Things Not to Say to Someone With a Facial Disfigurement
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- Опубліковано 6 чер 2016
- People with facial disfigurements have to tolerate a lot of silly comments. So, listen up - they want to explain some of the questions you should dodge next time you’re speaking to them…
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"I don't have a boyfriend at the time, sadly...... But I don't think my husband would approve."
GOLD
PrinceBonnie 999th like! sorry I'll go now
She's epic! I love her sense of humour..I think she'd be a good stand up comedian!
PrinceBonnie she didn't ever have a ring
I want to be friends with this woman
haha, her comment killed me while watching >_
"What happened to you"
I got born
Furry Child that explains a lot breach pregnancy is very dangerous
if I had this and someone said “what happened to you”
i’ll just say I saw your face that’s what happened
Honesty relatable
Caitlyn Meadors well that one lady said something like “after the accident” so I am a bit curious
“I got born”
English on point
Man I learned of this video from the quagmire edit of "ew what happened to your face" but damn this videos very inspirational, they aren't ever ashamed of themselves in this video for appearing abnormal and that makes me feel good to know there's people like this, these people have a great sense of humour and I wish I could be friends with them.
Sean your alive!!!!!!😃😃😃
I typed "eugh what happened to your face" into the search bar 😂🤙
Giggity giggity
Hhhhhhhjjuiooppp
I ended up finding more interviews Victoria (Lucas) Wright did, and I have to say, she’s an inspiring, articulate person.
"And I looked him DEAD in the eye and I said... GIGGITY GIGGITY GIGGITY"
Who else but Quagmire?
@@yilmazibrahimov That lady is now Miss. Quagmire
That's what I saw this on first lmao
Who else but shirt pants
I was just about to comment this
i think the black guy's scars make him look like some superhero in a comic book
I agree he looks cool
A. Saleh I was thinking the same thing I Could See him in an action movie or Lethal Weapon the show🎥 actually the girl he is talking to could be in Game of Thrones where are the Agents
Yeah 💗💓💝💜
Nick Fury
I think he looks like Seal.
"I don't have a boyfriend now, which is sad. But I just don't think my husband would approve." Omfg made my day
same i was like "omg everyone get reked
Haha same. I had to even pause and take a second to heal from that burn.
she's my favorite hahaha
so did those other girls
KettiexD
"i don't have a boyfriend now but i just don't think my husband would approve"
when i tell u i choked-
It’s a lie
"And i looked at him dead in the eyes and said"
"Giggity Giggity Giggity"
Show your face
@@itsallyokisplace blud th you mean "show your face" show yours instead you dawg looking face
The black guy's scar make him look so cool to me
He reminds me of skeletor from "The First Purge"
Honestly they all looked cool to me, maybe its because I'm an EMS provider or because I have aspergers but I would just live to hang out with them, they all seemed like cool people
Themoji 63 skeletor*
@@atomicwolfisabot1165 ahh, my bad
Legit looks like a an anti hero with a dope back story
i love all of them bruh😭😭 you can feel the strength in their words, the way they talk about themselves and society. it might not have been their dream life they had to live through but its what made them be the people they are now.. and i think theyre truly beautiful. it makes me wanna befriend them
I love how humanizing these videos are
The black guy should get like ripped and he would look badass
Rick Grimes For real though
Rick Grimes omg the walking dead is boring af
YT oholic *triggered*
Rick Grimes yes he would look like a robotic kinda thing
Rick Grimes hows corl doin
The woman in the blue top is adorable
what are you doing here babe?
What one had the disfiguration The one in the blue or the other both looked cute
I dont see anything wrong with her face. Why is she even on this video
How her hand
Oh, look! It's the super cool guy from my favorite pewdiepie song and animation! Keep up the great work!
The word normal is very abnormal, man earned my respect
These people's confidence and kindness just gave all of them my love
Things Not to Say to Someone With a Facial Disfigurement:
"AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHH"
Something Orother that’s something you shouldnt say to anyone
Made me smile
@@millycarpenter8245 unless ur getting kidnapped
@@parasisabug as a professional kidnapper i disagree
Yep, I´m going to hell!
I've been guilty of suddenly looking away, but it's because I don't want the person to feel like they're being watched. It's human nature to look, but rude to stare.
I stare at anyone and everyone but then I find myself staring at someone with a disability or disfigurement or anything not "normal" and I realise and I'm like oh no I'm a horrible person so I look away suddenly which isn't any better.
