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  • 6 Things to pay attention to when guys approach you. How to tell if a guy is serious.
    Women right me all the time about guys they are talking to. They usually want to know if I think he’s serious about getting to know them or developing a relationship. Often you can tell from the very beginning what a guy is about. This list touches a few ideas to keep in mind about the very beginning from his approach to the first few encounters. Of course they aren’t absolute but more often than not keeping these things in mind will help protect you against guys who don’t want more than a hookup.
    Is he super smooth or a bit nervous
    If i was a woman I wouldn’t even respond to guys who didn’t appear at least a little bit nervous when approaching me.
    Sincerity reverence and noble intention are far more likely to accompany a guy who hasn’t mastered approaching women than some ultra smooth guy completely comfortable approaching you or makingm mexual advances.
    Women often site confidence as of of the deciding factors of how they respond to a guy approaching them. Unfortunately many don’t realize the difference between self confidence and cockiness is a clue of intent. They can identify cockiness but they have no clue that it’s often a direct result of his intended use for them. Though His intention can evolve if you play your cards right. Women often ask me when to play hard to get. This is one of those times. If a guy approaches you over confident or cocky, if you respond at all don’t just play hard to get actually be hard to get. He’s cocky because he disregards your intelligence your value and your ability to affect him emotionally. Why would you ever want to entertain a guy who doesn’t see you as an emotional threat. Caution equals respect. If a mans not cautious in how he approaches you it’s because he lacks a healthy fear or even respect for you. Caution and tact should always be apparent. Few women who sleep cocky guys before relationships ever get more than booty call status.
    When a guy a little nervous and a little careful
    It is indicative of his respectable impression of you. He cares about your response how you see him. His nervousness shouldn’t be automatically seen as a lack of confidence in himself. That’s not always the case. I’ve approached a lot of women nervously. It’s never been a result of self doubt. I’ve never lacked confidence. Not kissing my own ass or anything but I’m a great man and I’ve always known that. When I’ve approached women nervously it’s always been because I wasn’t sure if she would recognize how special I was. I didn’t know if she could feel my intention or integrity. It’s also not safe to assume she judges those things as highly as certain looks, status, money, or street credibility. Is she wise enough to recognize whats in front of her and value this opportunity. You never know. Though a man may feel great, he has no idea what a woman may measure as great. After being rejected , underestimated, and disregarded a good man start to lose faith in a woman’s ability to see his value. For every woman who’s been mistreated I can show you a man who’s been played by a woman for another man. Many times for men with smaller hearts, smaller bank accounts, smaller minds, less potential, and less integrity. All that to say his nervousness could be an uncertainty in your judgment and not in himself.
    His tone of voice
    Many times tone indicates intention. Neutral tones not so much. But if you notice a guy trying to use his bedroom voice when he approaches you he may be a scoundrel.
    There’s are 3 reasons men lower their voices when approaching women. 1. They are nervous which you can usually tell if you pay attention. When I was young and first started approaching women I kept getting told told to speak up. It was funny looking back because I would practice my little lines and walk up to a girl and she be like huh? And I’d have to repeat myself. Which made me all the more nervous.
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  • @KevHick
    @KevHick  5 років тому +637

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    • @thewayofthemasseuse2697
      @thewayofthemasseuse2697 5 років тому +3

      Trust... Time...

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      @stephanieluviano9274 4 роки тому +2

      you have won yourself a another subscriber :D

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  4 роки тому +2

      Thank you 🤗

    • @NBnNC
      @NBnNC 4 роки тому +1

      Yep! Sent to four friends already
      thanks for your wisdom!

    • @ericamaemejia3864
      @ericamaemejia3864 4 роки тому +1

      I sleep with him and we had a sex on ourfirst date.and he's keep trying to chase me.should i stop loving him back?
      Please mind my question i bafly need your opinion

  • @Tofugirl361
    @Tofugirl361 4 роки тому +572

    "Dont just play hard to get, be hard to get" just wow.

    • @ondt6411
      @ondt6411 3 роки тому +2

      Just wow 😂

    • @GoldenAngel-
      @GoldenAngel- 2 роки тому +5

      Thanks for saving my time with guys who
      want to waste my time 😏

    • @a.m.thomas9366
      @a.m.thomas9366 2 роки тому

      So, you needed someone to tell you that ? You didn't know that people should not be able to just get access to your body or mind ?

    • @BrooklynBaby-1
      @BrooklynBaby-1 2 роки тому

      This doesn’t mean anything 😂

    • @cringeproof100
      @cringeproof100 2 роки тому +2

      @@a.m.thomas9366 unfortunately a lot of women do not know their value and do not love themselves...

  • @karakarabobara
    @karakarabobara 5 років тому +2748

    Somebody clone this man and send me a copy

  • @mycatsnameiskaren8253
    @mycatsnameiskaren8253 3 роки тому +200

    "He doesn't care about your thoughts and feelings because he's not planning on dealing them"....bam!

  • @BrittneySamoneSilver
    @BrittneySamoneSilver 4 роки тому +444

    Ladies, I know that the process can be very exhausting, but I also have seen God's grace and can tell you that if you walk in God's light, not only will you have the protection of the holy spirit, but you will have the wisdom and discernment to know a keeper from a creep. The presence of God will reveal a man's true heart.

