7 PROVEN Ways To FLIRT Effectively Through Texting
Вставка
- Опубліковано 9 тра 2024
- Mastering the art of flirting through texting can be a game-changer in today's dating landscape. Whether you're looking to spark a connection with your crush or keep the flame alive in a long-term relationship, knowing how to flirt through text is a valuable skill.
In this video, we share a few proven strategies on how to flirt effectively through texting. From playful banter to meaningful compliments, these techniques are designed to help you navigate the digital dating realm with confidence.
Learn how to flirt with girls or guys over text, discover subtle ways to show interest, and explore the dos and don'ts of texting your crush. Whether you're a seasoned flirt or just dipping your toes into the world of romance, these tips will elevate your texting game and leave your recipient eagerly anticipating your next message.
#flirting #love #relationship #dating
Writer: Dylan Swanepoel
Editor: Kelly Soong
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Brandon / @littleghostyofficialtm
Animator: Krisha Que
UA-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
REFERENCES:
Joni Meenagh (2015) Flirting, dating, and breaking up within new media environments, Sex Education, 15:5, 458-471, DOI: 10.1080/14681811.2015.1033516
Pinsky, D. (2019). Doing gender online through flirtation. Digitally mediated romantic interactions among college students. RESET. Recherches en sciences sociales sur Internet, (8).
Mortensen, K. K. (2017). Flirting in online dating: Giving empirical grounds to flirtatious implicitness. Discourse Studies, 19(5), 581-597. doi.org/10.1177/1461445617715179
Hall, J. (2013). The five flirting styles: Use the science of flirting to attract the love you really want. Harlequin.
Harris, C. B., Baird, A., Harris, S. A., & Thompson, W. F. (2020). “They’re playing our song”: Couple-defining songs in intimate relationships. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 37(1), 163-179. doi.org/10.1177/0265407519859440
What's your best way to flirt with someone over text?
I don't flirt at all because I haven't found the one I'd like to marry😔✌️
Can't flirt
You want to know my flirt very well
"You seem sweet my dear, so sweet I can't wait to cannibalize and sink my teeth into your tender flesh." 💋💀🖤🥀⚰
Formal (business) typing style. Entertaining and funny. But after all i got rejected😔
I just go with it
Me going through every tutorial ever like I'm not gonna turn down any offer coming my way anyways 😂😂
Hope this video helps you!
@@Psych2go so nice WOW
My biggest fear
Hey, quit calling me out 😂
Yall are getting offers?
She blocked me🤗
Don't even care about her ever again.
She wasn't the one. Don't give up, big dog!
over 😂😂
Yup, that happens sometimes.
It's alright, though. Just take some time to get yourself back up and keep on doing your own thing!
Happened to me before like 7 times, liars
Try not to be creepy. Try not to be creepy. Try not to be creepy.
Text message: HI I LIKE YOUR FACE! 😍
Just as Desmond said to Molly
“Hi I like your face……. Fancy sitting on mines?”
@@amitatal455 I hear Desmond and it reminds me of Spy x Fam xD
I hope you like a restraining order.
Personal experience btw
Time stamps for who needs it:
0:26 - don’t get ahead of yourself
0:59 - sharing is caring
1:56 - sincere compliments
2:28 - don’t be scared to tease them
2:58 - talk about the future
3:36 - have some inside jokes
4:23 - remember to really flirt
1:56 - #3 sincere compliments , 3:36 - #6 have some inside jokes
SHEEESHHH THANK YOU SOO MUCH
Thank you for saving me the time
Seeing comments from girls who are trying to flirt or confess their interest to a guy is really nice to see for me. It feels so refreshing to know you're also going through the same stuff! Good luck to all of us.
"confess their interest to a guy" means theyre on the lookout for a new victim to break the heart on, beyond repair.
Who hurt you@@anderstermansen130
Not every girl is like that. I got out a horrible relationship just recently, but that doesn't give me this toxic, sexist mindset. You'll find her, don't tire yourself needlessly@@anderstermansen130
@@anderstermansen130 😂 stop it
@@anderstermansen130 Aww, did someone get their feewings hurt when a girl didn't want their sour attitude?
Another tip: First know her/his mood. Cuz if they angry, they'll read your message in a wrong tone.
