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S2E33. let’s talk a little bit about gay marriage.

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  • what’s good, good people! we’re talking about gay marriage today with my boy (@phylleworld) let me know your thoughts in the comments.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 75

  • @amadou.oury.diallo
    @amadou.oury.diallo Рік тому +42

    I remember he was apart of the conversation about dating as a Black gay man on the Grapevine. I really wanted to hear him speak more on that episode, so I’m glad that he’s the person in conversation with you on this episode and topic. I love the 11/11. It’s just so cute. Great conversation once again. 🖤🙌🏽

  • @truerthanyouknow9456
    @truerthanyouknow9456 Рік тому +20

    My husband and I got married Oct 10, 2010, at 10:10 AM in Washington D.C. (10-10-10)☺️
    Our marriage was not recognized back in PA, where we resided. It was crazy to us that we’d have to leave our state just to get married.

  • @OurBoyStory
    @OurBoyStory Рік тому +14

    Always appreciate Larry’s authenticity - we were so inspired by their wedding too, it was the first Black gay wedding we saw (besides that Noah’s Arc movie wedding lol). All these years later, glad to call him friend ❤

  • @Calm_B4_Storm
    @Calm_B4_Storm Рік тому +15

    Great episode, I’ve been a supporter of Larry’s for years and his public wedding/marriage to Nolan was a game changer for Black queer men to see. Hearing his story is pretty inspirational, mainly due to the face he placed he and his husbands needs before that of their family & friends. We as (Black) queer man don’t always have the luxury of doing that. To hear him practically say to his family this is what it is and it’s non-negotiable is something many of us needed to hear!

  • @IamsirleonTv
    @IamsirleonTv Рік тому +9

    These conversations need to be longer.

  • @Phoenix27ken
    @Phoenix27ken Рік тому +11

    This would be great and easier to listen to on Spotify as a podcast

  • @thecoreysams
    @thecoreysams Рік тому

    I love seeing your comfort level on camera increase! You’re doing so well! This was an incredible journey of an interview. Full circle moments. Thank you! 🫶🏽

  • @JamalTateIsTheGreatest
    @JamalTateIsTheGreatest Рік тому +3

    Omg I love this!!! The conversation about marriage is necessary cause listen I want to get married myself but not because feel like I have to cause that’s just crazy! I love being apart of this space and it’s funny that I met you both at the same even when I first moved to ATL! You bother are amazing!! 😊😊

  • @drej.3953
    @drej.3953 Рік тому +4

    You definitely should interview. Terrell & Jarius. Another positive Married Couple in Atl. Love this video also. Great conversation. That I needed.

  • @lebonebakai8250
    @lebonebakai8250 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for this conversation. It was very much needed. Beautiful story.🙂

  • @AyrenGriffea
    @AyrenGriffea Рік тому

    Obio, u pick the Best topics! And the conversations are very informative. Keep doing u💯💯

  • @darriusmarsh9886
    @darriusmarsh9886 Рік тому +1

    Yea, this story was so beautiful i just started college, and wanted something so similar. I would love to go to Dc as a tribute to Gay culture to officiate our marriage. I believe that is so powerful.

  • @truthis_7857
    @truthis_7857 Рік тому +2

    Your videos should be longer. They're entertaining, informative, funny, enlightening and even cathartic at times. We'd enjoy living in that space a bit more.

  • @jarugley
    @jarugley Рік тому +1

    He @phylleworld is an inspiration and a beautifully humble man!! I wish the world for him and his partner!! ♥️

  • @KGeeSabotage
    @KGeeSabotage Рік тому

    The intro clip had me shook 🤯 I’ll be back to comment more lol

  • @EnviroBroChris
    @EnviroBroChris Рік тому +5

    Such a sweet story ❤

  • @zikaden6549
    @zikaden6549 Рік тому

    Quite an inspirational story. I'll be getting married someday to the one I love and he loves me too. It's something I've always wanted. Thankfully I live in NYC, where it's all legal.

