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  • Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
  • I saw this R.E.M. performance on TV live on BBC back in 2003 when I was living in London, I was so astonished by Michael Stipe performance, as a music videos fan I came across exactly this song bit of the concert. I unpretentiously posted this in 2011. I had no idea how this song touches people in so many different ways. Now it's reaching nearly 40 million views. The comments are just so overwhelming.

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  • @pandanetvids
    @pandanetvids  3 роки тому +316

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  • @stevenmcneil9800
    @stevenmcneil9800 2 роки тому +200

    This guy saved my life thank you I can speak to my grandchildren now if it wasn't for you you I wouldn't be here today thank you so much take comfort in your friends

    • @slycat778
      @slycat778 8 місяців тому +2

      ah

    • @teresamulero9411
      @teresamulero9411 4 місяці тому +13

      Great decision. God bless you.

    • @hgrossano
      @hgrossano 2 місяці тому +7

      Take comfort in Jesus saving Grace. His Mercy, His unconditional love, His JOY, His peace that surpasses all understanding. Seek Him. Respond to Him. Be born again Read John 3:16 ❤

    • @karijkoskinen7636
      @karijkoskinen7636 2 місяці тому +2

      You know your life and parents. ... Just try to slide to them. They accept you, your they son.

    • @darlenelewis906
      @darlenelewis906 2 місяці тому +7

      Amen.so happy you are still here .❤✌️🤗🖐enjoy what you have.

  • @charlottemcdaniel6534
    @charlottemcdaniel6534 3 роки тому +372

    To the 71 year old at home alone listening to this incredible song . You are not alone!! God bless !!!! Beautiful song such passion poured into this !!

  • @TomokosEnterprize
    @TomokosEnterprize Рік тому +134

    At a time long ago my wife went missing. This song had just been released. We mended our ways and had 40 good years until cancer took her away from me.

    • @LewisLeeLandscapes
      @LewisLeeLandscapes 4 місяці тому +7

      Bless you!!

    • @TomokosEnterprize
      @TomokosEnterprize 4 місяці тому +7

      @@LewisLeeLandscapes And to you my friend!

    • @jaxshaw401
      @jaxshaw401 3 місяці тому +8

      You are not alone xxx

    • @fatimamolinaro8878
      @fatimamolinaro8878 3 місяці тому +3

      Sinto muito. Estou em Remissão, no final do ano faz 4 anos que tive que perder uma mama para hoje poder estar aqui ouvindo essa poesia e escrevendo esse comentário. No começo de novembro começo a fazer todos os exames da prevenção e acredite, é difícil abrir todos os laudos, o fantasma de uma possível volta do câncer é real, mas preciso seguir em frente, enfrentar e combater cada fantasma. Estou casada há 42 anos, meu primeiro e único namorado e meu maior amor e amigo. No próximo dia 11 nosso filho mais velho irá completar 40 anos e tudo que peço é que eu possa ficar por aqui mais um pouquinho. Segui em frente ouvindo essa maravilha.

    • @TomokosEnterprize
      @TomokosEnterprize 3 місяці тому

      @@fatimamolinaro8878 Blss your heart. I have fought with addictions for my entire life. Right back as long as I can remember. My parents and the rest of this great` blue ball in space really didn't know how to deal with it in anyone that young to deal with it. I loved it when dad would light a cigarett when we were in the car and when my grandad gave me my first beer because I out fished all the other men in the boat I was right on with that stuff big time and would steal it everytime I had theopportunity. On into my teens came acid, mda, heroin, Lots and lots of weed ( I still take part in and of course any kind of alcoholl that I still fight the battle with.) The pot and the beer I can manage to a more or less win over. Each and every day is a test. NOW I am fighting bladder cancer. Some of us just can't get a break but After 85 and growing surgerys I just plain give up. The only thing that can make this existance better should give me the break I really would like to hapen would be a new thing called MAID. I await that day and understand the need to go there but for now I am pouring siler to make folks happy and feel good. That is the best pill out there times 10. I feel for you and I have a channel here what I do with silver and would love to have you stop by for a visit my friend ! It is great you reached out today. Luv ya !

  • @carmelbrown7500
    @carmelbrown7500 Рік тому +29

    This saved my life and i blesd them for it. I am blessef i came through it.

  • @Sveinbeard
    @Sveinbeard 3 роки тому +752

    I am not in a good place right now and came here to listen to this. It gives hope, I am not alone.
    Reading the comments gives comfort. Thankyou.

    • @user-usham
      @user-usham 3 роки тому +1

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    • @ktbg1
      @ktbg1 3 роки тому +21

      No you are NOT alone. Hugs

    • @makelikeatree1696
      @makelikeatree1696 3 роки тому +25

      Stay with us friend. We have been there and we want you with us. It takes more guts to stay.

    • @DockedCoffee
      @DockedCoffee 3 роки тому +14

      I wish you the best my brother, hang in there! Godbless!

    • @lemonon7149
      @lemonon7149 3 роки тому +16

      Keep reaching out my friend. No one knows your hurting until you tell us. Get help we all understand and care👊🏻👊🏻🙏🏻

  • @ExtraPencil2
    @ExtraPencil2 Рік тому +272

    20 years later, June 2023, this remains a classic ❤and deservedly so. When anyone feels on the edge, ready to give up, this song will always remind us that "Everybody Hurts" -- thanks to REM and Michael's unforgettable performance ❤😢 ❤

    • @carolinabruno5160
      @carolinabruno5160 Рік тому +2

      Traduzione

    • @MelKaufman-j4q
      @MelKaufman-j4q Рік тому +16

      The most beautifull incredible,sad song ever written.A magnificenty talented man.

    • @nibiadominguez1630
      @nibiadominguez1630 Рік тому +5

      Para mi sin palabras , la puedo escuchar todos los dis .

    • @lucilleball1913
      @lucilleball1913 Рік тому +5

      ​@@nibiadominguez1630passe o tempo que for...continuo ouvindo e me emociono ao ver tantas dores ultimamente,entre os inocentes.

    • @sarahdee374
      @sarahdee374 Рік тому +11

      the words "hold on" literally saved my life. I was seriously considering ending it, and this song came on the radio. I agreed to hold on and trust that my life and relationship with my two daughters would somehow improve. And with work and love it did.

  • @lorettomccartney6295
    @lorettomccartney6295 Рік тому +212

    This man must be a good soul to write such a compassionate song.

  • @marciayoung8735
    @marciayoung8735 7 місяців тому +270

    I think this song saved my life, when my husband died I completely gave up.. it's been almost 16 years since cancer took his life. Then my beautiful baby granddaughter died, and then my brother, and my mom died in December 23, now my big brother is dying again from cancer 😢 I come here and play this song over and over again, because it reminds me to just hang on. God Bless everyone out there, somehow we will be okay

    • @rnwendy1804
      @rnwendy1804 7 місяців тому +13

      🙏 for you to find peace. May your loving memories of them all help you heal.

    • @jean-jacqueslesenfant3347
      @jean-jacqueslesenfant3347 6 місяців тому +1

      Que vous bénisse ❤ tant de malheur faut être fort 🙏🙏🥰✝️🇫🇷

    • @showtimeCA1999
      @showtimeCA1999 6 місяців тому +6

      God Bless you and your loved ones. It will be okay and someday you will get to hug them again in the afterlife, if that's where we all go. Hang On!

    • @nancybourbeau7492
      @nancybourbeau7492 6 місяців тому +6

      Blessed be to you and know the soul is eternal

    • @richardgadoury8452
      @richardgadoury8452 5 місяців тому +1

      @@nancybourbeau7492 It's rough out there. There are many reasons to go on. Only you can decide the path..

  • @entigy6448
    @entigy6448 3 роки тому +720

    I have watched this dozens of times. Today. it's my turn. My Dad, Michael William Thomas Mitchell, died this week aged 87. He was a working class dad, and a great dad. Family was all he had, all he wanted, and all he cared about. RIP Dad.

    • @karendavidson6272
      @karendavidson6272 3 роки тому +16

      So sorry for your loss 😢🙏

    • @andresmit9384
      @andresmit9384 3 роки тому +15

      Respect

    • @maureenblanda9943
      @maureenblanda9943 3 роки тому +17

      R.I.P, having a father that wanted to be there is so beautiful, God bless him, and make him proud

    • @raquelspersonalopinion3598
      @raquelspersonalopinion3598 3 роки тому +26

      I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm here because my poor momma is in the hospital dying of stage 4 lung cancer! She has been , as of today only days to live , and I don't mean to sound rude , but today I'm grateful for her to be finally be ready , and emotionally and mentally she is more then ready to be free of her old and aching earthly body! We've talked about the end on many , many occasions as I have been her sole caretaker for the last 3 and 1/2 years and belive me when I say I would do it all over again even though it was the single most difficult thing I've ever signed up for in my entire life! The time I spent looking after her and the memories I alone will have , man you can't buy that kind of time!! Helping her to mentally and emotionally prepare for her final journey was a once in a lifetime trip, I just hope and pray someone is there for me when its my time to transition!! The thing that is bothering me the most right now is that she can't have 1 visitor to see her and she really has got to do this all alone because of covid restrictions!! If I had known I wouldn't have allowed them to admit her , I would have and should have just brought her home so I could hold her as she takes her last breath as she held me when I breathed my 1st breath!! Again I'm sorry for your loss!! Much love , kindness and compassion to you and yours at this difficult moment!