  • @NaturalDivineGoddess
    @NaturalDivineGoddess 5 років тому +1313

    "Guys
    Who Know
    They
    Want you
    Will do
    The work
    For you.."

    • @STEPSOFPURPOSE
      @STEPSOFPURPOSE 4 роки тому +6

      NaturalDivineGoddess--yaaaas!

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 4 роки тому +11

      Truly! We'll go through hell and high water to a degree.

    • @NaturalDivineGoddess
      @NaturalDivineGoddess 4 роки тому +1

      @@STEPSOFPURPOSE indeed..

    • @NaturalDivineGoddess
      @NaturalDivineGoddess 4 роки тому +9

      @Tender Agression Split the bill?? Did you offer to take her out?? Then there is no need to split the bill unless you are going dutch!! Don't be so shallow!! I hope she doesn't see a meal at Friday's as a come up?? Maybe you are afraid of being "Pimped??" Or receiving the label as a "TRICK??" Only low vibrational men and women identify with those terms of endearment.. Besides unless you are upscale dining at the finest of resturants like Nobu or Mr. Chow?? You Need To CUT IT

    • @flyandshy00
      @flyandshy00 4 роки тому +3

      @Tender Agression I see why you're single. Already imagine asking her to buy stuff for a baby while you spend money on strippers.

  • @vannessafanning3200
    @vannessafanning3200 5 років тому +555

    Caution shows signs of respect. Its so so so true. He doesnt want to mess up a chance with you so hes careful not to get ahead of himself.

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 4 роки тому +29

      Exactly! I do the exact same thing. When I truly Love and care about her, I tend to be more apologetic when things seem to go sideways.

    • @CrystalDatingCoach
      @CrystalDatingCoach 3 роки тому +5

      That's also called. Respect.

    • @chasity3878
      @chasity3878 2 роки тому

      Yeas my man

  • @NaturalDivineGoddess
    @NaturalDivineGoddess 5 років тому +721

    "Listen Ladies
    If a man is not
    Curious as to what's
    In your head and what's
    In your heart meaning
    He doesn't care about
    What you think and.."

    • @superaniya8895
      @superaniya8895 4 роки тому +6

      You are not a man so your advice about a man is worthless

    • @deanna6742
      @deanna6742 4 роки тому +20

      First of all you're disrespectful and this is why our society is so fucked up 🤦🏾‍♀️ out here telling sb what they said is worthless 😒 if you have nothing positive to contribute, why bother shutting somebody else up

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 4 роки тому +1

      Exactly!

    • @NaturalDivineGoddess
      @NaturalDivineGoddess 4 роки тому +9

      @@deanna6742 Thank You👏.. Honestly I am the QUEEN of ignoring SHEER FOOLISHNESS!!😂🤣 Truly if more people decided to SPEAK UP "then the world 🌍🌏 would be a better place for you and ME!!

    • @youdonotneedtoknowmynamepe7912
      @youdonotneedtoknowmynamepe7912 4 роки тому +6

      Where’s the rest?...

  • @Keanujayyy
    @Keanujayyy 5 років тому +484

    Lmao his side captions in the videos TAKE ME OUT 😂😂

  • @alicet9780
    @alicet9780 Рік тому +22

    1. Guy is abit nervous and careful (because he cares how you see him)
    2. tone (he won't need to lower his tone to be sexual/bedroom tone if he is genuine to know you and not sex)
    3. Space (testing your physical limits by coming close to you. Move back if he comes near if you don't want him to think you are open)
    4. Compliments (excessive compliments about your look as a red flag)
    5. What is he offering (friendship and companionship, he use your number to get to know you/talk, not to set up first date. If he avoid talking to you before meeting means no effort just want sex)
    6. His curiosity during first few conversations (talk longer with you to understand your head and heart)

  • @dreamceline2093
    @dreamceline2093 5 років тому +881

    “Hey sexy” will definitely get you blocked sirs

    • @chanelknight6880
      @chanelknight6880 5 років тому +8

      Right

    • @felishapittman2778
      @felishapittman2778 4 роки тому +82

      Or good morning gorgeous/beautiful... Because I have learned these words don't mean shibbity.

    • @cathyamerson2673
      @cathyamerson2673 4 роки тому +43

      Them pet cat calling names. I hate that too. Very disrespectful.

    • @cathyamerson2673
      @cathyamerson2673 4 роки тому +8

      @@felishapittman2778 lol true.

    • @crownedmelaninqueen
      @crownedmelaninqueen 4 роки тому +6

      Felisha Pittman That word though 😂😂😂

  • @AL77727
    @AL77727 4 роки тому +457

    These men are too smart these days they know exactly what to say and how to behave and still it's fake, hff

    • @LV2308gmail
      @LV2308gmail 3 роки тому +19

      Yeap they throw that mask on quickly

    • @Jo-kh1yo
      @Jo-kh1yo 3 роки тому +34

      Thats why we have to be very observant and learn not to fall for their tricks... Know the signs and act on our gut...

