4 'Taboo' Sexual Fantasies That Are Actually Common

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  • Curious about sexual fantasies that might seem taboo but are actually pretty common? You're not alone! Here are four 'taboo' sexual fantasies that many people share. From exploring different kinks to embracing role-playing scenarios, fantasies can be a healthy and exciting part of sexual exploration. In this video, we will be exploring four taboo sexual fantasies that are actually common.
    #fantasy #love
    Writer: Michal Mitchell
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    Voice Over: / @littleghostyofficialtm
    Animator: Zuzia
    UA-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 775

  • @anshen_27
    @anshen_27 12 днів тому +2539

    69% of Americans in this kind of survey is just hilarious 😭

    • @silverstone9598
      @silverstone9598 12 днів тому +18

      FRR

    • @maritza1395
      @maritza1395 12 днів тому +6

      Well the other porcentage have extremely beliefs

    • @paulchapman8023
      @paulchapman8023 12 днів тому +16

      Hilarious, or nice?

    • @DynexiousFR
      @DynexiousFR 12 днів тому +9

      As soon as the video started I was dying. 🤣

    • @paulchapman8023
      @paulchapman8023 12 днів тому

      @@DynexiousFR Isn't "dying" also a euphemism for having an orgasm?

  • @AlexanderWinter0
    @AlexanderWinter0 11 днів тому +678

    I want romance, cuddles, kisses, trust and loyalty.
    I want a meaningful monogamous relationship.

    • @annipsy2185
      @annipsy2185 9 днів тому +65

      now thats taboo😁

    • @samlynx2016
      @samlynx2016 8 днів тому +14

      Same

    • @sahanboydl
      @sahanboydl 7 днів тому +17

      Same is that too much to ask?

    • @unitalavanta1772
      @unitalavanta1772 7 днів тому +27

      I want to spread democracy across the galaxy.
      I want a helldivers cape and a C-01 Permit.

    • @harry1178
      @harry1178 7 днів тому +1

      Good luck finding that!

  • @GoNuckingFuts
    @GoNuckingFuts 12 днів тому +1097

    These are actually pretty tame compared to what is out there.

    • @Linus-tz2tk
      @Linus-tz2tk 12 днів тому +58

      Thats true. Some people realy have strange fantasys. I guess its because the evolution allways searches for a better way for doing something and expirementing with stuff like that coud maybe lead to a more produktive producing of humans.

    • @David280GG
      @David280GG 12 днів тому +45

      We dont talk about those

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 12 днів тому +58

      Yea this video was vanilla af but that’s expected for UA-cam lol

    • @gojosensei6501
      @gojosensei6501 11 днів тому +2

      like?

    • @adroitws1367
      @adroitws1367 8 днів тому +9

      they cant list the other 'wild ones' obviously

  • @Takayama-sama
    @Takayama-sama 12 днів тому +291

    I think the fantasy of being loved is good enough for me.

  • @seamon9732
    @seamon9732 12 днів тому +1046

    I wouldn't call them "taboo" nowadays.
    These kinks have been out of that category for a while.
    What remains taboo nowadays is mostly what is considered completely unacceptable or gross/disgusting.

    • @AZ-rl7pg
      @AZ-rl7pg 12 днів тому +74

      Yeah I always find it really weird when someone still considers that stuff taboo. I mean unless they're talking about BDSM as in blood play and stuff.

    • @thumpermatic
      @thumpermatic 12 днів тому +18

      I think that's the point of the video though

    • @Pbcvl
      @Pbcvl 12 днів тому +18

      ​@@AZ-rl7pgwhat the hell is blood play

    • @kiaragamer3859
      @kiaragamer3859 12 днів тому +40

      @@PbcvlI’ve heard that some people like to be cut a little during sex. Not deep wounds but enough to cause bleeding.

    • @marsjokes
      @marsjokes 12 днів тому +11

      Water sports 😅

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n 12 днів тому +487

    Timestamps
    1). Domination and submission 0:45
    2). Bondage 2:45
    3). Exhibitionism 3:27
    4). Group sex 4:56
    Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

    • @David280GG
      @David280GG 12 днів тому +1

      Joe deez mama nutsYou: ➡
      ↗️🤓↘️🤫🧏‍♂️this got me so hard 🗿🗣📢🔥ambatukam 😫its all shot over my desk😂 i hav to clean this mess 😎r/mewing i got unspoken rizz🤜🥩

    • @correctionguy3135
      @correctionguy3135 12 днів тому +38

      Saved 6 minutes of my life, I can't thank you enough.

    • @nicholasschroeder3678
      @nicholasschroeder3678 11 днів тому +1

      ​@@correctionguy3135Haha

    • @sava898
      @sava898 11 днів тому +2

      It always does. Thanks again!

    • @the_Jimmyest_of_Jim
      @the_Jimmyest_of_Jim 11 днів тому +4

      Trying not to raise your eyebrows every couple of seconds in the Exhibitionism segment of the video: (Level impossible)

  • @MorgueInTheVoid
    @MorgueInTheVoid 12 днів тому +134

    What I've learned is this:
    If the kink exists, assume its common. Because it probably is.

    • @DiplomataIntrovertido
      @DiplomataIntrovertido 12 днів тому +9

      I agree, the sad side is that some even being more common can yet be a taboo
      I myself, being a man, I looooove 4nal stim (and so pegging involved in soft femdom) and such, most people consider it to be about sexual orientation not only a thing that men can like, for women 4nal is more common and doesn't got a wrong perception

    • @MorgueInTheVoid
      @MorgueInTheVoid 12 днів тому +12

      @@DiplomataIntrovertido Right, and if a girl says she's into scissoring no one calls her a lesbian, they just say "that's hot" lmao but if a dude isn't into what you're into, everyone calls him gay.

