rightly pointed out to me, to learn about people, I need to go out and meet them. Develop my Fi/Se more. Got a MBTI meet up coming up soon, so hopefully that should be fun. On another note, when I see clients at work, I just end up going into the INTJ 'death stare' mode, as Te means I have to concentrate so much on listening to what they are saying, whilst Ni starts to try and get the perfect answer. It feels a real struggle to add a smile and do good body language at the same time. I can just about manage the occasional INTJ, Mona Lisa smile every odd minute. You seem very bubbly and smiley. Which is good Fe. How did you develop this function so well?
Oh man Ni and trying to get “the perfect answer”... I relate to that so much, that’s what Ni is constantly doing. Trying to find the best singular way. As for Fe, hah it’s a huge struggle for me. I can’t really “do empathy”. What you see from my smily bubbly side is just my Fi. Im not doing it “for” anyone. I’m just alone and making myself laugh in front of my own camera. It’s great people enjoy it though! But my intention isn’t to make people feel good.
Also it took a lot of time for me to get comfortable in front of a camera. I took videos for years before I ever had the guts to edit and upload one. It just seemed so weird.
@@InternetLiJo Lots of good points. Thanks. Smile and the whole world smiles with you. I agree INTJs don't really do empathy. Our sister types, INFJs do that so well. I think with Ni though, we are very good at reading people and imagining their future and have sympathy for others. The next step of verbalising our Fi can be quite a challenge though. I guess if I push myself, and say statements such as, 'aww that sounds so tough, camera work, particularly for an introvert!' Can only help my development. Also, I guess INTJs agree with the Einstein's quote, that “Genius is 1% talent and 99% percent hard work...” INTJs are going to do the 99% hard work (no problem) even if they may not have the 1% natural talent. So INTJs are going to be brilliant at what they do. Just need to remember to do the fun stuff as well!
Very cool video. I have a close IxxJ friend who is very control > chaos and while it is challenging for me to see things his way, I believe we complement each other well. Sometimes I have to drag him out into the real world and sometimes he has to drag me down from outer space. In a group setting: fun (for me) is usually anything that includes exploring a new place or trying something new, on the flip side another big part is just the overall experience you have when you are with your friends (good or bad) for instance some of the best moments I remember throughout the years are times where something unfortunate or unplanned happened and we just had a good laugh. 1 on 1: fun (for me) is connecting with someone intellectually, emotionally and spiritually. I hate small talk but I love exploring how and why people think the way they do, and honestly, I would choose a great 1 on 1 conversation over what the normal person would call "a good time" out at the bars any day of the week. On my own: I enjoy exploring theories, coming up with ridiculous ideas, learning new things by reading, watching videos, listening to podcasts or even just jamming to music. - ENTP
@@InternetLiJo me being as an unconscious INTJ and you being an unconscious ENTP , we are both on the same journey towards enlightenment, I am sure we could learn several things from each other, I will keep watching. Thanks for the content, stay weird.
My fun is drinking a cup of coffee/tea, while doing research (like reading or surfing on the) on topics I'm particularly interested in and that are useful (for my inner self or for the external world), taking notes, organize the notes; planning, a lot of planning (idk it's just like playing with sims, deciding the future and stuff); then comes what I call "the crisis" but it's just my mind doing philosophy so that I can call my father (INFJs in deep talks are the best sometimes) and debating for hours.
One of my favorite things to do for fun is watch videos (usually on UA-cam) about strange sightings, dangerous storms and the paranormal. Stuff from the likes of "That Is Impossible", "Nuke's Top 5", "Slapped Ham" and "Pecos Hank". I can watch that stuff for hours. That and reading answers to various questions on "Quora". Actually, I read WAY too much of that. I seriously need to cut back. It's almost as bad as watching the news. Story intensive video games are also fun.
Fun is being productive and evolving towards the person I want to be. Once in a while I plan things with family to go on a trip for the Holidays, but I still get things done in between the hours I’m away.
Sometimes I'll go to my bff's house who is a "p" type when she's not there to chill with her sister and my bff will always apologize for not being around to "have fun" with me lol I always tell her I'm fine, coming here is like going from my house to my 2nd house, I AM having fun! "But you're just sitting there in the house!🤔" I'm doing other things you just can't see what is in my head. Fun for me = studying, self growth videos, UA-cam in general, reading Fun for my bff= leaving the house to do something or interact with the general public 😂😂😂
OMG it is making me smile ear to ear to discover that there are female INTJs. I always straddle the line between INTJ and ENTJ, but I seem to fit better into the INTJ category. What I think is happening is that I'm a very outgoing INTJ, so I'm tricking the test unintentionally. Introverted Intuition and Extraverted Thinking is def my jam, 100%
At the moment, my sense of fun is to make Te my primary function and Ni the secondary. The idea is to experiment being a little bit more like ENTJ altough the Fi and Se remain in the same order. People at my job say I'm coming out of my shell lol.