Hannah Lack
You could try crossing your eyes and see if that improves things! :)
Whenever i look at people for something like them wearing something unique or looking unique or anything of the sort, and they look back, i simply smile or smile and wave, it makes them smile back or wave and smile back like 99% of the time!! it makes me happy
If somebody catches you looking at them just smile at them when they make eye contact with you :) you'll feel a lot better
People look at other people all the time and it not always awkward. smiling at a stranger is a friendly exchange whereas making eye contact, panicking because they've seen you looking at them and then looking away is awkward.
Try to relax and smile and you'll have a much better interaction
Terri Zielke preach
Bro imagine the black guy's disfigurement when he's shredded asf, he's gonna look so bad ass with it
“Gigitty gigitty”
"I don't have a boyfriend now, which is pretty sad, but I don't think my husband would approve" 😂😂 I love her
glory williams
"I have a horrible disease, and if I breathe in you.... you'll catch it."
😂
glory williams female desperate dan
glory williams I LOVED THAT COMMENT BY HER😂😂❤️❤️
Le Oui how please tell me 😂
Sorry, meant Noobenstein for their comment. Just not nice.
"I don't have a boyfriend which is sad. I don't think my husband would approve." OMG😂
2:38
heyoitscatdango I was about to note the same thing. Classy. Also would probably be a great way to deal with people's attempts to pick you up (even if you don't have a husband).
heyoitscatdango I was about to note the same thing. Classy. Also would probably be a great way to deal with people's attempts to pick you up (even if you don't have a husband).
heyoitscatdango She a straight savage😂
That part had me laughing so hard hahaha
For all the memes that have come out of this, these are just genuine people living. Respect.
I have facial differences and this video is helping me gain my confidence back... And I don't feel so alone❤️
"i just don't think my husband would approve!"
I love that
Abigail K i was like did u just 😂
she seems like such a savage😂love her
brilliant!!!
That part had me rolling on the floor and in tears cause I was laughing so hard
When my little sister was about four, we were out shopping and she was staring at a lady who scars on her face. I told her it wasn’t nice to stare becas it could make people uncomfortable. I KID YOU NOT, my little sister gets up and walks over to this woman and asks if she can sit with her. The lady said she could. I walked over in time to see my sister stand up in the chair, hug this lady, and cup her face in her hands and said, “you’re so pretty!” and started giggling. The lady started crying. My sister and I sat with her for a bit and just talked and I think my sister called her beautiful about a hundred times. It was such a heartwarming experience.
BurnaBurna 🥺🥺🥺
I’m calling bullshit
@@audioss909 r/thathappened
lmao Oof I wish
God bless your sister for being one of very few kind and compassionate people left in the world.
buzz lightyear + quagmire + to infinity + giggity giggity
Crimson chin
That black dude lookes really cool with that scar
Tepper agreed
mike tyson
It's basically the Mike Tyson's tattoo but it's a scar
tho it shines kinda like he dipped his face in a superglue le
Tepper he does
The first lady should do stand-up comedy because she is hilarious..
No she isnt
I-
@growlingbehemoth no, not really
@growlingbehemoth the only thing funny about her is her face
@growlingbehemoth how am I wrong
I’ve come from that video that has the giggity giggity edit😂
i looked him dead in the eye and said giggity giggity
That black guys disfigurement makes him look like a badass
I know right
@Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart ay when you finna drop a new album my guy
@Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart shii bett your last album was fireee
Like Deathlok from agents of sheild
Reminds me of mike tyson's face tattoo
"They look absolutely normal!! There's nothing different about them!"
But... They don't. There is. But they are okay with it and y'all don't need to pretend that they need to be convinced so.
Yeah thats exactly the point if we are pretending they look normal we are actually taking steps back the point is they dont and we still accept them saying that they look normal is like saying dont worry you look ok cause god forbid you didnt
Yeah, I hate ll these comments going, "What is she talking about, there's nothing wrong with her face!".
They are different but that dosent mean we have to treat them differently..
@@doomsday7308 thank you
some Body wlc.
The first woman looks like Stan from American dad
Nah more like quagmire
The black one is not that bad... actually, is pretty badass
GXBRXXL ' ya but that one chick looks like joe from family guy
GXBRXXL ' Is that Steezy I see?
Kano from Mortal Kombat
GXBRXXL ' i agree
GXBRXXL ' looks like Seal.