    • @Madita_nsn
      @Madita_nsn 3 роки тому +3

      True 😂😂😂

    • @CrystalDatingCoach
      @CrystalDatingCoach 3 роки тому +18

      Women are smart too. Just stop making excuses for Bad treatment.

    • @heide-raquelfuss5580
      @heide-raquelfuss5580 3 роки тому +1

      Predators. The frog and the scorpio.

  • @breeanna9919
    @breeanna9919 4 роки тому +264

    I definitely have been meeting too many guys who are eager to tell me all about themselves and answer my questions, but never seem to have questions in return.

    • @herbettacollins7674
      @herbettacollins7674 4 роки тому +36

      Be Careful, ...thats usually the Signs of a Narcissistic Person!!! Steer Clean!!! 20yrs. Later they will Never Change!!! You'll end up being his Biggest Fan as far as he's Concern!!! 1 of many!!!

    • @hiyd.y9787
      @hiyd.y9787 4 роки тому +12

      i had one like that too

    • @ciggytwiggy
      @ciggytwiggy 4 роки тому +1

      Thisss

    • @tashateacup
      @tashateacup 4 роки тому +24

      I got out of this recently, it was about him 70% of the time and about me 30%. I had to butt in to get my life info out there it was so annoying.

    • @pxl9365
      @pxl9365 3 роки тому +11

      Or they only say: "tell me about yourself" ... like: Which of my many parts? What are you curious about ?

  • @galinaioffe2250
    @galinaioffe2250 5 років тому +575

    No matter how nervous a man appears in approach there's always intent in it because only thing he's nervous about is being rejected

    • @cookiethomas8069
      @cookiethomas8069 5 років тому +11

      Real Talk

    • @teshamiller6001
      @teshamiller6001 5 років тому +49

      Rejection isn't the only thing that makes men nervous. Sometimes they're nervous because they're hoping you're not a waste of their time and attraction💁

    • @galinaioffe2250
      @galinaioffe2250 5 років тому +36

      @@teshamiller6001 or a waste of time even attempting to approach a woman who knows how she wants to be treated and being a piece of ass is not it

    • @Windyielder
      @Windyielder 5 років тому +1

      True

    • @darkweblou1891
      @darkweblou1891 5 років тому +1

      Whew!

  • @BlairDevonte
    @BlairDevonte 5 років тому +502

    This is SPOT ON!! Women always think that men are so complicated, they are not. Effort = Interest, and this video speaks to that so truthfully. God Bless you Kevin for speaking truth!

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 4 роки тому +8

      Men really are simple except in the era of Love, but effort mos def equates to interest, Madam. The Women who think that Men are complicated fall I three camps: 1. Blind/not paying attention 2. Haven't learned about Men to not understand them 3. Don't have Male advisors (Dads, Brothers, Friends, etc.)

    • @CrystalDatingCoach
      @CrystalDatingCoach 3 роки тому +4

      Women are complicated. Men NEVER give mixed signals when they REALLY like you. Only when they don't. 😒

    • @shaym4306
      @shaym4306 2 роки тому

      aaaaamen

  • @jenehmassaquoi7702
    @jenehmassaquoi7702 5 років тому +617

    I've been dating a guy here and there for 7 months...no sex. I'm surprised at how things have progressed. We've gone out and really enjoyed each other's company. He does have a healthy fear. He's looking at my attributes and really getting to know me. We actually have phone conversations and not just texting. So, we will see how things continue. But, it's been great not dealing with a player. I'm in the ATL btw. So I'm very pleasantly surprised.

    • @tayanab9580
      @tayanab9580 5 років тому +44

      I'm in ATL too. God bless you in your endeavor.

    • @jenehmassaquoi7702
      @jenehmassaquoi7702 5 років тому +29

      @@tayanab9580 Thanks! God bless you as well. ATL can be a tough place for relationships.

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal 5 років тому +7

      Congratulations!

    • @blessednhm
      @blessednhm 4 роки тому +17

      Wow that is s rarity! Does he have any single brothers? Lol

    • @crownedmelaninqueen
      @crownedmelaninqueen 4 роки тому +7

      Siatta Mass Have you two kissed?

  • @cherrellstrange969
    @cherrellstrange969 5 років тому +407

    I hope the time NEVER comes when you feel like your talking for nothing or your advice is being taken for granted. Your videos are nothing but the truth and have helped more than you will ever know. Thank you!

  • @NaturalDivineGoddess
    @NaturalDivineGoddess 5 років тому +119

    "He's got to see how
    You interact with
    Other guys..he has
    To figure out if
    He can trust you
    And if you are worth
    Being weak for.."

  • @darlenemcnealy6306
    @darlenemcnealy6306 5 років тому +193

    So funny my baby is in college and can easily peep game....I just told her to not say much and sit down and look around and listen , you will find out all u need to know. ✌🏾

  • @jamiejackson1780
    @jamiejackson1780 5 років тому +230

    This DRY-HUMOR is LIFE GIVING!!! 🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾♥️♥️♥️

  • @BKLNHobo
    @BKLNHobo 5 років тому +42

    Superficial men have an easier time catching a woman's attention precisely because they are the most visible, confident and assertive. They often steal the spotlight from better quality men with genuine interest who might require a bit more diligence and attention to be noticed.

