Hi Casey we will remember her with love. She reminds me so so much of my own sister. Just remember: Grief has shown us just how deep love is, just how nuanced and beautiful emotions can be. Grief is the receipt you’re left with after making the final purchase of love. There’s no exchange or returns that will ever be worth the love that you have for that person it’s so so beautiful but so freakin hard.
If everyone cared about their fam as much as you did -the world would simply be a better place. You’ve likely changed the trajectory of several people’s lives because this fella was obviously not going to stop here. I’m sorry for your loss and the toll this has taken on you and your family. I wish you the best mate.
The issue that many don’t realize is that the vast majority of people who go “missing” for a day or two show up unharmed soon after. If police went after every single instance of someone disappearing for a few days they’d have few resources to do anything else.
Not to defend by any means. Usually a missing persons report isn't put out until the person has been "missing" for at least 24-48 hours. That being said, as soon as you're presented with video evidence that something shady is going on and the person still hasn't shown up, regardless of the situation, any decent person would have no issue with putting out a report at that point.
Happens with kids that hate there home invioment they usually take off to a friend's house not letting the parents know is why they just up n leave and yes wasting time n resources most the time where the person turns up later on.... everyone needs a breakaway now n then
Naomi's brother seems to be such a great dude, intelligent, strong and full of compassion. He can rest assured that he did all he could. Keep it up man.
Yep 100%!! And that makes me sad and angry that some pull and influence is so obviously needed in some cases for a department to even start taking it half way serious! That should never ever be the case cos how many of us are lucky to have a parent or family friends working in certain sectors of the government? Not many of us I would say.
What a loving, caring, dedicated brother. He couldn't stop her murder, but he kept at it until authorities found her and discovered what happened. God Bless him!
This is key. Beware anyone who is cruel to animals saying things like the chickens got squashed on the road because they got out of their run, or not taking a dog to the vet on the weekend who is not able to respond because of the predicted cost...there are small cruelties too that indicate power plays and threat leaking into speech. It's wild out there inthis anonymous dating world. We don't need for love to be a death sentence. Have good old friends, get out and about, you might get lucky one day bur have the fun that stays safe. Join a choir, a hobby, hang out with work mates and family.
what? I know a ton of people who dont take their animals to the vets and while its really crappy they arent violent or anything like that. And youre pretty much talking about every farmer/country person that exists if you want to group people who let their chickens loose to get hit by cars as bad people@@julianolan2860
Martial law walmart is a government owned social credit homeland security company that does facial recognition for the government of course they can help
Yeah not like police are the ones to review and go over the footage looking for any clues along with conducting a investigation looking for details outside of just the security footage to find the person You act like police have a magical guilty detector that brings them automatically to the criminal, finding people who committed crimes can be a difficult task
cases like this terrify me. they had no connection. she was just sitting in her car minding her own business and had absolutely no idea she was being stalked. stay alert, lock your doors and trust no one... heartbreaking case!
I am from London, UK. For the past 35 years at least, the police in London kept bringing out warnings to the public to always have their car doors locked and windows fully up. It has become a habit, and even though I live in a relatively safe area now in the North of England, old habits die hard. As soon as I enter the car, I lock all the doors immediately. Before getting in the car, I lock all other doors and look around before opening the driver door and immediately lock it. I know for some people this may seem like a lot, but it only takes less than a minute.
@@michelebella677 Are you kidding? She was dating a man who joked about murdering her, a man who wanted to show her and her children photos of a corpse because he thought it was "cool". She seems just as demented as the man she was dating.
I’m a big brother, can’t imagine how tough this was for Casey trying to advocate for his sister but not being taken seriously. Heartbreaking, I’m sorry for your loss.
I can see why he felt the way he did (after settling for the idea that the cop came up with). As he was literally speaking to someone that is being paid to be helpful, responsible and experienced enough to see and understand what he witnessed on the video. The outcome of his feelings pretty much runs along the lines of what takes place, compliments of disappointment and foolery.
My son is so protective of his sister no matter how many stupid decisions she makes. She’s doing great now for the record but there is definitely something special about a brother’s love for his sister.
It’s because cops are hundreds of thousands of cases of teenagers going “missing”, so they just assume it’s another silly case. This is why my city’s police department changed the policy a long time ago. They will take the report from a family member no matter what, no 24 hour rule, no questions asked.
Haven't seen anybody else in the comments mention it, but huge respect for that officer who found Naomi's grave, the way he paid his respects felt extremely sad and yet heartwarming to see one person pay respects to another they did not know personally.
To still refuse to file a missing persons report after emerging surveillance footage of a strange man getting into her car with her in it and driving away is absolutely unforgiveable.
Naomi's brother is one of the sanest people I've heard on any video like this. It's incredibly sad that the police didn't take him seriously straight away. So sorry for the family. RiP Naomi.
She was 18 considered an adult! Not going to be a priority especially it was like 1 day or so that’s how it works! It’s easy to say they didn’t do their job but people disappear All the time especially teenagers
@@jenniferbowie2773the minute that surveillance recording showed someone getting in her car and she wasn’t seen again, it was more than that, and most people know that.
@@Mike-wu7ieThat’s where you take 2 seconds to ask if it’s normal behavior for them to run away, if they’re seeing anyone, if they use drugs etc.. Missing work, not answering many calls from friends or family, phone is turned off. All abnormal and of interest to LE.
Seems like a great guy, but he was far too easy going! When somebody blows you off like that, start climbing the ladder, and make a STINK! "Listen to me officer...I KNOW MY SISTER, AND SOMETHINGS WRONG! Who's your supervisor??
@AlbanianWhatever Everyone would like siblings that care for them. No need to be a Iiar for no reason. Maybe also have some respect for what happened here.
Thanks to the 4 comments here as of right now, I will watch the entire episode with vested interest. Mature, thoughtful comments always get me interested. Thanks to the 4 of you!✌
Zilemas cooperation with the police is commendable. Her family should be proud that she is a strong women and didn't try to hide what her boyfriend did. Very wise. She helped the family to have closure. Thank goodness no harm came to her when she was with that monster.
If you're a deputy refusing twice to file a missing person's report about a stable, predictable, untroubled person, you should not be a deputy. Go work at McDonalds or something if you care that little about people.
In another one of these videos people reported a homeless guy missing, he had a normal routine where he would come and read in front of this ladys shop and work for some place. They all reported him missing after 1 day and the police took it seriously turns out he had been murdered. People noticed he missed his routine after one day tho and he was a homeless old man.
As a retired police officer.... I'm ashamed of that copper dismissing the brother's concerns. As soon as a complainant states the behaviour is uncharacteristic of the missing person, you (at least) take a report.
Why do cops not tell you why you’re under arrest or why you’re being detained? It seems like it should be illegal to do that. If anything like that is going on you should be informed as to what is happening.
That officer that refused to make a missing persons report and then try to cast aspersions on Naomi’s character should lose his job and pension. That is delinquency of duty.
That's ridiculous. It did kinda look like a drug deal, I've been in a few.... and she was an 18 year old that hasn't been seen by 1 person for less than a day. But to lose his pension and job? you know how many calls they probably get about a missing 18 or 19 year old that ends up being just that person going to a party out of town or something? It's not that suspicious unless someone had seen something. The next day with actual video of it, it was kinda stupid to just dismiss it at first, but it didn't sound like the cops actually did, just an offhand comment, they put out a BOLO on the car directly after he said that he didn't know and it looked like a drug deal to him.
My mother was killed August 17th 2023 by her ex. He's still awaiting trial but I hope to tell her sorry here one day so that others may know how amazing she was ❤️
I am so sorry for your loss. It isn’t fair that such good people like your mother had to meet such a terrible fate. Always tell people the good things you remember about your mom. ❤️
Major respect to the girlfriend who gave all the information needed even though she was in a relationship with him. There are so many cases where people will withhold information because they want to protect their significant other
I didn't finish the video yet, but I was glancing at the comments because I was expecting a reveal that she was in on it. Something about the way she told it just felt very prepared, but hopefully that's just because of the editing. Every little detail like the hands in the pockets story just felt like too perfect of an anecdote. While saying things like "And no one else could have deleted the footage but him" when it definitely could have been her too. Feels bad to say if she is indeed innocent, but some of the other details sketched me out too. She seems slimy too.
@@nvrtknthis and the fact that surprise me more is Troy has bene charged of touching her daughter and she know he was convicted for a murder! How can you take a man like that in your family even joking about what he did in prison, she is not a good woman
As a law enforcement officer myself, that deputy that refused to file a missing persons report NEEDS to be fired. There is absolutely no reason he should be in this field if that’s going to be his attitude.
I am so impressed with how you pull the whole story together and have clear narration based on the investigation. This is the 3rd one ive watched. I normally dont care for true crime but this is incredibly well done. You should take these to a streaming station. You deserve an award for these. The last one i watched was about a woman abused and tortured. I was so captivated. Normally webcam footage is too hard to follow but you nailed it.
Yup foreal!!!! I lock my doors sooo much that people get pissed at me. (Family members or roommates) they get pissed about having to unlock it, but hey my Momma always told me "better safe than sorry."
The first red flag would have been ‘hey, do you want to go to a really remote area and sit by a water trough for our first date?’ 👀 I mean, they weren’t teenagers!!
Not all the time tho. Sometimes moms file missing persons reports because they forgot there child had school and they’re like where tf are they. But for this sort of situation yeah that officer should be fired
Stop voting for Republicans bc Mitch McConnell has led keeping Qualified Immunity to protect cops😳☠️. If Dems are the majority in both houses & President they will get rid of Qualified Immunity 😮
The sheriff's deputy who failed to take this report seriously is a disgrace. Even if she is an adult, take the report. If she turns up safely there is no harm.