    • @elaineroberts9255
      @elaineroberts9255 3 роки тому +24

      God bless you. My young son recently died and his Dad took his own life. So much pain , so much sorrow. Today is the anniversary of my Dad's passing too. June is a month that I just can't cope with. R.E.M. Give me hope. Xx

  • @trickygoose2
    @trickygoose2 4 роки тому +3053

    I've never understood people who say that this song is depressing. To me, this is a song that recognises you are sad, upset or anxious, puts a comforting arm around you, empathises with you and takes you to a less distressing place.

  • @highgrainstudios
    @highgrainstudios 3 роки тому +928

    It's really something when you find a song like this while you're in the middle of a breakdown. It's like life itself is telling you not to give up. Thank you REM.

    • @user-usham
      @user-usham 3 роки тому +1

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    • @debbiesullivan8404
      @debbiesullivan8404 3 роки тому +9

      Stay strong don’t give up very comforting song

    • @איריסשביט-ג5ו
      @איריסשביט-ג5ו 3 роки тому +2

      @@user-usham דרגגגגגגגגגקגגגגגגקרקגקגגגקקרקגדגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגדגגדגגגגקגדגגגגגגרגדגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגגקקגגגגגדגגגגג1:1

    • @stefanopilati8210
      @stefanopilati8210 3 роки тому +1

      👏👏👏👌🔝

    • @andymaunder2717
      @andymaunder2717 3 роки тому +4

      @@stefanopilati8210 stay strong x

  • @beverlybrooks3562
    @beverlybrooks3562 Рік тому +40

    Thank you .for this song.

  • @cfavalorofavaloro6053
    @cfavalorofavaloro6053 2 роки тому +216

    Everybody in the whole world needs to hear this song at this time with everything that’s been going on.

  • @arthurnelms3513
    @arthurnelms3513 2 роки тому +138

    I am 68, and it's been 4 months since my wife passed from cancer, and it has left me lost. I can't seem to get my bearing. At my age, I don't have much of anything to offer, so when someone says, hold on, don't give up, why would that apply to me? I eat every other day, I'm back to working 5days a week, I have no life, and deth for me is one step away! So for me, this song acknowledges that loss is real, and some are crushed by the weight of its pain. I love the song!

    • @julieugo4407
      @julieugo4407 2 роки тому +15

      Oh Arthur, you don't have to get your bearings yet, it's only been 4 months since you lost your wife.. you have alot to offer but the time is not right for moving on yet for you, everyone has their own pace.. sadness is a terrible thing and I understand absolutely about not wanting to be here any longer, different circumstances but pain is pain..
      I think it's harder as we get older, I'm 64 and when I feel like letting go.......
      I listen to this sometimes 6, 7, 8 times in a row, loud, I cry, I get angry, I get terribly sad but I keep playing it until it clicks........Hold On
      💗

    • @kevinmccullough4487
      @kevinmccullough4487 2 роки тому +9

      I’m sorry for your loss friend. There is still plenty to offer and experience for you.

    • @kirtiepatel2520
      @kirtiepatel2520 8 місяців тому +5

      So Sorry to hear about your loss. No words can ever bring comfort to your broken heart. But, Because You loved your wife so sincerely, it shows that you Love passionately. That means you have LOVE in your heart that you can give to someone who is going through the same feelings like yours about their loss of a loved one. Look for that someone and share your Beautiful Love. Talk to a friend when you hurt. Sometimes it helps. Prayer can also be helpful. May Jehovah God comfort you. 🤟

    • @MarieBenton-nm4pv
      @MarieBenton-nm4pv 8 місяців тому +6

      I lost my daughter age 30 with leukaemia 17 years ago x in my life now x but music 🎵 I love music on life x

    • @emilb6252
      @emilb6252 8 місяців тому +2

      Držím ti palce🙋

  • @billyidol7931
    @billyidol7931 3 роки тому +495

    One of the most up-lifting song messages in history.
    Never give up.
    Never give in.
    Youre never alone.

    • @chylimzbydzi
      @chylimzbydzi 2 роки тому +4

      💙💛💙💛💙💛💙💛💙💛💙💛💙💛

    • @rickhimmelheber1872
      @rickhimmelheber1872 2 роки тому +4

      I agree...it's helped me gor sure

    • @chylimzbydzi
      @chylimzbydzi 2 роки тому

      @@rickhimmelheber1872 Was it really bad?

    • @rickhimmelheber1872
      @rickhimmelheber1872 2 роки тому +8

      I have severe depression, anxiety, bipolar depression. This song is very important.

    • @chylimzbydzi
      @chylimzbydzi 2 роки тому +3

      @@rickhimmelheber1872 stay strong✌

  • @MelKaufman-j4q
    @MelKaufman-j4q Рік тому +93

    More than 20 years after,this incredible masterpiece of a song.Came out I still cry hystericaly when I hear it.Its ... brilliant
    .

    • @Sandra-g5x4b
      @Sandra-g5x4b Місяць тому +1

      Plz hold on my name is sandra n im hear if u need someone to talk to but no matter what I wish u health n happy Ness n merry Xmas n I hope yous have a good new year god bless yous x

  • @lauratompkins5006
    @lauratompkins5006 2 роки тому +46

    Lost my sister and best friend last year. Now, my sweet brother is dying. God wants me here. Ty Michael Stipe💙💔❤

    • @emilb6252
      @emilb6252 8 місяців тому +3

      Jsem z České republiky nevzdávej to vím jak ti je držím palce čas vše zahojí Ahoj opatruj se🙋

    • @skifullydone8165
      @skifullydone8165 Місяць тому

      My dad, children, not born children died. What a shitty day. Fuck off.

  • @miguellemus2871
    @miguellemus2871 3 роки тому +426

    Im 80 yrs Old and anytime i ear this Song my tears come out.

    • @christinephillips3435
      @christinephillips3435 2 роки тому +18

      I cry every time I hear it too

    • @Godisgreat725
      @Godisgreat725 2 роки тому +12

      Me tooo

    • @ronkeefe9048
      @ronkeefe9048 2 роки тому +10

      @@Godisgreat725 its beautiful

    • @ricardo950535
      @ricardo950535 2 роки тому +17

      You ain't lying. Every generation faces different hurdles. And the same. We gotta remember that. It's thru struggle also that we learn hard truths in life that can't be taught. Gotta experience them.

    • @BS1af
      @BS1af 2 роки тому +6

      Miguel Lemus Always tears...

  • @p.m.c..2.615
    @p.m.c..2.615 2 роки тому +284

    Everyone that loves this song has their own reasons for loving it . Just pure class . Brings everything out .

    • @Godisgreat725
      @Godisgreat725 2 роки тому +4

      Very true fact 🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️

    • @alisonshenton
      @alisonshenton 2 роки тому +4

      TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU I DON'T BOTHER AND NEVER HAVE OR EVER BOTHER THIS LISTENING TO TUNES READING COMMENTS IT'S A GREAT WAY TO STAY IN TOUCH MUSIC HAS DEFINITELY HELPED ME AND ALWAYS WILL SO HAVE A GREAT DAY 🥰

    • @alisonshenton
      @alisonshenton 2 роки тому +4

      SORRY I MEANT I VE NEVER BEEN ON FACEBOOK OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT ❤️

    • @michelledelhaye3473
      @michelledelhaye3473 2 роки тому +1

      Pour donna excuse j,ai 64 ans et ne connais pas anglais la musique porte aussi le positif prend soins de toi

    • @ReeceyBoy_4
      @ReeceyBoy_4 2 роки тому +1

      Absolutely. Unreal music this

  • @TomokosEnterprize
    @TomokosEnterprize 11 місяців тому +12

    I was in a tough time when this first aired. I was on my own just shy of the BC Canada and the North West Territory's minding a camp for loggers on a long shut down for Xmas. Beautiful and so hard at the same time.

  • @lorrainespagnuolo4149
    @lorrainespagnuolo4149 Рік тому +143

    Michael Stripe gave this song “Everything he’s got to give “. He sung it with emotion and beauty!!💜

  • @andysiegel6131
    @andysiegel6131 2 роки тому +67

    My favorite video of all time. Wish sadly several friends were around to " listen " to it .
    Be.In.Peace. everybody!