Happened with me few times, and it was awkward explaining them that I wasn't angry.
Emojis can really help establish the tone as well.
"I dont mean speculating on what how humanity will look like 1 million years from now."
My nerd ass: ah shoot, there goes my chance.
I know right, I was excited to finally have a genuine excuse to bring up my dystopian predictions.
lol SAME
exactly :(
I literally fumbled over text an hour before I saw this. Damn. C'est la vie.
rest in peace soldier, just fumbled about a month ago.
How did you do it? If not a secret
C'est la vie en effet😅
C’est la vie is what every dude thinks when they f it up and it’s scary and funny at the same time lol
@@thegamingshiba as a french person, I think "it is what it is".
Anyway, happened to me like 5 months ago, I got friendzoned, and then accidentally forgot to keep contact with her lol
I always ask my lovely Liza if anybody told her she was pretty that day. When she says no i tell her "pleases me to be the first"🥰
I think I'm gonna puke. This is too sweet, I don't want to get diabetes
@@TheMCzorrowhat do you mean
W
@@Zeromus0 Your comment was extremely sweet, in fact, too sweet for my liking
@@TheMCzorro❤
“Avoid being creepy”
Bruh, that’s why I never so much as talk to someone I’m interested in. Nowhere near neurotypical enough to be confident in knowing what is and isn’t creepy. Plus I’m blind to any kind of flirting anyway 😅 so it’s a moot point from the start
Yeah honestly I stopped trying.
Fun story: I confessed my love to a girl, she friendzoned me, my mature self took it quite well, but I forgot to ACTUALLY stay her friend lmao, and then she pouted on me and said *I* am the one who is pouting...
*I mean if you want to stay friends you also have to start conversations sometimes or else we are not friends at all, cute idiot!*
Anyway I feel free of all burdens now and it really was worth it, it's a wonderful feeling
Your channel blows me away. How do you guys manage to pump out such well-animated, well-cited videos so often?? It is incredible. So awesome
A tip for sharing music: don't just randomly send songs with zero explanation or context. that doesn't come off as flirting, at least to most adults. give me a REASON as to why you're sharing that song or artist. make sure I am open to listening to it. and pay attention to if there's reciprocation. are you asking me to send songs I love in return? this kind of flirting is very give and take, not just spamming random music you love. it will backfire if you don't put thought and connection into it, like most things.
The #1 important thing to pay attention to is how the person you're flirting with is reacting to you/talks to you- which I know can be difficult through text sometimes. if they are not showing interest, you need to back off and let go after a time. if you're not sure, being straightforward is good because you should always look for someone who is open and honest about their feelings. if they're unsure for too long, you deserve someone who IS sure of themselves. be good to others as you'd be good to yourself and vice versa.
Soulrapturing black metal❤
Timestamps :
1 Don’t Get Ahead of Yourself 00:27
2 Sharing is Caring 01:00
3 Sincere Compliments 01:57
4 Don’t Be Scared to Tease Them 02:29
5 Talk About the Future 03:00
6 Have some Inside Jokes 03:39
7 Remember to Really Flirt 4:23
Really enjoyed how this video breaks down the nuances of flirting over text without overstepping boundaries. The reminder to be respectful and light-hearted as foundational rules is so important. It reminds us that effective communication, especially in a romantic context, is built on respect and understanding.
ur videos really calm me down v much.. it's a very good way to end my day tbh, thanks so much
We're really to hear that! We hope this video can help you out. Don't feel hesitate to share any topic ideas you'd like us to cover more on!
i dont know how u time these so perfectly but i legit spent like an hour this morning thinking of how socially awkward i am when i text someone im interested in. Well was intrested in. Currently dont have anyone lol
I feel it's needed to be brought up: *I love* Brandon's voice. So gentle. Like a very understanding friend. C:
Not even close, expending this much energy into a intrapersonal interaction has reinvigorated my desire to go out and have real, more natural interactions in the "wild". There's too much room for people to hide in anonymity. It's a massive waste of time, if someone is interested they'll immediately let you know, otherwise, go on a hike, knock out some chores, or just stare at the sky.
