For real. I dont pity her for her disability, I am looking at her like any normal regular person. And that's what makes me feel bad for her. the detective was in the wrong here. Must have been a rookie
@@tripleheadedmonkey6613 couldn't have said it better. I'm so pissed at how he mistreated her, and how he mistreated her disability. Definitely should NEVER lead an investigation, nor especially ever train a new detective 🤬🤬🤬
It shows you clearly she’s much better at her job than the male detective. She handled her end amazingly. He was so rude to Kelsey. I am proud she stuck up for herself when she said “ I don’t like you interrupting me.” She had a hard enough time with her hearing impairment when he was hounding her while being so rude..As far as Jeffery I think he should have been committed to a psychiatric hospital style mixed with a prison type environment so he was incarcerated but where they were equipped to handle his care. He clearly has many issues that need addressed.
I know when I’m super upset someone condescendingly tells me “calm down, I don’t need your hands, I don’t need all that,” I always instantly calm down and feel like sharing secrets with them.
Yeah true. And it's not at all frustrating or manipulative to threaten leaving the room with phantom evidence that incriminates you or a loved one. Police interrogators are just great people.
@@wavyremix Glad to see comments like this after the countless blowies everyone gives to detectives in these types of videos. We need detectives of course but it doesn't mean that this type of job isnt a magnet for self aggrandizing piece of shit people who get a thrill about being the one to needle people and watch them squrim happy to be the ones to ruin peoples lives. Funny how they get so mad when suspects lie when all they do is lie. I just wish once a perp would be smartass after they tell them "we have all this evidence we know everything" and just say "well I guess you don't need me for me anything then fuckhead LAWYER"
This is by far the most heartbreaking interrogation I've ever seen. She was treated as if she were an ignorant small child. I've seen interrogations with killers and I've never seen someone treated this poorly and inhuman.
Very true. She was telling the damn truth and that detective is a POS. She’s a sweetheart and very intelligent. More intelligent than that bloody detective 😡
The best part of THIS particular video is how EWU completely picked apart the terrible job the male detective did. We've seen good ones and bad ones, this guy is freakin' piss poor.
From what I understand, he no longer works as a detective for this department. Can’t say for sure if he moved to another tho. Definitely agree he SHOULD NOT be a detective or in any profession where you need even the slightest bit of empathy
@@Pixanxious pretty standard for disgraced law enforcement to just move to the next county over and get rehired, so odds are that he's still doing the same old shit a few miles away. good to hear he doesn't work for this dept anymore though. what a turd.
I'm deaf and I dont wave my hands hysterically - it's insulting for you to assume we all do that. She is being emotionally dramatic - it has nothing to do with her being deaf.
Kelsey's detective should be fired. He was pissing me off too. He is HORRIBLE at his job. I can only imagine how many people were wrongly accused because of him. The police department should definitely look into it.
The moment she asks to her mom "You're scared for me ?" after having been pushed to her limits by an incompetent "detective" was heartbreaking. I hope she's better now.
It's Roswell, GA. This is the same department that the "coin-flip" cops were fired out of. It's also the same department where a cop committed police-torture against a 13 year old suspected of driving a stolen golf cart. It's also the same department where a cop sat in his car behind local businesses and refused to respond to calls. In one case, a woman a block away was having a medical emergency, luckily a cop a couple miles away got there in time and saved her. This department is a hot mess, this video throws another log on that fire.
Kelsey's mother is not helping her. What a dunce. She's treating her like they are in the principal's office in an elementary school. Really, that woman. Once they started talking about wanting access to her electronics the mother should have stood up for her daughter right there and said they were done with questioning until an attorney was present. The way Kelsey was treated by both the officer and her mother was disgraceful.
Unfortunately most people operate as slaves of their own volition just “doing as they’re told” and making appeals to authority regarding most matters so although disgraceful, it doesn’t surprise me in the least what the mother did here.
Her mother is a bootlicker. It is how she was raised in her generation. I'm sure she is completely unaware of her rights much less of granddaughter's constitutional rights. She thinks the cops are there to help and will do no harm. My parents are the same way and they are very educated.
@@peachyrider9987 If she refuses, they will just get a warrant for the phone plus it does make her look guilty. This is murder were talking about here, not something frivolous. In a case like this they are going to get it one way or another.
@@sab5076 Asking for a warrant is not an admission of guilt, it's part of the due process. It's meant to protect citizens from unlawful searches and forfeiting that protection leaves them vulnerable to even more charges that the police can stick them with. There's nothing frivolous about covering your ass from further legal repercussions.
Counterpoint: her mom saw this as a golden opportunity to finally separate her daughter from Johnny Depp's illegitimate hellspawn and took it, thereby helping her daughter in the long run.
The way he's like "I don't need your hands" but yet waves his own hands around when talking and isn't even hard of hearing. Honestly the audacity of some people.
I'm not deaf or even hard of hearing, but I almost always use my hands when speaking, exactly like she did. Plenty of people do. Just observe any Italian talking (stereotype, but true 😄).
@@GeeEee75 i mean, shaming someone for moving their hands because of a disability and someone getting shamed for moving their hands just because thats what they do are completely different. ableism.
you are completely empty-headed if you think those violent treating gestures are deaf language. besides she has been disrespectful to him the whole time
The good news, for anyone wondering, is that Andrew Kirk (the guy that interrogated Kelsey) no longer works as a detective. Looks like he left around 2022.
Kelsey was screaming on the inside "This feels wrong!" while her mom was yapping about the phone. You wouldn't just hand your phone to a stranger would you? Much less a police officer and ESPECIALLY if you're innocent. They're pros at finding small incriminating stuff unrelated to the actual crime and all of a sudden you're an accessory. Stand up for yourself and ask for counsel ASAP
"I don't need your hands" sent my rage levels soaring 🤬. What a cruel man. She's deaf and is struggling to communicate, whilst being unceasingly interrupted by him. Big fail of a Detective.
Same! I want to punch him in the mouth! Even if she wasn't hearing impaired, her innocence is obvious and this level of disrespect is how false confessions are forced. This type of detective makes me sick.
Exactly, I feel terrible for this young woman. And wth don't they teach about mental illness in highschool. Young people should understand they can not help a person who is this ill. And that when people go off medications they need to notify next of kin, especially if the ill person tends toward violence.
Not only do I feel bad for her but it's also horrible for the investigation. She's a young girl who isn't mature enough to just say I told you the truth and I'm done repeating myself. Not only do you not have to voluntarily answer questions but you sure as hell don't have to submit to badgering. Beyond pointlessly berating a decent young person he's also conducting a horrible interview. He got no useful information and anything she did say would be useless when a jury sees that interview. I sure as hell wouldn't find her guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. I'd just see a scared kid trying her best in the face of a bully. This is also how decent people grow to hate police. That poor girl will struggle to trust authorities forever. Edit: for clarity I have many cop friends I don't hate police. This kind of stuff hurts good police like the ones I know and their relationship with good citizens.
Ya this was one of the worst detectives I've seen from watching a load of these. Honestly she needed council to stop his bs. I would have walked tf out of there if was her. But I understand she was scared shitless and had nothing to hide. I feel so bad for her. The lady detective would have been better to talk with her.
This is horrifically heart breaking. The interrogator was absolutely out of line. "Calm down. You're up here and i need you down here." "I dont need all this with the hands" and after witnessing the clear language barrier and not reevaluating his method... Shut her down multiple times... He's horrible at his job. This was such a sad case.
The officer yells aggressively 'this is a safe space' and doesn't understand why she instantly starts to cry in response to his aggression and not feeling safe.
It’s ridiculous when people suggest a person who asks for an attorney is definitely guilty. Sorry, but if some cop is accusing me of a crime I didn’t commit and they’re interrogating me for an extended period of time, only an uninformed person would continue to speak without representation. I’ve seen one too many times where a person is falsely accused with no evidence and ends up being locked up for years trying to fight a case against them. Even if they inevitably are found innocent in court, losing years of your life being locked up prior to a trial is equally as bad.
A$$hQles only complain about cops being hostile when the criminal is White. These dudes could shoot a Black suspect and clowns like you would be looking for ways to justify it.
Welcome to Ga. It's worse in NC. This so called detective/interrogator is appauling. what was worse, was we all know higher ranking officials and/or co workers were watching this go on and on, and no one intervened, why is that?
The detective continually condescending to the deaf girl and repeatedly calling her deceptive and disrespectful is the worst possible way to deal with a deaf person. The detective gets an "F."
I think she is being deceptive, at 38.00 she says about how he held a gun at someone, but at the beginning when asked about weapons she denies he’s ever had a gun, police missed that imo!
I think it really depends on the person being interrogated. If its an arrogant young man, chances are, a female detective would be viewed as weak whereas an intimidating male would have more impact. In this case, the suspect lacks masculinity and presents as weak. He would be more open with an empathetic woman.
"your culpable and accountable" 'thank you' this really did it for me. That man literally witnessed the language barrier and I feel like he ran with it.
My mom is deaf. I was just seething with anger with the interrogator! So disgustedly rude. If there is one thing I will take away from any of these videos, its to always ask for a lawyer.
When the teenage girl is forthrightly like 'I don't appreciate you interrupting me' and the grown man's response is an immature *and entirely inaccurate* 'I don't appreciate your deceptions' I can't even. What a dumpster fire of a job he did.
i also really hate that he said "i don't need your hands" when she was using her hands more to emphasize more things... she has a hearing impairment you ableist fuck. Even if shes being dishonest or shes guilty, its still horrible. He is the worst detective I have seen so far.
Detective Baldspot was needlessly cruel and rude. His one and only tactic was to nonstop accuse Kelsey of lying, which is just embarrassing especially after he told her that he's been doing this sort of work for years.
It's kind of funny how the 1st thing you do is mock somebody's appearance because you don't like them. Isnt that hilarious? You are what you pretend to hate. Lol.
I love that fact that you guys don't shy away from calling out the negatives in their technique. The last few I watched the interrogations were so solid and they made them look easy. Here is a great showing that it's more than the formula, the interrogator has to be able to adjust when they realize they are wrong. Or have enough humility to consider they could be hinging their theory on a bad read. Terrific work to the EWU team!
We don't nearly see enough bad interrogations on UA-cam. It's pretty easy to watch a clean, hindsight play-by-play, but it's not the norm in this profession. Usually it's very complicated with numerous suspects, and they bulldoze their way over multiple peoples' rights without impunity on their way to the final suspect. Once they like you for something, they will use every dirty trick in the book, often getting access to and abusing the private materials of well-meaning people. It's honestly a disgusting profession.
I wouldn't go so far to say he needs to be fired. He's probably a very good officer, but clearly needs some additional training on interrogating techniques and communicating with impaired people.
she barely used her hands while showing signs of lying at the very beginning of the interview. cringe “outrage” doesnt mean you know what you’re doing or morally superior
@@shaneconner5659if he behaves this way to this girl, I don’t trust how he behaves to others that he’s view as less seemly. He needs to go. Cops need to have higher bars to pass than most professions.
Omg I always say this and someone came for me on another video for saying this. I knew the person was clearly guilty but we have amendments for a reason. We need to exercise our rights no matter what.
When Kelsey’s interrogator came into the room he immediately announced that he had taken multiple classes and was an expert I knew she was in trouble because only a bad one with low self-esteem would feel the need to declare his “abilities” What a perfect example of how not to speak to a hearing impaired person. And her Mother, OMG!!!
Well, to be fair, she was lying about him having displayed any behaviors that shocked her. As terrible as his approach was, he wasn't too off when reading her.
The detective that interviewed Kelsey should have been taken off that case, and the lady that interviewed her husband should have been there instead. If the male detective was so schooled in doing interviews, why was he so horrible at it? 🤨🤔🙄
I also am hearing impaired. It is very difficult to communicate when you can’t hear what is being said. Very, very stressful. I really felt bad for her.
As someone who’s hearing impaired I’m very upset with how the detective handled the situation. We struggle so hard to even understand what people are saying to us and keep up with a conversation, and it is a literal nightmare to me to imagine that being used against me to accuse me of doing something wrong. I hope she’s ok now.
I have hearing problems and seeing that detective being so rude and talking down to her upset me very much, as well! It’s very difficult for me to understand what people are saying to me, and having someone talk at me that way would confuse and upset me so much I wouldn’t be able to continue speaking with them!
Not inly do people treat yiu like you`re stuoid, they also assume you are either rude if you don't respond or angry if you talk loud, like i do if there's background noise
The lady detective is a great example on how to interrogate someone, whilst the male detective is how not to. I was getting frustrated with him so I can only imagine how Kelsey felt and that isn’t going to get her to answer honestly.
Yeah same here I just felt so bad for her she was just a kid I don't know why they thought she had anything to do with it when she was obviously innocent and Jeffrey was the murderer she had nothing to do with it Some detective he was
BS - questioning him in that state is absurd. He should have been provided a counsellor and a lawyer whether he asked for it or not. He’s clearly not in his right mind.
Thanks to that second detective with Kelsey, for showing a wonderful example of how to be inefficient, inconsiderate, rude and how to almost always further rile someone up who is already upset. Not to mention the absolute disrespect shown by telling Kelsey to limit her hand use and the MULTIPLE times he disregards and minimizes her feelings, trauma and experiences with Jeffrey and his attempts to end his life.
@@thesportsguy126That's not a good excuse. Oh sorry parents of the victim we didn't know anything so we ignored every procedure and made the suspect shut down. Your kids won't get justice but it's OK because we knew she was lying and we had fun yelling at a suspect. Do the job properly because it's about getting justice not being a bad ass.
So glad you mentioned his wife being hard of hearing and how it affects her outward appearance/actions. People with mental or physical disabilities are often treated in ways that don't agree with us so it's nice to see that emphasized. Always love to see another upload! Thanks EWU!
Oof yes. I’m autistic but I’m really smart (apparently) so people talk differently sometimes to me or just attack me for no reason (not physically) they also sometimes do baby voice….. like tf . And I’m smart as in, im really into psychology and more just general how humans think and how there environment affects them. And so I analyse people to much that I forget that they don’t think like that😭 and they get scared how I know so much about them if I just met them😭, but mentally I’ll people love it😏😎including me bhahaha
I’m noticing a trend of male investigators absolutely butchering interrogations due to lack of emotional control. Which is wild, not a field to work in if you can’t control your emotions.
