R.E.M. - Everybody Hurts (Official HD Music Video)
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- Опубліковано 25 жов 2009
- "Everybody Hurts" from R.E.M.’s best-selling 1992 album, Automatic for the People.
To learn more, visit www.remhq.com
We recently became aware of a blogpost entitled “Everybody Still Hurts” (found.ee/KRPny9) highlighting the R.E.M. song “Everybody Hurts” and its groundbreaking video, both released 32 years ago. The song and video remain resonant worldwide and in real people’s lives. The blog author broke down people’s comments on UA-cam from expressing pain, sharing memories of a loved one, to notes of encouragement and positivity - but wonders why there isn’t a Suicide Hotline telephone number listed for people who need it right then. We agree. And in that spirit, we offer some resources we’ve been able to track down:
United States:
National emergency number: 911
Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 988
Accessible by phone or text
24/7 support in English or Spanish
24/7 support for deaf or hard-of-hearing individuals; learn more at 988lifeline.org. For TTY Users: Use your preferred relay service or dial 711 then 988
Online chat: Visit 988lifeline.org
Crisis Text Line
24/7 text support: Text HOME to 741741
United Kingdom:
National emergency number: 999 or 112
The Samaritans
Dial 116 123 for 24/7 mental health support
Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM)
Dial 0800 58 58 58 for crisis support; available between 5 pm and midnight, BST or GMT
Visit thecalmzone.net to access chat support
Shout
Text SHOUT to 85258 for 24/7 text support
Germany:
National emergency number: 112 (EU emergency number), 110 for police
TelefonSeelsorge
Dial 0800 111 0 111 or 0800 111 0 222 for 24/7 crisis support
For chat or email support, visit TelefonSeelsorge's website
Ireland:
National emergency number: 112 or 999
The Samaritans
Dial 116 123 for 24/7 mental health support
Mental Health Ireland
Text About It
For 24/7 text support, text 50808
On smaller phone networks (such as An Post or 48), text HELLO to 0861800280
Australia:
National emergency number: 000
Lifeline Australia
Dial 13 11 14 for 24/7 crisis support
Text 0477 13 11 14 for 24/7 text support
Mexico:
National emergency number: 911
Consejo Ciudadano
Dial 55 5533-5533 for 24/7 crisis support
Argentina:
National emergency number: 911
Centro de Asistencia al Suicida
In the greater Buenos Aires area, dial 135
Otherwise, call 5275-1135 or 0800 345 1435
Chile:
National emergency numbers: Call 133 for police; call 131 for medical assistance
Teléfono de la Esperanza
Dial (00 56 42) 22 12 00
Canada:
National emergency number: 911
Talk Suicide Canada
Dial 1-833-456-4566 for 24/7 crisis support
Text 45645 for text support; available 4 pm to midnight ET
In Quebec:
Dial 1-866-APPELLE (277-3553) for 24/7 crisis support
Text 535353 for 24/7 text support
For 24/7 chat support, visit suicide.ca
Kids Help Phone
24/7 text support: Text CONNECT to 686868
France:
National emergency number: 112
National suicide prevention number: 3114
24/7 crisis support; visit 3114.fr to learn more
Suicide Écoute
Dial 01 45 39 40 00 for 24/7 crisis support
SOS Suicide Phénix
Dial 01 40 44 46 45 for phone support between 1 pm and 11 pm Central European Time
Sweden:
National emergency number: 112
Mind Självmordslinjen
Dial 90101 for 24/7 phone support; in cases of acute crisis, call 112
For online chat support, visit Självmordslinjen's website
South Africa:
National emergency numbers: 10111 (police) or 10177 (ambulance)
South African Depression and Anxiety Group
Dial 0800 567 567 for 24/7 crisis support
And for other resources in other countries, please visit:
www.psychologytoday.com/us/ba...
findahelpline.com/i/iasp
befrienders.org/
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If you're listening this in 2024, you're legend.
U too
Grew up listening to this actually
Every day. I'm retired and listen to music everyday all day long. Life is good
I’m here
Yes..... I am closely coming to 74 years since first opening my eyes* REM... hit the nail on the head... through so many times in my Life*... I just ..."held on"* Such a Wonderful Message*
I lost my Catherine after 61yrs of marriage in 2019..I am so lonely..it hurts..give your love ones a extra hug
it will get better, keep on pushing forward, never forget about her she will always be watching over you🙏🏻
So sorry for your loss, man. I'm divorced and admire the 61 years, but of course the absence must really, really suck. Much love to you.
Hugs Robert, I can only imagine how hard that might be. Sending love.
I'm so very sorry. At least you had her a long time. I can only pray that I have my husband that long. God bless you.
hang in there. surviving is natural.
My friend died today,,I came straight here ....all I can hope is that the pain has stopped for him now...RIP Dan
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@@JosefDavis thanks bro
I'm so sorry.
@@Livsangel thanks
Anyone else listening to this classic in 2024.
I am.
Eu amo demais essa música.
Always do. Ever since 1992
Yup.
Heck yes!
I'm disabled and have anxiety and depression. I have no friends and no romantic partner, and I am struggling to find a job. Frankly, I'm finding it very difficult to keep hanging on and still have hope that things will get better. Sending my love to anyone who might feel the same way ❤
Yeaaaa
I am sorry dear. Life can be so difficult. I have been there and the solution is to find strength in yourself.
I’m sorry friend, how old are you and do you have any customer service background?