    • @DiplomataIntrovertido
      @DiplomataIntrovertido 12 днів тому +5

      @@MorgueInTheVoid yessss exactly, you have a good point
      And that's kinda sad for us men that are into that because it's the only place for reach our p-spot, and of course the 4nal stim itself that is so marvellous

    • @YesIHaveManyProblemsThanks
      @YesIHaveManyProblemsThanks 12 днів тому +1

      @@DiplomataIntrovertido I wish I could try that! Conceptually I love penetration and the idea of letting something in me. Sadly its impossible.

    • @Blue_Nova707
      @Blue_Nova707 8 днів тому

      Futa on trap bdsm exhibitionism is pretty common

  • @billd66
    @billd66 12 днів тому +65

    A lot of people are fearful of their partner's potential reaction if they were to bring up the topic. "You want/want me to do WHAT? NO! EW!"

    • @YesIHaveManyProblemsThanks
      @YesIHaveManyProblemsThanks 12 днів тому +11

      this is absolutely true! I have super weird kinks (not dangerous or illegal)

    • @billd66
      @billd66 12 днів тому +7

      @@YesIHaveManyProblemsThanks As do I. Thankfully I have a partner who is 100% non judgmental. (YKIOK,IJNMK)

    • @mistertitanoboa6658
      @mistertitanoboa6658 6 днів тому

      Same, I'm into pretty much anything and can adapt pretty easily (:

    • @lunarsoul1737
      @lunarsoul1737 7 годин тому +1

      I really wish I could get a partner who was non-judgemental since my main kink is really weird, and I've only ever met one other person with it. Nothing harmful or dangerous, but I've still been shamed a few times for it in supposedly "kink friendly" communities :/

    • @YesIHaveManyProblemsThanks
      @YesIHaveManyProblemsThanks 6 годин тому

      @@lunarsoul1737 I totally get it. I have a super rare fetish, luckily I found a group of 33 people on the internet who also have the same fetish.

  • @mineland8220
    @mineland8220 12 днів тому +19

    "We dont kink shame, no. If you're into it, just be into it." -Kenny

  • @MegaManNeo
    @MegaManNeo 12 днів тому +78

    No idea why I watched this video - probably curiosity as I have no sexual life to begin with - but sure enough I'd believe in these studies.

  • @brain_respect_and_freedom
    @brain_respect_and_freedom 12 днів тому +271

    Understanding common sexual fantasies is crucial, but it's equally important to appreciate the cultural nuances surrounding sexual taboos. Safety and respect for your partner should always be a priority, alongside open communication and trust to foster a happy relationship. In today's digital age, challenges like deep fake technology raise concerns about manipulation and false representations.

    • @AutomaticDuck300
      @AutomaticDuck300 12 днів тому +11

      It’s crucial if you have them yourself. What other people do in the bedroom is of no concern to anyone else.

    • @devlinmcguire7543
      @devlinmcguire7543 12 днів тому +18

      Thank you ChatGPT for that exerpt.

    • @aguyontheinternet8436
      @aguyontheinternet8436 12 днів тому +2

      @@devlinmcguire7543 yep

    • @Coco20480
      @Coco20480 10 днів тому

      Thank you

    • @davidm9618
      @davidm9618 9 днів тому +1

      Unless your partner's fantasy is to be not respected, degraded, cheated on and lied to. Just ask Melania.

  • @exclusivedivine
    @exclusivedivine 24 дні тому +345

    What happened to the girl

    • @insanityofr
      @insanityofr 12 днів тому +224

      HOW IS THIS FROM 12 DAYS AGO

    • @YoutubeWanderer
      @YoutubeWanderer 12 днів тому +137

      How tf did you commented 12 days ago 💀

    • @saharawilliams7237
      @saharawilliams7237 12 днів тому +50

      @@insanityofrIM SO CONFUSED 😭

    • @Brian_nld
      @Brian_nld 12 днів тому +37

      12 days 😯

    • @4EstGuy
      @4EstGuy 12 днів тому +52

      ​@@insanityofrmembership?

  • @Na3al1e
    @Na3al1e 12 днів тому +210

    I just love how everyone here just find this normal, and doesn't make fun of people for there kinks or "bad" habits. I just love the people who are so honest and makes me feel comfortable about myself and doesn't make me feel bad about these habits:)

    • @Pbcvl
      @Pbcvl 12 днів тому

      literally. Submission and domination is basically what s€x is.

    • @snajper2870
      @snajper2870 12 днів тому +8

      Hello, this is the Internet, there are worse things here than some BDSM or Group Sex, here talking about something like that is as normal as talking about the weather

    • @Na3al1e
      @Na3al1e 12 днів тому +6

      @@snajper2870i was talking about more of like irl reasons lol. Its hard to talk about that stuff face to face or even talk about it with people you know irl. But i understand what you are coming from, but im never on that side of the internet lol

    • @ChocoParfaitFra
      @ChocoParfaitFra 12 днів тому +5

      @@Na3al1eimagine that when I said that it should be normal to talk about these with your partner someone told me I’m too naive and I don’t understand anything 🙄 it’s absolutely normal and essential to talk about these things to your partner!

    • @myCatlickedMEH2oes
      @myCatlickedMEH2oes 11 днів тому +2

      @@Na3al1eYou’re relatable👏🏾

  • @MorgueInTheVoid
    @MorgueInTheVoid 12 днів тому +60

    That clip of Psy laying on the picnic blanket having an absolute crisis internally is always so funny to me

    • @Leto85
      @Leto85 11 днів тому +4

      Sometimes I think they add things like that just to crack us up.