I never thought I’d have one of those “PSYCH2GO UPLOADED THIS AT THE WILDEST TIME” moments, but here we are
Step 1 as a guy: don’t text her too much. hangout with her In person. This ain’t gossip girls
Lovely video❤ I love the positive vibe 😊
This is the channel I keep finding myself coming back to every time I get a new crush >~
Whelp, good to know I was doing this step by step when i reconnected with a friend two months back. Havent seen her in 11 years. But we've decided to start a long distance relationship. And she is coming to visit in less then a week! Wish me luck!
We both were able to bond over how similar to what we've been through with our ex's, we both were cheated on.
Hello!!! I love your videos sm thanks for helping me through many things!
We're really to hear that! We hope this video can help you out. Don't feel hesitate to share any topic ideas you'd like us to cover more on!
I'm glad this video exists because I'm currently talking with a girl, but she has a BF. Me and her text a lot and I feel I can get along with her, but I also want to keep my boundaries and be respectful to her still.
love this channel!
Thank you so much for this video.
I love that you're exposing all the people who claim their "experts" in dating advice with these videos.
They're*
You must first understand the market they are selling you. Then you'll understand the type of people they are referring to with their advice.
She took it up nicely and sent back my emoji. I think that's good!
Thankyou, (the 😏😏emoji is very powerful)
me with no special person 🍿😎
If you super enjoy your own company, I’d say you are with the most special ! Peace.
I met a woman in 2014/15. She was the first woman I spoke to that wasn't my wife in over a decade. I told her a lot of things about me and we shared a lot of laughter and flirted a lot. We used to write notes to each other because people where we worked would talk if they would see us together and we didn't want anyone knowing about us. We used to text too. I was fool to think I could find something I lost in someone different. I used to love when she'd shave her head, too. I was wrong for thinking any other woman would want me, and I was wrong for thinking it because I was married to top it all off. I ruined our friendship by trying to tell her how I felt through text. I suck so bad sometimes...
Flirting and really establishing a proper connection with someone your interested in over text does have it's challenges. Your not able to pick up on small details or behaviors compared to if you were talking to someone irl. However you made a lot of great points such as having many inside jokes with someone you like. And when it comes to flirting itself, yes sometimes you should really emphasize it to get the message across. Overall you provided some great tips! Fantastic work @Psych2go!😁
Thanks for doing this. People appear to flirt with me often
❤
I love Brendon’s voice too!
Why are you so precized at making videos hahaha recently I start making friends through online and luckily you post new video about it
i am so glad there's a male voice, it's so comfortable to hear
I really needed this - I struggle to talk to my crush irl and texting is the easiest way to express feelings for myself. Im working on moving past my anxiety regarding talking to people but (until then) these videos are really helpful!
Don’t worry you’re maybe struggling but you can still be with her and maybe one day you’ll get over the anxiety and if you don’t
That’s fine just find someone who can understand that and look past it
@@joylechanceux4805 thank you so much for the kind words - I’ve literally started tearing up. You have no idea how much I needed to hear that. I hope that I can get over it one day, like you said, but it just feels so impossible sometimes.
Once again thank you, I very much appreciate it❤️❤️❤️
@@D.Fettuccine glad to hear
I also have anxiety and I managed to get over it a little bit so yeah I can tell you it’s possible
Good luck with your crush
I hope she likes you back
@@joylechanceux4805 it’s reassuring to know that someone who went through something similar is getting better, it gives me hope that one day I can too. Maybe I’ll return to this comment if she likes me back!
Thanks for taking the time just to encourage me, it means a lot❤️
@@joylechanceux4805 It is reassuring that someone else is overcoming a similar problem, you have no idea how grateful I am that you took the time just to encourage and reassure me - as I have been doubtful about getting better. If it all goes well maybe I'll return to this comment and give an update!
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!!
Thanks Psych2go. I'll do these things if i ever find someone i have a crush on. Flirting might be hard but once again your video helped me a lot. Thank you for making content like this
You’re making it too complicated. Just 2 steps. 1. Let yourself feel how you feel towards them. 2. Talk to them.
Done. It will happen naturally.
@@AutomaticDuck300 I know i should do something to create a relationship. I actully tried few times before but well i was unlucky. After that i didn't even try. Past is always the problem...
