I used to watch a ton of your UA-cam drum covers. Now UA-cam recommended me this. It's so hard seeing you like this... I hope time gives you the comfort and peace you need. Stay strong
At the end of 2017 I was cheated on by my girl of 3 years. Shortly after, my Mom and step-dad of 12 years split up. After that, my brother and friend shot themselves a month apart from each other. If I can get through that, then you can get through this - keep your head up, man. Time heals all wounds.
Brother. What you are going through, I wouldn’t wish it on anyone! Iv been there. I can tell from your eyes you’re hurting. It’s natural. She doesn’t deserve your tears. You’re a talented guy. It takes time but soon, there will be a click. A click all us guys hope for. And when it comes, life will be better. Stay strong man. Much love
That Sh*t is rough man. Been there before. Not 8 years deep but I can only imagine how you feel. We love your content dawg. Been watching you for years and hate this for you. We're always here to support you. Keep being the rockstar you are.
Homie, when i was cheated on by the most important beautiful person, it destroyed me. Its been 8 years and i still have nightmares and thoughts that lead to anger and confusion. I got through the thick of it all alone but you...youre amazing. You have so much support because youve done so much for others and i have no doubts youll snap back better than ever!
Bro...the things happens for a reason. Out there is someone better for you waiting trust me. Life is about how you get up and still walking. Be strong, I know is hard, I have been there. Keep your head stand and fight this nightmare, you weel meet your real soulmate, she is out there for sure. Right now just focus in you because you my friend are more important. Big hello and a big hug for you my friend here from Cuba.🇨🇺
Staying busy often only prolongs the healing. Gotta face all of it, all of the shit, to heal healthy. It will suck, but you'll be better for it. Letting go is easier with sound mind and clear focus.
I feel you Wyatt been cheated on too... what got me through everything was honestly just all the music I love... Hope you feel better much love keep your head up!
So she went straight to the darkside .. bruh. You should sue her if she's acting up, dude . I feel like u been taking care of her for years, . Edit* bro! Get ur self together! Remember who you are ! Go back home and play drums and hang out with ur friends and family, bro ! What r u doing ! Get another drum set start making videos start playing for bands again Get paid and meet a new girl ! .. take care of ur self bro..!
@popularmonstah I'm sure I saw it, but I don't remember.. tbh .. I'm not trying to be mean, but I feel she might have daddy issues and needed someone to be more dominating and lead,guide the way on her journey .. idk 🤷🏻♂️
i can feel what you're going through.you’re not sure where to go in life. Everything feels pretty messed up. And that's totally normal. You're just a human being, you have feelings. You're not a robot. Over time, you'll start feeling better. Give yourself some time to be upset if you need to. And remember, you're the most important person in your own life. Love yourself the most. Not anyone else. Everything’s gonna get better, bro. You’ve got so many people who care about you. Keep that in mind. Starting over is a dope opportunity. We’ll be here, watching your videos and supporting you. We’ll be proud to see you get your life back on track. LET'S GO!
Bro, keep that head high. I've went through a similar situation in the past. everything happens for a reason!! you'll come out the other end stronger brother!!!
I wanna give this man a hug.. i stg idk what happened. I'm really worried for you.. and I want you to be the best man you can be.. the fans are forever here for you.. and I think you getting back to youtube, possibly drumming again will kinda bring back that love of music and shit you've always done. But you gotta be strong, man. I know it hurts.. trust me, I've been in the same situation.. but it will never fully heal for a long time. It's gonna be okay..my man keep that head up bro.
Keep your head up brother!!! I've been there too, don't worry, the sadness will go away..... in the future she'll be just a distant memory with no meaning for you and you'll be a whole new person, a way better version of yourself.
Man we've been there... just keep it up and somehow somewhere down the line things just will get better. Stay strong and go for it on this new chapter.
Went through this in 2023. We were approaching 7 years togethe. We have 2 kids a house and much more and to find out the way I did(which was from our oldest kid). The amount of shit i felt was like nothing else. Crazy thing is we acually worked at it and came back together. We talked a lot, talked to familly, talked to pros, ect. And yes we are still working on things to this day(cant expect full trust and to be firing on all cylinders like nothing happened). But as crazy as it is we are doing better then before. I truely am sorry this happened to you dude. Seeing your emotional state dinged my head like "yep thats how I was".Cant tell how many nights I drank myself to death or wanted to end it all. Stay strong dude I dont expect you to forgive or take back but I expect you to survive as hard as that sounds. My father once told me a broken heart is the worst pain you'll ever feel. Take care of yourself brotha and know you are desirving of love.
I just went thru break-up a few months ago and it’s been rough, I had to face it all on my own and hopefully at the end has made me a better person. I felt it all in my room by myself listening to music, I am learning to live with the demons and all the unanswered questions. You’re not alone though brother, if you need anything reach out.
You’re a king bro. You deserve the best and the best is yet to come. Nothing you’ve had before will be able to compare. I know it may not feel like it, but you’re not the one who has lost. One day at a time. You got this.
i’m sorry you’re going through all of this. i can’t say i know exactly what you’re going through being as i’ve never been in a actual relationship let alone one for almost a decade for fear of being hurt on top of thinking im not nor will ever be good enough. but i HAVE been hurt by someone who i thought cared for me the same way. i’ve been following your videos all the way back to the BVB and Bad Omens reactions and i’ve loved every single video. you have always seemed like you would definitely be a badass person to have as a friend bc of how deeply you care for others. this shows how much you cared and loved and it’s just the downside of being let down. but you WILL be able to overcome it all and you WILL grow to be a even stronger person in the end bc at the end of the day you are a amazing person and the people surrounding you who you feel comfortable with, those are the ones that will stick with you til the end. do NOT give up. feel the emotions. feel the hurt, anguish, sadness, anger, etc. bc you’ll be able to wake up one day and no longer feel those emotions and THAT is when you now you have finally healed and can breathe easier. it will take some time. just have to take it day by day. you definitely don’t know me but i’m always here to talk and to lend a ear as a subscriber and friend from the states! Stay strong!!! 🩵
I know I'm late, but the most important thing for you to do right now is you need to feel your emotions. You need to go through them and process and feel whatever it is you need to feel in order to get through this. As someone who went through this, it took me three years of feeling and going through my emotions to finally get past the pain and hurt I was going through. I don't know you personally Wyatt, but I would say it's best not to block out the emotions and feelings with work and being overburdened trying to stay busy. As you said, the only way to heal is to feel. Just don't make drastic decisions like turning to alcohol or, Heaven forbid, self harm. Take all the time you need, and you will come out of this stronger.