    • @andyblenkey8137
      @andyblenkey8137 2 роки тому +4

      Mine too andy sheer brilliance when the dark thoughts are getting too much

  • @joannesmith1728
    @joannesmith1728 7 років тому +1213

    I was in hospital in 1993 with my 2 year old son,the night before he had heart surgery,crying to this! still cry to it.He is 26 years old now a kind,honest,handsome man!

    • @kennywilliams9400
      @kennywilliams9400 6 років тому +10

      Joanne Smith nice to hear..

    • @amandacarder3021
      @amandacarder3021 6 років тому +17

      I went through a very similar experience with our youngest son in 1998. He was born with cranal senosis. It is a condidition where the baby is born with there soft spots in there scull fused. He had all 7 fused. He has had 2 8 plus hour surgerys on his scull. We have to thank God for our beautiful young men. And wonderful surgions and there teams.

    • @pyrog.c.c89
      @pyrog.c.c89 6 років тому +6

      Joanne Smith. God BLESS.

    • @eddellinger1780
      @eddellinger1780 6 років тому +9

      Amanda Carder ~ so thankful your son is doing well. You are right!

    • @paulguiheen2427
      @paulguiheen2427 6 років тому +5

      Joanne Smith bless u joanne so touching x

  • @Matt-uj6jm
    @Matt-uj6jm 6 місяців тому +89

    Disabled Veteran and this just pulled me back from the edge 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿❤️

    • @Izzi1967
      @Izzi1967 5 місяців тому +8

      Keep pushing! You are loved! Thank you for your service!

    • @virginiaknighten4687
      @virginiaknighten4687 5 місяців тому +5

      Thank you for your service Matt…Please take care of yourself. You’re not alone❤🙏🇺🇸

    • @jerrysolari1530
      @jerrysolari1530 5 місяців тому +7

      Hang in there my brother

    • @maxspeed57
      @maxspeed57 5 місяців тому +7

      Find the healing you need in music and the people out here who hear you. And if that isn't enough, there is no shame in asking for help.

    • @virginiaknighten4687
      @virginiaknighten4687 5 місяців тому +3

      @@maxspeed57 excellent words.

  • @joandondero1736
    @joandondero1736 3 роки тому +316

    My daughter told me about this 🎶 song, she said it reminds her of her brother. I listened, & agreed. Her brother, my son, was 18 years old when he died. 💔. We miss you, kid! Gone to Heaven; in the arms of Almighty God! 🙏🏼

    • @virginiaknighten4687
      @virginiaknighten4687 3 роки тому +8

      Love and blessings to you and your family. Sorry for your loss.

    • @christinecrimmins1898
      @christinecrimmins1898 3 роки тому +14

      Everybody does hurt, sadly some can’t deal with the hurt and need to go to a more peaceful place. Your boy is now in that place.

    • @delilahschons9449
      @delilahschons9449 3 роки тому +4

      Same here

    • @glendafaye55
      @glendafaye55 3 роки тому +16

      Same. My 31 year old daughter died just over a year ago. This song helps my pain. I miss her too.

    • @smokeafattimatti5056
      @smokeafattimatti5056 3 роки тому +15

      R.I.P to your Son in our Heavenly Father arms♥️

  • @sarahk8625
    @sarahk8625 3 роки тому +406

    the truth is that everybody hurts. this is why it's such a brilliant song.

    • @user-usham
      @user-usham 3 роки тому +1

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    • @davewhitby9176
      @davewhitby9176 3 роки тому +6

      They do. This song is about suicide. It's about seeking the help you need if you're down. Last year I took an overdose and nearly died 3 times and rang my sister who is a nurse who told me off alot and thought I was ok and gave me food and drink to combat the consequences. 36 hours later I deteriorated and had to call for help from 4 teenagers out drinking wine at 2am! WTF! Do teens drink wine now?
      I went into two comas but survived.

    • @hanifkhan8822
      @hanifkhan8822 3 роки тому +4

      verybody hurts , take comfort in your friends

    • @virginiaknighten4687
      @virginiaknighten4687 3 роки тому +1

      @@davewhitby9176 I hope that you will seek the help that you need...Best of luck! Hold On!!

    • @craigsinclair3770
      @craigsinclair3770 3 роки тому +1

      Hang in there its worth it for you

  • @dragon672
    @dragon672 3 роки тому +514

    Zero doubt this song has saved more lives than we can imagine.

    • @brandywixify
      @brandywixify 3 роки тому +12

      Saving mine now

    • @ellemks11
      @ellemks11 3 роки тому +11

      Twice here!!!

    • @StFinxs
      @StFinxs 3 роки тому +10

      @@ellemks11 Don't throw your hand. You're NOT alone Elizabeth.

    • @nafridi1
      @nafridi1 3 роки тому

      I was in newyork thanks God

    • @thoughtwavetech
      @thoughtwavetech 3 роки тому +3

      @@brandywixify mine too. Right now.

  • @Kate-gt2wo
    @Kate-gt2wo Рік тому +19

    Thank you a thousand times.

  • @Skhylow
    @Skhylow 4 роки тому +393

    I have fought for the past 7 years for my son's life. He is a good man who happened to marry a very abusive wife. He was in the Army and instead of listening to him they put him on drugs~! We got the dreaded call one night from the MPs that he had overdosed. He was in Oklahoma at the time and we are in NYC. My husband flew out and bought him home. We spent many months fighting for him and visiting him in psych wards. THIS song did the trick and finally got him to open up about what was going on his marriage!! He is now divorced. He is still living with us. I can proudly say his last attempt was 3 years ago. He graduated nursing school this year and is now studying for his bachelors. Through hard work with the VA i have learned to tell when he is not in a good place and have been able to lead him back to the light of day out of that long dark tunnel he would enter! Took 2 years to get his ex to allow him and us to have our grandchild for the summers and that was the biggest thing to help him!! I still play this song over the loudspeakers in my house to remind him HE is NOT alone and has loving family to stand by him!

    • @duarteluder
      @duarteluder 4 роки тому +8

      Marianne, this song is a reminder that we're ALL on the same boat and only buy opening up and letting others know of our suffering can they help and make us feel that we're not alone. This is a very powerful song and it makes me cry every time. Your son was inspired by it to make the first step to ask for the help that you were so desperate to give. So many of us are so willing to give that support to others if only we knew that they desperately need it and all it takes is for us to realise that we are not alone. We are all connected. We were just temporarily separated at birth and we forgot it.

    • @Madmick124
      @Madmick124 4 роки тому +10

      I wish your son all the luck in the world and tell him there are people out there thinking about him

    • @Skhylow
      @Skhylow 4 роки тому +5

      @@duarteluder Thank you so much for your words of wisdom

    • @bernardleeson962
      @bernardleeson962 4 роки тому +3

      Bernard Leeson the truth does not hurt

    • @martincege2247
      @martincege2247 4 роки тому +5

      I only wish the people can think what if it was my son or daughter lets be kind to one another

  • @riccogomez8387
    @riccogomez8387 5 років тому +2794

    This. Song pulled me off my addiction...I went through 18 years of heroin.I remember. Laying in my room looking for ways to kill my self...just because I was tire if this shit...this song pulled me through,I'm 3 years sober today...THANK YOU

    • @noreenmary3300
      @noreenmary3300 5 років тому +59

      All the very best to you going forward. 🥀

    • @TheAnnie41
      @TheAnnie41 5 років тому +56

      Congratulations and that is great, hang in there. This song helped me when my love passed away. Stay strong

    • @juliedoss4147
      @juliedoss4147 5 років тому +46

      Glad you got sober. I'm trying to again as well. Try to Listen to the Allman Brothers song ` just ain't easy`. Your Heads severely pounding from the night before,... but baby you keep on going back for more, .you want so bad to leave this whirlwind storm... but you can't find no place.. to grab on
      ....
      ..so round and round you go again... Just ain't easy.

    • @eduardoonietoo9060
      @eduardoonietoo9060 5 років тому +24

      Thanks to everyone fir toyr best wishes....u love u all

    • @eduardoonietoo9060
      @eduardoonietoo9060 5 років тому +17

      @@juliedoss4147 thank you i love you ....for ur kind words. Thank you

  • @billymartin1842
    @billymartin1842 3 роки тому +89

    I buried my son to this song ....it is a fantastic song... & means so much to me.
    R.I.P. SON TILL WE MEET AGAIN

    • @user-usham
      @user-usham 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/Y9uCHKtfgcs/v-deo.html

    • @chiewping100
      @chiewping100 3 роки тому +3

      my heart goes out to u .... so sorry for ur loss

    • @ScorpionScorn
      @ScorpionScorn 3 роки тому +1

      OMG!!!

