S2E13. you’re bisexual?
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- Опубліковано 10 лип 2024
- i got up with my boy David (kvngdavidsworld) to talk about bisexuality. let me know your thoughts in the comments.
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What a handsome but overall well spoken man. The way he expressed himself is so clear and powerful.
i never knew...the way he dumbs himself down for TS Madison...i would have never known how articulate this man is...definitely motivational speaker vibes
Ditto! I am mesmerized on how clearly expressive this man is❤
In all honesty as a feminine gay man I prefer bisexual man. In my experience they were less critical of my femininity. In fact many of them really enjoyed that side of me
Whew 🫶🏾 this right here
Exactly. I'm a bisexual woman with a masculine presenting lesbian girlfriend and I really enjoy her androgyny. And she prefers bisexual women for that reason.
Fr i love attracting bisexuals
I can agree with that. My boyfriend is bisexual and he loves both my masculine and feminine side. I've pretty much dated bisexual guys... It's like I naturally attract them. They say I give the best of both worlds. I was like oh ok lol
I know what you mean and you're absolutely right lol I didn't even peep that Brazen lol
Everytime that shout music played I laughed.
and i hollered
I saw this comment before starting the video so I was forewarned and it is still TAKING ME OUT, you hear me?!?!?!?!? Lol
I cackled so bad
Listen when I tell you I have laughed at this on today!
😂😂
I think bisexual white/Latin men are more prevalent and accepted but for some reason it’s scrutinized in black men. People constantly police black mens behavior.
David Bowie was married to Iman for years
And it was never a huge topic. So many other rock stars as well but let and R&b singer or rapper say he is bisexual and watch the fall out.
Black men are fetishized with such hyper masculinity and sexuality that any degree of “softness” to that image is seen as a threat or distasteful. And that extends right down the spectrum you have to be all the way fem or completely hetero. So a bisexual male resting in the middle or towards the hetero Side causes major disruption in the phycology of others.
All that shit goes back to the history of slavery and how the bodies of black man were reduces down to problematic ideas coming from the white psyche. Black men were dehumanized in a way that many of us can't even begin to imagine. I've started to believe that what happened during chattel slavery its that the Black male body was placed into the same position that White people's proto-indo European ancestors once placed bovine's/horses.........Black men were to be either a Beast of Burden that's used to work the soil to produce crops & the physical embodiment of raw sexual masculine energy; a living phallic symbol.
Bingo
I thinks it's harder to TRULY identify as Bi, because I think you don't have the community of support as the other "letters". Just my opinion.
Very good points
Yea and that is entirely sad and close minded of the black community
This was very very good. As a bisexual 38 year old male who recently came out openly with my sexuality i totally agree with what was said. I have had relationships with both men and women and being honest is the best policy. I don't double dip if im dating one i wont mess around with the other. I tell people that im just a natural lover of people. I like what i like and thats it.
I totally agree what you are saying I also a bisexual man I also went with men and women and am farther I come out at seventeen to my family at first they take it so well but my family come to turn with it They told me will always love for who I am I know it was hard for you to come Tj but your family still love ❤️ you 😚❤️💋
I wish all bisexuals were like you, cause as I’ve said in another reply above, bisexuals can be so confusing, I think they should take it upon themselves to clear up our minds, more especially to their partners! But for me personally, I really doubt that I would be in a serious relationship with a bisexual guy, I don’t think that I’m well informed about bisexuality yet, hence I prefer not to try anything with them!
When you knew they were fine… then, they turned out to be smart, too 😍😍😍
This guy was very intelligent and very articulate about his bisexuality. I loved it. As a gay man who has, for a very long time been sceptical of bisexual people, especially men, I am starting to appreciate these conversations so I can better understand bisexual people in general. 👌
This 👆🏿
There are a lot of us Women who are absolutely attracted to bisexual Men. And [at least amongst my girlfriends] we go hard for y’all in social settings and conversations. Trust.
Gay men are diffrent lol there gay for a reason bi is for women and a men
@@mJ-sm4ss so she ain't got the right to choose?