    • @younhakim29
      @younhakim29 8 днів тому +3

      LMAO where

    • @MorgueInTheVoid
      @MorgueInTheVoid 8 днів тому +2

      ​@@younhakim29 0:21 😂😂

    • @younhakim29
      @younhakim29 8 днів тому +1

      😂 oh damn, I didn't notice that hehe​@@MorgueInTheVoid

  • @retro_bab3
    @retro_bab3 12 днів тому +35

    This channel makes me feel normal

  • @adamx6000
    @adamx6000 12 днів тому +48

    I wouldn’t call of these examples taboo. I thought this was going to talk about things more kinky and twisted

    • @tlaoltjenbruns9580
      @tlaoltjenbruns9580 9 днів тому +2

      They have to be careful about the UA-cam rules. They couldn't go too far while still being family friendly and catering to the algorithm.
      I will agree with you, though, these concepts are well established compared to things they could mention. Many of the more kinky things we think of can be found under the umbrellas they mentioned, such as pet play and adult baby being part of the dominance and submission group.

    • @thevillainousqueenofhearts4976
      @thevillainousqueenofhearts4976 7 днів тому +1

      That’s why it says taboo that’s actually common… some more withdrawn peeps might think that the ‘taboo’ feelings they are experiencing aren’t right or something along those lines but those feelings are normal and more common than they think and aren’t shameful nor sinful.
      At least that’s my understanding of the title and the video.

    • @adamx6000
      @adamx6000 7 днів тому

      @@thevillainousqueenofhearts4976 well I can see how someone very puritanical can see this as taboo

  • @nomad_boreal
    @nomad_boreal 12 днів тому +20

    The irony is that I find female dominance hot, yet most females I meet tend to act more submissive.

    • @diogopereira1475
      @diogopereira1475 12 днів тому

      Its in a woman's feminine nature to be submissive, while its a man's masculine nature to be dominant

    • @notrealyBea
      @notrealyBea 11 днів тому +5

      You can try going to a dungeon or bdsm eents, i am sure you gonna find what you are looking for

    • @ruledtrendy5066
      @ruledtrendy5066 11 днів тому

      Have you heard of a munch? It's a social meet to get to know like minded people

    • @mistertitanoboa6658
      @mistertitanoboa6658 6 днів тому +1

      Yeah lol

    • @dankline9162
      @dankline9162 5 днів тому +1

      I prefer switches like myself, I definitely wouldn't want my partner to be just one side all the time

  • @AceKite00
    @AceKite00 12 днів тому +76

    Never understood the fantasy of being involved with many people. I’m not one to share. I want the whole thing to myself all the time, every time.

    • @naty0000
      @naty0000 12 днів тому +27

      Same, I can share my food but not my boyfriend.

    • @lovejaimo
      @lovejaimo 12 днів тому +3

      Vice versa

    • @Dave0439
      @Dave0439 12 днів тому

      maybe its a thing that would have been advantagious in a tribal setting. i mean for evolution its great if we have a good set of genes and more than one babies get born with it but, in modern society, hell no, thats disgusting

    • @CardsNHorns04
      @CardsNHorns04 9 днів тому +5

      And some people don't understand why you think it is okay to be so possessive of another human being as if they are your property.

    • @drumrush01
      @drumrush01 8 днів тому +6

      @@CardsNHorns04 you don't have to give your partner away to other people? i mean, thats sharing driven way too far.

  • @CJFreeza
    @CJFreeza 12 днів тому +106

    Just going to put this out there from personal experience as an escort, group sex and 3 somes are not what the majority of people expect them to be. More often than not you'll find yourself emotionally hurt and taken advantage of. The fantasy and the reality never match in those situations.

    • @echowhosthis
      @echowhosthis 12 днів тому +28

      I know some people who’ve had really good experiences, and ones who’ve had bad ones (though I’m not interested myself so I don’t have personal experience like you to go off) and I agree that it can definitely end up hurting people when approached poorly. The friends I know who had good experiences discussed it for like, I think over 6 months to a year with those involved, so from what I’ve seen it comes down to needing to be veeery comfortable with it and your partner/partners, maturity, and just a whole lot of careful thinking in advance. Imo there probably should have been a note about the risks in the video though

    • @CJFreeza
      @CJFreeza 12 днів тому +8

      @@echowhosthis you're absolutely right in everything you mention!

    • @florianlaur5300
      @florianlaur5300 12 днів тому +20

      I also never understood why people find them so exciting. I've tried most of those things (short of orgies/sex parties and those yucky/boring GBs) and I found them odd, weird or unfulfilling. Ultimately, with way too many notches on my bedpost, I felt that all I really want is a true connection. After a certain number and when the novelty wore off, sex just becomes so mechanical and boring and unpersonal,

    • @pepperpitz3291
      @pepperpitz3291 12 днів тому +9

      As someone who engages in group play quite often:
      This is a you problem.
      I know the type that can’t handle it and ever since I stopped trying to help „newcomers“ or „curious“ types and just engage with experienced playmates things have become MUCH more tolerable.

    • @nicholasschroeder3678
      @nicholasschroeder3678 11 днів тому +8

      I can believe it. I had a girlfriend who wanted to do it, and I just refused--I knew it would be emotionally damaging. I had the luck to twice have 3somes, but both were chance encounters with ladies I'd never see again. It was just fun and sex. Good workouts! But with someone you know and care about, I can only imagine it being bad.