I'll be your friend. Please find the light and stay bright for me Friend
I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’m in a similar situation, I’m disabled and struggling to find work. Every day feels like I’m living the same nightmare and I wish I could just fall asleep and never wake up. They say that everything in life is temporary and that’s where I keep finding the strength to hang on. I hope things get better for you. ❤
REM saved so many lives with this song including mine. People think it's a song of sadness but it's a song of strength and seeing the next sunrise. ♡
❤❤❤❤ sim, é uma canção de força, essa canção me faz querer reSistir, 😢 .
Hold on...
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Lies again? Harvard University Rise Of Titans
🎉❤well said x BRAVO
Lost my husband, 32 years suddenly. I wish God's blessing for all who lost the special person.
I did, too. We made it almost 30 years by two days. It's excruciating. Sending you love ❤️ ❤
Lost my wife 36 years of marriage in May 31 2021, lost half of me.Still cry& miss her! Guess I’m not alone in this.❤
He's just one step ahead of us , we'll catch up in the end..but still every day with you in you're thoughts!
We lost our beloved mom, oct. 20th. One of the hardest things to ever have to face, in life. We know momma would just say be happy for me now, I'm at peace and not hurting anymore. RIP-MOMmA. 😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤
Sorry for your loss! 😢😢😢❤❤❤
My momma played this everyday when she was fighting cancer and she told me to play this song at her funeral. She died march 23rd 1997. Today is her birthday so im playing her song for her.
I carried my father to this song. It's his anniversary tomorrow. 7 years later, the truth is, time isn't a healer, you just learn to live with that piece of your heart missing. ♥️
so terribly sorry for your loss
@@alanowari thankyou ❤️
So sorry for your loss. My father's is today 5/16, 2 years ago to the day. You put into words EXACTLY what I am feeling. 💔
may ur father Rest In Peace 🥀🕊️
In truth yes time does Not heal it hasn't healed me, but God helps us carry through with hope in our hearts.
My father died 2 years ago and we both would sit listening to this song on a Friday night with a few beers,he would tap his feet and close his eyes!He was a legend and I miss him so much every day.
I am dying of cancer. I have been in love with this song since I first heard it. I just put it in my will to be played at my memorial service. I want all of my friends and family to not dwell on what has happened, but to look forward to tomorrow! Everything moves forward. I hope the video in some form is still available. I want it to be played
@@cintiapcorrea 😢
🙏 . Cancer just took our cat. F cancer . I feel bad for not finding the lump sooner . I'd have paid anything to keep her longer, our vet of many years shook his head . I respect he was honest and forthright with us .
*God Bless you Tony. Peace and grace brother.*
Prayers for you ❤🙏
It is a beautiful song
This song got me through the deepest, longest depression of my life. Thank you for this REM
Keep your head up and keep smiling 😊
so many thanks
I lost my beloved husband Don of 49 years the emptiness and loneliness is sometimes unbearable, when God say’s that you become one flesh this was true in our lives he was the most loving, caring, giving person and I’m so thankful for the years God gave us. He was my one and only and still is.
I feel your pain ☺️
Hugs from Ireland x 🇮🇪
So very sorry for the loss of your beloved husband! My beloved wife Kathie passed on 12/26/2022.
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So sorry. I was in concern during the pandemic, as I felt my career was over. I wouldn't be able to support my family. This song helped me. Hope the best for in the future.
My world was a mess in 1993. Decided to end it all. Was driving fast down a hill with a sharp right over a bridge as the bottom. My plan was just to go straight on. As I was halfway down the hill, the line "No, no, no you're not alone" came on. It hit me like a brick. I slowed own, pulled over, and cried like a child. Michael Stipe, I owe you.
Stay strong and remember your not alone💜💜💜
Spookily similar to me in 1998, my wife was leaving me for someone else, I was about to lose my house and thought I would never see my kids anymore, this came on the Radio as I was speeding down a long straight towards a bend crying, what stopped me was I thought how devastated my wonderful parents would be, I couldn't do that to them, this song saved my life.
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Same, I had fucked up family. Was separated from my kids. And was about to loose all my shit because of the debt and divorce. So I was driving U-boat and I was about to drive straight into megaladons mouth, but then this music started playing and by the moment it was singing"no no no you are not alone" I stopped and I wasn't eaten by the dolphins.
Keep it up, call someone if you feel crap or listen to good music etc. :D
I wonder how many lives this man's lyrics have saved through out the world... He saved mine... X
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J noble Saved mine too.🤗 Hold on! ❤️✌️🌼
I had the pleaser of meeting a man called Peter Cotter in about 2000 who was a Vietnam Veteran and he told us a story of how he wrote poems to help him deal with his burdens from the war,and how a guy who’s name I can’t remember came to the sergeants mess ( Army accomodation) and asked if anyone had any poems as he would like to see them, and so Peter went to his room to get his poems, the guy said I’ll give you x amount of dollars (could have been $50-$100) for these poems. Some time later on he was driving home in his car when “Everybody hurts” came on and he said to his wife I know that song. So when he got home he searched for his old poems and found his poem that is what led to this song , and as soon as I heard Peters story of the poem he wrote I immediately understood why I used to get sad whenever I heard this song, and to this day and into the future I will always remember Peter Cotter not only for the beautiful person I met but for giving me the understanding of this song and it’s words, I no longer feel sad when I here this song but I rejoice in meeting a man who’s written word helped me understand things so much better. To Peter Cotter all I can say is thankyou sir and I will never forget you - you helped to change my life for the better.
ua-cam.com/video/_C6lNThb2cU/v-deo.html I’d love to know your thoughts on this
I’m reading the comments with tears running down my face. So much pain and loss. Sending you all positive thoughts and I’m so sorry for your suffering! I’m glad you have each other here!