I’m sorry man, despite the “toxic emotions” you’re very self aware of what you’re feeling and can definitely pull yourself out of this in time. Don’t be too anxious to go through the shitty emotions during the tough days or to face what you need to face. From a random UA-cam stranger, you’ve got this.
I've past the same thing that you are living this couple of months, I did exactly what you are doing right now, and believe me, everything well be all right. Stay strong. Much Love.
We all have your back Wyatt. You are loved and cherished by the community here that you have built from the ground up. Keep your head up, king. You got this.
Hey man, I hope you’re doing better. I was cheated on by my ex that I lived with I truly found working on my future, body and mind is very important but being with family, friends and loved ones truly helped me not sit in my thoughts and feelings. It’s good to feel your thoughts and confront your emotions but the love and comfort you get from others will help fill the hole in your heart
Man I used to watch your drum covers, years back. They were an inspiration! I hope you can find peace and happiness in playing music again. I’m currently in a relationship that’s slowly killing my soul. It’s better to have loved and hurt than never loved at all. I can only imagine your pain but it really seems like it truly is just pain and I hope you can move in to the healing stage. Would love to see more drum covers!
Just recently went through a divorce after 12 years together, a week after separating she was already dating another dude. That was hard to come to terms with but over time it did get easier. Three months removed now and i feel like im past the sadness and mostly just feel acceptance now, with a bit of anger sometimes. All this to say, as someone who knows all too well how you're feeling right now it will get easier you just have to stick through it. Now is the time to find yourself again.
Your joy and happiness never ever come from anyone else, everything you need is already in you. Searching for salvation or happiness outside of you will never work, you’ll be disillusioned again and again. Happiness, joy, peace, comes from within, not outside of you, people and things can never give you anything you don’t already have. Find presence and realize deeply your girlfriend leaving was exactly the experience you needed, how do you know? Because it’s the experience you were having, act as if you had chosen it, resisting what is, is where pain and suffering live. The ego lives in time and what I’ve personally learned is all pain and suffering is from my thinking, it exists no where else, you can be sad you separated, you can not be happy in that situation, but you can be at peace. I have a feeling you know what I’m talking about based of your word choice in prior videos regarding presence. Who you are can not be harmed or hurt or attacked or victimized or betrayed only your thoughts say that, where is the truth in it? You are infinitely above all of that, it’s the mind that says otherwise.
So sorry to see this man. Been through it too. Keep your head up. You do the best version of you. We all live in life we create. your path can still be great. You're still young too. You got so much greatness to come. Just another lesson in life bro. Dont regret your journey with her. Take what you learned and be the best man you can be with that knowledge. The real sad part is we grow everyday she will never get to see that through this trial you became better than any dude she found or ever will find. She dont see it yet but one day she will reap what she sowed.
Let it go brother let it go. That cry shows how strong you are inside. Even if you don't feel like it. Time alone is one of the most precious things after a breakup. Self-love will heal you.
I've been here a few times in my life. Break ups are kinda like loosing someone to death. It's going to hurr alot man. Everyday will feel like it grinds you down and it will. Allow yourself to feel every single emotion until there is no more tears, heartbreak or resentment. It's time for you to heal and take this new single journey. You got this!
Your joy and happiness never ever come from anyone else, everything you need is already in you. No one can bring you salvation or happiness it will never work, you’ll be disillusioned again and again. Happiness, joy, peace, comes from within, not outside of you, people and things can never give you anything you don’t already have. Find presence and realize deeply your girlfriend leaving was exactly the experience you needed, how do you know? Because it’s the experience you were having, your life is never not this moment, act as if you had chosen it, resisting what is, is where pain and suffering live. The ego lives in time past and future and what I’ve personally learned is all pain and suffering is from my thinking, it exists no where else, you can be sad you separated, you can not be happy in that situation, but you can be at peace. I have a feeling you know what I’m talking about based of your word choice in prior videos. Who you are can not be harmed or hurt or attacked or victimized or betrayed. You are infinitely above all of that, it’s the mind that says otherwise. Her leaving was a gift, what gift did she give to you Wyatt? Find the deeper meaning. Don’t go to the mind for an answer, feel it from within.
it's crazy how when things are still super raw you'll be alright and then it just hits you like a truck. My ex left october 6th after almost 5 years together.
it's okay bro, she looks like a grandma anyway. Took me more than 5 years to get over my long term relationship after we brokeup. It's hard, the first few years felt like i was inside a void with absolutely no motivation for anything in life, but when you get through it, you start to realize it's the best thing that ever happened in your life. Concentrate on yourself, keep yourself busy and slowly and eventually you will become the best version of yourself and i assure you that you will be happier than ever. Embrace the journey no matter how difficult it is and no matter how negative your mind wants you to be, coz one day you will look back and think to yourself why you were even heart broken in the first place. You got this bro! And stay away from alcohol coz that will give you 10x depression, just face the hurts.
