He's Going SLOW? 9 Signs He IS Into You! | Mark Rosenfeld

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  • Here I present 9 signs that a guy moving slowly IS, in fact, interested!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 87

  • @Markrosenfeld
    @Markrosenfeld  Рік тому +12

    Hope you guys enjoy the video

  • @pollych9n
    @pollych9n 6 місяців тому +35

    1. Consistency
    2. High level of communication
    3. Presence & being accounted for
    4. Remember to bring back
    5. Doing traditional things
    6. Showing friends
    7. No regression
    8. Not all about sex
    9. Genuine efforts

  • @jengriffy01
    @jengriffy01 Рік тому +77

    Just wanted to give a shout-out to the birds setting a good ambience. 🤙

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  Рік тому +4

      Yeah!!! 🙌🙌 LOL

    • @chrisshowering7357
      @chrisshowering7357 3 місяці тому

      Ah we are women NOT birds I hate that description of women maybe women should call men knobs

  • @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
    @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Рік тому +23

    Different Attachment styles move at different paces. Anxiously Attached people want to move super quick while Dismissive Avoidant types will move much much slower. Main thing is to have a conversation around this as to not personalize anything and try to find a happy middle ground that works for both

  • @EveKatharsis
    @EveKatharsis 9 місяців тому +7

    If I close my eyes you are like the Steve Irwin of the dating world. Thank you it feels safe 😅

  • @wenderella81
    @wenderella81 11 місяців тому +17

    What if he does all these things and more but also says he's not ready for a serious relationship? I think slow is good for us both. He's been consistent, attentive, kind and respectful. IMO I think he's scared of being burned just going off our conversations, as am I. Slow is good. I'm in no rush and just enjoying each other's company. So far he's been the opposite of every man I've ever dated in the best ways.

    • @sOofiiexD
      @sOofiiexD 5 місяців тому

      literally my situation :( I don't know what to do..

    • @Imjustagrl
      @Imjustagrl 3 місяці тому +5

      They are saying they don't want to be in a serious relationship. Believe them. If you want to be in a serious relationship, find someone who does.

  • @imperialthreat
    @imperialthreat Рік тому +8

    I feel like I was not looking for a relationship and did not have guys on my radar. Then someone came along and I feel way more invested already 🙄

  • @ineedtounwind999
    @ineedtounwind999 6 місяців тому +4

    This is so amazing and such an eye-opener! I used to focus on this one guy before watching this video. I thought he was just slow, but now, I think he could potentially be just not that into me, and that is fine. I am now more open to replying to other guys. Thank you, Mark!

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  6 місяців тому +1

      Nice one! Glad the video helped you :D

  • @vellaellers2086
    @vellaellers2086 Рік тому +15

    If I'm not into a guy I simple tell him,you're handsome,sexy,smart but it's just not clicking for me,I don't want to waste your time nor mine so we need to part ways.I won't play with anyone's heart...

  • @jhinwood8177
    @jhinwood8177 Рік тому +6

    -I will share things about my life photos childhood memories etc
    -I wouldn’t be afraid to introduce him to my people even if it’s through a phone call while he is with me
    -I would share my passions with him things I like to do
    -I would make sure to always give my best self
    -I would make sure to always look my best around him

  • @jeanr8359
    @jeanr8359 Рік тому +7

    Me and my new husband started very slow…. I believe he was looking for a relationship… I was just enjoying spending time with him. He was very patience with me…. And eventually the relationship developed into the best relationship of my life.

  • @KA-eu9sy
    @KA-eu9sy Рік тому +57

    He calls you.
    He asks you out.
    He wants to see you.
    He buys you romantic gifts.
    He wants to introduce you to his family
    He wants to hold your hand.
    He wants to do PDA all the time.
    He wants to introduce you to his friends.
    He wants to do all of the above for the rest of his life by proposing to you, marrying you.
    If he is not doing any of the 9 above, he is not into you. He's just a f..k boy and leading you on. Move on! Next! He's not The One!

    • @Im____ltm
      @Im____ltm Рік тому +3

      I disagree on the PDA. That’s nonsense. Mature adults who are secure in their commitment understand that PDA is neither becoming nor necessary.