This comment caused a thought to pop up I'm my head. The zodiac killer was pulled over and told the police that he had been cutting up a chicken, when questioned about 2 bloody knives."ok, see ya later, have a good one"
After hearing Naomis family speak at the end of the video I am very grateful for this channel. You gave that poor family a chance to speak on this where they did not get the chance in a courtroom. Good on you
Troy’s girl friend, Zulema, deserves a LOT of credit for being so open and honest about what happened over those days after Naomi’s kidnapping. She must have realized that she and her family were living with a potential killer and by telling everything she knew, she protected herself and her family. Her answers were intelligent, detailed, and organized and must have made the FBI’s job much easier! Well done, Zulema!
i feel like once she saw HIS truck as a suspect in a disappearance, she put it all together. The weird statements, the obsession with killings and killers, the dating site activity, the time away from home, the aimlessly driving around in the early hours, the despondent activity directly after the kidnapping/murder. I bet she realized it, and then got scared. So when he got picked up through his own mistakes, she played ignorant but desperatly wanted to tell investigators she though he did it. That's why she was so 'helpful.' It was the only way she thought she could escape him.
Yes, I was impressed by how intelligent she is and how she was willing to accept the possibility he was guilty. Too often people intentionally close their eyes to overwhelming evidence in these cases. She was like… “I’m going to just tell everything because if he’s innocent it won’t matter but if he’s not…”
@@snowman2834 what do you mean? like buried his ass with evidence which ultimately lead to his conviction? ... or do you mean like a literal burial? I did not hear anything about a burial if you meant that.
Zulema is an incredible person! She was crushed by the thought of her BF being a killer, yet she told the detectives anything she could think of that may have been clues.
She chose a great man to bring into her children's lives........the family that listens to serial killer audio books together, stays together.....well.
It’s so important to remind our family members of the importance of staying on top of each other’s doings regardless of age /location. The brother is amazing for noticing and making sure his sister was found. My prayers go out to this family.
I'm glad Zulema was cooperative and didn't blindly defend a man only because he was her own romantic partner. She was brave enough to allow herself to see the truth when it mattered most, and this probably saved lives.
No wonder america has so much crime if even these elderly have multiple weapons . This country has the highest murder rate of any western country by far ...... its like it is in their DNA .
Crazy to be living with some devil murderer. SHe was living with satan and took his own life when i wish he had years of hard labor to think of what he did. He was a coward
@@wizkiddyami3636 I thought the same exact thing.. and the step daughter was still living with them. And he was asking her details about her trip to work and home and if there were ppl around, I think he was trying to rape and kill her instead but had a change of mind and got a random stranger instead.
I've been saying this forever! Only pure evil would harm an innocent animal. And no one seems to think it matters...and wait til they become serial murderers.
Please anyone out there don’t forget if you feel like you’re not getting help from local law enforcement, call the state police, call the county police, call the city police, call the FBI, call them all!!!
You know heads had to roll in that sheriff’s office after the FBI got involved, especially after learning how high up in government her parents worked!!!
Note for Zulema - when you go on a first date, don't drive out to the middle of nowhere in the guy's vehicle. And, when the guy says he "could have killed you and no one would know," no second date!!!
I was 41 when I met a guy atta bar and then later on the date he said did you tell anyone you was with me and I said NO and he said so I could kill you and no one would ever know it was me....and I said WTH?? There are cameras all around this parking lot.....and then he said he was jus making a point for me to be more careful with my life......WHACK-O.
The first few weeks dating my husband he took my on a hike. I told my mom, " we went on a hike this weekens." She said, " By yourself ?! You trust him?! " lol mom not everyone is a serial killer. This is where your mind goes if you watch a lot of true crime. 😅
EXACTLY ZULEMA! PLUS UV GOT TO KEEP IN MIND UR A SINGLE MOTHER WITH YOUNG CHILDREN (AT LEAST THEN). THEY COME FIRST, EVEN IF U DON'T PUT YOURSELF FIRST! MORE MOTHERS NEED TO STOP BRINGING THESE DIRT-BAGS INTO INNOCENT CHILDRENS SPACE...JESUS!
I met someone at my job who seemed like a very funny nice and caring person. Later I learned he had some drama between co-workers and I also didn't like the place so we shared experiences and it felt better. He became my mentor as well. As time went on he kept sharing with me about his on-going issues at work, and that some customer reported him because allegedly he made an inappropriate "joke" to another worker and the customer was a witness. He got fired as a result, and I truly felt sorry for him, because knowing him he made inappropriate jokes but they weren't directed at me, and while we were outside of work hours. I was angry at him and told him he made a mistake that ruined his career. Later on he shared with me that his father shot his mother in the head while he was in a car. And that trauma remained with him all his life, and he became an alcoholic as a result. Said he joined a gang group as a teenager and he along with a group of other teenage boys were doing so-called "justice" to women. They were catching all men who beat their wives and beating them (the men). He said they caused them serious injuries. He was in jail. I asked him if he ever killed anyone, and he would never answer. He asked me one time "you're not recording our conversations, are you?" I said "No, why do you have something to hide?" "I can make that phone disappear, you know that, right?" that comment sent shivers down my spine. But he laughed about it, as if this was funny. Finally one evening when we were out for some drinks, he said he did in fact kill someone unintentionally. Then next time I would ask him about it - he would not remember the conversation (or pretend not to remember). His behavior concerned me more and more because he showed up completely inebriated when I met him in public places. I didn't feel safe being in his vehicle for 1st reason - he was probably drinking and driving. And other for all things he already shared. Finally I took a photo of his license plate and also I casually took a photo of him and myself as a "selfie". He said "are you taking this photo as evidence (laugh)"? I said "of course and by the way, if I disappear my phone has a tracker. Everyone would be looking for me, and I always tell my family who I am going out with. I share their name and phone number." (this was a bluff, but later when he contacted me I told him I couldn't see him anymore and that he needs to get help with his addiction). I ended all conversations and blocked him. Luckily he doesn't know where I live, but he knows the area where I live. I'm still a little nervous coming outside, but at least I know he can't get to me. So, listen to your gut, always.
I've never once understood how "The first 24 hours are the most important" and "We won't file a report until 48 hours" go together. Edited to say thank you so much for the replies! I didn't think this was a hard and fast rule or even the law, just the line we seem to hear over and over. Agreed heartily with everyone who said to report immediately and, if necessary, keep calling / hollering / badgering until you get the answer you need! May none of us ever find out exactly how it goes. ❤💔❤
There is no waiting period to file a missing person report. The minute you think someone is missing, report it! The idea that you must wait 48 hours is actually a common misconception. In reality, there is no mandatory waiting period to report someone missing. This misunderstanding may stem from media portrayals.
There were a few times my sister went missing because of her addiction, just dropped off the radar for a few months. We were told they wouldn’t file a missing persons report for her until at least 72 hours:/ luckily she came home each time
There is no law requiring law enforcement to wait 48 hrs. If you truly believe someone is missing call, report, keep calling, call other agencies, just keep on them. Even post and getting the post to go viral so the mayor sees it! Do whatever you can! Don’t let cops make I wait!
WHY would he feel guilty??? He was a good Brother. He shared his home. He did everything he could to find her. He did nothing to feel guilty about. Please don’t put THAT on him.
@@THATBossCricket Because that's how humans work. We feel guilty over things outside our control and nitpick every detail thinking of how we could have changed things.
The idea that "yeah, it´s a 18yo and can do whatever she/he likes" needs to go out of the window. If a 18yo who normally keeps in touch of her friends and family doesn´t in time when her/his family expects them to, it needs to be investigated.
I agree that it is concerning how lackadaisical the police officer was with Casey's distress, but how many worst case scenarios come from emergency calls from an older brother being concerned about a sibling? Secondly, the issue isn't with their adulthood, it's frankly the opposite, 18 year olds can be incredibly childish and can do REALLY stupid things for no apparent reason.
I totally agree. Before cellphones were available, my mother would worry if my sister didn't call every day, though she was married and lived elsewhere. I lived with my mother, but was always away on long work trips. After 30 days without calling home, I called to let her know I would be back that evening. I had to delay returning home due to work issues, I forgot about the call, and only two days later, my mother called the head office for news about me.
Naomi's brother had that really suspicious footage of that guy getting into Naomi's car and the cop still wasn't ready to take a missing persons report. I thought that was really strange. When the Mom involved her friend from the FBI, this seemed to get the local police off their asses. Naomi's brother is wonderful.
That Sheriff Deputy needs to be fired. I feel so sorry for Naomi's family especially her brother who tried to get the Sheriff's Dept. to take this case seriously. The questions he asked Zulema's stepdaughter about riding the charter bus was he maybe thinking of taking her but then found Naomi first. I'm so glad he can no longer hurt any other young women because he wouldn't have stopped.
The officer who initially blew off Casey's concerns should be held accountable. His pride and ego interfere with his ability to respond appropriately. He has no business working in law enforcement.
@@Rapido20erm... Rapido dude...ya might wanna stop blurting that BS on every thread, I already explained why that comment is cretinous in the other thread above.
When the police found out that Naomi's father works with the state department,it was suddenly taken seriously.That first deputy must shoulder the majority of the blame for what happened.
Casey and his mother show in their interviews what a lovely family Naomi came from. It just makes it all the more tragic. I hope they find what peace it is possible to reclaim from this terrible loss.
Normally I don't comment on these stories, but on the small chance Naomi's family might ever see this, someone more than half a world away did hear Naomi's story. She was a lovely person inside and out. And I am very sure she's proud of you Casey. ... In loving memory of Naomi Irion 💛💛💛
This happened in the tiny town I live in. Can't believe people from all over the world are hearing about this. One of the craziest things that's happened so close to me.