  • @dennisbatsile346
    @dennisbatsile346 Рік тому +2

    beautiful interview.

  • @KeldrickC
    @KeldrickC Рік тому +2

    Awesome conversation!

  • @freddyjafar1490
    @freddyjafar1490 Рік тому +6

    Could you do a video on internalized homophobia and cheating in gay relationships?

  • @Khadar106
    @Khadar106 Рік тому +7

    I just looked on his instagram and unfortunately he's split up with his husband. :(

  • @MrDio212
    @MrDio212 Рік тому +2

    I love this!!!

  • @jahaxanti1181
    @jahaxanti1181 Рік тому +3

    Loves it !

  • @chadtriggs286
    @chadtriggs286 Рік тому +3

    Great episode.

  • @blackgayhistorychannel
    @blackgayhistorychannel Рік тому +4

    Wow thank you for sharing, so many things I didn't even think about. I'm holding out for a ring so this was very nice to hear💖💛

  • @Keonny77
    @Keonny77 Рік тому

    Hi Larry!
    You said I'm enough!?
    Me and my two kitty cats?! Lol

  • @mishaelandrew2408
    @mishaelandrew2408 Рік тому

    I love this talk today... Because we need to talk about it

  • @ciel222
    @ciel222 Рік тому +1

    Great video 😊👏👏

  • @davidrectorthesinger
    @davidrectorthesinger Рік тому +1

    Marriage was "traditionally" a business agreement. Now it's evolved into making a commitment with all the benefits. Where is it written that only heterosexual people are entitled to being love and loving, having a commitment and making passionate love? Who said only heterosexual people are the only one's entitled to the financial and financial benefits of marriage? They don't have a monopoly on love, it's for everyone.

  • @bskeete
    @bskeete Рік тому

    Thank you.

  • @trentonhuntley9966
    @trentonhuntley9966 Рік тому

    A Virgo Sagittarius ♐️ connection 😮

  • @kareemervin7057
    @kareemervin7057 Рік тому +3

    Once again, space has been created. Great job.

  • @christopherford8728
    @christopherford8728 5 місяців тому

    One day❤

  • @kittle29
    @kittle29 Рік тому +4

    Guys, please, for the love of god, don’t tell your parents that 1.) you’re gay and 2.) You’re getting married, via mail. I can’t even imagine how his father felt not having that conversation in person. And although I’m gay, I can imagine his father was very confused and hurt by the way in which it was revealed.

    • @mariopreston424
      @mariopreston424 Рік тому +1

      I agree with you ! He probably only did it that way because he might not have been able to have that conversation with him initially for his own reasons .

    • @tebogomagz5797
      @tebogomagz5797 Рік тому +7

      It just shows the type of father he had.. and most fathers are not kind to the gay boy child anyway

  • @jojohns9670
    @jojohns9670 Рік тому +2

    Was this shot before they divorced? or will there be a part 2?

  • @robertwaldron5508
    @robertwaldron5508 Рік тому +2

    For real, go with your gut feelings, remember god is watching us. Let him be the judge. Forget nay sayers. ❤️

  • @MM-cy1tc
    @MM-cy1tc Рік тому +3

    Do people know that he is uncoupled now? So great start but different ending. I hope they are both happy now.

    • @leerhode1021
      @leerhode1021 Рік тому

      I certainly noticed he is not wearing a ring. . .

  • @UniqueNei
    @UniqueNei 10 місяців тому

  • @centaur7564
    @centaur7564 Рік тому

    💚

  • @stancole9181
    @stancole9181 Рік тому +2

    Why are these conversations so short?

  • @TunedIntoTennis
    @TunedIntoTennis Рік тому

    Subscribed

  • @tebogomagz5797
    @tebogomagz5797 Рік тому

    I wish I could get married.. it’s always been something I yearned for but as I get older I realize how many obstacles are riding against gay marriage or even a long term partnership. I feel my dream fading away with time ...