"I dont have a boyfriend now, which is a bit sad but.. i just dont think my husband might approve."
literally burst out laughing at this!!
Lol ×D
😂😂
My husband wouldn't approve
👏👏👏
This woman is a queen
😂 😂 😂
Things not to say to people with facial disfigurements: Giggity giggity
the black guy with the scars makes him look like a sick badass villain or a war veteran but still wouldn't recommend burning your face like the time my mom accidentally spelled hot tea on me ( it was my fault) i had to get surgery and it left this big burn mark on the top of my head now it's gone except for a little bit on my foot
I'm not sure why but the black guy actually looks kind of cool. He looks like he just got out of some battle but that is just me
I don't look at other comments
- 2D he does though
- 2D i wanted to say the same.
i tought he has like cybernetic implants which are hella cool and im jealous...
IKRR
Colture045 k
"I don't have a boyfriend now, I don't think my husband would approve" pure gold. I wanna be friends with her
I looked in him dead in the eye and I said "BUZZ LIGHT-YEAR!!"
"I looked him dead in the eye and said : To infinity and BEYOND!"
The black dude looks kinda badass ..he looks like a movie character....super villain or smth
Ivan Rowe i actually watched the whole video looking for his problem.
But with the constant smile, he doesnt.
He's a Saviour, Negan punished him.
Select WTF he has the thing on the side of his face
I'm disappointed with the lack of Zuko references...
"I just don't think my husband would approve" 😂😂
Natalia R turns out she's single and most of the lines are scrypted like all of their videos
Natalia R lol
Aban Jacob Ruman the line made me laugh. I don't care if it's true or not.
Natalia R she's savage
nope google hit
This made my day. They seek to be the kind to have fun. The best part is when they talked about messing with people.
0:06 "I looked him dead in the eye.. and i said"
"GIGGITY GIGGITY GOO"
😂😂😂
Most of the time ingenuinely complementing someone is more patronizing than flattering
Its true its like a subtle form of pitying them.
Miss Kobi like microagressions
Miss Kobi I'm genuinely not trying to be mean, but I've always wondered how people with no arms wipe. What's the process?
Extrafinity L They could possibly use their feet or one of those toilets that spray water.
Extrafinity L How do you wipe your ass are you gonna explain to us in exsquisive detail? Are you doing it right? Are you wiping up every single partical of shit? Tell us? what's the process?
the set of two girls. it's kinda hard to see that they are disfigured.
bluckamey burns. Wearing makeup, harder to see
Ok
Ikr. Whats wrong the girl on the left on 0:37
chayfuo theres nothing wrong with her ;)
Ryan OW why is she there tho?
0:10 GIGGITY GIGGITY GIGGITY
Her : i looked him dead in the eye and i said : "“I am Buzz Lightyear. I'm part of Sector 4's Gamma Patrol, a member of the elite space ranger universal protection unit.
I defend the galaxy against the threat of the invasion of the infamous Emperor Zurg, sworn enemy of the sidereal alliance. »
I know it's shitty but I deadass thought the lady on the left in the thumbnail had a snap chat filter.
IceVines LMAOOOO
IceVines Same
IceVines 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 bruh I thought it was photoshopped
I thought she was a Sim or some shit
Same 😭
"I don't have a boyfriend now... which is a bit sad... but I just don't think my husband would approve!" HAHAHAH
COMPLETE GOLD
👏👏👏👏
Loved it.
I loved that so much, I laughed so hard
SNATCHEDT OUR ASSES. I LUV HA
I love and admire their confidence!
"i looked him dead in the eye and i said,Giggity Giggity"im sorry lord dont send me to hell😂😂
I don't have a boyfriend now which is kind of sad...I don't think my husband would approve. 😂🤣😂
Bumble Baba Copying a feminist's comment, how original BuzzFeed
JobberMania
..... What?
JobberMania wtf dude this isn't buzzfeed 1,2,how does this make her or him a feminist 3,how would they copy this if it was wrote AFTER the video was made do you know how UA-cam works wait.....no do you know how the world works?
Bumble Baba "i dont know think" what?
JobberMania This isn't buzzfeed...
"Uhh, what happend to your face?"
"And i looked him dead in the eye, and i said" *_GIGGITY GIGGITY GIGGITY GIGGITY_*
Arion 💀
I saw this meme
Arion buzz light year
The Crimson chin
The pale lady
More power to you! Love and Support ❤️🙏🏼
I’ve seen a few of these people on Changing Faces UK. Good to hear what they have to say.