INTJ what’s really fun is creating a comprehensive calendar counting down milestones to my goal. If I feel like being wild I’ll watch a documentary on something I’ll never do, like ultra marathon runners. So fascinating, I can go down a rabbit hole researching that all weekend.
I read the Bible, watch health documentaries, when I'm not doing that I'm doing a 3k piece puzzle. Listening to music puts me into a mental psychosis so I don't listen very often.
In my free time i find fun in watching documentaries (of my fav subjects). mystery movie/series, paper crafting, painting, listening to music, visit library or take a walk in peaceful, green spaces. ~INTJ female
I think fun is subjective. I think what I enjoy is fun. What other people do is not fun. I like reading and learning. ISTJs are probably worse than INTJs because they are not as abstract as INTJs.
Im an INTJ and I find the sensual world intoxicating. When I take part in it, i feel deeply (at least thats what it feels like), and I end up reeling from these experiences for weeks. Then I do it again and call it "shadow work"
I’m going to be a special warfare operator and for me, fun is doing a really stressful workout and things if that nature because it’s helping me achieve my goals. My friends are convinced I’m either lying or am affected by a mental disorder😂😂 glad I’m not alone.
It holiday for me, after having worked my butt off with this new way of learning online. But here I am learning new things, the way I always do every day and this is my fun. Occasionally to unwind, I play music while playing a video game involving planning and strategy. I am no fun...
My latest tests have shown me to be INFJ. But when I was 20 I was tested as INTJ. I still think INTJ people can be clever (in a funny way) and interesting. And I agree that you should work on all 8 functions, not just savior functions! Thank you for discouraging people from relying on the rest of the world to help them on the other 6 functions.
Yeah I relate as an INXJ. Fun really comes down to those positive emotions people get from engaging in social activities. So things like latin dance classes and social hobbies defs allow me to experience this type of fun. I burn out pretty fast though and have to go home and be alone to charge. When I was younger I needed a ton of alcohol/drugs to even have some semblance of "fun" that others have, so this all took me a long time to figure out.
As an INTJ my way of having fun is basically working and being non-stop sarcastic. I don't really see myself as this "unfunny and boring" INTJ that ppl try to picture us as. In contrary, I think we can be very witty because we're able to connect dots really quickly and think about a good quote or joke that fits the situation well. BUT we have to practice being aware of the present. It took me so long to get out of my head and actually pay attention to what the other person is saying even if it bores me. I tend to just think about something else while pretending to listen to people that don't stimulate me intellectually. That's obv not the way to go :D still work in progress
Learning skills to be a better me, I’m one of the few people who actually enjoy working construction, playing games with my online friends, and going to live shows.
My best friend and I are both INTJs and we have what we call “politics and pizza” where we just buy a big cheap pizza and talk about global issues or any sort of “deep” subject while we eat lol. Great fun for us
"What is fun" INTJ lvl 1000 lol
😬😬lol I mean I know how I define it 😂
I remember having that exact thought as a child. What is fun? How do people have fun?
VSauce music intensifies
ENFP:
F is for friends who do stuff together, U is for u and meeeeeeee....😂
INTJ FUN = Intense deep discussions.
I love intensity and depth!
Very true. It's so fulfilling
I wish I could like this comment infinitely...or at least twice.
I feel like that was supposed to be a joke but it isn’t at all lmao
What is this “FUN” of which you speak?
This is the type of fun I experience
INTJ wild fun : put music and dancing when nobody is home, or alone in my room it will last for 15 to 25 min. Depending of my energy levels.
INTJ fun: reading, surf the web, eat, drink tea, plan everything in advance, write, learn and stay home all day in my comfy clothe.
Hahah you are describing my PERFECT WORLD
this is so relatable
When you retire, you get to have that kind of fun all the time. It’s wonderful!!
In short sentence.. "being alone in home is FUN"
@@ardwg_ Absolutely 😎👍💯
I’m an INTJ female. What I usually do for fun is delve deep into research about cults /secret societies/ancient cultures/religion/anything related to mystery. I sit on my couch in silence and just read with a cup of coffee and my pup at my side surrounded by my plants.
Ooo yeah! That’s because we are single observers so the “missing information” game is like a drug to us. Makes so much sense!
Lol me: watching a whole documentary about ancient foods. My husband: scratches head and walks away
Same lol
The most fun is studying how people have fun.
So interesting isn’t it?! And their awareness of what is fun to them.
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Lmao. I study personality to understand people, generally. XD
True
It's "the other humans" not people.
Work friends: "Let's go out and have fun this weekend!"
Me: Stays in my apartment for 3 days straight watching psychology lectures, contemplating quantum mechanics, listening to music and planning all future scenarios and contingencies for the next ten years in excruciating detail. My kind of fun. If I get really wild, I might even have a glass of wine.
Hahahah sameeee
Do you listen to Jordan Peterson?
@@lostathenian1836 , Not anymore
@@outlaw6429
Why not?