Yo homie I am so sorry you’ve been devastated like this. I won’t attempt advice or repeat sayings people use in these times. I just want to give you some love. There’s love here for you. You will heal others with this pain Wyatt
Been there ,done that -never let a woman destroy you she is not what defines you - there will be days when you will look back and tell yourself how could i ever let her do this to me - believe me, been through the same loved her with all my heart - and she was not worth it - find your self again, get up - stronger than you ever were ☝️
I’ve been through it and let me tell you it is fucking HARD to get yourself back up after someone who you’ve spent years loving stabs you in the back. I promise you you will get there, I’m so sorry for what you are going through 😕 I look forward to seeing more vids for ya, we are all here and rooting for you♥️
I’ve been following you for a while. From your drumming videos to your reactions. One of the OG reactors that got me into it. Long story short I’ve been there bro. Just like most of your following. It’s rough and takes time. Back in 2020 I was with someone for years and she went out in the middle of the night, cheated and got back in bed with me. That was extremely painful for me and caused an avalanche of emotions. I went down a dark path of alcoholism, depression and anxiety. I had so much hatred built up that I even wrote and published a book of short stories about what I was going through. I’m not proud of those moments but it was the release I needed. It’s crazy what writing can do bro. But I promise things will get better. We’re all here if you need to talk. Just remember: what goes on in the dark comes out in the light.
im glad you're letting it out dude, it hurts but its the right thing to do, helps with getting over things, you need to find the things that make you happy and keep you engaged. You'll find someone whose really for you, keep ur head up.
Brother I Pray that time will take its course. It hurts now, and it might hurt for a long time, but it wont Hurt forever. Please just let time take its course, and fill your life with new and old hobbies. Whatever you do, do not isolate yourself, surround yourself with people who will make great choices WITH you
going through the same thing. only thing to do is let all of the emotions come. we should let ourselves grieve and process the complexity of it all. holding it in or pushing it back is just going to allow those feelings to manifest in ways that just hurt yourself and others. hope you heal and i hope you know that life WILL get better.
Sending positivity and good vibes your way man. I’ve always loved your videos whether it was drumming or song reviews. Hang tough dude you can get through this… it’s going to absolutely suck but you can make it out of this dark place dude. 🤘😎🖤
My god, Wyatt... For me it's being almost a year since I lost someone... I have no idea how I made it here, 'cause it stills hurting... it's one day at a time, just resist...
I was just watching your I Prevail cover and refreshed the homepage to find this. Damn man all the best for you, you are a talented person and an absolute kick ass drummer. 🙏🏼 for your healing man.
Damn brother I am so sorry you’re going through all of this. I feel you I am going through a tough split as well and it sucks. You guys have been together a bit longer but regardless loss and hurt of someone you love and care so deeply for is tragic. Keep your head up Wyatt you got this bro ❤
This stuff never gets easy, but you will feel better with time. Just go be with friends as much as you can and you will feel better eventually. You seem like a good guy and I’m sure things will turn around for you soon. Hang in there man!
i feel like at the same time that youre going through the worst time in your life, so am i, feeling the pain hurts so bad. especially when you hold it in and it only gets to come out for small periods of time. heres to me hoping that we both can get through this shit.
I was wondering and asking for almost a year now, why couldnt see your videos on you YT channel. Now I Know your siwtuation, and it so hard for me see you facing that hardships. Be strong Man!!!
you going through the mourning process for someone whos still alive which ends up being worse. you need to take time for yourself and process these things naturally or else you wont be ready for another relationship, in any regard, in the long term sense. i hope you find the peace that you desire and you continue to thrive for. ive been watching your drumming videos for a while now and i wonder what had happened to you. keep pushing. keep thriving. its only up from here, brother. if you need someone to vibe with, for what its worth, let me know. my stuff is always open.
Bro From Drummer to Drummer: Do your thing, play Drumms like in your good old days, stay focused and believe me ,you will find the right one soon ! Nobody is irreplaceable! I was through this, it was hard, but I never waited more then 2 week and another girl was there! I was fixed from other girls and I think it will fix you also . Forget Herr u are an awesome Drummer !
Feel for you man. You were/are the star of your channel. She was just along for the ride. I miss the video reactions. She should've ended it before stepping out on your relationship. Shame on her. You will need to eventually take some time and sort through your pain and deal with it head on so that you can eventually move forward. That process will take time. Just keep your head up. Don't let her infidelity spiral you further out of control
Man, I've been cheated on a few times and I know how horrific it feels. Thankfully, I was young, and they were not very long relationships. With how badly they affected me, though, I can't even start to imagine what it has been like for you. I wish you the best, brother, and I hope you come to realize that *you* define who you are, not someone else.
Wyatt.. Im sorry you're going through this man. I can feel the pain you're going through. I just went through a divorce.. with her for 11 years. Married for 5. You're right..we spend this time making every decision together. When it ends, there is this weird void. You lose a big part of your identity, and it takes time to get that back. But I'm living proof that you will bro. Yiu mentioned how much it sucks to just have these toxic feelings left.. those will pass. Eventually, you will remember the happiness of the past 8 years and how it made you into who you are today. Dont rush anything. There is no timeline on this. I seperated in march of 2023 and am now finally feeling at peace with alot of things. Our lives are strangely similar. I grew up in ottawa. Played drums in bands. Was signed to some small redord deals. Played a ton of shows in and around toronto. The horseshoe, the reverb, lees palace, the opera house was a huge milestone for me. I statted following your page when I saw a cover of an as i lay dying song. Dont know why im telling you this.. haha. Just wanted to let you know you're not alone brother. Stay strong. The biggest storms always end! If you ever need to reach out to someone who's been through this, you can always reach out.
Hey Wyatt, I watched your videos many years ago and just found this in my UA-cam feed. I may not know you on a personal level but I have to say, you are worth infinitely more than how you’re feeling right now. It’s ok to feel the shit. But know her actions reflect HER, NOT YOU. ❤️
I am an ordinary person from Yakutia, I watched your reactions to rock bands. I really liked them. Then your channel somehow got lost for me. And today I find out what happened to you. Be strong, if you can, do reactions like before. Hug.
Keep strong brother I know it's easy for me to say life is bittersweet at times self heal dude do things that make you happy keep your mind busy and always chat let your feelings out
Be kind to yourself. Allow yourself to feel. Allow yourself to hurt for as long as you need. Your emotions are valid. Sometimes the breakup is a blessing. I know and understand that pain and it does suck. Take care of yourself and remember to eat.