  • @lindyjoanna8833
    @lindyjoanna8833 5 років тому +357

    I hope you're getting a professional counseling degree to go with this natural 'talent?'

    • @ki-rj2fh
      @ki-rj2fh 4 роки тому +29

      WearingRose ColoredGlasses sir....that’s not what she said.

  • @nanaabenadarkowaah1800
    @nanaabenadarkowaah1800 5 років тому +75

    I have a male friend who uses the shyness approach to trick women that he's nervous. He uses it as a calculated move to get girls to believe he has genuine intentions 🤦🤦🤦

    • @crownedmelaninqueen
      @crownedmelaninqueen 4 роки тому +7

      Nana Abena Darkowaah Trash Bag !!! Ugh !!!

    • @heather21231
      @heather21231 3 роки тому +17

      That’s a shame but it’s not that hard to pick up on these guys faking shyness/nervousness..if you get to know them ask questions it’s very easy to differentiate..for example some years ago I met a man about 12 yrs older than me found out he had 2 kids, was married twice and supposedly divorced both women but he would act nervous and his hands would shake around me only when I was watching him..I called BS lol he said Oh I’m nervous cuz I never been around a female as pretty as you 🤣 I told him straight up get the hell outta here cuz I know you’re full of shit 🤦‍♀️😂

    • @nanaabenadarkowaah1800
      @nanaabenadarkowaah1800 3 роки тому +10

      @@heather21231 Wow, so shameless some of these men

    • @heather21231
      @heather21231 3 роки тому +4

      @@nanaabenadarkowaah1800 yes I know right! But little did this dude know.. I was friends with someone who knew him pretty well and she told me about how much of a player/cheater he was and would brag about putting on that shy/nervous act to try and get women to sleep with him 🙄

  • @NaturalDivineGoddess
    @NaturalDivineGoddess 5 років тому +366

    "If a Man is not curious as to What's in your head or what's
    In your heart meaning
    He doesn't care about
    What you think or
    What you feel.. he's just
    After sex..He doesn't care
    About your thoughts and
    Feelings because he doesn't
    Plan on dealing with them.."

  • @HernameisSAFFA
    @HernameisSAFFA 5 років тому +236

    **saves video to private playlist**

  • @lotusflo12
    @lotusflo12 5 років тому +238

    Expose them mr. Kevin! You are the realest. Thanks, I really needed this. Thank you again.

  • @Riri-hh1ue
    @Riri-hh1ue 3 роки тому +19

    As a woman, I really like the way that you present the information - straight to the point while also being respectful for women

  • @Shebanish
    @Shebanish 4 роки тому +212

    Dating these days is just hard period.

    • @candacecasey5634
      @candacecasey5634 3 роки тому +5

      It really is

    • @CrystalDatingCoach
      @CrystalDatingCoach 3 роки тому +16

      Dating is hard because Women got easy. Make a Man work for you.

    • @CrystalDatingCoach
      @CrystalDatingCoach 3 роки тому

      @Suny Blaze Finding a nice house, good job. You make a plan and search. Thats what you need to do to find a good Partner.

    • @janisejones6426
      @janisejones6426 3 роки тому

      @Sunny Blaze.. perfectly well said!

    • @CrystalDatingCoach
      @CrystalDatingCoach 3 роки тому +7

      @Polygamy not for me! My Choice High Value Women don't have SEX while dating. Dating doesn't mean Sex. You want sex. You make it official. I'm your girlfriend. We're in a Relationship. I SWEAR...I've ONLY had Sex when I was in a Relationship. They don't want to wait. They just want sex.

  • @cerzell5871
    @cerzell5871 5 років тому +346

    He said "a scoundrel" lmaooo

  • @heartlesswoman1904
    @heartlesswoman1904 5 років тому +424

    I wish I’d seen this a looong time ago!

    • @shutit4024
      @shutit4024 5 років тому +2

      London Williams sameeeeee

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal 5 років тому +4

      You got it now though Love. That's all that matters. Some NEVER get it!!!❤

    • @crownedmelaninqueen
      @crownedmelaninqueen 4 роки тому

      London Williams Like pre-marriage years for me ...

    • @zenubia2944
      @zenubia2944 4 роки тому +1

      Exactly, at times one wakes up really late ..

    • @danamclean9607
      @danamclean9607 4 роки тому +1

      Yess you and me both

  • @queencanislupusofthewolfpa2247
    @queencanislupusofthewolfpa2247 5 років тому +201

    The one thing I don't do is focus on whether a man likes me or not. If he does he does if he doesn't he doesn't. People worry so much about the superficial. Men worry if someone likes or loves them too. So if a situation is meant to be it will happen. If it doesn't it won't. Lolololol!!!

  • @marilynbradley8487
    @marilynbradley8487 4 роки тому +105

    I'm 64. Young guys who claim to like older. Some may like someone who is a little young but 64 verses someone under 40. That is some bull crap. They are looking for a sugarmomma.