  • @Wolf_drawings-creations
    @Wolf_drawings-creations 11 днів тому +7

    JUST SMT RANDOM:
    ya'lls videos saved somebodys life...
    I Learned a lot bc of these videos and it helped me save my now best friend.
    He is still so much struggling with everything but he is doing better these videos really saver him...
    I WANNA THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

  • @skarletshadow4481
    @skarletshadow4481 9 днів тому +7

    There's a sexual fantasy for anything being taboo because it's taboo and ,,Ooohhh it's forbidden which makes it exciting" or something

  • @SpartacusPlanktonpants
    @SpartacusPlanktonpants 12 днів тому +10

    A good beginners introduction to adventurous sex, quite sweetly done. While it's good to see these topics discussed out in the open and with honesty, if you think what's mentioned here are taboos, you really need to get out more! And if you think this is all 'dirty and disgusting and shouldn't be allowed', well then you're probably still an infant on an emotional level and not ready for an adult relationship. Anyone with any desire for sex will have some kink or fetish, and a whole lot of those people won't even realise it, they won't know what a kink or a fetish even is. The lack of realistic and genuinely useful sex education in western society really is appalling, so well done guys for making a start with this video.

  • @EmmanuelGiouvanopoulos
    @EmmanuelGiouvanopoulos 12 днів тому +9

    Early to my fav channel! :D

  • @Astheniumn
    @Astheniumn 12 днів тому +17

    And then there’s me:
    Wanting genuine love and romance

    • @Foxpug
      @Foxpug 12 днів тому

      damn

    • @AlexanderWinter0
      @AlexanderWinter0 11 днів тому +5

      I also want that. I only want a meaningful monogamous relationship based on emotional connection and not on lust. Lust is bad. #NoFap

    • @HeathenDance
      @HeathenDance 6 днів тому

      LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL.

    • @molybdaenmornell123hopp5
      @molybdaenmornell123hopp5 5 днів тому

      ​@@AlexanderWinter0 "Lust is bad."
      Are you open to the possibility that the ethical issue here may be more complicated?
      First off, I agree that meaningful relationships, romantic or amical, are invaluable and that lust is no adequate substitute.
      I would also agree that lust in irresponsible hands can lead to some really bad places. What is more, it can be overwhelmingly powerful and distort our judgment in its own favour, almost like a person gaslighting us. In other words, it's dangerous. It's also natural, something we (almost) all discover in ourselves and have to figure out a way to live with.
      What I'm not so sure about is that it has no upsides or that there is no way to have them without the downsides.
      Are you saying pleasure is bad? Or that arousal is bad? Or that arousal does not lead to pleasure? Or that the upsides are smaller than the downsides? Or that any upsides should be ignored entirely because we need a simple answer here?
      If it's about a simple answer, I get that desire. Life is hard and I'd love stuff to be clearcut so I don't have to spend so much energy worrying. But I can't just wish away complexity. And I think that humans, and by extension lust, is complex, not just psychologically but ethically, too.
      How do you decide what things - or aspects of things - are good, bad, neither or in-between?
      I try to decide based on the real-world consequences. What would the real-world consequences be of demonising and fighting my lust? I might somehow eradicate it entirely and be at peace. Based on 20 years of experience, I have no confidence in that outcome. And if not, I would end up sexually frustrated, full of pent-up sexual energy that would make me ashamed of myself, prone to denial, at war with my feelings - in short, miserable. That in turn, would make me tense, and socially awkward. There would be moments of loss of control which I would regret forever. I have had those and I would not have had them if I had been more forgiving of my lust, allowed myself an outlet in secret. It would have benefitted everyone.

  • @haganeelric98
    @haganeelric98 12 днів тому +44

    Talking about sexual fantasies, at which point a fantasy is just a fantasy? For example, some straight people (both men and women) might have same sex sexual fantasies, and that doesn't mean they are gay or lesbian. Having certain fantasies does not change who you are. So taking that into consideration, if someone has certain fantasies (like incest, zoophilia or even pedophile fantasies) and never tries to make them real and under control, should this person check psychological advice, or can we still say "they are just fantasies"?
    I think this is an interesting debate to discuss.

    • @Goldy01
      @Goldy01 12 днів тому +38

      I think a fantasy becomes a problem much like mental health issues - if it comes up too often and starts affecting your daily life, it becomes an issue.

    • @albinothesage
      @albinothesage 12 днів тому

      I would argue that if you interviewed a bunch of ( straight ) / ( gay ) people and asked them: "Have you ever had ( same sex ) or ( straight sex ) fantasies?" that they would say they have not. We fantasize about things we're sexually attracted to, and if you fantasize about gay sex then you're gay -/ straight sex then you're straight.
      The other "fantasies" you mention aren't fantasies they're definitely mental disorders caused by many different peculiar childhood issues / traumas and deserve psychological help, mostly for their own and others' safety and well-being.
      Also, I'm judging you for calling zoophilia and pedophilia fantasies. That shit is just sick.
      Can't judge you for the incest one, though. It's very popular for some reason - hidden under the thin veil of step-sibling fantasy.

    • @diogopereira1475
      @diogopereira1475 12 днів тому

      The fact you trying to subtly defend and normalize pedophilia is worrying and shows society is lost

    • @socalautisticman1975
      @socalautisticman1975 10 днів тому +3

      Many people are open to ventures of consented adultery or polyamory. What you think of that ?
      I have spoken online to a man whose wife has 3 (maybe more now) friends with benefits. They're only male version of her , otherwise typical fellow women like many ladies have ,but,given they ain't ladies, that's where she wants,if possible..✨🔥🥵 and he,the husband feels no need to have an extra woman even tho she'd consent to it as well.
      There's another case of a man on Reddit I read about who lost his "need" to have extramarital affairs when he opened to the idea for his wife to have extra men like he had extra women
      *My only* forbidden fantasy is to add sexiness to my female friendships. I'm a man, I'm autistic but people see me as the dating romance and thus marrying type *I lost the need to find a romance* when I discovered it can get hot and sexy with lady friends which I have had ( but most end up having a crush on me )
      I end with this *romance and sexuality is overrated* there's more to life than sex. I am a believer in the fact that we human beings are sexual beings,but that's only a fraction of who we are and all.