@@thatcoolkidchris9965I worked for Sam’s club and we weren’t allowed to show any footage to people they had to have a warrant and the police had to be the ones to view it. I’m guessing the Walmart employees could tell how upset and scared he was and went against policy.
I get the sentiment but nah that’s just being a morally correct person, that’s what we should expect out of everyone, it’s bot some above and beyond action, it’s just being a decent person.
i think it deserves some recognition, people are very attatched to their partners and will often cover for them out of loyalty, i think its quite remarkable that they didnt have to drag any info out of her. @@Nunya111
I love how it talks more about the victims in your videos and they really are Beautiful tributes, the victim lives on a little. And interviews you guys do. Really really good. Thank you.
That first policeman’s incompetence or laziness is unforgivable. Naomi, you were so loved by your family and I’m so sorry your life was brutally destroyed.
I think it’s unconscionable that an officer would say I’m not gonna file a report because this just looks like a drug deal. So that means that if it looks like a drug deal and someone disappears, then they don’t care the point was that she still was not found even if it was just a drug deal. Obviously something went awry during the drug deal. it’s like the officer was saying well if she was involved in an illegal act that I am assuming then her life isn’t worth me finding out what happened to her or where she is. Just disgusting that’s not a peace officer.
With so many cases like this, it still boggles my mind how police can still be slow to act when a person is being reported missing, especially when there's CCTV available. If Naomi's parents didn't know that FBI agent, they'd still be looking for her killer today.
I totally get not filing right away when all you know is "she hasn't shown up today", plenty of likely reasons why that could happen and the person would like to be left alone, HOWEVER nobody gets in a car and drives off that quickly unless they're either not supposed to be in said vehicle, i.e. a kidnapping, or they're being chased by a crowd of zombies. Really surprised me that they brushed off that CCTV incident, nobody gets in a car and drives off like that
I will always remember Naomi. I was one of the missing persons advocates who was a voice for her. This made me be more aware of my surroundings every time I go out in the public.
@EisernRob, are you daft? Cops have INSANELY high budgets and that's why they're building these Cop Cities for millions of dollars. That's why NYPD has a presence in over a dozen COUNTRIES. The police are not here for us. They only exist to protect property and do the government's bidding.
Right! I couldn't help but think the whole time I was watching the video that I would love to have a big brother like him. He was on it from the start and put forth so much effort searching for her immediately. Just breaks my heart even more. :(
Dirty DA, family connections, cops who pulled him off told me after he stopped by the day after the restraining order was over, he's been arrested, yeah he's came by my home twice. If he comes again, HE WILL NOT LEAVE WALKING, BODY BAG
Bro the damn killer would still be on the loose. It absolutely would have helped to try and find her in case they wanted to kill again. Think @@Rapido20
Yeah, but well-adjusted people think "Wow, what a screwed-up freak," and losers like him think "Goals" Failures with nothing going on take the lazy way, and hurt someone to feel big. Simple as that.
I love the perspective and attention of this video being so heavily towards the victim, instead of focused on the perpetrator. So respectful and informative
But it’s also useful to get the perspective from the suspect because it helps us see how someone can live a normal life and appear to be a family man, but be plotting nothing but evil things. It helps us see how cowards plan and plot on how to get victims. It helps us learn and be more aware of certain things we do in our day to day life, that can help us defend ourselves in certain situations.
its because he requested a lawyer... so we are not seeing that footage of the interrogation, otherwise this whole video would be based on it. But still very informative video!
I appreciated the clips of Naomi throughout. So often the victims are forgotten but she seems like such a wonderful person. What a great family she had, hope only good things for them going forward.
This case sickened me. First, the first officer not filing. Second, the poor parents stuck a country away when they heard she was missing. Third, his parents acting the way they did. Fourth, the absolute disgusting thing he committed. Fifth, him not getting to ROT in his guilt after he was caught. These are just few of the many reasons. No one deserves her fate. I’m just glad the ex-gf told the truth and helped uncover the real story. I hope peace finds her and she’s able to find a better man to care for her and her kids. Rest in peace Naomi.
i feel bad for her. she met him on a site meant for cheating and talks so casually about him using the same site to cheat on her. and so nonchalantly describing the suspicious things he’s said and done. i don’t know if she was in denial or blinded by love but yeah, this man is a walking red flag.
she wanted a bad boy and she got it. Anyone who's spent 15 years in prison isn't exactly someone you should bring home to meet your kids. She got lucky that he didn't kill her kids.
At the end when her brother says he's now living his life he hopes makes Naomi proud made me choke up. So sorry for that loss. What a senseless crime. So tragically sad.
They’re people just like you or I. Nobody believes things like this happen in their community / jurisdiction. And calls from concerned family who end up just being kids who stayed at a friends are quite common. Regardless, when there’s evidence that someone jumped into a car with a woman who’s now missing and drove off is VERY suspect. That cop just didn’t want to do the paperwork.
@@lolzlolz69i mean obviously the driver is responsible for her death, but the cop should’ve taken the report. Probably was an extremely busy night based on the officer’s response time and calling the reporting party instead of showing up in person. It was a lazy decision that could’ve saved a life. Report would’ve taken 30 mins max. Definitely agree the cop should be held responsible in some way.
A lot of ppl will have to investigate, report ecc. Here in Russia it's corrupted, the system doesn't give a flying f.. about ppl, they torture ppl themselves, they don't get paid enough and don't have enough resources, even the ones that are decent
@@jeremyleforce7926 that’s an even better reason to put out the reports. I don’t know how much paperwork goes into filing a missing persons report but the least they could do is put a BOLO out immediately.
Her brother and the Walmart security officer are more efficient than the entire police squad. It's not that it's surprising, but I thought it was good to mention it.
I hope Zulema has gotten therapy and moved on to someone better. The number of red flags she missed is terrifying. There's no way she could have known Troy Driver was a murderer, but he was screaming with every fiber in his body that he was dangerous.
The fact that the cops refused to put in a missing persons report after Casey called is borderline criminal negligence, it doesn't matter if anyone is over the legal age of adulthood, if there is a single reason for someone to suspect a loved one to be in trouble or missing, the cops should act immediately.
@@dissonantelysium Suzanne's Law requires law enforcement to notify the NCIC anytime anyone under the age of 21 is reported missing, signed into law in 2003 by President Bush. That IS how it should work.
@@dissonantelysium how about by holding deputies accountable when someone wants to file a missing person's report? What's your point? The cop was in the wrong.
You deduced that "most" unsolved cases are ones not taken seriously, based on this single example? Clearly a scientist, you are not. One example, does not a pattern make.
@@BrimstoneMothI do. Many of us do. And she’s rural, too, in New Mexico, no less. That’s tough country. Coyotes, SNAKES, possums, all kinds of critters that could harm their livestock. That’s a very rude comment to make.
What's disgusting is, his parents knew what he was capable of but acted so indignant and put out. Thank God his girlfriend had the strength to help the police. My heart goes out to the victim's family.
Naomi’s family should absolutely sue the city/sheriff’s department for 52 hours of inaction in which she could very well have been rescued. Shame on that deputy. If it weren’t for the FBI, I doubt Driver would’ve ever been discovered and arrested.
@timkelly6985 as if they don't waste our tax dollars on foreign wars and other frivolities that doesn't help its own citizens 🙄. if they're going to throw my money at anything, i definitely don't mind it being used to hold parties accountable for their own ineptitude.
Unfortunately, you can't really sue any police department. If you win, your compensation comes out of the local authority budget and never affects the police budget. When the police do one of these appalling things, they commit two crimes: one against the people they directly hurt, and another against the community.
If a cop says they can't take a missing persons report demand a supervisor. There is no absolutely no state or local police department where that is procedure. This falsehood has ruined so many lives.
@@cplmpcocptcl6306that's a good idea. other people who know the missing person would be able to confirm that what was happening was not normal for them. (as i understand that is what often gets a reaction, when it's clear it's not normal)
Being a big brother is one of the most under appreciated/rewarding jobs there is! I empathize with her Brother. I’m the oldest of 3 with 2 little sisters and I do ANYTHING/EVERYTHING to make sure they always feel safe. This world is brutal. I pray he finds peace
I know what you mean. I have 4 older brothers (2 are Police Officers) - I was mugged once & my brothers were furious. The perp was found & let's just say he'll never walk normally again. I always felt sorry for my boyfriends, and when I introduced them to my (now) husband, he was instantly liked so I knew he was the one. 😊
My big brother is one of the most important people in my life. He was the only one allowed to pick on me and still to this day as an adult would kill someone to protect me. And I would do the same for him. Trust me when I say you are appreciated.
@@rebeccamartinez7053 If you have a good one yes. Reality in our world not all are. Criminal stats in US alone prove this. In some cultures/ countries they’re given ownership basically over sisters until marriage (often arranged) then wife. Be thankful for the good people in your life. You deserve it I’m sure. xx
I don’t think her family has any animosity toward the police. If a lawsuit had been filed against the police force, her family would have had to relive their worse nightmare again. 😥💔
Thank you for this respectful and very complete video. Let’s make Naomi proud.
-Casey Valley
"I don't have any give up in me." I'll carry that with me. Hope you and your family are doing alright out there. Thanks for sharing with us.
My condolences Casey. Thank you for sharing about your sister.
Hi Casey we will remember her with love. She reminds me so so much of my own sister. Just remember: Grief has shown us just how deep love is, just how nuanced and beautiful emotions can be. Grief is the receipt you’re left with after making the final purchase of love. There’s no exchange or returns that will ever be worth the love that you have for that person it’s so so beautiful but so freakin hard.
If everyone cared about their fam as much as you did -the world would simply be a better place.
You’ve likely changed the trajectory of several people’s lives because this fella was obviously not going to stop here.