Hey man I used to watch your reactions. Just wanted to say that no human on this earth is worth you destroying yourself for. Move on bro and start a new chapter 💪
She will do him the same thing she did you. A relationship never makes it from an affair Been where you are. Stay strong, mourning makes you stronger. You will prevail
I have to admit this is my first video I've seen of yours, and I can relate to you a lot right now, but I don't think I'm ready to continue watching. I think you're seeing things in healthy ways and any justifiable moments of anger, you're doing well to recognize that they are .. kneejerk emotions behind a very real love that was--and still is--there.
Man, it’s so heartbreaking. Hearing this news cause before that your name would pop up into my mind thinking to myself Man whatever happened to Wyatt stav you know I’m praying for you that you get through this bro. God bless.
Bro, I know its hard, but if she doesn't care my guy forget it bc there's a bigger and better plan for you and a better woman that will come in your life. Just pray, have patience, and enjoy life! Don't waste time in depression bc your letting her win. You have support from your fans and we got your back! Now smile and move on 😁
I know what youre goin through, me and my BF were together for about 2and a half, its been about 8 years since he ghosted me, took me about 5 years to digest that he just ghosted me. Can relate though..
Allow the emotions to happen accept what is and then let it go and be you do what you love find yourself be yourself love yourself and move on spend some time with yourself and family and friends you will get through this the relationship doesn't define who you are you do.....your actions your hard work all youve done you cant hide your heart.....im glad to see you on the kit again music will always be a part of you as it is me whether i play in a band or not ill always play just remember people ,things and all that dont define you you define who you are and who youll be take the good leave the bad and learn from it and move forward!! Much love bro ❤️🫂
man....i can only imagine how you're feeling but i hope you find peace brother. your reactions used to come up a lot whenever i would listen to music so it makes me geniunely sad seeing you like this. no one deserves to be left in the dirt like that. you still have folks that care about you man. i wish you the best ❤
What you can do is make song reviews… listen to sleep tokens 3 albums. They’re popular and get a lot of views and they sing about your exact situation.
Bro no lie me and my girlfriend broke up 2 and a half months ago after being together for 2 years. I never thought she would break up with me and it came out of no where. Time heals dude! I would have my bad moments but now i can say im starting to come out of the woods with the hurt. You will be ok and you will find hapiness again
brooo i hate to see like this man you stay strong that why my heart is cold as ice i have been thier my self ..... flashback coming back to me from this video just move the fuck on man i know its hard the last time that shit happend to me i have been cold as ice muc love from algeria bro much love
Man I know we don’t each other, but I love you bruh, I’m hoping for your healing to the fullest, to regain your purpose, to find yourself again, because I know what’s it’s like to be with somebody for so long, day in and day out, 8 years to some don’t seem long, but that’s 8 365 day cycles.. and to lose it all and never have it again is a heavy loss and strain on your emotions, you are one of my favorite UA-cam drummers, I used to watch your covers all the time, especially love your architects drum covers, and I’m really sorry you are going thru this.. please never give up on still coming out as the best version of yourself whether or not you do that alone or not, you are a lot stronger than you can ever know ❤❤❤
Wyatt.. I've watched you on my other account for around 3yrs.. I don't know why she did this to you but that's some deep down cruel stuff.. she has no excuses.. heal up bro
Hey I'm just a random person who happened to watch some of your reactions to Spiritbox. Just wanted to say hi, say I wish you good luck and you can do this!
Hi, I've been watching you and watching your videos for a very long time, now when I see what happened I feel very sad, but I'm writing this not to express sadness, but to help you remember. Brother, you have a channel with 300k subscribers, continue your business, come back to take the drums, everything will work out, you are just a legend and with your help I got tastes in music, now watching your videos 5 and 7 years ago I see a huge pumped-up drummer who gives out such a style that the energy just comes from him. She took it from you, but it's not too late to get back on your feet and take up the channel, even if you have to do it all over again, you can. After such a fall, imagine what a takeoff awaits you.)
You care because you spent 8 years with her. Its okay to feel even if it feels so so angry. You cant just turn off emotions. Its gonna take some time and some tears but you can get through this
Hey brother, I’m getting divorced from the woman I’ve been with for 12 years. Since I was 17. She cheated. I respect that you’re willing to talk about how hurt you feel. I am still in the trenches but I really try to focus on the good days. I wish I could hug ya man. Do not give up.
Bro keep your head up brother focus on rebuilding as a man, and use your talents. You helped me through hard times and realize women will always be there big dawg
The whole UA-cam community is on your side. What you did, all the sacrifices you made in your life for her, for her to just run off with another guy like that - it really stinks. Looking forward to seeing what the future holds for you though now.
Yo what your going through shouldn’t happen to anyone period my ex was seeing another person while I was dating her we was together for a year dude I hope you get back to yourself mentally
I know it's a month later, but change your youtube checks to a whole different account. If you can't trust her not to ruin an 8 year relationship, then you can't trust a joint account.
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I used to watch a ton of your UA-cam drum covers. Now UA-cam recommended me this. It's so hard seeing you like this... I hope time gives you the comfort and peace you need. Stay strong
That's tucking right . STAY STRONG PAPAA.
I KNOW ITS HARD, IT IS WHAT IT IS , AND WAS REally bad as you can tell as 😔😔 stay strong big Doggg❤❤💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
At the end of 2017 I was cheated on by my girl of 3 years. Shortly after, my Mom and step-dad of 12 years split up. After that, my brother and friend shot themselves a month apart from each other. If I can get through that, then you can get through this - keep your head up, man. Time heals all wounds.
jesus man. I hope you're doing okay, best of luck to you and your family in the future.
thats heavy, hope your okay dude, stay strong
Brother. What you are going through, I wouldn’t wish it on anyone! Iv been there. I can tell from your eyes you’re hurting. It’s natural. She doesn’t deserve your tears. You’re a talented guy. It takes time but soon, there will be a click. A click all us guys hope for. And when it comes, life will be better. Stay strong man. Much love
Wyatt it's so hard seeing you cry... Sending warmth and kindness towards you
That Sh*t is rough man. Been there before. Not 8 years deep but I can only imagine how you feel. We love your content dawg. Been watching you for years and hate this for you. We're always here to support you. Keep being the rockstar you are.