"I don't have a boyfriend now, which is pretty sad. But, I just don't think my husband would approve" phew 🔥 she's so spicy Hahaha. Love those two.
Bene Katabua
You have so many likes my guy
BUZZ LIGHTYEAR!!!!
I usually stare not in disgust but just, examining, I do it to everyone. Someone catches my eye and I just start getting to know every facial feature
Wysteria Paws Same
Thats weird
Ded ass same af but I do it to their every body feature or any clothing (not criticizing what they wear ) but just to predict how their lives are but I make sure they aren't looking😂😂
Wysteria Paws I only do that to homeless people to check if they are faking being homeless and if they are homeless I give them a dollar
Wysteria Paws but if I do see someone different I examine super harder
To infinity and beyond
That Lady’s Quagmire cosplay is on point!
so is this like the British buzz feed?
DA_ILLEST ofALLTIME it's BBC, Buzzfeed does have a British team though
User Annoymous noooooooooo the cancer is spreading
Lil Kodak The Finesse Kid LMAO!!
DA_ILLEST Visionz No
DA_ILLEST Visionz no. It's the most popular news/TV show channel.
I thought the first girl's face was photoshopped on the thumbnail...
JasperUniverse same
honestly I just clicked on the video to know if its not :)
tbh, i thought that someone made a fucked up sim from sims 4
+JasperUniverse SAMMEE
JasperUniverse same
0:11 "I looked at him dead in the eye and said GIGITY GIGITY GIG-"
And I looked at him dead in the eye, and I said: GIgGITY GIggity GIggiTY
The girl on the right in the blue shirt doesn't even look bad. Her face looks normal its just her hand.
Lauren she looks like a real life cartoon character but not in the mean way but in a cool way
tbh i assumed meningitis because of how her hands were affected and the irregularity of her scarring. but she said she 'accident' so i suppose i am wrong
+alex lily looks like burns
alex lily acid burns
Black Damask Or she's being honest? I thought those two girls were guests, i didn't notice at first, bad phone quality but still
"Look around at all these boring humans!"
"Yeah, we're way more interesting than them!"
Good gravy I love these guys!
Orion's Arrow did you just....say...good gravy....what the fuck
Orion's Arrow Good Gravy? Seriously?
Orion's Arrow I know
Whatever makes you feel better...
Orion's Arrow Yeah im pretty sure i would rather be "boring" than walk around with a fucked up head that weighs 40 pounds
Honestly the facial scar on the black dude is the most badass thing I've ever seen and it look awesome!!
As someone who was born with facial defects among other things, I feel like I got lucky with not having to deal with a whole lot of crap growing up. Sure, I got made fun of here and there (still do), but all things considered, people are pretty chill. Just the occasional question of "What happened to your eye, or why do you look like that?" God created me this way and I'm ok with it. You all are amazing
Giggity giggity giggity giggity gig
You can't really get upset with children because they question everything that's different and anything they don't understand
Jewel Brava. They question everything, period!
Tactical Bathtub they question periods😂
Jewel Brava the thing is though that that's often a reason why they pose their questions in a very insensitive way, basically they don't even think to hide how your deformity makes them feel, so that if you're actually still feeling bad about it yourself, you would get hurt
Parents should teach their children not to ask strangers things in a rude way or even at all, or how to pose questions.
I don't think like that at all. Children are curious in a typical childish way. Children don't judge or mock until they a spoiled by grown ups.It is ok to ask.A child asks and if it gets a proper explanation it's - ah,ok! Problem solved.It's the bahaviour of adults that makes children the little soulless monsters they sometimes are.A child is born innocent,so always watch your own behaviour!
“I don’t have a boyfriend now....which is quite sad. I just don’t think my husband would approve.” What a QUEEN!!! 👏🏼👏🏼✨
She didnt say 'which is quite sad'
@@dumplinglover8042 she said " which is a bit sad" it's not completely different lmao
giggity giggity
Are you sure did you ask??
The lady with a large chin is kind of scary
Ok I found this from the memes and honestly this is much funnier and better than any of them, this is just really fun and educational and entertaining!