Edit: it was 2 months ago I mage this post.. Last week I lost my beloved mugwai ( 19 yr old yorkie) he went right from his Moms boob to my arms and the grief is unbearable.
Same here Michael. 61 and I hurt but nothing like what I read. I am blessed.
@@edwardkaminsky8142 I’m 60! lol and I feel the same way. Especially after reading the pain of others here.
Same here Micheal
May God bless every soul
I danced to this song in 1995 at my wedding. It was a great 26 years of LOVE. Sometimes your love is still not enough to keep someone happy. It’s okay no expectations no regrets ❤
This song helped me and my son. He was a combat medic and came home all messed up in the head and highly suicidal. Thanks to training from the VA on how to help him and THIS SONG , got him to see the light at the end of the long dark tunnel he was in!! took 8 years but now he is a RN and his specialty is mental health, he now works with teens stuck in that dark tunnel from parental abuse!
good on him!!
That is amazing to hear. Respect for you and your son!
Thank you for his service, much respect to him for fighting and now passing his intermit knowledge to the young one. Merry Christmas.
Tell your so
Thankyou for his service and for NOT GIVING UP 💞
Be real PROUD of him
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Sitting here numb. Mom passed away this past Saturday. I'm now the last one standing in my family. Dad's gone, my brother and sister have passed. Thank God for my wife and kids. Absolutely lost right now. This song somehow picks me up when I'm down. 😢
I’m so sorry for your loss
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Amen, brother! Be strong your family is counting on you.
Hold on to the Lord Jesus, my friend - He will give you the strength. Love and prayers. 🙏
It’s funny how some songs cut right through to your heart…. ❤ . Some so sad EVERY-TIME you hear them you stop in your tracks , and are reduced to tears…. This is one of those songs
If you're reading this, I want you to know that you're SPECIAL and UNIQUE, and this world needs you ❤
You too ……
@SolRudolph Thank you 😊
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Thank u ! I needed to hear that! ❤
So are you
My son died on his 22nd birthday, fathers day, 2000. Not a day passes when I don't think of him. This song drags me around inside my head. I'll never get better. They say it fades but it doesn't.
Many hugs to you, no one can recover from losing a child. Stay strong ❤
Sending lots of love 💕
Here fir you xx
As a mum who lost her son too , no it doesn't get any easier. Why? Because it shouldn't have happened and it's like they are a phone call away. Sending big hugs. 😢
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Almost 30 years later, I still can't listen to this song without crying. Anyone else?
Kinda my go to song when I have just about had enough of the hurts of this world. Hold on, Hold on, picks me up every time.
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...Me too.
@Frdn Sips ...yes. This has been a long time "Go To" for me when im full-up.
me cry all the time to.this as lost dad a few months ago.
As a person who suffers from depression, this song actually lifts me up. Everybody hurts. Sometimes everything is wrong. But hold on.
Yes, we all hurt one time or another in our life. But hold on life is worth living. We all find our way. Just hold on! 🙏❤
@Christal. Please hold on. We love you. We all cry sometimes. You are special. ♥️
@@sheteg1 Thank you. It's been a lifelong battle but I'm holding on.
@@stellamoreno7766 Yes, just hold on!
If you follow your intuition, your life will get better. You'll know what to do to feel happy.
As a Veteran of the British Army, served in three conflicts and has ptsd and other physical issues, l can relate to the song..l now have two beautiful grand children, l would do it all again, for them..as this world is on borrowed time, love everything, be happy..X
As another veteran of the British Army, I salute you.
Sorry for your mental and physical struggles, but I'm glad that you have your grandkids to lift you up. God bless :)
@@nataliethomas9264 Thank you...
Thank you for you service 🫡🌎💜
@@anneliekerremans71 X
My wife and I used to listen to this. She has passed..... O' God, it hurts.....
I'm so sorry for your loss :( It's a great song and I'm glad you and your wife were able to enjoy it together. You seem to be a believer yourself, and I'd offer Revelation 21:4 as a comfort if you haven't looked at it lately: "He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away." One day, this too, shall pass.
God bless
Music is not this moving anymore. Thanks for the memories!
It is, but it's not playing on Top 40 radio. Look into the indie scene.
I'm sure you know of every indie band. You fuckin kiddin me? Do more exploring.
Every older music video it's the same old comment "music is not music anymore". Just like grandpa said when he listened to REM. I mean come on, what a circlejerk. There's LOTS of good music out there, the problem is that these people don't keep up and only hear the stuff that's on the radio.
This is true. It's also true that there has always been shitty pop music. Though, pop music is worse than it used to be. I do miss walking into a store or something and liking the the top 40 stuff playing. Pop is too homogenous now.
MacGuffin I'm not even, sure about that. Listen to pop music from the late 60's . All sounds like the Beatles
One of the most powerful songs ever written....still hits me every time...
Zgadzam sie Zuzanno Ty wczoraj o tym pomyślałaś, ja dziś:) wszystkiego dobrego dla Ciebie.
Ĥelps me get through also,wish people could get on.. Enough hate,it socks.
…..and the sky is blue
I love you with all my heart as always Kie, you knocked the stuffing out of me when that guy killed you n Mac, ❤❤❤
My daughter hasn't spoke to me for a year and miss her so much
I lost myyoungest son to suicide we both have always treasured this song.still helps me stay grounded after losing my baby boy
I have cancer and struggle everyday, I am in pain but I carry on, as I want to live my life.
