7 Types Of People You Should NEVER Date
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- Опубліковано 14 тра 2024
- Relationships and love can be tricky. Ready for some real talk about dating? How do you know if someone is toxic and you should avoid dating them? A healthy relationship thrives on trust, positivity, and empathy. If you find yourself in a constant drama cycle, it might be time to reevaluate.
Remember, in the end, you're the one making the decisions. Trust your instincts and prioritize your well-being.
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Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Editor: Kelly Soong
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Voice Over: Brandon / @littleghostyofficialtm
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It's hard to get rid of toxic people, and once you encounter new people, this video just shows if you should get close which helps avoiding toxic people again. It's a hard decision to leave them in any kind of way, so it's the best to be prepared. Youre all like a therapist to me, And I appreciate it
Interesting video. Didn't like the voice.
I'd rather choose & appreciate a :
Pick me girl
If you can't handle me at my worst
Lovebomber
Time traveler
Than being stuck with :
A hard to get girl
A gold digger
A ho
And someone who lies and cheats.
Ya I rather be alone than having to deal w the wrong person. So I'm not gonna date.
Very informative; not crazy about the voice, though.
I think another type of person that would be smart to stay away from, is a very depressed person that trauma dumps in almost all conversations. Not to say depressed people can't be in relationships (heck, I am), but being exposed to so much negativity for a while stirs up this chronic insecurity about how your SO is doing, and that it's your responsibility to keep them happy when it might be totally unrealistic. Then you forget to take care of yourself. I just stopped an emotionally vulnerable friend from entering this sort of relationship because I've been there myself and holy hell was it a roller coaster ride.
I agree, had the same experience in the past and almost lost a part of myself.
I think you just have to be a selfless person to date this person.
@@DominantBtch selflessness also has its limits though. A relationship should balance the weight of responsibility between both parties to keep the relationship healthy, otherwise it's like trying to win a team game as a solo player. Of course understanding your partner's short-comings is crucial as well. People should always grow from a relationship.
Yeah, I really don't want to end up as that kind of person which is why I tend to not tell anyone about my problems.
Trauma dumping is something to think about, but really it becomes bad once it’s projecting insecurities from the past to their partner. That’s when it’s time to walk away.
"Turns out, I'm all of them"
Everyone is most of them to some extent, i think. It only becomes a problem if it's in the extremes
You obviously don't get the reference @@imaboostedanimal2774
I'm guilty too😂
all of it is my crush 😭
The infinity red flags
NARCISSISM. Narcissistic crush was the worst of my life experiences. Pain, trauma, long recovery. This is pure evil hidden inside, not person. Avoid.
I wish they came with a red flag on their head itself
Same, I can’t trust men now thanks to my ex. Also it disturbs me because it was a long distance relationship and he didn’t do exactly the things that narcissists usually do so I’ve always wondered what kind of person he is, even if my therapist said he’s a narcissist 😂
Narcissism is a neurological disorder. Being evil is doing something wrong when you know it's wrong, to serve your own purposes. Narcissists don't see their actions as wrong. Not to say their negative actions are acceptable, of course.
@@ChocoParfaitFradont be discouraged dear❤ maybe you met wrong person but dont judge them learn to forgave becouse were humans after all if you learn to forgave you will learn how to love again and live a fulfilling life ❤
Agreed
Another take:
Don't date the extremely toxic person. At first, the relationship may seem fine, but when you're at your lowest point, they'll dump you like you've never existed, and when you try to fix it. They're not here for you. Happened to me once, now I'm fully aware
never got the apeal about ppl dating toxic ppl
Timestamps
1). The pick me 0:22
2). If you can't handle me at my worst 1:04
3). The ghost whisper 1:37
4). The mirror, mirror on the wall 2:15
5). The lovebomber 2:59
6). The time traveler 3:45
7). The serial monologuer 4:10
8). The social media stalker 4:42
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
You edited this like 5 times 😂 but thx
@@myrxggeach time more information was added to the comment
Thank you so much!..🙌🏽🥰
@@IceESole not a problem
I hope you have a good day too thanks 💙
I'm afraid being one of them without realizing it, need therapy after this to fix myself.