    • @busterstoddard2147
      @busterstoddard2147 3 роки тому +2

      I am deeply sorry for your loss my two lost somebody today that was very dear to me that was my dad I understand your pain

    • @angelagardner5230
      @angelagardner5230 3 роки тому +2

      lost my son too Will never get over it. he got me im shocked

  • @timpowers4449
    @timpowers4449 3 місяці тому +21

    My mom passed away last week. Nothing hurts as much as losing a Mother. This song is the tonic to the pain of loss. Love you Mom. Hurting in Idaho.

  • @dianatrueblood8654
    @dianatrueblood8654 5 років тому +185

    This song was played at my mom's funeral she loved this and for years we promised we would play it. I miss and love you mom

    • @gailsparks9457
      @gailsparks9457 5 років тому +4

      I lost my mom this year too. Struggling

    • @denzle83
      @denzle83 5 років тому +3

      Same in September for me. Chin up and be proud of what you've become, due to them . Also grieve in your own way, although music can be a healer xxx

    • @kimsteinke713
      @kimsteinke713 5 років тому +1

      Feliz navidad

    • @kimsteinke713
      @kimsteinke713 5 років тому +2

      Okay I'm like 58 my dad killed himself when I was . Like 17
      okay and then you learn to look on the bright side of things and say okay I don't know why he did that but I'm going to figure it out..okay and then it's really tough for a long time so I have a child cuz I need something to love. Now I got something... And it's the best thing to love and to live for. Thank you 😊 God and Jesus 🙌🙏. And now I'm old. And have a son and a grandbaby to live for and it's awesome. Welcome 2019-2020 let's have a great Christmas. My love to all. Stay alive let's enjoy the journey 💪

    • @antonioalbino4441
      @antonioalbino4441 4 роки тому

      Oi Diana vc e de onde

  • @deborahbutler5742
    @deborahbutler5742 2 роки тому +149

    Still one of the most beautiful songs that was ever put out‼️ thanks for singing the greatest song REM‼️🫂

    • @MrTaytoboy
      @MrTaytoboy Рік тому +5

      For reasons I won't elaborate on, your comment is just so very true, xx

  • @janetmcintosh4867
    @janetmcintosh4867 4 роки тому +274

    I sent this to a loved one dying of cancer. She had never heard of REM. Hold on, hold on 💗💗 She loved it. The music heals our spirit

    • @rubymilke144
      @rubymilke144 4 роки тому +8

      It's a beautiful song. I'm sure many people have related to it. Another version just as good is on American idol. Hes a Parrish priest!!

    • @mariajoseperalespuente6462
      @mariajoseperalespuente6462 4 роки тому +6

      😘 😘 😘 😘 😘 😘
      I had cancer too.. I wish the best for your friend!!! 🥰

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 4 роки тому +1

      @@rubymilke144 thank you I have seen/heard too he was very good

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 4 роки тому +3

      @@mariajoseperalespuente6462 I'll join you sending the good wishes

    • @rubymilke144
      @rubymilke144 4 роки тому +2

      @@oliviawutam thank you! I'm so proud of everyone❣We all have battles. We all have hardships and days where we're pleading for the insanity to stop.
      It comes from inside. The relief. You have to align your spirit up with God. Allow yourself to hear His voice. When we are at our weakest. He is at His strongest. We have no hope? Not true! HE IS OUR HOPE. BE strong in the power of His might. Allow Him to light your path. Have faith. The size of a mustard seed.
      Just look up and say I'm ready Father. Start thanking him for what you have. If its not much, just think, you have breath. You woke up.Thats Him. You ate something. That's Him. You put your coat on. That's Him.
      If you lived to see another day...praise Him.

  • @jennycombrinck9844
    @jennycombrinck9844 9 місяців тому +64

    ✨️🌹✨️When my husband died 22years ago.He was only 52yrs old.This song played on the radio and i googled it and put it on my phone.When im feeling sad I listen to it over and over.......It helps to cry and gets rid of all the aches.✨️🌹✨️

    • @HazelPilkington
      @HazelPilkington 5 місяців тому +3

      My husband died in my arms on 1st May, he was 42 the pain is unbearable, no-one will replace him I feel what ur feeling xx listening to our songs makes me feel closer to him x sending you love

  • @tomcave3123
    @tomcave3123 6 років тому +824

    I play this song most nights i lost my wife to cancer 4 years ago and i am still crying,Thank you R,E,M.

    • @johnboy1828
      @johnboy1828 6 років тому +24

      You are not alone Brother....I've played this song many a night myself......hold on :)

    • @tomcave3123
      @tomcave3123 6 років тому +20

      Thanks John, nice to know that i am not alone, Take care Tom

    • @tomcave3123
      @tomcave3123 6 років тому +13

      Thank you for the kind thoughts Joe. It helps take care, Tom

    • @changa2110
      @changa2110 6 років тому +19

      Be Strong Mr. Cave missing your wife will never stop, and the pain and longing in your heart will never go away. But the desire to take charge of your life will get stronger, and you will be more motivated to follow through with it. I think what hurts the most remembering the pain she was in and how much you loved her. I will keep you in my prayers.

    • @tomcave3123
      @tomcave3123 6 років тому +9

      Thank you Alma you are so kind x Tom

  • @paulgaile2131
    @paulgaile2131 4 роки тому +478

    I've been in hospital over 4 months fighting cancer . The amount off times I've listened to this song

    • @paulmacek6563
      @paulmacek6563 4 роки тому +18

      Damn bro!! Hang in there and fight that fucking cancer!!!!!

    • @sikuyabusted784
      @sikuyabusted784 4 роки тому +9

      Paul Gaile everything's gonna be alright :)

    • @benwilkinson815
      @benwilkinson815 4 роки тому +8

      Paul Gaile stay strong fella 💪 it’s going to be ok

    • @superblanch15
      @superblanch15 4 роки тому +9

      Paul hang in there bud,were friends🤝 that just haven't met yet,positive vibes stay strong pal💪🙏

    • @keithgardner4315
      @keithgardner4315 4 роки тому +4

      keep pounding !!!

  • @rebeccamclean2450
    @rebeccamclean2450 7 років тому +2148

    I lost my husband 3 weeks ago. He took his life and it's so difficult to carry on. This song touches me in so many ways. I am hanging on by the minute, the hour,and hopefully in the future by the day. Tonight we were supposed to celebrate New Years Eve together. He let himself go, the hurt was too great. If anyone out there is considering ending their life please know there is always help. You have to be brave and reach out. Because taking your life hurts the living.There are no words.
    P.S. It's been roughly 3 years since I wrote this above - so so touched by ppl's encouragement, wisdom, compassion, and those who've endured their own losses. Please know I'm doing well now. I'm raising our 3 teenagers with a full heart, empathy, and strength. Recently I have fallen in love with a wonderful man who warmed my heart and lit a fire in my soul. I've gotten to the end of this tunnel and found joy and happiness - the sun always shines after storms, just gotta keep the faith and hang in there. Thanks again everyone. Hugs and love to you all.

    • @jeffreyhallamore3435
      @jeffreyhallamore3435 7 років тому +51

      Rebecca McLean so sorry for your loss . Suicide only makes sense to the one committing it.

    • @TheStarFiles
      @TheStarFiles 6 років тому +26

      So sad for you, I hope you find the strength.

    • @carstenweber5598
      @carstenweber5598 6 років тому +16

      Take care of You!!! Wish You the best!!

    • @deyaramirez6583
      @deyaramirez6583 6 років тому +23

      i hope you been better at this time i lost my love of my live 4 years a go and i still missing so much and undertand what the feel look like into your live. I still going forward but is hard....i wish the best to you .

    • @MusicRelaxing
      @MusicRelaxing 6 років тому +11

      Rebecca McLean be brave

  • @thomasmayhaus5150
    @thomasmayhaus5150 5 місяців тому +20

    My husband died May of 23. This song helps get the grief out. Rem is my go to

  • @carmelbrown7500
    @carmelbrown7500 3 роки тому +73

    25 years ao this man saved my life. I have no way to thank him apart from here.

  • @theoscecinasbutcherysmallg8873
    @theoscecinasbutcherysmallg8873 8 років тому +312

    Hes not just singing it...he's delivering it to all the souls that need to hear it

  • @BagenSharon
    @BagenSharon 3 роки тому +406

    This song still hits me to my core and brings tears to my eyes and a knot in my throat. I first heard this song soon after going through the death of my mother. She died by suicide. I SO know life is hard, but there is ALWAYS a reason to push on. I struggle myself with loneliness and depression ,but I know from what I have experienced from being a survivor of suicide , there is always a better day. There truly are people that care and love you. Hang in there and keep pushing forward. Never forget to be greatful for the blessings you have in your life, no how small they may seem.