God bless you
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Lost my dog Sugar today at 12.5 years. She was a beautiful Boxer and such a goofy lovable galoot... I am honored to have been your caretaker during your time on this Earth. I'll never forget you. Give my mom some licks and hugs. Hi mom
I am sorry for your Boxer and you,
HE IS IN HEAVEN NOW .ELISABETH HEDWIG THESSMANN FROM BAYREUTH
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Friendship with an animal can tear your heart to pieces in whole different way especially when you’ve had a soul tie with them,I look forward to meeting all my cats again in the wonderful land xx
So sorry
I feel your pain. My dogs are my kids. I pray for you that your pain will ease. They take with them a piece of our heart.
They truly are family.😢
Whenever I feel really depressed, I just play this song on a loop until I feel better. It makes me cry and sometimes you just need a good cry to feel better. Hold on...
I wish I could say you are so right....
Same. Same. I can't imagine how many lives this has saved. I listen to this when the abyss stares up at me.
@@jamie57061 please seek out help. It has helped me tremendously.
Same
Used to catch my Mum crying. I would ask her why, she would say “You always feel better after a good cry” xxxx
My wife of over 46 years died last week. Even though I've known for quite a while that she didn't have long, it has not been easy. I will "hold on."
Oh I'm very sorry for your loss 😏, God bless you 🙏
I am there ........ i feel your pain, lost mine of 42 years ....... 2 years ago X
Hold On ❤! Peace ✌️And Love from Tucson Arizona Desert! 🙏
Hold onto memories ....death bloody sucks !!!!!
I hear&feel you,lost my husband to suicide many years ago,and I'm still holding on.
My wife passed away on may 5th. 2023.i cry everyday nobody gets the pain i go through everday
So sorry for your loss. Pls be strong and time will heal but she will always be in your heart forever.
Have a nice day.
Chipper Bailey.
My woman died a year ago too my friend. Your NOT alone brother, although it may feel that way. Consider this, she wouldn't want u unhappy.
So sorry for your loss
I lost my wife Jan 2023 after 26 years of marriage. We met when I was 19. I'm 50yrs old now she is all I ever knew. I share your pain every day. We need to hold on when the days are rough going.
My dad chose this song to be played at his funeral. I think he chose it for a reason. 8 months he’s been gone now, but I’ve never loved him more.
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I'm so very sorry for your loss...💔
Very sorry for your lost😔😔😔😔
I’m sorry
Be strong, and the good thing is your father knows that you still love him. God bless you.
Love this song. Lost my husband at 56 , now 82 and still listening ❤❤
♥
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Faut en retrouver hein
Lost my wonderful love at 58, now I'm 70. The hardest years.
You're a very brave and inspiring person
What a hell of a tune wow still love it in 2024 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
REM such an inspirational song that truly saved me years ago and unfortunately Im battling a pain like one ive never felt before . But any time I feel like Im about to give up I listen to this song it saves me and I continue to Hold on . Please to all the believers who read this just remember me in prayer...thank u and God bless....
I just prayed for you!
Ánimo..💪
Just prayed for you. Keep holding on, and lean into Him when your burden becomes too much. God's got you, friend :)
I lost my son in 2019 and then came 2020 nothing can break me anymore!! I’m still here cause he told me to stay strong!! I’m doing my best I promise xxxx
Hang on !
Bless you
You can do it. He'll be so proud of you🌹😊🤗
Hugs kelly he's proud of his strong mama💪❤️may always find comfort and solace
Its not an ending 😊
My husband was dying of cancer and our kids were only 6 & 10. I used to go down to the basement in the middle of the night while everyone was asleep and listen to this again and again while I howled out my grief. Sounds daft being grateful for a song but I am. It was such a comfort.
It doesn’t sound daft at all, it sounds like a person keeping sanity together for her kids when her whole world is being torn from under her through no fault in the situation, it was written for people like you, people like you that share these parts of life give us the inspiration to keep pushing forward, love to you and your family
I totally understand. Not daft whatsoever. This song & Chris Cornell’s “Sunshower” popped up at the exact times I needed to hear them at different points years ago. I hope you are in a happier space now.
it dosen't sound daft at all, i'm very sorry for your loss..i hope you and your kids find peace
ty for sharing your situation,you just helped a total stranger..i am in such deep despair,i can barely get thru the day without breaking down completely,and i am a grown man with grown children,but my heart feels like it is irrevocably broken,my younger brother was murdered or as the police say,suicide by gunshot,this song brought me here i guess,and then to you...i honestly want to just pull the plug,he was great and nice,and i am the fuckup,it should have been me,but if you can manage the terrible loss you suffered,maybe i can hold on.thank you,and i pray for your closure and for you to have a happy life with your children
may god bless you,,very touchin story
I've been on medication for depression for 12 years and my dad died on boxing day and was cremated on my birthday and this song really helps
so many wonderful comments to people who are suffering in some way, god bless you and may he be with you all ....................
Amein❤
Thank you friend...!
Shalom and Maranatha❤
Yep being in comments only makes you think of how ths problems we have are nothing to what some people went and are going through ❤❤❤❤❤
This was played at my Son's funeral.....my special song for my special boy. Brett I miss you my boy.xxxx
So sorry for your loss,R.I.P brett
Hope and pray he's watching over you which he will be ❤
o my world
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I would of balled my eyes out. So sorry for your loss. xx
I'm truly sorry for your lost. I have two youngs sons, so I can only imagine your pain. Please try to stay strong.....best wishes and thoughts for you and family.😪
My dear son died yesterday morning. With out this song I would be insane. The words have helped me ,HOLD ON. Thank you REM for this wonderfully meaningful song of encouraging words.
Sorry friend. Hold on.
