10 traits of a good woman | Things that make a man fall in love with you

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    10 traits of a great woman. (With a great man)
    About a month ago I did a video about the 10 traits of a good man. I was a bit surprised at the amount of women who after watching that video asked me to do one on the 10 traits of a good woman so I did. This list is just a guideline. No one is perfect. Just like women men don’t require perfection just effort. Love is an action word to me. Sometimes that action is self improvement. These traits can keep a man around long after he’s explored you sexually. With that said
    1. Supportive- the best relationships involve two people who support each other. Just as your man is supposed to be your biggest motivator and inspiration you are supposed to be his cheerleader and coach. I’m always shocked at the every man for himself attitude that so many people bring to relationships. You may not always get along or be in a good place but relationships are about actively loving each other despite your differences. There people who covet (as in resentful spiteful graspingness not jealous yearning)their support when they aren’t pleased with their partner. Thats counter intuitive. Sometimes while we still love them, we may not always like our partners. Feeling supported makes us feel loved. Remaining supportive through rough times can save a relationship. Some of y’all ask me how to fix your relationships. Start supporting your man again, like you did when you liked him.
    2. Self governed- nothing irritates me more than hearing a woman diminish a mans value and masculinity because of their skewed perception of power. I’ve heard this a lot. “Girl, he wast too weak, I need a man who can handle me” Ladies listen carefully, men don’t want to handle you. They want you to handle you damn self. You’re not a circus animal. The lions at the zoo need handlers and tamers. A grown ass woman should only need an understanding. Great women are self governed. They speak appropriately they act appropriately and they aren’t adversarial. They are good to good men because they have respect not because their man has to constantly put them in check. Good women check they damn self.
    3. Balanced (emotionally/logically)- balance is one of the most underrated qualities. You don’t always notice it while it’s present but if you find yourself stressed out about seeing, talking to, or dealing with with partner is usually because they lack balance. Whether it’s balance emotionally, logically, energetically, spiritually, behaviorally or otherwise. Balance is keeps peace. Good women understand that balance will help their man relate to them. It gives them credibility because they aren’t always crying wolf emotionally. With that said it’s hard to be balanced without this next trait.
    4. A good woman is introspective. Introspection is probably the rarest quality on this list. Most people can judge and measure the conduct of others but seem to lack the vision required to see themselves honestly. They don’t take responsibility or understand the impact of their actions. They don’t want to be obligated to change anything they discover. Good women are aware of their flaws and seek to understand their weaknesses as much as their strengths. They can self correct and admit their flaws. Taking responsibility in this way helps your partner see you more favorably and humanizes you more during times your relationship is on the rocks. It also causes men to want to meet you halfway by dealing honestly with their own flaws.
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  • @KevHick
    @KevHick  5 років тому +100

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    • @Itsallaboutlove52
      @Itsallaboutlove52 4 роки тому +1

      I recently came across your video and totally appreciate the messaging you’re sharing. The qualities highlighted are what women should exhibit, however society haven’t raised men to appreciate those attributes but rather view them as weakness and subservient. As a society and community we must start aligning the the relationship values that’s taught to sexes. It’s only then that the qualities, that you do perfectly explained, will be demonstrated.
      My Dad always says, ‘A bad woman isn’t born. They’re made by men’.

    • @brittaolson6550
      @brittaolson6550 4 роки тому

      I’m so glad this video didn’t list obvious things like honesty, fidelity, and loyalty.

    • @marioianniello5578
      @marioianniello5578 3 роки тому

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    • @catherinerivera6646
      @catherinerivera6646 3 роки тому +1

      Winner of a video, I've been looking for "good man quotes love" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Kenora Panameron Eradicator - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my neighbour got great results with it.

    • @piatherese6689
      @piatherese6689 3 роки тому

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  • @ShayC143
    @ShayC143 5 років тому +2566

    1. Supportive 2. Self governed 3. Balanced 4. Introspective 5. Loyal 6. Affectionate 7. Nurturing 8. Capable 9. Intelligence 10. Secure

    • @glamjm13
      @glamjm13 5 років тому +53

      Thank you!

    • @SnowFoxParty
      @SnowFoxParty 5 років тому +136

      I'm all of that and I still struggle getting out the "single" zone

    • @Mllascelles1
      @Mllascelles1 5 років тому +9

      Shay Cam why thank yah!!

    • @camilleholt5604
      @camilleholt5604 5 років тому +33

      Now I don't have to watch the video...thank you!

    • @lulu5827
      @lulu5827 5 років тому +7

      Thanks

  • @SatanenPerkele
    @SatanenPerkele 5 років тому +1859

    The sad part is. Having genuine good qualities also quite often attracts narcissists & psychopaths into your life since they want to use you.

    • @Shae_3
      @Shae_3 4 роки тому +20

      Satanen Perkele soooo true!

    • @altrisejones7142
      @altrisejones7142 4 роки тому +9

      It happens

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive 4 роки тому +104

      Good thing is, no one can unless you allow it

    • @karenpoole16
      @karenpoole16 4 роки тому +12

      Speak on it!!! Sooo true!