@@mJ-sm4ss shut up! Bisexual ppl are not in competition with gay men and women. Miss us with your jealous bs.
@@davyhoward7642 people on the internet are bored lol with no life
Cannot tell you how many times I've had to defend black men's bisexuality. There are women who just want a good man that treats us right and has emotional intellect. His sexual orientation is the last thing on our minds lol
the church music is so foul 💀
Not your video being notified to me right under this one 😭😂
What David said at the end is so important for self-realization. Come out to yourself and accept yourself and fully love yourself. Once you get to that point, you wouldn't really be coming out to anyone else. It would be more like inviting others in to see who you are.
It may take a while to get through that introspective phase, but everything becomes a lot more clear once you do.
The church part though 😂😂😂
"Real Sex" shout out to the kids who snuck and watched it and MTV's Undressed. If you know...you know. And don't forget Taxicab confessions!
Listen!!! I'm east coast. Real Sex was every Thursday at 11pm on HBO. And I loved MTV'S Undressed. Taxicab Confessions and Hookers at The Point!
What a time to grow up in!
what shows are yall talking about? lol. Never heard of them.
Listen, those shows taught me so much about sex and sexuality. Just honest about sex.
@@cincereqoutes8844 you're on UA-cam look them up. May not interest you because they are dated but during that time it was needed.
@@thoughtsandwords3029 lol i remember hookers on point lol that was when reality tv was real. There was no clout in being on the show it was just real people telling real
Stories
A HETEROSEXUAL WOMAN WHO LIKES BISEXUAL MEN. I love that. I think she finds herself attracted to a kind of man who would be the kind of man who lives in a kindness and a kind of skin that would live his life bisexually. THIS IS AN EXQUISITE CONVERSATION. Evolution ALL AROUND!
As a Bi man coming more into my bisexuality in my 30's, I appreciate and resonate with this perspective so heavy! I came out as gay in my early 20's and later realized I just accepted a program of others' perspective of me and internalized it, feeling trapped before realizing this spectrum of our sexuality that allows me the freedom to be less defined and limited.
I also feel heavy pressure around that topic of dealing with Women who may harbor some biphobia or resentments. So it's been a challenge connecting with alot of women at this time.
Bi men like you perpetuate conversion rhetoric and directly harm gay men
Thanks for sharing. As a hetero woman I've been attracted to men I "perceived" as bisexual but never even considered acting upon it. I don't think for me it's tied to resentment as much as it is already overwhelming being a black woman with restrictive beauty standards. I never liked dating because feeling compared to other women, or being objectified, led to feelings of inadequacy. Thus in my mind dealing with a bisexual man would bring double the pressure
That praise break pause has me weak.
Not even into 4 minutes of watching this video and laughing so hard every time David says "church".
@aria mason to bad for your god, my God is laughing along with me. Blessings ✌
I love this conversation. So nice to see black men intelligent and experienced discussing sexual issues....
Loved this conversation. "Authenticity is going to bring you the outcome."
I haven’t watched this yet but thank you for providing a space for black bisexual men like myself 💗💜💙, as well as other bi+ folx
One of my favorite videos I've seen this entire year. Such an important conversation, and I really, really, really hope it can reach the youth in the Black community - gay or straight - man or woman or any other gender. Thanks Obio.
Society needs more of these talks with black men! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 so healthy and liberating
I'm a bisexual brown guy. I'm Indian-American so I'm glad to be able to watch something like this. I'm often worried about how I any women I date or hook up with woul react to me telling me them that I'm bi even though I most women are accepting of that & given that many women are also bisexual nowadays
For me the trepidation is tied to beauty standards and constantly feeling compared to other women, so adding another gender in my mind would contribute to those pressures
For the ignorant people in the comments, being bisexual for a man is no different than a women being bisexual, just like a women can have sex and experiment with women then go fall in love with a man and have a loyal relationship family and life or vice versa, a man can do the same too, there's no need to say make sure you're honest about your "lifestyle" , it's not a life style, it's simply something that turns you on or you are open to if you are NOT already in love and in a happy relationship ... And let's be clear, ANY and everybody can cheat, cheating is not only secluded towards one gender or one class of people. And there's nothing to be confused about, it's simple, if you are bisexual you have the ability and the natural hormonal make up to be sexually turned on by BOTH genders, why do people make it so much more complicated when it's on the topic of men being bi-sexual, they just start making up and assuming sh*t, and it's annoying AF, it's like their trying to play stupid and force double standards.