  • @sofiaprandelli9028
    @sofiaprandelli9028 4 роки тому +34

    Wow I love this man. He seems so well-spoken and so respectful towards women. Man, you were raised damn well!

  • @sososanchez3512
    @sososanchez3512 5 років тому +237

    Too much flattery is a problem I know what I look like my parents told me I was born beautiful and all that other s*** so you got to say something else to get my attention

    • @trekstarsam2494
      @trekstarsam2494 3 роки тому +12

      Exactly. When the guy says, “you’re so beautiful” over and over, I say, “I’ll tell my parents thank you for that.”

    • @Jo-kh1yo
      @Jo-kh1yo 3 роки тому +2

      @@trekstarsam2494 If a guy says that to me, I`ll either say thank you, or I know! :)

    • @missred476
      @missred476 3 роки тому +7

      Facts I don’t mind if it’s genuine but if it sounds like it’s just a way to try and get my treats I’m like naw bruh I’m good. No thank you, I have a man... ect 😂

    • @brick_housedee6711
      @brick_housedee6711 3 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @nadinevenson5231
    @nadinevenson5231 5 років тому +283

    *Guys Who Know They Want You Will Do The Work For You* The Entire Video In A Nutshell! Respect Kev 👌🏿

    • @canadiankaren2426
      @canadiankaren2426 5 років тому +7

      Nadine Venson I still got played from men that were everything on this list! 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @nadinevenson5231
      @nadinevenson5231 5 років тому +14

      @@canadiankaren2426 You May Want To look At The Boundaries Next Time 👀

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 4 роки тому

      Truly!

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 4 роки тому

      @@canadiankaren2426 "Everything." I highly doubt that, Madam. I know Men quite well. Be wary of guys who act.

    • @rsavage8348
      @rsavage8348 4 роки тому

      I’m so happy for you

  • @Graisky
    @Graisky 5 років тому +80

    Where were you 17 years ago??! This could’ve saved me from 17 years of a pitiful marriage and 5 kids. Thank God I still look good! Thank you!

    • @mc-ob7vp
      @mc-ob7vp 4 роки тому +10

      dont you like your kids?😳

    • @okOKokOKok1111
      @okOKokOKok1111 4 роки тому +15

      mocca coffee of course but the pain she’s suffered for seventeen years made her miss out on an actual life. her kids are her kids but if she left that guy she wouldn’t have had those kids but others she’d love as well.

    • @mc-ob7vp
      @mc-ob7vp 3 роки тому

      @@okOKokOKok1111 oh okay, that makes sense..

  • @NaturalDivineGoddess
    @NaturalDivineGoddess 5 років тому +46

    "Is She
    WISE
    ENOUGH
    To
    RECOGNISE
    What's
    IN FRONT
    OF HER
    And VALUE
    This Opportunity.."

  • @corinnaturner3320
    @corinnaturner3320 5 років тому +78

    This video is right on time. It’s time for me to tell him, “Boy, Bye!”

  • @NaturalDivineGoddess
    @NaturalDivineGoddess 5 років тому +121

    "What is
    He OFFERING
    A Man
    Should be
    Offering
    To TALK
    To GET TO KNOW
    And to DISCOVER
    MORE ABOUT YOU.."

  • @ms.bkaraokeb4307
    @ms.bkaraokeb4307 5 років тому +251

    ☢ Caution equals RESPECT! 🔥🔥 Powerful!

    • @cathyamerson2673
      @cathyamerson2673 4 роки тому +6

      Sometimes putting them in their place when they come to you with pet names and they do not even know you. Such as babe. I cannot stand to be called out of my name I have a name use it.

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 4 роки тому

      Truly!

  • @Tangsoo1234
    @Tangsoo1234 5 років тому +140

    Kev, i have watched many relationship gurus here on youtube with over millions subscriber , but you are the best and right on the point. I hope women watch your channel to get dating advice. Thank you for helping women , you are fun , exciting and know your stuff. Keep up the good work .

  • @gingerlove7739
    @gingerlove7739 4 роки тому +23

    I've seen dozens of dating, relationships, love etc videos.. None of them had this solid core wisdom like you. I'm so glad I found this channel. ❤️

  • @pokerprincess3013
    @pokerprincess3013 5 років тому +57

    I disagree with number 1. Men feign nervousness to get you to put your guard down. These are the real players in my experience. A confident (but respectful) man can be a sign of integrity.

    • @bizznoir7838
      @bizznoir7838 5 років тому +10

      I'd say a lot of men feign "vulnerability" more than them feigning nervousness.

    • @Tabaitha_Elle
      @Tabaitha_Elle 5 років тому +17

      The ones who actually say to you that they’re nervous might be faking. Somebody who really is nervous is more focused on hiding it.

    • @AsiaInMyHeart
      @AsiaInMyHeart 5 років тому +2

      feel his pulse 😂😂

    • @candacecasey5634
      @candacecasey5634 3 роки тому +1

      I really don't think that nervousness is something that can be easily " faked".