Homie, when i was cheated on by the most important beautiful person, it destroyed me. Its been 8 years and i still have nightmares and thoughts that lead to anger and confusion. I got through the thick of it all alone but you...youre amazing. You have so much support because youve done so much for others and i have no doubts youll snap back better than ever!
man it's hard to see you cry , brother stay strong , you got this man ! much love , sending hugs . Have faith on God
Bro...the things happens for a reason. Out there is someone better for you waiting trust me. Life is about how you get up and still walking. Be strong, I know is hard, I have been there. Keep your head stand and fight this nightmare, you weel meet your real soulmate, she is out there for sure. Right now just focus in you because you my friend are more important. Big hello and a big hug for you my friend here from Cuba.🇨🇺
Staying busy often only prolongs the healing. Gotta face all of it, all of the shit, to heal healthy. It will suck, but you'll be better for it. Letting go is easier with sound mind and clear focus.
wise words ❤️🔥
I feel you Wyatt been cheated on too... what got me through everything was honestly just all the music I love... Hope you feel better much love keep your head up!
So she went straight to the darkside .. bruh. You should sue her if she's acting up, dude . I feel like u been taking care of her for years, . Edit* bro! Get ur self together! Remember who you are ! Go back home and play drums and hang out with ur friends and family, bro ! What r u doing ! Get another drum set start making videos start playing for bands again Get paid and meet a new girl ! .. take care of ur self bro..!
Remember that meditation where she saw "the devil" and a monk told her to stay away from it, that was it, she went fully darkside.
@popularmonstah I'm sure I saw it, but I don't remember.. tbh .. I'm not trying to be mean, but I feel she might have daddy issues and needed someone to be more dominating and lead,guide the way on her journey .. idk 🤷🏻♂️
focus more on support, not this weird blaming/shaming stuff you're doing.
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Dude you will come back stronger than ever. There’s no other way around it. Stay strong. You deserve the best
i can feel what you're going through.you’re not sure where to go in life. Everything feels pretty messed up. And that's totally normal. You're just a human being, you have feelings. You're not a robot. Over time, you'll start feeling better. Give yourself some time to be upset if you need to. And remember, you're the most important person in your own life. Love yourself the most. Not anyone else. Everything’s gonna get better, bro. You’ve got so many people who care about you. Keep that in mind. Starting over is a dope opportunity. We’ll be here, watching your videos and supporting you. We’ll be proud to see you get your life back on track. LET'S GO!
Bro, keep that head high. I've went through a similar situation in the past. everything happens for a reason!! you'll come out the other end stronger brother!!!
I wanna give this man a hug.. i stg idk what happened. I'm really worried for you.. and I want you to be the best man you can be.. the fans are forever here for you.. and I think you getting back to youtube, possibly drumming again will kinda bring back that love of music and shit you've always done. But you gotta be strong, man. I know it hurts.. trust me, I've been in the same situation.. but it will never fully heal for a long time. It's gonna be okay..my man keep that head up bro.
Wishing you positivity and healing brother. Keep your head up and just know the universe has your back.
Keep your head up brother!!! I've been there too, don't worry, the sadness will go away..... in the future she'll be just a distant memory with no meaning for you and you'll be a whole new person, a way better version of yourself.
Man we've been there... just keep it up and somehow somewhere down the line things just will get better. Stay strong and go for it on this new chapter.
You’ve got this man! Focus on yourself and self love, I wish I could just take you out for a drink like just go to some bars, stay strong king!
Dude I am rooting for you!!! Been a huge supporter since the beginning!!!! Much much love ❤
Went through this in 2023. We were approaching 7 years togethe. We have 2 kids a house and much more and to find out the way I did(which was from our oldest kid). The amount of shit i felt was like nothing else. Crazy thing is we acually worked at it and came back together. We talked a lot, talked to familly, talked to pros, ect. And yes we are still working on things to this day(cant expect full trust and to be firing on all cylinders like nothing happened). But as crazy as it is we are doing better then before. I truely am sorry this happened to you dude. Seeing your emotional state dinged my head like "yep thats how I was".Cant tell how many nights I drank myself to death or wanted to end it all. Stay strong dude I dont expect you to forgive or take back but I expect you to survive as hard as that sounds. My father once told me a broken heart is the worst pain you'll ever feel. Take care of yourself brotha and know you are desirving of love.
I just went thru break-up a few months ago and it’s been rough, I had to face it all on my own and hopefully at the end has made me a better person. I felt it all in my room by myself listening to music, I am learning to live with the demons and all the unanswered questions. You’re not alone though brother, if you need anything reach out.
You’re a king bro. You deserve the best and the best is yet to come. Nothing you’ve had before will be able to compare. I know it may not feel like it, but you’re not the one who has lost. One day at a time. You got this.
i’m sorry you’re going through all of this. i can’t say i know exactly what you’re going through being as i’ve never been in a actual relationship let alone one for almost a decade for fear of being hurt on top of thinking im not nor will ever be good enough. but i HAVE been hurt by someone who i thought cared for me the same way. i’ve been following your videos all the way back to the BVB and Bad Omens reactions and i’ve loved every single video.
you have always seemed like you would definitely be a badass person to have as a friend bc of how deeply you care for others. this shows how much you cared and loved and it’s just the downside of being let down. but you WILL be able to overcome it all and you WILL grow to be a even stronger person in the end bc at the end of the day you are a amazing person and the people surrounding you who you feel comfortable with, those are the ones that will stick with you til the end.
do NOT give up. feel the emotions. feel the hurt, anguish, sadness, anger, etc. bc you’ll be able to wake up one day and no longer feel those emotions and THAT is when you now you have finally healed and can breathe easier. it will take some time. just have to take it day by day. you definitely don’t know me but i’m always here to talk and to lend a ear as a subscriber and friend from the states! Stay strong!!! 🩵
I know I'm late, but the most important thing for you to do right now is you need to feel your emotions. You need to go through them and process and feel whatever it is you need to feel in order to get through this. As someone who went through this, it took me three years of feeling and going through my emotions to finally get past the pain and hurt I was going through. I don't know you personally Wyatt, but I would say it's best not to block out the emotions and feelings with work and being overburdened trying to stay busy. As you said, the only way to heal is to feel. Just don't make drastic decisions like turning to alcohol or, Heaven forbid, self harm. Take all the time you need, and you will come out of this stronger.