I hear what you are saying. In my experience men who say they are bisexual want to date both the girl & I at the same time. ALL the time. I am yet to meet a guy, in real life, who does what you are describing.
@@sizakunene3056 I hear you too But in MY experience that wasn't always the case, there are plenty faithful men who can openly admit they find both genders attractive, finding something attractive doesn't automatically equal to cheating, and doesn't mean the women has to compete with other men either, cause there is no competition or thought in mind to compare the two, it's two different worlds of attractiveness and if you are truly committed and loyal to a person regardless, you are not gonna cheat, no matter what your sexuality is..... and when I originally made my comment I was mainly focused on letting ignorant people in the comments know that there "is" a such thing as men being sexually attracted to women and men BOTH and they should be called properly by what they are which is bisexual and some are even pansexual, meaning they are just attracted to people in general...... and also men are notorious for cheating regardless, but NOT every man is like that, just like not every women is faithful, there are plenty lustful women too who will sleep with other women, other men and other people's man!😄 Even if they are already in a relationship, I've seen it toooo many times, this is a big world, we have to look at it as a whole and not just what we see in our narrowly scoped lives... The TRUTH is the entire picture and ALLL the details of it..... Also both bisexual men and women have been around since forever, it's proven in history, and there are bisexual and gay animals in the animal kingdom, so I feel like whatever naturally occurs without effort is NORMAL to me and people should see that as common sense, and of course being straight is normal as well and important for creating life, (cause I know people will bring that up too)😄, ANY sexuality on the spectrum is normal.... it's just double standards, religion and dogmatic people in society try really hard to convince people otherwise ... And I don't condone cheating❌, if you love someone, be with them and only them and both parties should be able to be real about what they find attractive without the double standards, and my mind will NEVER change on that...... I know I mentioned things that you personally did not say, but I just wanted to address EVERYTHING allll in one to make it CLEAR how I feel about it ALLL.
@@realn.w.a554 I hear everything that you are saying. You are very fortunate to have met such bisexual men & women in real life. I wish I could. I would literally move to that country. 😄 Where I live, generally, & I am grossly over generalizing here, most people are promiscuous. Interestingly, I don't necessarily believe in imposing monogamy. I understand that monogamy doesn't come naturally to everyone either. I strongly believe in 'live and let live', but be honest & upfront about it. I like the idea of 1 person loving me & me loving that 1 person back, but what are we to do when people want to love more than 1 person at the same time. 🤷♂️ But I wouldn't say that monogamy is how things 'should' be, as you have said, but I understand that this is just your personal belief & you are not saying that's how it must be for everyone.
@@sizakunene3056 You still don't get it😄, one of the few things that gave it away was you saying it's "my" belief at the end of your comment, rather than looking at the factual & practical things I laid out verbosely in detail lol....but what we CAN agree on is we allll have our own experience and everybody is unique in the way we grasp the truth and how sexuality works, nobody's wrong, because we can only understand what we can, or sometimes only what we want to understand, thanks for commenting your perspective, I enjoy these kinds of topics💯
@@realn.w.a554 what don't I get? I agree with everything you've said. 🙃
I can’t thank you enough for the vid, I just barely see any talks about bisexuality and it was so nice and refreshing to hear from another persons experience😭. I feel the constant pull of two agendas but this video has helped me realise that it’s all about being you and not having to abide by other peoples expectations. Again,Thanks for the vid❤️
this one hit home for me, thank you Obio for making these videos. You have no idea how much people they touch
Thank you Obio! I connect with everything being said in this video and I'm so grateful you are pushing these conversations and content out there. It's well over due and incredibly needed! Excellent discussion 👏🏾
This was an amazing conversation. I could even see some similarities in how the gay community views verse men like how people view bisexual men when it’s comes to dating history. Maybe that could be a conversation to be explored on the show? Can’t wait to see what we get next week.