The detective telling Kelsey "I don't need your hands" was just insane. Bro that's just how we communicate. Even if we don't use ASL, we still use and need hand gestures to effectively communicate, we just tend to be more expressive with our hands. Like all of her "lying" cues are just the result of her not being able to completely hear him. Was he not told that she was HH?? I hope he got some mandatory sensitivity training after that 😐
This interrogator is awful. He doesn't appear to understand that she is hearing impaired which is why she is louder and using her hands more than others might. I really feel badly for her. She doesn't know what's happening except that he is calling her a liar. He appears to be more of a bully instead of trying to get information from her.
when he said "I don't need your hands" or whatever he said, it truly pissed me off. He has no clue how to interact with someone who is hard of hearing.
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I can’t stand him. When he pulled that ‘I can tell you’re lying because you looked away’ crap, I lost all respect for him. Like, if I had done nothing wrong and they needed my help, I would absolutely need to talk to someone else because this dummy keeps doubling down on his lies 😂
Kelsey’s mom is proof that your parents aren’t always your best ally in these situations, your lawyer is. Just cause you’re innocent doesn’t mean you shouldn’t lawyer up. The law is confusing to the average person which is why we get someone who’s trained in it to help us.
Exactly. Otherwise what's the point of having lawyers and then having to pay to do university degrees if understanding the law and rights was so simple? Make use of the resources you have a right to, the interrogators wouldn't have spoken to Kelsey like that if a lawyer was present
@@littleredrose6254 No average man or even police officer type income can afford a criminal defense lawyer. The only option is the free public defense lawyer with a hundred to many clients at any given moment leaving their client advised to take a plea deal else just sitting there while the judge sentences the accused.
@littleredrose6254 the average defense attorney hourly rate in the town of the murders is 200 an hour.... the average cost if a law degree itself is over 100k.. insurance a few grand a year..... registration 1500 yearly..... sorry defense lawyers can't work for free trying to cover just annual expenses, don't be stupid and get yourself in a situation where you need an attorney if you can't afford it. And yes she could have easily avoided this by not marrying a kid she knew for 3 or 4 months, that's dumb as hell
“I don’t like when you’re being deceptive” wow, why did he think that was a good response to her communicating that she didn’t like being interrupted. Was a POS of a person and I hope his next job is scrubbing nasty toilets. 🤦♀️
The detective interviewing her is the perfect example of what is wrong with our system. He is in a power struggle over someone who he thinks is less than him, but she's just trying to understand what he's asking and eluding to.
In his defense, Roswell had not had any reported violent crimes or murders since at least the year 2000. I’m not surprised the RPD wasn’t used to dealing with violent crimes. It was known as a very safe and wealthy area.
Not sure about this particular jurisdiction, but I’ve studied evidence law and this detective is making it really hard for the prosecution to use anything in this interview. A competent defence team could easily get this thrown out of evidence (especially when he tells her to act a certain way, or implying that she won’t get out of the situation unless she confesses). The legal test is generally: if the police obtain a confession that would not have been obtained without the threat or implied threat, then it is void in evidence. Even if she confessed right then and there, it couldn’t be used as evidence in court. *Not legal advice*, just my opinion.
@@JackieOwl94 That being said, the female detective in this case seemed to have figured out what the conduct should be. My money's on male detective is an incompetent asshole!
He didn't think she was less than him- he knew she was lying to protect a murderer. His job is to get the truth. The woman was lying. It was obvious she knew Jeffrey was crazy and dangerous. The detective is exactly what is RIGHT with our system. He is a man doing his job- making liars and criminals fess up. She knew everything but thinks she and Jeffrey are more important than everyone else. She knew what the detective was asking- she just doesn't want to admit her role in it and her foreknowledge.
I think this interrogation with Kelsey really spells out why I love EWU so much versus any other crime UA-cam channel. EWU will actually tell us when a detective is doing a bad job, instead of overlooking it or agreeing with them.
What did he do so wrong? It's just one youtubers opinion of how he thinks a suspect should be interrogated. I think the interrogators did a perfectly fine job and got good results.
This detective is just gaslighting her left and right! "I know you're lying." The quickest way to shut someone off who has been telling you the truth as well as they can. Where does she go from there? Make things up in order to say what he wants to hear? He should be fired.
that interrogator's biggest fault is that he did not use any rapport building with her or create a comfortable environment where she felt safe to share information. most likely, he came in there with assumptions regarding her involvement and was antagonistic from the beginning - probably poisoned by the mother's negative, belittling opinions. the mom seems like a real piece of work, herself. but the fact of the matter is kelsey was deliberately withholding information based on her middle school understanding of loyalty and he was able to get her to be honest with him. even i don't like how he did it, but he still did his job - just not with much elegance
So are you saying because she is deaf she is not capable of lying because handicapped people lie too and it's pretty obvious that she is lying as well he's not gaslighting her he's getting her to tell the truth and I'm sorry when there are two teenage kids dead for no fucking reason he can employ any tactic he wants and you do not have to approve
That word “gaslighting” has take America by storm. It’s like an epidemic! 5 years or so ago it was never mentioned. Once all the human sheep heard it being used, it was off to the races. Like “lowkey”, “cap”, “no cap”…etc.
The man that did Kelsey’s interview did an absolutely terrible job on so many levels. You can only hope he is not in this line of work anymore. He told a woman hard of hearing to not use her hands? Interrupts her constantly. Threatens her to be honest more than building rapport, He treated her worse than the criminal himself. Straight up shame on him. He needs a job literally anywhere else …just wow
I feel so bad for this girl. She seems like a genuinely good and caring person who was trying to help her boyfriend without fully knowing what she was dealing with. I would imagine this would eat at her for the rest of her life. I hope she finds happiness in her life someday.
I see this too… and in situations like this apparently it’s not right to an average person to help someone like him. When really he needed her in his life but unfortunately his mental condition got the best of him. She had a great heart to care for him.
It was extremely dismissive and hurtful that Kelsey's interviewer told her, *he didn't want her to use her hands.* He said this while KNOWING she was hard of hearing! What is wrong with that man?
@@hi-dl4kw Hey Bud! The action and reaction is still the same whether she was hard of hearing or deaf. You should know that already!! My uncle was the chairman of the deaf society in our town. I know the difference.
@hi🙂 ‘Hard of hearing’ is a term that a lot of people use that have hearing impairments, no matter what degree it is. Some people that say they are hard of hearing still use sign or lip reading…whether they hear auditorial tones or not. Hard of hearing doesn’t just mean ‘I have a bit of trouble, speak up please’. The way you interact on the internet would be more tolerable if you knew what you were talking about.
@@hi-dl4kw how do you know? did you conduct her audiology tests? have you seen her results? have you attempted to have a conversation with her face to face? no one ever knows the severity of hearing loss.
@@Miksmissus I say I'm "deaf/hard of hearing" as I'm deaf in 1 ear and hard of hearing in the other, when I used to say I'm "hard of hearing", people wouldn't always appreciate quite how badly deaf I was until they realised just raising their voices slightly left me looking like a dork staring at them in panic lmao. But 100% rely on lip reading and side rant on lip reading: if you verbally mumble, your lips mumble as well. Cannot understand a word anyone says when they're just mumbling and it is just so infuriating.
That male interviewer is a huge jerk 😠 the coddled the actual killer while raking an honest young woman across the coals. I hope he got reprimanded or fired
The fact that Kelsey was able to deduct the interrogators intentions with ZERO training and under extreme distress WITH a disability proves that she would be 10x better at the interrogators job.
I about laughed out loud when the idiot detective tried to flip that deduction on her. "How did you know it's about those killings? AHA! He DID tell you!"
This is devastating to watch. A young man in clear psychotic distress, a young woman being honest but yet still being disrespected without understanding her rights, a detective that needs more empathy and training, and two dead teenagers. Yeah, this world has plenty of despair to pass around.
@simulationkoyo Edit: I agreed at first, but after seeing more I can see what EWU was getting at. As long as mental illness never excuses a person from being placed behind bars forever for killing people, I’m good with it. I’m ok with euthanizing the mentally ill who commit murder.
@simulationkoyoAre you bright jn the head? Do you know what what is schizophrenia is? Cuz you did a shit job at understanding. I rather have him go to a psychward than jail no matter if he's lieing or not. He won't get out in shit. No matter if he's crazy or not. But if he's actually faking it all he won't make it in there its worse than a regular prison. And if he's crazy than he will get some help
My sister is profoundly deaf, she lip reads & demonstrates every single aspect of a conversation & interacts using hand signals, signs & also waves her arms around. It's how she 'communicates'! Watching this video nearly broke me because this is the way I've communicated with her for 58 years. They should have brought in a more experienced detective who is better able to relate to someone who is deaf 😢
They should've brought people more able to handle both of them. They were both handled so poorly. She was treated so badly, like he was so rude to her for no reason. I know his job is to be a detective, but it's not to be an absolute a-hole to someone who may or may not have known about their significant others crime. And he has no idea how to interact with someone who's hard of hearing. And I know he killed two people, but for some reason seeing that female detective treat him that way made me feel sorry for him. Putting him in distress like that is only going to mess his head up even more.
@@DrJ-hx7wv the people trying to solve the fucking murder. how the hell are you supposed to get a confession out of someone who doesnt want to talk to you? use common sense.
@@DrJ-hx7wv Yeah, that is foolish. These detectives were dealing with two whiny, crybaby adults. There were two CHILDREN murdered. Who cares about these idiots feelings?
As a person who lives with a hearing impairment, Kelseys interrogation was infuriating to watch. Reading lips during conversation seems alot easier than it actually is; and thats when people ARENT interrupting you, dismissing your words and experiences and taking an uncaring and unempathetic approach to a horrific situation like attempted s*****e.
This whole case breaks my heart. The picture of the schizophrenia self-help books from Jeffrey’s house, the journal entries logging his decline, Kelsey trying her best to help him, the two innocent victims that had nothing to do with any of it. It’s all just tragic.
This is what happens when people cannot get the help they truly need. Not that every schizophrenic is a murder or even violent, but the mind can get super messed up with a disorder like that, especially if they are exposed to such violence. It's absolutely heart shattering and I'm only 10 mins in :(
@@kennyevans6197 You do have a point, but it doesn't detract from being regarded as tragic. How about "demonic", if witness to the incident, "tragic", in hindsight..?
Exactly. It's obvious he has very little patience or understanding. He is stressed and ready to go. He has underlying issues with anger and probably cannot stand his wife.. or life, for that matter.
I don't know why you are posting this as some sort of grand revelation. No shit everyone is guilty until proven innocent, that is quite literally how detective work, well, works.
to be fair to the interogator, kelsey WAS hiding info! she was hiding the info of him being psycho, being off meds since a few weeks and that she had to grab a knife from him because she was afraid he would harm people and stuff like that, she was actively "helping" him to get off his meds and enabling him by not interfering when he was brandishing a knife, she just took the knife and did nothing to further stop him from attemting again.. I think she got off because of a plea deal where she had to testify or something, cause to me it feels like by enabling him, she is at least partly to blame
He’s accusing her of lying, yet he’s the only one lying 😡 Telling a hearing loss person not to use her hands to express herself is rude!! “I don’t need your hands”😡 Really????😩 Plus he’s interrupting her constantly! And threatening her!!
The interrogator who questions Kelsey is a complete psychopath!!! 😳 I mean WTF. She is not the one who killed those innocent people and clearly was not aware of the fact that her husband killed them, until that psychopath interrogated her and forced her to confess something which is not the TRUTH!! It reminds me of the witch trials in the Middle Ages. He should be held responsible for devastating a young woman's psychology. 😡
They always do this. You're noticing more because she's likely innocent, but they always accuse people, especially when they don't have anything against the person they ask questions to. I've seen many of these videos and I often ask myself how many people did nothing wrong but have been convicted because they were tired, nervous, and just mispoke. No wonder there's so many justice miscarriage in the US.
Super happy that Kelsey was truthful and innocent. I hate seeing a person get pulled into awful events because of the relationship they're in. She seems like a good person. I hope she's doing well.
@@iVolkswagen her not knowing how to help him is ignorance not lack of innocence. She’s still a sweet girl and her not knowing how to help doesn’t change that. Always simple guys like you that are so confident about what they say. Think more, say less bro
@@iVolkswagen she had a learning disorder as well. In her mind she was probably helping him as much as she knew how. She’s young as well her way of thinking would most likely be far different if she was older and had more life experience and also didn’t have a learning disability.
Kelsey seems like such a sweetheart. It's so sad that she got caught up in all that mess. The whole interview she was incredibly genuine and gave the officer way more leeway than they deserved. He was incredibly disrespectful. She was so obviously innocent. She didn't deserve any of that
@@ub3rfr3nzy94 Legally responsible... No shes not... However... Morally, she is... Ill cut her a lot of slack though due to her being so young, and having only known the guy for so short of a time... I think her living with the fact that she did indeed INDIRECTLY.... Play a role in 2 of her fellow man, being cheated out of a full life... I hope she doesnt let it consume her... She seems like she will be the type to do just that unfortunately...
That detective that interviewed Kelsey is the kind of cop that gets an innocent person locked up. All he did was make negative assumptions and accuse her, he really gave as little consideration to the idea of her being innocent and honest as he possibly could. Scary stuff.
He’s doing his job. It’s harder doing it than watching a video from your phone when it’s all done with. Unless you’re the guy that trained the detective..
@@Maj_hul true, because she did end up confessing to her mother, that’s why I said what I said, but yeah he seemed to be very pushy, like he was rushing to get the info out of her instead of taking his time.
He was an idiot, straight up. I don't think he even knew what he was doing or how it was perceived. He clearly wasnt picking up on anything that we could see. He says hes been doing this for years, which is just a huge facepalm. He needs to immediately be reassigned, retired, or intensely retrained.
Wow this is just so awful and heart breaking. Mental health is such a serious topic and left untreated the consequences are obviously so dangerous for everyone. RIP to both victims.
Yea that detective is a complete clown. What a douche. Hopefully the department saw this and removed him from interrogating people, because if he’s been doing this for years I’m sure he’s botched investigations by talking to people like this.
I feel so bad for Kelsey, her life was falling apart and she didn't even know it yet, then this dumbass detective treats her horribly. And her being Deaf definitely played a part in how she was treated, infuriating.