I’m sorry man, despite the “toxic emotions” you’re very self aware of what you’re feeling and can definitely pull yourself out of this in time. Don’t be too anxious to go through the shitty emotions during the tough days or to face what you need to face. From a random UA-cam stranger, you’ve got this.
I've past the same thing that you are living this couple of months, I did exactly what you are doing right now, and believe me, everything well be all right. Stay strong. Much Love.
We all have your back Wyatt. You are loved and cherished by the community here that you have built from the ground up. Keep your head up, king. You got this.
Just now seeing this man. Stay strong and things will get better! 🫶🏽
Hey man, I hope you’re doing better. I was cheated on by my ex that I lived with I truly found working on my future, body and mind is very important but being with family, friends and loved ones truly helped me not sit in my thoughts and feelings. It’s good to feel your thoughts and confront your emotions but the love and comfort you get from others will help fill the hole in your heart
Man I used to watch your drum covers, years back. They were an inspiration! I hope you can find peace and happiness in playing music again. I’m currently in a relationship that’s slowly killing my soul. It’s better to have loved and hurt than never loved at all. I can only imagine your pain but it really seems like it truly is just pain and I hope you can move in to the healing stage. Would love to see more drum covers!
Just recently went through a divorce after 12 years together, a week after separating she was already dating another dude. That was hard to come to terms with but over time it did get easier. Three months removed now and i feel like im past the sadness and mostly just feel acceptance now, with a bit of anger sometimes. All this to say, as someone who knows all too well how you're feeling right now it will get easier you just have to stick through it. Now is the time to find yourself again.
Your joy and happiness never ever come from anyone else, everything you need is already in you. Searching for salvation or happiness outside of you will never work, you’ll be disillusioned again and again. Happiness, joy, peace, comes from within, not outside of you, people and things can never give you anything you don’t already have. Find presence and realize deeply your girlfriend leaving was exactly the experience you needed, how do you know? Because it’s the experience you were having, act as if you had chosen it, resisting what is, is where pain and suffering live. The ego lives in time and what I’ve personally learned is all pain and suffering is from my thinking, it exists no where else, you can be sad you separated, you can not be happy in that situation, but you can be at peace. I have a feeling you know what I’m talking about based of your word choice in prior videos regarding presence. Who you are can not be harmed or hurt or attacked or victimized or betrayed only your thoughts say that, where is the truth in it? You are infinitely above all of that, it’s the mind that says otherwise.
So sorry to see this man. Been through it too. Keep your head up. You do the best version of you. We all live in life we create. your path can still be great. You're still young too. You got so much greatness to come. Just another lesson in life bro. Dont regret your journey with her. Take what you learned and be the best man you can be with that knowledge. The real sad part is we grow everyday she will never get to see that through this trial you became better than any dude she found or ever will find. She dont see it yet but one day she will reap what she sowed.
Let it go brother let it go. That cry shows how strong you are inside. Even if you don't feel like it. Time alone is one of the most precious things after a breakup. Self-love will heal you.
I've been here a few times in my life. Break ups are kinda like loosing someone to death. It's going to hurr alot man. Everyday will feel like it grinds you down and it will. Allow yourself to feel every single emotion until there is no more tears, heartbreak or resentment. It's time for you to heal and take this new single journey. You got this!
I am crying with you dude. 3 years later and I still always think about her.
Your joy and happiness never ever come from anyone else, everything you need is already in you. No one can bring you salvation or happiness it will never work, you’ll be disillusioned again and again. Happiness, joy, peace, comes from within, not outside of you, people and things can never give you anything you don’t already have. Find presence and realize deeply your girlfriend leaving was exactly the experience you needed, how do you know? Because it’s the experience you were having, your life is never not this moment, act as if you had chosen it, resisting what is, is where pain and suffering live. The ego lives in time past and future and what I’ve personally learned is all pain and suffering is from my thinking, it exists no where else, you can be sad you separated, you can not be happy in that situation, but you can be at peace. I have a feeling you know what I’m talking about based of your word choice in prior videos. Who you are can not be harmed or hurt or attacked or victimized or betrayed. You are infinitely above all of that, it’s the mind that says otherwise. Her leaving was a gift, what gift did she give to you Wyatt? Find the deeper meaning. Don’t go to the mind for an answer, feel it from within.
it's crazy how when things are still super raw you'll be alright and then it just hits you like a truck. My ex left october 6th after almost 5 years together.
Damn dude. I’m so sorry man. I hope things get better for you dawg. I know it sucks rn, but things will get better.
it's okay bro, she looks like a grandma anyway. Took me more than 5 years to get over my long term relationship after we brokeup. It's hard, the first few years felt like i was inside a void with absolutely no motivation for anything in life, but when you get through it, you start to realize it's the best thing that ever happened in your life. Concentrate on yourself, keep yourself busy and slowly and eventually you will become the best version of yourself and i assure you that you will be happier than ever. Embrace the journey no matter how difficult it is and no matter how negative your mind wants you to be, coz one day you will look back and think to yourself why you were even heart broken in the first place. You got this bro! And stay away from alcohol coz that will give you 10x depression, just face the hurts.