    • @haganeelric98
      @haganeelric98 9 днів тому +4

      @@socalautisticman1975 I totally respect that type of relationship (open relationship), as long as it is consensual (if not it's plain cheating). And I also agree with you when you say sex is not everything, specialy in a relationship. There is also the caring part, the kisses, the hugs, taking care of each other, being supportive...For me it's 50/50. In the end, I consider sex in a relationship a very intimate way to express love, that's why it's called "making love".

  • @darknessmohag6181
    @darknessmohag6181 7 днів тому +2

    I am more confused that these desires are seen as taboo.. cause when I think taboo sexual desires.. these are not what comes to mind XD

  • @somerelativleyuninterestin4763
    @somerelativleyuninterestin4763 12 днів тому +16

    Honestly maybe y’all should do more of these on the commonality of more tabboo ones at this point

    • @klappstuhl4370
      @klappstuhl4370 9 днів тому +2

      They may be scared of being demonetized, as these would cause YT to flag the video.

  • @johnleven8907
    @johnleven8907 12 днів тому +17

    I'm South American and, at the very least, this voice really takes all my fantasies away.

  • @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat
    @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat 12 днів тому +26

    I feel like I have become asexual overtime but it’s just cuz of all the things I endured as a child , feeling unwanted and uncared about , it helps tho that I’ve learned to love myself and be happy in myself cuz if I was still in the negative mindset it wouldn’t be healthy for me , I imagine that someday I will be comfortable enough to take things to the next level with somone and experience fantasys . Would be nice indeed .

    • @AutomaticDuck300
      @AutomaticDuck300 12 днів тому +13

      I don’t think that’s asexual. That’s trauma.

    • @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat
      @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat 12 днів тому +5

      @@AutomaticDuck300 yeah it’s like my energy goes down suddenly thank you so much for confirming that I’m normal and just traumatized.

    • @AutomaticDuck300
      @AutomaticDuck300 12 днів тому +8

      @@SylisDaCheesCakeGoat you need to let yourself feel the pain of not being loved or supported and then find a way to accept it. That’s how you get through it. I hope you find your peace.

  • @KL-zg7lu
    @KL-zg7lu 12 днів тому +20

    It's the biggest of red flags if someone is causing you pain and you've told them not to. Same goes for humiliation. Unless someone specifically requests these (not things I'd ever consent to) DON'T DO THEM!
    There is nothing worse than a group of neanderthals who seemed to believe that a woman mentioning sex, is consent for any and everyone.
    If you're allowing any sort of access to a person who did not consent, it's exploitation and trafficking

  • @Zakvadr1995
    @Zakvadr1995 7 днів тому +1

    As a dutiful scion of Slaanesh, I regret to inform you that we are *way past* those vanilla settings.

  • @mariejohanne340
    @mariejohanne340 9 днів тому

    Thank you for this video. It's a relief to hear that I'm not as weird as I thought I was.

  • @mckenzielangendorf1437
    @mckenzielangendorf1437 5 днів тому

    The fact that the wholesomeness of the video and art remained despite the topic is kinda hilarious cuz it is actually well done 😂

  • @PaoMeetang
    @PaoMeetang 12 днів тому +1

    Hi I love your videos!!❤

  • @Bobaloverno.1
    @Bobaloverno.1 10 днів тому +1

    In my opinion, I honestly really like this dude's voice. It's quite calming.

  • @samalexkoshy2877
    @samalexkoshy2877 12 днів тому +5

    All 4 of these are in my bucket list

  • @EmptyECHoeS
    @EmptyECHoeS 12 днів тому +2

    Loved it❤

  • @Baachus2012
    @Baachus2012 7 днів тому +4

    I think there is a bit of a divide here on what should be called sexual taboo vs. a kink. These are more social norms and viewed as kinky (maybe not the multiple partners as much). Taboo means they are socially ostracized bc they are considered too much of something. R*pe, scat, bodily fluids, torture, cuckolding, humiliation/cruelty, incest, etc are what is taboo. These are very mild and tame kinky fantasies.

    • @molybdaenmornell123hopp5
      @molybdaenmornell123hopp5 5 днів тому +1

      Aren't r*pe, humiliation and torture all on the BDSM spectrum? In that case, they're implicitly covered here - explicitly in fact, in the case of humiliation.

    • @Kurayamiblack
      @Kurayamiblack 2 дні тому

      Keep in mind that alot of people were also raised in the time before the internet blew up. Back then, some of this stuff WAS considered taboo because your family wouldn't approve of it if they knew, it violates some religious values, and easy constant access to internet p*rn hadn't desensitized an entire generation to it yet.
      So there was still a whole lot of social shame around these topics in these people's early years and they're still just young enough to still be looking for relationships. Also, even some people in the newer generations were raised by people whose actions imply this kind of stuff is wrong but they go on the internet and everyone says "nah, this is fine" and they end up conflicted on how they should see their urges and the consequences of each side (missing out vs being "degenerate" by the standards you were raised on).

  • @Wolfgangblood1408
    @Wolfgangblood1408 12 днів тому +14

    Is there a video about how having ADD/ADHD affects your sexual health?

  • @sasakuropyon
    @sasakuropyon 4 дні тому +1

    I love how throughout the entire video, I'm just like "WAIT THATS SUPPOSED TO BE TABOO?"

  • @heidicameron878
    @heidicameron878 11 днів тому +2

    This video made me feel better about myself!!!❤❤❤

  • @moonchildstudio8259
    @moonchildstudio8259 11 днів тому +3

    Is there a video on asexuality and sex? I absolutely liked this one, but there's so much confusion out there. I'm asexual, yet I find myself confused on several sexual grounds. It's so hard to separate out individual thoughts when everything is mushed together like cotton candy.

