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Does he really like you? Attraction vs Genuine Interest

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  • @KevHick
    @KevHick  5 років тому +78

    Like my new Facebook Page and follow. Share my videos on Facebook if you believe in my message facebook.com/Kevhicktalks/

    • @alyciabagwell9633
      @alyciabagwell9633 5 років тому +1

      Guys are attracted to women based on birth order alone.
      No matter how GOOD i am or BAD i am, or SMART or TALENTED... and I've tried being all...... I get used. I'm last born from a big family.

    • @SOoFOCUSED
      @SOoFOCUSED 5 років тому

      What is your sign and birthchart like and your wife’s?

    • @lizzylewis5793
      @lizzylewis5793 5 років тому

      Hi @Kev Hicks. How do you know if a man is low interest guy, playing hard to get, shy, or into men(gay). Im confused about this guy Im interested in.

    • @ashley.ferreira
      @ashley.ferreira 4 роки тому +1

      You should never lust after another woman as a married man. You already committed adultery in your heart. Your wife shouldn’t be asking u these questions.Repent ask for forgiveness. Focus your eyes on your wife only.

    • @nosaizekor8389
      @nosaizekor8389 4 роки тому

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls could I please ask a question why hasn't any guy approach me for an interest personal I would like to date a guy who is compassionate towards nature creatures and mother nature and someone who is kind and funny someone with a pure heart I am new to the relationship lifestyle I don't know what to expect please tell me what's wrong with me why hasn't any guy approach me

  • @bravebird3654
    @bravebird3654 6 років тому +2615

    Be careful of men taking an "interest" in a woman too fast..and wanting to jump right into a relationship. There are alot of narcissists running around out here.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +141

      There are! You’re absolutely right🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @Xena395
      @Xena395 6 років тому +106

      brave bird I spotted one and quickly signed myself up for that game. I don’t play games/people, but once I do smell it, I’ll play right along with you. He got the memo and never heard from him again. I’ve been through too much hell and back, to allow a mf to play me.

    • @candy5742
      @candy5742 6 років тому +179

      brave bird People who move too fast are abusers. I have been there and it’s doesn’t have to be physical abuse.

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 6 років тому +130

      brave bird omg so true I had one of those I had to cut him off quickly be careful ladies go slow at first when getting to know a guy and don’t let them love bomb you!

    • @Xena395
      @Xena395 6 років тому +88

      Sandra Jefferson they always love bombing me, that’s how I know they’re on some bullshit. When I call them out, they throw a temper tantrum. Well, if I’m so wrong, why are you so mad?? For once I was going to make a lesson out of one, but I guess they recognize when their game is being played against. So he left me alone. Either you’re serious about getting to know me, or I peep the game and serve you your own game back cold. Cause I’ve been to much hell and back to let a mf play me.

  • @farfetched9296
    @farfetched9296 4 роки тому +1571

    Keep your legs closed that reveals a man's TRUE INTENTIONS.

    • @sugarfreenow
      @sugarfreenow 4 роки тому +19

      Tough Shit yes yes

    • @sonyab2u974
      @sonyab2u974 4 роки тому +51

      Facts! Learned this years ago and so glad I did

    • @lamulata1azuquita128
      @lamulata1azuquita128 4 роки тому +45

      Tough Shit 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽yes when you tell the man no if it’s not into you like and only wanted one thing he will stop calling I went through it glad I did it.

    • @LawNerdSoph
      @LawNerdSoph 4 роки тому +42

      For real. After a guy I'm talking to brought sex up and all the things he'd do - I said good luck with that, you need to take me out on 6 + dates first before I even THINK about hopping on you (as much as I really want to instantly)

    • @claudiacastrillon4440
      @claudiacastrillon4440 4 роки тому +4

      Yesss

  • @mad3inh3ll
    @mad3inh3ll 6 років тому +2034

    I have to work on my judgement. I get caught up in what they could be or how in love we can be than the actual reality.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +78

      I’m glad you recognize that.

    • @danitrabey3461
      @danitrabey3461 6 років тому +37

      Maria Victoria I am very guilty of this as well.

    • @Abbyssna
      @Abbyssna 6 років тому +12

      Maria Victoria right !!! Smh . I am secure but I sure won’t want to know who my man would have sex with ! Smh ! Keep those thoughts in your private world .