Yo homie I am so sorry you’ve been devastated like this. I won’t attempt advice or repeat sayings people use in these times. I just want to give you some love. There’s love here for you. You will heal others with this pain Wyatt
We’re all refusing to feel, and yet we’re dying to heal. Stay strong brother.
yes, yes, yes ❤️🔥
Been there ,done that -never let a woman destroy you she is not what defines you - there will be days when you will look back and tell yourself how could i ever let her do this to me - believe me, been through the same loved her with all my heart - and she was not worth it - find your self again, get up - stronger than you ever were ☝️
I’ve been through it and let me tell you it is fucking HARD to get yourself back up after someone who you’ve spent years loving stabs you in the back. I promise you you will get there, I’m so sorry for what you are going through 😕
I look forward to seeing more vids for ya, we are all here and rooting for you♥️
I’ve been following you for a while. From your drumming videos to your reactions. One of the OG reactors that got me into it. Long story short I’ve been there bro. Just like most of your following. It’s rough and takes time. Back in 2020 I was with someone for years and she went out in the middle of the night, cheated and got back in bed with me. That was extremely painful for me and caused an avalanche of emotions. I went down a dark path of alcoholism, depression and anxiety. I had so much hatred built up that I even wrote and published a book of short stories about what I was going through. I’m not proud of those moments but it was the release I needed. It’s crazy what writing can do bro. But I promise things will get better. We’re all here if you need to talk. Just remember: what goes on in the dark comes out in the light.
im glad you're letting it out dude, it hurts but its the right thing to do, helps with getting over things, you need to find the things that make you happy and keep you engaged. You'll find someone whose really for you, keep ur head up.
Out of the hottest fire comes the strongest steel.
Brother I Pray that time will take its course. It hurts now, and it might hurt for a long time, but it wont Hurt forever. Please just let time take its course, and fill your life with new and old hobbies. Whatever you do, do not isolate yourself, surround yourself with people who will make great choices WITH you
Keep strong dude. Been through this myself a few years back. You’ve got this. Sending loads of love from the UK. ❤
going through the same thing. only thing to do is let all of the emotions come. we should let ourselves grieve and process the complexity of it all. holding it in or pushing it back is just going to allow those feelings to manifest in ways that just hurt yourself and others. hope you heal and i hope you know that life WILL get better.
Man, I feel you. Stay strong, the moment is dead when you`re lost in the past.
Sending positivity and good vibes your way man. I’ve always loved your videos whether it was drumming or song reviews. Hang tough dude you can get through this… it’s going to absolutely suck but you can make it out of this dark place dude. 🤘😎🖤
Stay strong buddy.... Everything is gonna be okay... Sending you much much love❤❤❤❤
My god, Wyatt... For me it's being almost a year since I lost someone... I have no idea how I made it here, 'cause it stills hurting... it's one day at a time, just resist...
Brother ... I was wondering about you recently and I hate that this is what's been going on. Praying for you, homie.
I was just watching your I Prevail cover and refreshed the homepage to find this. Damn man all the best for you, you are a talented person and an absolute kick ass drummer. 🙏🏼 for your healing man.
Damn brother I am so sorry you’re going through all of this. I feel you I am going through a tough split as well and it sucks. You guys have been together a bit longer but regardless loss and hurt of someone you love and care so deeply for is tragic. Keep your head up Wyatt you got this bro ❤
This stuff never gets easy, but you will feel better with time. Just go be with friends as much as you can and you will feel better eventually. You seem like a good guy and I’m sure things will turn around for you soon. Hang in there man!
i feel like at the same time that youre going through the worst time in your life, so am i, feeling the pain hurts so bad. especially when you hold it in and it only gets to come out for small periods of time. heres to me hoping that we both can get through this shit.
I was wondering and asking for almost a year now, why couldnt see your videos on you YT channel. Now I Know your siwtuation, and it so hard for me see you facing that hardships.
Be strong Man!!!
you going through the mourning process for someone whos still alive which ends up being worse. you need to take time for yourself and process these things naturally or else you wont be ready for another relationship, in any regard, in the long term sense. i hope you find the peace that you desire and you continue to thrive for. ive been watching your drumming videos for a while now and i wonder what had happened to you. keep pushing. keep thriving. its only up from here, brother. if you need someone to vibe with, for what its worth, let me know. my stuff is always open.
Bro From Drummer to Drummer: Do your thing, play Drumms like in your good old days, stay focused and believe me ,you will find the right one soon ! Nobody is irreplaceable! I was through this, it was hard, but I never waited more then 2 week and another girl was there! I was fixed from other girls and I think it will fix you also . Forget Herr u are an awesome Drummer !
Feel for you man. You were/are the star of your channel. She was just along for the ride. I miss the video reactions. She should've ended it before stepping out on your relationship. Shame on her. You will need to eventually take some time and sort through your pain and deal with it head on so that you can eventually move forward. That process will take time. Just keep your head up. Don't let her infidelity spiral you further out of control
Man, I've been cheated on a few times and I know how horrific it feels. Thankfully, I was young, and they were not very long relationships. With how badly they affected me, though, I can't even start to imagine what it has been like for you. I wish you the best, brother, and I hope you come to realize that *you* define who you are, not someone else.
Wyatt.. Im sorry you're going through this man. I can feel the pain you're going through. I just went through a divorce.. with her for 11 years. Married for 5. You're right..we spend this time making every decision together. When it ends, there is this weird void. You lose a big part of your identity, and it takes time to get that back. But I'm living proof that you will bro. Yiu mentioned how much it sucks to just have these toxic feelings left.. those will pass. Eventually, you will remember the happiness of the past 8 years and how it made you into who you are today. Dont rush anything. There is no timeline on this. I seperated in march of 2023 and am now finally feeling at peace with alot of things.
Our lives are strangely similar. I grew up in ottawa. Played drums in bands. Was signed to some small redord deals. Played a ton of shows in and around toronto. The horseshoe, the reverb, lees palace, the opera house was a huge milestone for me. I statted following your page when I saw a cover of an as i lay dying song. Dont know why im telling you this.. haha.
Just wanted to let you know you're not alone brother. Stay strong. The biggest storms always end! If you ever need to reach out to someone who's been through this, you can always reach out.
You will sit down in a few months/ a few years and realise that it was all for the best... better things are coming ✨️ 🎉
Hey Wyatt, I watched your videos many years ago and just found this in my UA-cam feed. I may not know you on a personal level but I have to say, you are worth infinitely more than how you’re feeling right now. It’s ok to feel the shit. But know her actions reflect HER, NOT YOU. ❤️
Thank you for these words of encouragement - much love and god bless you❤️🔥
I am an ordinary person from Yakutia, I watched your reactions to rock bands. I really liked them. Then your channel somehow got lost for me. And today I find out what happened to you. Be strong, if you can, do reactions like before. Hug.
get it separated asap so you can move on. no communication will go long way. things happen for a reason. you will def be better in the long run.