  • @RiceBallEnby
    @RiceBallEnby 10 днів тому +1

    I'd like to see a video about actual taboo fantasies and how they can still be healthy if done right or talked about.

  • @Techischannel
    @Techischannel 7 днів тому +3

    4000 people is not an apropriate sample size for this topic.

    • @rikk319
      @rikk319 6 днів тому

      How did you come to that conclusion?

    • @Techischannel
      @Techischannel 5 днів тому +1

      Well, you're trying to sample what a population of lets say the USA (~330 Million) thinks is taboo based on 4000 people. Or around 82.5k times smaller than the actual population size. For a sample, this is ... kinda tiny. Thats like me taking a sample of what my hometown (30k Inhabitants) think about a topic based on a sample size of: 2 people. Both Sample sizes are compared to the overall population, extremely tiny, especially for a broad topic like this. Though, the 30k to 2 Sample is only 15k times smaller. Meaning it somehow is more accurate.
      I think a "decent" sample size should either be 25k to 1 or 250 (peeps) whatever is larger in the end result of folks asked compared to the statistics target populance. But thats just me, and thats an ideal world. 4k people is still really small for such a topic. I'd wager 10k or even 15k would give a more accurate result.

  • @icespirit7829
    @icespirit7829 12 днів тому +45

    Oh wow, it reads 'taboo' and I expect my own affinity and other stuff, but definitely nothing as normal and usual as bondage or exhibitionism.
    Now, I still have to consider my own affinity as unusual and disgusting.

    • @petercormack2859
      @petercormack2859 12 днів тому +15

      Believe me, I know how easy it is to think like that, but odds are whatever you like is probably way more common and acceptable than you think

    • @David280GG
      @David280GG 12 днів тому +9

      If exhibitionism seems normal to you then better dont tell us 💀😭

    • @petercormack2859
      @petercormack2859 11 днів тому

      There’s no need to shame people, dude. Everyone is different and that’s not a bad thing. As long as everything is fully and mutually consensual from all parties involved, that’s the important part.

  • @jacobstoecker458
    @jacobstoecker458 10 днів тому +1

    I think abnormality is what feeds the curious sexual desires. I always look at the example of putting on ears and a tail. Its like an evolved version of our childhood role playing. It turns the dull realities of life into something fun for both you and the partner

  • @2DTL
    @2DTL 10 днів тому

    This is actually very useful and interesting. I was noticing this trend amongst my friends, but didn't really pay attention to that. To know that it's actually scientifically proven 🤔

  • @arjaymartin0701
    @arjaymartin0701 12 днів тому +9

    Ok this is pretty nice video Psych2go 😅

  • @morezco
    @morezco 4 дні тому

    Thanks, did not know these were taboo at all 😌

  • @LittleNyx_
    @LittleNyx_ 12 днів тому +61

    Early team

  • @Computron64
    @Computron64 11 днів тому

    Is it just me that is kind of surprised that this video has not reached hundreds, if not millions, of views yet? 😁

  • @_Shape_Head_
    @_Shape_Head_ 6 днів тому +1

    The video: all these fantasies are more normal then you think!
    Me: *fantasies about robots and anthropomorphic animals*

  • @GurmeetSingh-mr3kw
    @GurmeetSingh-mr3kw 12 днів тому +18

    Wondering how many of this thought have been influenced by exposure to pornographic material... This all seems pretty common and well sought after erotic categories

    • @echowhosthis
      @echowhosthis 12 днів тому +7

      Maybe in some ways it has, mainly through the spread of ideas in general. But I’d presume a lot of it boils down to human nature and what people already tried in private, before pornography was so widespread - I imagine that’d be why they become the most sought after categories, and why they became categories in the first place (because how could they be if people didn’t want that?) It’s definitely an interesting thought tho, you’d probably have to go really far back to find definitive roots which is kinda cool lol

    • @warlockpaladin2261
      @warlockpaladin2261 12 днів тому +2

      Wishful thinking, I think.

    • @nathansteiger5153
      @nathansteiger5153 8 днів тому +2

      porn exists of things because people want them, not the other way around

  • @thefanboy3285
    @thefanboy3285 10 днів тому +1

    The most taboo common sexual fantasies are the ones the Community Guidelines do not allow us to talk about.

    • @cursedbythedevil8171
      @cursedbythedevil8171 9 днів тому

      That’s something i would want to know! But i guess ur right…

  • @something_strange3086
    @something_strange3086 12 днів тому

    Love this

  • @DanielLeaf
    @DanielLeaf 12 днів тому +8

    Damn ya ain’t mention mine 🗿

    • @phoenixc7245
      @phoenixc7245 5 днів тому

      What are yours if you don't mind me asking?

  • @Dudedaducktime
    @Dudedaducktime 11 днів тому

    @Psych2 is it possible for you to make a quiz to find out if you have depression/disorders/ect? It would be really useful for us to find out what we struggle with

  • @josephortiz451
    @josephortiz451 11 днів тому

    Hey so question real quick, me I’m not to well off mentally and I feel like somehow I’ve managed to block myself off from happiness no matter how much I would progress, it’s like the further ahead I get it’s almost like my mind test me to see if I truly am happy or not and sometimes it feels like I’m holding myself down why is that? Is it common among people to do that?