  • @harukamitsue5314
    @harukamitsue5314 2 місяці тому +2

    See, I watch this to give myself real talk that he ISN’T that into me

  • @rezotydnic
    @rezotydnic Рік тому +17

    1. He's consistent.✔❌
    2. High level of communication with you.✔
    3. He is present and he is accounted for.✔❌
    4. He remembers and repeats things you've said.✔
    5. He's not afraid to be traditional.✔
    6. He doesn't hide friends intro's.✔
    7. No backwards progression.✔❌
    8. He's not all about the sex.✔
    9. He puts in genuine effort.✔
    He's consistently non communicating when he's on the road. Talks when I call but rarely calls me. When we are together, not nearly enough, he does communicate very well. When we are together, he is 100% dialed in. He's accounted for because I know he's working or doing errands for his elderly mother. We trust each other. He remembers everything! He's not afraid to be traditional. And I've met a few of his friends and most of his family. There is no backwards progression, kind of. We aren't together as much now as we were. His work is major part of reason. And remodeling his home is other. I guess that's for us but I'd like to fit in his schedule somewhere. He is definitely not all about the sex. Nor am I. But....
    He does nice unexpected things for me, which is not only sweet but nice to know someone is thinking of you.
    We're an older couple and I just feel time is a wasting for us.

    • @KA-eu9sy
      @KA-eu9sy Рік тому +2

      Never be with a man who does not put you as priority #1. It is a reflection of you. Not him. You are not putting yourself as priority #1 by settling for a a man who does not prioritize you. If he is really into you, if he really loves you, no amount of work, no renovations urgent enough, no mountain high enough, no river wide enough to prevent him from calling you everyday, to want to see you.
      Why are you settling? Do you love yourself? If you love yourself, you would not settle for someone who does not love you. Be honest, does this man love you? You know the answer to that. Now, move on. Find The One. Not just any one man. The One. Go!

    • @rezotydnic
      @rezotydnic Рік тому

      @@KA-eu9sy I appreciate your advice. But it's not soo simple/cut and dry when you are in your 60's.

    • @imperialthreat
      @imperialthreat Рік тому +3

      Sorry to chime in but he sounds pretty good and if he is basically accounted for it sounds like he is just very busy. If he remembers everything and you have 100% when you are together you are killing it!!! Hope things work out!!!

    • @rezotydnic
      @rezotydnic Рік тому

      @@imperialthreat me as well😊

    • @rezotydnic
      @rezotydnic 11 місяців тому

      @@eyestosee2807 not soo easy when you're my age. Not many prospects out there. The majority are drunks, druggies, divorced for a good reason, too controlling, too set in their ways, or wanna be playboys, etc.

  • @AD-hh6dd
    @AD-hh6dd Рік тому +3

    When I take things slow, I don’t respond when a guy hints about his intentions with me or future plans. I stay neutral

  • @TheMarmalade28
    @TheMarmalade28 2 місяці тому

    He’s INTO ME! Thanks

  • @rezotydnic
    @rezotydnic Рік тому +7

    Sounds like something of interest to me!

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  Рік тому +4

      Excited for this one

    • @rezotydnic
      @rezotydnic Рік тому

      ​@@Markrosenfeld this video did not disappoint. Brought some clarity for me. Thank you ❤😊

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  Рік тому +1

      @@rezotydnic Thank you so much for your kind words! Glad to hear my video was helpful to you and provided some clarity. If there's anything else you'd like me to cover in the future, please don't hesitate to let me know. Thanks again for watching! xx

    • @rezotydnic
      @rezotydnic Рік тому

      @@Markrosenfeld thank you 😊

  • @sarahholland9201
    @sarahholland9201 6 місяців тому

    So glad I found this video! All the signs you listed apply to the guy I've been spending time with.. He's very shy and it feels like he's playing it cool and casual yet I get the feeling there's more and this video actually lists the things he's doing.. Thank u. 🙏

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  6 місяців тому

      You're so welcome! Glad it was helpful :)

  • @jeannettem1625
    @jeannettem1625 Рік тому +4

    He's less consistent in his communication after the 5 years we've talked back and forth. I have never met any of his friends and family but he has yet to meet mine either

    • @KA-eu9sy
      @KA-eu9sy Рік тому +16

      Sure, stick around for another 5 years and see what will change. Nothing. Move on sister or you will have wasted 10 years of your life.