    • @myronschabe
      @myronschabe 4 роки тому +131

      @@DiamondsRexpensive The tricky part is, unless you''ve been through it before you don't know you are with a narcissist until you are already in too deep. You can look back on it and see some red flags and learn from it but you don't know it at the time because if you have a basically trusting nature.

  • @sierralafaye
    @sierralafaye 5 років тому +1064

    “Men don’t want to handle you, they want you to handle your damn self” 😂💯

    • @---th7ue
      @---th7ue 5 років тому +5

      😅😭🤣😂

    • @ImWORTHITINC
      @ImWORTHITINC 5 років тому +19

      TRUE! UNLESS THEY'RE ABUSIVE!

    • @Seachange01120
      @Seachange01120 5 років тому +5

      I know, that one had me rolling too.

    • @shab5204
      @shab5204 5 років тому +3

      I laughed soooooooo hard at that part lol

    • @Denise-ob8dk
      @Denise-ob8dk 5 років тому +1

      Sierra LaFaye okkkkkkay

  • @EclecticDIYerSamanthaEbreo
    @EclecticDIYerSamanthaEbreo 5 років тому +1340

    Such a great video! But my husband wanted to add one to the list - a good woman doesn’t believe in telepathy. Meaning if she’s upset she says why she’s upset and doesn’t expect her partner to guess.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +97

      Omg!!! Lee!! With the game winner!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😂😂😂

    • @Nadiahope7
      @Nadiahope7 5 років тому +40

      Ohhh that's a big one! I'm always advising friends & family of speaking their mind!

    • @Katyasimply
      @Katyasimply 5 років тому +10

      Very important indeed.

    • @laykantheealien5722
      @laykantheealien5722 5 років тому +6

      Good one!

    • @ryanwheatley9048
      @ryanwheatley9048 5 років тому +4

      100%

  • @Pussinbootszzz
    @Pussinbootszzz 5 років тому +2388

    Being a good woman will have you lonely a lot also. Most men wont appreciate you and you'll have to let them go or they'll let you go. Smh

    • @aquafina6544
      @aquafina6544 5 років тому +163

      Exactly. Its a hard lonely life and not many of us get chosen bcus by the time he comes along if he comes at all, we no longer are viable or have the desire to be with anyone.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +206

      So will being a shitty one 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @ryanphillips5591
      @ryanphillips5591 5 років тому +36

      Ya thats just life. same goes for men. What you put out is what you receive

    • @buddaflyjae
      @buddaflyjae 5 років тому +5

      Faaaacts

    • @elaborat6421
      @elaborat6421 5 років тому +151

      Those that let a good woman go are bad ones anyway.Don't mourn too long and be your best self.

  • @alyciabagwell9633
    @alyciabagwell9633 5 років тому +591

    You are the ONLY dating coach on youtube I trust, because you have a WIFE. So many fake dating coaches are players themselves.

    • @judycuurl3450
      @judycuurl3450 4 роки тому +29

      Omg, yes there are some well known advice coaches that are man whores and profit from using women. They are single and never been married.

    • @thebusinesswoman23
      @thebusinesswoman23 4 роки тому +26

      I have been trying to point this crap out to my fiance who follows the red pill mgtow movement. Scares the hell out of me that he really follows those skewed hypocritical beliefs. Those "coaches" are just some asshole incels who failed at their other hobbies and relationships in their life. Unfortunately, they are so incredibly narcissistic, they think that everyone else should be spiteful towards ALL women. It's like they had one girl in middle school not kiss them back at lunch, and the guys hold that against ALL females the rest of their lives.. I've never seen any of those coaches put out a video with a girlfriend or wife. Lol

    • @cierrasunset460
      @cierrasunset460 4 роки тому +29

      @@thebusinesswoman23 I'd think long and hard about marrying a man who follows the red pill. Sounds like ticking time bomb

    • @vimbaimutomba1408
      @vimbaimutomba1408 4 роки тому +3

      OMG he's married 😭💔

    • @Cookie20244
      @Cookie20244 4 роки тому +6

      A lot of them are misogynistic males but this one is very honest and rational

  • @SpringTvalley77
    @SpringTvalley77 4 роки тому +383

    Let me add one more .
    11) A good woman is a Prayerful woman
    Psalms 31:30

    • @sabinaodekeyo9083
      @sabinaodekeyo9083 3 роки тому +5

      Amen

    • @Alyssababe
      @Alyssababe 3 роки тому +4

      Amen!

    • @BlankCanvas88
      @BlankCanvas88 3 роки тому +11

      Very true! We need Jesus to help us succeed in any relationship, but especially the most important one in life: with spouse.

    • @Viraix
      @Viraix 3 роки тому +6

      Yes it's better work on yourself with The Most High and let Him send you your Spouse. Prayer and a relationship with The Most High will get you further in life, in my opinion.

    • @michellehamilton6639
      @michellehamilton6639 3 роки тому +1

      Amen❤️

  • @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
    @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 5 років тому +342

    Amen! A lot of us ladies believe we're good, but don't take the time to think about what that truly entails. I believe myself to be a good woman, but still have some work to do.