    • @NoNakersAllowed
      @NoNakersAllowed 3 роки тому +1

      My previous sex buddy (let's call a spade a spade), used to act nervous to touch me after we had already had sex multiple times. I asked him "why do you act nervous to just me, just touch me". Unknowingly this basically have him permission to push boundaries and sexual handling

  • @MiriamA22
    @MiriamA22 5 років тому +7

    “ After being rejected, underestimated, and disregarded, a GOOD man might lose faith in the ability of a woman to see his value.
    For every woman whose been mistreated, I can show you a man whose been played by a woman for a lesser man.”
    Daaaaang Gina!!!! This is too raw! We GOOD women need to hear and be reminded of this more often! I’m telling you, it would totally change our perception of how we see dating and communicating. To think, more times than not we are all thinking and experiencing the same things. Lol. Kev strikes again!💃🏾

  • @kimiib6652
    @kimiib6652 4 роки тому +6

    I’m watching this and kissing my screen in total adoration for the wisdom and self awareness you give us naive clueless ladies...
    You are indeed a great addition to the universe and I can only imagine how intellectually and emotionally sound your kids will be.
    Your wife has a real one and your mama did that !!!

  • @NaturalDivineGoddess
    @NaturalDivineGoddess 5 років тому +88

    "When a Man
    Of Subtance and
    Maturity is measuring
    You for companionship
    He has to vet you like
    He's filling a job opening
    He's got to assess.."

  • @anmorgan3129
    @anmorgan3129 5 років тому +39

    You're always dropping gems!!! I just met someone new and I'm trying to figure out where I stand with him. Now I have a better understanding. Thank you so much!!

  • @ritasmith5132
    @ritasmith5132 5 років тому +27

    Kevin You are a very stand up guy! I truly appreciate your transparency. May God continue to bless your platform and your family!

  • @julz3tt3
    @julz3tt3 4 роки тому +4

    Ive been binge watching your videos. You're honest, keep it real and you don't drone on about the same thing. You understand how people work and have helped alot of people it would seem. You're sense of humor and articulation is attractive too. Definitely my fave relationship channel on here.

  • @Gchili
    @Gchili 5 років тому +104

    You are so articulate, I love it!

  • @brokenjade21
    @brokenjade21 5 років тому +115

    With every video you open my mind even more. This video was just what I needed as I re-enter the dating world. And congrats on reaching 100k subs!!

    • @minidamouse
      @minidamouse 5 років тому +2

      brokenjade21 Hey hey. I’m feeling the exact same way. I’m just saying ‘wow! So this is why it’s been going down like this between men and myself! 🤔’. I’ve been going about this all wrong. Thanks, Kev. Keep it up. I’m enjoying this new light on my past dark situations.

  • @lifetobelived9102
    @lifetobelived9102 5 років тому +60

    I was listening to a you tube video yesterday about how empaths love. I guess I sort of forgot how I am when I'm with someone because I've been alone for so long. It reminded me that empaths fall deeply when they like someone. I guess that is why I have to remember as I start to meet men that I have to be strong in my convictions what kind of man I want to be with and if I see that things are going south or I am betrayed I have to be able to cut my emotional ties. The last one has been hard for me in the past but for my own self care it is going to be a necessity.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +7

      You don’t need easy you just need possible 💪🏾 You can do it

    • @mightymight24
      @mightymight24 3 роки тому

      Glad to see a fellow empath here! I hope you're healed by now. True. Empaths falls deeply inlove because making others feel comfortable and happy is our strength/purpose in life. It's either good or bad. When meeting the wrong person, it could be a recipe for disaster that's why I'm really wary before having relationships to anyone. While being selfless is good, we should not forget to take care of our own selves too (There's this guy that I like but I'm being wary of my emotions because I know my capacity when it comes to love.)

  • @rc2825
    @rc2825 4 роки тому +7

    Kev Hicks I appreciate you. Your honest, straightforward approach to helping women understand the male perspective, motives and actions is priceless; and, so is your humorous way of getting your message and lessons across to us. Thank you for your time and efforts!

  • @jacquelinesevra7091
    @jacquelinesevra7091 5 років тому +11

    Dude, you're so legit for making these videos. It's like I knew all this stuff, but hearing you speak on it I can see much much clearer of which men have approached me recently, and what their true intentions were/are. Bless your heart Kev! You are appreciated!

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +2

      Thank you!

  • @kaylaspencer833
    @kaylaspencer833 3 роки тому +1

    i just want to thank you Kevin! i left my kids dad who was abusive over a year ago. got a full time job, my own place, and became a manager. i found a negative pattern in my life with every guy i ever dated, and every situation i encountered with a man ended badly. i realized it was my self worth. i decided to stay single and work on my mental health, and your videos have helped me alot. i lost my dad when i was only 12, and most of my life he was in prison. the last 3 years of his life he was in a hospital bed and that's when i finally got to see him more. i never really had any older male figures to teach me things like this. and you have helped me so much. so here i am 24, and i feel as tho threw you i have like an older bro or something. thank you, keep making videos cause you have helped people like me a lot

  • @teleishamber
    @teleishamber 5 років тому +3

    I love the thing about flirty compared to wanting to get to know you....that’s a real big one I needed to hear

  • @jennyjung1581
    @jennyjung1581 4 роки тому +18

    Every time we hang out we talk till 4am. Either he really cares or he’s really strategic

  • @whathappenedwas7083
    @whathappenedwas7083 4 роки тому +19

    Finally have someone showing real interest in me , is so wonderful and new to me even .