  • @user-bi4hf6vq1d
    @user-bi4hf6vq1d 4 місяці тому

    I love the white Butterflies in the background! :)

  • @rachelsmith5687
    @rachelsmith5687 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks Mark I really appreciate it!!!!😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @teenafrench7236
    @teenafrench7236 Рік тому +3

    Thanks. That shirt is Rad🎉

  • @girlwithpersonality
    @girlwithpersonality Рік тому +3

    I was dating a guy who did all this but on the 9th date openly used a dating app in front of me and said he was keeping his options open until he is 100% sure about someone as the last time he said how he felt to a girl and wanted to commit, he got rejected…He said he wasn’t sure about me and hasn’t been since the 3rd date

    • @amandacoles5932
      @amandacoles5932 Рік тому +9

      I'd dump him. He didn't even hide it. Don't let him BS you about his confusion / past reject. If true, he shouldn't be dating. By 6 to 8 dates, he knows.

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  Рік тому +2

      I'm sorry to hear that you had that experience with the guy you were dating. That sucks! It's understandable to feel hurt and confused when someone you're seeing is not fully committed to you. If you like to talk more about how we can work together to set healthy boundaries and find someone who is truly deserving of your love and affection, link in the video description. xx

  • @feliciajohn7660
    @feliciajohn7660 Рік тому +3

    Mark! Love the shirt!

  • @MuggianuStefania
    @MuggianuStefania Рік тому +4

    Thank you, Mark. Your video gives me hope. I’ve only met this guy once and we had a great time. We live one and a half hour apart, so it’s hard to meet more often. He’s doing two of the things you mention and I don’t know what to think. Yes, he’s been hurt and is very cautious… But he never initiated a text, although he then always replies and is very kind and friendly. So far we’ve only been chatting via Messenger. We’ve met on a dating app and he’s been checking out my profile on the app frequently over the past few days… Not sure why but this also gives me hope that he may like me… I don’t know what to think or do… 😢
    Any advice? I’d do appreciate it…

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  Рік тому +3

      Hey Stefania, I'm glad to hear that my video gave you hope! It's great that you had a great time with this guy when you met and that he's been showing some positive signs. It's also understandable that you may be unsure about what to think or do next. It's important to remember that everyone has their own pace when it comes to communication and relationships. While he may not initiate texts, it's a good sign that he always replies and is kind and friendly. The fact that he's been checking out your profile frequently on the dating app could also be a sign that he's interested in you. My advice would be to continue chatting with him and getting to know him better. You could also suggest meeting up again in person if the distance allows for it. However, it's also important to not put too much pressure on the situation and to trust your instincts. If it feels right, go for it, but if it doesn't, then it's okay to take a step back. If you want to learn more, click the link the description.
      All the best! x

    • @MuggianuStefania
      @MuggianuStefania Рік тому

      @@Markrosenfeld thank you so much for taking the time to reply! I was not expecting that, as almost nobody else does… I appreciate it! 😊

  • @linzletitbe3796
    @linzletitbe3796 Рік тому +2

    Needed to hear this. Thank you , xx

  • @natashamina5174
    @natashamina5174 Рік тому +1

    Thanks your video gave me wings 🎉 all the best

  • @monicaortiz2920
    @monicaortiz2920 Рік тому +1

    Awesome.. 😊❤ I got the point

  • @hushpuppies872
    @hushpuppies872 5 місяців тому +1

    My guy is not doing a single thing and he asks me to be cool about it.

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  5 місяців тому +1

      Sorry that's happening Hush. Thanks for watching my video - hope to catch you in my Queens Club Community in the future! www.skool.com/qclub/ We can help you out more there xx

  • @viji576
    @viji576 Рік тому

    Beautiful video Mark thanks so much for these spl points really needed for relationship 🙏 take care have a great day 😊💯

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  Рік тому

      As always, thank you so much for your kind words, Viji! I'm glad that my video resonated with you and that you found the points helpful for your relationship. It's always great to hear when my content can make a positive impact. Hope you have a great day as well! Take care of yourself! x

  • @ItinerarySweat
    @ItinerarySweat Рік тому

    Amazing work and dive deeper.