An officer telling a damn near deaf woman to “stop with all the hands” when she’s trying to communicate is crazy to me…why is he in law enforcement 🤦🏾♀️
@jessiehurley4809 Why are you trying to make this a gender thing, the guy was a piece of shit *human*, not because he was a man. You sound like the inverse of the dumb misogynist redpill guys. Generalizing genders everywhere they can. You even implied there's an intelligence difference in genders. I would hope you would feel gross about that just like you would feel gross if a man claimed "it's no coincidence the man was more intelligent..."
My mom is deaf and the way Kelsey is being talked to during this interview is making me absolutely sick to my stomach. The detective refuses to listen to her and then has the balls to say “stop it with your hands”, my blood is boiling. It is so hard for a deaf person to catch everything in a normal conversation anyway, and for him to treat her this way during and INTERROGATION is sick.
I don’t understand how some of y’all think he’s faking. He is diagnosed, has been medicated, has a historical evidence of his mental illness, required medical attention before being fit to stand trial, and has experiences/stories similar to many people with schizophrenia. Matt is a hallucination yes, but just like many other patients with schizophrenia, this character is threatening his loved ones, and then tells him to kill others. This is a very, very normal experience for them. It is just shocking to me how people can ignore blatant evidence. No wonder there is so much untreated mental illness, so many of y’all wouldn’t believe them even if they told you or asked for help. Also, just as a final note, do you have any idea how exhausting all his physical movements are. Shaking is exhausting on the muscles, excellerated breathing strains the heart, bodies are pushed to the limits during an episode, but the movements provide mental soothing, so the body will push through. It would be very hard for someone to endure faking panic for as long as Jeffrey suffered.
I give Kelsey a lot of credit, dealing with that awful unskilled investigator would have been frustrating for anyone. Facing a jusge based on him filing your charges would be the worst.
I love how people pretend cops are counselors and physcis. Their job is to arrest you. Every time you've talked to a cop: they have assessed rather to arrest you or not. Every person who's been arrested has either lied, or asked for a lawyer immediately. Stop pretending that actors are honest and police do anything other then gather points on the scoreboard of arrests and convictions: exactly what YOU vote for. Don't fucking pretend. You're too damn old, and I'm not in to you lying to me.
Kelsey probably thought she was going to jail after the interview because the detective kept saying she was being deceptive and that’s why she was acting so hostile and distressed. The interrogator was horrible here.
Yeah I think she was confused about what was even going on. Most people have no idea how the system works, throw being deaf on top of it and the fact that detective doesn't seem to know how do anything besides say, "I know you know now tell me what I know you know.", and so like she clearly thought she was going to be arrested or something with how he was talking. That's why she kept saying, "No!" when he went to leave the room because she assumed that meant she'd be taken to jail. Then when her mom was like, "I'm scared." she went, "Scared for me?!" and freaked out,a nd her moms like, "Wut.... -_____- no, you're fine." then she was like a lot more calm after that. Detective was friggin ass at his job. Was probably hammered and wanted to score another 8-ball and was getting frustrated this wasn't a slam dunk bulldozing over a deaf girl.
@@Space_Ghost_Hunter it’s so awful & so sad. Meanwhile we’ve got a generation of children growing up watching half of their “tick-tock” friends pretend to have DID online. to the 15yos in the room… this is what it actually looks like. If you have alters I can guarantee that most of them have no fucking clue, and depending on how many you’ve got, the more you have the less of a chance there is that you are one of the ones who *do* know. There is statistically far *more* of a chance that you could have DID & be entirely unaware of it, than you having DID & be completely lucid about that fact.
Don’t know what you guys were watching she didn’t lie. She clearly didn’t want to reveal her husband had mental health issues . She felt like it was private and perhaps she had some shame surrounding it also. Consider she’s also his carer she most likely felt she had to protect him as he was vulnerable . I don’t think she knew he had committed any murders . That’s not a crime
My mom has hearing issues, which made watching Kelsey's interrogation really hard for me. I really hope that detective realizes someday how crappy it was of him to treat her like that instead of admitting that he could be wrong about something, but let's be honest he probably never will.
@@benitolazio8193 EXACTLY! Everyone is in the comments worried about her and the way the investigator talked to her. Who gives a fuck about that? Two teenagers were murdered in cold blood. Her treatment in the interrogation room is a non-issue.
They are both psychopaths pretending to be psychotic which doesn't increase someone's propensity to violence and is more likely to be what a victim is left with. I'm sick of clowns like this sticking the boot in like this pretending to be victims too like that would justify something. Yeah fk em!
@@mattjack3983 It IS an issue you. This is how people get falsely accused and thrown into prison for shit that they had no part in. It's why these things are accounted. People are can be employed into jobs they are bad at, or make wrong decisions - and they should be held accountable for that shit. Absolutely unnecessary for that detective to handle Kelsey's interrogation in that manner.
I'm hard of hearing but luckily it's only high pitches in one ear so even without a hearing aid I hear well enough I don't need to read lips or sign language or anything. I probably say, "what?" twice as much as the average person though & when I go to the movies I have to make sure the girl sits on my good ears side or I won't be hearing a word they say lmao
The only interrogation I've seen that was worse than Kelsys was the cop who interviewed a man for hours, not noticing he'd been shot in the face twice and had brain damage.
@@LifeSizeNomi It's a famous case...Her name is Ryan Waller. Explore with us have the interview. In short, Waller and his girlfriend were at home, watching and-or sleeping on the couch. And they've been victim of a break-in. Both had been shoot. Her girlfriend died, and he was arrested as a suspect. They interview him for hours, while he was clearly confuse etc... And in pain... In fact, he was a victim and had 2 bullets in his head! ( Sorry for my engrish, i'm a french speaker)
@theBOG3, *****so you missed the bit where they said that English is not their first language? How many languages do you speak? How many languages are you able to write in fluently??? How well do you write in french? Wtf mr/mrs/ms Judgy Judgerton...
This entire case is heart breaking. The two innocent teens losing their lives for absolutely no reason. The way Kelsey was treated and talked to for being completely innocent. The fact that Jeffrey was unable to receive help before this all happened and if he would’ve gotten help, maybe this all could’ve been prevented. The whole thing is sad. Jeffrey’s mental health crisis does not excuse what he did. But, he’s the perfect example of the reason we need more metal hospital jails. He’s most likely going to spend his time in a general prison where he is not going to get the proper evaluations and treatments he needs.
There is no indication from this video that there was a lack of access to healthcare. It just said he was off his meds. Could easily have been his decision. Not lack of access to meds.
This woman is being borderline psychologically abused in this interrogation. Demeaning her, telling her shes being purposefully deceptive when shes being honest, asking if shes really being truthful. Making her question herself, literal gaslighting. Not everyone tells their partner everything, especially dark shit like this. And if he was truly violent and dangerous, she likely couldve been a victim herself. Its not wise or appropriate to berate this woman.
@@nancyadamson286 He shouldn't be fired, that's insane considering he was being mean and stupid, but he 100% needs to be sat tf down and retraiend before he's put on a case where his stupidity could actually be detrimental.
This is so sad and disturbing. My sister has a history of paranoid schizophrenia. She experienced hearing voices around the age of 16. She is now 68. She is in a lock facility. She has escaped and gone homeless several times. She has jumped off a bridge unto the 5 freeway and survived, she has cut her gut open from below her belly button to her ribs and pulled out her intestines and survived. This disease is horrific. The mental facilities and government programs have been cut back. She used to live with me and my family until she became unsafe for my grandchildren and neighbors. I had her committed to be a ward of the state. It was under their care that she was homeless on the streets, a great harm to herself and others. I don't know what the solution is but it is not to be taken lightly. It is real and it is dangerous.
My brother suffered it too and eventually took his own life. He was a talented artist, crazy imagination and humour. Oddly, I notice how Jeffrey's writing is so neat. Some schizophrenics can have hidden talents and as you say, if the support is there and they take their meds, things can be fine, but if not, things can go downhill fast. I hope your sister is getting some form of stability and is not homeless.
Omg i wish you and your sister the best. Ive been homeless and on drugs on the street. Definitely not a good situation. Being there i really started losing my faith in the government and humanity. Although in my situation it was my own choices that got me there. I know some with this disease will have times they may seem normal and people dont understand or arent trained enough to look for behaviour and signs theyre showing. Although your sister sounds like a severe case so i dont know if she was like this. But im guessing if you felt okay to have her live with you then she must have had her good moments. It takes really takes life long treatment and more studying to help people understand this illness. Even some medical professionals ive met dont understand how to deal with this ilness. But in the past alot of people that were born with this illness dont end up living very long. Then again as a society we didnt even know about this illness for generations. It feels like even now, because the illness is considered so rare, we still dont know much about it. Ive never heard of a person living almost all their life with this illness and living up to 68 into their old age. Then having government programs be cut man thats going backwards when people like your sister will always need help. I know care aids where i live dont get paid enough for their hardwork. And the governement here makes it so difficult for others in other countries to transfer over. So theyre dealing with a shortage of nurses aids or care aids and yet even people coming from outside the countries are facing many roadblocks meanwhile people like your sister are the ones suffering. Alot of nursing homes are treated between as a cross between old age homes and as psychiatric units for people with degenerative or mental illness and that need full time care. I really hope she gets the help she needs. Is she back in a facility now? Do you get to visit her often?
The female detective saying “you didn’t see her in the daylight look at her” gave me chills. I’m 17 and I can’t imagine how her family feels or how scared she might have been or anything that she experienced that night. Same for the young man. So heartbreaking.
So true....sad situation all around, Summer. I knew a woman named Summer and she would go to antarctica for the summer. I told her, "Jeez, you never see the summer, Summer!", and she replied "sweetie it's summer everywhere I go!". So true...she had a such a warm personality. She was eaten by polar bears at age 27, sadly...but I think of her often during the summer and also when it's very cold.
The male detective has the audacity to tell a deaf woman not to use her hands while communicating, as he flagrantly waves his hands around the whole time he speaks! 🙄
@@bobbiewhitten1718she’s hard of hearing and the only thing she really lied about was him attempting to commit 💀 she didn’t lie about anything crazy. That’s information they could’ve gotten off the way he was acting.
I have to take exception, with one thing you said. “This is just one example of why young or vulnerable individuals should have a parent and/or lawyer present with them during questioning.” No one should ever talk to a detective in it interview or an interrogation without a lawyer present. Period.
As a hard of hearing person, they 100% misunderstood the part at 10:25. She didn't hear the officer when he first said "high strung". Once he repeated it, she heard, and was answering his question. It wasn't that she didn't understand what the phrase meant, but the officer assumed and was prattling on about what it meant, despite already knowing she was hoh. She wasn't interrupting him, she was answering his question. It doesn't indicate she's lying, it's a common misunderstanding we deal with as deaf/hoh people.
This bugged me because I'm not even hard of hearing. I've definitely misunderstood a question, and the. Answered it in the middle of it being repeated when my brain caught up. That's a totally normal thing that happens in normal conversations.
I’m not deaf/hoh, but as someone who is dating a CODA whose social mannerisms are more understood by those privy to deaf culture, and as someone who is learning signing in order to have meaningful and proper convos with my prospective in-laws, and as an autistic individual, the moment that the detective said “Stop it with the hands” pressed me off so much. I’ve dealt with the whole “quiet hands” bs, and deaf/hoh people communicate so much more than others with their hands, not just with signing but emotionally speaking. I see it regularly with my CODA partner as well and that’s just secondhand exposure to deaf/hoh culture. I’m pissed at this detective for his insensitivity and I hope to god he hasn’t scarred others the way he may have to Kelsey.
It’s an interrogation tactic used on all people. Doesn’t change just because she’s deaf. It’s been used in many cases on this channel, they’re not always nice to people it’s a “bad cop” method if you will.
I hate how Kelsey’s mom tried to pressure her daughter into handing over her phone. You should never voluntarily hand over your phone to police without a warrant.
@@juneelle370 It is always a bad idea to give your phone to police, even if you are innocent. There's a long talk on UA-cam of a law professor and chief of police (or just an officer) talking to a classroom about how you should never talk to the police and lawyer up before answering questions.
@@LucolanYT yes there may be a reason if you’re innocent absolutely… but the commenter said “you should NEVER voluntarily hand over your phone to police without a warrant.” And I see comments like this all over the place. If you’ve done wrong, you SHOULD tell all and hand over all evidence. Even these kinds of shows make comments like this. It’s amoral/immoral!
@@LucolanYT yes IF UR INNOCENT!!! How have ppl gotten so morally corrupt? This person killed 2 teenagers! And if not caught would probably murdered again. I hope u get in the way of someone that was released thx to someone taking ur morally corrupt advice..
This detective is absolutely terrible at his job, the way he kept accusing that poor woman of lying when she was clearly telling him the truth and telling her not to use her hands when she is hearing impaired and relies on her hands to communicate is disgusting. I really feel for anyone who has had the misfortune of having to deal with this man.
In my opinion, detective Bennett did an amazing job in the interrogation with Jeffrey. She wasn’t being overbearing or mean like I’ve seen in other interrogations but she also didn’t just completely coddle him in order to get him to keep talking to her. She knew when to be stern with him and when to back off just enough to keep him engaged. I’ve watched too many videos where detectives use intimidation to get what they want out of suspects. She actually talked to him like a human
Completely different from detective bald spots, he was an asshole to Kelsey the entire interrogation and his technique boils down to telling the interrogated they're lying repeatedly. I hope detective Bennet got a promotion and I hope detective bald spots got fired.
@@EASTSIDERIDER707 still she deserves some human decency. Also he would've gotten a confession way faster if he didn't fuck up the trust he was building with her time after time just by being a jackass and talking down to her. He got the job done, yes, barely.
How in the hell were no other detectives monitoring this to step in? I don't care how many years he said he's been doing this, but he's absolute garbage at it. It forever adds to the trauma she suffers from finding out why she was being questioned at all. If they were a little more forward, it would have been a good bit easier.
If you're innocent what would you have to lose by handing over anything requested? Besides the fact you get to pretend you're smart somehow by being difficult. You could be seriously hindering law enforcement efforts to catch actual criminals while they are messing around with warrants for your stupid ass
Yea, im autistic and can understand why this dude had a breakdown, and it looks to me like he didnt even understand what was going on or that he was lying. What he did was awful and disgusting. And the way she keeps eye contact is definitely not because she was lying, but because she was reading his lips. I am very slightly hard of hearing, and cant half understand that detective either, so she definitely needed to lip read. This whole situation is awful, but half of the things the detectives do here shows they dont quite understand disabilities. And as someone wio actively uses sign language, "i dont need your hands" or what is known as "quiet hands" is highly rude to say to someone who uses sign language. Its like telling someone to shut up. Like taking away their form of communication.