Hold on
so sorry for your loss. lost my best friend last year, couldn't imagine son passing on. just remember the best things and times and stay strong, my heart goes out to you. ❤
Sorry for your loss i know what you going through i lost my son 6 months ago 25 years old with cancer the pain don't go away you just learn to live with it just be strong.
Please hold on.
I was in my lowest in 2018, really fed up and in an institution for a while. Had a break, went out, put on my earphones and radio: this was playing! It went thru my soul like a flame and I instantly felt better mentally. not on the rocks anymore. My all time favourite!!!
I'm glad you are feeling better, please keep smiling think of happy things 😊
@@garywood708 Thank you. Listening again to remember I do feel better! Happy thoughts ❣💯
That is so wonderful! Happy you were able to start feeling better :)
Please pray for me. I have treatment resistant depression and everyday i think of ending it
Please don’t 😢
Things will get better ❤️
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@@irishgirl1519 that's very kind of you..I don't really have much hope, there's not even a reason I'm depressed I just am. I don't know how I will live the rest of my life like this
@@Mannsy83
Please God you will feel better soon .
Never give up, you would be missed .
Listen to REM’s Everybody Hurts , again.
I’ve seen comments on here that have said that song helped them .
Life is precious.
Love from Ireland 🇮🇪
Hang in there, things will get better.
My sister chose this for her funeral last Tuesday. I'll always think of her now when I hear this song. So powerful, so sad. The words are incredibly apt. She battled for a long time, but she couldn't fight any longer and she is now at peace. Miss you Pam. X
So much loss and pain. You're not alone. I hope you find some comfort inher memory
I'm so sorry for your loss. ❤🙏
Don't give it a lost time or don't think you won't see it again...... a new and more beautiful dimension awaits us ..... believe only ....
God bless you and your family at this difficult time 🇮🇪
Thank you everybody for your kind words. ❤
I am 64 years old and this is one of the most emotional songs I have ever heard, I am listening to it and reading the comments and it makes me realise just how lucky I am when others are having to deal with such heartbreak and more in their lives. My heart goes out to all who have commented below and above me and I truly hope that you can overcome whatever has caused your hurt.
Thank you what a nice man you are
just remember that you are not alone
I' he laid my heart on the line above here to go hopefully send love to others.Jeff ..people care for you too brother xx
I am like you my friend, I realise how truly blessed I am with my life, I have a beautiful wife and children and up to now have enjoyed good health, In this modern consumer driven society too many people do not realise how lucky they are. Best wishes and love to anybody going through hard times at the moment.
What you wrote was so nice you sound like a really wonderful person. I am also 64 years old my husband passed 3 months ago very lonely now. But since he did me so wrong which I just found out 2 years before his death I believe the hurt is less. Hoping to find a friend someday my age if nothing else just to talk with. I don't know what your story is Jeff but I wish you all the best we're all not getting any younger here. Peace and happiness always my friend.
Husband died suddenly 11th march 2024 only married 15 years. had this song for his funeral Beautiful song
Lost my mom 2 days ago. Miss her already. She was only 63 and I'm definitely hurting.
I lost my only child.. 11 year old son to hemorrhagic dengue severe in Jan. 2022 and this song gives me some relief. I listen to this song every time i feel down and out. Grieving process is not easy. Praying for healing and restoration to all the parents out there or to anyone who lost their loved ones. 🙏🏻❤
What a shame. Sorry to hear, take care x
@@alanross1106 thank you♥
❤️
Condolences
@@jorgealbertobecerraturrubi5377 ❤🙏🏻
I bet he doesn't even know how many lives he has impacted with this song.
Yes...yes he and REM know exactly how impactful this song is. We’re listening to it in 2021...
If he saved one life, I think he would say it was worth it. It has to be thousands tho.
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And saved
He might. I just learned he is Godfather to Kirk Kobain’s daughter.
This came out when I was a teen and I appreciated it then. Now, when I'm 44 and lost my fiance, mom and best friend all within 6 months of each other, I appreciate it even more. The sadness I feel is expressed by songs, that's how I cope and this just gets me.❤❤
Thank you and I am trying. I hope you are too.
@@MarieSchilling88 Hi I'm sorry, I didn't know if you were speaking to me because I didn't comment. I'm not on here often so I don't know. I hope whatever you are dealing with gets better for you. For me, it's one day at a time right now because this all happened recently. My heart and prayers go out to you. 💜
Stay strong and hold on this is my biggest fear I have never experience one of my close loved ones dying I am truly scared for it to happen I just hope I’m ready for when the time comes it’s inevitable. I thinks it’s ok to hurt but don’t give up❤
@@sonnydominguez6225 Thank you very much❤ I can't tell you not to fear it but please don't live like that. Enjoy every moment you have with your loved ones and don't think about anything bad happening. That is the best advice I can give you. This all happened suddenly, each one and part of me is thankful that I didn't fear anything. I try not to give up but I did pick up and move across the country thinking it would help. It hasn't but I'm slowly working on getting there. I appreciate your comment and please try to take my advice. Don't live in fear of losing anyone, embrace the love while you have it❤❤
@@clothesingtime79That was honestly the best advice I have seen someone say after losing what you have. I dont think I could have that outlook that you do. Im sorry for what you went through and you seem to have a very caring heart. I don't know how long ago it happened to you but you are strong. Dont let this bring you down and you cope how you need. Songs are things we cant say.
Lost my puppy of 19 years today. Make sure you hug your best mate everyone.
Ugh
I'm 60 yrs. old, I came across this song the night my granddaughter received a heart transplant. My granddaughter was born with congenital heart syndrome, which meant breathing was always a problem. She celebrated her 1st anniversary with her new Heart on May 28,2019.