  • @summerstevenson6625
    @summerstevenson6625 7 місяців тому

    He’s doing all of these things except for I have not met his friends but it’s been 3 weeks.

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 місяців тому

      That's still quite early - I hope it continues to progress for you guys

  • @amberamour5395
    @amberamour5395 Рік тому

    Excellent video 🎉

  • @miriamjohn1822
    @miriamjohn1822 2 місяці тому

    I must be the luckiest woman in this world ❤❤❤

  • @dianathemyscira2150
    @dianathemyscira2150 Рік тому +1

    *Off topic* I think you've said that you used to be a male entertainer. I really wish I could afford to talk to you. I've watched many of your videos (and others), and one thing I keep thinking is that most/some male strippers are very different from "average" men. So they don't always fit the mold of what these videos say about men. They're much more comfortable with women, they know all the right things to do and say to make a woman feel special and fabulous, and they literally have women all over them all the time. So how do you know if a man like that is truly interested in you, or if he's just playing his game?

  • @amking0103
    @amking0103 2 місяці тому

    Thank you😅

  • @deviram6061
    @deviram6061 6 місяців тому

    If a guy says to u he is comfortable talking with u an after that he asks u to show him something nicecan u refuse then he say he doesn't think you're ready for a relationship but we can be good friends without benefits what should u think

  • @nguyenduonglong94
    @nguyenduonglong94 10 місяців тому

    Being that man will be called loser

  • @kimpeterson875
    @kimpeterson875 Рік тому

    Flirty texts❤

  • @CharityRedd-kx3nb
    @CharityRedd-kx3nb 2 місяці тому

    What about for people that talk long distance?

  • @shristiagrawal5650
    @shristiagrawal5650 5 місяців тому

    I met a new guy last week and we have talking since, was showing interest to know me but since last four days he has vanished, no contact since. what can be the reason?

  • @margaretwairimu6444
    @margaretwairimu6444 Рік тому +1

    So interesting

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  Рік тому

      Glad you liked it, Margaret. Thanks so much! x

  • @kattiwinkler2846
    @kattiwinkler2846 Рік тому

    Need your help on this! There's this one guy that works at this one store and if I don't go there for a few weeks he's wondering where I've been and the past week he said to me if I come next week you wonder why I'm not here I'm off next week. Is he interested in me or no? This has never happened before

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  Рік тому

      Heya Katti, it sounds like this guy at the store is definitely showing some interest in you. The fact that he notices when you haven't been in for a while and even mentioned his upcoming schedule to you could be a sign that he's trying to create opportunities to see you. However, it's important to remember that every person is different and it's possible that he's just being friendly. If you're interested in him, you could try striking up a conversation and getting to know him better. See if he seems receptive and engaged in the conversation. If he does, it could be a good sign that he's interested in you too. Just remember to be yourself and not to overthink things too much. xx

  • @BetterTogether300
    @BetterTogether300 7 місяців тому

    Is that ur natural hair colour, was ur hair colour a lighter shade previously?

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 місяців тому

      I have not!

    • @BetterTogether300
      @BetterTogether300 7 місяців тому

      I meant previously did u colour ur hair.a.lighter shade. I met someone who looks like u, with a lighter blonde colour of hair like if u went to the beach many days n it blonded ur hair.

    • @BetterTogether300
      @BetterTogether300 7 місяців тому

      I added a reply ut dusappeared. Have u been in Canada?

  • @celiaescalante
    @celiaescalante Рік тому +1

    Slow? He got engaged with another woman.

  • @sOofiiexD
    @sOofiiexD 5 місяців тому

    What if he did all of these things for several months and then he ended up saying he is not ready for a relationship and ghosted after lol ??

  • @bigsexyhair4557
    @bigsexyhair4557 7 місяців тому

    Exactly! And still GORGEOUS Mark!!😅

  • @ummaysumaya
    @ummaysumaya 7 місяців тому

    May I talk to ya?

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 місяців тому +1

      Sure! mark@makehimyours.com.au

  • @subconciousego5517
    @subconciousego5517 Рік тому

    How to know a girl isn’t into you: you’ve got a man bun

  • @LuvableAF
    @LuvableAF 5 місяців тому

    So…he’s not into me, is what you are saying..

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  5 місяців тому

      Sounds like it? :\ Sorry for the bad news hah