@@lostathenian1836 , He had some good information on the front, from an objective perspective but quickly became a zealot. And I don't make leisure time for zealots. It isn't personal, this is based purely on his professional output. I find his personal life kind of fascinating.
INTJ= just listen to music, make some drawings, dance alone, eat, watch UA-cam, thinking deeply about everything, questioning my existence and sleep.
Exactly the same for me INFJ.
Sums it up 😂
INTJ fun is reading a book, seeing an interesting movie, etc. Hobby in your words.
It's a timing calculus. Spend quality time with select people. They will find you interesting. It's a question of being crafty about how you spend your time.
I can see that! For me, everything has to have a purpose. So reading a book to learn something, watching a tutorial etc :)
"Fun" for me translates to "Fulfilling my insatiable greed for knowledge and hoarding it in the archive that is my brain for later use"
Haha I get that!
Ravenous knowledge hoarder
Beautifully stated!
-INTP
Before I found your content I thought I was an extraterrestrial. Now I realize I am, but there's more of us! Thank you.
Welcome 👽 you have now found the others. So glad you made it.
my greatest pleasure comes when my opponent crumples on their knees and I look down on their disbelieving faces, as their plans fail. -INTJ
Wow so intense! Hah!
Ha ha so relatable.
So basically I need a plan to be more spontaneous 🤔
I literally do this.
I’m like, this is my planned spontaneity time!! Am I doing it right?!
L J Ditto. I just watch all of the Oe’s around me shaking their heads in shame
What I do, is when I plan to be spontaneous, I have a back up plan in case the situation is going south, often times it is related to distracting everyone else, while giving me an opening to leave the situation
As an INTJ, I relate to everything you are saying. The majority of my time is spent in my room. I’m listening to music, playing video games, surfing online, deep-diving into my favorite topics of astrology and psychology, watching tv or movies, reading. I do most things alone or at home. It’s hard for me to easily do what people traditional call fun: going out, experiencing new places and people, putting myself out there, partying, drinking, opening up and not caring how I come across. I don’t know how to truly relax or relinquish control. I’ve made huge strides though this past year and a half. I’ve been coming out of my shell and accomplishing things, not just wishing i did. This has all been facilitated by a close friend of mine, who I believe to be an EP. Her love and encouragement has helped me try to new things and go beyond my comfort zone.
I could see the value of coming out of your shell if your not accomplishing things but what if you were accomplishing things by staying in your shell? Would you still want to come out of it?
i'm an enfp and I'm equally comfortable staying home playing video games, watching tv or movies etc. as I am going out and exploring new places with one of my friends. Maybe ENFP's are less traditionally fun-loving as ESP types, because of our dominant Ne.
astrology? come on! it's 2019!
intj loving astrology is such bullshit. get your type right.
Alan Brakman i am ISFP and i do the same. I do love getting wild with friends sometimes
Growing up, my family would call me by the nickname, "The Black Hole of Fun."
I legitimately love black holes 😂💯
That I can totally get. Hawking was a childhood hero of mine and I was destined to become an astrophysicist! What’s not to love about a scientifically-verified enigmatic paradox!?
Why driving around? Just to drive on the road?
#whatsthepoint
lol literally know as that in my family. And "fun sucker"
I love theses concept of Black hole, Chaos, Paradox. It define parfectly myself : INFJ.
NiTe = The process of achieving my vision
FiSe = Doing what i like in the moment
Simple but very clear explanation of cognitive functions. Cognitive functions explained well in pairs than separetely.
Thanks so much for recognizing that. I love studying the functions and their particular affects in pairs :)
Marry me, we would be so boring together.
Haha I seem to be acquiring a line.
@@InternetLiJo I'll call Guinness and let them know the world's longest line of boring people is outside your house.
:)))))) at least not alone.
@@InternetLiJo get them to fill in their own rows on the assessment spreadsheet.
After coming back home from my mentally exhausting job, I usually sit in a place and just think for an hour in silence. That is fun cause you a) get your thoughts back in order and b) you come up with the greatest concepts because exhaustion unblocks your mental barriers and dogmas. Visiting contemporary art museums also helps as it is a total opposite of a busy day job and you absorb more beautiful concepts. Doing a hard reset on remote raves sometimes helps as well 😅
I don't think this is fun, is it
I love silence... and modern art!
I always get told I'm not fun....... my ex-girlfriend always said "I want someone who is happy go lucky" and I always thought happy go lucky people never achieve anything in life. Life is not fun.
Hahah I think fun is all a matter of perspective. I very much enjoy my process, but most people would hate it.
Mat mac..
Happy go lucky types usually have different perspectives and do what works for them which is perfectly fine and yes thry are successful in their own way (which may be different than INTj types). Cannot judge and say thry wont be successful etc..thr happy go lucky live in day to day types are some of the happiest I know and that can be construed as highly successful.
INTJ's main motto: "If you want something done right, you've gotta do it yourself!" And that's exactly how I feel. Nobody else is going to live up to my expectations, so why not just work on fulfilling my own expectations?
me: *accidentally explained something and turn a non specific conversations into a lecture and thought it was fun*
the noisy rest: *turns into crickets*
and so it gets boring again with their random conversations :')
*Listening to music and dancing alone in my room is so much fun.