Kelsey's interrogation was heartbreaking to watch. I knew of this story but didn't know she existed / was interviewed. As someone who is hearing impaired I really feel for her.
She lied and protected a murderer. Her only concern was Jeffrey. You really feel for her? She is hearing impaired- that doesn't mean she should act immorally.
@@eh1702 exactly man, suddenly the youtube simps forgot two slaughtered teens were left there as garbage. It's getting sadder every year with humanity.
@@eh1702 I agree that he saved her on that one, but the manner by which he went about it was so wrong. He got ahead of himself and forgot that it wasn’t an interrogation. I’m assuming that she wasn’t read her rights as it was a voluntary interview, and if she HAD been involved, he could’ve seriously jeopardised the case that would’ve been made against her. It was lucky for him that she was innocent here, he could’ve potentially allowed an accomplice to murder to walk free. That being said, it was incredibly foolish of her to lie like that.
Kelsey is literally traumatized by that incompetent and unprofessional investigator. She has every right to sue the hell out of that police station for emotional damage and undue distress.
@@03Grunt-arrino here comes a reductionist. She’s not just suspected and therefore proportionately investigated no! She’s straight up being accused of murder and lying about the murder and being threatened with consequences for lying about the murder. That is coercion by way of intimidation. That is deeply distressing and traumatizing for most people hence why some folks breakdown and sign a confession when they are in fact innocent!. So spare me your “uncomfortable conversation” and get real. He was wildly unprofessional and didn’t not conduct a fair interrogation. He treated her like a convicted criminal when she’s just a suspect.
@@03Grunt-arrinothey can sue who they feel they need to otherwise shut the FUCK UP. Goddamn. It’s not a competition, more than ONE person can be traumatized at the same time for different reasons.
I honestly can’t even finish this video because of how mad the male detective is making me. How can you treat someone that way when they are clearly in emotional distress? And how is the mom not standing up for her?
My brother has schizophrenia he used to hear voices and see things ….I’d come home and he’d be in full blown arguments with no one, it was so scary, a few times I thought he had someone in the room with him but he didn’t. It took me three years to get mental health to take it seriously ..and he was medicated against his will. Three years it’s been since he’s been on his meds and he’s like a new man, he still has some moments of delusion but they don’t control his life anymore
It’s a really crappy and insidious disorder. From what I understand, it is partially caused in the center of the brain that syncs up what we hear and see (we technically see before we hear things) and ties it all together in memory so we know it’s a recalled event rather than a current event. Bad a guy, a few years ahead, diagnosed. Biggest teddy bear before but some real difficulties after.
my uncle had schizophrenia and then served in the vietnam war. after that he had totally lost it and on one instance aimed a shotgun at my father. today he is not doing amazing but definitely better than he was. he cant live by himself (i believe due to other mental/physical health complications) but his 6 surviving siblings meet up with him every weekend.
Detective Bennet is an amazing detective, she did everything right. And had Jeffrey specifically asking for her back. But Kelsey’s detective? Omg, Kelsey has patience that I don’t I would have smacked him. What an awful man who’s clearly awful at his job
I've had nightmares about a situation like this where I'm being told I'm lying and I snap so hard in my dream that I will wake up screaming at full volume or I will wake up halfway through repeatedly punching a pillow. The kind of pressure he put on Kelsey would have gotten me arrested for assault. Because I'd just punch him in the throat.
My mom was bipolar combined with schizophrenia. She wasn't violent except for the rare occasion. She did have voices talking to her. One voice told her that the calculator that the school had given me, was secretly meant for stealing social security numbers. She thought "people" were performing surgery on me while I slept to take my organs & would look for scars. Luckily she didn't have the inclination to really hurt someone. This illness requires alot of attention. I'm not excusing this crime, but I do feel compassion for the severely mentally ill. As well as the victims.
@@Jadeisacolortoo sure dude, you're obviously the most qualified person to make such an assessment... There's many videos on this channel showing people acting, MUCH more than the rare cases of actual mental illness, and this entire video he mentioned how it all indicates it's genuine. Go talk out of your ass somewhere else...
His behavior came off to me as “I know I’m caught so I’m gonna act crazy from the start.” Kelsey seemed honest to me. That doesn’t mean I’m right, just how it seemed.
"This is a safe Space" - No interrogation room is a safe space. Guilty or innocent, request to speak with a lawyer. If you're innocent they can literally ask a simple question like: "Where were you at this date and time? You say "I believe 3pm I was at home but im not sure" and then they find out you were not there at 3pm. They wont be honest in their discernment between "mistaken" vs "deception". Lying requires an attempt to deceive, being mistaken is not purposeful. They will say "You told us 3pm, when in fact it was closer to 6pm, you're lying to us and it's not a good look". Then it's all downhill, as you'll be seen as less credible, and they'll use your "deception" to force you into making likely a false confession to avoid a harsh punishment. Hence why plea deals are an issue in court system, majority of cases (80-90%) in US and Canada are done with plea deals with questionable interrogation tapes/tactics. They will often use the "Because you've already lied to us, no court will believe you. If this goes to court, I guarantee you'll face over 20yrs OR if you tell us everything (expecting a confession of sort) you'll get out in a year or 2". The latter is definitely more appealing and given you're in a precarious situation already, you'll be inclined to make a false confession to have lesser punishment. It makes us wonder how many people that went to jail and are innocent while the prosecutors/interrogators are getting raises for "cracking cases". It's shady system to its core.
Kelsey was treated worse in the interrogation than some of the serial killers we've seen.
that's almost abuse what he's doing. useless guy
For real. I dont pity her for her disability, I am looking at her like any normal regular person. And that's what makes me feel bad for her. the detective was in the wrong here. Must have been a rookie
Some of his brain cells have escaped through his bald spot.
@@cdion78 That's why it's hard to imagine that he's a rookie. Hehe
And her mom there was like an anti-lawyer; giving her all of the wrong advice.
Wild how one detective could handle a murderer going through a psychotic episode but the other one couldn't handle a deaf person using their hands
Guy is a d-bag trying to be something he obviously not
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Seriously. Like wtf
@@tripleheadedmonkey6613 couldn't have said it better. I'm so pissed at how he mistreated her, and how he mistreated her disability. Definitely should NEVER lead an investigation, nor especially ever train a new detective 🤬🤬🤬
It shows you clearly she’s much better at her job than the male detective. She handled her end amazingly. He was so rude to Kelsey. I am proud she stuck up for herself when she said “ I don’t like you interrupting me.” She had a hard enough time with her hearing impairment when he was hounding her while being so rude..As far as Jeffery I think he should have been committed to a psychiatric hospital style mixed with a prison type environment so he was incarcerated but where they were equipped to handle his care. He clearly has many issues that need addressed.
I know when I’m super upset someone condescendingly tells me “calm down, I don’t need your hands, I don’t need all that,” I always instantly calm down and feel like sharing secrets with them.
Yeah true. And it's not at all frustrating or manipulative to threaten leaving the room with phantom evidence that incriminates you or a loved one. Police interrogators are just great people.
LMAOOOOOO
Right! I cannot stand to be told to calm down like that.. Now I'm just going to REALLY go TF off! 😂
@@wavyremix Glad to see comments like this after the countless blowies everyone gives to detectives in these types of videos. We need detectives of course but it doesn't mean that this type of job isnt a magnet for self aggrandizing piece of shit people who get a thrill about being the one to needle people and watch them squrim happy to be the ones to ruin peoples lives. Funny how they get so mad when suspects lie when all they do is lie. I just wish once a perp would be smartass after they tell them "we have all this evidence we know everything" and just say "well I guess you don't need me for me anything then fuckhead LAWYER"
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This is by far the most heartbreaking interrogation I've ever seen. She was treated as if she were an ignorant small child. I've seen interrogations with killers and I've never seen someone treated this poorly and inhuman.
It’s very sad
I don’t think this would be allowed in Australia he’d have to talk to a psychiatrist
Very true. She was telling the damn truth and that detective is a POS. She’s a sweetheart and very intelligent. More intelligent than that bloody detective 😡
The best part of THIS particular video is how EWU completely picked apart the terrible job the male detective did. We've seen good ones and bad ones, this guy is freakin' piss poor.
@Tech bro man i dont think you should be bragging about that dude
@Tech hiding something?
@Tech um 😬
@Tech excuse me?!
@Tech obvious bait is obvious
Telling a deaf person “I don’t need your hands”…what a piece!!! Hopefully this guy doesn’t have a job anymore!
Dude is a scumbag
From what I understand, he no longer works as a detective for this department. Can’t say for sure if he moved to another tho. Definitely agree he SHOULD NOT be a detective or in any profession where you need even the slightest bit of empathy
@@Pixanxious pretty standard for disgraced law enforcement to just move to the next county over and get rehired, so odds are that he's still doing the same old shit a few miles away. good to hear he doesn't work for this dept anymore though. what a turd.
They just moved him to another department you know how Law enforcement do business
I'm deaf and I dont wave my hands hysterically - it's insulting for you to assume we all do that. She is being emotionally dramatic - it has nothing to do with her being deaf.
Kelsey's detective should be fired. He was pissing me off too. He is HORRIBLE at his job. I can only imagine how many people were wrongly accused because of him. The police department should definitely look into it.
Yes.
The moment she asks to her mom "You're scared for me ?" after having been pushed to her limits by an incompetent "detective" was heartbreaking. I hope she's better now.
I AGREE 💯
It's all part of a game. He did it on purpose.
It's Roswell, GA. This is the same department that the "coin-flip" cops were fired out of. It's also the same department where a cop committed police-torture against a 13 year old suspected of driving a stolen golf cart. It's also the same department where a cop sat in his car behind local businesses and refused to respond to calls. In one case, a woman a block away was having a medical emergency, luckily a cop a couple miles away got there in time and saved her. This department is a hot mess, this video throws another log on that fire.
Kelsey's mother is not helping her. What a dunce. She's treating her like they are in the principal's office in an elementary school. Really, that woman. Once they started talking about wanting access to her electronics the mother should have stood up for her daughter right there and said they were done with questioning until an attorney was present. The way Kelsey was treated by both the officer and her mother was disgraceful.
Unfortunately most people operate as slaves of their own volition just “doing as they’re told” and making appeals to authority regarding most matters so although disgraceful, it doesn’t surprise me in the least what the mother did here.
Her mother is a bootlicker. It is how she was raised in her generation.
I'm sure she is completely unaware of her rights much less of granddaughter's constitutional rights. She thinks the cops are there to help and will do no harm.
My parents are the same way and they are very educated.
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If she refuses, they will just get a warrant for the phone plus it does make her look guilty. This is murder were talking about here, not something frivolous. In a case like this they are going to get it one way or another.
@@sab5076 Asking for a warrant is not an admission of guilt, it's part of the due process. It's meant to protect citizens from unlawful searches and forfeiting that protection leaves them vulnerable to even more charges that the police can stick them with. There's nothing frivolous about covering your ass from further legal repercussions.
Counterpoint: her mom saw this as a golden opportunity to finally separate her daughter from Johnny Depp's illegitimate hellspawn and took it, thereby helping her daughter in the long run.
The way he's like "I don't need your hands" but yet waves his own hands around when talking and isn't even hard of hearing. Honestly the audacity of some people.
I'm not deaf or even hard of hearing, but I almost always use my hands when speaking, exactly like she did. Plenty of people do. Just observe any Italian talking (stereotype, but true 😄).
@@GeeEee75 i mean, shaming someone for moving their hands because of a disability and someone getting shamed for moving their hands just because thats what they do are completely different. ableism.
you are completely empty-headed if you think those violent treating gestures are deaf language. besides she has been disrespectful to him the whole time
@@rodrigodiaz7167these ppl defening them are ridiculous. It is astounding
Guy was a straight up asshole. Cops like him are the reason people hate cops.
The good news, for anyone wondering, is that Andrew Kirk (the guy that interrogated Kelsey) no longer works as a detective. Looks like he left around 2022.
This makes me happy!!!
should've fired him but I'm glad he doesn't work in that profession anymore.
completely outrageous 😡
... Not soon enough ...
Most likely means he just went to a different department…people like this always just move w no repercussions
No one was wondering
Kelsey was screaming on the inside "This feels wrong!" while her mom was yapping about the phone. You wouldn't just hand your phone to a stranger would you? Much less a police officer and ESPECIALLY if you're innocent. They're pros at finding small incriminating stuff unrelated to the actual crime and all of a sudden you're an accessory. Stand up for yourself and ask for counsel ASAP
"I don't need your hands" sent my rage levels soaring 🤬. What a cruel man. She's deaf and is struggling to communicate, whilst being unceasingly interrupted by him. Big fail of a Detective.
Chillll
Same! I want to punch him in the mouth! Even if she wasn't hearing impaired, her innocence is obvious and this level of disrespect is how false confessions are forced. This type of detective makes me sick.
@@2TONKA no
@Dale Gribble She's put on an act, for her entire life, pretending to be deaf? Get a grip ableist.
Right I was like "well shit Sherlock Holmes the hands are how she communicates how dumb....
This interrogation should be shown to future detectives as a perfect example of what NOT to do in an interrogation
Exactly, I feel terrible for this young woman. And wth don't they teach about mental illness in highschool. Young people should understand they can not help a person who is this ill. And that when people go off medications they need to notify next of kin, especially if the ill person tends toward violence.
Absolutely right! How is that bald detective a detective??? He strikes me as one of those evil detectives that try to elicit false confessions.😢
Not only do I feel bad for her but it's also horrible for the investigation. She's a young girl who isn't mature enough to just say I told you the truth and I'm done repeating myself. Not only do you not have to voluntarily answer questions but you sure as hell don't have to submit to badgering.
Beyond pointlessly berating a decent young person he's also conducting a horrible interview. He got no useful information and anything she did say would be useless when a jury sees that interview. I sure as hell wouldn't find her guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. I'd just see a scared kid trying her best in the face of a bully. This is also how decent people grow to hate police. That poor girl will struggle to trust authorities forever.
Edit: for clarity I have many cop friends I don't hate police. This kind of stuff hurts good police like the ones I know and their relationship with good citizens.
@@jeanbeans7926 Perhaps mental illness first should be addressed by the parents and not blamed on the high school.