I really needed to see this today! I just had a conversation with a friend about how I identify and it’s changing but I’m still navigating what that means and this video really helped!!✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽 Always great and helpful content!!
he's very articulate about it. I've known many bi guys & it takes them along time to feel OK with it. There is always this understandable secrecy around their sexuality because people want to put you in a box. On top of it, he's a super hot man, surely both men & women approach him in droves He's an incredible guy. More power to you
This video gets a 10/10! 👍👍Not only are these beautiful chocolate men a treat to look at, but more importantly they are intelligent too. This was a great, enlightening conversation!! 👏🏽👏🏽
Not done but already this is a great episode and conversation! Edit: After finishing there were so many gems in this episode. Thanks for having him on!
Great conversation. ANd you found THE one who absolutely trips ALL of my triggers !!!
What a very beautiful and educational discussion. I really do feel the struggle for bi community, such tortured souls. I’m glad this dude can free himself from all that stress and just be honest, people that are for you will find you . I wish more people would do that.
this whole video jus indulged me on a lot, and it’s so awakening to finally see some examples & answers that someone like me needed🫶🏻🙌🏼
What an incredible conversation! Thank you for what you do in putting this together!
Love this video! Bisexual woman here and living in authenticity can be so freeing. It's been a long road to feel comfortable being openly bisexual. So many weird and inappropriate comments or conversations. Bi-erasure is such a thing.
That last bit taking time to share while working on affirming your truth to yourself is so spot on. Thank you gentlemen for such an enlightening conversation!
I just subscribed , I haven't felt so comfortable like this watching men like me , talk about topics I wish were talked about more
I appreciate this converation, as a 32M who just recently came to terms with his bisexuality and how I must be honest about it if I am ever going to have a long lasting healthy relationship, I feed off this energy. I am currently trying to find the self love within myself and not hold myself to any standards set upon me by external forces. Unfortunately I lost a good woman during my awakening but I pray that is all makes sense in the end. About a year into this self-love journey and things are starting to turn around for the better. Thank you for holding this space for us who are currently at the beginning of our journies.
cute story ❤. i hope it turns out rewarding.
This is too much beauty in one place. I can only watch one of y’all at a time. I can’t focus.
Wow. Just wow. Those words of wisdom about authenticity towards the end were pure gold. THANK YOU GUYS SOOO MUCH ❤️
Hey Obio,this is my 1st introduction to ur channel & I actually enjoyed the structure of the conversation & how u allow the guests 2 really get their thoughts out while still asking the questions that I want answers to..This man is very articulate & honest man & I appreciated this interview.I am not a curious about my sexuality but I do want to learn about these topics in general to understand people from different perspectives..Peace & blessings to u & ur platforms & I am now a new subscriber ❤️👏🏾💯✌🏾
I just came across ur page and immediately I gave a one minute listening ear to it I liked it, I’m from west Africa Nigeria precisely and fancy when y’all are out spoken about stuffs like this cause damn down here u better not try it cause it’s illegal so basically living under a shell is just so hard but watching and seeing videos like this kinda gives a high hope to the future and what it holds for us here, so yea thank you. And u just got a new subscriber 🔥🔥🌈🌈
Appreciate folks being able to live their truths. Can I just mention how fine both of these brothers are???
I am shook... Obio got kvngdavid to come through! Really great conversation, I enjoyed this.
Another BANGER! Great job, Bro! I identify with the topic a great deal - even knowing what "Real Sex" is...LOL. Keep them coming. Your impact is making waves!
Wow!!! I'd love to interview this man!! I'm starting a series interviewing bisexual black men 🌈🌞
where can we watch it? And thank you for the representation 💖💜💙
I subscribed just from this video alone. This was a GREAT interview. Very thought-provoking and very in-depth. I appreciate this.
This was a beautiful and needed conversation! Thank you Obio for this!