    • @ambereyes7998
      @ambereyes7998 5 років тому +16

      I always say.. if you are something, your actions will show, your tounge doesn't have to do a thing. I know a lot of women who call themselves good, real.. but trust me they are delusional. Let your actions always speak for you! Good luck! 😘

    • @bukunmiolowu9178
      @bukunmiolowu9178 5 років тому +6

      Amber Eyes Yeah, I believe this as well. You don't need to talk too much, just let them see you through your actions👍🏽

    • @ambereyes7998
      @ambereyes7998 5 років тому +3

      @@nofybn7794 What did I actually say? That our actions speak louder than words and we don't have to be the one calling ourselves good but rather show it and let others see it for themselves. I'm not a hater towards women, nor men, I simply said I know many who do the opposite. I know very well there are both good and bad in both genders. 🙄

    • @ms.trinaq.2612
      @ms.trinaq.2612 5 років тому +2

      Yes this video was good and it was good to hear. Maybe I'm not so bad after all.. That last relationship got me a lil messed up in my thinking. But it's coming back 😃
      One thing I wanna caution is being careful on the introspection if you struggle with low self esteem (only you know) and dont let it turn into a pessimistic type thing, where all you see is things you need to improve. Love yourself. If you not there, you not ready to love anyone else.
      I think the introspective one is a big one..ooohhh especially for a guy. Its hard being introspective with someone who cannot see truth about themselves. But I would add to that being actionable to what you can change. Its one thing to know, its another thing to do.
      For me..i need to work on my affection and talking bad(LORD HELP ME) to my lil circle when he (would/my ex) get to tripping. So going forward, no more of that. OO..and that last one hahahahaha..guess I anit ready yet y'all Hahahahahaha
      Naw but, it okay to to be noticed, appreciated, or affirmed by your man. I think that's very important, thats how some people interpret love (thats their love language) .. But when you CONSTANTLY seek it, or don't know what to do without it..there in lies the problem

    • @rachaelgoldstein8091
      @rachaelgoldstein8091 5 років тому

      Me to

  • @dejamesola
    @dejamesola 5 років тому +388

    LADIES, JUST AN OPINION... IF YOU DON'T MAKE HAVING A MAN YOUR TOP PRIORITY, IT WOULDN'T FEEL SO LONELY AS YOUR WAITING FOR THE RIGHT ONE!!! PEACE!

    • @LADYOFLUV
      @LADYOFLUV 5 років тому +5

      I Totally agree

    • @cookiethomas8069
      @cookiethomas8069 4 роки тому +2

      Real Talk

    • @chrysichrysi7889
      @chrysichrysi7889 4 роки тому +7

      Yup! I just figured out that I'm officially over it! 😂😂😂 He'll come my way when the time is right.

    • @nsiandekweka8373
      @nsiandekweka8373 4 роки тому +10

      Stop chasing men

    • @jefferyboat7428
      @jefferyboat7428 4 роки тому +11

      At the same time Don’t stay trapped in your house expecting mr.right to just show up!!, it’s about balance!!

  • @deidralatrice3925
    @deidralatrice3925 5 років тому +291

    The little side comments in the videos ALWAYS have me WEAK 😂😂😂😂

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +3

      😁

    • @Rocanala
      @Rocanala 4 роки тому +6

      “....but still grope his junk.”🤣

  • @shine-shekinahgloria4376
    @shine-shekinahgloria4376 5 років тому +525

    Are you writing a book?! Your content is refreshing, challenging and articulate.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +72

      Shine - Shekinah Gloria I am 😁

    • @janetcarlson31
      @janetcarlson31 5 років тому +10

      @@KevHick Even though your video's often leave me in tears and as you would say,"That's a whole other video." I will buy your book!!!

    • @jibbyrose6229
      @jibbyrose6229 4 роки тому +2

      @@janetcarlson31 i know i cry too.

    • @kiarathomas5098
      @kiarathomas5098 4 роки тому +1

      Yes I am definitely going to buy your book !

    • @ellydenis6821
      @ellydenis6821 3 роки тому +1

      I'd read it right away

  • @shoc9034
    @shoc9034 5 років тому +118

    "Checketh thou self, beforest thou wrecketh thou self". Somebody put that on a t - shirt.

  • @ladybird491
    @ladybird491 5 років тому +47

    I am not exaggerating, I am all of these things. I am also supportive of other women and not hateful of other women. Security also comes with not throwing shade at other women, or getting an attitude when an attractive woman is near your man. Some of the most balanced women switch up as soon as other beautiful women are around. A good woman also takes care of her body and encourages her man to take care of his. If she is not healthy eating to be healthy fit, then she may become miserable, argumentative, and depressed and insecure.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому

      I completely agree. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @lilyjoyeux6392
    @lilyjoyeux6392 5 років тому +490