Ya this was one of the worst detectives I've seen from watching a load of these. Honestly she needed council to stop his bs. I would have walked tf out of there if was her. But I understand she was scared shitless and had nothing to hide. I feel so bad for her. The lady detective would have been better to talk with her.
This is horrifically heart breaking. The interrogator was absolutely out of line. "Calm down. You're up here and i need you down here." "I dont need all this with the hands" and after witnessing the clear language barrier and not reevaluating his method... Shut her down multiple times... He's horrible at his job. This was such a sad case.
He used to do the waterboarding at gitmo, poor Kelcey almost got the wet towel treatment.
So this case was obviously thrown out and they sued, right?
Not to mention he started with saying that he had lots of schooling to tell if someone was being deceptive or not.
Especially because she's hard of hearing. OF COURSE SHE'S GOING TO HABITUALLY USE HER HANDS MORE????
I was going to comment this same thing. The way the detective is treating her is deplorable!
The officer yells aggressively 'this is a safe space' and doesn't understand why she instantly starts to cry in response to his aggression and not feeling safe.
If you are guilty you want an Attorney. If you are innocent then you DEFINITELY want an attorney. This case is a great example.
Definitely NEED!
Yep
well said
It’s ridiculous when people suggest a person who asks for an attorney is definitely guilty. Sorry, but if some cop is accusing me of a crime I didn’t commit and they’re interrogating me for an extended period of time, only an uninformed person would continue to speak without representation. I’ve seen one too many times where a person is falsely accused with no evidence and ends up being locked up for years trying to fight a case against them. Even if they inevitably are found innocent in court, losing years of your life being locked up prior to a trial is equally as bad.
@@OffendingTheOffendablethey are talking about the treatment of the wife.
Was that detective a real cop, or did he just wander in off the street? I have never seen a more unprofessional or unnecessarily hostile interview.
Exactly
he needs to be retrained at LEAST. it’s embarrassing to the profession.
I've seen worse! Don't talk without a lawyer, period. It's the first line of the Miranda rights, for heaven's sake!
A$$hQles only complain about cops being hostile when the criminal is White. These dudes could shoot a Black suspect and clowns like you would be looking for ways to justify it.
Welcome to Ga. It's worse in NC. This so called detective/interrogator is appauling. what was worse, was we all know higher ranking officials and/or co workers were watching this go on and on, and no one intervened, why is that?
The detective continually condescending to the deaf girl and repeatedly calling her deceptive and disrespectful is the worst possible way to deal with a deaf person. The detective gets an "F."
WAA WAAA DETECTIVE WAS MEAN TO A WITTLE MURDERER WAA WAA
(Ya’ll took the bait so hard lmfao)
(Ya’ll STILL taking this bait? 😂)
@@nfaisnfgay she didn't killl anyone, wtf? did you watch the video?
@@nfaisnfgay she didn’t kill anyone but okay
I got the reference my g 😉
I think she is being deceptive, at 38.00 she says about how he held a gun at someone, but at the beginning when asked about weapons she denies he’s ever had a gun, police missed that imo!
After binge watching this channel, I am convinced that women excel as interrogators.
It’s empathy. I find almost all women are born with it naturally, men, not so much
I agree whole heartedly.
I think it really depends on the person being interrogated. If its an arrogant young man, chances are, a female detective would be viewed as weak whereas an intimidating male would have more impact. In this case, the suspect lacks masculinity and presents as weak. He would be more open with an empathetic woman.
They will put a sheep with a sheep and a wolf with a wolf. I am convinced they will match energies
@@clceeexactly
"your culpable and accountable" 'thank you' this really did it for me. That man literally witnessed the language barrier and I feel like he ran with it.
I think Kelsey heard the word "capable " that's why the thank you. That Detective was beyond horrible
Kelsey was being sarcastic when she said "Thank you".
@@sueburgess7248 no she wasn't you could tell in her tone that she was being serious
@@sueburgess7248
No sarcasm
The Detective was never told about her Disability at the time
My mom is deaf. I was just seething with anger with the interrogator! So disgustedly rude. If there is one thing I will take away from any of these videos, its to always ask for a lawyer.
Better yet know your natural rights.
@@sapshootervtPRAY you get &/0r have a good Lawyer or your screwed & NOT in a way you'll enjoy!!
When the teenage girl is forthrightly like 'I don't appreciate you interrupting me' and the grown man's response is an immature *and entirely inaccurate* 'I don't appreciate your deceptions' I can't even. What a dumpster fire of a job he did.
Funny enough when a true psycho enters the room, they dance around in circles until all viewers wanna puke.
there was actually evidence later that she was being deceptive
@@annacarter6559 While true, he was still doing a horrible job handling her.
i also really hate that he said "i don't need your hands" when she was using her hands more to emphasize more things... she has a hearing impairment you ableist fuck. Even if shes being dishonest or shes guilty, its still horrible. He is the worst detective I have seen so far.
He needed to have his ass kicked.
I cant stand how her mother pushed her into giving up her privacy rights.
Detective Baldspot was needlessly cruel and rude. His one and only tactic was to nonstop accuse Kelsey of lying, which is just embarrassing especially after he told her that he's been doing this sort of work for years.
It's kind of funny how the 1st thing you do is mock somebody's appearance because you don't like them. Isnt that hilarious? You are what you pretend to hate. Lol.
@@CNNBlackmailSupport I didn't criticize him for making fun of Kelsey's appearance so I'm not sure why you think I'm being hypocritical
IM DYING DETECTIVE BALD SPOT BROOOOO
@@Hapnote You thought it would be fine to make fun of her looks? Weird flex.
@@CNNBlackmailSupport Do you have a bald spot?
I love that fact that you guys don't shy away from calling out the negatives in their technique. The last few I watched the interrogations were so solid and they made them look easy. Here is a great showing that it's more than the formula, the interrogator has to be able to adjust when they realize they are wrong. Or have enough humility to consider they could be hinging their theory on a bad read. Terrific work to the EWU team!
We don't nearly see enough bad interrogations on UA-cam. It's pretty easy to watch a clean, hindsight play-by-play, but it's not the norm in this profession. Usually it's very complicated with numerous suspects, and they bulldoze their way over multiple peoples' rights without impunity on their way to the final suspect. Once they like you for something, they will use every dirty trick in the book, often getting access to and abusing the private materials of well-meaning people. It's honestly a disgusting profession.
@@wavyremix I wonder what we'd learn from dissecting the confessions of people who were later proven innocent.
Always treat everyone with some kind of love and respect, if you expect cooperation.
That detective who said "i don't need your hands" needs sacking 🤬🤬🤬
I wouldn't go so far to say he needs to be fired. He's probably a very good officer, but clearly needs some additional training on interrogating techniques and communicating with impaired people.
she barely used her hands while showing signs of lying at the very beginning of the interview. cringe “outrage” doesnt mean you know what you’re doing or morally superior
@@shaneconner5659if he behaves this way to this girl, I don’t trust how he behaves to others that he’s view as less seemly. He needs to go. Cops need to have higher bars to pass than most professions.
@@shaneconner5659in what way is he “probably good?”
@@shaneconner5659 Nah, he's beyond *additional* training, he should be reassigned to issuing tickets for parking violations.
That detective got on my damn NERVES! “I don’t need your hands, we’re just talking” as he boldly accuses her of a felony multiple times.
Kelsey is the PERFECT example of NEVER and I mean NEVER speak without a lawyer present.
Omg I always say this and someone came for me on another video for saying this. I knew the person was clearly guilty but we have amendments for a reason. We need to exercise our rights no matter what.
It’s nobody but her fault she’s stupid🤦🏻♂️😂😂
Her mom was doing as much work as the investigator, she couldnt shut up
@@000claw yes poor girl her mom was an idiot telling her to give her phone up and ...
Amen to that!
When Kelsey’s interrogator came into the room he immediately announced that he had taken multiple classes and was an expert I knew she was in trouble because only a bad one with low self-esteem would feel the need to declare his “abilities” What a perfect example of how not to speak to a hearing impaired person. And her Mother, OMG!!!
Exactly , it was so very very sad and I felt terrible for her but Jeffrey , a monster and not suffering a psychotic break but a big fake .
Well, to be fair, she was lying about him having displayed any behaviors that shocked her. As terrible as his approach was, he wasn't too off when reading her.
The detective that interviewed Kelsey should have been taken off that case, and the lady that interviewed her husband should have been there instead. If the male detective was so schooled in doing interviews, why was he so horrible at it? 🤨🤔🙄
I also am hearing impaired. It is very difficult to communicate when you can’t hear what is being said. Very, very stressful. I really felt bad for her.
I hope that detective didn't spend much on all those fancy schools.
As someone who’s hearing impaired I’m very upset with how the detective handled the situation. We struggle so hard to even understand what people are saying to us and keep up with a conversation, and it is a literal nightmare to me to imagine that being used against me to accuse me of doing something wrong. I hope she’s ok now.
Spot on.....i'm deaf in my left ear. It's never taken seriously....
What I find infuriating is that some people treat a hearing impaired person as being dumb as well..What ignorance!
I have hearing problems and seeing that detective being so rude and talking down to her upset me very much, as well! It’s very difficult for me to understand what people are saying to me, and having someone talk at me that way would confuse and upset me so much I wouldn’t be able to continue speaking with them!
Same hear.its a daily struggle and watching it makes me sad and frustrated for all who suffer from hearing problems.
Not inly do people treat yiu like you`re stuoid, they also assume you are either rude if you don't respond or angry if you talk loud, like i do if there's background noise
"We're two adults." Says the man acting like a child.
The lady detective is a great example on how to interrogate someone, whilst the male detective is how not to.
I was getting frustrated with him so I can only imagine how Kelsey felt and that isn’t going to get her to answer honestly.
Yeah same here I just felt so bad for her she was just a kid I don't know why they thought she had anything to do with it when she was obviously innocent and Jeffrey was the murderer she had nothing to do with it
Some detective he was
BS - questioning him in that state is absurd. He should have been provided a counsellor and a lawyer whether he asked for it or not. He’s clearly not in his right mind.
@@KatoKrazy well I guess they're both bad at their jobs
He was doing his job and he did it right
@@_SUPERN0VA_ No he was not, even if she was guilty his approach was wrong
Thanks to that second detective with Kelsey, for showing a wonderful example of how to be inefficient, inconsiderate, rude and how to almost always further rile someone up who is already upset. Not to mention the absolute disrespect shown by telling Kelsey to limit her hand use and the MULTIPLE times he disregards and minimizes her feelings, trauma and experiences with Jeffrey and his attempts to end his life.
They didnt know she wasn’t involved and she was clearly hiding something
You mean being a typical cop. that's what you are describing. the dumbest guy you went to high school with became a cop
@@thesportsguy126That's not a good excuse. Oh sorry parents of the victim we didn't know anything so we ignored every procedure and made the suspect shut down. Your kids won't get justice but it's OK because we knew she was lying and we had fun yelling at a suspect.
Do the job properly because it's about getting justice not being a bad ass.
@@leihamada4672EXACTLY! Too many detectives putting their ego and control issues before the investigation. It’s pathetic, sloppy work.
The detective who was with Kelsey should be fired!!!
So glad you mentioned his wife being hard of hearing and how it affects her outward appearance/actions. People with mental or physical disabilities are often treated in ways that don't agree with us so it's nice to see that emphasized. Always love to see another upload! Thanks EWU!
The detective's treatment of her was unbelievable! He clearly doesn't know what he's doing. He has no business being a detective.
Oof yes. I’m autistic but I’m really smart (apparently) so people talk differently sometimes to me or just attack me for no reason (not physically) they also sometimes do baby voice….. like tf . And I’m smart as in, im really into psychology and more just general how humans think and how there environment affects them. And so I analyse people to much that I forget that they don’t think like that😭 and they get scared how I know so much about them if I just met them😭, but mentally I’ll people love it😏😎including me bhahaha
"ok, i don't need your hands, we're just talking" me: screams in ASL
Very respectful
@@Aceofspades2006 No. Just no. Smart people don't say things like this lmao. You're just delusional.
I’m noticing a trend of male investigators absolutely butchering interrogations due to lack of emotional control. Which is wild, not a field to work in if you can’t control your emotions.
Looks like he broke her really fast. Not sure what video you watched.
I think that it's an even playing field for that. I've seen both men and women really botch interrogations. I just think this guy's not good at it.
Females are the ones with no emotional control. The proof is everywhere 😂
@FuzzyWalrus123 what exactly did he break in her?
Maybe because 99% of all interegators are men..
The detective telling Kelsey "I don't need your hands" was just insane. Bro that's just how we communicate. Even if we don't use ASL, we still use and need hand gestures to effectively communicate, we just tend to be more expressive with our hands. Like all of her "lying" cues are just the result of her not being able to completely hear him. Was he not told that she was HH?? I hope he got some mandatory sensitivity training after that 😐
communication is 90% body movement; the cops an idiot
However, even more so if we communicate when hard of hearing or deaf.
lt was hard 2see the detective's lack of understanding?!!She was prob telling the truth but 2him,he seems 2ignore this deafening cry for help*!!!
@@chrislim7615 learn to write. It makes communication easier.
wait till he meets an Italian (an actual one, not the Americans that claim they are) , they will give him an aneurism
This interrogator is awful. He doesn't appear to understand that she is hearing impaired which is why she is louder and using her hands more than others might. I really feel badly for her. She doesn't know what's happening except that he is calling her a liar. He appears to be more of a bully instead of trying to get information from her.
when he said "I don't need your hands" or whatever he said, it truly pissed me off. He has no clue how to interact with someone who is hard of hearing.
I bet his wife feels like he doesn’t listen 😂
I’m glad EWU points out how he harms his own interrogation with his attitude and behavior
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I can’t stand him. When he pulled that ‘I can tell you’re lying because you looked away’ crap, I lost all respect for him. Like, if I had done nothing wrong and they needed my help, I would absolutely need to talk to someone else because this dummy keeps doubling down on his lies 😂
Kelsey’s mom is proof that your parents aren’t always your best ally in these situations, your lawyer is. Just cause you’re innocent doesn’t mean you shouldn’t lawyer up. The law is confusing to the average person which is why we get someone who’s trained in it to help us.
Exactly. Otherwise what's the point of having lawyers and then having to pay to do university degrees if understanding the law and rights was so simple? Make use of the resources you have a right to, the interrogators wouldn't have spoken to Kelsey like that if a lawyer was present
Kelsey's mom is proof that single women don't always make good choices. Especially, choices regarding children.