Already checked a few boxes. Gotta take a good look at myself.
Self awareness is the first step to healing. It was the hardest one for me and my toxic issues. Wishing you both the best. You can do it. ❤ @@SpaghettiKidd
Yeah I used to be a time traveller
But I guess I had to go through that to be who I am now so yeah😄
I avoid everybody and have no friends, nor a girlfriend. But, I am not planning on therapy for this. I find that having no friends nor a girlfriend has no negative impact on my life at all. In fact, I found an enormous amount of benefits from having nobody in my life. Perhaps you should consider social isolation. I chose social isolation because I can not tell who would be a good friend verses a fake trying to get close to somebody so they can take all they can at the slightest bit of need or weakness. Do not get therapy. Just forget trying to find other people. They are not worth the effort. Nobody needs friends Nora romantic interest. They are just unneeded luxuries.
Guilty of love bombing and time traveling, I feel deeply ashamed of myself and wish her all the best after.
i think you should avoid people that expect something from you that they don't have, like they say i like someone who cares about me, but they don't care about you
Don't date extreme people-pleasers. They won't tell you if something is wrong, they'll just agree with everything you say and be passive. You won't really know if they are happy or not. But when you break up and you'll try to fix at least your friendship with them, they'll tell you how they didn't like you at all, that you were so bad partner and what everything what did you do wrong. But you won't really know about all these things until one moment when they throw at you everything. It happened to me and it hurt because I was really trying hard to be the best partner I could. But he just didn't tell me something is wrong.
Sorry for grammatic errors xd
That "Social Media Stalker" part hit HARD. I had a great relationship for 3 years or so; not perfect but I did my best to keep it together, even through the pandemic and a few conflicting opinions. Eventually she found some posts on social media about my previous ex from like 6 years earlier, and started making the worst assumptions about me. I made a poorly-thought out comment that she should "stop letting her assumptions breed with each other", and things were over pretty quickly after that. I truely appreciate this advice, thank you.
Thanks for haring! Thank you for sharing your experience. It's unfortunate how social media can sometimes amplify misunderstandings. Have you had a chance to reflect on what you've learned from this situation?
I’m dating the opposite of the time traveler. He’s said he has a lot of trauma from his past so discussing or asking about his past is a boundary for him but we also don’t talk about the future much. He says he wants to live in the moment, which when we are together is fun but it makes me feel like our relationship has no real future.
I dated someone much the same. The inability to look into the future predicated commitment issues I wish I saw sooner. It had no future.
It doesn’t. That’s prob why he doesn’t want to talk about it. Why not forgo this person to date someone you CAN talk about the past (in a healthy way), present and future with??
He needs to see a therapist for sure. At least he's self-aware about having trauma... but his refusal to talk about the past or future is absolutely not healthy. I'd say if he's not willing to seek professional help and work on himself, there's no future in this relationship, just as you said. Have a talk with him, if you can. Maybe you can help nudge him in the right direction.
Personal take:
If you feel that someone you want to date or even befriend or already know feels/seems or just is judgemental, see if you can help the person to acknowledge this flaw and show that they’re genuinely working on it, if they don’t care or don’t want to or can’t notice this and can’t be bothered to do something about it, run away, because they will zap you of energy and confidence really fast.
finding where our judgment comes from will bring you to our insecurities. a person who judges others harshly- judge themselves harsher than you can imagine. thats why it doesnt exhaust them to constantly argue- they do it nonstop to themselves. imagine hitting yourself over and over again- and then meeting someone who doesn't. it won't take many hits before they get annoyed. but it will take a lot of hits to annoy the other person.
I love psychtogo but I downvoted this vid cos it feels black and white and just not the thing this channel seems to be promoting. Conversely, I love yr take!
This comment thread I'd incredibly insightful
@UCVGDVfJH3UjWh2L7xCE3kBQ for it NOT to be black and white, you're looking at individual therapy. Black and white is what you get with statistical averages.