Man the Eyecandy on this screen!!! 🤭
Child!!!
Get in line, Dionne
Thank you for this! I’m really loving these videos. It definitely does create a space!
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Jonathan u are a Ghanaian an preacher l presume ok 👍 can we keep in touch if u don’t mind
I’ve always admired him ❤️ he’s always been very special and passionate 🙏🏾
Banger video and I can’t be the only one feeling a bit of chemistry 👀
Wise, thoughtful, respectful and insightful. Great advice in the end. Thank you both for sharing your stories and inspiring.
This was such an incredible and needed convo. David’s perspective resonated deeply. #bipride #bivisibility
I'm very proud of David for clearing the air about his true identity as a bisexual man. What a great episode. As a proud gay man, it's time for all of us to be truthful about our truths of our sexualities and own it. Great job fellas. David is a cool guy.
I love this episode it pulled on my emotions a little bit but really allowed me to see the reality of being bisexual and why my bisexual friend do/feel how they do
Wow. I loved the conversation and how honest he was. Thank you both for sharing.
Such an amazing perspective. Very well, spoken. Had I had those words 30 years ago, I would have saved a whole lot of time on my “bisexual” journey.
You look so fine to be in your fifties Andre! ❤️
What a refreshing conversation. You guys are awesome. Really appreciated what you said about saying that you identify as a gay man instead of saying that you identify as bisexual despite the fact that you really are bisexual, because you are not trying to downplay your attraction to men or make anyone feel more comfortable about that fact. I've never heard a bisexual person say something like that before.
Great conversation and most can't handle his honesty and truth.
@KvngDavid remains my all time fav I’m obsessed 😍 just look at how fluent he is
I knew this was gonna be great but it honestly exceeded my expectations.😮💨 I got a positive perspective shift on bisexuality & about owning my authentic self unapologetically...im beyond satisfied!! 😇
This was very good! I have experienced bisexual men getting with women & separating themselves for their entire gay past including friends, flings and lovers then treating those groups with resentment just by them showing up. Always confused at the same time I was like you know what I know so don't fool yourself. It's refreshing to hear the perspective from the other side.
Obio, your channel is one that is underrated and should be more appreciated. It's enlightening, informative,classy, you look amazing by the way,and it's nice to see a man representing LGBT in a way that has never been disrespectful in any form. Congratulations on your success and keep shining bright sir.
he is really well spoken. im a bisexual woman and he’s clearly stated some points that I’ve struggled to communicate. i also think its interesting to see a bisexual male’s pov as opposed to bisexual women, especially feminine presenting bi women
Come through matching colors. Y'all were definitely in the spirit.😂
Every time he say church, hear go praise break music. I can’t with you Obio 🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for sharing your authentic point of view. Really helps me understand this point of view better.
Great conversation week after week. Yessir. The elaboration on your initial thought. Geezuhhs!!
Those church music riffs had me on the floor! 🤣🤣
not me saying AMEN at every interval, this was so good!
Whhhaattt!!!...I first listened to the episode, while I was running off to get come lunch for work. when I got back, I wanted to watch it again, but with video and there he is.....King David himself. Very Very VEERRRYYY good episode Obio. I really enjoyed you both in this one.
I gotta say obio as a bi trans man myself I really love your channel and your content. The content you do about the gay community is really insightful for me as someone sort of on the outskirts of that and you have such a chill relaxed demeanor that it makes your content easy to watch.
Most men not all, but most are bi/ dl. These conversations are needed..
Great conversation. Especially looove the who u have to be, want to be and are.
This was awesome forreal yall. Now I feel like I understand the journey of the bisexual black man way more ❤❤
Beautiful segment. Thank you!