    • @mad3inh3ll
      @mad3inh3ll 6 років тому +1

      Abby TV Creations i def agree with you.

    • @Abbyssna
      @Abbyssna 6 років тому +1

      Maria Victoria he better watch his wife lol . She might be doing her . Lol !

  • @sonowwhat7592
    @sonowwhat7592 6 років тому +1149

    I’m impressed that you are a husband. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
    I thought you were about 19 or 20 years old. You are setting a great example and spreading some powerful knowledge out here in these streets. A lot of women grew up without a father to school them in these matters. You are like the male voice of reason that is very much needed.

  • @biancapierce639
    @biancapierce639 5 років тому +731

    I had a guy who I suspected was not genuine ask for a picture - so I sent him a picture of a car accident. He did not respond LOL.

  • @januarybaby
    @januarybaby 5 років тому +409

    "She assumes that his intrigue includes her personality, her ability to love, her essence."
    That one got me

  • @SGWndrWmn1211
    @SGWndrWmn1211 5 років тому +577

    Jeez listening to all these videos is enlightening and depressing at the same time 🤔🤦🏻‍♀️🙄😞

  • @augustrules32
    @augustrules32 6 років тому +747

    Damn Kev married she's very lucky!

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +67

      I think so 😁

    • @augustrules32
      @augustrules32 6 років тому +11

      😁✊🏿

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +17

      ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

    • @dorynekikonyogo6087
      @dorynekikonyogo6087 6 років тому +21

      I’m so jealous of her😭😭

    • @laedifox
      @laedifox 6 років тому +18

      Please tell us that story one day...

  • @ChooChoogirlelle
    @ChooChoogirlelle 6 років тому +312

    Shoutout to your wife, a lot women wouldn’t even have asked that question and took it like a G when you answered truthfully.

  • @tiffanyhogan2967
    @tiffanyhogan2967 6 років тому +271

    “..at what cost?” that’s a gem💎

  • @hcocroft
    @hcocroft 6 років тому +143

    Haha. I like that part, “..15 partners later, you join the ‘He Ain’t Shit Club’. ..Well you know what else ain’t shit?, YOUR DAMN DECISION MAKING.” 😄That part is TRUTH!!

  • @renawilliams4803
    @renawilliams4803 6 років тому +180

    ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!!!
    WATCH HIM. 👀

  • @fatoumataconde1869
    @fatoumataconde1869 6 років тому +186

    your indifference sprinkled with a dash of pettiness is knocking me out! 😂
    What a fun way to learn about men

    • @millyv8787
      @millyv8787 5 років тому

      Fatoumata condé Lmaoo

    • @CessLa2oya
      @CessLa2oya 5 років тому

      😂😂😂😂

    • @TheDroShow
      @TheDroShow 3 роки тому +1

      He is really hilarious!

  • @lifetobelived9102
    @lifetobelived9102 6 років тому +725

    I wish this video be shown in a middle or high school sex ed class. When my daughter had the sex talk as school, they told her the three ways to have sex but not about how to respect each other and make good decisions around sex. I don't think that abstinence has to be the only thing but it can be an option as well as being a little bit choosy. To be honest as a 57 year old woman I am just starting to comprehend things like the difference between attraction and real interest partially because i never was a big dater before I was married and then i was married for 18 years. I asked a question on another channel what the difference was between a man just being nice or being actually interested because i honestly didn't know. I think if young woman could be able to read the signs a little better than it would help them make better choices. Too many times women of all ages get excited about a little bit of attention especially if there has been a dry season.

    • @nicholefletcher8417
      @nicholefletcher8417 5 років тому +28

      I was literally going to write the same thing about going to speak to young girls in high school or middle school! There should be a group of guys like him going to do these talks! Teenage pregnancy would probably be a thing of the past. It would be so empowering. The things he talks about are things I've always believed and wish other women/girls I knew did too.

    • @sarahelgenstierna2909
      @sarahelgenstierna2909 3 роки тому

      Love What you write! I feel exactly the same!!! 👍👍👍

    • @GaiaNeh1013
      @GaiaNeh1013 2 роки тому

      I remember we briefly talked about boundaries and decision making in a life skills class. I can only imagine the impact I would have if talks like this happened more often in school. Girls and boys can both learn about it. Maybe talk about it in separate groups so they can ask questions comfortably.