The averages erase the individual, and the individual is the grey area.
@@xxxarimaxxx Meh, comments keep getting censored
Be careful and stay healthy guys ❤
Another one that should make into the list: The Stick-To-You-Like-Flypaper. The clingy and possessive types--the ones that ORDERS you to stay away from your friends and other loved ones.
"Wanna have quality time with your friends and loved ones? Why bother when you have me?"
These people gonna be receiving the "thank you, next" straight up from me. Lol.
If you cant handle me at my worst,
I cant blame you, that shit is rediculous.
I honestly used to do the mirror thing, its a mark of someone who is insecure, its like, they might like me if im more like them, it doesnt work. As ive gotten more confident ive stopped doing it, and im happier for it.
28 year old Virgin With Autism, Bipolar Depression, Anxiety, OCD,ADHD, schizophrenia traits. When had break down @ 21 years old the Doctors told me Odds are very Low and we need to get you to hold a Job for 1 year also majority in your mental health history Homeless, In and out of mental health facilities ECT. I've been oddly stable since 24 So far about to cross 1 year Market with 400$ week retail job
I wish you the greatest of blessings. I have autism, bipolar, anxiety, ADHD, with schizophrenic traits as well. I'm in my 40s, life's not easy, but I'm truly blessed. No wife, no kids, but my life has been blessed. Stay strong my friend, God walks with you. 🙏
Good job. And good luck :)
Wishing you luck! You are a survivor! Can’t wait to hear about your thriving too!
This brings me some hope ❤ I'm 19, asexual, autistic with hashimoto, had depression for several years at this point I also had an alcoholic mother (she got sober when I got 18) also deal with anxiety and amnesia (mainly anterograde, long story short after covid my hashimoto worsened, that's how it got diagnosed). But somehow the world blessed me this year with an extremely understanding boyfriend (24) he's been unemployed since finishing high school and has his own issues (one of them also having an alcoholic mother, lovely). We can now deal with everything together, yet it's still very hard, because I tried going to University but after 3 months I got burnt out, he also tries applying for different jobs, but keeps getting rejected so yea. I hope that everyone like us will find their way of living and having fun. I also wish that in the future there will be better support and we'll be able to live peacefully and still be ourselves. 🙏
Blessings on all you brave souls
That part about the "time traveler" hits really hard for me.. Sometimes its hard to let go of the past or worry about the future. Something i still struggle with to this day. Compared to now i'm alot more aware of this feeling & i'm currently working on it. Im trying my best to live in the present by being grateful of my past achievements & thinking of certain events or person who have changed me for the better. Also I've been focusing on things i enjoy or are of special interest like music production & life sciences
I have met a lot of serial monologuers. A lot of times I was around other people and they would talk and talk nonstop and they would not let me talk. Every time I try to speak they would constantly interrupt me. It’s very upsetting for me and I don’t want a relationship with a partner who does that.
Love being here🥺❤️this page saved my life 3 years ago
This is the best comment ever.. you made my day! Thank you for being here and believing in our work! Do you remember what was your first video you watched?
IM SO PROUD OF YOU FOR STAYING HERE!! Keep it up, I believe in you!
@@Psych2go my first watched video was based on the different types of fathers and how their relationship affects their daughters and i found my issue worked on it and so far im happy🥺❤️
Same
@@Psych2go you're saving the lives of so many❤❤
I was caught by a lovebomber...Kinda. She toyed with me for about 3 weeks and then just said "Actually, I don't like you. It was all just a joke and I wanted to see how far I could take it" I thought "am I a joke?" ever since then I haven't talked to a new girls because of this fear of being completely played.