* taking care of my plant collection is a blast
* shopping for home and kitchen appliances is so much fun
* Looking at fashion online is so satisfying
* having Ah-ha moments in my Mind is fulfilling
INTP here. I enjoy having fun and doing fun things, except no one else sees the fun in them for the most part.
Lol all us NT’s are on the same page with that I think 👽
As an INTJ I have the most fun combining the process of making my plan a reality with helping others, but at the end of the day my focus is not the people I help, but on how helping them helps me achieve my goals
Boom. Yes. This!
"Practice friends" is such an INTJ thing to say.
As an 95% introverted INTJ I've found out that spending time with my ENFP and ESTP friends really thrusts me into this spontaneous no-overthinking natural behavior where I can really enjoy in the moment even if it's not natural to my algorithmic mind ... They can really teach us some of "basic" human things that we usually consider stupid (lol) but are really needed in life, something we lack to be a complete person.
As a hard core INTJ I long ago understood that my idea of fun was basically alien to common society. And I couldn’t care less what other people think of that. This is a great video because I think a lot of INTJs go through some distress about how disconnected their sense of fun is from most people, and if you’re an INTJ you need to embrace the fact that what you find fun is just fine! INTJ is a rare personality style so start to expect and accept that you will not connect with the vast majority of humanity on what’s “fun.” But to be sure what you think is fun is 100% legit.
Yess you get it. Also when you said hardcore INTJ I had to laugh because I had the mental image of us trying to be tough and “hard” which is damn hilarious lol
Ice breaking lists
Going to the library
Surfing the internet
Videogames
Volunteering
Where/what do you do for volunteering?
To learn and grow, to take initiative, it's part of character especially understand the culture you work, and also every individual is assigned to different departments because of their strengths and weaknesses. However some of us like to focus on the tasks and while others chat about mundane things like their days, life stories, and pets etc. There is also changes too and new policies at the store, that are in effect just for the safety of our customers, we inspect every item that is allowed or outlawed, and watch out for expired dates they need to be thrown away immediately, keep an eye for clothes that are in a bad shape if it has holes, bodily fluids or has offensive messages, we recycled it. It's a thrift store but religious, we donate this stuff to poor countries.
I'm a fun guy (fungi), but it's in my head. 🍄
I’m sure all of the best people enjoy you then 😉
l was having a bad day, now lam having a good one
INTJ female here. Understanding/dominating the world, reading books, strategizing do interest me but I also love concerts, comedy shows, dancing, movies, museums, being out in nature....many many different things. I must be a more moderate type of INTJ. I view myself as a fun lover and others do too.
Nature is so wonderful, I really need to leave my house more and enjoy it, ugh thanks for the reminder 🖤
@@InternetLiJo You're welcome. Also, if you don't want to deal with many people, you can just drive to the lake and sit in your car. I do that when I want to enjoy nature ALONE.
Now that the fall season is coming soon, color tours may be a nice way to enjoy nature without being around too many people also (depending on where you live). I drove across the upper peninsula of Michigan in the fall a few years back and it was great! :)
You can be private and outgoing at the same time.
It is such a relief to find someone who thinks the same way. Almost all of my 'free time' is spent either on projects or online courses because it's a path to a desirable end goal (which most people won't understand if you try to explain that after they ask what you did over the weekend lol). I feel like if I'm not doing something that's focused on improving then I'm genuinely wasting my time. Thanks for making these kinds of videos 👌
@Roonake Thanks! After looking them up a bit they both seem like really interesting reads, I'll check them both out before the week is over 👍
Exactly exactly exactly my thoughts!! You nailed it. 💯
INFP here. I recently caught an INTJ friend using my exact humour style with a colleague. I felt a mixture of awe (that they were able to figure out a formula that I didn’t even know I used until I saw it “copied”/emulated) but I also felt violated, like the person had stolen something precious from me for their own dopamine hit.
It wasn’t plagiarism, they didn’t steal my joke verbatim and I don’t own jokes. I felt like the’d nicked the essence of me, something I’d shared with them as a jewel rather than a tool.
This video has given me some clarity. Thanks.
Thank you so much! 🧠 As an female INTJ new to personality types, and being lost at 23, these videos help to not feel so alone (not lonely). Thank you again.
New subscriber! 🤳🏽#KeepGoing
~Watching at 5am, self-growth never stops🕔
Hey! So what you said here ^ is literally the only reason I have stuck with this channel. I wish I had discovered typology and practical psychology earlier in life. It’s a lonely world inside our mind. Know that there’s others out there that understand you really helps 👽 welcome!
My idea of fun often includes activities that involve creation or self-improvement. I love ice skating, playing tennis, playing the piano, trading, sewing, knitting, watching videos that teach me something or reading books that teach me something. When I was younger, I loved traveling and exploring, getting lost, finding my way back. It is true many of these activities are solitary. Many but not all. Some of these activities, I’m fairly good at, others only passable, but I enjoy the journey of constant improvement.