  • @lady_icarus
    @lady_icarus 12 днів тому +3

    Such a good videoooo!!! I’ve been slowly getting into the BDSM community and it is helping me learn more about myself and my desires. 💖

    • @DiplomataIntrovertido
      @DiplomataIntrovertido 12 днів тому

      Yes, there's so much to explore within BDSM
      I'm happy you're loving it 💖
      I myself love pegging, concealing it with edging/denial (also not let touching the d*) is superrrr, a toy thick but not thick enough to give a org*sm is the best 😊

  • @indridcold8433
    @indridcold8433 5 днів тому +1

    I had a woman tell me she would do anything for me if I repaired her car. It needed everything for brakes, from the master cylinder to the calipers and pads. I then asked, "Anything?" She looked at me seductively and said, "anything." I dismantled her death trap and found she needed calipers, pads, shoes, rotors, drums, brake lines, master cylinder, front wheel bearings, tie rod ends, and the track bar. Whe bought the enormous pile of parts and I took a day to install it all. She got a fully functional car. Then she asked when I wanted my payment and what I wanted. I told her, "Wear comfortable, durable, flexible, clothing. I am renting a bobcat and we are doing some digging. She laughed and I said I would pick her up the next day.
    The next day, I pulled up in my rusted F-250 Super Duty 4x4 pulling a dual axle trailer with the rented bobcat. I rang her doorbell and she came out wearing spandex. She then said, "Oh, you were serious." She went back in and came out wearing denim, boots, and large thick cotton shirt. That little 54 kilogram (120 pound) little lady was a work beast! Her shovel loads were smaller, but she was tireless, super fast, and never complained. We laid gravel, dug holes, laid straw, and she kept up. The 8 stall barn had all 8 stalls laid with gravel! She worked harder and better than any 118 kilo (260 pound) man could ever work. If she wants me to repair her car again, I will do it again and ask her to help dig an irrigation system for the barn so the horses get fresh water constantly. Sex is ridiculous compared to the assistance she gave me that day.

  • @VTPSTTU
    @VTPSTTU 4 дні тому +1

    Plenty of people hold hands tightly and passionately while kissing. Calling that a form of dominance or bondage seems contrived.

  • @DecentGamer191
    @DecentGamer191 12 днів тому +1

    Well, this was a informative video.

  • @onlyfromadistance7326
    @onlyfromadistance7326 12 днів тому +5

    Well, what about alien tentacles?

  • @mouseblackcat5263
    @mouseblackcat5263 5 днів тому +1

    This is the most Vanilla "Taboo". Step it up.

  • @LambdaPsi
    @LambdaPsi 12 днів тому +1

    Psych2go would you ever update a video about the shadow side of the human being in the future? Thank you :D

  • @allanbezerra-omoreno4085
    @allanbezerra-omoreno4085 11 днів тому

    exhibitionism and group sex were not only the strongest of my fantasies but it was a big surprise they're on the list.

  • @SkinnyEatWorld95
    @SkinnyEatWorld95 12 днів тому

    So far, none of these have been taboo. We already did all of this stuff😂😂😂

  • @andrebartels1690
    @andrebartels1690 6 днів тому

    I believe that to a certain degree, the taboo aspect is what makes some schalte fantasies so exciting. Still, this only holds true for that certain degree, and the rest is still really nice.

  • @bambootherainwing8070
    @bambootherainwing8070 11 днів тому +1

    I don't normally talk about what i like. Im always afraid people will attack me because of it. I have been attacked before because of it...

  • @DaughterOfTheKingdom16
    @DaughterOfTheKingdom16 11 днів тому +1

    This wasnt as outrageous as ive heard people have

  • @demonmandanielfallows1906
    @demonmandanielfallows1906 8 днів тому +1

    I was just about to comment a joke whilst thinking of one and I heard "group sex" nahh broski 💀💀💀

  • @BNK2442
    @BNK2442 11 днів тому

    Do a video about sports addiction and the negative effects sports have on people.

  • @Jefferson-pf7il
    @Jefferson-pf7il 12 днів тому +3

    Is watersports common? I’ve heard a FAIR AMOUNT of people who like it (including me) and yk, it’s actually one considered taboo

    • @lunarsoul1737
      @lunarsoul1737 7 годин тому

      I haven't really met anyone else into toilet play or bodily excretions except maybe like two people other than me, and even then I'm on the lower end of the spectrum since urine and feces are still totally not my thing, but I definitely don't shame others for it.

  • @ITIsFunnyDamnIT
    @ITIsFunnyDamnIT 9 днів тому

    I was expecting this list to be more explicit than what it was.

  • @sifusonic7965
    @sifusonic7965 11 днів тому

    Solid video as usual.
    🍻to those who have seen/gained from the value of this channel and another round for the philanthropist putting up the work to make it so.
    That said, this video sparked an idea of topic that I believe is quite common but VERY unspoken given its "uncomfortable/cringe/shameful" nature that I have yet to witness being discussed anywhere else.
    HMU Psych2Go, y'all have helped me thru some $#!+ and I think I got something that might help back.
    Y'all have been putting some serious positive developmental energy in the air for a bit now so just please and thank you 4real.

  • @TheFoxCake1
    @TheFoxCake1 12 днів тому +3

    Four out of four, guys

  • @Cactusmaid
    @Cactusmaid 12 днів тому +2

    Yup, bdsm is the heart of ny sexuality, but I prefer the switch dynamic ^^

  • @marsjokes
    @marsjokes 12 днів тому

    How come y'all's videos pop up when i minimize YT, but the other videos don't?

  • @elinope4745
    @elinope4745 12 днів тому +2

    My love is the sweetest taboo

  • @rathernot6509
    @rathernot6509 5 днів тому

    Some of the most unhinged dissonance is the video with its subject matter making all these characters look like cute pokemon

  • @Frostbyte_Ace-XD
    @Frostbyte_Ace-XD 12 днів тому +1

    That's quite Something

  • @AshGreen359
    @AshGreen359 11 днів тому +1

    Haven't watched this channel in a while. They changed the voice actor?

    • @Astrofrank
      @Astrofrank 20 годин тому

      They have several voice actors.