🤢 give yourself the time to forget all about that "person"
Thank you for this video. I've been single 6 months now and I don't think I'll be in a relationship anytime soon. I'm still soul searching and I'm okay with that❤
I'm not perfect, but I am always trying to be a better person. One thing I always pass on is someone who's nice to me one day & mean to me the next. ✌✌
I'm a love bomber, but I don't manipulate. I just love giving someone a bunch of love and treats(if they don't give it back though they don't deserve it yk?), my problem is is that if I do smth that upsets them or if they seem mad I take responsibility even if it wasn't that bad bc I'm scared of losing someone I love truly
ditto
Was about to say! I just love giving out and showing love, people don’t like that tho unfortunately. We are labeled either simps or manipulators oh well 🌹
Love bombing, focussing very much on your crush, wanting to know a lot about them, mimicking them bcs you truly like them, showing admiration/wanting to impress seem natural to me when you are in love.
Watching out for potential red flags though is crucial like withholding attention if you disagree with sth/turning cold/mad.
Love is exciting and refreshing but accountability is key.
@@mikloridden8276that’s a difference. I love being g showed that Iam loved and love romantic gestures, I really do appreciate them ❤🌹
To love is super!
The video educates on whether after the love gestures, the behaviour may change. That’s why it’s important to recognize it from the beginning bcs trauma bonds are surely not a healthy way. Love should be healthy and always genuine. ❤
@@redheadbelle yup. The thing is, tho is that I did date this person that I gave all my love to, and even now that we aren't together, I still try to make them feel happy, the consequences to that is its a one way train, but when you leave they chase after you. Giving love to someone just feels so right, though, only if you find the right person.
Mannn this type of information is what keeps me single. thanks :/
Your comment is epic shit!
As someone with BPD, DSED, DPD and MDD I'm destined to die alone, I hope this is my last breath, I'm not prepared to be alone my whole life but I don't wanna ruin someone else's life, they deserve someone better, I deserve to disappear, take care, guys! Thanks for this vid ❤
You deserve to live. Dont cross out your future already. You have a purpose and there is someone for everyone. You can still grow and develop and thrive. If you want love you have to work on yourself to get the right kinda love and true love takes time to find because there could be someone else out there thinking the same way as you and that bc could be your purpose but you can’t give up now.
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This is kinda dark 💀💀💀
Heyy. Also BPD human here. It took me a while, but I'm slowly healing. You'll get someone and be honest with your mental illness when you're dating. That's what I did and I met the right people who really care:)
There is someone out there for you! And your life is worth living and you are loved! Even if it may not seem like it Jesus loves you too! God gives us the desires of our hearts according to His will! True love is one of them hon! God bless you I’ll be praying for you. I’ve been right where you are. 😢it gets better!
I haven’t watched this channel in so long. WHAT HAPPENED TO THE GIRL VOICE??😭😭😭 congrats on the transition I suppose
Amanda is still here! We have a small team and wanted to give others a chance to shine too!
It changed since the last video I thinkk? I still like this one tbh but I agree the old voice is quite nostalgic
@@nnnev_ I’m not saying the new one is bad by any means! I’m just surprised cuz I always associated this channel with the old voice actress.
I relate to so many of these. I have so much to learn
i really love this type of videos :)
Thanks bro! I have never been dating anyone so I will help!
The artwork in cartoon is so addictive ❤😊Thanks again ;)
Thank you, now I know why everyone hate me so much ❤
I overlooked the “social media stalker” as just being cautious but in reality they’ll turn your world upside down and start making it seem like you’re the one that can’t be trusted lesson learned.
Thanks for sharing these tips
I absolutely love this content. My girlfriend is none of these, but she's closest to the "serial monologer." If you didn't say the stuff about it being difficult to have a conversation with them, and them not listening to you, she would be the serial monologer, and I'd be perfectly fine with that because I don't really like talking that much, I prefer to think more than speak. I love her so much because we're polar opposites on things like this, and we're similar in things that you'd want to be similar with your partner on. It genuinely feels like she completes me and understands me.
Always thought after seeing most of vids in yt saying about standards that if someone can't handle you leave... And now i came to know what are real standards ☺️
I THINK I NEED TO WORK ON MYSELF BECAUSE MOST OF THE POINTS GIVEN HERE ARE MYSELF. I REALLY NEED A RETHINK OF MYSELF. THANK YOU PSYCH 2 GO💙.