I’m sorry for your loss and the toll this has taken on you and your family. I wish you the best mate.
My thoughts go out to you and your family. Thank you for sharing her story and continuing to give your sister a voice. ❤️
The cop that refused to put out a missing persons report should be fired. There is literally no risk putting one out, but a HUGE risk to not.
The issue that many don’t realize is that the vast majority of people who go “missing” for a day or two show up unharmed soon after. If police went after every single instance of someone disappearing for a few days they’d have few resources to do anything else.
Not to defend by any means. Usually a missing persons report isn't put out until the person has been "missing" for at least 24-48 hours. That being said, as soon as you're presented with video evidence that something shady is going on and the person still hasn't shown up, regardless of the situation, any decent person would have no issue with putting out a report at that point.
Happens with kids that hate there home invioment they usually take off to a friend's house not letting the parents know is why they just up n leave and yes wasting time n resources most the time where the person turns up later on.... everyone needs a breakaway now n then
@@TheNightWatcher1385less recourses for them to hide in the bushes trying to catch someone going 1mph over the limit 🙄
They may have saved her!!!!
Naomi's brother seems to be such a great dude, intelligent, strong and full of compassion. He can rest assured that he did all he could. Keep it up man.
That guy seems solid - feel so bad for him.
Nope he failed tho in his head forever, evil is everywhere be careful
Clearly you’ve never lost someone smh
Absolutely.. you described him perfectly… so so sad 💔
Speedo fast can’t understand your speaking
Crazy thing is that guy would have gotten away with it if the parents hadn’t been friends with an fbi agent and the police finally did their jobs.
Moral of the story: befriend FBI agents!
Yep 100%!! And that makes me sad and angry that some pull and influence is so obviously needed in some cases for a department to even start taking it half way serious! That should never ever be the case cos how many of us are lucky to have a parent or family friends working in certain sectors of the government? Not many of us I would say.
They get in my damn nerves 😡
yeah I agree , makes me sad to think so many people will never be found because they don't have connections and the cops simply don't care
@remington5978 no cos then they will force local police to help. Are you bad at comprehension or are you being disingenuous on purpose?
What a loving, caring, dedicated brother. He couldn't stop her murder, but he kept at it until authorities found her and discovered what happened. God Bless him!
Why do they make you wait ?
I have a feeling that if it wasn't for the mother calling her friend in the FBI, this case would have never been taken seriously
I agree
Most definitely.
Definitely
sans doubt, mon frere.
1000% personal experience. Reno/sparks/fernley/Fallon police suck, especially state
Beware any person who has been arrested for animal cruelty when young.
Truth
This is key. Beware anyone who is cruel to animals saying things like the chickens got squashed on the road because they got out of their run, or not taking a dog to the vet on the weekend who is not able to respond because of the predicted cost...there are small cruelties too that indicate power plays and threat leaking into speech. It's wild out there inthis anonymous dating world. We don't need for love to be a death sentence. Have good old friends, get out and about, you might get lucky one day bur have the fun that stays safe. Join a choir, a hobby, hang out with work mates and family.
No shit bruh
My dad use to hurt animals as a kid. Hes never murderer someone. He has schizophrenia a mental illness.
what? I know a ton of people who dont take their animals to the vets and while its really crappy they arent violent or anything like that. And youre pretty much talking about every farmer/country person that exists if you want to group people who let their chickens loose to get hit by cars as bad people@@julianolan2860
It's sad when Walmart security is more helpful than the 1st officer.
Martial law walmart is a government owned social credit homeland security company that does facial recognition for the government of course they can help
@@Purpleweed24-7 I think you're smoking too much dude 😂
Thinking the same thing
It's always the smoking gun! 😂
Yeah not like police are the ones to review and go over the footage looking for any clues along with conducting a investigation looking for details outside of just the security footage to find the person
You act like police have a magical guilty detector that brings them automatically to the criminal, finding people who committed crimes can be a difficult task
cases like this terrify me. they had no connection. she was just sitting in her car minding her own business and had absolutely no idea she was being stalked. stay alert, lock your doors and trust no one... heartbreaking case!
Some rando wanted to fulfill some twisted murder fantasy and plucked some poor girl he never met and killed her, and for what??
Especially if you live in the USA
I am from London, UK. For the past 35 years at least, the police in London kept bringing out warnings to the public to always have their car doors locked and windows fully up. It has become a habit, and even though I live in a relatively safe area now in the North of England, old habits die hard. As soon as I enter the car, I lock all the doors immediately. Before getting in the car, I lock all other doors and look around before opening the driver door and immediately lock it. I know for some people this may seem like a lot, but it only takes less than a minute.
@SuzanneZacharia No, man, not at all. It's always better to be safe than sorry! Small things like that can only do good. Keep yourself safe, people!
@@MiketheNerdRangerPsychopathy is a real, scary thing.
Gotta say that it's refreshing to hear the girlfriend not trying to cover up things for her boyfriend.
Thankfully there are still good people in the world.
I totally agree, Zulema seems like a super cool woman. She was so ...real.
@@michelebella677 Are you kidding?
She was dating a man who joked about murdering her, a man who wanted to show her and her children photos of a corpse because he thought it was "cool".
She seems just as demented as the man she was dating.
@@michelebella677 They’re a rare breed these days. Every generation breeds exponentially more degenerates it seems. Keep your kids off of Tick Tock!
@@WestrnWolf As opposed to fake?
What I learned from this video is that I need a friend in the FBI, a dad in the State department, and a brother who looks after me.
You couldn't have said it better. Anything less than that will keep your case cold and unsolved.
Agree I know if I had to look for a missing loved one it wouldn't be looked into properly ...
For reals
@@angelgirldebbiejocringe
Don't forget keep car doors locked & be aware of your surroundings.
I’m a big brother, can’t imagine how tough this was for Casey trying to advocate for his sister but not being taken seriously. Heartbreaking, I’m sorry for your loss.
I can see why he felt the way he did (after settling for the idea that the cop came up with). As he was literally speaking to someone that is being paid to be helpful, responsible and experienced enough to see and understand what he witnessed on the video. The outcome of his feelings pretty much runs along the lines of what takes place, compliments of disappointment and foolery.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💜
He's the one person that could use do you know my father and have a legit reason to use it.
My son is so protective of his sister no matter how many stupid decisions she makes. She’s doing great now for the record but there is definitely something special about a brother’s love for his sister.
It’s because cops are hundreds of thousands of cases of teenagers going “missing”, so they just assume it’s another silly case. This is why my city’s police department changed the policy a long time ago. They will take the report from a family member no matter what, no 24 hour rule, no questions asked.
Haven't seen anybody else in the comments mention it, but huge respect for that officer who found Naomi's grave, the way he paid his respects felt extremely sad and yet heartwarming to see one person pay respects to another they did not know personally.
To still refuse to file a missing persons report after emerging surveillance footage of a strange man getting into her car with her in it and driving away is absolutely unforgiveable.
Totally agree. To make an assumption that it was a drug deal and not listen to the family and follow up is unconscionable.
Lyon county sheriffs department. New sheriff but nothings changed.
He got into her vehicle though.
@@lahawk7410And the fact that she immediately went missing afterwards is a huge red flag.
Cops don’t give a shit! They don’t want to work they just want to get paid
Naomi's brother is one of the sanest people I've heard on any video like this. It's incredibly sad that the police didn't take him seriously straight away. So sorry for the family. RiP Naomi.
She was 18 considered an adult! Not going to be a priority especially it was like 1 day or so that’s how it works! It’s easy to say they didn’t do their job but people disappear All the time especially teenagers
Indeed, well said. Same people will blame everybody but themselves.@@Mike-wu7ie
@@jenniferbowie2773That would make sense if they didn't literally have CCTV footage of the kidnapping.
@@jenniferbowie2773the minute that surveillance recording showed someone getting in her car and she wasn’t seen again, it was more than that, and most people know that.
@@Mike-wu7ieThat’s where you take 2 seconds to ask if it’s normal behavior for them to run away, if they’re seeing anyone, if they use drugs etc.. Missing work, not answering many calls from friends or family, phone is turned off. All abnormal and of interest to LE.
Every woman deserves a brother like that.
Seems like a great guy, but he was far too easy going! When somebody blows you off like that, start climbing the ladder, and make a STINK!
"Listen to me officer...I KNOW MY SISTER, AND SOMETHINGS WRONG! Who's your supervisor??
not all women want a brother like that sadly.
@AlbanianWhatever Everyone would like siblings that care for them. No need to be a Iiar for no reason. Maybe also have some respect for what happened here.
Seems that he had access to her bank info and socials. That is a ton of sibling trust, they must been great friends.
Thanks to the 4 comments here as of right now, I will watch the entire episode with vested interest. Mature, thoughtful comments always get me interested. Thanks to the 4 of you!✌
Zilemas cooperation with the police is commendable. Her family should be proud that she is a strong women and didn't try to hide what her boyfriend did. Very wise. She helped the family to have closure. Thank goodness no harm came to her when she was with that monster.
If you're a Deputy refusing TWICE to file a missing person's report, make sure the victim's Dad doesn't work for the State Department.
If you're a deputy refusing twice to file a missing person's report about a stable, predictable, untroubled person, you should not be a deputy. Go work at McDonalds or something if you care that little about people.
@@daniellejarvis157 Even mcdonalds care more about their customers than this deputy cared for his people
@@Deadbeatbeats cuz mcdonalds pay more for a good employees.
Police don’t get any bonuses for solving a case or preventing crime.
In another one of these videos people reported a homeless guy missing, he had a normal routine where he would come and read in front of this ladys shop and work for some place. They all reported him missing after 1 day and the police took it seriously turns out he had been murdered. People noticed he missed his routine after one day tho and he was a homeless old man.