  • @SieraTheChosenOne
    @SieraTheChosenOne 6 років тому +285

    I prefer genuine interest!

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +20

      As you should ✊🏾

  • @lynnjones7695
    @lynnjones7695 6 років тому +189

    Well, at least you're honest...

  • @ButterflyBree
    @ButterflyBree 6 років тому +376

    Excellent video Kev!
    I liked the real life example you used to show that a man can be sexually/physically attracted to a woman while not giving a damn about her as a person.
    I've confused the two in the past.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +42

      I understand. I felt like this was important to discuss. You’re not the only one ☝🏽

    • @trudytriad4574
      @trudytriad4574 5 років тому +7

      Yet infidelity still hurts when the woman you care about knows you are physically attracted to someone else. The difference discussed here is no consolation.

    • @lisabradford8180
      @lisabradford8180 3 роки тому +1

      it sure hurts to realize that the men you've known, with very few exceptions, didn't care a bit about you. talk about a blow to your confidence and ego😢

  • @yohanndomoison3771
    @yohanndomoison3771 6 років тому +329

    Wow man, 10 years of marriage, great...congratulations🙌!! And yes, it's very important not to confuse attraction and genuine interest. Being attentive to signals and being patient before giving in to sex helps to escape grief👌!!

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +37

      10 years together. 5 years of marriage (anniversary Tuesday). You’re absolutely right!💪🏾

    • @DH-zi5ob
      @DH-zi5ob 6 років тому +2

      Yohann DOMOISON Yes, Well said!!!

    • @yohanndomoison3771
      @yohanndomoison3771 6 років тому +4

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls Ok, so enjoy your 5-year-anniversary tomorrow 💑!!

    • @mufl6216
      @mufl6216 6 років тому +4

      Your married, been married for 5 years? How old are you?

    • @charrisseworley4102
      @charrisseworley4102 5 років тому

      Yes it do.

  • @valentinarose3476
    @valentinarose3476 5 років тому +220

    When you say that your wife is very secure, I believe that is because you haven’t given her any reason to be insecure. Can you share your thoughts on that subject, please?

  • @yolandamoore5293
    @yolandamoore5293 6 років тому +289

    Thats why i rather take my time to feel him out and see what is his intentions of dating

  • @latoyagriffin1410
    @latoyagriffin1410 6 років тому +504

    Now, you should write and publish a book. Steve Harvey ain't 💩 .

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +209

      He ain’t for real! Cheats with his wife. Cheats on the next, then writes a book about how women should......f all that. I’m already writing a book. Hope to be done this year.

    • @margomazzeo1680
      @margomazzeo1680 6 років тому +5

      Good for you..my Kev!!xo

    • @jaeraee3437
      @jaeraee3437 5 років тому +4

      @@KevHick Great ill by it.

    • @ViaBellaLife
      @ViaBellaLife 5 років тому +3

      @@KevHick i do book reviews on my blog. Let me know. Would love to read that.

    • @mplexartaetos2404
      @mplexartaetos2404 5 років тому +1

      @@KevHick yayy I'll definitely purchase it and read it can't wait

  • @lulubelle2009
    @lulubelle2009 6 років тому +73

    My gut instinct was to not send pictures when a man asks, I could never explain the reason for my refusal. thank you for being honest and direct about how pictures can potentially be used. 🤗

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +7

      Absolutely! Thank you for watching!

    • @rosag7386
      @rosag7386 5 років тому

      how about just face pics ? i mean I am trying this dating site for the first time plenty of fish but just for friendship only and most of them ignore except for 2 guys they have been nice talking

  • @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
    @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 6 років тому +186

    Straight, no chaser! Definitely have to hit up your PayPal soon since you're like the older brother I never had to give me advice.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +15

      😁 I hope I wasn’t too harsh. It’s no rush

    • @Justprincessjess
      @Justprincessjess 5 років тому +4

      You are right! Same here. I need to put a reminder in my calendar for the next pay check!

    • @thewayofthemasseuse2697
      @thewayofthemasseuse2697 5 років тому +1

      Ms. Perfectly Imperfect WOOOORRRRRRRRDDDDD

  • @jasminvidal9712
    @jasminvidal9712 6 років тому +60

    As brutal as this was to hear it was absolutely right. Glad someone had the balls to say it.