    • @G1IXE
      @G1IXE 3 роки тому +11

      Jennifer please stay strong when you lose a family member to suicide it is devastating if you feel you are on you own just send a post on here and I will try and get back to you has soon has I can, please don't think you are alone and if you feel depress this is a natural emotion after you have lost someone though suicide I live in the UK not sure were you live so if it is the USA the UK are 5 hours ahead take care please get in touch Viv

    • @BagenSharon
      @BagenSharon 3 роки тому +9

      Viv Green, thank you so much for your comment. I am ok and doing well.

    • @G1IXE
      @G1IXE 3 роки тому +6

      @@BagenSharon I am glad you are doing well but don't forget I am hear if you need to talk

    • @anitauchimura3676
      @anitauchimura3676 3 роки тому +7

      I feel for you. Had a close family member attempt but luckily did not succeed. My thoughts are with you.

    • @johnk3071
      @johnk3071 3 роки тому +10

      Run to God..ask Jesus into your heart!! There is so much darkness in the world today..people are overloaded!!! Most people...YES MOST PEOPLE are struggling with depression and major loneliness..yet,they pretend to have it all together..WE ARE NOT DESIGNED TO HANDLE EVERYTHING..WE NEED HELP!!! I KNOW I NEED A SAVIOR..JESUS..I CANT "DO LIFE" BY MYSELF..I CANT..I KNOW IT IN MY HEART..AND I ACCEPT THAT I NEED HELP..SO,I BRING MY GOOD AND BAD TO JESUS (ITS NOT HARD AT ALL..IN FACT..ITS A BIG BURDEN LIFTER!!) Look at this world!!

  • @jamesa5720
    @jamesa5720 5 місяців тому +19

    "Take comfort in your friends" and it really only takes one. What an inspirational song that has saved so many people.

  • @carollong7956
    @carollong7956 3 роки тому +336

    Even though I belong to a conservative church, partial to playing only hymns in the chapel, I have clearly instructed my family to play this at my funeral. We all know the gospel promises, but this secular song is also what I want my family to remember when they are mourning. I have always found it to be incredibly soothing. I love how in this video, Michael is leading the audience/choir as they can't help but join in. Thank you, R.E.M., for this musical gift.

    • @saturdaystephen6565
      @saturdaystephen6565 3 роки тому +7

      That's smart of you to inform them on ground. Thank you REM for this wonderful song.

    • @JM-sg5qx
      @JM-sg5qx 3 роки тому +6

      Thank you thank you thank you for sharing. It touches me too.

    • @meiryaquino1927
      @meiryaquino1927 3 роки тому +4

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻

    • @kimstone5038
      @kimstone5038 3 роки тому +5

      Amen to that

    • @gamergirl1136
      @gamergirl1136 3 роки тому +10

      This is an awesome song, I never get tired of it I listen to it at least 2 times a day, he has such a wonderful voice, and really feels his music, and puts it out for anyone who needs it, it means so many different things

  • @martynschickerling4758
    @martynschickerling4758 2 роки тому +68

    One of the most iconic songs ever.....well done Michael......

  • @ArthurDentZaphodBeeb
    @ArthurDentZaphodBeeb 4 роки тому +187

    Reading the comments to this song is heartwrenching and uplifting. REM should be forever proud of this song.

    • @dibujemaestro
      @dibujemaestro 4 роки тому +2

      Absolutely. I thought the same

    • @gaynorsmith4596
      @gaynorsmith4596 2 роки тому

      Fantastic and life saving. Amazingly relevant. ‘Hold on’ Things get better, if we stay around long enough. Love to you all xxxxxx

  • @alicemarie9058
    @alicemarie9058 Рік тому +4

    Buenas. Noches. Esta canción me hace llorar porque es una realidad para muchas personas. Pero aun así me encanta escucharla. Tremenda canción. Desde New York. 10 03 2023! Thanks

  • @MarkZook
    @MarkZook 3 роки тому +127

    This hauntingly beautiful song has served to remind me that none of us need to go through life’s crap alone.

  • @lindagreenfield3284
    @lindagreenfield3284 5 років тому +2085

    I am 71 and its12:30 am and I am alone listening to this great song. God Bless all.

    • @paulwoodcock2327
      @paulwoodcock2327 5 років тому +60

      Hope your ok Linda xx

    • @grahambain92
      @grahambain92 5 років тому +82

      I listen to it almost every Saturday night with a large Jamesons thinking about my mam and dad, both no longer with me and it helps with the pain.

    • @dhengbautista8770
      @dhengbautista8770 5 років тому +24

      I hope ur ok Madam GB u always ....

    • @80sbabejones54
      @80sbabejones54 5 років тому +46

      My thoughts are with you. Life is tough at times and I want to get off this crazy path. I lost my dad last year and listen to this often to keep me going. God bless xx

    • @NoPockets757
      @NoPockets757 5 років тому +21

      Amen Linda....

  • @megyoung707
    @megyoung707 3 роки тому +137

    I love how this song unites us all. Everybody hurts.

    • @alisonshenton
      @alisonshenton 2 роки тому

      YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT MATE EVERYDAY AND I FIND IT EASIER TO SPEAK TO PEOPLE THROUGH MUSIC ❤️ I CAN'T EVEN GO OUT I DON'T KNOW WHERE I'D BE WITHOUT MUSIC AND I CAN'T BELIEVE THE AMOUNT OF PEOPLE WHO TALK LIKE THIS BUT WHY AM I SURPRISED SO BIG FAT THUMBS UP FOR MUSIC ❤️🦋🌈

  • @Daniel-k9c1f
    @Daniel-k9c1f 27 днів тому +3

    one of the best song ever written
    Was born a reject in a orphanage
    Been struggling all my life to survive in a cruel world
    Just lost my best friend CHICO
    he was the best puppy ever
    Love you CHICO
    😢

    • @TheATdragonfly
      @TheATdragonfly 17 днів тому +1

    • @TheATdragonfly
      @TheATdragonfly 17 днів тому +1

      I lost a beloved pet it hurt like nothing I had ever felt with losing a pet the next month my best friend found out she had pancreatic cancer she died 3 weeks later it broke my heart so much it hurt my husband too he died 9 days later very unexpectedly of a blocked carotid artery he was too young to go my heart was so broken that I tried to take my own life the only one that could have stopped that stopped that from happening was the one from above and he did this song has a lot of meaning to me I am so sorry for you losing your pet it is so true Everybody Hurts sometimes

  • @nancywessling7380
    @nancywessling7380 3 роки тому +170

    I lost my husband of 22 years to CANCER and this song has made me hold on!

    • @user-usham
      @user-usham 3 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/Y9uCHKtfgcs/v-deo.html

    • @andreathomashawkins2864
      @andreathomashawkins2864 3 роки тому +2

      Hold on

    • @catalinvasile2367
      @catalinvasile2367 3 роки тому +1

      Bravo!
      După ce că este scură...

    • @leswalker2639
      @leswalker2639 3 роки тому +4

      Thank you for holding on. You need to know that there are many people that care. We care because we have lost loved ones even to cancer and suicide and other means of death. Thank you for sharing

    • @kathrynwakeford588
      @kathrynwakeford588 3 роки тому +4

      Peace to you.

  • @jimdoyle4633
    @jimdoyle4633 3 роки тому +135

    One of the most inspirational songs of all time. A message of hope, reach out, realize there's a better world out there

  • @petejones879
    @petejones879 2 роки тому +85

    This gives me goosebumps every time I hear it.. Michael puts so much emotion into it

  • @gregsqu
    @gregsqu Рік тому +2

    My son lost his partner of 17 years and the mother to my only grandson in July. This song is definitely her song. I don't think I will ever grow tired of hearing it. So much death in our family over the past couple of years.

  • @mikebennett6713aceadventures
    @mikebennett6713aceadventures 4 роки тому +255

    Everyone listening to this song should think of helping one another. Especially during this time. What an amazing song. What an amazing band........thank you REM

  • @barbarastephens9698
    @barbarastephens9698 2 роки тому +64

    I came into this life almost 69 years ago, fighting, crying, screaming and I intend to go out the same way!!!! You MUST endure the bad times because that makes the GREAT times that much better! We are all human beings, we all have felt pain, disappointment, loss, but all of us have also experienced the warmth of the sun, the beautiful view of a sunrise/sunset, heard the waves rushing in, rushing out, happy laughter, the thrill of a roller coaster, watching a child grow & discover, the excitement of that first love…
    Over my almost 69 yrs on this earth, looking back, I wouldn’t have changed a thing, good or bad because it all made me the loving, compassionate, person I strive to be EVERY DAY I have left! Every challenge, every adversity just makes me that much stronger to face the next challenge/adversity! You MUST BE STRONG to ride this roller coaster called LIFE! If I live to be 100+, my life will still seem too short! Love each day to its fullest, as it may be your last! When God calls, you have to answer that phone! ENJOY!