It’s always empowering to realize we may need to change something about ourselves! I wish you the best on your journey
this channel always give me some good advise! =>
another one is a control freak
where that person always is controlling you and stopping whatever u wanna do like going shopping and etc
I watched this video to see if i was any of them so that i could improve myself and i am not. But i did find out one of my friends is a love bomber. Thanks so much! Your videos are awesome
The whole "lovebomber" description hit hard, although I don't think I'd actually use that term to describe what happened. So imagine admitting how you felt to another person, then that person gently rejecting you and quietly exiting your life. The mature thing to do is to move on, right? Only the problem is the person never actually left your social circle, they just avoid you, but simultaneously try to control your life from the outside. Any attempt to move on is deliberately sabotaged. Calling them out on this results in a doxxing and an attempted "cancellation". This was one of the most traumatizing experiences in my life, any person who shows the least bit of interest in me (even if unintentionally or in my head) is now a massive trigger, like it legitimately hurts and I'll turn to alcoholism to dull myself.
Why would someone do things like that?
Does anyone around understand problems in the head of that person?
Very good examples, thank you.
Literally everyone has some personality trait like one of the above. This seems like an excuse to just break up with anyone over the smallest bad feelings. No one is perfect dont be nit picky.
Yes most people have instances or specific situations like this but on a continuum, most people are not often like this NOT AS a whole character trait..
if the ppl you’re picking are; you need to re-check your toxic meter
I like the Golden Goddesses reference in the thumbnail👍🏼.
Thank you so much for this video.
From my last experience in a relationship, my ex scored 4 out of 7 from this video. Thank you.
I bet most of the people went here not to know which people they shouldn't date, but to check if they are these people
I’m still trying to find out why I have manipulative tendencies. I’ll be honest with that. It’s not my intention to be manipulative, but I kinda am. I’m aware of these tendencies and want to stop.
My main issue is that I’m too trusting. Even with trust issues, I trust people too much. I also feign innocence, mainly to make me a better role model for myself. I feel that if I hide my dirty/inappropriate thoughts from other people and play dumb, I can see myself as less immature. This is because I am actively growing and wanting to help others. But with these manipulation tendencies, it’s very difficult.
My version of love bombing is physical touch in appropriate places, excessive joking, and continuous games. What lies behind that is the continuous dirty thoughts rushing through my head. I haven’t acted on them by far and everyone says I’m too innocent to have those thoughts, but I’m actually not. It just makes me feel more secure to hide my insecurities and wear an innocent mask.
This doesn’t mean that I’m mean or rude behind the mask, in fact I’m quite the opposite. With or without the mask, I’m still kind and caring, though a bit more stubborn without the mask.
I enjoy the sun, doing simple chores, and spending quality time with my family. Heck, even my dog ACTIVELY cuddles close to me! That just shows how much I’m trusted. But I feel that I should be ashamed for being trusted. I’ve obliviously crossed many boundaries because I’m not given warning that specific ones existed. However, I believe I do so because I’ve had my own boundaries crossed.
For example, I could be accidentally revealing someone’s secret because they would make fun of my disability to get away with sneaking into class, yet didn’t remember I had publicly announced to my school, “I have autism.” (Whether this is a scenario or an experience I will not say.)
Anyways, I’ve got to go to bed on Thursday, April 25, 2024 at 9:57 PM as I type this last paragraph. Have a good night, fuzzies! And please, don’t look for trouble.
I must say... for me.. ITS A BINGOOO
All the above is true.
It seems my attempts to simulate an expression of my love have backfired
Two of these I definitely needed to hear. Thank you so much for this perspective.
Glad it was helpful! :) did any of these points remind you of someone you know?
what a beautiful voice and accent!!!!
I think of a more focused and dedicated person
Sigh. I'm a total mirror. When you look at yourself, it's just an endless reflecting void of nothingness. Asking yourself if it's worth finding yourself and if I even want to find myself. It's an interesting journey.