@@Jon_ELthat episode was sad
As a retired police officer.... I'm ashamed of that copper dismissing the brother's concerns. As soon as a complainant states the behaviour is uncharacteristic of the missing person, you (at least) take a report.
Thank you for saying that!❤
I live where this happened. They're just lazy. And yes, I know all police aren't that way, but this was inexcusable.
Why do cops not tell you why you’re under arrest or why you’re being detained? It seems like it should be illegal to do that. If anything like that is going on you should be informed as to what is happening.
Right he needs to lose his job
Most cops do this!!! Theyre lazy POS!! So many ppl are missibg due to cops claiming runaways
That officer that refused to make a missing persons report and then try to cast aspersions on Naomi’s character should lose his job and pension. That is delinquency of duty.
Losing the pension is a bit harsh, people are more than the bad decisions they make...
@@destructorzz7197even if they kill minors
@@samkyling bruh what
That's ridiculous. It did kinda look like a drug deal, I've been in a few.... and she was an 18 year old that hasn't been seen by 1 person for less than a day. But to lose his pension and job? you know how many calls they probably get about a missing 18 or 19 year old that ends up being just that person going to a party out of town or something? It's not that suspicious unless someone had seen something. The next day with actual video of it, it was kinda stupid to just dismiss it at first, but it didn't sound like the cops actually did, just an offhand comment, they put out a BOLO on the car directly after he said that he didn't know and it looked like a drug deal to him.
@@valerienagy8764 It's his job to use judgement.... Which sometimes casts aspersions, so no you have no idea what you are talking about.
My mother was killed August 17th 2023 by her ex. He's still awaiting trial but I hope to tell her sorry here one day so that others may know how amazing she was ❤️
My sincere condolences! I am so sorry !
I am so sorry you had to experience that and so sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss, hope you are doing as well as can be and hopefully justice is served.
I am so sorry for your loss. It isn’t fair that such good people like your mother had to meet such a terrible fate. Always tell people the good things you remember about your mom. ❤️
Prayers for u and family. Jesus saves and just believe in him and you and family will be saved
Major respect to the girlfriend who gave all the information needed even though she was in a relationship with him. There are so many cases where people will withhold information because they want to protect their significant other
she was awesome!!!
Yes! Who knows if this would have been solved without her. Bless her.
I didn't finish the video yet, but I was glancing at the comments because I was expecting a reveal that she was in on it. Something about the way she told it just felt very prepared, but hopefully that's just because of the editing. Every little detail like the hands in the pockets story just felt like too perfect of an anecdote. While saying things like "And no one else could have deleted the footage but him" when it definitely could have been her too.
Feels bad to say if she is indeed innocent, but some of the other details sketched me out too. She seems slimy too.
@@nvrtknthis and the fact that surprise me more is Troy has bene charged of touching her daughter and she know he was convicted for a murder! How can you take a man like that in your family even joking about what he did in prison, she is not a good woman
shes a rat
Everyone needs a brother like Naomi’s 🥺
I agree im glade I got 3 brothers like him blessed ❤
💯
What a great Brother, God bless him and his family!!😢
My heart as a mother really goes out to him
I can be yours
As a law enforcement officer myself, that deputy that refused to file a missing persons report NEEDS to be fired. There is absolutely no reason he should be in this field if that’s going to be his attitude.
The cops treating the parents and thier home was disgusting. F Cops
Lol, personal experience has shown me this is common.
@@88kaa65retard comment
@@88kaa65generalizing much
@@88kaa65they are the reason this scum bag is behind bars. Thank God for Cops
I am so impressed with how you pull the whole story together and have clear narration based on the investigation. This is the 3rd one ive watched. I normally dont care for true crime but this is incredibly well done. You should take these to a streaming station. You deserve an award for these. The last one i watched was about a woman abused and tortured. I was so captivated. Normally webcam footage is too hard to follow but you nailed it.
I couldn't have said it any better myself ❤
Yea I’m hooked too….
Yup! No b.s., no ego, just the Story, based upon FACTS we can see with our own eyes.
That deputy who refused a report...twice, needs to be fired.
AND LIFE BANNED from any type of police work including basic security.
UNCARING & UNTRUSTWORTHY.
He needs a lot of other things to happen to him...in minecraft
Why he was doing his job!
@@jenniferbowie2773are you stupid??? He refused to file a missing person report TWICE!!! He deff was not doing his job.
@@jenniferbowie2773His job is to PROTECT & SERVE, he did neither on this instance, it was all IGNORE.
Please lock your car doors no matter how safe you think the area is
I do.
It's crazy to think these sick ppl exist... I pray me and mine never cross paths with such sick individuals.
t.y. u reminded me to lock my doors 😭
Yup foreal!!!! I lock my doors sooo much that people get pissed at me. (Family members or roommates) they get pissed about having to unlock it, but hey my Momma always told me "better safe than sorry."
That doesn't always work they knocked my window out. That was 300 dollars to get replaced
just wanna let anyone reading this know that if someone ever "jokes" about almost killing you and no one would know....RUN FAR AWAY!
Yeah no kidding. What a hell of a thing to joke about, especially to a complete stranger.
@@sins3mi11a6 On their first date .
She was very lucky he didn't kill her too.
Women ☕️
The first red flag would have been ‘hey, do you want to go to a really remote area and sit by a water trough for our first date?’ 👀 I mean, they weren’t teenagers!!
Naomi looks like a beautiful person. Her brother was the brother we all need. So sorry for her Mom and Dad.
Cops should be held accountable when they ignore pleas for missing persons reports
FACTS!
Not all the time tho. Sometimes moms file missing persons reports because they forgot there child had school and they’re like where tf are they. But for this sort of situation yeah that officer should be fired
@@shquankinket8068yeah no. that officer should be charged with criminal negligence.
Stop voting for Republicans bc Mitch McConnell has led keeping Qualified Immunity to protect cops😳☠️. If Dems are the majority in both houses & President they will get rid of Qualified Immunity 😮
@@shquankinket8068even if the cop is fired they go to other departments again & again, unless Qualified Immunity is abolished 😳
The sheriff's deputy who failed to take this report seriously is a disgrace.
Even if she is an adult, take the report. If she turns up safely there is no harm.
that would force a small town officer to do work when they want to sit around on there ass
They need to be jailed
@dreamyfauna and if enrolled in college, its considered college kids, it confusses me..
This comment caused a thought to pop up I'm my head. The zodiac killer was pulled over and told the police that he had been cutting up a chicken, when questioned about 2 bloody knives."ok, see ya later, have a good one"
@dreamyfaunaand most times even older
Even if it was a drug deal, her disappearance after that, should raise alarms. What a POS
Absolutely what I thought.
Thank you. Totally agree.
Yep...that part..definitely a POS
Has that officer received a reprimand in his personal record?
A drug deal should not be a death sentence.
After hearing Naomis family speak at the end of the video I am very grateful for this channel. You gave that poor family a chance to speak on this where they did not get the chance in a courtroom. Good on you
Troy’s girl friend, Zulema, deserves a LOT of credit for being so open and honest about what happened over those days after Naomi’s kidnapping. She must have realized that she and her family were living with a potential killer and by telling everything she knew, she protected herself and her family. Her answers were intelligent, detailed, and organized and must have made the FBI’s job much easier! Well done, Zulema!
Must HAVE, not OF.
i feel like once she saw HIS truck as a suspect in a disappearance, she put it all together. The weird statements, the obsession with killings and killers, the dating site activity, the time away from home, the aimlessly driving around in the early hours, the despondent activity directly after the kidnapping/murder. I bet she realized it, and then got scared. So when he got picked up through his own mistakes, she played ignorant but desperatly wanted to tell investigators she though he did it. That's why she was so 'helpful.' It was the only way she thought she could escape him.
Yes, I was impressed by how intelligent she is and how she was willing to accept the possibility he was guilty. Too often people intentionally close their eyes to overwhelming evidence in these cases. She was like… “I’m going to just tell everything because if he’s innocent it won’t matter but if he’s not…”
@@snowman2834 what do you mean? like buried his ass with evidence which ultimately lead to his conviction? ... or do you mean like a literal burial? I did not hear anything about a burial if you meant that.
@@snowman2834 are you kidding😏
Her brother is the most caring and beautiful soul. I wish i had a brother like him
My brother just called me but he wouldn’t know I’m missing because he calls every 2 weeks.
@@LCx829 if u didn't pick up after 2 weeks he'd notice
@@LCx829and? More than most people get. You call him then if you want more interaction.
@@LCx829Damn
@@LCx829better than once every 3 years.
"I don't have any give up in me."
Powerful words from a man who refused to quit until he found his sister.
Zulema is an incredible person! She was crushed by the thought of her BF being a killer, yet she told the detectives anything she could think of that may have been clues.
If a man told me at the end of a date that he could of killed me and no one would have known , I would have been long gone.
exactly like wtf ???
Yea, she knew what she was getting into
Who agrees to go out to a remote location with someone they just met?!! SHE is lucky to be alive
I was thinking...WTF...when she said that! I would have run a mile after he said that.
100% agree.. if that shit isn't a red flag on the 1st date then wtf is??🤨
His girlfriend sealed his fate. Glad to see she's a reasonable person and wasn't covering for him like many would.
Girlfriend kmow what’s ethical
Not the sharpest tool in the shed.
You meant like his pathetic Parents
@@EmmaMagini his parents seemed like real pieces of work. no wonder he ended up a murderous freak
She chose a great man to bring into her children's lives........the family that listens to serial killer audio books together, stays together.....well.
What an incredible brother she had. Great example of what family is ACTUALLY supposed to be.