She’s now twelve years old, l will forever be grateful to the donor,s family for sharing their Love One with us and for giving my Granddaughter a new life .To this day I still cry for the donor, whose young life ended unexpectedly, and for the family who blessed my granddaughter . I thank God for every day he gives her. Life before her transplant was very different from now.
I pray, that “my granddaughter never forgets her donor, whose life came to end in order for her to have a better quality of life, and that the Donors family gave unselfishly for others to have life.
“When Life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, Show Life you have a thousand reasons to Smile.”
Peace be with you.
Gael (grandfather)
Just believe and you will be OK.
The best comment ever
Big thing. It makes me happy to hear, breakthroughs, music and time. Perspectiv, art.
Vero! Mio padre e mia madre uccisi dalla negligenza del medico. Io al mio Paesello ero il più vecchio donatore di sangue AVIS oltre 40 anni ora che sono vecchio mi rammarico di non poter salvare una vita in più.
Sergio Ramírez ya te atrapamos
One of my favorite songs of all time. I grew up in a poor family but had the most incredible experiences. I miss my mom, who passed away four years ago, so terribly. She never wanted anything but to love her children. My success is attributed to her! Miss you, mom!
Be strong❤
That was my mum, too
Mine too, I wish I had been a better daughter. Everybody hurts in their own way.
I came here for some reason tonight...to hear this song
Me encanta 💖
Anyone in Apr 2024
Lost my wife after 30 years of marriage
I lost my son after he returned from Afghanistan.
Eu 4:30 madruga 16.42024
F Nò😮
I'm here April 16,2024
This touched me so deeply. I have felt alone since the passing of my husband in 2004. We found pancreatic cancer in the final stage. He lasted about a month after seeing the doctor. We planned on living along life after we were retired. We use to talk growing old together. I still miss him and love him so much but I also thank God that he didn't endure the pain very long. He is in my heart and will stay there until I join him. This song says it all. 😢
What a rteañpñy sad biit amazing piece of indo9rmation.l, I qam so so so9rry to read this but myou are strong and hop'e myou are recevering o reco0ver3ed. O cant see to tyoe lol,. lotttsa loo9ce x
A great friend once told me " if the mountain were smooth Bob , We'd never be able to climb it !! "
Robert Fritz what it means? Just a random thing?
I thought your name was robert ?
@@oscarrizo2078 - it means life is like a mountain and nothing caused you pain , you would not grow ...
Your friend was clearly a very wise man! Thanks Bob! 👍
Meaning life’s not smooth and you need the bumps to make it to the top I like it bob
I can only imagine how many lives were saved because of this song. 🎵 There is music that is empty that has no impact on society and then there are songs like this one that impacts a whole generation and many to come.
This song hits different depending on your mood. When you're happy it makes you sad but when you feel like you really can't go on, it gives you a reason to try.
My son died 5 years ago from cancer aged 17😢 This song reminds me of that terrible time😢 Thanks R.E.M, the song keeps me going.
Nossa, que triste seu relato, que Deus receba seu filho de braços abertos 😢🇧🇷
I'm so sorry ❤
I think I might be that son, I feel so so weak, I hate this life, this song keeps me going though. I wish to fight though this CaNCeR
I was just diagnosed myself 2 weeks ago. I was going to choose my day of flight. But this song saved my life. Dr. asked me how I got diagnosed so early, I told him I thought I was having another heart attack but instead I was diagnosed with small cell lung cancer. Dr. Then told me he thought I could be healed in six weeks. This coming week I start my radiation and chemotherapy treatments. If I win I’ll be one of the lucky ones.
your son is above us, you will see him when you pass.
So far you've survived 100% of your worst days! Stay Strong!!!
wow some perspective right there
Fuking kid..go do somethink right..Scool
As allways, and you to
well said! never thought of it that way!!
Vator Self thanks baby darling
We lost our little girl Brandi, in a Car accident in 1991.The "City of Angels" had this Song .I realized, Every body does hurt sometimes. It doesn't matter what age. When you lose someone it sooo is a hurt you can explain in words ,tears are necessary to heal .
please don't despair
I'm sending a big, warm hug to everyone who is sad and lonely. You are NOT alone...
HOLD ON, HOLD ON!!!
💖🌟🌠💖🌠🌟💖
Thanks😘
I’m so lonely
Thank you 🌹
🕊💫💖🙏🌞
Thank you 😔😔
My precious nephew was dying of brain cancer 7 years ago. It was unbearable for my sister so I tried to help with what I could and asked him what he wanted. This was first song he picked. He didn't want anyone being sad for him when everybody hurts eventually and some survive and some fly free of the hurt. I still remember people asking me why I picked that song since it wasn't typical funeral songs. I just said I didn't pick it. It was what Jason wanted so it was for him and a testament to the person he was. 💞
Awesome
Sorry for y'all's loss. He sounds like an amazing and brave soul
That’s beautiful. So sorry for your loss
Your nephew sounds like he was a wonderful person. Sorry he was gone too soon. This is definitely a great song for him to have chose.
It's all about no matter how bad things get, try to hold on. ❤
my prayer send
Loved this song since it was first released. Unexpectedly lost my wife of 20 years four months ago. I've broken many bones, had several surgeries, spent close to two years on crutches for various reasons, crashed motor cycles, rolled 4x4's, rough landings while sky diving, had stitches in the triple digits, all kinds of stupid but fun stuff. Never really hurt before. This song is on my short looping playlist now.
This not about dying this is about living,bloody hell ,,just get through the day or night ,,tomorrow is another day scarlett 😢❤
My sister chose this song for her funeral when she was dying from cancer in 2014. I think she was telling us that however hard things get, to keep holding on. It helps me through the tough times.