  • @SimplyQuintessa
    @SimplyQuintessa 5 років тому +25

    You have me crying man...where were you the past two years? I messed up and still dealing with the trauma.

  • @koolyokam007
    @koolyokam007 5 років тому +172

    Good thing I have an ice-cold heart and dead set on keeping myself until marriage. 34 years and counting, I've encountered all the game playing while avoiding opening my legs because I'm dead set on my morals. I really don't care if I die a virgin at this point. 😄

    • @Mbuyiselo5
      @Mbuyiselo5 4 роки тому +42

      I think that’s the key thing, once you’re not afraid to be single even if it is forever you free yourself from making short sighted and desperate decisions.

    • @leegaleaglenombo9430
      @leegaleaglenombo9430 4 роки тому +13

      To be honest, I told myself the same thing a few weeks ago😂😂

    • @carmenvance5303
      @carmenvance5303 4 роки тому +7

      Good for you!! I wish I could do some rewinds!!

    • @lisabradford8180
      @lisabradford8180 4 роки тому +12

      i look back at my past mistakes and wish i had done the same thing. good for you for sticking to your guns 💖👍

    • @olabisiomotolaolugbodi4909
      @olabisiomotolaolugbodi4909 4 роки тому +2

      👍🏽👏🏽

  • @celineU2007
    @celineU2007 6 років тому +45

    Your a genius, I have two degrees and you just taught me something Ive never seen. Thank you.

  • @btrflyrideforlife4510
    @btrflyrideforlife4510 6 років тому +57

    Ouch...now I need a bandaid. Thx always for keeping it 💯

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +9

      🤕🤕get well soon. You know I have to give some tough love sometime😁 💯

  • @neema1
    @neema1 5 років тому +36

    Everytime he says..."but what do I know,I'm just a guy from the internet" makes me laugh, somehow induces a light moment of break from the hard truth he's spitting

  • @MrDomonique3
    @MrDomonique3 6 років тому +726

    ...seemingly good hygiene 😄

  • @lucymb00
    @lucymb00 4 роки тому +9

    This guy is AWESOME! Articulate, super intelligent in his thought processes and delivery of them. A joy to listen to and learn from.

  • @EgunBiyi.OrisaYege
    @EgunBiyi.OrisaYege 6 років тому +121

    You killing me over here. 🤣😂😭😆😆😆😭😭😂 “guys ask for pictures so they can rub one out.” Uhhhh Duhhhhhh! 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @septemberbody
    @septemberbody 6 років тому +34

    🤔I know FEW guys who are HIGH on empathy & integrity.

  • @tamcar04
    @tamcar04 5 років тому +11

    You are on to something with this video....I've learned there is a DEFINITE DIFFERENCE between attraction and interest. I wish I had this figured out when I was in my 20's!

  • @shannongray-chappell3492
    @shannongray-chappell3492 Рік тому +2

    So, so so true Kevin
    I dealt with a man that could care less of what I wasn't interested in, talents, what I was excited about. He always gave "flat" answers. Those are wow, good, yes, no etc. Saying those words to be polite or pretend to be interested in what I was say. No further questions asked no real response. He didn't care. But at the time, he could tell me when he was off to meet at a hotel. That didn't happen

  • @sabreena1khalick
    @sabreena1khalick 6 років тому +92

    This is exactly what my daddy used to say. Thanks for the reminder.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +6

      My pleasure 😇

  • @ddm0429
    @ddm0429 6 років тому +55

    You always have some raw and uncut insight Kev. This was reallllyyy a good one.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому

      Thank you! 😁

    • @joycerowena2561
      @joycerowena2561 4 роки тому

      thank you sooo much .it was teally an eyeopener to me. just men want to get something out of a woman . so ladies be careful dont give room to their advances its all lust not love just to make u dry.