    "you're not a circus animal" 😂😂😂😂

    • @user-ub8uc8gq7r
      @user-ub8uc8gq7r 5 років тому +8

      Lily Joyeux priceless I re-watch it everyday to get that laugh in 💀💀😂

    • @lilyjoyeux6392
      @lilyjoyeux6392 5 років тому +1

      @@user-ub8uc8gq7r 😂😂😂 I can understand lol

    • @viktoriajuszt1209
      @viktoriajuszt1209 5 років тому +2

      😁😁😁😁😁

    • @octavia703
      @octavia703 5 років тому +2

      I was rolling🤣

    • @poleprincess5621
      @poleprincess5621 5 років тому +2

      😂😂😂

  • @kikawi08
    @kikawi08 5 років тому +296

    I do all of this 😍😍 my man is lucky ( he says this all of the time), but I’m lucky as well ☺️

    • @chelsieromero4874
      @chelsieromero4874 5 років тому +1

      Me too☺

    • @jamilaaali9127
      @jamilaaali9127 5 років тому

      Cute

    • @rileysmiley9585
      @rileysmiley9585 4 роки тому

      IKR

    • @mycreativityhaven
      @mycreativityhaven 4 роки тому

      Absolutely.. you are so right.
      As long as it's given, received, and reciprocated from (both) partners. It can't be one way only or else you have yourself a complete disaster; of a relationship.

    • @Viraix
      @Viraix 3 роки тому

      Blessed! 💞

  • @thatgirlkj432
    @thatgirlkj432 4 роки тому +33

    I died with laughter at the part "He's too weak he can't handle me"
    Him* Men don't want to handle you. They want you to handle your damn self!"
    "You're not a circus animal,"etc
    😂😂😂 I just love how you put it. Knowledge like yours must find it's way in a club to give these ladies some dignity💀

  • @FlavaEats
    @FlavaEats 5 років тому +94

    Yep that’s why they usually fall in love with me after about 3 months. Lol. I just came here to listen to you talk it’s actually relaxing. 😊😊

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +6

      As long as you watching 😂

  • @Beetwixt_N._Janeen2112
    @Beetwixt_N._Janeen2112 5 років тому +103

    Kev, you had me teary at No. 7. My father always said "A man would go to war over a good, loyal and nurturing women". Apparently, he wasn't lying lol. You preached another fine sermon, Sir! Well said, as usual 👏🏽☺👏🏽. Another fantastic video Kev 💯

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +5

      Your father was right! Thank you for shatter that with us. It a valuable truth🙌🏾🙌🏾😉

  • @michellesingleton8344
    @michellesingleton8344 5 років тому +63

    A good woman brings peace of mind.

  • @jenniferdyer8449
    @jenniferdyer8449 5 років тому +245

    Well done son! Me and my honey listened to this together. He says you're spot on and I'm a great woman. Blushing😶😶

    • @tylynn256
      @tylynn256 5 років тому +4

      Awwww. I love it

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +34

      That’s awesome 👏🏽. If your man is watching relationship videos with you he’s a damn good man most likely. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @jasonjones887
      @jasonjones887 5 років тому +1

      Lmao all woman are narcissist

    • @candacecasey5634
      @candacecasey5634 3 роки тому

      Aww

    • @candacecasey5634
      @candacecasey5634 3 роки тому

      @@jasonjones887 you're a moron

  • @user-ub8uc8gq7r
    @user-ub8uc8gq7r 5 років тому +178

    -Holy
    -Family Oriented
    -Honest/Pure/Loyal
    -Respectful/Genuine
    -patient/understanding
    -Goal oriented
    -Motivator/inspiring
    -Fair/Equal/Compromise
    *Self governed* had me dying! AMEN! circus animal 😂💀😂💀

  • @sweetandsimple.
    @sweetandsimple. 5 років тому +30

    I like the point that having insecurities doesn't make or label you as insecure. That's so true.

  • @faa1412
    @faa1412 5 років тому +62

    Self-Introspection has been a blessing and a thorn in my butt but I wouldn't want it any other way. Reflecting on your mistakes, analyzing your self, holding yourself accountable for the actions you took and the decisions you made is empowering, but man the truth hurts lol. Definitely working on my emotional intelligence. Thank you for this video. Will definitely have to watch many times.

    • @janetcarlson31
      @janetcarlson31 5 років тому

      This was possibly my strongest attribute on the list. Yet, my husband NEVER says things like, 'he's sorry too', or 'I was wrong, I realize I have an issue with that',etc. When I admit where I'm at fault he always agrees the problem lies within me, and I know it just isn't that way!! I have been with him 18 years and it wasn't always like this. Can a person become narcissistic or are they born that way? But I have been told this so often, I am beginning to doubt myself!!

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive 4 роки тому +1

      @@janetcarlson31 A narcissistic person would want to make you doubt yourself, and your memories and feelings too.

  • @michaelleeannspringer3247
    @michaelleeannspringer3247 Рік тому +2

    A good woman is a Proverbs 31 10-31 woman. I'm married to such a woman. Any woman or man who has "self respect" will respect others. All the points you make are 100% correct and demonstrates good wisdom.

  • @feridekarakilic5370
    @feridekarakilic5370 4 роки тому +5

    Some men are never satisfied and always find ways to criticise you or mess up the relationship by starting a fight, where there is nothing to fight about. Your goodness is just a factor that is normal to them. They need all the appreciation in the world without giving it themselves. It wears you out.