I'm Bisexual - and I had to hide it around my gay friends. I would get bash, or someone would try to convince me that I was Gay. You would hear words like your Gay, just admit it ex. I felt boxed-in my early 20s. I remember this one moment when someone Identified me as a trade or DL - which wasn’t the case, it was funny how they did that. I also remember someone saying to me that I thought I was lying to myself, and to add on to it - Since I don't use gay langos, this guy had a problem with it - he said I was gay, and it's part of the culture, stop trying not to fit. I had to laugh and when I told him I was BI he started to act different. This was years ago - I'm in my 30s now, hopefully things have change. It's almost like the LBT+ acronyms doesn't matter - but the G. That's why I never really did cared about identifying myself growing up - and I am grateful I did not, because if I did Lord knows my mental state would of killed me.
@Philly5641 I completely sympathize with you brother. Now, i have no problem identifying myself as a man who is sexually attracted to and who sex with men. "Gay" if that is what you want to call it. But as a slightly older brother, i really really am finding it difficult to identify with and support TODAY'S whole LgbTQ movement. It just seems like they are so into extremes and indentity politics and pronouns. But when you actually get around them and the cameras and phones are off, the connectedness and intimacy is absent. I don't care how much so called freedom and opennes there is now, i felt more connected to the community back in the 90s and early 2000s. We were more social and you felt the connectedness.
You get my full support baby. You’re hot too btw. Xoxo
Respectful sir, your sexual preference is your business and yours alone. Those "friends" that made you feel like you had to hide whatever you identity as aren't your true friends. Kudos to you for being proud of who you are, and if others cannot understand where you are coming from. That's thier lose not yours. Be safe, and stay strong.✌🏿
@@dabigd1860 At times, what we older people see as political correctness is just respect. We were used to accepting how others chose to identify us and often just being disrespected without speaking up for ourselves. There absolutely was more of a community in the past, when you were forced to rely on each other. Same with the Black community as a whole.
Bi is a mind set / mix up/ get correct you have the sprit of satan /
I’m so glad I came across your channel!!
I truly appreciated hearing and watching this informative exchange presented by these two very educated, erudite and gorgeous BROTHERS. I hope many young Black males... and other males as well...who are in pursuit of understanding their sexual orientation and desire, WATCH THIS VIDEO. PLEASE!
Honesty is most important, responsible and respectful in terms of dealing with blk women. Give them the opportunity to walk away given the high risk factor within blk community. Too many cases and statistics are harmed and increased by hiding your attraction.
hetero people have more hiv than bi and gay people
Thank you for this episode, I’ve been struggling with my orientation and dating. I’m still working on being confident in myself… it’s refreshing to hear a healthy perspective 🙏🏾💜
Hi Ajà, When do you post your st video? It looks interesting
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Wow. Such an important topic to discuss. Very real and eye opening!
I can’t even focus y’all lol
It's the dilemma of "who do I look at first"? 😮💨
Love both of these Bros, been watching the other dude on UA-cam web series in Atlanta since 2015
This spoke to me . Great episode
The dramatic church instrumentals took me out. 😂😂😂
Completely lol
Very intelligent conversation. Beauty and Brains. They looked so damn good WTF. Always have loved David. Great job Obio. QUESTION: Could you introduce your guest or at least put their names or profile name somewhere. I typically watch on my smart TV so I don't usually see the description. Thanks!
Great question because loved the conversation and wanted to see more from both individuals but there was no description
OMG.. That's David! I love him. He's on one of my favorite web series show triangle.
I love Triangle too!!!
Me too .i love him and the guy who played clint saunders
I love triangle. Is the show still going on
I used to watch year's ago.
@@wavveytae4181 the creator of the show is sick at the moment so they not filming right now
Dude on the right’s advice is perfect.
This was needed thank you both 🔥
"Our authenticity has no place" in this world today. That part is real
I think I seen him cooking with Madison. The church break had me rollin. 😹
the church music LMAOOO
This was an excellent video. As a gay man, I’ve dealt with bi men and it didn’t end well. In spite of my past with them, this video helped me learn more about them and I have more respect for them.
David I am impressed, boo. You really opened my eyes, and I respect you. ❤️❤️❤️
This was a great conversation. Thank you!
Absolutely loved this conversation.. & u both look great 👍🏾
Okay how have I never been in this space as a black gay man , this is wonderful that you’ve created this space 👌🏾
Such a beautiful, honest conversation. 💙💗💜