It’s so important to remind our family members of the importance of staying on top of each other’s doings regardless of age /location. The brother is amazing for noticing and making sure his sister was found. My prayers go out to this family.
I'm glad Zulema was cooperative and didn't blindly defend a man only because he was her own romantic partner. She was brave enough to allow herself to see the truth when it mattered most, and this probably saved lives.
No wonder america has so much crime if even these elderly have multiple weapons . This country has the highest murder rate of any western country by far ...... its like it is in their DNA .
It sounds like she started seeing redflags and paying attention to them.
She might have been next.
Crazy to be living with some devil murderer. SHe was living with satan and took his own life when i wish he had years of hard labor to think of what he did. He was a coward
One thing I didn't understand is in the video it said try had trouble for trying to touch his step daughter why would she stay with him
@@wizkiddyami3636 I thought the same exact thing.. and the step daughter was still living with them. And he was asking her details about her trip to work and home and if there were ppl around, I think he was trying to rape and kill her instead but had a change of mind and got a random stranger instead.
If animal cruelty was considered a more serious crime a lot of these people would be in prison long before they could commit these crimes.
I've been saying this forever! Only pure evil would harm an innocent animal. And no one seems to think it matters...and wait til they become serial murderers.
@@jmb1666exactly, but no,they are a precious child they can do no wrong,
@jmb1666 Yep and we know it's a major sign of future violent acts upon people.
@@jmb1666just curious, do you eat meat?
Yes this one is true.
Please anyone out there don’t forget if you feel like you’re not getting help from local law enforcement, call the state police, call the county police, call the city police, call the FBI, call them all!!!
Great Advice
👵🏻👍🏻
💯 agree!
And call your lawyer cal TV station and your local radio station and your local newspaper!
Thank you for putting this out there. As her brother said, "DON'T have ANY give up in you"❤
Yall back the blue sheep just don't get it😂😂😂😂😂
The officer who did not take his report seriously should not just be fired, but prosecuted for his negligence.
Not happening. In the united states police aren't required to do much at all cause of warren v district of columbia.
It amazes me that there is always a mom protecting her psychotic son, even when she knows he’s doing horrific things.
Well she ain’t no model citizen, right? She bred him
@@chucheduncan1211so if he hurts an innocent man it’s okay with you because it was a man 😂 you women are something else 🤦♂️
Every time I see one of those "Boy mom" shorts.
@@chucheduncan1211 "except for hurting women or children" .....I was told as a kid it's not ok to hurt ANYONE
Abuse isn't always physical
If the victim's parents didn't know that person in the FBI, this case would've never been solved.
That’s what I thought too
Yeah that family were VIPs and the only reason anything was done for her. Totally f’d up
The real game changer was the dad being an official for the state dept. But yeah if it was an average family it would be a different story
You know heads had to roll in that sheriff’s office after the FBI got involved, especially after learning how high up in government her parents worked!!!
@@DebbieW1965one would hope so
Note for Zulema - when you go on a first date, don't drive out to the middle of nowhere in the guy's vehicle. And, when the guy says he "could have killed you and no one would know," no second date!!!
I was 41 when I met a guy atta bar and then later on the date he said did you tell anyone you was with me and I said NO and he said so I could kill you and no one would ever know it was me....and I said WTH?? There are cameras all around this parking lot.....and then he said he was jus making a point for me to be more careful with my life......WHACK-O.
The first few weeks dating my husband he took my on a hike. I told my mom, " we went on a hike this weekens." She said, " By yourself ?! You trust him?! " lol mom not everyone is a serial killer. This is where your mind goes if you watch a lot of true crime. 😅
EXACTLY ZULEMA! PLUS UV GOT TO KEEP IN MIND UR A SINGLE MOTHER WITH YOUNG CHILDREN (AT LEAST THEN). THEY COME FIRST, EVEN IF U DON'T PUT YOURSELF FIRST! MORE MOTHERS NEED TO STOP BRINGING THESE DIRT-BAGS INTO INNOCENT CHILDRENS SPACE...JESUS!
I met someone at my job who seemed like a very funny nice and caring person. Later I learned he had some drama between co-workers and I also didn't like the place so we shared experiences and it felt better. He became my mentor as well. As time went on he kept sharing with me about his on-going issues at work, and that some customer reported him because allegedly he made an inappropriate "joke" to another worker and the customer was a witness. He got fired as a result, and I truly felt sorry for him, because knowing him he made inappropriate jokes but they weren't directed at me, and while we were outside of work hours. I was angry at him and told him he made a mistake that ruined his career. Later on he shared with me that his father shot his mother in the head while he was in a car. And that trauma remained with him all his life, and he became an alcoholic as a result. Said he joined a gang group as a teenager and he along with a group of other teenage boys were doing so-called "justice" to women. They were catching all men who beat their wives and beating them (the men). He said they caused them serious injuries. He was in jail. I asked him if he ever killed anyone, and he would never answer. He asked me one time "you're not recording our conversations, are you?" I said "No, why do you have something to hide?" "I can make that phone disappear, you know that, right?" that comment sent shivers down my spine. But he laughed about it, as if this was funny. Finally one evening when we were out for some drinks, he said he did in fact kill someone unintentionally. Then next time I would ask him about it - he would not remember the conversation (or pretend not to remember). His behavior concerned me more and more because he showed up completely inebriated when I met him in public places. I didn't feel safe being in his vehicle for 1st reason - he was probably drinking and driving. And other for all things he already shared. Finally I took a photo of his license plate and also I casually took a photo of him and myself as a "selfie". He said "are you taking this photo as evidence (laugh)"? I said "of course and by the way, if I disappear my phone has a tracker. Everyone would be looking for me, and I always tell my family who I am going out with. I share their name and phone number." (this was a bluff, but later when he contacted me I told him I couldn't see him anymore and that he needs to get help with his addiction). I ended all conversations and blocked him. Luckily he doesn't know where I live, but he knows the area where I live. I'm still a little nervous coming outside, but at least I know he can't get to me. So, listen to your gut, always.
Let's just be thankful he didn't hurt her or her children!
The beauty of the community this family found, coming together in so many ways. Some of the best of us responding to some of the worst.
I've never once understood how "The first 24 hours are the most important" and "We won't file a report until 48 hours" go together.
Edited to say thank you so much for the replies! I didn't think this was a hard and fast rule or even the law, just the line we seem to hear over and over. Agreed heartily with everyone who said to report immediately and, if necessary, keep calling / hollering / badgering until you get the answer you need! May none of us ever find out exactly how it goes.
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There is no waiting period to file a missing person report. The minute you think someone is missing, report it! The idea that you must wait 48 hours is actually a common misconception. In reality, there is no mandatory waiting period to report someone missing. This misunderstanding may stem from media portrayals.
There were a few times my sister went missing because of her addiction, just dropped off the radar for a few months. We were told they wouldn’t file a missing persons report for her until at least 72 hours:/ luckily she came home each time
@@darynboynton8897 so glad she was safe. So, so difficult.
There is no law requiring law enforcement to wait 48 hrs. If you truly believe someone is missing call, report, keep calling, call other agencies, just keep on them. Even post and getting the post to go viral so the mayor sees it! Do whatever you can! Don’t let cops make I wait!
@@patmacrotch5611 Excellent points!!! Definitely keep asking/telling until you get the right response!
I hope Naomi’s brother doesn’t feel any guilt. He seemed like such a good brother to her.
He was so strong through the whole thing and did so much to try and find his sister. His love for her and his family is inspiring.
He did everything he could, he shouldn't have to bear the guilt of another person
He probably thinks about what might have happened if he didn't go to sleep that night, but realistically nothing would have changed.
WHY would he feel guilty??? He was a good Brother. He shared his home. He did everything he could to find her. He did nothing to feel guilty about. Please don’t put THAT on him.
@@THATBossCricket Because that's how humans work. We feel guilty over things outside our control and nitpick every detail thinking of how we could have changed things.
The idea that "yeah, it´s a 18yo and can do whatever she/he likes" needs to go out of the window. If a 18yo who normally keeps in touch of her friends and family doesn´t in time when her/his family expects them to, it needs to be investigated.
I agree that it is concerning how lackadaisical the police officer was with Casey's distress, but how many worst case scenarios come from emergency calls from an older brother being concerned about a sibling? Secondly, the issue isn't with their adulthood, it's frankly the opposite, 18 year olds can be incredibly childish and can do REALLY stupid things for no apparent reason.
I totally agree. Before cellphones were available, my mother would worry if my sister didn't call every day, though she was married and lived elsewhere.
I lived with my mother, but was always away on long work trips.
After 30 days without calling home, I called to let her know I would be back that evening.
I had to delay returning home due to work issues, I forgot about the call, and only two days later, my mother called the head office for news about me.
Naomi's brother had that really suspicious footage of that guy getting into Naomi's car and the cop still wasn't ready to take a missing persons report. I thought that was really strange. When the Mom involved her friend from the FBI, this seemed to get the local police off their asses. Naomi's brother is wonderful.
Cops are just generally lazy and don't want their daily routines messed with too much. It's inconvenient for them.
They're lazy af.
The audacity of him trying to say, “looks like one of YOUR people” hope he never sees the light of day again
That Sheriff Deputy needs to be fired. I feel so sorry for Naomi's family especially her brother who tried to get the Sheriff's Dept. to take this case seriously. The questions he asked Zulema's stepdaughter about riding the charter bus was he maybe thinking of taking her but then found Naomi first. I'm so glad he can no longer hurt any other young women because he wouldn't have stopped.
The fact that he was let out until he actually murdered someone is scary enough.
Masonic brotherhood wont allow that, & draw attn to the dept? Naw
My thoughts exactly..
What's his name?
He would probably went after Zeliuma’s children.