    • @jjmane7831
      @jjmane7831 Рік тому

      Marriage is a waste of time don’t do it

    • @tebogomagz5797
      @tebogomagz5797 Рік тому

      @@jjmane7831 maybe it’s these kind of thoughts that make love seem hopeless for us. Marriage is fought for and protected, how do you protect and fight for something you don’t believe in?

  • @AddiKtion_11
    @AddiKtion_11 Рік тому +1

    Were there certain parts cut off? I would really like to know what were the conversations like with the family especially since they didn’t know about his sexuality. TO ME it sounds like he was quick to shut his dad down when he was expressing his concerns, but I don’t necessarily think it was because it’s gay but because they don’t know anything about this man he’s marrying.

    • @cortezmiller1899
      @cortezmiller1899 Рік тому

      Yea, I was like what! He didn’t even let his father express himself.

  • @deshawn18
    @deshawn18 Рік тому

    I'm @ the very beginning of the interview but I thought he and his husband chose to "uncouple". Is this an old interview 🤔

  • @TuscanWonder
    @TuscanWonder Рік тому

    Has there been any conversation about sex addiction in the gay blk community?

  • @CamberHill
    @CamberHill Рік тому

    Who is your guest? I've had a struggle to ID your guest historically. In IG there are a number of people who come up. It would be helpful to give more information than only your guest's IG acct.

  • @Blazenetwork1990
    @Blazenetwork1990 Рік тому

    This had to be recorded months ago

  • @pridan94
    @pridan94 Рік тому +1

    Where is his ring?

    • @menobles
      @menobles Рік тому +1

      Not to be negative Nancy but I caught that too.

    • @brotherlove9460
      @brotherlove9460 Рік тому

      @@menobles he is divorced

    • @brotherlove9460
      @brotherlove9460 Рік тому +1

      He is Divorced

    • @cortezmiller1899
      @cortezmiller1899 Рік тому

      Just because there isn’t a ring, does not mean they are divorced. People look at symbolism have their assumptions. A lot of people that are married don’t wear rings.

    • @MM-cy1tc
      @MM-cy1tc Рік тому +1

      He is uncoupled now.

  • @lorenzoclark3616
    @lorenzoclark3616 Рік тому +1

    I still don't understand the need to get married...its unnecessary. Just love the one you're with.

    • @oaktownbrown67
      @oaktownbrown67 Рік тому

      That depends. If you want to build financially with a partner, marriage affords a (legal) structure for a couple to do that.

    • @m_ron2742
      @m_ron2742 Рік тому

      @@oaktownbrown67 well if it’s for that reason no need to hold a wedding and spend money

    • @solracshooter4769
      @solracshooter4769 Рік тому +2

      Imagine you with someone for years and something happens to your partner and you have no say in what happens to them because you aren’t recognized as anything but maybe a roommate and you can’t make decisions for your partner. I don’t think it’s for me but I do understand why anyone would want to and there are other examples of how it can help as we get older

    • @bladycryo7565
      @bladycryo7565 Рік тому

      @@solracshooter4769I didn’t look at it from that perspective and that makes perfect sense.

  • @michaelmorgan6760
    @michaelmorgan6760 Рік тому

    Nice. But no rings left on his finger so they divorced?

    • @menobles
      @menobles Рік тому

      that part! I'm confused so in ...love? Maybe they're doing it they're way as he stated.

    • @brotherlove9460
      @brotherlove9460 Рік тому +1

      They divorced

  • @georgiathighs
    @georgiathighs Рік тому

    u got ring...u proposed...u walked 1st...hmmm...seems a lil top-ish 2 me lol...im jus sayin' 🤷🏾‍♂

  • @TommieDavenport
    @TommieDavenport Рік тому

    so people want to get married and that's okay. but I feel before u even reach that point u should have gay marriage counseling just like white people do before marriage. i plan to get married in 2024. I am going to make sure we are not marrying for the sake of sex but for a mutual attraction to each other.

  • @SoSo4EverFreshPrinceCymo-ts8vv
    @SoSo4EverFreshPrinceCymo-ts8vv 3 місяці тому

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