I feel this. I'm not a total mirror, but I definitely feel that way a little bit sometimes. I'd like to find myself.
I don’t think any of these are me, but I’ll keep an eye on myself just in case.
A ghost whisperer broke me. But nice to know it wasn't me
The "Houdini" isn't necessarily a commitment-phobe but likely someone with an Avoidant Attachment style (Dismissive Avoidant or Fearful Avoidant)-- It's not that they don't want the commitment, it's that they're afraid of and don't know how to handle emotional intimacy and conflict, so they distance themselves when certain feelings come up. It's more complex than that, of course, so I encourage anyone interested to watch some Heidi Priebe and Thais Gibson videos on attachment styles. They're both very informative.
And avoidants should REALLY be in therapy to work on themselves before, during, after, or instead of being in relationships. Relationships can trigger a lot of trauma wounds and bring up shame, which can be great to talk about in therapy, but sometimes that all makes it unhealthy to be in a relationship with someone. It can be so difficult and stressful to be in a relationship with an avoidant who hasn't worked on themself and at least learned how to communicate.
off topic question: how do you edit your videos ? I also want to learn this, pls shed some light
I have the 3rd problem 😢, time to go better myself
I don't see why dating someone insecure is something you shouldn't do as it doesn't necceserily harm you, dating or having a romantic relationship should be about showing special gratitude and fondness for someone you love and recieving it back, NOT a way to climb up status ladders or to be held like some kind of trophy, thinking otherwise feels like something a person with some kind of personality disorder would do
I think also the kind of person who doesn’t reciprocate in a conversation, for instance you are the one who only talks or shares and they give no response or exchange. It can be daunting in a relationship too 😂
There are people that keep lying and seeking attention in expense of other peoples trust
Pretty much what I learned from this is that I most likely won’t get someone, due to not having a personality and copying someone elses
I never dated anyone but I used to have this friend who was always depressed. He was always so negative and pessimistic and he would always talk about wanting to kill himself. He would make me sad and I would try to be there for him but there was nothing I could do. Being his friend never helped him to get better, I only made it worse because I was mean to him at times. I felt bad that there was nothing I could do to make him happy, and I am happy we went out separate ways because he is not mentally healthy and he has too many problems. I wish the best for him and I hope he gets help, and it’s also better to not be friends with him cause I was also toxic to him.
The mirror mirror on the wall kind of people are soo frustrating to date especially if u are someone that loves a lady or guy that know wat they want and have their own lives apart from just dating you
Me having BPD and being half of these. I don’t social media stalk or monologue, 😂😭
Ok so quick tip ask someone if they have a ex and why they broke up cause if they cheated on their ex don't date them it highly likely they'll cheat on you
Your voice is really calming❤
love bomber but just because I feel the feeling so strongly I genuinely can't help myself I feel like I gotta tell them over and over again and then I get worried I'm being annoying or that they'll see me as a red flag for it 😔
I mean sometimes people are going through a very rough time dealing with stuff, nobody's perfect.
But what if I feel like one of those types and am scared that the person I love so much will dismiss me even if I really want the best for both of us?
victim to two people of multiple types: one being the pick me/media stalker and the other being the lovebomber/constant trauma dumper. the latter is not listed in the video, basically means in any conversation they vent about any inconvenience. thats fine occasionally but not when its every time i speak to them. now im aware as hell
1:50 this just happened to me today, we were supposed to go out tomorrow, but for the last week has been ghosting me and stuff and today she finally returned in the form of blocking me and stuff 😞
Hi! Is it time traveling to be worried or scared because you have betrayal trauma from the past and don’t want it to happen again in your next relationship?
Not exactly (most people learn from their mistakes & choices so they obviously never want to repeat them consciously - this is normal)
it could als mean you might not be ready for a relationship. The time to have or get into a relationship is when you are absolutely ready for RISK of bent with someone and working at a new one instead of comparing it to the old one or always thinking of the past.
I'm great at finding ghost whisperers.
I love this video. I learned a lot about myself. Now I know on what to improve ^^. I'll try my best!!