@@SMGDL2009 yeah but you learn from your mistakes. You’re not any less of a person. Just change tactics.
@@AutomaticDuck300 I will. Thanks for helping me. I really appreciate that. Wish everyone were helpful, kind, you know. Here almost everyone are kind to each other. We can just talk about anything. We Psych2go fans are like this and it's good to see that there's still kind people in this world. There's still hope
Alright, time to grab that note pad and take down everything here to see if I can give it a try!
Sweet and soft and soothing voice.
I dont know why but everytime i watch your videos at night it makes me cry of pain because i know i wont find someone that understand me as much as she did and i dont know why but somehow crying of pain feels good i cant figure out why i cry and after that i laugh but im still sad
Even tho I just got out of a relationship and not sure if I want to flirt with someone immediately, always interesting
I remember the days when AIM was the only way I could talk to women, and now that we have texting, I just can't do it at all anymore. Something inside of me won't allow it.
What why?
@@entirelyourownworld 42 years of rejection
It was a lot easier to talk to women on AOL back in the day. People were just more open and willing to connect in general.
Teasing and genuine compliments are like a balanced meal. They go hand in hand and make it really fun to talk to a person, especially if they do it back. I rizzed up my ex partly by being kind and partly by being pure evil lmao. Just gotta be funny and make it clear you're not trying to actually hurt them.
trying to filrt my homie with this one 🔥🔥🔥🗣🗣🗣🔥🔥
Love it!!
I feel so early to be here 😂❤
Nice change in the narrator's voice. But the girl, im not sure what her name is, her voice is so calm and relaxing...
Nice work tho guys 👍
Finally dared to flirt and tease him a bit after making sure he's still up for another date (after some time apart due to sickness) aaand now I'm on read for days...nevermiiiind lol
I just told my crush that she looks pretty, I have zero interaction with her before,I just jump straight into it cuz I don't know what I was thinking. She hasn't responded yet...maybe I fked up haha 😅 but it's nice I managed to gain the courage
Aww don't you worry too much! You were indeed brave and everyone likes compliments!
It may just be difficult to find a good response or time to reply.
There's a lot of reasons in that kind of situation, that don't even have anything to do with you personally.
Don't let it get you down ♡
@@panaceax9979 thanks for the kind words, she ignored and rejected me 2 days ago, but I'm over it now, I'm not sad at all, it was a great experience 😅
@@panaceax9979 thank you for the kind words, she rejected me, but I'm cool with it now :)
@@panaceax9979 she rejected me, but I'm all good :))
thank you!
Imma just doing poetic thing and it works every time both irl and in text
The timing of this video being posted is scary, convenient and not by coincidence
I also like to know the reason behind loving gore, horror and chaos media and whether it's a red sign.
I wish i was confident enough with my self to actully ask somebody out or even just talk with people
Is anyone else just here for the sound effects and occasionally the pretty art?
Cant believe i need a tutorial for this, usually i dont read the manual
cant wait to try this out!!!
oh wait my phone broke nvm
Let's see....currently doing 5 out of 7 with my crush. I think I may just have a shot! 🥰
Just say, "Hey, how you doin?" Maybe they'll laugh like my niece does. If nothing else you made someone smile and that is always a plus. 😁
Timestamps
1). Don't get ahead of yourself 0:25
2). Sharing is caring 0:59
3). Sincere compliments 1:55
4). Don't be scared to tease them 2:28
5). Talk about the future 2:57
6). Have some inside jokes 3:36
7). Remember to really flirt 4:22
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I’ve been doing these ways to talk with my friend (I have a crush on him)‚ but now I want to confess my feelings towards him. I haven’t taken enough courage for now but maybe there’s really a right time for that. I just don’t want him to be confused and think that I’m just being friendly.
also‚ thank you for posting this video. At first I was hesitant and unsure about my feelings but after watching this‚ in every tips that’s been discussed‚ he pops up in my mind.
Huh nice
i like your comment. it was heartwarming
But if I were to give some advice from my experience as a guy who one day a girl confesses to, I would say: if you are absolutely sure about your feelings Go confess to him and stand by your decision no matter what. Especially if he shared the same feeling.