  • @LoveLove-iv3gv
    @LoveLove-iv3gv 6 років тому +13

    Very deep video! Gave really good insight...you broke it down like a pro, and you are right, us women have to stop thinking and be more mindful that just because a man thinks that we are sexy/pretty/hot etc...and they are attracted to us, does not mean that they want a relationship with us. Great video 👌🏾

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому

      Thank you 😁😁

  • @loislee2895
    @loislee2895 Рік тому +2

    Bloody hell, you've articulated this brilliantly. Thank you, from the UK 🇬🇧

  • @ruthiefranklin7400
    @ruthiefranklin7400 5 років тому +15

    You've caught my attention, I've been married and divorced and still can appreciate your advice

  • @kerrensmith9205
    @kerrensmith9205 2 роки тому +6

    I LOVE your input. It’s so refreshing to hear your honesty from a man’s perspective. You’re gold! Your attitudes and approach to women, from the perspective of a man who knows the interplay between male/female, and presents as a man who has value and a brain to consider the consequences of acting your desires is so good to listen to against a back drop of confusion and people out for themselves- to gain assets and bill-shit their way to get what they want from others, which seems the way of the dating world these days. So much so, I’m happier remaining single than cope with the confusion and deceit of modern dating. You’re a good man, Kevin Hicks. I get a lot from your posts. Thank you 🙏, from the Heart.

  • @noraventura9006
    @noraventura9006 6 років тому +58

    Had to watch this again without it stopping every second 🙄, very informative, thank you for your insight, just started dating again after taking a year off to myself 😂

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +8

      Thats not my video that’s UA-cam. They must have been busy today. My video file is normal. Good luck getting back in the game. I have a video about how to start dating again after a layoff. The thumbnail say getting back in the game. It may be of some use to you.

    • @noraventura9006
      @noraventura9006 6 років тому +2

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls yes it had to be been watching your videos for a while now and that has never happened before is OK though things happens 😊 , it was normal the second time around, 😁 . I will be looking for that one thanks again.

    • @JBiebsHasSwag369
      @JBiebsHasSwag369 5 років тому +1

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls YAAAASSSS😭👏🏽👏🏽 I need a release date ASAP Kev!!!!!

  • @ARCDLC
    @ARCDLC 6 років тому +18

    These videos are so good. I’m laying in bed supposed to be sleep but I can’t stop watching. Very good info, pretty much confirming what I always thought about dating and getting to know guys. It’s really a game and not a game all at the same damn time.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому

      Absolutely now take yourself to bed 🛏😂

  • @Kerrylouasmr
    @Kerrylouasmr 6 років тому +40

    Ooh god 😞 You're right! Why can't all men be like this!

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +2

      😁😉

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +1

      You didn’t reply to my last email 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @Kerrylouasmr
      @Kerrylouasmr 6 років тому +1

      I didn't get it 😐😳

  • @Rokinevythng14
    @Rokinevythng14 6 років тому +104

    If only is women actually simplified what we make complicated. What this man is saying is so simple. It is simple most of the time. The signs are always there, its only when our dumbasses get emotional or fall in love with the wrong guys that all of a sudden, their intentions and who they are seem complicated to us🙄🙄🙄. And this is coming from a woman who’s been on both sides of the fence to know the difference between love and lust.

  • @jazzzz6243
    @jazzzz6243 5 років тому +84

    This explains everything! I been single for two years cause almost every dude I talked to have been attracted to me and just wanted to smash! At the end of the day, naan dude really liked me 🙄

  • @OFFICIALOFFTHEHEAD
    @OFFICIALOFFTHEHEAD 5 років тому +31

    Whoever Dislikes this Doesn’t like the Truth cause everything he is saying is the truth 👌🏾

  • @lynetterice7842
    @lynetterice7842 6 років тому +28

    You gotta be a relationship therapist, right?!! Excellent advice brotha!!

  • @SkynByPri
    @SkynByPri 6 років тому +25

    Thanks for this Kev! I’m currently talking to a few guys and I really do wonder which ones are interested in me LIKE THAT.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +1

      Good luck 😉

    • @SkynByPri
      @SkynByPri 6 років тому

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls Ahh! Thank you! 🙏🏼 Looking forward to more insightful videos in the future!