Yeah! I really enjoy the honing in of constant improvement. I just want to understand the most important thing!
Playing Last of Us as an INTJ is, A chilling experience.
Definitely Fun!
I want to go on the TV show Survivor
I was having fun talking to this friend. We were talking about AI, psychology and whether there is anything like 'individual' and free will.
i don't know how will you perceive this but i troll people in my free time 😂
i can see where having fun in pointing peoples illogical conclusions can be....like in games...with people....and the not common sense stuff they say.
Yeah why wouldn’t you do that
ESTP or ENTP? 😒
I’m so glad I found your channel. I now feel as if I fit into society knowing that there are other individuals who enjoy the same interests as me.
Yeeee! Welcome to the tribe Lexi 👽
LiJo 👽:)))
My definition of fun when no one else is around: reading, watching series, thinking, studying something I want to learn, taking a walk, taking photo's and editing them and some more thinking, about life, my future, the universe etc :) I'm an INTJ by the way.
Hi LiJo, INTJ going through a tough time in my life, but your video has given me more confidence to re-embrace who I am and my type of Fun.
I so much want to become more INTJ as an INTP, you guys naturally achieve amazing things.
Thank you! And I really enjoy the original imaginative nature of the INTP as well!
Yess samee! Always admire my INTJ
I literally want to cry rn. I never thought someone wanted to be an intj, I kinda hate being an intj in the last days beacuse I feel like people perceive me as a robot and I can't show emotions as I'd like to. I want to be spontaneus, exteoverted, funny so bad but I simply can't do it naturally. I feel so lost and out of this world
@@berry2nicky3 i understand now that it's common for us intjs to feel this way, i am no longer trying to be something that im not just to appeal to more people. i have found that even those who do not understand me still accept me in many ways. which is often enough, but only an intj can understand a fellow intj and sadly we're very thinly spread out
My idea of fun is something that I find challenging, intense, and thought provoking enough, exploring new ideas and concepts, and take it in my own direction. Letting my brain go and acting like a sponge taking everything in. Accomplishment is the cherry on top ^_^
Honestly as an INTJ that's been struggling with this lately, cool vid thanks. And I love P function people for the same reason too. I'm a glutton for serenity and peace, sometimes you need somebody to kick you out of your comfort.
I'm an INTJ from Southern California and watching UA-cam is fun for me because I learn new things everytime and I enjoy sleeping after being around the Extraverted world.
This makes me happy ;)
"Why would you only want to rely on 2 functions and rely on the rest of the world to be good enough to pull off all the other functions in your life to help you with that. If you think that way, you must have a lot more faith in people than i do" I subbed as you said that cz i have trust issues too :p
Precisely why I'm thoroughly studying cognitive functions after scoring INxJ to know and better myself (both my Te and Ti are higher than Fi and Fe for some reason Fe being slightly higher, hence the confusion of x and I wanna know how to balance it better)
Also, god bless my ENTP best friend for giving me overriding anxiety and making me used to spontaneous nightmares.
I need to plan to be spontaneous, practice having fun, just in case having fun is required in my future so I am prepared. Got it. You are awesome! Love you to bits!🥰
''Fun'' is such a relative term. For every human being on this planet, ''fun'' may mean thousands of things. For some people, fun is when they hang out with alot of friends and drink or watch a movie together, for other people fun is playing... funny games and laughing.
For me personally, ''fun'' is when I'm home alone, watching a movie or a documentary, going out all by myself and having some long walks, reading or studying something fascinating for medical school - something that would help me understand stuff for my future career. At other times, fun would mean me talking to a friend or two about something interesting or, why not, funny (smarts jokes are the best jokes). It's just the way it is. People create their ''own fun''.
Great video! :)
Thank you! Yes fun is wildly subjective
i love the excessive thinking and quotation marks! reminds me of myself, me? video games, reading, coffee, food, abstract thought, music production
I can tell your smile comes naturally in this video
INTJ really like talking about them selves
I enjoy sharing things that will help people similar to myself.
INTJs are plenty of fun. We just know how to entertain ourselves unlike extroverts who absolutely can't just stay home and mind their own business for any length of time.
Right, we are fun to us lol
what I do is read, listen to music, or write and people think that’s all I do but in reality I’m in my dreamworld planning for my future and what I’m doing in that moment or what I need to be doing to get where I want to be. I like to envision my future a lot, like I mean A LOT lmaooo😭 and while I’m doing normal things, I distract myself by daydreaming and planning 💀💀💀
Right now, my long term goal is to perfect my japanese, so a lot of the time I only watch japanese media (mostly on youtube) to get the important words and the grammar elements. Then, for the rest of the day I will just put them in a list and learn them.
That's it. That's what fun is for me.
Sometimes I try to stop. Going out and have normal fun, or watching a movie with a friend. But even in those occasions, I'm only thinking that I could be working on my japanese and being one step closer to my goal.