  • @3xSharkiex3
    @3xSharkiex3 5 років тому +67

    Hey Ladies and Gents! Please support our brother Kevin. He is passionate about these videos and he is doing it from heart. UA-cam really don't pay much. If you are receiving any value from his videos, please support him. Your support will better able him to invest more time and effort into what he is doing. Additionally, there are many women and men who could benefit from his insight.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +5

      Thank you so much. You are absolutely right! I still have a full time job. Once I start making enough on here I’ll do it full time🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 That would be a dream come true!

    • @3xSharkiex3
      @3xSharkiex3 5 років тому +4

      Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls No, thank you! Your insight has helped me better understand how to be a better girlfriend and develop healthy sense of independence. I actually been wanting this video for awhile. Please continue to do thing because stuff like this will never taught in school. These things are really valuable. You are saying more in this video than a therapist would say in a month worth of sessions lol!

    • @sandysunrise9618
      @sandysunrise9618 5 років тому +1

      @@KevHick Kevin you are a "dream come true" .. may bountiful riches and blessings accumulate for you and your family!!! You are truly an amazing young man with a gift!! Will make a donation soon! God Bless!!!

  • @JuLo1983
    @JuLo1983 5 років тому +54

    "A good woman is loyal....duh." I died. lol too funny. Great points

  • @bethanysims3320
    @bethanysims3320 5 років тому +80

    Balance keeps peace!

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +3

      Absolutely

  • @MsLoyalLover
    @MsLoyalLover 5 років тому +73

    I like this. Your partner is not your adversary, that is very true. It pains me to see people in a relationship in constant battle. If you chose this person and they chose you, then you should not be at war. You will not always agree but you and your partner should be a united front for the same team.

  • @Kathrynlove
    @Kathrynlove 5 років тому +32

    Oh my gosh...your voice. The way you speak. Your so gentle...

    • @kristytrent9875
      @kristytrent9875 3 роки тому +1

      i think he is sexy as hell all around!!! Very smooth 😍

  • @kutestsnails7331
    @kutestsnails7331 4 роки тому +10

    I cried when you mentioned your wife. That was so sweet and a great example of the qualities you talk about in your videos. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @racqueldillon3560
    @racqueldillon3560 5 років тому +31

    What a refreshing list! I saw myself all in here. I was especially glad for the absence of anything related to cooking and cleaning, which some still consider when assessing whether a woman is good😊

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +11

      Those help in relationships but they are more so habits than qualities 😉

    • @knightsalmon42
      @knightsalmon42 3 роки тому

      I think those should be shared between both partners so should be listed on both sides.

  • @ImWORTHITINC
    @ImWORTHITINC 5 років тому +6

    AWESOME, Kev!! CONFIDENCE IS A SKILL! We have to constantly be improving ourselves...BE WHO YOU WANT!!! LOVE IT!

  • @laykantheealien5722
    @laykantheealien5722 5 років тому +36

    *This man so smart*

  • @CJ-ft9yo
    @CJ-ft9yo 3 роки тому +2

    I love your balance of honest dialogue, insightful advice and great turn of phrases - very refreshing and honest.

  • @spacecat6252
    @spacecat6252 3 роки тому +5

    This list is what I want in a man, which confirms the adage, “be the person you want to date” 🙏🏽 Thank you

  • @meriahcharles9279
    @meriahcharles9279 5 років тому +11

    I love to listen to u just because u make sense without sounding cocky n know it all, your voice is calm n easy to listen too keep it up🙂👍

  • @ddm0429
    @ddm0429 5 років тому +89

    Why he tellin' the whole👏 unmitigated 👏entire👏 truth👏??!!

  • @lezahbell9644
    @lezahbell9644 4 роки тому +2

    I just love listening to you! I share your videos with my daughter and granddaughters. I grew up without parents teaching on good and healthy relationships. I had to learn by trial and error and hand down my mistakes to my girls. Your videos help a lot but also have us cracking up. 😁

  • @karennakye
    @karennakye 4 роки тому +5

    Your voice is so calming and nice....you aren't screaming like most UA-camrs

  • @brokenjade21
    @brokenjade21 5 років тому +6

    That was a great guideline. I see a few things I can get better at, and some things I know I'm great at. Thanks again. Keep up the great work.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому

      My pleasure and thank you!

  • @marblezulu8117
    @marblezulu8117 5 років тому +320

    Twerking is not a skill🤣🤣

  • @cinnamonpie8077
    @cinnamonpie8077 4 роки тому

    You're the best at these type of videos. You are real,honest and pleasant to listen to.

  • @MsKeisha39
    @MsKeisha39 5 років тому +30

    Thank you Kev, always positive and motivating♥️👍🏽

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +2

      Thank you for watching!😁

  • @LizNeptune
    @LizNeptune 4 роки тому +8

    "Girl, handle yourself. Youa re not a circus animal." I LOVE THAT!! So true. Many girls use this as an excuse to not date good "nice" guys.