    • @Astrofrank
      @Astrofrank 20 годин тому

      They have several voice actors.

    • @Astrofrank
      @Astrofrank 20 годин тому +1

      They have several voice actors. I prefer Amanda by far, but this one is okay, too.

  • @lizillusion2318
    @lizillusion2318 8 днів тому

    Exhibitionism and group sex are definitely my personal taboos. The first two I understand immensely, but I do not have the mindset to enjoy the concepts of #3 and 4. I think it has to do with a hatred for the spotlight that's been consistent my entire life, so I'm like "hell naw sex is for private places and me and my partner only". Yeah, the adrenaline of "are we gonna be caught" for me is a bad kind of adrenaline, it kills the mood. And then loyalty becomes so complicated if threesomes+ are ever considered. Loyalty shouldn't be complicated. You should know that you'd never have a sexual encounter with somebody else that your current partner wouldn't be okay with.

  • @ibelieveinyourgalaxy07
    @ibelieveinyourgalaxy07 12 днів тому

    I'm so funny. Went watchin depression, anxiety psych2go contents to this

  • @divinelyguided1144
    @divinelyguided1144 10 днів тому

    Very interesting!

  • @briangurrola2448
    @briangurrola2448 9 днів тому

    I always just did what i wanted even if it wasnt "normal" because i always comunicate to who ever i would be with thgthey can say stop or we made a safe word

  • @felipebustos3563
    @felipebustos3563 12 днів тому

    When youtubers say "comment down bellow"I don't know what to comment 😅

  • @Will_i_amShorts
    @Will_i_amShorts 12 днів тому

    I’m pretty relieved

  • @-pinkbarbie-8676
    @-pinkbarbie-8676 8 днів тому +1

    Is it normal to get unwanted sexual thoughts? It happens to me every day and I hate it. I can be in the middle of something or in mid conversation with someone, and then POOF, sexual image or frequence played out in my mind. What do i do?

    • @DanaTheInsane
      @DanaTheInsane 6 днів тому

      Don’t have puberty. If you have gonads you’re going to have sexual thoughts. Either get used to it or stop having gonads. Both solutions work I speak from personal experience.

    • @rikk319
      @rikk319 6 днів тому

      It's normal to get unwanted thoughts of any kind. Our brains sometimes just throw up images. Think of having a song just pop into your head, over and over.

  • @JustinTrudeau1971
    @JustinTrudeau1971 9 днів тому +1

    A friend of mine got mad at me for smelling his sister’s underwear. I don’t know if it’s because she was still wearing them but it made the rest of the funeral so awkward.

  • @H0r53f7y
    @H0r53f7y 12 днів тому +2

    Isn't 50 Shades considered a bad example of bdsm by those that actually practice it? Also, what about more fantastical fantasies, like vore or macro/micro?

  • @misterfox6882
    @misterfox6882 7 днів тому +1

    I played that video as our teacher left the classroom before his presentation. He clicked play.....his face went sooo red and the whole class went apeshit
    but its a good video nontheless

  • @tomwanders6022
    @tomwanders6022 4 дні тому

    I was expecting fantasies that are actually taboo, but all these seem very harmless and comon.
    Definitely no where near my kinks.
    While I find some of these things hot, I didn’t think of them as kink, because they just seem so normal to me.

  • @dakotanorth1640
    @dakotanorth1640 12 днів тому +1

    I knew you wouldn't list MY sexual taboo 😊

  • @lobster4578
    @lobster4578 12 днів тому +2

    Psych2go posting about sexually things
    Me:huh...i think i have to see it👀👀

  • @anuruksuriyaarachchi3988
    @anuruksuriyaarachchi3988 12 днів тому

    Normally, my taboo thoughts on sexuality especially due to OCD(but gore was far prominent than this) were kind of like,
    1. Extremely dangerous unhealthy implication using copper wires, other giant tubes through the body damaging internal systems of the body.
    2. Damaging the autonomy by using someone since someone wanted psychological attention(bribery/blackmail sort of stuff)
    3. Switching my biological gender with the opposite one.
    4. Homosexual, animal based, elderly and other genres that I'm not interested in.
    5. With religious figures when I was into religion.
    6. Sex with devil. I think Lil Nas X Blatantly did it exposing my fears out.
    7. Being assaulted by groups of bullies.

    • @nikitasantos2084
      @nikitasantos2084 11 днів тому +2

      Those aren't sexual fantasies then if they are caused by your OCD. They're just intrusive thoughts

  • @sp4cef0rc37
    @sp4cef0rc37 12 днів тому

    I didn't expect to see bondage show up so quickly but I guess I don't have to be too afraid of weirding out my partner if I tell them about it now.
    Only problem I (and a lot of others I talked to online) have is no partner 😢

  • @stevkoul
    @stevkoul 4 дні тому

    First time I saw colorized like button synchronized with a timestamp, but I want a celebration kind of thing when I hit that tho. NICE

  • @mumboexeyeye4240
    @mumboexeyeye4240 11 днів тому

    This stuff worries me sometimes. What if I meet someone and they're great for me in every way, except they're into something I'm not? I find some of these taboos, apparently so common the comments are mostly scoffing, to be huge turn-offs. Trying to fake it for someone else's sake doesn't sound enjoyable or fair to either party.
    All of this is purely hypothetical anyway. Can't imagine my singleness is going to change anytime soon. Just worrying about imagined scenarios, as usual.

  • @firenzarfrenzy4985
    @firenzarfrenzy4985 6 днів тому

    Given how sex is a more open topic today, what may have been taboo 50 years ago is starting to not be so. The stuff talked about here, the BDSM, is near the top of the iceberg. So with the more open nature of sexual discourse, naturally that top of the iceberg has now been recategorised as not really taboo anymore. So it makes sense it’s common now.