I miss the old days when you dated someone because you both like each other for who you are now it's about what can you offer me
I KNOW RIGHT!
@@hanarielgodlike9283 the dating world is not what it once was
Life also didn’t seem so difficult and dating someone you like is fine so long as you’re willing to take the risk (barring abuse exceptions), being getting into in a committed relationship is where these types of awareness things come in.
@@VenusVariation true
Hey, psych2go. I've having trouble with focusing on things like reading my bible or writing a story, especially when there's noise. Can you make a video on how to improve focus and ignore distractions?
Listening to Green Noise and Pink noise is said to help improve focus and concentration! You could try playing it in the background while you're reading, or have it play off your phone while you sleep! 😊
I love that you are trying to focus on reading your Bible too!
@@MorgueInTheVoid Gee, thanks for the advice
I don’t know if I’ll ever experience this
I'm a serial monologer a lot. But I am truly doing everything I can think of to stop. But I still catch myself doing it. It's frustrating because I want conversation, I don't just want to talk. But I also have a lot of thoughts I want to express. Any ideas that might help?
Learn how to be silent when others are speaking to you, listen to what’s said & make sure to repeat it back to them what you heard & don’t interrupt them wiggle they are talking.
Also, not every thought is for sharing with others. If they listen to you then you also should lose to them and discern what should or shouldn’t be spoken of.
Funny how I was told there is someone for everyone...
Dude mine is a "if you cant handle me at my worst" and a "ghost stalker" like ligit
Unless I misinterpreted #2, a different way of viewing it would be that it’s a means of exposing conditional or superficial people. Because every relationship has it’s ups and downs, so those who stick around through the thick and thin together helps strengthen their bond. Therefore, I’d rather be with someone who sticks with me throughout the entire race than waiting at the finish line. Yet, this should never be used as an excuse to guilt trip anyone into being or staying with you if the feeling isn’t mutual though.
I find people attractive and I hate how I'm like this. I don't want to find people attractive. Desire hurts, and I don't want to desire a partner. I hate looking at people and thinking that they're attractive or someone I'd like to get to know more. I'm definitely not someone that needs to be in a relationship. I hope whoever finds me as a potential partner looks away and finds someone else
I hate that my being desperate gets mistaken for love bombing lol. Nope im just kinda traumatized from have narcissistic family and now im a over pleaser and am afraid if i stop gifting and showering love, theyll tire of me...
I love bomb. But not to manipulate with the hot and cold method. Im just very emotional from having no happiness to being happy all of a sudden and that's my way of showing I care and I wont ever leave. Im sad Its a red flag because now I have to hold back my feeling to not discomfort others.
Wish I could’ve seen this way sooner, I see a lot of then in one of my exes
Great content.
Yeah just realised I'm a time traveler, any tips on how to improve?
I do but I don't, the girl I'm dating rn is kind of like a ghost whisperer. she'll message me something and then I'll message her back and then I'll have to wait 30 minutes to an hour to get a response and its kind of annoying. yet at the same time she doesn't always do that and she can sometimes be rly quick abt texting me back. And we just started dating 3 days ago, so idk if I should leave her or just ride the wave and wait a couple more day to see if anything changes. Does anyone have any tips abt this?
The ghost is a person who sees you're not worth their time.
I met most of these people but not partner , normal friends , is it still bad and worth avoiding? Or it's ok since they won't be a big part of my life?
If someone is a friend, then they WILL be a big part of your life, as will their influences so steer clear!
I love the message of this video on dating, relationships, etc I'm ready to learn more
My girlfriend is a time travel type, Our high school prom isn't until the month of May and she keeps asking qme out to it when the day isn't even here, And she keeps showing photos we took in 2022 and it's like she took them yesterday. It's really aggravating
may be alone, but safe
And another proof im perfectly dateable. yet im still alone, fearing rejection
Being a proficient dater I think this is a great video to help avoid longer term problems, well done @Psych2go!!
I love this channel so much 🥹🫶🏻
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Ty for sharing this :)
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