    • @deppdelver
      @deppdelver 2 роки тому +3

      do not go quietly

    • @tracytowles9091
      @tracytowles9091 2 роки тому +6

      Love every single wonderful and beautiful word you said here!! Thank you Barbara! You said exactly what I wanted to. God bless you!!

    • @christinekerby273
      @christinekerby273 2 роки тому +2

      Absolutely beautiful, thank you Barbara Love to you always and forever

    • @sineadoconnor2000
      @sineadoconnor2000 2 роки тому +2

      ❤❤❤

    • @annlydon905
      @annlydon905 2 роки тому +2

      Well said..

  • @GavinMaGrath
    @GavinMaGrath 3 роки тому +154

    This song is my therapy along with the most loving and supportive comments in the history of the internet. How many people must have come here and had their lives saved or at least been drawn from the depths of despair.

    • @johnboy1828
      @johnboy1828 3 роки тому +5

      I agree music is therapy.....Brother hang on and never ever give up. We all have a story and sometimes it's not pretty. Many of us are going through life pretending things are ok thinking we're alone but that's not true. There are many others out here who are dealing with a lot of shit like us.

    • @virginiaknighten4687
      @virginiaknighten4687 3 роки тому +3

      Your comment is very touching. Take care of yourself Gavin.

    • @tertiahoffman1839
      @tertiahoffman1839 3 роки тому +2

      Life is difficult no matter where you are...... good luck with your journey!!!!! Please chat if you need to...R u ok?

    • @Love.AnitaBlue717
      @Love.AnitaBlue717 3 роки тому

      🙏💙
      👼

  • @JamesStigall-e6c
    @JamesStigall-e6c 5 місяців тому +17

    I'm 74 years old made it through the Vietnam nam war .Just lost my wife this year. This song hits hard .but a Beautiful song.

    • @mikeburton9619
      @mikeburton9619 2 місяці тому

      Sorry for your loss!! Thank you for your service!!!!!

  • @Gary-iz3li
    @Gary-iz3li 3 роки тому +49

    This song really pulls at my heart strings. I lost my little brother on January 12, 2021, and this songs makes me feel closer to him because of all the hardships he had been through in his life. He was the bravest, most real, and genuine person I ever met. The ultimate care giver. And after all of it, covid is what finally took him one day short of his 66th birthday. We had a simple ash scattering ceremony over Mobile Bay, and this song was playing. I couldn't ask for a better friend as we were growing up together. I love you Ric. Rest in peace, my little brother...

    • @DoomiBroon
      @DoomiBroon 2 роки тому +3

      I lost my boy Corey last July. He was 3 weeks shy of his 34thHis mental health could not sustain his life, but this song brings me comfort.

    • @annevaness422
      @annevaness422 2 роки тому +1

      I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my best friend on August 28, 2021. It is hard to hold on but we must for the ones who love us. I don't want to have others having the horrible pain I feel.

  • @MrTaytoboy
    @MrTaytoboy Рік тому +39

    This song burns my heart, it's everything I ever wanted to hear, listen to and absorb, with meaning that is about as deep as it gets. If this beautiful song stops one single person committing themselves heeds this work of absolute wonderment, that's good enough for me. I'm just having one of those moments, with love to each of you good people having a listen to this amazing song. Stay safe, and try and work some happiness into your tune.

  • @LesAinsworth
    @LesAinsworth 3 роки тому +86

    Only the other day I said to a Belgian lady I know, "I wonder how many lives has this song saved". It's truly, one of the most moving songs ever.

  • @PaulFerguson-x9n
    @PaulFerguson-x9n Рік тому +10

    Good advice hold on never give up, life is a long & winding road, most of us off track, get back on it!

  • @Mazzer77
    @Mazzer77 8 років тому +85

    Hanging on by my fingernails, my kids need me, wish I was more, thank you for this song

    • @flisscook8934
      @flisscook8934 8 років тому +3

      We just need to be ' good enough ' - I bet YOU are. x

    • @Muddicker
      @Muddicker 8 років тому +4

      You can be more but only if you want to be. I bet you are anyway

    • @ACarrollGIS
      @ACarrollGIS 8 років тому +3

      You can do it... know that many others are out there for you

    • @Mazzer77
      @Mazzer77 8 років тому +2

      Thank you very much

    • @Mazzer77
      @Mazzer77 8 років тому +2

      I try every day, thank you for your kind comments

  • @douglayton3498
    @douglayton3498 6 років тому +537

    It’s crazy to read through the comments and realize how many people have leaned on this song when their lives hit rock bottom. Truly reflects the power and inspiration of music. ☮️

    • @desertdog5397
      @desertdog5397 5 років тому +9

      Doug, thats because music IS life...

    • @Nina-ob7ks
      @Nina-ob7ks 5 років тому +9

      "Truly reflects the power and inspiration of music"...created by real people feeling and expressing their power of life.

    • @patriciahoward6922
      @patriciahoward6922 5 років тому +4

      Yep!! I like R.E.M. , but 2003 is what set this off, power of love! 🤗

    • @Peepers2
      @Peepers2 5 років тому +3

      Doug Layton love this song!

    • @jonwest5068
      @jonwest5068 5 років тому +2

      Doug Layton 💯

  • @japissantw
    @japissantw 6 років тому +301

    Thank You R.E.M. for this song!!!!!! It helps more people than you know!!!!! It helped me.

    • @claudiojorgedossantos4162
      @claudiojorgedossantos4162 6 років тому +2

      You do not have to hurt your heart.

    • @markpigott5239
      @markpigott5239 6 років тому +2

      im happy it helped you

    • @pattynimmer1617
      @pattynimmer1617 6 років тому +3

      Thank u soo very much I look at myself .non they I'm going to b 55 yrs. Kid I kn !!!!!! How feels like yr song every Biddy Hurt's .in I listen to this song I feel not so depressed omg !!! And thank u !!!

    • @patriciawilson7550
      @patriciawilson7550 6 років тому

      It is awesome!

    • @vicenteribeiro415
      @vicenteribeiro415 6 років тому

      eles são ímpar

  • @barrydewhurst6345
    @barrydewhurst6345 3 місяці тому +4

    This song is inspirational. Here I am with stage 4 lung cancer. But I realise there are people out there that are suffering more than me. All I can say to those people is keep going, life has more to offer. Take care hey. Love life, it is worth living ❤

  • @Godisgreat725
    @Godisgreat725 2 роки тому +32

    For this man to sing a song that every human being could relate to that's magic!

  • @thesingingdrummer6202
    @thesingingdrummer6202 2 роки тому +63

    As someone who has attempted and as a songwriter, I couldn’t have more respect for R.E.M. I can’t say I’ve ever really been a fan, this is the only song I really know of theirs. But I have that respect for writing profound music that has and continues to touch people across the world. Empathizing with and uplifting. Thank you R.E.M. 🌎❤️

  • @pamcrider8074
    @pamcrider8074 3 роки тому +135

    My husband at 69 of bone cancer. Aftet40 yeat of living together we got legally married.A week later he passed away. I hope this song helps some else, the way it got me through this pain. God bless REM for this useful song!

    • @littlespider1661
      @littlespider1661 3 роки тому +3

      Love and light to you Pam. Kate, Toronto

    • @robertgoodings9006
      @robertgoodings9006 3 роки тому +1

      Hope you find happiness through the pain Pam

    • @marcelocosta5751
      @marcelocosta5751 3 роки тому

      Concordo em partes kkkkkkkkkk

    • @dimitristathos5308
      @dimitristathos5308 3 роки тому +2

      Sorry for your loss I know it hurts, i lost 3 family members due to covid this year
      It flucking sucks

    • @wanderalmeida9584
      @wanderalmeida9584 3 роки тому +3

      Stay strong, Pam. Love from Brazil.

  • @kathybrown1622
    @kathybrown1622 Рік тому +2

    I lost a wonderful friend. We both loved this this song. She just couldn't cope, and left us. I'm sorry I failed you you😢

    • @MarieByrne-ub6vr
      @MarieByrne-ub6vr 9 місяців тому

      Sorry that you lost her. But you didn't fail her. You are still here for her. ❤

  • @FLBeachLife
    @FLBeachLife 4 роки тому +632

    I’m in my home quarantined listening to this song. I’m not personally hurting, but I hurt for our country and the world. Everyone hold on for each other. 🙏

    • @pedenmk
      @pedenmk 4 роки тому +23

      I to am lonely quarantined but hopeful for my country and it's people. Thank God for music and the kindness of others here in the mountains of North Carolina

    • @alexmont4098
      @alexmont4098 4 роки тому +19

      Beautiful song

    • @brankind969
      @brankind969 4 роки тому +13

      PBGardens And in this country it’s only about bringing Trump down. I pray that people will see the truth and stop being afraid. We are at war right now as I write this and the best war waged is the one in which the victims don’t know they’re in a War to begin with!