  • @spiritualgoddess7779
    @spiritualgoddess7779 5 років тому +40

    I already knew but feels great hearing it...I'm a Damn Good Woman Ayyeeee 😉😊💕💜

  • @celestemayles6286
    @celestemayles6286 4 роки тому

    Emotional balance and security are my weaknesses but I'm actively working on them. Starting therapy to heal from trauma and have a healthier mindset. Your videos are very helpful to me on my journey to self love. Thank you!

  • @magzfree8477
    @magzfree8477 5 років тому +8

    We missed you man! Great video, I'm always working on myself to be a better women! This video was definitely a reminder to be more self aware. Thanks Kev! 💛

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +1

      Thank you! Had a lot going on. Just switched shifts at work though so it should get better 😁

  • @ktwhimsy6946
    @ktwhimsy6946 4 роки тому +3

    I love that introspection is on this list - so very true!! Without the ability to honestly reflect on your own mistakes/faults/values/needs etc. there is no growth & we’d all be teenagers essentially 😂

  • @reginajackson2378
    @reginajackson2378 3 роки тому +6

    A good woman knows how to take care of her man and is SECURE!!. LET THE CHURCH SAY AMEN!!!.Pen & Paper In Hand.
    Love This❤

  • @Nadiahope7
    @Nadiahope7 5 років тому +14

    Damn this is good! I lol'd at "tweaking isn't a skill set" 😂😂 I'm working on myself in all these areas!

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +1

      😂😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @BASK1120
    @BASK1120 3 роки тому

    LOL, "handle your damn self" love that line. You are so gifted. You are on fire with wisdom.

  • @ayansbusiness9323
    @ayansbusiness9323 5 років тому +9

    I just wish I had enough fingers to write like and share all your videos to support you. Keep it up, you're doing great❤

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому

      Thank you 😊

  • @valeriewalsh4900
    @valeriewalsh4900 5 років тому +154

    What If you have all those qualities but have never had a bf? Why don’t guys see all that I have to offer😭

    • @starchica9
      @starchica9 5 років тому +10

      Girl same 😢

    • @aquafina6544
      @aquafina6544 5 років тому +206

      Bcus what you offer is not what they want. Most guys not all but enough want easy access with no commitment or responsibility. You my dear require both. Its a gift and a curse bcus life is short and the time in finding a GOOD mate is shorter. Just know your worth and dont settle or entertain the fuckboys at all. They will pass you by but you will have dodged a hollow point bullet. Just continue to work on you and go places where the type of guys you NEED are present. Places like museums educational conventions, self improvement events, volunteer at places where ppl are less fortunate. Fuckboys tend to not be in places like that bcus it requires money time and giving of themselves and they dont do any of the above.

    • @Bloombaby99
      @Bloombaby99 5 років тому +24

      I say fuck it. #ForeverAlone I work hard and have my money.
      I'm good 💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +49

      I second everything aqua fina said😉😉🙌🏾

    • @APTTMHYforever
      @APTTMHYforever 5 років тому +1

      Valérie Walsh check out Monique Head’s UA-cam videos

  • @lindahollingsworth2567
    @lindahollingsworth2567 3 роки тому +1

    You're great. I discovered you and now I can't stop listening. You really know men, women and relationships. I value the great information you share. Thank you so much Kev.

    • @tingasajorowski4183
      @tingasajorowski4183 3 роки тому

      She always has an excuse when you ask her to do things, she starts to take longer to respond to your text she ignores calls and when she does text back it's usually one word replies or vague answers something will always come up up if you try to plan something in advance ex you ask her do to do something and no matter how random of a time you asked her she respond back saying oh I can't I have plans or we'll figure something out and then not respond as if you didn't ask her, Trust me no one needs to tell you your spouse is cheating big time, but you can remotely access a phone through the help of HACKERSSUMMIT. COM on WhatsApp +1 2036261039........

  • @malissarobinson2774
    @malissarobinson2774 5 років тому +1

    You are hilarious! I thoroughly enjoy watching these. Thank you for using your time to help others.

  • @alexandramonaco5499
    @alexandramonaco5499 4 роки тому +3

    I enjoy your videos and really value and appreciate them. They are very helpful and I def use them as guidance to keep me on the right path and keep me grounded. As well as, my faith haha but love bindging on self improvement videos! Ladies, don't stop growing stay focused on yourself and the men just follow....(most the time) its been working in my life, all around me!

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  4 роки тому

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @ambereyes7998
    @ambereyes7998 5 років тому +6

    Beautifully said. I love your aproach. And thank you for this video. I always want to work on myself to be the best I can and getting advice like this is helpful.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +1

      Thank you 😊. I’m glad you are getting something from it.

  • @katjabriski5970
    @katjabriski5970 4 роки тому

    Thank you for this!... it means much to me to even just hear somebody understand and, moreover, (gratefully) testify to be in a loving, nurturing, mutually respectful relationship. Expecting from each other to be and respect-love-understand themselves, each other and others. These kind of videos trully help me to ground and assure me in my pursue to keep on with exploring myself, balace out and be truly accepting (of both my strenghts and flaws) and meet, new people, friends and a partner to share this with and continue to grow. (I do still have a gut feeling i am to do some work before meeting a longterm partner but it is really encouraging to see it is possible and not only my wish).

