We prefer a Problem we can't Fix to a Solution we don't like
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- Опубліковано 30 бер 2023
- "We prefer a problem we can't fix to a solution we don't like" Lee Thayer
This sentence may seem puzzling at first glance. However, upon closer examination, it reveals a fascinating human behavior that can help us better understand ourselves and our decision-making processes.
The essence of this statement is that we would rather have a persistent problem than a solution that does not meet our preferences.
Why is this:
Fear of Uncertainty: One possible explanation for this behavior is the fear of uncertainty. A persistent problem may be challenging, but it is familiar, and we know what to expect. In contrast, a new solution that does not align with our preferences can be unsettling and unknown, leading to anxiety and stress.
Desire for Control: Another possible explanation is our inherent desire for control. We prefer to have a problem that we cannot fix rather than a solution that we cannot control. It is easier to accept a problem that we have no control over than to accept a solution that does not align with our beliefs and values.
This behavior has significant implications for decision-making processes, both on a personal and business level. By recognizing this behavior, we can make more informed decisions that align with our preferences and values while also considering the perspectives of others.
Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain.
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Conor is a sought-after keynote speaker on Leadership. He teaches Leadership Communications at IESE Business School and is the President of Vistage in Spain, part of the world’s leading CEO organisation. As an entrepreneur, he has founded 5 companies, selling 16 private jets and building the 3rd largest fleet of private jets in Spain. He is a visiting professor at University College Dublin, the University of Montevideo and Permanent Faculty on Entrepreneurs’ Organisation’s Global Leadership Academy.
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The pain of self discipline vs the pain of regret, excellent perspective to ponder! Great presentation and location as always!
Well said!
If it's going to be, it's up to me. I like that quote. Thank you.
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Thank you connor, you're great man.
Well said Conor! Step into what life pitches you. Look forward to your next video, take care brother.
I love your videos Conor. They are inspiretional and the way you speak improves english for foreigners. At this part of my life i cant handle any dicipline required situtation. I get out from really isolated process for go to university.
I choose the pain of self discipline today...(obviously!)..pain of regretting 20 years from now...is tougher. Hope you are fine. Maria Luiza.
A good example of being unsubscribed from the bad example
I'm going to use that saying! Thanks Conor!!
Go for it 👏
Yesterday I heard about a broadcasting of your country(The Northern Ireland -UK)...celebrating the Good Friday Agreement and the importance of the Joe Biden's visit ...The economist (broadcast channel). Regards for all your family and a special one for you professor.
Thank you 🙏
That is well spoken!
Thank you 🙏
Great, as always ! Thank you.
Thank you too!
Very good thought, and as I listen to this, I realized that it is sooo true… 😊. Thank you very much, Conor.
I very much appreciate also that you kind of introduce to us the works of people like Heidegger, Thayer and others. Look forward to more insightful observations.
Glad it was helpful!
Brilliant insight as always Conor - great proactive advice. As they say, difficult change brings about the beginning of personal growth and greater fulfilment. Keep the videos coming they provide challenge & providing great tools & techniques - Thanks
Absolutely
Awesome video and thought! Thank you, Conor! Hope all is well!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Great video . The view 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yes it was
Great stuff Conor, your emails are brilliant as well :)
Glad you like them!
Sad but true i guess
A paradox of our lives
Hi Sir how you doing ?
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All good
Hii conor
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Boing have a problem with the quality of their production - but prefer to lobby and plaster over the problems. They would need to switch their focus and leadership from a MBA mindset back to a engineering mindset - their prefer not to do that