  • @redlilly4016
    @redlilly4016 6 років тому +10

    The raw truth!
    Had my share of being gullible several times over the years, maybe getting older has opened my eyes. Learning my self worth. Your videos are informative. Thank you! Keep'em coming :)

  • @jamieott3093
    @jamieott3093 5 років тому +9

    I have to admit that with you, I wouldn’t be jealous. You seem like a good and honest guy.
    Damn. Every vid you make me laugh at least one good laugh.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому

      I like to think so 😁

  • @cv1503
    @cv1503 3 роки тому +2

    Why did I just find you?! What makes you stand apart from other dating coaches is you’re funny without even trying to be. It makes you more genuine when giving advice. Which makes it easier for me to remember and follow your advice. You’re a blessing. 😊

  • @chrisbigarani1691
    @chrisbigarani1691 3 роки тому +4

    So well put. Good way to distinguish the difference between basic sexual attraction and true interest.

  • @fairyshades
    @fairyshades 5 років тому +4

    This was really good advice cuz sometimes I would associate a man flirting with me to mean that he showed genuine interest in me. Thank you for breaking down the difference.

  • @iluvslimguys
    @iluvslimguys 6 років тому +22

    U give great information and advice..i truly appreciate and value the time, energy , and effort you put into sharing your wisdom with your viewers. I can definitely say what you have shared has been more than influential and beneficial to my life and thought process. Thank you Mr.Hick

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +1

      My pleasure 😇. Thank you for watching.

  • @bethanystpaul5683
    @bethanystpaul5683 5 років тому +6

    Thanks for being honest. I wish my dad had given me this info, would have saved a lot of bs. I like your delivery!

  • @LuxuriousInteriorDesigns
    @LuxuriousInteriorDesigns 5 років тому +8

    "You know what else ain't shit your decision making"..lol that part right there🤣🤣

  • @eileenmartinez4741
    @eileenmartinez4741 6 років тому +12

    I thank you for all your enlightening information!!!! A lot of men ate going to hate for the fact that we know their game but honestly they should be embarrassed of their sorry ass excuse of being a pig!!!

  • @deedee5797
    @deedee5797 6 років тому +5

    I've heard advice like this before but not to the extent you give or really broken down the way you do with the extra of distinguishing...i like that. Its helpful because it gives a well rounded view of just how guys are and think along with their actions...thank you. I especially like this because i am dating a libra and you are one so this helps me understand his mind better. Thanks

  • @gurlygirl5019
    @gurlygirl5019 6 років тому +4

    Wow! your talks are always on point💯 I actually been there before. I was "talking" to this 1 guy& thought if I rejected his kisses& all that, he'd never ask me to be his girl& so I gave him what he wanted& waited for him to ask me to be his girl& he never did!💔 I definitely learned from that!

  • @ilyunoh8272
    @ilyunoh8272 3 роки тому +4

    sitting through this feeling like a damn fool but so grateful i needed to be scolded tbh

  • @julifunnygirl71
    @julifunnygirl71 4 роки тому +11

    Wait, married?! I guess that makes me feel better. I had been wondering why I was listening to a 19 year old give dating advice 😅

  • @maria.1313
    @maria.1313 Рік тому +1

    I love your realness, thank you for this! Your wife sounds like a wonderful woman, no wonder since you're such a great man! May your Union continue to flourish and be blessed 🙏🤍🌹

  • @nykia26
    @nykia26 6 років тому +4

    I pretty much have my game tight at this stage of my life and when I say “game” I just mean that at 43 I’m not mistaking “I want to hit” with “I’m in love with you” BUT this was put in a way that no woman could have ever explained. As a single woman in ATL you’re never too old for a male’s honest perspective. Bravo! 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @lisatso81
    @lisatso81 6 років тому +18

    Oh my gosh love the video and your wife is so freaking smart that's awesome it makes so much sense let her know I said thank you

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +3

      OMG 😲 Lisa said more than 3 words 🤯🤯😂. Thank you so much for always watching Lisa. I appreciate you 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. I’ll definitely tell my wife! I hope you enjoy the rest of your day😁😁

  • @selmajane7546
    @selmajane7546 5 років тому +5

    I swear I’ve watched this video about 4 times today being the 5th and realize how much truth there is in what he says

  • @katyterrell1393
    @katyterrell1393 3 роки тому +1

    Love the straight talk no cap, it's a breathe of fresh air.