  • @shajohns1234
    @shajohns1234 5 років тому

    Wow this puts things into perspective. I met a new guy and he’s nervous around me and try’s to cover it up. He’s not cocky with me and he’s consistent. Not someone I’d normally go for but on the other hand I wouldn’t think he would be interested in another race of women and he goes so hard to put in the time. Dang the assholes I dealt with in the past smh 🤦🏾‍♀️. Glad I found this video he has a lot to offer including the attention that everyone needs and deserves. Oh my eyes are opened and he’s does everything in this video. He’s so interested in finding out everything about me. Excellent video and I know he’s a keeper.

  • @DorothyDollLee
    @DorothyDollLee 4 роки тому +8

    I agree with everything you said, my only issue is that I've made most of em wait until I was sure they were serious with the same bad results.

  • @princesslilchief8282
    @princesslilchief8282 5 років тому +157

    Kev, u be saving me from some MAJOR BULLSH💩T, and from jawing somebody's son 👊🏾😎🤣

    • @AboveRubiesTV
      @AboveRubiesTV 5 років тому +16

      Pretty Pretty 😭😭 Cause these people’s sons sure be asking for it!!

    • @SagRising19
      @SagRising19 5 років тому

      нe ѕυre doeѕ!!!

    • @fuel4luv28
      @fuel4luv28 5 років тому +1

      lol

  • @cynthiawambui8545
    @cynthiawambui8545 4 роки тому +3

    am in my fifth year of dry spell and after my last encounter it got me so deep coz he told me to my face "I was just using you" and just gave up dating or ever the thought of any man pursing me.if real men do exist well, am yet to know. thank you for these lessons Kev hick

  • @ashleywilliams8612
    @ashleywilliams8612 5 років тому

    That is saying a lot. The men I’ve noticed that have approached me lately were nervous. They started sweating, stuttering, looking away, saying hello to random people to walk by, or “the squirrel” him pointing out something he just noticed on the ground. I never knew how to take them. Thanks!

  • @kayjay1605
    @kayjay1605 5 років тому +32

    I loooove his articulate wording... Yasssssss

  • @carolinerobert1370
    @carolinerobert1370 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much for this video! As a survivor of sexual assault dating is very a strugle for me so having a man reassuring me that Im not just being mad for nothing and that the person Ive been talking to is probably not taking me seriously really helped me see clearly

  • @morenabonita8834
    @morenabonita8834 4 роки тому +3

    The written commentary in these videos cracks me up so much I have to rewind and listen to what I’ve missed! Lol 😂 Great content. Thank you

  • @j.rising7286
    @j.rising7286 5 років тому +1

    The first point is so spot on and not touched on enough, if at all. Excellent vid.

  • @nisecharles6146
    @nisecharles6146 4 роки тому +3

    he's so real and outspoken, it hurts but i like it.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  4 роки тому +1

      Thanks for watching 😁

  • @pocahantasmillian
    @pocahantasmillian 5 років тому +53

    This man is the truth✊🏾

  • @Tiffystyles
    @Tiffystyles 5 років тому +46

    Snaps fingers to literally everything you said!!!!

    • @cathyamerson2673
      @cathyamerson2673 4 роки тому +1

      You should write a book.
      Steve Harvey has nothing on you...

  • @saria6241
    @saria6241 2 роки тому +1

    I just like how you make it clear, loud and short ♥️

  • @VP-fr3cj
    @VP-fr3cj 2 роки тому +2

    Great advice as usual. The sigh at the end took me out 😂 That’s the way I be feeling trying to interpret these dating streets. Thanks Kev!

  • @DianaGarcia-lb9dl
    @DianaGarcia-lb9dl 5 років тому +198

    Congratulations on the 100k! Great video!

    • @godsgiftbelton7405
      @godsgiftbelton7405 5 років тому

      Hello I am in love with this guy I really don’t know how he feels about me I am 65 he’s 49 sometime I think he’s feeling me and sometimes I think he’s not what should I do he’s nice to me but he doesn’t answer his phone sometime and don’t return a call

    • @DianaGarcia-lb9dl
      @DianaGarcia-lb9dl 5 років тому

      @@godsgiftbelton7405 dont be too available..he may not be that into you and just being nice..match his pace if he likes you he'll say something.