The officer who initially blew off Casey's concerns should be held accountable. His pride and ego interfere with his ability to respond appropriately. He has no business working in law enforcement.
It may have been sheer laziness at first, followed by the desire to cover his own arse. Reprehensible.
Nor with the public at all
Unfortunately she had passed away already nothing would’ve changed
A missings person report filed earlier would’ve meant nothing
@@Rapido20erm... Rapido dude...ya might wanna stop blurting that BS on every thread, I already explained why that comment is cretinous in the other thread above.
@@TomNoles007 nobody cares what you wrote nowhere Numbnut
It would’ve made zero difference in this case
What can’t you grasp about that
When the police found out that Naomi's father works with the state department,it was suddenly taken seriously.That first deputy must shoulder the majority of the blame for what happened.
It's a shame that it takes a corrupt state departments employees daughter as a victim to get any action......
I was wondering if her father’s job was a reason
Exactly 💯 In situations like this minutes can be like hours as far as finding someone, let alone days in trying to find someone!!!
@@stewartpink3117Why are they corrupt?
@@stewartpink3117 How is the US State Department corrupt? I bet you believe everything Trump says.
Casey and his mother show in their interviews what a lovely family Naomi came from. It just makes it all the more tragic. I hope they find what peace it is possible to reclaim from this terrible loss.
Normally I don't comment on these stories, but on the small chance Naomi's family might ever see this, someone more than half a world away did hear Naomi's story. She was a lovely person inside and out. And I am very sure she's proud of you Casey. ... In loving memory of Naomi Irion 💛💛💛
Casey's comment is pinned at the top, I hope they read it all when it feels right💜
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This happened in the tiny town I live in. Can't believe people from all over the world are hearing about this. One of the craziest things that's happened so close to me.
OMG !!! The fact that the Walmart employee let the brother Casey even watch the cctv of the parking lot is amazing. Thank you so much WALLY WORLD !!!
I know he made all the difference
So true. My car got hit in a parking lot, while parked. The business told me I needed a warrant in order to access the cameras.
@@thatcoolkidchris9965I worked for Sam’s club and we weren’t allowed to show any footage to people they had to have a warrant and the police had to be the ones to view it. I’m guessing the Walmart employees could tell how upset and scared he was and went against policy.
@@kathrynpeart5946that’s just sad honestly that shouldn’t be a policy
@@kathrynpeart5946Knowing Walmart, those security people got fired for showing them. No good deed ever goes unpunished
Zulema deserves recognition for not trying to hide or cover up for him
I get the sentiment but nah that’s just being a morally correct person, that’s what we should expect out of everyone, it’s bot some above and beyond action, it’s just being a decent person.
@@Nunya111 I agree, but too many people aren't decent
@@SusantheNerdy that’s a fact.
What a hero, and also a complete idiot
i think it deserves some recognition, people are very attatched to their partners and will often cover for them out of loyalty, i think its quite remarkable that they didnt have to drag any info out of her. @@Nunya111
I love how it talks more about the victims in your videos and they really are Beautiful tributes, the victim lives on a little. And interviews you guys do. Really really good. Thank you.
That first policeman’s incompetence or laziness is unforgivable. Naomi, you were so loved by your family and I’m so sorry your life was brutally destroyed.
It might be unforgivable, but it's also typical... and they aren't asking for forgiveness... they don't care about us.
He's not lazy, he lacks empathy and shouldn't be an officer.
@@saltycat662 Tbh I would imagine a lack of empathy is a positive thing in your resume if you want to be a police officer
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I think it’s unconscionable that an officer would say I’m not gonna file a report because this just looks like a drug deal. So that means that if it looks like a drug deal and someone disappears, then they don’t care the point was that she still was not found even if it was just a drug deal. Obviously something went awry during the drug deal. it’s like the officer was saying well if she was involved in an illegal act that I am assuming then her life isn’t worth me finding out what happened to her or where she is. Just disgusting that’s not a peace officer.
That Cop is a disgrace. If it was his daughter the missing person report would be done in hours!
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Probably more like minutes!
I wouldn't count on the deputy not filing the report as being a true statement.... I highly HIGHLY doubt that actually happen...
then you know very little about how the world works@@JackiMareena
Looks like we found the officer who didn't file the report lads. @@JackiMareena
With so many cases like this, it still boggles my mind how police can still be slow to act when a person is being reported missing, especially when there's CCTV available. If Naomi's parents didn't know that FBI agent, they'd still be looking for her killer today.
I totally get not filing right away when all you know is "she hasn't shown up today", plenty of likely reasons why that could happen and the person would like to be left alone, HOWEVER nobody gets in a car and drives off that quickly unless they're either not supposed to be in said vehicle, i.e. a kidnapping, or they're being chased by a crowd of zombies. Really surprised me that they brushed off that CCTV incident, nobody gets in a car and drives off like that
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@@fatonyalmitchell3281 closed circuit tv
@@fatonyalmitchell3281 security camera footage, my bro
Closed-Circuit TeleVision cameras. Security cameras.
I will always remember Naomi. I was one of the missing persons advocates who was a voice for her. This made me be more aware of my surroundings every time I go out in the public.
The amount of tragedies that could've been prevented if police took cases seriously is insane
Lives are cheap for them, unless it was their own.
We the people have to start taking action. We can no longer rely on swine.
@@streamerssaymynameyeah that’s it, they hate everyone. It’s definitely not a lack of resources issue
@EisernRob, are you daft? Cops have INSANELY high budgets and that's why they're building these Cop Cities for millions of dollars. That's why NYPD has a presence in over a dozen COUNTRIES. The police are not here for us. They only exist to protect property and do the government's bidding.
Number, not amount. Bad grammar.
Her brother is a boss as he starts putting stuff together! He pays attention to details!
Right! I couldn't help but think the whole time I was watching the video that I would love to have a big brother like him. He was on it from the start and put forth so much effort searching for her immediately. Just breaks my heart even more. :(
He seems like a very awesome dude and yes, a devoted as heck big brother.
Truly a wonderful brother to have. Very sad he lost his sister
he sure loved his family
I would be so tempted to publish the name of that sheriff that didn’t take me seriously, trying to find my loved one. People are just unreal.
Dirty DA, family connections, cops who pulled him off told me after he stopped by the day after the restraining order was over, he's been arrested, yeah he's came by my home twice. If he comes again, HE WILL NOT LEAVE WALKING, BODY BAG
The apathetic suck with helping people.
Unfortunately she had passed away already nothing would’ve changed
A missings person report filed early would’ve meant nothing
@@Rapido20。Are you kidding…………. you don’t know that for a fact…….. he should have listened to her brother the first time !!!!!! 🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶
Bro the damn killer would still be on the loose. It absolutely would have helped to try and find her in case they wanted to kill again. Think @@Rapido20
A man telling you that he would murder his wife rather than split assets in a divorce is a MAJOR RED FLAG!
There are so many of these true crime stories about women and men killing thier spouses either over money or the kids. Crazy!
"He was obsessed with killers interrogations and killers minds".
Everyone here 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
The comment i looking for ..
Someone reading your comment highly likely is a serial killer
Right. 🙄
Yeah, but well-adjusted people think "Wow, what a screwed-up freak," and losers like him think "Goals"
Failures with nothing going on take the lazy way, and hurt someone to feel big. Simple as that.
No contest. I mean, I plead the 5th. 😶
I love the perspective and attention of this video being so heavily towards the victim, instead of focused on the perpetrator. So respectful and informative
Ikr! Cool perspective!! Good video! Poor girl:(
But it’s also useful to get the perspective from the suspect because it helps us see how someone can live a normal life and appear to be a family man, but be plotting nothing but evil things. It helps us see how cowards plan and plot on how to get victims. It helps us learn and be more aware of certain things we do in our day to day life, that can help us defend ourselves in certain situations.
its because he requested a lawyer... so we are not seeing that footage of the interrogation, otherwise this whole video would be based on it. But still very informative video!
Me too, this video was done very respectfully. RIP
Zulema really is the type of person you want in your life. Without her Naomi may never have gotten found.
I appreciated the clips of Naomi throughout. So often the victims are forgotten but she seems like such a wonderful person. What a great family she had, hope only good things for them going forward.
When your child is missing 18 or not! You ever give up and you NEVER STOP!
*you never give up
Never ever
Unnecessary to even correct this person, you knew what they meant. Rude @@jamesthesurgeon
@@candaceb76it is not rude. Proofread what you write esp when it's this important.
@@candaceb76Exactly. It's pathetic
Wow props to her brother for taking the time to review the Walmart footage!
Right? What an amazing brother! He was so concerned for his sister. He knew something was wrong.
His girlfriend came up with the idea. Props to her as well
And the girl that mentioned it. Smart. Very smart. I definitely took notes
@@ojdajuiceman6139 Props to them both, but it's a shame a police detective wasn't already on it and he had to do that for them to take note.
This case sickened me. First, the first officer not filing. Second, the poor parents stuck a country away when they heard she was missing. Third, his parents acting the way they did. Fourth, the absolute disgusting thing he committed. Fifth, him not getting to ROT in his guilt after he was caught. These are just few of the many reasons. No one deserves her fate. I’m just glad the ex-gf told the truth and helped uncover the real story. I hope peace finds her and she’s able to find a better man to care for her and her kids. Rest in peace Naomi.
Im glad zulema was honest but man was she the queen of ignoring red flags
Troy has the face and eyes of a Demon!.
i feel bad for her. she met him on a site meant for cheating and talks so casually about him using the same site to cheat on her. and so nonchalantly describing the suspicious things he’s said and done. i don’t know if she was in denial or blinded by love but yeah, this man is a walking red flag.
He was wearing a mask. Narcissistic psychopath.