  • @sarahelgenstierna2909
    @sarahelgenstierna2909 3 роки тому +1

    I am 64 years old, and you have opened my eyes! Have never understood why men always want me sexually when I thought I was friendly and wanted to be friends with them! 🥺🤪🙄😂🤣😂🤣
    We are many Women than has never understood this, so thank you, thank you, thank you!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @reneehaa9684
    @reneehaa9684 5 років тому +58

    As I've gotten older i feel like the only get approach by men who are just trying to get me in bed...young, old, ugly, cute etc. I'm so over it lol.

  • @mercynohakhelha7199
    @mercynohakhelha7199 5 років тому +6

    “You know what else ain’t shit? Your damn decisions” 🤣😂😂 so true

  • @nikkinanette8807
    @nikkinanette8807 3 роки тому +2

    I would never ask my husband a question like that.

  • @kateycrisco5872
    @kateycrisco5872 5 років тому +1

    You are brutally honest. And that's why I watch these videos bc i get the info I need that will help me

  • @pennir8834
    @pennir8834 6 років тому +14

    Wooo some real truth here Kev...love it.Got to be one of my favourite vids you've done yet!! Gonna re-watch 🤗😘❤

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +1

      I appreciate that😁

  • @knewmanmurrell
    @knewmanmurrell 5 років тому +1

    Peace King, I appreciate your platform as well as your honesty. I personally am not attracted to women because of how they look. She can be tall, short, slim, thick, etc. The way society is set up nowadays, it's almost dangerous to see a person and say to yourself, "Who is that!" "Look at her (whatever)." Get to know a person and their actual personality is where the true beauty lies. I'm 37 years old, stand at 6'1" tall, but I pride my genuine kindness and treating people how I would want to be treated over how many times I'm called handsome or sexy or fine. When I was younger, in teen-age years, I'd see the pretty girl that everybody liked and actually talk to her. 10 seconds into the conversation, I would say, "She's not so "pretty" anymore." Reason being, a person who is stuck on their looks, won't have much more to offer, it is what it is.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому

      Absolutely right! Ass and boobs are not enough. I be like “what else you got?” Unfortunately the women who have real inner beauty doubt its value😔.

  • @lifewithsha4783
    @lifewithsha4783 Рік тому +1

    You just saved me literally and I’m crying real tears 😢thank you Kevin
    Btw I like this content and editing versus your new style and video quality. I like this way better

  • @lisabradford8180
    @lisabradford8180 4 роки тому +6

    these videos, and this one in particular, shows me that i don't know jack about men and never did. and at my age, it really makes me feel stupid to not have known these things.😳

  • @simranjeet7427
    @simranjeet7427 4 роки тому +5

    U have a very calm face.
    I instantly feel peaceful
    When I c u n hear u.
    Ur voice tone makes me believe u.
    U r so helpful.
    U advice as a big caring brother .
    Love ur vedios.
    My blessings to you.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  4 роки тому +2

      I appreciate your kind words. Thank you so much. My blessings to you as well😁

  • @bpassion4fashion581
    @bpassion4fashion581 3 роки тому +1

    This is one of your best videos . You articulated this subject extremely well. I’m impress !!!
    I love, admire and respect your honesty .
    This phrase in particular caught my attention, “ in an imaginary world where men wouldn’t destroy the mind of some women “ wow!

  • @theydidthat9223
    @theydidthat9223 6 років тому +2

    All or nothing with me. Thank you Kev for helping speak truth to women 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому

      My pleasure 😇

  • @firstladyqueen5985
    @firstladyqueen5985 6 років тому +9

    "Stop giving up ass on credit!!" @Kev Hicks Talks Guys with Girls sounds like something Derrick Jaxn would say! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому

      That’s funny. I don’t watch his videos. We must be like minds😂

    • @firstladyqueen5985
      @firstladyqueen5985 3 роки тому

      @@KevHick lol.

  • @simmimitchell9701
    @simmimitchell9701 6 років тому +14

    You are so right kev!!!🙂

  • @iluvslimguys
    @iluvslimguys 6 років тому +4

    I agree with everything you have stated in this video..100% !!!!

  • @nunya5270
    @nunya5270 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for keeping it so real & clear!!! It brings tears to my eyes hearing these harsh truths but I'm so grateful for it! God bless you 🙏

  • @charlenebuyshouses
    @charlenebuyshouses 6 років тому +14

    Whew Kev..mind blown🎆

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому

      🤯🤯🤯

  • @gloriamutoni5137
    @gloriamutoni5137 6 років тому +3

    I agree..some guy has been showing genuine interest as given in your description and to be sincere I feel at peace and secure..and guess what? He calls every now and then cause its looooong distance

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  6 років тому +6

      Distance can be discouraging. Especially when there’s no end in sight.