I hope that both of you will be the best person for each other❤❤❤
I'm a guy and I advice you not to propose him until unless he's really a shy guy. If he's not a shy guy then you should make him propose you and then accept his proposal.
I'm telling you this because he might think that you're a low value girl and lose interest in you as a lot of girls nowadays are playing hard to get like yk what I mean?
But also act like you're interested in him so that he might not think he's wasting his time in pursuing you.
(Sometimes, you don't have to propose, everything just falls in a place.)
@@ashaypallav4158 This type of behavior is exactly the problem of all relationships. Playing lying wearing a mask
And most importantly: being immature
@@abynevermore5542 You got me all wrong, i told her to show interest in him and act interested. I never asked her to ghost him or act immature or anything sorta
Oh, these tips can be very effective, thank you! I've got a little question and I can't find a way of answering it
She's always busy (she's doing a business degree while I'm studying IT development), and we live really far apart (~5 hours by car). Now, I can't lie, I don't spend all day doing homework (it seems 'simple', logical and natural, it's just that I don't need to study as much at the moment), whereas she's always studying, pushing herself every time.
Now, we've talked a lot every summer since covid19, but during school, not so much. Still, recently she sent me messages (I'm on holiday this week, she's just finished her holiday) that were quite flattering, I can't lie. She wants us to go to an amusement park this summer (now that I've got a car and we've got money, it's much easier!), and I'm all for it, but because of the stress of her school, if I don't text her first and we don't talk then, she just doesn't reply.
I know it might be stupid, but I don't know if I should continue, check in, just talk, or stop.
PS: I'm really enjoying talking to her (and I think she is too) and I'm not forcing myself, but I'm wondering if in this situation I should stop.
Hi
There is no yes or no answer
These decisions happen in everyone's life and it all depends on what answer we get from looking at the relationship
And unfortunately, we will find out later how mature our decision was
But in general, Because there is no deep feeling of love between you (based on your explanation):
See what you want from the relationship. What do you get out of it? What is the ratio of the good feeling you get to these thoughts you said and which one has more weight. And finally, share all these problems with her and listen to her words to reach a good decision together.
wish you the best❤
Great video🩶
I've been getting along with a friend recently... We did quite many of these things, but something changed out of nowhere. She stopped being consistent to my messages, she stopped joining VC, she stopped joining OUR plans; no more games, no more movies, no more nothing...
It's a bit tough, I thought we had something mutual...
I'm not giving up to love, but I've given up on her, I still care for her, but I need to move on.
a long time ago I dabbled into the PUA world.. and interestingly, the concepts discussed here are the same. The only diff is that the words used to describe them are much kinder in this vid😅
This channel has been of great help to my mental health adventure and my life so thank you so much psych2go
Best comment ever. Thanks for your support in our work!
The last one is like the broadest most relative thing ever
😂 Is it possible to ask someone to go back and redo a conversation now?
Ohayou Gozaimasu! 🙏
Everytime will happen to see likely in want we best we do
Coming off as creepy has always stopped me from flirting via text; maybe thats why none of my talking stages worked out 😂
Meanwhile, I’m watching this as I’ve been left on Read for the past few weeks.
I feel that, man. It happens
OOF been there man. It gets better. Trust me
Make a video on topics to talk about please, I don’t know how to talk to people 1 one 1, It’s really hard for me 😞
I clicked on this video like there’s going to be a woman I can text, let alone flirt with any time in the near future.
this might just be me but I feel like am I the only girl who kinda likes those awkward moments like I’m not joking if I saw like a sincere and sweet message between him and someone else being like so there’s this girl- then I would freak out
I feel like this is a safe place to share. I have questions on this topic. So, a bit of backstory, I am in a long distance relationship. It is going well. My only thing is that they asked of me to respect a boundary put in place. The boundary is only texting on three days per week. I feel like we can't fully connect this way. I have respected their boundary fully. I just feel as though I would like to have a bit more communication with them. What would be the nicest way to talk about this with them?
if they can only give you 3 days but your willing to give them 7 days, maybe hes not fully commited to the relationship? I don't mean to be rude, although if my girlfriend would only be willing to tex met 3 days a week then i don't feel like they really want to have anything to do with me. take it easy.