Stay strong sam
I'm so sorry to hear about your sister. She wouldn't want you to be sad..just keep holding on.
She will be so proud of you.
Me too. I know that I will get better and be able to handle mental illness once my toolbox ',positivism, smoothies, proteins and vitamins and deliciously homemade cuisine( no preservatives). . Patience les amis will eventually come back or not. crazy cat lady 2 months ago)
Hang tuff cat lady. That's what they would've wanted!
I was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma cancer and Amyloidosis AL 3 years ago. The doctors gave me 5 years to live. This song brings tears to my eyes every time I hear it! I just keep holding on and praying to God!
Keep on keeping on.
Be brave and strong! I'll pray for you.
Sending you love
All the best😢
Just keep holding, Ronnie!
1993 February I lost my beautiful grandad. This was the song that hurt me so much. Still hurts thirty years later.
I lost mine in 1993 also. He was like my dad to me.
I can't listen to this song without crying my eyes out brings back bad memories from my childhood , love song just not the memories 😢
I am 68 years old. But I remember this song, and I love it. Since I now suffer from major depression, it seems to fit me. Yes indeed, everybody hurts, even me.
Hang in there !! Life is a gift. Bless you
Just wanna send you a hug Sylvia..We all hurt....sometimes.
In my thought's, you take care. Everybody hurts and are loved at sometime. x
I'm a man and I hurt all the time
Mental pain and torment can't be conveyed to someone that just doesn't have it..."Just Get Over It" ... okay, I never smoked so to smokers "Just Quit" LOL obviously it's difficult....people shouldn't give advice or make jokes with something they don't share...but just stop and say. nobody is normal and Thank God you don't have that disorder...if it were easy..it wouldn't hurt.
This song got me through a hard time in the 90s. Left homeless with a young child. This is my go to song for comfort. Thanks MJS.
I hope u find somewhere soon xx
🙏
I wish life/the world were kinder. Sorry for the pain that situation caused you. I hope you got more out of it than that in the end.
Don't ever lose your self for anyone else. Your the Rock.
Homeless girls are the funnest
This song gives me comfort over the last year I have lost 3 of my best friends my sweet wife and my dog of 15 years .I guess Jesus keeps me going on.😢😢
All the ✌️ & ❤ from here in Australia!
This song makes me remember I am not the only one suffering!
When you are happy , you listen to the music , when you are sad , you understand the lyrics
That's so true.
@@helgadunn7395 So bloody true
give credit where credit is due you didnt make this
When you are happh you dont listen to this. And when you post this kinda comments you fill my cells with cringe until they dilate and die, killing me at a molecular level.
Great quote
To all those who are suffering, my heart goes out to you. You are not alone despite how it feels ❤️❤️
I really needed to see that right now ❤
😢😢
Ty
@@lorettayoung5468 bless you ❤️❤️
@@sheilasantistevan1177 huge ❤️ hugs xxxxx
We lost our mother Christmas Eve which took a toll on us all but less than 3 weeks later my sister lost her husband. She cries constantly and so sad. After 2 years we are all getting better but my sister seems at times like she just can’t get passed loosing our mother and then her husband. I pray for her all the time and I sent her this song this morning in hopes it would lift her. I love this song it does help with the loss of my mother. Life is so darn hard and this song says it all. Thank you and God Bless everyone
Lost my Mom on our wedding anniversary and my best friend the next easter. I'll send her healing.
Two weeks ago our house caught fire the house can be fixed but we pretty much lost everything. But they're just things. This evening I found out that the son of a good friend of mine passed away in his sleep. I guess I needed a reminder that I could have lost a lot more than thing. My husband and our two roommates got out safely.
This song is therapeutic. I can feel down, totally alone, and nonexistent, yet I'm not alone. We are all suffering in our own way together.
our not alone
Many years ago after getting past a very difficult situation in my life, I played this song, sat there and cried and cried. This song lifted the heavy weight of what I had gone through, right off my shoulders. Still get tears in my eyes listening to this. ❤😢
@@silvermoondrops
lets analyse the nonsense /lies many amongst you believe in:
lie: schools are of use (fact. schools keep slavery alive and stands for dumbing down the population of mankind)
lie: moon and mars landings, (fact: even masons know they cannot leave)
lie: news channels share truth (fact: these are for politic propaganda)
lie: money has a value of its own (fact: it is just a tool of this world, which value has been agreed upon world wide)
lie: NASA lies (globe and all....) (fact: NASA stands for to deceive) - you havn´t searched - have you?
lie: the lgbtq++++ propaganda (fact: it is a part of masonry depopulation agenda, 500 000 000 souls, thats their goal.)
lie: Evolution and the dinosaurs. (fact: mankind is not hybrid kind)
to keep stating that there was an evolution, then we ain´t humans, we aint then mankind, we are then hybrids.
Lie: holidays (xmas, halloween, new year eve and so on) (fact: PAGAN HOLIDAYS, to praise BAAL, the god of this world)
lie: U.F.Os (fact: they are demons/evil spirits in high places, against whom we fight daily = spiritual warfare)
lie: rules and laws rule the world (fact: signs and symbols of masonry do)
10 lies, should i go on?
Im with you😊
Yeah, we’ve all been traumatized in some shape or form. This song keeps me sane.
If you are depressed and listening, know that this is a song of *understanding* and *hope.* *Hold* *on*
what?