Yes, they help you and they help themselves too. Have you checked the average hourly rate they charge a client?
@@littleredrose6254 No average man or even police officer type income can afford a criminal defense lawyer. The only option is the free public defense lawyer with a hundred to many clients at any given moment leaving their client advised to take a plea deal else just sitting there while the judge sentences the accused.
@littleredrose6254 the average defense attorney hourly rate in the town of the murders is 200 an hour.... the average cost if a law degree itself is over 100k.. insurance a few grand a year..... registration 1500 yearly..... sorry defense lawyers can't work for free trying to cover just annual expenses, don't be stupid and get yourself in a situation where you need an attorney if you can't afford it. And yes she could have easily avoided this by not marrying a kid she knew for 3 or 4 months, that's dumb as hell
“I don’t like when you’re being deceptive” wow, why did he think that was a good response to her communicating that she didn’t like being interrupted. Was a POS of a person and I hope his next job is scrubbing nasty toilets. 🤦♀️
The detective interviewing her is the perfect example of what is wrong with our system. He is in a power struggle over someone who he thinks is less than him, but she's just trying to understand what he's asking and eluding to.
In his defense, Roswell had not had any reported violent crimes or murders since at least the year 2000. I’m not surprised the RPD wasn’t used to dealing with violent crimes. It was known as a very safe and wealthy area.
Not sure about this particular jurisdiction, but I’ve studied evidence law and this detective is making it really hard for the prosecution to use anything in this interview. A competent defence team could easily get this thrown out of evidence (especially when he tells her to act a certain way, or implying that she won’t get out of the situation unless she confesses). The legal test is generally: if the police obtain a confession that would not have been obtained without the threat or implied threat, then it is void in evidence. Even if she confessed right then and there, it couldn’t be used as evidence in court. *Not legal advice*, just my opinion.
@@JackieOwl94 Either way, it's his literal job to do better. Murders or not.
@@JackieOwl94 That being said, the female detective in this case seemed to have figured out what the conduct should be. My money's on male detective is an incompetent asshole!
He didn't think she was less than him- he knew she was lying to protect a murderer. His job is to get the truth. The woman was lying. It was obvious she knew Jeffrey was crazy and dangerous.
The detective is exactly what is RIGHT with our system. He is a man doing his job- making liars and criminals fess up.
She knew everything but thinks she and Jeffrey are more important than everyone else. She knew what the detective was asking- she just doesn't want to admit her role in it and her foreknowledge.
I think this interrogation with Kelsey really spells out why I love EWU so much versus any other crime UA-cam channel. EWU will actually tell us when a detective is doing a bad job, instead of overlooking it or agreeing with them.
Exactly!!!
But make sure you read the half second disclaimer
This!
What did he do so wrong? It's just one youtubers opinion of how he thinks a suspect should be interrogated. I think the interrogators did a perfectly fine job and got good results.
@@b0rd3n pressing that pause button must be hard, huh?
This detective is just gaslighting her left and right! "I know you're lying." The quickest way to shut someone off who has been telling you the truth as well as they can. Where does she go from there? Make things up in order to say what he wants to hear? He should be fired.
she did lie several times though
that interrogator's biggest fault is that he did not use any rapport building with her or create a comfortable environment where she felt safe to share information. most likely, he came in there with assumptions regarding her involvement and was antagonistic from the beginning - probably poisoned by the mother's negative, belittling opinions. the mom seems like a real piece of work, herself. but the fact of the matter is kelsey was deliberately withholding information based on her middle school understanding of loyalty and he was able to get her to be honest with him. even i don't like how he did it, but he still did his job - just not with much elegance
Not just gaslighting, intimidating, and coercing. I knew detectives like that
So are you saying because she is deaf she is not capable of lying because handicapped people lie too and it's pretty obvious that she is lying as well he's not gaslighting her he's getting her to tell the truth and I'm sorry when there are two teenage kids dead for no fucking reason he can employ any tactic he wants and you do not have to approve
That word “gaslighting” has take America by storm. It’s like an epidemic! 5 years or so ago it was never mentioned. Once all the human sheep heard it being used, it was off to the races. Like “lowkey”, “cap”, “no cap”…etc.
The man that did Kelsey’s interview did an absolutely terrible job on so many levels. You can only hope he is not in this line of work anymore. He told a woman hard of hearing to not use her hands? Interrupts her constantly. Threatens her to be honest more than building rapport,
He treated her worse than the criminal himself. Straight up shame on him.
He needs a job literally anywhere else …just wow
I feel so bad for this girl. She seems like a genuinely good and caring person who was trying to help her boyfriend without fully knowing what she was dealing with. I would imagine this would eat at her for the rest of her life. I hope she finds happiness in her life someday.
I see this too… and in situations like this apparently it’s not right to an average person to help someone like him. When really he needed her in his life but unfortunately his mental condition got the best of him. She had a great heart to care for him.
I pray to my GODS that their spirits go to Heaven!! Hell seems to have frozen over this Spring!! I love & miss my family SO much & have for too long!!
@@kellycampbell6962 People don't help because people like this can be INSANELY dangerous, as you can see.
@@MelanieHolman-v4lmultiple gods and heaven? We just making stuff up now? Old lies not good enough? What?
@@kellycampbell6962there married tf?? Js bc hes mental disabled doesnt mean he cant be loved personally hypocrit
It was extremely dismissive and hurtful that Kelsey's interviewer told her, *he didn't want her to use her hands.* He said this while KNOWING she was hard of hearing! What is wrong with that man?
@@hi-dl4kw Hey Bud! The action and reaction is still the same whether she was hard of hearing or deaf. You should know that already!! My uncle was the chairman of the deaf society in our town. I know the difference.
@hi🙂 ‘Hard of hearing’ is a term that a lot of people use that have hearing impairments, no matter what degree it is.
Some people that say they are hard of hearing still use sign or lip reading…whether they hear auditorial tones or not.
Hard of hearing doesn’t just mean ‘I have a bit of trouble, speak up please’.
The way you interact on the internet would be more tolerable if you knew what you were talking about.
@@hi-dl4kw how do you know? did you conduct her audiology tests? have you seen her results? have you attempted to have a conversation with her face to face? no one ever knows the severity of hearing loss.
@@Miksmissus I say I'm "deaf/hard of hearing" as I'm deaf in 1 ear and hard of hearing in the other, when I used to say I'm "hard of hearing", people wouldn't always appreciate quite how badly deaf I was until they realised just raising their voices slightly left me looking like a dork staring at them in panic lmao.
But 100% rely on lip reading and side rant on lip reading: if you verbally mumble, your lips mumble as well. Cannot understand a word anyone says when they're just mumbling and it is just so infuriating.
@@hi-dl4kw Stop instigating! That matter is over with.
Kelsey’s interrogation was BRUTAL. Happy to see that guy isn’t a interrogator anymore.
So glad but how did you get that info
Good to hear that.
@@Dh-rp7gg He made it up to get likes
@@Dh-rp7gg google?
Hey Ryan. Neat to see you around here also.
That male interviewer is a huge jerk 😠 the coddled the actual killer while raking an honest young woman across the coals. I hope he got reprimanded or fired
The fact that Kelsey was able to deduct the interrogators intentions with ZERO training and under extreme distress WITH a disability proves that she would be 10x better at the interrogators job.
Deduce*
@@Sinsteel thank you for your service
But not so good at seeing the bad side of her husband and "can help him".. Nope. You can't. Leave it to professionals..
I about laughed out loud when the idiot detective tried to flip that deduction on her. "How did you know it's about those killings? AHA! He DID tell you!"
@@chemicalfrankie1030 lmao amen!! Praying for her. She tried so hard in all of this.
This is devastating to watch. A young man in clear psychotic distress, a young woman being honest but yet still being disrespected without understanding her rights, a detective that needs more empathy and training, and two dead teenagers. Yeah, this world has plenty of despair to pass around.
@simulationkoyo
Edit: I agreed at first, but after seeing more I can see what EWU was getting at. As long as mental illness never excuses a person from being placed behind bars forever for killing people, I’m good with it.
I’m ok with euthanizing the mentally ill who commit murder.
One million percent spot on
@simulationkoyoAre you bright jn the head? Do you know what what is schizophrenia is? Cuz you did a shit job at understanding. I rather have him go to a psychward than jail no matter if he's lieing or not. He won't get out in shit. No matter if he's crazy or not. But if he's actually faking it all he won't make it in there its worse than a regular prison. And if he's crazy than he will get some help
My cousin worked the case, this kid was faking, he's no more crazy than you or I, he's just a monster
@@jordanhicks5131 except you're lying and the medical professionals disagree.
My sister is profoundly deaf, she lip reads & demonstrates every single aspect of a conversation & interacts using hand signals, signs & also waves her arms around. It's how she 'communicates'! Watching this video nearly broke me because this is the way I've communicated with her for 58 years. They should have brought in a more experienced detective who is better able to relate to someone who is deaf 😢
They should've brought people more able to handle both of them. They were both handled so poorly. She was treated so badly, like he was so rude to her for no reason. I know his job is to be a detective, but it's not to be an absolute a-hole to someone who may or may not have known about their significant others crime. And he has no idea how to interact with someone who's hard of hearing. And I know he killed two people, but for some reason seeing that female detective treat him that way made me feel sorry for him. Putting him in distress like that is only going to mess his head up even more.
They're trying to solve a murder. Who gives a damn about her feelings.
@@DrJ-hx7wv the people trying to solve the fucking murder. how the hell are you supposed to get a confession out of someone who doesnt want to talk to you? use common sense.
Thank you for sharing this. My heart absolutely broke for Kelsey. The detective was horrible to her and clearly has to business interviewing anymore.
@@DrJ-hx7wv Yeah, that is foolish. These detectives were dealing with two whiny, crybaby adults. There were two CHILDREN murdered. Who cares about these idiots feelings?
As a person who lives with a hearing impairment, Kelseys interrogation was infuriating to watch. Reading lips during conversation seems alot easier than it actually is; and thats when people ARENT interrupting you, dismissing your words and experiences and taking an uncaring and unempathetic approach to a horrific situation like attempted s*****e.
This whole case breaks my heart.
The picture of the schizophrenia self-help books from Jeffrey’s house, the journal entries logging his decline, Kelsey trying her best to help him, the two innocent victims that had nothing to do with any of it. It’s all just tragic.
This is what happens when people cannot get the help they truly need. Not that every schizophrenic is a murder or even violent, but the mind can get super messed up with a disorder like that, especially if they are exposed to such violence. It's absolutely heart shattering and I'm only 10 mins in :(
@@kennyevans6197 🙄
@@kennyevans6197 You are giving everyone a headache man
@@kennyevans6197 shut up.
@@kennyevans6197 You do have a point, but it doesn't detract from being regarded as tragic. How about "demonic", if witness to the incident, "tragic", in hindsight..?
The cop who interrogated Kelsey is a perfect example of why you should never talk to law enforcement. You're guilty until proven innocent.
Exactly.
It's obvious he has very little patience or understanding. He is stressed and ready to go. He has underlying issues with anger and probably cannot stand his wife.. or life, for that matter.
He should be fired.
Agreed 💯💯
I don't know why you are posting this as some sort of grand revelation. No shit everyone is guilty until proven innocent, that is quite literally how detective work, well, works.
to be fair to the interogator, kelsey WAS hiding info! she was hiding the info of him being psycho, being off meds since a few weeks and that she had to grab a knife from him because she was afraid he would harm people and stuff like that, she was actively "helping" him to get off his meds and enabling him by not interfering when he was brandishing a knife, she just took the knife and did nothing to further stop him from attemting again..
I think she got off because of a plea deal where she had to testify or something, cause to me it feels like by enabling him, she is at least partly to blame
This is so heartbreaking. That detective’s approach to the young woman was horrific. The distress he left her in was painful to watch.
I’m sick of the Torture this young lady is going through she was not at the crime scene. Why is she even being question?
@@spinrash6000 because cops always question friends and relatives!
Guess the truth is unacceptable. He wasn’t gonna be satisfied unless she made up a story. What happened to innocent until proven guilty?!
@SanityTV_Last_Sane_Man_Alive cops in other countries are far more corrupt lmao you have clearly not traveled in your life.
They don't care. It's their goal to psychologically break ppl.
The female interrogator’s patience is next level. Two minutes of that whining and whimpering and my tolerance for it is at 0%.
That cop was very rude to her. She’s a witness, not a suspect. He’s treating her like she’s done something wrong. She should have walked out.
He’s accusing her of lying, yet he’s the only one lying 😡 Telling a hearing loss person not to use her hands to express herself is rude!! “I don’t need your hands”😡 Really????😩
Plus he’s interrupting her constantly! And threatening her!!
most cops arent good people
The interrogator who questions Kelsey is a complete psychopath!!! 😳 I mean WTF. She is not the one who killed those innocent people and clearly was not aware of the fact that her husband killed them, until that psychopath interrogated her and forced her to confess something which is not the TRUTH!! It reminds me of the witch trials in the Middle Ages. He should be held responsible for devastating a young woman's psychology. 😡
Complete asshole. I mean unreal.
He behaved like an idiot!
They always do this. You're noticing more because she's likely innocent, but they always accuse people, especially when they don't have anything against the person they ask questions to. I've seen many of these videos and I often ask myself how many people did nothing wrong but have been convicted because they were tired, nervous, and just mispoke. No wonder there's so many justice miscarriage in the US.
Super happy that Kelsey was truthful and innocent. I hate seeing a person get pulled into awful events because of the relationship they're in. She seems like a good person. I hope she's doing well.
She isnt innocent. She did nothing to get the guy help. She knew full well of his issues but didnt do anything.
@@iVolkswagen this is the stupidest take i’ve ever seen. you can’t just make somebody handle their mental health issues. she’s not his parent.
@@iVolkswagen her not knowing how to help him is ignorance not lack of innocence. She’s still a sweet girl and her not knowing how to help doesn’t change that. Always simple guys like you that are so confident about what they say. Think more, say less bro
@Eh… you really can't pay attention to an hour's worth of very detailed information, can you? Lol
@@iVolkswagen she had a learning disorder as well.
In her mind she was probably helping him as much as she knew how.
She’s young as well her way of thinking would most likely be far different if she was older and had more life experience and also didn’t have a learning disability.
The detective interviewing Kelsey is AWFUL OMFG. He needs to be fired.