  • @sharlenepenner8213
    @sharlenepenner8213 5 років тому +2

    Thank you! I asked the Universe this and you’ve answered it. ❤️

  • @julia393n
    @julia393n 5 років тому +26

    If only you were around when I was in my 20s, could have saved me a lot of confusion and drama.

  • @mwill8783
    @mwill8783 5 років тому +5

    This video made me realize I just need to “pick better men.” Haha thanks for the reminder! 🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @jancheema6776
    @jancheema6776 4 роки тому

    Nice reminder. Thank you for gracefully sharing.

  • @ms.helpmeet4753
    @ms.helpmeet4753 3 роки тому

    Wow. You answered something I have been wondering for months now. Quality content.

  • @Incognitofication
    @Incognitofication 5 років тому +13

    "Well give me something to respect then." "Pick your men better." Too funny and too true! That is hilarious! LOL! 😂😂😂

  • @DaisiesInVenus
    @DaisiesInVenus 3 роки тому +3

    1)Supportive✔
    2)Self Governed✔
    3)Balanced - working on it
    4)Introspective✔
    5)Loyal✔
    6)Affectionate - somewhat
    7)Nurturing✔
    8)Capable✔
    9)Intelligence(Best trait)✔
    10)Secure - working on it

  • @yaryyary7143
    @yaryyary7143 4 роки тому

    Your awesome man! I often watch other videos similar to yours but after watching 2-3 of the same coach, I don’t want to anymore . I keep coming back to your videos hoping you have one that I’m looking for, and you do. Good job! Really!!

  • @jessicablanco3806
    @jessicablanco3806 3 роки тому

    Kev. You're the only man in UA-cam I'd be willing to give a minimum wage of my own. You deserve it all. You are so articulate and intelligent. You're the kind of people I need around to keep growing. Your wife is lucky indeed. Many blessings!

  • @Luvurselffirst
    @Luvurselffirst 5 років тому +4

    Im smiling. Because i have all 10. Thanks Kev! I appreciate the guide.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому

      My pleasure 😇

  • @tulsibloom
    @tulsibloom 5 років тому +50

    "I'ma let that marinate!..." 🤣👌🏽

  • @nsorachel1619
    @nsorachel1619 4 роки тому +1

    I must say i have really learnt a lot through your videos. I just discovered you yesterday. Thanks. You are really an eye opener.

  • @Steffortlessly
    @Steffortlessly 5 років тому +1

    Good women check they damn self! I see what you saw when you said that I was speaking your thoughts with my poetry, down to the introspect. Your content is amazing. Things that truly need to be heard. It disappoints me when people believe that men aren’t capable of this level of eloquence. Keep shining King🤩

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +1

      I appreciate that! I’m a fan of a fan🙌🏾 same to you, and may nothing stop your reign 👸🏽 👑

  • @kristinacalderon4921
    @kristinacalderon4921 4 роки тому +3

    Love is an action word..I like that..Including self love..Thankyou!!

  • @queencanislupusofthewolfpa2247
    @queencanislupusofthewolfpa2247 5 років тому +7

    Looking for that man that I can lavish my love, affection, my nurturing instincts on. I am my own person and can be an asset to the man that is good to me.

  • @ShavondaVance
    @ShavondaVance 5 років тому +1

    Hey Kev! I just want to say that you i came across your videos and wanted to say thank you. I appreciate that you're doing this to help us. You are very knowledgeable and i look forward to more videos. Thank you for being blunt & straight to the point. Also i love your facial expressions it really really helps with the points youre making throughout the video & really help with the point ur making

  • @snakhobhengu2491
    @snakhobhengu2491 5 років тому +1

    dude these videos of you just made me realize i've put too much effort in relationships where i'm not really loved and i even forgot who i am. but now i'm reclaiming myself who would want to date a woman who does not not know herself.

  • @LyricSkye
    @LyricSkye 5 років тому +3

    Handle your damn self! 🤣 Love it!!!! As a Life Coach I still seek knowledge! Young man but wise!

  • @hannahcatherine
    @hannahcatherine 4 роки тому +7

    "REAL-LATIONSHIPS ARE ACTIVELY LOVING EACH OTHER DESPITE THE DIFFERENCES"

  • @kimcolton6734
    @kimcolton6734 4 роки тому +1

    Wow you are one of the most balanced young person I've listened to. You have great advice in the most non judgemental way. Keep up your work here you are meant to mentor a generation of people that have been conditioned otherwise. Thank you

  • @cherylwashington5793
    @cherylwashington5793 2 роки тому

    Excellent class! I'll definitely share your video with my daughters.I appreciate your honesty.

  • @lamorenita2772
    @lamorenita2772 5 років тому +22

    Thank you for this video ! ❤. Finally a man who understands us ladies . ☺... With all due respect you are undeniably attractive Kevin. 😗.