    • @lakshmi441
      @lakshmi441 4 роки тому +12

      Blessings to you all

    • @pedenmk
      @pedenmk 4 роки тому +8

      @@lakshmi441 likewise blessings to you today and forever

  • @MrTbird11763
    @MrTbird11763 6 років тому +238

    I lost two of my best friends ....My sister and brother passed away 6 months apart only in there 40's and my wife asked me why do I listen to such a depressing song and I told her I hear positive from this...Not depressing words....Guess we all hear it different.....I'll take my version....God Bless everyone

    • @kennethhayes9145
      @kennethhayes9145 5 років тому +6

      I am sorry to hear that. I have lost my mother
      I feel you. Be strong. You are going to be okay....
      Pinky promise

    • @blablabladoer
      @blablabladoer 5 років тому +5

      You are blessed, sir!

    • @johnlamb6060
      @johnlamb6060 5 років тому +4

      me to

    • @dickschulte2193
      @dickschulte2193 5 років тому +5

      Don't ever forget there is a God that cares, and that there is life beyond this - but for now, we need to fulfill our purpose here.

    • @elextech1
      @elextech1 5 років тому +3

      Sorry for you loss.

  • @stevebanham9307
    @stevebanham9307 8 років тому +96

    I lost my wife to ovarian cancer 7 years ago, she was young and would help anyone who needed help. They say the good die young. I will never get over it until I see her again in heaven. Felt like ending it all on many occasions just to be with her but I listen to this song and hold on. Thank you REM!

    • @andrewpaluch5258
      @andrewpaluch5258 6 років тому +1

      You are so strong

    • @deyaramirez6583
      @deyaramirez6583 6 років тому

      Good good sister i do the same thing to

    • @michaelstory2512
      @michaelstory2512 6 років тому

      loose the thoughts of ending it to be with.Remember..though shall not kill,and that is in stone.

    • @leahcunha7500
      @leahcunha7500 6 років тому

      sorry for you lost!! Be strong!!!

    • @yvonneczechowska
      @yvonneczechowska 6 років тому

      HUNG ON STEVE, U ARE NOT ALONE :))))

  • @dianekeyworth948
    @dianekeyworth948 2 місяці тому +5

    I am 74 and listening to this. 2003 was my first Glastonbury and I loved this then, and still do. ❤ I am too old to wade through the mud now.

    • @mikef8681
      @mikef8681 2 місяці тому

      Love that you're online and commenting. I totally get it, about wading through the mud. I visit older people and have a nice visit. No one ever thinks this is where their life would end up. 🙂🙂🙂

  • @kimallen9130
    @kimallen9130 2 роки тому +58

    This song has saved my life more than I ever thought

  • @kevphillips02
    @kevphillips02 7 років тому +2800

    I remember being broken and desperate going through heroin withdrawal back in 1994 and listening to this thinking i want out cant do this no more,i have since lived a sober, clean and productive life through the grace of god and the fellowship of narcotics anonymous. I never want to forget the hell i was in so i never choose to ever go back there.

    • @cemagomes605
      @cemagomes605 7 років тому +7

      kevphillips02 sad

    • @kevphillips02
      @kevphillips02 7 років тому +21

      What is sad about it?

    • @711ROWDY
      @711ROWDY 7 років тому +27

      I gave up drinking for five years. my new wife introduced me to a glass every night with my meal, now I am a functioning alcoholic

    • @shirleyrichard2659
      @shirleyrichard2659 7 років тому +45

      I too went through hurt and pain but just went on taking a day ar a time. Losing loved ones hurts.

    • @daviddowling740
      @daviddowling740 6 років тому +41

      kevphillips02 weakness took you there....strength bought you back.

  • @lorrainesolecki9060
    @lorrainesolecki9060 6 років тому +75

    Dedicate this song to my son. By the grace of God he is still with me. Scarred but still here.

  • @jonathangriffin2726
    @jonathangriffin2726 9 днів тому +1

    What an Artist!! ❤ Lyrics are amazing and so meaningful 🫶

  • @barbaralane6310
    @barbaralane6310 4 роки тому +104

    My love played this when I found out I had cancer...he held me I cried he held me and we slowly danced. I survived...he didn't he died. Thank you for the memory....😔

    • @rexsieradzki1235
      @rexsieradzki1235 4 роки тому +2

      You are so blessed to have that memory. I know what you are going thru. Sounds like a great man

    • @findingrays9824
      @findingrays9824 4 роки тому

      cant understand myself playing this song over and over again while i scroll down the comments and sometimes answering some.

    • @claudemonster2838
      @claudemonster2838 4 роки тому +2

      God bless you Barb I lost my sweetheart of 15years so unexpectedly and this song tears me up

    • @silviapistone1794
      @silviapistone1794 4 роки тому

      Heavy...I pssed s.th. not far from this e perience....I was 22. He 33...Roby was my first boyfriend...I send U a very big, warm hug...U are a stringi and beautyfull creature. I feel U! 💔💗 Hey, be loves U so much...

    • @silviapistone1794
      @silviapistone1794 4 роки тому

      You'revthe lucky one.!!!!

  • @tommyroberts5624
    @tommyroberts5624 10 років тому +696

    I was standing there at Glasto watching this after going through a year of a shitty divorce, tears running down my face singing on top of my voice. I left that field a better stronger man put it all behind me and moved on with my life.
    THANK YOU REM X

    • @russellford1595
      @russellford1595 10 років тому +14

      I was there too, still my favourite live song. Can't believe it was 12 years ago

    • @spurs7665
      @spurs7665 9 років тому +13

      @tommy roberts good for you bro.....

    • @dtruett1
      @dtruett1 9 років тому +17

      +tommy roberts I have been there. Divorce and much more. This song is one thing I hold onto before I let the inclination to end my life take control. And, I've been there and tried that.

    • @doloreswelch9127
      @doloreswelch9127 8 років тому +21

      I have so memory's of this song played at my brothers funeral 17 years ago always reminds of him Declan I love you never forgotten

    • @annadenham5259
      @annadenham5259 7 років тому +11

      tommy roberts hope life is treating you well!

  • @davidcopperfield-DickensBook
    @davidcopperfield-DickensBook 3 роки тому +140

    Listening to this song gives a person a huge amount of relief. It is an emotional explosion. It is a cleansing song. Phew! Thank you REM.

  • @user-gn8xr2px6m
    @user-gn8xr2px6m 26 днів тому +1

    The first time I heard this song moved me to tears as my son commited suicide 20 years ago just before Christmas 2004 and his family were hurting for so long and to this day have no answers only that he is gone from us but a piece of him is still with me in my heart.

  • @rogercole3502
    @rogercole3502 6 років тому +193

    I have heard a lot music in my 65 years of living, and then someone comes along with a song that reminds us of who we are, truly blessed we are

    • @alaintrix
      @alaintrix 6 років тому +3

      Roger Cole this song touches the soul of people.

    • @helenmurphy3143
      @helenmurphy3143 6 років тому +2

      TRUE

    • @yvonneczechowska
      @yvonneczechowska 6 років тому

      Roger , right u are, care to get more evolved, with people that need help? I don't know how to do that but i am very willing....

    • @rogercole3502
      @rogercole3502 6 років тому

      Yvonne Tolliver I am not sure if I am answering this correctly, but I just wanted u to know that its good to know that there are people like you in this world, thank you for your kindness

    • @yvonneczechowska
      @yvonneczechowska 6 років тому

      ROGER, U ARE NOT ALONE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @mattblack9069
    @mattblack9069 2 роки тому +96

    We need songs like this to touch our hearts and keep in touch with our reallity.

  • @MonicaRoy6156
    @MonicaRoy6156 3 роки тому +213

    This is so beautiful. I can’t even put into words how this makes me feel!

    • @user-usham
      @user-usham 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/Y9uCHKtfgcs/v-deo.html

    • @jcdereuck7932
      @jcdereuck7932 3 роки тому +3

      Going through a separation after my wife ple
      Infinity.
      I try to take my life 3 times in 3 weaks just could not take the pain .
      We taking day by day All I can do is hope hope and believe as I will or have forgive her.
      Please all I will take all your support , for my loving wife and 3 kids that I just as a team together again.

    • @jcdereuck7932
      @jcdereuck7932 3 роки тому

      Cheated on me

    • @davidoliver7278
      @davidoliver7278 3 роки тому +1

      😊👍

    • @virginiaknighten4687
      @virginiaknighten4687 3 роки тому +2

      @@jcdereuck7932 so sorry to hear that...I hope and pray that you are doing better. Prayers for you and your family to heal...God bless...