    • @godsgiftbelton7405
      @godsgiftbelton7405 5 років тому +1

      Diana Garcia Thanks you

  • @hunnyb1308
    @hunnyb1308 5 років тому +8

    I'm in awe of your wisdom. keep up the good work and time, that you put in to making these very informative videos.
    You are definitely blessed🙏

  • @valadina4477
    @valadina4477 5 років тому +46

    I am a new subscriber and I totally love your honesty and transparency, as a psychologist I can say that you are totally on point

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +8

      Vala Dina thank you so much 😊. Welcome to my channel! That is so validating 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @RB-vh2pz
    @RB-vh2pz 4 роки тому +7

    I said, let me see what this ‘young’ man is saying. You’ve proved your maturity. Enjoying the vids ☺️

  • @israeliamidnight
    @israeliamidnight 3 роки тому +3

    Kev be saving lives in these streets 😭 Thank you so much God Bless you & your family 🕊🔥

  • @sherantharper5074
    @sherantharper5074 4 роки тому +3

    Absorbing one’s intention can be tense if you can’t shift the energy being displayed 🖤

  • @ThePecanTan
    @ThePecanTan 5 років тому +41

    Solid advice my brother, as always! 👌🏾

  • @hmoobtojroob9066
    @hmoobtojroob9066 5 років тому +6

    Thank you. No wonder he gave me so much space. He would sit across from me on a different sofa and give me room to breathe.

  • @ejones81
    @ejones81 5 років тому +26

    More AMAZING advice from Kev! Thank u!

  • @marygoodman9530
    @marygoodman9530 5 років тому +22

    Yes absolutely correct and well explained, a man that is interested wants to know about us, or will stop and listen to what we have to say, he definitely makes an effort💯 thank you for this video

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому

      My pleasure 😇

  • @friedamaganomatheus6628
    @friedamaganomatheus6628 4 роки тому +2

    I love how honest you are

  • @user-ii2qs4ib6x
    @user-ii2qs4ib6x 4 роки тому +1

    You are saving a lot of women who are not aware of this. Thank you so much for the informative tips. Keep it up! 👍🏼

  • @phendyjean
    @phendyjean 5 років тому +38

    Them eyebrows tho👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @LaRhondaTurner
    @LaRhondaTurner 4 роки тому +3

    I loved this video. Especially the part about 7.5 billion people and there being more than one soul mate or perfect/compatible person for everyone. I truly believe that.

    • @jaxfl8945
      @jaxfl8945 4 роки тому +3

      I just reminded myself this today. There is someone for me.

  • @abrahamblue4800
    @abrahamblue4800 4 роки тому +2

    This man is spittin truth ladies. Please pay attention!

  • @teleishamber
    @teleishamber 5 років тому

    If he’s testing boundaries from the get go, yeah I could put him in his place but that doesn’t make him any better of a man, just me trying to make him be what I want....and that’s not what I want.... I feel like it’s hard... it’s like you can’t win with guys....you really did point out something important with regards to confidence! I will be keeping this in mind next time I’m approached! So we want a respectful guy who has space and respects us from the get go

  • @BYCDatingStoriesandAdvice
    @BYCDatingStoriesandAdvice 5 років тому +7

    I needed this video a decade ago...🤦🏽‍♀️ learned a lot of hard lessons! #5 is the truth!

  • @EclecticDIYerSamanthaEbreo
    @EclecticDIYerSamanthaEbreo 5 років тому +14

    You know, if I'm like most women, we have been approached so many times by guys who want nothing more than sex that we don't know what it feels like to have a man who's interested in more than sex approach us. I was dumbfounded the first time my (now) husband approached me because he didn't talk about my looks at all. I was actually self conscious because I didn't think he found me attractive. I wish I saw this back then! And congrats on 100k!!!!

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому

      Tell em Sam! Thank you so much ! 😊 I need you on my podcast! Will be starting that very soon. Would love to have you as a guest!

    • @EclecticDIYerSamanthaEbreo
      @EclecticDIYerSamanthaEbreo 5 років тому +1

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls yes! I’d be honored 😊

  • @danabaptiste5632
    @danabaptiste5632 5 років тому +11

    Love this one! 💎

  • @kathrynd4912
    @kathrynd4912 5 років тому +2

    Thank You So Much. I feel that this should be common sense but most of this is news to me. Straight up, I hear you and words to the wise are sufficient.
    Because of you I know my life is about to change!

  • @cwilliams8856
    @cwilliams8856 5 років тому +47

    You explain things so clearly!

  • @tiabray11
    @tiabray11 5 років тому +16

    You are the realest on the internet. Period!😂

  • @lauraruseno
    @lauraruseno 4 роки тому

    Thank you...this is exactly what i need to hear since 10 years ago so i don't *repeting same mistakes, *eating players bite etc

  • @cheryl5667
    @cheryl5667 4 роки тому +1

    Women and especially girls with apps and hookup culture today that exist for his benefit absolutely NEED this real talk today

  • @MissAnnaDominique
    @MissAnnaDominique 5 років тому +7

    This was deep. Great video! after a while the basics are understood but getting deep into things like this is helpful to the women who already have enough wisdom but need more tips. Good looking out bro!

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому

      My pleasure 😇

  • @kittengem4243
    @kittengem4243 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you. I really needed to hear this.

  • @ClaudiaSanchezQuintero
    @ClaudiaSanchezQuintero 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and advice!! Some men might not want us to know this!! I am glad I found your channel.

  • @latoyarichardson3408
    @latoyarichardson3408 5 років тому +4

    You're inspiration is amazing Kevin. Thank you for what you do!

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +1

      Thank you for watching!