@@napachick100 I listen to this song and instead of a depressing song I hear a song that screams understanding. Everybody hurts. That's what it says. And they say to hold on so that's the hope
I thought it was about being stuck in traffic and not giving into your inner road rage
Always listen to this song when I feel down in the dumps x
I've been depressed the last few days and I listened to this song on my way home from work tonight.
I lived through 14 years of the dark night of the soul. I survived by grace alone. This song brings me tears…
Es ist traurig und doch wunderschön. Und es ist egal, wie alt es ist. Es bleibt für viele ein Trost. 🙏
at this time, this very moment, this song is on repeat for days and is helping me hold on..... saving.my.life.
Keep on keeping on
don't die please
ReDonna Suiter Jesus Loves You!!!!
Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: If anyone hear my voice, and open the door, l will come into him, and sup with him , and he with me. Revelation 3:20
ReDonna Suiter mine too. just hold on.
every single song of this band is a masterpiece
me encanta este grupo una canción muy sentida
Your not wrong, they have sure seen the face and held hands with the angels.
this is brilliant, but my favourite is Leaving New York . . . incredible song . . .
Every time they put out a "greatest hits" album, I scan the track listing and think "Wow, they really screwed this up with the song choices, they missed so many." It's then I remember that REM is one of those bands where you really, really need to hear ALL the albums, front to back.
Could you recommend some songs of them?
Missing my 2 we daugters ❤️ hope to see them soon
One night at the beginning of this year, my four-year-old daughter and I were sitting in the living room, when she asked me, “Daddy do men cry?” I said, “Yes, they do.” Then she said, “But I have never seen you cry.”
This same year, I lost her because of a drunk Driver. A reckless man entered our neighborhood by mistake, where my daughter was playing, and this man later admitted that he took a wrong turn, and that’s all it took. One wrong turn ended my only daughter’s life. This is the same daughter, whom I did not acknowledge for the first three years of her life. I denied her. I had to go to a paternity court to confirm that she is really my biological daughter. I can't stop thinking about how I’ve missed out on so many amazing and fun things. I wasn't there when she said her first words or when she took her first steps. I didn't have much time to spend with her. Only one year was all the time I had with her. I don’t deny that this is all my fault, I bet her mother regrets taking me to court to prove that she is indeed my daughter. If she had not done this, our daughter would’ve never been in that neighborhood to begin with, and would still be alive to this day.
I wish she could see me now so that she could be sure that I was really telling the truth when I said that yes, men do cry.
My father died 3 days ago from a sudden heart attack. Rem was his favourite band. My mother asked me to play him some music so he can hear from heaven. I hope you are listening and that you are proud of me. I will love you forever.
Such moving words
I bet he is. sorry for your loss. i wish i could dedicate a song for my dad
Melanie Georgescu, My sincerest condolences to you and your family. My heart goes out to you and I sit here as the tears flow. I know the hurt and the emptiness from losing a dad. Mine is gone too. My prayers are with you. Beautiful song too. I am sure he would like your choice.
😥😥😥
Now I'm sad ayyy
Only a clear mind is able to create a work of art like this song
Absolutely!
Well said!
And a sympathetic heart.
My mom passed away when i was 14. I'll be 49 this month and im still trying to hang on.
I lost mine at 12 from a brain tumor. You'll never stop grieving.
I'm proud of you. I haven't lost a parent myself, but there are definitely some kinds of pain that just stick with you, and it's incredible that you've continued to hold on. Keep at it. You are loved, and it is worth it to stick around, always.
23:58 in South African time. 28 February 2024 this song is still a great classic. When artists were selected based on talent
I truly believe this song has saved lives.
I also believe it did
has saved mine
I truly agree with you, keep smiling
My Dad died one week ago. I had a dream about him last night and this song was playing in my dream. Honestly I hadn't thought about this song in years. I believe he sent this song to me in my dream. I miss you Dad.
Might help if you talk to him, I believe your loved ones, that have passed, can hear you.
I've made my own plans for tomorrow 23yrs ago!
I've tried so hard to explain how deeply I feel about you,yet it falls on deafness
ALWAYS BARBARA,ALWAYS
I haven't had a dream in years. I wish I'd dream of my mom. She died recently. It really hurts. I love you mom.
My mom is battling Pancreatic Cancer and I’m feeling really down watching her decline but my Faith won’t let me give up and Pray she doesn’t either.. who knew a song I remember hearing during my childhood would resurface. 🙏🏾… for Every hurting soul.. Hold On.
tears streaming down my face,gotta hold on,trying so hard...
I ❤ you 🫂
Keep holding on. I'm proud of you for making it this far :) You are loved.
one of the most beautiful songs ever written
This is a close 2nd...BREATHE by JASMINE LAMPORT.
My dad passed away 1 month ago due to covid. That‘s the song he wanted to be played at his funeral. It‘s the first time I hear this song since then, still hurts.
COVID took Mom now too. May you be reunited in heaven.
I love you both more than words can ever express ❤️
aww im so sorry♥️♥️
Sorry to hear that
Your dad had great music taste rip🙏🏽
Mein herzlichstes Beileid 💐 🕊
I'm really sorry for you! Stay strong!
My Mum was diagnosed with Cancer in 1999 at the age of 39, she passed away in 2005, she always wanted this at her funeral, this was the opening song at her funeral
MASTERPIECE!!
The Cancer spread all over her organ, she died the last June.
Rest in peace, my wife. I promise to send my prayer to God, to take care of you.
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Cancer sucks!
Stay strong my friend and dont forget to live happy thé rest of your Life. You deserve it
Keep yourself stronger than ever, life goes on, and I am pretty sure that if your wife could tell you some words, she would definitely tell "be happy, don't forget me, but you deserve to be happy"
As the song says, you are not alone.