  • @trishryan6080
    @trishryan6080 10 місяців тому +117

    If you are reading this, you matter! Hang on, everybody does hurt sometimes ❤️

    • @maxspeed57
      @maxspeed57 4 місяці тому +2

      I'm crying for the Gaudreau brothers and their families. It hurts me. I don't know how they can cope.

    • @BelindaLewis-bf6xk
      @BelindaLewis-bf6xk 4 місяці тому

      ❤xxx

    • @JayneButtle
      @JayneButtle 4 місяці тому

      ❤😢

    • @martinporter7259
      @martinporter7259 4 місяці тому +1

      thank you

    • @leswalker2639
      @leswalker2639 3 місяці тому +1

      Hold on everyday will get better. We need to shift or thinking into the unknown future. This day and night will pass. As long as we have a future we can fix the if we really want to. But if you choose to take action end in your life it's too late but as long as you can breathe and move forward you can fix what is wrong. Talk to a friend you can trust and if there is no one then go to a clergyman old church later. We need you desperately to help other people just like your problem. I can promise you life gets better. Have patience and wait. In several years you will look back and say I was in a dark place but not anymore 👍 please don't let us down for your family, keep breathing. We really only need three things in life, food water and air!!! The fourth thing is God.

  • @loriryan4098
    @loriryan4098 5 років тому +197

    I am laying here in my hospital bed in rehab physically suffering very much. Someone directed me to this video and I must say that this beautiful man has given me such comfort with his song.

    • @Tonys-Hobby-Room
      @Tonys-Hobby-Room 5 років тому +5

      Lori Ryan i wish you well. Stay strong as is the music.

    • @welshlad6427
      @welshlad6427 5 років тому +4

      Lori Ryan sending you positive thoughts and lotsa love ❤️

    • @Maryann_Thorpe
      @Maryann_Thorpe 5 років тому +3

      Speedy recovery Lori

    • @Saxon1947
      @Saxon1947 5 років тому +2

      I wish you well good music can help to heal stay strong

    • @whiskeyrun4996
      @whiskeyrun4996 5 років тому +2

      Every time a family member or a buddy I grew up with passes away I think of SKYNYRD's FREEBIRD I guess its because birds are free and in the words that RVZ and ALLEN COLLINS wrote he is saying, want you fly Freebird fly and that's what death means your free at last.

  • @dlsm3s
    @dlsm3s 3 роки тому +395

    This song kept me alive through three losses in 1993. Still holding on, Michael.

    • @peterkornherr4970
      @peterkornherr4970 3 роки тому +11

      This song kept me alive through three losses in 2018/19. Still holding on. OK, to be honest, not only this song. But it's part of my strategy.

    • @nilslofthagen686
      @nilslofthagen686 3 роки тому +9

      @@peterkornherr4970 Good! It takes guts to hold on in the face of tragedy.

    • @ernstvanbiljon2374
      @ernstvanbiljon2374 3 роки тому +17

      @@peterkornherr4970 I lost a friend 2 days ago he shot himself, man it is hard.

    • @jessicacosentino1772
      @jessicacosentino1772 3 роки тому +10

      @@ernstvanbiljon2374 very sorry for your loss. Music can help ease the pain, so many people connect their sadness to songs because it speaks to their sorrows, No problem in letting that ugly cry out when you need to.

    • @derekfahy9470
      @derekfahy9470 3 роки тому +5

      Keep holding on it will be worth it my friend I promise

  • @j0hnryan31
    @j0hnryan31 8 років тому +112

    Sometime we can be faced with despairing, terrifying, dangerous, unpleasant situations. sometimes things go out of control. " sometimes everything is wrong". pain can feel overwhelming. sometimes it's too dark to see any hope on the horizon, but it will come. the pain will subsided, and you will be stronger than the person you were before the pain. for anyone who feels alone or desperate or at the end of their rope... keep hanging on, never give up. Keep your spirit and soul high. everything will be okay. I love you.

    • @BennilocoLoves
      @BennilocoLoves 8 років тому +10

      J O H N R Y A N Thanks...I needed that...and thank you R.E.M. for this song...💖 holding!

    • @keithwigley1256
      @keithwigley1256 8 років тому +4

      Hope .. where does it come from ? can it be bought at the supermarket , Hope where does it come from .. and yet we all have it ? see Kathys song cover on youtube with more songs to come 2017 .. I hope ?

    • @bildinski
      @bildinski 8 років тому +5

      thank you.

    • @melrosemiss
      @melrosemiss 7 років тому

      I don't know if I will ever be the old me but thanks for the encouragement. Needed it today. What a song!

    • @robertvanmourik1
      @robertvanmourik1 7 років тому

      your so spot on

  • @katydidmccarthy1278
    @katydidmccarthy1278 Рік тому +2

    Not only is this version incredible but recently on Britain's Got Talent, Father Ray Kelly an Irish priest performed it and it was so inspiring almost like a prayer. As he finished I found myself saying amen". He spoke at the end of the song and said, "you're not alone". You can hear his version on you tube also.

  • @craigblyth783
    @craigblyth783 6 років тому +426

    lost my wife, job and house all in one weekend, thought about giving up...this is the song that carried me through a bad palce in my life

    • @eddellinger1780
      @eddellinger1780 6 років тому +6

      craig blyth ~> glad you prevailed my fellow traveler.

    • @chrisboddy9775
      @chrisboddy9775 6 років тому +7

      Keep going till you find your own end

    • @williamsmith8041
      @williamsmith8041 6 років тому +4

      me too Craig,In 1998.we talk now after not speaking to each other for 15yrs.not sure if thats,a good thing or not

    • @rebeccakaas5480
      @rebeccakaas5480 6 років тому +5

      i'm sorry that happened to you. hope you're doing ok.

    • @perkalov
      @perkalov 6 років тому +6

      Dun give the song the credit, you carried your self trough. No song, no psychiatrist, no nothing will help if you don't man up and do the job. It might be a comfort and it might help, but the one carrying you, was you.

  • @halledavis4914
    @halledavis4914 8 років тому +44

    this song meant the world to me so many years ago and now having just gone through a divorce it means even more. when I feel things are bad I look at my beautiful kids and remember to "hold on" because life is still good

  • @loridahl5558
    @loridahl5558 2 роки тому +30

    What a performance. Absolutely love this

  • @ponygirl1624
    @ponygirl1624 2 місяці тому +3

    I dont think there is a living soul out there who can't relate to this amazing song. God speed to all.

  • @sandravillalobos5485
    @sandravillalobos5485 3 роки тому +78

    I lost my daughter 4 yrs ago and as I sit here at her graveside listening to this song, it amazes me how it how well it took how I feel and put it into words...Thank you REM!

    • @victoriasaper1625
      @victoriasaper1625 3 роки тому +3

      @Sandra Villalobos I am so sorry for your loss. I know it can be a living hell some days.Death hurts us because we do not know what or even if there is another place we exist, without our bodies. I hope that you have someone to whom you can talk to about how you feel. We all need to be deeply listened to. Bless

    • @susanmandarino3263
      @susanmandarino3263 3 роки тому +5

      I am so so sorry u will never forget her but she would want u to go with your life that does not mean u will forget her

    • @user-usham
      @user-usham 3 роки тому +1

      *ua-cam.com/video/Y9uCHKtfgcs/v-deo.html

    • @AmáliaAdG68
      @AmáliaAdG68 3 роки тому +2

      Eu sinto muito por você. Receba meu abraço fraterno do Brasil.

    • @lisadavis7265
      @lisadavis7265 3 роки тому +2

      So sorry

  • @jimmclaughlan1380
    @jimmclaughlan1380 4 роки тому +392

    After looking after my wife for 15 years with vascular dementia this song for me was very appropriate,Jeanette passed 4 weeks ago age 66

    • @ChrisBrown-999
      @ChrisBrown-999 4 роки тому +9

      That sounds like a tough period of your life. I guess about to be followed by another tough period. But you're there, listening to REM, and I'm here listening to REM. There's one good thing.

    • @helenlucas5274
      @helenlucas5274 4 роки тому +8

      I am so sorry for your loss ,I just loss my son I know how hurt you are feeling, I wish I had some words of comfort for you, I will keep you and your wife in my prayers tonight,

    • @traceymeadows8723
      @traceymeadows8723 4 роки тому +1

      @@ChrisBrown-999 qqqqq

    • @richardcrocker8048
      @richardcrocker8048 4 роки тому +9

      Sounds like she was fortunate in
      having you ....

    • @yvonnewatkinson840
      @yvonnewatkinson840 4 роки тому +5

      So very very sorry for your loss. Hold on love. 😔😊

  • @whoswhoo
    @whoswhoo 5 років тому +111

    My son was 16 yrs his first heartbreak he played this in his room over and over ....I felt his sadness .....He's 35 yrs old now and dad to a beautiful baby with a beautiful partner ...... Yes hang on hurting is hard but hold on hold on hold on .