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@@RialuCaos そうします。ありがとうございます！
You honestly seem like an awesome girl to talk to. You seem very logical, not too cold towards people and doesn't talk too much.
Thank you! I would say I’m pretty alright to talk to :)
@@InternetLiJo You also are quite attractive if I may say. If the theory is correct then your mate would be a feeling type.
My work colleagues on a Friday - "so what are you doing this weekend?"
Me - "i'm going to go for a soya hot chocolate and read my book at Rustic Bean cafe, I can't wait"
That control thing hit really close to home. I feel like I isolate and do everything on my own because at least then and only then I can do what I want to do. When I go out with friends, I don't have control over what activities we do and sometimes that is necessary for challenging yourself and discovering new things.
Also, this has nothing to do with the video but, I love your sense of style.
My fun is writing textbooks and making quizzes. No, I am being serious.
This explain a lot, my 'friends' ass told me you should go out more and have some fun. My real answer is "what you consider fun I don't?" 🤣 It's tired to go out parties and just chit-chat which won't give me any Important information
My Intj sister just bought a house meanwhile I'm over here in my tiny barracks hating my life because an infps introverted feeling and extroverted intuition just puts my ass on a bmx bike at a skatepark. Lol. Wish I had an Intj mindset, you guys kill it when it comes to making moves in the work place.
Hey! Good news is, smalls goals make a huge difference. If you want to buy a house, you can start mapping out the big quarterly progress you need to make, and then also what you need to be improving every week. If the goal seems too big, just focus on the small steps to get you there. You can do the thing!
Enjoyed the vid...on point.
My idea of externally fun activities focuses on controlled risk activities: motorcycling/track days, scuba, skydiving, trap/skeet shooting.
These activities enable me to exercise and apply my knowledge/skill and experience towards 'risky' activities whilst applying my exceptional desire to envisage and control a positive outcome.
This also allows me to, generally, associate with like minded, enthusiastic and well versed individuals sharing the same activity. This is very important to me.
What I do when alone at home essentially coincides with what was stated in the vid...difficult to remove a Leopard's spots.
Oh my gosh! This was great! I totally related to Everything you said! Wow! I am going to start being more self accepting and stop being so hard on myself for being me... Big Thanks from this INTJ woman.
Hey Fran! Glad it made sense. Welcome to my world, happy you found it 👽
When you said "see how weird it gets"
I first thought you said "see how our dick gets"
I'm an intj who likes dirty jokes probably too much so I was dying of laughter.
Hahahahahhahahahahahahahahahhahajajahahahajahahahhahah 💯
Ha! Right I have. Plan for next month. I don't get planning people that do elaborate journals but I love art. It's more satisfying for me to do things in my head. I hate explaining my self, when that's the best option for me. My husband is an estp and I enjoy how outgoing he is but on that same note in like ok i’m like Down what makes sense lol
How I have fun: I stay in my room reading, playing video games, watching my favorites shows, laughing at sarcastic memes, learning how to do this or that. Knitting is really relaxing. My love for Jigsaw puzzles can keep me isolated from everything (my father thinks is stupid). As to outdoors activities, going for a walk with my dog is the best.
‘Why rely on the rest of the world’ for the functions I am not good at. Dmmit, that was an eye opener. ? Why did I click on this video.. stupid UA-cam prompts. I was just thinking I was doing OK, and maybe MBTI would not be the source of self improvement projects. How dare it appeal so masterfully to logic. Thanks for nada , LiJo. 💜🥳🖤
As an INTJ I would love to say you (people) are giving this more importance than it actually deserves... personality type doesnt matter as long as you are a good person and you are comfortable with who you are... so yeah...
The significance you mention here ties back to understanding which is the goal of my channel. To be understood and to understand others better. Sure being a “good person” is great, but there a million channels that talk about that. Not my goal here :$
Having a clear vision and being able to articulate the destination you see to your colleagues, seeing it materialize in the real world just the way you like it by reaching the apex.
You know all my tricks ;)
On a serious note I'm actually amazed that my friends still try to get me to do social endeavors. I can have fun, but it always reaches that point where "hanging out" feels like "waste of time". Usually makes me feel worse once I reach that conclusion. Like I've done something wrong. In the end though they don't seem phased at all and are ready to usher me out again. Its confusing, but I've been making the effort to just go when they offer instead of making excuses.
I spend a ton of time exploring inside my own mind, theorize, developing new ideas and inspirations. So on the outside, I’d be sitting quietly in a corner, or beside a window, usually writing something on a notebook or my phone. Is it safe to say that we INTJs are professional daydreamers?
Dream creators I would say :)
I’ve analyzed fun... the word, the concept, the definition, the activities, the moods and the outcomes in the process of having a good time. It was fun.
0:30 'What are you doing?'
Watching UA-cam videos on MBTI and INTJs. For self development to feed Te, which feeds Ni. So basically NiTe.
0:37 'What is fun?'