    • @KPKomal
      @KPKomal 5 років тому

      agree

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +1

      😊 Thank you so much. I’ll allow it 😂😂

    • @KPKomal
      @KPKomal 5 років тому

      @@KevHick thank you for the reply

    • @lamorenita2772
      @lamorenita2772 5 років тому

      Kevin!!!! ❤.

  • @a.v.6158
    @a.v.6158 5 років тому +5

    Thank u for making this video because I was looking for a Black UA-camr I can relate to

  • @honeybee7606
    @honeybee7606 5 років тому +2

    Thank you
    Needed to be refreshed on this!

  • @nyanchams1080
    @nyanchams1080 4 роки тому +2

    THANK YOU FOR THE ADVICE, BE BLESSED 🙏🙏

  • @estherfreemanqueencess9284
    @estherfreemanqueencess9284 5 років тому +4

    I really love this,thanks a million.

  • @jaclynbellizzirobert8572
    @jaclynbellizzirobert8572 5 років тому +3

    u r perfect! you're so smart and you speak so lovely. U always have great points and ive only watched 3 vids. I dont even know how I came across your channel but i subscribed lol its a refreshing view on EVERYTHING.

    • @grezzer1427
      @grezzer1427 3 роки тому

      I was able to learn so much value from him aswell. How are you?

  • @juanitagartley937
    @juanitagartley937 4 роки тому +1

    I have all 10 traits. I'm often resented. I agree with the lady that said women will be alone because a great number of men don't understand this, but it's better than settling.

  • @alexisgarcia-pl5on
    @alexisgarcia-pl5on 3 роки тому

    This video is sucha Hidden gem. Christ. Im saving it

  • @philycity6685
    @philycity6685 5 років тому +4

    Oml listen how can a man know what bothe men and woman need wowww you are sooo intelligent i thought i was giving advice to my friends but dang you helped me become soo much wiser for when i start dating again. Woww I appreciate you!!!!

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +1

      Thank you so much! Men and women aren’t as different as we like to think we are. I’m glad you are getting something from my videos 😁 I appreciate you for watching🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @blueblaze9862
    @blueblaze9862 5 років тому +5

    It's sad but sometimes the worst guy brings the best out of a woman

  • @stacirivera799
    @stacirivera799 5 років тому +2

    I love my husband so much. Just clicked this video to strive to be better for him. He is so good to me he deserves my all.

  • @angiegigiari1111
    @angiegigiari1111 9 місяців тому

    I especially liked the "handle yourself/circus animal" comment 😂 I like the way you think, I am happy and proud of you for doing what you do. One of many things I am ment to do is to explain to women how to interact with men, and how to have a good relationship with themselves. Not because I know it all but because of my experinces and my own mistakes. I did not at all know what a healthy relationship is because of my childhood, but God showed me the way and He still is showing the way for me to be able to have a good relationship with myself and others. Wish I had a friend like you to discuss these things with, it is very interesting! Thank you Kev!

  • @laurenjackson2810
    @laurenjackson2810 5 років тому +5

    I’m not perfect but I definitely exude each of these qualities. I can’t wait to actually give this to a many that deserves it ☺️ one day

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому +1

      Absolutely!! Keep being your best.🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @laurenjackson2810
      @laurenjackson2810 5 років тому +1

      Thank you Kev! We ladies really appreciate the positivity

  • @lollipoplizardprince
    @lollipoplizardprince 5 років тому +4

    You look very fit here!! Goals!!! 💪🏻👏🏻

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  5 років тому

      Thank you! 😊

  • @FOODREVOLUTION360
    @FOODREVOLUTION360 5 років тому

    Good points, thank you for taking the time 😊

  • @natashareid7005
    @natashareid7005 5 років тому +1

    I can listen to him talk all day and all night. His voice is so soothing, to me at least.😌😌

  • @lacrystalnkidz4545
    @lacrystalnkidz4545 5 років тому +75

    I'll do all that for the right man

    • @lacrystalnkidz4545
      @lacrystalnkidz4545 5 років тому

      @Paul Hogue your opinion

    • @angeleyes3396
      @angeleyes3396 4 роки тому +5

      Lacrystal N Kidz Gotta show it for the right man to recognize you. These qualities we should exhibit in any type of close relationship. So it should be given initially regardless. If he doesn’t reciprocate then lose his number.

    • @sonyab2u974
      @sonyab2u974 4 роки тому +3

      Facts! If He's not all of these qualities and more, then hes not the one

    • @jdstep97
      @jdstep97 4 роки тому +6

      Lacrystal N Kidz - No, do all that beause you're a really and classy woman. You be the best you, for you. Take focus off the man.

    • @lacrystalnkidz4545
      @lacrystalnkidz4545 4 роки тому +1

      @@jdstep97 thank you🙂🙂

  • @ayeshahpittman1990
    @ayeshahpittman1990 5 років тому +3

    I truly appreciate your wisdom may
    God continue to bless you and your family

  • @trillianmcmillian2660
    @trillianmcmillian2660 2 роки тому

    You are so thoughtful and inspiring! Thank you for all your videos. I hope you get more viewership!