    • @gloriamutoni5137
      @gloriamutoni5137 6 років тому

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls good enough there is an end in sight..I am abroad for studies..6 months remaining and I go back home where he is..wish me luck

  • @Love_laugh_happy
    @Love_laugh_happy Рік тому +1

    Excellent info this should be played for all girls growing into adulthood

  • @tracypavich1757
    @tracypavich1757 5 років тому +2

    Thanks Kev. Extremely helpful information. Especially when your in your 40’s new to dating and new relationships again. Keep on speaking your truth. It’s candid and appreciated. 👍👍🙏👌

  • @nthomy8645
    @nthomy8645 5 років тому +4

    Value, our value ladies❤️
    Got jaded, now. I'm here, looking at these brothers with a side eye😅

  • @ThinkBrianaa
    @ThinkBrianaa 4 роки тому +5

    This video really hit me hard. I'm usually saying ill go with the flow, then I expect different. I definitely need to make better decisions . Can you do one referencing college males

  • @dr.dermixgirlmd7479
    @dr.dermixgirlmd7479 5 років тому +2

    This was GOLD, because I finally figured out why I tended to fall for the wrong guys. It’s easy to get caught up in a guy building attraction without connection. They get fuck buddy status. I could never figure out why some good guys just didn’t “do it for me”, now I understand that those are the guys that try to build connection without doing anything to build attraction or sexual tension. They get friend zoned. I’m looking for a man who knows how to simultaneously build attraction AND connection. Chemistry AND COMPATIBILITY.

  • @crownedmelaninqueen
    @crownedmelaninqueen 4 роки тому +2

    “You know what else ain’t shit ?” “ Their decision making .” Facts 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @KevHick
    @KevHick  6 років тому +3

    Please check out my shirt store above and support the channel!

    • @TheBlah404
      @TheBlah404 6 років тому

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls I’m interested to know you and your wife’s zodiac sign?

    • @TheBlah404
      @TheBlah404 6 років тому

      I bet your a Gemini lol

    • @madamsophia1503
      @madamsophia1503 6 років тому

      Where is the shirt link?

    • @chelsieromero4874
      @chelsieromero4874 6 років тому

      Oh my god Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls you are so funny lol.

    • @chelsieromero4874
      @chelsieromero4874 6 років тому

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls since I was a teenager I knew the difference between a real man and a little boy. Not that I wasn't interested in little boys. But when I found out I took my leave. They didn't have to leave me. Later in life when I got older I am just naturally attracted to good men. Not the swaggerific hot looking guys, but those that respects women, treats me like a lady and doesn't degrade me even if I refuse to be with them.

  • @queenpiece7063
    @queenpiece7063 6 років тому +42

    I didn't know you were married

  • @beccajo2175
    @beccajo2175 2 роки тому +1

    I'm 40 years old and I don't think a man has ever shown any interest in me. Only attraction...I really feel like giving up. I just push everyone away now.

  • @earthangel8399
    @earthangel8399 4 роки тому

    I applaud your honesty. Your wife is lucky to have a man who doesn't insult her intelligence. The truth hurts...but a lie hurts more. An honest man gets more trust and respect from his woman.

  • @Wild.horse.
    @Wild.horse. 5 років тому +5

    Women-listen to him!! Save this video when you’re in doubt!!!

  • @missFindlesticks
    @missFindlesticks 5 років тому +3

    Very wise for a young man, keep up the good advice

  • @steftrujillo4168
    @steftrujillo4168 2 роки тому

    👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼 Bravo Someone finally said it. You can’t get any more real than this video. Oh I absolutely love it because I agree wholeheartedly with it. My litmus test is, ‘All of a sudden’? Watch, question, observe. Discernment is a blessing.. Women need to watch this video three times so the message gets implanted in their brain

  • @micalabiaga
    @micalabiaga Рік тому +1

    I really like how straightforward your explanation is. Thanks for this informative video.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  Рік тому +1

      Glad it was helpful!