Yeah he should really be nicer to liars who are trying to help someone get away with murdering innocent teenagers lmao
Kelsey seems like such a sweetheart. It's so sad that she got caught up in all that mess. The whole interview she was incredibly genuine and gave the officer way more leeway than they deserved. He was incredibly disrespectful. She was so obviously innocent. She didn't deserve any of that
W h a t
She's partially responsible for the death of 2 teenagers. Regardless of her protests here.
@@taylorbug9 No she's not. Failure to get a loved one put into a mental institution doesn't make you guilty of anything.
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@@ub3rfr3nzy94 Legally responsible... No shes not... However... Morally, she is... Ill cut her a lot of slack though due to her being so young, and having only known the guy for so short of a time... I think her living with the fact that she did indeed INDIRECTLY.... Play a role in 2 of her fellow man, being cheated out of a full life... I hope she doesnt let it consume her... She seems like she will be the type to do just that unfortunately...
That detective that interviewed Kelsey is the kind of cop that gets an innocent person locked up. All he did was make negative assumptions and accuse her, he really gave as little consideration to the idea of her being innocent and honest as he possibly could. Scary stuff.
This is just one of many examples of why you should never talk to cops/investigators. Always ask for a lawyer.
@@bluesmusicandwhatnot2845 100% accurate, (in such circumstances).
He’s doing his job. It’s harder doing it than watching a video from your phone when it’s all done with. Unless you’re the guy that trained the detective..
@@rickyt5179 he was doing his job poorly
@@Maj_hul true, because she did end up confessing to her mother, that’s why I said what I said, but yeah he seemed to be very pushy, like he was rushing to get the info out of her instead of taking his time.
How the detective treated Kelsey was really fucking cruel honestly.
Ikr unprofessional af
He was an idiot, straight up. I don't think he even knew what he was doing or how it was perceived. He clearly wasnt picking up on anything that we could see. He says hes been doing this for years, which is just a huge facepalm. He needs to immediately be reassigned, retired, or intensely retrained.
Literally he seems like such a dick :( Poor Kelsey
Also unprofessional and bad investigating.
He was horrible 😮
Wow this is just so awful and heart breaking. Mental health is such a serious topic and left untreated the consequences are obviously so dangerous for everyone. RIP to both victims.
The detective says, “They sent me to all these fancy schools” and “I’ve been doing this for a long time.” Then completely fails the interview 😂😂😂
He needs to go *back* to those "fancy" schools.
Yea that detective is a complete clown. What a douche. Hopefully the department saw this and removed him from interrogating people, because if he’s been doing this for years I’m sure he’s botched investigations by talking to people like this.
Lmao
I feel so bad for Kelsey, her life was falling apart and she didn't even know it yet, then this dumbass detective treats her horribly. And her being Deaf definitely played a part in how she was treated, infuriating.
funny thing ive noticed a lot of dogshit interrogators say the same thing
An officer telling a damn near deaf woman to “stop with all the hands” when she’s trying to communicate is crazy to me…why is he in law enforcement 🤦🏾♀️
Seriously pissed me off! He was the worst!
Definitely not a coincidence that one is a woman and one is a man. And the more understanding, more intelligent detective is the woman. Smh.
@jessiehurley4809 Why are you trying to make this a gender thing, the guy was a piece of shit *human*, not because he was a man. You sound like the inverse of the dumb misogynist redpill guys. Generalizing genders everywhere they can. You even implied there's an intelligence difference in genders. I would hope you would feel gross about that just like you would feel gross if a man claimed "it's no coincidence the man was more intelligent..."
Idiotic!!!!
you try having a serious conversation while someone flails their hands in your face, see how you like it, sheesh ;p
My mom is deaf and the way Kelsey is being talked to during this interview is making me absolutely sick to my stomach. The detective refuses to listen to her and then has the balls to say “stop it with your hands”, my blood is boiling. It is so hard for a deaf person to catch everything in a normal conversation anyway, and for him to treat her this way during and INTERROGATION is sick.
Technically she was just being interviewed, which makes his actions even more infuriating.
@Monkey_11 Seriously, what an ass. I hope she's doing well, despite all this trauma.
That 'stop with the hands' literally made me gasp! He's oblivious to how detrimental his tactic is because he seems to believe he's really clever.
@@Северянин-э6ю people with enough compassion
I agree, my son was born partially deaf in both ears. He still struggles to hear even with his hearing aids. This is extremely upsetting to watch!
I don’t understand how some of y’all think he’s faking. He is diagnosed, has been medicated, has a historical evidence of his mental illness, required medical attention before being fit to stand trial, and has experiences/stories similar to many people with schizophrenia. Matt is a hallucination yes, but just like many other patients with schizophrenia, this character is threatening his loved ones, and then tells him to kill others. This is a very, very normal experience for them. It is just shocking to me how people can ignore blatant evidence. No wonder there is so much untreated mental illness, so many of y’all wouldn’t believe them even if they told you or asked for help. Also, just as a final note, do you have any idea how exhausting all his physical movements are. Shaking is exhausting on the muscles, excellerated breathing strains the heart, bodies are pushed to the limits during an episode, but the movements provide mental soothing, so the body will push through. It would be very hard for someone to endure faking panic for as long as Jeffrey suffered.
I give Kelsey a lot of credit, dealing with that awful unskilled investigator would have been frustrating for anyone. Facing a jusge based on him filing your charges would be the worst.
It was almost like he deliberately trying to traumatize her. He was not qualified to interrogate someone with a disability.
@@Zerg435or anyone period
Yea no Kelsey should’ve never told her mom to leave
I love how people pretend cops are counselors and physcis.
Their job is to arrest you.
Every time you've talked to a cop: they have assessed rather to arrest you or not.
Every person who's been arrested has either lied, or asked for a lawyer immediately.
Stop pretending that actors are honest and police do anything other then gather points on the scoreboard of arrests and convictions: exactly what YOU vote for.
Don't fucking pretend.
You're too damn old, and I'm not in to you lying to me.
Kelsey probably thought she was going to jail after the interview because the detective kept saying she was being deceptive and that’s why she was acting so hostile and distressed. The interrogator was horrible here.
Yeah I think she was confused about what was even going on. Most people have no idea how the system works, throw being deaf on top of it and the fact that detective doesn't seem to know how do anything besides say, "I know you know now tell me what I know you know.", and so like she clearly thought she was going to be arrested or something with how he was talking. That's why she kept saying, "No!" when he went to leave the room because she assumed that meant she'd be taken to jail. Then when her mom was like, "I'm scared." she went, "Scared for me?!" and freaked out,a nd her moms like, "Wut.... -_____- no, you're fine." then she was like a lot more calm after that. Detective was friggin ass at his job. Was probably hammered and wanted to score another 8-ball and was getting frustrated this wasn't a slam dunk bulldozing over a deaf girl.
How she lied and told her Mother what happened she was a lier
She was being deceptive, she lied multiple times.
@@Space_Ghost_Hunter it’s so awful & so sad. Meanwhile we’ve got a generation of children growing up watching half of their “tick-tock” friends pretend to have DID online. to the 15yos in the room… this is what it actually looks like. If you have alters I can guarantee that most of them have no fucking clue, and depending on how many you’ve got, the more you have the less of a chance there is that you are one of the ones who *do* know. There is statistically far *more* of a chance that you could have DID & be entirely unaware of it, than you having DID & be completely lucid about that fact.
Don’t know what you guys were watching she didn’t lie. She clearly didn’t want to reveal her husband had mental health issues . She felt like it was private and perhaps she had some shame surrounding it also. Consider she’s also his carer she most likely felt she had to protect him as he was vulnerable . I don’t think she knew he had committed any murders .
That’s not a crime
ALWAYS get a lawyer when talking to the police. That poor girl was basically tortured for no reason
Yes, and her own mother allowed it and encouraged it.
I know the feeling
Why does a nursing student think that when people are revived via CPR they just stand right up and go about their day?? 🤣
My mom has hearing issues, which made watching Kelsey's interrogation really hard for me. I really hope that detective realizes someday how crappy it was of him to treat her like that instead of admitting that he could be wrong about something, but let's be honest he probably never will.
Pardon?
@@benitolazio8193 EXACTLY! Everyone is in the comments worried about her and the way the investigator talked to her. Who gives a fuck about that? Two teenagers were murdered in cold blood. Her treatment in the interrogation room is a non-issue.
They are both psychopaths pretending to be psychotic which doesn't increase someone's propensity to violence and is more likely to be what a victim is left with. I'm sick of clowns like this sticking the boot in like this pretending to be victims too like that would justify something. Yeah fk em!
@@mattjack3983 It IS an issue you. This is how people get falsely accused and thrown into prison for shit that they had no part in. It's why these things are accounted. People are can be employed into jobs they are bad at, or make wrong decisions - and they should be held accountable for that shit. Absolutely unnecessary for that detective to handle Kelsey's interrogation in that manner.
I'm hard of hearing but luckily it's only high pitches in one ear so even without a hearing aid I hear well enough I don't need to read lips or sign language or anything. I probably say, "what?" twice as much as the average person though & when I go to the movies I have to make sure the girl sits on my good ears side or I won't be hearing a word they say lmao
The only interrogation I've seen that was worse than Kelsys was the cop who interviewed a man for hours, not noticing he'd been shot in the face twice and had brain damage.
WHAT!?
@@LifeSizeNomi It's a famous case...Her name is Ryan Waller. Explore with us have the interview. In short, Waller and his girlfriend were at home, watching and-or sleeping on the couch. And they've been victim of a break-in. Both had been shoot. Her girlfriend died, and he was arrested as a suspect. They interview him for hours, while he was clearly confuse etc... And in pain... In fact, he was a victim and had 2 bullets in his head! ( Sorry for my engrish, i'm a french speaker)
Yes I remember that one.
@@Minoujill24*His not her.
@theBOG3, *****so you missed the bit where they said that English is not their first language? How many languages do you speak? How many languages are you able to write in fluently??? How well do you write in french? Wtf mr/mrs/ms Judgy Judgerton...
This entire case is heart breaking. The two innocent teens losing their lives for absolutely no reason. The way Kelsey was treated and talked to for being completely innocent. The fact that Jeffrey was unable to receive help before this all happened and if he would’ve gotten help, maybe this all could’ve been prevented. The whole thing is sad. Jeffrey’s mental health crisis does not excuse what he did. But, he’s the perfect example of the reason we need more metal hospital jails. He’s most likely going to spend his time in a general prison where he is not going to get the proper evaluations and treatments he needs.
There is no indication from this video that there was a lack of access to healthcare. It just said he was off his meds. Could easily have been his decision. Not lack of access to meds.
😢😢😢😢
Well, at least he got Matt, for companion! 🤔
He may end up in a psych ward somewhere and if it's in GA he will probably never get out...hopefully.
Man, the moment the detective told me I was lying when I wasn't, that interview woukd have been done.
This woman is being borderline psychologically abused in this interrogation. Demeaning her, telling her shes being purposefully deceptive when shes being honest, asking if shes really being truthful. Making her question herself, literal gaslighting. Not everyone tells their partner everything, especially dark shit like this. And if he was truly violent and dangerous, she likely couldve been a victim herself. Its not wise or appropriate to berate this woman.
That police officer talking to the deaf girl is so disrespectful and should never interrogate anyone ever again. He needs to be retrained asap!!
Sorry, I think the detective is so narcissistic and such a BULLY that retraining would be a waste of time. FIRE HIM!!!
Retrained preferably as a rubber dog shit inspector in taiwan.
@@nancyadamson286 He shouldn't be fired, that's insane considering he was being mean and stupid, but he 100% needs to be sat tf down and retraiend before he's put on a case where his stupidity could actually be detrimental.
Fired
@@DsgSleazyhe was trained before, that obviously failed. This guy does not have the brains to be a cop, as low as that bar is!
This is so sad and disturbing. My sister has a history of paranoid schizophrenia. She experienced hearing voices around the age of 16. She is now 68. She is in a lock facility. She has escaped and gone homeless several times. She has jumped off a bridge unto the 5 freeway and survived, she has cut her gut open from below her belly button to her ribs and pulled out her intestines and survived. This disease is horrific. The mental facilities and government programs have been cut back. She used to live with me and my family until she became unsafe for my grandchildren and neighbors. I had her committed to be a ward of the state. It was under their care that she was homeless on the streets, a great harm to herself and others. I don't know what the solution is but it is not to be taken lightly. It is real and it is dangerous.
Thanks for the info, God bless you, and your family.
My brother suffered it too and eventually took his own life. He was a talented artist, crazy imagination and humour. Oddly, I notice how Jeffrey's writing is so neat. Some schizophrenics can have hidden talents and as you say, if the support is there and they take their meds, things can be fine, but if not, things can go downhill fast. I hope your sister is getting some form of stability and is not homeless.
I'm so sorry. It's very hard on the family such as yourself. 🙏
im so sorry, god bless you
Omg i wish you and your sister the best.
Ive been homeless and on drugs on the street.
Definitely not a good situation.
Being there i really started losing my faith in the government and humanity.
Although in my situation it was my own choices that got me there.
I know some with this disease will have times they may seem normal and people dont understand or arent trained enough to look for behaviour and signs theyre showing.
Although your sister sounds like a severe case so i dont know if she was like this. But im guessing if you felt okay to have her live with you then she must have had her good moments.
It takes really takes life long treatment and more studying to help people understand this illness.
Even some medical professionals ive met dont understand how to deal with this ilness. But in the past alot of people that were born with this illness dont end up living very long. Then again as a society we didnt even know about this illness for generations. It feels like even now, because the illness is considered so rare, we still dont know much about it. Ive never heard of a person living almost all their life with this illness and living up to 68 into their old age.
Then having government programs be cut man thats going backwards when people like your sister will always need help.
I know care aids where i live dont get paid enough for their hardwork. And the governement here makes it so difficult for others in other countries to transfer over.
So theyre dealing with a shortage of nurses aids or care aids and yet even people coming from outside the countries are facing many roadblocks meanwhile people like your sister are the ones suffering. Alot of nursing homes are treated between as a cross between old age homes and as psychiatric units for people with degenerative or mental illness and that need full time care.
I really hope she gets the help she needs.
Is she back in a facility now? Do you get to visit her often?
The female detective saying “you didn’t see her in the daylight look at her” gave me chills. I’m 17 and I can’t imagine how her family feels or how scared she might have been or anything that she experienced that night. Same for the young man. So heartbreaking.