@@proctorsledge I don’t feel bad for her at all she put her children in harms way. What kind of mother is she?
she wanted a bad boy and she got it. Anyone who's spent 15 years in prison isn't exactly someone you should bring home to meet your kids. She got lucky that he didn't kill her kids.
Thank you Zulema for being honest and NOT trying to cover up for Troy.
She kind of did though, at 39:29
@@LurkingCrassZerowas it for zulemas daughter though?
She was as twisted as he was for living with a guy who was so obsessed with serial killers! The whole family seemed weird and crazy.
I admire Zulema, may Gods love grace her!
@@TheHouseofcoolstuff there are plenty of people who listen to trtue crime podcasts. Nothing wrong with that.
At the end when her brother says he's now living his life he hopes makes Naomi proud made me choke up. So sorry for that loss. What a senseless crime. So tragically sad.
Like u really care 😂
Cry femboy
The more i watch these kinds of videos, the more i am amazed by how often cops dropp the ball.
Yes. Not the Brightest and most Knowledgeable in our police forces
They’re people just like you or I. Nobody believes things like this happen in their community / jurisdiction. And calls from concerned family who end up just being kids who stayed at a friends are quite common. Regardless, when there’s evidence that someone jumped into a car with a woman who’s now missing and drove off is VERY suspect. That cop just didn’t want to do the paperwork.
That cop should be fired immediately. After seeing the video and still not taking it seriously. Absolute asshole
He's 100% responsible for her death and he deserves to be in prison
@@17thknightdriver is responsible for her death. Driver and driver alone
@@17thknight the cop is only responsible if you think the police are there to help citizens
@@17thknight How can the cop be 100% responsible for her death? What % would you give the killer then??
@@lolzlolz69i mean obviously the driver is responsible for her death, but the cop should’ve taken the report. Probably was an extremely busy night based on the officer’s response time and calling the reporting party instead of showing up in person. It was a lazy decision that could’ve saved a life. Report would’ve taken 30 mins max. Definitely agree the cop should be held responsible in some way.
What is the harm in putting out a missing persons report??? I will never understand that!!
A lot of ppl will have to investigate, report ecc. Here in Russia it's corrupted, the system doesn't give a flying f.. about ppl, they torture ppl themselves, they don't get paid enough and don't have enough resources, even the ones that are decent
A lot of people run away. Imagine putting out missing persons for everyone who ran away.
@@jeremyleforce7926oh well? They are... A missing person. There's no law on how long you gotta wait
@@jeremyleforce7926 that’s an even better reason to put out the reports. I don’t know how much paperwork goes into filing a missing persons report but the least they could do is put a BOLO out immediately.
Cops are incredibly lazy
Her brother and the Walmart security officer are more efficient than the entire police squad. It's not that it's surprising, but I thought it was good to mention it.
In my town, the cops job is to take the walmart security footage to the prosecutor.
@@rhinoman86agreed!
Agree. Walmart doesn't just let you easily look at their footage either.
@@sarahd8093 Yeah, I was surprised he got such easy access from Walmart.
People are finally realising the police are a useless bunch of wankers. All of them.
I hope Zulema has gotten therapy and moved on to someone better. The number of red flags she missed is terrifying. There's no way she could have known Troy Driver was a murderer, but he was screaming with every fiber in his body that he was dangerous.
I'm so sorry, Casey. You're the brother we all would love to have.
Im blessed to have two brothers who I’m very close with, and one is an ex cop. That dismissive attitude would not fly with him.
The fact that the cops refused to put in a missing persons report after Casey called is borderline criminal negligence, it doesn't matter if anyone is over the legal age of adulthood, if there is a single reason for someone to suspect a loved one to be in trouble or missing, the cops should act immediately.
No, and that's not how it works. Sorry.
@@dissonantelysium Suzanne's Law requires law enforcement to notify the NCIC anytime anyone under the age of 21 is reported missing, signed into law in 2003 by President Bush. That IS how it should work.
@@krispysis Okej, sure, but how is that practically applied and under what time frame?
@@dissonantelysium how about by holding deputies accountable when someone wants to file a missing person's report? What's your point? The cop was in the wrong.
@@krispysisSo you believe. Yes.
What I learned from this case was that most unsolved cases are actually cases that have just never been taken seriously by authorities.
You deduced that "most" unsolved cases are ones not taken seriously, based on this single example? Clearly a scientist, you are not. One example, does not a pattern make.
@@SM-McKraken suck it I said what I said.
@@SM-McKraken doth tips fedora my good lady sir
@@SM-McKraken"ah ur intelligence is grossly inferior to mine" headass
@@SM-McKraken shhhhh
I live in Reno and this guy looks so normal! I've probably been in the presence of a murderer a gazillion times but had no idea! Sickening.
Props to Zulema for her transparency and empathy. She’s lucky to be alive, honestly.
Oh yeah, she came so close to being murdered also, by going with him far out into the country after just meeting him online. So scary.
Shes as sick
She claims to have had all those suspicions and thought he was macabre, but was still with him until he was arrested.?? Sounds strange.
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@@lueValentineyup, she came clean m played the victim,. She knew way more than than what he asked, tf. Yikes
The sad part is his mother covered up all his crimes and never gotten him help as a teenager, she knew her child was dangerous.
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her mother was a ticking bomb herself, she caring around a weapon? around the property!? who has a weapon on them!?!? many red flags on her part too.
@@BrimstoneMothevery American lol anyone with livestock or a farm
@@BrimstoneMothI do. Many of us do. And she’s rural, too, in New Mexico, no less. That’s tough country. Coyotes, SNAKES, possums, all kinds of critters that could harm their livestock. That’s a very rude comment to make.
A lot of evil parents cover for their evil kid 💔💔 they should be held accountable too
That detective who refused to make the report needs to be fired. If you look on google maps, her car is in the parking lot.
really🥺 that's honestly heartbreaking I know it's just google maps but still sad
One it’s not a detective. It was a normal everyday cop
@@KaylobButcher-eh6xidon't matter, needs to be fired
He thought he was clever but gave the police a literal trail to the body. What a freak
What's disgusting is, his parents knew what he was capable of but acted so indignant and put out. Thank God his girlfriend had the strength to help the police. My heart goes out to the victim's family.
I think that his parents knew what he did this time I think that he he had told them
He's probably already developed a size 12 ... hole😅! It happens to monsters like him...
She knew another side of his, a side that was fascinated with the idea of getting away with murder. I doubt his mother knew THAT.
All familly look crazy
That mom seemed very guilty to me. Sounded like she had things to hide
Naomi’s family should absolutely sue the city/sheriff’s department for 52 hours of inaction in which she could very well have been rescued. Shame on that deputy. If it weren’t for the FBI, I doubt Driver would’ve ever been discovered and arrested.
While I agree that there needs to be repercussions, suing does nothing but make taxpayers pay for something they had zero responsibility for.
Totally agree. This is when cops are lazy and don't really want to do much of anything, not even to save someone's life.
@timkelly6985 as if they don't waste our tax dollars on foreign wars and other frivolities that doesn't help its own citizens 🙄. if they're going to throw my money at anything, i definitely don't mind it being used to hold parties accountable for their own ineptitude.
Unfortunately, you can't really sue any police department. If you win, your compensation comes out of the local authority budget and never affects the police budget. When the police do one of these appalling things, they commit two crimes: one against the people they directly hurt, and another against the community.
@@joechapman8208 actually, it comes out of insurance.
If a cop says they can't take a missing persons report demand a supervisor. There is no absolutely no state or local police department where that is procedure.
This falsehood has ruined so many lives.
And I would have as many people as possible go to the station to file a report.
It will be taken then.
@@cplmpcocptcl6306that's a good idea. other people who know the missing person would be able to confirm that what was happening was not normal for them. (as i understand that is what often gets a reaction, when it's clear it's not normal)
Sad to say o yes their is a state that will not file any missing report until after 72 hours, I live in one of those states
@@SharonStar62What state is that? That doesn't make any sense.
The 24 hour thing may have once been a thing but it hasn’t been for years. Sadly the myth is still propagated by tv and movies.
So sorry for your loss. She seemed to be such a bright light. They always take the bright ones.
It’s sad that you have to know someone in the FBI in order to get the police to take a missing person seriously.
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A missing 18 year old yet. “Looks like a drug deal to me…”
Being a big brother is one of the most under appreciated/rewarding jobs there is! I empathize with her Brother. I’m the oldest of 3 with 2 little sisters and I do ANYTHING/EVERYTHING to make sure they always feel safe. This world is brutal. I pray he finds peace
I know what you mean. I have 4 older brothers (2 are Police Officers) - I was mugged once & my brothers were furious. The perp was found & let's just say he'll never walk normally again. I always felt sorry for my boyfriends, and when I introduced them to my (now) husband, he was instantly liked so I knew he was the one. 😊
You are a great man! ❤
One of the best things in life is having a big brother❤
My big brother is one of the most important people in my life. He was the only one allowed to pick on me and still to this day as an adult would kill someone to protect me. And I would do the same for him. Trust me when I say you are appreciated.
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If you have a good one yes. Reality in our world not all are. Criminal stats in US alone prove this. In some cultures/ countries they’re given ownership basically over sisters until marriage (often arranged) then wife. Be thankful for the good people in your life. You deserve it I’m sure. xx
Her brother should sue the hell out of the police department for not wanting to investigate at first.
Money is always the first thing people think of
I don’t think her family has any animosity toward the police. If a lawsuit had been filed against the police force, her family would have had to relive their worse nightmare again. 😥💔
There's no grounds for a civil suit.
Coffee and donuts are top priority. 😂
@bwin2992 That really doesn't matter in my view. It affected her poor brother during that time
casey is an awesome brother and her entire family seem to love naomi very much. im glad you were able to give naomis family a voice.