Learning from super intelligent people who are brighter than me. Listening to INTJ sarcasm/wit gets bonus points.
5:50 'Becoming superhuman and taking over the world'-Well done, bonus points for you, that's a maximum score!
Seriously though, you make good points on developing the other functions. An ENTP friend rightly pointed out to me, to learn about people, I need to go out and meet them. Develop my Fi/Se more. Got a MBTI meet up coming up soon, so hopefully that should be fun.
On another note, when I see clients at work, I just end up going into the INTJ 'death stare' mode, as Te means I have to concentrate so much on listening to what they are saying, whilst Ni starts to try and get the perfect answer. It feels a real struggle to add a smile and do good body language at the same time. I can just about manage the occasional INTJ, Mona Lisa smile every odd minute. You seem very bubbly and smiley. Which is good Fe. How did you develop this function so well?
Oh man Ni and trying to get “the perfect answer”... I relate to that so much, that’s what Ni is constantly doing. Trying to find the best singular way.
As for Fe, hah it’s a huge struggle for me. I can’t really “do empathy”. What you see from my smily bubbly side is just my Fi. Im not doing it “for” anyone. I’m just alone and making myself laugh in front of my own camera. It’s great people enjoy it though! But my intention isn’t to make people feel good.
Also it took a lot of time for me to get comfortable in front of a camera. I took videos for years before I ever had the guts to edit and upload one. It just seemed so weird.
@@InternetLiJo Lots of good points. Thanks.
Smile and the whole world smiles with you.
I agree INTJs don't really do empathy. Our sister types, INFJs do that so well. I think with Ni though, we are very good at reading people and imagining their future and have sympathy for others. The next step of verbalising our Fi can be quite a challenge though. I guess if I push myself, and say statements such as, 'aww that sounds so tough, camera work, particularly for an introvert!' Can only help my development. Also, I guess INTJs agree with the Einstein's quote, that “Genius is 1% talent and 99% percent hard work...” INTJs are going to do the 99% hard work (no problem) even if they may not have the 1% natural talent. So INTJs are going to be brilliant at what they do. Just need to remember to do the fun stuff as well!
Very cool video. I have a close IxxJ friend who is very control > chaos and while it is challenging for me to see things his way, I believe we complement each other well. Sometimes I have to drag him out into the real world and sometimes he has to drag me down from outer space.
In a group setting: fun (for me) is usually anything that includes exploring a new place or trying something new, on the flip side another big part is just the overall experience you have when you are with your friends (good or bad) for instance some of the best moments I remember throughout the years are times where something unfortunate or unplanned happened and we just had a good laugh.
1 on 1: fun (for me) is connecting with someone intellectually, emotionally and spiritually. I hate small talk but I love exploring how and why people think the way they do, and honestly, I would choose a great 1 on 1 conversation over what the normal person would call "a good time" out at the bars any day of the week.
On my own: I enjoy exploring theories, coming up with ridiculous ideas, learning new things by reading, watching videos, listening to podcasts or even just jamming to music.
- ENTP
I get along with ENTPs amazingly well. Connecting intellectually is how we do it best :)
@@InternetLiJo me being as an unconscious INTJ and you being an unconscious ENTP , we are both on the same journey towards enlightenment, I am sure we could learn several things from each other, I will keep watching. Thanks for the content, stay weird.
👽 you too friend
My fun is drinking a cup of coffee/tea, while doing research (like reading or surfing on the) on topics I'm particularly interested in and that are useful (for my inner self or for the external world), taking notes, organize the notes; planning, a lot of planning (idk it's just like playing with sims, deciding the future and stuff); then comes what I call "the crisis" but it's just my mind doing philosophy so that I can call my father (INFJs in deep talks are the best sometimes) and debating for hours.
Turning my own mind into a powerful weapon is fun being able to analyze and break down things is fun
Hey girl. Infp here who likes studying intj for fun. Love your content 💕
One of my favorite things to do for fun is watch videos (usually on UA-cam) about strange sightings, dangerous storms and the paranormal. Stuff from the likes of "That Is Impossible", "Nuke's Top 5", "Slapped Ham" and "Pecos Hank". I can watch that stuff for hours.
That and reading answers to various questions on "Quora". Actually, I read WAY too much of that. I seriously need to cut back. It's almost as bad as watching the news.
Story intensive video games are also fun.
Fun is being productive and evolving towards the person I want to be. Once in a while I plan things with family to go on a trip for the Holidays, but I still get things done in between the hours I’m away.
My ex is an ENFP and we used to joke that his job was to be sure I had fun.
Hahahah basically yes
Sometimes I'll go to my bff's house who is a "p" type when she's not there to chill with her sister and my bff will always apologize for not being around to "have fun" with me lol I always tell her I'm fine, coming here is like going from my house to my 2nd house, I AM having fun! "But you're just sitting there in the house!🤔" I'm doing other things you just can't see what is in my head.