This piece of shits bad acting was pissing me off. He's just a disgusting human being that needs to get beaten up badly
Ugh same
So true....sad situation all around, Summer.
I knew a woman named Summer and she would go to antarctica for the summer. I told her, "Jeez, you never see the summer, Summer!", and she replied "sweetie it's summer everywhere I go!". So true...she had a such a warm personality. She was eaten by polar bears at age 27, sadly...but I think of her often during the summer and also when it's very cold.
@@AgentXaos wait what eaten by polar bears?....uh that sounds odd
Sounds plausible to me...especially since there are no polar bears in Antarctica.
The male detective has the audacity to tell a deaf woman not to use her hands while communicating, as he flagrantly waves his hands around the whole time he speaks! 🙄
I'm so glad Kelsey told her mom to leave. That woman was making her case so much worse.
She did nothing but tell her to tell the truth.
@@bobbiewhitten1718not really tbh
@@bobbiewhitten1718she’s hard of hearing and the only thing she really lied about was him attempting to commit 💀 she didn’t lie about anything crazy. That’s information they could’ve gotten off the way he was acting.
I have to take exception, with one thing you said. “This is just one example of why young or vulnerable individuals should have a parent and/or lawyer present with them during questioning.” No one should ever talk to a detective in it interview or an interrogation without a lawyer present. Period.
So you're taking exception to something he said by agreeing, makes sense.
😂❤@@jamesoshea580
Always get a friggin lawyer
reread what you wrote man, barely makes sense
what part are you having trouble with? howie said all people should have a lawyer not just young people.@@Tacodelmur
As a hard of hearing person, they 100% misunderstood the part at 10:25. She didn't hear the officer when he first said "high strung". Once he repeated it, she heard, and was answering his question. It wasn't that she didn't understand what the phrase meant, but the officer assumed and was prattling on about what it meant, despite already knowing she was hoh. She wasn't interrupting him, she was answering his question. It doesn't indicate she's lying, it's a common misunderstanding we deal with as deaf/hoh people.
Ya this channel way over-analyzes stuff sometimes lol
@@WeToddEd-r3gtrue but in a way i’m sure investigators and detectives are analyzing they same way he describes yk what i mean
This bugged me because I'm not even hard of hearing. I've definitely misunderstood a question, and the. Answered it in the middle of it being repeated when my brain caught up. That's a totally normal thing that happens in normal conversations.
I’m not even hard of hearing and I often find myself asking people to repeat what they said then realizing, as I’m asking, what they meant.
I’m not deaf/hoh, but as someone who is dating a CODA whose social mannerisms are more understood by those privy to deaf culture, and as someone who is learning signing in order to have meaningful and proper convos with my prospective in-laws, and as an autistic individual, the moment that the detective said “Stop it with the hands” pressed me off so much. I’ve dealt with the whole “quiet hands” bs, and deaf/hoh people communicate so much more than others with their hands, not just with signing but emotionally speaking. I see it regularly with my CODA partner as well and that’s just secondhand exposure to deaf/hoh culture.
I’m pissed at this detective for his insensitivity and I hope to god he hasn’t scarred others the way he may have to Kelsey.
That cop needs to be fired. He's absolutely shit at his job, AND he encountered someone with a disability and treated her like shit for it.
Glad to hear you criticize the detective’s behavior when he questioned her! He was awful. She was clearly struggling due to her disability.
Detective did a fine in keeping this manipulative teenager honest.
It’s an interrogation tactic used on all people. Doesn’t change just because she’s deaf. It’s been used in many cases on this channel, they’re not always nice to people it’s a “bad cop” method if you will.
Kelsey's "detective" doesn't want the truth, he just wants a confession regardless. TERRIBLE.
My thought exactly. He was terrible toward that girl.
The type of detective that put inocent people in Jain
I hate how Kelsey’s mom tried to pressure her daughter into handing over her phone. You should never voluntarily hand over your phone to police without a warrant.
I don’t get comments like these. Moral people encourage people to do the right thing.
@@juneelle370 It is always a bad idea to give your phone to police, even if you are innocent. There's a long talk on UA-cam of a law professor and chief of police (or just an officer) talking to a classroom about how you should never talk to the police and lawyer up before answering questions.
@@LucolanYT yes there may be a reason if you’re innocent absolutely… but the commenter said “you should NEVER voluntarily hand over your phone to police without a warrant.” And I see comments like this all over the place. If you’ve done wrong, you SHOULD tell all and hand over all evidence. Even these kinds of shows make comments like this. It’s amoral/immoral!
@@LucolanYT yes IF UR INNOCENT!!! How have ppl gotten so morally corrupt? This person killed 2 teenagers! And if not caught would probably murdered again. I hope u get in the way of someone that was released thx to someone taking ur morally corrupt advice..
@@kungfreddie I'm glad to know you're wishing me harm for simply standing by the advice of professionals in the field and the police themselves.
This detective is absolutely terrible at his job, the way he kept accusing that poor woman of lying when she was clearly telling him the truth and telling her not to use her hands when she is hearing impaired and relies on her hands to communicate is disgusting. I really feel for anyone who has had the misfortune of having to deal with this man.
In my opinion, detective Bennett did an amazing job in the interrogation with Jeffrey. She wasn’t being overbearing or mean like I’ve seen in other interrogations but she also didn’t just completely coddle him in order to get him to keep talking to her. She knew when to be stern with him and when to back off just enough to keep him engaged. I’ve watched too many videos where detectives use intimidation to get what they want out of suspects. She actually talked to him like a human
but he is not human
Completely different from detective bald spots, he was an asshole to Kelsey the entire interrogation and his technique boils down to telling the interrogated they're lying repeatedly. I hope detective Bennet got a promotion and I hope detective bald spots got fired.
Whatever gets the job done. This was a brutal murder and the interrogation is of little concern to me.
@@KatNips She was lying.
@@EASTSIDERIDER707 still she deserves some human decency. Also he would've gotten a confession way faster if he didn't fuck up the trust he was building with her time after time just by being a jackass and talking down to her. He got the job done, yes, barely.
How in the hell were no other detectives monitoring this to step in? I don't care how many years he said he's been doing this, but he's absolute garbage at it. It forever adds to the trauma she suffers from finding out why she was being questioned at all. If they were a little more forward, it would have been a good bit easier.
That’s his job- he’s not there to care about feelings, two people are dead. Are you that idiotic or just vapid ?
There were other cops watching... wakeup pigs don't give a sheet
strangely enough in two cases where the interrogator was god awful at his job, both interrogators had said "i've been doing this for many years"
NEVER, NEVER give law enforcement access to your information without a court order/warrant! Especially when your innocent!
Cop: "you'll be found culpable and accountable". Kelsey: "Why, thank you! Glad someone finally noticed *blushes*"
If you're innocent what would you have to lose by handing over anything requested? Besides the fact you get to pretend you're smart somehow by being difficult. You could be seriously hindering law enforcement efforts to catch actual criminals while they are messing around with warrants for your stupid ass
You’re not your
I don't understand how and why people talk to the police without an attorney.
indeed if they see you sneeze don't even so much as admit it...CALL your LAWYER...cops aren't there to help you they are there to get an arrest...
Yea, im autistic and can understand why this dude had a breakdown, and it looks to me like he didnt even understand what was going on or that he was lying. What he did was awful and disgusting. And the way she keeps eye contact is definitely not because she was lying, but because she was reading his lips. I am very slightly hard of hearing, and cant half understand that detective either, so she definitely needed to lip read. This whole situation is awful, but half of the things the detectives do here shows they dont quite understand disabilities. And as someone wio actively uses sign language, "i dont need your hands" or what is known as "quiet hands" is highly rude to say to someone who uses sign language. Its like telling someone to shut up. Like taking away their form of communication.
Kelsey's interrogation was heartbreaking to watch. I knew of this story but didn't know she existed / was interviewed. As someone who is hearing impaired I really feel for her.
The guy is really a d***
She lied and protected a murderer. Her only concern was Jeffrey. You really feel for her? She is hearing impaired- that doesn't mean she should act immorally.
Why? Because she's a liar and knew her husband did something? Crazy.
@@eh1702 exactly man, suddenly the youtube simps forgot two slaughtered teens were left there as garbage. It's getting sadder every year with humanity.
@@eh1702 I agree that he saved her on that one, but the manner by which he went about it was so wrong. He got ahead of himself and forgot that it wasn’t an interrogation. I’m assuming that she wasn’t read her rights as it was a voluntary interview, and if she HAD been involved, he could’ve seriously jeopardised the case that would’ve been made against her. It was lucky for him that she was innocent here, he could’ve potentially allowed an accomplice to murder to walk free. That being said, it was incredibly foolish of her to lie like that.
Kelsey is literally traumatized by that incompetent and unprofessional investigator. She has every right to sue the hell out of that police station for emotional damage and undue distress.
stfu she supported a killer and hiding the information
“Traumatized” by an uncomfortable conversation. Exactly what’s wrong with this world. How about the families of the murdered teens?
@@03Grunt-arrino here comes a reductionist. She’s not just suspected and therefore proportionately investigated no! She’s straight up being accused of murder and lying about the murder and being threatened with consequences for lying about the murder. That is coercion by way of intimidation. That is deeply distressing and traumatizing for most people hence why some folks breakdown and sign a confession when they are in fact innocent!. So spare me your “uncomfortable conversation” and get real. He was wildly unprofessional and didn’t not conduct a fair interrogation. He treated her like a convicted criminal when she’s just a suspect.
@@03Grunt-arrinothey can sue who they feel they need to otherwise shut the FUCK UP. Goddamn. It’s not a competition, more than ONE person can be traumatized at the same time for different reasons.
Sue them for making her cry? Lol come on man
The way the detective handled Kelsey's disability is truly disgusting!
I honestly can’t even finish this video because of how mad the male detective is making me. How can you treat someone that way when they are clearly in emotional distress? And how is the mom not standing up for her?
My brother has schizophrenia he used to hear voices and see things ….I’d come home and he’d be in full blown arguments with no one, it was so scary, a few times I thought he had someone in the room with him but he didn’t. It took me three years to get mental health to take it seriously ..and he was medicated against his will. Three years it’s been since he’s been on his meds and he’s like a new man, he still has some moments of delusion but they don’t control his life anymore
It’s a really crappy and insidious disorder. From what I understand, it is partially caused in the center of the brain that syncs up what we hear and see (we technically see before we hear things) and ties it all together in memory so we know it’s a recalled event rather than a current event. Bad a guy, a few years ahead, diagnosed. Biggest teddy bear before but some real difficulties after.
my uncle had schizophrenia and then served in the vietnam war. after that he had totally lost it and on one instance aimed a shotgun at my father. today he is not doing amazing but definitely better than he was. he cant live by himself (i believe due to other mental/physical health complications) but his 6 surviving siblings meet up with him every weekend.
Did he obsess over V for vendetta and get off while wearing only the mask? Seems to be a common trait.
Wouldnt ever turn my back on a freakshow like that
@@0Tyson0 bro 😭
Detective Bennet is an amazing detective, she did everything right. And had Jeffrey specifically asking for her back. But Kelsey’s detective? Omg, Kelsey has patience that I don’t I would have smacked him. What an awful man who’s clearly awful at his job
Makes me think bennet may have some experience with special needs children possibly, she approached that situation like a pro
I've had nightmares about a situation like this where I'm being told I'm lying and I snap so hard in my dream that I will wake up screaming at full volume or I will wake up halfway through repeatedly punching a pillow. The kind of pressure he put on Kelsey would have gotten me arrested for assault. Because I'd just punch him in the throat.
It surely gives you an insight of how they treat those with special needs in that area of the U.S.
@@quicksilvermadyou should probably talk to a therapist. That's not normal.
@@HoLeeFuk317 Sure isn't. I have a traumatic brain injury-and I do see a therapist.
My mom was bipolar combined with schizophrenia. She wasn't violent except for the rare occasion. She did have voices talking to her. One voice told her that the calculator that the school had given me, was secretly meant for stealing social security numbers. She thought "people" were performing surgery on me while I slept to take my organs & would look for scars. Luckily she didn't have the inclination to really hurt someone. This illness requires alot of attention. I'm not excusing this crime, but I do feel compassion for the severely mentally ill. As well as the victims.
Wow, Mary! Thank you for sharing. That’s such a deeply head-f*ck-y experience. Hope you’re able to find healing.
Thats not his issue. He's acting.
@@Jadeisacolortoo sure dude, you're obviously the most qualified person to make such an assessment... There's many videos on this channel showing people acting, MUCH more than the rare cases of actual mental illness, and this entire video he mentioned how it all indicates it's genuine. Go talk out of your ass somewhere else...
@@Daferpare Whether I am qualified or not. That man is acting and only a gullible fool would believe otherwise. My opinion and I AINT changing it.
@@Jadeisacolortoo yeah and you have very little evidence for if he was faking it. shut up
His behavior came off to me as “I know I’m caught so I’m gonna act crazy from the start.” Kelsey seemed honest to me. That doesn’t mean I’m right, just how it seemed.
Not to me, he is really having a psychotic episode. Schizophrenia probably suddenly set on.
Thank god you’re not a detective
Yea no I’m a schizophrenic and this is a very apparent episode
"This is a safe Space" - No interrogation room is a safe space. Guilty or innocent, request to speak with a lawyer. If you're innocent they can literally ask a simple question like: "Where were you at this date and time? You say "I believe 3pm I was at home but im not sure" and then they find out you were not there at 3pm. They wont be honest in their discernment between "mistaken" vs "deception". Lying requires an attempt to deceive, being mistaken is not purposeful. They will say "You told us 3pm, when in fact it was closer to 6pm, you're lying to us and it's not a good look". Then it's all downhill, as you'll be seen as less credible, and they'll use your "deception" to force you into making likely a false confession to avoid a harsh punishment. Hence why plea deals are an issue in court system, majority of cases (80-90%) in US and Canada are done with plea deals with questionable interrogation tapes/tactics. They will often use the "Because you've already lied to us, no court will believe you. If this goes to court, I guarantee you'll face over 20yrs OR if you tell us everything (expecting a confession of sort) you'll get out in a year or 2". The latter is definitely more appealing and given you're in a precarious situation already, you'll be inclined to make a false confession to have lesser punishment. It makes us wonder how many people that went to jail and are innocent while the prosecutors/interrogators are getting raises for "cracking cases". It's shady system to its core.