Keep strong brother I know it's easy for me to say life is bittersweet at times self heal dude do things that make you happy keep your mind busy and always chat let your feelings out
Be kind to yourself. Allow yourself to feel. Allow yourself to hurt for as long as you need. Your emotions are valid. Sometimes the breakup is a blessing. I know and understand that pain and it does suck. Take care of yourself and remember to eat.
Hey man I used to watch your reactions. Just wanted to say that no human on this earth is worth you destroying yourself for. Move on bro and start a new chapter 💪
She will do him the same thing she did you. A relationship never makes it from an affair Been where you are. Stay strong, mourning makes you stronger. You will prevail
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I have to admit this is my first video I've seen of yours, and I can relate to you a lot right now, but I don't think I'm ready to continue watching.
I think you're seeing things in healthy ways and any justifiable moments of anger, you're doing well to recognize that they are .. kneejerk emotions behind a very real love that was--and still is--there.
Man, it’s so heartbreaking. Hearing this news cause before that your name would pop up into my mind thinking to myself Man whatever happened to Wyatt stav you know
I’m praying for you that you get through this bro. God bless.
Bro, I know its hard, but if she doesn't care my guy forget it bc there's a bigger and better plan for you and a better woman that will come in your life. Just pray, have patience, and enjoy life! Don't waste time in depression bc your letting her win. You have support from your fans and we got your back! Now smile and move on 😁
You got it! Thank you 🙏🏻
I know what youre goin through, me and my BF were together for about 2and a half, its been about 8 years since he ghosted me, took me about 5 years to digest that he just ghosted me. Can relate though..
Allow the emotions to happen accept what is and then let it go and be you do what you love find yourself be yourself love yourself and move on spend some time with yourself and family and friends you will get through this the relationship doesn't define who you are you do.....your actions your hard work all youve done you cant hide your heart.....im glad to see you on the kit again music will always be a part of you as it is me whether i play in a band or not ill always play just remember people ,things and all that dont define you you define who you are and who youll be take the good leave the bad and learn from it and move forward!! Much love bro ❤️🫂
man....i can only imagine how you're feeling but i hope you find peace brother. your reactions used to come up a lot whenever i would listen to music so it makes me geniunely sad seeing you like this. no one deserves to be left in the dirt like that. you still have folks that care about you man. i wish you the best ❤
What you can do is make song reviews… listen to sleep tokens 3 albums.
They’re popular and get a lot of views and they sing about your exact situation.
Bro no lie me and my girlfriend broke up 2 and a half months ago after being together for 2 years. I never thought she would break up with me and it came out of no where. Time heals dude! I would have my bad moments but now i can say im starting to come out of the woods with the hurt. You will be ok and you will find hapiness again
brooo i hate to see like this man you stay strong that why my heart is cold as ice i have been thier my self ..... flashback coming back to me from this video just move the fuck on man i know its hard the last time that shit happend to me i have been cold as ice muc love from algeria bro much love
Man I know we don’t each other, but I love you bruh, I’m hoping for your healing to the fullest, to regain your purpose, to find yourself again, because I know what’s it’s like to be with somebody for so long, day in and day out, 8 years to some don’t seem long, but that’s 8 365 day cycles.. and to lose it all and never have it again is a heavy loss and strain on your emotions, you are one of my favorite UA-cam drummers, I used to watch your covers all the time, especially love your architects drum covers, and I’m really sorry you are going thru this.. please never give up on still coming out as the best version of yourself whether or not you do that alone or not, you are a lot stronger than you can ever know ❤❤❤
Wyatt.. I've watched you on my other account for around 3yrs.. I don't know why she did this to you but that's some deep down cruel stuff.. she has no excuses.. heal up bro
Hey I'm just a random person who happened to watch some of your reactions to Spiritbox. Just wanted to say hi, say I wish you good luck and you can do this!
Hi, I've been watching you and watching your videos for a very long time, now when I see what happened I feel very sad, but I'm writing this not to express sadness, but to help you remember. Brother, you have a channel with 300k subscribers, continue your business, come back to take the drums, everything will work out, you are just a legend and with your help I got tastes in music, now watching your videos 5 and 7 years ago I see a huge pumped-up drummer who gives out such a style that the energy just comes from him. She took it from you, but it's not too late to get back on your feet and take up the channel, even if you have to do it all over again, you can. After such a fall, imagine what a takeoff awaits you.)
You care because you spent 8 years with her. Its okay to feel even if it feels so so angry. You cant just turn off emotions. Its gonna take some time and some tears but you can get through this
Dude this sucks man stay up man!!!!! What has happened has happened brother move forward as best you can one day at a time one hour at a time!!
It’s okay bro you’ll get through this you just gotta have hope and patience
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Hey brother, I’m getting divorced from the woman I’ve been with for 12 years. Since I was 17. She cheated. I respect that you’re willing to talk about how hurt you feel. I am still in the trenches but I really try to focus on the good days. I wish I could hug ya man. Do not give up.
Bro keep your head up brother focus on rebuilding as a man, and use your talents. You helped me through hard times and realize women will always be there big dawg
Stay strong man ! Bigger and better things ! 💪
The whole UA-cam community is on your side. What you did, all the sacrifices you made in your life for her, for her to just run off with another guy like that - it really stinks. Looking forward to seeing what the future holds for you though now.
Time....Will heal you.
Just try focus on your work and yourself.
🙂 Gonna be really tough but u can do it!!!👍
Yo what your going through shouldn’t happen to anyone period my ex was seeing another person while I was dating her we was together for a year dude I hope you get back to yourself mentally
Sorry your dealing with that man. It's tough to see you crying.
I know it's a month later, but change your youtube checks to a whole different account. If you can't trust her not to ruin an 8 year relationship, then you can't trust a joint account.
I hope u will get soon bro i know it’s hard right now . Im waiting for your strong comeback.😢
On my way back ❤️🔥 Thank you!
Here for you brotha. Keep your head up. #SemiColon