Stupid memes. I can’t even watch this without accidentally thinking “giggity giggity giggity”
I don’t have a boyfriend right now
I don’t think my husband would approve
Omg you’re my idol
Ivorie richards same!! I love this woman! 😊
Ivorie richards you're or you are
Yes! That was my favorite part of this video. Lol
Ivorie richards why doesn't he have a ring then lol
Ivorie richards I know what u mean
I love how at 2:40 she went, "I don't have a boyfriend now, its a bit sad, but um.. I just don't think my husband would approve."
Perfect response to someone who's too nosy and involved with your relationship status.
I'm sure her 💗Husband💗 thinks she is perfect just the way she is, and she doesn't need to impress anyone else.
Cyn- You - See she'll probably die alone
Carter Bila everybody dies alone
Shy Speaks her husband probably cheats on her lol
Who came here after quagmire gigitty 😂🤣?
Yeo
So positive, love it. 💗
"be there or be square"
YeetDab 69420 oh mah lawd
YeetDab 69420 whyyyy lmaoo
You're going to hell 😂
hOWLING
YeetDab 69420 AHAHAHA OH HELL NAH OMG IM CRYING
this was a surprsingly brilliant video, I was expecting this to be like a crappy buzzfeed video that makes me feel like crap but this was really interesting and hopeful
buzzfeed is retarded
James Murray I think it's because they take it with sense of humor. no victim mentality, no pity party whatsoever. they seem like good people I wanna be friends with them!
James Murray this is FAKE NEWS
James Murray this ain't buzzfeed
James Murray why do buzzfeed vids make you feel that way?
I love so much this channel, also all of them beautiful human beings!
And I looked him dead in the eye and I said
*TO INFINITY AND BEYOND*
"This kid asked me " What happened to your face?" And I looked him dead in the eye and said "I have a horrible disease and you'll catch it if I breathe on you" Then when *blows out air* 😂😂😂😂
Omg lol
Kitty Kat Games 🤣
Kitty Kat Games we all saw the video. No need to write this
Michael Messi who cares
Sakine Meiko i do
The one lady with the bangs is BEAUTIFUL!!!
Lily Levy I love her face 😍
Yeah
What’s wrong with her face though
@@sarassmiles8679 nothing-
Wtf does bangs mean
Black fella's facial feature makes him look tough as hell 💪
"And i looked him dead in the eye and said "
GIGG-
It was such a bad idea to allow comments on this video
(Edit: i dont support censorship)
pussy
@@XtraBrad how so?
ßrad C well it is a cats world
@@XtraBrad I have one 😉
@@dejavu2171 nasty
The woman in the beginning is such a badass XD
Nope
PerishSJ Yup haha
Lol
😂😂
She is awesome!
“I looked him dead in the eye and said giggity “
I looked him dead in the eye… and I said GIGGITYGIGGITYGIGGITYGIGGITY
0:10 and I looked him dead in the eye and I said
*hey peter*
Tyler Barrett GIGGITY GIGGITY GIGGITY
OMFG
AHAHAHAHAA
LFMSOSOOS
I knew she looked familiar.
"I don't have a boyfriend now, I just don't think my husband would approve" I ABSOLUTELY LOVE HER
0:08 "GIGGITY GIGGITY GIGGITY GOO!!!!!"
"ooo what happened to your face,i looked him dead in the eye and said"
_GIGGITY GIGGITY GOO_
Anyone else feel bad for thinking the thumbnail was photoshopped?
Alex yes😂
Edit: I thought it was like a parody or something
She really do look like general farquad. Still cool though
Edit: big like
Alex me but i dont feel bad
Alex ش
what no ahah
these people have such awesome senses of humour, i'd love to meet some of them. honestly i couldn't see a disfigurement on a couple of them. i am however curious about the lady with an enlarged chin - does anyone know her diagnosis? is it proteus syndrome? either way, that line about not having a boyfriend was BRILLIANT. cheers to all of you!
milkweedsage its called cherubism
thanks!
.....FREAKS........
She has Cherubism :) she has a documentary on UA-cam. Just search for Cherubism and it's the first one. It's great, she's a great person
HowTo Project I don't understand what you mean but just tell the people in the video to not look at me or touch me. because they look different than I do and they disgust me
I looked at him, DEAD in the eye and said:
*To infinity and beyond!*
"what happened to your face"
I looked him dead in the eyes and I said
"Giggity"
“I don’t have a boyfriend now... which is a bit sad. I just don’t think my husband would approve” that’s a great comeback