Fun for me = studying, self growth videos, UA-cam in general, reading
Fun for my bff= leaving the house to do something or interact with the general public
😂😂😂
Self growth is everything haha
@@InternetLiJo lol yes, it's literally my favorite thing. 😁
OMG it is making me smile ear to ear to discover that there are female INTJs. I always straddle the line between INTJ and ENTJ, but I seem to fit better into the INTJ category. What I think is happening is that I'm a very outgoing INTJ, so I'm tricking the test unintentionally. Introverted Intuition and Extraverted Thinking is def my jam, 100%
That makes sense!! Check out my video on “your struggle isn’t real” it highlights the main differences between IxxJs and ExxJs
Cool, I'll check it out
At the moment, my sense of fun is to make Te my primary function and Ni the secondary. The idea is to experiment being a little bit more like ENTJ altough the Fi and Se remain in the same order. People at my job say I'm coming out of my shell lol.
That is a GREAT way to approach that goal. 10/10!
That's what I have been trying to do for the last 6 months. I have achieved my goal at a satisfying degree.
INTJ what’s really fun is creating a comprehensive calendar counting down milestones to my goal. If I feel like being wild I’ll watch a documentary on something I’ll never do, like ultra marathon runners. So fascinating, I can go down a rabbit hole researching that all weekend.
YES! "Use your friends as prototypes" made my day!
I read the Bible, watch health documentaries, when I'm not doing that I'm doing a 3k piece puzzle. Listening to music puts me into a mental psychosis so I don't listen very often.
In my free time i find fun in watching documentaries (of my fav subjects). mystery movie/series, paper crafting, painting, listening to music, visit library or take a walk in peaceful, green spaces. ~INTJ female
Lol taking over the world! Yes! All in a days work! 😂 love you!
Ah thanks Heather, I appreciate that!
I like your hair! ^_^
And yeah, people tell me that all the time lmao. But I do have fun.
Thank you and yes! My world is fun to me!
I think fun is subjective. I think what I enjoy is fun. What other people do is not fun. I like reading and learning.
ISTJs are probably worse than INTJs because they are not as abstract as INTJs.
(INTJ-A) I have a hand full of hobbies but no pleasure is greater than that which allows me to think, plan, and destroy my competition
Fun = playing music in background + discovering a new theory about universe + reading novel to knows how human’s logic work + having coffee...
Im an INTJ and I find the sensual world intoxicating. When I take part in it, i feel deeply (at least thats what it feels like), and I end up reeling from these experiences for weeks. Then I do it again and call it "shadow work"
I couldn't stop (friendly-style) laughing through the whole video.
😂 I laugh at myself every day. It’s freedom.
I’m going to be a special warfare operator and for me, fun is doing a really stressful workout and things if that nature because it’s helping me achieve my goals. My friends are convinced I’m either lying or am affected by a mental disorder😂😂 glad I’m not alone.
You're performance was great! By the way you look extremely beautiful! :o
Thanks Patton! Just being me 😬
It holiday for me, after having worked my butt off with this new way of learning online. But here I am learning new things, the way I always do every day and this is my fun. Occasionally to unwind, I play music while playing a video game involving planning and strategy. I am no fun...
My latest tests have shown me to be INFJ. But when I was 20 I was tested as INTJ. I still think INTJ people can be clever (in a funny way) and interesting. And I agree that you should work on all 8 functions, not just savior functions! Thank you for discouraging people from relying on the rest of the world to help them on the other 6 functions.
Thanks Stephan! I’m so glad you brought attention to the other functions bit. I am very passionate about preaching that more or less haha
@@InternetLiJo Preach on!
"Hi, everybody. Welcome. Happy to have you." > No Smile.
"Welcome to my den of weirdness." > Genuine Smile.
I smiled at that.
Yeah I relate as an INXJ. Fun really comes down to those positive emotions people get from engaging in social activities. So things like latin dance classes and social hobbies defs allow me to experience this type of fun. I burn out pretty fast though and have to go home and be alone to charge. When I was younger I needed a ton of alcohol/drugs to even have some semblance of "fun" that others have, so this all took me a long time to figure out.
Hahah yeah alcohol is such a waste of time and hydration in my opinion but I totally see why people engage in it. Latin dance sounds like fun!
As an INTJ my way of having fun is basically working and being non-stop sarcastic. I don't really see myself as this "unfunny and boring" INTJ that ppl try to picture us as. In contrary, I think we can be very witty because we're able to connect dots really quickly and think about a good quote or joke that fits the situation well. BUT we have to practice being aware of the present. It took me so long to get out of my head and actually pay attention to what the other person is saying even if it bores me. I tend to just think about something else while pretending to listen to people that don't stimulate me intellectually. That's obv not the way to go :D still work in progress
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Intj's fun comes from achieving goals
Learning skills to be a better me, I’m one of the few people who actually enjoy working construction, playing games with my online friends, and going to live shows.
My best friend and I are both INTJs and we have what we call “politics and pizza” where we just buy a big cheap pizza and talk about global issues or any sort of “deep” subject while we eat lol. Great fun for us