@@xdeep_freeze3684 Thank you. I will think about what you have said. It does help to hear other people's thoughts. I will also talk to them about it and see if we can compromise better. Again, I thank you.
Well done for your courage in coming forward with this!
Sadly I agree with the other commentator below!
It looks like the person you are writing to is just after a basic friendship and nothing more?
If you are happy with that then fine?
Personally when I've been in the situation, I haven't dropped that person, that is probably not what they want!
But I have just gently tailed off the friendship, and I suggest you then look for someone who was appreciate a closer relationship with you!
@@xdeep_freeze3684I totally agree with the advice you have given, and have suggested the same!
Sounds like they're married
I have indeed found messages to send but I don’t have a person to send them to anymore so yeah 💀
Can you pls do a video about what to do if your crush hates you 😅
No joke. Ready-NEVER speak, write or even think that thought again. Before you go to bed imagine the two of you in a scenario together. Be as detailed in your imagining as you can. Where are you two? What are you’s wearing? Does this person have a particular scent? Imagine how you would feel. Feeling is the key. Can’t stress it enough. FEELING is the key.
Don’t write me off as crazy til after you’ve done this consistently for 33 days. Yes-odd number thirty three. 😅
Much happiness to you!
@@Cadia369 k I'll try 😁
@@Cadia369 what's it supposed to do tho
Uhh hi there, this is just a video suggestion, please.
I have struggled an idea for a show & this year, there were 2 shows that was strikingly similar to my show, and both of them were very popular.
Almost nobody knows who I am, and I tried turning my idea into something new, but it didn’t work, what do I do?? This is extremely frustrating to me.
100 times more nerve wracking when you know if you fumble screenshots will be taken😭😭🙏🏾
REAL.
I just told my crush she's pretty, what should I do next ( I have followed none of these instructions, I just jump straight into it)
As someone who is really into K-Pop... I also like metal. I can't believe you would be so careless as to assume such things. :p
Sigh... I hate myself checking "did he replied", when there's nth, my brain start popping "he is ignoring you" "he dun want to answer you" "he dun want to turn u down that's y he didn't reply". I hate this feeling for like/ care someone.
oof i already failed. Im a kpop stan so i often give long list of songs ti listen to lol😂❤
the NUMBER ONE HITS ME LIKE A TRUCK
DAMN YOU, YOU ARE TOO GOOD AT GETTING ME TO CLICK YOU PSYCHOLOGIST
From my experience, if the one you want to flirt through text doesn't answer back in like 2-3 minutes each time and every single time, you're always the one who starts the conversation then that person is not interested in you. Though there are some factors like their current status, emotion and their past, etc. that will drastically affect the process and ya gotta find a better method or just move on with another folk.
Just had my heart broken guys its 12am and idk if this is right place to talk about it
It's alr u can talk abt it
Stuff like this tends to backfire on me. It just makes me feel even more isolated.
I hope she says yes😅
1:10 music is a good thing to share meawhile me listening trapmetal (screaming rap to metalmusic :) )
I'm using social media for like more than 6 years and I can't able to make a friend Everyone just ghosted me because I'm too nice or respectful.. I never wanted to be creepy or intrusive that's why I stopped texting anyone I couldn't able to make a friend flirting is just ... Just impossible for me 😢
I Completely understand this i
It is in my nature to be nice & compliment others!! But weirdly it does put some people off!
Just try to be a bit more laid back and neutral to start with!
Bold of you to assume I can flirt.
I have no idea how to flirt, in text or irl. I remember that scene from Gravity Falls where one of the characters Soos says "Your face is good. I'm a Soos." and that's basically my level of "flirting".
This is acually somewhat scary, before I had my boyfriend now (it has been some days I think less than a week) I got recommendations about "how" to get love and all of that, now that I have a boyfriend though, I get recommendations about how to flirt and all of that, I feel like I am being watched 💀
Now I don't think I should put too much thought onto it, I think it is going already pretty well and if I start to think to much about it I might ruin it, but yeah I love my boyfriend so much, we actually already did so many things of this video, I am not sure we have that many things in common (we have some though), but there's just something that just makes me not get tired of talking with him :3
Sorry if I made someone jealous or smth ＞︿＜
the fact that i cant do these cause my shyness gets the best of me hahwhaha